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Using your dream and imagination for success in everything

2009-09-19T23:02:00.000-07:00

Dream and imagination is real easy way to success in everything. It worked for me lot of times. You too use this trick to succeed at everything in your life.

It is similar to setting goals. For me, goals should be used just to enjoy your talents rather than checking them. We, all people, are born with natural talents and skills. When I doubt any one of my skills, it become tougher than normally I am doing it. Isn’t it? You shouldn’t need to believe you have talents and skills. Just realize them. Once you realize your talents and skills, then you can enjoy achieving your dreams and goals.

First, you have to dream how you want to be after one year. Don’t care whether it is possible or not? Just imagine. Have a separate note and write your goal on it. Write the date you want to achieve it. Let’s name the book as Dream book.

Next step is the toughest one. Because whenever you have to start something, you need to give your full concentration and energy. Next one week is to spend with the analysis of the ways to achieve. Use your imagination. Strive to get as many ways to achieve it. Write them all in the dream book. Then, choose a right way which should match for your unique skills and talents. Write it on the dream book.

Now separate the book as follows:

1. First page should be used to write your dream. Second page should be used to write your skills and talents(+). Third page is for your weakness(-). Fourth page is for what are your weakness can be converted as your +. Fifth page is should be used to write the achievements in your way to your goals.

2. From sixth page, write the date of next Sunday. Dedicate every next page to each Sundays which will be useful to review and planning for every week. You can choose any day instead of Sunday, but it should be a holiday.

Choose a convenient time for you on Sunday to review the last week’s achievements and failures. Dream the next week’s goal. Make it as a challenging week by setting tougher goal. Do this every Sunday. Have a habit of reading the dream book everyday. Have a review at every month. The first six month would be tougher than the next.

Write the following in the first page of the dream book.
1. Don’t give up
2. Don’t procrastinate
3. I am going to enjoy every Sunday with my achievements

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2009-09-19T06:16:00.000-07:00

Your life become wonderful when you know how to live in this moment. It is a great experience. It means "No Tomorrow! No Worries!"

You know, your life is collection of the moments you spend. As long as you hold the control over your thoughts, you are the owner of the moment. But, to be honest, you can't control your thoughts. But you need to take the ownership of your thoughts. How?

All you have to do is analyze your thought process. Identify the source of your thoughts. Understand them rather than controlling them. This is the secret of living in this moment. For detailed analysis click here.

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2009-09-09T22:26:00.000-07:00

What is life?

Everybody has different opinion about life. It seems to be lots of different characteristics to life. But life remains same for all of us. Life is nothing but your present moment. Your life exists in your present.

Your present moment is wasted by your needless thoughts. Do you know the source of your thoughts? why are you thinking in particular way? Can't you think like Gandhi? Why?

How was yesterday?

When I ask this question, you should have some answer about the day. You may say it is great, not so good or not so bad...etc. But it all about your convenience with handling your thoughts.

When someone ready to face a difficult period means, he has the skills to handle such situations convenient. For you it is a great courage. But for him, it is just matter of handling the present moment with full of awareness.

If you learn the skill of handling the present moment, it means you are going to enjoy your life.

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About this Blog

2009-09-02T23:57:00.000-07:00

The motto of this blog is to spread love and happiness everywhere. This blog is trying to give you a different view. It is all about mind and the way we are looking at everything. When you come to know there are plenty of views are available, then your life becomes to change.

This blog was not being updated regularly in the past. But it will be updated regularly from Oct'09. There won't be any rubbish here and will give you only the best. Click here to get updates.

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Few questions to motivate you

2009-09-02T23:19:00.000-07:00

Whenever I feel tired and in a situation to give up my self, the following questions helped me to motivate myself.

1. Who am I? Why am I here?

2. What is my goal? Why have I chose that goal? What happen after achieved it?

3. Am I using this body and mind to its best? How can I improve my skills to use them effectively?

4. How do I interact with people? Am I the person who is investing love everywhere?

5. How is my profession? is it interesting or boring? What is the relationship between interesting job and success? Am I ready to sacrifice my life for success ?

