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		<title>Goal Setting: Ten Lessons I Learned While Climbing to the Top</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[The only way to grow your courage muscle is to use it. The only way to overcome a fear is to face it. Sometimes when you are afraid to do something that you know you are capable of, it means you MUST do it. I could spend my entire life avoiding things that scare me but then I would never grow. I would miss out on so many delicious experiences. When muscles and skills are not used, they atrophy, the fade, they shrink. You increase and grow your capacity whenever you pursue your potential.]]></description>
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<p>(raw footage from my climb of Eagle Tower)</p>
<p>I recently spent some time in Door County, Wisconsin on a relaxing little weekend getaway.</p>
<div> </div>
<div>On my last day there, I set out with a girlfriend to explore Peninsula State Park, a beautiful nature preserve located on a bluff high above the waters of Green Bay.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>As we went through the park, we stumbled upon Eagle Tower. Eagle Tower is a 75 foot wooden tower built in 1914 that sits on a cliff above Green Bay, exactly 250 feet above the water.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>For whatever reason, I was attracted to the tower. I quickly assessed it and decided to climb it. I figured if it&#8217;s been here since 1914 and it&#8217;s open to the public, it must be relatively safe, right? So I grabbed my video camera and began my ascent.</div>
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<div> </div>
<div>Upon first glance it seems like it would be a breeze to climb to the top, that is, until you get started, then you realize the tower is one big wobbly staircase.</div>
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<div> </div>
<div>Now I&#8217;m from the city so this is not the first staircase I have conquered. My home is three levels and I climb those stairs every single day. The art school I attended was 14 stories high and I loved using the stairs. It is however quite daunting when you realize that the individual stairs of Eagle Tower go straight up and have no backing, no walls. So this means you get to feel the wind in your face, you cannot avoid seeing the height you are climbing to while the landmarks below you shrink with each step you take. </div>
<div> </div>
<div>I was so happy to be climbing Eagle Tower and was especially excited to be sharing the experience with my dear friend. After all, we are stronger together&#8230; that is until I lost her, and then I had to be strong by myself.</div>
<div>Can you relate?  My friend turned back after about 20 feet up. She didn&#8217;t just turn back, she got a little cranky with me, told me climbing this thing just wasn&#8217;t important to her and just like that, she was gone. She was back on the ground. Little did I know that climbing this pile of wood would become a deeply moving spiritual experience that I could draw from for the rest of my life&#8230;</div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>The Ten Lessons I Learned While Climbing to the Top</strong></div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>1. There will be times you will have to go on without your support system</strong>. The people you want to be there with you will not always be there with you. Be willing to go forward <span id="more-220"></span>anyway.</div>
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<div>It occurred to me at that moment that I had a choice. I could turn back to keep my friend company or I could just keep going.  Since she was already cranky, I might risk her being angry with me for going without her. Or I could just go forward and do what I said I was going to do. I would have truly preferred to climb it with her and share the experience, but I decided to continue climbing even if it meant I was solo. After all, the tower wasn&#8217;t going anywhere and I could tell her all about it when I came down and perhaps she would want to climb it later after watching me do it. Quite an optimistic thought.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>But that didn&#8217;t happen. She totally disengaged from me and the experience. She went to the car and made some phone calls. What&#8217;s important to note is that no matter how much I truly believe she would have benefited from this experience, my journey is not her journey. Each person chooses their own path and sometimes you have to let them go and then do what you need to do for yourself.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>Which taught me this:</div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>2. The higher you climb, the scarier it gets and the less company you will have.</strong></div>
<div> </div>
<div>Sometimes people turn on you and project THEIR fear onto you through anger, disassociation, abandonment and so on. Sometimes they even attack you because you are doing something they want, but are afraid to do. But the reality is, when someone does this, it&#8217;s not about you at all. I wanted her to have this experience.  But the truth is, this climb was not about her or anyone else and I shouldn&#8217;t make it about her. It was about me wanting to feel the fear and do it anyway. <em>I</em> wanted this experience. There were people already at the top and that was comforting to know that I would meet them when I got there.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>And so I kept climbing.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>The higher I climbed, the stronger and colder the wind was. In fact,when I reached the second level, the wind was so strong, it blew my hat off my head. Oh, and the higher you go, the more the tower sways in the wind. You can hear the wood making creaky sounds and the &#8216;perception&#8217; of danger and intensity becomes greater with each step.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>The wind is cold and loud as it howls around you. There is no protection from it as the tower is essentially 4 pillars, a floating staircase and a railing to hold onto as you climb. That&#8217;s it.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>So why was I here, why was I climbing this tower?  Why was this so important to me?</div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>3. How you do anything is how you do everything.</strong></div>
<div> </div>
<div>The very thought of that statement is what kept me from turning back. I wondered if I turned back here, in a controlled situation that would be done and over with in about 4 minutes, what else in life do I avoid, turn back and retreat from? Not that this issue is a pattern in my life, but the mere possibility was enough to make me forge ahead.</div>
<div><em>This experience was symbolic to me, a step in the direction of expanding my personal development and spiritual growth.</em></div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>4. Once you make the decision to go, do not sit around talking about how afraid you are.</strong>  That only causes the fear to become bigger and you will increase your chances of turning around like my friend did. It&#8217;s okay that she turned back, as she had her reasons for not doing it, but I could not turn back for I had my reasons for following through and I was 100% committed to make it to the top. She saw the tower as a meaningless pile of wood. I saw it as a metaphor for life and conquering fear. Instead of focusing on the fear, I focused on the feeling of accomplishment I would feel with each progressive step and the view I would get to enjoy when I reached the highest point.</div>
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<div><strong>&#8220;What you dwell upon long enough and strong enough becomes your reality. &#8221; -Jill Koenig</strong></div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>5. The only way to grow your courage muscle is to use it</strong>. Sometimes when you are afraid to do something that you know you are capable of, it means you MUST do it. I could spend my entire life avoiding things that scare me but then I would never grow. I would miss out on so many delicious experiences. When muscles and skills are not used, they atrophy, the fade, they shrink. You increase and grow your capacity whenever you pursue your potential.</div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>6. The higher you climb, the more temptation there is to turn back</strong>.  The climate is different at the top. There is often more risk, and the conditions are more extreme. Fewer people are willing to take those risks and battle those conditions. This applies to business, love, friendship, intimacy, spirituality and any aspect of life. The greater the challenge, the greater the opportunity, but also the greater the challenge, the more opportunities for your limiting beliefs to sneak up on you and bite you in the rear.</div>
<div><em>You must consistently consciously choose to overcome the perception of your limitations</em>.</div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>7. When you get to the top, or reach a new level, take time to celebrate and reflect</strong>. Capture the lessons from the experience. Who knew that climbing a wooden tower would have brought so much insight to my life and give me the opportunity to share it with you? And some of you are going to comment back and share your insights with me and that&#8217;s pretty awesome if you ask me.</div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>8. After you stretch yourself and have done something a few times, it becomes much easier to accomplish more</strong>. In fact, you will find yourself looking for bigger challenges to tackle. Challenging yourself makes you feel alive and accomplished. Even if you don&#8217;t make it to the top, if you stretch yourself, you will be in a better position for the future.</div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>9. The view from the top is spectacular</strong>. There are things you can only experience and see from up high. I climbed the tower three times that day. Each time was easier than the one before. The third time I climbed the tower, I saw a bald eagle flying just above me. Have you ever seen a bald eagle in front of your face free in the wild? Let me assure you, it&#8217;s a treasure to behold. I would have totally missed that remarkable sight if I were standing on the ground.</div>
<div><em>It is worth noting that Eagles do not hang around sitting on the ground. They soar. If you want to see them and be around them, you have to rise to their level.</em></div>
<div> </div>
<div><strong>10. Sometimes coming down  just as frightening as going up</strong>. After I celebrated at the top, and took in the spectacular view, it was time to come down and it was just as scary coming down as it was going up and I think the same is true of life. Life is a series of peaks and valleys, summers and winters. There are cycles we must all experience. I don&#8217;t know anyone whose life is a constant ride at the top. But it is still worth the effort to go for it and get back to the top, to seek new heights, if for no other reason than what you will learn and who you will become in the process. The lessons are yours to keep forever.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>For my friend this tower was a meaningless pile of wood. For me it was a metaphor for life. What towers or mountains have you climbed lately? What challenges have you embraced, what fears have you conquered? How have you stretched yourself today?</div>
<div> </div>
<div>You want to seek new heights in every area of your life. It&#8217;s worth doing whatever it takes to get there.</div>
<div> </div>
<div>See you at the top.</div>
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<div>Live Your Dreams,</div>
<div>Jill Koenig</div>
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		<title>How to Follow Through on Your Goals Whether You Feel Like it or Not</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever found yourself making a commitment and when the time came to follow through and do what you said you were going to do, you failed to follow through just because you didn't feel like it?

