HOW TO CARE FOR COILY HAIR

The Real Secret Behind Detangling Curly Hair: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Tue, 26 Aug 2014 09:48:00 -0400

Hey Beautifuls,

I have a secret to share with you. In a moment, you will say goodbye to frightening wash days with regrettable detangling stories. In previous blog posts, I've outlined our detangling process--which remains the same to this day. Let me quickly bullet point them for you.

DETANGLING WITH EASE:

Pre-poo (oil/conditioner on dampened hair prior to detangling)
Goody (or any ball tip paddle brush) tool
Start detangling at the very extreme tip of the hair ends.
Detangle under running water with your favorite conditioner
Work your way up the hair shaft INCH BY INCH under the running water
The thicker your hair, the more sections you will want to work in. I like to make approximately 4 sections

These tips have helped us to detangle without any tears. Knots, tangles, rips and tears are at the top of the list why most people decide to put chemicals in their hair.

What if I told you that I have a secret to drastically reducing the drama from coily hair tangles? If you have already implemented the above tips into your detangling routine, then you are half-way there.

THE SECRET TO DETANGLING COILY HAIR:

Have you ever heard of the Chinese finger trap? Here's a picture of it just to jog your memory. We've all played with it at one point in our lives. They're mostly given out at birthday parties. I remember my anxiety one time when I couldn't remove my pointer fingers from this coily toy. I was scared, so I started pulling harder. When I pulled harder, it actually tightened the hold on my fingers. It wasn't until I relaxed my fingers and stopped pulling that I could release my fingers from this trap.

The funny thing is that the Chinese finger trap is similar in design to coily hair. It is considered a helically wound braid. Designed with the helix structure, the Chinese finger trap could be likened to coily hair, which is described to "grow in a tiny spring-like, helix shape".

The helix structure (long story short) is made to tighten when pulled. The circumference of the coil will narrow. When speaking about the mysteries of coily hair, when the coil narrows, it will make detangling difficult. Why? Because the coil becomes resistant, and will not "give". When you pull with a detangling tool--using strength and force, the coil narrows and tightens. In effect, causing the need for additional force.

The Chinese finger trap has been known to break when a user engages too much force. Ideally though, the user will just relax, and the trap will release. The same goes for detangling coily hair. While using the above referenced detangling tips, try doing the following:

DO NOT engage your arm muscle force
Simply use your wrist, while patiently and gently moving the brush along the length of the hair (starting at the extreme hair end/tips).

At first, this may seem useless, but in seconds, you will see that the brush will glide through the coils.

---------------------------------------------------------------------Always for you,
---------------------------------------------------------------------------tia

Bad Things Do Happen at The Hair Salon: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Wed, 18 Jun 2014 10:40:00 -0400

"So here's my dilemma, do I say anything--or do I let her continue to destroy my hair--and all of the progress that I've made so far? What would you do?"

Photo Credit: darkskinnedblackbeauty.tumblr.com

If you've ever had to ask yourself that question while at the hair dresser, then this post is for you.

So today is a follow up to yesterday's post where I vent about our salon visit. Yes, the plot thickened, and I can honestly say that I was "ready" for the usual crud that goes on in these salons.

You see, unfortunately, learning about techniques and products that address all of the different types of curly/coily hair is NOT required training for a salon to be able to accept naturally coily haired clients. That being said, much goes on that makes absolutely NO SENSE in the curly world.

I have a friend who washes, conditions, and detangles her hair BEFORE she even steps foot into a salon. That way, all that's left to do is use setting lotion and roller set her hair. This master plan helps her to avoid damage to her ends, avoid lots of pain, and avoid regretful tomorrows. She says they always give her the "stink eye", and some stylists are straight up rude to her for doing this. I don't see why anyone should care, she's still paying good money. If there's any problems with the roller set (such as product build-up, hair not cleansed properly)--they can always let her know that was done by her.

I wish I had done this before I went to this salon. In all actuality, I wish I had never went to this salon. Going to a Dominican Salon in a "country" part of town is most definitely risky business. How much practice they've gotten with caring for coily hair may not be suitable for the best experience. I don't want a stylist "practicing" on me--while acting like they are a "pro".

That's exactly what happened in this instance.

Not only could this stylist not manage my length, thickness, and tightly coiled hair--she could not detangle it, nor could she lay it down on the roller. By the time she wrapped a big mess of hair around the roller, the section was dry and puffy. You WILL NOT get a proper "set" with dry hair--it has to be soaking wet. So by the time I got from under the hair dryer, my hair was still a bit thick, and ashy--not sleek and bouncy as a wet set is supposed to be.

How Disappointing.

In regards to the improper detangling (using a wide tooth comb, starting from the roots, ripping and pulling), what did I do, you ask?

I asked her if she had a paddle brush. When she showed it to me, I asked her if I could show her an easy way to detangle my extremely curly hair. She was not happy, but I did it in a kind way so as not to "embarrass" her. I was the one being embarrassed by the way she was looking like my hair was breaking off her arms.

I showed her how to wet the hair, start from the ends and slowly work the way up the hair shaft. She seemed to have filed away a new tool for detangling coily hair in her mind--but she definitely wouldn't let me know that I knew better than she did. After all...she's the professional.

Would YOU take the brush away from a "professional" and detangle your hair? Or, would you sit quietly and let the stylist finish detangling (no matter the breakage, pain, and destruction to your hair).

NOT ANYMORE. I sat by quietly for too long, while letting these professionals damage my hair. Most of the time I had to go home and cry (or be very upset). This applies to relaxer applications, hair trims that turn into haircuts, bad color jobs, and much much more. This is not limited to coily hair types...any woman can experience bad service at a hair salon.

I just know now that I will keep my eyes open, and respectfully relate my wishes. After all, it's my hair.

Until Next Post................................................................................................................Tia

How to Avoid STRAIGHT UP FOOLISHNESS in the Salon: Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Wed, 11 Jun 2014 08:56:00 -0400

It's been about 2 years since WE last stepped into a hair dressing salon (or whatever they like to call it these days). And I have soon to find out that the story will never change.

So T and I decided to skip on the blow dryer this time around, and go to the Dominican Salon and get our hair roller set. We would enjoy a nice scalp rub (the wash), get a little conditioning treatment, and then have the famous wet set at a local Dominican salon (name to be withheld) LOL!

When I called on the phone to make the appointment, I let the stylist know that I would be getting a wash and roller set. I advised her that my hair is "tightly curled". She acknowledged that she has "done natural hair before", and it's no problem.

When we (T & I) arrived at the salon, it seemed to be a different matter--especially in regards to my hair. She asked me if I was sure that my hair is able to lay down on the rollers. I let her know that I've been to a few Dominican salons, where they've laid down my hair on the big rollers, and my hair ends up sleek and straight after the roller set alone.

She looked dubious, but continued on anyways.

Now here's where the problem always begins: She didn't know how to detangle my hair without breakage. My ends were snapping, popping, flying everywhere. She was detangling my hair with a wide tooth comb--and she thought that would solve my detangling woe's. Truth be told, I don't have detangling woe's. My hair is easily detangled with a paddle brush so long as it has been properly conditioned.

So here's my dilemma, do I say anything--or do I let her continue to destroy my hair--and all of the progress that I've made so far? What would you do?

This story TO BE CONTINUED TOMORROW....

--find out what I DID DO.
--let me know what YOU WOULD DO (Or have done)
--More dramas from the salon. Next post to outline some ways to avoid the drama if you decide to even visit a salon

THE Curly Braidout: How to Get a Different Texture From Your Wash N Go

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Tue, 13 May 2014 10:02:00 -0400

Hey Babies,

(left) Wash N Go: Less Volume (right) Wash N Go: VOLUME

Hope your day is going well. Quick post to share what I've been doing with my wash n go's. The Spring/Summer seasons prompt lots of wash and curl definition types of styling.

Both T and I love to maintain moisture levels by cleansing (with a non drying cleanser), moisturizing, and defining coils with products. If you don't know how to ensure a moisturized, and long lasting wash n go, check out this post that has literally guaranteed our wash n go success.

I previously posted how I love to braid my hair when the curls have been defined. That creates volume, adds length, and can change the whole direction of how the hair will frame my face.

T hasn't tried this method as of yet. Notice how her wash-n- go lays flat (which is a wonderful option also LOL), and mine show massive volume. All she'd have to do to add the volume (if she so wanted) is to braid up her wash n go at night, and release in the morning...Voila!

I had some pictures of this cause and effect texture--wanted to show you guys that I get consistent results with this method. If ever you are heading somewhere and you need volume for your curls--this is definitely the ticket.

------------Until Next Post Babiesssssssssssssssssssssssss

----tia

BLOW UP YOUR WASH N GO! CRAZY VOLUME! The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Thu, 8 May 2014 09:26:00 -0400

This post is for those of you babies who have ever wondered "how she get her hair so BIG?"
I see the tumbler pictures of the girls with the big, curly, luscious coils. I know that they have a cut (most of the time). I personally refuse to cut my hair right now. Only because I don't have a hair stylist I can trust with a pair of scissors. I don't feel like being on the news right now, okay?

That being said, I will show you how I use texture creation, and (sometimes) a blow dryer to create VOLUME, AND LAYERS:

Start with cleansed (not shampooed) hair. Moisture MUST BE intact.
On an old (or new) wash n go (or curls defined) MOISTURE MUST BE INTACT, separate hair into sections of anywhere between 4-8.
With a spray bottle (of water and oil, or just plain water), lightly mist each section and braid.
Leave this overnight, and take down each section.
Fluff and go -OR-
Take down each section and blow dry lightly (no blow drying the ends).

How do you achieve layers? Through the use of the blow dryer. The sections that you blow dry will stretch and show length. The sections that you do not blow dry will not show as much length.

I like to layer my hair by blow drying the back sections, and barely blow dry (or not) the front sections. This will create a layered look. This is where creativity comes into play. Just decide how much (or how little) you will blow dry based on your personal style preferences.

