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					      <small>Written by: <a href="http://familymatters.net/blog/author/tim-kimmel/" title="Posts by Tim Kimmel" rel="author">Tim Kimmel</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;Found in: <a href="http://familymatters.net/blog/category/uncategorized/" rel="category tag">Uncategorized</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="http://familymatters.net/blog/2017/05/26/sneak-attack-how-men-of-god-can-defend-against-the-enemy/#respond">No Comments &#187;</a></small>
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				    <p>This post is an excerpt from the book Basic Training for a Few Good Men, by Dr. Tim Kimmel. ******************************************************************************************** I stood on the edge of the floating memorial spanning the deck of the USS Arizona and tried to imagine how horrifying it must have been that Sunday morning back in 1941 when the Japanese fighter [&hellip;]</p>
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					      <small>Written by: <a href="http://familymatters.net/blog/author/tim-kimmel/" title="Posts by Tim Kimmel" rel="author">Tim Kimmel</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;Found in: <a href="http://familymatters.net/blog/category/ask-tim/" rel="category tag">Ask Tim</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;|&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="http://familymatters.net/blog/2017/05/17/how-to-have-a-grace-based-argument/#respond">No Comments &#187;</a></small>
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				    <p>Q: This grace-based, grace-filled relationships concept sounds good and well if you are gentle-tempered (like you, Tim), but how do you have a good argument in the grace-based model if you are prone to discuss your point or position in a fairly loud manner i.e. yelling and raising your voice? A: There is nothing in [&hellip;]</p>
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				    <p>Editor&#8217;s note: This is the second of a multi-part post about the importance of special needs parents hosting family meetings. (Even if you don&#8217;t have a family member with special needs, this advice is helpful.)  Begin by reading Part 1 and learn about the benefits of regular family meetings. In this article, special needs mom [&hellip;]</p>
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					      <h3 class="articles_title"><a href="http://familymatters.net/blog/2017/03/29/please-prioritize-youth-group-a-youth-leaders-open-letter-to-parents/" rel="bookmark" title="Permanent Link to Please Prioritize Youth Group- A Youth Leader&#8217;s Open Letter to Parents">Please Prioritize Youth Group- A Youth Leader&#8217;s Open Letter to Parents</a></h3>
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				    <p>Dear Parents, Now more than ever, there are endless opportunities vying for our kids&#8217; time. School and homework is enough to fill a schedule, let alone sports, clubs and extra-curricular activities. As a veteran mom and a youth group leader, I&#8217;m writing this open letter to plead with parents to prioritize church youth group for your [&hellip;]</p>
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				    <p>We felt like our family unit needed “check ups” from time to time&#8230;</p>
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				    <p>The late David Foster Wallace is famous for the following anecdote: There were two young fish swimming side-by-side in the ocean. An older, seasoned fish came swimming towards them from the opposite direction. As he passed, he asked, “How’s the water?” and then swam on. The two young fish glided along for a while and [&hellip;]</p>
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				    <p> Have you prayed for a miracle in the life of your child with special needs? Have you anguished with God for the next step of accomplishment for your child waiting for them to become the typical child for whom you’re praying? Have you begged teachers and aides to put your child in a “particular” class [&hellip;]</p>
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	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2013/04/'> April 2013 &nbsp;(20)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2013/03/'> March 2013 &nbsp;(20)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2013/02/'> February 2013 &nbsp;(18)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/12/'> December 2012 &nbsp;(5)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/11/'> November 2012 &nbsp;(8)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/10/'> October 2012 &nbsp;(5)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/09/'> September 2012 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/08/'> August 2012 &nbsp;(9)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/07/'> July 2012 &nbsp;(7)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/06/'> June 2012 &nbsp;(4)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/05/'> May 2012 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/04/'> April 2012 &nbsp;(7)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/03/'> March 2012 &nbsp;(7)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/02/'> February 2012 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2012/01/'> January 2012 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/12/'> December 2011 &nbsp;(9)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/11/'> November 2011 &nbsp;(15)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/10/'> October 2011 &nbsp;(7)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/09/'> September 2011 &nbsp;(10)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/08/'> August 2011 &nbsp;(5)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/07/'> July 2011 &nbsp;(7)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/06/'> June 2011 &nbsp;(9)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/05/'> May 2011 &nbsp;(10)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/04/'> April 2011 &nbsp;(9)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/03/'> March 2011 &nbsp;(11)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/02/'> February 2011 &nbsp;(16)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2011/01/'> January 2011 &nbsp;(12)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/12/'> December 2010 &nbsp;(7)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/11/'> November 2010 &nbsp;(13)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/10/'> October 2010 &nbsp;(9)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/09/'> September 2010 &nbsp;(12)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/08/'> August 2010 &nbsp;(12)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/07/'> July 2010 &nbsp;(12)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/06/'> June 2010 &nbsp;(12)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/05/'> May 2010 &nbsp;(13)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/04/'> April 2010 &nbsp;(4)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/03/'> March 2010 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/02/'> February 2010 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2010/01/'> January 2010 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/12/'> December 2009 &nbsp;(13)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/11/'> November 2009 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/10/'> October 2009 &nbsp;(3)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/09/'> September 2009 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/08/'> August 2009 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/07/'> July 2009 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/06/'> June 2009 &nbsp;(6)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/05/'> May 2009 &nbsp;(3)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2009/04/'> April 2009 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2008/12/'> December 2008 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2008/09/'> September 2008 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2008/06/'> June 2008 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2008/03/'> March 2008 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2007/12/'> December 2007 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2007/09/'> September 2007 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2007/06/'> June 2007 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2007/03/'> March 2007 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2006/08/'> August 2006 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2006/05/'> May 2006 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2006/02/'> February 2006 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2005/11/'> November 2005 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2005/08/'> August 2005 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2005/05/'> May 2005 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2005/02/'> February 2005 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2004/09/'> September 2004 &nbsp;(1)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2004/05/'> May 2004 &nbsp;(2)</option>
	<option value='http://familymatters.net/blog/2004/03/'> March 2004 &nbsp;(2)</option>

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