Most girls get very nervous at the thought of giving their boyfriend “head” and in result, they over think things. They focus so much on making sure they do things they’ve heard to be “right”, that they forget to enjoy themselves and to just follow the signs your boyfriend gives you. Right off the bat, your boyfriend will let you know whether he’s enjoying what you’re doing or not. Listen to his moans, or feel how his body moves with or against you. There are clear signs to whether or not he’s in ecstasy or very bored.

My first blowjob was extremely nerve-racking. I was too worried about doing what I thought a blowjob consisted of (sucking on his penis), that I completely neglected the rest of his body, I didn’t enjoy myself at all, and I had no idea how important it was to not use your teeth. Needless to say, it was a disaster. It wasn’t until I got with my current boyfriend that I finally realized how much fun giving a blowjob can be and finally mastered the skill. It can be so empowering to see your partner’s face of complete pleasure right as he orgasms. You will feel like superwoman.

Clearly I had to learn a lot to get to the point where I feel like I’ve mastered the blowjob. It’s shocking how easy it can be to master, if you really have the desire to please your boyfriend through oral sex. There are some things you need to know NOT to do before I can list tips on how to make it an amazing experience for both you and your partner:

Do NOT use your teeth! – Teeth are a big NO when giving a blowjob. Men fear women who bite at their penis, it’s not sexy it’s painful! The way I learned to ensure that your teeth never come in contact with his penis is to fold your lips over them slightly and make sure you don’t rub the penis against them. By wetting your lips and making sure they fold over your teeth, you can ensure that they won’t get in the way of your blowjob while also allowing your wet lips to be the first thing that touches his penis.

Do NOT just hold your mouth open! – Part of the joy in receiving oral sex is knowing that your partner is enjoying pleasing you. Do not just wrap your mouth around his penis and suck. This is both boring and not exciting; your partner does not just want you to do it because he asks you to, but because you want to please him as well.

Now that you know what NOT to do, I can give you some things that you CAN do to make the experience unforgettable. These things I learned through experience and worked like a charm with my boyfriend.

The penis is overall very sensitive, but the most sensitive spot for most men is the head of the penis. This is then the area you want to focus on the most while performing oral sex. There are various things you can do to the head that will blow your man’s mind .

Swirl your tongue around the head of the penis slowly. Remember to hide your teeth behind your lips and make sure that your lips and mouth are very wet. You can make things better by changing the speed in which you do this and the direction on which you swirl your tongue.

Tap your tongue against the head of his penis or under the crown of the penis. Change where and how fast you tap your tongue.
Suck lightly on the head of the penis. Like everything, mix things up with speed and force of sucking. Don’t suck to hard as it can be sometimes painful.
Lick the around and on the head. Imagine his penis is a lollipop and enjoy

Now the there is more to a penis and there are other things, that when mixed with head-focused techniques will add up to an amazing blowjob.
Make sure you wet the penis with your mouth and saliva. A dry blowjob is not good. If you have to build up some spit in your mouth before giving head this is better than being completely dry.

Step 1) Use your hands!

Make a fist with your hand and push his penis through. When his head breaks through the fist put it straight in your mouth. This gives a similar feeling to entering a vagina.  To make it even more interesting use both hands doing the same thing but instead of putting your mouth after the first fist, do it after the second and mix up the speed.

Make a ring with your thumb and pointer finger and place it snug on the base of the penis. This allows you to control when he cum’s by adding more pressure while also allowing you to keep the penis steady. Massage his inner thighs, hold his hands, run your nails lightly over his back, naval or thighs to make him shudder with pleasure while also making a more intimate connection with your partner.

Step 2) Make Eye Contact!

If you look up occasionally at your partner with “smiling” eyes (maybe even smile yourself) showing that you’re both aware of him and love what you’re doing, it will make your partner feel amazing, and thus make the blowjob better!

Step 3) Use “Head Shake”

This is a trick I taught myself that my boyfriend loves. Push his penis slowly into your mouth and as you pull it back out shake your head from side to side so that every part of your lips and tongue touch him at some point while pulling out. If you’ve mastered making sure your teeth are not touching, you can do this fast and it will lead to a lot of pleasure and a lot of fun. J Be careful though because teeth can be a big issue with this trick.

Step 4) Use “Figure Eights”

While his penis is in your mouth draw an imaginary figure eight with your nose. This will move the penis in your mouth allowing for your lips to really massage the head or shaft (depending on how deep the penis is). Make sure to use your tongue during this as well for added pleasure.

Step 5) Use “Bottom’s Up!”

Start from the base of the penis and lick from the base to the head slowly. Really act like you are savoring each lick. As you reach the head, look up at him, smile, and flick the head of the penis with your tongue as you finish the long lick. This will drive your boyfriend wild especially if you’re used to not making eye contact at all.  These are just some steps I hope can really help women bring they’re blowjobs to the next level as it has to mine.

I discovered all of these tips through just asking questions like “do you like this baby?” during oral sex. Or “do you like it when I do this baby?” If you’re unsure about what to do, don’t be afraid of asking him these questions. Act like you know what you’re doing and just follow his body signs. He will moan or breathe heavier when he likes what you’re doing, or might even just tell you how amazing it feels. As long as you enjoy yourself and keep in mind what NOT to do, you can mix up the tips I gave and be sure that you’ll give an amazing blowjob.

The more you do it, the better you get. These are one of those things where practice makes perfect and you can always learn ways to improve or change things up! I hope you enjoyed my tips and I wish you the best!

Love,

Bella

P.S. I found this particular guide really useful to learn this stuff fast: Click Here To Learn How To Give Better Head

Luckily for me, time apart can also mean time”together”, if you know what I mean.

Here, I wrote about it in my Dirty Diary…

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Dear Diary,

It was a rainy Thursday night and I’ve been traveling on business for the last month and a half.  Another day, another hotel room…all by myself.

I check in to the Hilton where my travel agency had set me up for the next few days.  It’s a nice place with a great restaurant and one of those pools that seem to wrap around the entire place.

Ya, whatever.  Its still not home.

Its hard to keep at this so often…especially with my wife back at home all by herself.  I love her to death and hate the fact that every time I go out on these long ventures I can’t be with her.

