Have these questions bother you before?: Is she enjoying herself? Are you doing it right? Women can be hard to read, especially when it comes to lovemaking. Though, all in all, if she is getting off you are bound to know about it on some level. If you’re not so sure and need some reassurance, check out her more subtle signs — her sexual body language.

Women need a reason to have sex. Men just need a place.”

She will show you — hopefully in no uncertain terms — how you’re performing. Her body will display some overall signs of arousal that she can’t fake, but remember every woman is different. So, yes, it can often be just as difficult to get nonverbal feedback on your performance when there are so many variables. Here are some general sexual body language signs that she’s getting exactly what she wants from you.

Rapid breathing

Our breath when resting is a very peaceful and tranquil movement of air in and out of our lungs. It has the delightful title of “inspiration” for breathing in, and “expiration” for breathing out. When a woman is turned on, however, this breath comes in urgent puffs and probably has some involuntary moans escape with it as the air is forced quickly past her vocal cords. The increase in heart rate when her body prepares for orgasm means her internal organs and muscles are demanding more oxygen. If you can hear her breath change, you’re on the right track. If you can feel her heart thumping, you’re well on your way. This is her sexual body language giving you signals that she’s aroused. However, if she’s breathing normally after having her “big orgasm,” perhaps she’s a big faker.

General writhing around and body movement

If your girl is curling her toes and writhing against you, chances are she’s probably enjoying herself. Grinding and pushing against you means that she’s really getting into it. If she’s lying there limp, then things probably aren’t happening for her. Try changing positions, or stop entering her and warm her up from the beginning with your mouth or hands and see how her sexual body language progresses from there.

Thrusting hips

When she meets your thrusts, you’re doing something right. It’s pretty safe to say that if she’s matching your body movements and is in time with you, then she’s getting something out of it. Good sex is often much synchronized, as that is how our bodies are designed to produce orgasm; repeated movements in the right spot build to a climaxing. The trouble is finding the right spot, of which there are many. If she isn’t meeting your thrusts then her sexual body language is telling you that she wants something else, so change positions and sees how she responds. Reading her sexual body language means increased pleasure for both of you.

Arms splayed out

If she’s holding herself close she may not be feeling wild abandon — her arms may be around you, her hands may be on your chest, above your head, wherever, except they’re being held in close to her own body. If she’s on top she may need her arms to maneuver herself and give herself some leverage to get the best angle. This is certainly not a definitive gesture, but can be useful. Her body should be responding to the situation at hand. She shouldn’t be worried about covering herself up or where her arms are. If her arms are stretched wide, either held out to the side or splayed out on the bed sheets, you can bet her sexual body language is telling you you’re right where you need to be and she’s comfortable (and enjoying the ride).

Vaginal muscle movement

You have one of your most sensitive parts inside one of her most sensitive parts — with each movement inside of her you can feel the walls of her vagina, the muscles and flesh. The vaginal wall is an incredibly strong muscle and she will probably use this to some extent for her own pleasure during sex. You may also feel the contracting and relaxing during orgasm — her vagina spasms and this will clench you to some degree — but not always, so don’t use that as a benchmark. Some women do have great control, and those who do are likely to have better sex and orgasms in general. If you don’t feel any clenching, don’t panic. You may know already by the feel of her vagina when she’s not far away from orgasm — she may let you enter further, or the overall sensation may be “just right” for you both. Only you can tell, so pay careful attention to her sexual body language and what’s going on inside of her.

Learn the language of Loving

Women love sex as much as men do, but what’s sometimes missing is the self-knowledge, and of course a skilled partner who brings out the erotic best in himself and her. If you’re unsure as to whether your lover is enjoying herself during sex, there is a need for more investigation. Communicate verbally and non-verbally; ask her what she wants you to do, carefully watch and listen to her responses to what you’re doing and don’t assume that what worked for your other girlfriends is going to work for her. Every woman (and man) has different tastes and won’t necessarily respond to the same touches, so try a few different things and don’t stick to a routine. Experiment, tease, tantalize, change positions. When you hear her moan, you’ll know you’ve hit just the right spot, so don’t stop there.