(left) Curls Defined (No Volume) (right) Curls Defined (Volume)

With this process, I'm able to keep the coil definition, but stretch it by way of texture creation (the braids). This is not a braidout, but yet a combination of braidout plus coils. You will see the different coil pattern that you can achieve by this process.

PLEASE NOTE: If you choose to blow dry as a final means to the volume process, you will not be able to wear this style for much longer. The blow drying process tends to remove lots of moisture, and in effect will cause a bit of dryness. Dry hair does NOT hold style or definition for long. I only blow dry when I'm planning on a "night out" and want maximum length with my volume. However, I do so love the volume that I get from simply braiding on a moisturized curl-definition.

Hope this post was helpful. This process simply adds more versatility to my hair styling arsenal. It's a guaranteed way to add volume to your coils!

----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Sent with Love

--------------------------------------------------Tia (007NewNew)

Recipe for Bright and Shiny SUMMER Curls that POP: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Tue, 6 May 2014 11:47:00 -0400

Hey Babies!

T and I were getting ready for a day out together, and both decided to "define our curls". I won't say wash n go because it's a little bit more involved that an actual "wash and go", but less work than defining each and every coil (and trust me, I've seen it done).

After our day hanging out together, we pretty much wore our curls for the next 3-4 days. During those days, I was stopped at least 5-6 times (by random ladies) with this question: "excuse me, what do you put on your hair to make it look like that?" Of course I have to ask what it looks like--because this hair texture is second nature to me and T by now, we don't know what anyone is talking about LOL!

Most of the ladies explained that they want to know how to get their hair so "curly" (defined), shiny and stretched out. Okay, so I ended up writing down what I use so that they could go buy these products (either for themselves or for their daughter).

That's when I had to wonder....did I ever write down our "recipe" for the curl definition process that we do here on Angel's Ringlets? You know I am always saying "sharing is caring", and stuff like that. I don't want to fail you now--especially now that we get CONSISTENT results--and this is a hair texture that we can rely on to work out exactly how we expect, and to be LONG LASTING.

So please find below--our official "RECIPE" and "TECHNIQUE" for curl definition that you can count on time and time again. The only thing we ask is that you don't blame me or T if you keep getting stopped in the streets by folks wanting to know "how did you get your hair to look like that" LOL!

PRODUCTS USED:

THESE STEPS ARE IMPORTANT:

Wash Thoroughly (with a non-drying cleanser). We LOVE Apple Cider Vinegar mixed with water. Condition Properly (try to keep it "clean). Minimize products with silicones that coat the hair. We LOVE Giovanni Smooth as Silk Conditioner. Check out this list of our favorite products (It only took us 4 years to narrow it down)!

Detangle Properly. At times we finger detangle (the hair will be less pliable). Most times we use a paddle brush.
T Likes to leave a little coat of an all natural conditioner on her hair--to start. I find that is okay, as long as it's not too much conditioner. Conditioner WILL start to flake in a day or 2.
WE use a thick buttery (Shea, mango, etc) product that is whipped with oils. Sometimes we make our own mixture..or we use a commercial product. For example, I like to use Nourish and Shine (Jane Carter) to thoroughly coat my hair.
Next we use a water based product filled with natural moisture. I can't list an actual product name, because right now--we use anything we have in the cabinet. The point is to coat the hair (with natural conditioning leave in moisture).
Finally, we use Eco Styler Gel (that is the official gel of our house) LOL! We (well T) has tried almost all of the colors. I opt to stick with the clear (no dyes needed).
I usually wrap up with the Shea Moisture Flax Seed Curl defining product (I know I said the name wrong--but you know what I mean). It doesn't define my curls--but it's great at minimizing frizz. It's nice and oily--so that is a plus.

I published a video a few months ago showing exactly how I layer these products, and how I decide on the products based on the ingredients.

So, until next post--keep US posted on how you define your curls for the Summer! Let's face it--humidity plus beaches=perfect day for curls, coils, and anything lucky enough to wrap itself around our fingers.

---Love Ya!!

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------Tia (and T, of course)

15 MINUTES OF MOISTURE WILL SAVE YOU...

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Thu, 24 Apr 2014 12:24:00 -0400

Color Treated Hair Requires Moisture Daily

Heyyyyyyy!

I know, I know--I've been missing in action. I do apologize and I've truly missed this fun exchange, our Angel's Ringlets.

On to the BUSINESS:

As you can probably see, I've colored my hair (again). This is my attempt at changing my dark brown hair (almost black) to light brown. Unfortunately, I get it to a brassy red color, and then I chicken out. Just so you know, the color boxes (all of them--Dark & Lovely, and whoever else) can prove to be damaging. How's so, you ask? Well, currently I am battling with dry hair. My coils (wherever I applied the bleach) do not curl up as well as they typically do.

On the flip side, I like the color now. It's a nice and different change. I can see another positive--the fact that I am required to deep condition weekly now. I can see the difference in my styling now that I take the time to deep condition.

PEOPLE--DON'T SKIP OUT ON YOUR DEEP CONDITIONING! MAKE SURE IT'S A GOOD, EFFECTIVE DEEP CONDITIONING TOO!

So what's the business?

MOISTURIZING.

A few days ago, I was getting ready for bed, and decided to carve out 15 minutes (of an already duty laden bedtime ritual) in order to moisturize my hair. I sat down at my vanity, and began to apply some water based moisturizer to the ends of my hair. This 1st step allows me to part my hair without causing breakage to the ends. Next, I separate my hair into about 6 sections (randomly), and bantu knot (or mini bun them). Then I pulled down one section at a time and applied a teaspoon of aloe vera gel, followed by a small amount of Nourish & Shine Moisturizer (very rich on it's own accord). Check out our review on this little beauty. I bantu-knotted each section once it was moisturized (loosely, since I was going to sleep and didn't want to wake up with a concussion).

The next morning, I was greeted by happy looking red/bronze hair that had a some curl. Yes, my hair was still damp (dag blasted bantu knots). BUT--I let my hair air dry once I had pulled down the knots---and voila, that fun little fluff of a style was my HAIR O' THE DAY.

Later that day..................

The WONDER BUN: A Pile of Moisturized Curls

HOW LONG DOES IT ACTUALLY TAKE YOU TO MOISTURIZE YOUR HAIR?

DOES MOISTURIZING AT NIGHT SAVE YOU TIME IN THE MORNING?

FOUR YEAR POST RELAXER (QUESTIONS ANSWERED): TRANSITIONING HAIR

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Thu, 26 Dec 2013 09:51:00 -0500

FOUR YEAR POST RELAXER VIDEO (QUESTIONS ANSWERED)

1. Hi, I am coming to you for MAJOR HELP! I am 16 yrs old and a junior in high school, i got my first perm when I was in the 6th grade. Before i started getting perms my hair was literally 18 inches down my back, When perming came into the picture i was left to take care of my hair on my own.(BAD IDEA) now from all the perming and heat applied to my hair i have dramatically split ends, and my hair is like 3'' in the middle of my head and 8'' to 10'' around, my mom suggested cutting it off! WHAT DO I DO?

ANSWER: You're mom may be right (especially since she can see what's going on LOL). I believe split ends need to go. I think they make the hair shaft weak, and prone to breakage. Your measurements sound like a bob styling of sorts (3'' in the middle, and 8'' on the sides). Maybe it can be trimmed to a bob? Are you planning to relax your hair or grow out your unprocessed hair? No matter what's going on, try to get those ends taken care of and have someone help you with your protein/moisture. Here's a great post on transitioning hair care (moisture tips and avoiding breakage)!

2. What kind of products did you use on your hair during the transition?
ANSWER: Every head of transitioning hair is different. There will be different needs due to porosity, hair health, and more. The products we used while transitioning can be considered moisture based. From our shampoos used to our stylers, we focused on continuously putting moisture back into our hair. Here's a link to the page where each product that we used (with success) are detailed.

3. What are some good tips to retain length while long term transitioning?

ANSWER: Here's a post that I wrote some months back, but it took me over a year to formulate this healthy hair care for length retention. The post shares "step by step" on how to retain length on fine/thin, delicate hair--but after a close look this hair regimen will work well for long term transitioning hair!

4. Question: how did she prevent breakage? How did she make it curly with the ends still relaxed? I'm also attempting to transition this way. I just don't know what to do besides gelling my hair into a ponytail.

ANSWER: T's natural texture is somewhat wavy (as opposed to my tightly coiled hair), so it wasn't too difficult to match up the relaxed texture with the curly texture once it grew out long. But in the beginning of her transition (around 3-6 months), it was difficult to manage the 2 textures. Here's a link to a comprehensive transitioning guide that may help avoid breakage, tangles, ensure length retention, and give some direction for creating a texture that can be styled on.

5. I think it's beautiful, but do you think her curls are looser due to heat styling? I want to know the effect heat will have on my hair..

Yes, she flat ironed (probably too much) during her transition. You can do it, but be safe. I wouldn't recommend the flat iron so much (maybe some roller sets). The thing is, you don't want to alter your curls even before you get to see them in the healthy, plush state. You may end up with limp, dry non-relaxed hair due to heat damage. Here's some info that we received from the National Center for Biotechnology Information in regards to the effects that heat can have on hair.

Whatever you decide, be sure to keep up with weekly deep conditions, trim ends as needed, lay down hairline with satin scarf if you're trying to get that "sleek look" without heat.

6. "Are there any tips to reduce shrinkage my hair shrinks horribly and i just wanna keep my hair looking the actual length then it looking really short"
Braids and twists are well known to stretch out coily hair. Bantu Knots (or little buns) also serve as a great stretching tool. Some people use the banding technique, where the hair is stretched into a ponytail (or a few), and scrunchies or hair bands are tied all the way down the length of the hair. These techniques work perfect on both transitioning and all natural hair. The basic idea of stretching is to elongate the coil--so this means that you can get creative with it, and use rollers, satin strips, and many other tools in order to stretch it out.

