Heart Clinic with 'Nido

SILENT TEARS

2020-08-09T09:27:00.001-07:00

SILENT TEARS -a Golden Eagles Ministries (GEM) Films Production

GOOD NEWS to the poor;
HEALING to the brokenhearted;
LIBERTY to the captives;
RELEASE to those held bound...
"... TO COMFORT ALL... who mourn in Zion..."! Isaiah 61:1-3

#Marriage, #Relationships, #Friends, #Friendship, #Home, #Family, #Couples, #ThirdParty, #Divorce, #Wedding, #Reconciliation, #BrokenHome, #Prayers, #Faith, #Restoration, #Comfort, #Healing, #Counselor

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2020-06-15T04:21:00.001-07:00

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2020-06-12T16:00:00.002-07:00

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The Trailer Haunting Shadow

2020-06-12T15:51:00.001-07:00

Watch out!

VALENTINE PROBLEMS. (Beware of sweet talkers and sex mongers)

2020-02-12T12:50:00.001-08:00

"VALENTINE PROBLEMS" identified and exposed again...

Hey!

You don't wanna be a #VICTIM... :)

YOU don't be 'the #VIOLATOR' either!

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...JOY to your hearts!

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... ON KINGDOM MISSION (DRAMA)

2017-10-06T04:53:00.001-07:00

Klunonido Bisola Ajo

"I PLEDGE ALLEGIANCE TO THE LAMB..."

#InChristAlone

There is NO PEACE FOR THE WICKED." (Marital Affairs)

2017-09-26T17:45:00.001-07:00

Okay, you married her because you feel you can always "chance" her very easily; you think she is very Lenient, easygoing and forgives easily... Okay, I'm not disputing her gentle personality; though some pretenders will shock you later because they're actually "acting" now or let's say it's just rehearsal for now - that's called "késekése"; "kàsàkàsà ńbò" -expect the real "ACTION" from such "actors" after marriage. Hehehe! Hm! Action Film Part 2!
😅😅😀
Now, this is my point, even if you're lucky to marry the genuinely gentle ones; but you feel you can always take advantage of them; well, they may not (be able to) fight for themselves but MARK THIS;
"Òrò omo t'ó ní ìyá òun ò ní sùn ni; òun náà ò ní f'ojú Kan orun." Hehe! 😀 Any child or baby who refuses his/her mother to sleep MUST also be ready to keep a "VIGIL".

*singing&dancing* (lolz!)
"Adìe bà l'ókùn; ara ò r'okùn, ara o r'adie."
Hehehe! 😅😅
Have you ever seen a hen perched on a rope? Thank you... That is it...
Hm! Wòó (see), Trouble HER, (You hear?) Frustrate HIM very well... take advantage of her seriously... I hear YOU EVEN HAVE ADVISERS who PUSH/TEACH or INSTIGATE YOU TO TORTURE YOUR SPOUSE, "KONTINU..."
BUT even YOU WILL NOT HAVE YOUR PEACE!
Nope, not a curse... It's just a natural principle; it's called the PRINCIPLE OF SOWING AND REAPING. Yes... YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW whether NOW or LATER; HERE or THERE...
Look at this -
Luke 6:38
"GIVE, and IT WILL BE GIVEN TO YOU..."
It's not only money o; it's WHATEVER YOU GIVE; whether POSITIVE or NEGATIVE).
See -
"... (in) GOOD MEASURE, PRESSED DOWN, SHAKEN TOGETHER, and RUNNING OVER WILL BE PUT INTO YOUR BOSOM..."
Hm! "Iya sese bere ni." Trouble has just begun.
Now look at this part -
"... For with THE SAME measure that YOU USE, it WILL BE MEASURED BACK TO YOU.” (Gbam!) You GET WHAT YOU GIVE!
Hear me,
God's verdict remains, "There is NO PEACE," says the LORD, "FOR THE WICKED." (Isaiah 48:22)
IMAGINE that...
WICKEDNESS ONLY LEADS TO ONE DESTINATION -HELL! Either HELL ON EARTH or HELL IN ETERNITY. BEWARE!
I have said my own. Thank you for listening.
Now, GO AND SIN NO MORE.
😀😀
*Jokes apart*
Go and MAKE AMENDMENTS where necessary; STOP ACTING LIKE A MONSTER -YOU'RE NOT one, YOU ARE HUMAN.
#Think on these things, dear. :)
#GoodMorning, friends...😊 😊 😉 👍🏼

... JOY to your hearts. :)

RETURN...

