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		<title>Brandwashing, Brainwashing, and Biblewashing</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 11:55:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You may not know it, but you’ve been Brandwashed, probably multiple times, and especially if you’ve shopped at Whole Foods.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You may not know it, but you’ve been Brandwashed, probably multiple times, and especially if you’ve shopped at <em>Whole Foods</em>.</p>
<p>Martin Lindstrom made Time’s 2009 list of “World’s Most Influential People” partly due to his book <em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Buyology-Truth-Lies-About-Why/dp/0385523890" target="_blank">Buyology: Truth and Lies About Why We Buy</a>. </em>His latest book, <em><a href="http://www.martinlindstrom.com/brandwashed/" target="_blank">Brandwashed</a></em>, highlights “the tricks that companies use to manipulate our minds and persuade us to buy.” Lindstrom is a fan of <em>Whole Foods</em> and loves their produce, but in a <a href="http://www.fastcompany.com/1779611/priming-whole-foods-derren-brown" target="_blank">Fastcompany column</a>, he used it as an example of how “many strategies retailers use to encourage us to spend more than we need to – more than we want to. Consider these examples from one of Lindstrom’s visits to one of <em>Whole Foods</em> New York City stores:</p>
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<li>The escalator brings you straight into a realm of freshly cut flowers, immediately priming us to think of freshness, a suggestion that we carry with us, albeit subconsciously, as we shop. (Consider the reverse impact of cans of tuna and plastic flowers).</li>
<li>The prices for the flowers, fresh fruit, and vegetables are scrawled in chalk on rough cut black slate, prompting images of outdoor farmers markets and roadside stalls with prices changing by the hour. (The signs are actually mass-produced, the prices set at Texas HQ, and the “chalk” is indelible!)</li>
<li>Ice is everywhere. Why? Well, of course, some produce needs to be kept chilled, but lots of other stuff needs no ice. It serves the same symbolic and priming purpose as the drops of water that some stores spray on select vegetables.</li>
<li>The stacked “crates” of melons are actually one large cardboard box that’s been carefully designed to reinforce the idea of “rustic old-time simplicity”</li>
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<p>And <em>Whole Foods</em> is just one example of many retailers covered by Lindstrom.  Even fruit growers are getting in on the act. “Sales records show that bananas with Pantone color 13-0858 (otherwise known as Vibrant Yellow) are less likely to sell than bananas with Pantone color 12-0752 (also called Buttercup), which is one grade warmer, visually, and seems to imply a riper, fresher fruit.” Crops are now being manipulated to ensure the maximum sales potential of the final banana! Lindstrom also found that while the Apples may look freshly plucked from the tree, “the average apple you see in the supermarket is actually 14 months old.”</p>
<p>Well, we can only imagine the impact of years of exposure to this kind of brandwashing. But, in a sense, its power and effectiveness should highlight our vulnerability to far more insidious and evil brainwashing. If these marketing strategies are so successful in prising our cash from us, how much more successful is the far less obvious and yet far more powerful priming and seducing we are continually experiencing at the hands of the master-marketer, the Devil.</p>
<p>Day after day, hour after hour, in both our conscious and in our subconscious, He is brainwashing us to believe in perception rather than reality.</p>
<p>So what’s the solution?</p>
<p>Biblewashing!</p>
<p>The Bible helps us to see the <strong><em>existence</em></strong> of diabolical brainwashing. It gives us a second sense, an ability to discern, a faculty of seeing that most do not have.</p>
<p>The Bible also teaches us the <strong><em>easiness</em></strong> of brainwashing. It demonstrates how weak, vulnerable and seduceable we are. But in doing so, it at least puts us on the alert.</p>
<p>The Bible analyzes the <strong><em>elements</em></strong> of brainwashing. It highlights a number of the Devils’ strategies, both by numerous descriptions and by fearful examples.</p>
<p>The Bible underlines the <strong><em>evil</em></strong> of spiritual brainwashing. We don’t just risk losing a few dollars as a result of succumbing to a marketing technique. We risk losing our own souls forever.</p>
<p>The Bible is the way of <strong><em>escape</em></strong> from the devil’s brainwashing. Yes, the only antidote to brainwashing is Biblewashing. It alone can resist the siren calls of the world: “Conform! Conform! Conform!” and enable us to be transformed by the renewing of our minds (Rom. 12:1-2).</p>
<p><em>This article was first published in the February issue of <a href="http://www.ligonier.org/tabletalk/" target="_blank">Tabletalk</a>.</em></p>
