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My Strange Life

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 13:16:00 +0000

My friends say Life is a bitch and we should screw it. I rather believe we are the Bitches and Life screws us. The factor that Life is unpredictable makes your life hell. When you do not know what would happen tomorrow how one can keep living thinking about future. It’s hope that keeps you moving. A hope that things would be the way you want it to be.

My life has been a hell of ride till now and I am sure it is going to be the same in future too. My best friend Sterin once said: Whatever weirdest and most fucked up situation that can ever happen in this world, It would definitely happen in Peeyush’s life. It is kind of true and he is the right person to make that comment. We have spent more than 16 years of our life together. I guess he knows more than what I know about myself.

My life has been a collection of strange to strangest encounters and my current situation is of no exception. One incident leads to another and then to another. It’s like, you get out of one mess and you jump into another. I been telling my girl (yeah, you read it right.), I feel like I am God’s guinea pig. He loves experimenting with me. It’s like oh let me see what would happen if I put him in this situation, then he watches me going through the pain. He enjoys and somehow when I get out of it, he puts me into another fucked up situation. Can’t blame him, I make the choices though situation is crafted by him.

I am totally opposite to the rational impression of men. Boys are not supposed to cry and my tears rolls out every other second. Boys enjoys scary and action movie, I love comedy and romantic movies. I guess I am born to be in pain but then there is this hope within me that it would get over someday and it is this hope that keeps me moving. I might have gone insane by now after all that I went through. It is not me who has suffered the most but my parents who has been suffering cause of me. It is not that I love hurting them but I am not strong enough to face the situation and keep moving. Someday I might reach to a limit and then break down. However I would fight till the end. Best thing is I am not alone struggling with my life. I have the support of my parents, my bro and MY GIRL.

I know she is going through a lot too and I might be adding pressure and burden to her, but at the same time I also know my parents and she is the one who is giving me energy to go on and not breakdown. I pray and hope that God won’t fuck my life again. Hope she would be there with me and I know I have to fight a huge battle. I am tired for sure but not given up yet. I love her and I know she loves me too. I would fight; I have to, for her, for my parents and above all for myself. Someday GOD would give up and I would win. SOMEDAY.

And while I am posting this, she is sitting beside me with tears in her eyes and love in her heart. I cannot disappoint her, I have to gather all my courage and strength and build a life full of happiness for her and for my parents. I am motivated? Yes I am cause when you get a reason and people for him you want to live, you do things right and you put in your effort. She is the one and I cannot lose her.

And if you think my post is too much serious and emotional, then go and listen to Himesh Reshamiya and as for me, I am going back to watch Varnam Ayyiram and wipe my baby’s tears. Have to bring that smile back on her face. She looks cute with that smile of hers. :-D. JEALOUS? GOOD, Be jealous. She is mine and only mine. *Devil Grin*

Love - Is it all about fate/destiny?

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 13:28:00 +0000

It's said, not everyone is lucky enough to spend his/her life with their love. Funny part is people who say support this statement falls in love and then after some time they go on different path. Wonder why they ever met at first place, shared their dreams? I shared my dreams and desires too. I always believed in love and I still do though I went through few bad relations.

My faith in him and in love helps me going with a positive vibe. There had been many people who falls in love, gets into a relation and then they end up moving apart. Why people do not have love in their life? Is it all about Destiny? I want to write a lot but not getting enough words to do so. I am not sure whether you guys would be disappointed with my post or not but all I know is though you put in 100% or more than that in a relation yet you end up losing that relation.

It's all about what is written in your destiny.

In Love With Solitude

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Mon, 07 Sep 2009 18:01:00 +0000

People say loneliness destroys you, takes you to the world of depression. People say you would lose your mind when you are lonely. I say enjoy the loneliness, spend time with yourself, grow in love with solitude.

Solitude teaches you a lot. It makes you realize the importance of love, relationship, people around you, people who were there in your life, people who ditched you, people who supported you in your hard times; above all it makes you realize the importance of GOD.

It is only when you are lonely, when you are in a state of solitude you realize how close you are to GOD. I had some of my best communication with him when I was all alone.

Loneliness is not a phase when you sulk and feel sorry for yourself; it is a phase when God wants to talk with you. Music is the best medium and tears are the best tools. Do not hesitate to cry your heart out. No your machoism would not be questioned.

