<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4671366693783733035</id><updated>2024-12-19T03:26:17.170+00:00</updated><category term="United States"/><category term="language use"/><category term="Indonesia"/><category term="United Kingdom"/><category term="body language"/><category term="small talk"/><category term="topics of conversation"/><category term="Cambodia"/><category term="China"/><category term="Estonia"/><category term="Finland"/><category term="Malaysia"/><category term="Mozambique"/><category term="Nepal"/><category term="Russia"/><category term="Singapore"/><category term="Sweden"/><category term="Thailand"/><category term="indirect vs. direct language"/><category term="politeness"/><category term="power distance"/><category term="saving face"/><category term="taboos"/><title type='text'>Culture Bumps - Examples of Cultural Differences</title><subtitle type='html'>Culture Bumps is a collection of confusing, strange, irritating, embarrassing, or amusing situations in intercultural communication.&#xa;&#xa;If you&#39;re interested in cultural differences, you&#39;ll love this site!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://culturebumps.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4671366693783733035/posts/default/-/Singapore'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://culturebumps.blogspot.com/search/label/Singapore'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Unknown</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='https://img1.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4671366693783733035.post-1403239679490349652</id><published>2013-09-21T23:32:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2013-09-23T12:41:52.629+01:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Singapore"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="small talk"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="topics of conversation"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="United Kingdom"/><title type='text'>&quot;Have you eaten?&quot;</title><content type='html'>&quot;When I first moved to Singapore I met a woman in the lobby of my 
apartment block who was naturally curious about a foreigner living near 
her so she genuinely tried to be friendly to me. Part way through the 
conversation she asked me if I&#39;d eaten yet and I got scared that she was
 going to invite me over for lunch and start introducing me to her 
family etc. So I made up all sorts of excuses that I&#39;d eaten, what I&#39;d 
eaten and where. For the next few weeks I tried my best to avoid her 
every time I saw her.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
Only later, I realised that the question 
&quot;have you eaten?&quot; is just the Singapore way of asking &quot;how are you?&quot; 
just like the British talk about the weather as a conversation starter. 
It turns out to be a completely harmless question.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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