Hwtujui Bado°

Compromise.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Thu, 17 Feb 2022 02:14:00 -0800

#hwtujuibado If you cannot get what you love out of this life, then learn to love and cherish the things that have been handed to you, because they are there and they are yours, don't chase the impossible, if you can't be who you want to be in life then learn to be the things you're not, and if you can't get what you need from life then learn to need the things that stop you from dreaming, but by all means necessary keep moving on, and should the universe turn its back on you then do the same, don't let the universe get the best of you, just COMPROMISE. Our goal this year, after many years now, is to turn setbacks into comebacks, journey with Me as we re write our fates.

New Music || Cutboy Msonga X Kamodo In Kadogo 🔥

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Thu, 9 Aug 2018 00:11:00 -0700

#hwtujuiBado

This is to everyone who

loves and enjoys good music.

I present you CutBoy Msonga

alongside Kamodo in #kadogo.

ENJOY 😎

🌴|issagoodmusicthingonly

Facing Fear

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Fri, 6 Jul 2018 15:36:00 -0700

"Everything you have ever wanted, is sitting on the other side of fear."

Fear keeps us in the background. It convinces us we can never accomplish our dreams, tells us to keep quiet, and separates us from the ones we love. Fear has an unparalleled ability to freeze us in our tracks, and limit what we are willing to try. Fear makes us lead a smaller life.

The things that we are afraid of may be different, but our reactions to fear are usually the same – our palms sweat, our mouths get dry, our stomachs churn — and we would do anything, make any sacrifice, just to make it go away. How many times have you turned away from an opportunity or even a relationship because you were too afraid to go for it?

Fear is not a bad thing. It exists for our protection as an early warning signal. But there is a big difference between the healthy fear that tells us to step away from the edge of a cliff and a constant fear that keeps us from living our life.

All fears, no matter how big or small, are worse when we face them alone. Find a good friend to share your fears with. We tend to resist admitting our fears because we are afraid that the person will think less of us, that they will laugh, or make things worse. Find someone you can trust, possibly a counselor, maybe a relative or trusted friend and share what’s bothering you. They may be able to help you see what you’re afraid of in a new light, and they will be there to stand by you and encourage you as you take steps to face your fears.

In times of crisis, spiritual truths that are consistent in any circumstances are a great comfort. They give us safety and familiarity and, more importantly, they give us a reason to hope. If you do not have a spiritual life or faith consider talking to a pastor or read the Bible. The book of Psalms in particular speaks to people that are facing difficulties.

In a nut shell, let me leave you with a line to ponder.

You probably may have came across it somewhere,

'fear, is a total waste of time. All it does is steal your joy and keep you busy doing nothing.'

5 Timeless Ways to Find the True Value of an Hour

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Fri, 9 Mar 2018 03:50:00 -0800

#hwtujuibado

"One hour at a time, one value-driven decision at a time. That’s all we’re really talking about here. Just maximizing the significance of our short lives, and making a small difference along the way."

>>We Determine the True Value of Every Hour

Our lives are measured by the value we provide to others. This value arises from the things we spend our time doing. And since time is quantified in hours, the value of our lives is equivalent to the sum of every hour we spend.

Opportunities to provide value are everywhere. Some of them are anticipated, while others blindside us at midnight on an idle Tuesday. Whether or not we choose to acknowledge and engage in these opportunities is up to us.

| How have you spent the last hour of your life?

Let this question sink in. Let it inspire you…

Let yourself come to see just how precious a gift it is to find value in the loving gestures you display, the genuine conversations you have, the meaningful collaborations you engage in, and the deeds you do that bring peace.