Solitude is a phase when you spend time with yourself; spend time with your soul. Tears purify your soul and bring you more close to GOD. Have faith in him, have faith in yourself.

With Arms Wide Open

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Sat, 18 Jul 2009 20:39:00 +0000

With open arms I stand on the edge of the cliff and look straight up on sky. My eyes are closed and I can feel the cool breeze passing through me, purifying my soul. I can smell the aroma of my soul. I can feel the happiness on my face.

I lie there on green grass with my arms wide open, waiting for my angel to hug me. As I open my eyes slowly I am welcomed with white rays of light and there she was floating on clouds. Pure and innocent. Her charm is so magnetic, pulling me closer to her, into her.

I feel mesmerized and there she is looking at me. Our eyes meet and we look into each other. The smile on her face and twinkle in her eyes were asking me to walk into her arms. I keep looking into her eyes and walk towards her, step by step. As I move closer to her with every step the light gets stronger and more divine. Soon when I reach close to her, just inches away from her face I realize nothing beneath me.

I am floating on the cloud with her, holding her both hands in my hand gently. The faith in her grows stronger, the love for her grows. My mind feels the peace with in and soul feeling the calm. I am in love with myself and she is holding me, making me realize the power of undying love. Love which is peaceful in nature spreads happiness everywhere I smile. She taught me everything with her smile and her gestures. No words said nor heard. Love was whispered from one soul to another.

The power of love and secret of happiness lies in loving yourself and loving others without expecting anything. Pure and humble. I learned it all but there was something that was missing.
I got a hug from my angel. I walk closer to her with my open arms to feel her in my arms.

I look straight onto that lovely, charming, peaceful face and smile on her face grows bigger. I move ahead and as I was about to hold her in my arms the alarm rings and I wake up.

It was a dream but a beautiful one. I long for that hug. I still crave for it. Someday I might end up holding in my arms forever.

Let's Get Started - Yet AGAIN.

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 10:17:00 +0000

I have no clue why I stopped blogging? I left all those things; which once I used to enjoy.

I used to daydream a lot and I used to enjoy my evening by playing cricket or some other sports. I used to spend my noon under tree playing marbles. I used to be carefree; I used to enjoy each moment.

I have so many burdens on my shoulder, so much responsibilities and dreams (not just mine but of my parents and grand parents too) to fulfill that I have lost the sense of freedom. I have to be rich and mature, get a good paying job and earn well so that I can enjoy my life. But wait wasn't I enjoying before too?

I am free yet not free. I am living yet not living. I am earning yet I am poor. What has happened to me? I have grown up and now I have to be mature.

Right. I should move on and leave those lovely days behind. I should work harder and harder in order to survive and earn more to make sure I live happily. But when? When I would be 55 yr. old uncle or granddad may be?

In this fast track life we have lost the essence of life. We are living but as good as a dead man. We aren't doing any justice to our LIFE and that is when I hear a sound coming from inner self. Take a deep breath child, relax. Cherish the nature and be part of someone's happiness. Earning money is important, working hard is important but do not forget the real essence of life.

Cherish each moment with a smile and listen to you heart. Do not just keep running. It is important to take a break and do nothing. Being carefree once in a while is not bad at all. You deserve the happiness and it comes most when you listen to HIM and follow his path to PEACE.

So Let's get started, yet again. Let's LIVE Life Than JUST Live Life.

DJ SANDY

Change is For GOOD

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 17:44:00 +0000

If you are thinking this post is gonna be a philosophy about how Change plays a role in our life and how it make difference in our life? You are wrong. This post is all about my new HAIRSTYLE.

I had a long hair right from the beginning when I started paying attention to my looks. Although I did had my hair trimmed to shorter lengths but I never thought of getting cropped nearly to baldness.

I thought lets give it a try and went ahead with a stone on my heart. Guess what I liked it, don;t know about others.

Soon I realized the benefits of short hair.

1. Less shampoo required to clean your hair.

2. Less oil required to apply on hair.

3. Less water required to clean hair.

4. Less time in fact no time required to set your hair.

5. Natural air conditioner and you never feel hot as you used to feel when you had long hair.

6. You feel light headed and helps you to concentrate more on your work since you don't have those long hair to ruin your concentration.

