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Lilly — Fri, 23 Jul 2010 15:55:44 +0000

e[lust]

So you know that e[lust] has a modified summer schedule, right? Well it’s time for edition #18, submissions are open till Tuesday. I also am still looking for people to volunteer to be a (mostly) anonymous judge for the Top 3 on elust. If I don’t have enough judges, I can’t give you guys a Top 3. I don’t expect volunteers to be available every edition, don’t worry! Email if you’re interested.

NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar

You only have until August 1st to buy a day or 5 so get crackin! Please! See my post here for incentives from me.

Blog Organization

Due to boredom at work (read: refusal to do boring work) I made up a page of links to all the Ask Lilly posts. I also made an extensive sex toy care and maintenance guide page; Epiphora asked on Twitter yesterday what thing we hated reading in sex toy reviews, and my answer was the boring “not this again” rote of cleaning and lube use. It’s boring to me because it’s common knowledge but I know that a lot of people read my reviews from doing a google search and they might not know. So instead of wasting the time of the old-hats, I’ll just put in links to the proper spot on the maintenance guide, in the reviews.

Due to some kinda-serious health issues, new meds, and a frantic mad dash to copy over the remaining posts at the Co-op in the next 2 weeks (anybody wanna help? lol), I don’t know if I’ll be blogging all that much. Unless of course you ask me some really good Formspring questions ;)

Pop my blogging cherry
This is my first blog. But not my first of
Lost and Found
I plan to write more on this, for this blog,
Public Snarkilation
We've all heard the old saying: "If you don't have
Boring updates post #467
I'm too lazy and tired and wrung-out to post anything
Anonymity and Facebook
More babbling and boring words, in my effort to just

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When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L

Do you masturbate…..a lot?

Lilly — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 14:29:15 +0000

Hubs got this today for our kitchen, for those times when your hands are yucky with raw chicken juices or whatnot:

As he was reading the brochure:

The spout sensor soap pump dispenses soap touch-free to help avoid the spread of germs. Simply place your hand under the spout to dispense soap automatically. The elongated spout arcs over the sink basin to keep wet hands and soap from dripping on the counter. Four volume settings allow you to control the amount of soap or lotion dispensed.

He says to me “Hey you could put lube in this!” At first I gave him a look because, well, I can’t see either of us needing that sort of thing but then it occurred to me that it’s not a bad idea for those who like to jerk off often and use lube copiously. Wouldn’t that be awesome to not have to touch anything, just stick your hand under there and you barely need to interrupt the flow of the session!

I can totally picture some of the more hard-core sex toy reviewers enjoying the hell out of this. And, ya know, all you other pervs too.

Comments

July 17, 2010, Britni TheVadgeWig writes: Dude, that's awesome. I would have no need for it either, but I kind of want one anyway. I can't imagine the look on someone's face if I brought them home and when we needed lube I pointed them to my automatic lube dispenser on the nightstand.
July 17, 2010, MamaInStilettos writes: Thats awesome! I totally need, erm, I mean want one!
July 17, 2010, Bad Bad Girl writes: considering the bottles of sticky lube I have around here-I want this. And then I never have to THINK if anyone else is using my lube.
July 17, 2010, Aspasia writes: I agree with Bad Bad Girl. Got lots of sticky lube and bottles of lube that I'm always cleaning off from some "rough handling".
July 18, 2010, Hunter Red writes: Yeah. That is a useful product for many things. Hell, I could probably stick cheese in that thing for when me and my girlfriend eat nachos naked.
July 18, 2010, Annette writes: LOL this totally made me giggle as I was just asked to review something similar earlier this week. Oh! I received my Wahl from Good Vibes. I meant to email you and spaced it.
July 19, 2010, nitebyrd writes: That is an absolutely brilliant idea!
July 21, 2010, Emme writes: Agree! Leaky lube bottles are the bane of my existance. Lol - but it would be handy...now how to hide it from the 5 and 2 year old..hmmmm? Psssst.....I would love to follow you on Twitter. :)

May is National Masturbation Month
I know you all do it. You all know I do
FlashFictionFriday: Ethereal Exhibitionist
I've decided to try out this weekly thing called Flash
So You Want a Free Sextoy??
Last week I was contacted by the lovely Nina of
Lilly’s Turn – Part 2: Wherein One Good Turn Deserves Another
Over the next two weeks, I slowly divulged to Sarah
Confessional: Flawed
Another Suburban Mom did a "Flawed" HNT this past week

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Wanton Wednesday: Contrast

Lilly — Wed, 14 Jul 2010 01:09:52 +0000

Somehow, taking this picture while I was on a Liberator ramp made me look even more pale than I am. Of course, there’s something about my skin that in natural lighting I tend to glow a little.