One of the primary distinctions I have discovered between people who habitually achieve their goals and create the results they desire is that successful people follow through whether they feel like it or not.
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<p>Have you ever felt stuck or lacked motivation on any given day?</p>
<p>Have you ever found yourself making a commitment and when the time came to follow through and do what you said you were going to do, you failed to follow through just because you didn&#8217;t feel like it?</p>
<p>One of the primary distinctions I have discovered between people who habitually achieve their goals and create the results they desire is that successful people follow through whether they feel like it or not.</p>
<p><strong><em>Successful people follow through whether they feel like it or not.</em></strong></p>
<p>Imagine scheduling your wedding and the minister failed to show up to your ceremony because he/she didn&#8217;t <em>feel</em> like it.</p>
<p>Imagine your kids not doing their homework because they didn&#8217;t have the motivation, they don&#8217;t <em>feel</em> like doing it.</p>
<p>It sounds preposterous that we can be so moody and fickle when it comes to our goals in life, but for many individuals, this is how they habitually operate.</p>
<p>The key to following though and getting things done is to have a plan and follow through on it long after the mood has left you. That is true commitment.</p>
<p>So it&#8217;s a gloomy day, you have a goal to exercise but you don&#8217;t feel like it. Do it anyways.</p>
<p>Whenever you set a goal, write it down, set a deadline and make a list of 10 compelling reasons why you MUST achieve this goal.</p>
<p><strong>You need to determine your motivation up front when you first set the goal.</strong></p>
<p>Every time you follow through whether you feel like it at the moment or not, you build your self confidence, commitment and resilience muscles. You condition yourself to becoming a goal achiever, instead of a goal setter.</p>
<p>Live Your Dreams,</p>
<p>Jill Koenig</p>
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		<title>How to Create New and Empowering Habits in 21 Days: Change that Lasts a Lifetime</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[From the moment you wake up to the moment your eyes close at night, most of your thoughts, words and actions are habitual. Once you have identified your dominant habits, identify the source of those habits. Most of your habits were programmed into you at a very early age without you even realizing it. Many of your habits come from observing your dominant parent or caregiver. If you are habitually late, perhaps this trait was modeled for you by someone you admire. Not always but often enough. From the brand of car you drive to the brands of food you purchase, many of these habits were modeled for you and you practice them subconsciously.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_213" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 370px"><img class="size-full wp-image-213 " title="how_to_create_a_new_habit_in_21_days" src="http://www.goalguru.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/how_to_create_a_new_habit_in_21_days.jpg" alt="Can You Create a New Habit in 21 Days?" width="360" height="480" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Can You Create a New Habit in 21 Days?</p></div>
<p>&#8220;<em>Fake it &#8217;til you make it.&#8221;</em> We&#8217;ve all heard the cliche for approaching something that seems out of reach. There may be some method to the madness of that approach.</p>
<p>But have you ever given much thought to what it takes to bridge the gap between where you are now and where you want to be when it comes to eliminating old habits and forming new ones?</p>
<p>Success is habitual.</p>
<p>We have all witnessed those who seemingly achieve amazing feats over and over. Think of Tiger Woods, Michael Phelps, Michael Jordan. What allows one person to be an automatic peak performer every day without fail while others experience failure after failure? Most likely, the achievers have created and practiced success systems, habits and rituals that serve rather than detract from their goals.</p>
<p>If everything affects everything, which is, of course, true, then it pays to take a holistic look at the current habits and patterns in ALL areas of your life, at work, at home and at play.</p>
<p>You cannot change what you don&#8217;t acknowledge so it pays to get real and be brutally honest with yourself so you can finally align your habits with your dreams.</p>
<p><strong>How to Create New and Empowering Habits</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. Identify your current habits, the good, the bad and the ugly</strong>. You have probably practiced many of the same habits throughout your life without realizing it. Keep a pen and paper handy throughout the day to capture habits as you become aware of them. From the moment you wake up to the moment your eyes close at night, most of your thoughts, words and actions are<span id="more-212"></span> habitual. Write them down on paper. If you get stuck, ask others around you what habits they notice in you. This might take a few days.</p>
<p><strong>2. Once you have identified your dominant habits, identify the source of those habits</strong>. Most of your habits were programmed into you at a very early age without you even realizing it. Many of your habits come from observing your dominant parent or caregiver. If you are habitually late, perhaps this trait was modeled for you by someone you admire. Not always but often enough. From the brand of car you drive to the brands of food you purchase, many of these habits were modeled for you and you practice them subconsciously.</p>
<p>Here are some common negative habits:<br />
reading the newspaper first thing in the morning<br />
vegging out, watching tv all evening<br />
going to bed too late<br />
hitting the snooze button every morning<br />
cleaning obsessively<br />
exercising excessively or not exercising at all<br />
eating fast food frequently<br />
saving money or not saving money<br />
excessive credit card debt<br />
choosing toxic relationships<br />
not reading self-improvement books<br />
not setting goals<br />
procrastination<br />
having many started projects and none finished<br />
impulsiveness<br />
dishonesty<br />
infidelity<br />
hoarding<br />
negative self talk<br />
criticism of others<br />
complaining<br />
depression<br />
worry<br />
blame<br />
smoking<br />
overeating<br />
sugar addiction<br />
skipping breakfast<br />
workaholic<br />
alcoholic<br />
overcommitting to things because you can&#8217;t say no<br />
etc.</p>
<p>Often you can look at your parents, examine their habits and see them in yourself. &lt;gasp&gt; I know I do on both the positive side and the negative side. They&#8217;re there alright. This exercise is not to judge others or yourself. It is simply to identify. This is especially important if you have children because your current habits are likely to be modeled by those who look up to you. What habits and traits do you want to instill in them?</p>
