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For The Foodies: Greek-Style Salad

2013-02-24T17:11:00.004-05:00

Ingredients

12 ounces boneless lamb leg center slice or beef top round steak, cut 1 inch thick

1 teaspoon finely shredded lemon peel

1/4 cup lemon juice

1 tablespoon olive oil or salad oil

1 tablespoon water

1 tablespoon snipped fresh oregano or 1 teaspoon dried oregano, crushed

1 clove garlic, minced

1/4 teaspoon salt

1/4 teaspoon pepper

6 cups torn fresh spinach and/or romaine leaves

1 medium cucumber, thinly sliced

1/4 cup chopped red onion

4 ripe olives, halved

2 tablespoons crumbled feta cheese

2 small pita bread rounds, cut in wedges and toasted

Step 1

Trim fat from meat. Place on the unheated rack of a broiler pan. Broil 3 to 4 inches from heat for 12 to 15 minutes or to desired doneness, turning meat once.

Step 2

Meanwhile, for the dressing, in a screw-top jar combine the lemon peel, lemon juice, oil, water oregano, garlic, salt, and pepper. Cover and shake well. Set aside.

Step 3

Divide spinach and/or romaine leaves among 4 plates. Cut the broiled meat across the grain into thin, bite-size strips. Arrange warm sliced meat, cucumber, red onion, olives, and feta cheese on top of greens. Drizzle dressing over salads. Serve with toasted pita bread wedges. Makes 4 servings

Nutrition Facts Per Serving

269 calories, 11 g total fat (4 g saturated fat), 40 mg cholesterol, 504 mg sodium, 25 g carbohydrate, 3 g fiber, 21 g protein

Source: Better Homes and Garden New Dieter's Cookbook

For the Foodies: Tortellini-Vegetable Salad

2013-02-10T15:47:00.003-05:00

Ingredients

1 9-ounce package refrigerated cheese-filled tortellini
1 10-ounce package frozen peas and carrots
1/2 cup fat-free mayonnaise dressing or salad dressing
2 tablespoons skim milk
1 to 2 tablespoons stone-ground mustard or Dijon-style mustard

Step 1

In a saucepan cook tortellini according to package directions, except stir in frozen peas and carrots along with tortellini. Drain.

Step 2

In a mixing bowl comobine mayonnaise dressing or salad dressing, milk, and mustard. Add cooked tortellini and vegetables, stirring to coat.

Step 3

Cover and refrigerate for at least 4 hours or up to 24 hours. Makes 4 main-dish servings.

To tote for lunch, place 1 serving in an airtight container. Place in an insulated lunch box with a frozen ice pack.

Nutrition Facts Per Serving

259 calories, 5 g total fat (2 g saturated fat), 30 mg cholesterol, 714 mg sodium, 43 carbohydrate, 2 g fiber, 12 g protein

The Lowdown

Just coming back from church, this dish was so quick and easy to make. Take some packaged noodles, frozen vegetables, and you have a delicious lunch that's good for you.

For the kids, they clearly loved the noodles. As a parent, I'm just looking to find new foods that will keep their tiny little palates confused.

The next time I make this dish, I would definitely cook it the night before and store it in the refrigerator for the following day. While the meal I served was cold, it would have been even better had I stored it overnight.

I hope you enjoy!

Source: Better Homes and Garden New Dieter's Cookbook

Smithfield Alumni's NUPES Night Out Was A Success

2013-02-09T09:32:00.002-05:00

It was long overdue. Blame it on the job, family, or just the growing list of obligations, whatever the reason, getting together last night was important for many of us.

The idea for a NUPES night out event came from a conversation I had with my fraternity brother, Kevin Richards. As the Membership Services chairman, he always keeps his eye on the tone of the chapter. What are the brothers talking about? What do they need? How can WE provide it?

Over a hot cup of coffee, Kevin explained to me that we needed to do something for the brothers. It had been a while since we last spent some real one-on-one time together as a chapter. Sure, a few members went to the Durham Alumni Super Bowl Party and others attended various Founder's Day celebrations around the Triangle. Unfortunately, we needed something of our own. NUPES Night Out was born.

On the Friday, February 8, 2013, members of the Smithfield Alumni Chapter of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. gathered together at the Champps Americana restaurant in Raleigh, North Carolina. For many of us, we arrived immediately after work. Although, I noticed some were a little extra fresh and clean, which leads me to believe that they went home first and changed clothes. Leave it to the pretty boys.

For the first hour or so, the guys gathered around the bar and entered into conversations about the recent Duke and NC State basketball game. Others talked about video games, the Super Bowl power outage, and upcoming vacations.

Once the table was ready, all ten members in attendance migrated over to the group seating. We later found out that this particular table was perfect for watching local singers test their skills on the Karaoke microphone. This seemed to be a popular attraction as multitudes of people soon entered the establishment. It was packed!

Over the next two hours, the brothers enjoyed a good meal, tons of laughter, and a healthy reminder that in order to work hard, we have to also play hard. As the Middle Eastern Province Polemarch Carlos Watson would say, "We need to remember and promote BROTHERHOOD whenever possible." I concur.

In the final moments, everyone in attendance agreed that NUPES Night Out was a success. The question on everyone's mind was this...what's next?

According to many, a family oriented event would be in order. Therefore, the next event will take place in March and we'll call it "NUPES On Wheels." No, not motorcycles, bicycles, but roller skates. Next month, Smithfield Alumni will organize a family friendly event where wives, kids, and friends can come out to enjoy a fun-filled afternoon around the skating rink. Details on the event will be announced soon.

I personally would like to give a shout out to all the brothers that attended the event and look forward to our next get together. Yo Yo!

Until next time...

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For the Foodies: Southwest-Style Stuffed Peppers

2013-02-07T21:01:00.005-05:00

Ingredients

2 large green sweet peppers
8 ounces lean ground beef
1/4 cup chopped onion
1 14.5-ounce can low-sodium tomatoes, undrained and cut up
1/2 cup water
1/3 cup long grain rice
1 4.5-ounce can diced green chili peppers, drained
1 teaspoon chili powder
1/2 teaspoon garlic salt
1/4 teaspoon ground cumin
1 cup loose-pack frozen whole kernel corn
2 tablespoons shredded reduced-fat cheddar cheese

Step 1

Halve sweet peppers lengthwise, removing stem ends seeds, and membranes. Immerse sweet peppers into boiling water for 3 minutes. Invert on paper towels to drain well.

Step 2

In a large skillet cook ground beef and onion until meat is brown and onion is tender. Drain off fat. Stir in undrained tomatoes, water, uncooked rice, chili peppers, chili powder, garlic salt, and cumin. Bring to boiling. Stir in corn. Return to boiling; or until rice and corn is tender.

Step 3

Place pepper halves in a 2-quart square baking dish. Spoon meat mixture into peppers. Spoon any remaining meat mixture into the dish around the peppers. Bake peppers, covered, in a 375 degree oven for 20 minutes or until heated through. Uncover; sprinkle with cheddar cheese. Bake 2 minutes more. Makes 4 servings.

Nutrition Facts Per Serving

238 calories, 7 g total fat (3 g saturated fat), 38 mg cholesterol, 406 mg sodium, 30 g carbohydrate, 2 g fiber, 15 g protein

The Lowdown

Tonight's dish was a real treat, at least for me it was. As a kid, my mother used to cook a similar dish and I wasn't a fan of the green pepper. It seems my kids took that trait from my childhood. Today, I enjoyed the green pepper and all the goodness it offered.

Quick note, I made a few modifications from the list above. For some reason, I forgot to buy two cans of tomatoes, green chilies, and cumin. No worries, I found a few jars of salsa in the refrigerator and kept it moving. Perfect!

Even before I put the meat mixture in the green pepper bowls, I knew it was going to be good. The aroma had a distinct southwestern twang, which I enjoyed. The green from the sweet pepper contrasted nicely with the red tone tomato-based rice. Together, it made for an interesting, and quite hearty, dish.

For the kids, they thought the meal was a bit spicy. They managed to make a nice dent in the rice, but left the green pepper to die alone. For the adults, it was a pleasant meal that quickly fills you up. I wouldn't need a second serving.

Should I make this meal again, which I would thoroughly enjoy, it would be exactly as I prepared it, salsa and all. The kids, like yesterday, would prefer I pile the rice with cheddar cheese. I disagree.

Overall, an enjoyable meal that pleases the eyes as well as the palate. Enjoy!

Source: Better Homes and Gardens New Dieter's Cookbook

For the Foodies: Taco Salad

2013-02-06T21:19:00.002-05:00

Ingredients

6 ounces boneless beef top round steak
4 7- or 8-inch flour tortillas
Nonstick spray coating
1 cup frozen corn
1 clove garlic, minced
1 cup salsa
1 8-ounce can kidney beans, rinsed and drained
6 cups shredded lettuce
1/4 cup light dairy sour cream
Thinly sliced green onion (optional)

Step 1

Trim fat from beef. Partially freeze beef (about 30 minutes). Cut into thin bite-size strips.

Step 2

Meanwhile, cut each tortilla into 8 wedges. Place in a single layer on an ungreased baking sheet. Bake in a 350 degree oven for 10 to 12 minutes or until golden brown; set aside to cool.

Step 3

Spray an unheated large skillet with nonstick coating. Preheat over medium heat. Add corn and garlic. Cook and stir for 2 minutes. Push to side. Add beef. Cook and stir for 2 to 3 minutes or until beef is of desired doneness. Stir in salsa and kidney beans Heat through. Divide lettuce among 4 places or large bowls. Spoon meat mixture atop lettuce. Place several tortilla wedges to side of each salad. Top salads with sour cream and, if desired, sprinkle with green onion. Makes 4 servings.

Nutrition Facts Per Serving

279 calories, 8 g total fat (2 g saturated fat), 29 mg cholesterol, 495 mg sodium, 39 g carbohydrates, 5 g fiber, 20 g protein.