I swear, I’m not a vampire.

But…..I DO bite. It’s just another one of my oral fixations. But I’m a courteous biter. Only if allowed and only in good spots ;)

Check out who else is playing this week!

Comments

July 13, 2010, Dave writes: Bites in good spots,mmmm. Nice photo :)
July 13, 2010, Lila writes: Gorgeous shot! Your skin is just perfection. ...you could bite me anytime :P
July 13, 2010, hubman writes: Courteous is good, especially when it comes to biting!
July 14, 2010, 13messages writes: This is a wonderfully sexy shot. I'm reminded as well that it's been too long since I've felt teeth on my skin.
July 14, 2010, nitebyrd writes: That is a very lovely picture. You have beautiful skin and absolutely gorgeous lips!
July 14, 2010, ~m writes: Pale? I don't think you're vampire pale - not at all. Lovely pic and I agree with nitebyrd - great skin and lips.
July 14, 2010, wayne writes: such great contrast black and white such a beautifull picture would love to nibble and bite them
July 14, 2010, Jade writes: Your skin really does about glow...lovely. Happy WW!
July 14, 2010, Black Pearl writes: Great picture! Your nipple is glowing a fantastic pink against your skin! P.S. - nothing wrong with a nibble nibble ;-)
July 14, 2010, Vixen writes: Bites in good spots are THE. BEST.... Love the pic. Erotic! xoxo
July 15, 2010, SlipperyWhnWhet writes: looks like you mouth is parting in this shot for one of those bites... ;)
July 15, 2010, jericho writes: I LOVE this photo. You look wonderful, and you have a gorgeous mouth and perfect skin! HHNT
July 15, 2010, Bunny writes: As someone with pale skin, I understand how standing next to certain colors can have that effect. Though, you look fantastic!
July 16, 2010, MinorityReport writes: I love the contrast of your skin against the dark backgound. :)
July 16, 2010, Bella writes: Such an erotic shot! Lovely.
July 17, 2010, Sage writes: Oral fixation huh, me too. I'm for it. Bite away.
July 17, 2010, Aurore writes: If you're going to bite me, please don't be courteous ;) Your skin just glows - beautiful darling.
July 18, 2010, danimo writes: beautiful shot! i love the shape of your lips, the almost tangible texture of that shawl, and the peak of hardened nipple. i agree with everyone -- you can bite me any time! ; }

Wanton Wednesday: Birthday Suit
This Wanton Wednesday finds me officially another year older, so
Wanton Wednesday: Pearl Necklace
You can learn a lot from Wikipedia. No, it's not
Wanton Wednesday: Dick Sucking Lips
I've been accused of having "DSL"s which I didn't know
Wanton Wednesday: Not safe for work
This is a top I bought last year and when
Wanton Wednesday: Oops
This was part of the Femme Fatale / Boys Club

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Ask Lilly: How do I know if a sex toy has phthalates in it?

Lilly — Tue, 13 Jul 2010 01:15:18 +0000

Another Formspring question here!

When looking for a new toy how do you know if it does or does not have pthalates? asked by mydnitebyte

First, a definition from Wikipedia: Phthalates, or phthalate esters, are esters of phthalic acid and are mainly used as plasticizers (substances added to plastics to increase their flexibility, transparency, durability, and longevity).¹

So how DO you know if a sex toy has phthalates in it?

