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Sex and family

2013-10-15T11:15:00.000-07:00

Hello Guys, how are you today?

Recently was sitting with psychologist that consult unhappy families. Nice female, a good friend of mine. I asked her about most frequent reason of family scandals between woman and a man. Answer was quiet interesting. Yes you are right answer is lack of sex satisfaction for ladies.

I asked her a question is it possible that in our hi-tech time, when most of people have an access to any knowledge and sexual literature is not an exception, men do not know how to satisfy their ~~bitches~~, girlfriends, wifes, mistresses? She said no. There are males who just come into her ~~fuck~~ perform some sexual frictions and that's it. FINITA LA CAMMEDIA. Man fall asleep woman lying in the bad asking herself what was that.

Guy's did you know that some females do not know that they can reach an orgasm?

Unsatisfied woman is not only females problem no it is social problem. These ladies are not confident, irritable and unhappy. Do you feel good when person who lives with you, sleep in your bed is unhappy?

Guy's one nice advice for all of you. You should play with her, with her body, with her mind in order to get her excited. I am a man and I can get excited in a few seconds. But females are different without preliminary caress they will not want to have a sex with you.

One more advice communicate with her before sex and after it. Ask her what she likes and how she likes. If she does not know. Teach her. If you do not know how. Find information and read it. You can even read it together.

Your sexual life is important for a healthy relationships. Think about it.

Sincerely,

Man

P.S. for mor advices follow us on twitter https://twitter.com/its4man

A little about parenting

2013-10-12T10:11:00.002-07:00

Hey Guys today I want some respond from you please. I want to discuss an issue of surrogacy. Now in Russian Federation it has been legalised and a lot of foreigners as well as Russian residents who can not conceive children due to some health problem started to use this "service". I can say that this trend can be viewed from various points of view. Two majors are:

They help unhappy pairs who want child but can not have it. And actually from personal side it is very posititve side. Especially for parents who really wanted this child. But will they be able to grow this child up unspoiled if they desired him/her so much?
Another is that such people can not 100 percent transfer their child even if it was beared by surrogate mother healthy genes. The reason for this is that they can not conceive new human being by themself it means that one of them do not have a good gene of reproduction.

It is just 2 points of view that first came to my mind when I saw this reportage. I am not a medical worker but guys do you know can HIV/AIDS people conceive healthy child by using surrogacy? I will be really happy to hear any answers to this question as well as your opinion about surrogacy in general.

Sincerely,

The MAN

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Mind managing

2013-10-10T09:27:00.002-07:00

How are you my #hommies?

Think that you are doing good because a lot of interisting is going to be happen right?:) Life is great and you have to know it. Today you woke up but think of #people who did not and thank God that you and your relatieves are alive and in a good health.

Recently purchased Jay-Z's Magda Carta album and was not dissapointed. Some of you will say oh damn he is listening to a ~~bullshit~~ music. But If you listen him carefuly you will understand what I mean. I listened to this album and understood how good is his #attitude. After that I thought that you know everything in your life depends on your attitude. For instance:

In your everyday's life you pass through a lot of actions and consequences. But each of you concern it differently some of you think that it is good others thing about negative staff. However I will tell you one important point THINGS WORK OUT FOR THE BEST. You can treat those actions whatever you want and whatever you like but from my own experience when I started to avoid this mistake of negative thinking my life became much better honestly.

Whenever you dont care about negative things or treat every occasion as positive you are able to see more in your alive as well as achieve more. It is not scientifically prooved but I think that effective(POSITIVE) attitude is playing a necessary role in our lives

Sincerely,

#MAN

Woman talks #0.01

2013-10-08T09:11:00.002-07:00

Hello dear friends,

Today I spet whole day with a lot of women. Nothing extraordinary. No ~~group sex.~~ It was a dialogue. I asked questions they answered me. At the final dialogue came to relationships as usual))

I asked the question: Dear ladies why most of you after marriage instead of staying beautirful and happy are being transformed into a crazy fat ~~bitches~~ women with disgusting unmanaged appearence.

