DadsTalk Radio

The Joy of Chaos

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Tue, 31 Jan 2012 19:04:00 -0800

Having three boys at home is not easy. I have an eight-year-old a 5 1/2 year-old and a one half year old. They are pretty amazing boys but they're challenging nonetheless. And each one has their own personality as well. This presents its own challenges. Although I will be talking about some of the challenges in upcoming posts this post I want to talk about the joy of being a parent.

Life is never boring when you have kids. There is always something to do, always something to clean, always something to read, something to throw and always something to catch.

Having kids means there's always an exciting greeting when you walk in the door. There's always someone to hug you when you need a hug and always someone to hug when you feel like hugging someone. There is always someone there to smile at you even when your day is not going that well. It's a good thing they don't understand the stresses of the world.

The best thing is when you're putting them to sleep last thing that comes out of their mouth is I love you daddy.

Winter Blues to Blue Skies

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Tue, 26 Apr 2011 10:51:00 -0700

Autism Symptoms and Treatments......

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Fri, 10 Sep 2010 19:37:00 -0700

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Episode 7: Dads Talk Radio Easter Break 2010

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Thu, 8 Apr 2010 05:46:00 -0700

Health Care Reform future expenses

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Tue, 23 Mar 2010 08:03:00 -0700

With The Health Care Reform being passed, dads are seeking ways to create secondary incomes to secure their financial future. The American people didn't want it because even though it sounds like a good idea to give people health insurance who did not have it, it's the American people who will have to front the money.

These last few days have been pretty stressful for people watching this bill. The main concern is income. Taxes will be raised, premiums will be raised, co-pays will be raised, and anyone who needs or will need medical treatment will suffer financial losses.

Smart Dads are now scurrying to find ways to build a second income to help pay for rising costs in America and are also looking for ways to stay as healthy as possible. The key to beating the system is ensuring your health stays well and your pocketbooks stay full for you will have much more out of pocket expenses.

Thousands and Thousands of people are seeking creative ways to survive this health care reform and many more people are just going to ride the wave until they need to deal with it. Companies like GBG who offer a supplemental income and a health product are now becoming one of the fastest growing home business choices in the nation.

There are many ways to supplement your income, but please do not get a second job! Dad, This will pay you minimum wages and take you away from your family. Research to create second incomes with companies like GBG who have a simple system that could generate you residual supplemental income to cover any future expenses you may incur with future health care costs.

When looking for an at home businesses to generate second incomes, look for a company that has a product that everyone needs, anyone can afford (preferably FREE Business and marketing tools), and a simple duplicate-able business system (you promote the product, the company incurs all the risk and back office stuff). Wouldn't it be great to secure a residual income that you can pass on to your kids, and their kids, etc. Create your legacy today and bypass the financial hardships many families may have with this health care reform bill.

The Storm Drain Miracle

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 07:23:00 -0700

A typical Saturday for Dad almost turned our life upside down. Saturday is when I usually hang out with the kids. I wanted to visit Pop Pop (Matt and Zach;s grandpa) so we drove out to his house in Montclair and parked on the street next to this typical grated storm drain. We all had a great time at Pop pop's house talking, playing the Wii, Eating, and just really enjoying the family but the grandparents had to leave so it was time to take the kids to the local park.

We got to my car and I opened the door and told Zach to stay on the sidewalk. I put Matthew in the car seat and then I heard Zach's voice say.... "Daddy, I can almost fit in here". I looked over and he was sitting on the grate with his 2 feet dangling inside the storm drain opening. I ran over and grabbed him and cried as I know that if he fell, there was no way of getting him out.

I hugged him so much and told him that we can't go near those drains....ever. He was smart enough to check with me as he sometimes does before he does something. But what if he didn't. That's the scary part. God was with him and I thank God everyday for every single moment we have with our kids because we don't know when it may be our last.

