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Is There A Problem With Chicks?

Scot McKay — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 16:49:07 +0000

First of all, rest assured I have no problem with women. We love women around here. Actually, I have no problem with chicks, either. And by that I don’t mean the fuzzy future KFC delights...

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Letter From A Reader: Hugging, Holding Hands, And That’s It [Video]

Scot McKay — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 03:09:35 +0000

Recently I received an e-mail from Matt, who has been hanging out with a woman who seems interested in hugging and holding hands…but not a whole lot more than that, if anything. Apparently,...

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Letter From A Woman: How To Have The “Total Package”

Scot McKay — Fri, 29 May 2009 11:42:14 +0000

The following e-mail was sent by a woman named Christine in response to the latest newsletter titled “The Day The Real Men Showed Up”. I’ve received several messages very similar...

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Online Dating Vs. Dating Online

Scot McKay — Sat, 23 May 2009 19:33:29 +0000

During the conversation Zan Perrion and I had for The Master Plan one of the most fascinating themes we discussed was how we as a modern culture are becoming more and more disconnected from each...

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True Story: How To Handle AMOG Attempts By Pro Athletes

Scot McKay — Tue, 19 May 2009 13:58:49 +0000

First of all, I just wanted to let everyone know that it’s me, Scot, who is posting this. Jim didn’t originally intend for what you are about to read to be a blog post. He was simply...

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What Women REALLY Want: If You Think It’s MONEY, Read This…

Scot McKay — Wed, 13 May 2009 02:47:23 +0000

OK, here is a letter from a woman that I felt particularly compelled to share. If you’ve just finished reading my latest newsletter, then this is the SECOND e-mail from a woman you’ve...

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The Master Plan Is LIVE

Scot McKay — Fri, 08 May 2009 18:32:24 +0000

Today is the day everything changes. Until now, it has been implied to us as guys that we needed to “soften our demeanor”, “be nice” and otherwise fall in line with modern...

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The Master Plan — You Already Are A “Natural”

Scot McKay — Tue, 05 May 2009 17:53:10 +0000

Lately there’s been lots of talk about “natural game”…as if all we need to do is emulate a guy who we see as a “natural”, and we’ll somehow become more attractive to women. Now sure, having some guys...

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Retail Stores: Maximize Your Numbers In The Dating Game

Scot McKay — Fri, 03 Apr 2009 08:44:01 +0000

Hey guys, this article hit my mind as I thought about my journey in the dating game. Retail stores, malls, etc. are fantastic places to start out if you are just beginning your self change in the...

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The Chick Whisperer #28 — Is She Interested In You?

Scot McKay — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 00:51:35 +0000

The other day I was out with a new friend of mine here in San Antonio. Out of the blue, he asked me if I knew who Doc Love was. As it turned out, he had met the woman of his dreams–who is now...

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Sharpen Your Online Dating Skills Using Twitter [Video Blog]

Scot McKay — Fri, 27 Feb 2009 05:50:43 +0000

Let’s face it, guys really know how to mess up their chances with women online. As a matter of fact, it usually starts with the very first email a guy sends to a woman he’s interested in....

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Emily Is A Calendar Girl…For Real

Scot McKay — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 13:40:29 +0000

OK, the rumors are all true. And pardon me while I have a little fun with this post. By now you know about my “proof of concept”, @emilymckay. And you know we kind of like each...

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How To Have More Fun On Twitter [Video Blog]

Scot McKay — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 15:03:33 +0000

OK, so check it out. I realize that you’re probably thinking I must have a firm grasp of the obvious posting a video with a title like this. After all, shouldn’t everyone be having fun...

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Twitter Lingo: The Insider’s Guide To The Language Of Twitter [Video Blog]

Scot McKay — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 16:35:25 +0000

Lately we’ve been having a lot of fun on Twitter, which is pretty much the way it should be. One major way we’ve all been amusing ourselves is by inventing “Twitter Lingo”,...

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Broccoli Explosion: Cook For Your Date (The Vegetarian One)

Scot McKay — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 18:55:53 +0000

Here’s the thing. Some of you have been hammering me for quite some time to blog some new Cook For Your Date material. Just not enough of you to get me to get off my butt and do anything...

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Perfectionism And How To Tackle It…For Dating Success And Beyond

Scot McKay — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 16:27:07 +0000

It has been a while since I posted my last article on this blog, and it’s already February 2009, so you may wonder why I have remained silent for a few weeks? And the truth is that I was afraid. Yes,...

