http://ehealthforum.com/health/relationship_help.html en By the time a child with ADHD reaches adulthood it has usually developed coping mechanisms and can manage quite well so I speculate your wife might have more issues than the obvious. This doesn't help you now of course. You are right and divorce does seem the only option open to you. If she is child-like in demeanour she might respond to an altogether firmer approach though from what I have ... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/dE_lViSUEho" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/dE_lViSUEho/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html I honestly believe she doesn't love me anymore but won't leave because she knows she can't live the life I've created for her without me she's become accustomed to my paycheck.... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/dE_lViSUEho" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/dE_lViSUEho/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html I honestly believe she doesn't love me anymore but won't leave because she knows she can't live the life I've created for her without me she's become accustomed to my paycheck.... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/dE_lViSUEho" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/dE_lViSUEho/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html Unfortunately I wasn't sugar coating verne01 my wife has ADHD and came from a very coddled raised mother when she moved in with me originally she didn't know how to do anything not balance a check book, boil a egg, turn on a vacuum cleaner, anything! Nor was I expecting her to take care of me when she moved in. I've been on my own since I was 19 I joined the Army and they made a man out of me so ... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/dE_lViSUEho" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/dE_lViSUEho/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html Hello, While you cannot ignore the possibility your wife doesn't particularly like sex and might never do there are other possibilities too... You didn't mention whether she gets aroused or climaxes when she finally submits. Her sexual history before you, if she had any, might be significant. Was there any gossip about her then that could give a clue to her lack of interest today? I am ... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/dE_lViSUEho" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/dE_lViSUEho/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html Look... im 16 years old and im in love and have the same problem... ive always wanted to tell her though but i cant. I feel that she would hate me forever... She is coming over this weekend to sleepover, i may tell her then. Im deeply in love with my best-friend. So yeah i think the best thing to do is to just tell her. GOOD LUCK ! - Allis :3... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic35166.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/qVALInUlnho" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/qVALInUlnho/topic35166.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic35166.html Okay here's the deal all i'm a 31 year old male my wife and I have a 3 year old daughter and even prior to us having our daughter our sex life was awful for a couple in there 20's at the time once a month tops and I was always the aggressor 95% of the time. I'm not a lazy man I do more then my fare share or household chores and yard work prior military and help around the house to the point where... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/dE_lViSUEho" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/dE_lViSUEho/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-marriage-is-sexless-my-wife-is-only-and-only-married-yrs-t397190.html I lost my mom 2 weeks ago. I feel a gaping hole in my chest. Noone can put an expiration date on a period of grief. Be gentle with yourself. As time goes by I believe the pain will lessen. Meditate &amp; talk to your mom. I've done this everyday since she passed. I tell her how much I love her. I pray it gets easier &amp; I have faith it will. I ask Arch angel St. Michael to shield me from the sad... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/i-lost-my-mom-and-find-myself-completely-lost-t358782.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/XSDYeCX4JSc" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/XSDYeCX4JSc/i-lost-my-mom-and-find-myself-completely-lost-t358782.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/i-lost-my-mom-and-find-myself-completely-lost-t358782.html I received a love spell from dr.marnish@yahoo com, and within 3 days he casterd the spell, the spell started working straight away. before i could know what is happening my lover who broke my heart came to my house to ask me out for a lunch" we back together now and we are living happily - Shelee Victoria, Australia... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-boyfriend-broke-my-heart-how-do-i-fix-this-t239083.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/uMGF5PGujxg" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/uMGF5PGujxg/my-boyfriend-broke-my-heart-how-do-i-fix-this-t239083.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/my-boyfriend-broke-my-heart-how-do-i-fix-this-t239083.html Never a good idea to date a colleague... If she is adamant she can't be exclusive and give your relationship a fair trial then you have no alternatives other than to accept the fun on her terms or to end it. If you don't end it you might have lots of fun but you are likely to get badly burned. Whatever happens from now on you could soon find it impossible or very difficult to continue workin... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/casual-fling-turned-serious-t397088.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/uAPBIhwI-KM" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/uAPBIhwI-KM/casual-fling-turned-serious-t397088.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/casual-fling-turned-serious-t397088.html Hello again Janey, I am sorry it has turned out this way for you. These things do happen in the best of marriages and often resolve themselves and can even lead to an even stronger marriage. We cannot control who we become infatuated with and infatuation is probably the best description of what your husband is feeling. Truthfully, it could just as easily have been you. At least you aren't... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/marriage-issues-t394537.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/jULiQWKeryY" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/jULiQWKeryY/marriage-issues-t394537.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/marriage-issues-t394537.html I think you know the answer already and you are looking for approval. Look no further because you have found it! The man is clearly maladjusted and without some extended psychotherapy my opinion is the problem will become worse over time, if only because you will inevitably tire of forgiving him so easily because the alternative would be to become impossibly servile and even that might not curb... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/abused-or-at-fault-t397127.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/lDkVKhWnM9g" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/lDkVKhWnM9g/abused-or-at-fault-t397127.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/abused-or-at-fault-t397127.html I am having trouble in my relationship. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and (due to circumstances) we lived together for the last two months though I currently am visiting family abroad. We met and fell in love very quickly, though I was only a few months out of a longterm relationship and though I had some qualms about it moving too fast, we were very happy. However, after only... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/abused-or-at-fault-t397127.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/lDkVKhWnM9g" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/lDkVKhWnM9g/abused-or-at-fault-t397127.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/abused-or-at-fault-t397127.html Lisa Good luck on your journey. My husband of 15 years has a similar problem. We are now 6 years into this revelation. Certainly difficult for a trusting wife to help someone walk through this stuff.... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/husband-having-oral-sex-with-other-men-t295323.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/QYQnlwgtEhs" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/QYQnlwgtEhs/husband-having-oral-sex-with-other-men-t295323.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/husband-having-oral-sex-with-other-men-t295323.html I really need some urgent advice. My husband is a bisexual and he confessed to me last year when I confronted him with evidence.I accidently read some of his emails and came thru the biggest shock of my married life of 12 years.He then told me this is a big chance for him if I forgave him and I did forgive him only to be a fool. A year later I get more evidence that he is still cheating on me thou... <a href="http://ehealthforum.com/health/bisexual-husband-t397089.html">click here to continue</a> <br /><br /> <i>Content provided by members of the <a href="http://ehealthforum.com">eHealthForum.com</a> community</i><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~4/UW3wvOoP4Lw" height="1" width="1"/> http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/ehf_rss-category-new_posts-15/~3/UW3wvOoP4Lw/bisexual-husband-t397089.html http://ehealthforum.com/health/bisexual-husband-t397089.html