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Routine is the No. 1 cause of relationship death. Once boyfriends get comfortable, it’s not long before they get lazy; and as soon as they get lazy, they get dumped. If you have a girlfriend and you want to keep her long-term, you have to keep your relationship exciting. Relationship ruts need to be avoided at all costs. Routine, laziness and boredom must be combated at every opportunity.
Have you ever wondered why women cheat, or why it is that they terminate long-term relationships in favor of a new crush or the lures of single life? It’s because of fatigue. It’s because their boyfriends cease to excite and interest them. Here are a few tips to help you keep your relationship exciting.

Nothing is more exciting and bonding in relationships than creating together”

Buy better gifts

Here’s a simple tip to help you keep your relationship exciting: Avoid buying the same gift all the time. Just because she likes a certain kind of chocolate doesn’t mean she wants it as a gift five times a year. Gift-giving occasions — like her birthday or your anniversary — are opportunities for you to show her how much you care for her and also how imaginative, creative and thoughtful you are. So, put some thought into the gifts you give her. Try keeping a running list of the things she mentions so that when a gift-buying opportunity comes up you already have some ideas to work with.

Work out together

It’s an awkward truth, but after spending large amounts of time together, sexual attraction may start to wane. Moreover, as the two of you get increasingly comfortable in your relationship, you may start to let your bodies go a little bit.
In order to keep your relationship exciting you need to combat lethargy and laziness. That’s why working out together is a great way to keep your relationship exciting. Working out together keeps everyone feeling good about themselves and will ensure that the two of you will remain enthralled by one another. Couples who work out together stay together.

Redecorate

OK, we know this might sound a bit girly at first, but stay with us. Redecorating your home is a great way to keep things feeling fresh in your relationship. On the one hand, undertaking a project together gives your relationship a sense of momentum. On the other hand, simply changing the look of your surroundings can help you fight the complacency and stagnancy that poisons relationships. Redecorating gives the two of you a sense of mutual purpose; it’s also a way of using your living space to battle relationship boredom.

Get away

Sometimes the simplest solution is the best. And in that sense, a romantic getaway is one of the best ways to keep your relationship exciting. The cares of day-to-day life can often take a toll on your relationship. When you get away — even for a few days — the two of you can leave work, household chores and all of life’s mundane details behind. You don’t have to kill yourself trying to find the most adorable bed and breakfast in the most romantic little town in human history. Just plan a weekend getaway. You make plans together, or make them yourself and surprise her. Hit the road and recharge your batteries. Your relationship will benefit from a few days of solid quality time. Just make sure you’re not taking the same vacation over and over again. Mix it up to keep things exciting.

Pick up a new hobby

The best relationships are based on mutual improvement. You want to be with a woman who helps you become the best possible version of yourself, and she wants the same. Women want men who will introduce them to new things, expand their horizons and improve their lives. So, show her you can be this kind of man by taking up a new hobby with her. Take a karate class or a dance lesson, learn how to kayak or cook. Picking up a new hobby is yet another way to keep your relationship exciting.

MAKE IT WORK

You don’t have to do anything wild or crazy to keep your relationship exciting. Not every woman is looking for a daredevil or an adrenaline junkie. In fact, after awhile, that routine gets as tiresome as any other. The key is simply incorporating a little spontaneity into your relationship.

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There are so many things you may be saying to your man without realizing their emotional impact and its negative impact on your relationship. Your man is crushed emotionally when he hears these things and starts to lose his desire to be with you.

Some of these things may have been said during heated arguments but their effects are always the same. They are destructive to your relationship. Sometime, certain words just should not be used, once used even after healing; it will leave an emotional scar on the relationship.

So if you want to make sure that you do not intentionally say things that will hurt your man’s feelings and ultimately tear your love apart, then you have to make sure that you are not saying the following words or sentences.

