Dating and Mating in America

Closing the Chapter…

kellilawless — Wed, 19 Oct 2011 17:49:57 +0000

I guess it’s time to admit to myself that my blog break has turned into something more. Thank you to all of you who have commented, subscribed, enjoyed and participated in this little online community. And thank you for continually … Continue reading →

Gone Fishing!

kellilawless — Wed, 22 Jun 2011 19:30:15 +0000

To My Readers, I’m going on vacation. Yes, it includes travel, but it also means me giving these fingers a break and enjoying some time NOT looking at a computer screen. I’ll be back at the end of the summer. … Continue reading →

How To Be A Nice Guy With An Edge

kellilawless — Tue, 21 Jun 2011 17:00:48 +0000

Do you totally identify with the old saying “nice guys finish last?” Well, maybe it’s not your niceness that’s killing your chances with the ladies… perhaps you need to hone your “edge. From last week’s post: Your “edge” is all … Continue reading →

It’s Not The Nice Guys Who Finish Last…

kellilawless — Fri, 17 Jun 2011 16:25:05 +0000

You’ve all heard the saying “nice guys finish last.” And I’m betting that many of you have embraced it as truth. If you have, I’m going to make you a bit uncomfortable with this post because I don’t believe it. … Continue reading →

What Are You Using To Bait Your Hook?

kellilawless — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 17:30:59 +0000

I’ve long been of the opinion that what you do to “catch” someone is what you have to do to “keep” that certain someone. If you’ve been reading my blog for any length of time, you’ve seen me write about … Continue reading →

Momentum: Keep It Moving!

kellilawless — Mon, 30 May 2011 17:30:24 +0000

Truth time! If you are letting days and weeks go by between your contact and dates with each other… you are seriously at risk of hitting the “fizzle zone.” Dates 1-3 are crucial for hitting a stride of 2+ times … Continue reading →

The Friend Zone Test

kellilawless — Wed, 25 May 2011 23:36:58 +0000

Alas… you suspect that you may be in the friend zone. And like Survivor, if you landed in the Zone, you’ll need to OutWit, OutLast and OutPlay your competition in order to get out of the zone. Three Quick Tips … Continue reading →

Advice to a Bride on Keeping Her Marriage Alive

kellilawless — Thu, 19 May 2011 17:00:21 +0000

I went to a lingerie shower over the weekend for one of my favorite people. She is getting married this summer and all of her home girls gathered together for a little spa and bra kind of day. One of … Continue reading →

Guest Post: House Flipper… Relationship Fixer

kellilawless — Wed, 11 May 2011 17:00:25 +0000

Thanks to one of my fellow bloggers for this guest post. It’s a good thing to learn… that dating to change someone thing… no bueno. Enjoy! I’m a flipper. A house flipper that is. It’s what I do. I see … Continue reading →

Guest Post For the Guys: How To Rise Above the Rest

kellilawless — Wed, 04 May 2011 21:57:22 +0000

Let Her Know That She Is Special: By J.D. My boyfriend and I had been dating for a few months and he was coming to town so we could go to a New Year’s Eve party together. I knew this … Continue reading →