Hair Length Boosting Kale Stir Fry Recipe: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Tue, 10 Dec 2013 10:25:00 -0500

Food For Healthy Hair Growth

We all know that products and hair care habits promote length. However, the absolute truth is that hair health is mostly from WITHIN. I can't get away with failing to mention this from time to time on a blog dedicated to healthy hair growth. I have a previous post on a combination of ingredients that are easily consumed on a daily basis--surefire hair growth assistance.

Within the 4 years that I've been natural (and keeping weekly logs of progress), I've had a chance to notice a few things. During the times that I've been active (cardio workouts especially), and my intake of water was increased, I've noticed nice spurts of hair growth. I also notice that during the times I've been consistent with consumption of daily greens such as spinach, kale, and others--my hair has a luster that needs no products. Now, I know that there are products that I use that ensure luster and shine, but hair health from within has a different "glow" to it.

Here's an easy recipe that allows for a quick add of green to the day:

2 handfuls of kale and or spinach
2 tablespoons of garlic
Chopped Onions to your liking
4 Cups of Cooked Brown Rice
1 tablespoon olive oil
1/4 teaspoon turmeric powder

*Pretty much any veggies will go well chopped up in this stir fry.

Spinach, Kale, Brown Rice, Onions & Turmeric Stir Fry

I like to steam the kale/spinach for about 3 minutes after properly rinsing and chopping them up. I steam them in organic vegetable broth. Heat a wok with approximately 1 tablespoon of olive oil, add the garlic and onions, then the spinach/kale. Stir fry for about 1 minute, then add the brown rice while mixing in. Add Turmeric Powder. I love the color and taste that the turmeric gives. Season to taste (salt, pepper, paprika, etc). YUMMY!

DID YOU KNOW:

Both Kale and Spinach are high in vitamin C, and iron. Excellent anti-inflammatory food sources. Support collagen production (yeah skin), which is the foundation on which hair follicles rely. What I love most about kale and spinach is that they taste GREAT!

Garlic is often used topically (on the skin) to promote hair growth and minimize hair loss. Garlic has a high sulfur content, which is beneficial to hair.

Turmeric has so many benefits, I say do the research on this wonder plant. I buy it in powder form (organic of course), and sprinkle it on almost everything. It's an extreme anti inflammatory. It can be used as a natural hair dye. Some of the active components found in turmeric is said to aid in hair growth.

As with any changes in diet, it's always best to consult with your physician ahead of time. For anyone looking for that "quick fix", it's important to note that dietary changes (good or bad) are typically noticeable after a span of time. I love that when I am consistent with healthy eating habits, I see true, permanent results--as opposed to superficial (beauty industry) type results.

Do you have any hair healthy (which always benefits the body) recipes to share? Remember, SHARING IS CARING!

and as always,

---------------------------------------------------------------------------stay beautiful!

--tia

10 Minute Deep Moisture Infusion: NO Time to Deep Condition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Sun, 1 Dec 2013 17:26:00 -0500

10 MINUTE QUICK FIX FOR DRY, THIRSTY HAIR

There's really nothing good to be said about dry hair of any texture--but dry coily hair is almost impossible to style. Trying to style coily hair in it's dry state is basically asking for breakage, damage, tangles and knots. Worse yet, the end result is almost certain to be dull in color, and non-compliant in style.

There's many things that cause dry hair (sun, wind, temperature, products, hair-care, hats/scarves and many more). How many things can you think of that infuse a deep moisture?

The first thing on my mind is a good, effective deep conditioning treatment. But who has time for all of that? I don't often have 3 hours to carve out of my day for my hair. Even though, we are talking about a once a week or once every 10 days occurrence--I still can't guarantee to do a proper deep conditioning treatment. I might even just decide to be lazy and skip it all together, which has been the case on many instances.

I'm sure lots of people can relate, and thus the reason for this post.

During these times of skipping deep conditioning treatments, I refuse to rip out my hair. There are a few quick but deep moisture infusion treats that I have for my hair:

The oil rinse: Many curlies know about this wonderful hair treat! If you're not playing around with oil rinses, then you are definitely missing out. I've read lots of different ways that curly ladies do their oil rinse, and came up with my own quick version for an effective moisture locking treat. We know that oils do not provide moisture, but they work side by side with water in order to lock in moisture. I find that oils give my hair ends a great "slip" once it is properly saturated. HOW I DO MY OIL RINSE: After washing my hair with conditioner, I use warm water (not hot) to keep my hair cuticles raised. I squeeze out most of the water, and apply approximately 4 tablespoons of (olive oil) to 1/2 of my hair. I work that through from roots to ends, and then bun that side. Next, I do the same to the other half of my hair. While I am taking a shower, I let the steam from the shower do a quick steam treatment of this oil rinse. When I'm done showering, I release 1/2, and finger detangle, while I rinse with warm water. I find that this allows the oil to further spread and penetrate. Next, release the other bun and rinse with warm water. Lastly, I do a quick cold rinse of my whole head in order to close those cuticles and seal in this moisture infusion. This oil rinse, managed by the proper opening and closing of hair cuticles, is the perfect follow up to a conditioner wash. This treat has given me moisture for days--and takes me only about 15 minutes in the shower!
The Steam Treat: If I have an old braidout that I don't plan to wash and start from scratch, I will put on a shower cap, and catch some of the steam from my shower. The shower cap is almost certain to let in steam. If you want more moisture, just forget about the shower cap, jump in the shower and let the steam do it's work. I love to add oils after a good steam. From there, I will style. Styling usually lasts me about 2-3 days after a nice steam and oil treat.

For now, these are the 2 moisture treats that I turn to for a "quick fix" that's under 10 minutes! We're all super busy, but we don't have to walk around with frazzled looking hair. I don't believe that coily hair has to be dry. For every drying situation that your coils must endure, be sure to add back some deep infused moisture that will enable styling with ease, lustrous coils that will avoid breakage.

My favorite oils that I keep on stash are avocado oil, sweet almond oil, and for some reason I keep ordering hemp seed oil. Can't yet decide what the hemp seed oil will do for me, but I love to add it to my braidouts. Goes without mentioning....extra virgin olive oil!!!!

Until Next Time,
....................................................................................Stay Beautiful

tia.

The Permanent Fix to Dry Dull Falling Out Hair: Another Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Wed, 23 Oct 2013 12:00:00 -0400

When we first adopted this big baby, we were told to feed him only pebbles (dry dog food). I forget the name brand, but whatever it was--he wasn't having it. He refused to eat, and his bowl stayed untouched for days. Once in a while, he would eat 3 pebbles (just to stay alive). This went on for about 3 days, and we couldn't bear to see him walk around hungry. His veterinarian insisted that we "hold firm" until he realizes that he has to eat it--but we gave in. We started mixing some dry white rice in with his pebbles, and then he began to eat. During the time that he didn't eat, his beautiful fur that we love to run our hands through, became dry and brittle. It lost it's luster and was actually falling out! The picture shown above (in the grass) is the after-effects of him deciding not to eat his dry food. Dry, dull, falling out fur.

The picture to the right (on the carpet) is when he decides to be nice and eat. We are still mixing in rice and chicken with his dry food, but it's a good compromise. His hair is notably more shiny, lustrous, and is not falling out (besides the normal shedding). Look at how quickly his malnourishment effected his hair health! We may not see our effects as quickly, but it definitely shows itself eventually. Reaching for that magic cure bottle in the beauty aisle is not going to be a permanent fix.

Jamba Juice vs Homemade Organic Ingredients

I'm told that the hair is one of the last to receive nourishment when the body is starving. Hair and nails are reportedly not as high in rank of importance as compared to the other major organs within the body. The body extremely complex, and knows very well how to take care of itself. However, it needs nourishment that we will get from our food. Eating foods that provide little to no nourishment are well known to deliver the same effect as not eating at all. The main difference is that eating vs not eating at all will definitely be the key to staying alive. But staying alive in WHAT condition?

This post serves to share my simple thought of the day. Diet and Hair are closely related. Diet effects the hair--good diet, bad diet, or no diet. When I use the term diet, I am referring to "what is consumed". If your struggle is dry, damaged, breaking, falling hair, it would be wise to review what is being consumed, and you may find that adjustments are needed. Just Remember: it will not be a "quick fix", but it is typically a fix with substance. This means that it will serve the body well in addition to the hair, and the correction will not rinse out at your next wash day--because the repair is from within.

Although Jamba Juice is Quick, I Prefer My Blends (less sugar)

A great place to start the search would be within the grocer's produce department. Are you getting enough leafy greens and colorful fruits? They provide most of the necessary vitamins and nutrients that the body requires to function at it's maximum capability. I love to blend fruits and veggies together to make a sweet and healthy shake for breakfast. That may not provide enough calories (which equals energy), so I may have that in addition to something a bit heavier.

Either way, take a lesson from Zodi the Big Baby, and don't starve your body of it's required nourishment. If that was the outcome for his hair, I can only imagine the strain that his organs were enduring! Don't forget to check with your doctor before starting any major changes to your food consumption. Everyone's needs are different, but one thing remains the same--nourishment is a must.
I may have decided to make changes to my eating habits mainly for my skin and hair....but one thing I notice is that my body has said "thanks".

For those of you that blend...........WHAT DO YOU THROW IN YOUR BLENDER???

SHARING IS CARING...................................................stay beautiful. --tia

Curly Hair and Hops and Beer: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Mon, 7 Oct 2013 11:46:00 -0400

Styling After a Beer Rinse

Always ready to try something natural and new to put on my hair. Most of the time, I see the results right away! Check it, I LOVE putting liquefied avocado (blended with mayo and olive oil) on my hair. The immediate results are shine, define, condition, and long lasting moisture infusion.

Here, I played with beer. Yes, I said Beer! What's so natural about beer, you ask? Aside from any synthetic additions to this beverage, the basic ingredients of an average beer is water, malted barley, Brewers Yeast, and Hops (different regions will vary the sources of these basic beer ingredients--hence, the different beers such as Guinness, Pilsner, Heineken, etc).

