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		<title>Contraception? Where’s the vision?</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2012 11:05:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Looks like contraception could be President Obama’s ticket to re-election.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Looks like contraception could be President Obama’s ticket to re-election.</p>
<p>Despite handing the Republicans an open goal with his despotic attempt to coerce religious institutions to pay for their employees&#8217; birth control and abortions, the Republicans have contrived not only to miss the goal but also to shoot into their own net by getting mired in a debate about the rights and wrongs of contraception, instead of keeping that debate focused on freedom of religion and of conscience. And while scoring own goals, for good measure let’s throw the whole game away by questioning Obama’s theology, and even whether Obama is a Christian or a Muslim.</p>
<p><a href="http://campaignstops.blogs.nytimes.com/2012/02/21/can-santorum-win-in-november/" target="_blank">Rick Santorum</a> has been the worst offender among the candidates. It’s just so foolish for a Presidential candidate to not only allow himself to get drawn so deeply into <a href="http://video.msnbc.msn.com/morning-joe/46478600" target="_blank">the contraception issue</a>, but to deliberately keep it alive, and then to launch out on Obama’s “phony theology,” followed by unconvincing attempts to say he was only talking about his “green theology.” And to top it all off, <a href="http://www.commentarymagazine.com/2012/02/23/franklin-graham-theology/" target="_blank">Franklin Graham</a> disgraces himself with his horribly unconvincing, defensive ramblings about the genuineness of Obama’s Christianity, climaxing with the “Son of Islam” nonsense &#8211; on breakfast TV!</p>
<p>This is not just miles “off message,” it’s inter-planetary. And it’s so small-minded in the face of such huge societal and economic problems. At this rate, President Obama can start writing his inaugural address.</p>
<p>Where, O where is the grand vision? And where is the candidate who can cast the vision with attractive, compelling, and persuasive words &#8211; without getting distracted by every gnat that buzzes in his ears.</p>
<p>That vision must have two simple parts – The Economy and Society. And it’s got to be ruthlessly focused, rousingly big, and relentlessly positive.</p>
<p><strong>Economy</strong><br />
When the Republicans talk about the economy, all people actually hear is: “Cuts, cuts, cuts.” That’s so small, so expected, and so negative. It’s designed to appeal to the 50+1% who like to think that the cuts are going to fall on the other 49% or perhaps on the next generation.</p>
<p>Where is the Republican who can honestly and courageously articulate the benefits of proportionate shared sacrifice for huge long-term gain? Where is the Republican who can reach out to the poor (both &#8220;deserving&#8221; and &#8220;undeserving&#8221;), the “entitlement generation,” the takers, and persuade them that there’s a much better way for them and their families? Is there no one who can connect with them, motivate them, and unite them with the rest of society? Is no one even going to try?</p>
<p><strong>Society</strong><br />
And, of course, the economic problems cannot be solved without addressing societal problems, especially that of family breakdown.</p>
<p>But when the Republicans speak about society, all people hear is “Wrong, wrong, wrong.” Gay marriage? Wrong! Abortion? Wrong! Single motherhood? Wrong!</p>
<p>These things are wrong, but angry condemning never helped anyone. We need a Republican who can paint a much bigger and much more positive vision of a renewed and revitalized society built on the basic building block of the family and respect for precious life. Holier-than-thou tones and denunciatory attitudes won&#8217;t cut it.</p>
<p>Again, is there no Republican who can compassionately reach out to the tens of millions of broken homes and broken lives with care, concern, and constructive efforts to at least slow down the rate of failing families and murdered babies. Is there no one who can inspire a new generation of young people to live lives of purity, commitment, and loyalty. Sounding like a whiny Pharisee won&#8217;t cut it here either.</p>
<p>The present range of candidates look terribly small, undisciplined, blinkered, and short-sighted. Maybe one of them could still grow into the desperately needed, big-vision leader who will be ruthlessly yet positively focused on the economy and society. But the time is very short.</p>
<p>And the opposition is very great. There’s a huge political class with an intense personal interest in growing the numbers of the dependent poor in order to maintain their own demoralizing and divisive power.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2012 10:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[11 tools, Jim Elliot's unknown brother, 7 signs of burnout, Visual Theology, Best Chess player in the world]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://ryanhuguley.com/blogging/11-tools-i-never-want-to-be-without/" target="_blank">11 tools I never want to be without</a><br />