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Why Follow Everyone Back On Twitter? [Video Blog]

Scot McKay — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 03:04:35 +0000

It’s no secret that I personally follow just about everyone who follows me on Twitter. And that’s the way I like it. Nevertheless, I sometimes get a stray comment here and there to the...

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The Chick Whisperer #27 — Flirting And Creating Natural Attraction

Scot McKay — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 10:43:04 +0000

The concept of how to get a high-quality woman to feel attraction for us we first meet her is a popular one. Well, duh…with all the mixed messages about what women want, cultural feminization,...

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X & Y On The Fly #41 — Movie Moments

Scot McKay — Fri, 30 Jan 2009 19:02:58 +0000

OK, the latest X & Y On The Fly has finally hit the street. This time, Emily and I break down our all-time favorite “movie moments”. And we’re not talking about...

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Success With Women: Recognize Breakthroughs…And Kick The Door In.

Scot McKay — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 01:52:29 +0000

We’re all on our own journey and I’d like to share with you part of mine. One year ago I left my former career to start business, even though I had never sold anything before and had...

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How To Get 1000 Twitter Followers In 12 Days [Video Blog]

Scot McKay — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 17:20:21 +0000

OK, today I’ve got something that’s clearly a change of pace. As you know, I’ve been harping on Twitter constantly lately. But that’s for good reason. This is not only the...

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The Guide To Speed Dating Success

Scot McKay — Fri, 02 Jan 2009 09:20:22 +0000

(This post originated as a correspondence on speed dating between two X&Y team members. I have speed-dated on and off for approximately two years and observed the curious dynamic involved. I...

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The Chick Whisperer #26–The Dude Whisperer

Scot McKay — Fri, 26 Dec 2008 07:22:33 +0000

About a month ago, you probably heard about the book Fireworks With Females by Slade Shaw and Mirabelle Summers of Meet Your Sweet. Well, having read the book it didn’t take me long to figure...

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Twiduction: How To Meet Women On Twitter [Free E-Book]

Scot McKay — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 16:24:55 +0000

As you already know, we talk a lot about online dating around here. As a matter of fact, we sort of live and breathe it. We’re also sort of into social networking. Just a little bit. You can...

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Online Dating Success…A Real-World 76% Response Rate?

Scot McKay — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 15:36:26 +0000

OK, here it is. I get a lot of heat from certain people regarding the claim of being able to achieve a 60-80% response rate from Match.com. Apparently, some guys believe that’s a notion so...

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Mainstream “Dating Experts” And The Mama’s Boys Who Love Them

Scot McKay — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 15:28:49 +0000

Over Thanksgiving, I was in my hotel room flipping through the small amount of channels on the television. I stopped on one of those morning shows. You know the typical ones. The people are over...

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Motivation Turbo-Charger Part 1: Getting Going

Scot McKay — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 05:22:40 +0000

I want to make a confession. I have been putting off writing this article for about a week. I know that I have lots to write about, and yet I didn’t write this article until this very moment. I even...

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Emily Is On Christian Carter’s Interview Series This Month

Scot McKay — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 15:13:03 +0000

You’ve probably seen the banners on this blog for the past couple of weeks, but now that December is finally here it’s time for the official word: Yes…Emily is Christian...

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X & Y On The Fly #40–When Kids Are In The Picture

Scot McKay — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 12:30:48 +0000

This episode represents a bit of a change of pace for Emily and I. This time we talk about all the potential issues associated with dating when you have kids. …Or when the person you are...

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Stop Sucking It In

Scot McKay — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 22:10:09 +0000

Hey guys, today I want you to think to yourself if have you at any point recently looked into the mirror and sucked your stomach in? Don’t worry guys, I’ve done it. I think we all have,...

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Alcohol-Free Authenticity — Improve Your Success With Women When Sober

Scot McKay — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:06:31 +0000

When you are out on the town having a good time with your friends and talking to girls, it may be so tempting to have a few drinks. Perhaps, drinking allows you to relax, get you out of your head,...

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The Power of Being Observant In Pickup

Scot McKay — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 06:44:57 +0000

Ok guys, around here it is mentioned a lot how a man can almost have what appears to be superpowers with a woman. Being observant is yet another one of those powers. I find it to be the most...

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MeetUp.com As A Dating Site?