What I hope to get from my beer (rinse):

I used a basic beer --one with less ingredients did me just fine. I also used a non-alcoholic beer (to eliminate alcohol's suspiciously drying nature). I used my beer as a rinse. What's the purpose of a rinse? Well, I consider a rinse to provide an immediate physical change. There's rinses that effect color (immediately), so this one I expect to provide quick coil definition, and luster.

I want to use the protein found in beer (about 1.7g in a regular can of beer). I want to use the Hops as an antibacterial/cleanser for my coils. Some say that the alcohol provides shine, works as a cleanser, and leaves hair soft--I say it may be drying, so my beer of choice was most def NON ALCOHOLIC.

I want to use the brewers yeast as a cleanser. I remember when I was still 'trying' to breastfeed Dimples, my body wasn't producing enough milk. Despite me eating well, drinking lots of water, I wasn't proving to be a plentiful source of milk for the little one. Her doctor encouraged me to use brewers yeast (it comes in pill form) to encourage milk production. He even said that one beer a day would provide the necessary source of brewers yeast, and it wouldn't hurt the little one. That was just a side note on brewers yeast and it's natural presence in beer.

Well, well, well, isn't that everything that this coily haired Vixen (LOL) is always looking to achieve (each and every wash day).

Background History:
I've done a beer wash in the past. I remember getting nice coil definition. The beer rinse refreshed my coils. I think I used it after other products, though, so I can't really say what caused the coils to spring into action. This time around, I will use ONLY the beer (and my oils to seal). I currently have NO OTHER PRODUCTS on my hair but a mix of OILS. Sweet Almond Oil, Olive Oil, and Hemp Seed Oil. That's fine, because I will never go without oils on my hair if I have anything to do with the matter.

RESULTS:
Long Story Short. Love it. Immediate coil springage. Great foundation for most styling options (braidouts, twists outs, wash n go's).
Not so sure about using the beer rinse before a flat iron or blow dry session. I will only do the beer rinse with oil (when did I put oils? Before the rinse and after the rinse). I am an oil fanatic. There's never a bad time for oils.

Hmm, I wonder what my next post will be about.........

t.i.a.

Accessories For Textured Hair: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Fri, 27 Sep 2013 11:49:00 -0400

Hair accessories really do add a "spin" on the typical day to day styling options. In my accessory drawer, I have lots of broken banana clips, 2 flexi 8 barrettes (LOVE THEM), and some hair combs (those little ones that pull back thick hair nicely). I also have lots of bobby pins, a few interesting headbands, lots of scunci's to put my hair in ponytails. These are all great, but they scream "regular hair day".

Nothing says "celeb" hair day like hair jewelry. I love these chain/comb hair jewelry pieces because you can do so much with them. I'm still experimenting, but so far so good. They are really just adornments and for eye candy only because they definitely don't hold back thick, coily hair well. They simply just stick in and stay.
Here, I played with it on Dimples--she loved it. I haven't had the chance to wear it yet, but I plan to--and will post. When I put this up on Our Facebook Page, we got lots of questions about the item. I didn't recall where (specifically) I had gotten this, but I recently found another source to purchase it (will link it below).

The USUAL HEADBAND LOL!

Imagine Placing this atop a Twistout!

I love the flexi 8 because it holds lots of hair--exactly where you want it to stay. Friday I just let my hair do whatever it planned to do, so here I used the flexi 8 to put it off to the side some. Just a very whimsical, carefree look.

I'm always on Amazon looking for an eye-catching piece of hair jewelry that I won't normally find at the mall. The prices are right, and there are a few pieces that are great quality and hand made craftmanship. Some of the pieces that I love are linked in this post!

Which hair jewelry pieces do you use? Remember, sharing is caring LOL!

------------------------------as usual, stay beautiful! --------tia

What to Expect From Cassia Obovata: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Sun, 22 Sep 2013 10:39:00 -0400

One thing that I used to LOVE to do with my weekend was to spend time pampering my hair. If I wasn't doing a deep conditioning treatment, I was doing small sized two strand twists or steam treatments. These days, I'm extra lazy to do my hair. Today (Sunday), I decided to break open a 200g bag of Cassia Obovata (colorless Henna), and deep condition treat my hair and both of the girls (T and Dimples). They're always ready for a spa day. We took time out to do clay mask (bentonite) face treatments, and honey masks as well.

We're looking forward to a week of soft, tangle free, well moisturized hair. We will probably do styles like twist-outs, braid outs, and or wash n go's (between the three of us).

CASSIA PREPARATION:
I mixed our Cassia Treatment with about 1/2 cup of Tresemme Naturals conditioner, 3 tablespoons of Hemp Seed Oil, 1/3 cup of Extra Virgin Olive Oil, and 1/4 cup of Aloe Vera Gel. It made enough to finish up all three of our hair (I had to skimp on T's treatment a bit).

Before I applied the Cassia Treatments, I spritzed a mixture of apple cider Vinegar and water (2 tablespoons ACV, and 1 ounce water). We let that spray mixture sit on our hair for about 10 minutes before rinsing. That step was to clarify our hair strands. I wanted to make sure that any and all product build-up was removed, without causing dryness.

I expect that this level of deep conditioning could last all week (if drying products are not put on the hair...mineral oil, blow drying or flat iron, etc). I hope to only have to add water from time to time in order to re-activate the deep conditioner effects.

3 HOURS LATER....
We took off the cotton t shirts that we used to secure some body heat with. Underneath that we had plastic shower caps. We used those 2 together in order to trap the heat from our body and help the conditioner work it's magic. I had placed our hair into sections and had mini buns throughout during the conditioning process. The ends were tucked under each mini bun. We began by pulling down each section and working with the hair 1/2 of the head at a time. Rinsing with warm/hot water, while using fingers to massage the scalp and work the Cassia through, we began the long journey to removing the "debris".

The Cassia takes lots of time to remove from the roots and hair shaft. It's best to use warm water to start the rinse. Next, we put some conditioner (preferably all natural) on each section of the hair and continued to rinse. The conditioner (and oils) helps to make it easier to remove the Cassia. "T" finds that it's also easy to remove the Cassia by brushing it out while under running water with conditioner on the hair. We love to use paddle brushes with soft rubber tips (the Goody Finisher brush Listed in our Favorites to the right of this post). It took about 20 minutes (each person) to remove all of the Cassia from our hair.

Put on your sunglasses before checking out these pictures.

Lots of shine and define from the Cassia Conditioning Treatment.

THREE DAYS LATER....
For about days 1, 2 and 3 we had great shine, define, softness and pliability. By day four, though, we each found that the wonderful effects of the Cassia Deep Treatment wore off. I was surprised. I expected it to last well into 1 week. T tried a braid-out, but didn't braid up her roots--so her hair didn't "lay down" the way she likes. That's why she did her trust ponytail. But you can see that her hair is very shiny and full of lush curls. Dimple and I did our trusty braid-out. The definition and shine was pretty extreme.

One thing that seems to be long lasting with this treatment is the strengthening. It seems to have provided a bit of strength to the strands, which is great for anyone who is experiencing breakage, lots of shedding, or unusually fine hair.

All in all, it was a relaxing day with the girls, a few great mornings with lustrous, shiny hair that responded to our styling choices. It put our hair in the right direction for future coily styling options, thus minimizing frizzy days. Isn't that a major goal for every coily girl? Minimal frizz, lots of shine!

We want to hear from you if you've tried any wonderful and natural hair conditioning treatments. Sharing is Caring! ---------------------------As Always, Stay Beautiful .tia

Pros & Cons of The Blow Out/Braidout: Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Mon, 2 Sep 2013 06:51:00 -0400

Last week, I had this great revelation about how to get maximum stretch from my braidout, without sacrificing definition. I mapped out everything from technique to product. The picture on the right is what the outcome was, but this story has just begun. Those of you interested in achieving maximum length, high definition, with a long lasting braidout, then this post may be just for you.

WHAT I DID:

Cleansed hair and scalp with Amla Paste Wash.
Conditioned with Tresemme Naturals Conditioner.
Did an oil rinse, with a mix of Olive Oil & Sweet almond Oil (extremely beneficial).
Get rid of excess water with micro-fiber towel, and air drying.
Brush through heat protectant (Shea Moisture Brand)
Blow Dried (to about 90% dry, in sections), then braided up the dry sections (had about 6-8 braids when done). You don't want to get rid of ALL of the hair's texture. You will need some texture.

So now there I was with about 8 blow dried braids that had maximum length. Next, I would release a braid, and braid that into 2 separate braids. That means 8 braids turned into 16 braids (which laid even longer). The products that I placed on each section prior to braiding were strategically planned to provide strong hold, and high moisture (all without reverting the hair). That proved to be a tough task.

PRODUCTS USED

Loreal Eversleek smoothing system (boasts "humidity defying")
Giovanni Wicked Pomade (for hold)
Sweet Almond Oil (for shine and to lock in moisture)

THE OUTCOME:

Well, for about 1 hour, I had maximum length, really soft, great definition, nice shine, and great moisture. Then I went out to dinner with a bunch of friends to the Melting Pot. For those of you that don't know, the Melting Pot is the absolute test for true endurance of this technique and these products.

It's a fondue restaurant, where you skewer your own food and place into a heated pot of steaming oil right in front of you. Needless to say, the steam was blowing right in my direction, while 3 of my friends watched it rise to a huge Afro. Side Note: My fellow sisters with naturally curly hair were sitting next to me, and they watched my hair rise with amused looks. Meanwhile, across the table from me, 3 blond haired women commented on how much bigger my hair had gotten, and how they loved it. Typically, I only concern myself with my opinion, but since I didn't have a mirror, I put my Dr Jekyll/Mr Hyde hair into a side braid (bad idea).

Lesson Learned: Don't go trying a new technique and a bunch of new products out when you have somewhere to go.

WHAT I DID LEARN ABOUT A BLOW DRY/BRAIDOUT:

You will be shocked to find this out (if you didn't already know). Don't be afraid to spritz water on blow dried hair when looking to do a defined texture! It's not easily reverted once it has been blow dried straight. The water is needed in order to "set" the texture (braidout/twistout).