In short I realized change is for GOOD and my new hairstyle is good, no matter you like it or not.

Hello Happyness

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 18:52:00 +0000

You got it; this post is all about happYness. Well before I start with my views n thoughts let me post a dialogue from one of the must watch movie of Will Smith, "In the Pursuit of Happyness".

"It was right then that I started thinking about Thomas Jefferson, the Declaration of Independence and the part about our right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. And I remember thinking: How did he know to put the pursuit part in there? That maybe happiness is something that we can only pursue. And maybe we can actually never have it, no matter what. How did he know that?"

Although the movie is a fantastic movie but what amused me the most was this dialogue. It sounds so right yet incomplete. It is right that we can only pursue happiness, but how to follow it? When we don't know where the happiness lies how can we follow it? Well, the answer lies with in us. Happiness lies with in you. It's you. No matter what the situation is, no matter what you are going through yet you can be happy.

I fell one can always be happy if he/she wants to be happy. I don't need any reason to be happy. I do agree I am a self-obsessed guy and I find no harm in it. Whenever I am in a bad mood I just close my eyes and imagine myself smiling, laughing and enjoying myself. It refreshes me so much, it gives me immense energy and pleasure.

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where a stranger's smile brings a smile on to your face? Yes a genuine smile can make you happy, little moments and things can make you happy, for that matter even a stranger can make you happy.

As the VEDAS says, Answers to all the questions in this universe lies with in you. So go ahead and find the answer to your happiness and pursue it.

Oh! Do remember to say my hello when you meet your happiness.

My Thoughts on Some Commonly Used Proverbs.

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 19:30:00 +0000

We all have heard of proverbs and we all are aware of what they mean. In this post I would try to share my thoughts on some of these proverbs that we all must be aware of. These are just my views and meant no offense again anyone.

So sit back and enjoy it.

A man is known by the company he keeps OR as my colleagues says, A man is known by the company he OWNS.

Don't judge a book by it's cover. Read the price and the author first and it could be pirated too.

All that glitters is not gold. It could be Diamond or may be Platinum too.

All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. And no work and all play makes Jack a black boy.

Appearances are deceptive. Do you want to say the beautiful girl I met last night was not beautiful and she was not a girl?

Boys will be boys. Now what you want us to be? A sissy? Excuse me please.

Charity begins at home. At least my dad does not thinks so. He thinks free service starts from home.

Dead men tell no tales. No what you expect from a Dead Man? Sing n dance for you? Please Let his Soul Rest In Peace.

Great minds think alike. If that is true then why the hell we have so many theories? Please tell my teacher about the same.
Great talkers are little doers. I don't agree. Last time I messed up with my school bully, he said words I never understood, he was talking like some revolutionist leader . That is not all, he did lot more than I imagined in fact anybody would have imagined. I still got marks and I still remember those kicks.

Look after number one. Who would look after other numbers? It's inequality, we would do strike against it. *Next day Kerala calls strike for the same*
Never mix your liquor. Have you not heard of cocktails? Sheeshhhh. It's more fun.

To err is human, to forgive divine. So, remember to forgive and follow the path of divine and let me make mistakes and live as a normal human.

Vande Mataram

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 11:04:00 +0000

"At the stroke of the midnight hour, when the world sleeps, India will awake to life and freedom. A moment comes, which comes but rarely in history, when we step out from the old to the new...India discovers herself again."

Pt. Jawaharlal Nehru
(on Indian Independence Day, 1947)

August 15th, 1947: India creates a history. An Independent democratic country is born with a vision to make big in Global world and prove its potential by respecting every person's right, respecting peace, spreading love and to serve the humanity.

This year India completes 61 years of independence and we have come a long way since the day one. We have progressed a lot and have proved our worth in the global front too. Yet, we have long way to go.

India has time and again proved her worth in every field be those sports, entertainment, science and technology, literature, defense, spirituality and many more.

WE still have long way to go and we still need to progress more. We have the 2nd largest population in the world yet we are growing strong in terms of education, infrastructure and economy and in other aspects too. We have almost 75% of population under the age of 35, which is a good sign for progress.

