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<title>DatingCast</title> 
<description>Professional dating coaches Scot and Emily McKay from X &amp; Y Communications have experienced wildly successful dating lives, eventually meeting each other and forming the "Dynamic Duo of Dating Dilemmas".  Now, they bring you 
hard-hitting yet lightning-fast dating tips that you can start using RIGHT NOW to supercharge your own dating success. Fast downloads and rapid-fire content...every time. Be sure to get in on the weekly newsletter at <a href="http://www.dating-advice.us">"www.dating-advice.us"</a>. Your reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley are greatly appreciated.  Find Scot and Emily's full-length podcast "X &amp; Y On The Fly" at http://feeds.feedburner.com/xyonthefly or on iTunes. Theme music courtesy of Devin Anderson.</description>
<itunes:summary>Professional dating coaches Scot and Emily McKay from X &amp; Y Communications have experienced wildly successful dating lives, eventually meeting each other and forming the "Dynamic Duo of Dating Dilemmas". Now, they bring you lightning-fast yet hard-hitting dating tips that you can start using RIGHT NOW to supercharge your own dating success. Fast downloads and rapid-fire content...every time. Be sure to get in on the weekly newsletter at "http://www.dating-advice.us". Your reviews on iTunes are greatly appreciated. Find Scot and Emily's full-length podcast "X &amp; Y On The Fly" at "http://feeds.feedburner.com/xyonthefly" or on iTunes. Theme music courtesy of Devin Anderson.</itunes:summary>
<itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords>

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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
<link>http://www.dating-advice.us/</link>
<email>info@xandycommunications.net</email> 
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<pubDate>Fri, 20 July 2007 20:05:00 CST</pubDate>
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<copyright>(c) 2007-2015, X &amp; Y Communications Worldwide Mediacasting Network</copyright>
<itunes:subtitle>Enjoy The Wildly Successful Dating Life You Deserve</itunes:subtitle><itunes:category text="Health"><itunes:category text="Self-Help"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health"><itunes:category text="Sexuality"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Health"><itunes:category text="Alternative Health"/></itunes:category><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"/><itunes:category text="Games &amp; Hobbies"/><itunes:owner><itunes:email>scotandemily@scotandemily.com</itunes:email><itunes:name>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:name></itunes:owner><item>
     <title>DatingCast #52--Dating And Pets</title> 
     <description></description>
<itunes:summary>Do you have pets? Dogs, cats, birds, or even more exotic ones? How is your dating life potentially affected?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:12</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 10:56:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #51--The Right Way To Have An Argument</title> 
     <description>Having disagreements in a relationship is inevitable. And there's definitely a right way and a wrong way to handle them.</description>
<itunes:summary>Having disagreements in a relationship is inevitable. And there's definitely a right way and a wrong way to handle them.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>2:15</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:46:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Having disagreements in a relationship is inevitable. And there's definitely a right way and a wrong way to handle them.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #50--Is There Any Place For Jealousy In A Relationships?</title> 
     <description>If your partner is chasing skirts, should you skirt the issue?  And what's the diff between being jealous and showing some self-esteem?</description>
<itunes:summary>Emily and Scot talk about how to handle situations when someone is inappropriately forward with someone you're with.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:54</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 11:11:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>If your partner is chasing skirts, should you skirt the issue? And what's the diff between being jealous and showing some self-esteem?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #49--What Do You Do When Someone Else Is Hitting On Your Date?</title> 
     <description>Emily and Scot talk about how to handle situations when someone is inappropriately forward with someone you're with.</description>
<itunes:summary>Emily and Scot talk about how to handle situations when someone is inappropriately forward with someone you're with.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:34</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 05:07:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #48--Dating When You Have Kids (Part Two)</title> 
     <description>How do you find 'quality time' for a significant other when you've got kids?</description>
<itunes:summary>How do you find 'quality time' for a significant other when you've got kids?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:34</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 11:37:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>How do you find 'quality time' for a significant other when you've got kids?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #47--Dating When You Have Kids (Part One)</title> 
     <description>Here's part one in a two part series on how to have a wildly successful dating life even when you're a single parent.</description>
<itunes:summary>Here's part one in a two part series on how to have a wildly successful dating life even when you're a single parent.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:18</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 08:07:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Here's part one in a two part series on how to have a wildly successful dating life even when you're a single parent.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #46--Dating After Marriage</title> 
     <description>Here's hoping this doesn't sound like an oxymoron, because it shouldn't be.  Emily and Scot share secrets for having a wildly successful dating life...with your spouse.</description>
