It Is By Grace

The Right Conditions

2012-01-14T09:10:00.000-06:00

The first two weeks of this year have been overflowing with reflections, learning, practicing, and understanding victory through surrender. I’ve read some great books and spent time in deep conversations about spiritual warfare, victory, and surrender.

A few beautiful truths have been firmly planted as a result:

“So then, let us not be like others, who are asleep, but let us be alert and self-controlled.” 1 Thessalonians 5:6

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us…” Hebrews 12:1

There is a race marked out for you.

There is spiritual warfare in this world that attempts to hinder us all.

Living victoriously means continually growing and transforming into the person God desires I be. Growing spiritually also involves realizing that I don’t make myself grow.

“I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow.” 1 Corinthians 3:6

God makes us grow.

There are many of us who may believe we make ourselves grow through study, practice, and dedication. Yet, the scriptures share:

“The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge…” Proverbs 1:7

“…apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5

If we are not growing, or we feel stuck, we must ask ourselves:

How do I remove the hindrances from my growth?

What barriers are causing me not to grow?

Answering these questions helps pinpoint the obstacles in our spiritual walk far greater than asking, “Why am I not growing?”

Everything grows under The Right Conditions. A plant saturated in water does not grow, nor does a plant dry to the root grow. The key to growth of any plant, person, or living thing is the right conditions.

Under what conditions does God allow you to reach your fullest potential?

I appreciate that Paul advises us to throw off everything that hinders us. Hindrances stop us dead in our tracks, and sometimes cause us to backpedal.

“To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to eat from the tree of life, which is in the paradise of God.” Revelation 2:7

“The one who is victorious will not be hurt at all by the second death.” Revelation 2:11

“To the one who is victorious, I will give some of the hidden manna. I will also give that person a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to the one who receives it.” Revelation 2:17

“To the one who is victorious and does my will to the end, I will give authority over the nations…” Revelation 2:36

“The one who is victorious will, like them, be dressed in white. I will never blot out the name of that person from the book of life, but will acknowledge that name before my Father and his angels.” Revelation 3:5

“The one who is victorious I will make a pillar in the temple of my God.” Revelation 3:12

“To the one who is victorious, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne, just as I was victorious and sat down with my Father on his throne.” Revelation 3:21

These promises are worth digging deep into our life’s guide to discover the key to our spiritual growth and pray for God to complete the great work He has begun in us.

Find out the right conditions to propel growth in your spiritual life. Throw off anything that hinders you....

Then, fight the good fight, keep the faith, and win this race!

Chosen

2012-01-11T13:01:00.000-06:00

Reposted from October 3, 2009:

A few days ago, I wrote an article on women’s worth, Family Matters. It referenced how over time, many women feel as though they need to work for their worth. Over and over again throughout the scriptures, God continually shares how we are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, and a people belonging to Him.

What I didn’t realize, throughout my own struggle of seeing the value God has placed on me, was the extent to which we, as people, allow the words (opinions, thoughts, judgments, and conclusions) of others determine our value. Sure, I’d like to tell you that I’m always strong, confident, and unshaken, but unfortunately, I’m not. I am relieved, however, that I’m not the only person prone to struggle.

"Then he returned to his disciples and found them sleeping. 'Could you men not keep watch with me for one hour?' " Matthew 26:40

The scriptures share that our Lord Himself wrestled in the garden of Gethsemane, as well as our patriarch Jacob, who wrestled all night with an angel of God. These times when our confidence wanes, we are eager to seek counsel from friends, confidants, and counselors. Somehow, the written word is not enough. We need it these spiritual encouragements validated by a physical person.

“Barbara, tell me I’m not crazy. I have been an emotional wreck and I just need a listening ear.”

“Pamela, you’re not crazy, God loves you. He’s with you. All you need to do is [this or that].”

Confidence is restored. I’m all better.

But what happens when friends, sometimes even family, share opinions, thoughts, judgments, or conclusions that hurt? I could think that I am the only person in America who has encountered this, but I think not. How do you rise above when someone discusses you negatively to a close friend? Or someone tells you that you just aren’t made to be [this or that]?

It could go farther: someone could step on and over you to move up, or to feel better about themselves. Even worse, someone in a position over you [typically in work situations, but also family or spiritual settings] could belittle or slight you in efforts to impose their authority. It’s very sad, but I’ve either been in or counseled others in all of these circumstances.

Before I became a Christian, I chose to ‘get tough’ in these types of situations. I said I wouldn’t let anything bother me. Some of you girls know the ‘tough-girl routine.’ We shrug it off, and outwardly give the impression that we’ve moved on. But inwardly, those words, those cutting remarks, those criticisms to other friends, those comments hurt. Late at night, or at a brief pauses in the day, those words repeat in our minds, especially on days when our confidence wanes.

The greatest encouragement I have received came from studying Romans 9. I would encourage you to read the entire chapter; it’s so faith-building. Paul begins by sharing that he’s in anguish because he desires that his own people, the people of Israel, would know and understand God in the way that he had come to know God. He realizes that his belonging to God has nothing to do with his physical ancestry, but it was only through faith that men and women are adopted as sons and daughters of God. But the people of Israel in his day trusted in their physical ancestry as their entitlement to being God’s people (Romans 9: 6-8). After these words come the wonderful encouragement from God:

“ ‘I will have mercy on whom I will have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion.’ It does not, therefore, depend on man’s effort, but on God’s mercy.” Romans 9:15-16

The Amplified Bible shares verse 16:

So then [God's gift] is not a question of human will and human effort, but of God's mercy. [It depends not on one's own willingness nor on his strenuous exertion as in running a race, but on God's having mercy on him.]

And do you know what began to sink in?

Words hurt.

It’s true.

But who I am, and what I become is not determined by what men (or women) say or think, their will, effort, authority, or judgments.

Who I am depends on God.

No one, absolutely no one, knows what God has in store for you or for me.

“For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son,”

The most we know is that in walking on this narrow path, God has revealed that we will be conformed into the likeness of Christ. We will become more like Jesus.

No one , not even ourselves, knows how, or where, or when, or in what way.

No one knows if God will have mercy on you, or compassion on me, or who I will become, or who you will become.

“In his heart a man plans his course, but the LORD determines his steps.” Proverbs 16:9

“Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the LORD's purpose that prevails.” Proverbs 19:21

We have been Chosen.

Those of us that “he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.” Romans 8:30

Take heart my sisters! Through the encouragement of the scriptures, we have hope. We have true hope, not in our plans, not in someone else’s plans for us, and not in the words that may have damaged us and keep repeating insufficiency during our doubtful moments.

Through the encouragement of the scriptures we have hope that God has laid out a plan for our lives, He is directing our steps, and he is shaping us into what He desires. I'm learning to put the ‘tough girl’ aside, and rest in the strength of God, who is walking ahead of me, chartering my course and directing my footsteps.

“Then your light will break forth like the dawn, and your healing will quickly appear; then your righteousness will go before you, and the glory of the LORD will be your rear guard.” Isaiah 58:8

... And To God Be The Glory!

My Spiritual Bucket List

2011-12-27T18:20:00.000-06:00

"[Because of] the LORD's faithful love
we do not perish,
for His mercies never end.
They are new every morning;
great is Your faithfulness!"
Lamentation 3:22-23 (Amplified)

With every sunrise, I remember this verse! God’s faithfulness and mercy are new every single morning!

The middle of January is almost here, and as we continue to move forward, we must remember God’s faithfulness in our journey.

At the beginning, we are excited and eager to take off! But as challenges, trials, and unexpected occurrences take place, we may lose our joy, or forget our reason for beginning anew altogether.

Do not be dismayed. God proved his faithfulness time and time again throughout the scriptures to our spiritual ancestors.

“Then the LORD came down in the cloud and stood there with him and proclaimed his name, the LORD. And he passed in front of Moses, proclaiming, “The LORD, the LORD, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, abounding in love and faithfulness, maintaining love to thousands, and forgiving wickedness, rebellion and sin.” Exodus 24:5-7

“Your love, LORD, reaches to the heavens, your faithfulness to the skies.” Psalm 36:5

“What if some were unfaithful? Will their unfaithfulness nullify God’s faithfulness? Not at all!” Romans 3:3

“If we died with him,
we will also live with him;
if we endure,
we will also reign with him.
If we disown him,
he will also disown us;
if we are faithless,
he remains faithful,
for he cannot disown himself.” 2 Timothy 2:12-14

Even when we are unfaithful, God proves faithful. Even if we fail, God proves faithful.

Great is His faithfulness!

This week, I chose to write down my Christian (Spiritual) Bucket List. You know, a bucket list is a list of things you desire to do before you “kick the bucket.” I thought about whether a follower of Christ should have such a list, as our treasure is not here on earth, but in heaven. Then a wonderful reminder from Jesus’ life on earth came to me:

“He replied, “Go tell that fox, ‘I will keep on driving out demons and healing people today and tomorrow, and on the third day I will reach my goal.’ Luke 13:32 (emphasis mine)

Our Lord had a goal while he was on earth, and no power of hell, nor scheme of man distracted him from that goal. Walking in His footsteps, I, too, have a goal. Ultimately, the goal is to do the will of the Father. Daily, that goal is lived out through doing good to all, especially the family of believers.

