http://www.duderonomy.com/ Duderonomy.com is a personal weblog site maintained by michael coker en-us http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=841#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=841#1 Denise@anonymous.org (Denise) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#5 drop an email. I think it was just a little much for everyone (potential employers, clients, etc) to read.]]> mcoker@anonymous.org (mcoker) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#4 Sarah Hazel@anonymous.org (Sarah Hazel) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#3
I guess you made a conscious decision at some point about how to live. glad you did.

My parents got divorced in first grade. A moving van drove up to the house one day, and I thought we were getting new neighbors. That night I slept in a new house. My brother, mom and I moved something like 9 or 10 times before moving to birmingham, al in the middle of 4th grade for my mom's first real job in my lifetime. I talked with some kids in birmingham, and they all seemed to have steady lives. So I decided I didn't want to remember anything. Even now, I have almost no memory from before 4th grade, or of much traumatic that has happened to me. I could tell you the event happened, but zero details. I guess that's just a "defense mechanism." BTW, I am sure not trying to one-up you... just a little background and how I dealt with shit in the past.

I can't imagine how you see so much good in the world. I guess you said it... doesn't come easy, and you've come a long way.
Cool, man. Cool. ]]> Scott@anonymous.org (Scott) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#2

Yeah, it's funny the seemingly disproportionate hoops we jump through for various things, like everything required to get a drivers license versus the ability to walk into a sporting goods store and buy a shotgun, or send ill-equipped parents home with a living child to raise into the world. This isn't directed towards you, but a bit of an addendum to the post - The one thing I just want to point out is this certainly isn't a bash at mine (or anyone's) parents. Ya know what, shit happens. I know I take on things I'm not prepared or capable of all the time in all aspects of life. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't - doing this with a child seems much more dangerous, but I'm not a parent, so I try not to judge. Everything that happens to us in our lives makes us exactly who we are at any given moment, and that will never change - so understanding and acceptance is the only way I see to approach it. Doesn't come easy, and I've come a long way with it (and soooo many other things) over a very long time. But I wrote it to be informative, yet light hearted - like most things splat up here.]]> mcoker@anonymous.org (mcoker) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=836#1
You know they make you jump through hoops ect to get a damn drivers license ... but dammit they need to do something more before they let parents take precious innocent souls home from the hospital.

I like the person you are and very glad to have bumped into that crazy first photo I saw of you on DA "snare"... ]]> Denise@anonymous.org (Denise) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=831#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=831#3 tim@loadedguntheory.com (Tim) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=831#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=831#2 mcoker@anonymous.org (mcoker) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=831#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=831#1 tim@loadedguntheory.com (Tim) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=828#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=828#2 And for what it's worth, I admire your confidence.]]> mcoker@anonymous.org (mcoker) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=828#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=828#1
I admire your character.]]> misstre@gmail.com (Tre) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#4 Tanner@anonymous.org (Tanner) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#3 ]]> mcoker@anonymous.org (mcoker) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#2 misstre@gmail.com (Tre) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=827#1 runclutz@yahoo.com (~mcg) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#4 ]]> runclutz@yahoo.com (~mcg) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#3 Sarah Hazel@anonymous.org (Sarah Hazel) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#2 mcoker@anonymous.org (mcoker) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=822#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=822#2 ]]> mcoker@anonymous.org (mcoker) http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#comments http://www.duderonomy.com/?go=viewpost&id=823#1 Mimi Deez@anonymous.org (Mimi Deez)