Spiteful words can hurt your feelings but silence breaks your heart.”

Words or Sentences That Will Hurt Men

• I hate you so much.
• I don’t even know why we are together.
• You make me sick.
• You are nothing but a sperm donor.
• You are not good for anything.
• You are not man enough to handle me.
• Your friend is much better looking than you.
• You are a loser.
• You can’t stop me from spending time with my male friends.
• You are a big fat slob.
• You can’t satisfy me in bed, so what good are you to me.
• You will never see your kid again.
• I will make you suffer.
• You should be ashamed of yourself.
• You can’t do anything to me.
• You will never make it in life.
• Leave me alone.
• You are as stupid as your father.
• I don’t see any ring on my finger. You don’t own me, so I can come and go as I please.
• I hate your parents.
• Give me some space. You are smothering me.
• I don’t need you anymore. You are not doing anything for me.
• Your friends are doing much better than you.
• You are so dumb.
• I get bored easily talking to you.
• You have nothing to offer me, so bug off.
• Get out of my sight.
• I pay all the bills in this house. What do you do?
• It is my house and I can do whatever I please.
• I can’t stand looking at you. You disgust me.
• You are not a man. I know a real man when I see him.

Words have the power to mend a relationship or tear it apart. If you care about building a happy and fulfilling romantic relationship with your man, then you have to find a way to start using kinder, gentler words when you talk to him — even when he has done something that made you angry. When it comes to men, words hurt more than a slap in the face.

So what do you say to hurt your man? Share with us now!

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Someone who make love to you does not need to love you. I mean get serious, ever heard of one night stand or just a depress sex tool? So if you think that because a man has made love to you, he will be caught up emotionally as you are, think again!

So if the man you now dating is telling you all the things he knows you want to hear so that he can get under your bush, then you have to beware. Here are seven signs that you can do to find out if he is in love with you or merely lusting after you

True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away.”

7 Signs That Show Your Man Want To Go Into You

1. He always calls you at the last minute to ask you out. If for some reason you don’t hear from him most of the week and he calls on Thursday night to ask you to hang out with him or just simply ask you to come over to his home, then you can conclude that he is not really in love with you, he just wants you for sex.
2. He forgets your birthdays. When you ask him to meet your friends and family members he finds creative ways to avoid those opportunities. If a man is in love with you, they will be very glad to meet your family members.
3. He never gives you any special gifts. Even if he does not have a lot of money in the bank, he should be able to afford one red rose or a pair of sterling silver earrings — something that shows you that he is thinking about you.
4. He only takes you to places where you will drink and hopefully get drunk so that he can take advantage of the fact that you may have drank more than your fare share.
5. He always wants to hang out with you at night and never during the day. If a guy is in love with you, it does not matter what time of day or night he hangs out with you.
6. When you are together he does not like to talk too much. His conversations with you are usually short and tend to always suggest sex or things along those lines.
7. When you go over to visit him, he has a tendency to take you to his bedroom. Sure, even a guy that is in love with you will want to talk you into going to his bedroom, but he will only suggest that if he senses that you are in the mood for lovemaking.

So if the guy you are dating now is showing any of these signs, you really want to think about what you want from him. If you just want to have a sex partner without the emotional commitment that love demands, then you can hang around the guy you have now. However, if love is what you are looking for, then you may want to put an end to the relationship now.

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All consenting adults know that making love is one of the deepest and most personal ways of showing your man how much you love and care about them. But did you know that making love too soon to a man you have just started dating can really mess up a good thing?

Give him the honey too early can make him go tired of you easily. There are several good reasons why you should learn to delay lovemaking with the man you are dating now:

I don’t regret what I did at all. It’s consensual sex, … These are men who are billionaires and these are women in their 20s. They are old enough to make adult decisions, adult choices.”