Even more I hate how horny I get all by myself.  I’m a faithful guy, but when you don’t get laid for a while your mind starts racing…all of a sudden the stewardess starts looking hotter then usual and I have to snap out of it.

She’s nothing compared to my wife…but a man’s sexual needs can be overwhelming at times.  And it really doesn’t hurt to look.

Anyways, I check into my room, strip off my suit and toss it across the tacky chair next to the “welcome” brochure the maid left this morning.  My t-shirt and socks to follow.

In nothing but my boxer briefs and a watch on, I lay down on the kingsized fluffy bed with some sort of Italian satin sheets tightly tucked across.  A long sigh of relief comes rushing out of my lungs to greet the evening of mundane relaxation and uneventful bordem.

Or so I thought.

Suddenly my phone rings.  Its my wife calling from her cell phone.

Weird…its like 2 AM at home and she should usually be sleeping by now.

“Hello?“  I answer with a slight bit of surprise in my voice.

“Hey baby, Its me”

Interesting.  She sounded a bit different.  Her voice spoke with a lower tone then usual…hinting with a bit of raspy smoothness.

“Hey babe…I’m surprised you’re calling me this late.  Isn’t it like2 AM over there?”

“Yeah…but I’m not really tired right now.  I’ve just been thinking a lot tonight….”

A sly smile beamed across my face as I realized that she was obviously in the mood for something…other then her usual “book reading before bed” routine that I’ve gotten used to over time.

“Yeah?  What have you been thinking about?”

She didn’t answer my question.  Instead, she asked her own.

“What are you doing right now?”

Ahhh…I see where this is going.  My hand gently glided down from my chest to the growing bulge in my boxer briefs.  As I shifted into a

more “comfortable” position, I began to reply.

“Oh nothing…just lying here on my bed…all by myself”

There was a growing tension on the phone line that seemed to thicken slowly as the vibe began to build.

“Mmmm…Me too.  I’ve been thinking about you all night…just lying here in that pink nighty you bought me on valentines day”

Oh damn.  How could I forget that one?  Instantly, I pictured her wearing the sexy silk lingerie I hand picked for her on my trip to France last year.  Just remembering what she did to me the last time she wore that sent an electric sensation shooting down my legs and back up through my thighs.

“Oh hell yeah…I bet you look hot as fuck wearing that thing.  I wish I could see it right now”

“Mmmm I wish you could too baby.  Especially with my freshly shaven pussy underneath it.  But since your not here, I’ll have to touch it for you”

My jaw hit the floor as I almost dropped the phone out of my hand. At this point, I couldn’t help but to start stroking the throbbing, rock-hard cock that was literally poking a hole through my boxers.

“Fuck ya…I guess I’ll have to do the same”

“Yeah baby…god I’m so wet right now thinking about your hard cock inside of me”

Jesus fucking Christ.  Where did this come from?

In a zombie like trance I began to stroke my throbbing cock up and down, unable to control myself.  5 minutes ago I was ready to watch TV until I passed out from boredom, but now I find myself fully captivated by an animalistic passion I never knew could exist over the phone.

“Yeah baby my cock is so hard for you right now…I’m jerking it for you baby I want it so bad”

I had no idea what came over me.  I hardly ever talk like this, but she made it feel so natural for me that I couldn’t hold back.

“Ohhhh yeah fuck baby my pussy needs your cock right now.  I want you to bend me over the counter and ravage me like an animal.  I

want it baby!! Give it to me!”

Her voice began to get louder as her breathing became heavier.  All I could think about was the image of her rubbing her swollen little clit and finger her pussy on our bed.  I began to jerk my cockharder and harder.

For the next few minutes all we did was moan into the phone, getting off on each others sounds.  A combination of heavy breathing, primal groaning, and the occasional “yeah” muttered in a whispering tone consumed my being as I felt my orgasm begin to build.

Her escalating screams of passion blossomed as she began to climax.

“I’m coming for you baby!  I’m coooommmmiiiinnnngggggg…..”

We came together exchanging sexual groans that probably woke the neighbors.  I blew my load all over my stomach…not thinking twice about “making a mess” or acting “inappropriate” for a second.

All I cared about was the eruption of passion I was experiencing, sucked into the moment with my wife who I never expected would bring me to such an intense state…especially so many miles away.

My mind was completely blank for the first time in weeks. The only thing I could bring my awe-struck self to say was…

“Wow”

“Did you have fun baby?” she asked with a post-sex glowing charm.

“Yeah…defiantly.  Where did you learn to do that?”

“Oh…I have my secrets” she replied, clearly keeping a mysterious overtone to the whole situation…which was all I needed to hear.

We chatted a bit, mostly babbling about nonsense and enjoying the hottest phone sex either one of us have ever had in our lives.  At some point I fell asleep on the phone with her, wanting to savor every moment I could and bask in our sexual glory.

The next morning I woke up to my cell phone laying on the pillow next to me…causing an ear-to-ear grin across my face.  One hell

of a way to start the day.

Needless to say, I’m not having that “problem” I had before.

Flight attendants are just flight attendants once again, and there’s absolutely no temptation coming from any angle.

I mean, even if there was I would probably not be able to see it.

All I could think about was the ultra-passionate night of lusty phone sex and what I was going to do to my wife when I got home.

But then again,  I wouldn’t be surprised if she decided to give me another “late night call” while I’m still on the road.

Lord only knows I’ll be waiting for it.

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Well there you have it.  This particular edition was centered around phone sex (obviously lol) and there are defiantly some very important key points to consider (and learn) from this edition.

Let me know if you can’t find them!

Leave a comment below while you’re still here.   I want to hear everything about you and how I can help you learn this skill set.

(The more you tell me, the more I can help give you the answers you are looking for!)

Well that about does it for me today, its been a long and “eventful” trip ;-P

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

Sure, why not

Today we reach into the Dirty Dialogue mailbag and pull out a couple of questions from our readers.  How much fun is THAT?!

Looks like some girls had questions about my good ol’ Dirty Diary…

Lets go over it, shall we?

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“I read the first Dirty Diary you sent!  It was good, but I don’t know if I got the message behind it.

