For Sanki we created an action engine called SankiPlus.com. Its main purpose is to get people to take action. One of the steps on today’s video was to decide what you are prepared to give in return for thing you are working for.

To achieve your dream weight are you willing to give up junk food and get your body moving each day?

To make more money are you willing to watch less television?

To date the person of your dreams are you willing to give up some comfort and make that phone call?

It does not matter what you are working for, you must be willing to give up something to get it. Decision is key, but action is where the magic is. Decide what you want, go after it with passion and leave behind the anchors preventing you from positive action.

The body is an amazing machine that is powerful beyond our comprehension, but as Sanki Global’s Chief Medical Officer, Dr. Scott Jewkes, reminded me recently, it is also very fragile. In my office in Las Vegas, Dr. Jewkes used our Sanki micro scanners to look at the blood flow in my capillaries. Though my capillaries had good blood flow, Dr. Jewkes also told me that there was evidence of some plaque build up.

My grandmother Nona died of heart failure. She had a massive heart attack at age 60 and then lived with a very weakened heart and restricted lifestyle until her death. My grandmother Lola died of cancer. I have DNA from both of them.

Disease can be more predictable when you know what causes it. Poor blood circulation and excess body inflammation are the cause of almost every disease known to mankind. When the blood does not circulate well, our bodies do not get the oxygen we need. Skin ages faster, we loose energy at the cellular level, the heart works it self to death and low blood flow to the brain can cause serious problems. When we have excess inflammation the body cannot heal itself properly, the metabolism slows and life quality is seriously impaired.

So what am I doing? For the past three years I have made big changes in the way I eat and how I exercise. Here are some facts about me 3 years ago versus today:

Jeffery Boyle at 38:

• Weight – 158 pounds – 71 kg
• Waist – 32 inches – 81.28 cm
• Body Fat Percentage – 14%
• Exercise – Cardio Vascular by playing indoor soccer four times a month
• Health Problems:
  • Lower back pain
  • Very tight legs and hamstrings
  • Higher blood cholesterol
  • Higher blood pressure
• Diet:
  • Excess sodium
  • Frequent red meat
  • 2 or 3 sodas a month
  • Never checked ingredients in my food
  • I ate lots of bread
  • Fruits and vegetables if they were available

Jeffery Boyle at 41:

• Weight – 172 pounds – 78 kg
• Waist 32 inches – 81.28 cm
• Body Fat Percentage – 8%
• Exercise –
  • Heavy Cardio Vascular 3 or 4 times a week for 20 minutes
  • Weight resistance training 4 or 5 times a week
  • Stretching 4 or 5 times a week
• Health Problems
  • Severe left leg trauma and nerve damage from being hit by a car on my motorcycle. My pain is controlled by frequent movement and exercise.
  • No back or hamstring problems due to strengthened core.
  • Normal blood pressure
  • As of one year ago cholesterol lowered from 3 years ago. I need to get it checked again.
• Diet –
  • Conscious effort to lower sodium intake
  • Frequent consumption of fruits and vegetables
  • Fast food very infrequently
  • Soda almost never
  • Huge reduction in bread and emphasis on whole grain organic bread
  • Always checking ingredients in food before I eat it

In three years I have changed my health direction completely. I have lost fat and gained a lot of muscle. I am eating a much cleaner diet and I have never felt better.

I am now a passionate health advocate. The evidence of plaque in my capillaries only strengthens my resolve for me and for those around me. Together with an army of others we will be launching a program called Sanki Fit with a Comprehensive Wellness Program. Sanki fit will be a program dedicated to better health in all areas of life. Stay tuned and I invite you to join us in changing your own life and those around you.

Warren Buffett, who is always one of the richest people in the world, reminds us to watch small expenses. Buffet insists that frugality is an important part of personal finance. Buffet lives today in the same Omaha, Nebraska, home he bought 40 years ago for $31,500.

Wealthy real estate investor Dave Lindahl drives a modest Ford Explorer and thinks his middle-class neighbors would be amazed if they knew how much money he was worth.

Well-known fitness guru Rick Sikorski is astonished that anybody would waste so much money constantly buying bottled water.

Best selling author and finance professor, Steve Maxwell, was interested in buying a home for $1,500,000 but opted for a home for half the price because “a house with double the cost wouldn’t give me double the enjoyment.”

In the 2007 Annual Survey of Affluence & Wealth in America, many of the richest people in America “spend their money with a middle-class mind-set.” The richest of the rich still use coupons and wait for luxuries to go on sale before they buy them.

Famous beauty and television star Tyra Banks cuts perfume samples from magazine ads to use when she is in a pinch.

Entrepreneur extraordinaire, Sara Blakely, may have a $100 million dollar clothing company but she still gets her hair cut on the cheap at Supercuts.

Next time you pull out your credit card, remember that interest never sleeps. In times of plenty stay within your means, reinvest your profits, pay off creditors and most of all understand that buying things that you don’t really need to impress people you really don’t like won’t get you what you really want.

Consider the following story I recently read:

Two monks from a brotherhood were on a journey by foot to visit a distant monastery when they came upon a beautiful lady standing by a stream. She expressed how happy she was to see them because she too was on a journey, but would not cross the stream alone. When one brother offered to carry her, he ever so quickly remembered the vows he took which would prevent him from touching a woman.

After some thought he picked up the maiden and crossed the stream, much to the surprise of his brother. Continuing on their trip, his fellow brother nagged him for miles about breaking his vows. The brother stopped, and looking at his friend said, Brother, I only carried the maiden fifty feet. You have been carrying her for the last fifty miles.

How many well-intentioned people do you have in your life that are weighing you down with negativity? People telling you to not take a chance or take that leap of faith that may change your life and make you better.

Have the courage to make big changes that will advance your life. Surround yourself with people that will encourage you and help you see abundance. If someone you love is bringing negativity into your life, help that person understand your need for positivity and encourage them to have faith in your personal progress.

Good surrounds you if you look for it. Great things can happen to you. Look for the best in others and insist on greatness in your life.

Dedicated to your success,
Jeffery Boyle

My teenage son, Parker, was not so enthused about the sales task and immediately said it was stupid and he just wanted us to buy the candy bars because he didn’t want to talk to people he didn’t know. My six your old son, Andrew, had a different answer, “I’m not afraid.”

At church I ran into a bunch of people who told me that Andrew had the magic touch and he was impossible to reject. After a clear sales record was established, Parker would just walk to the door with Andrew who would then do all the talking. Needless to say, Andrew easily won the competition over his older brother.

Like any proud big brother, Parker claimed that it wasn’t fair because Andrew is cute and how do you say no to him. However, Andrew’s success goes far beyond cherubic cheeks, huge blue eyes and sun bleached blonde hair. Andrew was a success because of a strait forward message backed by unwavering belief.

After quizzing some of Andrew’s new customers it became quite clear that this kid knows his stuff. Here is the sales pitch of a six-year-old pro (Imagine an unwavering voice of a small boy backed with confidence):

“I am selling chocolate candy bars for my baseball team, they are only a buck. How many do you want to buy? You can get as many as you want.”

Wow! Andrew is the man. He didn’t ask the neighbors and strangers if they wanted to buy, he asked how many they wanted to buy and confidently asserted that the purchase of just one bar was really not sufficient.

Everybody loves chocolate, but these are clearly not cheap candy bars. Andrew is naturally handsome with his round head like his dad (that is funny by the way), but so is his older brother and he didn’t sell nearly as many.

Next time you are selling an idea or product, remember that what and how you say something is far more important than saying it perfect. If you believe in something put your heart behind the sell and speak with confidence. You may not be only four feet tall with perfect blue eyes, but people can tell when you believe in what you are saying.

I love you Andrew, your sunny soul brings me happiness. Happy selling.

Dedicated to your success,
Jeffery Boyle

I want to be a man of great faith. I want to be a great husband, dad, employee and CEO. I want to be in great shape and do great things. I want to live a complete life and feel the joys of being alive. To accomplish these things I must love my life and those around me.

Recently I asked my 13-year-old son, Parker, what he thought about our family moving to a new city taking him away from his school and friends. His answer was humbling and meaningful when he said, “Dad, I don’t want to move, but we will be happy wherever we go, because we will be together.”

I am blessed to love what I do. I am blessed to have a loving wife and 5 children that love me. I am thankful for my incredible family and to be a part of a business that allows me to follow my dream of loving what I do.

Dedicated to your success,
Jeff

But let’s be honest, change is hard and progression requires change. My good buddy and video guru, Brandan Fisher, made the trip to Las Vegas with us this week to set up our video room in our new office. Anybody who travels with Philip Niu or me knows that every day includes physical activity and sometimes even extreme activity. I am still chuckling to myself right now with the image of Brandan walking around most of the day with alligator arms tucked at his side as he groans to pick anything up. Brandan asked if this extreme pain was normal or if he has some type of permanent damage.

Like Brandan, each of us experiences pain as we seek change in any area of our life. To Brandan’s credit he has kept going and is pushing through the pain. He is beginning to understand in period of just a couple days that real physical progress will only come by staying with it and not giving into the temporary pain, even if it is really intense.

When we are not progressing, we are miserable and feel an emptiness that cannot be fixed by overindulgence in food, chemical substances, television or anything else keeping us from progress. Our Creator blessed us with desires and skills that must be used and improved before they become buried too deep to find or are lost forever.

We were not meant to be stagnant and miserable. We were born to live life and find joy in it. We were meant to grow and inspire others to do the same.

Trying to avoid change in our life and maintain the status quo is impossible. Change is inevitable and only we determine if our change will be positive or negative. Relationships, health and finances do not remain idle and no amount of hoping or wishing will change that.

Each day we must ask, “Where do I need to develop? How can I overcome my obstacles? What do I want out of life? Where can I improve?”

Change is coming no matter what. Life is a constantly changing series of highs and lows and many times real progress only comes when we are fighting through the lows.

A couple suggestions that have come to my mind as I have thought of progression and change:

First, understand and accept that there is change and it is needed to progress. Is your desire to progress greater than the false comfort of staying where you currently are?

Second, you must ask yourself if you truly want to progress. Do you have immediate and long-term goals? Without goals you may not have the willpower to overcome the pain that comes with change.

Third, do you have someone or something that will push you and that you can follow on the path to success? Emerson said, “Our strength grows out of our weakness. Not until we are pricked and stung and sorely shot at, awakens the indignation which arms itself with secret forces. A great man is always willing to be little. Whilst he sits on the cushion of advantages, he goes to sleep. When he is pushed, tormented, defeated, he has a chance to learn something; he has been put on his wits, on his manhood; he has gained facts; learns his ignorance; is cured of the insanity of conceit; has got moderation and real skill.”

Last, you must be really committed to get past the pain of change and progress. Willpower and true grit are what will define your path to progress.

The power of change and progress is in you. You were born to progress and the benefits of change are there if you are willing to push past the temporary pain that can come with positive change.

Throughout my life, just like many other entrepreneurs, I have faced disappointment, distrust, lack of confidence and even some very big physical difficulties. I have had times when I wondered why I wasn’t experiencing the success I thought I deserved. I have had times when I wondered when my time would come and what more I had to do.

To any entrepreneur who has experienced some of the same obstacles, challenges and self-doubt I simply say, “Push through it, success will come.”

When we are doing the right things we are rewarded. Whether you believe in God, a higher power or just the laws of Karma, we must understand that right behavior is rewarded. Some blessings come now, some later on, and some don’t come for many years.

Don’t give up on yourself. Don’t quit before you see the fruits of your labors. Trust in yourself, trust in a higher power, keep your head up and believe that good is coming, because it will.

What you will notice if you observe people is that most are enslaved and held back by something – fear, self-doubt, past failures, betrayal, anxiety, stress, disease or any number of other perceived obstacles. Many times when I speak in public I ask the rhetorical question: “Are you today where you thought you would be when you were a teenager?” Most people automatically shake their head negatively.

As you watch people come and go you will notice very few people with a truly happy countenance or a spring in their step. However, if you go to a school playground you will notice happiness, laughter and excitement for life. The world is still a playground, but many people have forgotten how to live and enjoy life.

Our past failures can and must be for gathering wisdom and experience, not the continuation of a perpetual downward spiral. Every circumstance and experience can be for our good and help propel growth.

The whole idea of a complete life is centered around improvement – mental, physical, financial and spiritual. No halfway dedication is sufficient if you truly want success, happiness and progress.

When you become dedicated to living a complete life, there is something grand and glorious you will experience each day. You will see that life is not about perfection, but the pursuit of small perfect moments throughout the day. Life is about giving the perfect complement, making the impossible sale, loosing 5 “impossible” pounds and ending the day with a feeling of satisfaction.

Each day we are surrounded by golden nuggets of opportunity that will suddenly manifest into success when we are in the right state of mind, which only comes while actively seeking happiness and perpetual improvement. Most people simply miss these opportunities because they do not have the knowledge to seize them or even recognize them. The person seeking a complete life will never lack for opportunity because they come frequently and with abundance when the mental state is right.

To be happy and on the path to a complete life is the definition of success. To achieve this you have to be willing to learn and constantly improve your God-given talents. You must seek guidance from mentors and from powers that surround us each day. You must be prepared to accept the success that will come in abundance, but simply hoping and wishing will not be enough.

Remaining idle and just dreaming without putting ourselves into action is of no use. If we remain parked in neutral, nothing will ever be accomplished. Every principle that is given to us by a higher power is for our happiness and long-term success, but will only come when we are ready and actively doing what is necessary to receive it.

Sometimes we treat God as if he were some cosmic bellboy that comes when we ring our prayer bell. We think that simply saying a quick prayer will do the trick and then we deserve to be blessed. Real guidance comes when we search out the principles of happiness and success and then back them with trial and error. Only when we have done our part will our paths suddenly become clear which were once so obscure.

I say that life is full of wonder no matter what age we are. Seeking wealth is not unnatural or something unworthy of you. However, I look for my success through attempted improvement in all areas of mind, body, spirit and finances. I hope you are seeking abundance in your life. I hope that obstacles do not deter you. I hope you seek happiness and wealth in all areas. You deserve success and happiness, but only if you are willing to do your whole part and not give up.

Whether Ackman is right or wrong is not my focus here, but what Ackman said about Herbalife can be said about most network marketing companies. Basically stated, there is no true product value beyond the chance of making money. Here is a piece taken from the article quote:

Ackman says Herbalife is an “inherently fraudulent company.”

“We don’t believe there is any demand for the product by true retail consumers at the suggested retail price,” Ackman told CNNMoney in an interview Monday.

“Herbalife sells products,” Ackman said. “But what they really sell and what their distributors make money from is by selling a business opportunity, and the business opportunity is to sell the business opportunity to your friends, who in turn sell it to their friends.”

I am a network marketing and I have made a very good living within this industry. However, what Ackman proclaims is worthy of every network marketer asking about their company.

Are you providing value to consumers of your product or service outside of the chance to make money? It’s a dang good question and one that I hope you have a really good answer because network marketing companies cannot stay in business if everyone who buys their products makes money from them. Compensation plans fail if everyone took a bite of the apple. And by the way, that is the way with every business in the world. Those who sell the product make money when consumers by the product. If there is a value, people continue to buy it whether they are making money from it. They buy it because it has value to them not because they want a commission from it.

Do an analysis of your product or service and ask if you would buy it if it was at Walmart next to a competing product. If you are really honest with yourself and the answer is no, you better reevaluate what you are selling.

It was a beautiful and surreal moment…and then we lost Andrew for moment and Ethan yelled at me to put him down so he could throw rocks. Parker wanted an iPad. Dylan spit up all over himself. Katie, well she’s perfect, but I am sure she had a negative thought or something like that. I became frustrated and demanded we leave. I muttered something out loud about how stupid it was to be there with so many people. My sister laughed at me for muttering and Angela took pictures while asking me to kiss her in front of the lights.

So what does this have to do with goals? Even amidst the spit up, kicking, screaming and moments of being lost; it was very clear to me that my family is everything. They give me something to live for, motivation to work hard and the inspiration to constantly improve to be worthy of their love and admiration.

There will be a lot of advice in the next couple weeks on how to set goals and what you need to do to achieve them. My advice is much more simple. Find something or someone that inspires you to overcome your obstacles and fears but also creates a burning passion that gives you the energy to become something greater than what you are right now. For me that inspiration comes from Angela, Parker, Katie, Andrew, Ethan and Dylan; even when they spit up.

To say that there are only two types of people in the world is as ridiculous as Bob’s statement, but for sake of simplicity let’s go with what Bob said and assume in life there are only two types of people. Instead of limiting it those who like Neil Diamond, let’s say that there are those nice, compassionate people and then there are the arrogant go-getters who will sell your liver to get ahead.

Many of the doers in life are viewed as heroes for their accomplishments but spending a day with them is about as much fun as a nice sucker punch to the jejunum. Case in point, Steve Jobs. Revered for his visionary leadership, he was also a documented jerk. Case in point, a conversation between him and Bob Belleville, one of the hardware designers from Xerox, when Jobs said, “Everything you’ve ever done in your life is *+!#, so why don’t you come work for me?”

I think we all want to be considers doers, but few of us aspire to be a jerk. I was recently reminded of one of my less inspiring moments when a building manager nicely asked me to tell my employees to be more courteous to the other tenants in the parking lot. Having had a particularly challenging week, he received an unpleasant stream of condescending barbs launched from an unfiltered tongue. The only thing that helped me forget that past moment of weakness (until recently reminded) was that I immediately called and apologized.

If we want to be viewed as real doers and inspire others to follow, it is not necessary to destroy in the process. As a passionate and self described doer, I close with a quote that I find inspiring.

“In life, the sandpaper of circumstances often smooths our crustiness and patiently polishes our rough edges. There is nothing pleasant about it, however. And the Lord will go to great lengths in order to teach us a particular lesson and to help us to overcome a particular weakness, especially if there is no other way.” Neal Maxwell

The combination of peace of mind and peace in relationships is powerful. When my mind is peacefully active and I am surrounded by the right people, I thrive. Peace allows innovation and prosperity but also requires real effort. Effort that can be wasted when the mind is not right and I am surrounded by the wrong people.

I have spent the last couple weeks taking personal inventory of my relationships, my bank account, my state of mind and who I spend my time with. It has been a journey of prayer, reflection and has not been without challenging decisions, but it has been exciting. I have had to audit what I do, how I do it and who I want to be with to ensure I am in a state of ongoing peace and prosperity.

I think well with my fingers, writing is cathartic and helps take the intangible and make it real. This blog post is for me, if you find it useful, that’s a big bonus for me. The following are my tenants of success that bring me peace and are proving to bring with it prosperity:

Perpetual Service

A dedication to helping others and serving their needs is a sublime experience of knowing that one is useful and capable of generating harmony and peace in another human being.

Continual Education

Working each day to improve my mindset from scarcity to abundance through mental expansion and self-belief activities. Prepare for abundance by being in an environment to achieve success through instruction and discipline to proven success principles.

Physical Transformation

Changing and powering my body through proper diet, exercise and dress is essential to human development. Lack of physical discipline now will rob me of the ability to enjoy financial rewards in the future. A broken body prevents me from experiencing true abundance.

Strong Relationships

Creating awareness of those who surround me is vital to an environment of innovation and prosperity because I become who I associate with. Finding good mentors and mentoring others creates true abundance exchange through accountability.

Money Consciousness 

The ownership of money and property comes as a result of doing things in a certain way. My current lack or abundance is a result of my choices in the past. My future depends upon vigilance, calculated risk and adherence to the principles of perpetual service, continual education, physical transformation and my strong relationships.

Few of us were born with Michael Jordan’s athleticism, Joan of Ark’s bravery, Einstein’s intelligence or JP Morgan’s silver spoon that propelled them to heroism, fame and fortune. Most of us are average looking, have average height and are easily lost in a crowd. The idea of thinking big for us awkward citizens sounds great but can come with some nasty consequences. For the downtrodden millions without the resources, natural skills or experience to implement those big thoughts, the result can be cataclysmic.

Let me propose an old alternative in an era of disposable technology where yesterday is ancient news and tomorrow already happened. How about we focus on the fundamentals? How about we go back to an emphasis on mastering the basics?

Napoleon Hill’s famous quote, “What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve” sounds great to get you past the daily drudgery of failure…and make no mistake about it, I am an advocate of thinking with grandiosity. However, let me pull out a couple of my new favorite quotes as you engage in the daily battle of entrepreneurism that must be embraced to make the “big” thoughts possible:

“First master the fundamentals. I wasn’t real quick, and I wasn’t real strong. Some guys will just take off and it’s like, whoa. So I beat them with my mind and my fundamentals.” Larry Bird – Hall of Fame basketball player.

“Success is neither magical nor mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of consistently applying the basic fundamentals.” Jim Rohn – American entrepreneur, author and motivational speaker.

“All compromise is based on give and take, but there can be no give and take on fundamentals. Any compromise on mere fundamentals is a surrender. For it is all give and no take.” Gandhi

“Perhaps the single most important element in mastering the techniques and tactics of racing is experience. But once you have the fundamentals, acquiring the experience is a matter of time.” Greg Lemond – three-time winner of the Tour de France.

“Fundamentals make the market.” T. Boone Pickens – American business magnate and financier.

“I had to spend countless hours, above and beyond the basic time, to try and perfect the fundamentals.” Julius Erving – Hall of Fame basketball player

Jobs are down, debt is up and yet we the Americans elected the same guy. Why is that? I will steal a line from Jeffrey Gitomer:

All things being equal, people want to do business with friends. All things being not quite so equal, people STILL want to do business with friends.

Whether you agree with Obama or not, you have to admit that he can give some pretty darn good speeches. I don’t care if you can’t stand Obama and his policies, he ran on being cooler and more likeable than Romney…and he won. People stick with what they know and with the people they like.

In business, who you know is more powerful than what you know. The likeable C+ student will always climb higher than the grumpy genius.

Master your craft and be an expert in your profession. Understand strategies and techniques, but if you really want to make it big, build relationships and learn to be likable.

Build relationships, foster friendships and you will make more money.

In 1910 Wallace Wattle wrote, “Whatever may be said in praise of poverty, the fact remains that it is not possible to live a really complete or successful life unless one is rich. No man can rise to his greatest possible height in talent or soul development unless he has plenty of money; for to unfold the soul and to develop talent he must have many things to use, and he cannot have these things unless he has money to buy them with.”

I agree.