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		<title>Check out</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Feb 2012 10:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Facebook and forgiveness, Spiritual Depression review, Counting sheep, Paul Edwards interviews Rick Santorum]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.communicatejesus.com/2012/02/facebook-forgiveness-and-unexpected-reconciliation/" target="_blank">Facebook, forgiveness, and reconciliation</a><br />
I&#8217;m sure you never expected to see these three words in the one sentence.</p>
<p><a href="http://teampyro.blogspot.com/2012/02/book-review-spiritual-depression-its.html" target="_blank">Dan Phillips reviews &#8220;Spiritual Depression&#8221;</a><br />
Good to see this balanced review, partly the result of <a href="http://teampyro.blogspot.com/2011/03/battling-depression.html" target="_blank">painful personal experience</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ordinarypastor.com/?p=9898" target="_blank">Counting sheep and pastoral insomnia</a><br />
When the sheep are the cause of your insomnia&#8230;</p>
<p><a href="http://nwbingham.com/2012/02/from-one-family-to-another/" target="_blank">From one family to another</a><br />
Nathan Bingham leaves his home in Australia to work for Ligonier in America. Nathan is one of my &#8220;virtual&#8221; friends (he led the team that designed HeadHeartHand&#8217;s blog and website) and I&#8217;m so looking forward to meeting him for real next month in Florida.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.godandculture.com/blog/premiere-podcast-paul-talks-with-senator-rick-santorum" target="_blank">Paul Edwards interviews Rick Santorum</a><br />
Paul bounces back with a great interview.</p>
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		<title>Entitlement: The Gimme Generation</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 11:55:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This week's Connected Kingdom is on "Entitlement." We look at the Gimme Generation and propose a Christian response.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-6465 alignleft" title="CK Logo" src="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/CK-Logo-150x150.jpg" alt="" width="150" height="150" />This week&#8217;s Connected Kingdom is on &#8220;Entitlement.&#8221; The podcast includes audio excerpts from others speaking on the subject, and concludes with some interaction between Tim and I. However, you can read a shortened version of the podcast below. Download <a href="http://www.challies.com/writings/podcast/entitlement" target="_blank">here</a>.</em></p>
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<p>Jack Chambless is Professor of Economics at Valencia College. Every year he starts his class off by asking his students to write a 10 minute essay on what the American dream looks like to them, and what they want the federal government to do to help them achieve that dream. He <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&amp;v=VxHfYNTrnic">describes</a> this year’s results:</p>
<blockquote><p>About 10% of the students said they wanted the government to leave them alone, not tax them too much, and let them regulate their own lives. But over 80% of the students said that the American Dream to them meant a house and a job and plenty of money for retirement, and vacations and things like this. But when it came to the part about the federal government 8 out of 10 students said they wanted free health care, they wanted the government to pay for their tuition. They want the government to pay for the down payment on their house. They expect the government “to give them a job.” Many of them said they wanted the government to tax wealthier individuals so that they would have an opportunity to have a better life.</p></blockquote>
<p>Professor Chambless’ students belong to the “Entitlement Generation,” also known as the “Gimme Generation.” They think they can have and should have whatever they want, whenever they want, and from whomever they want it, while others pay for it.” Or more simply, as one Occupy Protestor painted on her placard, “Where’s my bailout?”</p>
<p>That sense of economic entitlement usually goes hand in hand with education entitlement. Students now come to college expecting straight A’s. That’s the default. And, as <a href="http://online.worldmag.com/2010/12/08/the-entitlement-generation/">Anthony Carter notes</a>, woe-betide any professor who “fails” to comply.</p>
<p>Harvard Professor of Law, Lawrence Lessig, has noticed a huge increase in the sense of entitlement among students especially in questioning authority. He <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orAVrXdYQD4">says</a> that the Internet “has created a world where everybody feels entitled to question somebody else.” He goes on:</p>
<blockquote><p>There’s no authority, there’s no like &#8220;being the professor of law from Harvard&#8221; that entitles you to say &#8220;Here’s what the truth is.&#8221; There’s an opening. Here’s a professor of law from Harvard who says here’s what the truth is. That’s a way of beginning a conversation. Some fifteen year old can say &#8220;I just spent the last 6 months studying about the history about the fourteenth amendment and what you just said is #@X!. Here’s the right answer.&#8221; We’ve come to this place where the younger generation just believes it&#8217;s their right to be as involved and as engaged as anybody.</p></blockquote>
