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Women in India - crimes and safety measures

noreply@blogger.com (Mohan) — Wed, 04 Sep 2013 13:39:00 +0000

Rape In Inida

When someone raised question about women safety in India yes the question is unanswered. Nobody cares not a single good safety measures have taken by our government. Even if they taken not implemented and followed well and it never reaches the public nobody gets the punishment and bribe plays a huge role in it.

Women is a beautiful creature by nature without women we are nothing. We praise women in public protest against rapist, abusers and other criminals but when its come to our family members we criticise them for small reasons as a men we always trying to keep them one step below to us. This is totally a bad character and this is one of the main reasons why women feel so week and its continuing generation to generation.

Rape In India

Rape is one of the most common crime against women in India. Over 24,000 rape cases are pending in India and many unnoticed. How can we stop this? the answer is we cant stop this but we can protect ourselves. Lets see some of the Major Noticeable Rape Incidents in India.

Kunan Poshpora Incident

The Kunan Poshpora Incident occurred on 23rd Feb 1991 in Kashmir. Atleast 53 women were gang raped by Indian Army that night. Human Rights organization reported that the number of cases could be as high as 100 and they registered a case against them but our government rejected the allegation as baseless.

People protesting for justices

Delhi Gang Rape Incident

This is a well known incident. The Delhi Gang rape incident was occurred on 16 Dec 2012. The Victim a 23 year old girl and her male friend were on their way home on the night of 16 December 2012 after watching the film they boarded a bus and only 6 others are their in the bus including driver. The girl's friend beaten by those people and they raped her, she was serious injured and died. Police arrested all the six criminals.

Criminals Arrested by Police

Gurgaon: Two men gangrape 23-year-old girl in a moving car

Two men allegedly gangraped a 23-year-old girl in a moving car in Sohna near Gurgaon. According to the victim, she came with her friend Devendra in his SUV from Delhi to Gurgaon for shopping. A friend of Devendra was also in the car, she said. She added that they went to Sahara mall for shopping. After the shopping Devendra reportedly told the girl that his sister lives in Sohna and he needs to visit her to hand over her ATM card. The girl alleged that as she knew Devendra so she trusted him and even though it was getting dark, she went with her to Sohna.

The police have arrested one of the accused named by the victim while the others are still absconding.

However, on the way they stopped the car in a secluded place and gangraped her. Later, they threw the girl and fled from the spot. The girl some how managed to reached her home on Tuesday and informed her family and the police. After her medical report confirmed rape, police registered a case against both the accused and arrested Devendra. But his accomplice is absconding and police teams are carrying out raids to apprehend him.

Source: IBNlLIVE

The above cases are just a trail, there is n number of cases never came out. Still Indian government making arrangements to stop rapes but never taken any strict action. Government taking steps at one side, we protesting at other side in social networks and in streets but criminals committing rapes without any problem.

Women trafficking in India

Women and girls are trafficked in India for the purposes of commercial sexual exploitation and forced marriage especially in those areas where the sex ratio is highly skewed in favour of men. A significant portion of children are subjected to forced labour as factory workers, domestic servants, beggars, and agriculture workers, and have been used as armed combatants by some terrorist and insurgent groups. We wont pay much attention to these kind of incidents because already raping incidents are rocking the India loudly.

Safety Measures for Women

1) What should a woman do if she finds herself alone in the company of a strange male as she prepares to enter a lift in a high-rise apartment late at night?

Experts Say: Enter the lift. If you need to reach the 13th floor, press all the buttons up to your destination. No one will dare attack you in a lift that stops on every floor.

2) What to do if a stranger tries to attack you when you are alone in your house, run into the kitchen.

Experts Say: You alone know where the chili powder and turmeric are kept.And where the knives and plates are. All these can be turned into deadly weapons. If nothing else, start throwing plates and utensils all over.

Let them break. Scream. Remember that noise is the greatest enemy of a molester. He does not want to be caught.

3} Taking an Auto or Taxi at Night.

Experts Say: Before getting into an auto at night, note down its registration number. Then use the mobile to call your family or friend and pass on the details to them in the language the driver understands .Even if no one answers your call, pretend you are in a conversation. The driver now knows someone has his details and he will be in serious trouble if anything goes wrong. He is now bound to take you home safe and sound. A potential attacker is now your de facto protector!

4}What if the driver turns into a street he is not supposed to – and you feel you are entering a danger zone?

Experts Say: Use the handle of your purse or your stole (dupatta) to wrap around his neck and pull him back. Within seconds, he will feel choked and helpless. In case you don’t have a purse or stole just pull him back by his collar. The top button of his shirt would then do the same trick.

5} If you are stalked at night.

Expert Say: enter a shop or a house and explain your predicament. If it is night and shops are not open, go inside an ATM box. ATM centers always have security guards. They are also monitored by close circuit television.

Fearing identification, no one will dare attack you.