In 2006 famous sales guru Jeffrey Gitomer wrote, “Although most people think being rich is about having money, rich is a description for everything but money. Rich relationships lead to much more than money.”

Also correct, I agree.

I am a fan of money; I’m not going to lie. As the philosopher Adam Sandler said in the Wedding Singer, “I like it, I use it, I have a little. I keep it in a jar on top of my refrigerator. I’d like to put more in that jar. That’s where you come in.”

For the next couple posts I am going to write about creating relationships and what they mean to make more money.

However, before I get to that, I want to say something about my most important relationship in the world. Without this relationship I would be lost. With this relationship I know whom to count on. I can call this person any time of the day or night. This relationship is about business, friendship, fun, accountability, challenges and most of all love.

My most important relationship is with my lovely wife Angela, who just brought me another beautiful child, Dylan Isaac. I love you Ang and our five ridiculous relationships.

In 1946 Red Motley said, “Nothing happens until a sale is made.” He is right, but you better learn how to sell and connect with people or that sale will never be made.

I grew up with an entrepreneur salesman as my father. His profession…an attorney. Law is not a profession most people would say has anything to do with sales. However, my pops told me the reason that he did very well as an attorney is that he knew how to sell himself to clients, sell his argument to a jury and sell his service expertise effectively to colleagues. What my dad was trying to teach me was how to connect with people so they will embrace your product or idea.

Selling is far more than telling. Selling is connecting with people’s feelings and wanting to do the right thing for them. Selling is a relationship that is more important that just making a sale. People buy with their emotions and then later rationalize their purchase with logic. This requires understanding and actually listening before you start spouting off with facts and figures.

Right now my company is working on a weight loss campaign for a really cool homeopathic supplement. The stuff is crazy effective. People are safely loosing up to two pounds a day. It is amazing.

We will give the science behind the product, but that is not where the sale will be made. The science is really cool, but the thing customers really want to know is, “Does it work?” and, “Will it work for me?” Once those questions have been answered and they purchased the product, they might read the science behind their purchase…maybe.

Recently a paraplegic woman sent in a before and after photo after she used the product. She lost 40 ¼ inches in 4 months. In her after picture, her face is glowing and she looks beautiful. She looks more confident, happy and even a bit determined. The emotion in her face is better than anything I could write. I could feel her happiness.

Lesson learned. Sell, but sell with emotion. We are human beings and we like to think we use our mind first, but we don’t. There is nothing wrong with feeling. There is nothing wrong with emotion. Just learn to create the right emotions and you will learn to sell effectively.

Perhaps that is what makes me great, my total averageness (probably not a real word, but I like it). Some people were born with incredible gifts. I am not great at anything except being good a lot things. However, I have never been good at anything instantly. I have always had to work and work at things until I can say I achieved any level of competency. My incredible gift is persistence. I am very good at not giving up.

You see, each of us has something of great value inside, but most people stop before the world can share in their great gift. Most people truly hide their talent for fear of failing; consequently, they fail. I am responsible for my own success or failure and I get to determine what my success is. Before you are too hard on yourself remember that the genius Einstein frequently got lost walking home.

Stop being a pawn in the system and letting others determine your success. Best selling author and over achiever Seth Godin wrote, “Stop settling for what’s good enough and start creating art that matters. Stop asking what’s in it for you and start giving gifts that change people. Then, and only then, will you have achieved your potential.”

I write this post today because life is good. However, there is opposition to everything I do. There is good in my life, there is bad, but I am happy. I have been knocked around and I got up. I have had major health issues and significant business issues resulted from my absence. I have still have visions of grandeur and I hope you do too.

I will finish with Seth Godin:
“You have brilliance in you, your contribution is valuable, and the art you create is precious. Only you can do it, and you must. I’m hoping you’ll stand up and choose to make a difference.”

“A true heiress is never mean to anyone – except a girl who steals your boyfriend.” That gem came from the precious Paris Hilton who millions watched for five seasons while she pretended to sleep in a camper and make French fries and said groundbreaking things like, “That’s hot.”

Similar to Paris’s Simple Life, we are seeing that many “reality” television shows are actually real people manipulated into odd or strange situations to increase the drama. Paris Hilton never slept in a camper. She just woke up from her hotel and then left her silky blonde hair unkempt as she pretended to wake up in the digs of the plebian masses akin to her viewing audience.

Business shows featuring Donald Trump use fabricated boardroom scenes pitting contestants against each other like pit bulls fighting for a slab of raw meat. In the end, “reality” is becoming less and less real in order to entertain us, the needy viewers.

Famous rocker Adam Levine said, “There’s obviously a certain balance between pursuing an audience and pursuing what you love to do, but I love what we do. I would never put out a record I didn’t want to listen to.”

I thought for a while I would film business people and show entrepreneurs success stories. Unfortunately I found our team driving long distances to film hours of footage and we were left scratching our heads watching countless hours of unusable scraps.

I have a passion for entrepreneurs, and I will admit I have a special love/hate relationship with network marketing. There is so much right with so many people in network marketing but it is also marred by some of the most ridiculous characters on the planet. Armed with a legal degree and corporate America experience I seem to constantly be drawn back into the human drama that is network marketing. I can’t seem to get enough of it and there are millions across the globe that feel the same.

For the past four years I have wanted to follow a network marketing company and show the good with the bad. The problem with that very watchable reality formula is that network marketers are afraid to show that there is any bad in their business. But, there is bad in every business and network marketing is no exception. In fact network marketing has some of the most watchable characters out there, they have just been afraid to allow anyone to see anything but how wonderful their opportunity is in the fear people will be afraid to join anything that isn’t perfect.

I approached a bunch of companies with the idea of showing how their business is really built but most of them were petrified with the idea of really showing how many eggs are broken making this networking omelet.

While network marketers are afraid to show their imperfections countless people have become interested in buying storage lockers and wading through dirty clothes costing them hundreds and sometimes thousands of dollars with the unlikely hope of finding a diamond that was left in a particleboard cabinet.

Network marketing is a beautiful drama that truly is one of the most interesting human experiences I could ever find. The stakes are high in network marketing. Money, relationships, happiness, depression and frustration are just a small part of the winners and losers in this industry.

I am excited to say that one brave company is anxious to allow me into their world. A group of distributors and executives are going to allow me into their lives. As executives they have billions of dollars of sales under their management from previous companies and bravely (or insanely) left to start from scratch. The distributors range from a Navy bomb squad expert to overweight moms looking to wear their skinny jeans again.

While we film these networkers, my creative team and I will continue to do things like jump out of airplanes and try stupid things like getting a healthy colonic. Although I don’t plan on filming another one of my surgeries after getting hit by a car on my motorcycle, I do plan on filming anything we experience along the way and focus on having a good time.

As the blonde philosopher Paris Hilton boldly pronounced, “Life is too short to blend in…[t]he only rule is don’t be boring.” Well said Paris, well said. Network marketing is crazy; I don’t think I would have it any other way.

From the Desk of the Fanatical Entrepreneur,

Jeffery Boyle

Successful people fix problems, they don’t cause them. Spend time with a successful person and you will see their life is full of challenges, obstacles, tests and yes, problems.

Case in point, on a recent business trip with Fred Cooper, CEO of ARIIX, my carry on baggage had a metal sign stand inside which was promptly confiscated by an over zealous TSA agent. The signage and its stand were  important for our presentation and with the delay by TSA, we were never going to be able to check the bag in and still make the flight.

I spent 10 minutes trying to convince Susan to let me through before she escalated me to her supervisor. Mr Supervisor also promptly told me no while showing me how a ten inch stand could be fashioned into a weapon of mass destruction, all the while our flight time ticked faster toward us. Fred watched me futilely try to convince the TSA to change their mind before he stepped in, took the bag from me and walked back outside toward the baggage check area.

I must say I was worried he would never catch the flight let alone get the bag on. I went to our gate and nervously waited for Fred to come. Just as the door to the walk way closed, here comes Fred casually walking toward me with a big grin on his face and with the bag on his shoulder. He simply went back through the line and they let him and the bag right through.

Napoleon Hill taught, “People buy personalities as much as merchandise.” People are far more influenced by you than what you are selling.

“You cannot enjoy outstanding success in life In life without power, and you can never enjoy power without sufficient personality to influence other people to cooperate with you in a spirit of harmony.”

If you truly want success, learn how to solve problems and to work with people in a way that is in harmony with a spirit of cooperation. And, when you travel, take Fred Cooper with you.

Network marketers need to do a better job of creating real buzz about their product and experience instead of saying the same thing everyone else has for the past 50 years. For heaven’s sake, network marketing has “marketing” in its name, even if you call it multi level marketing.

There are few companies that are as adept at creating a buzz like Nike. What makes Nike great is not the quality of the shoes. Nike is great because they know how to create experiences. Nike knows they are NOT primarily a shoe or apparel company, they are an experience company. Every time a Nike customer puts on one of their shoes or clothing items, they mentally feel more athletic and fit. Why? Because Nike has thoroughly convinced them to feel that way and they deliver on creating experiences with their marketing. Why else would a 300 pound-couch-potato be wearing a tight fitting “Game On World” shirt? This guy couldn’t get off the couch and get a beer without getting winded, let alone take on a fit linebacker. Like Nike, we must be excellent at showing people how to have great experiences.

See how Nike magically portrays action and a better life through their sites, video and music. Notice how they never really even talk about themselves in the video below, but yet it made me proud of my Nike shoes:

Click here to view the embedded video.

I will finish with a great quote from a great book. Remember, you are what people perceive you to be, so quit trying to talk so much about yourself and focus on creating a great experience. Maybe someday people will in network marketing will get that concept.

“At the end of the day, it is all about the experience. A relentless focus on price and cost structures can easily degrade the customer experience to the point no one cares about you any more. People will pay a premium for a better experience. In fact it might be the only thing they will consistently pay a premium for. That’s a hard concept for the Excel crowd to get.” – Do You Matter? How Great Design Will Make People Love Your Company

I know everybody thinks they are providing a great experience, but are they really? Low attrition and better sales are very closely related to how well you understand providing a great experience for the people in contact with your business. A great experience is an emotional experience tied to your brand and products.

In a recent study, 86 percent of U.S. adults will pay more for a better customer experience. So if a super majority of people would pay more for a better experience why do so few people or companies (and especially network marketers) not do it regularly? Because it is hard and it takes a real commitment because you have to stop worrying about your problems and focus on that person buying your product. People frankly don’t care about you or your problems, they care about their own needs.

Network marketing is full of new entrepreneurs and executives that continually focus on their own needs. Rarely do new entrepreneurs ever realize that what they want for themselves is meaningless to their prospects. MLM Executives often worry about what the company needs and not what their distributors need. Businesses focus on what is wrong with their sales rather than worry about what their customers really need and then provide it to them.

You can create a great experience once and have a great result, but few network marketers do it again and again and again. Just because you had one great launch and made one cool marketing piece that catches the attention of other companies and distributors does not mean that you have done something great. Just because somebody talked about you on a blog or you came out with something that gave you some good buzz on the web does not mean that you have it right. To be truly great you must do it frequently and often.

Unless you have a strong idea that pervades the way it looks, the way it operates, what it does, how it’s communicated to people, how it’s branded, and how people identify with the brand, your product is not complete, because these are all things that go into making a great product which becomes a good business. – Do You Matter

Understand that business and network marketing depend on doing something good on a frequent basis. You become great not by being perfect, but being good often.

Many times new people join network marketing hoping to strike it rich, but because of fear and lack of experience they never get much done unless their upline does it for them. This period of dependence on others must be for a short time if you want to truly succeed.

Author William George Jordan stated it clearly when he said, “The world is busy with its own cares, sorrows and joys, and pays little heed to you. There is but one great password to success, self-reliance.”

Self-reliance in network marketing requires work. You will be tested mentally, emotionally and even physically. Hard work is essential because it will give you a sense of accomplishment, self worth and is required for you to have the success you are searching for.

If you want to become a mentor to others, you will have to be prepared and nothing prepares you to lead others like overcoming challenges and taking on your own fears. How can you inspire others if everything was done for you? For you to truly help others you cannot be an empty, weak person. And, if you want to go from zero to hero, you can’t do it from the couch.

People want to be inspired. They want to have fun. People want to have good experiences with people that build them up. For you to be a contributor and leader, you must make a decision to add to people’s lives, not take from them. We all have problems and challenges, the way you handle them is what will determine if you are a true leader or not.

In order to become self-reliant, you need to see yourself as important and worthy of success regardless of past experience, career status, where you live or any other limiting circumstance.

Second, you need to make sure that you have a mentor that will guide you but also honestly critique and challenge you. A true mentor wants you to become somebody great and will encourage you to stretch beyond your previous limits.

Third, remember that everybody who joins your team has their own challenges and a choice to do what they want. When a motivated new entrepreneur joins network marketing he or she is often bewildered that others aren’t as motivated. Your team will have to make their own decision to grow and you cannot force them to become leaders.

Next time you get frustrated with someone who is not making the decision to build your network marketing business, remember what Benjamin Franklin said concerning choices:

“We stand at the crossroads, each minute, each hour, each day, making choices. We choose the thoughts we allow ourselves to think, the passions we allow ourselves to feel, and the actions we allow ourselves to perform. Each choice is made in the context of whatever value system we’ve selected to govern our lives. In selecting that value system, we are, in a very real way, making the most important choice we will ever make.

Since the foundation of all happiness is thinking rightly, and since correct action is dependent on correct opinion, we cannot be too careful in choosing the value system we allow to govern our thoughts and actions.

And to know that God governs in the affairs of men, that he hears and answers prayers, and that he is a rewarder of them that diligently seek Him, is indeed, a powerful regulator of human conduct.”

Fourth, you must learn and eventually master the ability to think properly. As Franklin said, “The foundation of all happiness is thinking rightly.” Proper thinking is vital when your team comes to you with their problems. It is also vital as you encounter your own challenges and you are forced to confront them instead of running in panic.

Learn to solve problems and use common sense. Lord Chesterfield said, “Common sense (which, in truth, is very uncommon) is the best sense I know of: abide by it; it will counsel you best.” Most people panic because they simply can’t think straight, they don’t use common sense and are governed by passion and anger when calm is required.

If you cannot learn to think properly and use common sense, you will never become a true leader.  You will also never change your life enough to become self-reliant financially.

Learn to listen to your mentors. Spend time improving your mental, physical and emotional health. As you put the pieces of your life together, self-reliance is inevitable. Be patient and seek help from other leaders and definitely seek spiritual guidance. Self-reliance is an individual choice, but it also helps to have others on your team that truly care about you.

If you are new to network marketing, the sooner you become self-reliant, the sooner you will have a chance to succeed. You CAN succeed in network marketing, but you better take responsibility for your future. Only you can make the decision to constantly improve and become truly self-reliant.

In a visit to Zija’s new headquarters I spoke to their CEO, Rodney Larsen. In that meeting we talked about what it takes for people to succeed in Zija. Rodney said something that I like very much, “New distributors must be willing to temporarily suspend their disbelief.”

Most people are just not capable of suspending their disbelief long enough to make money in MLM. After many years, there is no question that network marketing is legal and very profitable for some people. Everyone knows of or has heard stories of someone who has had very big success with MLM. The problem for most people is that they don’t think MLM can be a success for them.

You can call it dreaming, thinking big or even naïveté; but if you are not willing to suspend your disbelief you will never make it big business, life or network marketing.

As network marketers and business owners, we often get beat down by the realities of life, which causes us to become more “realistic”. We stop thinking about our passions and we give up on achieving anything of consequence. This doesn’t have to be the case, no matter what age you are.

I just met with one of the biggest distributors in the history of network marketing who achieved incredible success from one of the biggest MLM companies in the world. The guy just started working with a new company after some time away from building a business. He was upbeat and confident, but he was also crass, told too many dirty jokes, was past retirement age and completely ordinary in a thousand ways. Even though he hasn’t built a business in years, he is so accustomed to big thinking that there is almost no way this guy won’t make an incredible income even though today he is basically starting from scratch.

I disagreed fundamentally with his approach to building and he even turned me off completely throughout the day. However, his talent to completely see how things will be rather than what they currently are was amazing. He completely ignores the realities that he just started and has hardly anybody is in his group. He sees himself easily attracting tens of thousands of people at a high speed, and as a result, he will.

Like so many people before him, this distributor had never had big success in life before he became quite wealthy with network marketing. He was a nobody from nowhere who decided that reality was not going to hold him back from achieving something great.

Are you willing to temporarily suspend your disbelief about your current circumstances, your relationships, your bank account and your MLM business? Are you willing to imagine something greater even if you are broke, sick, fat or tired?

After spending a day with this successful network marketer, I am trying hard to shake some of his crude comments from my head, but I also left the day with a real feeling that I can do more and think bigger. The beauty of spending time with successful people is that when you look at them carefully you will see that are just normal, flawed people like the rest of us except they know how to suspend their disbelief and attack life.

If you can’t suspend your disbelief and you choose instead to be a slave to the false reality of failure you see yourself today, you may as well give up and somebody or something else will dictate your future. Or, you can choose to be naive again and expect something great. You will be surprised with the results if you are naïve long enough.

I believe the answer is simple. You are more successful when you are a mentor because you are forced to put your money where your mouth is. A good mentor does not want to be a hypocrite and must perform or lose credibility.

For the past three years I have consulted network marketing and MLM companies on how to create prospecting tools for their groups and downlines. We have built some beautiful network marketing tools and systems. It has been easy for me to make the tools and say, “They work if you work them, go for it. I have had success with my network marketing ventures using them, so can you.”

I still believe that my clients would be successful if they used my tools properly, but about 6 months ago Stephen, my video production manager, asked me after an interview why I wasn’t building downlines any more when he said, “Jeff, you have built large groups, why aren’t you doing it any more?”

I hummed and I mumbled a little bit and then had to admit that I probably should again. I knew what it would take to build a group and it has frankly been easier (though less lucrative) to just tell other people what they had to do and then go home and wonder why they weren’t doing it.

Four months ago I took my own advice and started building groups. In the past four months, my group has grown significantly and it has been fun. I have seen failure and I have seen success. I have been excited and I have been discouraged. Best of all, I am loving working with people from my downline and even distributors from other companies again and I feel like I am being true to my own advice. It feels great.

If you want to be successful, be a mentor. Give great advice to others, and then actually do what you are telling others to do. It’s magical.

For the past three years I have focused on giving network marketing companies solutions for their new marketers. It has been hard to give solutions and then not watch them be implemented with true persistence. Without real persistence people can’t see if something works or not.

I have spent the last three days working just with new entrepreneurs. I forgot how much I liked it and how much I missed it. There is nothing like the excitement that comes with hope of a new network marketer. However, there is also nothing like the disappointment that follows if new entrepreneurs are not given proper training and systems to follow. Hope can come crashing down if proper tools are not given with the right training.

About three months ago our team started working on a marketing and follow up system to help new network marketers know what to do from the moment they start and then give them an automated system that helps them instantly be able to spread their network marketing message. I even put my money where my mouth is and I have been helping call and prospect. I have had success and some rejection. But it has been great to implement a system and experience the joy of the journey each day.

It is one thing to teach network marketing skills and something altogether different to experience it. To achieve real success as a network marketer, Multi-level Marketer (MLM), or anything sales related; you need massive marketing, massive persistence and massive duplication if you want to create residual income. When I started as a network marketer 19 years ago that meant a lot of manual actions and heavy lifting. Today, network marketers have tools I never had in the early 1990′s. The last three days my automated system has helped me break the ice and do much of the heavy lifting. It has been great.

The best thing to keep in mind when you are prospecting with an automated system is that you can never remove the human experience if you want to really help pepole. Automated systems help enormously, but you must still remember to contact people and follow up when your system notifies you of their new activity. It was fun yesterday when the system notified me when people opened an email, visited my site or watched a video; but then it was my responsibility to follow up with them. With the system came a lot of helpful information, but it was up to me to use that information proactively.

Success in marketing, whether that be network marketing, MLM or sales requires you to get your message in front of a lot of people in order to find the ones who are truly interested. A system just helps you know who looked at your information and who did not. Knowing who took the time to look at what you sent them can save you many hours by not waisting your time with the wrong, unqualified people.

There is hope even in a bad economy. Tools and systems can help, just make sure you are getting the training you need to really succeed. When you have taken the time to train, don’t forget that you are going to have failure too. Real success comes from over coming obstacles and there are always obstacles. You can succeed in this economy, you just have to be willing to do more than complain about bad times.

Dedicated to your success,

Jeffery Boyle

I hope you do. We need more disrupters. I’m an entrepreneur and more specifically, a network marketer, and I think I want to make a ruckus.

Business and MLM needs more ruckus makers, or people who bring forth new ideas and disrupt the status quo. Passionate people dedicated to rethinking the past and making the future better.

We need MLM ingenuity in a big way. The past must be learned from but should not dominate our thoughts and actions.

Your father’s MLM is not working any more, it is dying a slow death and taking dreams with it.

Challenge pricing. Rethink your products. Quit buying the overpriced, low quality products if you are a distributor. Demand improvement, demand quality.

Mentor more. Mentor better. Mentor with real intent.

Do something different and do it better.

Be a difference maker…or just wait for others to do it like everybody does and keep being miserable.

******

PS: Sign up for our next season of Networking Star at: http://networkingstar.com/theshow/

Also, check out our season intro: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNSW10E3EQ8

Getting anything off the ground is stinking hard, and I am not just talking about the space shuttle. Entrepreneurs and network marketing companies are always so amazed that six months after the launch of their company that they have not dominated the market and people are not lining up to join them like the launch of a new iPad. Simply stated, failure to succeed in network marketing typically comes down to a failure to get in front of enough qualified prospects.

The space shuttle consumes one and a half million pounds of fuel in the first minute alone. It takes massive force and massive resources to get off the ground. Network marketers call 10 people, follow up once and then decide they have given it their all and it must be the company’s fault they failed. MLM companies create a compensation plan, manufacture a product and forget to give their people real marketing training and systems and then blame the distributors for failure. Bologna to both groups! They are both wrong.

Failure to achieve momentum in business and network marketing is usually based upon a complete misunderstanding by the players to sufficiently judge the effort and systems needed to get in front of the right number of potential buyers. The space shuttle will predictably fall to the earth without the right amount of fuel and MLM companies and their distributors will predictably fail if they do not put the right message in front of a lot of prospects. Engineering, math and lots of fuel launch the space shuttle; systems, effort and lots of people launch a network marketing business.