<p>Of course, being a Harvard professor, Lessig thinks this is great:</p>
<blockquote><p>I think that’s a thing to be celebrated and encouraged, but I think that what you recognize that what you can see in a wide range of internet contacts the sense of entitlement has driven enormous creativity and engagement that before was presumed to be disqualified.</p></blockquote>
<p>So is it just a case of, “Well there are some pros, and some cons to this. No big deal. Let’s move on?”</p>
<p><a href="http://www.jeantwenge.com/">Jean Twenge</a> wrote the book <em><a href="http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&amp;rct=j&amp;q=&amp;esrc=s&amp;source=web&amp;cd=3&amp;ved=0CEoQFjAC&amp;url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FGeneration-Americans-Confident-Assertive-Entitled%2Fdp%2F0743276981&amp;ei=wMU-T8f5BerO2wWrxMXRCg&amp;usg=AFQjCNHlLlRRIUw4QAQ6FiHBMGb_YlUC7A&amp;sig2=mcxHy0rEdob02qg1JYR8cw">Generation Me</a>: Why Today’s Young Americans are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled—and More Miserable Than Ever Before</em>. She describes the entitlement generation as “smart, brash, even arrogant, and endowed with a commanding sense of entitlement.”</p>
<p>But, like Professor Lessig, Twenge also sees a flipside. She sees many of the “Gimme Generation” as individualists, “free-thinkers who are willing to break the status quo and pursue their dreams. Their confidence is what allows them to accomplish great things and can keep companies progressing.”</p>
<p>Again, we’re being tempted to minimize the significance of these societal changes. So, do we just shrug our shoulders and succumb to the spirit of the age? Economics Professor <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q3vZ8_XCMfA">Thomas Sowell</a> was interviewed about this on Fox News:</p>
<blockquote><p><strong>Interviewer</strong>: Professor, we had a series here a couple of weeks ago called Entitlement. There’s so many things that Americans now think they are entitled to because of government largesse. Everything from health care to food stamps, houses, even jobs. How do we get out of that?</p>
<p><strong>Sowell:</strong> That’s going to be very tough. Because the whole media, politics, the educational system promotes the idea that you are entitled to something. It just seems obvious. Society is not entitled to anything. We can’t even get the food that we need without working for it. So when you say that somebody is entitled to it you mean that somebody else has to pay for what you want…</p></blockquote>
<p>I’m totally with Professor Sowell on this. I see no long-term good coming from this entitlement mentality. It destroys initiative, independence, inventiveness, resourcefulness, motivation, the fear of consequences, and the link between cause and effect. It promotes indulgence, jealousy, conceit, laziness, and self-centeredness. It creates bad winners and bad losers.</p>
<p>It hurts marriages by putting the focus on “What can I get from him/her?” rather than “What can I give?” It hurts charity because the rich leave it to the government and withdraw from contact with the poor; the poor just get handouts from an impersonal, faceless, soulless State rather than from real caring people. Above all, a sense of entitlement destroys the Christian life.</p>
<p>As a Christian, I believe in one entitlement.</p>
<p>I’m entitled to Hell. That’s the only entitlement I have. That’s all I deserve, because of my sin. Anything else is grace, an unmerited bonus from the God of all grace. I don’t deserve a breath of life, a crumb of food, a drop of water, a stitch of clothing, a cent in my wallet, or an hour of education. I’m not entitled to one friend, one vacation, one verse of Scripture, or even one sermon. I’m certainly not entitled to salvation and heaven. I’m entitled to damnation and Hell.</p>
<p>That sense of entitlement makes me seek mercy, receive mercy, enjoy mercy, and be merciful to others. To paraphrase the Apostle Paul, “What have I that I did not receive as a free gift of divine grace? How therefore can I ever boast as if I had actually been entitled to it or earned it?”</p>
<p>So, there are basically only two ways to live: with a proud and angry sense of entitlement or with a humble and thankful sense of responsibility.</p>
<p>To summarize, “The wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord” (Rom. 6:23).</p>
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		<title>Check out</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Feb 2012 10:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Memorable vacations, Infertility, Homosexuality &#038; the Gospel, Christ's Sympathy, Prayer at Seminary]]></description>
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Keep &#8216;em short and sweet!</p>
<p><a href="http://biblicalcounselingcoalition.org/blogs/2012/02/20/5-things-infertile-couples-want-others-to-know/" target="_blank">5 things infertile couples want you to know</a><br />
Good to see this being talked about more in the church. By a man who knows what he&#8217;s talking about.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.dennyburk.com/the-gospel-and-homosexuality/" target="_blank">The Gospel and Homosexuality</a><br />