I&#8217;d add <a href="http://downcastapp.com/" target="_blank">Downcast App</a> for podcasts, the <a href="http://itunes.apple.com/us/app/kindle-read-books-magazines/id302584613?mt=8" target="_blank">Kindle App</a> for iPad, and <a href="http://www.diigo.com/index" target="_blank">Diigo</a> for bookmarking.</p>
<p><a href="http://takeyourvitaminz.blogspot.com/2012/02/best-chess-player-in-world.html" target="_blank">The best chess player in the world</a><br />
This sounds boring, but believe me it&#8217;s absolutely incredible.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/kevindeyoung/2012/02/23/your-theological-system-should-tell-you-how-to-exegete" target="_blank">Theology and Exegesis</a><br />
Kevin DeYoung teases out the relation between exegesis ans systematic theology.</p>
<p><a href="http://challies.imagekind.com/store/Images.aspx/628cba98-d65d-44e9-8775-e365abee224d/Prints" target="_blank">Visual Theology</a><br />
Tim Challies is producing some powerful teaching posters.</p>
<p><a href="http://sojournnetwork.com/7-signs-of-burnout/" target="_blank">7 Signs of Burnout<br />
</a>There&#8217;s an epidemic of this among ministers these days (HT: <a href="http://www.benterry.com/" target="_blank">Ben Terry</a>)</p>
<p><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycglBXent9k" target="_blank">Randy Alcorn speaks of Jim Elliot&#8217;s unknown brother</a></p>
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		<title>Pornography and your Church Webinar</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Feb 2012 01:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My friends at Covenant Eyes have a webinar next week called Pornography and Your Church: Changing the Culture of Your Church to Change Lives. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My friends at <a href="http://www.covenanteyes.com/2012/02/22/free-webinar-for-church-leaders-on-feb-29-pornography-and-your-church/" target="_blank">Covenant Eyes</a> have a webinar next week called <em><a href="http://www.covenanteyes.com/2012/02/22/free-webinar-for-church-leaders-on-feb-29-pornography-and-your-church/" target="_blank">Pornography and Your Church: Changing the Culture of Your Church to Change Lives</a></em>.</p>
<p>The purpose of this webinar is to give pastors and lay church leaders practical ideas about how they can create a “culture of accountability” to combat the prevalent but hidden sin of pornography.</p>
<ul>
<li>How do you help men to be more open about their habitual sins?</li>
<li>How do you help parents to proactively guard their homes?</li>
<li>How do you protect those on your staff from Internet temptations?</li>
</ul>
<p>During this webinar you will hear from church leaders who have witnessed great changes among the men, women, and families in their churches.</p>
<p>You will also be given 5 practical steps you can take to walk your church through a similar process.</p>
<p><a href="https://www3.gotomeeting.com/register/582432798" target="_blank"><strong>Register today!</strong></a> Space is limited. Join us on <strong>February 29, 2012, at 3pm</strong>.</p>
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		<title>Why am I here?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 11:27:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Shorter Catechism Video series. Question 1: What is the chief end of man? ]]></description>
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<p>Last week, I <a href="http://headhearthand.org/blog/2012/02/17/a-summmary-not-a-substitute/" target="_blank">introduced a video series</a> on the Westminster Shorter Catechism. A few days ago, my son Angus and I visited a local shooting club to film part of this second video on the Catechism&#8217;s first question. I think Angus is still thawing. [Email &amp; rss readers click through <a href="http://vimeo.com/37289717" target="_blank">here</a> to watch the video]</p>
<p><strong>Q. 1. What is the chief end of man?</strong><strong> </strong></p>
<p>A. Man’s chief end is to glorify God, and to enjoy him forever.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Why am I here?</strong></span></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>1. To End in God</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><em>Man’s chief <span style="text-decoration: underline;">end</span>…</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>2. To Exalt God</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><em>…is to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">glorify</span> God…</em></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong>3. To Enjoy God</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;"><em>…and to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">enjoy</span> him forever.</em></p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Feb 2012 11:25:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Abeka founders retire, Amazon Prime cult, Theology of Food &#038; Drink, Anti-depressants &#038; placebo effect]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.pnj.com/article/20120217/NEWS01/202170335/Pioneers-Christian-education-Pensacola-retiring?odyssey=tab%7Ctopnews%7Ctext%7CFRONTPAGE" target="_blank">Abeka founders retiring</a><br />
