http://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/ennoreply@blogger.com (therapydoc)Sat, 19 Jul 2008 22:28:26 -0500Blogger http://www.blogger.com434125copyright 2006-2008schizophrenia,Judy,Garland,MASH,borderline,assertiveness,training,family,therapy,obsessive,compulsive,disorder,Cho,Heath,Ledger,Miss,Potter,Calvin,and,Hobbstherapydoc@gmail.comtherapydoctherapydocnoschizophrenia,Judy,Garland,MASH,borderline,assertiveness,training,family,therapy,obsessive,compulsive,disorder,Cho,Heath,Ledger,Miss,Potter,Calvin,and,HobbsEveryone Needs TherapyJust a personal blog by a therapist a little older than your average blogger, yet less beat-up than your average shrink.http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/2.0/840126http://www.feedburner.comhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/339158843/why-its-good-to-enmesh-your-children.htmlStand up comedyempty nestenmeshmenttherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Fri, 18 Jul 2008 12:28:45 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-7627054911299564377Okay, so it's never good. But it's not so bad to keep one of them around for awhile either, if it's good for him and if it's good for you.* Not that I don't like the empty nest, the clean counters,...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=kOopLJ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=kOopLJ" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=KDjWUj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=KDjWUj" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=q26V4j"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=q26V4j" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/339158843" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fwhy-its-good-to-enmesh-your-children.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/07/why-its-good-to-enmesh-your-children.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/339158844/as-good-as-i-once-was.htmltherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Fri, 18 Jul 2008 13:10:42 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-435596485029770179Not X-rated, but it's got a little content, so think twice if you don't like flirtation in the barroom. Jack recommended this one for my father, a follow-up to that last post. Roll over Schubert. ...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=HyOEzJ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=HyOEzJ" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=CMWPKj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=CMWPKj" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=DINzCj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=DINzCj" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/339158844" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fas-good-as-i-once-was.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/07/as-good-as-i-once-was.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/336066018/denial-of-aging.htmlagingdenialtherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Tue, 15 Jul 2008 13:34:36 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-7358162119184844512We joke that I'm a little accident prone. I always say that it's a statistical thing. If a person is active, there are more opportunities for accidents. But for awhile now, in my mind, I've...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=clQ8tJ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=clQ8tJ" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=X5e8Fj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=X5e8Fj" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=PfGrvj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=PfGrvj" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/336066018" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fdenial-of-aging.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/07/denial-of-aging.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/335551381/art-of-validation.htmlvalidatingcommunication theoryIndiana Jonesfamily therapyYes but. . .dysfunctional communicationlisteningtherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Tue, 15 Jul 2008 15:08:36 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-5714666685623480210I think you know that a couples therapist generally directs the traffic. I'll say, "Talk about this." Or "Yes, go there; talk to her about that." So people will be talking and I'll be listening...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=SMBYHJ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=SMBYHJ" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=Fmww7j"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=Fmww7j" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=5AxzEj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=5AxzEj" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/335551381" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fart-of-validation.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/07/art-of-validation.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/334770680/single-jewish-female-seeks.htmlTamar SnyderSingle Jewish Female Seeks Stress ReliefFiddler on the RoofMatchmakertherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Mon, 14 Jul 2008 12:04:55 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-2276215509325466648noMatchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match Find me a find, Catch me a catch Matchmaker, matchmaker, look through your book And make me a perfect match. For Papa, make him a scholar, For Mama, make him rich as a king, For me, well, I wouldn't hollar If he wastherapydocMatchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match Find me a find, Catch me a catch Matchmaker, matchmaker, look through your book And make me a perfect match. For Papa, make him a scholar, For Mama, make him rich as a king, For me, well, I wouldn't hollar If he was as handsome as anything! Lyrics are from the Broadway show, the movie, Fiddler on the Roof. I have a friend who is a matchmaker for Orthodox Jewish singles. It’s not an easy job. She says there is a shortage of available men in the Orthodox Jewish singles world. The men marry late, take their time to get ready for marriage, and when they do finally get around to it, it's a "buyer's market" and they marry younger women, women barely out of their teens. Meanwhile, those in their mid-twenties or older are passed by, as yet another cohort of still younger women becomes available every year, and the cycle continues.