• When a man is attracted to you he is not just attracted to your personality and outer beauty, he is also infatuated with the idea of how making love to you will feel. And once you give him the opportunity to bring what he is imagining to life by making love to him, he feels that he has captured you and no longer has to dream about being with you. His interest in intensely pursing you starts to diminish and in some cases evaporates completely.
• The other thing that happens when you make love too soon to the man you are dating is that you run the risk of being perceived as cheap and easy. You may have had sex with him because he told you that he would still respect you and not think less of you, but the minute you fall for this popular line, the value he places on you diminishes slightly.
• If you want to build a long lasting relationship with any man, you are better off building that relationship on the foundation of friendship than lust. Get to know him better so that when the right time comes to make love, your lovemaking will be a culmination of the love you have for each other – the icing on the cake, if you will.
• Your self-esteem will suffer if you make love to your man too soon. Think about it for a minute. How do you think you will feel if you wait to make love to him versus when you make love to him within the first week of meeting him? If you are honest, you will agree with me that you will feel much better about yourself if you make love to him after knowing him for a few months or even after you get married, depending on your beliefs.
• If you make love to him too soon and he dumps you right after that, you will feel used and devastated.
• If you make love to him too soon, you run the risk of building a relationship that is based on how he makes you feel in bed, even when it is clear that he is not the best guy for you. Have you ever dated a man just because of how good he was in bed and not because of how good he treated you? How did that relationship turn out? I bet you it did not turn out very good.

So be careful about making love too soon to the man you want to develop a long term relationship with. More often than not, men will say that they are tired of waiting for the right time to make love to you, but you don’t have to let what he says pressure you into doing something that you are not quite emotionally ready handle.

If the man you are with now cannot wait for that special moment when you are emotionally and spiritually ready to make love to him, then he is not the right man for you. The man that is right for you will always be willing to wait for the time that is right for you.

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What do you think are the seven most important aspect that men find attractive in women? Is it outer beauty? Is it personality? Or is it a combination of both beauty and personality.

You will be surprised to find out what attracts most men when you read about the following seven aspect most men find attractive in women.

Men become much more attractive when they start looking older. But it doesn’t do much for women, though we do have an advantage: make-up.”

Seven Most Important Aspect Men Find Attractive Women

1. Brains
   Men are attracted to women who are smart. When you can hold an intelligent conversation with any man on a lot of subject matters a lot of men will find your conversations engaging. And certainly, when you consider that fact that most of us want to settle down with women who can contribute financially to the relationship, then the smarter women who make more money will be the women we want in our lives.
2. Affectionate
   This trait encompasses both how you touch us and the endearing words you use when you talk to us. So if you are not in the habit of touching your man or telling him how special he is, then it is possible that you may not be getting all the love your man can give you. The key to getting what you want from men is to first give of yourself (not sex) before expecting men to give their love to you.
3. Health Conscious
   You do not have to be Ms. Universe in order for men to find you attractive. But you do have to care about your physical appearance. You can’t let yourself go and expect us to fall all over you. All you have to do is show that you care about your body by taking care of it, and showing the man you want that you take care of yourself. And you can show that by simply doing your basic beauty regimen – hair, makeup, nails, exercise, etc. That’s all you have to do.
4. Good Lover
   Yes, I saved the best for last. If you are good in bed, which means you really know how to please your man, then you can practically get him to jump over hot coals to get you whatever you want. Sure, you just can’t expect him to do everything you want just because you are good in bed. If all the other traits are in place and you also add this as the icing on the cake, then you have all the ingredients you need to get any man to eat off the palm of your hands.
5. Great Sense of Humor
   Sure we want women who are not too serious about life. If you don’t know how to laugh at our jokes and the little silly things that happen in life, you will not be able to keep any man for too long.
6. Down-to-earth personality
   Men are drawn to women who do not put on airs – women who are not afraid to be themselves. If you are a pretender men will most likely sniff out the real you eventually.
7. Confident
   Just as women love men who are confident, men equally are attracted to confident, self-assured women. Sure from time to time it might be cute for a woman to be shy, but not so shy that she cannot stand up to let people know what she thinks.