<itunes:summary>Here's hoping this doesn't sound like an oxymoron, because it shouldn't be.  Emily and Scot share secrets for having a wildly successful dating life...with your spouse.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:18</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sun, 23 Mar 2008 04:38:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Here's hoping this doesn't sound like an oxymoron, because it shouldn't be. Emily and Scot share secrets for having a wildly successful dating life...with your spouse.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #45--How To Be An Individual Without Being Weird</title> 
     <description>Women love a guy who stands out from the crowd.  Find out from Scot and Emily the key differences between being a man who defies the 'cookie cutter' image versus being the 'creepy guy'.</description>
<itunes:summary>Women love a guy who stands out from the crowd.  Find out from Scot and Emily the key differences between being a man who defies the 'cookie cutter' image versus being the 'creepy guy'.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:36</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2008 10:42:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Women love a guy who stands out from the crowd. Find out from Scot and Emily the key differences between being a man who defies the 'cookie cutter' image versus being the 'creepy guy'.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #44--20/20 Foresight For Dating Wisdom</title> 
     <description>So what can we do ahead of time to make sure we don't settle for less than we want or deserve in a partner later?  Emily and Scot offer at least three golden ideas.</description>
<itunes:summary>So what can we do ahead of time to make sure we don't settle for less than we want or deserve in a partner later?  Emily and Scot offer at least three golden ideas.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:32</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sat, 28 Feb 2008 06:11:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>So what can we do ahead of time to make sure we don't settle for less than we want or deserve in a partner later? Emily and Scot offer at least three golden ideas.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #43--Are You Too Picky Or Are You Settling?</title> 
     <description>What if you are dating someone and you like them...but there's just that ONE little thing about them that's making you wonder?  Emily and Scot talk about what a genuine dealbreaker might look like.</description>
<itunes:summary>What if you are dating someone and you like them...but there's just that ONE little thing about them that's making you wonder?  Emily and Scot talk about what a genuine dealbreaker might look like.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>2:03</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sat, 23 Feb 2008 00:32:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>What if you are dating someone and you like them...but there's just that ONE little thing about them that's making you wonder? Emily and Scot talk about what a genuine dealbreaker might look like.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #42--Asking The Hard Questions</title> 
     <description>When exactly is a good time to bring up all the important and even difficult questions?  Emily and Scot discuss strategies for getting the ball rolling in an appropriate and timely manner, even if speaking English seems to be a challenge in this particular episode (Sheesh, you two...)</description>
<itunes:summary>When exactly is a good time to bring up all the important and even difficult questions?  Emily and Scot discuss strategies for getting the ball rolling in an appropriate and timely manner, even if speaking English seems to be a challenge in this particular episode (Sheesh, you two...)</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>2:13</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Tue, 05 Feb 2008 07:54:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>When exactly is a good time to bring up all the important and even difficult questions? Emily and Scot discuss strategies for getting the ball rolling in an appropriate and timely manner, even if speaking English seems to be a challenge in this particular episode (Sheesh, you two...)</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #41--Date Many To Find One</title> 
     <description>Emily and Scot agree that the best way to find one great partner for the long term is to date as many people as possible in the short term.  Ironic?  Perhaps...but highly effective when done the right way.</description>
<itunes:summary>Emily and Scot agree that the best way to find one great partner for the long term is to date as many people as possible in the short term.  Ironic?  Perhaps...but highly effective when done the right way.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:29</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Thu, 31 Jan 2008 10:05:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Emily and Scot agree that the best way to find one great partner for the long term is to date as many people as possible in the short term. Ironic? Perhaps...but highly effective when done the right way.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #40--How To Get Control Over Weakness</title> 
     <description>If you've got a stumbling block in your life (meeting women, for example), here's a simple way to re-frame the issue so that you retrain yourself to view the solution rather than the problem.</description>
<itunes:summary>If you've got a stumbling block in your life (meeting women, for example), here's a simple way to re-frame the issue so that you retrain yourself to view the solution rather than the problem.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:41</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 25 Jan 2008 12:45:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>If you've got a stumbling block in your life (meeting women, for example), here's a simple way to re-frame the issue so that you retrain yourself to view the solution rather than the problem.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #39--How Do You Get Over Shyness?</title> 
     <description>Scot and Emily cover practical steps to becoming a man or woman who can overcome shyness, become more social and...yes...enjoy a more fulfilling dating life.</description>