The Lowdown

Surprising, this meal was simple to make and used very few spices. For some reason, I kept thinking I needed to add chili seasoning, but it never called for it.

There are two things I would have changed about my execution of this recipe. The first thing I would have done differently was actually SHRED the lettuce. Thinking it would be far to challenging to shred lettuce, I decided to CUT it. While the taste was the same, I felt shredded lettuce would have provided a more pleasant dining experience. We're talking fewer chunks if I had.

The second thing I would have changed would have been pulling the tortillas out of the oven sooner. While the taste really didn't suffer, the "chips" were a little too crunchy. For me, I left them in for about 10 minutes but could have taken them out around 7 or 8 minutes.

When I asked the family what they would do differently, they responded with, "CHEESE!" For them, cheddar cheese was the one missing ingredient that would have made this dish superb!

Finally, similar to the lasagna of last night, I could have benefited from doubling the meat sauce. It's not necessary, but I like my meat.

If you try this dish, please let me know how it tastes for you.

Enjoy!

Source: Better Homes and Gardens New Dieter's Cookbook

For the Foodies: Lasagna

2013-02-06T12:51:00.000-05:00

Ingredients

8 ounces lean ground beef
1 cup chopped onion
2 cloves garlic, minced
1 16-ounce can low-sodium tomatoes, undrained and cut up
1 6-ounce can low-sodium tomato paste
1.5 teaspoons dried basil, crushed
1.5 teaspoons dried oregano, crushed
1 teaspoon fennel seed, crushed
9 packaged dried lasagna noodles
1 12-ounce carton low-fat cottage cheese, drained
1.5 cups shredded reduced-fat mozzarella cheese (6 ounces)
1/4 cup grated Parmesan cheese (1 ounce)
1 egg
2 tablespoons snipped fresh parsley

Step 1

In a saucepan cook beef, onion, and garlic until meet is brown. Drain off fat. Stir in undrained tomatoes, tomato paste, basil, oregano, fennel seed, and 1/4 teaspoon salt. Bring to boiling; reduce heat. Simmer, covered, for 15 minutes; stir occasionally.

Step 2

Meanwhile, cook lasagna noodles according to package directions. Drain; rinse with cold water. Drain well.

Step 3

For filling, combine cottage cheese, 1 cup of the mozzarella cheese, the Parmesan cheese, egg, parsely, and 1/4 teaspoon pepper.

Step 4

Layer one-third of the cooked noodles in a 2-quart rectangular baking dish, trimming ends to fit. Spread with half of the filling. Top with one-third of saunce. Repeat layers. Top with remaining noodles and sauce. Sprinkle with remaining mozzarella.

Step 5

Bake, uncovered, in a 375 degree oven for 30 to 35 minutes or until heated through. Let stand 10 minutes before serving. Makes 8 servings.

Nutrition Facts Per Serving

281 callories, 8 g total fat (5 g saturated fat), 60 mg cholesterol, 491 mg sodium, 27 g carbohydrate, 2 g fiber, 23 g protein.

The Lowdown

I am a fan of lasagna. In my mind, the lasagna was saved for special occasions. Maybe I thought it took too long to make or maybe because it seemed complicated. Whatever the reason, this dish was a cinch.

While making it, especially while layering the lasagna, I kept thinking I should have doubled the filling and meat sauce. While the first layer was fine, the second and third layers needed more of both. When my son and I dug in, we both agreed in unison, "More Filling!"

Nevertheless, the dish was tasty. I could smell and taste the herbs and spices. My favorite was the garlic. Probably not great for socializing up close, but it makes for a yummy dish.

I ended up cooking it for 35 minutes exactly, but could have cooked it for a little less time. The meat, cheese, and exposed noodles appeared a bit dry and touch. Fortunately, it didn't effect the final taste test.

As far as sides, something green would have been nice. Maybe some green beans or broccoli would do just right.

In the end, it was easy to make, tasty, and a hit within the house. I'm definitely adding this to my list of future recipes.

Enjoy!

Source: Better Homes and Gardens New Dieter's Cookbook

Think Of Blog Posts Like Meeting Minutes

2013-02-03T12:58:00.000-05:00

The other day, while walking back to the office from lunch, an idea hit me...blogs are like notes from a meeting (minutes). For many of us, we attend meetings for work, church, and clubs. Meetings are where people gather around a table, conference over a telephone, or gather in virtual rooms to discuss agenda items.

During those meetings, someone is tasked with taking notes. This person focuses on capturing decisions, ideas, and to-do items. Once complete, the note-taker makes the meeting notes available to all persons in attendance. If your meeting functions like this, than you're in good shape.

Unfortunately, few people know what to do with meeting notes. How do I know? Well, based on my experience, I've seen minutes end up in trash cans, desk drawers, or the information black hole of nothingness. Effort is spent creating meeting documents, but it seems nothing ever becomes of the information. How do we fix this dilemma? We help find those items a new home.

Finding A New Home

With a beautifully created set of meeting minutes, it is time to transfer relevant items from the notes and place them somewhere that makes sense. In this section, I recommend a few options.

To-Do Items
One of the first things we can do is remove the assigned tasks and place them on a task sheet. Maybe we already have a list within Outlook, Google Calendar, Any.Do, or some other to-do application. However you have them stored, make sure assignments go into the same place every time.

Decisions
Depending on the type of meeting, decisions may come in the form of bylaw changes, policy updates, or a change in the standard operating procedures. Whatever the type, there needs to be a place to store final decisions so that people can begin acting upon them.

Remember, people have short memories and unless it is written down promptly, people tend to forget the details of the decision. Additionally, any new member to the group, team, or club, may not have the historical context to remember the final decision or the discussions surrounding the issue. Therefore, placing decisions in a document that is accessible by all is a very good thing.

Ideas
Unlike to-do items and decisions, ideas are little less immediate. To me, ideas are like seeds that are often planted but rarely germinate. Why? Because ideas, like seeds, need attention.

If you're like me, ideas come all the time. Unfortunately, one does not have time to execute on every idea that reveals itself. This doesn't mean an idea is not valuable. On the contrary, I think ideas are probably one of the most valuable things that come out of a meeting. Often, like tasks, ideas need to be prioritized and worked on.

Nevertheless, capture ideas in a notebook, spreadsheet, or document so that it can be reviewed often and reintroduced when the time is right. It's better to have a bunch of ideas that you never use than to have no ideas when you need some.

Tying It All Together

To bring the point of this article together, let me write that blogs posts are like meeting minutes. Bloggers capture ideas, share opinions, and offer information on a variety of subjects, but what happens to all of these articles over time?

I don't know about everyone else, but I have about 888 posts on DamondNollan.com. Outside of writing articles and sharing them online, I haven't done much else with them. On occasion I may refer back to an article, but I could be doing so much more.

In 2012, I wrote a couple of articles that begin to address the idea of blogging as a way to capture ideas and then transferring those ideas into something more substantial. The two posts are "Leveraging The Blog To Improve Career Readiness" and "A Four-Step Plan To Blogging A Long-Form Piece Of Work."

What I appreciate about those two posts are their contribution to the idea of writing toward a long-form piece of work that is easily organized and, most importantly, referenced. In my mind, the first stage is in creating helpful documents like small eBooks, white papers, and reports. Together, these first stage documents would contribute toward a more comprehensive work like dissertations, books, and manuals.

Once a first or second stage document has been created and shared, the most important step of all is executing the plans, best practices, and procedures outlined in the resource. By keeping a single copy of a manual online, for example, all employees, teams, or club members are empowered to work together in concert. Awesome, huh?

Closing Thought

As I prepare to end this article, let me share what I have done in my life as a result of this post. On my web site (DamondNollan.com), I have created a new "Library" tab. Don't get too excited because the only document on the page is a very early version of my "Knowledge Book," which is still a work-in-progress.

What I am excited about is that I'm writing the book in Google Drive and then sharing the link publicly. Google Drive allows me to create a document, share it, and then update the document on the fly. Anyone reading the book online will automatically receive updates. Additionally, I can receive comments from readers and get basic level analytics on the number of views from Bit.ly. Cool, right?

Feedback

Thanks for reading. Should you have any comments or questions on the article, I'd love to hear from you in the comment section below.

DreamTrips: Nashville, Tennessee (January 2013)

2013-02-02T23:40:00.001-05:00

In January 2013, I visited Nashville, TN. Here are the pictures to document my travels.

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C3 Church Live Blog: The Prosperity Challenge

2012-11-18T11:42:00.001-05:00

We have been talking about Joseph and how he moved from a dream to his destiny.

Then Pharaoh said to Joseph, “I had a dream last night, and no one here can tell me what it means. But I have heard that when you hear about a dream you can interpret it.”

16 “It is beyond my power to do this,” Joseph replied. “But God can tell you what it means and set you at ease.” Genesis 41:15-16 (NLT)

Joseph knew that he couldn't help Pharaoh, but he knew Good could.

Joseph responded, “Both of Pharaoh’s dreams mean the same thing. God is telling Pharaoh in advance what he is about to do. 26 The seven healthy cows and the seven healthy heads of grain both represent seven years of prosperity. 27 The seven thin, scrawny cows that came up later and the seven thin heads of grain, withered by the east wind, represent seven years of famine.

28 “This will happen just as I have described it, for God has revealed to Pharaoh in advance what he is about to do. 29 The next seven years will be a period of great prosperity throughout the land of Egypt. 30 But afterward there will be seven years of famine so great that all the prosperity will be forgotten in Egypt. Famine will destroy the land. 31 This famine will be so severe that even the memory of the good years will be erased. 32 As for having two similar dreams, it means that these events have been decreed by God, and he will soon make them happen. Genesis 41:25-32 (NLT)

God gave Pharaoh two dreams as a way to establish a decree. This was important.

What good is your dream and destiny if you are not around? God is looking to us to handle want he gives us.

God Is Our Provider

Joseph recognized that God was his provider. Everything we have comes from God.