Build a bridge or two. – Some people build lots of walls in their lives and not enough bridges. Don’t be one of them. When you look at a person, any person, remember that everyone has a story. Everyone has gone through something that has changed them and forced them to grow. Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as your own. We meet no ordinary people in our lives. If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer. Open yourself up. Take small chances on people. Let them shift your perspective.
Be present and listen closely. – If you think about the people who have had the greatest positive effect on your life—the ones who truly made a difference—you will likely realize that they aren’t the ones that tried to give you all the answers or solve all your problems. They’re the ones who sat silently with you when you needed a moment to think, who lent you a shoulder when you needed to cry, and who tolerated not having all the answers, but stood beside you anyway. Be this person for others.
Be calm inside, even when those around you are angry. – People are much nicer when they’re happier, which says a lot about those who aren’t very nice. Keep this in mind. And also remind yourself that you can’t control how other people receive your energy. Anything you do or say gets filtered through the lens of whatever they are going through at the moment, which has nothing to do with you. Don’t take things personally. Calmness is a superpower. Just keep doing your thing with as much love and integrity as possible.
Love exactly what’s in front of you. – Love what you do, until you can do what you love. Love where you are, until you can be where you love. And above all, love the people you are with, until you can be with the people you love most. Fewer judgments, less resistance, more love… in this hour, and the next. That’s the way we find happiness, opportunity and peace in even the most mundane situations.
Be way, way kinder than necessary. – Think kindly of others, speak kindly to others, and do kind things for others. Kindness always makes a difference. Create the little outcomes others might be grateful for at the end of their day. Be a bigger part of what’s right in this world. And remember, the way we treat people we strongly disagree with is a report card on what we’ve learned about true love and real kindness.

🗨| Twenty years from now it won’t really matter how comfortable our lives were today, how easy we had it, or what we were “working on” when we were really just holding out on people. Being perfectly in line and on time every second won’t matter either. What will matter is how we lived, how we loved, and what we learned along the way.It’s our time, right now…To fill an hour with true value.To instill as much love, kindness and compassion into it as possible.And to do what we know in our heads and hearts is right, every step of the way.

All The Best 🤝

Approve Yourself.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Wed, 21 Feb 2018 12:17:00 -0800

#hwtujuibado

Hello, how's life treating you today?

I come to you with yet another article, and today my eyes are on the "need for social jurisdiction and approval."

I know we have all been at this position many times in life. The position where we let the views of the mass dectate our way of life.

Feeling down whenever we think we are not good enough, or unworthy of something. I want you to know that you are not alone in this, and the good news is you can free yourself from such negative rut. Welcome!

"We think we need more approval from the masses." 🤗

"We worry about what other people think of us. We worry about our appearance."

We worry if she’ll like us. We worry if he likes that other woman. We worry that we’re not accomplishing all that we should be. We worry that we’ll fall flat on our faces. We worry that we’re not enough just the way we are. And of course, we worry about all those foolish, thoughtless things someone once said about us.

And social media—with its culture of getting us to seek constant approval with virtual likes and hearts—with its endless highlight reel of perfect bodies and epic travels—it only intensifies the problem. Realize this. You don’t need any of that social validation and distraction in your life!

It’s the strength of your conviction that determines your level of personal achievement in the long run, not the number of people who agree with every little thing you do. Ultimately, you will know that you’ve made the right decisions and followed the appropriate path when there is genuine peace in your heart, and when the few people who truly mean the world to you are the ones celebrating your success alongside you.

It’s nice to have acquaintances. It’s important to be involved in your community to an extent. But don’t get carried away and spread yourself too thin. Leave plenty of time for the people and projects that matter most to you. Your time is extremely limited, and sooner or later you just want more of it with the select few people and projects that make you smile for all the right reasons.

The ultimate goal is to never let some random person’s opinion become your reality. To never sacrifice who you are, or who you aspire to be, because someone on the internet has a problem with it. To love who you are inside and out as you push forward. And to realize once and for all that no one else has the power to make you feel small unless you give them that power.

Of course, sometimes the pressure and dysfunctional judgements coming from peers, work, and society in general is enough to make us feel completely broken inside. If we do things differently, we’re looked down upon. If we dream big, we’re ridiculed. Or if we don’t have the “right” job, relationship, lifestyle, and so forth, by a certain age or time frame, we’re told that we’re not good enough. But that is just NOT true, and it’s your job to acknowledge it!

So, here’s a new mantra for you (say it, and then say it again): “This is my life, my choices, my mistakes and my lessons. As long as I’m not hurting people, I need not worry what they think of me.”

Good Luck 💪

Learn to be more human again.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Sat, 17 Feb 2018 09:42:00 -0800

#hwtujuibado

👋 | Hello everyone.