1. Research your toy purchases from sites that include that sort of information.

a. At EdenFantasys, you can choose “Phthalates Free” in your search options when you’re browsing categories like vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, etc.
b. At Babeland you can purchase anything they sell and know that there are no phthalates – they won’t sell toys that contain them.
c. At Good Vibes, look for this logo on the product description page for a toy:
d. At VibeReview, you can specifically browse only phthalates-free vibrators or phthalates-free dildos

2. Stick with materials that are known to be safe. This includes:

a. 100% pure medical-grade silicone
b. Elastomer, TPE, TPR, WTP
c. Hard plastic/acrylic
d. Glass, metal, wood, ceramic, and other natural materials

Avoid sex toys made of jelly, rubber, pvc/vinyl. While some of the “cyberskin”/UR3 and other “realistic materials” may not contain phthalates, I would personally recommend staying away from them. They’re porous, they usually have an odor, they require “powdering” (no talc!!! that’s proven to be bad for genitals) and many are painted to look even more realistic but this paint suspiciously rubs off with use/washing.

Can condoms keep you safe from phthalates?

Researchers/scientists haven’t come to a conclusive yes/no result yet, but they say it depends on numerous condom factors such as:

a. The thickness of the latex.
b. The integrity of the condom.
c. Additives in latex condoms could also influence whether phthalates pass through. For example Nonoxynol-9, which used to be used as a spermicide in condoms, could actually increase the risk of phthalate exposure (Nonoxynol-9 is no longer commonly used on condoms or personal lubricants though).
d. The personal lubricant in pre-lubricated condoms could (but doesn’t necessarily) facilitate the leaching phthalates out of a sex toy.²

One thing that I wasn’t able to find in my searches is this: Since the FDA isn’t regulating the sex toy industry, could a company claim that a toy is phthalate-free if it’s made out of a blend or cyberskin & its comrades? Since I can’t find an answer on that – and given that the iffy toys are kinda gross to begin with, what with their chemical odor – my recommendation is to just avoid the stuff altogether. Spend the extra $10-20 on a known-as-safe toy material and you’ll get a longer toy life and the peace of mind that your toys are safe.

1 – Definition of phthalates from Wikipedia
2 – Phthalates and condoms fom About.com:Sexuality

Comments

July 12, 2010, Dick writes: Good, quality information! Thanks Lilly!
July 13, 2010, nitebyrd writes: I would have loved to have had this very easy to understand response when I was selling sex-toys. This is really excellent information, Lilly. Thanks!
July 13, 2010, Meg writes: Why are phthalates bad/dangerous/undesirable? ~ The explanation is best found here: http://sexuality.about.com/od/sextoys/a/phthalates_sex.htm and the links within. Basically they can be bad for your body and might possibly hard your reproductive organs or even cause cancer. since they leach out of sex toys made of the "bad materials", during use, thats how they get in our bodies.
July 14, 2010, Meg writes: Wow... I had no idea. Thanks for explaining and informing me!

Ask Lilly
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When Worlds Collide: Lilly vs. L
(This post originally appeared over at Edencafe. It appears here
So, like, Hi…and stuff…
I just realized I've not posted very much here in
Sex Toy Care & Maintenance
Sex Toy Care and Cleaning Guide by Dangerous Lilly This page will
Meta Blogging
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You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours….

Lilly — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 23:37:13 +0000

Or somethin like that. Actually, quick tangent, I enjoy a good long back scratch moreso than a back massage. Anywho.

So I think you know by now that a pic of me and Coy Pink will be in the upcoming NYC Sex Bloggers Calendar. There’s a lot of really good reasons to support this calendar – the charity (Woodhull Freedom Foundation) is a great one; there’s a bunch of sexy models in it showing you (in some cases) more than you’d get to see on their blogs; and I’d be very grateful ;) The photos that are in the calendar will never be seen anywhere else. Ya know what else you’ll get to see only in the calendar? Me. One time only, a straight-on shot of my face, is appearing in the sex blogger world.

If you have a blog or other website, it’s a great advertising opportunity. $25 for a day means your text is visible (message up to 80 characters), staring at calendar owners, for a whole month. I know that I saw a good increase in traffic during the month of May where my purchased day from last year’s calendar resided. Many retailers will offer up coupon codes good for the month their day is in which further drives in business.

If you just want to support Woodhull and the models’ endeavors to raise money, you can say whatever you want in your spot! Wish someone happy birthday, proclaim your love, etc.

Do I need to sweeten the deal?

Of course I do.