2017-09-26T01:56:00.001-07:00

Listen dear,
Even if YOU GOT YOURSELF in that MESS you find yourself in right now; though it feels like (alas!) you have GOT TO the END OF THE ROAD;
KNOW THIS ONE THING -GOD IS MERCIFUL; and HE IS EVER WAITING (FOR YOU) WITH OPEN ARMS TO RECEIVE YOU BACK TO HIMSELF.
So NOW that EVERYTHING IS or SEEMS MESSED UP ALREADY, DO NOT TURN THE WRONG WAY NO, DON'T GO "THAT" HORRIBLE WAY... It leads to all forms of WOES and DEATH. TURN AGAIN -RETURN TO GOD and HE, JESUS WILL RECEIVE YOU -RETURN.
I TRUST MY GOD IS NEVER GOING TO LET YOU DOWN...
HE IS LOVE -LOVE THAT NEVER ENDS even when ours for Him ends or fails. #Selah

Right now, He's asking you -
"WHERE ARE YOU, MY DAUGHTER?"

He is saying to you too,
"MY SON, GIVE ME YOUR HEART..."

Can you hear Him? Can you HEAR HIM CALLING YOU?
Please RETURN...
COME... (Don't hurt yourself)
JESUS LOVES YOU STILL -no matter what it is; and HIS PLANS FOR YOU HAVE NOT CHANGED (YET); IF YOU CAN JUST COME TO HIM, HE WILL HELP YOU and MAKE YOU WHOLE AGAIN; He's going to PICK YOU UP again, WASH YOU CLEAN and GIVE YOU A BRAND NEW FRESH START -TRUST GOD.

ALL IS WELL...
I love you. (y)
#GoodMorning :)

Do I have to Balance up any Payment?

2017-09-25T02:59:00.001-07:00

Help me solve this "puzzle" somebody... Lolz!
I have this question staring at me right now; please tell us what you think about it.
"Hello,
I went to get some things in a provision store. As I paid for the items I bought, there was a particular item that I bought for N1200 -that was the price the store attendant told me when I asked.
(But I remembered I used to buy in other stores at N1500.)
Well, I asked him anyway and he told me, N1200 so I paid.
A few days later, I needed to buy the same item again but this time around, I met the proprietress so I asked again and she said,
'It's N1500.'
Now this got me a little dazzled but I paid anyway but as I returned home, I kept thinking, 'What happened? A sudden change or the young fellow who attended to me the first time muddled up prices?'
My question is this -
Should I go back to balance up for the first or should I just let it go (thinking if actually there was a mix up the first time, it wasn't my fault!).
Thank you."

That's the "puzzle", people. =D
Kindly help me find my way outta the clumsy "maze". Lolz!!! =D =D

Thanks, have a pleasant week!
... JOY to your hearts. :) (y)

PRIDE

2017-09-22T19:41:00.001-07:00

Sometimes, YOU DON'T even KNOW PRIDE HAS SET IN... #Selah
It creeps in stealthily, unnoticed (sometimes)... maybe because of some achievements/successes, some "change" (money) you have, intelligence, position/status, beauty... name it.
People look at you, they see it... they perceive "that undertone" or hear it clearly in your conversations but you don't even realize it; you just keep on doing your thing. At times you call it confidence, self-esteem and all.
Some good friends or family members even make moves to tell us...
"My dear, I noticed...
Have you observed that...?"
Maybe they've told you but you always have your explanations/reasons, you turn deaf ears to warnings or (within you) you "tag" it all nonsense!
Hmmm...
Watch it -BEWARE!
You need to STOP NOW AND THINK because if you continued "this way"... A fall is crouching at your door...
"PRIDE GOES BEFORE A FALL". REMEMBER?
So STOP and THINK!
CONSTANT SELF-EXAMINATION is a KEY you can't afford to abandon.
AND don't forget, YOU NEED JESUS... :)
KEEP YOUR GAZE (EYES) ON JESUS ALWAYS (who is able to keep you from falling).
#BeHumble.
#WisdomCries #WordForSomebody

#GoodMorning :)
#HappyWeekend. (y)

EMBITTERED?

