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		<title>Pics From The Video Shoot For The Man&#8217;s Approach</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 Jul 2010 21:06:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[As you may already know, the new program for guys who want to approach and meet high quality women, attract them and make plans with them is called The Man&#8217;s Approach.
Based on the tremendous amount of feedback I&#8217;ve been getting from guys all over the world, it&#8217;s apparent that most guys really do not want [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer Podcast #38:  Quit Making Things So Complicated</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 22:35:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[women demystified]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[When I called up the Adonis Effect&#8217;s Brad Howard and extended the long-overdue invitation to co-host the podcast with me, I also asked him to suggest a topic.  This is pretty typical, since the shows are always best when we riff on whatever the co-host&#8217;s specialty is.
Well, Brad wasted no time when faced with [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>When I called up the Adonis Effect's Brad Howard and extended the long-overdue invitation to co-host the podcast with me, I also asked him to ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>When I called up the Adonis Effect's Brad Howard and extended the long-overdue invitation to co-host the podcast with me, I also asked him to suggest a topic.  This is pretty typical, since the shows are always best when we riff on whatever the co-host's specialty is.

Well, Brad wasted no time when faced with this question.  

"Oh, that's an easy one.  Lately I've been thinking a lot about how difficult we as guys try to make meeting and relating to women out to be.  But really, it just doesn't have to be all that hard, you know?"

I instinctively knew that was a winner of an idea.

After all, not only did I agree 100% with his opinion on the matter, we had never actually talked about it on the show.

So 52 minutes of recording later, that all had changed.  Now you can listen to Episode 38 of the world famous Chick Whisperer podcast and decide for yourself whether we're on to something here, or whether we're completely off base.

But one thing's for sure, if you don't do any listening, then you certainly can't do any deciding.  Right?

Now, whether or not you agree that meeting and relating to women is complicated or not, getting your hands on this episode most definitely isn't as difficult as you might think.  All you need to do is hit iTunes and click the "subscribe" button.  

The Chick Whisperer podcast even has "iPod friendly" titles and album art, so finding it amidst the thousands of other files is just about as uncomplicated as listening to it. 



Subscribe On iTunes Now



The iTunes page for The Chick Whisperer podcast is linked to from every graphic in this post.  If you'd be so kind as to leave us a review, we'd be much obliged.  Your input really does influence iTunes rankings.

And if you're the type of guy who just isn't so into iTunes, then no worries.  There's always that old standby, the RSS feed.  You can click on the link below to subscribe over there:



Subscribe Via RSS Feed 



Be Good,

Scot

P.S.  Brad and I also cover a great voice mail question from Craig in Colorado on how to build a social circle and meet women FAST.   Good stuff.















 

 




 










 
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		<title>Thoughts On Having Been In Europe When The Volcano Erupted</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/thoughts-on-having-been-in-europe-when-the-volcano-erupted/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/thoughts-on-having-been-in-europe-when-the-volcano-erupted/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2010 23:21:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[getting home from europe volcano]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to get home from europe volcano]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[stranded in europe]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[volcano story]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Well, as of last night Emily and I are back in good ol&#8217; San Antonio, having &#8220;survived&#8221; being &#8220;stranded&#8221; in Europe courtesy of that now infamous volcano in Iceland&#8217;s shenanigans.
A good number of you sent us very encouraging e-mails over the past week or so, encouraging us to &#8220;hang in there&#8221;, &#8220;be safe&#8221;, etc.
While I [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer Podcast # 37:  MILFs And Cougars</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-podcast-37-milfs-and-cougars/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-podcast-37-milfs-and-cougars/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 14:27:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, so here it is.  I&#8217;ve been meaning to have my good friend Brad Jackson on the show as a co-host for quite some time now.
So the other day I finally got on the phone and told him it was time to stop all the talk and get to a little more action, Jackson. [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>OK, so here it is.  I've been meaning to have my good friend Brad Jackson on the show as a co-host for quite some time now.

So the other day I finally got on the phone and told him it was time to stop all the talk and get to a little more action, Jackson.   A whopping sixty minutes later, episode #37 had emerged from the ashes of what truly was an epic podcasting session.

I'm going to tell it to you like it is.  (Actually, both of us are, if you get right down to it.)  What you are about to grace your iPod with is nothing short of the most straight-up, no-holds-barred discussion on both single-moms and cougars that's ever invaded your eardrums.

Whether that sounds exceedingly pleasant or utterly horrifying to you, you're probably right.  But one thing's for sure:  The experience will be both an enlightening and and entertaining one for you.

And to make matters even more complicated, we went ahead and answered a particularly "touchy-feelie" voice mail from Lawrence in Santa Monica, who wants to know how to get a woman sexually interested in you without necessarily mating with her for life.  Not a bad question there, Lawrence.
 
Well, with that all that's really left to talk about is how to go to the RSS feed and subscribe.   That's pretty brain-dead simple.  Just click on the link below and make it happen:



Subscribe Via RSS Feed 



...or saunter on over to iTunes and get that show onto your iPod.  As always, I've made the title "iPod friendly" so you'll actually be able to find the thing once you download it:



Subscribe On iTunes Now



The iTunes page for The Chick Whisperer podcast can be accessed by clicking on any of the graphics in this post, as always. While you're there, please leave us a review.  These really do influence iTunes rankings, so your opinion definitely matters.


Be Good,

Scot















 

 




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		<title>The Magic Word That Leads To A Better Social Life</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-magic-word-that-leads-to-a-better-social-life/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-magic-word-that-leads-to-a-better-social-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 20:10:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Being Cool]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[better social life]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[increasing social opportunities]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[making friends]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[say yes more often]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[social graces]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[social skills]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been a bit of a workaholic lately.  I bring this up because I&#8217;m tired after my work weeks and don&#8217;t always feel the energy. 
A friend of mine recently called and said &#8220;Hey, Austin, how would you like to go do this zombie walk?&#8221; What&#8217;s a &#8220;zombie walk&#8221;?  As it turns out, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Field Report: &#8220;I Presently Have Six Quality Women In My Life&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/field-report-i-presently-have-six-quality-women-in-my-life/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/field-report-i-presently-have-six-quality-women-in-my-life/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 15:41:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Letters From Readers]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[getting better with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to succeed with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[improvement with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[skills with the ladies]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[skills with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[success stories with women]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[ways to improve with women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This email is in reference to your News Letter about guys learning information to meet quality women and not applying what is taught to the real world. I am 100% living proof that your advice works. I have developed leaps and bounds after following your wisdom and reading your news letters. Your one on one [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Presence Vs. Attention = Happy Women Everywhere</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/presence-vs-attention-happy-women-everywhere/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/presence-vs-attention-happy-women-everywhere/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Oct 2009 22:10:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[being present with women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Having spent the last year of my life on entrepreneurial pursuits, I&#8217;ve learned some hard lessons about keeping a woman happy. At the height of my working tirades I&#8217;d get a call from my girlfriend at the time and I&#8217;d keep clicky clacking away on the computer. I&#8217;d talk and I&#8217;d try to stay in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Just Say &#8220;No&#8221; To Infant Circumcision</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/just-say-no-to-infant-circumcision/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/just-say-no-to-infant-circumcision/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Oct 2009 18:31:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[foreskin sensitivity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[infant male circumcision]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[intactivism]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ When Emily and I decided to have our son Scot, Jr. at home, we were confronted with the question that all new parents of little boys have to deal with:  Should we have the baby circumcised or not?
This led to my researching the idea for the first time in my entire life.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Chick Whispering:  Can You Really Figure Women Out?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/chick-whispering-can-you-really-figure-women-out/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/chick-whispering-can-you-really-figure-women-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2009 12:53:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[inside a woman's mind]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[understanding women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what women think]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ Well, if you&#8217;re a guy you can&#8217;t exactly crawl inside a woman&#8217;s skin and become one in order to find out what&#8217;s truly on her mind and what motivates her (at least not usually).
But that&#8217;s not to say you necessarily have to be completely lost when it comes to gaining some true insight into [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The X &#038; Y Communications Asia Tour 2009 Kicks Off</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-x-y-communications-asia-tour-2009-kicks-off/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-x-y-communications-asia-tour-2009-kicks-off/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Sep 2009 07:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[Scot and Emily vacation to Asia]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[X &amp; Y Communications Asia Tour 2009]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ OK, let&#8217;s face it.  In order to &#8220;go on vacation&#8221; Emily and I pretty much need to get out of town.  
Actually, we pretty much need to get out of the country.  That&#8217;s just the way it is around here.
But then again, when you love your job as much as we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Interracial Dating:  What to Do and What to Expect</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/interracial-dating-what-to-do-and-what-to-expect/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/interracial-dating-what-to-do-and-what-to-expect/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Aug 2009 08:14:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The inspiration for this article came as I traced my personal evolution over the last 12 years. In 1997, I was forced to re-evaluate the lenses through which I viewed the world as I moved from the middle-class Cleveland suburb of my upbringing to the Ivy League where I encountered all races, cultures, and religions. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why There Won&#8217;t Be A Newsletter About What Happened In Pittsburgh</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-there-wont-be-a-newsletter-about-what-happened-in-pittsburgh/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-there-wont-be-a-newsletter-about-what-happened-in-pittsburgh/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 12:12:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve read the news about the unfortunate and tragic events that unfolded in Suburban Pittsburgh on Tuesday night.
My sincerest condolences go out to the victims, their families, and anyone else directly affected.  
One particularly unfortunate part of the story is that the gunman, George Sodini, left a blog chronicling his premeditation of [...]]]></description>
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		<title>It&#8217;s About Freakin&#8217; Time:  The Brand New DeserveWhatYouWant.com Site</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/its-about-freakin-time-the-brand-new-deservewhatyouwantcom-site/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/its-about-freakin-time-the-brand-new-deservewhatyouwantcom-site/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Jul 2009 12:02:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[ If you haven&#8217;t had a chance to check out the BRAND NEW version of the main website, it has been live for a little more than 24 hours now.  If you&#8217;ve visited the site in the past, I think you&#8217;re in for a welcome surprise&#8211;starting with the addition of VIDEO and PICTURES.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>New Video Featuring Real-World Success Stories</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/new-video-featuring-real-world-success-stories/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/new-video-featuring-real-world-success-stories/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Jul 2009 23:33:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, you know it&#8217;s a busy day when a complete, 100% overhaul to the main X &#038; Y Communications website takes second billing.
But that&#8217;s the kind of day this is.
After all, we announced a photo contest in the last newsletter for guys, and we&#8217;ve chosen the winners.  What&#8217;s more, we&#8217;ve already produced a video [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why The New Disney/Pixar Movie &#8220;Up&#8221; Rocks</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-the-new-disneypixar-movie-up-rocks/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-the-new-disneypixar-movie-up-rocks/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 09:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I finally got around to seeing Up, the latest Disney/Pixar release.
I have to admit that I knew next to nothing about the flick prior to actually checking it out, except that: 1) It was Pixar, and therefore a &#8220;must see&#8221;, and&#8230;  2)  &#8230;about two dozen people have called or e-mailed me telling [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Is There A Problem With Chicks?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/is-there-a-problem-with-chicks/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:49:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[First of all, rest assured I have no problem with women.  We love women around here.  
Actually, I have no problem with chicks, either.  
And by that I don&#8217;t mean the fuzzy future KFC delights seen to your left .  In fact, I&#8217;m not even referring to actual female human beings.
I&#8217;m [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Letter From A Reader:  Hugging, Holding Hands, And That&#8217;s It [Video]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/letter-from-a-reader-hugging-holding-hands-and-no-more-video/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/letter-from-a-reader-hugging-holding-hands-and-no-more-video/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:09:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I received an e-mail from Matt, who has been hanging out with a woman who seems interested in hugging and holding hands&#8230;but not a whole lot more than that, if anything.  Apparently, based on the letters I receive, this is a problem that lots of guys face at one point or another.
So what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Letter From A Woman:  How To Have The &#8220;Total Package&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/letter-from-a-woman-how-to-have-the-total-package/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/letter-from-a-woman-how-to-have-the-total-package/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2009 11:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The following e-mail was sent by a woman named Christine in response to the latest newsletter titled &#8220;The Day The Real Men Showed Up&#8221;.  I&#8217;ve received several messages very similar to it, but there are a few very specific things Christine mentioned that inspired me to post this particular message.  Read on&#8230;