“My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work.” John 4:34

“Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.” Galatians 6:10

“And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.” Hebrews 13:16

“For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish people.” 1 Peter 2:15

“I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God.” 1 Timothy 2:9.10

His mercies are new every morning. Every day I have the opportunity to do good, to proclaim Him, and to live hidden in Christ.

Following are things from My Spiritual Bucket List. Some things on my list, I have already reached (I have put a star next to these for my own memory). Nevertheless, here it is:

1. Visit the Holy Land.
2. Win as many as possible to Christ and disciple them to maturity.*
3. Stand against an adversary for Christ.*
4. Become a prayer warrior.
5. Wash the feet of believers.*
6. Read through the entire bible.*
7. Evangelize a city.
8. Be a champion for the poor.
9. Homeschool my children.*
10. Plant a church with my husband.
11. Fast for an extended time.
12. Record my personal testimony.
13. Leave an inheritance for my children.
14. Contribute twice as much to the Lord for an entire year.
15. Write down the story of my life.
16. Memorize an entire chapter of the bible.
17. Become the funniest, most humorous person I know.
18. Write a book.
19. Find someone from my past and apologize.*
20. Pay off everything and get out of debt. (Romans 13:8)
21. Buy a pastor a suit.
22. Love my husband with everything I am.
23. Live a year in an unfamiliar country on mission.
24. Tell everyone that I love that I love them.*
25. Write a Christ-focused, God-honoring blog.*
26. Run a marathon.*
27. Bless a random family each month for an entire year.
28. Complete my educational goals.
29. Forgive someone.*
30. Use my spiritual gift to the fullest.*

Every morning, I have the opportunity to remember God’s faithfulness. I have the opportunity to step out and achieve the goals that transform me more and more into the likeness of Christ. Every morning I can make a fresh start.

Have you thought about what you desire to do for God, or how you desire to accomplish the task He has given you here on earth?

Take a moment and think about.

Remember His faithfulness, and set out on your journey!

A Time for Christmas

2011-12-13T12:03:00.000-06:00

The holidays are a wonderful time for reflection. As we share in the joys of this holiday season, I found it refreshing to look at Christmas using the wisdom of King Solomon.

A reflection of the wisdom spoken by Solomon in Ecclesiastes 3 is needed at so many times in our lives: the beginning of a relationship, the start of a new year, and also at Christmas.

Take the journey with me through A Time for Christmas. Hopefully, we can use his wisdom to make our holiday this year, a season we will never forget.

“A time to be born” – birth new traditions in your family this year.

“A time to die” – die to grudges, bitterness, or the harried running about

“A time to plant” – plant seeds of faith in others

“A time to uproot” – uproot selfish tendencies, uproot your comfort zone to serve others

“A time to kill” – kill unnecessary activities

“A time to heal” – help heal broken relationships, start with a kind word or gesture

“A time to tear down” – tear down any personal walls or unhealthy coping skills

“A time to build” – building long lasting traditions, build true community, build family

“A time to weep” – if you’re grieving a loved one, it’s okay to cry

“A time to laugh” – laugh with the ones you love

“A time to mourn” – mourn for the needy, mourn for the persecuted church

“A time to dance” - grab your husband or your kids, put on the music, and cut a rug!

“A time to scatter stones” – what stones in your heart do you need to throw away to prepare your heart as good soil for Christ?

“A time to gather them” – how can you tribute a lost loved one? Write a poem, maybe call their family?

“A time to embrace” – hug and hold the ones you love

“A time to refrain” – refrain from unnecessary shopping, and remember, you don’t have to be at everything this holiday season

“A time to search” – search for true unity with God, search for wisdom during the holidays

“A time to give up” – give up television, give up control

“A time to keep” – keep what’s most important in your family this season

“A time to throw away” – simply throw away, declutter your life and your home

“A time to tear” – tear up the credit cards!

“A time to mend” – mend any broken or strained family bonds

“A time to be silent” – have a silent night with your family, and Honor Jesus, the King

“A time to speak” – understand and hold to your personal boundaries with gift giving, speak love and say ‘I love you’ – a lot.

“A time to love” – love in your neighborhood, home, even risk loving again

“A time to hate” – hate poverty, hate oppression, absolutely hate our own sin

“A time for war” – wage war on consumerism, wage war on spending the least amount for the most thoughtful gift.

“A time for peace” – create peace in your neighborhood, in your life, and in your home

"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven."

Ecclesiastes 3:1-9

Enjoy wonderful blessings this holiday season!

Deck the Halls

2011-12-09T06:00:00.000-06:00

As temperatures start to drop, the feeling of winter has begun to settle in. Chilly mornings and bundled up little ones at the beginning of December sounds just about right. While we haven’t seen any snow, our neighborhoods are lined with Christmas decorations on roofs and twinkling brightly in everyone’s yard.

Have you ever stopped to wonder why we decorate for the holidays?

I love to decorate for the winter season. But whether it’s Christmas, Valentine’s, or Labor Day, I have noticed that we all pull out the décor.

“Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,

‘Glory to God in the highest,
and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests.’

When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, ‘Let's go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.’” Luke 2:13-15

I don’t know if I’ve ever been in great company of the heavenly host, but I would imagine the sight was breathtaking. In my own mind, I envision twinkling stars, and the sounds of a heavenly choir singing.

But, this great company didn’t sing. They didn’t carol, or fa-la-la-la....

they praised God.

After the angels left, the shepherds found Joseph and Mary and Jesus, lying in a manger.

There were no wreaths, or jingle bells, or boughs of holly decking the halls.

Before them was a young man, his wife, and their newborn, God-sent, baby.

Now, I’ve had three little ones. While the birth of each was grand, again, there were no wreaths, decorated trees, or mistletoe to accompany the experience. This prompted my question: Why do we decorate for the holidays?

After perusing the web for a little research, I found that in our day, decorating for holidays is tradition.

Decor sets the tone of an event, whether lively and energetic, or peaceful and somber.

Did you know God decorates? In the bible, God adorns.

In the Old Testament, the Lord Almighty adorned the ark of the covenanant.

“Then have them make a sanctuary for me, and I will dwell among them. Make this tabernacle and all its furnishings exactly like the pattern I will show you. Have them make a chest of acacia wood—two and a half cubits long, a cubit and a half wide, and a cubit and a half high. Overlay it with pure gold, both inside and out, and make a gold molding around it.” Exodus 25:8-11

During the rebuilding of the temple, Solomon adorned:

“He overlaid the inside with pure gold. He paneled the main hall with pine and covered it with fine gold and decorated it with palm tree and chain designs. He adorned the temple with precious stones. And the gold he used was gold of Parvaim. He overlaid the ceiling beams, doorframes, walls and doors of the temple with gold, and he carved cherubim on the walls.” 2 Chronicles 3:4-7

God adorns the earth. In summer, with the lilies of the field, and in winter with blankets of beautiful snow. Sometimes, his décor is elaborate – like the rushing waters of Niagara Falls, and sometimes his décor is simple – like the fields of wheat in the Midwest. Nevertheless, creation, the heavens and the earth, are full of the Lord’s splendor.

Before the Lord is splendor.

“For all the gods of the nations are idols,
but the LORD made the heavens.
Splendor and majesty are before him;
strength and joy in his dwelling place.” 1 Chronicles 16:26-27

The wonder we attempt to create in this season may never give a representation of the splendor that is before God, but during the holidays, the aim is to imitate His creativity in adornment, and to let the splendor of His majesty be at the heart of our reason to decorate.

Decking our halls can be however we want: festive or simple, but it’s wonderful to use our holiday décor as a means to promote the praise of God.

Simplify the season to magnify the manger.

Christmas Corinthians Style

2011-12-06T13:44:00.001-06:00

If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows, strands of twinkling lights and shiny bells, but do not show love to my family, I'm just another decorator.

If I slave away in the kitchen, baking dozens of Christmas cookies, preparing gourmet meals and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime, but do not show love to my family, I'm just another cook.

If I work at the soup kitchen, carol in the nursing home, and give all that I have to charity, but do not show love to my family, it profits me nothing.

If I trim the spruce with shimmering angels and crocheted snowflakes, attend a myriad of holiday parties and sing in the choir's cantata, but do not focus on Christ;

I have missed the point.

Love stops the cooking to hug the child

Love sets aside decorating to kiss the husband.
Love is kind, though harried and tired,
Love doesn't envy another's home that has coordinated
Christmas china and table linens.

Love doesn't yell at the kids to get out of the way,
but is thankful they are there to be in the way.

Love doesn't give only to those who are able to give in return
but rejoices in giving to those who can't.

Love bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes all things,
endures all things.
Love never fails.

Video games will break;
pearl necklaces will be lost,
golf clubs will rust.

But giving the gift of love will endure.

-author unknown

And Be Thankful

2011-11-22T06:51:00.000-06:00

Across North America, families will sit down to share in a feast. They will give thanks for the many blessings that have been bestowed upon them this year, and in years past. For some, it will be an elaborate five-course meal, complete with linen dinner napkins and three dinner forks.

For others, it will be a simple meal, a simple prayer, a time of reflection. And even still, while so many will enjoy family on this day, some will be alone, enjoying a meal in the quietness of home or hotel, with a marathon of movies, facebook, twitter, the internet and football games on television to pass the day.

No matter what your family, your meal, or your companionship: give thanks…on purpose.

“Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever.” 1 Chronicles 16:34

As co-mingling family, differing opinions, lifestyles, perspectives, and definitely, spiritual beliefs can be stressful, take a moment today to stop, pray, and give thanks for the family you have, the meal you partake in, the life you’ve been given.