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2008-11-14T07:54:00.001-08:00

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2008-11-14T07:26:00.001-08:00

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Why shouldn't we judge others?

2008-11-10T06:47:00.000-08:00

Every one of us has different character. We, almost everyone, have the habit of judging other people. Every one has different metrics to categorize other people. Those metrics are the main factors to decide others characters. They are given by external circumstances.

I had heard about a shocking story of an eight year old girl. She was kidnapped by two policemen, when she was returning from her school. She was molested and raped by them. How would you judge the policemen’s character? Definitely Bad, right?
There are lots of people like them whom we are facing in our every day life. Why shouldn’t we judge them?

Those people weren’t born with those characters. They were given these characters only from their circumstances. They don’t know how to give up those. I would say they need to be seen as people who are physically challenged. I wouldn’t recommend seeing those with mercy. But I would say they need to be seen with love. Why?

In that previous incident I explained, My opinion is both of them(that child and policemen) were suffered. Obviously the policemen were suffered by mental illness. As they are mentally in bad condition, hurting their mind wouldn’t help to cure their mental illness. Obviously we are responsible for the their behavior. What we are spreading? We are spreading competition… We are spreading Jealousy… Very few people of us are spreading love around the world… Be responsible for current world and others behavior. Stop hating others…. Love them all…

So, from now onwards, whenever you have to face a person with bad character, don’t hurt him. Do something to realize his character or mistake without hurting his heart. You can show angry to correct him. But you should be aware of the object of your angry that is for his goodness (like a mother’s angry)

Stop punishing others…. Love all… Spread love around you….

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Powerful mind: Throw your reactive mind away

2008-10-24T09:31:00.000-07:00

A person, who can be hurt by others, is dangerous to the peaceful of this world. If you can not be hurt by external factors, you would not hurt anybody. Powerful mind is not an attacking mind; not a protective one; It is peaceful one.

How we are reacting to the situations comes from external factors? Whenever we are facing a new situation or new task, we have a habit of giving some judgment such as it is comfortable for us or not, good or bad… etc. That judgment is your reaction about that particular situation. How this judgment affects your mind?
If you think that situation is good, then your mind will be addicted to that external factor which causes that situation (Ex. Smoking, games, alcohol). Your level of addiction depends on how much you like the situation. Like that, if you think that situation is bad, then your mind will be hurt (financial crisis, periods of job searching…etc)

How can we stop the reactions?
Only solution to stop your reactions is realization. You should realize the judgments are made of your past experience. You should be aware while making that judgment. Is it possible to delay the judgment? If it is possible, then you can stop reacting to external factors. Then you will see the tough tasks ahead of you in new dimension.

Open your mind

2008-10-15T08:52:00.000-07:00

Who are you?
Every one has different answers for that question. Some would mention their name. Some would reply with their profession. Some would answer with their nationality. Every one of us is playing many rolls in our life.

Who are you? What are the rolls are you playing? Write down all your answers as many as possible. Strive to cover all the rolls you are playing.

Now start deleting your answers one by one. While deleting every answer, feel yourself as you are losing that identity. For example, you would be nameless after deleted your name. You would not be belonging to any religion after deleted your religion identity. Do the same for all of your answers. After deleted all those, you would not be belonging to any of your past identity.

Now sit silently for few minutes. See all the things around you as you are seeing that for the first time. See your house as new… See your Spouse, Parents and kids as some one else.

Now see yourself as someone else with eyes closed. See your thoughts. Don’t block it. Don’t justify it. Just see it…. While seeing your thoughts you may experience the silence. Silence is the most powerful meditation.

Try that and share your experiences with me. I hope that would be interesting tool to refresh and change your thoughts.