The kind of woman we find most attractive is the woman who is well rounded. If you are Ms. Universe and you have no brains, a good sense of humor, no sense of humor, etc, you will not be able to hold onto any man that comes you way. So, now you see that outer beauty is good to have, but your inner beauty is what will keep your man from leaving you.

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Sometimes, when age and time becomes your greatest enemy, you tend to become worrying. Such attitude started to make you acting desperate. Are you doom to become a bachelorette? What if you does not have the criteria of becoming one?

Are you desperately seeking Joe? Do know if men perceive you as being desperate? If you are not sure if you have any of the personality traits of a desperate woman, this article will help you quickly figure it out for yourself so that you do not end up wondering why so many men are leaving you.

When men attempt bold gestures, generally it’s considered romantic. When women do it, it’s often considered desperate or psycho.”

Here are 10 quick tell tale signs for a desperate woman:

• You meet a man that you remotely like, and you move very quickly to push the relationship in a more serious direction. You do things to let the man know that he is your man even before he makes up his mind to be your man.
• You have a tendency to give men that you date ultimatums about when they should give you an engagement ring, marry you, and give you babies. You even tell them how many you want, and what their names will be.
• You push the men you meet into introducing you to their family members and friends. And you want to be introduced as that special one that he will settle down with.
• You plan every single detail of your dates out without even asking the man what he would like to do and when he would like to do it. You just want him present and you take care of the rest.
• You tend to buy the affections of the men you date. You buy them expensive gifts to see if you could win them over.
• You always complain about not getting enough attention even when your friends don’t seem to understand why you are complaining.
• When a man tells you he does not want to date you anymore, you insist on trying to fix things when it is blatantly obvious that he has moved on and started a new relationship.
• You are hardly alone. You always want to be in a relationship. So when you break up with one man you quickly find another one because you need a man to make you feel complete.
• You hate to see your man hang out with his friends. You get very jealous and sometimes start fights just because you think that if he goes out with his friends he just might meet other women who will take your place.
• You hate to wait for men to approach you. You tend to make the first move. You feel that if you wait for men to approach you that you may end up waiting for a long time. Patience is just not one of your best attributes when it comes to dating.

Conclusion

There are lot of women out there whom has placed marriage and relationship after their career. Most of them does not see the importance of setting up a family of getting marriage until when they are lonely or wanted someone to love or care for her.

So started early in finding your life long partner, so you would not be acting desperate in future. A wrong decision is more fatal than being a bachelorette. For now, keep searching and good luck.

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Everyone told you he was the wrong guy for you, but you could not see it until after he dumped you. Is this what they called, love is blind? And has all flaws become beauty in the eyes of love? What is it that makes women fall in love with the wrong men?

Anyone could claim to be how strong they are when it comes to loves, but in actual facts, humans are very fragile and vulnerable to be hurt by loves. This is the way of life no matter who you are.

Love is not blind; it simply enables one to see things others fail to see.”

Here, we dissect the reasons why you might think Mr. Totally Wrong is the Right One for you.

Why Women Always Fall In Love With The Wrong Men

1. He says all the right things at the right time. It’s hard to think someone is a tug when they are telling you that you are pretty, and smart, and that they really like you. A smooth talker can make you believe that even your closest friends are wrong.
2. He does small things that make you think he cares. However, if you start to notice, these small gestures don’t really cost him very much.
3. He is a sex machine and can really fulfill you in bed. Yes, sometimes great sex is all it takes for a woman to keep a man that is not right for her.
4. He is handsome. You feel really good about being in the arm of a man who turns heads. Who does not want to have the hottest boyfriend around? But there is more to a relationship than looks.
5. You do not want to be the only single one in your group of friends. If everyone else is married or seeing someone, you don’t want to feel left out or be the third wheel.
6. Your friend set you up on a blind date, and now you feel like you owe it to them to keep dating him as you pity him too.
7. You are thirty (or some other magic age) and feel like it is time to settle down. Do not let age define you, and do not settle for someone just because you feel like you should be married.
8. You do not think anyone else is interested. Again, this is a very bad excuse for staying with someone. Do not let yourself fall for someone just because you do not think there is someone better out there.
9. Being with someone who is not quite right is better than being alone. Do not let yourself think this, you deserve to be with someone who makes you completely happy.
10. I can change him to be better! You really cannot change him even if you tried. Love someone as he is doesn’t mean that you have to accept all his abuse and flaws. If he is wrong for you, he is wrong for you. Move on before you find yourself so far into him that getting out simply becomes very difficult.