Denny Burk with some resources to help us face the this difficult issue.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.ordinarypastor.com/?p=9882" target="_blank">He is able to sympathize</a><br />
Erik Raymond has compiled a hugely encouraging list of what Jesus went through.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/pray-with-your-books-closed" target="_blank">Pray with your books closed</a><br />
One for seminary students especially: &#8220;We shouldn&#8217;t open our books without praying, but we&#8217;d better pray without opened books.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Who are you online?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 13:38:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Alexandra Samuel helps us to see our online personas as other people see us.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/360-degree_feedback">360</a> is a widely-used human resources and leadership tool in which a range of colleagues, friends, and family offer their different perspectives on your skills, talents, and character, to provide a 360-degree view of who you are. Not without its limitations, it nonetheless helps us begin overcome our inability to see ourselves as others see us.</p>
<p>Social media expert, <a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2012/01/who_are_you_online_a_360-degre.html" target="_blank">Alexandra Samuel</a>, proposes that we regularly conduct an <em>online</em> 360 in order to evaluate our online personas. Although <a href="http://blogs.hbr.org/cs/2010/07/10_reasons_to_stop_apologizing.html" target="_blank">she rejects the distinction between Online Life and IRL (In Real Life)</a>, Alexandra does recognize that &#8220;online, the human struggle to honestly understand our own strengths and weaknesses is intensified by the newness of our online customs and interactions.&#8221; And the stakes are high:</p>
<blockquote><p>Just like your offline personality, your online persona now forms a significant part of your professional identity. Understanding how those personas align, diverge, and complement one another is crucial to ensure your professional effectiveness, on- and offline.</p></blockquote>
<p>Her solution is to send the following questions to people who know you both on- and offline, as well as to people who know you online only, and ask respondents to provide a scaled assessment (1= never, 10=always):</p>
<ol>
<li>Is polite and respectful in their emails, tweets, or other online communications</li>
<li>Provides useful or informative content in their online contributions or comments</li>
<li>Makes effective use of their time online, and responds to online communications (e.g. emails, messages), comments (on blogs or in Twitter mentions) and feedback in a timely and effective way</li>
<li>Provides constructive feedback and generous appreciation in their online comments, replies, and other online communications</li>
<li>Is transparent about their relationship to or financial interest in the brands, companies, and products they discuss online</li>
<li>Makes thoughtful and appropriate choices about which on- and offline communications channels to use for different purposes or in different circumstances, and inspires or encourages others to do the same</li>
<li>Builds online relationships that support their own work and their organization&#8217;s goals</li>
<li>Is an online leader within their field</li>
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<p>Average your score on each question, analyze where you are strong and weak, and then compare with your offline persona. Are you strong on leadership but weak on politeness? Do you simply produce or do you also engage constructively? And compare this with your offline persona. As Alexandra concludes:</p>
<blockquote><p>If your personas diverge — if you&#8217;re known for your personal touch offline, but come off as a bull in a china shop online — you may want to think about how you can translate your face-to-face interpersonal skills into your online relationships, or conversely, how to speak so that the authority and expertise you hold online is also recognized by the colleagues who work down the hall.</p></blockquote>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2012 13:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dump-truck counseling, Two Timetables of an Affair, Seven Tips for getting to Bed, Is your sin bigger than Jesus?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.desiringgod.org/blog/posts/spiritual-leadership-may-be-heartbreaking-but-it-is-always-hopeful" target="_blank">Spiritual Leadership: Sometimes Heartbreaking but Always Hopeful</a><br />
I didn&#8217;t realize Moses had it quite so hard until I read this excellent post from Jon Bloom at Desiring God.</p>
<p><a href="http://counselingoneanother.com/2012/02/17/dump-truck-counseling/" target="_blank">Dump-truck Counseling</a><br />
Yep, done my fair share of that as well.</p>
<p><a href="http://bradhambrick.com/wp/two-time-tables/" target="_blank">Two Timetables of an Affair</a><br />