In the last three years I have been approached by more MLM companies than I can remember and consulted dozens more. Network marketers talk about momentum as if it were some elusive secret that is lucked upon or is somehow bestowed upon the lucky few that the MLM gods have randomly touched.

Marketing your home business is just like marketing any other business; it’s a numbers game. You have to get your marketing message in front of enough of the right people to have success, and this is where most people struggle. You must have training and systems in place that help your teams get in front of hundreds of thousands of prospects that are interested in a home business opportunity and then massively and specifically target only them with automatic systems and trained distributors.

Once you get leads in your systems, you must follow up with prospects over and over again using multiple channels of communication. Giving them the opportunity to get on a webinar, join a teleconference, call in to a recorded hotline, see and listen to testimonials, watch an interview with a top income earner, and so on. Most prospects need to be exposed to an opportunity 5 to 7 times before they take action and join or buy from you.

The right MLM marketing system does not guarantee you success, but it can help automate the process of getting in front of massive numbers of prospects. You want your team to easily duplicate your efforts. You must give them their own lead capture pages, their own follow up system, access to recorded and live webinars, training calls, sales letter emails and marketing co-ops. That way the more successful they are, the more successful you will be.

Evaluate your MLM marketing system. Is it really easy enough for a new person to use it right now? Does it have the right processes to give a new person confidence to share your company within minutes of enrolling? If you cannot confidently answer both of those questions, you may now know why your company is struggling to achieve any kind of momentum. Success comes when massive numbers of qualified prospects see your message. What are you doing to ensure that for your company?

In a society becoming more and more addicted to entitlement, and with the economy still in a slump, free is more powerful than ever. The question is, can free be still done effectively in small business? Understand, free can still be implemented in business without forgetting profits.

I have been in all kinds of businesses, but for the past seven years, I have been a network marketer. I am an MLM guy. I have been a founder of a network marketing company and I have made a full-time income as an MLM distributor. Needless to say, I have seen many angles in small business and within network marketing. This “free” analysis is not about MLM, but if free can be implemented successfully into network marketing, it can implemented almost anywhere.

Most small business owners and network marketers do not have the luxury of $25 million in funding like Google. Today Google stands supreme in the search world that it entered late and has effectively taken down the likes of once bullet-proof Yahoo. A lot can be done with $25 million, but Google based their strategy on free and still does today.

For Google, their product is Google. Their goal is to get you engaged in Google first; they worry about making money later (wouldn’t that be nice). In fact, many times they don’t care if they ever make money on some of the products they offer, such as Google Docs, if trying to monetize will prevent their fans from using their products. Google wants you addicted to Google.

Having the luxury of $25 million dollars was nice, but Yahoo was way ahead of Google and had huge sums of capital to implement the same strategies, but Google did it better and they are now king.

For small business, and MLM in particular, margins are a problem. Network marketing often prices themselves out of the competition with traditional products in order to pay commissions (which I find a shame but we can discuss that at a later time). Small businesses don’t have the purchasing power of bigger companies.

With that being the case, how can a small business, network marketer or MLM distributor with no purchasing power ever implement a brilliant free strategy like billion-dollar Google? The answer is simple, start first with education. Educate, educate, educate and educate on your company site and newsletters. The cost to educate is extremely low, and if you add value for free, you too can attract customers and attention.

You do not need millions of dollars to educate your prospects. You do not need a big budget to create interesting content. Provide free content that is of value and you will see your profits will follow.

Dedicated to your success,

Jeffery Boyle
JefferyBoyle.com
NetworkingStar.com

Secret: The lower quality product that is marketed well, will always beat out the great product that is poorly marketed.

This is a fact, and until you understand this simple truth, you will struggle.

Did you know that over 1500 new competitors to your networking business start every year? Many of them are better funded and have years of experience in your niche. When you consider the huge influx of new competitors and the growing numbers of businesses already here, you must ask yourself, “What makes me different?”

Many people think that success is about a great compensation plan, others will say it is about the quality of your product. Both of these are vital, but the truth is, you must market yourself well to stand out from the crowd. You need a short term and long term marketing road map, and you must get started now.

Believe it or not, your product is not just what you sell, it is a combination of:

• Your Product or Service
• Your Compensation Plan
• Your Marketing Engine
• Your Success System to Duplicate Your Efforts

It does not matter if you are a field rep or a company, you can improve your marketing. I invite you to give me a call again now. I want to complete a multi-point inspection of your business. Success is possible, and I can help. Call me now and schedule your multi-point inspection at no charge. Call my office at 208.631.3733

Also, I just wrote an e-book and I want you to have a copy of it at no cost. If you want a copy visit this link: http://bit.ly/wDsrQl. This book tells you what I have done to successfully help other companies and it can make a difference in your business. Get it today.

I recently wrote an e-book called MLM Explosive Income System. I am giving it away free and a lot of people have already downloaded it. I would say chapter 7 is the most important part of the book because it explains a system that works. In the United States, MLM has changed tremendously in the past 10 years. Starting an MLM company has become very easy and the financial commitment to start is very low compared to years past. However, this has created a glut of poor MLM products and undercapitalized companies that go under quickly.

Few MLM companies really have a system any more to succeed. And fewer MLM companies know how to really create duplication. There is a secret to helping new people duplicate you effectively, and it is not much of a secret. You must actually do what you want your team to duplicate. In Explosive Income System I said you must have Massive Marketing, Persistence and Duplication.

One of the biggest stumbling blocks for MLM companies and individuals is they fail to take appropriate action. Duplication happens when you are doing the right things in the right system. Massive marketing takes investment. Massive persistence happens when you make an effort to do it. Most people fail because they don’t have a system that will help them follow up persistently.

This post is adapted from a newsletter I sent out today. With it, I was applying what I preach. I know that you must follow up at least 7 times with most people before they make a decision. An effective way to do this is through the creation of names lists and providing real education to the people on that list. Many of the people on my lists do not make a decision until I have put my message in front of them at least 7 times. I better be giving you something of worth during that time or I loose your attention. I want people to call me about my duplicatable MLM system. I am contacting them with education frequently until they do.

Make a decision to implement the right system within your MLM business. If you have the right system, with the message, you can create Explosive Income.

If you are struggling to create proper action and duplication in your MLM business, you must have the right systems that duplicate. Remember the 3 keys below to succeed:

1. Massive Marketing
2. Massive Persistence
3. Massive Duplication

If you need help implementing a MLM system, let me know. I have had an incredible time the past 2 weeks with all the calls helping guide people down the right path.

Jeffery Boyle

At the event I emphasized two very important aspects of network marketing that are taught, but rarely implemented effectively:

1. Obtaining qualified Leads, and
2. Teaching and implementing systems that really duplicate.

At the event I introduced my new e-book, MLM Explosive Income System. I am really grateful to see the response to the book and to see how many people have already downloaded it. To download the e-book simply click this link: StartupMLM.com

In my speech and in the book, I teach how to create lead funnels and then how you can implement that within their groups. Since the event, I have been flooded with calls asking more questions on how to implement the system effectively. Well, here is your chance. At a discounted rate, I will personally help companies that call our office and take us up on our offer for the next couple days.

Call Jennifer and schedule a time with me at 208 631 3733.

I am excited to help you get your system working. It really can create Explosive Income.

Jeff

For those who have created a MLM success plan, you may be missing some vital components to maximize your success. There is enormous power in a detailed personal success plan to start your business this year and I am here to help you get it right.

True success can come when you have clarity of thought. With a proper strategy, tactics become very simple to implement. The problem for most people is first not knowing what to do, and then knowing how to do it.

When you are given the proper outline along with a coach to walk you through the process, you can create your ultimate success plan. This plan will truly be your blueprint to success in MLM. The right success plan will:

• Decrease Stress – It is hard to hit a target that is moving. When you know exactly what you must do each day, you will have a sense of security knowing what to do each day to achieve the areas of your success plan.
• Substantially increase revenues – There are 21 vital areas of your business that will increase your revenues. Your ability to recognize those areas and execute them properly will be vital to your success plan. Unfortunately you are not likely even effectively doing more than just a couple of them now.
• Create more leads and increase appointments – Simply stated, no leads equals a dead business.
• Close the deal – This is where most business is lost. A success plan must help you close more deals.
• Create a business system – This is vital to a success plan. A system must make your business run like a finely tuned machine.

Knowledge is power in an MLM success plan. You may not even know what you don’t know. I can help. Fill out the information below and apply for free coaching session to help you start your personal success plan. I want to help you start right and walk away knowing what you must do to:

• Understand where your business needs help.
• Know what you must do to fix problem areas in your business and begin the MLM success plan process.
• Calculate how much more money you would make with a success plan by simply improving just a little bit more each day.

You can turn 3% improvement into a 150% improvement.

Did you know that if you have a mentor, studies have shown that you are 500% more likely to succeed? Part of your personal success plan can be a personal mentor. A good MLM success plan should be a two way street between you and someone who will help you achieve greater success. Register today for a free coaching session where I will talk to you about the basics of a creating a success plan and finding a good mentor.

If you are serious about your MLM success, register for a free session today.

• A record 1,530,078 bankruptcy filings were completed in 2010, which was an increase of 9% from 2009.
• Hundreds of corporations filed for bankruptcy in 2009 and 2010. The net asset value of the bankruptcies exceeded $680 billion.
• The United States, which is the world’s most prosperous country, is being managed like a bad business and has a debt of $14,271,000,000,000.00 that grows by $1,650,000,000,000.00 each year.
• Despite trillions in welfare spending, poverty increases in America. The U.S. Census Bureau’s annual poverty report states that 46.2 million people, or roughly one of seven Americans, were poor in 2010.

These are shocking statistics. Anyone hoping that the government or big companies are the secret to their future security is in for a rude awakening. Entrepreneurship, and specifically MLM, must be the focus to regain financial control and security.

There is no better time than now to be a multi-level marketer. In today’s troubled economy (make no mistake about it) the world needs MLM. To start the year off right, I have prepared a series of steps you should take to in order to earn extra make money with MLM, or to create a new career in this rewarding path. However, be warned, there is work involved and if you think you can coast your way to success you may as well stop reading now. MLM is serious business for big thinkers and even bigger doers. If you are prepared to really learn, you will be qualified to earn.

If you are ready, let’s get started!

To help you succeed, my future posts will take you through important training modules designed to give you the skills and information needed to build your business successfully. The training will help you learn and grow, but it is up to you to do each day’s assignments and to implement what you learn.

By joining multi-level marketing, you have already taken an important step towards success. Our hope is that this program inspires you to become a lifelong learner and a leader MLM.

Network marketing has become big business, and in big business the stakes can be high. Do not underestimate the importance of choosing the right company. If you choose poorly, you may be out of business soon and left starting over in the near future. Starting over is never fun and can be very discouraging.

People join network marketing for many reasons, but a primary reason for aspiring entrepreneurs is that they want to enjoy the benefits of personal business ownership. The right traditional business and the right network marketing company allow entrepreneurs tremendous opportunities for freedom and accomplishment of dreams. Statistics show that most traditional businesses fail and failure often brings with it huge economic hardship to the company owners. Equally, start up network marketing companies have a high failure rate. Failure in network marketing is rarely accompanied by catastrophic financial hardship for the new distributors but can leave the most profitable distributors without their life’s income. There is no question that network marketing is a viable alternative for those seeking to own their business if the company they choose has the right attributes. So, CHOOSE WISELY.

Properly run network marketing companies allow entrepreneurs to own a business and leverage the sizable resources of the company. Network marketers are able to achieve huge economic gains without putting their own financial security at risk. Leverage of the company’s resources gives new entrepreneurs tremendous financial tools and advantages they simply do not have to start a traditional business.

The largest investments needed for new networkers are typically the utilization of personal relationships and time. Both relationships and time are precious and should not be wasted at the expense of the wrong opportunity led by the wrong people. With network marketing companies closing up every day due to the decisions of the company executives, choosing the right company has never been more important. Relationships and time can be preserved but the new networker must truly understand the cost of choosing a company and support line poorly.

Here are 4 questions that every aspiring entrepreneur must ask before joining a network marketing company:
1. Will the company go long term?
2. Will the products sell outside of network marketing?
3. Will I be rewarded for my effort?
4. Will the training produce successful representatives?

Few new networkers know how to really answer these questions properly. Stay tuned for my next posts as we examine this very important decision of choosing the right network marketing company.

In this week’s episode of Networking Star, we featured Tim Sales, a MLM training and marketing professional. We spent three days with Tim going to his house, watching him speak to his groups, and spending time with his family. Tim has built huge groups in his lifetime, coached hundreds of thousands of distributors from many different companies, and now Tim is the master distributor for Ariix. One message became very clear when we were with Tim, “Train your team thoroughly if you want them to succeed.”

Tim used to be on the Navy bomb squad. There he was trained every day to learn the importance of getting things right. In that job, if you were not properly trained, you died. Network marketing is not so drastic, but the life and death of our businesses is on the line and we have to take training far more seriously.

Companies that make large investments in people will have lower turnover, which will create higher company satisfaction, and will create significantly higher profits. Good leaders know through training who will be the next super star in their group and who needs more nurturing to make it in MLM. Author, Laurie Bassi, said that education and training are the most significant predictor of an organization’s success as compared to price-to-earning ratios, price-to-book statistics, and measures of risk and volatility. In other words, train your people.

Many network marketing leaders fail to see the importance of training because it is time consuming and mentoring people can be draining. This is lazy and short sighted. New team members devour training and are hungry for more. If we want our groups to grow, we cannot look past our people hunting for better numbers. If we truly want better numbers, great results, team synergy, and confidence from our teams; Tim Sales is right, training is the answer.

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In the new century, network marketing is attracting professionals that are accustomed to making six figure salaries from their traditional careers. Some of these professionals have come from proven corporate training systems that teach new employees how to succeed and fit into the corporate culture. This culture has driven their companies to hundreds of millions of dollars in sales and they want the same big vision from their network marketing company. These professionals expect real systems and real training.

This new corporate discipline can be very powerful when combined with the passion and spirit of entrepreneurialism that can be found in network marketing. New streamlined training systems are becoming more important as failures have been discovered in past network marketing training systems.

Here are some sobering statistics we have gathered that should motivate any leader to truly implement thorough training in their groups:

• 65% of marketers list “lack of confidence” as one of their top 3 challenges.
• 90% of the 50,000 people becoming a network marketer this week will not receive real guidance from their sponsor.
• Only 5-10% of distributors are attempting to take action in most groups.
• 31% of distributors spend 1-4 hours a week on their business. The question remains if it is even the right action.
• Only 12% of distributors spend 20 or more hours a week on their business.

What is interesting is that the numbers above are focused on network marketing, but they are strikingly similar to disorganized and failing sales team numbers from traditional companies. The best organizations have discovered the importance of continual training and mentors. If you want to succeed, it is straightforward, become passionate about effective training, get a mentor, and be a mentor to others in your business.

• Mentors are 600% more likely to succeed than non-mentors.
• Protégés that have mentors are 500% more likely to succeed than those without mentors.
• Companies with a mentor system experience 20% less attrition than organizations without mentor systems in place.
• One mentor is able to effectively help only 12 others without interrupting his or her own work. This means that mentors must teach others the art of helping others to create real growth in their organizations.

In the coming weeks I will be emphasizing proper training techniques and how to gauge success through effective mentoring. I know the importance of this process and I am excited to hear your newfound success.

Challenge:

For New Networkers – Find a mentor. A mentor should be someone that is success minded, is willing to spend time with you every month, and has succeeded in the type of business you are working. That mentor should be able to let you know if you are failing and also recognize you for your accomplishments.

For Established Networkers – Find three distributors with promise and mentor them. Take time with them each week. Monitor their efforts and mentor them toward more effective results.

Also, be sure you check out our latest Networking Star episode where we travelled to Las Vegas to the MLM Startup Convention put on by Jeff Babener and Mike Sheffield.

I just listened to part of an instructional CD from a well-known MLM trainer. This guy has made a ton of money in network marketing and he was saying some really incredible stuff.  Then, he blew it. He talked about posturing and taking “it” away from bad prospects. This particular guy is on his third company since he made this recording and he makes a fortune everywhere he goes.  However, he has also left a lot of dead bodies in his wake. Just because he can sell ice to Eskimos does not mean he should.

I believe in confidence and creating scripts that are easy to use, but not in teaching people to manipulate to gain the upper hand in the conversation. This kind of false bravado really got me in trouble when I first started in network marketing. This chest pounding is exactly the attitude that kills the new guy trying to emulate the big shot because he can’t pull it off.  Manipulation just makes networkers look silly and hard to be around.

Real sales training helps people build rapport and educate the person in front of them. Sales (and that is what we do in network marketing) is something you do for somebody and not to them. True networkers know that educating the prospect about a series of problems with their solutions is what creates desire. Effective sales training teaches people to focus on the needs of the person in front of them and not myopically on their own selfish desires.

Remember:

If you want to be fascinating, show fascination first.

If you want to be interesting, be interested first.

If you want to be successful, care about helping someone else being successful first.

Challenge:

Really evaluate yourself this week. Are you educating prospects or trying to manipulate them? Are you providing value to each person you are with or just trying to make a sale?

New Episode of Networking Star

Last month I was watching some footage of Kathy Coover from Isagenix. She encouraged the audience to be ambassadors for network marketing. It does not matter what company you are with, that is great advice. This month we posted an episode featuring another ambassador to network marketing, BK Boreyko from Veema. I love filming these great leaders because I learn so much when I am with them. I hope you continue to learn too.

Dedicated to your success,

Jeffery Boyle

Imagine you were given 30 seconds on the Super Bowl to give your message. What would you say? What would your objectives be? Who would you target with your time? These are questions you must be prepared to answer quickly now. You must be prepared with your 30-second commercial at all times. Some people tell you to plan an elevator pitch. Unfortunately, most of their pitches take more time than a slow elevator in a 100-story building. Keep it under 30 seconds.

Network marketing is made up of volunteer armies with almost no previous sales or networking experience. When you have a volunteer army out pitching your product and/or opportunity you cannot afford to have a vague message. Ambiguity of message is a sure fire way to ensure you will not have correct duplication.

Creating a compelling and an easy to understand 30-second commercial is comprised of three main components:

• The hook
• Your unique selling position (USP)
• A challenge or effective close

Creating, practicing, timing, and teaching your 30-second commercial will make a huge difference in your team. I guarantee that if you concentrate on this one principle, you will create more correct duplication than your group has ever seen.

My challenge for you this week is to prepare your commercial so effectively that you can easily, and convincingly, tell your story in 30 seconds or less. Then get your group to do the same.

Dedicated to your success,

Jeffery Boyle

What can we learn from Page and Google? Our biggest threat to our business and confidence is none other than the person in the mirror. I am my biggest threat, and you are your biggest threat to fail.

We are responsible for our success in our businesses, financial freedom, and ultimately our happiness. We fail when we ignore mentors, miss important growth experiences, and waist time always preparing and not doing.

If we are weak we will blame our team, our spouse, our Facebook friends, and our mother.  Don’t allow yourself to blame anyone else for your failures or lack of ambition. You will know you are strong when you accept that you control your own destiny.

Be sure to check this week’s Networking Star below.

To succeed and overcome challenges we must become self reliant. It does not matter if you are a new or an experienced entrepreneur, you cannot have success if you wait for others to take care of you.

To be a successful leader, it is your obligation to teach your team to become self reliant. Any person that is over others will not have long term success if the team does not do things for themselves and then teach others to do the same.

Success is a team sport and each member of the team must contribute or is not worthy of his spot. Teach self reliance to your team through action and accountability. Give your team the opportunity to succeed and have some failures too. Self reliance does not come without some bruises.

Being an entrepreneur is not a “give me” program. It requires courage and confidence. It requires standing on your own two feet. It requires being able to help others. It requires self reliance.

One week ago about this time I was in the trauma unit of a hospital getting sewn up. Consequently, I had time on my hands to watch some television. I watched a show called Bar Rescue. I don’t know much about alcohol, let alone bars, but the main guy on the show clearly has a science to making bars successful. He knows everything from how to lead customers’ eyes to the right places for purchasing decisions to how a bar tender pours the drinks to charge more money. He understands what colors make customers thirsty and what colors make them hungry. Unlike some business makeover shows, this guy doesn’t just have a creative mind, he knows the numbers and how to apply them. He offers his advice and if it is not followed, the bar will likely continue to have troubles. It is pretty black and white about how right he is.

However, people who have lost hundreds of thousands of dollars on their businesses will still not listen to him. They want him to come in, bring more customers, and tell them they will get different results with their silly practices. It just doesn’t happen that way. I am amazed at how difficult it is for so many of us to take responsibility for our failures. We don’t really learn much from our successes. It is our challenges and failures that teach us real life lessons. Inability to learn from the failures and really listen to those who know more about our challenges will kill success.

If you want a change, you better change. Pretty simple.

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As an update on my leg. I am trying my best to walk on it. I am amazed that there is no bone or ligament damage, so I just have to work through the pain. I have four different cuts, this picture is of the biggest one, about 14 inches.  The others are small, 2-4 inches. After feeling a pain that can only be described as Hell’s pitch fork digging into my leg to the rhythm of my heart, I am not sure how to describe my current pain any more. Nothing hurts like that did.

I am determined to get back to healthy as fast as I can. It is pretty crazy going from constant exercise 5-6 days a week to figuring out walking again. Life is full of challenges, I guess this is just a new one to over come. I will listen to the doctor and hopefully regain my full-leg health again.

People began to stop to see what they could do. I could hear multiple calls being made. Somebody brought me a pillow and put it under my head. I could hear whispers of how severe people thought my injuries were. Some well-meaning people suggested that a belt should be applied above my leg to stop the blood flow and others debated whether to remove my fallen motorcycle from my leg. One fellow kneeled at my head and seemed to take charge until the ambulance arrived. He talked to me and told me to hang on. He had a heavy beard and resembled a hard-working heavy equipment operator. However, for the perceived eternity I laid on the road, he was my Good Samaritan. I am thankful to him.
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It was 10:30 and the morning was the perfect temperature for a motorcycle ride. It was about 70 degrees and the perfect conditions to take a leisurely country ride for an hour before I had to get back to work. I stopped on the corner of Hubbard and Cloverdale heading West. Cloverdale does not have stop signs but Hubbard does. I was going to continue on Hubbard through Cloverdale to head back to my office. That is when I saw her. I drive defensively and I noticed that a woman heading South on Cloverdale was not watching the road or me. She appeared heavily distracted. She was turning East onto Hubbard and was still driving very fast through the turn. I was at a complete stop and my bike is bright red, but she was driving right into my lane, straight at me. I was trapped, I could not predict what she was going to do and though time seemed to stand still for a moment, I decided the only thing I could do was scream at her.