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Tips to Increase Your Creativity

2008-10-06T00:59:00.000-07:00

1. Brainstorming:
It is a traditional method to generate large number of ideas. Write down all the ideas come from your mind as it is. Don’t reject your bad ideas. Be grateful for your mind for those ideas. One thing you need to remember is rejecting the bad ideas would kill your creativity.

2. Change your routine; Do something differently than your routine. Work in different places.

3. Learn something new:
Spend at least 15 minutes per day to learn something new such as learning a foreign language, new software...etc. Learning improves the efficiency of the right brain.

3. Take a walk for 30 minutes. Walk without your old thoughts. Don’t think about your worries. Just walk.

4. Laugh: Laughing helps you to relax your mind. It allows your ideas to flow.

5. Be curious about everything. Curiosity is the main factor for the creativity.

6. Don’t be afraid of rules; don’t be afraid to make mistakes.

7. Take a break sit in silence.

8. Remember your childhood days… Think yourself as a child… Be joyful. Play with children.

9. Understand your opinions about your creativity and break them all.

10. Sleep 7 hours a day.

11. Be humor: Humor helps you to be open for new ideas.

12. Try to cry….. and try to laugh while crying.

13. Imagine yourself as a popular person you know. Write something from their point and rewrite it from your view.

14. Dance for fun. Dance without rules.

15. Rearrange the things in your house and work place.

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How can you help this world to be peaceful as an individual

2008-09-22T06:57:00.001-07:00

We know this world is now becoming difficult to live. As an individual how can you help to bring the peace? Are you aware of your responsibility for that? You can do something if you accept your responsibility. This page will guide you to do something what you can...

1. Spread the Love around you:
I hope you would accept that spreading Love is possible for you. Yes… Love is the only way to bring the peace. You should love the people around you. You know that Love is the most powerful tool than any other. So Love the people around you… whoever they are…. However they are…. Whatever they are… Love them. Don’t care about their character… Don’t worry about the image you have about them… just love them… Love all the creatures in this world unconditionally…
I am sure it will spread like the waves created when a flower is thrown into a pond. Be a first person to make that wave… Your love is the flower, throw it out everywhere. It will make a magic to your inner and outer world. So, please help this world to be beautiful by spreading the Love.

2. Spread the happiness:
Is it difficult to make the person next to you to be happy? No. You have the abilities to make others happy. You know the tricks. You only need the curiosity to spread it. You can make others happy by sharing a joke, sharing their worries and giving some solutions…etc. You can send jokes to others by SMS or email, to make them happy .
Share the happiness when you are happy… help others to be happy when you are not happy… It will make you happy. It will break your worries. It will make your family with full of happiness. It will spread to your friend then to his family. It will spread all over the world…. Be happy… Spread happy everywhere.

3. Help others:
Make a habit of helping others especially those around you. How can you help others? Plenty of ways to do that… The only thing you need is the desire of helping others.
Not only by finance, you can help them by some other ways such as providing food to poor people at least once in a year, sharing your knowledge with others to improve their skills, help them to get rid of their problem by giving different view to their problem ….etc. If you are a rich person, you can sponsor for poor students’ education.
So make a habit of spending at least 15 minutes per day for other. It will be helpful for you to spend the remaining 23.5 hours effectively. I am sure you will find this as great tool. But one condition you have to remember is there shouldn’t be any condition. Help others unconditionally.

4. Create a page like this:
1. If you are a blogger or own a website, you can create a page like this with our own ideas to make this world peaceful. If you don’t have such one, you can create blog to spread the love.
2. You can make a post about this blog so more people can read.
3. If you already have a post like this, please let me know through the contact form. So, I may choose to give a link to that post in my List of posts about Love.
4. You can email this post to your friends.

Another must read post: The Power of love

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Posts about Love

2008-09-22T06:45:00.000-07:00

This page is fully dedicated to pages about love, peace...etc. If you have such posts like this, Please feel free to let me know through the contact me form. If don't have such thing, Please create a page about that. Thanks.