This is one part of a great series Brad Hambrick has been writing on <a href="http://bradhambrick.com/wp/truebetrayal/" target="_blank">True Betrayal: Overcoming the betrayal of your spouse&#8217;s sexual sin</a>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.happiness-project.com/happiness_project/2012/02/xx-tips-for-getting-yourself-to-go-to-bed-on-time.html" target="_blank">Seven tips for getting yourself to bed on time</a><br />
Gretchen Rubiin: &#8220;Since I&#8217;ve started my Happiness Project, I&#8217;ve become more and more convinced that sleep is <em>vital </em>to happiness and energy.&#8221; I&#8217;d add that it&#8217;s also vital to preventing and overcoming temptation.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.joethorn.net/2012/02/17/is-your-sin-bigger-than-jesus/" target="_blank">Is your sin bigger than Jesus?</a><br />
Joe Thorn continues to plunder the Puritans for our benefit.</p>
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		<title>Children’s Bible Reading Plan (67)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Feb 2012 13:34:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week’s morning and evening reading plan in <a href="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/02.19.doc" target="_blank">Word</a> and <a href="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/02.19.pdf" target="_blank">pdf</a>.</p>
<p>This week’s single reading plan for morning or evening in <a href="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/02.19-Single-Use.doc" target="_blank">Word</a> and <a href="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/02.19-Single-Use.pdf" target="_blank">pdf</a>.</p>
<p>The first 12 months of the children’s Morning <em><strong>and</strong></em> Evening Bible reading plan in <a href="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2011/11/12-month.doc" target="_blank">Word</a> and <a href="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2011/11/12-month.pdf" target="_blank">pdf</a>.</p>
<p>The first 6 months of the Morning <em><strong>or</strong></em> Evening Bible reading plan in <a href="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2011/08/Six-Month-Single.pdf" target="_blank">pdf</a>.</p>
<p>And <a href="http://headhearthand.org/blog/2011/08/20/childrens-bible-reading-plan-45/" target="_blank">here’s</a> an explanation of the plan.</p>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 11:30:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A brief introduction to the Westminster Shorter Catechism.]]></description>
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<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/36942519" target="_blank">A Summary not a Substitute: An Introduction to the Shorter Catechism</a></p>
<p>This is a bit of a Father/son venture. My 14-year-old son Angus is helping me put together a series of short videos on the Westminster Shorter Catechism. He filmed and edited this brief introduction to the structure of the Catechism. We&#8217;re hoping these films and outlines might help introduce young people to this wonderful summary of the Christian faith.</p>
<p><strong>I.    </strong><strong>Introduction (1-3)</strong></p>
<p><strong></strong><strong>II.  </strong><strong>What we are to believe (4-38)</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong></strong>A. God’s Nature and Character (4-6)<br />
B. God’s Creation and Providence (8-11)<br />
C. God’s “Problem” (12-19)<br />
D. God’s Salvation (20-38)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">1. The Redeemer (20-28)<br />
2. The Application of Redemption (29-31)<br />
3. The Benefits of Redemption (32-38)</p>
<p><strong>III. </strong><strong>What we are to do (39-107)</strong></p>
<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><strong></strong>A. God’s Law (39-84)<br />
B. God’s Gospel (85-107)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 60px;">1. Faith (86)<br />
2. Repentance (87)<br />
3. Means of Grace (88-107)</p>
<p style="padding-left: 90px;">a. The Word of God (88-90)<br />
b. The Sacraments (91-97)<br />
c. Prayer (98-107)</p>
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<p><small>© David Murray for <a href="http://headhearthand.org/blog/">HeadHeartHand Blog</a>, 2012. |
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		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Feb 2012 11:29:41 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The genius of the Psalms, Homeschoolers &#038; Public-school sports, Discriminating preaching, Applicatory preaching]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.fuzemeeting.com/replay_meeting/bffa2e59/2271977" target="_blank">The Genius of the Psalms<br />
</a>Here&#8217;s a helpful presentation on the subjective dimension of the Psalms.</p>
<p><a href="http://ideas.time.com/2012/02/16/tim-tebow-debate-should-homeschoolers-be-allowed-to-play-sports/?iid=op-main-lede" target="_blank">Should Homeschoolers be allowed on Public-school sports teams?<br />
</a>This sounds like a recipe for disaster.</p>
<p><a href="http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/justintaylor/2012/02/15/what-unbelieving-pagans-know-about-god-and-why-they-are-responsible-for-it/" target="_blank">What unbelieving pagans know about God and why they are responsible for it<br />
</a>Justin Taylor manages to pack a huge amount of hugely encouraging teaching into this post.</p>