Scot McKay — Fri, 07 Nov 2008 22:35:35 +0000

We get quite a number of e-mails from both men and women asking where in the world they can meet MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex). Some don’t exactly live in thriving metropolises. Most...

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The Chick Whisperer BONUS–Stop Giving Your Power Away

Scot McKay — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 15:46:07 +0000

About a year ago I recorded a very special episode of The Chick Whisperer with none other than Brent from Absolute Power Dating and David DeAngelo “Advanced Mastery Series” fame. At the...

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Junior Is A Flirt

Scot McKay — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 06:14:29 +0000

Keep your infant daughters away from my kid. Actually, check that. Keep your pre-teen daughters away from him. Seriously, Scot, Jr. (aka “Micky Mac”) is a serious flirt. Already. At...

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Universal Conversation Skills: Talk To Anyone, Anytime, Anywhere

Scot McKay — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 17:30:50 +0000

For the longest time I was frustrated. I wanted people to take an interest in me. After all I thought I was interesting. I had just returned to the states after two years living abroad. I thought I...

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Let’s Hook Up And I’ll Do You

Scot McKay — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 13:47:03 +0000

I started surfing back in the 80’s. Part of what went along with that, for better or worse, was using a certain lingo unique to surfers (or allegedly so). Some called it...

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A Powerful Way To Lead A Woman

Scot McKay — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 03:51:30 +0000

What I’m going to share with you today is the kind of the elusive obvious that can totally make or break your interaction with the woman. If you frequently finish in the “just friends” zone with the...

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You Introverts Think You’ve Got It Tough?

Scot McKay — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 14:08:17 +0000

Hey brothers, first of all, apologies for neglecting my contributions to this wealth of knowledge. I have been busy trying to acquire my first property and moving out. Thanks for your responses to my...

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When It’s Time To Break Up

Scot McKay — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 07:39:16 +0000

Breakups, ending the relationship, moving on–the wild emotional roller coaster ride that follows or ensues during. It can be one of the toughest emotional deals to go through, or at least that...

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Paul Newman Was A “Big Four” Guy

Scot McKay — Sun, 28 Sep 2008 00:39:18 +0000

I just got home from a busy Saturday to find out that Paul Newman passed away. He was 83, and he had lived a full life. Let me be clear, though. He didn’t necessarily live a full live because...

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New Facebook Group: Get More Free Stuff

Scot McKay — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 11:38:31 +0000

So are you getting sick of me sending you free stuff yet? Didn’t think so. So with that in mind, Emily and I have created a Facebook group. The name? “Free Stuff From X & Y...

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Get The Deserve What You Want Toolbar!

Scot McKay — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 18:16:00 +0000

I’m sure some of y’all have the Google toolbar, or maybe the Alexa toolbar on your browsers. They’re a great way to get what you want from the Web as quickly and easily as...

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Who Says The Leading Man ISN’T About Pickup, After All?

Scot McKay — Sun, 21 Sep 2008 00:28:29 +0000

Okay, so you’ve been hearing me tell you about how The Leading Man is all about relationship management. And although I do share some secrets for establishing yourself as a relationship...

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Structured Authentic Game

Scot McKay — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 03:06:49 +0000

A few years ago when I was just starting on this journey to becoming a man who is successful with women, I studied a lot of material on the structure of “outer” game. As many people here would know,...

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Name Memorization And The Art Of Working the Room

Scot McKay — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 03:58:41 +0000

Before you read this post, I ask that you ready yourself to learn and apply what you’re about to read. When I first got into pickup this was my “working the room” game and it...

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The Leading Man Is Now Available Worldwide

Scot McKay — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 20:45:37 +0000

As of yesterday at noon Texas time, The Leading Man has now been released to the world. Unless you’ve been hiding under a rock, you already know that this is the world’s first complete...

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Your Phone Game Tip For The Day

Scot McKay — Sat, 13 Sep 2008 09:06:20 +0000

Once upon a time, there was a guy. Let’s call him Dan. He worked for a major courier company, delivering parcels on the same route just about every day. There was one particular business on...

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Why I Wake Up Excited In The Morning

Scot McKay — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 07:55:09 +0000

Having read the title of this post, I have a guess what you might be thinking. No, it’s not necessarily because Emily is in a frisky mood…again. At least that’s not what I’m...

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Thundercat’s BootyCast

Scot McKay — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 11:07:21 +0000

How’s it going everyone? Today I was Joseph “Thundercat” Matthews’ guest on his BootyCast podcast. Surprised? Well, don’t ever say I shy away from hardcore Seduction...