* They're having a hard time finding their perfect match and it gets exponentially harder after the age of 23. This is a cause for alarm for some, and I am not exaggerating, not today. Ours is a serious culture. We don't play around in relationships. Men and women date as if they're looking for a spouse, not just a lover, because indeed, that's what they're looking for. They have time to figure out the "loving" part (sex). They figure they'll stay married for a good fifty, sixty, seventy years. They can figure it out. In the Orthodox world, it's marry first. Then jump into bed. I know, sounds bizarre. But wonderfully different, wonderfully bizarre. They're my people. I make no excuses. No, it's not 100%. Not every Orthodox young adult waits for marriage to have sex. We even hear of an occasional lovechild, now and then. But for the most part, dating really is a job interview, exactly as Tamar Snyder reminds us in Friday's Wall Street Journal (see House of Worship, Weekend section, Single Jewish Female Seeks Stress Relief). Most Orthodox kids don't even touch one another before marriage, and we have rules about touching after marriage, too. Do people break rules? Sure. But they do it quietly. Usually. If at all. Ms. Snyder is concerned, like my friend the matchmaker, that the system isn't working. There aren't enough men to go around. Those who are around are very picky. Women in their mid-twenties have to be anorexic or wait for a miracle to get the right guy to take an interest in them. And many men, my son tells me, aren't terribly skilled socially, having waited for late adolescence or young adulthood to begin to date. So it isn't easy for them, either. The relationship therapists and sociologists in New York are trying to resolve the problem, but are getting nowhere fast. Your average twenty-something single Jewish woman goes to a matchmaker, but the shadchan is fresh out of matches. The younger girls get first choice and are engaged at nineteen, married at twenty, sometimes to the first man to take them to the Hilton lobby for a Coke. You might say, Why are people still using matchmakers? Isn’t this a little silly? Well, no, not really. It seems to work for some people. Some people get exactly what they're looking for. They know everything there is to know about their catch ahead of time, or their parents at least try to find out everything there is to know. And they're happy. So when it works, it works. And in my opinion, when it works, it works not because a couple is head over heals in love with one another, or madly sexually attracted to one another, although they can be; it works because they are sure that they are compatible, that they will meet one another's needs, that they will be good to one another and raise a family, should they merit one. It's when there isn't a match, when there's a blueprint that's simply unavailable, when aren't any matches around, no pairs of pants or proper lengths of skirt, that the system finds a bottleneck of beautiful, available women who are ready to get going on a family, but can't. Too many single dancers at weddings with tschizophrenia,Judy,Garland,MASH,borderline,assertiveness,training,family,therapy,obsessive,compulsive,disorder,Cho,Heath,Ledger,Miss,Potter,Calvin,and,HobbsMatchmaker, matchmaker, make me a match Find me a find, Catch me a catch Matchmaker, matchmaker, look through your book And make me a perfect match. For Papa, make him a scholar, For Mama, make...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=zqxoOJ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=zqxoOJ" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=12kDBj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=12kDBj" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=hYcOLj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=hYcOLj" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/334770680" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fsingle-jewish-female-seeks.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/07/single-jewish-female-seeks.htmlhttp://www.youtube.com/v/59Hj7bp38f8&amp;hl=en&amp;fs=1http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/332085059/golf.htmlWSJanger managementmutteringrecyclinggolfgreentherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Fri, 11 Jul 2008 07:08:44 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-3499018534489394865We took a drive out to see the family in the 'burbs last Sunday, and had hardly hit the watermelon when my nephew came home very tired and sweaty from his golf game. Kids in their twenties look...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=PSx3OJ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=PSx3OJ" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=Cma5nj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=Cma5nj" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=xAvcjj"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=xAvcjj" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/332085059" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fgolf.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/07/golf.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/325847713/that-catastrophic-expectation-cut-offs.htmlfear of abandonmentconfrontationfear of rejectionanticipatory anxietytoxic familiescatastrophic expectationtherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Thu, 03 Jul 2008 10:01:27 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-7103357224912902601If you don't remember what this is, I'll remind you. Sometimes there's something that's driving your anxiety, turning the motor unconsciously or consciously. It's whirring around in your head,...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=Qxt1SJ"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=Qxt1SJ" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=hZcj7j"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=hZcj7j" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=6aHmej"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=6aHmej" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/325847713" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F07%2Fthat-catastrophic-expectation-cut-offs.