My hopes.... life's treating you just the same way you treat it.

My eyes are on social media today...and with this 'short' article,

I hope to open your eyes too on some impeccable reality about it.

| We think we need all those text messages, social updates, memes, and perfect Instagram pics !

If it entertains you now but will hurt or bore you someday, it’s a distraction. Don’t settle. Don’t exchange what you want most for what you kind of want at the moment. Study your habits. Figure out where your time goes, and remove distractions. It’s time to focus on what matters.

A good place to start?

Learn to be more human again. Don’t avoid eye contact. Don’t hide behind gadgets. Smile often. Ask about people’s stories. Listen. You can’t connect with anyone, including yourself, unless you are undistracted and present. And you can’t be either of the two when you’re Facebooking, Instagramming or Snapchatting your life away. You just can’t!

If you are constantly attached to your smartphone and only listening with your ears as your eyes check for the next social update, you are ripping yourself off of actually experiencing real relationships and real life. The same is true for texting too. Yes, someday you will be slapped with the reality of a missed MEMORY being far more unsettling than a missed TEXT!

Let this be your wake-up call! Too often we choose to distract ourselves with gadgets and news and videos and music and memes, 24/7, just to stimulate ourselves. It’s like second nature to us—we’re so used to feeling like the present moment isn’t worthy of our full presence. And this mindset of dissatisfaction and distraction—of reality never being enough for us – trickles into every facet of our lives…

We are continuously thinking about what’s to come, as if it’s not enough to appreciate what we have right now.
We sit down to relax for a moment and then immediately feel the urge to read something on our phones, as if relaxing for a moment isn’t enough.
We procrastinate when it’s time to work, choosing more distractions, as if the process of doing good work isn’t enough for us.
We get annoyed with people when they fail to live up to our expectations, as if the reality of who they are isn’t enough for us.
We resist changes in our lives, in our relationships, and in our careers, because the reality feels like it’s not enough.
We reject situations, people, and even ourselves, because we feel like none of it is enough for us right now.

But what if we did the opposite?

What if we accepted this moment, and everything and everyone in it (including ourselves), as exactly enough?

What if we admitted that life is slipping away right now, and saw the fleeting time we have as enough, without needing to share it on social media or capture it or filter it in any way?

What if we accepted the “bad” with the good, the letdowns with the lessons, the annoying with the beautiful, the anxiety with the opportunity, as part of a package deal that this moment alone is offering us?

What if we paused right now, and saw everything with perfect clarity and no distractions?

Keep thinking about it…

Would we live more meaningful and memorable lives?

Would we have more beautiful stories to cherish and share?

I think we would.

And thus, I think now is the best time to pay attention.

Now is the best time to look around and be grateful—for our health, our homes, our families, our friends, and our momentary opportunities.

Nothing else will matter as much when we look back someday.

Good Luck 💪

Win Your Life Back | 🤝

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Sat, 17 Feb 2018 09:14:00 -0800

#hwtujuibado

☆ Sometimes it gets so busy and difficult that we forget how important it is to actually listen to ourselves.

We fill our calendars, our social media feeds, and our days with various forms of distraction, just to avoid doing the little uncomfortable things required to get us from where we are to where we hope to be.

The instant we feel a bit of discomfort, we run off in the direction of the nearest shiny object that catches our attention. And this habit gradually dismantles our best intentions and our true potential. Our dreams and priorities go by the wayside, and we’re left regretting another wasted year.

Yes, most of us suffer from a severe misalignment of our priorities, even though, deep down, we know our lives are quickly passing us by.

| °If you can relate in any way, I’m happy to tell you that things can change if you want them to, at any age.

Good Luck 💪

A Little Vacation In Morogoro. The Uluguru Mountains 🌎🏔

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Sun, 4 Feb 2018 10:49:00 -0800

The view of the Uluguru Mountains is incredible.

They give you this 'urge' to go on an adventure through them (or at least they did to me 😌).

So I took a trip to Morogoro for the new year. And I had the best time of my life.
Of all the things I set my eyes on, the Uluguru mountains fascinated me the most, I mean there's no way you could miss them, they are all over the place. :D

It was surprising to know that from these mountains, flowed a stream of hot water, hot enough to boil an egg good enough to eat. Talk about wonders of the world! Sadly I did not get an opportunity to climb them, but I got pretty close to see them. I hope next I will be lucky.