If you purchase a day in the calendar you’ll get a pic of me – specifically, my tits with my gratitude in a personalized message written on them. Kinda sorta like this pic or this pic.

If you purchase more than one day OR one day + a calendar you’ll get private access to an audio clip of me jerking off ;)

To qualify, when you buy your day (through Paypal) just mention my name in the “message” section. Tell me what email address you paid it from and I’ll verify with Tess & Diva. You can click on any of these Paypal buttons to purchase, the payment will be going to the calendar email, not to me directly.

$25 – One day

$40 – One day + one calendar

1 Calendar only

Special – 5 days in the calendar for $100

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e[lust] So you know that e[lust] has a modified summer schedule,
Probably more than you wanted to know…
Oh well, fuck it. Some of you might appreciate this
HNT: Office Flashing
As you can see, I still am lacking an erotic
Proper Lessons in Kink
One of the *very amazing* people I met in NYC
Strong Enough?
Sheryl Crow once sang the words "Are you strong enough

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Are vibrators dangerous?

Lilly — Thu, 08 Jul 2010 17:36:13 +0000

Given that my blog address and title both contain the word “dangerous” I get hits from google searches on sexual things being dangerous (or not). Since I talk about vibrators and blow jobs a good bit, these are the two questions that seem to lead the pack.

The Short Answer:

Generally speaking, no.

Oh wait, you want my opinion? Well it won’t exactly be pulpit-pounding preaching, sorry to disappoint ;)

The Long Answer:

Generally speaking, no. The “research” done saying it has long-term harmful effects or harmful effects of any kind are largely based on speculation and opinion. If a woman has it in her mind, wondering, worrying, that maybe the vibrator she’s using is going to bite her in the ass then it will. At least that’s my opinion on some of the reasons why women can think that their vibrators ruined them.

I’m nobody. I’m just a blogger who happens to review sex toys, and use them. I happen to also be a woman who is largely inorgasmic during intercourse. I don’t have a degree in sex education, I’ve not conducted any highly scientific experiments. All I have is my opinion (opinions are never fact) and my common sense.

Carol Queen, however, has a little more wiggle room to weigh in on the topic. She recently wrote a post for GoodVibes Magazine: “Can a Vibrator Numb the Clitoris?” She makes a lot of great points throughout the article but I wanted to point out these two:

The fact is, for many women, in particular (though I know men for whom this is also true), using a vibrator is the surest and quickest route to orgasm, to the extent that women who are very orgasmic with a vibe are sometimes not at all (or certainly not reliably) orgasmic with a human partner. People then sometimes assume that the reason is the vibe “desensitizing” the woman to the charms of human erotic interaction.

There’s a big catch here, though, that’s rarely addressed. Lots of the women who don’t come with partners but do come with vibes didn’t stop responding orgasmically during partner sex once they got the vibrator — they were never reliably orgasmic to begin with! The vibrator didn’t change anything, except to make them more able to come when it was used.

and:

Is it possible to engage in, and appreciate and orgasm from, both kinds? Absolutely! And the more orgasmic sexual experiences a person has, the more s/he can learn to respond in both/all ways. The answer to this dilemma isn’t to stop one kind of sexual sensation, it’s to engage in more of the other kinds you want to respond to. Your body actually grows new nerve pathways when stimulated (or when you learn any new skill based in motion or position), so keep engaging in the kinds of partner sex that please you the most — the likelihood that, with time and sufficient arousal, an orgasmic-through-vibration woman will become able to transfer this ability to partner sex is really pretty good.

Every clitoris is different. Some stick out more, some are barely visible. I happen to know a woman whose clit is SO sensitive that she’ll orgasm in less than a minute of any sort of manual/tongue stimulation – she doesn’t exactly view this as a good thing because she’s then maddeningly sensitive for a while thereafter and cannot tolerate more stimulation.

Some women are not as dramatically sensitive but nonetheless have little trouble orgasming from the pressure a pubic bone exerts against her clit during intercourse. Some women, like me, are not very sensitive. That isn’t to say that we don’t enjoy the stimulation….I can be enjoying it massively but it’s just not “enough” to push me over the edge. When I say that I require a vibrator that’s more rumbly and deep and powerful? It’s not the portion of my clit that’s visible that needs it.