The list of pages about peace and love:
Life as I know it

Avoiding risk is very risky

2008-09-20T07:00:00.000-07:00

Everyone wants to be safe in this world. Safe means securing from danger. But desire of safe is very risky. It makes you weak. Desire of safe is attribute of weakness. A deer should be more careful than a tiger. But a tiger need not to hide itself from a deer.

you think yourself as a deer. You are unaware of your inner power. You need not to be safe. The death is the safest place. But in life, risks are inevitable. If you choose to avoid taking risks, you are dead. But a person, who is not afraid of taking risks, is fearless in mind like a tiger. Do you want to be a deer or tiger?

Come out of your boundaries! Spread your wings! Enjoy this world!

Beauty of Love

2008-09-07T06:46:00.001-07:00

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What else can make this world beautiful except love? Love all. Spread it everywhere.

Love only can bring the peace in this world. It is the only solution to stop the war. spread the love everywhere.

Keep your goals away from your happiness

2008-09-02T11:36:00.000-07:00

Why we want to achieve big things? Why our mind always want to do something? Because we want to test our skills. We want show our talents to the world. Isn’t it? That is the base our goals for lots of us. We always want to show ourselves as what we are not currently.

A poor person want to become a rich man as he believes that richness would bring happiness to his life. Because he things that money is the only reason for his entire problem. He doesn’t know how to handle current struggle in his mind… So he thinks becoming rich person would bring the end for his problems. The ultimate base of our goal for lots of us is happiness. We want to be happy.

There is nothing wrong with having goals. But the base of our goals should not be happy. Why? What is wrong with having goals for happiness? The answer is “Nothing can make you happy”. You are the only administrator of you. But you gave the permission to some other external factors to control your mind. You can deny them anytime if you want.

Your happiness exists in this moment. You need not to postpone your happiness to future. Do you think that happiness will affect your progress on achieving your goals?Honestly, I don't think so.

Now, you may ask me, “What is best reason for having goals?” My answer is: It’s up to you. But it should not be for your happiness. You can live happily this life from this moment. There is no need to depend on something for your happiness. If you depend on external factors for your happiness, you are giving permission to those factors to affect your mind. Then you wouldn’t be an independence person to fix your life as your wish.

Conclusion:

Goals are good. But it shouldn’t be for your happiness. Be aware of the things which are resisting your happiness. Find the blocks and remove them to enable yourself for enjoying the life. Enjoy life from this very moment … Be happy for being you! Wishes to achieve your goals happily!

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A great day ahead of you

2008-08-26T22:55:00.000-07:00

Imagine yourself as surrounded by full of happiness and joy with eyes closed… It is a great experience, isn’t it? Why not make you surrounded by them in real life too? You can achieve that today. You are not going to read such as “101 great tips to enjoy the life” or “7 ways to improve your life”. To achieve that you need to do only one thing, which is you have known very well. No one needs to tell how to do that... It is a sure-fire way to turn this day as great day…

Love is great. Love is Wonderful… It is beyond the words…. No other thing can do the dramatic change like love. Can you love all the things in this world? Why not? You can! All of us can do it successfully. No need to wait for something to love all the creatures of the nature. Here we go!!!

First thing you have to do is you should love yourself. You cannot love anybody until you love yourself. Love yourself as a friend. Love yourself deeply. Love the others as you love yourself. Love your spouse… Love your parents… Love your friends… Love who hates you… Love who loves you… Love all the creatures in this world!!! Why not to include your enemies in this list? Love your enemies too… Love them truly! Help them to succeed! Love all the plants in this world! Love all the peoples from different countries, different cultures and different religions. Love all! Love all the good persons! Love all the worst guys too! Your heart has enough place to all!! Realize it!!! Break the limits which resist you from love other! This day is going to be a great day in your life! Love others only for love! Break the conditions! Come out of the rules which make you to refuse to love others! Love me! Love him! Love her! Love them! Spread the love to people around you by loving them! Spread the love in all directions!!! Love can change the world! Spread the love! Love makes you happy! Spread the love! Spread the happiness!!!