I understand that she wanted to have sex that night and he didn’t know it was gonna happen and that she new what to say and do to get him in the mood and that she got him turned on enough to make it last until they both couldn’t do it anymore.

Was there more to it than that?”

-Ashley

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Well Ashley, You’re most certainly on the right track.

There is one key element that you missed.  This element is so subtle that its no surprise that it may have been overlooked.

But don’t worry, you’re not alone.  (The story was designed to leave you guessing).

The subtlety here is one that exposes a universal trait amongst men.  Its something that, no matter what kind of man he is or what he finds “physically” attractive, will hit him at his most primal core.

Now, if you notice the theme of this story, the boyfriend is the kind of guy who likes to be in control (as most men do).  He expected the same ol’ thing from his girlfriend.

(This is VERY common amongst couples in relationships…you know, slipping into routine patterns and falling into mundane expectations of each other.)(This also kills sexual attraction at a deep level.  Nothing routine is exciting.  Ever.  In fact, the “Spark” that we all try so desperately to keep alive is born of pure spontaneity and discovering new things.  Routine = boring = not sexy).

But this time, she broke the mold.

Not only did she “break” the mold, but she INSTIGATED something new an exciting (in herself of course) which he instantly picked up

on…before any words what so ever.

Notice how in the car she took control of the situation.  She OWNED the interaction.  And she did this by INSTIGATING the vibe and

taking things sexual quickly (hence grabbing his cock and whispering in his ear).

The result?  He felt enslaved by her primal feminine desires…which ignited his deep, lustful craving to ravage her as soon as humanly

possible.

Here’s the bottom line:  Instigating (i.e. Stepping up and taking control, without any fear of judgment, pain or embarrassment…the

subtlety in question) displays an undeniable surge of confidence that no man can resist.

This requires 2 things.

We call these “Inner” and “Outer” Game.

Inner Game consists of a solid core sexual confidence that exists outside of social conditioning (i.e. everything you’ve been told is

right or wrong your entire life…especially focusing on what you “should” and “shouldn’t” do sexually out of fear of judgment by

others).

Inner game comes from knowing exactly what it is you want, but its easier said then done.  Building up this core confidence is not an

overnight process.  Its all internal, and all takes time.

Outer Game, on the other hand, are the things you can do and say RIGHT AWAY to get the results you are looking for.  These are the

answers to the “What do I say?” questions I hear all the time.

Outer Game is actually a skill set you can learn and apply instantly.  But its by no means “good” enough by itself.

Using lines and tactics will give you short term results, but building that inner feminine core confidence is what really matters

in the long run.  This is done by using “Outer Game” tactics as training wheels to build comfort and confidence through repetitive

action.

Ok, next caller!

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“My man knows how to talk dirty to me and he’s great a phone sex. He asked me to participate and he wanted me to talk about sucking his penis.I have to admit that I was scared and plus I got stuck with the scenario.

I need your help because I’m not sure what to say and I don’t want to sound stupid because I think he’ll pick on me later about it. I do

have an imagination but I’m not sure what I should say in refers to sucking his penis, especially what to call it.  What should I say?”

-Wanda

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Hey Wanda, thanks for your question…believe it or not, this question is VERY important.

Its extremely common to be at a lack for words when talking dirty.

Especially if you are a bit intimidated by your mans obvious mastery of the “dirty talk” language.

But here’s the thing:  Every man is different.

You see, Wanda, you are actually in a great situation.  You’re man is already participating in dirty talk.  He’s the one instigating

it over the phone.

Imagine if he wasn’t?  Imagine if he said he wanted you to talk dirty to him WITHOUT starting it up himself?  That would be much

more intimidating, wouldn’t it?

Instead, he’s already given you all the clues you need to step up and say all the naughty things he’d like you to say.

This is important:  Since every man is different, every man wants to hear something different.

Men (just like women) have different triggers that set them off.

Some men would like you to call his penis a “cock” while others would want to hear you call it his “dick” or “shaft.”

Saying the wrong thing could be a serious turn off.

But lucky for you, he’s already told you!

What word does he use to refer to his penis?  What does he say to YOU?

Does he use the word Cock?  Dick? Shaft? Etc Ect?

Whatever word he uses to refer to his own penis is the exact word you must use when referring to his penis yourself.  Your man has stepped up and taken control of the interaction (as most men do) which makes it much easier for you to play along.

(As opposed to instigating it yourself as in the story above.  THAT is where the long road of practice and experience truly pays off on

your end.  However, getting to that point on your own is not an easy task.  That’s why I’m here to help you).

But for the time being, consider yourself a step ahead of the rest.

Mirror the language he uses and say it back to him.

Let him lead and play along.  That’s what he wants right now, and that’s all he expects.  Once you really start the “Dirty Dialogue” things will snowball into an even hotter, more intimate experience that will take your relationship to new heights.

As for “what to say” in reference to giving him a blowjob, simply provide a commentary for what you *want* to do to him, step by step.

Phone sex is all about painting a pleasing picture in your man’s mind for him to visualize while he’s masturbating.  The more detailed you

make it, the easier it will be for him to play the mental movie in his mind, letting his imagination do all the work for you.

Start off by saying “I want to” and start describing what it is you want to do as if you were actually doing it.  You can also ask him

“You like when I ___?” which will always get a positive response, especially if you already know that he likes it!

The same goes for “You want me to ___?” if you already know that he wants you to do it.  Its a win/win that can’t lose.

But what are you doing?  Are you licking? kissing? sucking?swallowing?  And if you are, what part are you doing it to?

His head?  His shaft?  The tip?  Be specific with what it is you are describing to him, he’ll go nuts lol that’s just the way men work

If you REALLY want to get insanely good at phone sex in a very short amount of time, pick up a copy of my new ebook and the 3 bonuses:

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Go get him girl!

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Wanda brings up an excellent point that I would like to share with you.

It’s one thing to look for “Dirty Talk Lines” or examples of talking dirty that other people have used and been successful with, but its

another thing to know exactly what it is your man wants to hear.

To REALLY get him going, you must know what words turn HIM on.

Flipping the right switches can turn him on faster then a light bulb.  Its up to you to discover what those switches are.