<itunes:summary>Scot and Emily cover practical steps to becoming a man or woman who can overcome shyness, become more social and...yes...enjoy a more fulfilling dating life.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:54</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2008 07:05:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Scot and Emily cover practical steps to becoming a man or woman who can overcome shyness, become more social and...yes...enjoy a more fulfilling dating life.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #38--Why Guys Don't Get Second Dates</title> 
     <description>Find out the main reasons why a man might suffer from 'One And Done Syndrome'.  But what good is presenting a problem without a solution, right?  Emily and Scot explain how guys can get first dates right from now on instead.</description>
<itunes:summary>Find out the main reasons why a man might suffer from 'One And Done Syndrome'.  But what good is presenting a problem without a solution, right?  Emily and Scot explain how guys can get first dates right from now on instead.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:35</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sun, 13 Jan 2008 14:34:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Find out the main reasons why a man might suffer from 'One And Done Syndrome'. But what good is presenting a problem without a solution, right? Emily and Scot explain how guys can get first dates right from now on instead.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #37--Ending A First Date When It Went Badly</title> 
     <description>So what if you've been on a date that didn't go well?  What's the right way to end it?  Scot and Emily prevent two distinctly different options for two very different scenarios.</description>
<itunes:summary>So what if you've been on a date that didn't go well?  What's the right way to end it?  Scot and Emily prevent two distinctly different options for two very different scenarios.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:35</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sun, 06 Jan 2008 01:41:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>So what if you've been on a date that didn't go well? What's the right way to end it? Scot and Emily prevent two distinctly different options for two very different scenarios.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #36--Ending A First Date When It Went Well</title> 
     <description>Been on a first date that went well?  Scot shares the ultimate secret for separating yourself as a man from any other guy she's gone out with.  Emily takes it a step further.  Do this and she'll think about you constantly until the second date.</description>
<itunes:summary>Been on a first date that went well?  Scot shares the ultimate secret for separating yourself as a man from any other guy she's gone out with.  Emily takes it a step further.  Do this and she'll think about you constantly until the second date.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:27</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 28 Dec 2007 02:06:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Been on a first date that went well? Scot shares the ultimate secret for separating yourself as a man from any other guy she's gone out with. Emily takes it a step further. Do this and she'll think about you constantly until the second date.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #35--How To Dress For A First Date</title> 
     <description>Scot and Emily talk about how a woman can dress for success when it comes to making the right impression on a first date.  Plus a great tip for guys.</description>
<itunes:summary>Scot and Emily talk about how a woman can dress for success when it comes to making the right impression on a first date.  Plus a great tip for guys.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:39</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sat, 22 Dec 2007 11:02:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Scot and Emily talk about how a woman can dress for success when it comes to making the right impression on a first date. Plus a great tip for guys.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #34--The Worst Possible Topic For First Dates</title> 
     <description>Emily identifies the one topic you should never, ever bring up on a first date...and Scot agrees.  Do you?</description>
<itunes:summary>Emily identifies the one topic you should never, ever bring up on a first date...and Scot agrees.  Do you?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:23</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sun, 16 Dec 2007 17:55:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Emily identifies the one topic you should never, ever bring up on a first date...and Scot agrees. Do you?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #33--Every Man Must Know Pickup Skills</title> 
     <description>Pickup 'game' is closely associated with PUAs (Pick-Up Artists).  But here it is:  EVERY man needs pickup skills whether he aspires to be a PUA or not.  Learn why.</description>
<itunes:summary>Pickup 'game' is closely associated with PUAs (Pick-Up Artists).  But here it is:  EVERY man needs pickup skills whether he aspires to be a PUA or not.  Learn why.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:19</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Wed, 12 Dec 2007 11:07:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Pickup 'game' is closely associated with PUAs (Pick-Up Artists). But here it is: EVERY man needs pickup skills whether he aspires to be a PUA or not. Learn why.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #32--Fantasizing About Someone Else</title> 
     <description>If this isn't one of the most powerful indicators of having 'settled', we don't know what is.  But everyone fantasizes, right? Here's a simple yardstick to measure what's really going on.</description>
<itunes:summary>If this isn't one of the most powerful indicators of having 'settled', we don't know what is.  But everyone fantasizes, right? Here's a simple yardstick to measure what's really going on.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:15</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sat, 08 Dec 2007 02:48:00 CST</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #31--Pressure To Be Exclusive</title> 