Scot,
I will [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Online Dating Vs. Dating Online</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-vs-dating-online/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-vs-dating-online/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 May 2009 19:33:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[During the conversation Zan Perrion and I had for The Master Plan one of the most fascinating themes we discussed was how we as a modern culture are becoming more and more disconnected from each other.
One&#8217;s first thought when considering that idea is, &#8220;Hey, wait a minute.  Everyone&#8217;s got an Internet connection and a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>True Story:  How To Handle AMOG Attempts By Pro Athletes</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/true-story-how-to-handle-amog-attempts-by-pro-athletes/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/true-story-how-to-handle-amog-attempts-by-pro-athletes/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 May 2009 13:58:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[First of all, I just wanted to let everyone know that it&#8217;s me, Scot, who is posting this.  Jim didn&#8217;t originally intend for what you are about to read to be a blog post.  He was simply dropping me a note to tell me what had happened the night before. Posting it is [...]]]></description>
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		<title>What Women REALLY Want:  If You Think It&#8217;s MONEY, Read This&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/what-women-really-want-if-you-think-its-money-read-this/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/what-women-really-want-if-you-think-its-money-read-this/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 02:47:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, here is a letter from a woman that I felt particularly compelled to share.  If you&#8217;ve just finished reading my latest newsletter, then this is the SECOND e-mail from a woman you&#8217;ve seen written in response to what we&#8217;re talking about in The Master Plan.
The message is clear, gentlemen.  Women want their [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Master Plan Is LIVE</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-master-plan-is-live/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-master-plan-is-live/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 May 2009 18:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is the day everything changes.
Until now, it has been implied to us as guys that we needed to &#8220;soften our demeanor&#8221;, &#8220;be nice&#8221; and otherwise fall in line with modern &#8220;feminized&#8221; culture.
The problem?  Although we&#8217;ve been encouraged to think masculinity is somehow a bad thing, nobody ever gave us a roadmap for what [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Master Plan &#8212; You Already Are A &#8220;Natural&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-master-plan-you-already-are-a-natural/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-master-plan-you-already-are-a-natural/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 May 2009 17:53:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women.
Now sure, having some guys who are great with women show you the ropes isn’t such a bad idea.  But do we [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Retail Stores: Maximize Your Numbers In The Dating Game</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/retail-stores-maximize-your-numbers-in-the-dating-game/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/retail-stores-maximize-your-numbers-in-the-dating-game/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Apr 2009 08:44:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey guys, this article hit my mind as I thought about my journey in the dating game.  Retail stores, malls, etc.  are fantastic places to start out if you are just beginning your self change in the dating game.  It&#8217;s a great place to get over fear of approach, work on successful [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer #28 &#8212; Is She Interested In You?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2009 00:51:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The other day I was out with a new friend of mine here in San Antonio.  Out of the blue, he asked me if I knew who Doc Love was.  As it turned out, he had met the woman of his dreams&#8211;who is now his wife&#8211;after having read Doc Love&#8217;s The System.
It was [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>The other day I was out with a new friend of mine here in San Antonio.  Out of the blue, he asked me if I knew who Doc Love was.  As it turned out, he had met the woman of his dreams--who is now his wife--after having read Doc Love's The System.

It was then that it occurred to me that I hadn't had Doc on The Chick Whisperer show yet, and it was time.  After all, the guy had cut me a break and invited me as a guest on his show way back in '06.  It was the first real "media break" I ever got.

So I picked up the phone, dialed Doc's number and he answered on the first ring.  That's the thing about him--he's old skool all the way.  No computers, no voicemail, and most of all--no B.S.

I let my buddy tell Doc his story in his own words, which I think made both guys' day.  Good stuff.  And while he was in a good mood, I locked Doc down to sit in on for a TCW show.

So the end result is Episode #28 of the world-famous Chick Whisperer program.

Let me warn you up front, this program is a bit different.  Doc Love is most definitely a talker, and he's got his own set of firmly held ideas on what attracts women and keeps them attracted.  Considering the man has been at this for forty five years, I saw it fit to simply throw the discussion topics out on the table this time and let him riff away.

Look forward to some controversial ideas and--as is always the case when Doc Love is at the mic--some good laughs.  They way he throws down common sense in his own unique, fast-paced style never fails to crack me up.  It's just flat-out funny in a "no holds barred" sort of way.
  
To grab a listen for yourself, simply head to the RSS feed and subscribe:



Subscribe Via RSS Feed 



...or make the short trip over to iTunes and slao the show onto your iPod.  I've made the title "iPod friendly" so you'll actually be able to find the thing once you download it:



Subscribe On iTunes Now



The iTunes page for The Chick Whisperer podcast can be accessed by clicking on any of the graphics in this post, as always. While you're there, please leave us a review.  These apparently influence iTunes rankings, so your opinion really does matter.

By the way, I've already got the guest for #29 lined up, too.  It's going to be good.  