And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19 (NLT)

Whenever we get a dream for our lives, God will provide a way. God will provide provision for his vision. If it is God's will, it's his bill.

But God is my helper. The Lord keeps me alive! Psalm 54:4 (NIV)

We Honor Good By Putting Him First

God wants to be first place in our life. We can practice this by giving our first fruits. We know this as tithing.

Honor the Lord with your possessions, And with the firstfruits of all your increase; Proverbs 3:9 (NKJV)

When it was time for the harvest, Cain presented some of his crops as a gift to the Lord.4 Abel also brought a gift—the best of the firstborn lambs from his flock. The Lord accepted Abel and his gift, 5 but he did not accept Cain and his gift. This made Cain very angry, and he looked dejected. Genesis 4:3-5 (NLT)

Realize that it's not about ten percent, but that you give your first fruit. It takes faith to give our first.

Matt shares his story about giving and how God always provides a way. When we give God last it never equals ten percent.

“Will a man rob God?
Yet you have robbed Me!
But you say,
‘In what way have we robbed You?’
In tithes and offerings.
9 You are cursed with a curse,
For you have robbed Me,
Even this whole nation.
10 Bring all the tithes into the storehouse,
That there may be food in My house,
And try Me now in this,”
Says the Lord of hosts,
“If I will not open for you the windows of heaven
And pour out for you such blessing
That there will not be room enough to receive it. Malachi 3:8-10 (NJKV)

Pastor tells another story of a guy who gave God all that he had ($200) in tithes. Years later, that same guy was able to give God $10 million. This guy and his family lived off of 30% and gave 70% to God.

“And don’t be concerned about what to eat and what to drink. Don’t worry about such things. 30 These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers all over the world, but your Father already knows your needs. 31 Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and he will give you everything you need. Luke 12:29-31 (NLT)

God Does Big Things

How great is our Lord! His power is absolute! His understanding is beyond comprehension! Psalms 147:5 (NLT)

God wants to do big things in our lives. Matt tells the story of the biggest miracle in the four gospels. He shares the story of how Jesus feeds fifteen thousand people from the simple meal of a boy.

By listening to God, the disciples learned a valuable lesson. Give first to others and God will provide for your needs.

Joseph was promoted to leadership after 13 years of receiving the dream.

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

Aggie-Eagle Football Game 2012

2012-11-18T10:37:00.001-05:00

Spent the day with friends, frat brothers, success partners, and co-workers at one of the biggest rival games in the area.

While the competition between North Carolina Central University (Eagles) and North Carolina A&T (Aggies) resulted in a 16 to 22 loss for the Eagles, it was great to hang out, eat, and enjoy the day with amazing people.

Interestingly, this game reminded me of why I love the historically black college and university (HBCU) experience. Not only do we enjoy it for ourselves, but it's also a parent's way to expose their kids to something that connects many of us together.

Thank you for a fabulous day!

C3 Church Live Blog: Destiny - The Purity Challenge

2012-10-14T16:12:00.000-04:00

Speaker: Pastor Matt Fry

We are in a series called Destiny. How do you go from your dreams to your destiny? What challenges will you face? Pastor Matt uses Joseph to help deliver this message.

Genesis 39:5-18 (NLT)

As Joseph is pursuing his destiny, he is faced with the purity challenge. Remember, he was sold as a slave and was working in Potiphar's house. Everything he touched was successful. The only thing he couldn't have was Potiphar's wife.

Everyone, no matter if you are a man or woman, will be faced with this challenge. We need to live a life of integrity.

Be Faithful in the Little Things

Joseph was faithful with everything that was given to him. This also means NOT taking what was not his.

Luke 16:10 (NASB)

Many of us want to do BIG things, but we need to start where we are. That may mean doing the smaller things, first.

Pastor Matt talks about a man who came from Ethiopia to work at the University. He started off cleaning toilets, but later became the president. He was faithful in little and was later given much.

When we are faithful and thankful for what God has given us, this helps identify us as a candidate for more.

Be Faithful When No One Is Looking

What difference does it make what I do in private? The Bible is clear about what we do in private, it all impacts our lives.

Exodus 34:6-7 (NASB)

Aren't you glad that God is an awesome God?

We see the word SIN and INIQUITY? What is the difference? The word SIN is to "miss the mark." Sin is an outward movement. Iniquity is the inner motivation. Sin is what you see on the outside. Iniquity deals with the heart.

Your children will not inherit your sin, but they WILL inherit your iniquity (what is in your heart). Sin is the action and iniquity is the attitude (the hidden things). We must guard our heart even when nobody is looking?

1 Corinthians 9:27 (AMP)

Whatever you do in the private shows up in public.

Just because you fail the purity challenge doesn't mean you won't experience your destiny. It may just mean that it's delayed or slightly changed.

The Devil is like a roaring lion. He is going to hunt you down day after day. When we are alone, the Devil wants to spend time with you. So does God. So protect your private time.

How do we protect ourselves? We do so through discipline.

Set boundaries around yourself WAY ahead of a situation. All it takes is one action to put us back in the pit.

With God you can have victory over the flesh.

Be Careful Where You Look

Matthew 6:22-23 (NLT)

Be careful what you watch on television and the Internet.

If you haven't noticed, men and women are very different. Matt is happy that Martha doesn't look like him (crowd laughs). There are certain things that don't make sense. Why do women go to the bathroom together.

Men are attracted by sight. Women are not so much. We need to understand that difference. Men are like microwaves and women are like crock pots.

The eyes lead us to the heart.

Proverbs 27:20 (NIV)

That's why pornography can mess people up. Everyone of us deals with some kind of lust. 90% of men say they struggle with lust. The other 10% struggle with lying about their lust (crowd laughs).

Love is NOT lust.

Looking leads to longing, longing leads to lust, and lust always leads to destruction.

Pastor Matt talks about some other ministers and the challenges they face. What should we do to avoid those temptations?

Run From Evil And Run To God

Joseph ran from Potipher's wife. Sometimes walking is not fast enough.

Run to God. He will not condemn you, but he is a God of love and forgiveness.

2 Timothy 2:22 (NLT)

Jesus is greater than any obstacle that you may ever face. You may say, "Pastor, you just don't understand." No, Jesus can help you get a fresh start.

1 Corinthians 10:13 (NIV)

You may think you're the only one dealing with that issue, but you're not. We all struggle with the common issues.

When you feel like you're in the pit, turn to God. He will always provide a way out.

We need each other and we need God. This is the only way we can overcome the purity challenge.

Isaiah 53:5 (NLT)

He was bruised on the outside for our sins BUT he was also bruised on the inside for our iniquities. He solved all of our problems while on the cross.

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

C3 Church Live Blog: Destiny - The Palace Challenge

2012-09-30T12:18:00.002-04:00

Speaker: Matt Fry

No two dreams or destinies are the same. His dream for you is better than anything you can come up with alone.

The series is based primarily on the life of Joseph. Today, we are going to look at the third challenge. The Palace Challenge: Understanding the Principles of Stewardship.

Pastor Matt talks about their pizza night experience. In an attempt to feed his family, he accidentally called the wrong pizza place. He called the one in Wilmington, NC, not the one in Clayton, NC.

After the family ate the pizza, Pastor Matt called the place in Wilmington and paid for the one he didn't eat. He encourages us to be generous.

What does it mean to be a good steward? It means taking care of something that is not yours.

Genesis 39:1-6 (NLT)

Be Faithful With What God Has Given You

The Bible doesn't say Joseph was popular, it says that he was faithful. He was a good steward. The term Stewardship actually means the conducting, supervising, or managing of something;especially : the careful and responsible management of something entrusted to one's care.

All good things come from God.

If you own your own business, you look for employees who are faithful. Rather than complaining about what you don't have, thank God for what you do have. When you are faithful in little, he will give you more.

God is not looking for people who hit grand slams, he is just looking for people who will be faithful. Be thankful for that job, child, spouse, car, and home.

If you buy a basketball, it would be worth about $15. However, if you put that same basketball in the hands of Michael Jordan, it would easily be worth more. Put a golf club in Tiger Woods' hands, it becomes worth something. Put a jar of water in the hands of Jesus, it becomes something much more. Anything in God's hands become SUPERnatural.

Exodus 4:1-5 (NKJV)

When we are faithful, God says he will add his SUPER to your NATURAL.

Moses took a rod, but God turned that rod into something that parted seas. David had a sling and some stones, but God turned that weapon into something that could kill a giant.

What's in your hand? That's what Jesus asked his disciples. They had two fish and five loaves of bread. Jesus took that to feed thousands.

Joseph was simply faithful with what God gave to him. How do we become faithful?

Be a Good Steward of Yourself

It starts with taking care of yourself. It means eating what you should, working out, praying, reading the Bible, and just managing what you have today.

Give God First Place and Firstfruits

God wants the first, not the last.

Proverbs 3:9-10 (MSG)

Be A Good Steward Of All God Gives You

There is no such thing as a self-made man. Everything you have was given to you by God. We are not the owner, God is the owner.

Psalm 24:1-2 (NLT)

Stay Faithful With Where God Has Put You

Stop having the "Destination" disease. This is where you think the grass is greener on the other side. No, the grass is greenest where you water it. Take care of home.

People throw in the towel too quickly. The first time something happens, they give up.

Psalm 1:1-6 (NKJV)

John 15:4-11 (NLT)

We Need To Remain

If you want to be blessed in your life, it happens when we remain. It means to just hang on to the vine, don't give up. Day after day, stick it out.

Many of us are looking for something else. It could be a different job, spouse, or situation. Stay where you are and make it work.

The tragedy of not remaining, is that people get disconnected and they often fall off. Maybe people are not doing as well as they were at one time. There is something about being planted where God has you. Stay there until God sends you some place else.

Remain connected to God. When the Holy Spirit tells you to move. When you get the word, that is when it's time to move.

Have you ever felt like quitting. Pastor Matt has. For the first couple of years, he felt like quitting the role of lead pastor on Monday. He talked about a tough time where people were talking about him and the church. People gossiped about him and he felt like he couldn't take it anymore.

