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	<title>Designing Intimacy</title>
	
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		<title>Once Upon A Time</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 06:46:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Once upon a time I was happy and in love and having lots of awesome sex.
Yeah, not so much anymore.
Perhaps I&#8217;ll write again one day.
Even if it ends up being that I write about the hard times (do people write much about that stuff?).
Until then&#8230;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Once upon a time I was happy and in love and having lots of awesome sex.</p>
<p>Yeah, not so much anymore.</p>
<p>Perhaps I&#8217;ll write again one day.</p>
<p>Even if it ends up being that I write about the hard times (do people write much about that stuff?).</p>
<p>Until then&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Change</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Jan 2009 05:52:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[politics]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Obama]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I sat today talking with my roommate and it dawned on me that we have a president now that isn&#8217;t an idiot.  We have a president that is actually intelligent and values intelligence.
He podcasts.
He has a BlackBerry.
He&#8217;s in touch.
Hot damn.
I think this year is going to be rough.  It&#8217;s going to be really rough.  There&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I sat today talking with my roommate and it dawned on me that we have a president now that isn&#8217;t an idiot.  We have a president that is actually intelligent and values intelligence.</p>
<p>He podcasts.</p>
<p>He has a BlackBerry.</p>
<p>He&#8217;s in touch.</p>
<p>Hot damn.</p>
<p>I think this year is going to be rough.  It&#8217;s going to be really rough.  There&#8217;s quite a mess Obama needs to clean up.  But I&#8217;m excited, and I&#8217;m going to stand by him even when the hard descision are made.</p>
<p>But hot damn I&#8217;m excited.</p>
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		<title>2 More Days!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Jan 2009 14:41:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[inauguration]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Match]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[MC Howie and Julie K]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ 
I&#8217;m heading down to DC this afternoon for the inauguration and I&#8217;m very excited I&#8217;m going to be there for such an amazing day in history.  Because not only is Bush gone, but Obama is in!! (and let&#8217;s all be honest, we wouldn&#8217;t be celebrating so much if McSame had been elected).
Plus I get [...]]]></description>
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<p>I&#8217;m heading down to DC this afternoon for the inauguration and I&#8217;m very excited I&#8217;m going to be there for such an amazing day in history.  Because not only is Bush gone, but Obama is in!! (and let&#8217;s all be honest, we wouldn&#8217;t be celebrating so much if McSame had been elected).</p>
<p>Plus I get to see Match and Desire so yay fun!  (Minus the funeral)</p>
<p>But damn I&#8217;m gonna miss my kitten while I&#8217;m gone!!  Sad face!!</p>
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		<title>I have the cutest kitten on all the interwebs</title>
		<link>http://designingintimacy.com/2009/01/i-have-the-cutest-kitten-on-all-the-interwebs.html</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Jan 2009 22:43:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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		<title>I Can’t Believe He’s Gone</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 13:20:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I just found out yesterday that a friend from high school died in Afghanistan this weekend while he was serving in the Marines.
It was this friend here, Dave.
I hadn&#8217;t really talked to him in awhile- he IMed me kinda recently I think and just said hi for a minute.
You never realize how much someone really [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just found out yesterday that a friend from high school died in Afghanistan this weekend while he was serving in the Marines.</p>
<p>It was this friend <a href="http://designingintimacy.com/2007/07/timing.html">here</a>, Dave.</p>
<p>I hadn&#8217;t really talked to him in awhile- he IMed me kinda recently I think and just said hi for a minute.</p>
<p>You never realize how much someone really meant to you until they&#8217;re gone, which is just a real shame.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll already be in DC next week so I&#8217;m able to get to the funeral.</p>
<p>My parents and I are all worked up crying and just remembering him.</p>
<p>I just can&#8217;t believe he&#8217;s gone.  And it&#8217;s so surreal saying &#8220;Dave&#8217;s Funeral.&#8221;  </p>
<p>Fuck Bush and fuck his war.</p>
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		<title>I did it!!!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 08:57:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I did it!!!!
I fixed my upgrade!!!
I sat down and finally took the time to figure it out and I did it!!
Not that I magically have anything to blog about, mind you.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I did it!!!!</p>
<p>I fixed my upgrade!!!</p>
<p>I sat down and finally took the time to figure it out and I did it!!</p>
<p>Not that I magically have anything to blog about, mind you.</p>
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		<title>Coming Home</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Jan 2009 06:55:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[That was far too short of a vacation.
I think this was the 1st time I really didn&#8217;t want to come home from a vacation.
I&#8217;m in the Tokyo airport as I write this.  I should be back in NJ in about 16 more hours.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That was far too short of a vacation.</p>
<p>I think this was the 1st time I really didn&#8217;t want to come home from a vacation.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m in the Tokyo airport as I write this.  I should be back in NJ in about 16 more hours.</p>
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		<title>My Genderlabel</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Jan 2009 18:03:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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Hello
My name is


Avah


My gender is


activist, adult, ally, animal lover, artsy, aunt, BD, BDSM, beautiful, bisexual, bondage, bottom, brunette, bubbly, caring, cat lover, chick, child, chubby, cisgender person, cisgender woman, complex, confused, cousin, creative, cuddly, curious, cute, Democrat, DS, daughter, dog lover, dork, drama queen, dreamer, dude, dudette, female, female-bodied, female-born, feminine, friend, gay-friendly, huggy, human, [...]]]></description>
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<p><span style="font-size: medium">My name is</span></td>
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		<title>Afterbite</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Dec 2008 09:07:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Avah</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[If I could, I&#8217;d bathe in Afterbite right now.  God damned mosquitos.
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		<title>Today’s Weather Forecast</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 05:16:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Temperature- 88 degrees, feels like 99 degrees.  70% humidity.
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