Thanks for your love! Thanks for spending your golden time!!!

The Power of understanding

2008-08-21T00:40:00.000-07:00

(I have used the term “UNDERSTANDING” in the meaning of giving your focus or consciousness to understand something and analyzing it)

Understanding is the most powerful tool to succeed something. It is the reason being for the winning. If you look at the winners of any field, you will find the secret of their success. They understand their field very well than any others. Understanding is an attribute of success. Understanding will convert your goals and challenges to Success. If you try to control something, it will become more difficult to handle and achieve. Obviously lack of understand will definitely bring some confusion.

If you want to succeed something, you should understand it first. Then you will find the ways to succeed it naturally. For example, If you want to succeed your enemy, you must understand them clearly than they did(that means how he did understand himself). If you understand the strength and weakness of your enemy, you can succeed them easily.

To understand Yourself:

If you want to understand something, First you need to understand yourself. If you can’t do that, you can’t understand anything. It is the one of the hardest things to achieve. Nobody can help you to understand yourself. They may give some tips, but you only can teach yourself. But it is not an impossible one. A mind refreshment practice will be helpful to achieve.

To understand something:

If you can understand yourself, you will be able to understand anything you need. In these days, to understand something is not very hard. There are lots of resources for us. Internet is the gift for us to know everything we need.

Useful tip to understand something is:

Ask many questions as much as possible related to that. Strive to find out the answers. If you decide to pursue something, you will definitely find it. But we have no interest to do so or we are unaware that we are doing things without understanding it.

Another interesting point:

We understand the things clearly which we like rather than we hate. It is a well-known point for lots of us. But how many of us are using that point to understand the things which we are struggling?

One time, One of my best friend was struggling with some financial problem for years. At that period, he couldn’t sleep and work effectively. Sometimes he didn’t take food because of that worries. After a long struggle he realized the truth. That is: Food, sleep and work are more important than money. Those things can not be ignored for any other. Financial problem is tough. Money is only for his happiness and it is not more than his life. When he understood the the relationship between the money and life, he got rid of his financial problem within next few months.

SO, I request you to understand the importance of Understanding. That is the aim of this post. Thanks for visiting Enjoy the world.

Free Ebooks:Personal Development

2008-08-17T20:09:00.000-07:00

Last night I found some wonderful ebooks on personal Development for free. They are very good in quality and some of them from famous authors.

You will need Adobe reader to read those books. If you don't have that, No need to worry. There is a link to download a free copy.

Reading such books like those will reveal some of the mystery of our mind. It will save lot of time by increasing our concentration and confidence.

The List of the ebooks:

The Confidence booster by Anna-Marie stewart

I Create Millions by Christopher Westra

The Law of attraction explained by Kenneth James MacLean

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

and lot more....

Get those Ebooks here for free

Enjoy reading those books. Thanks

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Micheal Phelps at his peak

2008-08-13T21:08:00.000-07:00

Micheal Phelps, The US swimmer has made a record of winning the 10th and 11th gold medals of his Olympics games career. He is participating in eight events. He has finished 5 events with six World marks. What a great achievement? But the main reason for this post is his sense of humor.

He said, "I got 80 text messages today. One of my friends said to,"Dude, how many times a day do I have to see your ugly face?".

Every one of us always want to touch the heights which cannot be touched by anybody. How many of us are ready to work hard than any body? "Hard work" means working with hard things to make it easier, not working hard. Because Lots of us are making the simple things as harder and keep telling "I am working hard".

The power of acceptance

2008-08-12T09:03:00.000-07:00

There is no self-growth or Personal Development without acceptance. It means accepting an experience without an intention to change it. Acceptance will improve our life dramatically.