So after that night's hair episode, the days following that, I decided to spritz my hair with water, and re-braid. The outcome was soft, well defined, moisturized braidout with lots of definition, shine, and length. Due to the stronger definition, a little bit of length was lost, but my hair still hung down the upper part of my back. I wish that I had taken pictures, but I was so busy that I forgot. I recall getting a lot of questions like "is that your hair?", and "I love your hair"...definitely wish that I had captured that on camera!

WOULD I CHOOSE TO BLOW DRY MY HAIR FOR A BRAIDOUT AGAIN?

Not really. The end result can be achieved without heat. Each day, a braidout can be lengthened by braiding on top of the previous textured hair (in smaller sections). This would provide a longer, high textured braidout. Usually, by day 4, the hair is stretched to the maximum.

Manually Stretched/Braidout

Blown Out/Braid Out

What's your favorite braidout style? Fluffy and Big, or Laid Down flat, and Long? I truly love the versatility of coily hair.

How Your Hair Goals Will Guide Your Life Goals: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Thu, 22 Aug 2013 10:24:00 -0400

A little over 4 years ago, I started my 15 month transition from chemically processed (relaxed) to chemical free (natural) hair. Prompted this change by a frustrating head of tired, dull, breaking hair that never grew past the top of my shoulders. I couldn't understand why 10 years had passed without any major hair cuts, and my hair wouldn't get as long as I wanted it to. After looking at my daughter's hair (T), and my hair, I decided that a change was coming.

Four Years Hair Growth: Gathered Info on Coily Hair Care

Does that sound familiar to you? Are you transitioning, or did you transition to natural out of the same frustration? The need for a change in the outcome will typically require a change in the behaviors. Now, I could have gone another route and treat my relaxed hair differently, but my goal included a cleaner, greener solution. I was in the process of eliminating toxic products from my beauty regimen, and that included the hair relaxer.

BEHAVIOR CHANGED: Eliminate the relaxer. OUTCOME: Growth of coily hair in it's natural state.

Now, that was only the beginning. I had to learn how to take care of coily hair (hence the name of this site). I had to understand that I didn't know how to care for coily hair. I only knew how to deal with straight hair, and I wasn't even doing THAT properly. Taking baby steps, I educated myself by watching YouTube Videos, and reading blogs. I also enjoyed experimenting with products/techniques and learning what outcomes to expect. As a result, I learned a lot of information in a short period of time.

HOW THIS RELATES TO LIFE GOALS: Whatever passions or career plans, or goals set, the behaviors that I take with my hair goals translate well into goals that I set in life. If my plans are to begin saving money, then it would benefit me to begin with changing behaviors that are hindering me from achieving that specific goal (for example: review my spending, no more impulse buying, creating a budget on paper, paying myself as if I were a bill due). Those are just a few examples. Once those behaviors have been changed, then educating myself and experimenting with different techniques will put me in the direction of my goal.

ALL IMPORTANT CHANGES THAT I LEARNED FROM MY HAIR TRANSITION AND MY NOW ALL NATURAL HAIR CARE:

Patience. There, I said it. I keep sharing that will all of the beauties that leave comments on my YouTube channel in regards to hair length. Just enjoy the stage or length that your hair is in now. The health and length will follow. That's true in any life goal. If you have $25.00 in the bank now, be happy about that $25.00. That's $25.00 more than you had when you started your savings. After 1 month of depositing $25.00 a week, you will have $100.00 in savings. If it wasn't for that $25.00 weekly goal, then the $100.00 savings would never happen. Live in the now, and enjoy the heck out of it.

Consistency. Changes will not work if they are not practiced consistently. If you start saving the $25.00 but you are not depositing it consistently, then the outcome will not be as effective. If you are caring for your hair 1 week, but 2 weeks later damage it by ripping it out with combs and brushes out of frustration, then whatever health/length progress you made, will be lost.

Set Reasonable Goals. If you decide to save $100.00 a week, and your income/budget can not support that goal, then it will not happen. The first week, you may save $100.00, but after that, it may not happen. And worse yet--you may have to withdraw some money to cover the excess that you deposited the week before. When you educate about how to save, and plan a budget, that comfortable dollar amount will be decided at that time. Same thing goes with hair care. Setting reasonable goals about how to take care of hair will ensure that the goals are met. If I decide that I am going to deep condition, steam treat, do micro two strand twists on weekly basis, and I get burned out in the first week, then problems will strike. I will probably end up ripping out the two strand twists in my frustration, which means that I will probably not want to take the time to put back in the two strand twists for week 2. Set reasonable goals for hair care. Things that will not take too much time (if you plan to do them regularly).

AND FINALLY, THE KEY TO SUCCESSFULLY REACHING YOUR GOAL IS...................
Making it Your PASSION.
Think back to when you first began your transition from relaxed to natural. You couldn't read enough information or watch enough videos. Learning how to transition was fun. Learning about how to care for naturally curly hair was fun. Countless hours spent on YouTube added fun to your day. That's Passion. As they say, if you work doing what you love, then you will never work a day in your life. How can you be passionate about saving money? Maybe by being passionate about what the end result will bring you. If the goal is to ultimately save $5,000.00, then knowing that you will do that at the end of approximately 4 years (of saving $25.00 a week CONSISTENTLY) can become the passion. That passion will fuel the behaviors (depositing). Think about 4 years ago, how nice it would be to have saved $5,000. Think of how many $25.00 deposits were wasted. This thinking correlates to hair goals as well. The passion for most of us is healthy, lengthy hair. Hair grows approximately 1/2'' per month (for most). That translates to about 6'' a year. Four years of healthy growth would give about 24'' of length. That's about mid back length hair! Passion will be the key to fueling the drive towards your goal!

These are just some of the life changes that I have implemented that were brought to light by my hair care. You see, I was so intrigued by my coils and the "newness" of them, that I was dedicated enough to make these changes, set goals, and be consistent with them. From the messages that I get, I know that most of us (transitioning and natural alike) have changed our hair care behaviors. The parallel between both forms of goals was so vivid, that I thought it would be fun to compare notes with you beauties.

Four Years Consistent Hair Care. Reasonable Goals Set

As Always, Stay Beautiful.

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Love Tia

Relaxed Curly Fro: What's Your Color Inspiration this Summer?

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Sun, 4 Aug 2013 23:47:00 -0400

If you've ever had one of those days when you feel like wearing a flirty, fun-loving, summer dress, then you're in good company. Maxi dresses, flowy sundresses, simple yet sexy dresses are running the show this summer. Don't you miss out! My day-to-day experiences even seem more fun when I break out a favorite summer dress.

I love the fullness of the model's hair. It looks like a roller set done on relaxed hair. I like the carefree curls. My roller sets used to be too organized. Either that, or I would comb out the curls so I could wear my hair straight with a little curve. Didn't make much sense.

What's your summer dress style? You got love for the maxi dresses? T's got her eyes on the old navy summer maxi dress (in black). I ordered one online for her. She excitedly ripped open the delivery and couldn't wait to take pictures. Such a diva.

Summertime Curly Girls are often spotted with their curls on display. I couldn't tell you where the flat iron is. Oh, and my blow dryer broke. I just did a trim on myself--I think it came out good..but we will see soon.

I love this little number (left), best used as a cover up when you're poolside. Nice lush, vibrant lime yellow color that wakes up the complexion, and definitely provides color inspiration.

I saw this beautiful maxi dress (right) from Calvin Klein with tie dye fabric & strappy criss cross detail. I love the floor length. The blues compliment most skin tones, and the empire waist ensures a curvy display. Soft Summer materials used on this high end item. Gotta love Summer!

Top 10 Super Coily Hair Products: The Curly Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Sun, 28 Jul 2013 19:22:00 -0400

I often get inquiries like "What products do you use?" I don't like to give product names for a few reasons. The primary reason is because what works for me may not work for you. Simple things like different thicknesses, porosity, hair health, coil pattern, and other varying factors can cause my hair to "like" a product that another head of coily hair may react unfavorably towards. I think it's different when referring to specific INGREDIENTS VS PRODUCTS. Why? Because the products typically have dozens of ingredients, making it difficult to narrow it down to which ingredients may be causing a problem. On the other hand, using simple ingredients help to make it pretty simple to identify if any problems present.

In this post, I want to be candid, clear, and leave no stone unturned in regards to exactly what I use in my hair. My current product "stash" listed below is exactly what I reach for when stepping into the shower to do my hair. These ingredients are the foundation for what I consider to be "healthy, happy coils". They work well for my coils, and receive great feedback via reviews from other curly heads. These are what I refer to as the "TOP 10 SUPER COILY HAIR PRODUCTS". Never mind that some of them are basic ingredients. I've been using them for over 1 year with great success.

CLEANSING:

Primary (Exfoliates): Amla Powder. Great for getting butters and other thick products that sit on the hair shaft. They can eventually cause product build-up. This indian gooseberry comes in powder form, and can be mixed with water to form a paste for cleansing hair. If you're interested to hear more, check out this review that I did after using this cleanser for over a year!

Clarifying: Apple Cider Vinegar (ACV) Mix. Great for getting synthetics off of my hair strands (silicones, etc). In a spray bottle, I mix approximately 3 tablespoons of Apple Cider Vinegar with 1 ounce of water. I spray my hair with this and leave it on for about 10 minutes before rinsing. Trust me, ACV works! I sprayed some that I had left over into my sink (which had dried toothpaste and probably soap scum)---long story short--it broke up the dirt and grime. Pretty amazing.

Conditioner Wash: Giovanni Smooth as Silk Conditioner . I love to do this when my hair has recently been cleansed with any of the above, and I just need to rinse off sweat or other natural products that I may have used. This helps me to keep moisture, and ensures easy styling (wash n go, braidouts, etc). Minimized frizzing thanks to conditioner washing! Minimized split ends, single strand knots, matting, and other curly hair nightmares thanks to conditioner washing. PLEASE NOTE: Conditioner washing is not effective in cleansing off butters, silicones, or other clingy ingredients/products.
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CONDITIONING:

Primary: Giovanni Tea Tree Conditioner or Giovanni Smooth As Silk Conditioner. I use these conditioners to enable me to finger detangle, and then eventually properly detangle with my paddle brush. I use these conditioners for "slip", to slide all of the knots out. Sometimes I add an oil for added slip. Maybe an avocado oil or olive oil.

