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thanq very very much for ur insights its heart tou...

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 18:22:00 +0000

thanq very very much for ur insights its heart touching trues

One prospective,You may be living more then 3 live...

noreply@blogger.com (Ranjan) — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 11:13:00 +0000

One prospective,
You may be living more then 3 lives, let me split your family life, a son , a father, a husband, a brother etc etc.

In a 24 Hours day , you execute many tasks based on your role , you may start teaching part time to kids that doesnot mean one more life is added in you. We may say one more role or skill is now part of your life.

Confused...aren't you?Reality exists, that you per...

noreply@blogger.com (Benoit) — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 06:09:00 +0000

Confused...aren't you?
Reality exists, that you perceive it or not.
When you know that something is,and it is, or when you know that something is not, and it is not, then you know the truth.

Aristotle could have told you that.

Hi there,I agree what you been wrote. it truth.

noreply@blogger.com (wiseman1stopcentre) — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 13:12:00 +0000

Hi there,
I agree what you been wrote. it truth.

Hi there,I'm new, but basically from the topic...w...

noreply@blogger.com (wiseman1stopcentre) — Sun, 04 Jan 2009 13:02:00 +0000

Hi there,
I'm new, but basically from the topic...what can i say that stress can be control. Mean that we put " Happiness in our daily routine. Be positive, and always "be Thankfully", "Forgiveness" and least not last "Gratitude".
Bye.

I agree with you fully on this. Just trying to sav...

noreply@blogger.com (Praveer) — Sat, 27 Dec 2008 08:47:00 +0000

I agree with you fully on this.

Just trying to save ourselves from that one incident where some one close would do something because of which we might feel cheated (note that I didn't say some one close cheating us) cost us those very things in life that we derived pleasure from.

Remember those childhood or college friends - you didn't have to think about their intentions.

What happens as we grow up - "i won't call him, he doesn't call me so often", "every time, it's me who's taking the initiative" etc. etc.

These things suck up what we most cherish, carefree moments with loved ones. The moment you start worrying about getting cheated, you stop being carefree.

It is a choice one makes.

It is a decision which is full of disguise, because usually, such decisions come after an incident that left you feeling cheated, and therefore, you want to be "wiser". But you threw out being carefree.

Now I am not asking anyone to be more foolish than they already are [ :-) ]. All I am saying is, that in not worrying about getting cheated all the time, we allow ourselves and people around us a grace that is rare in this frantic life.

In fact, we all complain that our friend who was so cool has now "changed", little realizing that most of us are somewhere in that "change" process, trying so hard to get "wiser".

The ability to overlook trifles is but important if you want to be able to feel other people's love.

That was the design we've seen when we were kids. We could get over fights quickly. And that is going to be the design going forward.

happy holidays!

noreply@blogger.com (Sophiagurl) — Sat, 20 Dec 2008 08:38:00 +0000

happy holidays!

Hmmmm. Interesting. Some food for thought this.I t...

noreply@blogger.com (Aruna) — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 11:05:00 +0000

Hmmmm. Interesting. Some food for thought this.

I think this quote pretty much sums up what I want to say.

"Just as your car runs more smoothly and requires less energy to go faster and farther when the wheels are in perfect alignment, you perform better when your thoughts, feelings, emotions, goals, and values are in balance"

Must add that its a tough job bringing in the "balance" though - be it towards anything.

Absolutely. IMHO,I believe there should be a fair ...

noreply@blogger.com (Aruna) — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 10:53:00 +0000

Absolutely. IMHO,I believe there should be a fair amount of agreements as well as disagreements in any healthy relationship.

Even if there are disagreements with regards to view, opinions, ideas, etc, It would probably be for the best if people agree to disagree.

This,for me, would be a clear sign of respect one shows towards the relation as well as the person/people involved and that one is open enough to accept that there can be myriad perspectives to a issue.

:)

Amazing!! I really love your posts. They give anot...

noreply@blogger.com (i-dream-of-genie) — Tue, 09 Dec 2008 09:40:00 +0000

Amazing!! I really love your posts. They give another insight of life. You Rock!!

Gaurav Agarwal

Well written article.

noreply@blogger.com (Tatiana) — Tue, 11 Nov 2008 12:25:00 +0000

Well written article.

I intend to place a link to your blog on mime. Gl...

noreply@blogger.com (Pastor Lars) — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 03:37:00 +0000

I intend to place a link to your blog on mime. Glad I found you.