2017-09-22T17:43:00.001-07:00

There are SOME PERSON that...
You want to go on your knees and THANK GOD THEY CAME into your life while for SOME "funny" OTHERS, you would readily DISOWN THEM, never want to ever see them or talk to them again; some wish such persons just disappear from planet earth to hell even or if there could be a worse place; EXCEPT for some few real Christians or godly persons (not all...) who have learnt through the love of Christ to forgive and to let go.
Well, WHATEVER HAPPENS; no matter what "they" have done, you owe yourself (before anyone or your offender even)... YOU OWE YOURSELF THAT FAVOUR TO FORGIVE YOUR OFFENDERS, LET GO of the issue; you don't have to argue nor hold on to the BONE OF CONTENTION till you breath your last... Release it, release the hurt to Jesus; let him handle the pain for you and HAVE YOUR PEACE.
I bet YOU HAVE HAD ENOUGH ALREADY. Don't you think? Don't add to it; DON'T FUEL it any further till you bring up an "inferno" WITH YOUR OWN HANDS and STUBBORNNESS; could be highly DETRIMENTAL and really DEVASTATING, to EVEN YOU!
#Selah #WisdomCries #WordForSomebody

#GoodMorning! :)
LET IT GO. :) :)

DETERMINATION

2017-09-22T17:31:00.001-07:00

Now, "THIS ONE" 👇 is really DETERMINED to get...
erm...
Whatever it is. 😅
(Jokes apart)
YOU REALLY WANT TO WIN?
Then you've got to BE REALLY DETERMINED 😬 😬 💪 💪 💪 and don't GIVE UP so easily 🏃 🏃 🏃🏻 -DON'T BE LAZY either. 😉 😀
#WisdomSpeaks
#GoodMorning! #TGIF :)
Be INSPIRED; stay GREAT - WIN! 💪 😊 😇

2017-03-30T09:03:00.000-07:00

"FRED has a chronic drinking problem and desperately needs help but what happens when the hands say we are too pure to clean the Anus?..."

You will find out in this Life-Transforming movie:
THE STENCH

Written By: 'Nido Bisola Ajo
Produced By: THE MOUNT ZION INSTITUTE (MZI) 2013 OCP/ACP SET
Directed By: Gbenga Ayoola Olugbenga Smh
Screenplay: Sunday Adetoro

Contact me to get your copies.

#TheStench #Movies #MZI #ChristianMovies #JesusSaves #Salvation #Love #LoveGenuinely #InChristAlone

"Should I tell him I'm Pregnant?"

2017-03-15T16:18:00.001-07:00

Alright people.
Can we have your opinion on this?
So before they started, he had told her already, it's not about marriage so he wouldn't want her thinking anything along that line.
"But we can be friends, in fact, I want us to be very close friends or you name it lovers."
She had replied with a shyly smile, meaning approval.
So the journey started and they got closer and closer until...
Er... Erm...

They started "ere gele", "ere ipa" entered. Not once, not twice, not thrice, they lost count and they continued until "pregnancy entered" ("den den") =D =D =D
Now, you know what I mean.
Jokes apart -its a serious "mata".
Now, she's crying, confused and really scared.
Should she tell him?
How is he going to take or handle this? (Since he made his stand known already from the start, "no marrying", just friendship). Will he welcome and smile at the idea or just end the love affair right away?
But she doesn't want to lose him either... (*startled*)
Okay... let's go on.
In your opinion, people, what do you suggest or what do you think about this situation; about the lady, the young man too.
Please drop your comments.
Thanks.

... JOY to your hearts. :)

#HeartClinicWithNido #Love #Friendship #Relationship #Marriage

Shine!

2016-09-19T05:15:00.000-07:00

Have a great week! :)

... JOY to your hearts!

#HappyNewWeek #HeartClinicWithNido

DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO NOW!

2016-04-24T18:30:00.000-07:00

If you checked your clock (or watch) again, after the last time you checked, you would realize that the time has changed. And if yours has got the "second hand", look again, it doesn't even wait for your blink!