I know sometimes, we as parents sound like broken records, always reminding our children what they should and shouldn't do. When is it enough? Never. It's our voices that they hear when they are about to do something. It is our voice that makes them think about doing the right thing.

Words echo in our own heads from our parents that have kept us safe from the unknown. We have to keep doing the right thing, communicating to our children daily, remind them how much we love them, and remember that when things get rough with your children, it would be much worse without them.

Please share with me at Dads Talk Radio by commenting or emailing me at emorysfall@aol.com....your experiences to help other parents think about dangers that should be more aware of. I would like to present these in my next podcast next week.. You could help save a child's life.

God Bless you and remember to give your kids a big hug when you get home tonight!

Episode 6: Sharper Listening Skills

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Sat, 13 Mar 2010 07:59:00 -0800

DTR reminds parents how important it is to put other things aside and listen when our children speak to us. DTR also gives tips on how our children can more effectively listen to our instructions.

Being A Mother

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Mon, 8 Mar 2010 06:22:00 -0800

I heard this story of BEING A MOTHER... And I thought it was important to share with our readers. Life goes by so quickly and we need to show how much we care for our mothers and understand how challenging and rewarding it can be.

........After 17 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take
another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, 'I love you,
but I know this other woman loves you and would love to spend some time with you.

The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been alone for 20 years,but the demands of my work and my two boys had made it possible to visit her only occasionally.That night I called to invite her to go out for dinner and a movie. 'What's wrong, aren't you well, she asked?

My mother is the type of woman who suspects that a late night call or a surprise invitation is a sign of bad news. 'I thought it would be pleasant to spend some time with you,' I responded... 'Just the two of us. She thought about it for a moment, and then said, I would like that very much.

That Friday after work, as I drove over to pick her up I was a bit nervous. When I arrived at herhouse, I noticed that she, too, seemed to be nervous about our date. She waited in the door. She had curled her hair and was wearing the dress that she had worn to celebrate her last birthday on November 19th. She smiled from a face that was as radiant as an angel's. 'I told my friends that I was going to go out with my son, and they were impressed,' she said, as she got into that new white van. 'They can'twait to hear about our date'.

We went to a restaurant that, although not elegant, was very nice and cozy. My mother took my arm as if she were the First Lady. After we sat down, I had to read the menu. Her eyes could only read large print. Half way through the entries, I lifted my eyes and saw Mom sitting there staring at me. A nostalgic smile was on her lips. 'It was I who used to have to read the menu when you were small,' she said. 'Then it's time that you relax and let me return them favor,' I responded.

During the dinner, we had an agreeable conversation- -nothing extraordinary but catching upon recent events of each other's life. We talked so much that we missed the movie.As we arrived at her house later, she said, I'll go out with you again, but only if you let me invite you.' I agreed.

'How was your dinner date ?' asked my wife when I got home. 'Very nice. Much moreso than I could have imagined,'I answered. A few days later, my mother died of a massive heart attack. It happened so suddenly that I didn't have a chance to do anything for her... Some time later, I received an envelope with a copy of a restaurant receipt from the same place mother and I had dined. An attached note said:
'I paid this bill in advance. I wasn't sure that I could be there; but nevertheless, I paid for two plates - one for you and the other for your wife.

You will never know what that night meant for me. I love you, son.'
At that moment, I understood the importance of saying in time: 'I LOVE YOU and to give our loved ones the time that they deserve. Nothing in life is more important than your family. Give them the time they deserve, because these things cannot be put off till 'some other time.'

Somebody said it takes about six weeks to get back to normal after
you've had a baby.....somebody doesn't know that once you're a mother, 'normal' is history.

Somebody said you learn how to be a mother by instinct ...
somebody never took a three-year-old shopping.

Somebody said being a mother is boring ....somebody never rode in a car driven by a teenager with a driver's permit.

Somebody said if you're a'good' mother, your child will 'turn out good'.... somebody thinks a child comes with directions and a guarantee.