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/07/that-catastrophic-expectation-cut-offs.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/321293986/dream-text.htmldream interpretationhogging the bedtherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Fri, 27 Jun 2008 07:22:11 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-2867371368599808939I try to keep my text messaging down because AT&amp;T is taking me to the cleaners. But the other day I sent this one to Empath Daught, couldn't shake the image in my head. Recurring memories are...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=dWw31I"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=dWw31I" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=pfAbmi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=pfAbmi" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=uF6jHi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=uF6jHi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/321293986" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fdream-text.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/dream-text.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/320500836/smack.htmltalking to adolescentsheroinsummertime and they're outtherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Thu, 26 Jun 2008 07:29:43 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-7399112218886415873Alternative title, How Much Do You Ask Your Kid? I talk a lot about giving kids space, especially teenagers, letting them make decisions, even if they might be the wrong ones, especially if the...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=yNlCTI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=yNlCTI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=3n8Lri"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=3n8Lri" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=ETxbri"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=ETxbri" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/320500836" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fsmack.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/smack.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/320577174/june-back-cha.htmlintimacystreet partytherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Thu, 26 Jun 2008 09:47:53 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-7896377103224032900This is your not-so-monthly monthly round up of some of the bloggers who have linked to me on their blogs, a thank you kind of thing, and a welcome to my world, even if you've been out here longer...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=0a4uGI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=0a4uGI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=GY6x9i"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=GY6x9i" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=co4zVi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=co4zVi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/320577174" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fjune-back-cha.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/june-back-cha.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/316262170/goin-to-chapel-and-were-pre-marital.htmlpre-marital therapytransgenerational problemstherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Fri, 20 Jun 2008 15:13:36 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-873798553600028273How anyone goes into marriage without it, premarital, is still a mystery to me. I don't know about you, but I, for one, have a lot of weddings to go to this summer. And sure, I’ll try to get over to...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=CBxTxI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=CBxTxI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=nsBmMi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=nsBmMi" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=zfMTJi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=zfMTJi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/316262170" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fgoin-to-chapel-and-were-pre-marital.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/goin-to-chapel-and-were-pre-marital.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/314888727/dissociative-identity-disorder.htmlDissociative Identity Disorderphysical abusesexual abusetherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Wed, 18 Jun 2008 17:03:25 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-2785619326205269050Well, hopefully it doesn't apply to you,Dissociative Identity Disorder (D.I.D.)* But it might. We used to call it Multiple Personality Disorder. Some people think this label applies to...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=KjgVVI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=KjgVVI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=lx8HBi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=lx8HBi" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=tavyai"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=tavyai" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/314888727" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fdissociative-identity-disorder.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/dissociative-identity-disorder.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/310478096/dont-super-size-me-push-for-calories-on.htmlWall Street JournalStu Wooeating disordersanorexiatherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Thu, 12 Jun 2008 13:34:52 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-4112116917678517471noI didn't see the movie Super Size Me, to tell you the truth. The thought of watching someone gorge on super-sized portions just didn't appeal. IMDb (where I get all of my movie facts) tells us that movie filmmaker Morgan Spurlock embarks on the most periltherapydocI didn't see the movie Super Size Me, to tell you the truth. The thought of watching someone gorge on super-sized portions just didn't appeal. IMDb (where I get all of my movie facts) tells us that movie filmmaker Morgan Spurlock embarks on the most perilous journey of his life. He can't eat or drink anything that isn't on McDonald's menu; he must wolf down three squares a day. He must consume everything on the menu at least once and super size his meal if asked. Just not pretty. In my two dozen plus years as