Lesson: DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO NOW.
You're blessed. Good morning, friends! smile emoticon like emoticon

‪#‎GoodMorning‬ ‪#‎HappyNewWeek‬ ‪#‎Clock‬ ‪#‎Time‬ ‪#‎Work‬‪#‎TheLordIsMyShepherd‬ ‪#‎IShallNotWant‬ ‪#‎InChristAlone‬

VALENTINE SPECIAL! Join us.

2016-02-11T03:41:00.002-08:00

Alright, people!
Let's do this together. ARE YOU READY???!!!
It's a special one happening LIVE!

"Is there (still) any such thing as GOD'S WILL?
(Does God still give wives/husbands to people?)"

Let's find out answers to these questions at this upcoming ONLINE DISCUSSION.
MAKE IT A DATE with us on HEART CLINIC WITH 'NIDO's (HCwN) VALENTINE SPECIAL.

Date: Sunday February 14 (Valentine's Day), 2016
Venue: Heart Clinic With 'Nido (HCWN) Group Wall (heartclinicwithnido@groups.facebook.com)
Time: 8.00p.m. (GMT + 1 Lagos)
Guest Speaker: Mrs Bowie
See you there! smile emoticon

... JOY to your heart!

‪#‎Valentine‬ ‪#‎ValentineSpecial‬ ‪#‎Feb14‬ ‪#‎OnlineDiscussion‬‪ #‎HeartClinicWithNido‬

BE HOPEFUL

2016-01-20T04:41:00.001-08:00

"HE makes WAYS where there is NO WAY."
Yes, He does.

*singing*
"By A ROADWAY IN THE WILDERNESS HE WILL LEAD ME;
RIVERS IN THE DESERT will I see..."
Hi there! :)

... JOY to your hearts!
smile emoticon

‪#‎Believe‬ ‪#‎HaveFaith‬ ‪#‎InChristAlone‬ ‪#‎TheLordIsMyShepherd‬‪ #‎IShallNotWant‬

"THIS IS MY DESIRE TO HONOUR YOU, LORD..."

2016-01-20T04:39:00.001-08:00

O MASTER, LET ME WALK WITH THEE
In lowly paths of service free;
Tell me Thy secret; help me bear
The strain of toil, the fret of care.

HELP ME the slow of heart to move
By some clear, winning word of love;
Teach me the wayward feet to stay,
And guide them in the homeward way.

TEACH ME Thy patience; still with Thee
In closer, dearer company;
In work that keeps faith sweet and strong,
In trust that triumphs over wrong.

IN HOPE that sends a shinning ray
Far down the future's broadening way;
IN PEACE that only Thou canst give,
WITH THEE, O MASTER, LET ME LIVE.

O MASTER, LET ME WALK WITH THEE
IN LOWLY PATHS OF SERVICE FREE;
TELL ME THY SECRET; HELP ME BEAR
THE STRAIN OF TOIL, THE FRET OF CARE.

‪#‎Amen‬

‪#‎TheLordIsMyShepherd‬ ‪#‎InChristAlone‬

EVER BEEN IN A FIX?

2016-01-14T06:56:00.001-08:00

Have you EVER BEEN IN A FIX?
When the world seems to be collapsing and it feels like you're the only one underneath? Just imagine that as you read this post.
I've watched movies (and I'm sure you've also seen such movies), heard stories and seen so many become despaired of life to the extent that some prefer to commit suicide even instead of having to face shame, hardship, punishment or some other kind of unpleasant situations. If you're a Yoruba speaking person, you would have heard this common statement, "Iku ya ju esin lo." (Meaning better or faster to die than to suffer shame.) I bet that's not new to you. But I keep wondering if the statement is true...
Now, the question came knocking in "BOLD

LETTERS"... smile emoticon The reason I seek to know your opinion on this issue.
Okay, let's put it this way -
GOD FORBID...
But if you had to choose between shame and death, what would you rather choose?
SHAME/HARDSHIP or DEATH?
Or what would be your suggestion to a person in such a dilemma? Tell us your option and please, SHARE YOUR REASONS with us. Why would you suggest SHAME or DEATH on the other hand? Your (honest) reasons are very important, please. Thanks to you all, friends.
... JOY to your hearts. smile emoticon

‪#‎Shame‬ ‪#‎Hardship‬ ‪#‎Death‬ ‪#‎Suicide‬ ‪#‎Fix‬ ‪#‎Dilemma‬ ‪#‎Decision‬ ‪#‎Choice‬‪#‎HeartClinicWithNido‬

THERE IS HOPE FOR YOU.