Matt didn't want to give up on God or the ministry, he just didn't feel like being in charge anymore. He thought about just following someone else.

After talking to Martha, he was reminded of what God has called him to do. This is one reason to have a spouse that is inline with you and God. Thankfully, Matt overcame those feelings and today C3 Church has been in place for over 14 years.

Joseph stay planted and faithful.

Psalm 92:12-15 (NKJV)

You can only bear fruit if it stays planted. Uprooting a tree multiple times does not help it flourish.

The love of God is unconditional and it is available to every single person. There is nothing you can do to make God love you more.

John 3:16 (NKJV)

However, if you want to live a blessed life, it will only happen if you remain faithful. Don't give up!

James 1:12 (NLT)

A key phrase when we talk about Joseph, it is this, "The Lord was with Joseph." Even when we make mistakes, God is always with you and for you. While people may fail you, God will not. Even during the trials of your life, he is with you. If God gave you a dream, he will help you realize your destiny.

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

C3 Church Live Blog: Destiny - The Pit Challenge

2012-09-23T15:14:00.000-04:00

Speaker: Pastor Matt Fry

We all end up in the pit. Joseph had a dream and shared it with his family. His brothers were already jealous and, as a result, they threw him in a pit.

Genesis 37:12-24 (NLT)

Question 1: How do we end up in a pit?

The first answer is PRIDE. As we learned last week, it's not what Joseph said, but how and where he said it. Joseph was his daddy's favorite. He was the only son to get a coat of many colors (aka Armani Robe) [audience laughs]. As he was wandering around, his brother's spotted him. How did they find him? Pastor Matt believes it was the bright colored coat.

Joseph's pride led him into the pit. When we focus on the gift and not the giver, we are destined to fall into the pit.

The second answer is PEOPLE. People will hurt you (intentionally or unintentionally). Sometimes, people most close to you can hurt you. Although, there is one person who will not hurt you and that person is God.

Joseph's family had issues. His brothers were jealous and they wanted to kill him. Later, the brothers even sold him for 20 pieces of silver. They lied to their father when they came back with Joseph's coat covered in animal blood.

Sometimes, after we are hurt, it's hard to trust people because we have been abused or mistreated. In this case, it was Joseph's brothers that sold him into slavery.

Interesting comparison between Joseph and Jesus. Both were betrayed, sold for silver pieces, and put into a pit.

Genesis 37:25-36 (NLT)

While the brothers didn't say Joseph was eaten by animals, they allowed their father to think he was dead. How long did they allow this to continue? The answer is 22 years. That is a long time to let your dad morn for someone you knew was not dead.

Question 2: How do we help those in a pit?

Pastor Matt Fry responded with the answer, "Love and restore them."

Galatians 6:1-2 (NLT)

There are two ways to respond when someone is in a pit: 1) Be a ladder or 2) Be an adder. A ladder is a way to restore someone gently. However, when one is an adder, we keep adding dirt on top of them while they are in the hole.

Let's be helpful and give folks a ladder. Remember, we've all been there before. Let's point them in the right direction and get them to the gospel by sharing your testimony.

Question 3: What do we do when we find ourselves in a pit?

The first thing we should do is LOOK UP, which gives us perspective.

John 3:17 (NKJV)

God never condemns you while you are in the pit. What God will do is convict you whereas the Devil condemns.

John 8:44 (NIV)

The Devil tries to fill your head with lies. He has so many lies. Here are a two examples: You're not valuable and you married the wrong person.

The second things we should do when we find ourselves in the hole is MOVE FORWARD to find our purpose. Joseph went from the pit to the palace.

Genesis 37:22 (NLT)

God wants to rescue and return you back to your heavenly father. Examples include the prodigal son and Jonah in the belly of the whale.

"When we run from Jesus, you pay. However, when we run toward Jesus, he pays."

Jonah 2:1-2 (NLT)

The third thing we should do is KEEP TRUSTING, which is provision. Trust in the Lord and he will provide for you. Whatever the Devil takes, God wants to restore. Joseph lost his robe, but he later received a palace full of robes.

When God rescues you, you can't put a price tag on that. Keep trusting! (repeated 3X) Our God will provide.

Psalms 40:2 (NLT)

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

C3 Church Live Blog: Destiny - Overcoming The Pride Challenge

2012-09-16T12:10:00.000-04:00

Speaker: Matt Fry

This week, we begin a new teaching series called "Destiny." Last week, we looked at how do we go from our dream to our destiny. Today, we're going to talk about the first challenge of realizing our destiny.

To accompany the new series, Pastor introduced the book Dream to Destiny.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah. 29:11 (NIV)

Do you realize that God has a dream for your life? He has a dream and destiny that is unique to you. You are a masterpiece created by God.

So Jacob settled again in the land of Canaan, where his father had lived as a foreigner.
2 This is the account of Jacob and his family. When Joseph was seventeen years old, he often tended his father’s flocks. He worked for his half brothers, the sons of his father’s wives Bilhah and Zilpah. But Joseph reported to his father some of the bad things his brothers were doing.
3 Jacob[a] loved Joseph more than any of his other children because Joseph had been born to him in his old age. So one day Jacob had a special gift made for Joseph—a beautiful robe.[b]4 But his brothers hated Joseph because their father loved him more than the rest of them. They couldn’t say a kind word to him.
5 One night Joseph had a dream, and when he told his brothers about it, they hated him more than ever. 6 “Listen to this dream,” he said. 7 “We were out in the field, tying up bundles of grain. Suddenly my bundle stood up, and your bundles all gathered around and bowed low before mine!”
8 His brothers responded, “So you think you will be our king, do you? Do you actually think you will reign over us?” And they hated him all the more because of his dreams and the way he talked about them.
9 Soon Joseph had another dream, and again he told his brothers about it. “Listen, I have had another dream,” he said. “The sun, moon, and eleven stars bowed low before me!”
10 This time he told the dream to his father as well as to his brothers, but his father scolded him. “What kind of dream is that?” he asked. “Will your mother and I and your brothers actually come and bow to the ground before you?” 11 But while his brothers were jealous of Joseph, his father wondered what the dreams meant. Genesis 37:1-11 (NLT)

We begin by talking about Joseph. As a younger person, he received a dream from God. There were many challenges for him over the years. The first challenge, or test, we would like to talk about is PRIDE.

Pride is defined as a "Feeling of deep pleasure derived from ones own achievements or from qualities and possessions greatly desired." In a nutshell, "It's all about ME."

In Joseph's family, there were issues. His 11 brothers HATED him and were angry about the attention their father gave to him. Things got worse when Joseph shared his dreams with them.

God gave Joseph a vision or dream of the future. However, there were a few things Joseph didn't do well with the pride challenge.

There are three things we have to do to overcome the pride challenge.

What We Say And How We Say It Is Important

Sometimes things we say are true, but it's how we say things that is important. Pastor never wants to talk down to people as if he was better than everyone else.

We have to be careful about how we talk so that we don't sound boastful. We've all been guilty of this.

Pastor talks about a trip to the mountains when he was younger. He bragged about being an athlete and how great he can ski, even though he hadn't done it before. He even skipped the training. (Crowd laughs)

As he follows some advanced students, he follows behind them on the Diamond Slope (extremely difficult). His goal was to just stay on his feet. As he took off, he was surprised at how well we he was doing. Going down the hill, he just went straight. He didn't know how to turn so he begin to speed up. As he reached the bottom, he didn't know how to stop so he did a baseball style skid.

Later on, the Ski Patrol came up to him and told him that he was BANNED from ever skiing on the Black Diamond again. He didn't fall, but his ego was crushed.

Arrogance and pride always lead to a crash and burn. Remember, it's not always about you and what God is doing in YOUR life. Instead, you should be open about hearing the dreams from others.

Look here, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we are going to a certain town and will stay there a year. We will do business there and make a profit.” 14 How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone. 15 What you ought to say is, “If the Lord wants us to, we will live and do this or that.” 16 Otherwise you are boasting about your own plans, and all such boasting is evil. James 4:13-16 (NLT)

Let's spend more time bragging about God and the cross.

May I never boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which[a] the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world. Galatians 6:14

You Don't Have A Mouth Problem, You Have A Heart Problem

Matt's mom used to say that if you don't watch your mouth, she would clean his mouth out with soap. What we really need today is a "heart clean."

You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speakswhat the heart is full of. Matthew 12:34 (NIV)

How many people love social media? Pastor Fry says he loves Twitter. God can use technology to reach people. At the same time, we have to be careful about what we put on Twitter and social media. Is it about me? How many miles you've run, books you've read, and the trips you've taken? Social media can make it hard to be humble.

One day, the Holy Spirit touched him and asked him if he was spending most of his time bragging about himself or bragging about the cross? We want the affirmation, but what's in our heart?

Insecurity

What's in our heart is insecurity. We want people to like us. Bragging is a way to gain acceptance from others.

Pastor Matt reminds us that we should seek security through others, but through Jesus. God loves us. He is our heavenly father. You are a child of the King. Find your security and identity in him.

God's love for you is not only unconditional, but there is nothing we can do to make him love us more.

Every son or daughter wants to hear acceptance from their father (or mother). You just need to know that God already loves you. The question is this, "Are we RECEIVING his love?"

It's not that we don't need acceptance, we do, but let's focus on God.

Fear

There is fear in our hearts about a job, the future of our country, finances, and the like. Thankfully, God has not given us the spirit of fear, but a spirit of love, power, and a sound mind.

He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. Colossians. 1:17

God has the whole world in his hands. That really is true.

Moses was a true humble man.

(Now Moses was a very humble man, more humble than anyone else on the face of the earth.) Numbers 12:3 (NIV)

Interesting fact, Moses wrote that about himself. (crowd laughs)

Find Your Identity And Your Value In Christ Not In What Others Thing Of You

Your heavenly father loves you. You are one of a kind. You are made for destiny. Let's no longer live our lives trying to get words of affirmation from others. Instead, let's focus on God.