Be Good,

Scot












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		<title>Sharpen Your Online Dating Skills Using Twitter [Video Blog]</title>
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		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/sharpen-your-online-dating-skills-using-twitter-video-blog/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2009 05:50:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#8217;s face it, guys really know how to mess up their chances with women online.
As a matter of fact, it usually starts with the very first email a guy sends to a woman he&#8217;s interested in.  And once he&#8217;s blown his chances there, it&#8217;s nearly impossible to recover.
Well, short of cutting and pasting something [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emily Is A Calendar Girl&#8230;For Real</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/emily-is-a-calendar-girlfor-real/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 13:40:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, the rumors are all true.  And pardon me while I have a little fun with this post. 
By now you know about my &#8220;proof of concept&#8221;, @emilymckay.  And you know we kind of like each other.
That alone is enough to stick around, if you&#8217;re a guy like me.  Add to that [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Have More Fun On Twitter [Video Blog]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-have-more-fun-on-twitter-video-blog/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 15:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, so check it out.  I realize that you&#8217;re probably thinking I must have a firm grasp of the obvious posting a video with a title like this.
After all, shouldn&#8217;t everyone be having fun on Twitter automatically?  I mean, that should happen by default.  Or so you&#8217;d think, at least.
Well, even though [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Twitter Lingo:  The Insider&#8217;s Guide To The Language Of Twitter [Video Blog]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/twitter-lingo-the-insiders-guide-to-the-language-of-twitter-video-blog/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 16:35:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Lately we&#8217;ve been having a lot of fun on Twitter, which is pretty much the way it should be.  One major way we&#8217;ve all been amusing ourselves is by inventing &#8220;Twitter Lingo&#8221;, or creative terms for various stuff that goes on in the Twittersphere.
Invariably, whenever such a term is used anytime after it&#8217;s initial [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Broccoli Explosion: Cook For Your Date (The Vegetarian One)</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Feb 2009 18:55:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s the thing.  Some of you have been hammering me for quite some time to blog some new Cook For Your Date material.  Just not enough of you to get me to get off my butt and do anything about it.  After all, everything you really need is in the book already.
Then, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Perfectionism And How To Tackle It&#8230;For Dating Success And Beyond</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/perfectionism-and-how-to-tackle-itfor-dating-success-and-beyond/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2009 16:27:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It has been a while since I posted my last article on this blog, and it’s already February 2009, so you may wonder why I have remained silent for a few weeks? And the truth is that I was afraid. Yes, I was afraid of writing an article which will be anything less than perfect. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why Follow Everyone Back On Twitter? [Video Blog]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-follow-everyone-back-on-twitter-video-blog/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 03:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s no secret that I personally follow just about everyone who follows me on Twitter.  And that&#8217;s the way I like it.
Nevertheless, I sometimes get a stray comment here and there to the effect of, &#8220;Dude&#8230;it&#8217;s impossible to &#8216;follow&#8217; that many people.  I mean, there&#8217;s like no way you can keep up with [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer #27 &#8212; Flirting And Creating Natural Attraction</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 10:43:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[The concept of how to get a high-quality woman to feel attraction for us we first meet her is a popular one.  Well, duh&#8230;with all the mixed messages about what women want, cultural feminization, and sexual-harassment policies we as guys face in our post-modern world, it&#8217;s no wonder there&#8217;s such confusion and frustration afoot.
So [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>The concept of how to get a high-quality woman to feel attraction for us we first meet her is a popular one.  Well, duh...with ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>The concept of how to get a high-quality woman to feel attraction for us we first meet her is a popular one.  Well, duh...with all the mixed messages about what women want, cultural feminization, and sexual-harassment policies we as guys face in our post-modern world, it's no wonder there's such confusion and frustration afoot.

So that's why I invited my main man Christian Hudson, formerly with Charisma Arts and Master The Vibe and now with The Social Man, to co-host a show with me highlighting that very topic.

Listen in as we talk about the clear difference between "natural game" and "natural attraction", and break down exactly what it takes to be the kind of man who drives women wild.  We also have a very frank discussion on the role that flirting plays in all this, offering opinions on what exactly "flirting" means,  along with practical examples of how to go about it exactly the right way.

Just for good measure, Christian and I answer a voice mail question about why we "freeze up" when around that one woman we desire the most--and reveal creative solutions for getting over the problem once and for all.

I've got to say, when the dust cleared after editing this turned out to be one killer episode.  Those of you guys who like to explore theory and how to apply it objectively to real-world situations are going to be loving this show.

So all that's left is to download Episode 27 and listen, right?

To do so, head to the RSS feed and subscribe:



Subscribe Via RSS Feed 



...or hit up iTunes and get the show onto your iPod with just one click:



Subscribe On iTunes Now



The iTunes page for The Chick Whisperer podcast can be accessed by clicking on any of the graphics in this post, actually. While you're there, we really could use more reviews...preferably good.  Your reviews influence iTunes rankings, so it's a great way to support the show.


Be Good,

Scot


P.S.  Next up I have the first in a new string of VIDEO BLOGS for you.  Stay tuned.











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		<title>X &#038; Y On The Fly #41 &#8212; Movie Moments</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-41-movie-moments/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-41-movie-moments/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 19:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, the latest X &#038; Y On The Fly has finally hit the street.
This time, Emily and I break down our all-time favorite &#8220;movie moments&#8221;.  And we&#8217;re not talking about action-adventure &#8220;moments&#8221;, Star Wars, or when Phoebe Cates gets out of the swimming pool in Fast Times At Ridgemont High.  
Well, okay&#8230;we did [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>OK, the latest X  Y On The Fly has finally hit the street.

This time, Emily and I break down our all-time favorite "movie moments". ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>OK, the latest X  Y On The Fly has finally hit the street.

This time, Emily and I break down our all-time favorite "movie moments".  And we're not talking about action-adventure "moments", Star Wars, or when Phoebe Cates gets out of the swimming pool in Fast Times At Ridgemont High.  

Well, okay...we did bring up one moment from Star Wars.

But that's beside the point.  What's important is that you go from good to great in your relationships with MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex).  So to that end, we break down some all-time great romantic scenes so two main things can happen.  1)  The guys who are listening can discover exactly what it takes to melt a woman big time, so they can go and do likewise...which rocks.  2)  The women who are listening can recognize when a "movie moment" is happening right before her very eyes, and go with the flow.

Nice, huh?  We're pretty sure nobody has ever covered this in a podcast before, and we figured it was time.  So enjoy.

By now you're probably wondering where to getchasum of this.  Look no further than iTunes:


Subscribe On iTunes Now



Or if you prefer, you can go straight to the RSS feed:



Subscribe Via RSS Feed



If you get the show on iTunes, please be sure to leave us a review.  And tell a friend or three.  Much obliged.


Be Good,

Scot










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		<itunes:keywords>Being,Cool,,Men,Attracting,Women,,Podcasting/New,Media,,Seduction,,Women,Attracting,Men</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>scot@edumckaytion.com</itunes:author>
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		<title>Success With Women:  Recognize Breakthroughs&#8230;And Kick The Door In.</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/success-with-women-recognize-breakthroughsand-kick-the-door-in/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/success-with-women-recognize-breakthroughsand-kick-the-door-in/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 01:52:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Austin Parker]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/success-with-women-recognize-breakthroughsand-kick-the-door-in/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;re all on our own journey and I&#8217;d like to share with you part of  mine.  One year ago I left my former career to start  business, even though I had never sold anything before and had no idea what I was going to do. 
I&#8217;ll spare the details as they don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/success-with-women-recognize-breakthroughsand-kick-the-door-in/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
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		<title>How To Get 1000 Twitter Followers In 12 Days [Video Blog]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-get-1000-twitter-followers-in-12-days-video-blog/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-get-1000-twitter-followers-in-12-days-video-blog/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jan 2009 17:20:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Pillar Articles]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Social Networking]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Twitter]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Video Blogs]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[build followers fast]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[OK, today I&#8217;ve got something that&#8217;s clearly a change of pace.
As you know, I&#8217;ve been harping on Twitter constantly lately.  But that&#8217;s for good reason.  This is not only the hottest social networking site on Earth at the moment, it&#8217;s also arguably the most significant in terms of blasting your online dating success [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Guide To Speed Dating Success</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-guide-to-speed-dating-success/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-guide-to-speed-dating-success/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2009 09:20:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Joseph Jensen]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Seduction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Women Attracting Men]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-guide-to-speed-dating-success/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[ (This post originated as a correspondence on speed dating between two X&#038;Y team members. I have speed-dated on and off for approximately two years and observed the curious dynamic involved. I have left feeling like I found my “100” and left wondering why I wasted two hours of valuable SportsCenter rerun time. I have [...]]]></description>
		<wfw:commentRss>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-guide-to-speed-dating-success/feed/</wfw:commentRss>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer #26&#8211;The Dude Whisperer</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-26-the-dude-whisperer/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-26-the-dude-whisperer/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Dec 2008 07:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Podcasting/New Media]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Women Attracting Men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chick whisperer with mirabelle]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[fireworks with females book]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meet your sweet podcast]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mirabel]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mirabell]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mirabelle summers]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mirrabel]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mirrabelle]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[myrabel]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[myrabelle]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[slade shaw mirabelle summers]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[the chick whisperer 26]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[the dude whisperer]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-26-the-dude-whisperer/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[About a month ago, you probably heard about the book Fireworks With Females by Slade Shaw and Mirabelle Summers of Meet Your Sweet.
Well, having read the book it didn&#8217;t take me long to figure out that Mirabelle understands us guys pretty well.  Basically, as I see it she&#8217;s &#8220;The Dude Whisperer&#8221;.  So since [...]]]></description>
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<itunes:duration>00:01:01</itunes:duration>
		<itunes:subtitle>About a month ago, you probably heard about the book Fireworks With Females by Slade Shaw and Mirabelle Summers of Meet Your Sweet.

