How to Get a Girlfriend

My 1-1 Interview with “Gambler”, aka Richard La Ruina

Stephen Nash — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:02:53 +0000

Rich La Ruina ("Gambler") was nice enough to spend an hour or so on the phone with me over the weekend. Now, I've never met him, but after our talk it is clear to me that he is a total PRO at what he does and teaches. He has a lot to offer. Also, he seems like a total A+ guy - very very cool and down to earth. Definitely worth a listen. Here's a link to the audio: Click Here to Listen to the Stephen Nash/Gambler Conversation

Rich La Ruina’s “Rejection Report” - Why It’s Useful

Stephen Nash — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 21:06:00 +0000

Every once in a while a pick-up coach comes along who has something to offer which is not only good for guys who want to be PUAs, BUT also for just the average guy who is looking for an edge to his dating skill set. Even for the guy who is looking to learn how to get a girlfriend...there is something this person teaches which can help. Richard La Ruina fits into that category. He's a guy YOU should pay attention to.

The Feminism Problem (Part IV): Redefining Masculinity

Stephen Nash — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 16:48:06 +0000

"What does it mean to be a MAN?" Not in 1950, 1850, or 400050 BC, but TODAY. What, in the midst of all of the forces we must deal with on a daily basis, does it mean to send masculine energy into the world organically? It's not enough to think this question, or discuss it, or read about it - though that is a necessary start. One must though arrive at it in an organic, honest way. From there, we must face the pain of our realities and start to truly grow.

The Feminism Problem (Part III): Stop Objectifying Women

Stephen Nash — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 18:00:43 +0000

Masculinism. Ever hear of it? There, in fact, IS a 'movement' of sorts for men...but it is largely intellectual and ineffectual. It grew as a response to the feminism movement, but has gone mostly nowhere in impacting men's lives. Mostly, there is the appropriate advocacy of men's rights via the judicial system. But, what we're discussing here in this series is something much different. Lets talk about stopping "objectifying" women and how it is the first phase of real development for men.

The Feminism Problem (Part II)

Stephen Nash — Thu, 03 Sep 2009 15:39:05 +0000

If Part I of this series of articles on Feminism focused on the problem, this article will focus on the solution. (If you haven't read part I, click the link above and read it. Do not read Part II unless you have read Part I). In fact, this series could perhaps be titled a bit better, as:

The Masculine Problem
The Decline of Masculinity
How To Be A Man

New 1-1 Dates Announced!

Stephen Nash — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 15:42:19 +0000

I've just finalized my September schedule, and here are the dates where I'll be available for 1-1 work with guys in New York City:

Saturday, September 5th
Sunday, September 6th
Saturday, September 12th
Sunday, September 20th
Saturday, October 3rd

The Feminism Problem (Part I)

Stephen Nash — Mon, 24 Aug 2009 23:19:40 +0000

I cannot help but notice a startling consequence that seems to occur in intimate relationships between men and women. Since the rise of feminism, the divorce rate has dramatically increased and men are quietly developing an unhealthy anger towards women, a resentment at a new disenfranchisement - the unfairness and inequality in the cultural, social and dating circles which is profoundly stacked against men. We are now seeing a growing circus of men acting this anger out in horribly destructive ways with potentially devastating consequences. My thesis is: Feminism, and the subsequent assertiveness of women, has led to a profound polarity shift between men and women, and has led to an unhealthy inequality in dating and relationships.

Evolution Of A Hottie

Stephen Nash — Tue, 18 Aug 2009 14:44:39 +0000

This is an article from my archive, written probably 3-4 years ago. It is a study in the psychology of the "hottie", or the girl that men tend to meet in bars & clubs. Most guys who work with me have faded out of the PUA scene, and are looking for a more solid and strong direction for their dating and social lives. Often, they are disenchanted with the sort of girl they meet at clubs and bars. The anger they feel tends to snap out in the form of referring to the girls they meet as...

Fashion & Style Coaching

Stephen Nash — Thu, 30 Jul 2009 14:47:40 +0000

I've recently been inundated with loads of requests for fashion & style coaching. So, in the midst of all of this, I've put together a very reasonable package for guys who solely seek help with their clothing, fit, existing wardrobe, grooming...in other words, with their "look". With some rather simple work, you can dramatically improve your look, and therefore, your impression on women. It's the easiest way to get FAST results.

Planning A Dinner Party? GET THIS BOOK

Stephen Nash — Wed, 29 Jul 2009 14:55:02 +0000

Those of you who have worked with me, or attended the Natural Attraction Coaching Sessions last winter, know the value I place on DINNER PARTIES. Dinner Parties are a great way to galvanize your social circle, establish yourself as a 'go 2 guy' in the group, and to meet new, attractive women...all in your own home. In other words - it's a no brainer. If you aren't throwing dinner parties, then you don't yet get the idea of leverage, which is the essential ingredient to making your social life EASY and SUCCESSFUL.