The answer was quiet interesting. They said that you know woman want to feel self-affiliated and loved. When after marriage husband come home and go to the sofa watching TV any woman will feel that her husband do not need her. Woman without love is not a woman and that is true. Some of you guys will say oh common you stupid dude. Stop writing this ~~bullshit.~~ You will better read several pickup guiedes or go to training and you will have a success with women. But to build longterm relationships guys you first need to understand that girl/lady/chick is a human being and she has same needs as you but may be on some levels(see Maslow's hierarchy) her needs are higher then yours.

If you want you girl/wife/~~bitch~~ be happy and satisfy you in all aspects just show her sometimes that you need her and you will see her flourishing.

Sincerely,

Man

P.S. God made you a man just be a man. :)

Work or Hobby?

2013-10-07T09:06:00.000-07:00

Guys, guys, guys.

What is your job for you?

Just working process that give you sufficient output and you are able to survive? Or it's place where you spend all your life force and after which you came home and feel like a boiled rag?

Some of you guys like your job. If it is so then I envy you honestly!!!:)

But for other part of people work is just a way to earn for live. However from my own experience hobby can be your job. And you can achieve more and be more succesful by doing what you like instead of working for someone.
This is the reason why people who have an aspiration to write and good thoughts start to write blogs or books. They like it and there are a lot of really succesful blogers http://addicted2success.com/news/the-top-10-famous-multi-million-dollar-bloggers/ or that is why people open their own business.

Think about it. If your job does not satisfy you anymore may be it is time to find your way and do what you like and achieve higher results??

Sincerely,

Man

2013-10-06T22:51:00.002-07:00

New day provides you with a new chance.
Now we are continuing its4man project.
We see that some people are interested in selfdevelopment.
Soon will launch a webpage on our own domain.
And for those who are on twitter follow us:

https://twitter.com/its4man

Friendship

2013-03-25T09:48:00.000-07:00

Friendship

Dear readers,

Firstly I would like to apologize for our long absence. Hope that you are still with us and now I promise me, G.A, and my friend Man will post more often.

My post today is theoretical and it consists of a lot of philosophical. Today I want to share you my thoughts and understanding of very important part of your social life named friendship. Ancient saying states: “Tell me who is your friend and I will tell you who you are!” What did our ancestors mean by giving this idea? What is friendship? Who is my real friend and who is fake and plastic?

I think that most of you asked yourself these questions and I will try to give you correct answer. From my point of view friendship is a relationship between two people that are connected with each other on several levels like mental, moral and spiritual. Mental level means that two people have similar way of thinking and worldview. Relations on moral level are more about system of values. Friend regularly has common values. Spiritual level show how close two people are connected.

Usually during his life man has a lot of connections and people with whom he has a temporary and common contact. With some people you are becoming closer if it is not a woman than you can call it friendly relationships. However, nowadays meaning and value of friendship has fallen down. People do not trust each other. Material values became more important than moral ones. That is why it is more difficult to find real friends in society. People in a modern society tend to be close with stronger people in order to use them for their own purposes and receive certain outcome from such “friendship”. But one of the main qualities of a good friend is his ability so support you in hard situation and be happy when you are successful. However, fake and plastic “friends” will never understand it.

In addition, your friends play a significant role in your personal development. It can be seen that in a company of friends who smoke person becoming a smoker. That is why I think if your friends are people with strong life position than you will try to be in line with them. If they are successful you will be better motivated to reach a success. Therefore, Guys find a real friend and be real yourself. And do not forget to be open and kind person. People feel your attitude towards them but this is theme for another topic..

Sincerely,

G.A

Lose yourself

2013-03-02T11:24:00.000-08:00

Guys,

Everyone like to stay social (this topic is not about social networks) and to be honest with you I am not an exclusion. Everyday, while I am going to various places I am observing people. I suppose that most of you pay attention to the people that surrounds you. What can you conclude about them? May be You can say that they are serious or they are all In their business.. But I am going to characterize them from totally different aspect.