Here is a link for full detailed info of the mountain

The mountains are named after the Luguru Tribe 50 villages touch the forest boundary and over 151,000 people are found within the mountain area.

On the main Uluguru range, 50 villages touch the forest boundary and over 151,000 people are found within the mountain area, you can find these block Mountains in Morogoro region of Tanzania.

Here's how important these mountains are to the country...

"The forests of the mountains provide the water catchment areas for the streams and rivers. This water flows mainly from the forest-capped peaks of the Ulugurus with the streams joining to form the Ruvu river, which provides the water supply to the city of Dar es Salaam. Most of the neighboring population, around 3 million people, and the major industries in Tanzania rely on this water supply for their continued survival."

Therefore...

"The loss of the Uluguru forests and any reduction in water supply potential of the mountains could therefore have a drastic impact on the human well-being and the industrial capacity of Tanzania."

#travelTanzania

#uluguru

#Morogoro

#hwtujuibado

Calm The Chaos In Your Life.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Sun, 4 Feb 2018 10:36:00 -0800

#hwtujuibado

Life can be hectic; sometimes chaos surrounds us in every imaginable direction.

But just because the world around us is in disarray, doesn’t mean the world within us has to be too.

That’s right, I’m saying there’s a way to stay sane in insane times. I’m saying you can get rid of all the insanity inside you created by others, the past, and uncontrollable events…

Just by being a simple witness of your thoughts.

It’s about sitting silently, and witnessing the thoughts passing through you. Just witnessing at first, not interfering and not even judging, because by judging too rapidly you have lost the pure witness. The moment you rush to say, “this is good” or “this is bad,” you have already jumped head first into the chaos.

It takes a little time to create a gap between the witnessing of thoughts and your reaction to them. Once the gap is there, though, you are in for a great surprise – that you are not the thoughts themselves, nor the chaos influencing them. You are the witness, a watcher, who’s capable of changing your mind and rising above the turmoil.

And this process of thought-watching is the very alchemy of true mindfulness. Because as you become more and more deeply rooted in witnessing, the chaotic thoughts start disappearing. You are thinking, but the mind is empty of senseless chatter.

That’s a moment of enlightenment – a moment that you become, perhaps for the first time, an unconditioned, sane, truly free human being.

So today, let this be your reminder to let all the small annoyances go. Move through your day consciously. Make an effort to notice at least one insignificant little frustration that you would normally get frustrated about. Then do yourself a favor and simply let it go. Experience, in this little way, the freedom of being in control of the way you feel. And realize that you can extend this same level of control to every situation you encounter in life.

#hwtujuibado

Keep Going 🔥

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Mon, 18 Dec 2017 21:39:00 -0800

If you are struggling right now, you’ve got this!

No matter your circumstances, you always have what you need to take the next smallest step.

Or as Epicurus so profoundly said, “Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.”

Be mindful. Be present.

Keep going.

One day at a time, one small step at a time.

Monday Could Be A Blessing 🐺

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Mon, 11 Dec 2017 05:06:00 -0800

🕴|🌴

| Ten years from now,

it won’t really matter what shoes you wore today,

how your hair looked, or what brand of clothes you wore.

| What will matter is how you lived, how you loved,

and what you learned along the way.

Deep down you know this already, right?

https://www.instagram.com/thunderboy_himself/

Appreciate Yourself. Embrace Yourself.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Thu, 30 Nov 2017 13:25:00 -0800

Give yourself the extra attention you need and deserve.

Resisting and ignoring your own feelings and emotions does not serve you. It leads to stress, illness, confusion, broken relationships, fits of anger and bouts of deep, dark depression. Anyone who has experienced any of the above knows that these states of mind are horrifically unhealthy… and when you’re in the habit of self-neglect, it’s near impossible to escape.

You have to admit, to a certain extent, you have spent too much of your life trying to shrink yourself. Trying to become smaller. Quieter. Less sensitive. Less opinionated. Less needy. Less YOU. Because you felt broken, and you didn’t want to be too much or push people away. You wanted to fit in. You wanted people to like you. You wanted to make a good impression. You wanted to be wanted. So you could feel healed.