Well, having read ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>About a month ago, you probably heard about the book Fireworks With Females by Slade Shaw and Mirabelle Summers of Meet Your Sweet.

Well, having read the book it didn't take me long to figure out that Mirabelle understands us guys pretty well.  Basically, as I see it she's "The Dude Whisperer".  So since she likely understands how women operate as well, I figured doing a TCW show with her was a "no-brainer".

Besides, I've frankly been dying for an excuse to bust on someone over there at 000Relationships for naming their stuff "Meet Your Sweet" and putting a bunch of little red hearts all over it.  

So this was pretty much the best excuse ever to do a show.  That and the fact it has been two months since I got around to recording one.  

Alright, so enough talking.  This show is packed to the gills with real-world stuff that will improve your game today if you let it.  

Get it by either going to the feed and subscribing, or via iTunes.

Actually, iTunes is the way to go if you can, and you can get there by using any of the graphics on this post. While you're there, please leave us a review...preferably good.  I've figured out these actually help iTunes rankings, so it's a great way to support the show.


Be Good,

Scot


P.S.  Did you download the FREE Twiduction e-book yet on how to meet women on Twitter?  Over 1000 other people have so far, and it has only been a few days.   Get on my newsletter and it's yours.   For real...Twitter is a great way to meet high-quality women.










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		<itunes:keywords>Men,Attracting,Women,,Podcasting/New,Media,,Women,Attracting,Men</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>scot@edumckaytion.com</itunes:author>
		<itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit>
		<itunes:block>No</itunes:block>
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		<title>Twiduction:  How To Meet Women On Twitter [Free E-Book]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/twiduction-how-to-meet-women-on-twittercom/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/twiduction-how-to-meet-women-on-twittercom/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Dec 2008 16:24:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Announcements]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Social Networking]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[flirting on twitter]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meet women on twitter]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[microblogging dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[twitter dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[twitter dating site]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[twitter online dating]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/twiduction-how-to-meet-women-on-twittercom/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As you already know, we talk a lot about online dating around here.  As a matter of fact, we sort of live and breathe it.
We&#8217;re also sort of into social networking.  Just a little bit.  You can find us on Facebook, MySpace, and&#8211;most recently&#8211;Twitter. 
But here&#8217;s the million-dollar question:  Why hasn&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Online Dating Success&#8230;A Real-World 76% Response Rate?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-successa-real-world-76-response-rate/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-successa-real-world-76-response-rate/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:36:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Letters From Readers]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get women to write back online]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how many women usually respond on Match.com]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to win on match.com]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[match.com success stories]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[online dating success]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-successa-real-world-76-response-rate/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[OK, here it is.  I get a lot of heat from certain people regarding the claim of being able to achieve a 60-80% response rate from Match.com.  Apparently, some guys believe that&#8217;s a notion so preposterous as to be flat-out impossible.
Actually, some women even think it&#8217;s a bit over-the-top to expect that.
Well, let [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Mainstream &#8220;Dating Experts&#8221; And The Mama&#8217;s Boys Who Love Them</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/mainstream-dating-experts-and-the-mamas-boys-who-love-them/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/mainstream-dating-experts-and-the-mamas-boys-who-love-them/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2008 15:28:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Hilarious]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Jim Dalton]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Women Attracting Men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[armchair dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice disasters]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating etiquette]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[mama's boys]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[should men cry]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/mainstream-dating-experts-and-the-mamas-boys-who-love-them/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Over Thanksgiving, I was in my hotel room flipping through the small amount of channels on the television.  I stopped on one of those morning shows.  You know the typical ones.  The people are over the top happy, Rachael Ray cooks a roast in two minutes, and corny jokes are made.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Motivation Turbo-Charger Part 1: Getting Going</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/motivation-turbo-charger-part-1-getting-going/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/motivation-turbo-charger-part-1-getting-going/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Dec 2008 05:22:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. Sasha]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[get started with pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to start meeting women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[motivation for sarging]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[motivation to meet women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pickup basics]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pickup motivation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[seduction community basics]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/motivation-turbo-charger-part-1-getting-going/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I want to make a confession. I have been putting off writing this article for about a week. I know that I have lots to write about, and yet I didn’t write this article until this very moment. I even made up all those “other” things to do around my office to avoid writing this. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Emily Is On Christian Carter&#8217;s Interview Series This Month</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/emily-is-on-christian-carters-interview-series-this-month/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/emily-is-on-christian-carters-interview-series-this-month/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Dec 2008 15:13:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Announcements]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Christian Carter book]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve probably seen the banners on this blog for the past couple of weeks, but now that December is finally here it&#8217;s time for the official word:  Yes&#8230;Emily is Christian Carter&#8217;s guest for his &#8220;Interviews With Dating Experts&#8221; series this month.
For you ladies who are reading, this probably requires little explanation.  Christian Carter&#8217;s [...]]]></description>
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		<title>X &#038; Y On The Fly #40&#8211;When Kids Are In The Picture</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-40-when-kids-are-in-the-picture/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-40-when-kids-are-in-the-picture/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Nov 2008 12:30:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Podcasting/New Media]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Women Attracting Men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating and kids]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating rules for single parents]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips for single parents]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating when you have kids]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[introduce kids to my boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[introduce kids to my girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[single mom dating advice]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[single parent dating protocol]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[This episode represents a bit of a change of pace for Emily and I.  This time we talk about all the potential issues associated with dating when you have kids.  
&#8230;Or when the person you are dating has kids.  
&#8230;Or when you and the other person have kids together.
Basically, this show contains [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>This episode represents a bit of a change of pace for Emily and I.  This time we talk about all the potential issues associated ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>This episode represents a bit of a change of pace for Emily and I.  This time we talk about all the potential issues associated with dating when you have kids.  

...Or when the person you are dating has kids.  

...Or when you and the other person have kids together.

Basically, this show contains both dating and relationship advice, and will be helpful to those of you who are already married and leading the "family life" as well as those of you who are enjoying your wildly successful dating lives.

Wait a minute...who says married people can't have a "wildly successful dating life"?  Well, not us.  And fear not...there's more on that in there also.

So getchasum.  This is a good one, based on feedback we've been getting.  We've actually had the show posted for a couple of weeks now, but I've just gotten around to blogging about it.

As always, hit our main page to get in on the newsletter and grab your free copy of How To Deal With Breakups.  I'll be changing that soon, so consider this the "final call".

By the way, the next XYotF is going to be called "Movie Moments".  Look forward to some creativity there, for sure.  Emily's ready for this one.

And yes...the next episode of The Chick Whisperer is in the works also.  It will be called "The Dude Whisperer", and I'll leave the rest to you to figure out for now...


Be Good,

Scot


P.S.  Please leave us a review on iTunes...and by all means subscribe.  Even one more good review helps our rankings more than you know.  

If you aren't so into iTunes, you can also subscribe using our feed.











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		<itunes:author>scot@edumckaytion.com</itunes:author>
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		<title>Stop Sucking It In</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/stop-sucking-it-in/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/stop-sucking-it-in/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Nov 2008 22:10:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dave W.]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[get rid of gut]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[getting better with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to be more attractive]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[staying in shape]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Hey guys, today I want you to think to yourself if have you at any point recently looked into the mirror and sucked your stomach in? 
Don&#8217;t worry guys, I&#8217;ve done it. I think we all have, trying to make ourselves look better&#8211;if only for that moment. 
However, there is a problem with this.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Alcohol-Free Authenticity &#8212; Improve Your Success With Women When Sober</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/alcohol-free-authenticity-improve-your-success-with-women-when-sober/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/alcohol-free-authenticity-improve-your-success-with-women-when-sober/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:06:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[When you are out on the town having a good time with your friends and talking to girls, it may be so tempting to have a few drinks. Perhaps, drinking allows you to relax, get you out of your head, makes you more impulsive and talkative, and helps you to be your natural attractive self [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Power of Being Observant In Pickup</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-power-of-being-observant-in-pickup/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 17 Nov 2008 06:44:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Ok guys, around here it is mentioned a lot how a man can almost have what appears to be superpowers with a woman.  Being observant is yet another one of those powers.  
I find it to be the most important aspect in my dating game, especially lately.  It takes experience, it takes [...]]]></description>
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		<title>MeetUp.com As A Dating Site?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/meetupcom-as-a-dating-site/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 22:35:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[We get quite a number of e-mails from both men and women asking where in the world they can meet MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex).
Some don&#8217;t exactly live in thriving metropolises.  Most don&#8217;t feel comfortable approaching strangers in public, as much as we&#8217;d love to wave a magic wand and cure everyone&#8217;s &#8220;approach [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer BONUS&#8211;Stop Giving Your Power Away</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-bonus-stop-giving-your-power-away/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-bonus-stop-giving-your-power-away/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 15:46:07 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[About a year ago I recorded a very special episode of The Chick Whisperer with none other than Brent from Absolute Power Dating and David DeAngelo &#8220;Advanced Mastery Series&#8221; fame.
At the time it was produced, was offered as a special promotion rather than added to the regular feed.
Well, now that some water has passed under [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>About a year ago I recorded a very special episode of The Chick Whisperer with none other than Brent from Absolute Power Dating and David ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>About a year ago I recorded a very special episode of The Chick Whisperer with none other than Brent from Absolute Power Dating and David DeAngelo "Advanced Mastery Series" fame.