<p><strong>3. Next to each habit you identified, decide which of these habits are empowering and which habits are disempowering</strong>. An empowering habit serves your greater good. It usually serves the greater good of the people around you too, those whom you love and care about. A disempowering habit does not serve your greater good, in fact, it likely detracts from your life.  Disempowering habits are roadblocks to your dreams.</p>
<p>Next to each empowering habit, draw a smiley face :)  Next to each disempowering habit, draw a frown :(   There is no neutral.<br />
<strong>4.  The best way to eliminate an old disempowering habit is to replace it with a new more empowering one</strong>.  Next to each disempowering habit, write down a description of the opposite habit you want to replace it with. </p>
<p>For example, if you come home after a long day&#8217;s work and turn on the television vegging out mindlessly for hours while your belly magically grows, perhaps an evening walk with your mate is what&#8217;s called for. Perhaps instead of reading the newspaper each morning and being bombarded with negative news and advertisements, perhaps you will opt to replace it with reading a chapter of a personal development book or listening to an audio while you prepare for the day. Instead of surfing the net, perhaps you want to write a few pages of that book you&#8217;ve been putting off. If you&#8217;ve been hoarding to the point you barely have a path to walk through, perhaps some purging and organizing is in order. If you habitually criticize your mate, perhaps you can create a new habit of focusing on what&#8217;s great about them. If you were a habitual procrastinator, you could become a habitual action taker.</p>
<p><strong>5. Prioritize which habits you want to tackle first based on their importance to your life</strong>. Write #1 next to the #1 most important habit you want to focus on, #2 for the next most important habit and so on. To begin, focus your time and attention only on the habit you have determined is most important that will have the greatest positive effect on your life. I&#8217;m not going to tell you to turn your entire life upside down overnight by tackling them all at once. Some can do this successfully because they seek a complete life makeover. Others who are easily overwhelmed and lack confidence will sabotage themselves and fare much better by focusing on one habit at a time.</p>
<p><strong>6. Imagine a role model or someone you admire</strong>. What habits and rituals do they consistently practice to achieve the results they do? Now here&#8217;s the bigger question: What beliefs underlie those habits? Model the habits of those whom you admire. Model the habits hight achievers. Focus on the beliefs underneath that support those empowering habits. Fake it &#8217;til you make it is ok to begin but it only gets you so far. Many copy the action steps in an effort to duplicate a formula, and complain when things don&#8217;t work out. They only went through the motions. The real magic happens when you in embrace the underlying Principles, beliefs and mindset that produced the success.</p>
<p><strong>Sometimes creating a new habit can lead to a new belief.<br />
Sometimes creating a new belief can lead to a new habit.</strong></p>
<p>Ultimately, they must be congruent to move you in the direction of your Goal.</p>
<p><strong>7. Celebrate your existing empowering habits and the new habits you seek to create</strong>. Imagine the positive effect on your life and the people you love. Revel in the ways you will impact the people around you for the better. Imagine your life in one month, 6 months, 1 year, 5-10 years from now. What will your life be like because you adopted these new and empowering habits and beliefs. Pretty remarkable I would think.<br />
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When your current thoughts and habits are congruent with your Goals and dreams, you will begin to move towards them more quickly and with seemingly less effort.</p>
<p><strong>You know you have successfully created a new habit when the practice of it is automatic and effortless.</strong></p>
<p>How long does it take to break an old habit or form a new habit? It varies. Most experts assert you it takes 21 days. I believe it could take an hour, a week, months or years. The greater your desire and commitment, the faster the change will occur. Practicing the new desired habit consecutively (every single day without fail) increases the speed in which you will see results.</p>
<p>When the identity shift occurs inside you, you are well on your way. When you no longer think of yourself as a smoker, but a non smoker. When you no longer view yourself as overweight, but rather a healthy vibrant person who lives a healthy lifestyle. When you no longer think of yourself as a complainer, rather an person who finds the good in every person and situtation-automatically. That is when you will have successfully created the new empowering habit.</p>
<p>After you have accomplished successfully creating your #1 top priority habit, move on to # 2, then #3 and son on.</p>
<p>When your identity is congruent with the beliefs, thoughts and actions necessary to carry out your Goal, you have become the person necessary to achieve your Goal.</p>
<p>Resolve to do whatever it takes to improve the quality of your life.<br />
Live Your Dreams,</p>
<p>Jill Koenig</p>
<p><a href="http://www.GoalGuru.com">http://www.GoalGuru.com</a></p>
<p>Jill Koenig, The Goal Guru, is America&#8217;s Top Goal Strategist. A self-made millionaire by age 30, she has dedicated her life to teaching the principles of Goal Setting, Productivity and Self Improvement to individuals, entrepreneurs as well as Fortune 500 companies. She is a highly sought after Author, Peak Performance Coach and Motivational Speaker. To learn how to achieve your Goals at TURBO speed, visit: <a href="http://www.GoalGuru.com">http://www.GoalGuru.com</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the most common complaints today is overwhelm. In a world where information overload is a daily occurrence, the solution to overcoming overwhelm lies in knowing which information and which opportunities truly matter. And you cannot know the answer to that until you examine your values and determine your priorities in life.

You need to learn The Priority Principle. The Priority Principle means knowing your values &#038; priorities &#038; arranging your life so that you spend your time, energy and money on what matters. It means you qualify each Goal and action by ranking the order of importance in advance. In a world where your potential is infinite, but your time is limited to 24 hours each day, the only way to navigate intelligently through life is to know what is most important to you and then act accordingly. Only when you have taken the time to examine your values and priorities carefully, can you know which opportunities, people, inputs and actions align with them. 