As I began to scream I saw her look me in the eyes, but it was too late. The force of the car hurdled me over my handlebars with the left edge of my handgrip digging deep into my leg. I believe I landed with a thud on her hood as the front of her Civic pushed my bike in front of her briefly like a snow by a plow. I believe that combined with my scream and the realization of what was happening, the driver turned sharply throwing me from her hood, releasing my bike and sending her another 60 yards down a nearby driveway into a house. As I was thrown from the hood, I extended my hands to break the fall when I found my self on the road with my motorcycle on my left ankle.

As I lay on the hot surface by myself, many thoughts rushed through my head. I knew I was hurt, but the extent was still not clear. I kept seeing the woman’s eyes as she realized she was about to hit me head on. I thought of my wife and four children and that I wanted to call them. I did not want a policeman having to make that call. Angela and her family had received “that” call before when a driver killed her brother. I wanted to be the one who called my wife. Much had been taken from me as I lay on the road, so I decided to take control back the best I could. I decided to get involved.

I started doing what I do best, I delegate. My Good Samaritan would not let me get up or move so I used what they could not stop, my mouth. I asked that my phone be found. I wanted to be the one making the calls and I needed a phone. It could not be located so I asked people to call it. When it was finally located, I told someone where to find my wallet and to make it available to paramedics when they came. I even felt pretty good that one of the callers described me as a 32-year-old male.

The woman who crashed into me came to my side. I felt very bad for her. She was devastated. Through a panicked and tear stricken voice she pleaded, “Buddy, please be okay. Please be okay. What can I do for you?” I replied simply and straightforwardly, “Tell the police the truth. Tell the police the truth.” She then held my hand for a brief moment in an attempt to comfort me.

When the ambulance arrived they acted quickly. They began to cut my clothes off. They followed protocol and I soon found myself with nothing on but my underclothes. They had cut my belt off; my favorite Japanese golf shirt and my blood soaked jeans.

Because of my many bruises and cuts on my body, the paramedics acted appropriately in case of chest, head and spinal trauma. What caused me the most fear was their description of my leg. The female paramedic thought she saw shortening of my left leg and told the others to prepare to reset my leg there and splint it. Images of old westerns went through my head and I wondered if they were going to give me something to bite on before they yanked on my leg right there on the road. Luckily for me they were able to get me on the stretcher and notice that my legs were still the same size. No biting of the bullet was going to be required.

Before getting in the ambulance I made sure I had my wallet and phone. As we travelled to the hospital I called Angela to ask her to meet me there because I may have a broken leg. I did not give her all the details because I did not want to panic her. She thought I was kidding. I tend to joke around a lot but this was definitely not one of those occasions and she soon realized that.

I asked the ambulance to please go to St. Lukes because of my insurance coverage. The paramedics told me that my heart rate was very low and with the bruises on my chest, they needed to take me to the closest trauma unit. I argued, but they were driving. I cued the video player on my phone to my last physical so the paramedic would know what my usual heart rate was and then asked her to take pictures of me to document what happened for insurance purposes.

I was given morphine, but the pain was incredible. I tried to be tough, but I still let out the occasional whimper. It is not in my nature to be strapped down, so I kept talking. It helped me deal with the pain.

When we got to the hospital I could hear the paramedic giving the doctor an account of what had happened. I decided I could help. I started giving him my details too. One of the nurses asked me nicely to be quiet so the paramedic could finish, then it would be my turn. I shut up for a bit.

After the field dressing was removed, I was able to see an injury that looked horrific. I later sent a picture of it to a friend from Israel who said the only time he had ever seen anything like that was in war, and the guy died. There were four major injuries. The largest was approximately 14 inches long and had opened up to about 6 inches wide revealing my thigh muscles. The other three ranged from 2 to 3 inches long. To stay sane, I videoed the cleaning of the wounds and even took some footage of the doctor cutting away dead muscle tissue. The doctor eventually asked me to stop filming. To ensure I stopped, they put me out and took me to surgery to stitch me up.

I was examined from head to toe. In the end, no bones were broken. No structural damage occurred to my knee. The pain has been incredible, but I am grateful to still have my leg. I have gotten emotional at times as I see the driver’s eyes and her realization of what was about to happen. However, I am grateful to be alive.

I believe that we all have challenges to over come. I believe we learn things about ourselves when we are going through challenges. Like everyone else, I have had challenges in my life that I have worked to overcome. I have been hurt physically but I have never been so close to the real possibility of death. It terrified me how others can hurt us emotionally and physically. Some people hurt us on purpose, and others, like this poor driver, through negligence or accident. It is in moments of challenge that we know who we can really count on. I am thankful to God, I love my family, I adore my wife, I cherish my children, I have magnificent friends and I am grateful to be breathing.

I am deeply bruised, but I am not broken.

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The car pictures are from KTVB.

There are millions of people looking for a different opportunity right now, you may be one of them. The problem is not finding an opportunity, but determining which one to choose and which one best suits your passions and skill sets. If you are looking to supplement your current income, considering network marketing (multi-level marketing or mlm), evaluating a different career or simply looking for the right home-based business there are many options to choose from. You need to determine how to evaluate an opportunity so that you don’t waste time and money pursuing an idea that is destined to fail or that does not fit your personality.

There are many factors to determine if an opportunity is real or just a facade. Your analysis of an opportunity, whether it be evaluating a mlm product, becoming a fitness instructor or buying a franchise should start with a few simple areas:

The Product

• Would the product be viable without a compensation plan behind it?
• If the product were on a store shelf would it sell based on a real value proposition? MLM often gets this point very wrong. If it requires a compensation plan or earnings schedule to motivate people to buy your product, eventually the product and the company backing it will fail.
• Is there a market opportunity?
• Does the current market support a new or improved product or service?
• Does the product have long-term viability?

The Team

• Are you joining a team of people that will help you learn this new venture?
• Does the team you are joining have integrity? Have they said one thing and done another? It is amazing how much you can find out about people by searching Google.
• Does the team making the product or service have a history of success selling this kind of product or service?
• Is somebody going to patiently step you through your new venture until you can make it without them?
• Can you create a successful team of people that will help you market this product or service successfully?

The Money

• Can you make enough money with the compensation plan of the opportunity to be worth your time? If not, don’t quit your day job.
• Do you have enough money to make this work or do you need to find capital?
• In network marketing (MLM) do you have an upline that is actually going to help you or can you find someone that will spend time getting you to a point where you can do it yourself and mentor others?
• Is the company well-funded?
• Is the company growing and stable?
• Do the rewards outweigh the risks?

The Tools or a System

• Is there a system in place to help you succeed? McDonald’s hamburgers are the best tasting, they are just backed by the best system.
• If there is not a system in place, can you build a system to become profitable?
• Do you have a sales funnel?
• Do you know what a sales funnel is?
• Do you know how to sell?

The Competitive Advantage

• When adding the other four factors together, do you have a competitive advantage over other similar companies?
• Is your industry a winner take all? If so, you better be pretty sure you can win.
• Is this opportunity unique enough to attract attention?
• If the opportunity is not unique, is the product offering compelling enough to drive sales?

There are plenty of tests that show what the perfect candidate is or is not. I believe that after 13 years in sales and also in management I have become better in some areas and a little more refined others. I hate to admit it, but when I was 26 I “accidentally” tripped someone I love to win a silly competition. I hope I have matured a bit since then, but unfortunately many sales tests just want to see if you will run through a wall and sell your mother to make the sale. I am not willing to do that, but I am still quite effective at sales.

A recent study found that most top sales performers score similarly in five key areas:

1. Ambition and Drive
2. Control of the Close
3. Relationship Effectiveness
4. Process Orientation
5. Problem Solving

Of the 5 measurable factors of the many that are out there, can you guess which one the top performers had in abundance?  I hope you said Ambition and Drive. Let’s look at that list again and see how top performers scored with each one:

1. Ambition and Drive – 83 on a scale of 100 – Sales is not a one and done kind of profession. You must be driven and you must be able to get past the rejections and negativity you will see each day. If you can work on anything, improve your ambition.
2. Control of the Close – 75 on a scale of 100 – If you can’t close, you are toast. Learn to close with integrity and not force. Understand the needs and pains of your prospect and you will close better. That means you have to listen more than you talk to close effectively.
3. Relationship Effectiveness – 46 on a scale of 100 – Surprisingly to many people, having a close relationship with a prospect is not a big deal to most top performers. That does not mean that closing the deal at any cost is acceptable to them, but it also means that they don’t have to go fishing with them on the weekends either. You can still understand your prospects’ needs without having to know what their favorite color is.
4. Process Orientation – 25 on a scale of 100 – Good luck getting a good salesperson to do paperwork. I get a kick out of micromanaging bosses that get angry when their top salespeople won’t fill out a million reports. Some process is necessary, but if your sales team is really kicking tail out there, hire them an assistant to do their paperwork. Nothing makes a salesperson madder than endless paperwork and meetings.
5. Problem Solving – 57 on a scale of 100 – Sales people sell. When salespeople aren’t selling, they should be selling. You should analyze their results to see what the ideal client profile is. Have a sales process to teach your new people the ropes. Give your top people packaged products to sell. Don’t expect them to be figuring out how to solve the marriage problems of their prospects.

Sales makes or breaks so many companies. Having the processes and understanding of sales and salespeople can make all the difference in the world to how much your team makes. Find the right people. Bundle the right products. Make them be accountable without overkill on paper work. Demand performance and understand the sales cycle. If you are the CEO or President and sales are slow, get out in the field and make some sales. Your company depends on it.

• Written Goals and Plans – If you expect to succeed you better have written goals and plans. Review them often, reach high but do not overreach. This topic is repeated so often that it is often ignored. Ignore at your own peril.
• Prospecting System – How are you getting leads? What is the most effective prospecting system? Is it association meetings, lead groups, alignment with mutually beneficial companies or is it the old standby of cold calling? Whatever the system is, it must be monitored and checked.
• Sales Recipe Book – If you are new, there is not likely a behavior set that gets sales. However, sales is a game of numbers and the success percentages can always improve. How many calls are you making? What is the average sales cycle? If you don’t know it, guess and evaluate your results to make sure that it becomes more and more predictable when followed.
• Accountability, accountability and more accountability – Your team respects, what you inspect. If calls are not being made, you better know about it. A system to hold your team accountable is a must. You should even make sure that you are being held accountable too.
• Sales Courage – Is there fear in the ranks. Prospects can smell it instinctively even over the phone. Are you conducting three-way calls to listen to how a call is made and is your team listening to your calls to learn?
• Skill building activities to encourage better:

• Listening and Questioning
• Rapport-Building
• Handling Stalls and Objections
• Ability to Close Sales and Meet Goals

In new companies there are always many questions to be answered. You are likely going to be wrong with some of your assumptions and systems, but start now to begin building a system and your success as a company is much more likely.

I find it both humorous and frustrating that companies try to hide the importance of sales and effective sales training and still think they can succeed. I was recently at an investor group training where the speaker expressed his frustration with how often companies are funded with millions of dollars after months of due diligence on the product and executive team, but nobody cared to ask if they could actually sell. This speaker was a sales trainer and even he had invested hundreds of thousands of dollars without performing a sales ability audit of the executive team. He said both companies went out of business and he lost all his investment. He says that going forward he will never invest a dime unless the CEO of the new company is willing to be the chief salesperson first and CEO second. Smart man.

I work with a lot of companies. Few of them really know how to sell their product. You may have manna from heaven, but if you can’t sell, it will rot on the ground. About nine months ago a company came to me and asked if I would be willing to take over the sales of their company. They had invested millions of dollars into the product, branding and a myriad of other “really” important things. They were in deep trouble with sales declining and their funding spent. My first question was to ask if they were willing to fire their current, unproductive sales staff. The VP of Sales was making a six figure salary and had never worked for commission since he was hired. They said they could not bring themselves to fire him or ask him to move to a pure commission position. I was not interested in putting my time and reputation on the line if they were not willing to make the proper sales choices. They went out of business last month.

Before you can implement a good recruiting process, you better have a good recruiter. A good recruiter or chief salesperson can sell. He or she will never discount:

• How hard it is to sell
• The importance of a sales plan
• The importance of a sales process
• The importance of always having a full pipeline of sales leads
• The importance of an executive team committed to selling and the operational sales side of the company
• The length of the sales cycle
• The importance of creating a compensation plan for employees that is properly aligned with performance of their sale’s activities.

The CEO of a new company must know how to sell. 75% of a company’s selling usually comes from the top person on the org chart when the company starts.  After the company has some traction the CEO will spend less time selling, but unless you are General Electric, the CEO better be committed to the sales process and be willing to get out in the field frequently. The CEO and President titles lend to credibility and if the CEO doesn’t like sells, you better have a ton of money to spend until you wise up and get one who can sell.

A recruiting process is vital to your business success. Although the process is very important for all positions in your company, it is of ultimate importance when hiring or recruiting a sales team. In my years of experience in corporate America, direct sales, startups and even companies funded by investors; I have learned that nothing seems to kill a company faster than the inability to sell their idea, product or service.

A good sales person recognizes that sales is a profession and it is the great way to make a phenomenal income, work less hours and have control of her schedule. A poor sales person wants to get into marketing or just manage other sales people. In a startup, the CEO is responsible for many things, but he or she is first and foremost Chief Salesperson. In startups if the CEO is not good with people and prospects, the company is more than likely doomed. If the CEO has trouble with sales, somebody on the executive team better have sales or operational sales management experience or the company will fail. The CEO must demand sales accountability of the executive team and the sales people who are recruited into the company.

If you are an army of one trying to sell your idea, learn how to sell and how to recruit others who love the benefits of sales. My next three articles will focus on an effective recruiting process that can be applied to all positions within your company. I will also place emphasis on finding the right sales team that can help explode your sales revenue and ultimately your profits.

It was a beautiful day, that is for sure. We had spent the previous day filming Cooper as he told us the story of how Banshee Bungee got it start. Cooper is definitely not your prototypical corporate executive, but he knows his stuff.  With his right arm sporting tattoos of machine guns and the Virgin Mary, Cooper is not the type of guy that loves wearing a suit and tie to work every day. But Banshee has a real stud with him on board.  Their sales are way up and they are reaping the rewards of their labors.

The day was incredible until Sam decided to use his head stop his momentum. We learned a bunch of new terms, like “chukin carcass” and Sam got a trip to the emergency room.  Sam was absolutely in pain, but he was cracking so many jokes, we didn’t know what to think.

I am heading to the hospital now. Sam is having a CT Scan. I hope he is not in too bad of shape.

This morning I was talking with a gentlemen from Seattle planning our next episode of Networking Star TV. We had an incredible first episode and people are really responding to it. For our next show we are featuring a cool new business that started on a shoe string and is now doing millions of dollars of sales. I can’t wait to learn how they started funding with family and friends and then got some much needed capital from investors.

I really get a kick out of talking to young entrepreneurs and seasoned pros. I learn so much just being on the phone with these guys. When like minded people get together, there is so much to be learned form each other. I guess that is why I keep making the calls even when I am supposed to be on vacation. Work is fun to me.

By the way. I still got to do some vacationing, we hiked into Blue Lake above Cascade, Idaho. It is an incredible spot, even carrying a ton of kids to get there. There was still snow up there in the middle of July and the water was freezing. Of course Parker and I had to jump in. I must say I love that kid, he is as crazy as his old man.

Last month we filmed our pilot for Networking Star TV. We put a lot of time into the show and I was quite nervous about how it would end up looking. We aligned a young California entrepreneur, Mike Budny, with some great mentors in Idaho. Ron Sali, John Gotts, Scott Bedke and Heather Eastmen did a fantastic job passing on some of their wisdom to a hungry student. It was so much fun to watch great mentors taking their time to help someone out.

Take a look at the show (click here), it was fun, but we all learned a lot from these incredible people. I certainly saw that when people get together with the idea of improvement, great things happen. Thanks to everyone for the help to get this where it needed to be.

With that in mind, we decided to do something that we loved, networking with successful people and turned it into a show. I am real excited about our new show Networking Star.

The show was a ton of fun to film and produce. Click here (bit.ly/NScomJB) for a preview of the show.

We also filmed some hilarious outtakes of little kids giving ridiculous excuses that adults use all the time as an excuse for not succeeding or pursuing their dreams. Take a look at those here ( http://bit.ly/kids1JB).

We are looking for mentors and students to be on future shows. Click here (http://bit.ly/castJef) if you are passionate to improve or if you have something worth sharing with the world.

We are pumped to hear your story.

Ron Sali – Capitalism makes you provide a quality service. If the client does not understand how you are helping their bottom line, they will spend their money somewhere else.

Doing what you said you will do is becoming more rare in business and life. You will never truly gain traction in business or life until you are good at delivering on your promises.

Mike Sheffield – Every day you learn something new in business. If you learn from your failures and mistakes it helps you serve your clients better. You also learn that there are some people you can’t serve not matter how hard you try. You have to be prepared to tell these malcontents to kiss your (place word of your choosing here).

Heather Eastman – It is very exciting when you make a decision to improve your health. It is even more exciting when you help others do the same.

John Gotts – Passion to succeed as an entrepreneur is essential. There will be ups and there will be downs in the life of an entrepreneur. However, if you are unwilling to put in the time and effort to succeed, you will never make it.

For the last year I have spent a lot of time getting into shape.  After that preparation I thought I could put on a wet suit and take on the stormy Oregon coast without negative consequences. I was wrong.

Most of the experienced surfers were playing Frisbee on the beach or taking naps in the sand. A thinking person would have asked them a few questions or even realized that something was keeping their surf boards dry. (I learned later from the surf shop that it was not a good time to be surfing.) With a bit of over confidence in my athletic abilities, I thought it would be a good day to learn how to surf and I did not pay much attention to what the water or other surfers were doing. I just saw five-foot waves and thought I could handle it.

I methodically paddled my oversized board to where I thought the waves were breaking. After missing everything coming my way, I paddled out further. Before I knew it, the tide had pulled me way further out then I had planned and had pushed me towards some pretty scary looking rocks. I tried swimming frontwards, backwards, kicking with my legs, dragging the board and pushing the board, but nothing seemed to be working. After feverishly swimming for about 20 minutes, I had made little progress and I was exhausted.

We were in an isolated beach that had big cliffs on both sides. There were no lifeguards and it took about 15 minutes to walk to the beach from the road. I wondered how long I would have to be gone before the coast guard would come with their helicopters. I began to envision what my wife was going to do for a casket if they couldn’t find me. I was relieved to know that my life insurance was still active and at least she would be taken care of. I can honestly say that I was a bit scared. After a few moments of ridiculous thoughts, I quit feeling sorry for myself and started trying to fix my self-created misery.

After a brief rest, a prayer or two and some proactive thinking, I saw another crazy fool about 35 yards in who looked like he knew what he was doing. He had a boogie board and came prepared with swimming fins to combat the current. I swam aggressively in his direction. Observing my novice surfing skills, he told me when to hit it hard again and which wave to catch to carry me in. Five minutes later I sat exhausted next to my wife and admitted defeat. I was done and grateful to be on land.

What lessons did I learn? In life, business and surfing you are never really in control. You can prepare all you want, but there is always something bigger and more powerful than you. Reckless overconfidence can undo all your preparations but having the right advice at the right time can carry you home and help prevent disaster.

For our first episode of Networking Star we brought a young California entrepreneur to Idaho and filmed for two action packed days. We have done interviews and filmed successful people before, but we have ratcheted up our goals and production to new levels and it was a ton of fun. Our goal with the new show is to network successful people with passionate up and comers. We believe in the mentoring process and we saw its magic this week.

We had four mentors for the first show. We started with a fitness expert that ran us through a very challenging circuit training. We then set the young entrepreneur up with a successful politician/rancher, a dot.com specialist and land developer extraordinaire. I absolutely got a ton out of listening to the interaction and participating in the activities. There is no question in my mind that we have to knock the production out of the park, because our mentors were wonderful with their time and expertise.

We finished the two days by jumping out of an airplane. It was a grand experience to feel the nerves build as we climbed to 10,000 feet and then have a rush of crisp fresh air engulf my body when the airplane door opened. I acted tough, but when you are dangling your feet out the window two miles above the earth, there is a bit of panic you must overcome. When we jumped and quickly began a descent at 120 mph, I felt completely alive. It was magnificent.

Life is about adventures big and small. Adventures are not just jumping from a plane, but they are also fishing for bass in a mentor’s private lake. Life is about seeing the emotion of a new entrepreneur as he realizes something he can do to improve his business and life. It is about working with people who have your back and work hard as a team. It is about having your wife and kids waiving to you as you gradually descend and softly land after jumping two miles above their heads. As Helen Keller said, “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.”

What is the cost of acting like you are right all the time? Nobody is always right and the inability to admit your fallibility is extraordinary detrimental to your business goals and relationships. Typically, the bull-headed insistance upon always being right will cost you a relationship.  The loss of a relationship will usually cost you business. 

I used to work with a man who wanted to follow his heart, but was too weak to do it. He wanted to do the right thing, but also made rash decisions with people that made making amends difficult for him without swallowing a lot of pride. He made decisions influenced by fear and when he realized that he had made the wrong decision, he thought himself in way too deep to admit he acted hastily. Today, this person is in a job that has a lot of power and exposure. He has a big salary and a huge office. But he is also haunted and hallow. The turnover in his company is very high and he faces a mountain of self-made problems. He hates his job and he hates what he has become. Yet, he will still not do the right thing because he fears what people will think about him if he changes course on some of his major blunders. He will be miserable for a long time.

A French author wrote, “Admit our faults to repair by our sincerity the evil we have done in the opinion of others.”

I will ask you now, do you want to be right or do you want to be rich?

Two years ago I was “broken” and struggling mightily to regroup with the realization that I was looking at completely starting over. At the age of 37 I was jobless with a wife and three kids. I was completely reeling and grasping for answers. I learned who my real friends were and what I was made of.