It’s the other 90%.

The Glans clitoris is the only portion of the clit that’s visible and able to be stimulated by tongues, fingers, gentle vibrators, etc. So when I say that I need the power of the Hitachi or the Wahl or even the Climax Twist, or the rumbly deep power of the Harmony Bullet….it’s not that my “poor little clit” needs to be rattled beyond comprehension. Its that I need the stimulation to travel to the rest of it.

A recent diatribe against the power tool vibrators listed a sex toy store owner as Exhibit B stating that a number of women returned the powerful vibes saying that they’re overkill, too much power, etc. Ok, but does every *satisfied* customer come back and tell them they’re satisfied?

No.

They’re at home having orgasms.

I’ve reviewed a lot of vibrators that were very nice for other women, but not quite right for me. But that doesn’t mean I’m going to steer everyone clear of those vibes. Nor will I recommend the Hitachi or Wahl for someone’s first vibrator. MY OPINION is just that…… an opinion. I think I can make pretty good educated guesses because I read and listen to both sides. But in the end, all my recommendations have one end result: helping others have orgasms. I will only say “Avoid that vibrator” if the toy overall is of poor quality. But in the end, I don’t care if you orgasm from a toothbrush, your mattress, your finger, a vibrator, or rubbing your thighs together like a cricket.

I wrote recently about how I think that my use of vibrators has made me MORE sensitive and has allowed me to eventually experience orgasms that weren’t attainable before. Given what Carol wrote, that I quoted above, it makes sense. By using vibrators I’ve brought much-needed bloodflow to the area which can help grow and foster more nerve endings over time.

Sure, a vibrator can be dangerous just like a kitten could be dangerous. i.e. by using it improperly: to extreme circumstances, plugged in while in the bathtub, etc. Just employ common sense and you’ll always be fine. Always start out your vibrator-buying journey by reading a lot of reviews from bloggers like me who actually give opinions and not just reiterating specs (You’ll find a ton a reviews to reference over at Pleasurists) and start out slow. Buy a vibrator that most rank as medium and that has more than one power level.

Comments

July 8, 2010, Nadia West writes: Excellent! While I've found really strong vibes (like Hitachi or the Sybian) can numb me briefly, I find that it happens far less now that I've used both many times. (I can't recall the last time I was left numb from a sybian ride.) Go figure. I can still get off on other forms of stimulation - no problem. I'm not always in the mood for a vibe when I masturbate or have sex. Variety is the spice of life. ~ And that's pretty much my point. 1 experience by 1 or 10 or even 100 persons doesn't make it a steadfast norm. {Lilly}
July 8, 2010, black Pearl writes: Talk about informative!! I was over here taking notes like there was a vibrator exam tomorrow!! Thanks for taking the time to let us in on your fabulous opinion and for sharing bits of the article. Definitely eye opening. ~Wow my thoughts went off on this whole naughty tangent of what a vibrator exam would entail and it lead to you being blindfolded and............ Wait, what were we talking about? Oh yeah. Glad you enjoyed the post :) {Lilly}
July 9, 2010, Soren writes: VERY well put and researched. Loved the quotes. I'd rather direct others to this informative post than any online magazine article of the same topic. Great work, Lilly. ~Soren ~Thanks! I really appreciate that. {Lilly}
July 9, 2010, doll writes: I orgasm so easily that I really don't like to put vibrators anywhere near my vulva or vagina. I would prefer to take a few minutes longer and let the enjoyment last. But I have discovered the pleasure that a vibrator brings to the nipples and that is something I will try again. ~ that's wonderful for you! everybody likes/needs different things.
July 9, 2010, SuburbanHousewife writes: Lovely post! I am quite like you in the fact that I am not easily orgasmic. If I find myself with a little bit of alcohol in my system, my nerve endings tend to get even less sensitive and the use of a high powered egg or something similar is needed to reach the point of orgasm. Only until recently, have I even been able to achieve orgasm through intercourse alone and that has been a HUGE step! Although it rarely happens, I am thrilled that it does happen from time to time. I do quite believe in the philosophy of the new nerve endings forming, because I am living proof of that! Again, thanks for the wonderful post!!
July 11, 2010, maia stasia writes: I left my kitten plugged in while I was in the bathtub once. That was baaaad news. ;P
July 16, 2010, Bella writes: Thanks so much for this great post! My orgasms can be quite elusive and it's so frustrating for me. I've NEVER orgasmed from intercourse alone and a man really has to know my body to make it happen for me. And so, I rely on my vibe A LOT.