a therapist, I've shied away from specializing in eating disorders. By not specializing, I do very well in this area, weirdly enough. I won't specialize because frankly, everyone is sensitive about weight (everyone). And weight is very hard to treat, even with "specialist" written before or after your name. Because it's such a universal, when people tell me that they want to work on their eating I say, "You'll have to find another therapist if that's all you want to work on. I'll work with you on everything else, your behavior, your thoughts, your relationships, your organizational skill, your emotional management, anything almost, except for eating, and certainly not eating disorders. I won't set out to treat those. If they happen to change over our time together, great, but we're not setting out to cure them." Why? (a) I like success in my work, prefer to see change fast, and (b) These are the hardest disorders to "cure." So put (a) together with (b) and you get my drift. Oh, and did I mention the paradox in all this?* The truth? Eating really is an emotional affair. How can it not be emotional? It's about how we look and feel; it's so emotional that no matter how you slice it (all puns in this post may be intentional, I'm not sure yet) until you get yourself emotionally grounded, which can take years, it can be very hard, excruciatingly hard to control one's eating. This is the essence of anorexia, by the way, control. You can't make anybody eat. And far be it from me to try. And you can't make anyone lose weight, either. My patients lose weight, there's no question about it, without focusing on food as a therapeutic issue, perhaps by not focusing on food as an issue. When we spend a year (okay, more) on the emotional stuff, the pounds tend to peel off slowly, but still. It is a lovely thing to see. Two of my patients in the past year have lost over a hundred pounds each. Both had seen me for nearly three years before they started to lose. No, it's not science, but it does seem to be a pattern in my practice, maybe is for others, too. Get therapy, take it seriously, and you'll get a handle on your life. Eating is a part of life. I haven't tackled this topic on the blog until now because it's so huge, and I have so much to say about it. The only way is to begin a discussion is to focus on something in particular, and since WSJ offered me the perfect entree, let's start with Page 2, July 10, 2008, The Wall Street Journal, The Push for Calories on Menus. Apparently some states are passing laws (or trying) to force restaurant chains to list the caloric and nutritional value of items they serve on their menus. Stu Woo tells us that the California and New York state legislatures have joined a movement approved by health advocacy groups such as the Center for Science in the Public Interest. Other advocates for content disclosure include the American Cancer Society and the American Heart Association. These organizations agree that if we tell consumers what they're eating, they'll be less likely to eat as much. Menus with caloric and nutritional information might make some foods less tempting, obviously, something restaurateurs are leery about. And they pay taxes, too, which is why state legislatures are keeping their sights low, only targeting large chains with 8 or more restaurants. Advocates believe these measures, posting calories on walls and menus, are a step towards addressing the country's obesity problems. A May reportschizophrenia,Judy,Garland,MASH,borderline,assertiveness,training,family,therapy,obsessive,compulsive,disorder,Cho,Heath,Ledger,Miss,Potter,Calvin,and,HobbsI didn't see the movie Super Size Me, to tell you the truth. The thought of watching someone gorge on super-sized portions just didn't appeal. IMDb (where I get all of my movie facts) tells us that...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=w2MTvI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=w2MTvI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=cCOaii"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=cCOaii" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=qUDTWi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=qUDTWi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/310478096" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fdont-super-size-me-push-for-calories-on.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/dont-super-size-me-push-for-calories-on.htmlhttp://www.publichealthadvocacy.org/PDFs/menupresskit.pdfhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/309733636/keeping-pace.htmlactinggun controltimingsensitivitytherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Wed, 11 Jun 2008 11:10:37 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-811211813293990077I don't know if it's me, or if it's being a therapist. Therapists are in tune with people, certainly the ones they treat, or they should be. They get the energy, the feelings, the intensity, that...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=iAat7I"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=iAat7I" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=UsIfSi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=UsIfSi" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=T26iQi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=T26iQi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/309733636" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fkeeping-pace.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/keeping-pace.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/305224202/homosexuality.htmlinternalized homophobiaBoston legal judge and homosexualitygay marriagetherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Thu, 05 Jun 2008 08:09:54 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-5085411220123406061A friend of mine wants to know if there's a reason gays and lesbians need to get married. Heterosexuals, he says, get married for the express purpose of making a family. Why would anyone else...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=8KE1JI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=8KE1JI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=TiZwxi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=TiZwxi" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=2zRwUi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=2zRwUi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/305224202" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F06%2Fhomosexuality.