2016-01-14T06:52:00.004-08:00

When some persons look at you and they LAUGH AT YOU...
YOU, look at yourself again and THANK GOD; SING PRAISES to God who is interested in bringing out the best in you, not to make a mockery of you. HE HAS DETERMINED YOUR END FROM THE BEGINNING, long BEFORE YOU WERE CREATED. He calls it a GOOD PLAN!
so ‪#‎RELAX‬... Relax, there is HOPE FOR YOU. Cheers smile emoticon

‪#‎Hope‬ ‪#‎ThereIsHopeForYou‬ ‪#‎InChristAlone‬ ‪#‎TheLordIsMyShepherd‬

Send a NEW YEAR Shout Out... in your NATIVE LANGUAGE

2016-01-14T06:47:00.000-08:00

Hello people! smile emoticon

Happy New Year to you once again. I thought we could have some fun in the Clinic this season... smile emoticon but trust me, this kind of fun might automatically put some persons on a hot seat! Yeah, I perceive that some might have to come in with "EXPO", some will have to "phone a friend" (if not an uncle, aunt, grandfather or great grandmom in the village =D), some might need to "ask the audience" or simply walk away. grin emoticon
This is the plan: Send a NEW YEAR shout out, wish, prayer, a piece of advice/charge, etc in your NATIVE LANGUAGE to your friends, family, your tribe. 2 or 3 sentences will do.
I'll set the ball rolling smile emoticon

"MI KU THO

OWHE YOYO LOO, EME TO LE! OWHE NA YIN 'WHESI NA MI LOO; GBIGBO MITON NA GO BAYI OWHE SUSU. NISE. smile emoticon
That's EGUN (ESETO) language, Badagry Town; meaning,
"Happy New Year, people! May the year favour us and may we celebrate many more years. Amen"

See?! It's simple! grin emoticon
(Kudos to my parents, they worked really hard... grin emoticon )

Now, it's your turn! grin emoticon Kindly drop your shout out in the comment box below. Let's see how well you can speak your NATIVE LANGUAGE/DIALECT. Can you? wink emoticon Don't forget to translate and to mention what language it is.
NB: No spying, no copying, no cheating of any kind! LolZZZ!!!!!

...JOY to your hearts!

‪#‎HappyNewYear‬ ‪#‎Dialect‬ ‪#‎NativeLanguage‬ ‪#‎MotherTongue‬ ‪#‎ShoutOut‬‪#‎HeartClinicWithNido‬

Happy New Year 2016

2016-01-14T06:40:00.002-08:00

*singing*
"The thing wey You dey do:
Dey sweet for "belle",
Like sugar and honey,
Make me dey wonder e...
HALLELUJAH; HOSSANA e!"

Wow! Happy New Year, my beloved friends and family!
I must say it feels so interesting, so great to know that you're one among the favoured souls that God's Divine Power has preserved to witness another New Year, 2016! I bless God that you can see this (post) too! smile emoticon
GOD BE PRAISED!
2015 was a year of wonders for me -GOD SHOWED HIMSELF STRONG and FAITHFUL in ways that I cannot number. And I trust God that you had your fill of His greatness too! grin emoticon
Now, I pray that IN THE NAME OF JESUS, 2016 will

indeed be far better than 2015 for you (us) and that starting from the beginning of this new year to the very end, even beyond, JEHOVAH, ALPHA and OMEGA of all things will MAKE YOU LAUGH. You know, SARAH COULDN'T HOLD BACK HER LAUGHTER WHEN GOD VISITED HER... YOU WILL INDEED LAUGH and EVERYONE WHO HEARS YOUR STORY (TESTIMONY) WILL LAUGH WITH YOU and GLORIFY GOD FOR YOUR SAKE.