     <description>How do you handle pressure from someone you are dating to enter into an exclusive relationship?  Emily and Scot offer some answers.</description>
<itunes:summary>How do you handle pressure from someone you are dating to enter into an exclusive relationship?  Emily and Scot offer some answers.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:29</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 03 Dec 2007 15:52:00 CST</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>How do you handle pressure from someone you are dating to enter into an exclusive relationship? Emily and Scot offer some answers.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #30--Are You On The Road To 'Settling'?</title> 
     <description>Scot and Emily nail down the single most accurate indicator of whether you're 'settling' or not...or do they?</description>
<itunes:summary>Scot and Emily nail down the single most accurate indicator of whether you're 'settling' or not...or do they?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:04</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 30 Nov 2007 08:54:00 CST</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #29--What If You've Already 'Settled'?</title> 
     <description>If you are in a relationship and feel as if you have 'settled' is there any hope?  Emily and Scot cut to the chase.</description>
<itunes:summary>If you are in a relationship and feel as if you have 'settled' is there any hope?  Emily and Scot cut to the chase.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:32</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sun, 25 Nov 2007 23:52:00 CST</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #28--The Social Cost Of Having A Great Relationship</title> 
     <description>Being a happy couple is kind of like being the Homecoming King and Queen in school.  Scot and Emily talk about the pros and cons.</description>
<itunes:summary>Being a happy couple is kind of like being the Homecoming King and Queen in school.  Scot and Emily talk about the pros and cons.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:26</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 01:41:00 CST</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #27--When Other Couples Are Jealous</title> 
     <description>When you have a great relationship with your partner, others often want what you have.  And when they don't have it, things can get weird.  Scot and Emily explore solutions for making friends without creating resentment.</description>
<itunes:summary>When you have a great relationship with your partner, others often want what you have.  And when they don't have it, things can get weird.  Scot and Emily explore solutions for making friends without creating resentment.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:43</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 12 Nov 2007 14:01:00 CST</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #26--Should I Stick To My 'Type'?</title> 
     <description>What's the difference between sticking to my type and 'settling'?  Scot and Emily talk about open-mindedness in terms of who we're attracted to.</description>
<itunes:summary>What's the difference between sticking to my type and 'settling'?  Scot and Emily talk about open-mindedness in terms of who we're attracted to.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:31</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Tue, 06 Nov 2007 00:42:00 CST</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #25--Who's Going To Clean This Up?</title> 
     <description>Dating couples invariably start spending A LOT of time at each other's houses.  This means things can become a mess...literally.</description>
<itunes:summary>Dating couples invariably start spending A LOT of time at each other's houses.  This means things can become a mess...literally.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:07</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Thu, 01 Nov 2007 10:05:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Dating couples invariably start spending A LOT of time at each other's houses. This means things can become a mess...literally.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #24--The Truth About Pickiness</title> 
     <description>Is being a picky a defense mechanism against failure or valid insurance against settling?  You decide...</description>
<itunes:summary>Is being a picky a defense mechanism against failure or valid insurance against settling?  You decide...</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:37</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Tue, 30 Oct 2007 12:54:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Is being a picky a defense mechanism against failure or valid insurance against settling? You decide...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #23--How Does She Know When He Really Loves Her?</title> 
     <description>Emily asks Scot this all-important question, and Scot gives a practical answer.</description>
<itunes:summary>Emily asks Scot this all-important question, and Scot gives a practical answer.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:27</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Thu, 25 Oct 2007 23:50:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Emily asks Scot this all-important question, and Scot gives a practical answer.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #22--"The Glow"</title> 
     <description>So what is the significance of "The Glow"...and what's the opposite gender equivalent of it?</description>
<itunes:summary>So what is the significance of "The Glow"...and what's the opposite gender equivalent of it?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:19</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sun, 21 Oct 2007 10:02:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>So what is the significance of "The Glow"...and what's the opposite gender equivalent of it?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #21--Being Approached By Swingers</title> 
     <description>Scot and Emily talk about what kind of couples tend to attract swingers, how to recognize when it's happening, and--of course--what to do when it does.</description>