Find your identity in him. Three things you are challenged to do while we go through this series

Spend time with God every day. Get in the Word. Find a good devotional. Start with the book of James. If you need pictures, we have Kid Bibles. (crowd laughs)
Be apart of a connect group. Don't do life alone.
Join us every weekend during these ten weeks and let's see what God does.

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

C3 Church Live Blog: How To Live The Dream

2012-09-09T12:24:00.001-04:00

Speaker: Matt Fry

Matt begins by asking the question, "Has God ever given you a dream?"

Dream

How can you realize your destiny? It begins with God giving you a dream You have to make sure that God gave it to you.

Pastor Matt shows a short clip from Forrest Gump.

We should be pursuing God's dream because it is so much bigger than what we could ever come up with.

God can do anything, you know—far more than you could ever imagine or guess or request in your wildest dreams! He does it not by pushing us around but by working within us, his Spirit deeply and gently within us.
Glory to God in the church!
Glory to God in the Messiah, in Jesus!
Glory down all the generations!
Glory through all millennia! Oh, yes!
Ephesians 3:20 (MSG)

Pastor Matt talks about his past. He mentioned a time that he did his own thing. He explained that he feared where God was going to take him. Pastor Fry thought it would be boring. In fact, the opposite was true. Matt has had the BEST time following God.

One way to determine if it's from God is when it's about others and not about you. God loves you and everyone else. Therefore, your dream must be about others. Remember, there are people who are hurting and those who feel forgotten.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

It is a lie from the Devil that God's dream for you would be boring.

Decision

God gives you a dream, but you now have to make a decision to follow it. Out of 10 people who receive a dream from God, only 1 ever actually decide to follow it. Let's not live a life of regret.

God's time is not our time. We want God to work on our time.

To make a decision, you have to first Trust God.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; 6 in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.[a] 7 Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun evil.
Proverbs 3:5-7 (NIV)

Ask God for Wisdom

If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking. 6 But when you ask him, be sure that your faith is in God alone. Do not waver, for a person with divided loyalty is as unsettled as a wave of the sea that is blown and tossed by the wind. 7 Such people should not expect to receive anything from the Lord.8 Their loyalty is divided between God and the world, and they are unstable in everything they do. James 1:5-8 (NLT)

The first person we need to turn to is God, not man. If you want wisdom, ask God. This isn't to say we shouldn't seek council from others, but we should turn to God, FIRST!

Delay

Whenever God gives you a dream, there is often a delay. What God is doing is preparing you for that time.

Pastor Matt talked about making a baby. Having a baby takes 9 months. In very much the same way God creates a person, he creates leaders in the same way.

Remember Moses spent 40 years in the desert. Noah spent 120 years before he began to live his dream. Joseph was 17 when he first received his dream, but 30 before he started to walk in his destiny (13 years). Remember, a delay is NOT a denial.

In fact, spiritual maturity is knowing the difference between NO and NOT YET.

Pastor Fry talks about the church in Sweden and how it was conceived many years ago. However, there was a huge delay between the dream and the actual realization of that dream.

Difficulty

Anyone who has ever had success in their lives went through difficulty. One way they find difficulty is through critics.

There will also be challenges. You may experience a loss of a job, hurricane, or something else, but remember to have an abundant life, you will have to go through difficulties.

In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. 7 These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. 1 Peter 1:6-7 (NIV)

What must we do when we go through difficult times? The first thing is to stay focused on the mission. Don't get sidetracked or discouraged.

"Real hope, real people, in a real world!"

The second thing to do is to do a few things well. Most of us are good at one or two things. Focus on those things. Don't try to do everything.

"We don't want to be like Golden Corral (buffet)...instead, we want to be like Moes (Mexican)" ~ Matt Fry

The third thing is to make adjustments.

Dead End

When you feel like there is no hope and you're backed up into a corner, this is the perfect time for a break through or miracle. God wants to make sure he gets all the credit.

Don't give up when you hit a brick wall or dead end. At that moment, God is working to make a miracle happen.

"You'll find God when you've reached the end of your rope." ~ Matt Fry

Where do you find help and hope?

I look up to the mountains—does my help come from there? 2 My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth! Psalms 121:1-2 (NLT)

When you've reached the dead end, look up toward the Lord. God is our hope. He is the creator of the universe. Our help comes from the Lord.

Destiny

The last step is reaching your destiny. At this phase, we cannot take credit for this because God is the only one who could have delivered us.

Let's live our dreams....BIG!

So let God work his will in you. Yell a loud no to the Devil and watch him scamper. Say a quiet yes to God and he’ll be there in no time. Quit dabbling in sin. Purify your inner life. Quit playing the field. Hit bottom, and cry your eyes out. The fun and games are over. Get serious, really serious. Get down on your knees before the Master; it’s the only way you’ll get on your feet. James 4:7-10 (MSG)

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

C3 Church Live Blog: Connect Four

2012-09-02T10:56:00.001-04:00

Speaker: PJ Preston

PJ opened the message with a 1981 Connect Four commercial.

Connect Four is not a game you can play by yourself. The same thing is true in real life. You cannot do it alone.

A famous poet once said, "No man is an island."

In today's message, we're going to look at four biblical truths.

Garden of Eden Group

In the beginning, God created the Earth. After each day, God said, "That's good"

Genesis 2:18 (ESV)

It's not good that man is alone. All was good except for that one point. When we are connected, it pleases God.

God puts Adam to sleep and took a rib and made Eve. It's important to note that Adam was with God first and then God connected him with others.

Quick plug, having animals is GREAT, but it's important to connect with HUMANS.

In the Garden, you have God, Adam, and Eve. That is a connection.

Sometimes, we think we are better by ourselves. One of the biggest lies the Devil wants you to believe is that you don't need anybody. Maybe someone is in here today that feels that way, but we need each other. Without each other the Body of Christ is not whole.

"Please, please, please get connected." pleads PJ (in his best James Brown voice).

Adullam Group

Adullam is Hebrew for refuge or a safe place.

David was working for Saul as his musician. David played the harp so much that King Saul started to hate David. Then came the day that Saul wanted to kill David, so he ran and ended up in the cave of Adullam.

1 Samuel 22:1-2 (ESV)

When I am connected it helps me overcome any issues that I may be facing.

We all face issues, but don't allow any of those issues to hinder you from being connected. The Devil wants you to think you are the only one dealing with that issue. As a result, you go and hide and deal with this thing along.

PJ needs people in his life that have scars and are willing to share their stories. We need people who are not afraid to share and help others overcome their issues. We need to be connected with people who can help.

Galilee Group

Jesus, at 30 years old, he begins his ministry. He gets baptized and goes into the wilderness for 40 days. Subsequently, he then chooses his apostles.

Luke 6:12-16 (ESV)

We have to have enough to pour into people in our groups. Jesus knew that one of the apostles was a traitor.

When I am connected it allows people to pour into me.

If you don't have anyone pouring into your spiritual tank, than you will soon run empty and you will start pushing in your own strength. We need someone to pour into us.

Jesus said, "Let's do life together!"

The apostles watched Jesus heal people and do a bunch of other miracles. All the time, he was pouring vision and wisdom into them.

Jesus took a wishy washy man and made him into a rock (Peter). Jesus sees something in us, a vision.

Acts Group

Jesus takes time to pour into his disciples. He then dies on the cross and rises from the dead. Before he ascends into heaven, he meets with his people. Soon after, the disciples began receiving persecution.

Acts 12:1-5 (ESV)

When I am connected, it allows the people in my life to know me and pray for me.

Peter wasn't worried about dying. The Spirit of the Lord came into the prison and woke Peter. They escaped the prison and visited a family. The family wasn't ready for the answer to their prayers.

Sometimes we aren't ready for answers to our own prayers.

Sometimes we don't want to be a burden on others, but it's important to be connected so people can pray for us. When God's people pray AMAZING things happen.

Please, please, please get connected. We WIN when we are CONNECTED. If you want to win in this game called life, please get connected.

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

C3 Church: There Is A Champion Inside Of You

2012-08-26T12:26:00.002-04:00

Pastor Matt Fry continues the series titled, "Heart Of A Champion."

There is a champion inside of you. It's the power of God working in us. God's power is greater than the Devil's power.

At the Lord’s command, the whole community of Israel left the wilderness of Sin [a] and moved from place to place. Eventually they camped at Rephidim, but there was no water there for the people to drink. 2 So once more the people complained against Moses. “Give us water to drink!” they demanded.

“Quiet!” Moses replied. “Why are you complaining against me? And why are you testing the Lord?”

3 But tormented by thirst, they continued to argue with Moses. “Why did you bring us out of Egypt? Are you trying to kill us, our children, and our livestock with thirst?”

4 Then Moses cried out to the Lord, “What should I do with these people? They are ready to stone me!”

5 The Lord said to Moses, “Walk out in front of the people. Take your staff, the one you used when you struck the water of the Nile, and call some of the elders of Israel to join you.6 I will stand before you on the rock at Mount Sinai.[b] Strike the rock, and water will come gushing out. Then the people will be able to drink.” So Moses struck the rock as he was told, and water gushed out as the elders looked on.

7 Moses named the place Massah (which means “test”) and Meribah (which means “arguing”) because the people of Israel argued with Moses and tested the Lord by saying, “Is the Lord here with us or not?”

Israel Defeats the Amalekites

8 While the people of Israel were still at Rephidim, the warriors of Amalek attacked them. 9 Moses commanded Joshua, “Choose some men to go out and fight the army of Amalek for us. Tomorrow, I will stand at the top of the hill, holding the staff of God in my hand.”

10 So Joshua did what Moses had commanded and fought the army of Amalek. Meanwhile, Moses, Aaron, and Hur climbed to the top of a nearby hill. 11 As long as Moses held up the staff in his hand, the Israelites had the advantage. But whenever he dropped his hand, the Amalekites gained the advantage. 12 Moses’ arms soon became so tired he could no longer hold them up. So Aaron and Hur found a stone for him to sit on. Then they stood on each side of Moses, holding up his hands. So his hands held steady until sunset. 13 As a result, Joshua overwhelmed the army of Amalek in battle.