Many home-schoolers will be wishing Dr. Arlin and Rebekah Horton a happy and peaceful retirement.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.launch.is/blog/the-cult-of-amazon-prime.html" target="_blank">The cult of Amazon Prime</a><br />
&#8220;There are two types of people in the world: those with Amazon Prime and those without. How you think about consumption, commerce and your personal time is radically different depending on if you&#8217;ve join the cult &#8212; yet. And to be clear, Prime is a cult you will be joining.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://feedingonchrist.com/a-biblical-theology-of-food-and-drink/" target="_blank">A Biblical Theology of Food and Drink</a><br />
This is a bit niche, but Nick Batzig&#8217;s been digesting this for a year!</p>
<p><a href="http://postpartumprogress.com/antidepressants-vs-the-placebo-effect-whether-ssris-really-work?" target="_blank">Anti-depressants and the placebo effect</a><br />
Why do anti-depressants sometimes offer no better results than a placebo? This article does a great job of explaining why and should make Christians pause before they simply regurgitate the latest media cliches.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.logos.com/2012/02/find-free-logos-help-on-youtube/" target="_blank">Logos on Youtube</a><br />
One for my Hebrew Exegesis students.</p>
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		<title>Brandwashing, Brainwashing, and Biblewashing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 11:55:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may not know it, but you’ve been Brandwashed, probably multiple times, and especially if you’ve shopped at Whole Foods.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may not know it, but you’ve been Brandwashed, probably multiple times, and especially if you’ve shopped at <em>Whole Foods</em>.</p>
<p>Martin Lindstrom made Time’s 2009 list of “World’s Most Influential People” partly due to his book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Buyology-Truth-Lies-About-Why/dp/0385523890" target="_blank">Buyology: Truth and Lies About Why We Buy</a>. </em>His latest book, <em><a href="http://www.martinlindstrom.com/brandwashed/" target="_blank">Brandwashed</a></em>, highlights “the tricks that companies use to manipulate our minds and persuade us to buy.” Lindstrom is a fan of <em>Whole Foods</em> and loves their produce, but in a <a href="http://www.fastcompany.com/1779611/priming-whole-foods-derren-brown" target="_blank">Fastcompany column</a>, he used it as an example of how “many strategies retailers use to encourage us to spend more than we need to – more than we want to. Consider these examples from one of Lindstrom’s visits to one of <em>Whole Foods</em> New York City stores:</p>
<ul>
<li>The escalator brings you straight into a realm of freshly cut flowers, immediately priming us to think of freshness, a suggestion that we carry with us, albeit subconsciously, as we shop. (Consider the reverse impact of cans of tuna and plastic flowers).</li>
<li>The prices for the flowers, fresh fruit, and vegetables are scrawled in chalk on rough cut black slate, prompting images of outdoor farmers markets and roadside stalls with prices changing by the hour. (The signs are actually mass-produced, the prices set at Texas HQ, and the “chalk” is indelible!)</li>
<li>Ice is everywhere. Why? Well, of course, some produce needs to be kept chilled, but lots of other stuff needs no ice. It serves the same symbolic and priming purpose as the drops of water that some stores spray on select vegetables.</li>
<li>The stacked “crates” of melons are actually one large cardboard box that’s been carefully designed to reinforce the idea of “rustic old-time simplicity”</li>
</ul>
<p>And <em>Whole Foods</em> is just one example of many retailers covered by Lindstrom.  Even fruit growers are getting in on the act. “Sales records show that bananas with Pantone color 13-0858 (otherwise known as Vibrant Yellow) are less likely to sell than bananas with Pantone color 12-0752 (also called Buttercup), which is one grade warmer, visually, and seems to imply a riper, fresher fruit.” Crops are now being manipulated to ensure the maximum sales potential of the final banana! Lindstrom also found that while the Apples may look freshly plucked from the tree, “the average apple you see in the supermarket is actually 14 months old.”</p>
<p>Well, we can only imagine the impact of years of exposure to this kind of brandwashing. But, in a sense, its power and effectiveness should highlight our vulnerability to far more insidious and evil brainwashing. If these marketing strategies are so successful in prising our cash from us, how much more successful is the far less obvious and yet far more powerful priming and seducing we are continually experiencing at the hands of the master-marketer, the Devil.</p>
<p>Day after day, hour after hour, in both our conscious and in our subconscious, He is brainwashing us to believe in perception rather than reality.</p>
<p>So what’s the solution?</p>
<p>Biblewashing!</p>
<p>The Bible helps us to see the <strong><em>existence</em></strong> of diabolical brainwashing. It gives us a second sense, an ability to discern, a faculty of seeing that most do not have.</p>