Treseme Naturals Conditioner. I know it's not all natural, but it doesn't cause me any problems (that I note). I love this for the detangling properties. The price is right too!

*From time to time, I will experiment with a conditioner (all natural) that I find at Ross or Marshalls. Nothing has compared to those products that I've mentioned above (so far).
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OILS:

Primary: Olive Oil. What can I say about the wonders of olive oil? I use it on my skin, on my hair, to cook with. I Love Me Some Olive Oil. Makes me wonder about the creators of Popeye the Sailor Man (those of you too young to know about this..please bear with me). I mean, they spoke about spinach being the power food for Popeye's muscles and vitality, and the name of his girlfriend was Olive oil. They knew SOMETHING!

Avocado Oil. Great for the face and hair. Fatty. I love to add it to my hair after washing and conditioning. You can't really go wrong with having it in your stash of oils. I use it in my favorite deep conditioning mix.

*I play around with Sweet Almond Oil, Jojoba Oil and Hemp Seed Oil. They are a bit lighter than the two mentioned above. They work well, I just haven't used them as consistently as I use the amla and olive oils.

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DEEP CONDITIONER:

Primary: Mayonnaise, Olive Oil, Honey, Avocado Slice. That is a home-made mix of moisture/protein/oil infusion. I like to leave it on for about 1 hour underneath a plastic cap to secure the heat from my head. If I only have 15 minutes to leave it on--it still works! This takes me through my week. Minimizes tangles, dry hair, single strand knotting, need for lots of other products. Mostly, I can re-activate this moisturizer by simply adding water. LOVE THIS! Check out my review on this concoction! PLEASE NOTE: This is not a de-tangling concoction. You will need to de-tangle either before or after using this deep conditioner. I usually use my old trusty conditioners listed above (under "Conditioner").

Based on how well the mixture listed above works---If I use something else, it's only because I'm being lazy. Truthfully, I haven't found a commercial product that works as well as the mayonnaise mix. If you haven't already, check it out!
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LEAVE IN CONDITIONER:

PLEASE NOTE: Because of all of the ingredients/products mentioned in this post, I have no real reason to use a leave in conditioner. And you will find that once coily hair has avoided drying situations (like shampoos that strip, and other drying products), then the moisture level will be high. How do I know when moisture levels are high? I can part my hair (down to the ends), without ripping and tearing. My hair does not look or feel dry. My hair is styled easily (braidouts/twistouts/roller sets/flat irons) hold definition. Frizz is minimized. The perfect storm is created for that perfect coil.

Primary: Aloe Vera Gel & Castor oil. Great coil definition without the crunch that a normal gel will give. Great moisture infusion and seal. If I want to use a lighter oil, I will use olive oil with my aloe vera gel.

Aloe Vera Gel & Castor Oil Braidout: Shine/Sheen, Definition & Moisture

Now don't get me wrong, I'm not opposed to using an all natural product like Carol's Daughter or many of those other products on the shelves. I'm just a 4 years natural, and I've identified exactly what has worked for my hair. I love Jane Carter Solutions products (specifically the Nourish & Shine), but the cost is pretty "up there". My husband bought it for me the other day, and I even forgot to use it for this most recent braidout! I love the smell. But guess what, I don't NEED an "off the shelf" product. It's a luxury. It's pretty fun to play with purchased products. It's also fun to know that when you've run out of them, that you can go into your fridge--or to the supermarket, and pick up ingredients that will help (not hurt) your hair.

What's on your Top 10 Super Coily Hair Products List?

How to Stop Fighting with Dry, Unruly Hair: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Wed, 24 Jul 2013 08:58:00 -0400

(Left) Fresh Washed, Conditioned, Oil Added. (Right) Oil Only Braidout

Naturally Coily Hair (while dry) With Castor Oil/Aloe Vera Gel Mixture

Naturally Coily hair (while wet) without any product

....just add water, your favorite moisturizer/oil combo, and your hair will speak to you.

For a while now, my hair's been "going naked".

When I first went natural, and even throughout my transition, products ruled me. There are too many dag blasted products on those shelves!

Now, I like the fact that I'm in control of my product purchasing and usage.

Right off the bat, I love water as my main source of moisture. But you can be sure that the water will be dried out in a matter of 45 minutes if my hair is left loose with only water. At that point, my hair will dry hard and matte together. So I learned that along with the water, I NEED a leave in conditioning product.

The thing is, I like to keep my conditioning/moisturizing product to 1 or 2 simple ingredients. One of my favorite moisturizing and sealing combo's are aloe Vera gel and Castor oil mix during the summer. I love oils! I seal with oil, pre-cleanse treat with oil, add oil to my deep conditioner. My hair can not get enough oils!

Mostly, I feel like my hair regimen and products are so simple, and that tactic has paid off.

Keeping Products Simple will Show on the Strands. Lightweight, Easy Styling

No Shampoo (only Amla Cleanse, Apple Cider Vinegar Cleanse, or wash with conditioner) = No coily tangled mess/dry hair.
No synthetic products (only natural products with minimal ingredients) = No layers of moisture-blocking plastics. This means I won't have to strip my hair clean with shampoos and be stuck with dry hair all week.

I need an award from K.I.S.S (Keep It Simple Sister)! If you haven't tried to go naked (with your hair, silly) yet.....give it a try! Of course you will want to stick with your products if they aren't causing you any problems. But if you are often fighting with dry, unruly hair, maybe the answer isn't the "next best product". Maybe the answer is right in your kitchen. Throw some olive oil into your conditioner. Get rid of silicone with a bit of Apple Cider Vinegar mixed with water (1 to 3 parts). Review your stash of products. Do you REALLY love that leave in? I hear people say this all the time "I love such and such product, but later my hair felt dry". That's my first clue to stop using that product or ingredient...the after effects.

I learned that my hair with only water will dry to a hard matted bush of tangles--by just letting it dry "naked". LESSON: Simply lubricating it with a moisturizer heads off that problem. Then from there...what I put into my hair really depends on the style that I plan to do (straight, braidout/twistout, roller set, etc).

What's the least amount of product you can put in your hair for a style this Summer?

I Did The Hair Porosity Test: Coily Hair Overview

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Sun, 21 Jul 2013 16:11:00 -0400

Porosity & Moisture Go Hand in Hand: My Hair Porosity Test

In the shower, ready to immerse those coils under the streaming water, how does your hair react? My hair soaks up the water just as well as my rag does. It also releases it in a timely manner when I remove my hair from the water stream.

Things to watch for as it relates to moisture:

How quickly does your hair dry? Does it dry up too fast or too slow?
Do you find yourself having to moisturize every day or even 2 times a day?

You may want to do a quick porosity test!

So I did a porosity test this morning.

I kind of already know how my hair plays with water. My hair retains moisture very well. It dries at a rate of what I would consider to be normal for coily, springy hair. My "test" results proved that I was correct. 1 strand of my hair was placed into a large sized jug of water. I kept it there for about 10 minutes, and whatever turns and twists that hit the water eventually absorbed a bit of water, and still kept afloat. When I took that strand of hair out of the water, it was damp, and still had strength.

Here's the scoop on the floating hair test:

Healthy hair should not sink at all or only sink slightly. The rate that it sinks indicates the pace that it absorbs (and will lose) moisture. It is said that if it sinks to the bottom, then the hair is too porous. If it sinks slightly, then it is normal porosity. If it doesn't sink at all, then it is not easily penetrated (by moisture or color or other chemical treatments).

This helps me to understand why some folks hair may take longer than others to properly relax or be color treated.

NOTE: I had a bit of olive oil on my strands. Probably best to do this on "naked", dry hair. I know that oil and water just do not mix. Something to consider before doing this test. This is my layman's explanation of hair porosity. I am not a hair expert, I just dabble and experiment.

What is Porosity (as it pertains to hair)?

Porosity describes how moisture (water) is absorbed/retained by the hair. It describes specifically the condition of the cuticle layer of the hair. There are 3 categories typically used to explain one's hair porosity: 1) Low Porosity, 2) Normal Porosity, and 3) High Porosity.

Low Porosity Hair: Tends to have cuticles that are too compact. Moisture doesn't enter this hair shaft (or exit) easily. As a result, products can sit on the hair shaft (product build up). Low porosity hair does not absorb moisture well.

High Porosity Hair: High porosity hair has raised cuticles that will not hold moisture in the cortex or cellular membrane complex. Tends to have lots of "holes and spaces" on the hair shaft. The cuticles are lifted, and the hair absorbs LOTS of water. Lots of water may cause loss of elasticity, which can mean breakage. In the same way that the hair absorbs lots of water, the hair loses moisture quickly.

Medium Porosity Hair: Is just as it sounds. The cuticles are undisturbed, and lay in a way that allow hair to absorb the correct amount of water, and retain it for the "normal" amount of time that water takes to dissipate from similar textured fabrics/sources.

I speak only quickly on this topic, from a common sense point of view. There are numerous sources of in-depth information on this topic. Porosity (pores, openings). More pores or openings means water can get in and out easily. Less openings means water will not be able to get in and out easily.

I'm only touching quick base on this topic, as it can be the cause of many a dry hair issues. Moisture is a hot topic all year long, and we can't address moisture without looking into our hair's porosity. If you are unsure about your hair's porosity, and suffer from dry hair issues, please try the test that was described above (on clean hair/without product--no recent protein treatment done).

CHECK OUT THIS VIDEO FOR SOME SOLUTION IDEAS!

THANK YOU DENIMPIXIE, FOR THIS THOROUGH, HELPFUL, EASY TO UNDERSTAND VIDEO.