14 After the victory, the Lord instructed Moses, “Write this down on a scroll as a permanent reminder, and read it aloud to Joshua: I will erase the memory of Amalek from under heaven.” 15 Moses built an altar there and named it Yahweh-Nissi (which means “the Lord is my banner”). 16 He said, “They have raised their fist against the Lord’s throne, so now[c] the Lord will be at war with Amalek generation after generation.” Exodus 17:1-16 (NLT)

Pastor Matt talks about how the people left Egypt and started complaining. Satan wants us to complain and have a bad attitude.

In this passage, we see the first battle of many while going toward the Promise Land. Joshua and the men are fighting the battle. God tells Moses to go up on a hill and raise his hands. Pastor Matt says there is power in rising of the hands.

For as long as Moses' hands were in the air, they were winning the battle. So, Aaron and Hur went over to help Moses keep his hands lifted up until the sun went down.

The point is this, the battle wasn't won in the physical world but in the spiritual world.

The Power Of Prayer

You don't have to be the most talented, gifted, or most likely to succeed. It doesn't matter your background or talents you have, but when you go to God in prayer there is power.

Prayer is the most important weapon and tool for victory. When we pray for kids, marriage, family, friends, neighbors, and people who are hurting, we can experience victory. In the physical it may not look like it's possible.

Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results. James 5:16 (NLT)

So, when you pray alone awesome things can happen, but when you pray with other believers you can see even greater results. Why? Because you are touching heaven. It may not make sense, but you know it is God.

“I also tell you this: If two of you agree here on earth concerning anything you ask, my Father in heaven will do it for you. 20 For where two or three gather together as my followers, [a] I am there among them.” Matthew 18:19-20 (NLT)

Matt talks about a time when he prayed with fear, not faith. God then convicted him and said that you are not praying with faith. If you believe God is a God of power than you should believe he can change lives through prayer.

This power of prayer is available to all of us, not just pastors.

Pastor Fry recounts a Saturday night service. A woman came up to him about a pain in her back. She had been to the doctors for 5 years. However, nothing worked. When she heard him talk about praying she decided to pray with faith. She later came back and said that she was healed. God really can answer prayers.

Let's pray for people. No matter where you are. What if he doesn't heal? It doesn't matter, pray with faith. Let's pray bold prayers, not whimpy prayers. Let's pray about marriages and broken homes.

Don't doubt or hesitate, but let's live and pray in faith.

The Power Of Relationships

Aaron and Hur understood the power of partnerships.

A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12 (NLT)

Why were Aaron and Er champions? Because they understood the power of working together. When Moses had no more strength, the two came in to help win the battle.

Where can you find these kinds of people? They are planted in God's House.

Those who are planted in the house of the Lord Shall flourish in the courts of our God. 14 They shall still bear fruit in old age; They shall be fresh and flourishing, 15 To declare that the Lord is upright; He is my rock, and there is no unrighteousness in Him. Psalms 92:13 (NKJV)

Anyone who has ever planted a tree knows that you have to plant a tree and let it grow. Moving a tree does not make for a healthy tree.

Pastor talks about a conversation with church leaders who find some of their members who just move around a lot. Some look at church like a grocery store, they bounce around.

Remember, the grass is greenest wherever you water it. There is something about being planted and nurturing relationships where you are.

Where do you find friends? Wherever you celebrate with other believers.

I was glad when they said to me, “Let us go to the house of the Lord.” Psalm 122:1 (NLT)

How do we find friends? When you are connected with other believers.

At C3, we call these Connect Groups. It's not a C3 thing but a Bible thing. You can actually trace this back to the Old Testament.

Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 47 praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved. Acts 2:46-47 (NIV)

The best Connect Groups have food (and coffee).

Remember, it's not about the Pastor or the staff to care for everyone's needs. Instead, it is through the work of the each member in these smaller groups that can do that.

Pastor Fry talks about a time he visited South India. He met with a guy named Pastor Mohan who has over 35,000 people on an acre of land. Starting at 4:30 am until late at night, Pastor Mohan preaches the gospel. Matt asks, how did this happen? Mohan said that God blessed him and he got a couple of thousand. Unfortunately, they got stagnant.

After talking with them, he found that small Connect Groups was the key to their growth. All things being equal, the only change was the smaller groups.

Pastor Matt talks about using these resources (and support groups) to help reach those who need help.

In his closing comments, Pastor Matt encourages us all to get involved in a Connect Group. Commit to 10 weeks.

Then the Lord said to Moses, 2 “Look, I have specifically chosen Bezalel son of Uri, grandson of Hur, of the tribe of Judah. 3 I have filled him with the Spirit of God, giving him great wisdom, ability, and expertise in all kinds of crafts. 4 He is a master craftsman, expert in working with gold, silver, and bronze. 5 He is skilled in engraving and mounting gemstones and in carving wood. He is a master at every craft! Exodus 31:1-5 (NLT)

Do You Need A Fresh Start?

If you need hope or help. God wants you to know that he loves you. Jesus died and rose from the grave. If you would like to know Jesus as your savior then pray this prayer.

Dear God, I realize I've sinned and I need you. Thank you for dying on the cross and rising from the grave. Come in to my heart and save me. Thank you for giving me eternal and abundant life. Help me to live for you, for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name. Amen.

To share your story, want more information about next steps, or just in need of prayer, please contact Pastor Matt Fry.

Live Blogging C3 Church: We Are Better Together

2012-08-19T11:55:00.000-04:00

Speaker: Pastor Matt Fry

Nehemiah 1:1-11 (NLT)

Today, we are going to look into the heart of Nehemiah. What was inside of him that caused him to be a champion.

Did you know there is a champion inside of us?

Remember, we are better together.

Nehemiah was a cup bearer. The role was to taste the drink BEFORE the king just to ensure it wasn't poisoned.

In this story, we hear how Nehemiah first learned of the wall being torn down and how he reacted.

Broken Heart

Our hearts need to break for what God's heart breaks for. This is not a broken heart for a woman.

When God looks at our community, he does not only look at those who want to live for him. He also sees the thousands upon thousands of people who are not even interested in God. These people have pain, trouble, and hopelessness. God is looking for the Churches and people that will reach out to those who are lost.

Nehemiah 1:2-4 (NLT)

God didn't save us so that we will be selfish, but to share God's love in practical ways. When God looks at our schools, he sees students who need hope, peace, love, and eternal life. When you start to see your classmates and coworkers the way God see them, your heart will break.

Pastor talks about a time when he was 18 at Liberty University. His professor Doug Rennan said, "85% of all those who receive Christ did so before they were 18 years of age. 95% of people receive God before 21."

As a result, Matt's heart broke for those people who didn't know God. This was the moment that he decided to really serve and help those who were hopeless.

Matt believes that this NOW generation will change the world.

Honest Heart

When we confess our sins, challenges, or stresses to God, we are in fact being honest with him. God already knows these things; however, when we share these things, we are agreeing with him. As a result, God will wipe all of those things from your record.

You don't have to be perfect, you just have to be honest.

Courageous Heart

A courageous heart is not one that waits for things to happen. Nehemiah saw a need in his home town, so he decided that he was going to do something.

Nehemiah 2:1-5 (NLT)

He Built A Dream Team

Nehemiah built a team that had a broken, honest, and courageous heart. As a team, he sought to rebuild the wall of Jerusalem. Without hesitation, the team jumped on board to make it happen.

Nehemiah 2:17-18 (NLT)

They Had To Overcome Opposition

People during that time tried to criticize the work of the team. Nehemiah didn't pay them any mind.

Nehemiah 4:6 (NIV)

What caused them to rebuild the walls? It was there heart. Nehemiah did not allow anything to distract them from finishing the project.

Nehemiah 6:15-16 (NLT)

It was a miracle that the team was able to rebuild the wall in 52 days. A miracle is when something amazing happens in your life and people start scratching their heads by something only GOD can fix. As a result, God gets the glory.

The healing and salvation in your life is what the CHURCH is all about.

WorldVentures Regional Training: Building For Speed

2012-08-18T18:17:00.006-04:00

Speaker: Scott Ross

Building fast is easy, building slow is frustrating. Who wants to get to International Marketing Director? (Hands go up)

One of the biggest mistakes people make in this business is this: People treat this like a hobby, not a business. Hobbies cost you money, business makes you money.

Today, we're going to hit the numbers.

Most people enroll someone and focus on getting their four. Taking a look at the compensation plan, only 27% will ever earn a dollar in WorldVentures. This means only 3 out of 10 decide to make this business work.

90% of people who get a gym membership NEVER work out one time.

When we enroll someone, the first thing we are going to do is enroll through someone within 24 hours. Once we get that person, we are going to move through that person and help the next person get one person. We keep doing this where we are building one after another. We're not waiting for people to get their four. As we move through, we forget the sponsor and focus on the new representative. Three out of ten people are the ones we want.

You should ALWAYS have enough of the "Push Play" DVD's. An object in motion tends to stay in motion. An object at rest tends to stay at rest.

On the first night/day, get an appointment via text. Once you do a visit, coffee, or whatever, show the video and call your sponsor to simply get his story.

On the first night, Scott helped the new person get two appointments. Players just do.

Once you get a new person, text all the uplines and wait for them to call you. The person who calls you are the players. They will simply EMERGE.

If you want to be an International Marketing Director, listen to these two numbers: 30 and 100.

To be an IMD, you need to put in at LEAST 30 personals. Statistically, 1 out of 10 people will be a player. Therefore, you need to get at least 3 players to build your lineage.

Always build on your outside left or outside right. Remember, we are building a NET. Many people are fishing with a line and pole, Scott is building with a NET. Every time you build outside left and right, you are building a net.