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The Chick Whisperer #24–Taking Care Of Business In The Bedroom

Scot McKay — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 07:53:37 +0000

That’s right, this episode is all about sexual wizardry. Make your woman want to purrrrr like the kitten she is. Meow. All of this is courtesy of my man Alex Allman, author of Revolutionary...

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X & Y On The Fly #39–Dealing With Exes

Scot McKay — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 10:00:06 +0000

Who wants “drama” with exes? Certainly not us. And unless you’re weird or something, neither do you. So that said, tune in to the latest episode of X & Y On The Fly and find...

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Tonight: X Factor Dating’s Singles Showcase

Scot McKay — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 19:46:06 +0000

I’m pleased to announce that I am part of the X Factor Dating’s Singles Showcase for September. As a matter of fact, out of 21 dating experts they are going to be featuring this month, I get the...

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Make Your Authentic Voice Heard

Scot McKay — Mon, 01 Sep 2008 18:04:02 +0000

As I was driving home a couple of days ago thinking about writing this post, I got a message from my friend that sounded a bit new-agey but perfectly summarised some of my ideas on how we can relate...

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Three Tips For Guys Who Are Starting Out

Scot McKay — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 02:03:10 +0000

In today’s post I’m going to try to break down some of the things that I did when I was starting out on this journey that I believe helped me out. First, I recommend getting some...

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The Leading Man: Web Site Is LIVE

Scot McKay — Sat, 23 Aug 2008 15:39:30 +0000

After pulling several “all nighters” this week, the all-new web site for The Leading Man has been launched. About a week ago, I let you in on some of the very basic details in this blog...

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Be a Social Leader in One Easy Step

Scot McKay — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 18:05:33 +0000

In my journey through pickup I’ve found this whole thing is more about learning social leadership than anything else. One thing we all have in common is we are leaders. If we weren’t...

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Five Ways To Get Women To Approach You

Scot McKay — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 18:30:29 +0000

Here’s a question I get all the time: “Hey Scot, how do I know when a woman is interested in me? And how can I get women to approach me first?” Okay, that’s actually two...

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The Top Ten Places On Earth To Take A Woman

Scot McKay — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 06:15:44 +0000

We’ve talked before about the importance of going on a “road trip” with someone you’ve met recently and think you might really like. I’m on record as seeing this as a...

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Relationship Management: The Leading Man

Scot McKay — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:28:16 +0000

There’s no shortage of pickup training. In fact, it seems that just about every dating guru out there is puzzling over how to find a new twist on teaching it. Meanwhile, there is a vast...

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Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part Two]

Scot McKay — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 00:38:33 +0000

As promised in Part One, let me give you an example from my Saturday night. One group was sitting awkwardly at the bar, in a big circle they made with a bunch of meathead looking guys to their right....

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Rejection And The Rules Of Approach [Part One]

Scot McKay — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 02:33:11 +0000

Two limiting beliefs come to mind for me in night game, and any time overall, really. These involve rejection and the so-called rules of approach. Too many times we wrap ourselves up in both of...

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Chick Whisperer #23 — BONUS: Meet The Six New Coaches (Plus Special Surprises)

Scot McKay — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 18:12:34 +0000

This time I’ve got a special bonus episode of The Chick Whisperer for you. If you’ve been hanging around here at the blog for the past couple of weeks (i.e. “been around the blog a...

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Sexual Chocolate

Scot McKay — Sun, 03 Aug 2008 17:12:36 +0000

Despite its provocative title, this post actually has nothing to do with the classic Eddie Murphy reference from Coming To America. Rather, there was a comment on the forum by Recce_God31 that I...

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How To Deserve What You Want By Being Yourself

Scot McKay — Sat, 02 Aug 2008 22:46:35 +0000

The concept of deserving what you want is the fundamental one in this community. But let me ask you a question. How do you understand this concept? See, some time ago I caught myself thinking that I...

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Train Game

Scot McKay — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 05:09:49 +0000

Many guys spend way too many hours every year catching public transport, trains, buses, subways, ferries, etc. I used to have a 45 minute train trip every day to get to work, and 45 minutes on the...

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My Best Online Dating Horror Stories

Scot McKay — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 21:54:54 +0000

Yeah, yeah. It’s absolutely true that online dating worked out pretty well for me, ultimately. But having given it some thought, I wanted to come clean with you about something. It’s...