At the time it was produced, was offered as a special promotion rather than added to the regular feed.

Well, now that some water has passed under the proverbial bridge, I wanted to make sure that this show didn't become a "lost episode".  So I've just made it available to everyone.

In it, Brent and I break down some key ways to maintain a leadership position with women and how not to become her "yes man".  In fact, you could also call this particular podcast "Just Say NO To Being A YES Man".  Nice.

Anyway, those of you out there who have been listening to the show for under a year probably never even knew this existed...so fire up.  It's epic as always, so enjoy.

iTunes is the way to go if you can, and you can get there by using any of the graphics on this post.  If you do, we greatly appreciate positive reviews.  I've figured out these actually help iTunes rankings, so it's a great way to support the show.

If you're not on iTunes, you can subscribe via the feed here.


Be Good,

Scot











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		<title>Junior Is A Flirt</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/junior-is-a-flirt/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/junior-is-a-flirt/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Oct 2008 06:14:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Keep your infant daughters away from my kid.  Actually, check that.  Keep your pre-teen daughters away from him.
Seriously, Scot, Jr. (aka &#8220;Micky Mac&#8221;) is a serious flirt.  Already.  At the ripe old age of eleven months.
And yes&#8230;he&#8217;s diggin&#8217; on &#8220;older women&#8221;.
We knew pretty quickly that he had a thing for g-i-r-l-s, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Universal Conversation Skills:  Talk To Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/universal-conversation-skills-talk-to-anyone-anytime-anywhere/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/universal-conversation-skills-talk-to-anyone-anytime-anywhere/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2008 17:30:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[For the longest time I was frustrated. I wanted people to take an interest in me. After all I thought I was interesting. I had just returned to the states after two years living abroad. I thought I was a master conversationalist with the most interesting topic in the world: Me. 
Little did I know [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Let&#8217;s Hook Up And I&#8217;ll Do You</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/lets-hook-up-and-ill-do-you/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/lets-hook-up-and-ill-do-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Oct 2008 13:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I started surfing back in the 80&#8217;s.  Part of what went along with that, for better or worse, was using a certain lingo unique to surfers (or allegedly so).  Some called it &#8220;dudespeak&#8221;.
A key example of this was when you&#8217;d meet some other dude who surfed, you&#8217;d say, &#8220;Yeah, man.  Bring your [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Powerful Way To Lead A Woman</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/a-powerful-way-to-lead-a-woman/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/a-powerful-way-to-lead-a-woman/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Oct 2008 03:51:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[What I’m going to share with you today is the kind of the elusive obvious that can totally make or break your interaction with the woman. If you frequently finish in the “just friends” zone with the woman or you are sometimes unable to transition your conversation with the girl from the “intelligent and witty” [...]]]></description>
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		<title>You Introverts Think You&#8217;ve Got It Tough?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/you-introverts-think-youve-got-it-tough/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/you-introverts-think-youve-got-it-tough/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 14:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Hey brothers, first of all, apologies for neglecting my contributions to this wealth of knowledge. I have been busy trying to acquire my first property and moving out. Thanks for your responses to my previous blog on cold approaches (and why they are so last century).
I have not always been an extrovert. In fact, in [...]]]></description>
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		<title>When It&#8217;s Time To Break Up</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/when-its-time-to-break-up/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Oct 2008 07:39:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Breakups, ending the relationship, moving on&#8211;the wild emotional roller coaster ride that follows or ensues during.  It can be one of the toughest emotional deals to go through, or at least that is the thought of many while enduring it.  I will discuss a few things in the following article of when it [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Paul Newman Was A &#8220;Big Four&#8221; Guy</title>
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		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/paul-newman-was-a-big-four-guy/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Sep 2008 00:39:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I just got home from a busy Saturday to find out that Paul Newman passed away.  He was 83, and he had lived a full life.
Let me be clear, though.  He didn&#8217;t necessarily live a full live because he lived to be 83.  Rather, he lived life to the fullest for 83 [...]]]></description>
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		<title>New Facebook Group:  Get More Free Stuff</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/new-facebook-group-get-more-free-stuff/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/new-facebook-group-get-more-free-stuff/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 11:38:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/new-facebook-group-get-more-free-stuff/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[So are you getting sick of me sending you free stuff yet?
Didn&#8217;t think so.
So with that in mind, Emily and I have created a Facebook group.  The name?  &#8220;Free Stuff From X &#038; Y Communications&#8221;.
Pretty self-explanatory, huh?
If you&#8217;re on Facebook, definitely get on board so we can hook you up.  Men and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Get The Deserve What You Want Toolbar!</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/get-the-deserve-what-you-want-toolbar/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/get-the-deserve-what-you-want-toolbar/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:16:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m sure some of y&#8217;all have the Google toolbar, or maybe the Alexa toolbar on your browsers.  They&#8217;re a great way to get what you want from the Web as quickly and easily as possible&#8230;without having to open another browser window and do a bunch of typing to get there&#8230;
Well, check it out.  [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Who Says The Leading Man ISN&#8217;T About Pickup, After All?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/who-says-the-leading-man-isnt-about-pickup-after-all/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/who-says-the-leading-man-isnt-about-pickup-after-all/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 21 Sep 2008 00:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Okay, so you&#8217;ve been hearing me tell you about how The Leading Man is all about relationship management.   And although I do share some secrets for establishing yourself as a relationship manager from minute one when you meet a woman, mostly I&#8217;ve been saying that The Leading Man focuses on what happens after [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Structured Authentic Game</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/structured-authentic-game/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/structured-authentic-game/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 03:06:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[A few years ago when I was just starting on this journey to becoming a man who is successful with women, I studied a lot of material on the structure of “outer” game. As many people here would know, a lot of various seduction-related sources agree on the general structure of the game. This can [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Name Memorization And The Art Of Working the Room</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/name-memorization-and-the-art-of-working-the-room/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/name-memorization-and-the-art-of-working-the-room/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 03:58:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Austin Parker]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Before you read this post, I ask that you ready yourself to learn and apply what you&#8217;re about to read. 
When I first got into pickup this was my &#8220;working the room&#8221; game and it brought me much success.  I challenge you to try this at your next customer meeting, house party, or night [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Leading Man Is Now Available Worldwide</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-leading-man-is-now-available-worldwide/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-leading-man-is-now-available-worldwide/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Sep 2008 20:45:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Announcements]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Product Reviews]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[As of yesterday at noon Texas time, The Leading Man has now been released to the world.
Unless you&#8217;ve been hiding under a rock, you already know that this is the world&#8217;s first complete system for relationship management.  If you&#8217;re on anyone else&#8217;s mailing list besides mine and/or read any one else&#8217;s blog you&#8217;ve probably [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Your Phone Game Tip For The Day</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/your-phone-game-tip-for-the-day/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/your-phone-game-tip-for-the-day/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 09:06:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[flirting with text]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[phone game stories]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[phone skills with women]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[sexy women on the phone]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[text flirting ideas]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[women talking on the phone are sexy]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Once upon a time, there was a guy. Let&#8217;s call him Dan.  He worked for a major courier company, delivering parcels on the same route just about every day.
There was one particular business on his route where a particularly attractive receptionist worked.  Let&#8217;s call her Maryanne.  She had been on the job [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Why I Wake Up Excited In The Morning</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-i-wake-up-excited-in-the-morning/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-i-wake-up-excited-in-the-morning/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Sep 2008 07:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Letters From Readers]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Brasil seduction]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[dating success stories]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Having read the title of this post, I have a guess what you might be thinking.  No, it&#8217;s not necessarily because Emily is in a frisky mood&#8230;again.
At least that&#8217;s not what I&#8217;m referring to this time. 
Instead, I have a letter from a reader that I want to share with you.  His name [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Thundercat&#8217;s BootyCast</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/thundercats-bootycast/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/thundercats-bootycast/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Sep 2008 11:07:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[How&#8217;s it going everyone?
Today I was Joseph &#8220;Thundercat&#8221; Matthews&#8217; guest on his BootyCast podcast.  Surprised?  Well, don&#8217;t ever say I shy away from hardcore Seduction Community stuff because this is the real deal.
I&#8217;ll tell you what, Thundy&#8217;s blog readers are about as tough an audience as I&#8217;ve seen out there.  We talked [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer #24&#8211;Taking Care Of Business In The Bedroom</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-24-taking-care-of-business-in-the-bedroom/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-24-taking-care-of-business-in-the-bedroom/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 07:53:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[bedroom eyes]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to satisfy a woman in the bedroom]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[revolutionary sex]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex advice for men]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[That&#8217;s right, this episode is all about sexual wizardry.  Make your woman want to purrrrr like the kitten she is.  Meow.
All of this is courtesy of my man Alex Allman, author of Revolutionary Sex.  He&#8217;s the co-host this go-round, and flat-out delivers the goods.
What more would you expect?  After all, we&#8217;ve [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>That's right, this episode is all about sexual wizardry.  Make your woman want to purrrrr like the kitten she is.  Meow.

