A beautiful world! http://blogs.jambav.com/malini As he sees it! en-US http://backend.userland.com/rss 60 Birthday Sat, 16 Jun 2007 06:47:09 +0000 Homepage Parenting 3800@http://blogs.jambav.com Akhil has turned two on this June 5th. It was a small birthday celebration at our house. After attending a birthday party of our neighbour, akhil was actually facinated by the idea of birthdays - color papers, cakes, crowd, and most importantly birthday song. Birthday is a word that has been added to vocabulary without much difficulty. He has been saying "birthday, akhil birthday" and make us sing the song at least 10 times a day. And then when it was his real birthday and we sang while he was still in the bed trying to get up, it did not make any difference, because we had been singing the same song for more than a month! And the party mood got set in the evening, when we were decorating the house with color papers, happy birthday hangings, cake, candles and new dress! We had invited our neighbours and collegues, whose presence did not trouble akhil at all. He was cool playing with his toys, saying his newly learnt words to people. When the time came, we cut the cake, distributed it to people, and filled our bags with gifts, and every thing just went on perfect!! It was a good celebration time, and we had realize that two years had flew like two months. Jaya.
And then when it was his real birthday and we sang while he was still in the bed trying to get up, it did not make any difference, because we had been singing the same song for more than a month! And the party mood got set in the evening, when we were decorating the house with color papers, happy birthday hangings, cake, candles and new dress! We had invited our neighbours and collegues, whose presence did not trouble akhil at all. He was cool playing with his toys, saying his newly learnt words to people.

When the time came, we cut the cake, distributed it to people, and filled our bags with gifts, and every thing just went on perfect!! It was a good celebration time, and we had realize that two years had flew like two months.

Jaya.


Written by a Jambav Parenting Blogger. For more, visit http://blogs.jambav.com]]> http://blogs.jambav.com/malini?p=3800&c=1&tb=1&pb=1#comments Trouble with books! Wed, 21 Mar 2007 13:30:17 +0000 Parenting 3685@http://blogs.jambav.com Read an article some time back that, reading habit should be cultivated in children from first year itself, getting them exposed to books, showing them picture books, and slowly move on to higher levels. Me being a ardent book lover, would certainly want Akhil also to be so. With that strong intent, I bought a ABC Picture book for Akhil - it had big pictures of various objects he knows already. I showed to him with due care thinking all about the article that i read, interpreted all the pictures in the book saying - Apple, it is a fruit, you like it, you had it yesterday blah blah... And I also instructed my mother, to show him the book often, and familiarize him with the books. Today I just enquired her, as to how are the book sessions going on? She said, I have just put the book in the shelf where he cannot see it. I could not think of a reason for it and asked her, she replied - what ever object he sees in the book - he wants to be given to him then and there - sees apples, grapes, icecreams, dolls, wants it in his hand at the same moment, unable to convince him I have just kept the book away from his eyes!! Tough times ahead! Jaya.
I showed to him with due care thinking all about the article that i read, interpreted all the pictures in the book saying - Apple, it is a fruit, you like it, you had it yesterday blah blah... And I also instructed my mother, to show him the book often, and familiarize him with the books.

Today I just enquired her, as to how are the book sessions going on? She said, I have just put the book in the shelf where he cannot see it. I could not think of a reason for it and asked her, she replied - what ever object he sees in the book - he wants to be given to him then and there - sees apples, grapes, icecreams, dolls, wants it in his hand at the same moment, unable to convince him I have just kept the book away from his eyes!!

Tough times ahead!

Jaya.

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Recently he entered the kitchen, to find something interesting in the stove counter top. But he could not reach to it because of its height. He instantly looked down, saw a vessel, took it and put it upside down, and climbed on to it and reached to the apple that was there in the counter top. We could not actually believe that he did it by himself, but it was so natural that he knew the solution all years!

And next when he wants to see what is there on the shelves, he just pulls the plastic chair to that position, climbs over it, and easily accesses the items kept on the shelves. Since we donot have closed cupboards in our house, he is just enjoying peeping into all of them.