Each country has some or the other shortcomings, so do India have. It's up to us (the citizens of India) to make sure that we still follow the path of peace and respect each other's right. Lets not forget "Hindu, Muslim, Sikh, Isahi, Hum Sab Hai Bhai Bhai". No matter which religion, region or caste you are from, we all are one and we respect each other. It's up to us to make the difference. It's up to us to help our society and bring smile on every face in the world.

On this occasion of our independence lets remember the sacrifice made by our Jawans. Lets realize how worthy our independence and how many have laid their lives so that we can enjoy our independence.

I am an INDIAN and I am proud to be an INDIAN.

VANDE MATARAM

Kung Fu Panda

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 12:23:00 +0000

The Word of Wisdom By Master Oogway:-

One often meets his destiny on the road he takes to avoid it.

It's true that more you try to avoid certain situations you would land up facing the same. It's not smart to run away from certain and there is no fun in it. Life is all about facing the toughest situations and winning over it. It's the path that you take which would decide your FATE.

Your Mind is like this water my friend. When its agitated it becomes difficult to see but when you allow it to settle the answer becomes clear.

I strongly agree with this statement. Mind works at it's best when its calm. For example you can study and grasp more knowledge when the environment around you is peaceful. When you are angry or too much excited about certain situation, it may happen that you may ignore or miss few things, which may be very important.

There is just News, there is no GOOD or BAD.

Yes news is news; it cannot be good or bad. It depends upon our perception how we take it. News, which may sound BAD for one could be GOOD for another. So GOOD or BAD its our PERCEPTION.

Look at this, I cannot make it blossom when it suits me nor make it bear fruit before time.

This statement made by Oogway about Peach Tree to ShiFu talks the basic fundamental that you cannot control the destiny of others. What the best you can do is move along with it. Rather than focusing on gaining power to rule others one should focus more in how well they can go along with others. If one believes he has the power to control or rule others he is making a fool of himself.

To make something special you just have to believe its special.

This statement made by Po's Dad while revealing the secret ingredient of his soup has motivated me a lot. It's true that to make something special you don't have to add anything special to it. All you need is a faith. Self-Confidence is the key to success.

KUNG FU PANDA is really a must watch movie. It's simple, fantastic, funny and a great lesson for one and all. I personally suggest you to watch this movie.

WE STAND UNITED

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 17:15:00 +0000

I started this blog to express my thoughts and views about certain things and I would not be doing justice to my readers if I don't express my thoughts on the recent blast that shook our country and showed yet another ugly, coward face of the terrorist.

This blog is pointed straight to those merciless, coward and ugly people.

First and foremost don't call yourself an Indian Mujahideen. You are not Indian bloody fakes. You all are mere cowards who do not have the guts to fight face to face.

Second. Don't say you are doing all this in the name of Allah. Allah never gave you any right to kill innocent people. Each human is son/daughter of the supreme power and you have no rights to destroy them. You are not the followers of Allah but selfish and greedy people who are running after money and power.

Third. Your motives would never be fulfilled, as you are the ones who are walking on the evil path not those innocent people whom you killed. Those innocent people who belong to every religion be that Muslim, Christian, Hindu, Jain, Sikh, Buddhist or Parsi or any other.

Fourth. We are not afraid of you losers. We would always stand UNITED to fight against you bloody hypocrite suckers.

We are not known by our religion we are known by our nation, by humanity. We are INDIANS and we stand UNITED against all odds.

S.H.I.T in OFFICE

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 12:30:00 +0000

I received a very funny email from my friend Tania. I would like to share it with you guys.

I wonder what made her to email me that mail. Seems like all are aware of the fact that I am doing my research on 'SHIT'.

In India we don't need reasons to start our own political party. It's a democratic country and don't be surprise if I start my own party named after 'SHIT'. After all in Indian politics everything is 'SHIT'.

Anyways back to the email. So go through the email and enjoy.

I just hope you guys won' t kill me next time when we meet.

Finding Peace In Solitude

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 19:02:00 +0000

Solitude means total privacy and isolation from others. To be in solitude means to be alone and in silence.

We are living in a phase where we have no time for each other. All are busy in their own life but for whom?

Youngsters working hard day and night for money, for success, to survive. Each one of us is pushing our own limits to make the loose ends meet.