<itunes:summary>Scot and Emily talk about what kind of couples tend to attract swingers, how to recognize when it's happening, and--of course--what to do when it does.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:40</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 13:17:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Scot and Emily talk about what kind of couples tend to attract swingers, how to recognize when it's happening, and--of course--what to do when it does.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #20--What Does A Man Want Most In A Woman?</title> 
     <description>Emily asks Scot what it is that men desire most in a great woman.  The answer may surprise you...</description>
<itunes:summary>Emily asks Scot what it is that men desire most in a great woman.  The answer may surprise you...</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:28</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Sat, 13 Oct 2007 08:43:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Emily asks Scot what it is that men desire most in a great woman. The answer may surprise you...</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #19--Spotting The Blissful Couple In Public</title> 
     <description>What is it about a certain couple that is a dead giveaway that they've got a "Power Monogamy" going?  Scot and Emily have a few ideas.</description>
<itunes:summary>What is it about a certain couple that is a dead giveaway that they've got a "Power Monogamy" going?  Scot and Emily have a few ideas.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>0:57</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 08 Oct 2007 23:54:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>What is it about a certain couple that is a dead giveaway that they've got a "Power Monogamy" going? Scot and Emily have a few ideas.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #18--The First Weekend Away Together</title> 
     <description>Emily and Scot share their secrets to a successful "weekender".  Get ready to hear an unexpected idea or two that could transform how you look at taking that first overnight trip with someone special.</description>
<itunes:summary>Emily and Scot share their secrets to a successful "weekender".  Get ready to hear an unexpected idea or two that could transform how you look at taking that first overnight trip with someone special.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:29</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 05 Oct 2007 00:04:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Emily and Scot share their secrets to a successful "weekender". Get ready to hear an unexpected idea or two that could transform how you look at taking that first overnight trip with someone special.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #17--Perfume And Cologne</title> 
     <description>So what's the deal with perfume and cologne?  Should we wear it or is the risk of going overboard without realizing it too great?  Emily and Scot tell it like it is so you can come out smelling like a rose.</description>
<itunes:summary>So what's the deal with perfume and cologne?  Should we wear it or is the risk of going overboard without realizing it too great?  Emily and Scot tell it like it is so you can come out smelling like a rose.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:19</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Tue, 02 Oct 2007 17:37:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>So what's the deal with perfume and cologne? Should we wear it or is the risk of going overboard without realizing it too great? Emily and Scot tell it like it is so you can come out smelling like a rose.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #16--You Don't Bring Me Flowers Anymore</title> 
     <description>Everyone knows that a woman loves it when a guy gives her flowers.  Scot and Emily talk about when, why and how much.</description>
<itunes:summary>Everyone knows that a woman loves it when a guy gives her flowers.  Scot and Emily talk about when, why and how much.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:13</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 28 Sep 2007 15:27:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Everyone knows that a woman loves it when a guy gives her flowers. Scot and Emily talk about when, why and how much.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #15--Confidence vs. Arrogance</title> 
     <description>What is the difference between someone who is confident and someone who is arrogant?  And how does cockiness fit into all this?  Emily and Scot talk about how this all affects your attractiveness to the opposite sex...and they seem quite confident in their opinions.</description>
<itunes:summary>What is the difference between someone who is confident and someone who is arrogant?  And how does cockiness fit into all this?  Emily and Scot talk about how this all affects your attractiveness to the opposite sex...and they seem quite confident in their opinions.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:05</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 21 Sep 2007 27:56:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>What is the difference between someone who is confident and someone who is arrogant? And how does cockiness fit into all this? Emily and Scot talk about how this all affects your attractiveness to the opposite sex...and they seem quite confident in their opinions.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #14--Making Women Laugh</title> 
     <description>Making women laugh on a date is a plus.  But is every style of getting the job done equally effective in the long run?  Scot and Emily weigh the options.</description>
<itunes:summary>Making women laugh on a date is a plus.  But is every style of getting the job done equally effective in the long run?  Scot and Emily weigh the options.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:28</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 17 Sep 2007 20:54:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Making women laugh on a date is a plus. But is every style of getting the job done equally effective in the long run? Scot and Emily weigh the options.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #13--Okay, Then Why Do Women Write 'Friends First' In Their Online Profiles?</title> 
     <description>If the 'JBF' zone is such a bad place to be, why do women write 'friends first' in their online profiles so often?  Good question, huh?  Emily and Scot provide the simple answer in this episode.</description>