All of this ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>That's right, this episode is all about sexual wizardry.  Make your woman want to purrrrr like the kitten she is.  Meow.

All of this is courtesy of my man Alex Allman, author of Revolutionary Sex.  He's the co-host this go-round, and flat-out delivers the goods.

What more would you expect?  After all, we've been harping on relationship management around her lately non-stop...for good reason.

From minute one, you can expect to hear tips and strategies that will clearly take your sexual prowess to the next level.  Alex brought his A-game here, no doubt.

If you'd like to control your orgasms a bit better, Alex has exactly the plan for you.  

Wondering how to make sure she is satisfied fully and completely?  Have we got some shocking answers.

We even break down how to kiss her so correctly her head might explode.  After all, you've got to start somewhere--and that's the best place I can think of to do so.

Hot stuff.  And you are guaranteed to have not heard some of this ever before anywhere. 

Imagine hanging a shingle outside your door that says, "Melting Women Is My Specialty".  Your darn skippy.  Make it so, captain.

OK, so all you really need is less blathering and more of a way to get your hands on this.  

Subscribe and download on iTunes using any of the graphics on this post.  If you do, please be kind enough to write a short review in support of the show if you would.  That helps more than you can imagine--and I know you have a pretty vivid imagination, no less.

If you're not on iTunes, you can subscribe via the feed here.

By the way, sign up for the newsletter and get the special bonus video collection called "Coolness Personified" if you haven't already.  It's not going to cost you a dime.


Be Good,

Scot


P.S.  Did you like that?  Two new podcasts in two days.  We aim to please.  By the way, if all of this wasn't enough, I've actually got TCW #25 in the can already also.  I'd been after the co-host of that one for literally months, dragging him kicking and screaming back into the Seduction Community spotlight after a ridiculously long absence.  And yes, I'm keeping it a secret for now...  












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		<title>X &#038; Y On The Fly #39&#8211;Dealing With Exes</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-39-dealing-with-exes/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-39-dealing-with-exes/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Sep 2008 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Podcasting/New Media]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[breakups]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get ex-boyfriend back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get ex-girlfriend back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[get my ex back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to get your ex back]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[win back boyfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[win back girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[win back lost love]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Who wants &#8220;drama&#8221; with exes?  Certainly not us.  And unless you&#8217;re weird or something, neither do you.
So that said, tune in to the latest episode of X &#038; Y On The Fly and find out how Emily and I have kept that stuff to a bare minimum in our life, and&#8211;more importantly&#8211;how you [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Who wants "drama" with exes?  Certainly not us.  And unless you're weird or something, neither do you.

So that said, tune in to the ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Who wants "drama" with exes?  Certainly not us.  And unless you're weird or something, neither do you.

So that said, tune in to the latest episode of X  Y On The Fly and find out how Emily and I have kept that stuff to a bare minimum in our life, and--more importantly--how you can do the same.

And while we were at it, we tackled the ridiculously-complex topic of how to get an ex back, if that's what you want.  Find out killer strategies for getting an ex boyfriend or girlfriend back after you screw up--regardless of who broke up with whom.

...Of course, that's all assuming you really want that ex back after all.  Do you really?

Whatever the case, whether you have an "ex" to deal with at the moment or not, this show will arm you with some serious knowledge that you'll likely find immensely valuable someday--one way or another.  

All of this, of course, is oddly appropriate considering all this talk about relationship management lately thanks to the upcoming release of The Leading Man.

Plus, this stuff is just flat-out entertaining.  Especially when Emily says "meow" instead of "now" like she does.

As always, hit our main page to get in on the newsletter and grab your free copy of How To Deal With Breakups.  This show is a great excuse to do exactly that, right? 

 
Be Good,

Scot


P.S.  If you like what you hear, please leave us a review on iTunes...and by all means subscribe.  If you aren't so into iTunes, you can subscribe using our feed too.











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		<itunes:keywords>Podcasting/New,Media,,Relationship,Management</itunes:keywords>
		<itunes:author>scot@edumckaytion.com</itunes:author>
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		<title>Tonight:  X Factor Dating&#8217;s Singles Showcase</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/tonight-x-factor-datings-singles-showcase/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/tonight-x-factor-datings-singles-showcase/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Sep 2008 19:46:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[conference calls about dating]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I’m pleased to announce that I am part of the X Factor Dating’s Singles Showcase for September. 
As a matter of fact, out of 21 dating experts they are going to be featuring this month, I get the honor of going first.
As such, I am going to be on a teleseminar tonight at  9p [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Make Your Authentic Voice Heard</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/make-your-authentic-voice-heard/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/make-your-authentic-voice-heard/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Sep 2008 18:04:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. Sasha]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[chatting up women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[communicate with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to attract women with your words]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[pickup authenticity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[what to say to women]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/make-your-authentic-voice-heard/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As I was driving home a couple of days ago thinking about writing this post, I got a message from my friend that sounded a bit new-agey but perfectly summarised some of my ideas on how we can relate to women from the position of authenticity. 
That message said: “In your most authentic self your [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Three Tips For Guys Who Are Starting Out</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/three-tips-for-guys-who-are-starting-out/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/three-tips-for-guys-who-are-starting-out/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:03:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[getting better with women]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[In today&#8217;s post I&#8217;m going to try to break down some of the things that I did when I was starting out on this journey that I believe helped me out.
First, I recommend getting some friends/wingmen who are also along this journey. 
I met 4 guys early on after I joined a forum. These guys [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Leading Man: Web Site Is LIVE</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-leading-man-web-site-is-live/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-leading-man-web-site-is-live/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 15:39:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Announcements]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[how to date multiple women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to get a girlfriend]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meet a greatwoman]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[MLTRs]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[multiple long term relationships]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[The Leading Man]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-leading-man-web-site-is-live/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[After pulling several &#8220;all nighters&#8221; this week, the all-new web site for The Leading Man has been launched.
About a week ago, I let you in on some of the very basic details in this blog post. 
Now, you can find out what all is included&#8211;in detail&#8211;and even get four killer video tips on relationship management [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Be a Social Leader in One Easy Step</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/be-a-social-leader-in-one-easy-step/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/be-a-social-leader-in-one-easy-step/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Aug 2008 18:05:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[make friends and influence people]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[social circle]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/be-a-social-leader-in-one-easy-step/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[In my journey through pickup I&#8217;ve found this whole thing is more about learning social leadership than anything else.  
One thing we all have in common is we are leaders.  
If we weren&#8217;t leaders we would settle for what we get like everyone else does.  Today I&#8217;d like to help you assume [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Five Ways To Get Women To Approach You</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/five-ways-to-get-women-to-approach-you/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/five-ways-to-get-women-to-approach-you/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:30:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[do women approach men]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[IOI]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a question I get all the time:  &#8220;Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me?  And how can I get women to approach me first?&#8221;
Okay, that&#8217;s actually two questions.  But you get the point.
Well, we all know that women are typically subtle creatures.  They aren&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Top Ten Places On Earth To Take A Woman</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-top-ten-places-on-earth-to-take-a-woman/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-top-ten-places-on-earth-to-take-a-woman/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Aug 2008 06:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Pillar Articles]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[romantic getaway]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[taking trips with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[test compatibility]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[weekenders with a woman]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-top-ten-places-on-earth-to-take-a-woman/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[We&#8217;ve talked before about the importance of going on a &#8220;road trip&#8221; with someone you&#8217;ve met recently and think you might really like.
I&#8217;m on record as seeing this as a valid test of compatibility.
But lately, I&#8217;ve begun to think that perhaps a friggin&#8217; long flight might be just as good an environment for seeing how [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Management:  The Leading Man</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/relationship-management-the-leading-man/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/relationship-management-the-leading-man/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:28:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Announcements]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[dating product launch]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[multiple long term relationships]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[pickup products]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Management]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/relationship-management-the-leading-man/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s no shortage of pickup training.  In fact, it seems that just about every dating guru out there is puzzling over how to find a new twist on teaching it.
Meanwhile, there is a vast emptiness when it comes to solid information on what is arguably the most significant skill there is when it comes [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part Two]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/rejection-and-the-rules-of-approach-part-two/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/rejection-and-the-rules-of-approach-part-two/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 09 Aug 2008 00:38:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Jim Dalton]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[approaching a group of women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bar and club game]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[how to talk to a group of women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[isolating your target pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[making conversation with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meeting women at bars]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meeting women at clubs]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/rejection-and-the-rules-of-approach-part-two/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[As promised in Part One, let me give you an example from my Saturday night.
One group was sitting awkwardly at the bar, in a big circle they made with a bunch of meathead looking guys to their right.  I could not tell if they were friends or not. 
One other girl looked completely miserable, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part One]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/rejection-and-the-rules-of-approach-part-one/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/rejection-and-the-rules-of-approach-part-one/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 02:33:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Jim Dalton]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Seduction]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[about attracting women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[approaching women at bars and clubs]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[getting in state]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to pickup women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[limiting beliefs]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[mastering the vibe]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/rejection-and-the-rules-of-approach-part-one/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Two limiting beliefs come to mind for me in night game, and any time overall, really.  
These involve rejection and the so-called rules of approach.  Too many times we wrap ourselves up in both of these things with certain stigmas and beliefs and end up adding way too much to the whole thing. [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Chick Whisperer #23 &#8212; BONUS:  Meet The Six New Coaches (Plus Special Surprises)</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/chick-whisperer-23-bonus-meet-the-six-new-coaches-plus-special-surprises/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/chick-whisperer-23-bonus-meet-the-six-new-coaches-plus-special-surprises/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:12:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Podcasting/New Media]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heterocentrism]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[heterocentrist]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[podcast about dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[podcast for men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Scot McKay's coaches]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[sex positive]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[X&amp;YCommunications coaches]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/chick-whisperer-23-bonus-meet-the-six-new-coaches-plus-special-surprises/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[This time I&#8217;ve got a special bonus episode of The Chick Whisperer for you.
If you&#8217;ve been hanging around here at the blog for the past couple of weeks (i.e. &#8220;been around the blog a few times&#8221;), you&#8217;ve already gotten acquainted with our six newest members of the X &#038; Y Communications Team.  Actually, based [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>This time I've got a special bonus episode of The Chick Whisperer for you.

