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		<title>So… You Like This Guy…but He’s Just Your Friend.</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 18:17:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>peter white</dc:creator>
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		<description>That means about 29% of all searches made to my page are from curious women, asking, what in essence the title of this post. "So... You Like This Guy...and He's Just Your Friend."

I recently wrote an article for women, Ten Secrets to Break a Guys Heart, and I feel you will find, contained with the absurdity of the list, is a stripped down version of what men are attracted to.

    Ten Secrets on How to Break a Guy's Heart.

    1.) Shower him with attention and then suddenly take it away.

    2.) Let him know how much you enjoy listening to him speak about his life, and then stop asking about it.

    3.) Be his lover. Be his friend. Pull back sexually and then... just be his friend.

    4.) Agree to being in a committed relationship with him but then get scared and act fearfully.

    5.) Shower him with affection and gifts the last day you plan on seeing him as a lover.

    6.) Tell him you don't believe that he will miss you or you can not understand why he even would.

    7.) Always widen your eyes and give him a big smile when it has been some time since you last saw each other. Then turn that smile to a frown and a look of being unsure about where the relationship is going.

    8.) Tell him how much you care about him but that you don't believe in love.

    9.) Enjoy wild nights of sexual gratification and be open in bed to exploration of each others desires. But then let him believe you are not good enough for him.

    10.) Be sweet. Be fun. Be caring. Be sexy...

    Be loving. Be supportive. Be daring. Be "sexty"....

    And then one day, just stop being there.
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		<title>How Come We Never Dated?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 06:16:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>peter white</dc:creator>
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		<description>Quick jump to a decade later...

I saw her profile thrown up online. She was looking for dates online. She was still single with no kids and still looked incredible!

So I wrote her with a funny story and updated her on the status of our mutual friend. She never wrote me back. I wasn't surprised at all.

Flashback to our meeting ten years earlier...
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		<title>First Date Advice. Who’s More Nervous, you or Him? Part 2. Will She See Him Again?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 05:06:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>peter white</dc:creator>
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		<description>As you might have guessed it during part one of this. The woman I spoke of called me to fill me in on the details and I'm going to share them with you as we go along and my opinions, of course. Then I will tell you what actually happened between them. Onto to the question I left off with in part one:

Will she see him again?
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		<title>10) Are You A Passionate Person?</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 17:37:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>peter white</dc:creator>
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		<description>I was at college majoring in music. And yet, music was my passion. I met this girl. A cute blond. She represented my most sought out physical features in a woman. Blond. Full lips. Blue eyes. Perfect ass. Sounds wonderful huh? But her personality wasn't all that good. Sure she was a little fun being around. Sure we shared a love of music, she also majored in music; yet when I think about it now...

That was it.

Everything else just didn't match up. I was a hippie and into the artistic social scenes. She was a "Jockette" and into basketball players.
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		<title>Understanding Why Nice Guys Fail With Women?</title>
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		<comments>http://www.dialteg.com/nice-guys-fail-women/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 10:47:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>peter white</dc:creator>
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		<description>The nice guy that learns how to attract is far more successful than the typical jerk that does not understand why he gets laid.

Go ahead and ask any woman you see and she will agree with me. If she doesn't, I want to hear about it and I want to hear the reasons why. If she does not agree and acts stubborn about it then you also have one less woman to concern yourself over building an attraction towards you. So stay away from her. her life probably centers around jealousy and mind games in a childish attempt to control men anyways.
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