I had just been squeezed out of the company that I co-founded with my brothers and an effort was made to stealthily embarrass us in the process. Two years has given me perspective on what happened, but I still have moments of heartache when I occasionally reflect upon what happened. However, I now know that my pain was not wasted. It acted as an education and developed my staying power, my faith and even my humility. I have had a lot of victories in my life, but it is the trials that have made me who I am today and who I hope to become.

We started that company from nothing and eventually brought in investors to fund our vision. The company was growing steadily each month and had already sold millions of dollars of product in its short time in business. We had impressive leaders within our organization in four countries. It is impossible to run everything perfectly in a start up, but there was no question we had created something special and rewarding.

June marks two years when I had my first interview after our squeeze out. It was with a good company and I was perfectly qualified for the position. I did not get the job. The company owner said to me, “Jeff, you are qualified for this position. You have a track record for this industry. But…you are broken. Whatever happened in your previous company has caused emotional damage that I cannot wait to heal.” Wow…that really was painful at the time.

A year ago I wrote that brave man who told me I was broken and thanked him. I was broken and it took a successful person, which I respected, to have the guts to give me an honest, yet brutal analysis of the person in front of him.

In the past two years I have rebuilt and hope that I am a better person than before. In the past two years I have gone about life with a new perspective. I no longer work 80-hour weeks and my sky miles are way down. I have insisted that my personal and business relationships are reciprocal or I do not continue that relationship. I exercise 5-6 days a week and have gained 15 pounds of muscle and reduced my body fat. My business partner and I have a steady book of business and edification exists in our conversations.

I don’t know the mental state of the gentlemen that took over our company. I don’t know the real state of affairs with the company they so coveted to brand as their own.

I do know that I have learned a lot from the situation and how truly successful people do business. I have met many incredible people in the last two years. I have also met many dreamers that want to achieve greatness. I have also seen many formerly thriving companies struggle to adapt to the new realities of the economy and technology. One thing is clear from what I have seen, to thrive today you need a movement driven by passion within your company. To have a real movement you must understand:

• Business is about people, and relationships are a major part of the necessary passion to ignite a movement.
• To create a movement that catches on, you must elevate people and empower them.
• Throwing a party to celebrate your own greatness does not build a lasting legacy; it just costs a ton of money.
• Money and power can influence people temporarily. However, passionate people (difference makers) do not want to be influenced, they want to be inspired.
• Business is more than just business. Business requires humans to succeed. Don’t forget how to be a human being. Lead by being human.
• If you are not willing to go into the field and live your product as the masses do, you will never understand what ignites a movement. Get out of the way and let the inspirational lead your movement. They are much closer to the product or service than you.
• You cannot force passion or movements.
• Movements are not about you. Movements are about the needs of the people who evangelize your product for free. Movements are about the wants of the people who live your product or service. Movements are about their wants and needs, not yours.

An unknown author said, “Determination, patience and courage are the only things needed to improve any situation.” I love my life. I love my family. I have experienced heartache in business, but who hasn’t. My situation is better today than it was as CEO of a multinational business just over two years ago. Live life. Enjoy it. Be human and if you are broken, fix yourself by finding your passion.

This week we travelled to Dallas, Texas for an introductory meeting with Fortunelle, a new American division of FurChange that has corporate ties to China. With large numbers of field marketers in Europe and Asia, Furchange is already laying a solid foundation throughout the world but is focusing heavily on the United States. Fortunelle has tremendous financial resources and is making some assertive investments. With construction under way, the Dallas headquarters will open soon to spacious presentation areas, training rooms, product demonstration areas and enough corporate offices for the current executive team and for future hires.

Fortunelle currently has secured a product line of natural health products, but due to its considerable resources they have already lined up an impressive line of products for its official launch in October of this year. Fortunelle had vendors from three different product lines at its Dallas introductory meeting. With a unique line of exclusive collagen facial formulas, organic health supplements and natural feminine products, Fortunelle’s line felt anything but common for a new company. It was evident to me that they were well funded by a Chinese company with deep pockets and a strong desire to be a part of American business.

The trip to Dallas reminded me how important America continues to be in the world market. It also reminds me how seriously American companies must take our own borders. As we talk to different American companies, I continue to marvel at how focus turns quickly to costly international expansion. I often feel that companies neglect to focus appropriately on the billions of dollars that are spent each year in their own backyard by Americans that still outspend any other nation in the world.

America is still the world leader. Our country’s strength still comes from our ability to overcome and innovate. America has a strong entrepreneurial heritage and I was excited to see a Chinese company coming here and developing its products on our soil to ensure quality and market acceptance.

When network marketing distributes a truly revolutionary product line and distributes it more effectively than traditional channels, I am excited. When product value statements are in balance with opportunity plans, something special can and does transpire. A truly great product can and should thrive in network marketing if the field is taught how to advocate that great product properly and given realistic and effective sales training.

Network marketing must continually reinvent itself or become irrelevant. Today, it is in the same situation the computer industry found itself in 1984; it is in need of some reinvention. In 1984, the novelty of computers had worn off and there was not much relevant application to the non-big business consumer. Word processing was virtually non-existent and outside of the real geeks, nobody knew how to write code well enough to make the computer effective for everyday use. Apple, in particular, was desperately trying to make themselves relevant against computer giant IBM. To do so, in 1984 Apple started a revolution called Macintosh and ran a now-famous Superbowl ad featuring an athletic blond metaphorically blowing up big brother, IBM. It will take truly great products, priced properly, distributed within an education model and sold using real sales principles for MLM to truly reinvent itself. I hope Seacret Direct can help in that process.

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Seacret has a great product line and pretty cool story. Founded by Israeli entrepreneurs it literally started from nothing. Co-founder, Robert Meirovich, told us that after he and his partners completed their required military service, they wanted to see the world and make some money. When they came to the United States, they saw an opportunity and have created a retail giant in only a few years. As word back home spread of their growing success, more Israeli nationals flocked to the United States to sell Dead Sea Salt products in Seacret’s kiosks in hundreds of malls. Today, with the stability of hundreds of millions of dollars of inventory in a stable distribution system and a partnership with the largest manufacturer of high end cosmetics and skin care  in the world, Seacret has a world-class product line and stability to go with it.

In an effort to take advantage of network marketing’s goal of education based selling; Seacret Direct believes their product line has found the perfect home in network marketing. Seacret’s founders have hired a very impressive team, led by Rex Powers as CEO, Deborah Bursley from Amway as VP of Marketing and former Mary Kay top earner, Allison LaMarr, to lead the sales training.

Network marketing is not magical, it is predictable. Big money exists in MLM, but successful network marketers understand that focusing on the famous, but false idea of “getting your three and your are set” does not create generational wealth. Network marketing is about understanding and applying correct principles often and consistently if you have any realistic hope of making it big or even making a profit. After sitting down with Deborah Bursley, I was impressed with her vision for an already complete product line. I was equally impressed with Allison LaMarr’s approach she will teach to the already growing Seacret downline. Allison was Mary Kay’s youngest million-dollar earner and after listening to her presentation, I can see that she emphasizes true sales principles that are often neglected in network marketing.

Allison was clear with her belief that others could replicate her success in MLM when they truly understand the principle that, “We are not in the business of changing people’s minds. We are in the business of finding people who want to change.”

When new marketers begin direct sales for the first time, most are shocked to be rejected by loved ones and friends. Allison is right on the money when says that you are looking for people that you don’t have change. There are plenty of people who are ready to change career paths if you persistently look. Combined with Deborah’s vision of truly educating the consumer and Rex Power’s ability to find and empower the right people, Seacret has a formidable team in the works.

Robert and his partners started Seacret with very little, which is truly relatable to millions of would-be entrepreneurs. They have wisely chosen to fill the new division of their company with seasoned MLM professionals that can successfully navigate a new niche for their product line. Combined with a partnership with the largest manufacturer of high end cosmetics and skin care  in the world, Seacret Direct has the makings of something special. I am rooting for them to help reinvent network marketing and bring it to a new age of responsible selling of a great product.

Recently I heard a speech by Russell Ballard that perfectly illustrates how often times people are missing obvious fortunes right in front of their faces:

Oftentimes we are like the young merchant from Boston, who in 1849, as the story goes, was caught up in the fervor of the California gold rush. He sold all of his possessions to seek his fortune in the California rivers, which he was told were filled with gold nuggets so big that one could hardly carry them.

Day after endless day, the young man dipped his pan into the river and came up empty. His only reward was a growing pile of rocks. Discouraged and broke, he was ready to quit until one day an old, experienced prospector said to him, “That’s quite a pile of rocks you are getting there, my boy.”

The young man replied, “There’s no gold here. I’m going back home.”

Walking over to the pile of rocks, the old prospector said, “Oh, there is gold all right. You just have to know where to find it.” He picked two rocks up in his hands and crashed them together. One of the rocks split open, revealing several flecks of gold sparkling in the sunlight.

Noticing a bulging leather pouch fastened to the prospector’s waist, the young man said, “I’m looking for nuggets like the ones in your pouch, not just tiny flecks.”

The old prospector extended his pouch toward the young man, who looked inside, expecting to see several large nuggets. He was stunned to see that the pouch was filled with thousands of flecks of gold.

The old prospector said, “Son, it seems to me you are so busy looking for large nuggets that you’re missing filling your pouch with these precious flecks of gold. The patient accumulation of these little flecks has brought me great wealth.

Many times I meet network marketers and direct salesman that are guilty of the same success sin that the young man in the story suffered from; big-hitteritis. Many marketers are looking for the instant big score instead of cultivating people and prospects. I know of many company executives that are not interested in building their business one person/client at a time and instead look for the heavy hitter that will do all the work for them.

I can think of precious few companies that built their success upon an intant big score. The most successful Fortune 500 companies in the world built their fortunes with small and every day routines, one product and client at a time until they had the resources and the momentum to start gathering millions of dollars of sales.

Business, fortunes and success are built upon the small and simple things such as:

• Developing relationships with your team day in and day out.
• Using money, not people.
• Understanding that sales is something you do for people, not to them.
• Believing that real business momentum may take years to create and forgetting what got you there can stop it overnight.
• Understanding that people (team member and clients) are the bedrock of your success.
• Using consistent and persistent action with passion to improve is what your momentum will be built on.

Remember that success comes through a symphony of actions working together in order for a beautiful harmony of success to be heard. You cannot shortcut success if you want your business to be stable and strong.

Here are some things to keep in mind before you get involved in MLM with the idea of making money:

1. You can make money in network marketing. You just better expect to work hard. Network marketing can be amazingly rewarding, it is just not easy. Anybody who tells you otherwise is not being straight with you. It is challenging, but what career in the world isn’t? With network marketing you control your own destiny, few other careers can do that for you.
2. Understand that network marketing is different today than what it was 15 years ago. All things change, network marketing is no different. The days of recruiting people with promise of making money fast are ending. If you are opportunity first and product second, you better deliver on making them money quickly.
3. Opportunity based companies better get their prices right on their products because product value proposition has never been more important.
4. People are consumers/customers first, entrepreneurship does not enter into the thought process of many salary minded people.
5. People are much smarter today about the unrealistic nature of making big money or even making a living from MLM commissions.
6. Network marketing requires sales skills.  Yes, to succeed in network marketing you must learn to sell effectively.
7. You cannot think about getting three good people into your business, you have to think about a long-term sales process.  You must do as Jeffrey Gitomer says, “Most people think end of the month. But you have to begin thinking end of time.”
8. $500 a month is a huge deal to most people. Anybody who consistently leads the sales process talking about $5,000 a month is disingenuous. Most people in the world have never made over $5,000 in month.  Most of the time, you will talk about getting the product free from their efforts and reasonable goals that fit the person in front of you.  If you are in a mansion, I recommend talking big bucks, if you are in a trailer park, talk getting the product free.  Sales and people skills will help you understand what people actually need, not what you think they want.
9. There is plenty of evidence that shows only 3% of network marketers are profitable, quit thinking everyone is going to make big bucks.
10. The Amway/Dexter Yager days of people being willing to attend three days of meetings every month are coming to an end.
11. There is more competition today from other network marketing companies than ever before.
12. Holding yourself and your downline accountable to their daily activities is key to consistent performance.
13. You can make money in network marketing. I list this twice because you can.  You just better work for it.

I have tried but have not been able to verify the veracity of the story I am about to relate, but true or not, it makes a very good point.
When the USA was falling behind in the space race to the their old foes, the Russians, President Kennedy made a trip to Cape Canaveral. As he toured the facilities he asked three janitors, “What is it you do here?” The three answers were diverse and telling:
1. “Earn a living.”
2. “I pick up the trash.”
3. “Mr. President, I’m helping to put a man on the moon.”

The fabulous book Brains on Fire says:

You can’t have passion without purpose. The two are intertwined. What are you passionate about? And why are you passionate about it? Now, how does that connect with a sense of purpose? That part of you that believes you’re making a difference or standing up for something you believe in?

Perhaps it is a time to do a passion check of your employees and see how it compares with the field. Do the newbies or those with less visible roles understand the importance of having passion and purpose? Does the field feel excited when they come to your office or do they feel it is “us against them”? Maybe it is time to find out.

I remember when I was first learning how to become a network marketer my upline encouraged me try the new raisin bran. The bran was bland and the raisins tasted like sugary rocks. They were terrible and never should have passed product compliance. When I told my upline I would never buy them again, I was reminded that it didn’t taste bad, it tasted like money…what?

Let me remind all of us in direct sales that we are still in the product/service business first, not the opportunity business. The most stable companies in economically hard times are the ones who create true product value. With only a small percentage of the marketers making high commissions even in good times, remember to look for value in the product first and your opportunity will always be safe.

I have four children and it never ceases to amaze me what they believe is possible. Andrew, age 4, can conjure up an entire world of impossibility and spend the afternoon imageering what surrounds him. I love to watch it because it helps me to remember how powerful our dreams and goals are. It also keeps me believing that I can make my world better no matter what obstacles seem to be in my way.

I was recently watching Jim Carrey’s Yes Man. In one scene his lively girlfriend, Allison, said, “The world’s a playground, but somewhere along the way everyone forgets it.”

This quote got me thinking about how crazy it would be to make a video of little kids saying ridiculous excuses that adults use to justify their mediocrity and lack of success in life.  What resulted was 3 days of hilarious outtakes and ice cream bribes. The video below is just a sampling of the most fun a guy can have with $5 ice cream coupons and bunch of hilarious kids.  Look for our complete compilation in a couple days.

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Unfortunately for most of us, Siggy Marvin makes us laugh, but we are forced to confront the horrors in the world at work or we risk going out of business or losing our job. Not long ago I spoke with a friend who is in the awkward position of knowing what is best for his company, but is forced to play politics to keep peace. As he described the position a colleague was taking the business, it reminded me very much of an article written by TheOnion.com. Take-Charge, Can-Do Guy Makes Horrible Decisions, is a must read for anybody confronted with overachieving numbskulls on a regular basis.

“Matthew Stuart, an enthusiastic 33-year-old junior executive at Boston Tea Market, Inc., gets things done quickly, confidently, and terribly…” So frequently when somebody is new to a team, they want to leave their mark and save the day even when they are in way over their heads. They want to be seen as the hero. They want to get the job done. Great goals, but as the old saying goes, discretion is the greater part of valor.

As I write this post, I think to myself, “Jeff, Jeff, Jeff, you are a self-admitted fanatical entrepreneur. Don’t tell the good people to play it safe. Any challenge can be overcome. No obstacle is too big. Encourage people to get out of their comfort zone and make big things happen.” Admittedly, I am an adrenaline junky, I take chances, I start new businesses and I make them work. However, I have found few people that are willing to take responsibility when things go wrong and even less people are willing to risk their own personal security for the sake of making the business work. If you are not willing to lay your salary on the line for mistakes that you initiate, rethink your strong positions.

What we typically see in most businesses is a person that comes to us with the façade of bravado who makes terrible decisions just hoping that the chips will magically fall into place by their hustle. A small sliver of experience is exaggerated into a career filled with successes. Can-do guy crawls into a metaphorical fetal position, analysis paralysis sets in, financial disaster ensues, time is lost and money poured in all the wrong places.

For you can-do people, who put everyone else in a bind, just learn from what people who work with Mathew Stuart come to think about him. “Because of his positive attitude and boundless energy, Stuart’s frequent errors in judgment are generally overlooked. ‘Everyone here really likes Matt,’ Jordan said. ‘You never really notice what an idiot he is until you’re cleaning up his mess. He loves to roll his sleeves up, get in there, and screws (I edited this word to get it PG Rated) all sorts of things up.’

Eventually Mathew will get fired if he can’t back up his hustle with results. Guess what, if you are a can-do guy that makes horrible decisions, you’ll be fired too, but not before you have waisted a bunch of time and money.

P.S.

I was informed that I am not in the habit of leaving anything on a down note. Point well taken.

Business is rough and you can get bruised. Feelings can get hurt and finances dashed.  However, part of business and life is willing to push yourself to new levels.  I encourage my employees and clients to get uncomfortable and achieve more.  There is nothing quite like overcoming your fears, just have the courage to confront your mistakes when you make them.

I hear it all the time, “These products sell themselves.” Nothing sells itself.  That is why I love reading Jeffrey Gitomer’s sales advice.  I buy his books.  I read his newsletters. I quote him all the time. He is the bee’s knees, he has it going on because he is honest about what sales requires. But I can say that one of the world’s best salespeople ignored his own advice on how to succeed in network marketing when he recently responded to an inquiry from one of his readers:

Jeffrey, Last year I joined a multi-level marketing business and I love the products this company is selling. How does one make it in this business and how best can one motivate people to join under him? My life depends on how I make it in this business. People have a belief that they are enriching the people who they join under. Appreciate all the help. Mthamzeli

Mthamzeli, Network marketing, direct selling, and MLM has been under a cloud since 1972. There are a lot of skeptics. There are also a lot of millionaires. Direct selling is not for everyone. And you’re going to have to kiss a lot of toads before you can find the prince. That’s part of what MLM or direct selling is all about. If you love the product, and you use the product, and you believe in the product, then you have a chance of winning. All you need are three or four good people to find three or four other good people and you will be on the road to success. Best regards, Jeffrey

In network marketing we perpetuate the silly myth that you only need “three or four other good people and you will be on the road to success.” Hogwash. Silliness. Untrue and tired.  In his book The Little Red Book of Selling, Gitomer says, “Instead of thinking end of month, begin thinking end of time.” Why then would this titan of sales philosophy use the same silly cliche that disingenuous network marketers use? I hope it was because he has no real experience with MLM or network marketing and just got a little lazy.

Gitomer’s advice he gives to salespeople holds true in MLM and network marketing.  Do not think about end of month (or three good people), begin thinking end of time or three good people a quarter, every quarter, until you have racked up enough money that you don’t care if you make any more ever again.

Network marketing pays really well when you know how to be consistent and persistent with your efforts.  The bigger your group gets, the more time you spend training and motivating. As you start out, you spend almost all of your time prospecting.  The rewards are huge when done properly.  Nothing in life is ever free, do we really think that people will stay with us after they realized that it is not just about “finding three good people”?

Gitomer starts his advice off correctly when he says, “…you’re going to have to kiss a lot of toads before you can find the prince.” Where he gets lazy, and he rarely gets lazy in his sales advice, is when he says just find your three.  To become a millionaire in network marketing or any profession involving sales, you must constantly be improving your network, finding and developing your team, institute regular training and battling attrition of your sales team and client base.

Network marketing has a high failure rate. Most new businesses do. However, when you loose your shirt in traditional business, you typically don’t have anywhere to look but yourself. Not so in network marketing, we blame the company, our upline and the industry as a whole. People may not loose a million dollars but they get embarrassed and waste a lot of time.  The real difference is that most businesses do not recruit based on the silly saying that you just have to find your three and you have made it.

Network marketing, MLM or whatever you want to call it rocks.  Let’s just admit that we need to get better at selling it properly. Let’s make our millions without tired and untrue cliches and white lies.

As I put on my walking billboard this morning, I thought, “How in the world did Old Navy convince me to wear their name across my chest?”  Well, first of all my brother in law, Philip (who dresses pretty snazzy), bought me the shirt and if he buys it, it must be cool.  Second of all, I too think it looks pretty cool in a laid back non assuming way. But I wanted to see if there was more to being cool than just how a couple of dudes feel about a shirt.  I started to do some reading today and found out that according to the 2010 Coolest & Gaps Branding Survey, the top 20 nominated brands represent 60% of the respondents’ “coolest experience”.  Wow, a small minority of the nominations account for a huge portion of the public’s opinion of a cool brand.

What the survey really taught me is that we know cool right when we see it.

Yesterday I left the Apple store in Salt Lake while I was waiting for my flight back home.  The mall was a ghost town, but the Apple Store was filled to capacity.  Tall people, short people, stinky people, old people, young people and some dude from Idaho packed the store.  As I left the store I heard a mother pushing her baby in a stroller say to her friend, “That is so coooool, I wanted it the moment I saw it. I must have it.”  I bet this mother did not know the technical difference between the Apple and an Acer.  I bet she doesn’t know the difference between megahertz and a caramel macchiato, but she knew cool when she saw it. Most of us do.

I am finding that part of my job each day is to help people build their company and personal brands.  Everybody says they want to be like the great brands but don’t want to take any chances or make any mistakes.  Well good luck. Companies like Apple, Diesel, Nike and Adidas take chances all the time.  Some of their ideas are terrible. (Check out this article about the train wreck Apple Pippen). We forgive Apple’s debacle with the Newton Pad, because we love our iPads.  Great brands take their lumps and are not afraid to take chances. Apple knows that hardly anybody knows about the dismal failure of the iPod U2 Special Edition, and probably don’t care now because they are still making a bizzilion dollars selling U2 music on iTunes.

The secret to life (yes I said life) is not to avoid making mistakes, but be willing to make enough mistakes on the path towards your successes to make people forget about your mistakes. (That was pretty deep, I know, you can’t make this stuff up) We all know cool when we see it.  Don’t be afraid to take some chances that make you happy.  Don’t be afraid to improve the human experience of your brand and products.  What makes things cool is not massive calculations, but massive feelings.  Take the cautious blinders off and have some fun. Live a little. Laugh a lot more. Loosen up and let your brand be cool.