As Christians, we give thanks regularly, but it is always nice when the world pauses for a moment to say a prayer, or unite around a good common goal. I’m sure, for some, tensions will take flight, well planned preparations will go wrong, even some family members that we love may not attend, give thanks…anyway.

“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” Colossians 3:15

Give thanks…on purpose.

I am so thankful for the multitude of blessings God has given to me. I am thankful for the challenges, though they don’t feel good. They make me grow.

Our family is like everyone else’s. We choose our battles when it comes to large family gatherings. In all things, we are ambassadors of Christ. So, it is important, this Thanksgiving, whether spent with a multitude of family members or only a few, to shine His light brightly.

“You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again?” Matthew 5:13

“You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven.” Matthew 5:14-16

Yes, let others praise God because of you. Shine. Let your conversations be seasoned with salt.

And Be Thankful…on purpose.

Have a wonderful and happy Thanksgiving Day!

I'll Have What She's Having!

2011-11-01T07:00:00.000-05:00

A few months ago, I had the wonderful opportunity of hanging out with one of my closest friends. It was actually a surprise birthday party thrown for her, and I was eager to go as I had not seen her in nearly two years.

A group of us gals dined at one of the best Spanish tapas restaurants I've ever visited. It had a wonderful authentic atmosphere, and we all sat at a cozy table.

We selected entrees to share, and then out of nowhere comes a waiter with a bold and beautiful maroon red sangria for one of the ladies in our party.

Almost in unison, all hands raised, "I'll have what she's having!" echoed 'round the table!

Our eyes didn't leave the beautiful presentation of this drink from his hand to her place at the table. And surely enough, it was absolutely refreshing, complimented with delicious orange slices, succulent apples, zesty lemons and bold, exotic flavor.

In the years I've been a Christian, I've built many friendships. I've shared with countless ladies my love and heart for Christ and His mission. Some women have become life-long friends, and others have moved on.

But every now and then, I've come across a woman of God that has embodied grace, truth, conviction, love, and a devotion to God that begged my question, "Sister, where did you come from? And can I get what you have!"

These women remind me of Queen Esther. If you remember her story, she's a young Hebrew girl, who gets opportunity to go before the King who is choosing a new bride. Esther 2:15 recounts:

When it was Esther's turn to go to the king (Esther the daughter of Abihail the uncle of Mordecai, who had adopted her as his daughter), she asked for nothing other than what Hegai, the king's eunuch in charge of the harem, had recommended. Esther, just as she was, won the admiration of everyone who saw her.

She was taken to King Xerxes in the royal palace in the tenth month, the month of Tebeth, in the seventh year of the king's reign. The king fell in love with Esther far more than with any of his other women or any of the other virgins—he was totally smitten by her. He placed a royal crown on her head and made her queen in place of Vashti.

Then the king gave a great banquet for all his nobles and officials—"Esther's Banquet." He proclaimed a holiday for all the provinces and handed out gifts with royal generosity. (The Message)

Oh, how the women who were presented before the King must have wondered what Esther had to win the King's heart. And how many of them wanted whatever it was! I believe Esther possessed a beautifully gentle and humble spirit that God could use to save many lives.

In our day and age, gentle and humble aren't necessarily the words I would use to begin to describe myself. Oh sure, I've worked on it. The bible calls us to be women of a quiet and gentle spirit.

But, I'm still workin' on it, and feel like I may just be workin' on it til the day I move on to glory. The Lord knows I haven't arrived right now. But, the heart of Esther gives me renewed inspiration to dig deep daily in my relationship with God. To talk to him more and more as David did throughout the Psalms.

"My soul thirsts for God,
for the living God.

when can I go and meet with God?"

Psalm 42:2

I truly believe this authentic heart for God is why David was known as a man after God's own heart.

Even men with David noticed something about him that was powerful. David held nothing back. He cried, he reasoned, he wailed, he laughed, and his heart lept all throughout the psalms in his relationship with God. David was real in his relationship with God.

I don't think Esther wanted to be 'noticed,' neither did the women who made such a powerful impact on me because they embodied such inspiring characteristics.

It appears they truly walked their faith, and the Light 'within' was ever present 'without.'

Taking my relationship deeper means desiring to be in His presence more and more as the days go by, sharing my deepest feelings with God, and asking him to radiate through me to others in this world. It means choosing each day to take time to build our relationship through the study of His Word and through prayer.

Esther radiated God in her character and heart. So, too, must I, as I strive to let Christ live through me.

Yes, I concur: I'll Have What She's Having!

I'll have what the rare women of God possess in full measure: a supernatural walk with God lived out through a deep and meaningful relationship with Him everyday. While most of us haven't arrived, it's great to partner with and support women ever-striving to attain the goal. As we strive daily, these words of wisdom will ring so true:

...she is more profitable than silver
and yields better returns than gold.

She is more precious than rubies;
nothing you desire can compare with her.

Long life is in her right hand;
in her left hand are riches and honor.

Her ways are pleasant ways,
and all her paths are peace.

She is a tree of life to those who embrace her;
those who lay hold of her will be blessed. (Proverbs 3:14)

My Heart's at Home

2011-09-30T08:38:00.000-05:00

I love being refreshed and renewed by time spent with girlfriends, reading a good book, journaling, or just relaxing. I also get a fresh perspective on life, priorities, and bringing my heart back to the simplistic beauty of the gospel of Christ.

This week I had the opportunity to take some time out and enjoy a Girls Night Out with some of my girlfiends. It was very encouraging to my soul. Topic: 10 Ways to De-Stress Your Life! I think everyone needs a practical on how not to let stress takeover. In dressing up, enjoying some delectable desserts, and listening to a wonderful discourse, I realized that I'm so grateful that I continually grow in my heart for the home. I love our home. I love what it stands for, and I love that God gave me the ability to cultivate it, nurture it, enjoy it, and guide it.

As we settle into the fall season, I hope you sit for just a brief moment and think about your home: not your house, but your home: the lives that grow there, the love that's shared there, the wonderful traditions you create there. Grow your home into a wonderful place of security, love, joy, and happiness for all who come under it's roof.

"whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things." Php 4:8

Dare To Be A Disciple

2011-06-22T10:31:00.004-05:00

These past few months have been so energizing!

Digging deeper in bible study, counseling, and being emersed in schooling the children has shown me so much beauty in this season of motherhood.

As I have been sharing, listening, and learning within discussion groups, discipleship has been referred to frequently. Discipleship is not a new phrase, but from our discussions, it has been a very misunderstood word from scripture. When you add motherhood to discipleship, you suddenly have two words that have, at times, seemed to be in constant opposition for me as well as many other women.

How do I live out discipleship and be a mom? I mean, I've already got a million things on my plate.

The crazy cycle of trying to fit a college student's free time and lack of family responsibility to share the gospel with others into the daily routine of getting breakfast and dinner on the table, laundry, cleaning the house, loving the hubby, oh yeah, and then let's fit an 8-hour work day in there somewhere.

It can seem overwhelming.

Can mothers be disciples? Yes.

Are disciples mothers? Absolutely.

But my hangup, as well, as most of yours, has been the prevailing notion that only associated discipleship with evangelism. Even talking with disciples and asking them to define discipleship, their first comments were:

-one who shares the gospel
-one who makes disciples

I recently saw a sign that defined discipleship: to turn all people into fully devoted, mature followers of Christ. The definition mentioned nothing of the person himself being a fully devoted, mature follower of Christ.

Some of my favorite passages of scripture focus on discipleship:

"As Jesus walked beside the Sea of Galilee, he saw Simon and his brother Andrew casting a net into the lake, for they were fishermen. “Come, follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fishers of men.” At once they left their nets and followed him." Mark 1:16-18

“If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be my disciple. And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple. " Luke 14:26, 27

"To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31,32

What I began to see is that most Christians compartmentalize discipleship. The "you are a disciple if..." syndrome.

Yet, Jesus didn't compartmentalize being his disciple.

He simply tells us what being his disciple is and what being his disciple isn't.

If you hold to his commands, you are his disciple.

If you let go of all that is precious to you for his sake, yes, even your own life, and carry your cross, you are his disciple.

Then, Jesus commands us to make disciples (Matthew 28:18-20) of all nations.

Well, this got me thinking about the emphasis I've seen placed on discipleship in recent years. I've seen discipleship for many as a program, a class, or a evangelism strategy. But according to Christ, discipleship is all that you are.

There is no pick and choose.

I am a disciple, but I spend very little time loving the poor.

I am a disciple, but I don't truly love my neighbor.

I am a disciple, but that scripture is just hard to follow right now.

I am a disciple, but I look down on others.

I am a disciple, but some people are too hard to deal with.

Jesus called all to be his disciples. He even set forth that unless you can give up all that you think, whether plans, praise, or people, and kiss it goodbye to follow him, you are not his disciple.

Those are his prerequisites for true discipleship.

Thus, true discipleship is:

love God with all your heart
loving your neighbor as yourself
denying yourself
taking up your cross
following Christ
suffers
submitting to and obeying the Word
sharing the gospel
making disciples
showing mercy
giving generously
submitting to Christ
living a holy life
being devoted to brotherly love
forgiving as Christ forgave you
living sacrificially
watching your life and your doctrine
being devoted to God and the body of Christ

...and many other commands of scripture. But, discipleship is not choosing one or two of these elements and believing it encompasses the whole of true Christ-like discipleship.