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<p>This is probably one of the most important subjects I could ever share with you as it relates to your Goals and how they<br />
contribute to improving the quality of your life.</p>
<p>As we have discussed before, most people don&#8217;t have clearly defined Goals. It is estimated that only 3% of the population<br />
have any Goals at all, and certainly of that 3% even fewer have Goals in relation to a total holistic life design concept with action plans, timelines and priorities for each the different life areas.</p>
<p><strong>One of the most common mistakes that holds people back from achieving their Goals is having have a long list of exciting Goals, but no system for organizing the order of priority for them. </strong></p>
<p>Imagine how many decisions you make throughout any given day. What time will you wake up? What will you do when your open your eyes? Will you hit the snooze button or will you get up and get moving? Will you be excited about the day? What will you do next, will you exercise, read a little, listen to a personal development audio? Will you rewrite and review your Goals Cards? Will you eat breakfast and if you do, what will you have? Will it be rushed, will it be nutritious? You see what I&#8217;m talking about? You have just opened your eyes for only a few minutes and already you have made several decisions that will affect your day and over time, those daily minute to minute decisions become habits that accumulate to create your life, whether you realize it or not.</p>
<p>If a Goal is worth setting, it&#8217;s worth examining it&#8217;s relationship to the values and priorities in your life.</p>
<p>The Goal is the <em>what</em>, the priority and value is the <em>why</em>, and where it fits into your life. When you know the <em>what</em> and the <em>why</em>, the <em>how</em> is easy.</p>
<p>One of the most common complaints today is overwhelm. In a world where information overload is a daily occurrence, the solution to overcoming overwhelm lies in knowing which<span id="more-204"></span><br />
information and which opportunities truly matter. And you cannot know the answer to that until you examine your values and determine your personal life priorities.</p>
<p><strong>The Priority Principle</strong></p>
<p>I would like to introduce you to <strong>The Priority Principle</strong>. The Priority Principle means knowing your values and priorities and arranging your life so that you spend your time, energy and money on what matters. It means you qualify each Goal and action by ranking the order of importance in advance. In a world where your potential is infinite, but your time is limited to 24 hours each day, the only way to navigate intelligently through life is to know what is most important to you and then act accordingly. Only when you have taken the time to examine your values and priorities carefully, can you know which opportunities, people, inputs and actions align with them.</p>
<p>My first major lesson in priorities came was when I was 18 years old on the job working as a Firefigher/Emergency Medical Technician. I was an art student by day and Firefighter by night and on weekends. I know, quite the combination, right?</p>
<p>Most people don&#8217;t think about emergency responders until they need one. If or when you have a situation like a fire, an accident, an illness or some kind of extreme crisis, you dial 911. A trained professional like a police officer, Firefighter, Paramedic or EMT arrives to help and take over the situation. They have the tools and the access to whatever it takes to bring the emergency, big or small, under control.</p>
<p>There are small scale emergencies that are non life-threatening, like broken bones and surface cuts that are relatively simple and easy to process, for example, one patient with one minor injury. And then there are larger scale emergencies like car accidents that can have multiple<br />
victims, with multiple traumatic injuries, as well as enormous disasters with dozens, hundreds or even thousands of victims.</p>
<p>When there are more patients than manpower available to handle every victim immediately, there is a process that has to occur and it has to occur very quickly. That process is called <strong>Triage</strong>. Triage means to sort. Triage as performed in an emergency situation means someone has to quickly assess and sort through all of the victims and prioritize which patients will be treated and in what order. Even with one patient who has multiple injuries, when you can only treat one thing at a time, you have to prioritize which injury to treat first.</p>
<p>When there are multiple patients, a person who has a gaping open would would likely command a higher priority than another person who has all of their faculties who can walk and talk with no signs of urgent distress. I don&#8217;t want to get into all of the different variations of injuries here,<br />
I just want to clarify that some patients will have a greater need for urgency over others. There are guidelines for determining which types of injuries get priority over all others. Emergency responders are trained and practice disaster drills so that when a crisis does occur, they know<br />
what to do. Because no two crisises are identical, this training and practice in advance is often the lifesaver for many.</p>
<p>In times of calm, instructors clearly outlined in advance what the parameters were for the different valuations of urgency and priority of care so that when we were faced with the day to day activities of constant crisis, it would be almost second nature to make the right decision amidst<br />
whatever circumstances arose.</p>
<p>With regards to medical emergencies, seconds mean life and death and decisions are made in milliseconds. Fortunately with your Goals, you don&#8217;t have as much pressure unless you are in crisis and most crisises can be prevented if you take the time to carefully examine your life regularly over time.</p>
<p><strong>I transformed my life when I applied The Priority Principle.</strong></p>
<p>In my 20&#8217;s I went through an interesting phase where I went from poverty to earning enough money to support myself and enjoy some of life&#8217;s luxuries. I didn&#8217;t really know what to do with the money. I had never had any before! But I was learning how to earn it and could breathe a little easier. I bought a new car and 2 motorcycles. I was making more<br />
money than I ever had before but there didn&#8217;t seem to be enough cash to invest in the things I needed in order to grow my business. There is always a next level and I wanted to reach it. I wanted a bigger business, more income, more financial security and a big house.</p>
<p>One day I looked out at my motorcycles and thought, look at the money that is tied up in those bikes. They also served as a distraction as my biker friends were police officers and firefighers and worked all different shifts, so I would get invitations to go riding together at all hours of the day and night. I had not yet fully developed the habit of discipline so there were times I was riding motorcycles when I should have been working on myself and my business.</p>
<p>When I paused and thought about my motorcycles, in the scope of life, I realized that <em><strong>they are toys</strong></em>. I needed to rearrange my priorities. I figured if I valued my financial future more than my toys, then I should sell the motorcycles. After all, I could always buy another one in the future. So I rearranged and re-clarified my values. I needed to start valuing my financial future more than I valued those motorcycles.</p>
<p>So I sold them and invested the money into my business. Things grew so fast I could hardly keep up. Within a few months I moved into a 6,000 square foot house in the White Eagle Country Club in Naperville, IL. The girl who grew up in a 2 bedroom ghetto shack was suddenly living amongst CEOs, NBA stars and some of Chicago&#8217;s social elite. I am not trying to impress you, I just want to illustrate how quickly you can change your life when you become clear about your values and priorities and back it up with your actions. <em>I went on to become a millionaire by ag 30 and never looked back.</em></p>
<p>You have got to invest the time into Triaging your Goals, dreams and life responsibilities. In a major medical emergency, if you don&#8217;t Triage properly, people die unnecessarily. In your day to day life, if you don&#8217;t Triage your Goals and apply the Priority Principle, your dreams die. I want you to <em>Live</em> Your Dreams.</p>
<p>I outline my own quick process of how to determine your values and priorities in simple terms, and great detail in Chapter 3 of <a href="http://www.thetimecommandments.com">http://www.TheTimeCommandments.com</a> where you learn how to become crystal clear on your Goals and priorities in only 2 hours. Whether currently in a crisis or not, it is so important to take the time to look at what matters most to you in life. If you don&#8217;t, you will spend an awful lot of time feeling overwhelmed, putting out fires and responding to crisis after crisis, wasting your energy, instead of achieving your Goals with ease.</p>