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Rain has seen impressive growth recently here in the United States, Asia and Europe. They have begun to attract an impressive team of leaders both domestically and abroad.  After spending time with Chad and Toby, I can understand why people are attracted to their company.  They are both understated but passionate about their business.  As founders they have very different personalities that seem to work together very well. Both Toby and Chad were very successful before starting Rain Nutrition, but both have taken a very active role in the company’s day to day business.

Their brand has recently won awards in packaging and they seem determined to maintain a sleek look throughout their product offering. I enjoyed my time with Chad and Toby and appreciated being with them.

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I have enjoyed visiting many new and existing businesses, this was no exception.  HealthNation showed me that even in a bad economy, entrepreneurs can find a way to interest the public in their product or service.  It was great to see a new company be so well prepared for an event and have so many people show interest in their new company.  HealthNation had approximately 300 paid attendees from 23 different states.  It was well run and well attended.  I feel comfortable saying this company will have an impact on their customers and new members.

“Call me in the new year.” It’s a motto we entrepreneurs hear a million times this time of year. It’s as traditional as maxed out credit cards and a jolly fellow in red.

All successful entrepreneurs take the sales process seriously. Unfortunately, while our family and friends are slacking at their 9 to 5, we still have to meet payroll and pay for the expenses that come with the time of year. For an entrepreneur the holidays can make us feel like the Grinch with the added pressure of additional expenses and prospects that are more secured behind their excuses than the gold at Fort Knox.

Jeffrey Gitomer addresses the holiday stall with 11.5 lines and tactics:

1. Close on the stall line. “ What day after the first of the year would you want to take (would be most convenient to take) delivery?”

2. Firm it up, whenever it is. Ask, “When after the first of the year? Can I buy you the first breakfast of the new year?” Make a firm appointment.

3. If it’s just a callback, make the prospect write it down. Call backs must be appointed, or the other guy is never there when you call. Writing it down makes it a firm commitment.

4. Tell them about your resolutions. “ I’ve made a New Year’s resolution that I’m not going to let people like you who need our service, delay until after the first of the year. You know you need it.”

5. Offer incentives and alternatives. Invent reasons not to delay. Bill after the holiday. Order now, deliver after the holiday.

6. Question them into a corner — and close them when they get there. “What will be different after the holidays? Will anything change over the holidays that will cause you not to buy?” (Prospect’s answer — “Oh no, no, no.”) “Great!” you say, “Let’s get you order in production (service scheduled) now, and we’ll deliver it after the holiday. When were you thinking of taking delivery (beginning).”

7. Agree. Then disagree. I know what you mean…lots of people feel that way. Most don’t realize that the money wasted between now and the first of the year, will equate to a huge savings if they buy now. Are you sure you want to waste the money?

8. Get a testimonial letter. Ask someone who bought before the holidays and was glad they did to write you a two-paragraph letter. Get one paragraph about the value they received and how they originally wanted to wait. The second paragraph should be about how happy they are about your service after the sale. Similar situations are more powerful than your sales pitch.

9. Drop-in with holiday cheer. Use a small holiday plant or gift to get in the door. (No one says no to Santa — unless you live in Philadelphia. There they boo Santa.)

10. Create urgency. There’s a product or delivery back-up after the first — schedule now.

11. Be funny. Say, “So many people have said call me after the first that I’m booked until April. I do however, have a few openings before the first. How about it?” Making the other person laugh (smile) will go along way towards getting past the stall. An alternative joke is, “What holiday?”

11.5 Beg. Pleeeeaaase. I’ll be your best friend.

Gitomer always seems to have fun with the sales process. That is why he is so successful with what he does. Be bold, have fun and drink some eggnog. The season can still be fun, I just recommend you stay away from the Star Wars’ Christmas album. Nothing could quite take away from the spirit of the season than Christmas Darth Vader crooning his way through Away in a Manger.

When my Amway distributorship was in its prime, I would have case after case of soap, breakfast cereal and toilet paper delivered to my garage. It was not uncommon to have over $50,000 of product sitting where the car should be. It was exciting, but also overwhelming. I was a progressive, I wanted to use, of all crazy things…a computer spread sheet to separate and add the product costs among those coming to pick it up. Yes, even in 1995 they had spreadsheets that could add effectively. I was told by my superiors that was not duplicatable. They wanted me to use these outdated carbon copy forms (that I purchased each month from them) because not everybody had a computer or my skills to use them. By the end of the day, I had a huge stack of green carbon sheets, black fingertips and a headache. I stopped listening to their wrong advice and started using my computer again. With the computer, my math was always right again and I stopped regretting selling so many products.

When did we stop teaching our people to think for themselves? When did we stop creating a sales force that interacts with prospects instead of just making presentations?

I have four kids under the age of 12. When I come home, it seems they always are playing within ten feet of me. It makes it hard to make phone calls, but I also get to see a side of creativity that is rarely seen in the work place. I am amazed at how my house is full of dragons flying free, robots conquering inferior foes, airplanes that fly themselves and cars that break the speed of sound. When do adults stop imagineering their future? Why do adults stop using their imagination all together?

Time to stop worrying about whether you will fit in all the time. Time to start asking “why” once in a while. It is time you stop worrying more about being embarrassed and worrying more about creating something great, something special. It is time teach your people how to solve problems by letting them make some mistakes. It is time to truly lead people by getting out of their way once in a while.

It probably wasn’t the best thing to do in the office conference room, but it sure was fun.

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Joe: Well, thank you very much Jeff, I appreciate it.  It’s great to be with you today.

Jeff: I’ve always followed closely what you’re doing at XanGo. You guys have really done an amazing job of continuing to innovate within network marketing.  One of the things that I was always very interested in and, I think as I’ve talked to different people who have studied network marketing, you had an unbelievable, unprecedented success when you launched.  What do you credit that extraordinary initial success to?

Joe: Well, there’s so many things as you know, Jeff, being a student of the industry yourself, there’s so many elements but if I could touch maybe on a couple to highlight just a few.  We have something unique, very unique; a unique story of a botanical.  This interesting botanical, Mangosteen that has been around for hundreds and hundreds of years.  Used by cultures mostly in south east Asia, throughout Asia, part of ayurvedic  medicine in India, it’s even used in central and south America where it grows in those regions as well.  And yet nobody had brought it to the world.  Crazy.  The idea that nobody had brought this thing to the world is amazing.

So we have this unique story, a unique botanical, a powerful botanical so there was an overwhelming feeling that the story had to be told.  I believe that is a very unique aspect of our company; how we took that botanical, created a formulation for it, and then branded it.

Branding, I think has been a really, really important part of the growth and the success of XanGo.  Not only is it the product, it’s the company, it’s the brand; so our product is named after our company.

I would say focus would be another very important part to the success of the company; to keep the focus on this fruit, to keep the focus on this botanical, to not only have it as an internal benefit but then to have it topically as well so that was very important.

And then, I believe, absolutely key – the leadership in the field. We’ve been blessed to have phenomenal leaders from all around the world as this company has grown and expanded.  I am so grateful for those leaders who joined us in the early days, continue to join us, and will be joining us because, as you know Jeff, leaders cause growth. Its leaders that help develop a business and to grow it so I’m so grateful that they had confidence in us in the early days and continue to have confidence in us. So, here we are, still growing because we have phenomenal focus, branding, a unique story that continues to be unique, and phenomenal leaders.

Jeff: Well, there’s no question that network marketing has multiple facets that really make it so a company can succeed.  As I’ve met with the different XanGo leaders and the different executives and those in the field, you’re absolutely right, the strength of the Sherman Unkefer’s and the different Bob Schmidt’s that have been through your company have definitely added to your success.  Is there anybody that has joined the company recently? You’re not a young company anymore – you’re not new, are you attracting any of the people in the field that you think would be important for people to understand what they’re contributing to your team?

Joe: Well, absolutely.  A little over a year ago, a phenomenal legend by the name of Doug Wead joining the company and then as recent as literally a couple weeks ago, Lennon Ledbetter joined the company, an absolute legend as well in the industry and one of the top networkers of all time, seeing the vision, joining this unique company, unique branding story and running full steam with it.  It’s exciting.  Yes, absolutely.

Jeff: Well, there’s no question that both of gentlemen of whom you spoke have been in network marketing for many, many years.  It speaks volumes that a non-startup is attracting people that have had success in other companies.  I think we hear of startups constantly trying to attract new people with the idea of a ground floor opportunity, and as I’ve talked to different people, there’re so many problems that occur with a ground floor opportunity. What do you attribute to bringing these leaders in for an established company, why are they becoming attracted to XanGo?

Joe: I believe it’s because of what I talked about earlier, this unique story, this continued focus on not just products but brands; bringing brands to market.  And the dreams, the focus on our dreams and continued dreams, and as you know, when you set a dream it’s not just a “someday dream” you have to take action so it’s not just a dream, it is action oriented.  I think that leaders see that and they’re attracted to that because that’s what leaders do.  And the likes of a Lennon Ledbetter does not just have a dream, he takes action on that dream which helps that dream to come true.  It’s a very focused effort on that dream.  I think that that’s what attracts one another and why it’s been such a good mix for a lot of these great leaders and its not over, there’s many more to join and all of these leaders say, “If they can make it through five or six years maybe I’ll take a look at that.”  Well, here we are, 8 years later, still focused on the dream, still focused on growing a worldwide brand.  And now, it is worldwide brands that are coming to market and showing the world that in a network marketing business model you can launch brands not just products. It’s amazing to see these leaders come through the door and it’s just such an honor and as I mentioned before. I feel very blessed and honored that they would choose XanGo to bring their dreams to.

Jeff: Well you’ve talked a lot about brand through out this interview and how it attracts leaders.  We can look at companies out there, the traditional companies such as Apple, that have truly built such a tremendous persona with their brands; something that is more valuable probably than all the assets that they have.  In the beginning, you innovated so much outside of what other network marketing companies had done.  You innovated your brand and image in a climate that had become a little bit stodgy and old with its approach.  What are you doing now to innovate?

Joe: Well, I give a lot of the credit to one of my partners, Aaron Garrity, who is brilliant when it comes to branding and brand marketing and also credit to my brother Gord for creating the brand XanGo, the name XanGo.  For those who have seen the story and the video for how we came up with that name, it really is accredited to Gord.  And so, yes, you’re right, it was very unique and different in the early days but now, how do we continue it?  We continue it in multiple ways.

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Through, first of all, the relationships that we continue to hold with our distributors, we absolutely love to be with our distributors. I was just in Mexico, I’ll be in the Ukraine over the next several days, my partners are all around the world meeting with distributors as we speak. We love to be face to face with our leaders, love to be with our distributors and to see their dreams; it’s so wonderful. As we’ve all heard throughout this industry, leaders are born at events and to be at one of those events where you meet someone and you shake their hand is wonderful.

You mentioned Bob Schmidt earlier, I remember being with Bob at several events but, at one in particular, he introduced me to someone and said, “This person is going to be a great leader.”  Sure enough, go back one year later and there they are standing on the stage as a premier.  It’s so exciting, you know, to watch those relationships. I think number one that is a very important part is the relationships that we have with our distributors, the continued relationship.

Number 2, if you’re looking strictly from a brand perspective, we’re involved in our community and I think that’s very important.  Here we are inUtah, this is our backyard, we need to give back to the community and you’ll see our name around quite a lot.  Strategically though, on a jersey, the Real Salt Lake soccer jersey, we were the first one in the history of US professional sports to have a sponsorship on a jersey. It was a pretty exciting moment for us. We call it a traveling jersey because it goes all around throughout the country and to other countries. You’ll see that jersey playing some teams outside the US and then when you get real high profile like when the team actually won the MLS cup, all around the world, the whole world is watching the XanGo jersey being played and actually winning the MLS cup.  So, it’s quite a strategic move, very strategic, a bold move to be the first ones to sign on the dotted line to be sponsorship of a jersey.

We have other involvements as well; we did a professional cycling race, Tour of Utah that just took place. There are so many ways to give back locally but with a worldwide audience.  We give to children’s charities all around the world.  We feel it’s very important to sponsor children’s charities even in countries that we’re not in.

Jeff: Something you talk about, a global reach, you mentioned some of your recent travels and I know your partners, the other founders, are also traveling.  You no longer occupy President, or Vice President, or CEO positions – you brought in Robert Conlee to be your CEO.  Does that give you more time to be able to spend in the field; can you give us an insight into why you decided to make that move?

Joe: We made the decision to bring in professional management to run the day to day because it was very difficult.  As you know, this is a people business, the words we use in our industry is “belly to belly” to be with people. I like to refer to it as the “human touch” factor.  Our business is different, our business is unique that way.  Our industry is unique that way and it’s going to be very difficult to say that we’ll be able to shake hands and be a part of every single distributors meetings and lives in some way.  That’s going to be difficult when you have millions of distributors throughout the world but we’re sure going to make an effort, Jeff.  We’re sure going to make an effort.  And we want to but it’s difficult when you‘re traveling and have to be able to still make decisions back at the office. Robert Conlee is a phenomenal leader with decades of experience in this industry, leading corporations throughout the world.  Understanding of the business is very key.  To be able to have a leader like Robert, to be able to run the business and then his team of leaders to run their respected areas of the company, it allows us to be able to bring the vision to the world of XanGo, to continue to share our vision, our thoughts and feelings about the business and allows us to be more places.  As I mentioned, at any given time and on any given weekend or week we’re scattered throughout the globe and it’s very difficult to be able to do that when holding an executive position at the office.

Jeff: Well, that has to be pretty rewarding to be able to spend more time because anybody who has truly succeeded at network marketing understands the importance of being with people.  Often times, having been a former executive in network marketing myself, you see that you’re often bogged down by so many of the details, it’s very difficult to do what you truly love.  Have you seen quite a bit of reward in getting back with the people and spending time with them?

Joe: Absolutely!  With out hesitation.  We were somehow juggling it before but now it allows us to give even more time.  You know the old saying that the meeting before the meeting or the meeting after the meeting is often more important than the meeting itself.  Meaning: it’s more important to sit down and really look someone in the eyes and hear and feel of their passion and their excitement.  I can’t tell you how much that means to me to show up at the meeting a little bit early to be able to talk sometimes through translators, in fact often times through translators, to hear of their story. As you know, we’re a story telling business, to hear their story, to feel of their passion, to feel of their spirit and their enthusiasm and their hope it means so much to me and my partners to be able to do that.  It allows us to be able to do this more.

The best way I can describe it is when you’re standing there and sometimes it’s a busy room, lot of energy in the room, sometimes there’s music playing, hundreds of people milling around, people excited to see one another, lot of people there for the first time and you can just kind of sense the “what am I here for but I know I’m here, I’m excited”.  All the different emotions and knowing and feeling that you’re going to stand on the stage and talk in a few minutes and share to a crowd that they’re coming from all different walks of life, all different backgrounds, with different dreams and different aspirations, and they’re there.  We take that very seriously, that moment in time, but you know even with all that energy in the room, even with the music pumping, people talking and loud noises, even still, the best way to describe it is when someone is sitting with you and sharing and almost even bearing their soul about what they’ve gone through in life to get to that point.  They’re sharing the hopes or the dreams or maybe their sharing with you what has happened; this is the second meeting or their fifth meeting or whatever it may be but how their life has changed.  It’s like time stands still.  Like you can’t hear the music or the energy in the room, you just hear that individual and it is such an amazing experience, I love that about this business.  Getting a great leader like Robert Conlee coming in and being able to take that charge of leading this company on all the day to day responsibilities, it allows us to have those great moments and allows us to share those moments more.

Jeff: It’s a pretty remarkable position you find yourself in to be able to pursue not only what is best for the company but also to be able to have the fulfillment of being with the people.  XanGo has, without question, had the success and its obstacles.  What would you say is your biggest current obstacle?

Joe: Everyone looks to have hyper growth and hyper growth is what we all want.  I’m right there with everyone else but with that comes an enormous amount of pressure on an organization to be able to keep up.  Very few make it, frankly, very few make it.

What comes with that, as a couple examples:  just the infrastructure alone being able to keep up with that kind of growth, being able to have the proper people in place and all the proper investments in the right area of the company.  The manufacturing is another point to bring up.  When you have a new product like a XanGo, a new form that’s never been brought to market, it adds a certain element of challenges to the manufacturing side that takes years and years to perfect and so I’d say that’s been the biggest challenge.  In probably the first five years alone, we probably moved our offices 4 or 5 times. Now try that.  At one point we had multiple offices while building our current offices.  Maybe we made it look to easy but that’s really taxing on an organization.  We’ve really self funded this thing as time has gone on.  It has also been a challenge to be the ones to really make this all happen and try to be in the field and be at as many events as possible.  Good problem to have but challenging nonetheless.  Now that that’s all behind us, there’s just growth to happen and we’re ready for it.

Jeff: Final question I’d have for you: what is your vision?  You talk about the obstacles that you’ve had. You’ve been able to create an infrastructure to be able to support that growth.  What vision do you have for the future of XanGo?

Joe:  My partner Aaron Garrity said it really well recently when we were talking about this.  I’ve followed the industry over the decades, and boy it’s been around for over a century now.  Some really amazing leaders and companies have developed over the past century.  We launched in 2002, so this last century was the century for all those great, wonderful and different companies that built the industry.  But this century, this century is XanGo Century.  Aaron mentioned that and I believe he’s right.  We are poised to own this century, it’s a pretty exciting thought.  So, buckle your seatbelts, it’s going to be an amazing ride.

Jeff:  I appreciate you taking the time with us today, we’re always appreciative of the time the executives take and I wish you luck and thank you so much for sharing with me.

Joe: Thanks a lot Jeff, have a great day!

Even for those people who are untrained in body language meanings, contradictions in body and words have a negative affect. When a person is saying one thing with their mouth and another with their body, the conversation feels awkward and insincere.  Awkward conversations will crush any perceived trust, and will doom any chance of a sale or follow up. For those trained in body language meanings, words are secondary to the message being sent by the body. When you study body language, you will be able to see clear contradictions between what a prospect is saying with their mouth and their body.

In many sales and prospecting meetings, the inexperienced salesperson or networker leaves a meeting with a prospect completely pumped about getting the sale because the prospect was saying all the right things. In reality, the only positive thing the prospective was saying was coming from his or her mouth. The prospect just wanted to get rid of the annoyance in front of her by feigning interest. The insincere words spoken by the prospect deceived the inexperienced salesperson, but with training, the salesperson could see that the prospect’s legs and arms were crossed, one hand was covering a portion of her mouth and the prospect was never able to look the perceived annoyance in the eye. An experienced salesperson and student of body language would have seen these warning signs and stopped the sales pitch to get to the bottom of the real problem or doubt. An experienced body language reader would have known that if the person did not begin to open up, this sale was doomed and a follow up would never have resulted in a sale, no matter how many times the salesperson followed up.

In The Definitive Book of Body Language we learn, “Body language is an outward reflection of a person’s emotional condition. Each gesture or movement can be a valuable key to an emotion a person may be feeling at the time.” If you begin to watch, your prospects will be telling you far more with their gestures and body then with words.

I pride myself in being able to connect with people and create enjoyable environments for productivity, but I have made some big mistakes addressing body language. I have had experiences with a person who could not stand me and it was evident whenever we met. My meetings with this person were never very comfortable no matter what I tried. In two of my meetings I made the big mistake of pointing out that the person’s arms and legs were folded and one of his hands was covering a portion of his mouth; all signals that this person did not trust me and or disliked me very much. The meetings were very uncomfortable and discomfort is a unproductive setting when you are trying to get things done. In our business dealings, this person definitely felt himself my superior, and he hated me trying to get to the bottom of his feelings during our meetings no matter how big of an impediment I felt it was toward a resolution. In fact my reads infuriated him and he was quick to remind me. I learned quickly that when a person feels he or she is your superior, be very careful pointing out that they do not look physically comfortable with how the conversation is going. Read the body language and do your best to address the problem with a different direction in the conversation. Not until you feel very comfortable with the person sitting across from you, do you point out that avoidance of eye contact and other body signals are causing a problem in the conversation.

Successful follow up meetings can be critical to your business. You owe it to yourself to avoid leaving a meeting thinking that you are further ahead than you really are. If you understand basic body signals, you will have a good idea of how the follow up will go before you even leave your first meeting. When you understand the basics, you can save yourself weeks of fruitless follow up.

• How long should you wait before you contact your prospect after a meeting?
• What did I do wrong they were so interested?
• Am I cut out for this?

Anybody who has ever read a book on sales etiquette or has experience in sales knows that the follow up is just as important as the meeting itself. As entrepreneurs enter the 21^st century is it ok to email or text the prospect, or should you just call? Even more important than how you get back with the prospect is when should you get back to the prospect? I have compiled a list of answers from some of the world’s best entrepreneurs in an attempt to give answers to when you should get back to your prospects without worrying if you are acting out of place or being a pest.

We’ll start this series of posts off with one of my personal favorites, Jeffrey Gitomer. In his book, The Little Red Book of Sales Answers, Gitomer asks, “Are you a sales leader or a sales chaser?”

“Chasing your prospect too hard? People not calling you back? Pushing too hard for orders? Try running the other way – let the prospect chase you. It’s the best follow-up technique I’ve ever experienced.”

“If prospects are not returning your call, whose fault is that? You’re chasing too hard. They’re running away. You couldn’t get their interest. You couldn’t get them to chase you.

Here are some tell-tale symptoms the chase is going the wrong way:

• You’ve followed up a few times, and now you’re searching for a reason to call them – but you can’t think of one.
• You are uncomfortable about calling, you are unprepared, you have not established the needs of the prospect, you are unsure of their status, or you don’t have much rapport with the prospect (or some of each).
• You call, get their voice mai, and hang up.
• You left your best message and they didn’t call you back.
• They told you a decision would be made Tuesday, and Tuesday has come and gone.
• The prospect is giving you a bunch of lame excuses. And you are accepting them!
• And the worst symptom of all – you are blaming the prospect for you inability to generate enough interest, create enough value, or for not having a solid reason to call you back.”

If you have never read any of Gitomer’s books and you are an entrepreneur, it is time to invest in your education. The guy is funny and he can cut right through the bologna. His books are short and easy to read. If you want to learn more from one of the masters on how to get prospects’ attention and more on how to follow up with your prospects, he is a must read.

I follow many different business writers on their blogs. It is no secret, I love to read Seth Godin. However, I also love to read the posts of Marc Cenedella, CEO of TheLadders.com. In his most recent post he spoke about “The Intelligent Entrepreneur”, a new book out from author Bill Murphy. In the book, Murphy distills 10 rules of successful entrepreneurship from the stories of several Harvard Business School graduates.

