There are so many orphaned babies out there, why on earth would you want to make your own; going through the painful 9 month process, when you can adopt a baby and save a life at the same time - another baby is also a human life - and spiritually speaking, we are all related and connected; so an excuse such as “oh its not really our baby” is pathetic!

Waste of energy..

When you have sex, you use up so much life force during an orgasm, without the guarantee of the pregnancy test coming out positive; this energy drainage is a total waste (with some exceptions) and could have been put to better use to help evolve you as a human being!

Adopting a baby is a win-win situation..

If you adopt a baby, you create a new beautiful life for someone who might not have had this - on top of that, the future is brighter than ever - if you can’t see the reasons why (for a brighter future) without being spoon fed the reasons, then you have no business even thinking of having children in the first place!

Disclaimer: This article is intended to open your mind, so yes, it may hurt or feel very uncomfortable - hence the reason I have to moderate my comments (so many hate comments). But its purpose is to develop more “channels” of thinking, rather than dictate what SHOULD be done and what SHOULDN’T - So please, take my articles with a little humour, a cup of tea, see why I could be wrong, see why I could be right - and realize there is no right or wrong.

I am NOT a Christian - because I don’t believe any religion is superior to another

I am NOT a Sikh - because I don’t believe to differentiate people by their cast or race

I am NOT a Hindu - because I don’t believe to lower people because of what they eat

I am NOT a Jew - because I don’t believe to invade other people’s homes

I am NOT an Atheist - because I don’t believe you can always see truth with physical evidence

Do you not see how social conditioning is affecting your every moment in life?Preventing you to see how everything really is..

Forget the labels that divide you.. NONE of the prophets/Guru’s/Scientists from ANY “Religion” labelled their messages as “Religion” or gave their teachings a certain name (other than to identify it) with the intention to divide humanity…

I AM a Muslim - Because I believe all life is precious; because I believe in the teachings of the prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) saying “There are as many ways to God, as there are souls created”. Because I believe in the seven heavens as mentioned in the Quran.

I AM a Christian - Because I believe in Jesus and his teachings of non-judgement and to share with others out of love for them. Because I believe in the seven congregations as mentioned in the Bible.

I AM a Sikh - Because I believe in Guru Nanak and his teachings of “Realization of truth is higher than all else. Higher still is truthful living”. Because I believe in equality of all human beings and the energy gates (Chakra’s). Because I believe in giving charity and protecting all living things great and small.

I AM a Hindu - Because I believe that everyone has its own unique path to travel towards infinite truth. Because I believe in the many names of god. Because I believe in the spiritual teachings of Yoga for the mind body and spirit. Because I believe in the 7 Chakra’s.

I AM a Jew - Because I believe in the prophet Moses and his teachings as well as the holy book Torah. Because I believe in the oneness of God. Because I believe the importance of forgiveness as a means of remembering God. Because I believe in esoteric teachings of the Kabbalah.

I AM an Atheist - Because I believe in seeking knowledge and understanding and do not want to accept statements without understanding. Because I intend to see infinite truth.

Before you attempt to assassinate me, please note: This post is intended for people wanting to open their minds - NOT an attempt for hurting or attacking ANY of my fellow human beings =)

Tip 1: Don‘t Judge!

How many times have you referred to your goals as “dreams” or even “miracles”? This is the problem with judging - as soon as you put judgement onto your objectives, it becomes just that - so if you say “it would be a miracle if I lost all that weight and had six pack abs” - then yes, it would be a miracle!

Another example: people wanting to reach financial freedom - when they see a $1000 watch, their first reaction is”Oh my god, that is too expensive, I can never afford that!” - your judgement on money is what is stopping you from reaching your financial goals - the next time you see a $3000 purse or a $10 million house - just let it be - don’t let your mind chatter judge. This takes practice to develop - so go out to your local shopping center and start non-judgement.

Tip 2: Do you really want it? How bad?

Many people have goals they would like to have, but don’t really have enough reasons supporting that goal - so the driving force for reaching that goal is never there! The passion required to pursue that goal is non-existent.

What’s worse, I have seen people make up reasons for NOT pursuing their goals! People saying “I don’t have the time, too busy with work/family” - Why would you not have the time, to pursue something you want in your life? If your busy in the day, then stay up all night - how hungry are you for reaching your goal?

Tony Robbins (Motivational Speaker) says if a person has enough reasons to do something, they will do it no matter what it takes. So, get a plain piece of paper and write one of your goals as the title of the page; then fill the page up with the reasons why you want to reach that goal, don’t stop, keep going until at least the whole page is filled with reasons - writing it down takes this to another dimension, so don’t think of the reasons, write them down!

Tip 3: Feel, Smell, Taste, Listen and SEE your GOALS!

Can you feel, smell, taste, listen and see your goals as if they already have happened?

Sometimes people are unconsciously visualizing the exact opposite of their goals. For example, someone with a goal of a healthy beautiful body keeps looking in the mirror at their overweight body and feeling bad about it - Is this what someone with a healthy body feels like? Of course not!

To reach your goals you have to visualize them to already be true - Using the term “visualize” is not accurate; its more accurate to say feel your goals; the secret to this is practice with the aim of feeling your goals as if you already own them - keyword here is OWN.

When you are about to buy a brand new car - you feel excited and have a “rush” on taking it out for a drive - this is NOT owning.

When you already bought the car, and a few years have passed - you are no longer excited about it - this is when you OWN the car. This is what you are aiming to do when you think of your goals and feel them to be already manifested.

At first, feeling your goals may prove to be challenging - this is why you have tools such as self-hypnosis to accelerate your mind power and focus - the better you can truly feel your goals as already manifested, the faster they will happen; this hypnosis program called “Super Mind” is highly recommended to help you reach a sharp focus - this is the only program offered of its kind, and comes with brain entrainment technology which is used to naturally bring your brain waves to a state of high focus (like that of deep meditation).

I also recommend meditation - the practice of non-thinking; starting from 3-5 minutes a day and building up to 30-100 minutes a day. This increases your mental focus permanently (if practised regularly).