<p>The Bible also teaches us the <strong><em>easiness</em></strong> of brainwashing. It demonstrates how weak, vulnerable and seduceable we are. But in doing so, it at least puts us on the alert.</p>
<p>The Bible analyzes the <strong><em>elements</em></strong> of brainwashing. It highlights a number of the Devils’ strategies, both by numerous descriptions and by fearful examples.</p>
<p>The Bible underlines the <strong><em>evil</em></strong> of spiritual brainwashing. We don’t just risk losing a few dollars as a result of succumbing to a marketing technique. We risk losing our own souls forever.</p>
<p>The Bible is the way of <strong><em>escape</em></strong> from the devil’s brainwashing. Yes, the only antidote to brainwashing is Biblewashing. It alone can resist the siren calls of the world: “Conform! Conform! Conform!” and enable us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds (Rom. 12:1-2).</p>
<p><em>This article was first published in the February issue of <a href="http://www.ligonier.org/tabletalk/" target="_blank">Tabletalk</a>.</em></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.communicatejesus.com/2012/02/facebook-forgiveness-and-unexpected-reconciliation/" target="_blank">Facebook, forgiveness, and reconciliation</a><br />
I&#8217;m sure you never expected to see these three words in the one sentence.</p>
<p><a href="http://teampyro.blogspot.com/2012/02/book-review-spiritual-depression-its.html" target="_blank">Dan Phillips reviews &#8220;Spiritual Depression&#8221;</a><br />
Good to see this balanced review, partly the result of <a href="http://teampyro.blogspot.com/2011/03/battling-depression.html" target="_blank">painful personal experience</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ordinarypastor.com/?p=9898" target="_blank">Counting sheep and pastoral insomnia</a><br />
When the sheep are the cause of your insomnia&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://nwbingham.com/2012/02/from-one-family-to-another/" target="_blank">From one family to another</a><br />
Nathan Bingham leaves his home in Australia to work for Ligonier in America. Nathan is one of my &#8220;virtual&#8221; friends (he led the team that designed HeadHeartHand&#8217;s blog and website) and I&#8217;m so looking forward to meeting him for real next month in Florida.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.godandculture.com/blog/premiere-podcast-paul-talks-with-senator-rick-santorum" target="_blank">Paul Edwards interviews Rick Santorum</a><br />
Paul bounces back with a great interview.</p>
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		<title>Entitlement: The Gimme Generation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 11:55:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week's Connected Kingdom is on "Entitlement." We look at the Gimme Generation and propose a Christian response.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-6465 alignleft" title="CK Logo" src="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/CK-Logo-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />This week&#8217;s Connected Kingdom is on &#8220;Entitlement.&#8221; The podcast includes audio excerpts from others speaking on the subject, and concludes with some interaction between Tim and I. However, you can read a shortened version of the podcast below. Download <a href="http://www.challies.com/writings/podcast/entitlement" target="_blank">here</a>.</em></p>
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<p>Jack Chambless is Professor of Economics at Valencia College. Every year he starts his class off by asking his students to write a 10 minute essay on what the American dream looks like to them, and what they want the federal government to do to help them achieve that dream. He <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=VxHfYNTrnic">describes</a> this year’s results:</p>
<blockquote><p>About 10% of the students said they wanted the government to leave them alone, not tax them too much, and let them regulate their own lives. But over 80% of the students said that the American Dream to them meant a house and a job and plenty of money for retirement, and vacations and things like this. But when it came to the part about the federal government 8 out of 10 students said they wanted free health care, they wanted the government to pay for their tuition. They want the government to pay for the down payment on their house. They expect the government “to give them a job.” Many of them said they wanted the government to tax wealthier individuals so that they would have an opportunity to have a better life.</p></blockquote>
<p>Professor Chambless’ students belong to the “Entitlement Generation,” also known as the “Gimme Generation.” They think they can have and should have whatever they want, whenever they want, and from whomever they want it, while others pay for it.” Or more simply, as one Occupy Protestor painted on her placard, “Where’s my bailout?”</p>
<p>That sense of economic entitlement usually goes hand in hand with education entitlement. Students now come to college expecting straight A’s. That’s the default. And, as <a href="http://online.worldmag.com/2010/12/08/the-entitlement-generation/">Anthony Carter notes</a>, woe-betide any professor who “fails” to comply.</p>