We have lots of believes about our self. We always reject the truths which are against our believes. Whenever we come to know about our weakness, we reject it immediately by giving some reasons. If we can accept that truth, we will come out of that weakness. We should be honest to accept it without feeling guilty.

If you accept your weakness, You will come out of it
If you accept your dishonest, you will become honest
If you accept this moment without any changes, you will have a great future.

“Once we accept our limits, we go beyond them”
- Brendan Francis

The Power of Silence

2008-08-05T21:47:00.000-07:00

Silence is an attribute of divine. The main function of our mind is thinking. If we can make silence in our mind, we will realize the power of silence. Our mind is produced by our thoughts. Why we are always thinking? Could we stop that? It is so difficult to attain, but it isn’t impossible. Silence is a powerful tool to attain peace and joy.

We can attain the silence by understanding our thoughts. Understanding is a powerful tool to achieve anything. If we understand the origin and nature of thoughts, Silence will come to our mind silently. We shouldn’t focus about that. If our mind noticed that, it will become active. So let your thoughts to come and go. Don’t try to stop that. You can’t do that so. This is an effective method to achieve silence.

I request you to find out an answer for this following question:

How would you speak inside your mind if you don’t know any language?

Your comments are appreciated!

Enjoy the life by realizing the power silence!

The Power of present Moment awareness

2008-07-30T21:34:00.000-07:00

I don’t know that where you are living. But I am sure lots of us are not living in this moment. Either we live with our past memories or spend too much time on planning for future. Every one of us should learn to live at this moment.

This moment is the gateway to a new thought, a new lesson, a new future, a new relationship, a new achievement and lot more. This moment is your future. This moment is your Joy. You may imagine about happy in future, but you can experience the happy at this moment only.

The relationship between you and your life lies in this moment only. All the things are exist in this moment only. If you like, you can convert this moment as happiest past for future. If you can enjoy this moment, you definitely can enjoy the remaining of the life.

Nobody can teach you how live in this moment. You only can find out the answer for that. I request you to practice Mind Refreshment. I request you to do a research about that. It you can live in this moment, you can achieve great heights in your life.

Enjoy your life from this moment!!!

A technique to become an expert in your profession

2008-07-26T01:05:00.000-07:00

The best technique to become an expert in something is sharing the things you've known. You may wonder how it is possible? what is the relationship between them? Here it is:

1. You learn better by teaching or sharing. By sharing or teaching, You refresh your knowledge about that.

2. By sharing or teaching, your mind will become more active to learn more. Since then your inner mind will remind you frequently to learn more.

3. While learning, your inner mind helps you to learn in detail. Because it knows you are going to teach other. So, it will make you as expert in what you are learning.If you don't like to share the things with anybody, your learning power will be reduced.

4. By sharing, you will move quickly in to next level.

Experts are made, not born.

I hope this technique will be useful to the readers. Please share your views about this post.

Taking a Break From All Your Worries

2008-07-21T19:53:00.000-07:00

Every one of us had tough times in our past. At that times, we were worrying about the reason being.
If you have watched your mind, you would noticed one thing. That is, We are always ready to worry about someting going to happen. We have the scripts for it. are we aware of these scripts which are given by our circumstances such as our parents, friends and relations?
We should find out our scripts for tough times. Then we can rewrite that script to face the problems rather than worrying about it.
Why we are worrying:
what could be your answer for the above question? I guess some of the following could be your answer.
1. To solve that problem
(You know that worrying doesn't solve any problem)
2. To remember that problem
(You need not to remember that problem rather than solve it)
3. To hurt yourself
(It is the perfect answer for that question. you hurt yourself by worrying)
4. To gain others sympathy
(This answer also the perfect one for lot of us)
So, You must understand the reasons for your worries. Make your mind ready to face anything. A mind refreshment will help you to understand your mind. Then you will start to face the problems. Nothing can affect you. Enjoy the Life.

Let me know about your views.