Ask Lilly
So I've had a lot of people email me questions,
The Ghost of the Mysterious “J”
Every once in a while I chat/email with someone and
The G-Ki Vibrator On Sale Now
The cool new g-spot / dual stimulation bendable vibrator that
People just come to me for the cock sucking…
The bloggers that use site trackers tend to get a
Have you gotten all your entries in, yet?
My big 2-year blog anniversary (no way that I spell

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How quickly we forget

Lilly — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 15:06:29 +0000

Very short post today, as my brain is fried and this sense of being overwhelmed just won’t quit. I’ve been reading a lot of things lately in the sex bloggosphere that make me shake my head in disgust. It’s adding to my writers block because I just don’t know what to say. Validating a ridiculous assertation or argument with a rebuttal seems pointless. So I’ll remind you all of this one point to keep in mind:

There are always two (or even three) sides to every story. If all you’re hearing is one side, one negative side, then perhaps you should step back before you jump on bandwagons and consider how many grains of truth lie in this one side. Jealousy, pettiness, anger, hurt, etc have ways of inflating drama and making half-truths feel real to the listener of tales of woe, betrayal or dismissal and vacuum-cleaner-salesman tales of caution, injury and how your life is miserable relying on product A when what you really need is product B.

At any rate, if you listen to people who are full of hot air, you’ll just end up confused. I know I am, after reading this interview with Prince wherein he proclaims that the Internet is a has-been:

He says: “The internet’s completely over. I don’t see why I should give my new music to iTunes or anyone else. They won’t pay me an advance for it and then they get angry when they can’t get it.

“The internet’s like MTV. At one time MTV was hip and suddenly it became outdated. Anyway, all these computers and digital gadgets are no good.

“They just fill your head with numbers and that can’t be good for you.”

Thank you, Prince, I see the light now. Your music is awesome but you’re a strange little bird.

Here’s some “numbers” for you, dear readers, enjoy:

One of my favorite FM.com participants, Tori Black.

And don’t forget about my Formspring box over there. I allow anonymous questions and some of them I’ll answer here on the blog.

Comments

July 6, 2010, PandaDementia writes: It's sad how many people jump on story A instead of finding out story B and realizing that truth C falls somewhere in between. I've been sucked into that frame of mind, too, when I've had a friend tell me A that I thought I could trust and rallied around her because of it, only to finally hear side B and realize that my friend had exaggerated many of the facts. As for Prince, he sounds like a grumpy old man! "That technology is the devil!" Poor Prince must just be mad that there are other artists who have taken his "pushing the envelope" schtick. Thank you so much for the happy ending to the post! :-D
July 6, 2010, nitebyrd writes: In order to make an informed decision for yourself, you have to research ALL sides. That goes for everything. If it's going to effect your life in any way, you'd better know as much as you possibly can. Of course, there are always compelling arguments for pros and cons but only YOU will know what is best for you. Being a sheep or wanting to be on a perceived "cool" side won't help you make a good choice for yourself. (I don't mean you,specifically!)
July 6, 2010, Riff Dog writes: Prince has always had some very strange (and wrong) ideas about how the music business works.
July 6, 2010, Sage writes: It seems his opinion of the net is the same as the idiot and chief who of course said there was just way too much information and poeple got news too fast. Idiots both.
July 7, 2010, Black Pearl writes: Prince being a "strange bird" would clearly be an understatement, but I do love me some him!!
July 8, 2010, Matt writes: Utterly incomprehensible opinions often spring from the lips of people touched with genius. Blather on, Prince, but just keep making the music. The world would be more boring without you. Not to mention, I'd lose Brenda for a solid week or two if the fates ever arranged to put her within his presence :)

HNT: Grainy Lust
The photos aren't actually all that great. In fact, professionally
HNT #9: Scrabble Series #2 – Spank Me
click to see the result ;) My ass was sore for
Enjoy the Silence
Forgive the even bigger silences around here till next week
I’ll Take Just What I Came For
Eye on what I'm after I don't need another friend Nod and
4 a.m.
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Contest Winners Announced!