Jaya.

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My father bought him an ice cream one day, and from then on it became a routine to buy icecreams every alternative days. And akhil learnt this word ice, and from then on, he has started to say "Aice". It is the first word he has learnt next to amma and appa!

I think Akhil has got music sense too. He knows to put thaalam if he hears any song, and also recognize songs at their first beat. The next word he has learnt is AAthayi.. For people who know Tamil song - he has learnt that word from the Ammadi Aathadi song. He just knows the second word, and keeps on saying aathaayi aathaayi. And we have asked him to say aathaayi so many times, that when ever he speaks over the phone with my sister, without even asking, he would just say Aathaayi, as we say hello!

The third word in his vocabulary is - Rose. Again this word is picked from the flower vendor who comes on the roads in the mornings. He sells roses and shouts rose in front of every house. And akhil says it as "Rosa".
And when anybody is coming to the house, he nods his head as a sign of welcome, and does vanakkam (holding his hands in worship posture).

Jaya.

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I must admit that children learn definetely more than what we teach!!

Jaya.

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It is nice to know that he has learnt the rotating movement of his fingers and stepped into another milestone in his life...

Another surprising thing i noted yesterday was Akhil was playing with the tap and probably he should have felt thirsty to drink water. He cupped his small hands and tried to catch the water and take it to his mouth. He found that he could not even take a drop of it. Next, what he did was he kept both his hands cupped under the tap and tried to move his head close to the tap and started to drink the flowing water.

I was actually amazed at the natural intelligence of the children, nobody teaches that he can drink water in that way and yet he was able to find a solution to his need very naturally!

Jaya.

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Here is one by Akhil rightly to be called as Inspired by Siddharth!

Jaya.



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God only knows as to what he thinks about shadows!

Jaya.

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And we are carrying him at that moment, he is trying to beat the us, spoil our hair, and also try to pinch! Though none of these are painful, it is really amazing as to see how he would have learnt all these as agitative measures. We never pinch each other, or throw things, so he has no chance of seeing such an activity. He would become allright after 5 minutes of crying and get back to normal state. (unless my father is there around. My father cannot see kids crying and would give away what ever he is asking)

Probably the kids have their own intelligence that makes them to behave the way they do at given situations...

Jaya.

Written by a Jambav Parenting Blogger. For more, visit http://blogs.jambav.com]]> http://blogs.jambav.com/malini?p=3547&c=1&tb=1&pb=1#comments Debut performance on Stage! Tue, 12 Dec 2006 03:09:53 +0000 My Mind 3539@http://blogs.jambav.com We had celebrated children's day at our office couple of weeks back. There was fancy dress, talentshows and many other interesting events for children. Akhil was ready to rock the show as Krishna. My mother had taken the pains to buy the dress and jewels and got him ready and came to our office. I was actually worried as to how akhil might react to the crowd, stage and loud music. To my surprise he was as casual as he can be! He was moving here and there in the auditorium, running behind balloons, unaffected by the gathering crowd. He and another kutti girl were first to be on the stage, and i was the comperer and hence carried a mike. Akhil seeing mine, asked one for himself and was not ready to part with it even he was about to get down. I had to do all coaxing to get the mike from him! He was enjoying the show actually, had popcorns, listened to all music, made friends there and came back to house tired after his first debut performance on stage!
Akhil was ready to rock the show as Krishna. My mother had taken the pains to buy the dress and jewels and got him ready and came to our office. I was actually worried as to how akhil might react to the crowd, stage and loud music. To my surprise he was as casual as he can be! He was moving here and there in the auditorium, running behind balloons, unaffected by the gathering crowd.

He and another kutti girl were first to be on the stage, and i was the comperer and hence carried a mike. Akhil seeing mine, asked one for himself and was not ready to part with it even he was about to get down. I had to do all coaxing to get the mike from him!

He was enjoying the show actually, had popcorns, listened to all music, made friends there and came back to house tired after his first debut performance on stage!
Akhil on Stage

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