People are identical. Of course it is overexaggeration and you should not understand this statement like 100 percent of people are the same but take a look and you will see what I mean. Most of people live alike life and have same habits and interests. Guys don’t be abased but I will tell you that some of you, men, are in this category of “similar” people. You have similar clothes cellphone and even hairstyle. But it is only external view. If you guys will look deeper you can see that you have not only the same tastes and preferences but even habits and goals. Most of you (nearly 65 percent) want to earn a lot and manage people. It is not my right to judge what is good and what is bad. However I think that every person is choosing his own life and his own destiny. I strongly doubt that two people can live the same life. But why you are trying to do it? Why you want same brands clothes and same brands smartphone. Guys you have a freedom to choose. All of you have different appearance even twins. You were born different but stereotypes and society made you all want same things and reach same goals. Everything starts from your childhood when your parents say teach you: Son do like this and don’t behave like this”. It is good to explain difference between good and bad but you should not impose your way of thinking to your child. Second stage is school where everyone wants to be the coolest guy and society giving you characteristics that cool guy should have. Third step is college/university where you very often listen that you need to graduate and then start your career and after certain period of type you will immediately have a promotion, you will manage people. But I will try to open your eyes. Life is perfect and whatever people say you are not a looser If you are not managing people. You don’t need to wait until graduation to have a working experience and to be promoted you not only need to be good executor but you should be creative and have a broader view then other staff members have. Each of you guys is good in something you are not same people and from my point of view it is not sufficient to have same goals and preferences. Nature created you self-identical not similar. You all are the same species but you are not the same. So guys try to be different and do not lose yourself.

Sincerely,

G.A

Modern Slavery

2013-02-17T11:26:00.001-08:00

Modern Slavery

Guys,

Today I entered the subway and saw a lot of people poring over their smartphones and tabs. Most of them were young men. Majority of them were networking and playing games. At that moment I realized that in 21^st century slavery exists and All of us are slaves..

How much time do you spend with your gadget? According to www.telegraph.co.uk average person spend 2 hours using smartphone. I suppose that most of the young people nowadays waste even more time by using their gadgets. From my personal experience a person needs smartphone. I use it to check my email and to connect other people through Facebook or WhatsApp. But I have to notice that 50 years ago people lived normal life without tabs and smartphones. Moreover, those people were connected with each other more than nowadays. In order to talk to each other they made an arrangement in café or restaurant and spent time there in a face-to-face communication. What I see nowadays instead of face-to-face communication people are texting each other. No doubt, life is faster nowadays and you need to keep in touch with your business partners, employees and colleagues and you use your smartphone for this reason. However, almost 80 percent of time that you use your gadget, you are playing, browsing the web or using social networks. Modern marketers have made you a slave of the gadget. They made you believe that you need to use your gadget to play or to socialize. If you see ads of any gadget you will definitely find extract where actor is showing you that he is playing or socializing. They do it in order to make peace of plastic with hardware valuable for you. Recently, I have seen two schoolgirls arguing about new phone, and one of them was blaming her father that instead of newest one he bought her previous version. It is slavery! You don’t need quad core processor and Full HD to make a phone call or check your email. Do you think that you need to waste your time by networking or playing games in your smartphone the whole day? Think how much time you waste! Man try to use your brain next time when you see ads of a new device or you want to download a new game. Don’t be blind, stay conscious.

Sincerely,

G.A

Live your life

2013-02-16T09:24:00.001-08:00

I want to start my message with the words: "Live your life, guys" You know, today a lot of people live not their lives, but other ones. There are a lot of social networks such as Facebook, Twitter and especially Instagram :) People want to show that they are cool, cute and so on. In order to achieve this foolish goal they make photos of everything they see, does not matter whether it is connected to their life or not. They take clothes, accessories , put them on, make a photo and they believe that people will think that these "actors" are cool. By the way, the border between male and female today is almost disappeared. Future men today upload 10 photos or more a day, check in beauty salons, make pictures in toilets. I guess that is not a good trend , man is a defender, this is a person who rules family, business and so on.

Will kids be proud of father who upload more photos a day than 16 years old school girl?

Guys, live your life... Do not try to be good for everybody, do not try to match strangers' opinions. Raise your own character, form your own style. Do not call "bro" a person you do not like or hate.
Put as much power and meaning in your word, as possible. Do not say I love you to any girl you would like to have sex with.

Guys, live your life... Try to improve yourselves every single day. Master your thoughts, your wishes, your actions and your soul.

Sincerely Yours

MAN

Love is

2013-02-14T10:35:00.001-08:00

Dear readers,

Today after Valentine’s Day I decided to be philosophical and write the post about love. This passage is not aimed to give you advice or teach you. This passage consists of my thoughts about love.