Transitioning Hair is NOT What You Think

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Sun, 21 Jul 2013 10:57:00 -0400

Deep Conditioning, Detangling, Cleansing to Manage Transitioning Hair Roots

One popular thought about transitioning hair?
Answer: Dry, tough, knotted roots. I've heard it over and over from messages I receive and from people I meet. Another popular issue with transitioning hair is: BREAKAGE. The breakage is the nightmare situation, I have to agree.

Mostly the relaxed hair needs the protein treatment for strength because of the broken bonds that occur during the chemical process. On the flip side, both relaxed and un-processed hair will benefit from a deep conditioning treatment most of the time. Typically, once a week deep conditioning is just fine for transitioning (and natural) hair.

Bantu Knots (Pictured Above) Results

WHAT ARE THE TOP PROBLEMS NOTED WITH TRANSITIONING HAIR?

Rough, dry, breaking roots
Breakage (ends)
Styling (matching up textures)
De-tangling/Tangles
Finding products perfect for extremely different textures

What does this post mean by "transitioning hair is not what you think"?

All of the problems listed above are mostly problems that can be solved. Yes, they take a little patience and gathering of information...but it's all "fixable".

In regards to the rough, dry, breaking roots, I found that at about 3-6 months, the hair that grew out of my scalp was very rough, dry and hard. Like BRILLO PAD hard. I won't even begin to attempt to explain the science behind it. Just know that this is only temporary. With consistent and thorough deep conditioning, that hair at the roots will evolve into soft, luxurious coily hair. The roots will just require attention (pre-cleansing oil application, cleansing, deep conditioning, proper de-tangling, moisturizing and sealing with the proper products). I like to do this required beauty hair regimen about once a week (especially with transitioning hair). If I would go over 10 days without the proper hair care, I would have to live with dry, rough, breaking roots.
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In regards to breakage (at the ends), I found that little trims were most effective with solving breakage. I never had to deal with breakage during my transition. My best friend, on the other hand, had most of her relaxed hair break away from her natural hair during her transition. Needless to say, her transition was literally "cut" short. The minute her hair started randomly breaking, I helped her to cut it to a healthy place to stop the breakage. I also helped her with deep conditioning and protein treatments. Usually, trims and moisture/protein balance will solve that transitioning hair issue (breakage). You can do it! If you don't feel comfortable trimming your own hair, get someone you trust (a friend or a licensed hair stylist/beautician). Be very specific about how much you want trimmed off. A skilled hair stylist should be able to tell you if that specified amount will do the trick to getting rid of any damage at the ends.

Transitioning Hair Can Be Styled Any Way You'd Like. Just Don't Skip out on Deep Conditioning for Easy Styling

In regards to the styling problems with transitioning hair, I always say this: "create 1 texture, and style on that". Since transitioning hair has two extreme textures (straight and coily), then it's easier to first make those two textures match, and then proceed with styling. The best time to create 1 single texture out of the two transitioning hair textures is after a wash/conditioning or co-wash. When the hair is wet or damp, it is easily "set" into whatever texture you'd like (curls, braidout, twistout, bantu-knots). I used to love to use perm rod rollers on my relaxed hair once I had braid or twist my roots. This created a waterfall of curls and waves that could be easily styled all week without drama. Whatever you decide to do, find your staple hairstyle and take the frustration out of your week.
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To cut this post short, detangling and products go hand in hand. I had to find the most safe and effective de-tangling tool for my transitioning hair. Everyone's needs will be different, so play around with a few different tools until you find one that will not cause breakage, and will get the job done. Effective de-tangling is essential to styling. I didn't de-tangle my transitioning hair often (ABOUT 1 x EVERY 7 DAYS), because I feel that low manipulation is key to length.Less pulling and raking= less breakage. Products like moisturizers and other "lubrication products" are meant to assist in the de-tangling process. It can get tricky (due to the straight and coily hair contrast), but with lots of patience, the right tools and products, and the right technique, it can be done safely.
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All in all, if you plan to transition long term (grow out your un-processed hair without cutting off your relaxed hair), hopefully these tips can help. It took me about 8 months to figure out that I had to have a regimen and stick with it for best results.

When will you be ready to cut off all of the relaxed hair and sport your curls?
ANSWER: When YOU are ready.

With lots of Love...............................................................................................................................................Tia

Light Bronze Curls For Summer FUN: The Coily Hair Edition

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Fri, 28 Jun 2013 08:59:00 -0400

So, Summer began last week Friday! I LOVE Summertime. It brings to mind Haagen Daaz ice cream (I think everything brings that ice-cream to my mind). Summer for us means beach days, pool-side, and lots of other out-door activities. Yeah, it's hot...but we find ways to stay cool while playing.

Summer also brings to my mind light, AND bold, playful colors. Check out your local Target Store (even Walmart has stepped it up)! The t-shirts are bold and enticing colors. Winter is long gone in the fashion world, and most of us are ready to pop some color into our wardrobe and tresses.

Not to boast, but here in the tropical everglades paradise (LOL), we are primed and ready to hit the beaches. Colors are so important for mental clarity and just plain old fun!

Every spring or summer, I lighten my hair. That means that I will "strip" my hair about once a year. During winter months, I will darken up (I didn't do that last winter). It worked out well, because putting a dark rinse on my coils makes lightening up in the Spring/Summer months a bit of a task.

The last color that I did was over 1 year ago. It was Dark & Lovely's "Honey Blond". The process was to part my hair horizontal from ear to ear, then "chunk" the color onto some section in the front". This helps me to avoid damage throughout my entire head of hair, and it adds subtle highlights (if you will) throughout the head (even the back).

This time I focused on putting the color on the ends of my hair alone. WHY? Because, I figured that it would be easier and quicker to lighten up the parts of hair that was previously colored. You ever read that part of the hair color box that reads: "If your hair is *this color, then it will be *this color after using the coloring process". Basically, that usually means that the lighter your hair already is, then the lighter the color will get it. Since my roots had grown in (to it's naturally, dark brown color), then I took the opportunity to color on a light color (my color from over 1 year ago).

My main concern is how my hair ends will withstand being stripped on 2 instances--even though the process is few and far in between (over 1 year since the last lightening). I notice that I've got to keep up with my deep conditioning treatments or else I'm stuck with dry hair for the week. The color definitely encourages dryness, due to the stripping process. All in all, though, so far so good--no damage noted. Will keep track and post if I see anything.

What colors did Summer inspire out of your wardrobe and hair so far?

Hot Pinks, Lime Yellows, Don't Forget About Blues!

HELP! Why are My Roots Dry, Matted & Tangled: Coily, Relaxed, Transitioning Hair

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Thu, 27 Jun 2013 08:58:00 -0400

Transitioning Hair Roots & Relaxed Ends
Require Thorough Deep Conditioning

Coily Roots Become Manageable All Week Long
After Proper Care

Have you ever spent a week with tangled, matted, dry, miserable hair roots? It's almost impossible to style hair that is tangled at the roots. I've been known to just "ball up" my hair and carry on with my day. It's a foolish plan, it doesn't really work well, and it doesn't make for a pretty sight.

THINGS THAT BECOME DIFFICULT TO DO WHILE HAVING TANGLED ROOTS:

Pull hair back into a smooth ponytail or bun (Not impossible, but there's just gonna be a mass of tangled hair in the center of it all).
Wash or Condition hair properly.
Treat Scalp thoroughly
Run your hands (or his) through hair.
Have a stress free hair day

MY KNOTTY ROOTS TRANSITIONING WOES:
I transitioned for 15 months and the first thing I had to learn was how to care for my tightly coiled roots. Mentally, I was ready to stop looking at my roots as a problem, or something I had to get straightened out. Physically, I didn't know what to do because I used to solve that problem by putting a relaxer on it. Since I was transitioning from relaxed to natural, that was not an option. That was when I learned to lay down my roots, in an effort to "match up" with my relaxed hair.

But guess what? FOR ME AT THAT TIME, THAT MEANT applying heat. I later learned how to lay down my roots, and give my relaxed hair a texture that would match my un-processed/natural hair.

Styling Transitioning Hair: Laying Down Roots to "Match" Relaxed Hair Length

This would only successfully be done on THOROUGHLY DE-TANGLED HAIR...ALL THE WAY TO THE ROOTS.

Fast forward (to the present) a head full of coils (no relaxed hair anywhere to be found), and I realize that from hair ends all the way up the hair shaft to almost THE ROOTS would be nice and tangle free. However, get to the roots and it would often be tangled, dry, knotted.

I started to wonder why this would happen, and through those musings I bring to you

THE TOP 6 REASONS WHY MY ROOTS BECOME KNOTTY:

My roots are not fully de-tangled. Often times, due to reasons such as "tender-headed-ness" (is this a real thing?), feeling lazy, or just can't finish the job-my de-tangling stops right before the roots. TIP: It helps to feel your de-tangling tool brushing up against the scalp to ensure that the roots are fully de-tangled.
My roots are not properly conditioned. Often times, the ends and the hair shaft receive the full benefit of a deep conditioner, but the roots are not navigated through thoroughly. I recall thinking my roots were "too thick" to get all up in there with my conditioner. Well, once my roots began to get properly deep conditioned, then they were no longer "too thick" to get into and spread the deep conditioning treatment properly. DRY ROOTS WILL TANGLE. TIP: Go heavy on conditioner at the roots, rake through with your fingers, and finally place that section into a bantu knot (or bun), while giving the conditioner time to work it's magic. Don't be afraid to add your favorite oil to your conditioning treatment!
I'm Using the Wrong De-tangling tool. Wide tooth combs can not properly and thoroughly de-tangle hair (especially the roots). They are a great tool to START the de-tangling process with. I don't think that fingers can fully de-tangle hair roots, but they are a great way to partially de-tangle the hair. When the hair is not properly detangled, then product can not be applied thoroughly, and this may encourage matting and knotting. TIP: Once your conditioner is generously applied, begin de-tangling at the hair ends. Start de-tangling with a paddle brush at only 1'' of the hair ends, slowly working your way up the hair shaft (one inch at a time). When you reach mid hair shaft, put down your brush and take your pointer finger and divide the section in half at the hair roots. Pick back up your brush and resume de-tangling this smaller sized section. This smaller section of hair was easy to divide because you had already de-tangled the ends. I love to keep water running on my hair strands while de-tangling with my paddle brush.
Left to Air Dry without Being Properly Moisturized. Air drying is great! Only problem is if the hair is not moisturized and sealed with oil--then it can become a dry, brittle, knotted nightmare. TIP: Even if you don't want to add a leave in product while air drying, adding oil will ensure that the hair will not dry and then tangle up. If you're worried about how long it takes product laden hair to dry, just allow your "naked" hair to air dry a bit before adding products.
My Use of Drying Products. Shampoos, Stylers, and other culprits can cause dry hair--which includes dry, tangled roots. I found that certain shampoos (when I used to use shampoo) would actually cause knotting mainly at my roots. You see, the roots are the "newest" hair, and will react without hesitation to products. Since the hair ends suffer the most damage, and are the "oldest" part of the hair, they will not coil up as easily as the hair roots. Oh they will tangle, but most of the scary balls of knots will probably be found at the roots. Products that are drying will encourage tangled, matted roots. DON'T FORGET SUBSTANCES LIKE CHLORINE, THE BEACH WATER, AND ANYTHING ELSE THAT CAUSES KNOTTING!
I've Got Product Build-Up. Need I say more? Flakes, white stuff, layers of products will encourage knotting. If not removed properly, product build-up will hinder proper detangling, proper conditioning, proper cleansing--and cause a mass of tangles, and knots at the roots.

As Always,

Love Tia

Bunning without Hairline Damage: The Coily Hair Technique

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Sat, 8 Jun 2013 07:11:00 -0400

LET'S DISCUSS.....

Imagine a slinky, (for those of you who do not know what a slinky is--you missed out LOL).

The Slinky

Although the rings are large, this joker is tightly curled. That was what enabled it to move as it did. No matter how you stretched it (unless you broke it), that joker was going to coil back up into it's original position (a coil).

That pretty much describes coily hair.

Now imagine attempting to pull coily hair straight. That will require lots of consistent tension. Pulling and pulling, tugging and finally---HOLD. GUESS WHAT? The coils would still be trying to pull back into it's original position..(a coil). Possible end results of all of that tugging, pulling, and holding? Breakage, and inflammation mostly along the hairline where the tension is the most.

Ahhh, the beloved BUN

This is why it is so important that pulled back styles are done without putting tension on the hairline. In the previous post, techniques were discussed that would avoid tension on the hairline--even when wearing buns, ponytails, and other tension hair-styles.

In this post, I will quickly share yet another method for avoiding hairline damage while wearing sleek, pulled back styles.

Most of us know that one way to stretch coily type hair is by doing braidouts, twist-outs, bantu knots, etc. These are heat free ways of creating a texture that safely expands the coils.

By expand, I mean that it takes a coil and stretches it into a less tightly wound texture. Now with the tighter coil stretched out, there will be less resistance from the hair while attempting to slick the hair back into a sleek style. Less resistance means less breakage and less irritation on the hairline.

That being said, let's put this method into action:

THE SCENARIO:
Our resident Ballerina had a photo shoot, and it was a requirement that all of the girls wore a sleek, pulled back bun. The hairline had to be smooth, sleek, and the bun could not have any slack. Normally, that can be a recipe for disaster for the coily-haired girl, but this mama/hairstylist/cook/maid (I digress) was ready for the challenge.

HERE'S WHAT I DID:

The day before the shoot, Miss Busy-Body Dimples had a birthday party appearance to make LOL! Needing to be as "Diva" as usual, she requested to wear her hair "down". I co-washed her coily hair, and did a towel blot and slight air dry. Then I did a blow dry on medium setting, just using the tension method for stretch. The style for the party that day was medium sized box braids.
The day of the photo shoot, I took down the braids. Now the hair was stretched (almost to the maximum stretch for her tightly coiled hair). With the tightly coiled ringlets now stretched, I did not have to concern with pulling and tugging along her hairline. Her hairline was easily smoothed down with a satin scarf laid down on moisturized hair. This pretty much eliminated frizz and laid down her thick hair smoothly for a nice, sleek bun.

Tightly Coiled Hair: Stretched

Now I was able to use a slight pomade style edge slicker for that added sleek and shine, but with hair that was moisturized, stretched, smoothed back and laid down (by the satin scarf), it wasn't really necessary.

The best thing is that I did not have to pull too tightly to have her hairline lay smooth, the process of moisturizing and stretching did all of the work. You see, Dimples' hairline will show that it has been under stress--little bumps will appear. I've seen scalp inflammation/irritation lead to hair loss, so I'm very cautious with these sleek styles.

Close Look at Hairline Shows Little White Bumps: Tension Alert

Again, this story isn't just about the little ones, I also make sure not to tug and pull at my hairline. Not only do I get a headache, but I can see the stress that the sleeked back style puts on my hairline. Constantly doing these styles without avoiding severe tension will cause unnecessary problems, especially on the hairline. This is why I like to stretch my hair before pulling it back. Even when I DO pull it back, I typically pull it back in a way that the full tension is not on the hairline.

LAST NOTE: Funny thing is--some folks have hairline of steel, while others have delicate, fragile hairlines. It makes sense, due to the different hair-types, density, thickness of the strands. It confirms my theory that not every hair-type or condition/health/strength of hair is able to withstand a hair relaxer. The same goes for constant tension styling....some hairlines will disappear before others. So with that said, what's good for one, may not be good for all. Baby those edges!

And as always, I leave you with lots of Love...................................................................tia

How To Avoid Hairline Breakage or Damage on Curly/Coily Hair

noreply@blogger.com (TheNEW007) — Fri, 10 May 2013 11:06:00 -0400

Loose Styles Help to Avoid Hairline Breakage. Flat Iron & Wash N Go!

Baby Girl & Curly Edges

Natural hair and receding, damaged, broken edges. Recently my eyes keep honing in on severely pulled back puffs, ponytails and buns. They're at the mall, the beach, out on the streets. It's devastating. What quickly catches my eye is the hairline. I'm seeing lots of broken edges. Not even just the little girls, but young and old alike--so this post is for everyone.

SOME CAUSES ARE: Tension styling (buns, ponytails, weaves, heavy/long length dread locs, etc). At times, chemical treatments are to blame. My daughter lost her entire hairline after a professional relaxer application. Thankfully, it grew back in.

SOME SIGNS ARE: Broken edges have puffy hairline of hair sticking up. No, that's not your "baby hair". I also see the receding hairline where the whole hairline is gone and it starts further back than the hairline is supposed to. That may mean that the hair may be permanently gone at times. The tension from pulled back hair styling will also cause tiny little bumps to show up at the area that is being pulled too hard. The hairline may also become itchy. These are all signs that the hair is being pulled back too taut.

I notice with my youngest daughter that she has lots of broken hairs along her hairline. I recently put her hair into two strand twists for almost 1 month in an effort to give her hairline a break.

The styles that cause her hairline damage are any styling that has be be pulled back with tension. That would include buns, ponytails, puffs, and anything else that gets pulled at all day. I make a consistent effort to remove her hair from those styles with tension for bedtime. My niece also has broken hair along the hairline. This is not a permanent situation, the hair can be restored to it's original length, it's just going to take some time and the proper care.

Weekly styling of Dimple's hair will include deep conditioning, moisturizing, and hair styling that does not rely on a tension "pull back".

Here are a few ways to avoid breakage at the hairline:

Pre plan the hair's texture. If it's not the plan to wear the hair out curly the next day, then the hair has to be stretched overnight (with braids, twists, bantu's rollers, whatever). This way, the next day the hair will be stretched and easily styled without forcefully being "pulled" into submission.
Understandably there are chaotic nights were nothing gets pre planned, so here's what can be done in the morning. Wet the hair with water (not soaking, just dampen the hairline and wherever else you're gonna want to be easily manipulated. Use your favorite hold styling gel and apply that to the hairline. Brush the hairline back with a soft bristle brush. Guide the hair into the direction that you want. All of this is being done without tension so far. Just water and a styling product is making the hair sleek. Finally, use your hands and smooth the hair into the direction that it's supposed to go for the styling. Without pulling hard, secure the hair into the chosen style of your choice (one ponytail, two ponytails, ideas are limitless), and then secure with a snag free hair clip. Make sure all the while not to pull too tight. Ask yourself (or your child) "is this too tight?" or "will I get a headache?" You want to eliminate tension, while making the hair appear sleek by use of products and water.
Wear loosely held styles or loose styles. I love two strand twists for the fact that they group the hair together, so that even if the hair is worn in a ponytail, it is not that easy to break off the hairline.
Long Length, Heavy Locs may need to be styled in a way that avoids constant pulling at the hairline. Half up, half down styles are great. Positioning a high bun will also avoid the stress from the length. Always wearing long, heavy locs down (or loose) will damage the hairline.
Short length hair should not use buns or ponytails as a styling option often. If there is not enough hair to leave some slack in the style, then it will only pull on the hairline and cause unsightly breakage.

When I don't get a chance to properly care for her hair over the weekend so that she can wear it loose or loosely held, I pull it back into a ponytail or bun. Lets face it--buns and ponytails are a quick hair styling solution! And of course, it needs to be "neat", so it's pulled taut, and laid down with gel. This is a recipe for breakage.

DO YOU HAVE BROKEN HAIRS AT YOUR HAIRLINE? IF SO, WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS TO AVOID FURTHER BREAKAGE AND FIX THOSE EDGES?

The photo above (left) shows a distressed hairline. Little bumps, broken hairs, weakened volume at hairline. To give the hairline a break, all sorts of tension styling was eliminated by working in the direction that the natural hairline rests upon. Cornbraids (not tight), drop braids, and loose hair styling (like braidouts without any pulling) will help restore the hairline.

--------------as always, stay beautiful -----------------Tia

Tension Free Hair Styling