A friend recently shared with me that discipleship doesn't look the same for everyone. For a college student, without familial or job responsibilities, discipleship looks different than for a working mother. It will take a 125lb 20-year-old less time to run 3 miles than a 215lb 60-year-old. Do you think the older person gives less of an effort because it takes longer?

Absolutely not. In fact, at age 60, running 3 miles may even require more effort and more dedication.

The same with motherhood. We give the same effort but have more responsibilities in our lives, and sometimes, we give an even greater effort.

I seen working mothers running themselves around trying to live out discipleship as though they have no husband or children. Not every good examples of what living in Christ should look like. While it's not pretty, it involves suffering, sacrifice, and denial, it does not require busyness. Love binds all that Christ has called us to in perfect unity.

"...set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity." 1 Timothy 4:12

" In everything set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned..." Titus 2:7, 8

"Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, serving as overseers—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not greedy for money, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." 1 Peter 5:2, 3

Be the example.

Christ left us his example to follow. His example was full of grace, truth, conviction, compassion, devotion, suffering, sacrifice, and love.

Dare to be a disciple and live true discipleship as a mother.

Blessed

2011-05-08T09:00:00.000-05:00

What a wonderful Mother's Day!

To enjoy the day, I'd like to share some timeless humor and wisdom from Erma Bombeck, American humorist, and newspaper columnist for three decades.

--All of us have moments in our lives that test our courage. Taking children into a house with white carpet is one of them.

--Before you try to keep up with the Joneses, be sure they're not trying to keep up with you.

--Everyone is guilty at one time or another of throwing out questions that beg to be ignored, but mothers seem to have a market on the supply. "Do you want a spanking or do you want to go to bed?" Don't you want to save some of the pizza for your brother?" Wasn't there any change?"

--Giving birth is little more than a set of muscular contractions granting passage of a child. Then the mother is born.

--Graduation day is tough for adults. They go to the ceremony as parents. They come home as contemporaries. After twenty-two years of child-rearing, they are unemployed.

--Have you any idea how many children it takes to turn off one light in the kitchen? Three. It takes one to say, "What light?" and two more to say, "I didn't turn it on."

--Kids have little computer bodies with disks that store information. They remember who had to do the dishes the last time you had spaghetti, who lost the knob off the Tv set six years ago, who got punished for teasing the dog when he wasn't teasing the dog and who had to wear girls boots the last time it snowed.

--Making coffee has become the great compromise of the decade. It's the only thing "real" men do that doesn't seem to threaten their masculinity. To women, it's on the same domestic entry level as putting the spring back into the toilet-tissue holder or taking a chicken out of the freezer to thaw.

--No one ever died from sleeping in an unmade bed. I have known mothers who remake the bed after their children do it because there's a wrinkle in the spread or the blanket is on crooked. This is sick.

--When your mother asks, "Do you want a piece of advice?" it's a mere formality. It doesn't matter if you answer yes or no. You're going to get it anyway.

--Housework, if you do it right, will kill you.

--I take a very practical view of raising children. I put a sign in each of their rooms: "Checkout Time is 18 years."

--It goes without saying that you should never have more children than you have car windows.

--One thing they never tell you about child raising is that for the rest of your life, at the drop of a hat, you are expected to know your child's name and how old he or she is.

--Somewhere it is written that parents who are critical of other people's children and publicly admit they can do better are asking for it.

--Thanks to my mother, not a single cardboard box has found its way back into society. We receive gifts in boxes from stores that went out of business twenty years ago.

--Insanity is hereditary. You can catch it from your kids.

--A grandmother pretends she doesn't know who you are on Halloween.

--When the Good Lord was creating mothers, He was into His sixth day of "overtime" when the angel appeared and said. "You're doing a lot of fiddling around on this one."

And God said, "Have you read the specs on this order?" She has to be completely washable, but not plastic. Have 180 moveable parts...all replaceable. Run on black coffee and leftovers. Have a lap that disappears when she stands up. A kiss that can cure anything from a broken leg to a disappointed love affair. And six pairs of hands."

--He who laughs...lasts.

--When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, "I used everything you gave me".

"He tends his flock like a shepherd: He gathers the lambs in his arms and carries them close to his heart; he gently leads those that have young." Isaiah 40:11 (emphasis mine)

"Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:" Proverbs 31:28

I once heard that the meaning of blessing was: to truly see someone.

When we bless others, we see them, and we honor them for who they are, for what they have endured, for their service, or their sacrifice.

I am Blessed.

I am blessed to be a mom and to have a mom. I am blessed that God gently leads me. I am blessed that God sees me.

Mothers, stepmothers, grandmothers, aunts, god-mothers, best friends, and caregivers: Enjoy this Mother's Day!

You are seen. You are blessed .

Beyond compare~

Better and Lasting Possessions

2011-05-02T07:01:00.000-05:00

Do you remember that song Material Girl by MaDonna?

Oh how I sung this song with pride in the 1980s!

Just give me a hairbrush, a mirror, the radio cranked to high volume, and I was center stage!

Nowadays, this title isn’t trendy for the devout Christian woman. The last thing I want to be thought of as a woman of God is ‘a material girl.’

But, just as in high school and junior high, the desire for nice things doesn’t go away, even if it is replaced by less expensive things.

I recently was flipping through the channels and a title on television caught my eye. Oprah had a two-episode special on hoarders.

On the program, two adult children confronted their mother about her hoarding of possessions. Video cameras went throughout the 3,000 sq. ft home that was filled top to bottom with everything – clothes, shoes, knick-knacks, televisions. When all was said and done, the television crew threw away 75 tons of garbage, had a garage sale that took up 10,000 sq. ft of warehouse space, and donated hundreds of items to charity.

Earlier this year, I had set my own goals to clear our basement. We still had boxes packed from moving home fall of 2008. After this episode, I couldn’t sit still. I got up at midnight and cleared my bedroom closet!

I realized that anyone can amass a great amount of material possessions.

Anyone. You, me, the neighbor next door.

The deeper issue revealed that the woman was trying to fill a void in her life with….things.

As women, we all need to be filled.

But the bible shares what we should be filled with.
“Do not get drunk on wine, which leads to debauchery. Instead, be filled with the Spirit.” Ephesians 5:18

“Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy…” 1 Peter 5:8

Throughout my years, there have been times when I have forgotten to fill up on the Spirit of God.

Through one challenge or another, I have, at times, taken my eyes off of Christ and felt empty.

I have even given way to worry.

But Jesus encourages:

“And why do you worry about clothes? See how the lilies of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Matthew 6:28-33

Seek first His kingdom.

All these things….clothes, food, shelter, life…will given to me.

It’s not a fair phrase….it’s His promise.

He will meet my every need.

He will fill every void.

He will give me an inexpressible and glorious joy in my life.

“And my God will meet all your needs according to his glorious riches in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:19

I must have faith and continue to believe Him.

Material Girl? It may be trendy pop-culture song, but this title does not define me.

I have “better and lasting possessions.” Hebrews 10:34

I have His Holy Spirit living in me. I have a new heart and a new mind. I have an inexpressible and glorious joy.

I have Christ.

So do you.

I’m Bad at Homemaking

2011-04-18T06:29:00.000-05:00

I’ve got a confession.

I’m bad at homemaking.

Not awful. Not terrible.

Just bad at it.

While I had an awesome mother who loved to keep home, somewhere between 21 and 35, I have thought that floor and toilets magically clean themselves.

I mean, who enjoys cleaning?

Sure, I love a clean house, but I don't love to clean it. In fact, I’m not from the old school, but one raised in the eighties who would rather just hire a housekeeper. It's quick, it's convenient, and gives me more time for me.

Well, it rocked my socks when I read this awesome article over at Sarah Mae’s blog Raising Homemakers.

I realized: I'm raising homemakers!

I’ve even set myself up for it. I started homeschooling, I have been delving into Titus 2, Proverbs 31, and before I began our child-rearing, homeschooling journey, I remember not too many years ago, when I absolutely loved, enjoyed, and went the extra mile in diligently taking care of my home.

But through one trial or another, raising the kids, taking on other responsibilities and what-not, I lost that love and feelin’!

Well, I thank God for putting this on my heart and giving me the encouragement needed to move forward in my calling to be a keeper of the home. I have two young daughters who need to see my stellar example of managing our home, not to get husbands, but to live out the Bible’s calling for each of them when they become of age.

As Sarah Mae shares, diligence is the key.

“She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.” Proverbs 31:27

With three little feet running in and out all day this summer, I have dreaded what my carpet floors will look like, or my kitchen counters.

And who wants to be the psychotic nazi yelling “Get outta this kitchen!” every five minutes.

“Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” Colossians 3:12

With God’s help, I can avoid all extremes. I don't have to live with everything totally unorganized and unwelcoming, and I don't have to be Mad Martha.

Homemaking is an art to be learned and to be lived out of reverence for Christ and His calling for me.

It will take prayer, it will take patience, but I can do it.

Oh yes, I’ve already gotten the questions and the stares, even with what I’ve slowly tried to put into practice.

“Really? You’re home with your kids all day? I could never do that. I need time for me.”

“Just pay for a housekeeper, girl. That’s too much work.”