Fortunately, I have a really good friend who is working on an easy way to do this, right now.  This is a friend with 2 PhD’s and is a

full time sexuality coach who has changed the lives of thousands of people across the globe.

But more on that next time.  Right now its time for me to sign off.

But before I go, I would love to ask you something.  Think of the one person you feel could benefit the most out of what you learned

today and picture them in your mind.  This is the girl who you KNOW is on the same path as you are in developing your sexuality to the

upmost and fullest extent.

Got it?

Awesome.  Now, if you feel you DID learn something today, or that there is something THEY could learn from it, please share your comment
below and post this blog to your favorite social network site!

I’m sure she’d appreciate it

Thank you SO MUCH for spreading the word and sharing what we have going on here.  I hope you and her both enjoy this as much as I love to write it.

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

But I’m going to tell you anyway.

The confession is that I’ve been working around the clock to get to the very bottom of this whole “how to talk dirty” thing.

Seriously, for MONTHS I’ve even found myself putting off other responsibilities to do research on the topic.  I’ve talk to as many people as I can about it and ask more questions then your average news reporter chasing a hot lead.

It’s become a bit of an “obsession” for me.

“But why?” you may ask…

(I know, its kind of a strange obsession to have…but there IS a reason).

And I’ll explain that reason by telling you a little bit about who I am and what brought me here.

First of all…I’m a guy.  This might shock you, or it may not. Either way, you have every right to wonder what I’m doing researching and writing articles for girls and giving advice about talking dirty to men.

Doesn’t really make sense off the bat…

But I’m not a normal guy (by any means)(and no…I’m not gay if that’s what you’re thinking ;-P)

I’ve had multiple long term relationships over the course of my life which all shared a common theme.

That theme was “sexual exploration.”

Each girlfriend I had was at a stage in her evolution where she was just coming to terms with her own sexuality.  Oddly enough, I seemed to attract girls who were seeking help setting themselves free.

Each girl was totally different…but each shared the same sexual stifling.  Each time I was able to pull the “freak” out of all of them.

I never knew how exactly…I just had a way of helping them realize it was “ok” to do, say, and act any way they wanted with me in bed.

And I learned a lot about myself in the process.

And it always started with “talking dirty” one way or another.  We would always find ourselves talking about our deepest, inner most fantasies and sharing our most secret desires.

But I NEVER thought anything of it.

Then, two things happened:

1)    I fell in love with a girl…who turned out to be the biggest sexual “challenge” I’ve ever had in my life.  (Which is great…I love a challenge.  Especially when it involves helping someone I love overcome their difficulties and grow in the long term)

And

2)    I started a new career  working for a self development company…helping guys find the core confidence they need to become naturally attractive men.

Let me show you how it all ties together.

As I started looking at potential problems out there (that people were searching for answers to) I discovered that “How to talk dirty” was a VERY popular search online…and that there was a growing demand for answers that crack the code of this sexual anomaly.

I had also just gotten back into the mind-set of “sexual exploration” and “sexual development” with the girl who I will graciously proclaim as the love of my life.

So I put 2 and 2 together.

Now I find myself learning more and more about the subject every single day.  But I’m not content with just writing a few articles and giving simple ideas.

I decided to write my very own eBook on the topic.  And its an eBook that approaches the subject like nothing else out there…by tapping into the primal triggers of a mans core sexuality and giving you the tools necessary to uncovering exactly what your man (specifically) wants to hear you say.

(Like I said…completely different angle then “here’s a bunch of lines that may or may not work”)

And it’s been a long, hard road…

…interviewing MULTIPLE women about this stuff from all walks of life…

…getting over 300 respondants on our survey and analyzing their own problems in chilling detail…

…and, of course, experimenting with ALL of this stuff my own personal relationship ;-P

Not to mention, the women i’ve met who take this stuff seriously are some of the most interesting human beings i’ve ever known.  The stories they tell, the feedback they give (and the dirty little tricks they keep up their sleves) are worth their weight in gold.

I’m truly blessed to be at the center of such life-changing insight.

Thats why I offer my new ebook risk-free for 2 whole months, because it’s the real deal- THATS how confident I am (in both of us).

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But one more thing…

I ask you one question, and from that one question I know I can get you the answers you are looking for.

The question is this:

What was the driving force that motivated you to sit down to your computer and search for ways to learn how to talk dirty to your partner?  What’s the REAL reason you are here?  Why do you want to learn how to talk dirty?

(ok… that was 3 questions lol but you get the idea, right?)

Here’s an example:

I asked a close girlfriend of mine the same question and she told me:

“Because I want to sexually satisfy my boyfriend the best I can”

But this answer is just a MEANS to an end.  I followed up by asking her “Why do you want to sexually satisfy your boyfriend?” and she was taken back a bit.

(Ultimately the REAL reason was that she wanted to feel like the ultimate object of his desire…never giving him a chance to want to cheat on her…so she would feel secure).

As you can see…the REAL answer was far deeper then her first thought.

Now…I ask you the very same question.  I want to get to know what is making you want to master this part of your life…and ultimately find you the answer you can apply instantly.

(And I promise to do it too.  I have an overwhelming sense of duty here that I can’t quite explain in words.)

Do me a favor and take 5 minutes of your time to write out the answer as a comment to this blog post  when you’re done reading (and its fresh on your mind).

Your feedback means the world to me.

(Also, if you can include such things as your age, relationship status (i.e. duration, commitment, etc) and anything else that can help me learn more about your unique situation, I would more then appreciate it.)

Anyways, I know I’ve written a lot here and I thank you for sticking through it all.  I hope we can work together to find the answers to all of your questions…and really get your sexual communication blasted to new levels.

Thanks in advance for your thoughtful reply

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

And I got the #1 Rule you MUST obey in order to talk dirty from the core of your being (read: the REAL dirty talk your man really wants to hear…)

Know what it is?

Stop thinking. That is the number one rule for today.  Talking and thinking are easily intertwined and can ruin
 one another.

Let me explain.

Have you ever heard the term “think before you speak?”  Of course, we all have. We were all taught that at a very young age.  That we should “think” before We communicate 
our thoughts.

We are told that our thoughts may not be “appropriate” and should be filtered by our minds.

Sure, that works.  In grammar school.

But sex is obviously not grammar.