Somebody said you don't need an education to be a mother....
somebody never helped a fourth grader with his math.

Somebody said you can't love the second child as much as you love the first ....somebody doesn't have two children.

Somebody said the hardest part of being a mother is labor and delivery....
somebody never watched her 'baby' get on the bus for the first day of kindergarten ...or on a plane headed for military 'boot camp.'

Somebody said a mother can stop worrying after her child gets married....
somebody doesn't know that marriage adds a new son or daughter-in-law to a mother's heartstrings.

Somebody said a mother's job is done when her last child leaves home....
somebody never had grandchildren.

Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her...
somebody isn't a mother.

March Activities

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Sun, 7 Mar 2010 15:11:00 -0800

March first is National Pig Day. Read Charlottes Web
Plan A Family night. Read, play games, watch a video, or take a walk
Does your teen want to talk? Stop what you are doing and listen.
March 3rd is Alexander Graham Bell's birthday. Teach your children how to take a message
Create a word search. Hide words in a grid and surround them with random letters
Prepare a family recipe with your teen. Talk about handed down recipes of your family
Does your child know the state bird? Look them up.
March ninth is the birthday of Amerigo Vespucci. Find what continent was named after him.
Challenge your child to do a secret deed for a friend or a neighbor
Look for the positive and celebrate. grades went up? First Job? An Award?
Go to a nearby park or running trail. Just run.
Celebrate national noodle month. Fix pasta together for dinner.
Give your teen a small "Just because I love you" candy bar or magazine
March 20th is the first day of spring. Make a list of Spring words and make a poem
Plan a nutritious dinner and have everyone pitch in to make it.
Pick a new word in the dictionary and have everyone use it at least 3 times today.
It's Women's History Month. Check out a book about a woman your teen admires
Use a toothpick dipped in lemon juice and milk to write a message. use light bulb to decifer it.
Talk about the best and worst of your day.
Talk about the future with your teen. How you can become what you want to be?

Kids and Video Games

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 16:50:00 -0800

What is it with video games? They are the bane of existence for so many kids. Who am I to say differently because I was one of those kids. I remember looking forward to coming home from middle school just to play Duck Tales and Zelda on my Nintendo. My situation was the best though. I am a twin so my brother and I always had a competitor and teammate, depending on which games we were playing.

I have a video game system now and I actually can't remember when I didn't have one of the popular systems. I had Nintendo, Sega Genesis, Nintendo 64, Sega Dream Cast, and now the Wii (this is my favorite).

Now that I am working through my memories and thoughts, It really does make sense why games are so addictive. They are fun, you can be something that you are usually not (like a Marine or an Olympic Snowboarder) , and they help you forget about anything stressful (until the game stresses you out and you want to throw it through the window).

Kids love games and because of technology so many types of video games are available. Ipod games, Nintendo DS, other portable systems, laptops/computer games, and all those crazy systems, gaming is and will always be the #1 love of kids.

Think about it. What other things do kids have to look forward to. School...uhhh. no. Homework...uhhh....no, social events...uhhh. maybe.... but what else is there. Relationships...uhhh. I really hope not. Sports...sure but still not as popular as video games.

A prime example is my boy, Matt. He's six and can rock the socks off of Mario Galaxy on the Wii and Lego Indiana Jones. This is no doubt that this is what he enjoys the most especially when I play along side of him. The problem is that, just like when I was a kid, it is addictive and we as the parents have to pull the plug when necessary.

Today we had a snow day. We were snowed in. We read some books, played some board games, built some tents, but the entire day revolved around, "daddy, is it time to play the Wii." Seriously, we had a great time doing other stuff but we know where the obsession lies.

It's good that he enjoys it but my wife and I really have to monitor his playing and make sure he balances his time well with other activities and not only video games. Enough was Enough today when there were certain boards he couldn't beat and he continuously came up to me to ask me to help beat the board, every 15 minutes for an hour. I would help him and then he would come get me. When I said I couldn't anymore, he said "but you never help me." HA, really????? That was the cue to unplug.