So many mothers resign to give up the overwhelming responsibility to be good managers of their homes, and convince themselves that this is not their gift and relinquish the opportunity to learn this biblical art.

I, too, will be far from perfect. Perfection is not the goal. Christ-likeness is the goal. My desire is to let my family to see Christ in me by taking good care of what we have and not constantly desiring the easy way out. Putting time and attentiveness into making my house a place Christ and my family are proud to call home is good.

Homemaking is not simply redecorating. It's managing our home, keeping a clean, organized, healthy (both spiritually and physically), and hospitable place for our family to live and welcome others.

I'm starting out with one room per week. Yes, you heard me - per week. It will take most of my summer, but at the end, I will be glad I put the time and effort into simplifying, organizing, and teaching my young ones why managing our home is important in God's family.

Grab a moment to stop over by Sarah Mae today and soak in the beauty of managing our homes.

“…good deeds are obvious, and even those that are not cannot be hidden.” 1 Timothy 5:25

Thriving In The Vineyard

2011-02-10T18:49:00.000-06:00

We interrupt the intended TruthSeries to bring you the latest....

Yes, I learned of this great resource a few weeks ago, and definitely wanted to pass it on to you...

Monvee is a great tool to encourage your spiritual growth. While I love trying out, delving in, even digging deeper using a multitude of spiritual resources, this growth tool really surprised me.

Yep, it nailed my character, my struggles, my temptations, my joys, and my temperment to a tee. Take a look, just go to http://www.monvee.com/ and sign-up, then do an assessment.

See where and how you can grow in your spiritual life....

We'll return to the TruthSeries in March...for now, I'm excited to share this new tool with you.

You'll enjoy the challenge to grow to new heights!

"‎If you want to keep growing, you have to keep going where you've never gone before." - Eric Parks, cofounder of Monvee.

The Whole Truth

2011-02-02T08:18:00.000-06:00

After a fresh start to the New Year, it’s exciting to move into February.

We just endured a whopping blizzard here in Chicago, and there’s nothing like being snowed in to get me inspired to write!

So…why begin the month with fantastical butterflies and lofty dreams? I'm happy to dig into the heart and hit home.

The Truth.

The Whole Truth.

And Nothing But The Truth.

Isn’t it amazing how often we share with others: “I just want the truth.” “Just give me the facts.”
“The truth of the matter is….”

As we’ve lived life, many around us (and yes, we too) embellish, add to, spruce up, and adorn the “truth” with all kinds of extra information. Well, I thought it would be great to journey through the truth.

What is truth? Why is truth important? What does the bible say about truth? Why do I need and even demand the truth at times? Do I tell myself the truth?

Many of us can already answer the questions. Why do we want truth? Well, no one wants to be told lies. I know I sure don’t. I want the truth. I want to know truth.

“I am the way, the truth, and the life.” John 14:6

Jesus is The Truth, The Whole Truth.

“For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ.” John 1:17

{truth}: reality, accuracy, fact, correctness, actuality

Living in Christ means learning the truth and living in truth, living in reality, understanding what is true, actual, real, and authentic because Jesus is truth. Over the next month, I am excited to dive into truth and explore what the scriptures share about The Truth…..The Whole Truth.

Won’t you join me?

“Show me your ways, O LORD,
teach me your paths;
guide me in your truth and teach me,
for you are God my Savior,
and my hope is in you all day long.” Psalm 25:4, 5 (emphasis mine)

1000 Gifts

2011-01-30T06:00:00.001-06:00

We're back at it. Today, I just need to soak in the wonderful gifts I have in my life. Join with me as I have ventured to journal one thousand gifts, blessings, and graces in my life. What a wonderful way to reflect on the beauty of God’s providence.

“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.” Phillippians 4:7-9

My 1000 gifts (in no specific order, just as they come to mind):

1. my Father and Friend…God
2. rescue, recovery, redemption, salvation, deliverance, or simply put: being saved
3. the hope of heaven and eternal life with God
4. my husband – such a sweetheart~
5. my children – Twinkle, SaiFi, and Somi
6. my mom – the best of best friends
7. my sisters – the greatest cheerleading squad a girl could have-
8. sun-filled summer mornings
9. the smell of a fresh moleskin journal
10. singing with all my heart, praise and worship

12. natural family
13. the best guide on earth: the Bible
14. freedom: both physical and spiritual
15. the smell of a crisp morning breeze
16. a good night’s sleep
17. technology – that keeps me connected with and encouraged by far-off friends
18. german chocolate cake
19. forgiveness
20. blooming white clematis
21. sweet iced tea
22. my brave and courageous dad - love you!
23. prayer
24. photographs - one picture is worth a 1000 words
25. creation and creativity ~ like Father, like daughter
26. birth: both physical and spiritual
27. love: being loved and being able to love others
28. new beginnings, second chances, starting over, and repentance
29. hugs
30. smiles: they disarm and welcome even the toughest of hearts
31. good health
32. endurance when our health happens to fail and our dreams seem out of reach
33. caramel apples with pecan chips
34. leaves turning beautiful colors in autumn
35. swingsets
36. piggyback rides
37. my favorite pair of worn-out jeans
38. green grass
39. wisdom
40. grace
41. the opportunity to always come home
42. radiant sunsets
43. puffy white clouds
44. bike rides on a cool summer day
45. grilled corn on the cob
46. shade trees
47. fruit in season
48. giggling over an ice cream cone
49. a glass of wine in front of the fire
50. hope
51. comfort food
52. being able to see the finish line
53. the first snowfall in winter
54. seeing each child take their first steps
55. paying the final note, final installment, or final payment
56. Christmas morning
57. baptism
58. gettin' soakin' wet from hugging someone who just got baptized
59. tears that help cleanse the soul
60. memories
61. great vacations
62. listening to wedding vows
63. baby's breath
64. watching my lil ones learn to ride a bicycle
65. fall back - always love that extra hour
66. long, soaking, candlelit bubblebaths
67. homemade quilts
68. letters from my daughter
69. pictures from my son
70. my children's kisses
71. a warm cup of coffee
72. holding hands with the one you love
73. homemade chicken soup
74. beautiful brown eyes
75. long reflective walks
76. children's laughter
77. lullabys
78. stories from my grandmother
79. family reunions
80. celebrations
81. a shoulder to cry on
82. a completely sappy, girly movie
83. a night of great food and great friends
84. leaps of faith
85. new friendships
86. good chocolate
87. comfort
88. harvest
89. date nights
90. patience
91. being fearfully and wonderfully made
92. birthdays
93. unexpected gifts
94. belonging to someone
95. teaching my children about my closest Friend, God
96. cuddling undercovers
97. watching my husband learn to be a Dad
98. realizing that I'm a Mom
99. choosing, despite my imperfections, to be the best I can be for God
100. walking in the Light
101. joy
102. the love of Christ
103. arriving at your destination
104. the smell of fresh cut lemons
105. scrapbooks
106. feeling like "you belong"
107. burying yourself in a good book
108. the first time baby sleeps through the night
109. anniversaries
110. holding each baby for the very first time
111. honeymoons
112. hand-me downs
113. best friends
114. freedom of religion
115. learning to drive
116. comfy cushioned socks in autumn and winter
117. homemade gifts
118. footprints
119. family portraits
120. hot cocoa with marshmallows
121. learning something new
122. cute cards from cherished friends
123. being able to give to those less fortunate
124. wedding rings
125. sweet potato pie with homemade whipped cream
126. good news
127. great fellowship
128. falling in love (again)
129. foggy mornings (seeing clouds up close)
130. baking with my children - they love licking the cake spoons
131. cooking dinner with my husband - romantic indeed~
132. a good belly laugh
133. stirring, powerfully preached sermons
134. sunrise
135. songs that describe exactly how I feel
136. mommy-breaks
137. when you've forgotten your troubles
138. homeschooling
140. family sandwich hugs
141. an encouraging phone call, just when you needed it
142. creating good memories on purpose
143. waking up to a clean kitchen
144. owning a home
145. taking the time to slow down
146. airplane rides - the chance to soar above the clouds
147. the fact that the sun is always shining
148. God's promises
150. a good comedy
151. being needed
152. letting go and letting God
153. taking time to rejoice
154. waking up to find that your kids have somehow, some way, all fit in your bed
155. baking your first Thanksgiving turkey
156. slow dancing with your husband
157. a new job
158. time
159. my mama's cornbread dressin'
160. wealth
161. living in America
162. clean streets
163. good neighbors
164. big backyards
165. books
166. romance
167. nice co-workers
169. graduation diplomas
170. the age children become in-house help
171. warm homemade banana-nut bread
172. playing in the rain
173. nature walks
174. backyard picnics
175. blowing bubbles
176. sprinkler volleyball
177. fingerpainting
178. catching fireflies
179. homemade strawberry shortcake
180. making homemade ice cream
181. stargazing
182. cloudwatching
183. banana splits
184. watching fireworks with someone you love
185. gardening
186. homemade salsa
187. roasting marshmallows over the firepit
188. marriage....especially godly marriage
189. belgian waffles with fresh strawberries & syrup
190. blessing others
191. kids' summer lemonade stands
192. simplicity
193. perseverance
194. laughter
195. silence
196. solitude
197. leather moccasins
198. postcards from a loved one
199. truth
200. writing
201. exercise
202. plush warm blankets
203. fleece
204. pizza
205. snowflakes
206. lazy afternoons
207. the last day of winter
208. that favorite pair of jeans
209. planting flowers
210. quilted purses
211. candles
212. cute pocket bibles
213. kid's fingerprints
214. sunshine in winter
215. girl scout cookies
216. breakfast
217. The Imitation of Christ (Thomas a Kempis)
218. love letters
219. wax seals
220. kisses on the forehead
221. plush pillows
223. red velvet cupcakes
224. free food
225. new carpet

Oh, my list will go on. I will keep adding to this list in the coming months. If you have a moment, take a little time to journal your 1000 Gifts, and we will both see how much God has blessed us in this life.