From my heart, I wish you a VERY HAPPY, PEACEFUL, PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR and every GREAT PURPOSE OF GOD FOR YOU. smile emoticon
*singing*
"I GO LAUGH O, I GO LAUGH...!" grin emoticon
Yes, WE WILL LAUGH, IN JESUS NAME. ‪#‎Amen‬
Just BELIEVE IT and LAUGH! I love you and I APPRECIATE YOU! smile emoticon

... JOY to your hearts! like emoticon

‪#‎HappyNewYear‬ #2016 ‪#‎Hallelujah‬ ‪#‎JesusIsLord‬‪#‎TheLordIsMyShepherd‬ ‪#‎IShallNotWant‬ ‪#‎InChristAlone‬

Happy Independence, Nigeria!

2015-10-01T04:49:00.000-07:00

To MY COUNTRY, NIGERIA...

To my brothers and sisters home and abroad...
TO ME, I declare by the mercies of God -

IT'S GONNA BE WELL smile emoticon

GOD BLESS OUR COUNTRY, NIGERIA.
GOD BLESS US ALL!
Happy Celebrations and...
... JOY and PEACE to OUR hearts! like emoticon

‪#‎Independence‬ ‪#‎Independence2015‬

POST-HEALTH WEEK (QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS) 2

2015-09-30T02:22:00.000-07:00

Here are responses to questions under the topic HOUSEKEEPING, which was taken by Gbubemi Nnaji -

Housekeeping

ANSWERS
Q1
Let’s take for instance, a woman always has so much to do in the house –we all know how it goes, coupled with the fact that she would “kill” herself one day if she continues to do it alone, that’s why you will agree that she needs some help from other household members, as you also mentioned. But what if her kids are still very young and the man is the type who does not lift a pin in the house? Considering that she still has to take care of her kids, her husband, her personal career and all other things, here are my questions: (a) How does she cope with it all? (b) Can she ever get the man to assist her, to do anything in the house? If yes, how can she go about it? If no, what is the way out? (c) What’s your take on employing house helps, especially with the recent stories of kidnapping, evils house helps do in the homes and all, do you think it’s really wise to employ the service of house helps in this age?

A. With the grace of God, you can do all things. None can possibly finish all that there is to do. Just plan a to-do list, arranging the most important task first. Don't panic or feel guilty if all that's on your list is not done.
B. Yes, if you help him do stuffs he needs to do once in a while like if he's usually the one ironing his clothes, help him once in a while, washing his car, giving him a good meal, taking him out for dinner, giving him good bed work (if you know what I mean), and stuffs like that.. Men could be big babies at times. Just be patient with them. If you don't see result don't quit easily after all, he's your husband. Prayers and patience has never failed also.
C. Now, I've never been a fan of house helps and I will never be. I don't support it at all. I may be hard on this issue but it's what I STRONGLY believe in. To me, it's like saying 'God this responsibility You've given me, I don't like it. So I'm giving part of it to someone else'. If you ask me I would say my children are too precious to me to leave with someone else (even if it's my younger sister /brother) each day while I go out to work. How much is the money you want to earn that is worth more than your children's life. I don't know o! But while I was growing I had this idea of working from home because I wanted to be there to kiss my hubby and children bye as they go to work and school each day and be there to kiss them welcome when they come back. I want to be there when they need me most after all, that's what families are for. A house help can't take your place. Yeah you may say 'she has trust issues' I'll say who trust a stranger completely?

Q2 My question is on the issue of family members, in-laws, friends or guests coming to visit, should they also be involved in house chores or the woman has to do it all, as it is held in some cultures? If yes, how can one get them involved?

Of course, they should do house chores. Just simply smile and say 'can you please help with... Thank you' and if they don't help out, they can as well leave the house after all, it's your house. If the husband is not around, the next in command in the home is the wife and this should be made clear by hubby to his people and wife to her people. Where there's no rule, things get messed up.

Q3
Please, I’ll like to confirm something here, is it only in my house and a few families that the man is always either watching the tv set, reading a newspaper, magazine, on the computer, chatting, on calls or doing some other funny things whenever the woman is busy with domestics? Please, is it the same all over; I mean, is it a common trait in men generally or is it only peculiar

to mine and others that I have seen?