The best people all have come in the middle of the NET. To go IMD, when you can count 100 people down your left and right outside, your certainty of going IMD is high.

Therefore, Scott's goal is to build the outside each day. When the net is big enough, you will start catching the ACES.

Remember: 30 personals and 100 outside right/left is our goal.

Top 10 Mistakes Reps Make

Disconnect
Scott walked to the empty part of the room. The people who are no longer here have disconnected. This is the difference between success and failure.

To drive the point home, Scott talks about going to church and working out in the gym. The first day that you miss church/gym, it only gets easier to keep missing. By the forth day of missing an event, you will be disconnected.

Promise yourself, stay around the campfire, no matter what.

Think You Don't Need Training
The key of this business is DUPLICATION. Scott has spent over $100,000 in personal development. Even after working with some of the best trainers in the world, Scott knew he needed training. People will not do what you SAY, but do what you DO.

The average person can only stay focused and motivated for a period of time. Every event is used to help keep your team focused and motivated. Leaders don't even think about going to an EVENT.

Spending Time with the Wrong People
People often spend time with people who are negative and dream stealers. Your salary is the average of the 5 people you hang around the most. In this business, we often hang out with people who need us the most. We love everybody, but we are building a first class business and we're looking for PLAYERS. Stop investing in the needy and focus on the PLAYERS.

"Cowboy It Up"
If you try to build this business by yourself, you are going to die.

Re-Invent the Wheel
Don't buy ads on Facebook or a list of leads. It's all about DUPLICATION. Follow the SYSTEM.

If/Then Mentality
This is where people make excuses. If I had a BMW, then I could do it. Stop waiting for someone to make you happy. Just win!

Just live, be happy right now!

Don't Do Enough To Win
This is doing enough to be in the game, but not enough to win the game. Let's get all in and go hard.

Indecision
Double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.

Expect the Worst/Focus on the Negatives
If you go into a situation focusing on the negative, than you've already lost. Focus on the positive.

Inconsistency
This business is like a pickle jar. Most people are trying to build this business by studying and then attacking. The way to open a pickle jar is to consistently apply pressure (Director!). (Crowd applause) Start leaning into this sucker, don't be inconsistent.

120 Day Crusade

Right now, we are 120 days away from December 15th. How many would like to take the next 120 days and become a Director. As a leader, put this into practice within your team. Track this with your team some how. Do this and you will be a Director!

This is NOT for the faint of heart. Let's work hard for our dreams as we would for someone else's dream.

Show 1 person a day (this can be personally or showing the deal for a team mate)
Attend EVERY SINGLE Event (travel party, regional, super Saturday, or whatever)
Listen to NOTHING but WV Audios
Read 10 pages a day of personal development (Start with As A Man Thinketh by James Allen)
Personally Enroll 30 people

Get with your upline sponsor and have them hold you accountable.

ACTION: Consider building a tracking method and an award for those who do it.

Director in 120 Days = TOTAL IMMERSION

Getting Results

Understanding the Rules of the Game

95% of the people fail. This is not a WorldVentures thing, but a life thing.

Three Basic Fundamentals

1. Set your goals (Write it down and put it up everywhere. Write 120 every where.)

2. Make a list

What are your goals?

Why are you doing this?

Be Willing To Pay The Price

You will be tested.

How Bad Do You Want It?

21 Days in a row forms a habit.

Fail Your Way To the Top

I'm not judged

by the number of times I fail but

the number of times I succeed

and the number of times I succeed

is in direct proportion to the number of

times I fail and keep trying

WorldVentures Regional Training: Duplication

2012-08-18T16:30:00.000-04:00

Speaker: Scott Ross

The goal in this business is to become irrelevant. Duplication is the key to success. We are not doing this to work another job. How many would like to do this for a few years and live life for the rest of your life? (Crowd applause)

Scott talks about how he virtually irrelevant. He has leaders on his team who love the business.

Early on, the growth of his business was based on his own efforts. When he got to Regional Marketing Director, he rested. Unfortunately, his business stopped growing for another 10 months, why? Because it was based on how good he was. Take yourself OUT of the business.

Be focused on a SYSTEM that will never die. Point everyone toward the SYSTEM. If your people want to learn anything, point them to the SYSTEM.

A lot of us have people that call us. Instead, have them call the help at (972) 805-5100. Use this number for every question your team comes up with.

Another way of getting plugged into the system is by listening to CD's. Point people to the SYSTEM.

Your job is to become irrelevant to the business.

Are you going to be able to sit with everyone on your team? No! Belief in the business happens by coming to the event. Build from one event to the next event.

If you are on Scott's team and don't attend an event, they are dead to him. Why should he spend his time teaching you when the best people are in town?

An ACE is someone who is a PLAYER and one who is making it happen right now.

We are building WORLD CHAMPIONS and this training is training camp. If a team member is not doing what they are supposed to do, cut them off. Building champions is about finding people who are willing to do what it takes to succeed. One has to pay the price (be at the event).

To be a leader, you have to be in front of the troops. Scott is talking about getting folks to the events.

There are four national events: Momentum, International Convention, Millionaire Boot Camp, and The View from the Edge.

How many people believe their life is worth more than $500? (Hands go up) Where there is a will, there is a way.

WorldVentures Regional Training: The Business Is A Process

2012-08-18T15:52:00.001-04:00

Speaker: Brian Dunivant

The business is like baseball. Your job is to get people on first base (INVITE). Second base is to PRESENT (DVD). The third base is to ENROLL. Home is DUPLICATION (getting out there to invite, present, and enroll).

Brian uses a white sheet of paper to demonstrate the strength of a team. A single sheet is pretty thin. However, after you fold a paper fifty times it is strong enough to get you to the moon.

People's learning curve are different. Some people may just get it at first while others may not. Stick around until you do. The end result is duplication.

Brian has only sponsored 38 people. However, he now has over 6,000 people on his team. If everyone only worked 30 minutes this week, then it would take 17 weeks (without breaks) for ONE person to do some of the same work.

Game Plan Sessions

A confused mind is a frozen mind. If a person doesn't understand, he won't work.
People need some direction as to how to get started
Must be done with 24 hours (right after they join)
This is where you find out how coachable and teachable your new rep is
The goals is to get your people into ACTIVITY (making calls)
Your goal is to create master inviters
Expose Top 10 list ASAP
This is where 2 on 1's and Travel Parties are set up (do this for those top 10 people)

Step 1: Why did you join? What would you like to get out of WorldVentures? (Just listen)

Step 2: Let's start with making your money back? 6 = $570

Step 3: Let's make a list. Top 10 list (BEST 10). Our goal is to get at least 1 out 10.

Step 4: Make the calls WITH your new rep (right now) - This gives time for you to try and coach. With each call, they get better.

These steps are really about keeping in control of a new situation.

Question: If you cannot get someone to make a telephone call while you are WITH them, than what makes you think they will make the call without you there?

Remember: Set your goal long BEYOND where you want to be. Instead of thinking 10/10 or 30/30, think beyond that number so it will seem easy.

Brian can count on two hands how many people have been successful in his 6,000 representatives.

In the book, "The Slight Edge," the concept is to do something slightly above average to see above average results.

Presenter: Scott Ross

When we have any success, we need to celebrate that success. Let's talk about what we're doing right, not what we're doing wrong.

"We celebrate the discipline, not the results."

What's the one thing we could do consistently and get results? Inviting.

WorldVentures Regional Training: Getting The Application

2012-08-18T13:08:00.001-04:00

Speaker: Scott Ross

There is no testimony without the test. At age 16, Scott's father tried to kill him. He has learned how to leave the past behind him. Turn the page. It's not the start of the book that matters, but how the story ends. Take 100% responsibility for where you are.

Three-Step Set-Up

While it may sound easy, you will need to practice this. Get in front of a friend and practice. Do it at least 15 times.

Step 1: Why

When you talk about your WHY, you need to show vulnerability. The more you expose that, the more powerful this will be for you. For men, we have egos. For women, this should be easy.

Example: "You know me as the guy who is doing very well in his job, but I'm dying right now. I feel stuck where I am, but something just dropped in my lap." Be as real as you can be and tell your story.

This story helps to set up the problem. People want to know how the story ends.

Step 2: Big Deal /All In

Transition phrase: "I've been praying" or "I've been searching" ...and I just FOUND it.

Example: "I've just ran into some very successful people and they just showed me a very BIG DEAL. I've just made a decision and I'm going all in. This is my shot and I'm not missing it"

Step 3: Don't Care

"I don't know how this will strike you. You may love it or may not get it right away. Either way, it doesn't matter at all. All I know is, I'm going to put this in front of thousands of people and I wanted to give you a chance to see it first. Would that be cool?"

This step creates your posture. If someone starts to get negative, you can say simply say if you don't want to do this...that's ok!

4 Tips To Getting The App

Have an application and a pen!
When the presentation is over say, "That's so awesome, isn't it?... You're in?!" (Excited with high fives)
Hand the guest the app and pen
EXPECT the application will be filled out (pre-fill out everything you know about them)

Remember: How you do anything is how you do everything.

After the presentation, you have to have this mentality...what time is it??? App Time!!!! Cut out the chit chat and get right to the application.

Everybody is recruitable, but never say...

What do you think?

We make decisions emotionally and justify logically. When you ask them what they think, it puts them into the left side of their brain (logical). They cannot buy. Keep them on the emotional side of the brain.

Do you understand it?

Do you have any questions?

Never bring up anything! Why? Because it's APP TIME!!!!

Men and women are designed differently. Woman are more social creatures than men. Woman will start talking while the person starts filling out the form. Woman will stop filling out the app to look at you. Don't say anything.

Be laser focused on getting the application filled out. Resist the temptation to discuss how great everything is going to be until AFTER the application is complete.

Objections

When you get an objection (I don't have time or money. This is a pyramid. I have to talk to my spouse. I don't travel.)... you smile and nod your head. Don't argue with them. Instead, ask this question, I totally get it (nodding your head) "...but what was most exciting to you? The travel or the money?" You can use this for just about every objection.