I know that most of you do not think about this feeling seriously. Some of you are skeptical and do not consider love as something existing. Actually, it is not only you men, but part of modern women also does not think of love.

If you ask thousand people what is love you will receive thousand different answers.

From my point of view love is strongest feeling ever. Love is something that makes you to think about someone else besides you (except parents and family) and to take care of this person more then you care about someone else. Love makes you to act and to percept unusually. Love makes you feel strange. When you are in love you are more positive. When you hug a person, whom you love, you feel happier and you don’t need anybody when you are with her.

Moreover, the main advantage of love is great motivation to do something in order to make an impression upon object of your love. A lot of masterpieces in music and art were designed under the impact of this feeling. For example, poems of A.S.Pushking or ballads of Chopin

I really hope that you will find this person who will make you feel special and then you will write to me what is love..

Sincerely,

G.A

Your Time

2013-02-13T11:16:00.001-08:00

Guys,

How do you spend your time and how much work are you able to complete in one day? It is really good question and I think that at the same time it is very important issue.

Usually a man sleeps 6-8 hours a day and therefore has at least 16 hours left. 8 of them he spends at work/college /somewhere else 1-2 hours he spends in the road. Thus Man has still 6 hours of a spare time.

The reason why I am asking how do you spend your time is that most of you, guys, do not spend your time efficiently. No doubt you need to rest after hardworking day, but it does not mean that you should waste whole 6 hours by sitting in social networks or watching TV.

Guys, everybody wants to be successful. But your success is being built up from various pieces and one of these parts of your success is good time management. I can define time management as efficient time usage. Why do you need it? To be able to accomplish more tasks and goals within a day. Here are some advices:

·         Scheduling – make a plan for your day and follow it.
·         Rest – having a rest does not mean to do nothing for an hour or more. You can simply have rest by changing activities. 30 minutes of walking instead of 2 hours browsing the web both save your time and help you to be healthier.
·         Mixing activities - try to mix your activities it will help you to be more productive. Instead of doing one activity for 3 hours you should mix it by having 5-10 minutes break every hour. It will help your brain not to be overloaded with data concerning one topic/issue.
·         Spend no more than one hour in social networks a day. It will save plenty of your time.
·         Do not be disturbed by texting or doing unnecessary phone calls. If you do one activity for 50 minutes don’t interrupt yourself and you will see that you will finish task faster.
·         Decrease number of your smoking/coffee breaks in your workplace.
·         Instead of watching TV try to read some useful materials about activity that you are accomplishing. It will help you. One who has information has the whole World.

Try to follow these simple steps and you will see that you are able to cope with tasks within your day.

Bad habits

2013-02-11T05:22:00.003-08:00

Our dear readers,

If you read our articles last time I started huge topic of healthy lifestyle. Today I will cover the topic on bad habits. However, It is not only about bad habits that you used to hear about.

Bad habits should be divided into 2 groups:

Physical – that directly affect your health
Social - that affect your lifestyle

I would like to start with first ones. Physical pernicious habits are:

Bad nutrition. Thing that affect your body. I don’t need to explain what obesity is, right? Try to normalize your food intake and have a plan for it.
Smoking. Guys on my personal experience will tell you that cigarettes give your relaxation only first couple of weeks. After that it starts to kill your heart lungs and moreover eyesight. After 4 months of smoking I felt that I am not able to run as long as I was able to and after each cigarette I feel more nervous until I smoke next one. This is endless cycle.
Drug addiction. This habit kills. First your spirit and then your brain. Only thing that I can say never try drugs, even if it is weed.
Alcohol. When you drunk you lose control over yourself. I don’t think that Man need to lose control. In any situation it can lead to not that good consequences

Now let’s speak about more special bad habits, about social ones:

Social networking. Guys you can read your news feed and it does not require to waste whole day in facebook or twitter. I tell you 100 percent nobody wants to see 1000 000 photos of your shoes and whatever you capture on your camera. If you want to show off it is better to become successful. Don’t waste your time!
Playing computer games. Another time wasting activity. No doubt it is funny to do this with your friend but you don’t need to play 24/7. Moreover it doesn’t give you any benefits.
Surfing the web until 3 a.m. Guys If you need to be in office at 9 a.m. and you don’t sleep enough you are simply not able to operate efficiently.
Don’t believe all information that you receive. In the digital age tones of data come every day. It is really easy to give you direction through info. You should analyze and only then obtain it.