Love is a mysterious and especial thing. Words simply cannot define love and it always mean differently for all of us. Sometimes when we are so engrossed in love, it needs someone else to remind or instill some senses into us. After all, we can’t just fall in love blindly.

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There are so many things women do that make men jealous. If you are the type of woman that deliberately does things to make your man jealous in order to see if he will get jealous enough to do something that proves to you that he loves you, you may be setting your relationship up for failure.  So if you want to ensure that your man will not leave you for another woman because of how you make him feel, then avoid doing these twelve things:

Yet he was jealous, though he did not show it, For jealousy dislikes the world to know it.”

12 Things That You Might Not Realized Will Make Him Jealous

1. Kissing and hugging a male friend that he does not know a little too tightly when you are on a date with your man.
2. Forgetting to introduce your guy to a male friend that you have known for a long time.  Engaging in a lengthy conversation with him, giggling and laughing without bothering to introduce your guy as your boyfriend or fiancé.
3. Not saying very much to your guy when you are together, and then opening up and having a really long conversation and laughing when one of your friends calls you on the phone or comes over.
4. Saving your male friend’s photos on your computer’ desktop and not having a single one of your guy’s pictures on your computer.
5. Buying gifts for a male friend and not spending a dime on your guy.
6. Telling your man that you have known your male friend much longer than you have known him and acting as though your male friend is more valuable to you than your man.
7. Constantly communicating with a male friend via a social networking website like, Facebook, Myspace, or any of the other popular social networking sites.
8. Being affectionate with your friends and purposely withholding your affections from your man in order to make him jealous.
9. Accepting a phone call from a male friend or male co-worker very late at night and talking to your friend for a very long time.
10. Constantly talking about how a male co-worker is so nice, smart, handsome, or cool.
11. Hanging out with a male co-worker and coming home very late at night.
12. Going over a male co-worker’s home to do a project and not even asking your man if he wants to go with you.

If you engage in any of these behaviors you may be putting a wedge between yourself and your man.  Sure, from time to time it may be fine to do something just to see if your man will react in a way that shows that he does not want to share you with anyone, but the problem arises when you constantly engage in behavior that makes your man feel less than adequate.

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The female orgasm is the peak of a woman’s sexual arousal. It’s the involuntary rhythmic contracting of the lower pelvic muscles, and sometimes causes spasms in other parts of the body, such as the limbs. The female orgasm doesn’t normally produce any fluid like a man’s, but some women experience what is called “female ejaculation,” a gushing of fluid upon orgasm.

Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake whole relationships.”

The result of an orgasm is usually a feeling of relaxation, thought to be connected to the release of prolactin into the bloodstream. Oxytocin, another chemical released during arousal and orgasm, is thought to be responsible for pleasant feelings during and after sex, including the sense of feeling emotionally close to your partner. Scientists are trying to figure out if this chemical is responsible for human partnering habits.

A female orgasm is brought into being via sexual stimulation of some kind. A high percentage of women find it difficult to orgasm with penetration alone, and require clitoral stimulation. This specific stimulation can be achieved in many ways; for example, in the missionary position, the man’s pubic bone and hair may stimulate the clitoris enough to bring about an orgasm.

Every woman is unique in what brings her to orgasm though it hard sometimes to achieve that.