<p>The good news is that when it comes to goal setting and life design, you have the luxury of deciding what your priorities are in advance IF you will invest the time and effort into learning the success system for doing it.</p>
<p>You are already deciding which Goals will be achieved and which ones will not whether you realize it or not. But now, by learning a new level of consciousness with regards to your priorities, you can achieve your Goals faster and have a lot more fun in the process.</p>
<p>I once had a Goal of owning a motorcycle. But in the scope of life, at that time, it meant nothing compared to my other Goals and priorities. Because I clarified that, I was able to take decisive action and move forward to more important, long lasting matters quickly and easily .</p>
<p><strong>Don&#8217;t major in minor things. -Jim Rohn</strong></p>
<p>Don&#8217;t focus major time and attention on Goals that are minor in the scope of your life.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s not our abilities that define who we truly are, it&#8217;s our thoughts, choices and our actions.</p>
<p>If you have never consciously thought about it, you might be wondering, &#8220;How do I know what my current values and priorities are?&#8221;</p>
<p>The answer, whether you like it or not, is that they are revealed in your current actions, patterns and habits. If you value time, you don&#8217;t waste it. If you value honesty, you don&#8217;t lie. If you value money, you invest it wisely. If you value growth, you work on self improvement. If you value<br />
family, you invest your time and attention on nurturing them. If you value your spouse/partner, your words and behavior reveal this too. You are not what you say you are, you are what you repeatedly do.</p>
<p>Ultimatey, what you spend your time, energy and money on is a clear indicator of your values and priorities.</p>
<p>And if what you are currently doing is not working for you, you can change that and rearrange your priorities today in the next 120 minutes. You will increase your focus and productivity in every area of your life.</p>
<p>If you have never done this before, it&#8217;s worth the investment of your time. It will change your life.</p>
<p>To get clear and create your own personalized plan as it relates to balanced life design, learn how at</p>
<p><a href="http://www.thetimecommandments.com">http://www.TheTimeCommandments.com</a></p>
<p>Live Your Dreams,</p>
<p>Jill Koenig</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[10 Outstanding metaphors for football, business and life. Have you ever noticed, to be effective, you must manage the clock. There are four quarters in a game and there are four quarters in one year. Carefully and strategically allocate your time, energy and manpower to perform at your peak from beginning to end. Take quarterly time outs to evaluate. Schedule these into your life. Examine your stats and measurements. How are you doing? You may need to make an adjustment in your game plan, tactics or fine tune your game plan for better results. If you are in need of a short break to re energize, or are off track at any time, simply call a time out and regroup.]]></description>
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<p>Some of my  most cherished memories from childhood are from pickup football games my friends and I played on the school lawn down the street from my house.</p>
<p>There are lessons all around us contained in art, theatre, movies, athletics, nature and even in the most unexpected places.</p>
<p>The other day I was going through an old box of pictures and I found a picture of myself and my friends in front of the schoolyard where we used to play football together and it got me thinking about many of the lessons I learned about Goal Setting by watching and playing football. If you are a football fan, you will appreciate this.</p>
<p><strong>The Top 10 Lessons Football Taught Me About Goal Setting</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. He who scores first gains momentum</strong>. Have you ever heard a coach talk about an upcoming game? Almost always the coach declares the intention to score first, to put points on the board as soon as possible. This is so important because it gives the scoring team a psychological edge. Scoring first has the potential to boost your confidence and deflate your opponents psyche. I have seen many games where two teams with equal talent are won by the team who scored first. </p>
<p><strong>2. Every inch, every yard forward counts because it gets you closer to your Goal</strong>. Most of your offensive plays gain at best an average of a few yards, but over time, they accumulate and contribute to forward movement. Inevitably at times you go backwards a few yards, but if you stay focused on your Goal<span id="more-197"></span>, you can make up for it on the next play.  </p>
<p><strong>3. You cannot play defense the whole game</strong>. You cannot just sit back in reactive mode, waiting to see what everyone else is going to do or spend all of your energy responding to circumstances. You have to be proactive, play offense and move yourself towards the Goal by making things happen through deliberate thought and effort.</p>
<p><strong>4. To be effective, you must manage the clock</strong>. There are four quarters in a game and there are four quarters in one year. Carefully and strategically allocate your time, energy and manpower to perform at your peak from beginning to end. </p>
<p><strong>5. Take quarterly time outs to evaluate</strong>. Schedule these into your life. Examine your stats and measurements. How are you doing? You may need to make an adjustment in your game plan, tactics or fine tune your game plan for better results. If you are in need of a short break to re energize, or are off track at any time, simply call a time out and regroup.</p>
<p><strong>6. You need a strategic Game Plan</strong>. Before the game is ever played, every player must know their part and be prepared to execute.</p>
<p><strong>7. You need a great Coach</strong>. Even the most gifted, talented players need a Coach to bring out the best in them and keep them focused on the executing the plan. A Coach has a different perspective than the players. A great Coach brings experience and a  holistic view of the game and can see things in the big picture that most players cannot see. </p>
<p><strong>8. The greatest players in the game condition themselves year round</strong>.  Those who enjoy longevity work just as hard on themselves outside of the game as they do in the game. They surround themselves with positive people who support their Goals.  If luck is where preparation meets opportunity, the prepared outperform those who are not conditioned every time.</p>
<p><strong>9. An effective Blitz can change the momentum and turn the game in your favor</strong>. Focusing all of your energy and attention on one area can catapult you forward by leaps and bounds. </p>
<p><strong>10. Be a Leader, be a play maker</strong>.  On every team, in every game, you know who the go to guy is who will get the job done when the game is on the line. You know who puts in the extra effort and that in a close game, that extra push is what makes a winner. Be that play maker in your chosen field. </p>
<p>In the game of football and in the game of life, be a team player. Be a leader and approach every important goal as if it your own personal Superbowl. </p>
<p>Enjoy the game and live your dreams.</p>
<p>Jill Koenig<br />
http://www.TheGoalGuru.com</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Jill Koenig
Author, Coach, Speaker
Millions of people started the day today &#8220;hoping&#8221; for
motivation to get them through the week. They woke up
waiting for some external force to inspire and light a fire
under them so they could make it through the day. Not an
exciting way to begin the week, do you agree?
Does it make sense to [...]]]></description>
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<p>By Jill Koenig<br />
Author, Coach, Speaker</p>
<p>Millions of people started the day today &#8220;<em>hoping</em>&#8221; for<br />
motivation to get them through the week. They woke up<br />
waiting for some external force to inspire and light a fire<br />
under them so they could make it through the day. Not an<br />
exciting way to begin the week, do you agree?</p>
<p>Does it make sense to await motivation from an outside<br />
source and &#8220;hope&#8221; it arrives or does it make more sense to<br />
learn a few key strategies for motivating yourself week<br />
after week consistently? After all, we are given 52<br />
Mondays each year. What if you could turn them into the<br />
springboard for creating a great week guaranteed<span id="more-193"></span> every<br />
time?</p>
<p>&#8220;The most important thing you can do to achieve your Goals<br />
is to make sure that as soon as you set them, you<br />
immediately begin to create momentum. The most important<br />
rules that I ever adopted to help me in achieving my Goals<br />
were those I learned from a very successful man who taught<br />
me to first write down the Goal, and then to never leave<br />
the site of setting a Goal without first taking some form<br />
of positive action towards its attainment.&#8221; -Tony Robbins</p>
<p>Creating a great week is not something that happens by<br />