Seeing her husband working hard and still not able to meet all expenses, she starts working too (either part time or full time). Together they work to give better future to their kids, working hard for the happiness of their kids. But are they giving time and love their kids need?

Each one of us are busy in their own life either to fulfill the dreams of their parents, kids, wife/husband, girlfriend/boyfriend or of them self. Yet, are we living for our self?

We all are living the life of others, hence we forget to live our own life. Its not that when you live life of other person they live the double life. They too are living life of someone else. The greed for more has made us forget to enjoy what we have now and by the time we regret it gets too late.

My question to all of you is what is the purpose of your life? Have you ever lived for your self? Ask your heart, to yourself and most of you get an answer as NO or I don't know.

Even I never lived for myself but I am trying. In this busy life even if you get no time for others, spend at least few hours with yourself. Be clear with your thoughts and try to find peace in you.

Until and unless you are at peace how can you offer peace to others? The smile on others face begins from your own eyes. Until you see that smile how can you feel it?

Solitude is not wrong and isolation is never bad. Picture gets clear when you are calm. An unrest river shows a shaky reflection of yours; only a river when calm can show you a clear picture.

THINK NOW.

Slang - Shlang

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 21:40:00 +0000

After I received good response for my recent post “Shit Happens”, I thought to study more about other slang.

I found many of these slang very funny and amazed me a lot. I thought to share some with you guys. So here are few of them I came across.

Holy Shit : The most common generic expressions for surprise. Now isn’t that funny, how can shit be HOLY? Well I don’t want to discuss more on this term as I don’t want Shiv Sena to attack me or Bush to attack my home.

Ape Shit : This means go berserk. Who ever introduced this slang, if you are alive and if you are in India, you soon going to be in a big trouble by our Animal Lover Menaka Gandhi . So better you scrap this slang or go undercover.

Cancer Stick : Well any guesses? Yes it’s the slang used for cigarette. Well it sure does gives a warning note to all you smokers. So next time you go out to that panwalahs remember to use this slang. “Hey Panwaley Bhaiya, gimme a cancer stick.”

Commando : Now this one is really funny. This slang means to go without ones underwear. Now how the hell you get that slang? Is it like you did a research on Commando and you found they never wear their underwear or something? I always thought the term Commando means ‘a small fighting force specially trained for making quick destructive raids against enemy-held areas.’

Ice : This slang means fancy jewelry, more specifically diamonds. So next time when your wife/girlfriend says bring me some ice, please don’t rush to the refrigerator, instead check your bank balance.

Who Opened Their Lunch? : Now this slang made me fall from my chair laughing. This slang means : All rite, Who farted? Now next time when you are in conference or in a gathering etc and you smell that awful smell, you can put this question without losing your decency.

Would be writing more about such slang in my next post. So keep checking guys.

SHIT HAPPENS

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 08:13:00 +0000

Have you ever got challan(ticket) specially on the day when you are going out for a date?

There was this policemen standing under the shade of a tree, not bothered with the fact who is crossing red light or who is speeding (talking about Indian Policemen). All of a sudden he looks at me from a distance and as I was about to cross him, he decides to stop me. Although I was riding wearing helmet and had nothing in hand except a challan for triple riding and my DL I was pretty sure I would not get another ticket.

As I pull my bike to the side he ask for my bike papers. I gave the challan to him informing the R C is submitted with Faridabad Traffic Police. It usually happens that if you are having one challan policemen do not cut another challan but hey that does not happens with me. Congrats boy you earned another ticket for yourself and DL is submitted with Noida Police now. SHIT HAPPENS

I was talking to this friend of mine "OM". We were talking about something and I said Shit happens, what he said after that amazed me, to be honest. He said "everything is shit, if look @ that way". Is that true? I mean there are lot of stuffs we try which gives us pleasure. Shit never gives us pleasure. Does it? Well it will if you control shit for hours or so and you feel relaxed and relieved once you are thru with it.

But all Is not crap or Shit or whatever you want to call it. There are many things in life, which happens for good. Yet again as "Om" said it depends upon person to person or POV.