All that I have described above are bad habits that affect modern society. You guys need to analyze it and decide whether you need to keep these habits or to get rid of them.

Sincerely,

G.A

Top Priority

2013-02-09T05:18:00.003-08:00

It is the second part of success theme in our blog and today I want to tell you about priorities. Nowadays it is vital to set priorities, cause a man should see what kind of business or task will bring him more output and which less.

So, how to set priorities?

First of all you should find out what task you can not delay. So you can list all your task or everyday routine and write numbers (1 to 4) opposite to the task. If you have several urgent tasks you can write 1.1, 1.2 and so on.

Secondly, you can strike out the tasks which have number 4, cause they are not urgent tasks and you can simply avoid spending time on them.

The next step is to write the amount of time which will be demanded for doing particular problem; you should try to finish any action till the end of the time period you have planned.

So, I have covered the way people can set their priorities, hope you will increase your productivity.

Best regards

MAN

Do not stop

2013-02-07T10:08:00.002-08:00

Guys,

Today I will tell you one very important thing that you should do. Guys please keep your physical form in good condition. You can say: MR. Captain Obviousness we have read about it 1000000 times and even more about healthy lifestyle. I will explain you based on my own experience.

I was visiting dojo (place where martial arts are taught) for 2 years. However I was not able to visit it for half of a year due to really busy schedule and lack of energy after the end of my working day. I was spending my whole day sitting in the office and doing some additional work at home. As the result after 2 months I realized that I simply can not move as fast and as lithe as I used to. But it was only start.

After 5 month one morning I looked in the mirror and I saw stooping man with growing paunch. Guys I lost huge part of my physical abilities in 5 months. By the end of each day I felt tired and I decided to start doing some simple physical exercises like push-ups and pull-ups. As a result after 2 weeks I started to feel myself more energetic person. My muscles started to come back to their form. 2 more weeks and I am able to do 80 push-ups and 25 pull-ups. May be it is not an outstanding result but I felt myself much better I felt more power in my body and more strength in my muscles. After that, I was thinking how come I have more energy if I am losing it doing exercises and I understood one thing: Man have good physical conditions in his genes. Stronger body produces more energy! From the ancient time only strongest could survive it is the jungle law. You can doubt and say how much time have passed but your genes keep information that comes from your ancestors and naturally YOU guys are supposed to be strong!

Conclusion is that you should spend 15-20 minutes a day to make certain physical exercises. It is not bad advice Men 100 percent.

Sincerely,

G.A.

The Way to Success

2013-02-06T07:43:00.000-08:00

Today I want to cover the topic which every men concerned with. It is success. First of all I will define what success is. In my view success is being more effective than general public. The question is How to be more effective? There are several methods.

1. Time. Use your time effectively. What does it mean? You should spend time for your:
a) work
b) hobbie
c) relationships
d) selfdevelopment
e) rest/health

You should clearly understant what this points include.

2. Wish.
It is the fact that without a wish there is no aim. So, in order to achieve something you should clearly define what you want to achieve.

3. Idea.
How successful people differ from loosers? First ones have an idea. Their brain continually works 24 hours a day and 365 days a year. They try to find an idea in everything; this type of people see an opportunity, not a problem.

4. Push.
Everybody can dream about new house , car, work lying on the sofa, but besides the wish, there should be push. What does push mean? Push means to force yourself not to give up, to continue work and not to forget about final result, you are going to.

Best regards

MAN

Positioning of a product called "MAN"

2013-01-26T10:16:00.000-08:00

So Guys, are you ready to be stressed? Now I will tell you something that some of you or maybe even most of you have forgotten. There are 2 types of creatures called people on earth. They are Males and Females. “Females” is theme for individual topic, or for thousands of topics, but now it does not matter. Recently I was having coffee together with one female friend. I asked her: Hey why don’t you have a boyfriend? You are smart and cute and ... She interrupted me: It is difficult to find a real man nowadays. Guys, you know she is not the only woman who thinks like this. The reason for it is that the meaning of man is being blurred in the 21st century.