accident, in fact, you have the power to create momentum<br />
anytime you desire. This lesson focuses on empowering ways<br />
to approach Mondays so you can create unstoppable momentum<br />
and create the best week of your life every week.</p>
<p><strong>10 Steps to Creating Monday Momentum:</strong></p>
<p><strong>1. Decide in advance that you are going to have a great<br />
week</strong>. Your attitude determines your altitude and it starts<br />
right here with the decision. Expect success, expect the<br />
best, and be prepared to invest the very best of yourself<br />
in everything you do.</p>
<p><strong>2. Define Success more clearly</strong>. Envision exactly what it means to have a great week. Does success mean<br />
productivity? Fun? Speed? Quality? Progress?<br />
Completion? What elements do you need to<br />
create in order to realize your vision this week?</p>
<p><strong>3. Map out your week on Sunday evening</strong>. At first this may<br />
seem challenging but after a few tries, you will be in awe<br />
of how easy it is to set yourself up for success. Here are<br />
some questions to get you started: What are your priorities<br />
for the week? What are the essentials you absolutely must<br />
accomplish and in what order of importance? What do you<br />
need to do this week to meet your Goals for the month, for<br />
the year?</p>
<p><strong>4. Schedule your actions and priorities into your calendar</strong><br />
so that you know when you will do them.</p>
<p><strong>5. Create measures of accountability</strong>. Are you motivated by<br />
pain or pleasure? Does it light a fire under your posterior<br />
to know there is a fun reward at the finish line for doing<br />
what you promised or are you more motivated by the pain of<br />
having to pay for NOT doing it? Determine your own<br />
personal rewards you will enjoy for following through on<br />
your commitments and what penalties can you impose on<br />
yourself if you don&#8217;t? Bring in a friend or peers for extra<br />
reinforcement. Having someone to hold you accountable will<br />
keep you honest and give you an extra edge. There is<br />
nothing like succeeding or failing in front of an audience.<br />
You can raise the bar on this as high as you need to.</p>
<p><strong>6. Go to bed early Sunday evening</strong>. Stretch or meditate<br />
prior to bedtime. You will feel more rested when you wake<br />
up and you will have energy, vigor and enthusiasm to begin<br />
your day. There&#8217;s nothing as energizing and momentum<br />
building as arising with clarity, getting a jump on the day<br />
and being ahead of schedule, rather than feeling like you&#8217;re<br />
behind schedule or playing catch up.</p>
<p><strong>7. On Monday morning rise a little earlier, get in a quick<br />
workout</strong>, even if it&#8217;s just a 15 minute walk or ride on the<br />
exercise bike. Wake up your brain and get those endorphins<br />
flowing. You will burn more fat, feel GREAT and get it out<br />
of the way so you&#8217;re free to move on to other things.</p>
<p><strong>8. Eat a healthy breakfast</strong>. This will provide you with<br />
the fuel to tackle your top priorities. (planning your week<br />
in advance means planning your meals in advance if you want<br />
to be super productive, energized and stay away from fast<br />
foods, which are a huge energy drain) What you put into<br />
your mouth has a direct effect on your productivity,<br />
efficiency and mental clarity.</p>
<p><strong>9. Listen to one hour of an empowering audio program</strong> while<br />
you&#8217;re working out and eating breakfast. This will help you<br />
with the mental motivation and get you going with the right<br />
attitude. I recommend http://www.TheTimeCommandments.com</p>
<p><strong>10. At the end of each day and the end of each week, review<br />
what you did or didn&#8217;t do</strong>. Make adjustments where necessary<br />
and keep building on your strengths and celebrating your<br />
successes. Have fun and remember that small improvements<br />
add up over time. Imagine how much more clarity,<br />
motivation and achievement you will experience after<br />
growing and improving consistently for 52 weeks!</p>
<p><em><strong>Momentum breeds momentum.</strong></em></p>
<p>Unleashing these powerful strategies will condition you to<br />
seize the day every day. You will condition yourself to<br />
know where you are going, get moving and you will have all<br />
the motivation and Momentum you need to carry you through<br />
the week.</p>
<p>Live Your Dreams,</p>
<p>Jill Koenig</p>
<p>http://www.GoalGuru.com</p>
<p>Jill Koenig, the &#8220;Goal Guru&#8221; is America&#8217;s Top Goal<br />
Strategist. A best selling Author, Coach and Motivational<br />
Speaker, she is an expert on the subjects of Goal Setting,<br />
Time Management and Business Success. Her Goal in life is to<br />
help you UNLEASH your untapped potential. Learn cutting edge<br />
Goal Strategies at http://www.GoalGuru.com</p>
<p>Media Requests: Jill Koenig is a dynamic high energy tv<br />
and radio guest available for interviews and corporate<br />
speaking engagements.</p>
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		<title>From Suicidal Drug Addict to Clean and Sober Super Achiever</title>
		<link>http://www.goalguru.com/blog/from-suicidal-drug-addict-to-clean-and-sober-model-citizen/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2009 18:50:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jill@goalguru.com (Jill Koenig)</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever seen that tv show called Extreme Home Makeover, where they take a run down wreck of a house and transform it into a virtually unrecognizable, beautiful work of art?
I love that show and I always get emotional
because the first 25 years of my life resembled
the &#8220;before&#8221; (run down, falling apart) until I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_185" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 141px"><a title="Mike Kemski of Banabu" href="http://www.goalguru.com/recommends/banabu" target="_blank"><img class="size-full wp-image-185" title="mikekemski" src="http://www.goalguru.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/mikekemski.jpg" alt="Former drug addict, example of real life makeover" width="131" height="169" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Former drug addict, example of real life makeover</p></div>
<p>Have you ever seen that tv show called Extreme Home Makeover, where they take a run down wreck of a house and transform it into a virtually unrecognizable, beautiful work of art?</p>
<p>I love that show and I always get emotional<br />
because the first 25 years of my life resembled<br />
the &#8220;before&#8221; (run down, falling apart) until I learned and applied some specific strategies to my life, and things are very different now. The tv show is great metaphor for what is possible in any area of your life when you have the right tools, support and strategies.</p>
<p>Below you will find my interview with a person who made a similar remarkable transformation in his own life.</p>
<p><strong>His Before looked like this:</strong></p>
<p>He lived in poverty, was a high school dropout, drug addict, Alcoholic and made more than one suicide attempt hoping to end his own life.</p>
<p>Until he managed to create a remarkable turnaround in his life and now&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>His After looks like this:</strong></p>
<p>He got and stayed clean and sober, became a counselor to others struggling with the same cycles he once battled, went on to college,<br />
earned a 4.0 GPA and was honored in the National Deans List, lost 50 pounds in 3 months, and became financially successful despite his<br />
earlier years of poverty. He has an amazing relationship with his wife and two daughters and lives a rather extraordinary life now.</p>
<p>Listen in as I interview <a title="Mike Kemski" href="http://www.goalguru.com/recommends/banabu" target="_blank">Mike Kemski</a>, creator of <a title="Banabu Life" href="http://www.goalguru.com/recommends/banabu" target="_blank">Banabu Life</a> where he reveals EXACTLY what he did to transform the circumstances of his life &#8220;from worst to first&#8221; and how you can too!</p>
<p>Press the arrow to play. Click the link to download the mp3 to your computer</p>
<p></p>
<p><a href="http://www.goalguru.com/blog/mp3/MikeKemski_Interview.mp3">Download the MP3</a><br />
(Right-click and select &#8220;Save Target As&#8230;&#8221; or &#8220;Save File As&#8230;&#8221;)</p>
<p>Live Your Dreams,</p>
<p>Jill</p>
<p>ps. please forward this to a friend if you know someone who would benefit from learning from this amazing, uplifting, real life turnaround example</p>
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		<title>Happy For No Reason</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 00:54:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>jill@goalguru.com (Jill Koenig)</dc:creator>
		
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reach… and cost you absolutely nothing? Would you take
it?
What if you could increase the production of anti-aging
hormones in your body, normalize your blood pressure, and
strengthen your immune system… at will? Would you do it?