<itunes:summary>If the 'JBF' zone is such a bad place to be, why do women write 'friends first' in their online profiles so often?  Good question, huh?  Emily and Scot provide the simple answer in this episode.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:01</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 12:15:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>If the 'JBF' zone is such a bad place to be, why do women write 'friends first' in their online profiles so often? Good question, huh? Emily and Scot provide the simple answer in this episode.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #12--So Is There Any Way OUT Of The 'Just Be Friends' Zone?</title> 
     <description>Last time we found out how a guy gets in the dreaded 'JBF Zone'.  But how does he get OUT?  Is it even possible to do so?</description>
<itunes:summary>Last time we found out how a guy gets in the dreaded 'JBF Zone'.  But how does he get OUT?  Is it even possible to do so?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:18</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Wed, 12 Sep 2007 00:02:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Last time we found out how a guy gets in the dreaded 'JBF Zone'. But how does he get OUT? Is it even possible to do so?</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #11--The Reasons Why Guys Land In The 'Just Be Friends' Zone</title> 
     <description>How does a guy end up as 'just a friend' in the eyes of a woman?  Emily and Scot take the 'lightning round' approach to finding the answer.</description>
<itunes:summary>How does a guy end up as 'just a friend' in the eyes of a woman?  Emily and Scot take the 'lightning round' approach to finding the answer.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:12</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 08:42:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>How does a guy end up as 'just a friend' in the eyes of a woman? Emily and Scot take the 'lightning round' approach to finding the answer.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #10--How Important Is Kissing?</title> 
     <description>Scot and Emily talk about what great kissing is all about and the importance of getting it right.</description>
<itunes:summary>Scot and Emily talk about what great kissing is all about and the importance of getting it right.</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:14</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 27 Aug 2007 10:58:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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<author>scotandemily@scotandemily.com (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Scot and Emily talk about what great kissing is all about and the importance of getting it right.</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,relationships,marriage,flirting,boyfriend,girlfriend,attraction,confidence,seduction,pickup,men,women</itunes:keywords></item>
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     <title>DatingCast #9--Nice Guys, Bad Boys...Or NEITHER?</title> 
     <description>Do women prefer "nice guys" or "bad boys"? Scot and Emily have a one-word answer: "No".</description>
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     <title>DatingCast #8--First Meetings:  Hugs, Handshakes Or What?</title> 
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     <title>DatingCast #7--How NOT To Use Text Messaging</title> 
     <description>Text messaging has added a new dimension to communicating with those we're dating.  It's a great way to flirt, but must be handled with caution.  Here's why.</description>
<itunes:summary>Text messaging has added a new dimension to communicating with those we're dating.  It's a great way to flirt, but must be handled with caution.  Here's why.</itunes:summary>
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     <title>DatingCast #6--Women With Class</title> 
     <description>What is a MAJOR indicator of a woman who has no class?  Find out!</description>
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     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:11</itunes:duration>
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     <title>DatingCast #5--Metrosexuals</title> 
     <description>Are women attracted to 'Metro' guys or not?  If so, how far is too far?</description>
<itunes:summary>Are women attracted to 'Metro' guys or not?  If so, how far is too far?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:14</itunes:duration>
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     <title>DatingCast #4--Women Approaching Men Online</title> 
     <description>Shouldn't women write to men first online instead of waiting around for them to?</description>
<itunes:summary>Shouldn't women write to men first online instead of waiting around for them to?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:04</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 27 July 2007 13:43:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #3--Dating For Dollars</title> 
     <description>Do you have to spend a lot of money to make a first date great?</description>
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     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>0:55</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Mon, 23 July 2007 10:37:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #2--Getting Physical</title> 
     <description>What is the best way to initiate getting physical for the first time?</description>
<itunes:summary>What is the best way to initiate getting physical for the first time?</itunes:summary>
     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:06</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 20 July 2007 20:05:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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     <title>DatingCast #1--Flirting</title> 
     <description>How important is flirting?  And what's the difference between how men and women should go about it?<a href="http://www.podcastalley.com/"> My Podcast Alley feed!</a> {pca-c69da4177b4e354f29ef8140a3ec458c} <a href="http://odeo.com/claim/feed/c75a2a0f6d46ac1a">My Odeo Channel</a> (odeo/c75a2a0f6d46ac1a)</description>
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     <itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <itunes:duration>1:54</itunes:duration>
     <pubDate>Fri, 20 July 2007 20:08:00 CDT</pubDate> 
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