Much of Cenedella’s post is below:

As I read through the stories, and looked at Bill’s rules, it struck me that there are similarities between the successful entrepreneur and the successful job-seeker. You’re both trying to create something new — a new company or a new position for yourself. You’re both faced with the emotional challenges that go with any new endeavor. There are plenty of setbacks along the way in starting a company and getting a job. And success is dependent on sticking to it and seeing it through.

So with that in mind, I thought I’d share five of Bill’s 10 rules with you and show how they apply to your job search.

#2 Find a problem, then solve it.

It’s not enough in the 21st century to simply describe yourself to future employers as “I’m a finance guy” or “I’m a saleswoman.” Particularly in this difficult economic environment, you need to let your future boss know what kind of problem you can solve for him or her. So be specific about what you bring to the table: “I’m a finance professional who specializes in Sarbanes-Oxley and really enjoys working with internationally headquartered companies to meet American regulatory requirements” or “I’m a sales professional who loves working with biotech start-ups as they go from pre-revenue to $10 mm in sales.”

Find a problem, and then let your future boss know how you will solve it.

#4 You can’t do it alone.

The job search can be a lonely endeavor and you can’t possibly make it alone. You’ll need the support of your family and friends, and being honest with them about the trials and tribulations you’re experiencing is an important part of your emotional well-being during the search. You’ll also need to rely on your colleagues and contacts, and have them on the lookout for you during your job search. (See my advice last week on this topic: “Ask for a reference, not a job.”)

Enlisting the aid of the people you know for support, advice, and connections is the way to your next great job.

#5 You must do it alone.

But as much as you’ll need to rely on family, friends and colleagues, it is ultimately going to depend on you. You’ll need to make the calls, you’ll need to do the follow-up, and you’ll need to be prepared for the interviews. When it’s 10:17 a.m. on Tuesday morning and you’re staring at the phone thinking about making that follow-up call, it’s up to you, and you alone, to pick up the phone and dial the digits. Nobody else can do it for you.

Understanding that you’ll need to make the commitment, set aside the appropriate amount of time, and then fight through our natural tendency to procrastination, is key to your success.

#8 Learn to sell.

Take your annual earnings and multiply by five. That’s the value of the product you are selling — the next five years of your labor. It’s the most important sales job you’re going to have, and you need to learn how to sell. You need to qualify the buyer — make sure they need an expensive product like you — and then explain to them the benefits they’ll get by purchasing — how you’ll help solve the problems they’re facing in their business.

Too often we can allow ourselves to slip into focusing on what I need out of the job hunt. You have to remember that it’s not about you, it’s about what your future employer needs. And you need to sell them on how you fulfill those needs better than any other candidate.

#9 Persist, persevere, prevail.

The job hunt is filled with twists and turns — moments of hope and days of despair. That’s normal. Even the most successful, polished, high-priced executives and professionals that we work with here at TheLadders have those weeks when the phone is not ringing, emails go unanswered, and the creeping doubts seem to loom larger.

It’s all part of the job-seeking process, and in order to be successful, you’ll need to overcome those difficulties. It is only persistence and perseverance that will see you through the bad days and the tough interviews. Anybody who has started a company, and everybody who goes through the job search, experience tough times. Stick to it, know that you are valuable, and you will make it through to success!

To learn the other five rules of successful entrepreneurship, I’d recommend you go pick up “The Intelligent Entrepreneur” today.

“Level 5 refers to a five-level hierarchy of executive capabilities, with Level 5 at the top. Level 5 leaders embody a paradoxical mix of personal humility and professional will. They are ambitious, to be sure, but ambitious first and foremost for the company, not themselves.”

One of the most advantageous aspects of writing about leadership and team building is how much I continue to learn about myself. As I analyze myself compared to the great leaders that researchers study, I am not sure if I am more like the bumbling self-absorbed Michael Scott from NBC’s the office or if I have a shot at becoming a Darwin Smith of Kimberly-Clark who turned a failing company into a Wall Street darling. Will I be Michael and buy myself a coffee mug declaring myself the “World’s Best Boss,” or will I be ferociously dedicated to my companies’ success with the humility of Smith when he said, “I never stopped trying to become qualified for the job”?

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As Collins writes, “Level 5 leaders channel their ego needs away from themselves and into the larger goal of building a great company. It’s not that Level 5 leaders have no ego or self-interest. Indeed, they are incredibly ambitious-but their ambition is first and foremost for the institution, not themselves.”

A couple of years ago I spoke to a person who had taken over a flailing company. I was excited about her vision for the company and how she intended on motivating its depressed sales force and confused employees. I was impressed with the plan, it was innovative and superbly thought out. However, I became disheartened in the future of her plan when she told me, “Besides, if it fails, I will make a nice stack of cash trying.” Ouch.

In a fast-food world, we are applying principles of convenient and disposable to our careers and our companies. Often times jobs are looked at as simply a stepping stone to pad the resume for the next big thing. No wonder our teams are uninspired and transient.

Good to Great found that Level 4 leaders often put their ambition and legacy ahead of the business. “In over three quarters of the comparison companies (underperforming companies), we found executives who set their successors up for failure or chose weak successors, or both.” How many people are truly more concerned about their legacy instead of the true health of the company? How many business Pharaohs are more concerned about building their personal Sphinx that will last longer than the kingdom?

Building a smarter team is not easy. Becoming a Level 5 leader is even harder. Something I do know, it is imperative that we take the attitude of Darwin Smith and constantly try to learn our position better. The minute you think you have it all figured out is when your foundation will begin to crumble.

Goleman studied successful leaders throughout business to understand the amount of technical skills, IQ and emotional intelligence they had as ingredients to excellent performance. He found that the ratio of emotional intelligence proved to be twice as important as the others for top positions in business.

So what is emotional intelligence? It starts with self-awareness, which can be difficult for many people. It is the age-old advice to “know thyself”. Goleman says that it is “having a deep understanding of ones emotions, strengths, weaknesses, needs, and drives. People with strong self-awareness are neither overly critical nor unrealistically hopeful. Rather, they are honest – with themselves and others.”

I recently read an article about Boise State football coach, Chris Petersen. Living in Boise and having attended BSU, I follow his success with admiration and awe. I find it astounding that Coach Pete has built upon the success of his predecessors in such a grand manor that the Broncos are consistently one of the country’s top football teams. Whether you like the Broncos or not, you must admit that what Petersen has done is incredibly impressive.  With an entire football budget that equals just the salary of other top coaches, Petersen has created a juggernaut that inspires love and hate from around the country. Pretty impressive for a team that did not even compete at Division I level 15 years ago.

In the article about Coach Petersen, we can learn a lot about his emotional intelligence:

“His football IQ has been much discussed during the Broncos’ ascension over the past few years, but Petersen’s emotional intelligence — his ability to relate to and connect with others — also seems to be off the charts.

This coach is as good at listening as talking. Maybe better.”

Coach Petersen empowers his people and takes the time to teach them. He teaches leadership and life principles, not just football. He has taken players that larger schools have rejected and turned them into an elite machine. Whether or not the football powers that be will ever find it in themselves to give BSU a shot a national championship is not up to Coach Pete, but under his leadership and cultivation of emotional intelligence there are few teams that would want to face his squad of formerly lovable underdogs.

In my next posts I will discuss looking for emotional intelligence in your people.

Predicting a team member’s success in business or sales is an inexact science at best. It can be difficult to determine who will have it what it takes and who will not. In a Harvard Business Review article by author Daniel Goleman, he says, “…identifying individuals with the “right stuff” to be leaders is more art than science. After all, the personal styles of superb leaders vary: some leaders are subdued and analytical; others shout their manifesto from the mountaintops. And just as important, different situations call for different types of leadership. Most mergers need a sensitive negotiator at the helm, whereas many turnarounds require a more forceful authority.”

In his article, Goleman tries to determine what traits a leader has to help identify them within your organization, but he emphasizes that, “Effective leaders are alike in one crucial way: they all have a high degree of emotional intelligence.”

In the coming days I will explore more of what Goleman and others have to say about identifying leaders. Although it is hard to put a checklist together, I believe it is possible to start improving how to find the right people who qualify to lead others.

My current business has been profitable from day one, but our revenue goals are much greater than what we are currently experiencing.  I believe that to achieve the lofty aspirations we currently desire, we must have the right people on our team. Unfortunately that means making some difficult decisions concerning personnel. Finding the right people and releasing the wrong people is something that has been difficult for me, because I have never wanted to hurt my people. However, as I have become a better manager that insists on accountability and performance, I have realized that keeping the wrong person on my team is not helping them or me. It is far better to release them and hope they will learn for their next venture or find an environment that better suits their skills. (Releasing a team member in Direct Sales may be as simple as moving on to another, more motivated person. I do not encourage removing them from your team, but instead, refocusing attention to someone else.)

Jim Collins, the author of Good to Great, says great companies, “don’t “motivate” people—their people are self-motivated. There’s no evidence of a connection between money and change mastery. And fear doesn’t drive change—but it does perpetuate mediocrity.” Concerning change within an organization, he says, “…dramatic results do not come from dramatic process—not if you want them to last, anyway. A serious revolution, one that feels like a revolution to those going through it, is highly unlikely to bring about a sustainable leap from being good to being great.”

Collins says that leaders of companies that go from good to great start not with “where” but with “who.” Collins compares a company to a bus and filling the seats with people. He says that companies should start by getting the right people on the bus, the wrong people off the bus, and the right people in the right seats. And they stick with that discipline—first the people, then the direction—no matter how dire the circumstances.

You should find the right people who can be motivated by excellence and are excited to make your business better. These people don’t work just for more money, but they work first for the satisfaction of accomplishment and the ability to be creative. Although this may seem obvious, few businesses make the right personnel decisions. Many so called leaders say they want self-motivated people who will work for the betterment of the business, but in reality, many business people have too fragile of egos to have a team member have a contrasting opinion. They are really looking for obedience to their word, not creativity and independence.

When you find the right people and release the wrong people, freedom to work within creative boundaries, and giving your people the freedom to make choices can be a very powerful tool. Freedom of choice is inherent in the spirit of man. Without waxing too political or religious, the agency to choose is our inherited and inalienable right. When your business reaches the point where your leaders are free to make creative choices within a mutually desired direction, greatness erupts. I believe in this and I am becoming more and more vigilant of this within my own company. I am confident it will take us from profitability to greatness.

The world’s greatest leaders have based their leadership on the principle of freedom or agency. Although poor decisions have consequences, such as loss of trust or dismissal from a team, the best leaders do not advocate forcing anybody to follow. They invite others to join them through living what they are preaching.

It is the responsibility of your team members to choose their own path to success.  You cannot force your path to success upon anyone. You will find that by concentrating on rewarding those who produce and releasing those who don’t, your business will achieve levels never possible with the wrong people.

Your role as a leader is not and should not constantly be a shoulder to cry on. Although it is necessary to understand your team and occasionally help them work through some of life’s problems, you cannot become your team’s psychoanalyst.  Your job and main responsibility it to help people help themselves. If you cannot develop needy people into strong, self-reliant members of your team, you will never grow a large and sustainable business.

As an entrepreneur and business owner, you may sometimes feel like a church priest or bishop rather than a capitalist. You will see in a short period of time as a business owner, that anybody who has a struggling personal life will be affected in the business. It is a rare person that can be going through a personal hell and still be unaffected in business. Understand that you will be thrust into the personal lives of your team members, but how you handle those situations is vital if you really expect to help them out.

Whether you are a manager in a traditional business, or you are a network marketer that is beginning to see his or her team member grow, understand that you should be proactively encouraging your people to participate in personal growth activities and studies. You cannot be expected to constantly help an individual who is looking for a quick handout or personal counseling system. You simply cannot grow a large and productive team by constantly taking a careful inventory of all personal outside influences to their lives.

By developing a sales team or networking marketing downline, you have chosen to be a part of people’s lives.  However, you are also in business, and it is not an unkind or an unfeeling business leader who requires a team member to buck up and become a little more self-reliant before you can spend too much time in their business development activities that are devoid of momentum.

Personal independence and self-reliance is a sustaining need for your business to grow. If you rob your team members of their ability to figure out their own problems, how will they ever become leaders themselves?  How can they ever have the strength to grow if you are not around? Worst of all, how will you ever have time to spend time with the people who are willing to be more self-reliant?

Don’t be afraid to let your team members make a mistake. Don’t be afraid to let them mess up a presentation.  We live in a fast food society that demands gratification. If we think that we can solve the problems for our team and still develop leaders, we are kidding ourselves. A new team member is going to feel some disappointment, fear, anxiety and failure. Not every call will result in a presentation. Not every presentation will result in a sale. Teach your team that a miserable experience now and then may just be a part of a profitable business. Help them understand that just because they are taking lumps now, that things will get better if they continue to self-improve and get better

There is enormous personal growth that your team members will obtain when they learn to overcome their obstacles. There is great power in becoming self-reliant. Becoming self-reliant will be fundamental to developing a strong team and ultimately a fulfilled life.

Self-esteem can be a powerful tool for both good and bad.  A member of your team with a poor self-esteem is not likely to ever be a big producer for you or ever fulfill his or her own personal goals.  In order to make it in any commission-based activity, money and self-confidence are forever blended together.  For many people, the inability to earn commissions or bonuses is directly related to their inability to believe in themselves. I don’t believe members of your team will be self-reliant until they learn to look at the mirror without wincing or constantly second-guessing their decisions. Doubt can truly cause a downward spiral and needs to be overcome.

Any true business leader understands that lasting profitability and growth comes from empowering people to become self-reliant. Having a bunch of robots that won’t function without exact instructions becomes exhausting.

To become self-reliant and to truly make money as an entrepreneur requires a person to understand something very basic: We are the masters of our own fate. We choose our path and we choose our destination. Our decisions determine our destiny. If you have a member of your team who never takes responsibility for his or her own success, you will likely need to move past that person and find somebody who will.

Each of us has an internal compass and the tools we need to succeed. Rarely is there a person born with perfect people skills or sales ability.  However, each of us was born with gifts and tools that will propel us to success. The truly successful people are the ones who accept the responsibility that they are the ones who must hone and sharpen their own skills.

When we accept the fact that we are our own agent, and that our success relies upon our own decisions, only then we will have the right stuff to overcome our inabilities. Before you can mentor a person successfully, that person must first understand that he or she must internalize and implement what is being taught, and that you cannot do it for them. Self-reliance can only start to grow when a person truly understands he or she is the captain of their ship, not you.

Success and self-reliance are fundamentally connected. To think otherwise invites short term wins at best. The first step to building a smarter team is to find people who will own their space and take responsibilities for their own personal development and not constantly shift blame to others.

In the Ultimate Sales Machine, Holmes gives us 6 steps to set you up for great follow-up after getting a client or enlisting a new member to your team. The 6 steps below are inspired by Holmes.

1 – Create rapport.  What professional goals did you note during the first meeting? How can you help prospects achieve those goals? What personal tidbit, common interest, or funny story can you refer to later to remind them of your bond?

2 – Qualify and establish need. Do you understand prospects’ needs and objectives? What are the dreams and aspirations of your prospect? What are their most pressing problems and how can you solve them?

3 – Build Value. What do they consider valuable? What benefits or addons would appeal to them and build the value around your product or service?

4 – Create desire. What are their hot buttons that can increase their desire? What is the pain point that you can use to remind them of why they bought and why they will want to keep buying from you? Remember that people naturally gravitate away from problems toward solutions. Is their current career matching up to their dreams and goals?

5 – Overcome objections. What are their objections and how can you put them to rest? Do they really want to join your team or buy your product but a small obstacle is keeping them from doing so?

6 – Close. What closed them or caused them to join your team? Do you remind them with regular contact or product updates?

The great book Linchpin talks about how the robber baron millionaires from the early 20^th century used uneducated people in their sweatshops to make themselves rich. Andrew Carnegie even decided that education caused violent strikes and hurt his business.  The robber barons decided about 100 years ago that if they wanted to be really really rich, they needed compliant uneducated factory workers.  Workers who will be productive and willing to work for less than the value that their productivity creates.  This system worked for a long time, but today, the factory system is breaking down, just ask General Motors.

Linchpin says that schools should teach two things:

1. Solve Interesting problems
2. Lead

Memorizing is what is taught in school today, not problem solving or leadership. The whole education system is based upon passing an exam, not creating leadership skills or decision-making abilities.

Leaders in direct sales organizations have been teaching their “factory” workers for years to say the same things, memorize little sayings and get together once a month for a shot of enthusiasm to keep them from quitting too early before they can sell them some more presentation tools or product.  Many entrepreneurs and members of direct sales organizations mock traditional education. Let me tell you, direct sales has a failing grade in real education too. It is time to start teaching our people to solve real problems and lead, not just memorize if we want to thrive in the new economy.

Times are changing my friends, we live in the new economy of an information age. Just teaching a budding sales person or field marketer to follow an easy presentation will not build that person into a leader. Entrepreneurs who are taught to memorize a certain pattern and copy it exactly are no better off in the long run, and neither is your business.  If you want to keep churning people, teach them to follow a set, non-thinking presentation. If you want to build a business that lasts, teach them to think.

If sales are up everywhere else for nutritional products, besides price, what else could be wrong with network marketing? Why would sales be down for network marketers if they were up everywhere else? Is there something wrong with the leadership in network marketing for sales to be lower across so many companies?

According to Nutrition Business Journal the Internet and other non-network-marketing direct sales companies had a banner year in 2009. As people lost their job and benefits, they turned to preventative health, which means increases in supplements. So, once again, why are sales for nutritional supplements down for network marketing?

There are many network marketers who claim that when the economy is slow, network marketing booms.  In 2008 MLM author, Rod Cook, wrote, “When recession hits the economy, network marketing booms.” Cook even claims that during past recessions network marketing showed explosive growth.  Not so in today’s recession.

I am a small business entrepreneur.  I have made money in ventures inside and outside of network marketing.  I have many friends involved in network marketing and I am a major stakeholder in a network marketing company. I do not write this article to try to hurt network marketing. I write it to show that network marketing is not currently capturing the hearts and minds of consumers. If this trend continues, network marketing will be set back many years.

In my next post I will explore some of what I have seen across multiple companies that I believe to be hurting network marketing. I believe that government agencies can try to stop bad practices all they want, but in the end, the market corrects itself and that is what I see happening right now.

It is time to get a little real, network marketers. Yes, I am talking to the big distributors and company executives here.  It is time to acknowledge what the public is saying with their checkbooks. The public is buying more health and nutrition products, but not from you. Few network-marketing representatives encourage retailing and instead tell their downlines to focus on the business opportunity and personal consumption. The problem is that there is only a small percentage of people that make sustainable money with their downlines. When people don’t make money, they look at how much they are paying for their $30 bottles of juice and switch back to Wal-Mart multivitamins and $4 orange juice.

The CEO of Dominos pizza recently said, “We are going to learn and we are going to get better.” Dominos even has the guts to post customers’ pictures of bad pizza and apologize to those customers. It is time for network marketing to step up and admit that, although we have a great form of distribution, we also have some issues that need to be addressed.

We can get better, but we better start looking at some facts. In order to pay commissions of 40-50% on a product, network-marketing companies must mark up their cost 6-10 times. As a result, the product value can suffer at the expense of the opportunity.  We can preach product value all day long, but if it is too expensive, the public will stop buying.  Network marketing works because of the opportunity. I am not encouraging that to stop. On the contrary, I am saying that the days of over priced supplements for the sake of the opportunity are fading quickly.

Before you start thinking I don’t know what I am talking about look at these numbers. Packaged Facts shows that supplements continue to grow steadily in sales with the market steadily progressing from 5.5% annual growth in 2007 to 6.5% in 2008 to 7.5% in 2009, bringing U.S. retail sales to $9.4 billion in 2009. However, as supplements continue to increase in sales, network marketing companies’ site traffic continues to decline during the economic hard times.

Company   –  Monthly Unique Visitors  - Yearly Change

Tahitian Noni (tni.com) 15,277               – 36.13%

Monavie (monavie.com) 63,847              - 59.39%

Xango (xango.com) 29,259                       – 40.46%

Amway (amway.com) 453,490                  +165.68%

Melaleuca (melaleuca.com) 390,923       – 30.80%

Usana (usana.com) 74,994                         – 12.93%

Getting people to buy product with the pitch that they will eventually make a ton of money is not statistically sustainable. However, selling a great product that people want regardless of opportunity will always improve the bottom line.

For you new business owners and also you job-laden entrepreneurs seeking to strike out on your own and throw so-called security to the wind in hopes of achieving the seductive dream of riches and independence, I speak to you. I embrace you, my fellow entrepreneurs, and applaud that fire in your belly that keeps you up at night seeking something more, but I also have a couple of suggestions and warnings.

Wallace Wattleswrote: “[S]ociety is so organized that man must have money in order to become the possessor of things…” Whether you are a fan of Wattles or not, he is right, the days of trading a pound of butter for a bag of wheat are a little past us now. Randy Gage wrote recently that money is a measuring stick. “If you do something at an extraordinary, exemplary and world class level in the marketplace, the market will make you rich. Because that is the way prosperity works.”

The problem is not money, but how people use it and view it. Money is a symbol and a powerful one at that. Money is not just paper to most people. According to Richard Trachtman, Ph.D., the problem for most people is that money represents such a wide area of problems including anxiety, depression, paranoia, impotence, impulse spending, gambling, social isolation, suicide, and murder. Most people have been taught that it is a taboo to talk about money. There are even books such as Etiquette written in 1922 and its new 17th edition, Emily Post’s Etiquette, that tell us it is rude in most cases to talk to people about personal finances. In 1908 Freud even connected money with feces and connected it to anal eroticism… WHAT in the world? No wonder people are so afraid of money.

No question that money surrounds us. Money can be influential, tempting and seductive. It is a main motivation in our world today. It is a primary reason for divorce and the love of money is for many one of the strongest moving forces in life.

The philosopher, Jacob Needlemansays that money must become a tool for any modern man or woman seriously wishing to find meaning in their lives. “We must use money in order to study ourselves as we are and as we can become.” Money is just a tool and it is about time we studied how we feel about ourselves.