11. spiritual family

Persevere

2011-01-26T18:28:00.000-06:00

"Get the word out. Teach all these things. And don't let anyone put you down because you're young. Teach believers with your life: by word, by demeanor, by love, by faith, by integrity. Stay at your post reading Scripture, giving counsel, teaching. And that special gift of ministry you were given when the leaders of the church laid hands on you and prayed—keep that dusted off and in use.

Cultivate these things. Immerse yourself in them. The people will all see you mature right before their eyes! Keep a firm grasp on both your character and your teaching. Don't be diverted. Just keep at it. Both you and those who hear you will experience salvation." 1 Timothy 4:11-16 The Message

This has been my daily encouragement for the past week. Just keep at it. As we all know, the enemy and his schemes seek to kill, steal, and destroy our family, our future, and our faith. But, we must, at all times, keep going and keep moving forward.

So many obstacles decided to throw themselves into my path this past week. I failed a few tests, and I conquered a few. The lesson I've learned: Persevere

Keep going. Keep pressing on toward the goal. Keep my eyes on the prize. Salvation and eternal life in the Kingdom of God is worth all these trials and even greater conflicts.

Keep working faithfully in Christ's vineyard, for only He can give you a boundless reward.

Out of Exile

2011-01-16T18:37:00.001-06:00

“Therefore say: ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Although I sent them far away among the nations and scattered them among the countries, yet for a little while I have been a sanctuary for them in the countries where they have gone.’

“Therefore say: ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: I will gather you from the nations and bring you back from the countries where you have been scattered, and I will give you back the land of Israel again.’

“They will return to it and remove all its vile images and detestable idols. I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh. Then they will follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. They will be my people, and I will be their God.” Ezekiel 11:16-20

Through the challenges, and sometime even the mere routines of life, we can feel in exile.

Where is refreshment, Lord?

Even in winter months, the short days, little sun, can have a tiring, isolating effect on us.

What happens when you feel in spiritual exile? You’re trying to navigate spiritual waters, go in the direction the Lord wants for you, but you feel scattered, alone, looking for refreshment and renewal from the Lord?

That’s why I love the beginning verse here.

God used a historical example to teach us about his character. The Lord Himself says He sent the Israelites far away among the nations, and that He scattered them among the countries. While He gave them sanctuary in those countries, the people needed a fresh start. They needed to be made new. And so the Lord promised that He would bring them back to the land of Israel again. But, this time, he would give them an undivided heart, a new spirit, and a new heart.

Last week, I shared about how the people of Israel cried out to God in Egypt, and God heard their prayers. What is the difference hundreds of years later? It is not recorded that God heard their cries. It is not recorded that God sent a man to gather them together. No, it is not even recorded that there were powerful miracles that took place.

But God knew and heard what was in the hearts of His people. Paul shares, “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groans that words cannot express. And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints in accordance with God’s will.” Romans 8:26, 27

God knew His people needed to be brought out of exile. He knew they needed to be given a new spirit and a new heart. He knew that only with this “newness” would the Israelite people follow His decrees.

God could save them, transform them, and show them to be His.

I find this so encouraging. Once again, the Israelites had one thing to do….be willing.

The Israelites had to desire God and be willing to renounce their heart of stone.

They had to leave the places of exile and journey back to the land. For some, exile had been so long, they had never known their true home. That didn’t matter. It was their spiritual home. And though they had been born elsewhere, they knew that the exiled places they lived was not their own.

How does that translate to us today?

Well, our true home is not here. We are pilgrims with true citizenship in heaven.

“But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ, who, by the power that enables him to bring everything under his control, will transform our lowly bodies so that they will be like his glorious body.” Philippians 3:20, 21

So, we, too, can feel exiled, just as the Israelites did.

Even as we pilgrim here, daily challenges, even routines can make us feel farther away from God. Though we haven't seen Him, we love Him. We desire Him.

We are willing.

So, we set out. We begin the journey to Him, to peace, to be transformed, be made new.

And our loving Father, our gracious God, gives us His promise: “our light a momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.” 2 Corinthians 4:17

As God’s daughters, we must remember that we don’t only receive a new spirit and a new heart, we are an entirely new creation!

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come! All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting men’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us.” 2 Corinthians 5: 17-20

“Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day…..”

“So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.” 2 Corinthians 4:16-18

We are Out of Exile.

Being created in Christ Jesus, being found in Him, and living our lives hidden in Him, we are daily being transformed into His likeness.

And as Christ’s followers, no matter where we are in our spiritual journey, we must remember his promises. We must hold fast the truth that it is our God who transforms us.

He is renewing us day by day.

Hold to His promises and remember that our God can do immeasurably more than we ask or imagine!

You Need Only Be Still....

2011-01-09T20:36:00.000-06:00

One of the most inspiring accounts in history is the parting of the Red Sea. From generation to generation, the story has been told of God’s mighty hand delivering his people from slavery in Egypt.

It is true, the account is packed full of lessons to be learned.

Beginning this New Year, it is good to remember this story and understand where we stand before the Father.

If you recall, Joseph, one of Jacob’s twelve sons, had brought Israel’s family to Egypt because of the famine that plagued the land. Time passed and a new king came into power that knew nothing of Joseph, and dealt harshly with the Israelite people who had sold themselves into slavery. Over time, the conditions, the oppression, and the misery was unbearable, and the people cried out to God to save them.

The Lord came to Moses at the burning bush in the desert and decreed:

“I have indeed seen the misery of my people in Egypt. I have heard them crying out because of their slave drivers, and I am concerned about their suffering. So I have come down to rescue them from the hand of the Egyptians and to bring them up out of that land into a good and spacious land, a land flowing with milk and honey –“ Exodus 3:7, 8

Moses went to Pharaoh to gain the Israelites freedom. The miracles were incredible. The favor shown to the Israelite people during the plagues on Egypt was unbelievable. Still Pharaoh did not let the Israelites go.

Thus the Lord struck down the firstborn of every household in Egypt. It was the Passover sacrifice to the Lord, “who passed over the houses of the Israelites in Egypt and spared our homes when he struck down the Egyptians.”

With this, Pharaoh let the Israelites go.

But not for long. His hardened heart pursued the Israelites as they headed out of the desert. At the Red Sea, the Egyptians were gaining ground, even as God’s Mighty Hand parted the Red Sea for the Israelites to pass through on dry ground. The Israelites were terrified.

But the Lord said, “I will harden Pharaoh’s heart, and he will pursue them. But I will gain glory for myself through Pharaoh and all his army, and the Egyptians will know that I am the LORD.” Exodus 14:4

And Moses assured the people:

“Do not be afraid. Stand firm and you will see the deliverance the LORD will bring you today. The Egyptians you see today you will never see again. The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still.” Exodus 14:13, 14

Guess what?

“Then the angel of God, who had been traveling in front of Israel’s army, withdrew and went behind them. The pillar of cloud also moved from in front and stood behind them, coming between the armies of Egypt and Israel. Throughout the night the cloud brought darkness to the one side and light to the other side; so neither went near the other all night long.” Exodus 14:19, 20

The Lord fought for them.

The Lord brought them into that new land, a land flowing with milk and honey.

Guess what the Israelites did?

They let the Lord fight for them.

The kept moving forward.

God was bringing them into a new land, and they steadfastly put one foot in front of the other.

I took this long route of recalling the story of the Israelites freedom to show you the power of our God.

He knows our hearts. He knows every heart’s misery. He hears us calling out to him for a change, a new direction, a healing, helping, comforting Hand to carry us through. And He has a plan to not only save us, but for us to know and glorify Him through the process.

You Need Only Be Still.

God will gain glory for Himself through your trial.

The Israelites didn’t fight.

They prayed. They cried out.

They didn’t arm themselves with one weapon to walk out of Egypt.

Yet they left with plunder because God made the Egyptians favorably disposed to them.

What is this land you are walking out of?

Is it a bad year? A disappointing experience? Poor health? A challenging relationship? Let downs, put downs, or even a broken heart?

The Lord hears your cries. He has already begun to bring you into a new land to make a Fresh Start. Satan is fighting for you. He's digging in, and he doesn't want to you to let go of anger, disappointment, sin, addictions, depression, and failures. While he will fight ever against you leaving the miserable land, God’s Mighty Hand will do everything necessary to seek and gain your release.

You Need Only Be Still.

If he sent His angels to lay down holy fire against the Egyptian army so that the Israelites could escape, dear sister, He will send his angels to hold back the enemy aiding your escape from Satan’s schemes, destruction, and vices.

Our God is a Mighty God.

You need only be still.

He will fight for you.

He will fight for me.

And He will bring us safely to a new land, a new beginning, a new peace, a new heart, because we are a new creation in Christ Jesus.

You Need Only…..Be Still.