Female Orgasm Fact

Of 82% of women who said they masturbated in a survey conducted by Hite Research International, 95% could orgasm easily and regularly, whenever they wanted by themselves.

When it comes to the female orgasm, most guys are confused. This is understandable considering that many men are clueless regarding the different types of orgasms and stimulations that can be given, not to mention if a certain part of the vagina has to be manipulated in order to give a woman an earth-shattering orgasm.

Well, if you’re among the bewildered, have heart; today’s tip will help you understand the female genitalia and the female orgasm inside and out.

When a woman orgasms, regardless of which area of her body you’re manipulating, her body physically reacts in the same way. During an orgasm, she feels:

• stimulation in her clitoris
• her heart rate, blood pressure and breathing increase
• tension builds within her pelvis
• muscles contract throughout her body, especially in the vagina, uterus, rectum, and pelvic floor
• tension is released upon orgasm

Blue Clitoris
Believe it or not, it is possible for women to get what is often called “blue balls” in men. As you know by now, the clitoris and penis are remarkably similar after conception, but males go on to develop penises.

If a woman gets incredibly turned on, her clitoris, like the penis, becomes engorged with blood. If the blood isn’t released via orgasm, she will experience discomfort — just as men do.

So when you tease her, you build up awesome tension, and when she finally orgasms, it will be an explosion of release. Keep in mind, however, that roughly 26% of women have difficulty reaching orgasm. And usually, it’s her own mental block that keeps her from reaching orgasm — it’s not you.

Different Types
It was Sigmund Freud who first suggested that there were two types of female orgasm. However, sex researcher Alfred Kinsey refuted the claim and his view was that there is only one type of female orgasm.

Others sex experts claim that women can have three types of orgasm: clitoral, vaginal and blended. But considering the latter is literally the other two put together, I wouldn’t necessarily classify it as a type.
However, clinical studies prove that Kinsey was right. Most sexologists now agree that an orgasm is an orgasm, no matter what area of a woman’s genitalia or body is being stimulated.

Nonetheless, here are the two areas of a woman’s vagina that can lead to the most satisfying female orgasm:

Clitoris
The clitoris’ only function is to provide pleasure for women. Researchers have not been able to discover any other reason for its existence, which is fine by us. As well, keep in mind that, because the clitoris is much easier to find, female orgasm is usually achieved via clitoral stimulation.

Vagina
Inside the vagina, you can find the infamous G-spot, or the Grafenberg spot. The G-spot is located on the front wall (toward the navel) of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. Theory dictates that the G-spot can be either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland (or series of glands) that produces lubrication.

Usually, after one orgasm, guys need to rest (unless you’re one of those lucky guys who can achieve multiples), but it’s believed that women can experience three tempos of orgasm, which include the single orgasm, the serial multiple orgasm and the sequential multiple orgasm.

Single
With the single orgasm, a woman experiences one rush of pleasure. The orgasm can last anywhere from a few seconds to a minute.

Serial Multiple
Although most women claim that they cannot achieve this awesome ride, a multiple orgasm occurs when several orgasms are had in a row — that is, one directly after another.

Sequential Multiple
Sequential orgasms occur in a sequence that separates each orgasm by a few minutes or so. Many women describe it as a roller coaster ride.

How to give it to her
Though women might fake orgasm during intercourse as many women claim that reaching orgasm is more difficult via penetration than it is via stimulation of the clitoris. As well, when it comes to vaginal stimulation of any area, most women agree that fingers are the preferred tool.

Keep in mind that any type of sexual stimulation can lead a woman to orgasm. And although there are some women who can will themselves to orgasm without even being touched, it is rare.

Massage, foreplay, direct stimulation, and even talking can make a woman reach orgasm. Most women, however, find that direct stimulation of the clitoris is the easiest way for them to climax. So use your tongue, your fingers, even rub your penis against it, and she might climax.

Until next time, just keep on “googling” and practice. You’re bound to get it right somehow. Once you have mastered the art, you will be a very happy and busy man.

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