After all, being mentally alert is the greatest weapon you can ever have.

Child Sex Abuse

Stop Child Sex Abuse

Above you have read about rape against women but there are many cases that children under 10 years old sexually abused or molested or raped by people in India. A study suggests that these incidents are mostly committed by well wishers, neighbours and our own relatives. At least two children a day become victims of sexual harassment in India. How we can teach our children about good and bad touch. Lets see now

Teaching Difference between Good/Bad touches to our children

There are three things you can teach your children before you begin to teach them specific touching safety rules.

1. Teach children the correct names of all their different body parts, including their private body parts.

2. Teach children that "You are the boss of your body.": no one can touch you without your permission and you can refuse if you don't like being touched by some one .

3. Explain to your child that there are three kinds of touches.

Safe touches.

Unsafe touches. for example, hitting, pushing, pinching, and kicking). Teach children that these kinds of touches are not okay.

Unwanted touches.

Touching Safety Rules

Once children can name their private body parts and know about different kinds of touches, you can teach them that there is another kind of unsafe touch that is also not okay. This kind of touch is when someone older or bigger touches their private body parts. How you explain this will depend on the age of your child.(tell only parents or doctor can touch to keep them clean and healthy )

Teach your children the following safety rules:

• It is not okay to touch someone else's private body parts.

• It is not okay for someone to touch his or her own private body parts in front of you.

• It is not okay for someone to ask you to touch his or her private body parts.

• It is not okay for someone to ask you to take your clothes off or to take photos or videos of you with your clothes off.

• It is not okay for someone to show you photos or videos of people without their clothes on.

If someone touches you inappropriately, tell them to inform parents what has happened. Don't let threats scare them into running away or keeping quiet.

Coming to your query

What a bad touch is?

• It is a bad touch if it hurts child.

• It is a bad touch if someone touches child on his/her body where they don't want to be touched.

• It is a bad touch if a person touches them in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable.

• It is a bad touch if that touch makes them feel scared and nervous.

If it is male kid (10-11) you wont have much issue .For female kids if you are sure that you don't have any bad feelings act normal and don't let this feeling over shadow you r act. but keep in mind above points.

We have seen some safety measures for both women and children but as a human what we can do. Lets see below

1) If you saw someone misbehaving to a girl or children question them with the help of other public immediately call police and make sure is that person well known to the victim or not, speak with the victim and try to inform to the victim's parents immediately.

2) If you saw someone capturing photos/videos of a girl/children without her knowledge immediately inform them, call police and punish them.

3) If you saw child under 14 working in hotels, shops or somewhere. Call that child and enquire what he is doing their? where their parents living? does he going to school? and immediately speak with he shop or hotel owner and hand over the child to the police they will take care reach his/her parents

Some Helpline Numbers for Women

Police control Room-100

Women Helpline Number-1091

♥ Jai Hind ♥

Note:

1. Sorry for mistakes i made am new to writing articles, i try to fix mistakes in future posts.

2. Please feel free to comment and give your suggestions

3. If you know any Safety Measures and phone numbers for women safety please mention in the comment box immediately i try to update it in the post.

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How to Undo Sent mail in Gmail

noreply@blogger.com (Mohan) — Sun, 01 Sep 2013 10:26:00 +0000

Gmail

Sending mail became our Routine process in our daily life. When we think about sending mail First Gmail strikes our mind. Almost every internet user have Gmail Account, Most of us have more than one Gmail account.

We use to send mail everyday and sometimes we will realize our mistake after pressing send button.

Common Mistake we Do

Pressing the send button wrongly
Typing the wrong email address
Forgot attaching the file
Attaching wrong files
Forgot to check before sending and so on......

So Gmail Introduced a New Feature to undo sent or sending mails, below we will see step by step process to enable this.

Steps

1. GOTO to Gmail

Click Gmail

2. Now Click on Gear Button in top right Corner of the screen and Select Settings

Click on Gear Button

Click on Settings button

3. Now in the Settings page Click on Labs Tab after that you can see below window now just enable Undo Send.

Click On Lab Button after that use can see above window

Note: if you cant find Undo Send just Scroll down otherwise type undo send in above search box.

That's it Undo Feature is enabled in your gmail account now u can undo or cancel the mail u sent

see the pictures below Before and after enabling

Before Enabling

After Enabling

You can See above messages while sending a mail after Enabling Undo Feature in Gmail.

Varying Send Cancellation Period

Send Cancellation Period is nothing but a Time Delay (Default 10sec) to Undo a Sent mail After message has been sent that is you have 10 seconds to undo the mail after it has been sent. You can also set the time delay period manually just look at the picture below.

After Enabling Undo Sent mail feature in Labs Tab now press General Tab. Now you can see enabled undo send feature in that window below that you can see send cancellation period now set it from 5sec to 30sec as per your wish.