Society tells us that we should act a certain way, behave within certain boundaries, and portray ourselves by means of filling the mold that has been created for us.
This is called “Social Conditioning.”

Social conditioning tells women that being sexual is wrong.  Ever since the dawn of man, the female sex drive has been under scrutiny, ranging from every culture in the world to every religion in history.

Social conditioning tells us that women who love sex have labels.  They use such labels as “whore” or “slut” to define a “promiscuous woman” and judge them till no end.
Just for acting on their sexual impulses…or even acknowledging that it exists.

(Note:  The word “whore” in old English actually translates to “desire.”  Go figure.)

With all of this nonsense being pounded into your brain your entire life, it is very easy to believe the story it tells.

Obviously, this leads to the “thoughts” before “speaking” to be heavily skewed in favor of what NOT to say…out of fear of judgment, embarrassment and pain.
You know that little voice in your head that says “No!  You can’t say that!” then creates a laundry list of reasons to justify it?  You know that weird angst in your gut you feel when wanting to tell him whats REALLY on your mind?

THAT is what I’m talking about here.  THAT is social conditioning at its finest.  Programming your mind with what NOT to do.

Are you with me?

Clearly, this “no” voice is stifling your sex drive and ruining your chance at fully expressing your sexuality.  Its stopping you from saying all the dirty little things you want to do to your man…and especially the dirty things you want HIM to do to YOU.

Stop!

Don’t think.  That is the goal for tonight.  When things start heating up with your lover tonight and you want to talk dirty… but that little “no” voice acts up…SAY IT IMMEDIATELY.

No hesitation.  Speak before it convinces you not to.  You’ll be surprised how liberating it is.

Now, instead of giving you a million and one “dirty things to say” right off the bat, I am giving you all the tools you need to elevate your sexuality from the very core of your being.  This is a fun and exciting process that you will enjoy.

But, if you really want to get a jump start on things (especially  tackling the whole “social conditioning” issue) then I have just the thing for you.
I actually wrote an entire chapter in my new eBook “Dirty Dialogue:  A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad” that rips apart social conditioning…

…explains what’s *really* going on (and how they’ve programmed you to NOT talk dirty)…

…and exactly how to use this all as leverage to fearlessly unleash any sliver of repressed sexuality you have, and deliver super-hot dirty talk almost instantly!

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Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

“I wanna f*ck you like an animal…” ~Nine Inch Nails

Hey there lover butt, so nice to see you again

Have you ever written a love letter to your man?  More specifically…laid out an entire fantasy for him in print?

It’s pretty sweet to get as a man.  It really communicates the right things…

…openness and excitement…

…as sassy and adventurous attitude…

…and how hot you REALLY are deep inside.

With that being said – I wanted to share with you something that a friend of mine sent my way.

And yes, it’s a fantasy she had YEARS ago that she saved to this very day.  Down and dirty.

Hopefully, this will give you some inspiration – and there’s a little surprise at the end waiting for ya

Take a look…

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We’re always in a cozy little cabin, it’s the beginning of autumn, and it is always imperative that there is a large, maplewood dresser across from the queen size bed, fully equipped with an immaculately preserved antique mirror.

We’ve exchanged our comfortable conversation, albeit not necessarily casual, settled into friendly mental and emotional proximity, drank enough spirits to heighten the awareness of our own, and pretended thoroughly to ignore the magnitude of the bow we had begun to untie on the belated gift that would become this evening.

But it has become, and I’m wearing that white dress you enjoy so much, modest to the knee, plunging and strained at the inproprietous neckline and that is exactly where your lazy eyes have fallen this evening as you sit against the headboard of the bed, fully clothed minus the obstruction of your shoes and socks, and I lie against you, just as lackadaisical in my demeanor, ego satisfied generously as I watch your gaze run down my neck, into the fullness of my breasts this evening.

I am fond of the location of the dresser, just opposite of the bed, as I have always had an affinity for watching and being watched. And for the time being, I am content to relish the tingle of your breath on the nape of my neck, your hands just so on my arms, the rise of your brow as my hips rotate in an attempt to slowly, methodically separate my smooth and shapely legs to begin a very deliberately and intimately planned night of passion.

I can’t tell, but I think you’re relieved that I have taken the role of ring leader this eve and I’m certain you are content to follow wherever it is–however it is–we are traveling together.

Just in case there is any question remaining as to whether my current position on the bed is just a state of comfort or a play to kick start and kindle a new brand of lust I delicately, almost daintily, pull the hem of my dress up my thigh to fully expose a white lace triangle of cloth, held into precise position by a slim highway of satin string. I know you see what I see and hope you stare as my fantasies are coming into play: the bulge of arousal, thin and sensual cloth pulled tightly against feminine hips and the plump outline of flesh that has already begun to tingle without a touch.

“Just touch me, kiss my neck, watch me…for a while. Enjoy me for a while,” I whisper to your reflection in the mirror as my hand slips down to sample the sensitive and slippery skin underneath.

You’re aware of the sensitivity of my neck, how I like being bitten there and have no qualms about being marked by you, as I have discarded any notions of belonging to any other man. I love that you know those spots, how to touch them, how to place your mouth against me and the way you use your hands without requiring they contact forbidden places.

I want to speed up my pace. I’m excited, I’m pulsating, and I can feel your arousal behind me. You’re holding my left hand tight and your right hand is moving my hair, stroking me. The way your eyes move from the green of mine in our living portrait in the dresser, down my body, up again…traveling and returning, lest you forget somehow…

I know you can smell me, feel my heat. I release your hand from mine and move down to where my fingers are probing and massaging hungry flesh and pull the crotch of my panties aside to reveal my nakedness to you…..

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Notice something?

ITS NOT DONE!

No.  She specifically never finished it for her own reasons, and one of those reasons is having someone write the rest of the tune out for her.

So what do you say?

I propose a contest

Reply to this blog post with your OWN ending to this fantasy and I’ll have my panel of judges look it over and pick the best one.

And, the BEST one gets a FREE copy of my ebook “Dirty Dialogue:  A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad” by this Friday, Feb 12th.  That way you can use some of the instantly valuable nuggets of juicy dirty talk delight on your man this weekend.