Lilly — Sun, 04 Jul 2010 18:25:28 +0000

Thanks to everyone who entered the giveaway, but mostly a big huge thank you to those who donated the prizes! I had 443 contest entries overall.

Very shortly after this post goes live, I will be emailing the winners. They will receive all pertinent prize-collecting info then. If for any reason I don’t hear back from the any of the winners within a week, then I’ll pick a replacement. Given how voraciously all of these people entered away, using up nearly all of the available entry methods, I highly doubt I’ll have trouble reaching them though.

To start off is the gift of education from Princess Kali. The Kink Academy 1-year membership goes to……..

Sea of Neptune!

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Shevibe.com donated the vastly popular Njoy Pure Wand. This was, as I suspected, the most entered-for prize over all with 188 entries. The winner is……….

Elise!

However.

Yes, there’s a however with the Pure Wand.

Since there were 188 entries for the Pure Wand, I got to thinking that it was a shame I had to choose one winner. As it turns out, I don’t have to…..

Shevibe.com and I worked out a little deal and I personally paid for a second Pure Wand for me to give away. So the winner of the second Pure Wand is…….

Gardenvy!

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Moving along to the Fascinations prize, the Fleshlight Lady Vibro goes to…..

Roger!

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MyPleasure.com donated a wonderful, silicone Tantus dildo, the Twilight Vamp Dildo! The winner of that is…..

Violet!

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Good Vibrations put up the Wahl 2-Speed massager for someone to win and that person is…..

Annette Burke!

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And last but certainly not least is the awesome prize donated by MauiKink. Having a unique, handmade wooden paddle and hemp bondage rope is damn near at the top of the “best things” a kinkster can own. Who is the lucky winner?

Rayne!

I love giving stuff away. And this contest I think went well. While I did notice a number of people not entering correctly, most people did and it wasn’t difficult for me to gather up the entries. The last time I did a contest where Twitter entries were accepted I just let people get away with using a hashtag. I had trouble finding them all, though, which is why I insisted on a comment per entry. I hope to hear from the prize winners in some way once they’ve received their items to see how they like it.

Comments

July 4, 2010, CLP writes: Congrats, all you winners!!
July 4, 2010, Rayne writes: OMG yay! I'm so stoked! Thanks, Lilly!
July 4, 2010, Roger writes: Thank you SO MUCH! I am so insanely excited about this!
July 5, 2010, Annette Burke writes: Wahoooo! I haven't won anything in a long time. Thank you!
July 5, 2010, Elise writes: Oh wow! I really didn't expect to win! This made my day. Thank you!
July 5, 2010, Missy writes: Congrats everyone!
July 5, 2010, Sea of Neptune writes: I'm really excited about it! Great contest for a great blog! Thanks so much!
July 5, 2010, nitebyrd writes: Congratulations to all the winners!
July 6, 2010, Gardenvy writes: Congrats to everyone who won! And Congrats on your 2-year blog anniversary Lilly! Thank you very much, both Lilly and SheVibe!!! I'm so excited to try out that beautiful toy. You made this little lady very happy! :-)
July 7, 2010, Violet writes: So excited - thank you so much lilly and mypleasure. Congratulations to all the other winners....and of course congratulations Lilly on your 2 year Anniversary. you rock!

Loved
When I dug deep into the blackness and confessed my
Top Sexy Bloggers of 2008
Rori of Between My Sheets decided that us sex/sexy bloggers
Dangerous Lilly’s Milestone Giveaway!
The contest is closed now, thanks to all who entered!! This
A Quick Heads Up – Win $50 at EdenFantasys
I just wanted to direct my readers over HERE where
Contest: Win an Njoy Pure Wand!
"I SQUIRTED!!!!!!!!! HOLY FUCKING SHIT!!!!!!!!!" I've only squirted with one toy,

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Lilly — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 17:28:03 +0000

My big 2-year blog anniversary (no way that I spell “blogiversary” looks right. Bloggiversary? Blogoversary? meh) giveaway ends tomorrow night (Thursday July 1st)! Have you entered yet?