Anyway the point is to monitor and moderate the time our kids spend on video games. I believe it has helped him mature and develop in areas he had been struggling with and the learning games are phenomenal. They could help your kids too but we definitely do not want to deprive them of the other important aspects of life like spending quality time with the family.

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Putting the Kids to Bed

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Tue, 16 Feb 2010 17:40:00 -0800

Putting the kids to bed can either be a daunting never ending battle, or it can be kind of fun. My kids do not like to go to bed. They also never take naps.. they go all day long and just don't get tired.

Our nightly regiment for them is take a bath, get dressed, they go brush their teeth, and go into bed. It's time to read a book, read a bible story, pray, and shut the lights off. However, I wish it were that easy. If we stay in the room with them , they'll stay quiet and fall asleep, eventually. The Many times we have done that, either myself or Diana will fall asleep also, leaving us with no time to do the things we need to do.

We have stopped staying in their room and have encountered the issue of them coming out, saying they are thirsty, saying they are hungry, saying the other is making sounds, having scary visions, ANY excuse just to come out.

The solution. DO not talk to them, DO not argue with them, and I will reiterate this another time...... you should not try debating with young children, it's a Moot point. Lift them up and walk them back to their room and place them in bed. They will continue coming out, but after the fifth or sixth time, they will stay in bed. This takes patience but it will work. Good luck!!!

Valentine's Day for Dad's

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 17:15:00 -0800

Here we are again. Another Valentine's Day uncelebrated. My wife and I do not really celebrate this Holiday. The only reason we celebrate around this time is that I have a long weekend due to being off from where I teach.

We are actually visiting my mother this weekend in Pennsylvania and we are having so much fun. My Mother got me and the fam a Valentine's Card, and that was really nice.

Today, Valentine's Day, We spent the day sledding down some pretty great hills in PA with the kids. The kids loved it. I think it is a great experience to take your kids sledding BUT, I know you knew there was a "But" coming, Dad winds up doing a lot of the work carrying the kids and sleds up these Ginormous hills. I was smarter about it this year though. I lifted properly. LAst year I bent all kinds of ways and wound up walking around like a 90 year old for 3 weeks. Man That HURT!!!!

Anyway, Regardless of what kind of day you have had, put the kids to be early and make sure you spend the rest of your night with your wife, if you know what I mean. It is Valentine's Day so now you have a reason. Have fun and Stay Tuned for More DADS TALK RADIO!

Parenting Tip

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 17:32:00 -0800

Today's Parenting Tip:

When Your child begins to get stubborn and whining about not getting what they want, divert the attention to something else. Tell them that you understand how they feel but that's the way it is. THEN change the subject.

(we were looking at houses and checking out the basement of a particular house).

Daddy: "Hey Zach, I know you wanted to walk down those steep steps by yourself but daddy had to carry you down to keep you safe."

Zach: "I WANTED TO WALK DOWN!!!!". ($%%^&$@#%^$$^^&&*&^.....him throwing a fit)

Daddy: "I understand that but Daddy wants to make sure you are safe, and it wouldn't be safe if you walked down without my help"

OF Course, LOGIC does not apply to a 3 1/2 year old so instead of me arguing with him and telling him to stop whining and stop throwing a tantrum.

Daddy "Hey Zach, I think I hear a mouse over there." "Hey, Look over there"

Zach: "There's no mouse".

Daddy "Really?, Let's go see."

Zach: "Ok"

Problem Solved.

Keep your eyes on this blog for more Effective Parenting Tips!

The Secret to Parenting

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Fri, 12 Feb 2010 08:24:00 -0800

The Secret To Parenting is Love. Love your children. It's rough sometimes when they are yelling, fighting, screaming, knocking things over in grocery stores, breaking your nice china, or just plain old behaving bad, but try not to get angry. Be Firm, Reprimand Immediately following the incident, remind them that you love them, and follow through on any threats of punishment.