<p>Harvard Professor of Law, Lawrence Lessig, has noticed a huge increase in the sense of entitlement among students especially in questioning authority. He <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orAVrXdYQD4">says</a> that the Internet “has created a world where everybody feels entitled to question somebody else.” He goes on:</p>
<blockquote><p>There’s no authority, there’s no like &#8220;being the professor of law from Harvard&#8221; that entitles you to say &#8220;Here’s what the truth is.&#8221; There’s an opening. Here’s a professor of law from Harvard who says here’s what the truth is. That’s a way of beginning a conversation. Some fifteen year old can say &#8220;I just spent the last 6 months studying about the history about the fourteenth amendment and what you just said is #@X!. Here’s the right answer.&#8221; We’ve come to this place where the younger generation just believes it&#8217;s their right to be as involved and as engaged as anybody.</p></blockquote>
<p>Of course, being a Harvard professor, Lessig thinks this is great:</p>
<blockquote><p>I think that’s a thing to be celebrated and encouraged, but I think that what you recognize that what you can see in a wide range of internet contacts the sense of entitlement has driven enormous creativity and engagement that before was presumed to be disqualified.</p></blockquote>
<p>So is it just a case of, “Well there are some pros, and some cons to this. No big deal. Let’s move on?”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.jeantwenge.com/">Jean Twenge</a> wrote the book <em><a href="http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=web&amp;cd=3&amp;ved=0CEoQFjAC&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FGeneration-Americans-Confident-Assertive-Entitled%2Fdp%2F0743276981&amp;ei=wMU-T8f5BerO2wWrxMXRCg&amp;usg=AFQjCNHlLlRRIUw4QAQ6FiHBMGb_YlUC7A&amp;sig2=mcxHy0rEdob02qg1JYR8cw">Generation Me</a>: Why Today’s Young Americans are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled—and More Miserable Than Ever Before</em>. She describes the entitlement generation as “smart, brash, even arrogant, and endowed with a commanding sense of entitlement.”</p>
<p>But, like Professor Lessig, Twenge also sees a flipside. She sees many of the “Gimme Generation” as individualists, “free-thinkers who are willing to break the status quo and pursue their dreams. Their confidence is what allows them to accomplish great things and can keep companies progressing.”</p>
<p>Again, we’re being tempted to minimize the significance of these societal changes. So, do we just shrug our shoulders and succumb to the spirit of the age? Economics Professor <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3vZ8_XCMfA">Thomas Sowell</a> was interviewed about this on Fox News:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Interviewer</strong>: Professor, we had a series here a couple of weeks ago called Entitlement. There’s so many things that Americans now think they are entitled to because of government largesse. Everything from health care to food stamps, houses, even jobs. How do we get out of that?</p>
<p><strong>Sowell:</strong> That’s going to be very tough. Because the whole media, politics, the educational system promotes the idea that you are entitled to something. It just seems obvious. Society is not entitled to anything. We can’t even get the food that we need without working for it. So when you say that somebody is entitled to it you mean that somebody else has to pay for what you want…</p></blockquote>
<p>I’m totally with Professor Sowell on this. I see no long-term good coming from this entitlement mentality. It destroys initiative, independence, inventiveness, resourcefulness, motivation, the fear of consequences, and the link between cause and effect. It promotes indulgence, jealousy, conceit, laziness, and self-centeredness. It creates bad winners and bad losers.</p>
<p>It hurts marriages by putting the focus on “What can I get from him/her?” rather than “What can I give?” It hurts charity because the rich leave it to the government and withdraw from contact with the poor; the poor just get handouts from an impersonal, faceless, soulless State rather than from real caring people. Above all, a sense of entitlement destroys the Christian life.</p>
<p>As a Christian, I believe in one entitlement.</p>
<p>I’m entitled to Hell. That’s the only entitlement I have. That’s all I deserve, because of my sin. Anything else is grace, an unmerited bonus from the God of all grace. I don’t deserve a breath of life, a crumb of food, a drop of water, a stitch of clothing, a cent in my wallet, or an hour of education. I’m not entitled to one friend, one vacation, one verse of Scripture, or even one sermon. I’m certainly not entitled to salvation and heaven. I’m entitled to damnation and Hell.</p>
<p>That sense of entitlement makes me seek mercy, receive mercy, enjoy mercy, and be merciful to others. To paraphrase the Apostle Paul, “What have I that I did not receive as a free gift of divine grace? How therefore can I ever boast as if I had actually been entitled to it or earned it?”</p>
<p>So, there are basically only two ways to live: with a proud and angry sense of entitlement or with a humble and thankful sense of responsibility.</p>