It has become normal when the man is sitting at home and his wife is working. Man is running away while his girlfriend is standing in front of mugger. I never thought that something like this can happen, but I have seen that kind of situations. You like to watch all this crazy action movies with Jason Statham or Sylvester Stallone. But in real life you behave like impotent man. You can say that I am tough but in my opinion being a man first of all means to be responsible for your life and life of your close people: your family. Man should have an idea whom he is going to be, what he is going to do. Yes, sometimes there are circumstances, but in most cases you, Guys, are responsible for this circumstances. God gave you nuts not for scratching them lying on the sofa, but to be able to grip yourself by your nut and go and take the right decision, to work, and to reach your goals.

Think about it, and may be in future there will be less disappointed females who say that it is difficult to find a real man.

Sincerely,

G.A.

App review part 1: Pocket

2013-01-26T10:08:00.001-08:00

It is not a secret that the majority of mobile phone users have smartphones. Application makers do their best in order to inrich the market with new and useful apps. So, today I want to start app review rubric. And the 1st candidate in my list is Pocket.

In my view this app is the most useful that I have, cause sometimes I have no time to read some materials from the web, or I can not due to some reasons, but with the help of this app I can formely read it later ( the motto of Pocket). User can add the pocket button into the google chrome, upload it to iphone or android, and all saved pages will be stored on the special server. The main advantage is that a user can update the content of the app by "refresh button" and all the information will be uploaded to the device that has Pocket, and the user will have access to this info without connecting the internet , that's great! Isn't it?

Hope my article was helpful to you

Enjoy using this great app

Best regards

MAN.

Think about it ;)

2013-01-25T11:47:00.000-08:00

Today I was crossing the street with acquaintance of mine. The bmw has just flown near us. It was black bmw m5 e92, tuned by hamann. To be honest, I am big fan of this car manufacturer, especially of m-series.
So I said that it is great car and I would like to have one. I heard the answer:"Oh, bugatti is quite better."
You know this intro was made only in order to show you one thing: People have lost their identity. Everybody wants to be similar with another one, or they prefer things, trends, clothes whatever that is accepted by society as the whole. I guess, that a person should have his/her own tastes and preferences, not to think like: "It is the most expensive car/perfume/clothing and I want (like) it."
As for me I would prefer bmw to bugatti, smartphone to the luxury phone with diamonds or whatever. That is my choice and this is my style.

Take this food for thought and make right deduction ;)

Best regards

MAN.

a little bit about style

2013-01-24T09:33:00.001-08:00

So Guys, Today we are going to talk about style, or to be exact, style of successful man. If you look outside from your window you can see a lot of young people in various clothes. Modern guy in a jeans like a woman do you guys really think that this is the way how stylish and successful man should look like? Of course, some of you will say that clothes are the way of self-expression and I do agree with that. However, do not forget that society put certain frames and not all people can go out of these frames. Now I will give you list of clothes that every modern gentlemen should have
in his wardrobe:

1. Classic suit that emphasize all benefits of your body and will hide drawbacks
2. Good shirt with cufflinks
3. Medium size bag; can be classic or modern
4. 2 or 3 pairs of jeans without holes and patches.
5. Trousers are also very interesting even if you don’t wear classic shoes today most apparel stores can offer interesting models of trousers
6. Jumper/pullover without any extraordinary prints
7. Moccasins or boat shoes
8. Polo shirt can be both suitable with jeans and trousers
9. Perfume
10. Watches try to buy suitable watches for your life style. Try to wear original brand not fake one. Let’s be honest it looks funny when a student in Nike shoes wears Rolex luxury watches
11. Never hesitate various colors for your clothes. However, your look should not be loud-colored and don’t forget about combination of colors.

Sincerely,

G.A.

Hello buddy :)

2013-01-22T12:32:00.003-08:00

From the ancient times man was the defender, the warrior and the hunter. Being a man is a great responsibility, cause the man is responsible for his family and friends.

But nowadays everything has changed, men started to use make up, wear clothes similar to women's ones and so on. So it is quite difficult to recognize the real way of a man.

This blog is created in order to help men to orient in nowadays world. Different spheres of life will be discussed there ( entertainment, health, habits, leading topics of the hour, relationships and so on).

Become our permanent reader and I hope you will enjoy it.

Best regards

Man.