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/06/homosexuality.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/302188716/cholent.htmlJewish servicestante FelaPaper ClipsIron ManengineeringSchindler's ListcholentKinderTraintherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Sun, 01 Jun 2008 18:18:24 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-3329442771639837257It wasn't like Memorial Day wasn't memorable; it was. We had the dedication of my aunt's stone at the cemetery. And then there was Iron Man. Iron Man! The kids surprised us, picked us up to go out...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=rWk0lH"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=rWk0lH" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=wwU02h"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=wwU02h" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=qNVfVh"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=qNVfVh" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/302188716" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F05%2Fcholent.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/05/cholent.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/302199185/back-cha-may-2008.htmlnot wasting timelinking to bloggerstherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Sun, 01 Jun 2008 06:15:41 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-5487437915438502967I'm a little rusty at this and apologize in advance if I forgot anybody. Please forgive me if that happened and shoot me an email. And try not to be too angry, okay? And if you've ever felt...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=yqsQcI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=yqsQcI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=UwYfji"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=UwYfji" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=FpzZpi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=FpzZpi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/302199185" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F05%2Fback-cha-may-2008.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/05/back-cha-may-2008.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/302199186/telescoping.htmlmemorytherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Sun, 01 Jun 2008 00:06:57 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-5500729961721915228There's this concept called telescoping. Telescoping starts when you're in your sixties, usually, but it can be the fifties for some of us. All of sudden, you look back in time and see things. ...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=zLuwsI"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=zLuwsI" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=rhv1Gi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=rhv1Gi" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=RRK2bi"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=RRK2bi" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/302199186" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F05%2Ftelescoping.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/05/telescoping.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/299784955/once-and-fine-romance.htmlmarriage therapyFalling SlowlyA Fine RomanceDorothy FieldsOncecheatingtherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Wed, 28 May 2008 17:46:11 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-8194284223077417236Once is the Academy Award 2008 Best Foreign Picture. The film's featured song, Falling Slowly, won an Oscar, too. (It can drive you crazy, I'm telling you, once it gets in your head). The film is...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. Hope you enjoy it, TherapyDoc<div class="feedflare"> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=ptMK7H"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=ptMK7H" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=q4NHzh"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=q4NHzh" border="0"></img></a> <a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?a=YwR8Oh"><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~f/everyoneneedstherapy?i=YwR8Oh" border="0"></img></a> </div><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~4/299784955" height="1" width="1"/>http://api.feedburner.com/awareness/1.0/GetItemData?uri=everyoneneedstherapy&itemurl=http%3A%2F%2Feveryoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com%2F2008%2F05%2Fonce-and-fine-romance.htmlhttp://everyoneneedstherapy.blogspot.com/2008/05/once-and-fine-romance.htmlhttp://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/everyoneneedstherapy/~3/299081979/lesson-in-civility-keiara-bell.htmlKeiara BellKenneth CockrelKatherine Rosmantherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Tue, 27 May 2008 20:07:52 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-5172501175714338477She's thirteen and she took on a Detroit politician. One pol called another pol a "Shrek." The YouTube clip is in the thousands and The Wall Street Journal's Katherine Rosman made this front page...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. 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To me this is the height of good humor and humility (and sure, self-confidence). So on that note. ....<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. 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Maybe we will get into should you drug your kid or not? Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder There are different types: Predominantly Inattentive, Predominantly Hyperactive-Impulsive,...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. 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FoxEdward HerrmannDana Delanytherapydoc@gmail.com (therapydoc)Thu, 22 May 2008 22:47:16 -0500tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-9079641319324410752Warning: May contain spoilers. Like many of you, I've been watching way too much TV this week. It's the end of a very short season. So to make up for it, I thought a little extracurricular...<br/> <br/> Hi. Please click above the date, on the title of the post to read the rest. 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