U don't know what POV is? POV means Point of View (even I got to know about the same few minutes back)

I know you all must be wondering how I got struck with this topic. Well what should I say? "Shit Happens"

I know you all must be feeling like, wish I get hand on to him, I would kill him for wasting my precious time on SHIT.

ha ha ha ha ha...

Reply to Shit Happens - The origin of S.H.I.T

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 07:51:00 +0000

After reading my new post "Shit Happens" Rachna didi forwarded me a mail. I would like to share it with you.

For you guys to know that SHIT doesnt happen.. its created :D

Manure: In the 16th and 17th centuries, everything had to be transported by ship and it was also before commercial fertilizer's invention, so large shipments of manure were common.

It was shipped dry, because in dry form it weighed a lot less than when wet, but once water (at sea) hit it, it not only became heavier, but the process of fermentation began again, of which a by product is methane gas. As the stuff was stored below decks in bundles you can see what could (and did) happen.

Methane began to build up below decks and the first time someone came below at night with a lantern, BOOOOM!

Several ships were destroyed in this manner before it was determined just what was happening

After that, the bundles of manure were always stamped with the term 'Ship High In Transit' on them, which meant for the sailors to stow it high enough off the lower decks so that any water that came into the hold would not touch this volatile cargo and start the production of methane.

Thus evolved the term ' S.H.I.T ' , (Ship High In Transport) which has come down through the centuries and is in use to this very day.

You probably did not know the true history of this word. Neither did I.

I had always thought it was a golf term.

Thank You

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Thu, 22 May 2008 07:20:00 +0000

This post is for all those who have motivated me time and again, who have made me what I am. It's been long journey and I have still got long way to go.

I thank My Parents first and foremost:

For bringing me to this beautiful world,
For teaching me to respect others feelings, loving others,
For teaching me what’s good and what’s bad.
For being there with me always and supporting me,
For forgiving me whenever I made mistake,
For making me strong whenever I was feeling low.
And for the sacrifices you made for my happiness. Love you both a lot.

I Thank My Bro:

For fighting with me and making me ready for self defense in process,
For making me feel I have the authority since I am the eldest one,
For loving me although he shows only when he needs some favor,
For being my shield whenever I was about to get beating, I always blame him and get out of the trouble easily,
For being there whenever I am getting bored,
In short for being a great brother.

I Thank My Friends:

For making me feel special,
For laughing on my stupid jokes,
For bearing my pranks and my expenses,
For giving me such a wonderful memories to cherish
For cheering me up whenever I got a Re-appear

I Thank My Teachers:

For trying there best to make me pass. I am sure it would have been one helluva ride for them.
For having faith in me though I kept on failing till pre-boards. Although they did not had any option.
For not getting tired of giving me punishment.

I Thank My Girl-Friends:

For loving me unconditionally,
For paying the bill of almost every date,
For pampering me and caring me,
For making me go through hell time with all that tantrums and stuffs.

I thank all of you for being a part of my life and giving me moments to cherish. I thank you for teaching me how to live a better life, knowingly or unknowingly.

I thank all those people who made me go through tough times. If they were not be there I would had never realized who all mean to me.

I THANK GOD FOR GIVING ME THIS LIFE and FOR BLESSING ME.

Thanks to all of you and I am SORRY for hurting you all knowingly or unknowingly. Forgive me if possible...

As The Life Goes On......

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Sun, 18 May 2008 09:42:00 +0000

While I am writing this post time is ticking away. My mom always said time never stops for anyone, even the best of best fail in front of time. Only the wise guys achieve their GOAL but even they fail in front of time.

Life is full of ups and downs. Live for the moment. There were moments in my life when I failed, when I was full of negativity. There were moments when I doubted myself. These are the moments that test you, your strength and your character.

Only the strongest and the most determined win the race. Be that the race of survival, be that a race of outshining yourself. Only the best is recognized.

Yet the strongest break down at times. We all are humans after all. The circumstances, situations and people defintely test you to the maximum. There are times when things does not happen like the way you want, the way you have planned. This is the moment when you got to get up again and walk again.

One of my favorite song speaks a lot about the same. You all must have heard "In the End" by "Linkin Park". Few lines from that song goes like this :

All I know
time is a valuable thing
Watch it fly by as the pendulum swings
Watch it count down to the end of the day
The clock ticks life away
It’s so unreal
Didn’t look out below
Watch the time go right out the window
Trying to hold on / but didn’t even know
Wasted it all just to
Watch you go

After every night there is new day, a new start and a new hope because time don't stop for anyone and life goes on.