Restore My Soul

2011-01-06T18:38:00.000-06:00

“The LORD is my shepherd,
I shall not be in want.
He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
he restores my soul.” Psalm 23:1-3

Quiet waters, green pastures, fresh air.

They all remind me of peace.

Before I was married, I would steal away a day or two every now and again to “retreat.”

Nothing fancy.

I just got in my 1989 Chevy Cavalier and headed for the quietest spot I could find on the northshore. I would sit for hours, praying, journaling, crying, laughing, and talking with God. I didn’t need anything else. I only needed time with God. At the end of my retreat, I was anew. I had gained a fresh perspective. I was refreshed, restored, and at peace.

We almost always embark on new goals, dreams, paths, and adventures because the old has worn us out. The beaten path has proved to beat us down. We ready for something new, exciting, and most of all refreshing!

I rarely think about peace at these times of beginning anew. But you know what: peace is exactly what I’m looking for.

The dreary and down-trodden path of failure or the monotony of the constant routine produces unrest, insecurity, instability, and the opposite of peace – chaos. Thus, we get that desire: to move on, move forward, change, turn around, repent, renew, be restored, and begin again.

God knows we need peace.

“Whoever of you loves life
and desires to see many good days,
keep your tongue from evil
and your lips from telling lies.
Turn from evil and do good;
seek peace and pursue it.” Psalm 34:12-14

Seek peace and pursue it.

I know in my days, I have not been in pursuit of peace the way I should have. And then you throw in a hubby, three kids, and a full-time job, and peace seems like a dream more than a reality.

But God knows me and you, inside and out. He knows we are mothers, wives, employees, servants of the church, and home managers. He still implores us to seek peace.

“Also, seek the peace and prosperity of the city to which I have carried you into exile. Pray to the LORD for it, because if it prospers, you too will prosper.” Jeremiah 29:7

“The Master said, "Martha, dear Martha, you're fussing far too much and getting yourself worked up over nothing. One thing only is essential, and Mary has chosen it—it's the main course, and won't be taken from her." Luke 10:41-42 The Message

“I will listen to what God the LORD will say;
he promises peace to his people, his saints –“ Psalm 85:8

As I start anew this year, I have chosen not to be anxious about anything, but I have made my pursuit: to seek the peace that transcends all understanding.

There have been several areas in my life where I need and must pursue peace. For years, I have been “the perfectionist.” Time to let go. Time to pursue peace as a mom, a wife, and teacher.

While I desire to have truly great, growing, and supportive relationships, it has been of utmost importance to me to know and understand what truly supportive and growing relationships are. Time to pursue peace. As I build new friendships, strengthen old friendships, and reach out to the lost, I must allow God's timing and patience to heal those that do not promote mutual growth and are not supportive.

Take a moment this week to think about the peace in your life. Think about the areas in which you need to seek peace, and then pray to pursue it with everything you’ve got.

“Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.” Philippians 4:6-8

The journey of a Fresh Start has begun….

A Fresh Start!

2011-01-04T15:33:00.000-06:00

I know very few people who begin January 1st the same as they begin December 1st of the previous year.

The New Year almost always brings along with it new goals, new life, the chance to start over and begin anew!

And most of us need it. After the holidays, the indulgence in plenty o' good food, the three hundred and sixty five days of the previous year, most are looking forward to the opportunity to start over from a blank slate.

I am no different than many of you. I love making goals for the new year. I enjoy looking over what I did or did not accomplish in the previous year and resolving to start something new or start again. This January, I desire to take us through the beauty of new beginnings. Whether you are starting over in life, in school, with God, in your relationships, or with yourself, the bible offers wonderful counsel on the time to turn over a new leaf, the need to start over, and the opportunities given by God to begin again.

"He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. Many will see and fear the LORD and put their trust in him." Psalm 40:3

From the new land he promised to the Israelites, to a new song sang by David, a new heart promised through the prophet Ezekiel, to the new covenant confirmed to us in Christ's blood, it is good to learn what God made new, and to understand how He sees that we, too, need to start over every now and then.

I, like you, am embarking on new areas, starting over in old areas, and beginning again in areas that I failed.

I hear God singing to me: "If not you, who?" "If not now, when?"

My hope is that you enjoy this month long series. Sit back, take in a breath of fresh, and crisp, cool January air, and in the areas you've chosen this year, let us both make A Fresh Start!

Fame

2011-01-02T19:00:00.002-06:00

Love that song. I had the leg warmers and watched both Irene Cara and Janet Jackson on the show decades ago. The song had a catchy tune, and I never really thought about the words, especially the chorus, until a bible group leader shared the chorus of the song from a spiritual perspective a few years back.

Most everyone I've known in my life has at some point wanted to be famous. Kings are famous. Presidents are famous. We may not want to be queens (well I do secretly), or dancers, or rockstars, but we surely have given fame some thought, even if it was being a famous scientist, a famous writer, or a famous mom (like Florence Henderson, or Beaver Cleaver’s mom).

Fame (renown, favorable character, widespread reputation), or the desire of fame, is something I believe is weaved into the makeup of every human being.

Sure, we get to a point where most of us grow up, accept reality, and no longer seek or dream of fame, but as a teenager, which of us wouldn’t have wanted to be famous?

Some of our spiritual forefathers were spoken of for their fame:

“God gave Solomon wisdom and very great insight, and a breadth of understanding as measureless as the sand on the seashore. Solomon's wisdom was greater than the wisdom of all the men of the East, and greater than all the wisdom of Egypt. He was wiser than any other man, including Ethan the Ezrahite—wiser than Heman, Calcol and Darda, the sons of Mahol. And his fame spread to all the surrounding nations.” 1 Kings 4:29-31

"So David's fame spread throughout every land, and the LORD made all the nations fear him.” 1 Chronicles 14:17

So what is it about fame that captivates us? Well, read the words of the chorus of the song once more:

Fame

(chorus)

Remember my name
Fame

I'm gonna live forever

I'm gonna learn how to fly
High

I feel it coming together

People will see me and cry

Fame

I'm gonna make it to heaven

Light up the sky like a flame

Fame

I'm gonna live forever

Baby remember my name

-Remember my name-

Everyone wants to be remembered.

“The memory of the righteous will be a blessing, but the name of the wicked will rot.” Proverbs 10:7

“Surely he will never be shaken; a righteous man will be remembered forever.” Psalm 112:6

“Then he said, ‘Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.’” Luke 23:42

"I, Paul, write this greeting in my own hand. Remember my chains.” Colossians 4:18

When someone is remembered, they are thought about, cherished, taken to heart, and held dear. To not be remembered is to be forgotten, disregarded, overlooked, or simply: you are out of one’s mind.

Christ asked us to remember Him:

"And he took bread, gave thanks and broke it, and gave it to them, saying, “This is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me.” Luke 22:19

God Himself, the God of the universe, desires to be remembered by His people:

“…then when you eat and are satisfied, be careful that you do not forget the LORD, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.” Deuteronomy 6:12

Fame.

-I’m gonna live forever-

“He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the hearts of men;” Ecclesiastes 3:11

“Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses.” 1 Timothy 6:12

“They will see his face, and his name will be on their foreheads. There will be no more night. They will not need the light of a lamp or the light of the sun, for the Lord God will give them light. And they will reign for ever and ever.” Revelation 22:4, 5

-I'm gonna learn how to fly-

“After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.” 1 Thessalonias 4:17

-I feel it coming together-

“Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.” 1 Corinthians 13:12

“We know also that the Son of God has come and has given us understanding, so that we may know him who is true.” 1 John 5:20

-People will see me and cry-

“I know that you have little strength, yet you have kept my word and have not denied my name. I will make those who are of the synagogue of Satan, who claim to be Jews though they are not, but are liars—I will make them come and fall down at your feet and acknowledge that I have loved you.” Revelation 3:8, 9

“When we heard this, we and the people there pleaded with Paul not to go up to Jerusalem. Then Paul answered, "Why are you weeping and breaking my heart? I am ready not only to be bound, but also to die in Jerusalem for the name of the Lord Jesus." When he would not be dissuaded, we gave up and said, "The Lord's will be done." Acts 21: 12-14

-I'm gonna make it to heaven-

“For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day” 1 Timothy 4:6-8

“I [Jesus] am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.” John 14:2, 3

“Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession—to the praise of his glory.” Ephesians 1:13, 14

-Light up the sky like a flame-

“Listen, I tell you a mystery: We will not all sleep, but we will all be changed— in a flash, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, the dead will be raised imperishable, and we will be changed.” 1 Corinthians 15:51, 52

“Men will tell you, 'There he is!' or 'Here he is!' Do not go running off after them. For the Son of Man in his day will be like the lightning, which flashes and lights up the sky from one end to the other. But first he must suffer many things and be rejected by this generation.” Luke 17:23 - 25

-I'm gonna live forever-

Then Jesus declared, "I am the bread of life.” “I am the living bread that came down from heaven. If anyone eats of this bread, he will live forever.” John 6: 35, 51 (emphasis mine)

“As servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; in truthful speech and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors; known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed; sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything.” 2 Corinthians 6: 4-10

These scriptures speak for themselves. Remember His Name. Remember His promise. We will have Fame. We will be remembered forever. And if we don't have fame in this life like David or Solomon, we will truly have it reigning with Christ in the next!

Soli Deo Gloria

(To God Alone Be All The Glory!)

Still.....

2010-12-28T08:17:00.000-06:00

We've arrived at the last week of 2010!