Remember: Every word YOU say is one step closer to them walking out. Every word THEY say is one step closer to them filling out the application.

It doesn't matter what they say: Travel or money. Whatever they say, you then say, "Cool, me too!" If they like to travel, ask them where they would like to travel. When they answer, agree with them and ask them for another location they'd like to travel. "Where would your wife like to go?" After you get a few places listed, tell them, "We have DreamTrips for that...you should give it a try." (Push the app back at them)

If they say that they like the money, ask them what they would do with the money. Try to pull out the more emotional reasons for the money. "What would you do if money was no option?" "What would your wife want to do with the money?" Once you get an answer, say this, "Man, we have a program that can help you make $12,000 in 90 days. You can earn a car....etc." (Push the app back at them).

What tends to happen when you forward the application is that they will study the paper. During this time, you will feel tempted to talk. DON'T...let them study the application. If you start sitting there long enough, they will start filling out the application.

WorldVentures Regional Training: Scott Ross

2012-08-18T11:51:00.001-04:00

Speaker: Scott Ross

The Secret

You have to "decide to win." Nobody woke up this morning knowing they were going to see WorldVentures. If you were like most people, we came with our arms crossed. As the presentation went forward, we started to lean forward and really into it. At the end of that presentation, you said, "I'm going to give it a shot!"

If you "give it a shot" than you will lose at this business. That is very much like a hope to win. It's like a lottery ticket. To WIN, you have to DECIDE TO WIN!

Good things come to those who WAIT! Money doesn't grow on TREES! These things are programmed into our lives.

Remember, you were born for greatness. Each of us, were programmed to be workers. The education system is a joke.

Here is how you know that you were programmed to lose. You're in school, take a test, and get only 70% of the answers right. This gives you a grade of C minus. This means you are not above average.

In this business, if you get 70% than you are doing EXCELLENT! Remember, you are a Kings Kid. You are destined to be a winner.

Some of us hide behind the programming that we are not a Carlos Rogers, Dwayne Lodge, and Brian Dunivant. No, you are YOU!

Some of us hope that we will find the right one to join our business. What Scott believes is that HE IS THE RIGHT ONE! This is the time to OWN, not RENTING your life. The day you decide your life is going to change, is the day that you decide to take control over your life.

You are where you are because of the decisions you made in your life.

Anyone who tells you that you need them is telling you a lie. You + GOD = Majority

Decision means to cut off from. Some of us have a foot in WorldVentures and a foot in something else. This does NOT mean to quit your job. It means to go all in with WorldVentures. Remember, a double-minded man is unstable in all of his ways. Get off the fence!

Unconscious Incompetent

In the beginning of our lives, we don't know what we don't know. As kids, we didn't know that we were supposed to eat our food with utensils.

Conscious Incompetent

At this phase of our lives, we learn that we need to eat with a spoon and fork. Although, we may not want to do it.

Conscious Competent

At this point of our lives, we tried to eat with a spoon or fork, but it didn't work. So, we through the spoon aside.

Unconscious Competent

This is where we can eat without thinking about it. It's like riding a bike. How many can jump on a bike and ride without thinking about it.

How did you know a bike worked? Because we saw someone riding on one.

As kids, we'd ask our parents for a bike. We get a bike with training wheels. In the beginning, I couldn't ride a bike. A bike is a SCAM. I tried a bike once and it didn't work.

One day, despite the injuries, you got back on the bike. Why? Because all of your friends are riding bikes. In life, you keep hanging around broke friends who are satisfied with their lives. You NEED to find some new friends who will help you see the world differently.

In the process of getting skills, you will fall down, you will hurt yourself, and get wounds. You have to decide to be a bike rider, to be a free man, to make decisions in your life.

It didn't matter to him who was going with him, he DECIDED that he was going to build this thing. Decide to be a winner.

Skills

You have to take these skills and practice them.

Scott is a finisher. We have a lot of starters, but very few people finish. Men finish, boys start.

Step 1: You Need A List

The longer the list, the more psychologically strong you are. If you put 300

You need at least 30 personals to succeed in this business.

Step 2: You Need Players (ACES)

We are looking for ACES. You are putting people on the list that you are above (people that you influence). Try going for those people who are both A) You need to know these people well. B) You need to be a driven person or super party animals.

If you are bringing people who are comfortable with being comfortable then they are the wrong person. These people don't want anything in life. Why would they want WorldVentures. Look for people who want more out of life.

The way we invite the ACES is through a text message (two-step invite). Remember, we need to duplicate. With the telephone, people freeze. The four-step invite is cool, but people cannot do it well. The more duplicatable method is a text message.

"Could you do coffee this week?" (the bucket) How many people can you text this week? With a text, you just got a 100% return on the invite.

You could also text, "You gonna be home today?"

For those out of town, "Can you get in front of your computer today (tomorrow)?...Cool, I'll call you." The secret with out of town folks, is that we need to stay in control. Don't send the link via text. Instead, tell them the URL over the phone. Don't hang up the phone, just put it on speaker!" That way you never lose control of the situation.

World Ventures Regional Training: Brian Dunivaint

2012-08-18T11:38:00.002-04:00

How I Got Here

Brian grew in Lorano, Texas. He is Hispanic and grew up in a neighborhood that made about $19,000 per year. His high school was listed as one of the most dangerous places to attend school.

Thanks to a college scholarship, he was able to attend University of Texas. Had it not been for that, he wouldn't be here today.

Brian talks about his first job as a docking laborer. His second job was at a gas station where he stocked beer in the freezer. The third job was as a security officer.

At 18, he got into sales. During that first summer, he made $18,000. After that first year, he started making a six figure salary and opened a number of new offices. Brian believes that he paid his dues with this company.

His very first day with WorldVentures, he signed up 8 people. Back in the day, reps had to sign up 6 in order to get the membership for free. The first six people he showed it to, they said, "No!"

Do you realize that many people find failure like most of us and quit. He says that he was too dumb to quit.

Brian's first 8 people he signed up were average people. The first person was his mother, who lived in a trailer park. His mom was average.

His second recruit was his younger sister, who just had a baby and lived in the same trailer park. His third person was his Aunt Lee, who was a receptionist at an optimitrist office. JC was his fourth, followed by Sergio, Ambrosio (school teacher), Aliza (cellphone sales person), and Jaime (child protection services).

Brian explains that he made around 40 telephone calls on that first day. That resulted in those 8 people. He continues to say that there are some people who never answered the phone.

In his first month, he sponsored 19 personals. He probably called around 60 people at this point.

With 19 people, very few ever made a sale. Only a few more even got their 4. So, his point is that you are not alone.

If you just call people faster, than you can get the same people sooner. If they are going to say, "Yes" they are going to say "Yes" anyway. Instead of going slow, make all those calls in the next few days.

Even before he cycled, he was taking 3-way calls. Was he an expert? No, he was just "doing it."

Your leaders are not going to do this business for you. YOU have to get out there and do the work. No good leader would do it because you would never learn.

During his first official launch, he was practically reading the presentation off the screen. Everyone sucks in the beginning.

Brian talks about JC and Jaime, who signed up Rene and Franco, respectively. He calls them his "running buddies." Your running buddies are those who came with you today (this training).

In 90 days, Brian built his team up to 350 people. He didn't have any professionals on his team, he just had people who were passionate about being here.

In 10 months, he was able to earn more money than what he was making at his day job.

Brian become the company trainer in 14 months, RMD/Car bonus in 18 months, and went on 37 vacations to date.

Making A Living...Living!

If the business is about making a living...living, why are people stressing? This business is about having fun. If you're not having fun, than you are doing it wrong. People who are doing it right, you can't tell if they are working or playing.

Fun, Freedom, and Fulfillment

These three words are the core of our business.

Fulfillment

If you cannot believe more in your people than they do themselves, than you won't have a life of fulfillment. All of the successful people talk highly of their people. Our jobs are to encourage and build up our team.

Freedom

The 40/40/40 plan is not freedom.

Fun

Even when he was only making $3,000 per month, Brian took vacations. Thanks to the travel dollars, and other business benefits, he was working less and living more.

Brian talks about how he approaches his prospects. He thinks far beyond this moment. He thinks about the prospect taking trips, having fun, and making money. If you are only thinking about getting someone on your team, than you are doing it wrong. Think bigger than that.

Get Excited

The definition of a sale is to transfer your excitement onto someone else. You have to get WILDLY EXCITED about the deal. You have to have passion.

Some say that I will be excited when I get the car, bonuses, and the like, but Brian says that if you think like that, than you will never see those things. You have to "Act as If."

Act As If...

To start the process of "Act as If," you have to start talking like those who are doing it well. Start listening to successful people. Buy CD's and other tools. Listen to them often.

Inviting

The only thing we have to do in the beginning is learn how to invite. If you just master the invite, than you can start making a whole lot of money.

Listen to the 4-Step Invite by Dave Watson. The video is online. Tell your people to watch it and practice it.

Be Yourself

When inviting people, just be yourself. You were better at WorldVentures before you got in than when you got into WorldVentures. You could easily get folks to go out to lunch, dinner, or whatever. Just keep it simple.

The phone call is to simply create the appointment.

Urgency

This word is one of the most important points in showing the business. Urgency means doing stuff now...talk fast. Do it now!

"I'm coming over" is a very powerful phrase to get folks to see the video.

Schedule Phone Time

Schedule at least one day each week where you can invite people to events. Many people want to invite people, but don't make time. Put it on your calendar and stick to it. This is not a job, but treat this business like a business.

In the last two months, Brian has taken 6 vacations. In the beginning, he treated his business like a business.

The Life Of Your Dreams

If you make a list of all your people, than the life of your dreams is at the end of that list. From his 19 personals, he built a huge team. So, get through your list and start building the team.

In this life, you won't get what you want or deserve, but what you BELIEVE you can have.

Room 3026 Live: July 31, 2012

2012-07-31T14:15:00.000-04:00

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