What do ya say?  I can’t wait to see what you come up with ;-P

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

Howdy,

You know, things between a man and a woman can be really intense sometimes.  I would know, my relationships have been so intense that I couldn’t possibly imagine it any other way.

There’s good intensity, and bad intensity.  Both can shock your emotions with massive spikes of feelings that leave a lasting impression on you and your partner.

Good intensity is the best, of course.  It’s the most positive.  It’s when someone takes it upon themselves to step-up and be PRO ACTIVE to cause a major blast of positive intensity in their sex life.

Meet Gina, an 18 year old girl with more sexual motivation than I’ve ever seen in my life.  And, for all the right reasons.

Gina came to me asking for help to master the last part of her sexual self conquest – dirty talk.  She’s with the same man who she gave her virginity to and wanted to plan something “special” for her experience with him.

Her story was so compelling that I just had to get involved.  The following is the first part of our conversation:

Hey it’s Gina,

You told me to take five minutes to answer why I took the time out, and want to know how to “talk dirty” to my boyfriend. And well I have to admit that the first answer was so I can please him fully, but then I was wondering why I wanted to do that.

I got another answer. I think that in knowing I am pleasing him I would feel both empowered and sexy. The thought that I can blow him out of his mind is so tempting and amazing and I would love to know how. I want him to when he’s surrounded by pretty girls, look at them knowing none of them can please him the way I can.

Right now he’s 19 and in college and I’m just starting college next year, I’m 18. We’ve been together for 10months now  and have been through our share of ups and downs. I plan on staying with him for a while and I could honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He says he’s wants to marry me and although i am far from having marriage even cross my mind, I do want to stay with him & pleasing him in bed is important to me. He was my first (I was a virgin when we got together) so naturally it took a while for me to feel confident and in control while we had sex.

Even still, I have a lot to learn. I think I have fully mastered a lot of what your books have taught me. I learned how to tease him and give him chills. I learned how to give a good lap dance and have him beg for me. I’ve even mastered oral sex. It’s the “dirty talk” that I have to master next. I feel that it would really take things to the next level.

I am Colombian and he is American. He gets a kick when I speak to him in spanish during sex. He also loves when I call him “daddy” or “papi” during sex. I feel like I’m just steps away from mastering “dirty talk”, but I  don’t know the words to use. PLLEEASSE HELP!

If you could help me by coming up with some phrases or words or suggestions it would be great!

Gina

My Reply:

Dear Gina,

I LOVE your enthusiasm and drive here.  It’s highly honorable and exactly the right type of attitude it takes to fully master your sexual being.

I wanted to take a moment and point out a couple things that I got from your email that have really peaked my interest.  These are things that, if communicated through your dirty dialogue, will hit him hard at his masculine core:

I think that in knowing I am pleasing him I would feel both empowered and sexy.

This mindset is right on the money.  This is about YOU, not just him and his needs.  Fully embrace yourself in this selfish power and use it to fuel you to increase the levels of intensity you experience every time you’re with him.  But, in doing so, you need to communicate that to him.  Here’s an example:

“Nothing makes me feel sexier than satisfying you every desire Papi.  I’m here to please you.”

Use your own variation.  The point is your essentially saying that pleasing him brings you great pleasure and that by allowing you to please him, he is satisfying you deeply.  In doing so you are putting him in a position of great power of his own.

(Note – This is also why he likes being called “Papi” because it indicates a position of power and authority over you)

I was a virgin when we got together

This is very important and has waaaaay more power in it that than you could possible understand at 18 years old.  This is your first and only man, which is your only reference experience to sex and essentially, all you know.  Being your first, there is a very pure connection in which your real innocence has been inadvertently crossed.  It’s a connection that everyone has with their “first” that stays only with that person.

In other words, your level of devotion trumps that of the vast majority of other women alive today.

Use this to your advantage.  Actually, I think you have already by wanting to “master” everything sexual.  This is the type of nitro-fuel that is very unique to your situation.

Use this energy when asking him questions about what he wants you to do to him.  The most direct and easiest of questions would simply be:

“Do you like when I __(action)___  your ___(body party)____?”

(Ex.  This could be “suck your cock” or “ride your dick” or “lick your balls” etc)

With your gleaming devotion and genuine concern, asking these types of question with a willingness to perform eagerly is sexual dynamite.  This is especially useful when actually performing the sexual act itself.

For example, if you are giving him a blowjob, look him deep in the eyes and say “You like when I suck your cock Papi?” there is no possible way he could ever say or think “no”.  Make sure to ask this question with an “upward sloping” tonality (otherwise known as “seeking approval”…the more submissive way you would approach a boss with a question, rather than demanding an answer).  This, again, puts him in a position of power.

He gets a kick when I speak to him in Spanish during sex

Awesome.  The reason most guys love to hear a girl speak in another language during sex is because we have absolutely no idea what you are saying, but the passion and pleasure communicated through your native language is riving and sexy as hell.  Above all, for a man to watch a woman lose control and express her pleasure through her tonality like a sweet siren’s song, is extremely erotic.

Why?  Because we know inside that it is US that are causing you to lose control that way.  It’s a selfish male ego thing.  We are the master and are capable of pleasing you beyond measure (and, since he can’t understand your language, there’s no way to measure other than the energy you put off).  Go with that, but for your benefit, only pull it out when you want to give things an extra “kick”.  Don’t show all of your cards at once, all the time.  Holding this extra icing-on-the-cake back and only using it as your “secret weapon” most certainly gives you an ace up the sleeve.

I wanted to thank you again for your interest and your long emails.  It’s stuff like this that really keeps me going, knowing I can help.  So thank you

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

Now, at this point I had sent Gina one of my PDF products “Dirty Talk Power Phrases” that just went on sale as part of Dirty Dialogue’s new “Gold” Package upgrade.  More on that later.

Here’s her reply:

Wow hey. Its Gina.

Thank you so much for your time to respond so thoroughly like that. I didn’t expect you to be so detail focused and I can’t thank you enough! I am soooo excited to try out what you suggested and even use some of the phrases in the PDF you sent. I feel so happy. I’ve had the will this whole time I just needed the phrases. It was even fun to find out I had used some of the phrases before.