"Life Goes On and On and On".

Cheerz

Bits And Pieces Make A Story....

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 17:30:00 +0000

I am so excited about my blog that I asked all my friends to check it out. I received lot of compliments and lot of suggestion. It added value to my blog. I still have lot to learn and still have to reach the perfection.

I was talking about my blog to one of my close friend "Alisha". I am happy to know she liked it too and suggested me to add some stories and stuffs like that. Although I never wrote any story but this suggestion did captured my curiosity. I asked her, "How can I write a story? I never wrote any story in my life".

To this she suggested, let your imagination wander. Let your imagination go wild. Now I was more curious. How can one let his imagination go wild and make a story out of it? Sensing my curiosity she smiled and asked "What comes into your mind when I say the word winter?" I started thinking.

She smiled again and said, "To me the words that comes into my mind are cold, snow, sneeze, fire, camp fire, Santa Claus". "Coffee" I said. She smiled again and nodded her head.

I understood what she wanted to convey. Bits and pieces make a story. Life is also bits and pieces of each incident. Now soon I would start writing stories. So all you guys out there keep checking my blog.

Love ALL

I Love Myself.....

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Thu, 27 Mar 2008 02:39:00 +0000

I Love Myself and I love being with myself. No matter how worst the problem is or how low I am feeling, few hours I spend with myself and I am back to life.

It's just your soul that would be with you till last breath. Everyone would leave you one day but you won't lose the friendship you have with your heart until you die. Your heart has the answers to all. Your heart guides you when you are in trouble or in pain. You are hurt and feel lonely, spend time with your self.

The one who love them self finds no enemy and its true. If you love yourself you would start loving all. People who feel lonely are the one who actually have not understood their heart yet. They are the one who was not able to communicate with their heart. It’s strange how one makes their life complex. Life is in fact very simple and every problem has many solutions. Seek advice from your heart and you would find solution to all.

Every individual has a reason for his or her existence. All that one should realize is to understand the reason for his/her existence. Do your Karma, and do not seek what would happen in future.

In Crisp:

1. Your existence has a purpose. Everyone is here with a purpose.

2. Do your Karma.

3. Anything and everything that happens, happens for good. Try to learn from each individual. Understand that anything that happens (whether that be painful or cheerful) it teaches you something about life.

4. Your heart is one, which is most close to GOD. GOD is always there with you and guiding you.

After all our life is his gift. We all are his children.

Love All

Play With Risk

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 11:57:00 +0000

I was playing cricket today with my friends. Soon some more guys joined in and challenged us to play against them. WE made a bet, some may say we were gambling but then that was the interesting part of the match. We were playing for our money. We put lot of efforts to win each match. We played two match and we won both.

We played and fought against our stamina to win. We played till last ball and we won the match by one run. By the end of the match when I received the money I gambled for I felt good cause that was my hard work that I put in my play. Today's match made me realize few things.

1. Realize the value of money and respect it. Earning money is not easy, so understand the value of each rupee.

2. Don't be afraid to take risk. Until you take risk you won't learn how to double your money. Loses may happen but this should not stop you from moving ahead. Some may say gambling should not be done but the one who grows financially is the one who gamble.

3. Work hard and work smart. If you have put your money on stake, you would work hard for sure. It’s like a motivating factor which keeps you alive and make you to work hard. It puts you into a position where you start using your brain so that you don't end up losing your money and you are focused.

But if you don't realize the value of the thing for which you are working you may end up leaving the path in mid way. Reason being you won't feel it worth the effort you are putting in. In the end the one who is more focused, realize the value of the thing he is playing for would win.

That’s why it is said survival of the fittest.

:) DJ

SHAME

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Sun, 16 Mar 2008 09:36:00 +0000

Hi. I am a Mallu or to be specific I am a Keralite and famously known in North India as Madrasi. Well they call every South Indian as Madrasi. Whatever...