Of course you would! Read the letter below to find out more
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<p>What if the medicine to make you feel great… was within<br />
reach… and cost you absolutely nothing? Would you take<br />
it?</p>
<p>What if you could increase the production of anti-aging<br />
hormones in your body, normalize your blood pressure, and<br />
strengthen your immune system… at will? Would you do it?</p>
<p>Of course you would! Read the letter below to find out more<br />
about how the one true elixir &#8212; raising your level of<br />
happiness &#8212; can improve your health and wellness.</p>
<p>Actually, it’s urgent you read it. It’s fascinating,<br />
filled with impressive information, and shows you a<br />
practical path to sustained happiness (which studies show<br />
leads to abundance and prosperity). I endorse it 100%. Keep<br />
reading&#8230;</p>
<p>Imagine my amazement when I heard on the radio that people<br />
who are happy earn $750,000+ more in their lifetime than<br />
others. That&#8217;s an eye-opener especially given today’s<br />
economy.</p>
<p>More than 255 studies show that money doesn&#8217;t buy<br />
happiness. Studies say it is the other way around:<br />
Happiness brings money <span id="more-176"></span>.</p>
<p>Happy people are more fulfilled, relaxed, and peaceful,<br />
even in this recession. They naturally have greater<br />
opportunities, better health, deeper friendships, more<br />
success, and so on. Their happiness is NOT because they get<br />
all of the good stuff. Rather, they’re naturally happier<br />
and, as a result, the good stuff comes.</p>
<p>…including high wages. Great relationships. Career<br />
advancements. Customers. Great deals. Contentment at home.<br />
Isn’t that the best way to live life? Not chasing money<br />
or external things to make you happy, but simply being<br />
happy from the inside out and enjoying the rewards.</p>
<p>You may have heard of Marci Shimoff’s phenomenal<br />
bestseller &#8220;Happy for No Reason,” which has just now come<br />
out in paperback for less than $15—it is so useful in<br />
today’s world that it’s published in 28 languages. This<br />
is a breakthrough book, a practical book &#8212; not a<br />
Pollyanna-ish book &#8212; that shows you step by step how to<br />
raise your baseline of happiness.</p>
<p>This means that no matter what happens at work or in your<br />
relationships&#8211; no matter what stress plows into you – no<br />
matter the financial news &#8212; no matter how dire the<br />
circumstances &#8212; you will AUTOMATICALLY return to a higher<br />
level of happiness than you have today. It’s clear: you<br />
don’t have to get richer, thinner, or smarter to be<br />
happier.</p>
<p>Reading this book will change your life for the better.</p>
<p>This book should be on every desk&#8230; in every office&#8230;<br />
every school… every nightstand. It should be in the hands<br />
of everyone you know. And for the price, you ought to<br />
consider buying copies for your friends and family.</p>
<p>You see&#8230; author Marci Shimoff has broken the code on<br />
happiness. All we&#8217;ve ever really wanted in life is to be<br />
happy. And Marci&#8217;s book shows you how. She gives you a<br />
clear, 7-step program that&#8217;s effective and fast. It works<br />
from the inside, out.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m so convinced that you should read this book, I&#8217;m going<br />
to give you additional resources to make sure you raise<br />
your happiness set-point and not just read about it.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.goalguru.com/recommends/HappyForNoReason">http://www.goalguru.com/recommends/HappyForNoReason</a></p>
<p>Buy the new paperback &#8220;Happy for No Reason&#8221; today and you<br />
will receive these fantastic programs as a gift: </p>
<p>* “2009 Happy for No Reason Coaching Manual” &#8212; plus<br />
live group coaching session with Marci over the telephone.</p>
<p>* “Eliminate the #1 Belief that Blocks Your Happiness”<br />
&#8211; an online interactive process with expert Morty Lefkoe.</p>
<p>* “The Passion Test Online” powerful software program<br />
to discover your passions, plus 30 days free access to<br />
create your personal Passion Plan</p>
<p>* “The HeartMath De-Stress Kit” &#8212; a 15-page guide with<br />
helpful practices to manage stress during these challenging<br />
times</p>
<p>* * *<br />
And there is more!<br />
* * *</p>
<p>You also receive:</p>
<p>* “Happiness: From the Blues to Bliss” recording by<br />
Marci and award-winning actress and author, Mariel<br />
Hemingway</p>
<p>* &#8220;Turn Happiness into Money&#8221; recording by Marci and CNBC<br />
wealth expert Phil Town</p>
<p>* &#8220;Feng Shui for Happiness &amp; Prosperity&#8221; recording by Feng<br />
Shui Master Marie Diamond</p>
<p>* &#8220;Happiness Meditation&#8221; with Spring Forest Qigong Master<br />
Chunyi Lin</p>
<p>and to make you still more happy&#8230;</p>
<p>* Over 150 top authors and thought leaders, including Jack<br />
Canfield, John Gray, Marianne Williamson and Deepak Chopra,<br />
will give you recordings that support you having a<br />
wonderful, happiness-filled life of abundance and peace.<br />
(These alone are valued at more than $3000!)</p>
<p>Through these additional resources, you will understand how<br />
to be happier from so many perspectives that it would be<br />
nearly impossible for you not to radically improve your<br />
life by raising your baseline for happiness.</p>
<p>Order your book right now by going to:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.goalguru.com/recommends/HappyForNoReason">http://www.goalguru.com/recommends/HappyForNoReason</a></p>
<p>Live Your Dreams,</p>
<p>Jill Koenig</p>
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		<title>Got Momentum on Your Goals and Resolutions?</title>
		<link>http://www.goalguru.com/blog/got-momentum-on-your-goals-and-resolutions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 18:33:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Have you ever set a Goal and in the following days, weeks,
months or even years, took little or no action towards it&#8217;s
achievement?
If so, you&#8217;re not alone.
The world moves so fast these days. Not to sound like an
old timer, but back in my day&#8230; we didn&#8217;t have cell
phones, computers, PDA&#8217;s, ipods or many of the hundreds [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div id="attachment_173" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 228px"><img class="size-full wp-image-173" title="graphic_runahead" src="http://www.goalguru.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/01/graphic_runahead.jpg" alt="Everything is easier when you have momentum" width="218" height="181" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Everything is easier when you have momentum</p></div>
<p>Have you ever set a Goal and in the following days, weeks,<br />
months or even years, took little or no action towards it&#8217;s<br />
achievement?</p>
<p>If so, you&#8217;re not alone.</p>
<p>The world moves so fast these days. Not to sound like an<br />
old timer, but back in my day&#8230; we didn&#8217;t have cell<br />
phones, computers, PDA&#8217;s, ipods or many of the hundreds of<br />
devices we have become so dependent upon today.</p>
<p>If you were around back in the 70&#8217;s you were lucky if your<br />
neighborhood had 5 television channels that came in from<br />
your outside antenna. You actually had to get up off your<br />
duff to change the channel or <span id="more-171"></span>turn up the volume. Now we<br />
have hundreds of cable and satellite channels and remote<br />
controls that work every electronic device in the house!</p>
<p>There was no Google, there was no Ebay and phones were<br />
attached to the wall by a chord.</p>
<p>Things move FAST these days. One of the greatest<br />
advancements of the last 30 years is the ability to send<br />
information all the way around the world via email in a<br />
millisecond for free if you have an internet connection. I<br />
can send an email from my phone in America to my friends in<br />
Australia in the blink of an eye. I can download an ebook or<br />
even watch a video that my friend 1,000 miles away made 5<br />
minutes ago (thanks YouTube).</p>
<p>I wonder where in the world you are right now as you read<br />
this.</p>
<p>What&#8217;s good about all of these advancements is that things<br />
that used to take years to accomplish 20 or 30 years ago,<br />
can now be achieved in a matter of months, weeks or even<br />
days. You can achieve your Goals now faster than ever<br />
before.</p>
<p>Yet still sometimes you set a Goal but never get it off the<br />
ground.</p>
<p>I am here to remind you that there has never been a better<br />
time in human history to go after your Goals and Dreams<br />
