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    <title>Love &amp; Glitter</title>
    
    
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    <updated>2012-02-22T13:25:10-05:00</updated>
    
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        <title>Pushing On Instead Of Pushing Back</title>
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        <published>2012-02-22T13:25:10-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-22T13:38:52-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
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        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Getting There" />
        
        



    <content type="html">I'm practicing taking ten deep breaths and censoring myself every two seconds in response to stuff I find challenging. I know that the majority of the people in my life (both personal life and wider Internetz life) are cool with me, and I know that focusing on those who aren't...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>There was a screed here.</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016762c1168f970b</id>
        <published>2012-02-21T19:17:40-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-21T19:18:21-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
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    <content type="html">I deleted it. Because I'm flighty like that. So shoot me. :) I'm going shopping at Michael's with a kick ass coupon and then I'm going to sit somewhere peaceful and quiet with my manfingy. Internetz, I quit you. (Until tomorrow, anyway.)&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>The Original Wound</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016301c0e935970d</id>
        <published>2012-02-21T01:28:07-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-21T01:28:07-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="authenticity" />
        
        



    <content type="html">So, we've moved (not so gently past) the losing my shit part of the program and into the dealing part, and I'm breathing a deeply grateful sigh of relief that instead of spending 48 hours in a twisty knot of ohmyfuckinggodthisisawful, I only spent about ten hours in that unfortunate...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Totally real, unshielded, gross public display of angst and snot bubble inducing bawling ahead. Disregard if you wish. It won't hurt my feelings.</title>
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        <link rel="replies" type="text/html" href="http://effythewild.typepad.com/effy/2012/02/totally-real-unshielded-gross-public-display-of-angst-and-snot-bubble-inducing-bawling-ahead-disregard-if-you-wish-it-won.html" thr:count="20" thr:updated="2012-02-21T11:45:21-05:00" />
        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016301ba314c970d</id>
        <published>2012-02-20T15:01:38-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-20T15:07:20-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
        </author>
        
        



    <content type="html">Ya know. If my ex-best friend had talked to me about *any* of the things that were bothering her before she dumped me, we might have worked things out. Talking about it afterwards (and in public, no less) seems a rather shitty parting shot, but I maintain this: She is...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Happiness Is...</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c0168e7a50b78970c</id>
        <published>2012-02-19T19:31:31-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-19T19:31:31-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Book of Days" />
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Happiness is..." />
        
        



    <content type="html">...a week during which I was totally in the flow. ...only six spreads left to fill in my first Book of Days. ...a ginormous new Book of Days ready to be smushed full of my life. ...meaningful work. ...the beautiful Sisterhood LaRue. ...less Facebook. ...more time out of the house....&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>I Really Am Okay. :)</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016761f25b48970b</id>
        <published>2012-02-07T21:48:59-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-07T21:48:59-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Beautiful People" />
        
        



    <content type="html">Inspired by the fabulous Sisterhood of the Book, I have adopted a name for my inner turtle (also known as my muse, my internal inspiration station, She Who Creates). And she told me today that she wanted dangly feather earrings and wrist bangles. So I took her shopping. And she...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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        <title />
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016300f471fd970d</id>
        <published>2012-02-07T14:58:41-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-07T15:02:39-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
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    <content type="html">Rose scented soak in a claw foot tub (okay, so it's an 80 year old claw foot tub, but still!). Breakfast sandwich made by the beloved and served on a paper towel with a fresh cup of coffee on the side. A day ahead of me to do with as...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Your Story and LIAV and Andrea Schroeder! YAY!</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016761d6e847970b</id>
        <published>2012-02-06T19:48:09-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-06T19:57:23-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
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    <content type="html">I'm happy to offer you a preview of what we usually do in BOD on a weekly basis. This is a sampling of one of the three emails that will go out to our members this week. xo Hello lovely. :) It's Monday! And yes, I'm late, but it's still...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>Wild Woman &amp; Madonna</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016761ac1cce970b</id>
        <published>2012-02-04T15:16:20-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-04T15:52:59-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
        </author>
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Madonna" />
        <category scheme="http://www.sixapart.com/ns/types#category" term="Wild Woman" />
        
        



    <content type="html">If you look in my sidebar over there you'll see a graphic for 'Way Of The Wild Woman', which is a course that is gently paced enough that I have added it to my considerable list of 'stuff I'm doing for myself this year'. I spent the better part of...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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    <entry>
        <title>January 2012 In Review</title>
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        <id>tag:typepad.com,2003:post-6a0168e5606b1c970c016761914345970b</id>
        <published>2012-02-02T15:06:31-05:00</published>
        <updated>2012-02-02T15:08:28-05:00</updated>
        
        <author>
            <name>Effy</name>
        </author>
        
        



    <content type="html">Now that I have developed a definite, structured practice, I'm excited to do a month in review! It's nice to have done so much doing &amp;amp; being and to have such a gorgeous record of it! As some of the Sisters in Book of Days say: I have an awesome...&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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