If you've been hanging around here at the blog for the past ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>This time I've got a special bonus episode of The Chick Whisperer for you.

If you've been hanging around here at the blog for the past couple of weeks (i.e. "been around the blog a few times"), you've already gotten acquainted with our six newest members of the X  Y Communications Team.  Actually, based on the number of e-mails and blog comments we've seen so far, I'd say you're response has been very positive.

With that in mind, the newest show features interviews with all six of the new coaches.  Having read their posts, now you'll get a chance to hear what they've got to say in their own words.  Along with a brief introduction, you'll discover where they've come from and where they are today with regard to their success with women.  Most importantly, you'll also get their vision of the future--including what they'll be focusing on in terms of blog posts and even live seminar instruction.

So instead of one co-host this time, I've actually got six.

But I've also thrown in a few more surprises for you this time 'round, including the formal announcement of the next major X  Y Communications project on relationship management.  

There's also some decidedly edgy stuff at the beginning that you're probably not used to outta me.

All that's long for "don't miss this episode".  Subscribe and download on iTunes using any of the graphics on this post.  If you do, please also leave us a review in support of the show if you would.  That helps us greatly in the rankings.

If you're not on iTunes, you can subscribe via the feed here.

Finally if you haven't already, sign up for the newsletter and get the special bonus video collection called "Coolness Personified" I've been mentioning on the show.  It's free, of course.


Be Good,

Scot



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		<title>Sexual Chocolate</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/sexual-chocolate/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/sexual-chocolate/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 17:12:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Letters From Readers]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[buying flowers and chocolate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[chocolate turns a woman on]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[conversations starters with women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to email women online]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[sexual chocolate]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[why women love chocolate]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/sexual-chocolate/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Despite its provocative title, this post actually has nothing to do with the classic Eddie Murphy reference from Coming To America.
Rather, there was a comment on the forum by Recce_God31 that I found so intriguing that I wanted to answer it here.  The context is online dating secrets:
You want me to reveal MY SECRETS&#8230; [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Deserve What You Want By Being Yourself</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-deserve-what-you-want-by-being-yourself/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-deserve-what-you-want-by-being-yourself/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 02 Aug 2008 22:46:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dr. Sasha]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Pickup]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[authentic man program]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[authentic pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to do natural pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[howtobeauthentic]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[just be yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[natural game]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[the way of the natural]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-deserve-what-you-want-by-being-yourself/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The concept of deserving what you want is the fundamental one in this community.  But let me ask you a question. How do you understand this concept?
See, some time ago I caught myself thinking that I constantly worked on developing myself in order to deserve great women in my life. Like an athlete preparing [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Train Game</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/train-game/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/train-game/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 05:09:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dave W.]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Women Attracting Men]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meet women on the train]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meeting women on the subway]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[meeting women public transportation]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[public transportation pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[subway pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[train game]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[train station pickup]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/train-game/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Many guys spend way too many hours every year catching public transport, trains, buses, subways, ferries, etc.  I used to have a 45 minute train trip every day to get to work, and 45 minutes on the train getting home.  
That&#8217;s a lot of time.  
On many of my trips I would [...]]]></description>
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		<title>My Best Online Dating Horror Stories</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/my-best-online-dating-horror-stories/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/my-best-online-dating-horror-stories/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 21:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Hilarious]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bad first date stories]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating disasters]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating horror stories]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[first dates that went wrong]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[funny online dating stories]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/my-best-online-dating-horror-stories/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Yeah, yeah.  It&#8217;s absolutely true that online dating worked out pretty well for me, ultimately.
But having given it some thought, I wanted to come clean with you about something.   
It&#8217;s not like every single date was a blissful stream of perfection.  
Sure, I met lots of great women and had a [...]]]></description>
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		<title>To Those Starting The Journey</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/to-those-starting-the-journey/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/to-those-starting-the-journey/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 29 Jul 2008 15:44:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Coaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Joseph Jensen]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ 
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“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.”
&#8211;Anais Nin
Congratulations on making a decision that will transform your life.
Seriously, congratulations. You may think “I haven’t done anything, I just got tired of spending Saturday nights playing Minesweeper/staring at [...]]]></description>
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		<title>A Pickup Line Is No Longer A Pickup Line If SHE Started It</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/a-pickup-line-is-no-longer-a-pickup-line-if-she-started-it/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/a-pickup-line-is-no-longer-a-pickup-line-if-she-started-it/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Coaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Pickup]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[bantering women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cheesy pickup lines]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[cut and paste online dating emails]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[emailing women on match.com]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[first emails to women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[online dating openers]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[online dating pickup lines]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/a-pickup-line-is-no-longer-a-pickup-line-if-she-started-it/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Lately I&#8217;ve been coaching more guys on how to succeed at online dating than ever before, and time and again I encounter something that amazes me.
I think we could all agree that using cheesy pickup lines are decidedly not the best strategy when it comes to approaching women.  In fact, they&#8217;ve kind of become [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Change Your Life! Delete These Songs From Your iPod</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/change-your-life-delete-these-songs-from-your-ipod/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/change-your-life-delete-these-songs-from-your-ipod/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 12:18:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<category><![CDATA[songs that make men look weak]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[truly terrible songs]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/change-your-life-delete-these-songs-from-your-ipod/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Yes, you read the title correctly. 
If you want to change your life and get better with everything, take this step now. Delete the following songs from your iPod. 
Here&#8217;s my &#8220;Top-Ten List Countdown&#8221;:
10. My Everything (98 Degrees)
     &#8220;You are my everything
     Nothing your love won&#8217;t bring
 [...]]]></description>
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		<title>How To Approach Naturally Without Fear</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-approach-naturally-without-fear/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/how-to-approach-naturally-without-fear/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2008 16:09:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I always wondered how to approach and start a conversation with the attractive women I would meet on the street, in a supermarket, or in a coffee shop.
At first, I felt that initial excitement arising within me, but this excitement quickly turned into a paralytic fear…Have you ever felt this paralyzing, soul-freezing fear? 
Hot on [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Personal Brand Identity</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/personal-brand-identity/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/personal-brand-identity/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 11:47:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dave W.]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[day two game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[finding my identity]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to be memorable]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to come off as cool]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to present yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[peacocking]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[personal branding]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[who am I]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[In the corporate world brand identity is very important as it makes a product more memorable. If we use Coca Cola as an example, they have a very recognisable brand.  
They have their red swirly pattern all over everything.  
All their bottles have it and all of their staff wear it (in some [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Discomfort and Awareness:  A Tale of Two Dates</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/discomfort-and-awareness-a-tale-of-two-dates/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/discomfort-and-awareness-a-tale-of-two-dates/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 16:55:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Joseph Jensen]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[Consider two separate dates with two different women:
Scenario 1: It was a gorgeous Wednesday before a long weekend. I awoke from a full night’s sleep ready to conquer the world by lunch, and cure cancer by dinner. And I did (almost), giving a very well-received client presentation and setting a personal best on the bench [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Online Dating:  Loaded Down With Questions [Video]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-loaded-down-with-questions-video/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-loaded-down-with-questions-video/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2008 17:24:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Dating Coaching]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[OK, here&#8217;s yet another video blog for you, loaded down with online dating tips just for you.
And appropriately as such, this particular video considers what to do when someone you&#8217;ve just met starts loading you down with questions&#8230;.
&#160; 



&#160; 
So tell me, I bet you can relate to this one, can&#8217;t you?  Let&#8217;s hear [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Body Language:  From Russia With Love</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/body-language-from-russia-with-love/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/body-language-from-russia-with-love/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 20 Jul 2008 14:58:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Being Cool]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Jim Dalton]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[body language attraction]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[how to carry yourself]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to have a masculine voice]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/body-language-from-russia-with-love/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Last night, I was watching From Russia with Love.  Its one of the best Sean Connery Bond films, and it made me think a lot about my article, Body Language and your overall presentation.  
Gentlemen, how you present yourself plays such an important role with MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) and everything [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Chick Whisperer #22 &#8212; Shyness And Introversion</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-22-shyness-and-introversion/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-chick-whisperer-22-shyness-and-introversion/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jul 2008 19:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Inner Game]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Podcasting/New Media]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice for introverts]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating advice for shy guys]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[dating tips for introverts]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[getting rid of shyness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[how to get over shyness]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[shy guys]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[shy vs. introverted]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[shy women]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[shyness vs. introversion]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[tips for introverted guys]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[From the very beginning when we launched The Chick Whisperer show, we decided that there were several ways the show had to be unique, and therefore separate itself from the herd.
First, we were going to focus on being a man of character who therefore attracts only the HIGHEST ECHELON of women
Second, we were going to [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:summary>From the very beginning when we launched The Chick Whisperer show, we decided that there were several ways the show had to be unique, and therefore separate itself from the herd.