I tried sampling some in text messages to see how he would respond and INSTANTLY i got the reaction I’d hoped for!

He said “what’s gotten into you;)..” and proceeded to tell me how he wanted me to “exhaust him” and how he wanted to “enjoy me” and even told me what he wanted me to do more of and what he’s been wanting to try. Seriously it worked like a charm and I have a smile from ear-to-ear. I don’t even know you and I feel like I want to run up and hug you. THANK YOU.

THANKS SO MUCH. My boyfriend comes home for the holidays in two weeks and I’m so excited to spend these two weeks preparing for the biggest shock and best surprise of his life lol. If you give me more suggestions, you could help me prepare for these two weeks. If you’re up for it, it could be like an experiment. Teach me what you know, help me get ready, and I’ll tell you how it all goes in detail.

Thanks again,
With much enthusiasm and staying dirty,
Gina

Like I said, this girl is DEVOTED and I love every second of it.  Now, it looks like we may just hear more from Gina in the near future.  Stay Tuned!

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

PS.  I just launched a new web page for my ebook “Dirty Dialogue:  A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad” that I believe is a WAY better reflection of what Dirty Dialogue is all about (and has gotten a MUCH better response).

Take a look for yourself:  DirtyDialogue.com/ebook

See you soon!

Today we’re gonna talk about the most short cut path to talking dirty to a guy whom you are intimate with.

Here’s the scoop:

Learning how to talk dirty to men often brings up the question of “what to say” when talking dirty.  Most women that don’t know what to say when talking dirty feel like they’re being put on the spot, which is no way to feel about sex at all.  In some cases, not knowing what to say when talking dirty can even put a screeching halt on the entire sexual experience, and things can get awkward – fast.

The secret to learning what to say when talking dirty to your man is found in your man himself.

What words and dirty talk phrases has HE used?  What dirty phrases is HE comfortable with?  Think of examples of dirty talk in your own sex life and start to see patters of what your man says, what he wants, and what he expects.  Its all right there for you to piece together and learn for yourself.

But his wants, needs and desires in dirty talk are only half of the equation.  YOU are the other half, and right now, that part is far more important.  You have to be comfortable talking dirty with the words and dirty phrases you say before you can even attempt to talk dirty to your man.  In terms of “what to say when talking dirty”, there needs to be a middle ground.

Here’s a 3 step process for revealing the right words to say when talking dirty to your man:

1)      Do your detective work and compile a list of words and dirty phrases you’ve either heard your man say, or you know for a fact he’s familiar with.  Write them down (without judging them) on a piece of paper.

2)      Once his list is done, compile a list of your own.  Write down all words and dirty phrases that have worked for you in the past as well as dirty words and phrases you are already comfortable with using in your dirty talk.  Again, do not judge your dirty words and phrases as you compile your list.

3)      Compare the two lists and find dirty words and phrases that are included in both and circle them.

Another way to do this dirty talk exercise is to use a Ven Diagram.  You can draw one yourself (click here for more info on Ven Diagrams).  Just follow these instructions and create your “Dirty Diagram” to cultivate your dirty talk words and phrases, giving you a solid foundation to start from.  You will find this method of learning how to talk dirty to your man will help you tremendously in discovering what to say when talking dirty.

Once you’ve cultivated your personalized dirty words and phrases, the next step is to use them to talk dirty to your man.  There are many ways you can use them in your dirty talk, and as you start talking dirty you will begin to realize what dirty talk phrases work best, and which ones don’t.  Either way, it’s better to use dirty talk words and phrases that both you and your man are already familiar with, instead of taking a shot in the dark and talking dirty on your own.

8:10 pm

Sunny Los Angeles, CA

Howdy,

You know, I’ve heard my fair share of CRAZY hot sex stories in my time.  Most people have, especially living in a day where you can literally watch any porno of any people doing ANY thing sexually possible, and you can conjur up any sort of fantasy just by clicking a few buttons.

And I thought I had seen and hear it all before.  Boy, was I ever wrong.

Some stories you just can’t make up…especially since they come from a place that no Hollywood porn producer could ever imagine and scream with loud intentions that most people could never understand.

I’m talking about almost surreal levels of devotion, brutal self-honesty, and the willingness to go beyond the norm out of necessity, rather than simply trying to “spice things up” a bit.

And that’s EXACTLY what you’re about to read.

Introducing Cupcake…a devoted Dirty Dialogue follower and over-all one hellova gal.  I’ve gotten to know her over the past few months and she’s in a situation where Dirty Dialogue (i.e. talking dirty to her man in creating mutual sexual enlightenment) is her ONLY means of sexual contact.  Her fiance is incarcerated and she can only see him under strict prison surveillance.

All I can really say is, wow…this girl is on her GAME.

Anyways, she’s written a story about what happened the last time she visited her man, and with her permission, she’s allowed me to print it her for your enjoyment.

So, without further ado, here is the story of Cupcake and her incarcerated man:

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Keeping your sex life alive without any physical contact!  Impossible!

Or so I thought.

When I first decided to remain with my fiancé while he “did time” in prison, I was positive I would be saying “Good-Bye” to my sex life, but I could not have been more wrong.  Surprisingly, abstinence in a faithful relationship can keep a sexual connection extremely STRONG!

The prison where my fiancé is incarcerated allows “contact” visitations; therefore, every permitting weekend and holiday, I am fortunate to be able to spend quality time with him.    While we are both grateful for our “contact” visitations, the prison definition for “contact” is the ability to share a quick hug and kiss at the beginning and end of our time together.  Trust me, we’ve tested our limits, and have seen other couples test theirs, on how long the embrace can be, but it’s never long before the officer’s shout to wrap it up.  If only they understood how sexually frustrated we are, but I suppose that without limits we would jump on each other and have sex in front of everyone without a care.  (Yes, if allowed, we really would).

Based on the simple fact, that as human beings we all want what we can’t have, just knowing that we are unable to be physically intimate, significantly increases our sexual desire for each other. Imagine sitting across from your lover (whom you haven’t been physically intimate with in over 8 months), with only a two foot tiny table between the two of you, and being forbidden to touch for six hours.  Talk about sexual tension.  Ahh!  It never ceases to amaze me, the crazy ideas my fiancé and I come up with when the intense sexual tension leads to desperation.