As Parents, we get angry too but I think too often we display anger and emotional stress when dealing with a behavioral issue. And Sometimes we FLIP out when the kids have an accident and break something or touch something that they were not supposed to touch. Take a breath for a second.

Many times kids don't mean to cause harm or damage and we have to deal with that as such. And sometimes kids forget the rules. It is so important to have consequences and to follow through consistently. Be firm but loving. Give them a hug when the consequence is completed and remind them how much you love them but there are consequences to breaking rules.

RIGHT NOW. Go to your children and give them a big hug, look them in the eyes, and tell them how much you love them!

I Announced It!

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Tue, 9 Feb 2010 15:02:00 -0800

Hello my eager to learn bloggers. JJ Peterson here with some exciting news. As viewed in my last post I was going to announce to my dad teh exciting news during a podcast. Well It COULDN'T WAIT. We told most of the family on Saturday except my parents. oooppps. My dad and I were not going do our dads talk radio podcast until the next weekend. I couldn't have someone else slip up and tell them.

I went over their house to borrow a shovel and I thought of a good way to tell them. My dad and I talk business a lot; podcasting, blogs, websites, etc. So I said lets tlak about upcoming podcasts. So we sat there thinking for a minute, with my mom and grandmother in the room, and I said I got one. "How about, I'm having a baby in September". Puzzled at first, all three of them, they finally caught on and the usual reaction took place. It was exciting to tell them! I love my parents and I am so excited when i see them excited. It gives them more motivation to stay healthy and try to stay around for as long as possible.

Today's BIT of Excitement:

Speaking of health, I tried this new LIQUID multi-vitamin today for the first time and it comes with a financial benefit. I know you would expect me to say that but wow, I was more focused and more confident than ever.

For a few years, I had been looking for different ways, parents, can earn a little bit more money every month. I have researched and experienced different companies and found GBG (Guided By God) to be the absolute simplest and most profitable . If you are that type of person who takes vitamins or likes money :), check it out at 2get2get2.

Anyway till next time my eager to learn bloggers!!!!

Having a Baby? Dads Talk Radio

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Mon, 8 Feb 2010 09:57:00 -0800

Hello my fellow bloggers. Are you having a baby? I AM....again. Not only is this a podcast but a blog with really cool tips, stories, and information. My wife and I have 2 young children and we just found out that we are having a third.

I, being a dad, am going to have an even more exciting time with this blog/podcast. Diana and I are so excited and My dad, school psychologist, George Peterson, does not know yet and I want to tell him on the next podcast this weekend!! LIVE!!

Stay tuned and keep subscribing for more drama, bigger tips, heartfelt stories, and exciting events to come with Dads Talk Radio!

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Please write us at dadstalkradio.gmail.com to tell us your experience at the grocery store with your kids. I have stories which I'll share next time. stay tuned.
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Episode 5: Dad at the park

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 15:31:00 -0800

Dad at the Park

Dads spending time with their kids at the park.

Episode 4: Thanksgiving at Home

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 19:48:00 -0800

Thanksgiving with Dads Talk Radio

How do you spend your Thanksgiving. It's time to pitch in a bit. Get the kids involved and have a great time!

Episode 3: The Fall Season

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Fri, 6 Nov 2009 13:52:00 -0800

As parents, we need to spend more time with our children doing things. Pumpkin Picking in the Fall, Reading Stories, and Eating Dinner together at the dinner table are important pieces to the relationships in your family

Episode 2: The Secret to Gaining Control

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Thu, 5 Nov 2009 15:46:00 -0800

Dads Talk Radio Thanks!

Thank you to all the dad's who took the survey! We also have a tip for you on how to gain control of an out of control situation. Listen in!

Episode 1: Project Idea Podcast

emorysfall@aol.com (JJpeterson) — Sun, 18 Oct 2009 16:53:00 -0700