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To Those Starting The Journey

Scot McKay — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 15:44:27 +0000

“And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight inside the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.” –Anais Nin Congratulations on making a...

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A Pickup Line Is No Longer A Pickup Line If SHE Started It

Scot McKay — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 20:58:58 +0000

Lately I’ve been coaching more guys on how to succeed at online dating than ever before, and time and again I encounter something that amazes me. I think we could all agree that using cheesy...

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Change Your Life! Delete These Songs From Your iPod

Scot McKay — Sat, 26 Jul 2008 12:18:20 +0000

Yes, you read the title correctly. If you want to change your life and get better with everything, take this step now. Delete the following songs from your iPod. Here’s my “Top-Ten List...

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How To Approach Naturally Without Fear

Scot McKay — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 16:09:50 +0000

I always wondered how to approach and start a conversation with the attractive women I would meet on the street, in a supermarket, or in a coffee shop. At first, I felt that initial excitement...

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Personal Brand Identity

Scot McKay — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 11:47:06 +0000

In the corporate world brand identity is very important as it makes a product more memorable. If we use Coca Cola as an example, they have a very recognisable brand. They have their red swirly...

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Discomfort and Awareness: A Tale of Two Dates

Scot McKay — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 16:55:28 +0000

Consider two separate dates with two different women: Scenario 1: It was a gorgeous Wednesday before a long weekend. I awoke from a full night’s sleep ready to conquer the world by lunch, and cure...

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Online Dating: Loaded Down With Questions [Video]

Scot McKay — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 17:24:32 +0000

OK, here’s yet another video blog for you, loaded down with online dating tips just for you. And appropriately as such, this particular video considers what to do when someone you’ve just...

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Body Language: From Russia With Love

Scot McKay — Sun, 20 Jul 2008 14:58:17 +0000

Last night, I was watching From Russia with Love. Its one of the best Sean Connery Bond films, and it made me think a lot about my article, Body Language and your overall presentation. Gentlemen,...

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The Chick Whisperer #22 — Shyness And Introversion

Scot McKay — Sat, 19 Jul 2008 19:37:19 +0000

From the very beginning when we launched The Chick Whisperer show, we decided that there were several ways the show had to be unique, and therefore separate itself from the herd. First, we were going...

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Why Cold Approaches Are So Last Century

Scot McKay — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 03:45:13 +0000

“Day game is my domain” he told me as we sat down for some lunch. My friend was known in our circle as a day game purist, with a style much different from mine. He seemed to have an...

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The Team Has Been Expanded: Six New Instructors Named

Scot McKay — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 01:15:22 +0000

I couldn’t be more pleased to bring you today’s major announcement. The X & Y Communications team has been expanded to include six new instructors. We have known for several months...

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Online Dating: More Than Just A Pretty Face? [Video]

Scot McKay — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 10:39:21 +0000

I think we’ve all seen those online profiles where the woman automatically assumed that she was enough of a “hottie” that her pictures were all that was necessary. The rest of the...

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“That’s Why I Don’t Eat Shrimp”

Scot McKay — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 06:41:24 +0000

Are you an NBA fan? If you watched the playoffs, then no doubt you saw the T-Mobile commercial where Charles Barkley is constantly calling D-Wade. Hilarious stuff, particularly when Chuck...

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Ten Days In Mexico [Part Five]

Scot McKay — Sun, 06 Jul 2008 13:26:56 +0000

We rolled into Monterrey, Nuevo Leon around 1:30 am. We didn’t get to sleep until 6:00. Wild partying? Hardly. It simply took that long to get a hotel. The first two places we checked...

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Relationship Management: What If Neither Of You Wears The Pants?

Scot McKay — Fri, 04 Jul 2008 03:17:50 +0000

If you’ve listened to the brand new X & Y On The Fly Dating Podcast episode called “Who Wears The Pants?”, then you already know we throw a pretty mean twist on things right...

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X & Y On The Fly #38 — Who Wears The Pants?

Scot McKay — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:26:48 +0000

Ready for some innovative ideas on a topic that most people dare not even touch in this age of “political correctness”? You bet you are. Relationship management is a massively important...

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Ten Days In Mexico [Part Four]

Scot McKay — Sat, 28 Jun 2008 17:29:29 +0000

Emily’s uncle Manuel lives in the urban equivalent of the Batcave–or is that “Gruta De Murcielagos“? Either way, it’s impressive. All that’s visible from...