than right now.</p>
<p>Want to learn a new skill? There are millions of tools and<br />
resources at your fingertips within seconds. Just google<br />
it.</p>
<p>Want to start a new business, learn a new language, write a<br />
book? Thanks to the internet, you can connect with others<br />
with similar Goals or others who have done it already<br />
within minutes. You can publish a physical book within days<br />
and an ebook within minutes.</p>
<p>You can even download my Goal Setting audio trainings to<br />
your mp3 player and take me with you wherever you go!</p>
<p>My Goal Setting business was started with very little<br />
investment. GoalGuru.com&#8217;s first web presence was a $ 10 do<br />
it yourself web site. That&#8217;s a couple of lattes at the<br />
coffee shop. You can&#8217;t even buy a pizza with $10 anymore<br />
but you can launch a business. It was all I needed to start<br />
my blog, a newsletter and begin to share my knowledge and<br />
coaching experience on a global level&#8230; immediately. I had<br />
clear Goals, a compelling mission and an enormous amount of<br />
energy and determination. I would let nothing stop me. And<br />
now you are reading this.</p>
<p>At the same time I launched GoalGuru.com, I had friends and<br />
acquaintances who wanted to start a businesses too. It&#8217;s<br />
been two years and they haven&#8217;t started anything yet.</p>
<p>Do you want to know the biggest difference between them and<br />
me?</p>
<p>I would love to tell you that I am so much brighter or more<br />
attractive or had better connections or that I had some<br />
other advantage that they didn&#8217;t. But that is not the<br />
case.</p>
<p>What I had (and still have) that they don&#8217;t is very<br />
simple.</p>
<p><strong>Momentum.<br />
</strong><br />
I set my Goals, took immediate massive action, started the<br />
journey and have taken action every single day since then.</p>
<p>What I lacked in technical knowledge, I made up for with<br />
massive action. Momentum.</p>
<p>What I lacked in financial backing, I made up for with<br />
massive action. Momentum.</p>
<p>What I lacked in skill, I made up for with massive action.<br />
Momentum.</p>
<p>Massive action = Momentum</p>
<p>Everything you ever do is much easier when you have<br />
momentum.</p>
<p>I didn&#8217;t wait for everything to be perfect, for the economy<br />
to be just right, for every circumstance to line up in my<br />
favor- I just got started and took massive action.</p>
<p>I can assure you, whatever you want to do, whatever Goals<br />
you aspire to achieve, whatever Dreams you yearn for, you<br />
can have them. But not if you don&#8217;t ever begin and not if<br />
you don&#8217;t commit to taking massive action right now today.</p>
<p>The ball is in your court. Always has been, always will<br />
be.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t have to get it right, you just have to get it<br />
going.</p>
<p>Whatever you lack, make can up for with massive action.</p>
<p>What can you do today to advance your most cherished Goal?</p>
<p>Take the first step and revise your plan as you go.</p>
<p>Do it.</p>
<p>Do it NOW.</p>
<p><strong>Got Momentum?</strong></p>
<p>Live Your Dreams</p>
<p>Jill Koenig</p>
<p>Jill Koenig, the &#8220;Goal Guru&#8221; is America&#8217;s Top Goal<br />
Strategist. A best selling Author, Peak Performance Coach<br />
and Speaker, she is an expert on the subjects of Goal<br />
Setting, Time Management and Business Success. Her Goal in<br />
life is to help you UNLEASH your untapped potential. <a href="http://www.GoalGuru.com">http://www.GoalGuru.com</a><br />
Media Requests: Jill Koenig is a dynamic high energy tv and<br />
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		<title>Get Back Up -Nick Vujicic</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[An inspiring video about gratitude, perseverance, faith and courage.
Nick Vujicic was born with no arms and no legs, but was an otherwise healthy baby.
Try to imagine for a moment the challenges of going through daily life without arms or legs.
Nick said, &#8220;School was really enjoyable for me and I really tried to live life like [...]]]></description>
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<p>An inspiring video about gratitude, perseverance, faith and courage.</p>
<p>Nick Vujicic was born with no arms and no legs, but was an otherwise healthy baby.</p>
<p>Try to imagine for a moment the challenges of going through daily life without arms or legs.</p>
<p>Nick said, &#8220;School was really enjoyable for me and I really tried to live life like everyone else. But, it was in my early years of school where I encountered uncomfortable times of feeling rejected, weird and bullied because of my physical difference. It was very hard for me to get used to. In spite of this, with the support of my parents, I started to develop attitudes and values which helped me overcome these challenging times<span id="more-170"></span>. Though I knew I was different, on the inside, I was just like everyone else. There were many times when I felt so low that I wouldn&#8217;t go to school in order to avoid all the negative attention. With encouragement from my parents, I began to ignore the bullies and tried to start making friends by just talking with some of the kids. Soon the students realized that I was just like them.</p>
<p>Many times I felt depressed and angry because I couldn&#8217;t change the way I was, or blame anyone for that matter. In Sunday school, I learned that God loves us all and that He cares for us deeply. At that stage in my childhood, I could understand His love to a point. But, as you can imagine, I still got hung up on that fact that if he really loved me, why did He make me like this? I wondered if I&#8217;d done something wrong and began to feel certain that this must be true. Otherwise, I thought, God wouldn&#8217;t have made me the only weird one out of all the kids at school. Feeling I was a burden to those around me, I sensed the sooner Ipd just go away altogether, the better it would be for everyone. So, at a young age, I wanted to end my pain and my life. But I am thankful, once again, for my parents and my family who were always there to comfort me and lend me their strength. Thankfully, a real turning point arrived!</p>
<p>Due to the emotional struggles I had experienced with bullying, self-esteem and loneliness, God began to instill a passion of sharing my story and experiences to help others cope with whatever challenge they might have in their lives. Turning my struggles into something that would glorify God and bless others, I realized my purpose! The Lord was going to use me to encourage and inspire others to live to their fullest potential and not let anything get in the way of accomplishing their hopes and dreams.</p>
<p>As I grew older, God continued to prepare my heart and teach me to seek Him. One of the first lessons that I have learned was not to take things for granted. With a wake-up call around the age of twelve, I realized just how much God had blessed me. My foot, what I&#8217;ve termed my little chicken bone.  I had been taking for granted. But it serves me well. God had freely given to me and so much with my loving family, and so many other blessings, I realized <strong>Why should I still complain?</strong></p>
<p>Now twenty-five years old, I&#8217;ve completed a Bachelor&#8217;s Degree in both Financial Planning and Accounting. Also, I&#8217;m active as a motivational speaker. Again, my number one passion is for souls. I just love to go out and share my story and testimony wherever opportunities become available. Over time, I&#8217;ve developed messages that relate to and encourage students through topics that challenge today&#8217;s teenagers.</p>
<p><strong>Achieving goals and pursuing dreams is something I&#8217;m  actively pursuing on a regular basis.</strong></p>
<p>Some of these include becoming the best witness I can be of God&#8217;s love and hope, to become an international inspirational speaker and to be used as a vessel in both Christian and non-Christian venues. These <strong>goals</strong> are, even now, being realized. Other aspirations of mine yet to be realized is my desire to modify a car that I can drive, to be interviewed on the &#8220;Oprah Winfrey Show&#8221; and share my story, and to write several books. With anticipation, I look forward to starting on the first of these this year. Not surprisingly, the title will be, &#8220;No Arms, No Legs, No Worries!&#8221;</p>
<p>Many would think these goals were too far-fetched. However, I believe that if you have the desire and passion to do something, and it&#8217;s within God&#8217;s will, you will achieve it in good time. As humans, we continually put limits on ourselves for no reason at all!&#8221;</p>
<p>When you fall down, just get back up.</p>
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