Well there are many like me who are born and bought up in here. Our family is settled in here and we are part and parcel of this big city. I met many youngsters who are not ready to accept the fact that they are Mallu. They are not ready to recognize them self as Mallu and want to be acknowledged as Delhite. It’s totally OK as they are born and bought up in here.

We all are Indians and we all are aware of the fact that although there are many states in India we all are one. Then why are we not ready to accept each other as we are? British started this policy of divide and rule and now some politicians are doing it for their personal benefits.

Why it is so hard for us to accept our identity and why it is so hard to gel with others. North East citizen are treated badly and so do people from other states. We all are moving towards globalization and India is roaring ahead over taking many big developed countries. We should be proud of it.

Its really shame how some politicians is trying to divide the country for their personal benefits and to add to it there are many active members of these groups who supports such cause.

North East Citizens are treated badly, Foreigners are sexually assaulted, and kids are killed and raped. Its hard to believe the fact we were once ruled by great leaders like Gandhi, Netaji Subhash Chander Bose, Pt. Jawahar Lal Nehru and many more.

We the citizens of India are forgetting the principles and rules that were taught to us by our ancestors.

Lets unite together and please let's respect each other.

Love all

wHaTeVeR....

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Sat, 15 Mar 2008 10:28:00 +0000

I don't have anything particular to write about. This post is all about my points whatever it may be related to.

Few Points I Learned:

1. Love to the fullest and you would be hurt. No matter how much you love the other person there would be a point in the relation when you would be hurt and that would be the point you realize how much this relation mean to you. No Pain... NO GAIN.

2. Survival of the fittest is true but one who is SMARTER would be the leader than being just a survivor.

3. Trust yourself than trusting others. Time change, Situations change, Circumstances Changes so Do People Change.

4. Critics are your best friends. The one who points at you and tells you where you are wrong is your best friend. So take critics as your best friend than hating them.

5. Strong Willpower makes the person stand against the ODDS. Its easy to flow with emotions.

6. Live your life on your own principles. DON'T COMPROMISE or you may regret later.

7. Having Fun does not end once you get a job. Work is important but more important is to ENJOY your work.

8. Don't run after money; make the money run after you. Work smart and don't work for money. Instead let your work create money.

9. Don't be afraid of PAIN and LOSING. Face them and learn from them.

10. People who say boys never cry are fools. There is no harm in crying. Vent out your emotions and let the tears wash all that is in you, which is hurting you.

Live each moment of your life and live for yourself, cause it’s your life.

:-) Dj

Heart Break and Pain

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 12:35:00 +0000

Almost all of us might have gone through bad relation. We all cried when our relation comes to an end, when both part their ways and bid good bye leaving a bitter taste in our mouth. All of a sudden we start cursing GOD or our Ex-Lover and start thinking negative. I don't blame anyone who thinks this way and I totally agree that it’s the last thing you would expect in Love to happen.

I went through same phase and I have also experienced the same. One thing that I learned is, every relation teaches you something and molds you into a better human being. Hard times are a part of life too. All I felt is God has his own ways of teaching. He loves us a lot for sure and he is always there to support you. But we never tend to look at a brighter aspect of life and things that happen in life.

More and more we spend time cursing and swearing, tougher it gets to forget the bad part and move on with life. One has to understand, path to Heaven or peace is not all about bed of roses. A smile on face, a strong mind to face all and a positive attitude is all that is needed to overcome sorrows. One should learn from broken relation to move on in life and thank GOD for making you go through those hard times, giving you a chance to learn and make you mature.

Love ALL and Expect Nothing in Return

- Life -

dj_sandy_online@yahoo.co.in (Dj Sandy) — Fri, 11 Jan 2008 10:21:00 +0000

I always believed we all have great potential to do wonders. I just wonder why people don’t utilize their potential for good. In a country like India for that matter even on Global Front, what we lack is the sense of helping others. We never feel satisfied seeing others being successful and are always ready to pull them down from the ladder of success.

The greed for power is the main reason for destruction. Human Beings has to understand that by letting the need for power rule the mind we are actually destructing the peace with in us.

One has to realize that there is only one exit and we all have to end our way there. No one has ever ruled his death. If all of us has to do die one day then why fight and live our days in unrest.

Let's join hands together, make the world a beautiful place for our coming generation. Lets stand for each other and let’s unite.

Love all...