What an amazing journey of monthly series, lessons learned, and priorities this year has been for me. I would like to thank everyone who ventures to ItIsByGrace regularly and supports our heart to glorify God through every word we share. Thank you!

The latter part of this year has been such a wonderful learning experience for me. While I have written less, I have had the opportunity to pause, reflect, ponder, live, and understand life more on the narrow road.

God implores:

“Be still, and know that I am God;
I will be exalted among the nations,
I will be exalted in the earth.” Psalm 46:10

The busyness of our lives often hinders our ability to stop, reflect, ponder our lives before God and all we are to strive for in His presence.

While I have three high-energy children (of course, they take after their parents!), work full-time, and am active in my ministry to women, to serve the church, and to seek the lost, it can be very easy to come to the conclusion that I am busy....all the time.

The second half of this year, I purposefully planned to not allow my constantly bustling surroundings hinder my ability to come before God in stillness. Yes, there were days I was moving about from sunrise to sunset, but there were so many more days that I prayed, journaled, meditated on God's word, blessed, and served.

It is a beautiful thing to feel refreshed and at peace before God.

"Great peace have those who love your law, and nothing can make them stumble." Psalm 119:165

"Her ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace." Proverbs 3:17

The opposite of peace is: war

Constant conflict, combat, contention, battle, struggle, hostility, fighting, strife, feud, unrest, discord, rivalry, disunity.

Yes, I have not only been around environments such as this, but have been right in the middle of them at times.

But God is not a God of disorder. He is certainly not a God of constant struggle, strife, feuding, or conflict.

"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God." Matthew 5:9

"For the kingdom of God is not a matter of eating and drinking, but of righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit." Romans 14:17

"The God of peace will soon crush Satan under your feet." Romans 16:20

"May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through." 1 Thessalonians 5:23

"I urge, then, first of all, that petitions and prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people - for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior...." 1 Timothy 2:1-3

"Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me, or seen in me - put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you." Philippians 4:9

God is a God of peace. Though we have to deal with conflict from time to time, I make it my ambition to live at peace with all men (and women), and to also live a quiet life. Paul shares that living in this way, as well as working with our hands and minding our own business, wins the respect of outsiders (1 Thessalonians 4:10-12).

When situations and circumstances cause constant conflict, struggle, fighting, feuding, or rivalry, I pray evermore for a way out. Bickering, constant conflict, and rivalry has nothing but disastrous consequences.

"For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: 'Love your neighbor as yourself." If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by one another." Galatians 5:14, 15 (emphasis mine)

Be Still.

Know that God is the everlasting, unchanging God.

He will be exalted, regardless the situation, regardless the circumstances.

What an incredible journey it has been recognizing these facts it a world full of conflict, a life filled with priorities, even a single day brimming over with busyness. Learning how to be still.

Through this journey, I found an incredible reflection:

"But Jesus was silent." Mt 26:63

The Silence is Meekness.
When you do not defend yourself against offenses;
When you do not claim your rights;
When you let God defend you;
The Silence is Meekness.

The Silence is Mercy.
When you do not reveal the faults of your brothers to others;
When you readily forgive without inquiring into the past;
When you do not judge, but pray in your heart;
The Silence is Mercy.

The Silence is Patience.
When you accept suffering not with grumbling but joyfully;
When you do not look for human consolations;
When you do not become too anxious, but wait in patience for the seed to germinate;
The Silence is Patience.

The Silence is Humility.
When there is no competition;
When you consider the other person to be better than yourself;
When you let your brothers emerge, grow and mature;
When you joyfully abandon all to the Lord;
When your actions may be misinterpreted;
When you leave to others the glory of the enterprise;
The Silence is Humility.

The Silence is Faith.
When you keep quiet because you know that the Lord will act;
When you renounce the voice of the world to remain in the presence of the Lord;
When you do not labour yourself to be understood;
because it is enough for you to know that the Lord understands you;
The Silence is Faith.

The Silence is Adoration.
When you embrace the cross without asking "Why?";
The Silence is Adoration.

....'til He returns, or calls me home,

A Child Is Born

2010-12-24T12:19:00.000-06:00

As we continue this holiday season’s focus: Jesus Is The Gift, we should take a moment today to pause and deliberate on the world before Jesus’ birth. Though Isaiah had prophesied a savior, and had given detailed information regarding his coming, birth, life, and death, no one knew when this promise would occur.

Could you imagine this same event happening in 2010?

In the middle of economic downturn, a world full of poverty, lost jobs, lost homes, and broken families, we have been told that a savior is to come. He will save us. He will free us from this oppression.

And, one evening, an angel appears. He tells you that you will carry this child who will save the world, a child who will be called the Son of The Most High.

I’m in my thirties and I would probably have a heart attack. Who knows my reaction if I were a mere teenager who was only pledged to be married.

Nevertheless, you believe, and you accept this calling from God.

Throughout the pregnancy, you have been filled with wonder, filled with excitement, and yes, even filled with a little bit of fear.

Do you really know what this all means?

The night is here. You’re feeling the kicks, the contractions, and you know it’s time. The baby is coming. Several hours later, he’s here. A promised child. You look into his eyes, and you remember: This is the child whom you were told would save this hurting world. You feel an overwhelming responsibility. What if you drop him? What if you do something wrong in teaching him? What if….

The promised Christ is not a passing bedtime story. Before Christ, the real world was hurting, similar to how it is hurting today. The valiant kings of old, like David, were not around anymore. The people of Israel felt lost, like an abandoned people. They had not heard from God for hundreds of years.

Do you know what hopelessness feels like?

The God that you have been raised to believe in, hope in, pray to…has not spoken – to anyone. And not just in your lifetime, but for hundreds of years before you were ever born. But still, you hope. Because of the writings of the prophets, you believe that a Savior is going to come. He just has to come. He has to save the world.

And before you know it, the one you’ve hoped for is here. A lot different than you’ve imagined, because right now, he’s asleep on your lap. He is this small, fat-legged baby. But, he is the Hope of the world. You have so many thoughts: we’re still in a bad economy, we have no idea how we’re gonna make it next month, and oh, how will we raise the most important Gift to the world?

The reality is: you don’t know. You have to trust in God…for everything. The only certainty you have is that God’s messenger told you that he is the Son of The Most High, the Hope of the world, the Everlasting Lord.

Jesus Is Truly The Gift.

“For to us a child is born,

to us a son is given,

and the government will be on his shoulders.

And he will be called

Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,

Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.

Of the increase of his government and peace

there will be no end.

He will reign on David's throne

and over his kingdom,

establishing and upholding it

with justice and righteousness

from that time on and forever.”

Isaiah 9:6, 7

Do You Hear What I Hear?

2010-12-23T21:31:00.000-06:00

Despite the snowy, icy, blizzard-like conditions that have covered the Midwestern states, Christmas has come to Chicagoland full swing. While enjoying a few days off to love up on the children, enjoy family, and create treasured memories, I haven’t helped but notice the continuing debate that happens this time of the year.

Along with the pros and cons of belief in Santa Claus, there is the never-ending examination of whether Jesus was born on December 25th. It’s all too funny to me, as serious deliberation on these matters seem to take so much time, effort, and any speculation that we, who are alive today, would have would be futile as we are so far from the actual event. Most of our facts are based on the records of others.

Still, the discussion continues:

-Should we tell our children that Santa Claus isn’t real?
-Where does Frosty the Snowman, Christmas stockings, the Christmas tree, and presents fall in the story of Christ’s birth?
-Outside of the commercialism, why do we decorate our homes at this time of the year?
-If it’s Jesus’ birthday, why do we give our own children more gifts than they receive on their own birthday?
-Why aren’t we giving Jesus what He would want for his birthday?

I believe all the traditions that happen during this time all started with noble intent.

There are many in our world that have very strict beliefs regarding these matters, while others think very lightly of their origin.

Biblically speaking, no documentation of the actual day of the week or month of the year of Jesus’ birth was ever recorded. Most of us know that. As well, based on biblical reference, Jesus never celebrated his own birthday in all the years he lived. During Jesus’ childhood, the only recorded festival of celebration that Jesus observed every year was the Feast of the Passover (Luke 2:41). Most of us know that too.

In all these debates and discussions, I have found a remarkable fact at Jesus’ birth:

“Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying,
"Glory to God in the highest,
and on earth peace to men on whom his favor rests." Luke 2:13

I found this same fact evident before Jesus’ death:

“When he came near the place where the road goes down the Mount of Olives, the whole crowd of disciples began joyfully to praise God in loud voices for all the miracles they had seen:
"Blessed is the king who comes in the name of the Lord!"
"Peace in heaven and glory in the highest!" Luke 19:37, 38

Do You Hear What I Hear?

Whether it was during Jesus’ birth, Jesus’ life, or Jesus’ death, glory and praise were given to God.

During Christmas, I choose not to hear the debate, the endless examinations of the actual date of Jesus’ birth. I choose not to hear the continual dispute on Santa Claus’ reality for children, where Frosty and Christmas stockings come from, or even whether or not to have a birthday party for Jesus.

During this time of the year, I hear glory and praise to God in the highest.

I join the great company of heavenly host who continually praise him day and night for the tremendous gift of His Son to mankind.

Do You Hear What I Hear?

I certainly hope so.

“Glory to God in the highest,

and on earth peace,

good will toward men.”

Luke 2:14 KJV