Thats it now you don't need to worry about the mail you sent wrongly, you have 30sec (maximum) to undo it.

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(UN) Happy Independence Day (India)

noreply@blogger.com (Mohan) — Thu, 15 Aug 2013 13:45:00 +0000

Happy Independence Day

Hello Friends, This is my first post and it took 4 to 5 days to publish my first post because i didnt got the right topic to post. Today is Independence day and i got the topic too, here i start my first post.(please leave your comments)

Today Is Independence Day In our country everybody celebrating, on this day exactly 66 years ago that is Aug 15th 1947 British people gave our mother land to our hands crackers blowing all over India everybody wishing each other.

Quotes about !ncredible India:

We owe a lot to the Indians, who taught us how to count, without which no worthwhile scientific discovery could have been made. - Albert Einstein

"If I were asked under what sky the human mind has most fully developed some of its choicest gifts, has most deeply pondered on the greatest problems of life, and has found solutions, I should point to India." - Max Mueller

“In religion, India is the only millionaire - the one land that all men desire to see, and having seen once, by even a glimpse, would not give that glimpse for all the shows of all the rest of the globe combined.” - Mark Twain quotes

“India - the land of Vedas, the remarkable works contain not only religious ideas for a perfect life, but also facts which science has proved true. Electricity, radium, electronics, airship, all was known to the seers who founded the Vedas.” -Wheeler Wilcox (American poet)

“India is the cradle of the human race, the birthplace of human speech, the mother of history, the grandmother of legend and the great grand mother of tradition.” - Mark Twain.

"India has two million gods, and worships them all. In religion all other countries are paupers; India is the only millionaire." - Mark Twain

“If there is one place on the face of earth where all dreams of living men have found a home from the very earliest days when man began the dream of existence, it is India.” - French scholar Romain Rolland.

India conquered and dominated China culturally for 20 centuries without ever having to send a single soldier across her border. - Hu Shih (Former Chinese ambassador to USA)

How can one be compelled to accept slavery? I simply refuse to do the master's bidding. He may torture me, break my bones to atoms and even kill me. He will then have my dead body, not my obedience. Ultimately, therefore, it is I who am the victor and not he, for he has failed in getting me to do what he wanted done.- Mahatma Gandhi
Even if I died in the service of the nation, I would be proud of it. Every drop of my blood… will contribute to the growth of this nation and to make it strong and dynamic.- Indira Gandhi

For some days, people thought that India was shaking. But there are always tremors when a great tree falls.- Rajiv Gandhi

She (India) has left indelible imprints on one fourth of the human race in the course of a long succession of centuries. She has the right to reclaim her place amongst the great nations summarizing and symbolizing the spirit of humanity. From Persia to the Chinese sea, from the icy regions of Siberia to Islands of Java and Borneo, India has propagated her beliefs, her tales, and her civilization!" - Sylvia Levi

Hope you enjoyed reading quotes lets speak about true(Grey) face of India, at one end people are enjoying the Independence day in many ways some with going temples, some with friends and family and very few celebrating with poor people and needy. India has another face people who dont know the true meaning of freedom and independence they never felt, for them independence and happiness means getting food at least once a day, getting new cloths once a year and living in a house is their life time dream.

When am doing my schoolings, college my teachers use to ask about my ambition and i use to tell hardware engineering, scientist etc etc but later realized that world having enough engineers and scientist but not the true leaders and social activist later Started to notice the poor people everywhere, beggars in every streets in India people who are not getting food even once a day people who are not having shelters to live.

Our leaders taking steps to fix problems in India for nearly 66 years even though everyday people dying because of lack of food and other simple reasons. Look at the picture Below It tells you the whole story.

India is definitely not a poor country its just people who are leading our country getting richer and richer that's it. What we can do for it, you just obey the rules, pay taxes, dont sell your votes, stop giving and getting bribes and you dont need to live for others just dont cheat others do your duties right. Teach your children about society about people about unity about true happiness of helping needy, not about earning money not about becoming a famous celebrity not about being a "bad" Politician.

Rape In India

Rape In India is one of the most common incident. We people protest we do these that and everything in facebook, social media and very few in streets but nothing happens, rapist roam freely in streets court punish them after they died, there are millions and millions of rape cases pending in our country's court. We are the reason for this.

How to stop this, there is only one way to stop this by taking immediate action and implementing strong punishment immediately but this is not going to happen. Protesters are going to protest and rapist are going to rape without any fear.

But we are all celebrating Independence day, India haven't got Independence from bad politicians and other irresponsible society. There is the only one way to save our nation that is new young people stepping into politics i know this is not easy but we can do it one day or other definitely we can do it............

Young India

Hope you all like my article, forgive me for the mistake i made in this article, this is my first article and i will correct my mistakes in future articles, please follow me in Facebook, Twitter & this blog and dont forget to leave valuable Comments.....

♥ Jai Hind ♥