There’s three ways to enter: A blog post, Tweets and submitting a post of mine to Stumbleupon, Digg, Delicious, etc. For the exact entry method be sure to read the rules!

You still have time to do at least the submitting and the blog posts, right there that’s 15 entries! I’ve noticed that some people are forgetting crucial parts of the entry rules so here’s a highlight:

1. For every entry, there must be a comment. If you do a blog post, you get 10 entries, which means 10 comments.

2. In your comment, you have to tell me which prize (just one per comment, you can split up your entries though) you want! If I don’t know, it won’t count! I have hundreds of entries.

3. As I said in #1, you must comment! I’ve seen Twitter entries from people I don’t know that never came here to comment. I can’t count it if it’s not here as a comment, Twitter is inaccurate for finding the entries!

Take a look at the comments in the post and make sure all of your entries are there, and correct!I’ve had a TON of entries for the Maui Kink prize, and of course the Njoy Pure Wand from SheVibe. A lot for the Fleshlight from Fascinations, too! So if you enter now for the Kink Academy membership, the Tantus Twilight Vamp Dildo from MyPleasure or the Wahl massager from GoodVibes, you’ve got a really excellent chance at winning!

Comments

July 1, 2010, nitebyrd writes: I'm keepin' my fingers crossed for that Vamp dildo! ;)

Who Won the Pure Wand??
113 entries, which is awesome! I only wish I could
A Quick Heads Up – Win $50 at EdenFantasys
I just wanted to direct my readers over HERE where
Contest Winners Announced!
Thanks to everyone who entered the giveaway, but mostly a
HNT: Sheer Opportunist
Did you enter my contest yet to win an Njoy
Pop my blogging cherry
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Lilly — Wed, 30 Jun 2010 01:20:24 +0000

Last weekend the hubs and I went to Kohls for one thing but managed to come out with a bunch of other unintended things. That’s always the case with us, it seems. Some of the things I came out of there with included a few really cute tops. One of them is a two-piece, and both pieces are sheer. When the patterned overshirt though is on with the camisole, you don’t know the cami is sheer. I didn’t realize until I was disrobing and hubs started staring like this wolf. To further tease him I did that trick of taking off the bra without taking off the camisole. His lascivious grin then became more like this wolf.

While I was sitting down at the computer a bit later I thought this glimpse through my make-up mirror was pretty cool so that’s how you get it.

See who else is playing!

Comments

June 29, 2010, MissPtunia writes: Absolutely beautiful...truly.
June 29, 2010, Curvaceous Dee writes: Such an awesome picture - I do love mirror/reflection shots. And you look hot! xx Dee
June 29, 2010, nitebyrd writes: You have beautiful breasts, that's a fact, but the picture is such an amazing self-portrait! Have a wonderfully wanton Wednedsay!
June 29, 2010, Sage writes: I think I should try you on......... I'm sure you'd fit.
June 30, 2010, Lila writes: What an amazing shot! Great angle, shadows; i love everything about this picture. :D
June 30, 2010, hothardcock writes: That's a lovely photo. I love the hint of nipple just showing through.
June 30, 2010, Joker_SATX writes: (Joker with nothin to say...just sitting in awe of this gorgeous pic!)
June 30, 2010, jewel writes: love the little glint in your eyes behind the camera!
June 30, 2010, Crystal writes: I love this pic. Love that we can see you eye. Beautiful... xoxo, Crystal
June 30, 2010, Just A. Girl writes: I like how your eye peeks over the top of your camera. Great job!
June 30, 2010, Diasia writes: You look stunning.... gorgeous eyes.
June 30, 2010, hubman writes: I love sheer and that's a beautiful shot!
July 1, 2010, Vixen writes: Love how this turned out. The outfit is amazing on you, but the reflection in the make up mirror *makes* the pic! :) xoxo
July 2, 2010, Ashly Star writes: I love it. I like the small glimpse of your lovely face and the sheer top doesn't hurt, either. :)
July 5, 2010, Evey writes: I love that it isn't obvious at all and I actually had to look for a second before I saw your sexy self :)

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