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Tap That: How Does Alcohol Affect Your Game? [Video]

Scot McKay — Wed, 25 Jun 2008 04:20:55 +0000

You hit a bar or club, get a few drinks in you and you’re Superman with the women. What’s up with that? Better yet, can you “bottle that up” and take a sip...

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The Chick Whisperer #21 — Greatness Gets Women

Scot McKay — Sat, 21 Jun 2008 19:32:04 +0000

As usual, this episode has been a long time coming. It has been exactly two months since the last show. What’s more my co-host this time should have been on ages ago. I’m joined by none...

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Ten Days In Mexico [Part Three]

Scot McKay — Sat, 21 Jun 2008 01:58:50 +0000

No sooner than I had crossed the intersection I was compelled to slam on the brakes and throw the “Short Bus” into reverse. Honestly, I had simply proceeded forward from the stop...

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Ten Days In Mexico [Part Two]

Scot McKay — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 12:01:04 +0000

Hanging out a mile or two from la frontera (the border) is one thing. Descending past about 30 miles into the “interior” of Mexico is something else completely. And I’m...

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Why Monogamy Isn’t An Option To Most Of The Seduction Community

Scot McKay — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:51:24 +0000

Here’s a question I received via Facebook that really caught my attention. So much so that I’m sharing the Q&A with you here. By the way, if you’d like to...

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Godspeed, Jim McKay

Scot McKay — Sun, 08 Jun 2008 06:58:42 +0000

Today legendary sportscaster Jim McKay passed away at age 86, reportedly from natural causes. The news caught my attention, especially since all through my childhood I was repeatedly asked if I was...

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Ten Days In Mexico [Part One]

Scot McKay — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 14:31:49 +0000

Welcome to the first of a multi-part series chronicling the hijinks, escapades and even life-shaking epiphanies experienced on our recent adventure driving into the heart of Mexico. Fair...

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On A “Working Vacation” In Mexico

Scot McKay — Wed, 28 May 2008 16:36:58 +0000

As many of you who get our newsletter already know, Emily and I are driving around Mexico this week. We’re visiting friends and family, knocking back a few cervezas, and generally enjoying the...

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What New-School Women’s Birth Control Means To Men

Scot McKay — Fri, 23 May 2008 11:28:07 +0000

I think it’s time someone talked about women’s birth control from a man’s perspective. Yeah, yeah. I understand that what a “woman does with her own body is her own...

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The Top Ten Most Underrated Dating/Seduction Gurus

Scot McKay — Mon, 19 May 2008 01:44:31 +0000

I believe it’s high time for there to be a list of the “unsung heroes” of men’s dating and seduction advice. After all, there are plenty of published lists of top PUAs and/or...

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One Dozen Top Dating And Seduction Resources For Men On The Net

Scot McKay — Thu, 15 May 2008 02:31:37 +0000

Recently I did a video featuring all the cool resources on the Internet I could find for men when it comes to dating and seduction. For fun, I’ve decided to list the twelve best (outside of the...

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Understanding Women: Does The Car You Drive Matter? [Part Two][Video]

Scot McKay — Mon, 12 May 2008 10:12:36 +0000

Now it’s time for the second part of that two-part video blog series on “The Car You Drive”. Last time we talked about your car’s condition and upkeep. In this segment,...

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You Can Take Her Bra Off With One Hand, But You’ll Need BOTH For This

Scot McKay — Mon, 12 May 2008 09:40:50 +0000

Maybe you remember this post about how to take a woman’s bra off with one hand. Well, apparently women have the exact opposite problem. Enjoy this video: YouTube Somehow, the appearance of...

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Finally Finished: Deserve What You Want…The Audiobook

Scot McKay — Sun, 11 May 2008 12:13:56 +0000

At long last, the audiobook version of Deserve What You Want is here. Someone said, “Yeah well, it’s about time.” And I heard you. Well, I have to tell you, it’s a MASSIVE...

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Attracting Women: The Car You Drive [Part One][Video]

Scot McKay — Fri, 09 May 2008 00:23:59 +0000

Here’s the first of a two-part video blog series on “The Car You Drive”. Lots of guys think that the hottest women only want a guy with a nice car. Usually, and predictably, the...

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How To Date Taller Women

Scot McKay — Mon, 05 May 2008 00:54:57 +0000

I’ve been getting numerous requests for some info on this topic lately. And I’ll tell you, what was supposed to have been a blog post grew into a full-scale Special Report. There has...

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