It’s these moments of desperation that we learn to get over being shy and modest and give into our inner dirtiness.  I would like to share an example of how giving in and talking dirty can really be.

At one visitation, we stared into each others eyes and described the dirty things we wanted to do to each other.  (It was just like phone sex, but no phone and no masturbating).

The sexual tension was intense; I could feel myself dripping wet and could see his hard cock pushing up against his pants.  It quickly came to the point where I couldn’t stand it any longer and told him, “No More.”

He said, he would agree to stop seducing me if I did him one quick favor, “Go to the bathroom and wipe all your ‘juices’ on a paper towel and bring it back in here to me.”  So off I went to the bathroom, wiped all my wet ‘juices’ that had been already dripping out of me, onto a paper towel.  Then I folded up the paper towel, stuffed it into my pocket, brought it back to the table, and secretly passed it to him.

It was quite the turn on, to watch him enjoy licking off my wetness and breathing in my sex smell.  He loved it and held onto that paper towel for about 3 hours, constantly holding it up to his nose to breathe it in and examining every inch to find more to lick, until we finally had to throw it away and say our good-byes.

His idea got my mind rolling and the next weekend when the dirty talk got really steamy, I cleaned out one of our empty mayonnaise packets on the table, held it up, and told him, “You know what I want!”

Quickly, he placed the empty mayo packet into his shirt pocket and signaled one of the officers to ask permission to use the inmate restroom.  Once given permission, he took off to the restroom, where he jacked off and filled the mayo packet with all his cum.  He then brought it back to the table, slyly took it out of his pocket and passed to me saying, “Is this what you wanted?”

I couldn’t resist smiling and asked him, “Who’s your dirty lil whore!”  Then I squeezed half of the packet directly into my mouth and let his warm cum flow down my throat, like it did when I would give him a blow job.  With the rest, I squeezed it onto my chocolate cupcake like frosting, and enjoyed!   Just tasting his salty cum again, stimulated all the sexual memories!

Let’s just say my panties and jeans were a lil damp.

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…wow.

Are you with me here?

I can honestly say that I’ve never seen a woman more devoted to her man in my life.  Given such INTENSE restrictions, dealing with prison and all, she was able to use her Dirty Dialogue (and obviously opened mind) to make even the most non-ideal situation work to her benefit!

And being a student of Dirty Dialogue…proud isn’t even the word ;-P

What do YOU think about Cupcake’s story?

Leave your feedback on the comment section below.  I know she’ll appreciate your support!

Stay tuned for more writing from Cupcake and other world-class Dirty Divas to come

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

Real hot and steamy stuff today

As i’m sure you know…talking dirty on the PHONE is just as important as learning how to talk dirty in person.  And, it can be even MORE fun!

Talking dirty in person is one thing, but what about when you’re separated by distance?  He may be across town, across country, or even across seas – but one thing remains the same: all you have is your voice and your imagination!

Talking dirty on the phone is similar to learning how to talk dirty in person, but there are certain major differences that set the two a world apart.  Talking dirty on the phone is 100% reliant on your voice and words alone, as your appearance, touch, and physical energy are missing from the dirty talk you would have otherwise.

This means that your vocal tonality, pacing, and dirty talk phrases must compensate for this lack through igniting your man’s fantasy – replacing what’s physically unavailable with a mental projection of what is possible.  Fortunately, since a man’s fantasy can run itself and conjures up only his upmost sexual ideals, he will envision you as the fantasy girl of his dreams – so long as you can trigger his fantasy to do it right.

Here are a couple things to focus on when learning how to talk dirty on the phone to your man that will inspire the proper imagery in his fantasy mind:

1)  Set The Stage:

When starting to talk dirty on the phone, paint a mental picture of where you are and what you’re doing.  If you ask him what he’s doing right now, he will most likely respond with the same question.  You can reply with something like “Oh, I’m just laying around in my silky black nighty all by myself, thinking about you and how hot you make me…”

This type of descriptive dirty talk phrase triggers his mind to perceive what that scenario looks like.  Once the stage has been set in his fantasy, you can move on.

2)  Get the “Go”:

Talking dirty on the phone obviously leads to mutual masturbation.  But before you get all hot and heavy with your dirty talk, make sure to know if that is possible for the both of you to do at that moment.  Since you already asked what he was doing – right now – you will have an idea if masturbation is even possible on his end.  If its not, you might want to save your phone sex for another time.

If you DO “get the go” you can take your dirty talk to the next level.  Saying something like “Oh my god, I’ve been so horny all day I can’t stop touching myself!” in a coy, innocent manor will add to his fantasy (in which the stage is already set) by including you masturbating in whatever way his personal fantasy thinks is the hottest way possible.

3)  Do the Deed:

Once your dirty talk has now set the stage and gotten the green light, its time to get down to talking dirty on the phone and getting super sexual.  Your dirty talk thus far has given him a mental image that you now get to manipulate in his mind.  He’s thinking about you looking hot and masturbating, so now you’d ask “Do you like when I touch myself for you?” (or whatever way you’d like to say it, using any dirty words or dirty talk phrases you know)  in which case his answer will obviously be “yes.”  You can then follow up with “Good cause I’m doing it right now”.  Music to his ears.

If you’re doing the dirty deed, he will start as well.  Ask him if he’s touching himself, or just demand that he does.  This is where your real phone sex starts to escalate into something super hot and heavy for both of you.  You then start talking dirty to your man the way you would normally.  His masturbation replaces your touch, his fantasy replaces your presence, and your voice is in total control of it all.

Learning how to talk dirty to your man on the phone means understanding how your dirty talk affects him while the two of you are apart.  If you follow this three step method you will find it much easier to talk dirty on the phone as you would talking dirty in real life.  It’s just a matter of learning how to talk dirty to your man by manipulating his fantasy mind as the top priority of your dirty talk.

Stay Dirty,

Devian Day

PS.  For a super-awesome collection of phone sex fantasy scripts, check out my new eBook “Dirty Dialogue:  A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad” and the ENTIRE BONUS devoted to getting your phone sex turbo charged hotter than you ever dreamed possible.  It’s pretty sweet ;-P