First, we were going to focus on being a man of character who therefore attracts only the HIGHEST ECHELON of women

Second, we were going to go out of our way to honor the often extreme intelligence of our listenership--most of whom are pretty successful guys.  We hope we've been faithful to that thus far.

Third, even though we--and our co-hosts--tend to have some completely killer premium programs out there, we pledged that we would NEVER slack off from providing practical, real-world content worthy of high-dollar products...but all for F-R-E-E.

I can say with a straight face that this episode--number twenty-two--holds the "fundamentals" to a particularly high standard.


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		<title>Why Cold Approaches Are So Last Century</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-cold-approaches-are-so-last-century/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/why-cold-approaches-are-so-last-century/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Jul 2008 03:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Life]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[The Mad Hatter]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Day game is my domain&#8221; he told me as we sat down for some lunch.  My friend was known in our circle as a day game purist, with a style much different from mine.  
He seemed to have an &#8220;on/off&#8221; switch. 
Today, he planned to flip his &#8220;on&#8221; switch and had set aside [...]]]></description>
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		<title>The Team Has Been Expanded:  Six New Instructors Named</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-team-has-been-expanded-six-new-instructors-named/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/the-team-has-been-expanded-six-new-instructors-named/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:15:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Cool Stuff]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Dating Coaching]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[deserve what you want coaches]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[edumckaytion blog contributors]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[new coaches]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[scot mckay's instructors]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[X &amp; Y Communications instructors]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I couldn&#8217;t be more pleased to bring you today&#8217;s major announcement.
The X &#038; Y Communications team has been expanded to include six new instructors.
We have known for several months now that the character-based approach to dating and seduction advice was powerful enough and had gained enough traction that we wanted to bring more voices and [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Online Dating:  More Than Just A Pretty Face?  [Video]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-more-than-just-a-pretty-face-video/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-more-than-just-a-pretty-face-video/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 11 Jul 2008 10:39:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Online Dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[Video Blogs]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[improve my online dating profile]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[online dating strategy]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[online dating training]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[stuck-up women]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[winning attitude for online dating]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[women who don't complete the profile]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/online-dating-more-than-just-a-pretty-face-video/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[I think we&#8217;ve all seen those online profiles where the woman automatically assumed that she was enough of a &#8220;hottie&#8221; that her pictures were all that was necessary.  The rest of the profile is essentially blank as a sheet, with the possible exception of a stray line to the effect of, &#8220;Hey, you&#8217;ve seen [...]]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;That&#8217;s Why I Don&#8217;t Eat Shrimp&#8221;</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/thats-why-i-dont-eat-shrimp/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/thats-why-i-dont-eat-shrimp/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jul 2008 06:41:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Men Attracting Women]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[I'm 30 she's 18]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[
&#160;Are you an NBA fan?  If you watched the playoffs, then no doubt you saw the T-Mobile commercial where Charles Barkley is constantly calling D-Wade.  Hilarious stuff, particularly when Chuck inanely spouts, &#8220;That&#8217;s why I don&#8217;t eat shrimp.&#8221;
Well, despite all the marketing hype in the Seduction Community about pulling the youngest hotties possible [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Ten Days In Mexico [Part Five]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/ten-days-in-mexico-part-five/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/ten-days-in-mexico-part-five/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2008 13:26:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[


&#160;

We rolled into Monterrey, Nuevo Leon around 1:30 am.  We didn&#8217;t get to sleep until 6:00.
Wild partying?  Hardly.
It simply took that long to get a hotel.
The first two places we checked were packed to the gills.  It turned out that the largest IT convention of the entire year happened to be taking [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Relationship Management:  What If Neither Of You Wears The Pants?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/relationship-management-what-if-neither-of-you-wears-the-pants/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/relationship-management-what-if-neither-of-you-wears-the-pants/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Jul 2008 03:17:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Relationship Management]]></category>

		<category><![CDATA[can women wear the pants]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[religious manipulation]]></category>

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		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://edumckaytion.com/blog/relationship-management-what-if-neither-of-you-wears-the-pants/</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[  If you&#8217;ve listened to the brand new X &#038; Y On The Fly Dating Podcast episode called &#8220;Who Wears The Pants?&#8221;, then you already know we throw a pretty mean twist on things right from the beginning.
Basically, within a minute or two of launching the show we talk about someone who might be [...]]]></description>
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		<title>X &#038; Y On The Fly #38 &#8212; Who Wears The Pants?</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-38-who-wears-the-pants/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/x-y-on-the-fly-38-who-wears-the-pants/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:26:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
		<category><![CDATA[Podcasting/New Media]]></category>

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		<category><![CDATA[decision making in relationships]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[ Ready for some innovative ideas on a topic that most people dare not even touch in this age of &#8220;political correctness&#8221;?
You bet you are.
Relationship management is a massively important yet amazingly under-emphasized topic.  That&#8217;s why Emily and I just finished hashing out a whole show on the concept of &#8220;wearing the pants&#8221; in [...]]]></description>
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		<itunes:subtitle>Ready for some innovative ideas on a topic that most people dare not even touch in this age of "political correctness"?

You bet you are.

Relationship ...</itunes:subtitle>
		<itunes:summary>Ready for some innovative ideas on a topic that most people dare not even touch in this age of "political correctness"?

You bet you are.

Relationship management is a massively important yet amazingly under-emphasized topic.  That's why Emily and I just finished hashing out a whole show on the concept of "wearing the pants" in the relationship.  

Guys all over the world are subject to ridicule and even flat-out humiliation if the women in their lives "wear the pants".  So what exactly does that mean?  More importantly, is a guy supposed to have a tyrannical "death grip" on things or is some balance more appropriate as far as decision-making is concerned?

And what happens when the woman calls the shots?  Find out from two other women besides Emily what their take on that is...and you might want to sit down first.

Get the most comprehensive discussion on this topic you've ever heard, and walk away with a clearer sense of exactly how men and women can find true balance when it comes to relationship management.

Or just listen simply for the sake of hearing Emily growl like a tiger at the beginning.  The show almost ended there...

Subscribe and download here if you aren't on iTunes.  If you've got iTunes, just click the graphic above.

Remember to sign up for our newsletter at www.deservewhatyouwant.com.  Our gift to you is now the brand-new e-book on how to handle breakups.  You may remember the blog series I did on that subject a while back.  Well, I've added some material and put it all into a convenient e-book for you...cool, huh?

Enjoy the podcast.  By the way, see if you can ID the major factor on the topic of "wearing the pants" that Emily and I completely forgot to address...because that's exactly what the next blog post will cover.


Be Good,

Scot


P.S.  By the way, if XYotF has been even .006% meaningful to you, PLEASE Digg us, Stumble us or save us to Del.icio.us.  The good word of listeners just like you helps our audience grow. 


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		<title>Ten Days In Mexico [Part Four]</title>
		<link>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/ten-days-in-mexico-part-four/</link>
		<comments>http://edumckaytion.com/blog/ten-days-in-mexico-part-four/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 17:29:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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Emily&#8217;s uncle Manuel lives in the urban equivalent of the Batcave&#8211;or is that &#8220;Gruta De Murcielagos&#8220;?
Either way, it&#8217;s impressive.
All that&#8217;s visible from the city street (if Delicias classifies as a &#8220;city&#8221;) is a simple garage door.  Once it opens automatically, you drive down a hallway paved with Mexican tile that&#8217;s at least as long [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Tap That:  How Does Alcohol Affect Your Game? [Video]</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2008 04:20:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKay</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[You hit a bar or club, get a few drinks in you and you&#8217;re Superman with the women.
What&#8217;s up with that?  Better yet, can you &#8220;bottle that up&#8221; and take a sip elsewhere&#8230;like during the day or even online?
It&#8217;s been a while&#8230;so here&#8217;s a video blog to brighten your day.  Through the lips, [...]]]></description>
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