<p><a href="http://sheepdogger.blogspot.com/2012/02/7-lessons-from-community-of-disability.html" target="_blank">7 Lessons from the Community of Disability</a><br />
Greg Lucas: &#8220;The tragedy of disability is not disability itself, but the isolation it often creates. This was one of the most important lessons our family had to learn. Sadly, we learned it the hard way. But hard lessons often lead to great insights and over the past few years we have had the wonderful opportunity to gain great wisdom from several families in many different communities.&#8221;</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.founders.org/2012/02/need-for-discriminating-preaching-and.html" target="_blank">The need for discriminating preaching and the danger of its absence</a><br />
Tom Ascol with a much-needed post.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.sermonaudio.com/sermoninfo.asp?SID=21612134717" target="_blank">Conrad Mbewe at Puritan Reformed Seminary</a><br />
And if you want a superb example of discriminating preaching, here&#8217;s a sermon that we heard yesterday at PRTS.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.whitehorseinn.org/blog/2012/02/15/application-in-sermons/" target="_blank">Application in sermons<br />
</a>Mike Horton completes our triad of links on preaching.</p>
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		<title>Help, Daddy, get me out of here!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Feb 2012 12:17:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>David Murray</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[However much we want to be free of our afflictions, the Lord sends them in His love, and won't remove them until it is safe.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align: left;">Have you ever seen such beautifully expressive and eloquent eyes?</p>
<p><img class="size-full wp-image-6415 aligncenter" title="Martin 2" src="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/Martin-21.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="300" /></p>
<p>They belong to Martin Lee, the 2-week-old son of Steven and Jamie Lee. If you&#8217;ve been a Christian for any length of time, you&#8217;ve probably been blessed by Steven&#8217;s website ministry, <a href="http://www.sermonaudio.com/main.asp" target="_blank">SermonAudio.com</a>, of which he is the President.</p>
<p>Steven and Jamie have known for a while that Martin was going to be born with some serious health problems, and, sure enough, within days of his birth, he required a nine-hour open heart surgery, the first of many he will require in the years ahead (D.V.)</p>
<p>Steven&#8217;s a dear friend of mine and he gave me permission to post these pictures and point people to <a href="http://www.sermonaudio.com/source_detail.asp?sourceid=leefamily" target="_blank">his blog</a>, where he&#8217;s been been posting updates for the tens of thousands of Christians around the globe who are prayerfully concerned for his family, a family that has been such a blessing to the whole world for so many years.</p>
<p>I love Steven&#8217;s blog posts and updates; they are so real, so human, and yet so full of spiritual maturity and stability throughout all the traumatic ups and downs of these weeks. They also have some moving pictures. I mean, who could not pray after seeing such eyes?</p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-6416" title="Martin 1" src="http://headhearthand.org/uploads/2012/02/Martin-12.jpg" alt="" width="450" height="300" /></p>
<p>They seem to say &#8220;Daddy, can you get these tubes off me and take me home!&#8221; Yet they are what&#8217;s keeping little Martin alive.</p>
<p>We often feel like little Martin, don&#8217;t we. There are things in our lives we so want to be rid of and free from. They make us so uncomfortable and unhappy. We look up to our heavenly Father and plead plaintively, &#8220;Father, will you please take these things away?&#8221;</p>
<p>But He knows they are essential for our spiritual health. No matter how uncomfortable, upsetting, or intrusive, our heavenly physician will not take them away while we need them.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sure He&#8217;d love to take them away, just as Steven and Jamie at times would love to pull out all these pipes, sweep up little Martin, and run away home with him. However, God loves us too much to save us short-term pain at the expense of long-term gain.</p>
<p>We keep on praying that the day will soon come, when little Martin will be free of wires, cords, lines, etc, and be safely ensconced at home in the loving arms of his parents.</p>
<p>But the joy of that longed-for day is a mere shadow of the eternal day when the Lord will remove all that discomforts and distresses us, sweep us up in His arms, and take us home to be ensconced in His love forever. Then we&#8217;ll look back and say, &#8220;Father, thank you for every tube, every cord, yes even every tape removal!&#8221;</p>
<p><em>Please pray for the Lee family, and keep updated with Martin&#8217;s progress via <a href="http://www.sermonaudio.com/source_detail.asp?sourceid=leefamily" target="_blank">Steven&#8217;s blog</a>.</em></p>
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