<p>To summarize, “The wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord” (Rom. 6:23).</p>
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		<title>Check out</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 10:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Memorable vacations, Infertility, Homosexuality &#038; the Gospel, Christ's Sympathy, Prayer at Seminary]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://moneyland.time.com/2012/02/15/the-secret-to-memorable-vacations-keep-em-short-and-end-em-sweet/" target="_blank">The secret to memorable vacations</a><br />
Keep &#8216;em short and sweet!</p>
<p><a href="http://biblicalcounselingcoalition.org/blogs/2012/02/20/5-things-infertile-couples-want-others-to-know/" target="_blank">5 things infertile couples want you to know</a><br />
Good to see this being talked about more in the church. By a man who knows what he&#8217;s talking about.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dennyburk.com/the-gospel-and-homosexuality/" target="_blank">The Gospel and Homosexuality</a><br />
Denny Burk with some resources to help us face the this difficult issue.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ordinarypastor.com/?p=9882" target="_blank">He is able to sympathize</a><br />
Erik Raymond has compiled a hugely encouraging list of what Jesus went through.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/pray-with-your-books-closed" target="_blank">Pray with your books closed</a><br />
One for seminary students especially: &#8220;We shouldn&#8217;t open our books without praying, but we&#8217;d better pray without opened books.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Who are you online?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 13:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alexandra Samuel helps us to see our online personas as other people see us.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/360-degree_feedback">360</a> is a widely-used human resources and leadership tool in which a range of colleagues, friends, and family offer their different perspectives on your skills, talents, and character, to provide a 360-degree view of who you are. Not without its limitations, it nonetheless helps us begin overcome our inability to see ourselves as others see us.</p>
<p>Social media expert, <a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/01/who_are_you_online_a_360-degre.html" target="_blank">Alexandra Samuel</a>, proposes that we regularly conduct an <em>online</em> 360 in order to evaluate our online personas. Although <a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2010/07/10_reasons_to_stop_apologizing.html" target="_blank">she rejects the distinction between Online Life and IRL (In Real Life)</a>, Alexandra does recognize that &#8220;online, the human struggle to honestly understand our own strengths and weaknesses is intensified by the newness of our online customs and interactions.&#8221; And the stakes are high:</p>
<blockquote><p>Just like your offline personality, your online persona now forms a significant part of your professional identity. Understanding how those personas align, diverge, and complement one another is crucial to ensure your professional effectiveness, on- and offline.</p></blockquote>
<p>Her solution is to send the following questions to people who know you both on- and offline, as well as to people who know you online only, and ask respondents to provide a scaled assessment (1= never, 10=always):</p>
<ol>
<li>Is polite and respectful in their emails, tweets, or other online communications</li>
<li>Provides useful or informative content in their online contributions or comments</li>
<li>Makes effective use of their time online, and responds to online communications (e.g. emails, messages), comments (on blogs or in Twitter mentions) and feedback in a timely and effective way</li>
<li>Provides constructive feedback and generous appreciation in their online comments, replies, and other online communications</li>
<li>Is transparent about their relationship to or financial interest in the brands, companies, and products they discuss online</li>
<li>Makes thoughtful and appropriate choices about which on- and offline communications channels to use for different purposes or in different circumstances, and inspires or encourages others to do the same</li>
<li>Builds online relationships that support their own work and their organization&#8217;s goals</li>
<li>Is an online leader within their field</li>
</ol>
<p>Average your score on each question, analyze where you are strong and weak, and then compare with your offline persona. Are you strong on leadership but weak on politeness? Do you simply produce or do you also engage constructively? And compare this with your offline persona. As Alexandra concludes:</p>
<blockquote><p>If your personas diverge — if you&#8217;re known for your personal touch offline, but come off as a bull in a china shop online — you may want to think about how you can translate your face-to-face interpersonal skills into your online relationships, or conversely, how to speak so that the authority and expertise you hold online is also recognized by the colleagues who work down the hall.</p></blockquote>
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