It is in almost every home. But I usually call out to my hubby if I need help. Of course, it should be said nicely. Like when I need to cook and my baby needs to be fed, I say 'sweetheart, please can you help me feed her so that I can prepare meal?' If he can't, meal will be late na. But you have to ask for help if you need some assistance in doing house chores

Q4
Why I don’t like to touch those things is that women can be very funny, do it now and it becomes your core responsibility, they will expect you too keep doing it and the day you don’t do it, it’s wahala, big one. I think the best way to prevent such thing from happening is to keep off, let her know it’s her work and keep off. I don’t know what you have to say on that but I believe that’s the way many of us reason as men and that is why we usually stay away from the chores.

That's a very flimsy excuse to give if you ask me. It's not true at all. That you feel that way does not make it true. It's only when you do all and EVERYTHING for them and don't even allow them do what they're supposed to do that this theory of yours can be true but not when you're just giving helping hand. I can confidently say that most women would be happy that their husbands help out in house chores and a happy wife is a happy and peaceful home. My husband helps in bathing our baby, ironing our dresses and it doesn't make me disrespect him one bit. Instead I respect him for being responsible. How I feel happy he helps out. it just makes me want to spoil him with love ‪#‎Lol‬. So guy, no dey give that kind excuse again o! If you're not lazy, help out abi na taboo?

Q5
For me, my husband doesn’t allow me to involve our children in house tasks. Way out, please.

Some people do that because they feel they shouldn't rub their poverty on their kids. They don't want their children to suffer the pains of poverty they themselves passed through while growing up. But they don't realize that they are doing more harm than good to the children. I think you'll have to sit your husband down (when he's in good mood especially after a surprise delicious meal) and tell the implications of not allowing the kids to work That they'll if they don't do house chores, when they go out (especially to school) how would they cope when they don't have the basic skills to help them out That the best time to learn discipline and responsible in life is when they're still young and the best way is through house chores Just make him see reasons in a loving way and don't forget to back it up with prayers.

Q6
I know some mothers who don’t involve their girls or boys in house chores, they like to do it alone. Is that really correct? Does it help the children? What about her?

It's not right at all. Many do so because they feel they'll make their children suffer for not being wealthy. It's greatly going to affect the child because when they grow up, they'll find it difficult to do basic home activities. These are people who will get married tomorrow. How would they take care of their house? How do they ever learn it if they're not taught? They become liabilities even to themselves and their parents.

Q7
I know a woman who gives even her pants to maids to wash. On the other hand, another woman gives out her husband’s pants to maids or her/his younger ones to wash. What’s your take on this?

I'm sorry but I see those kind of people as lazy and wicked. It's not right at all. The woman should have decency and shouldn't be careless about things she uses for her 'privates'. Some don't see it as anything but it's because they've never really sat down to ask themselves if they could also wash a stranger's panties. What you can't do for others, don't do to others

Q8
Is it right to allow your mother-in-law or father-in-law join in house responsibilities when they come visiting?

I would say no but if they're persistent on helping, why not? I would allow them
The truth of the matter is, you can't actually and completely do all that there is to do most especially when you have little children (even a child). It would seem as if you've done nothing even after just cleaning up. They scatter after you. When it comes to cleaning the house, I like to rest during the day, take my time do most important things first leaving the cleaning of the house till after everyone is asleep. But if you have grown children that can help out, try draw up a timetable of duties to share amongst them. But it's always important to draw up a to-do list first thing each day, putting the most important tasks first and strictly following it.

Q9
Mine is, I’ve been trying but I just can’t get it altogether. Everywhere is just scattered. May be I don’t just know how to do it. I don’t even know where to start from. Advice, please.

The truth of the matter is, you can't actually and completely do all that there is to do most especially when you have little children (even a child). It would seem as if you've done nothing even after just cleaning up. They scatter after you. When it comes to cleaning the house, I like to rest during the day, take my time do most important things first leaving the cleaning of the house till after everyone is asleep. But if you have grown children that can help out, try draw up a timetable of duties to share amongst them. But it's always important to draw up a to-do list first thing each day, putting the most important tasks first and strictly following it Of course, not forgetting to ask God to order your steps too as your day begins

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