So for years, you sacrificed yourself for the sake of making other people happy. And for years, you suffered.

But you’re tired of suffering, and you’re done shrinking. Right? Good!

It’s not your job to change who you are in order to become someone else’s idea of a worthwhile human being. You are worth YOUR while. Not because other people think you are, but because you are breathing your own air, and therefore you matter. Your thoughts matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. And with or without anyone’s approval or permission, you must be who you are and live your truth. Even if it makes people turn their heads. Even if it makes them uncomfortable. Even if they choose to leave.

You may have been broken down by adversity, but YOU are not broken. So don’t let others convince you otherwise.

Heal yourself by refusing to shrink.

13-09 New Age.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Wed, 13 Sep 2017 02:43:00 -0700

"Today, I just want to thank God for adding another year to my life. Happy birthday to me."

>>|The bottom line is that when you try to control too much, you enjoy too little. Sometimes you just need to let go, relax, take a deep breath and love what is.

Happy Birthday King™

Become A Man Of Standards.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Wed, 6 Sep 2017 07:29:00 -0700

The reason a real man treats himself and others with respect is because he has standards.

Not just standards, but HIGH STANDARDS.

He sets the bar high.

He has a clear line drawn on what is and isn’t acceptable.
He’s clear on how he treats himself, women, and how those around him treat him.
He doesn’t accept any bullshit from himself, women, or those around him.
He knows what he wants and doesn’t want in his life and he sticks to it.

Real men never brag no matter how great their life is. They let their actions speak for them.

Real men never show off. They let their life speak for them.

Real men are mature.

Real men are classy.

A man with class walks, talks, and holds himself with class and tact. He listens when others speak and doesn’t try to talk over them. He has manners and knows how to conduct himself.

Make It A Habit, To Say Thank You.

noreply@blogger.com (Aj king) — Tue, 5 Sep 2017 05:34:00 -0700

シ Words Of Gratitude

"Make it a habit to tell people thank you. To express your appreciation, sincerely and without the expactation of anything in return."

√•Truly appreciate those around you, and you will soon find many other around you.

√•Truly appreciate life and you will find that you have more of it.

Eid Went Down Well.
With The Learned Leasson.
Always Humble.シ

Hwtujui Bado°

Compromise.

New Music || Cutboy Msonga X Kamodo In Kadogo 🔥

Facing Fear

"Everything you have ever wanted, is sitting on the other side of fear."

Fear keeps us in the background. It convinces us we can never accomplish our dreams, tells us to keep quiet, and separates us from the ones we love. Fear has an unparalleled ability to freeze us in our tracks, and limit what we are willing to try. Fear makes us lead a smaller life.

Fear is not a bad thing. It exists for our protection as an early warning signal. But there is a big difference between the healthy fear that tells us to step away from the edge of a cliff and a constant fear that keeps us from living our life.

5 Timeless Ways to Find the True Value of an Hour

"One hour at a time, one value-driven decision at a time. That’s all we’re really talking about here. Just maximizing the significance of our short lives, and making a small difference along the way."

"One hour at a time, one value-driven decision at a time. That’s all we’re really talking about here. Just maximizing the significance of our short lives, and making a small difference along the way."

>>We Determine the True Value of Every Hour

Approve Yourself.

"We think we need more approval from the masses." 🤗

Learn to be more human again.

👋 | Hello everyone.

My hopes.... life's treating you just the same way you treat it. My eyes are on social media today...and with this 'short' article,

I hope to open your eyes too on some impeccable reality about it.

| We think we need all those text messages, social updates, memes, and perfect Instagram pics !

Win Your Life Back | 🤝

A Little Vacation In Morogoro. The Uluguru Mountains 🌎🏔

Calm The Chaos In Your Life.

Keep Going 🔥

Monday Could Be A Blessing 🐺

Appreciate Yourself. Embrace Yourself.

13-09 New Age.

Become A Man Of Standards.

Make It A Habit, To Say Thank You.

My hopes.... life's treating you just the same way you treat it.

My eyes are on social media today...and with this 'short' article,