You write very well.

noreply@blogger.com (Nokomis) — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 00:16:00 +0000

You write very well.

I have found peace regarding the different lives I...

noreply@blogger.com (D.H. Pang) — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 23:44:00 +0000

I have found peace regarding the different lives I live. However, I have not found peace in the fact that none of those lives is the life I want to live.

Cool website..came by here from Blogadda and am gl...

noreply@blogger.com (Corinne Rodrigues) — Wed, 22 Oct 2008 14:21:00 +0000

Cool website..came by here from Blogadda and am glad I did.

C

While philosophically I agree with you, I was tryi...

noreply@blogger.com (Sharad Garg) — Sat, 27 Sep 2008 21:30:00 +0000

While philosophically I agree with you, I was trying to understand why people (including me) are this way. And I came up with two reasons-

1) EGO. There is a notion that the person who cheated is smarter than the person who got cheated. I can not bear this thought, and I want to minimize the number of people who can make this claim.
2) Estimate of degree of cheat: Most of us our poor estimates of how big the cheat is. You mention 'allow to be cheated slightly' but how do I know when it is slightly, vs when it is not? So we try to go beyond all doubt; eliminate the cheating altogether, albeit with high amount of energy like you mention.

I also think technically, we are all doing what you are saying here. Everytime I buy something in a big showroom, I am getting cheated since I just paid substantially more than reasonable cost of that item. However, I let that happen - just to save the energy to find a better priced source for that item. In fact, if people had the capacity to never be cheated, all the retailer market would cease to exist, and everyone would buy just from the source.

Perhaps what you mean is that we be more concious of this, and yes, by doing that, be more at peace with the world.

Hi vinay central idea has been brought out in eleg...

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Thu, 18 Sep 2008 09:30:00 +0000

Hi vinay
central idea has been brought out in elegant manner. I do believe that we wear varying shades of grey and our pursuit in life should be to dilute the grey shade to the extent possible by learning from the past and rectifying on the course.

ya i do believe in luck........aarogya.com

noreply@blogger.com (Anonymous) — Fri, 12 Sep 2008 09:40:00 +0000

ya i do believe in luck........
aarogya.com

Agreed. Words are powerful and the meaning we att...

noreply@blogger.com (neferiti) — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 23:19:00 +0000

Agreed. Words are powerful and the meaning we attached to them make them even more.

The Inspired Self
http://neferiti-thesearchforself.blogspot.com

I see what you mean, but I would call these "roles...

noreply@blogger.com (Patricia Rockwell) — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 19:52:00 +0000

I see what you mean, but I would call these "roles." We all play different roles--parent, child; employer, employee; teacher, student. Sometimes, we play numerous roles over the course of one day and our behavior changes accordingly.

It took a while for me to understand what you were...

noreply@blogger.com (Brenda) — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 16:22:00 +0000

It took a while for me to understand what you were saying, but, yes, I think you're right. It's rather like the three blind men describing an elephant, when one has hold of the trunk, another a foot and the third has the tail. Each will describe the elephant from their own context of what they're feeling (and from extrapolation of what they've experienced before). I guess that's why I also feel it's important to listen to the vantage points of others ... it does aid my own understanding. Great topic!

Nice, thoughtful post. Best wishes.Sincerely,-Lian...

noreply@blogger.com (Liane Schmidt) — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 02:17:00 +0000

Nice, thoughtful post.

Best wishes.

Sincerely,

-Liane Schmidt.

This is great to think about while I'm negotiating...

noreply@blogger.com (Dorothy) — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 18:08:00 +0000

This is great to think about while I'm negotiating as well. Good post, thanks for making my chemo mind have to think today.

Doroty from grammology
remember to call your gram
grammology.com

Seems so simple yet so tough to accomplish. Great...

noreply@blogger.com (Dorothy) — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 23:09:00 +0000

Seems so simple yet so tough to accomplish. Great post..made a lot of sense to me.

Dorothy from grammology
remember to call your gram
www.grammology.com

Absolutely. Agreed. :)Wonderful way of expression,...

noreply@blogger.com (Raindrops) — Wed, 28 May 2008 10:11:00 +0000

Absolutely. Agreed. :)
Wonderful way of expression, nice way to make it simply explanatory enough to provoke thinking.