Randy Gage is right, money is a measuring stick (a tool) and most people subconsciously know that. That is why it scares the heck out of them. People feel that money proves they are worth little and accomplish almost nothing. Why do you think people run from the topic of money and are secretive, embarrassed and conflicted about the subject of money?

If money scares you to death, join the club. It is so hard to talk about, the majority of newly weds have yet to even discuss it in any depth before the big day. However, to be successful in business and especially in network marketing, it is time to comfort your fear and understand what money can become to you, instead of how you think it defines you today.

What do you think?

In network marketing we build romantic stories about the successful leaders. We imagine that they hit home runs every at bat, throw 90 yard touch down passes and sink hook shots from 50 feet out on a consistent basis. It reminds of the Mel Gibson Classic Braveheart, where a young soldier doubted Wallace’s identity because he looked too ordinary:

William Wallace: Sons of Scotland! I am William Wallace.

Young Soldier: William Wallace is seven feet tall!

William Wallace: Yes, I’ve heard. Kills men by the hundreds. And if HE were here, he’d consume the English with fireballs from his eyes, and bolts of lightning from his arse.

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It borders the absurd how we describe the accomplishments of ordinary people (Network marketing icons are really just normal dudes like the rest of us). This improper characterization is bad for new people and discourages rather than keeping them going. Who in the world really ever built their business without getting the crud beat of them?  New people get discouraged if they think they have to live up to impossible feats of marketing. In reality network marketing legends become what they are because they do the little things well. In an Eric Worre video post, he accurately tells us the secret to retention in network marketing is really just small victories. He is right.

Jenkins Lloyd Jones summed life up pretty well when he said, “[The fact is] most putts don’t drop. Most beef is tough. Most children grow up to be just people. Most successful marriages require a high degree of mutual toleration. Most jobs are more often dull than otherwise… Life is like an old?time rail journey delays, sidetracks, smoke, dust, cinders and jolts, interspersed only occasionally by beautiful vistas and thrilling bursts of speed.”

The people who think they will build their businesses with 4,000 people at every meeting and sponsoring only superstars do not understand how real success is achieved in MLM. Only marketers who consistently and diligently achieve small successes will create extraordinary profits in network marketing or make a lasting difference in the lives of their downline.

If you want a group of successful people in your downline, teach them that you will not fill coliseums without filling out a ton of names lists with newbies, teaching them to get passionate about a great product and sharing it with others. Great accomplishments are rarely achieved by overcoming the impossible with a miraculous effort in a short period of time. Great success in network marketing comes from creating habits over time that allow you to build persistently and which allow you to consistently improve your performance.

Great marketing leaders such as Eric Worre, Dexter Yager and Doug Wead are often credited with making a giant impact on groups. These icons within network marketing became who they are because of their ability to do the small things every day. I would even go so far as to say that the icons in network marketing are who they are because of the thousands of people like you and me who are doing the small things each day in their downline. The ultimate downline does not consist of just an incredible leader, but a group of people dedicated to the same goal. May I be so bold as to say that our main goal should be to deliver small victories every day to our new people.

It is time to dispel the myth of the network marketing Hail Mary which is the false belief that we can skip the growth pains and create the foundation for our business instantly and painlessly.  Hail Mary’s almost never work in American football and it does not work in MLM either. True success comes from the small and simple things done continuously. When we do the basics of network marketing consistently it can lead to exhilarating moments when we fill an arena with people.

Great leaders in network marketing are just simple people. I have met so many of them and what makes them geniuses is the fact that they know they are not geniuses. Our industry will become respected and our incomes sustained when we realize that we too can create extraordinary results by consistently doing the ordinary.

“If you want to build a ship, don’t drum up people together to collect wood and don’t assign them tasks and work, but rather teach them to long for the endless immensity of the sea.”

– Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Rule 2 – Four hours a week won’t create much profitability. Read my last post in this series. Monavie distributors that put in 4 hours a week made almost nothing. Monavie distributors who put in 9 hours a week were making pretty good money. You know that you don’t have a superstar if he or she is not willing to put in the time.

Rule 3 – Test your people who say they are committed. Many marketers cringe at this rule. “I want everyone to be comfortable,” they think. “I don’t want to blow anyone out.” Well fine, have an underachieving group that never gets big if you don’t have the guts to ask more from your people. You have to know what your people are really doing each day in their business. Are they really showing the business as much as they say? If you know that your pseudo star is not really showing the plan as much as he claims, say this, “I don’t think you are nearly as committed as you say you are. I want everybody in my group to succeed, but I spend my travel money and the bulk of my time with those who are really committed. I don’t know if that is you or not. Are we going to do this or not?”

Holmes says that most HR departments encourage a loving and nurturing environment for businesses, but superstars must be challenged. I believe that is the same for your downline for the most part. You should gently encourage the 97% who are not ready to really commit to your business. However, if somebody claims that they are a 3% club member, you better test them before you spend 3 months dedicated to building their business traveling across the world for them when they are lollygagging. If you challenge a possible superstar; no matter age, sex or experience, they will rise to the occasion and disagree with you if you tell them they are not a 3% member. The 97% person who claims to be a star will not challenge you. A budding superstar will tell you she is committed and challenge you back. When the person rises up, challenge them to new levels of commitment. When they do not challenge you, love them, help them and encourage them to stay at it because they can learn how to become a superstar over time. Either way, you need to know what you have.

Rule 4 – Ask lots of questions. Interview your people on what they are doing each day, week and month. Know what is happening in their groups and if the rising leader is doing what is necessary to help them become a superstar. Do not hurt your 97% people in any way, but know you must take measures to know what your people are really doing. Smart uplines have an idea of what their downline is doing each day. Real superstars will not be afraid to be accountable. They want help and they will work hard to gain your respect.

Rule 5 – Know your people. Have your people take personality tests. A great book is Personality Plus. My upline, when I built an Amway business, loved using this book to understand us and how to better help us succeed. Certain personality traits are necessary to succeed in network marketing, they can be natural or learned. Either way, it sure helps to know your people and how to help them succeed.

Rule 6 – Superstars are not easy to find. Whether you personally sponsor a possible superstar or you find them in your downline, you will have to work to find them. Give your superstars and possible superstars your time and your attention. It breaks my heart to not be able to spend equal time with everyone who wants it, but you cannot spend a lot of time with the people who are not rising to the occasion. When you are new, you must have the discipline to sponsor everyone but search aggressively for superstars. If you are not looking diligently, you will miss some of the great ones right in front of you.

Rule 7 – I reserve the right to change my rules as I get better. If you think you have all the answers in this business, you are fooling yourself. Learning is the name of the game and it never stops. However, finding superstars is vital to your success and if you follow the rules above, you WILL find some real stars.

In his post “ORAC started the snowball rolling recklessly downhill” Gross has opined that ORAC is a result marketing research, not medical research. I wonder how much validity there is to his ideas, but I will search to see if there are differing opinions to Gross. His comments are below:

The oxygen radical absorbance capacity, ORAC, is a test tube measure of a food’s antioxidant state before ingestion. The method has been widely (and wildly) misused to infer antioxidant health benefits from consuming foods high in ORAC.

ORAC may have utility to food scientists as an index of polyphenol content in plant foods.

However, upon ingestion and following exposure to the enzyme and acid environment of the stomach, the polyphenol chemicals responsible for ORAC are altered (usually broken apart into newer, smaller compounds) and no longer have significant antioxidant value.

Further, the body sees these compounds as foreign and actively tries to get rid of them, indicating that ORAC measured in a test tube has no physiological meaning

It’s amazing how so many marketers allow themselves to think that by protecting their people from having to work hard that they can somehow find someone to step up. Protecting your people from responsibility and accountability will only give you average people. Average in network marketing is not good. For example the average Monavie Distributor’s check in 2008 was $30. In 2009 that average check dropped to $23. Ouch. Expect the highest possible commitment from your people and some of them will step up, others will wash out. Many of your marketers will quit even if you don’t challenge them, what do you have to lose?

If you study income disclosure statements you will see something pretty amazing. Take Monavie again as an example. Monavie claims that the average Distributor works 4 hours a week. Four hours a week in Monavie will gross you $1,214 a year. Not good. That check will barely cover your gas expense going to meetings. However, step up your weekly productivity to 9 hours a week and they claim you will gross $53,413 a year. Getting pretty good. The small difference of 5 extra hours a week makes an exponential earning difference in Monavie (if their numbers are accurate). What is even more amazing is that they claim with an additional 3 hours a week to a total of 12 and your average annual check will be $104,759.  Triple that number and they claim you will gross a cool $1,486,366. They do not say how many years you have to work 27 hours a week to earn this kind of cash, but my point remains: top earners are willing to do more, don’t hold your people back.

When we focus on creating networking studs we will have an elite corp of superstars that overcome obstacles by themselves without being dependent on a stretched upline. Chet Holmes claims that when we have a few right people who will step up to a challenge, they can be put in a bad situation with poor tools, no training, and bad resources and still, within a few months, they begin to outperform your best people or build your company in ways you never dreamed possible. Sponsoring or spotting the right people in your downline is not about luck. It’s about understanding the personality characteristics that fit elite network marketers and having the guts to challenge your potential superstars to see if they possess those characteristics.

If you challenge someone and they fail, continue to love them and encourage them. With encouragement and attendance at training events, hopefully they will continue to put in a couple hours a week. Maybe some day they will grow into a new level of production. However, you must continue your search NOW for superstars that will commit at least 20 hours a week to the business. Superstars are hard to find, but they do exist. Your job is to find them and train them. You can’t do that by fooling yourself into believing everyone is ready for that role now.

My next few posts are going to be very real. I have developed curriculum’s that can point people in the right direction, but they are not for lazy people or someone who finds excuses. My suggestions for extreme profitability in network marketing are only for the person that is mentally ready to take their psyche to peak levels needed to succeed in network marketing. If you are going to easily give up, you will become a part of the 97% who are never profitable in network marketing.

Network marketing involves sales. Anybody who tells you that you do not have to be good at sales to succeed at network marketing is telling half-truths. Success in network marketing can come as a result of finding a great product and meeting great people. However, if success is defined as profitable, then you must learn to sell.

A strong ego is vital to success in sales. Just because a person has a strong ego does not mean that person has to be viewed as pompous or arrogant. Everybody knows Donald Trump has a healthy ego, and some people cannot stand how he carries himself. His ego has served him well in business, but few people can act the way he does and not be punched in the face.  Some very successful people, such as George Lucas and Bill Gates, made their fortunes with strong egos that would allow them to get past rejection without appearing brash and overstated the way that Trump does. However, Lucas and Gates never would have made their fortunes if they were timid and did not sell their new ideas to whoever would listen to them. They are rich today as a result of not letting a “no” get them down.

Confidence and a strong ego are very necessary in network marketing because of frequent rejection. In his book The Ultimate Sales Machine, Holmes writes that a superstar salesperson must have a strong ego, show a great ability to influence others, is empathetic, has a psychological need to bond with others and a need to find something likable about every person. However, if the person is too empathetic he will be too understanding and never close a sale. The salesperson and the network marketer must be able to push with empathy. If you believe in your product or service, you should passionately push, but do so in a manner that does not offend in the process. This takes practice, study and time for most people.

When you are looking for future superstars, many times you miss them because they may seem annoying. They are always hanging around, asking questions and sometimes seem way to eager. Many potential superstars that have not honed their craft seem to need way too much attention and tend to never shut up. They can come on way too strong. Novice superstars in training have an audacity that can be off putting. However, audacity and bravado are essential ingredients needed to achieve greatness in anything.

My next post I will talk about how to test your downline to see if they have natural skills to be a superstar or if you have a lot of teaching to do.

Most network marketers go by instinct on who will be the next superstar in their group. Hate to tell all you superstar spotters, you are typically wrong. These wrong decisions cost you a ton of time and money. In network marketing your bad choice not only wastes your time, but you typically lose sight of the real stars while you are toiling away with someone who will never live up to superstar status. Chet Holmes, a master business trainer, believes that in traditional business an average bad hire can cost a company $60,000. In network marketing the cost is more difficult to put a dollar number to, but realistically we lose a lot of money and time trying to force the wrong person into a superstar role.

Many superstars make the mistake of thinking that everyone else wants success as much as they do. As a full-time network marketer, I was shocked that not everybody wanted to show 45 plans a month and drive their wheels off to get to meetings all across the country. Holmes describes business superstars as people who are eager to please, always looking for more to do, always wanting more responsibility, always wanting to know more than you think they need to know. I would say that your future superstars in network marketing could be described similarly. Because a budding superstar has characteristics that can be viewed by some as annoying, we lose many of our future leaders by crowning the wrong person as our future star.

In network marketing we think that all of our downline can eventually turn into superstars. My advice there, stop it. Stop thinking the impossible. I believe that we need to improve the experience of all our downline the best we can, but not everybody in your downline will ever be a superstar. Never. I agree with Holmes when he says that superstars are an incredibly rare breed. You will be much better off learning how to spot superstar characteristics and then hold your future stars to a whole different level than regular distributors. Regular distributors will quit long before they will ever do what a superstar will naturally want to do.

My following posts will teach you how to spot and train future stars and how to hold them accountable until they don’t need you everyday. When your stars burn bright without you every day is when you know you are on your way.

Most people that join your group will never do anything other than attend a few meetings and buy product.  Welcome them.  Love them. Encourage them.  However, there are also people that are hungry and want to succeed at high levels.  Those people should be pushed, held accountable and lovingly guided into success by expecting a lot from them.

These future leaders are not afraid to do whatever it takes ethically to succeed.  But many times their upline is trying to protect these future leaders from doing too much.  This is crazy, because top leaders get to where they are because of their attitude of doing more than what is expected.  Top leaders only create true stability when they truly replace themselves.  They will create generational income only when they ask the same from their leaders and future leaders that they ask of themselves.  If not, when they go away or die, so will their groups without their presence.  Longevity is created by creating leaders.  Leaders are made through accountability to themselves and their mentors.

One who is committed to a cause will not simply “go through the motions” in becoming a leader.  A committed distributor will not be satisfied with just making a visit to one of his downline so he can report to his mentor that his job is “completed” or “done.” A committed distributor would not be content to merely “give” a presentation but would want to teach with passion. The result, if your leaders have the guts to ask for it, will be making a real difference in the impressionable lives of the new distributors entrusted to his or her care.  It will create real leadership.

The training programs we make are done in a way that asks little from the 97% but much from those who say they want to be leaders.  Responsibility and accountability will show you who really deserves your time. Companies and top leaders need to create more leaders, and learn to identify and love the 97%, because you need them in your business too.  However, to ask little from your future leaders is a big mistake.  Leaders want to be accountable, leaders want to feel empowered, and to ask anything less is creating a house of cards that will crumble eventually.

Approximately 80 percent of the top network marketing companies sell health products or cosmetics. Give me $30,000 and two months and I can have you branded inventory of a health product or cosmetic item.  It is not hard to do. And guess what, it will probably be made in the same location as some of the world’s top brands.

It is time for network marketers to be more courageous. It is time to create more movements and to quit trying to sell a product with an economic opportunity. We don’t just need great products, because they are everywhere.  We need courageous people taking those great products and quit selling them based upon an economic opportunity.  That model is failing.  I repeat, THAT MODEL IS FAILING. Look at the following graph put out by the DSA. 2008 and 2007 had less sales than 2006.  And, if you account for inflation, we had less sales in 2008 than we did in 1999.  Some companies are growing, but network marketing is not in the United States.  All we are doing is stealing from each other as marketers jump from one fad company to the next. And marketers are jumping ship because corporations are failing on their product and opportunity promises. It is time to start creating product movements that stick based upon the merits of the movement, not just a commission.

I meet with a lot of marketers from many different companies now.  I am currently involved with no companies.  I am a network marketing lover affiliated with nobody on a day to day basis. One thing I can tell you company executives, your people would leave you if they had the guts to do so or if another opportunity that says the right things comes their way.

I am really shocked at how fearful so many field marketers are at “losing” something by staying with a company that treats them like a commodity. Let me tell company executives and top marketers how to create a movement and keep your people happy.

1. Quit treating your product as commodity that is sold because of an economic opportunity.
2. Make stuff worth talking about. If you are just one of many similar products, you better be really, really, really, really good at telling an authentic story.
3. Understand the new leverage in today’s network marketing.  Live your story, yes live your story. Give me happiness, not ingredient lists. Give me joy, not promises of riches I don’t really believe in. Give me a way to feel younger, with people that build me into greatness not scare me into submission. Give me life, don’t take it away from me.  Don’t tell me you care about how much money I make and then threaten me if I think the opportunity is better else where. Give me a reason to stay other than the lottery ticket chance of $10,000 a month. LIVE your story.

I love the movie Gladiator. My favorite part in the movie happened when Maxius found his small group of fellow gladiators in the Roman Colosseum about to be under attack. The attack came from a more numerous army of better armed warriors on chariots.  Maximus compelled his men by saying, “Whatever comes out of these gates, we’ve got a better chance of survival if we work together. Do you understand? If we stay together we survive.”

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I can say I love network marketing.  I love what it can do for people and what it does to people. It is time to make our profession better.  It is time to have the courage to work better together in our companies. It is time for companies to empower their people, not threaten them to stay or suffer the consequences. It is time to grow our industry, our companies and our downlines. We better get better at creating a movement worth following.

There is nothing wrong with telling stories if they are true, or you can make them true under scrutiny. The best companies in the world are the ones that are constantly staying ahead of the crowd with their stories.  They are willing to admit when their story becomes tired or doesn’t resonate the way that it used to.

In 2007 I founded a juice company with my brothers. At the time there were a few different multi-juice blend companies, but today there are even more with “the best juice.” We decided to base our story on an unstory. The unstory was based upon my family’s desire to have a product made by nature and assembled by science. We did not want a story based on a mystical adventure in a rain forest and happening upon some indigenous people saving us from malaria with a magic potion. We believed people were too smart for that kind of story that was popular for a while.  Our juice was a great formula and our unstory had legs for quite a while. However, today I believe that most juice company stories have run their course, and like BMW did with its Joy Campaign, it is time to find a story that will resonate anew amidst all the new and continuing noise of “The best juice on the market.” Everybody preaching the same message that they are the best is frankly being lost on consumers who have heard it ad nauseam for the past 5 years.

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If you watched the video clip above, you will see that BMW is a master at story telling. Masters because they are passionate about making their story true. BMW understands that people do not buy facts, they buy emotions that stories provide. Seth Godin says, “The facts are irrelevant. In the short run, it doesn’t matter one bit whether something is actually better or faster or more efficient. What matters is what the consumer believes.” “Stories (not ideas, not features, not benefits) are what spread from person to person.” For juice companies as a whole, I recommend a new direction instead of trying to prove that you have more of this or more of that, it doesn’t resonate any more. Does the number of phytonutrients you have really capture the imagination of large or important audiences. I would say no it does not, most people really don’t know how something with a phyto in it even affects them enough to care deeply.

“A great story is true. Not true because it’s factual, but true because it’s consistent and authentic. Consumers are too good at sniffing out inconsistencies for a marketer to get away with a story that’s just slapped on.” Let me give you an example of a new juice company that did something smart.  Rain Nutrition is a small company that started selling juice in the beginning.  Too small and too late to capitalize on the juice fad, they have recently taken a very important step to becoming significant.  They added a couple products and started a basic fitness program that also included a diet that featured their products.  They focused more on the emotional needs of their consumers. To me, their new story is, “Rain is Fitness”. I was told that their recent program has been a smash hit and at a recent convention they saw a huge spike in product sales as a result. Nice work separating yourself from the juice noise.

Time for more of us professional networkers to listen to Seth Godin and less to ourselves and the glory days. Great stories make a promise. They promise fun. The promise is bold and not just very good, it is exceptional or it’s not worth listening to. Time for all of us to ask if we are fulfilling on our promise and not just saying, “Oh yeah, my product can beat up your product!”

Seth Godin says, “Be remarkable! Be consistent! Be authentic!” Ask yourself, “Is my company remarkable, consistent and authentic?” Of course you are going to say yes, but is it really? Is your company based on a good product story that is priced appropriately for its target market, or is your product just an excuse to have compensation plan? Ask yourself how many marketers stay on the product for a year after they realize they aren’t making any money?  Ask yourself how many people say yes to the product when they say no to the opportunity? Finally, ask yourself how many people out of a hundred, who say yes to the opportunity, actually have the opportunity promise fulfilled?

If you are promising a great product experience first, you are more likely to be able to deliver on your story. You cannot make a person profitable if that person does not cooperate.  You cannot force a person to show plans and enroll people into your company. If your opportunity presentation alludes to the fact that a high percentage of people are making money with your company, you are not being authentic. However, if your product story resonates, it can become true immediately in the eyes of people and they will buy your product. Aren’t we really about moving product or services any way?

Seth says, “So, go tell a story. If it doesn’t resonate, tell a different one.” If people are not asking for your product when you finish your presentation, it is time to change your story. Very few people have what it takes to make it big in network marketing, but many people have what it takes to make a $150 a month profit if the product story resonates. How much better off would the masses be with an extra $150-$300 a month. How much better off would a company be that has many multiples of people telling a PRODUCT story that resonates with the masses? How much better off would health food companies be if they were told how to tell a PRODUCT story that didn’t focus on ORAC, roving radicals, unpaired electrons and catechins? (I too was once guilty of this boring health speak that nobody understands and few really care about.) How about a story that really resonates with what people will always listen to; how to lose weight and look younger? Then, actually have a product that actually delivers on that story.

As Seth says, “Either you’re going to tell stories that spread, or you will become irrelevant.” My advice, listen to Seth.

I would say that network marketing, just like other means of marketing is chuck full of liars.  It is too bad, because it is counter productive. Godin says that lying doesn’t pay off anymore in marketing.  The problem with lying is that when you “fabricate a story that just doesn’t hold up to scrutiny, you get caught. Fast.” Godin is right, it seems so simple.  If we lie, people will catch on and then we are doomed. Trust breaks down, attrition gets out of control and leaders get burned out trying to maintain their past incomes. Yet so many network marketing leaders, executives and those profiting from big commissions ignore the lies when it will ultimately burn them. Why?

Let’s list a couple of the big lies: everybody can succeed in network marketing, all you have to do is sign up 3 people and you don’t need to know how to sell to succeed in network marketing. Those lies may have worked 10 years ago, but consumers are getting smarter and the reality sinks into new marketers pretty fast that you can’t make a profit just by buying a spot in a downline.

I was speaking to a marketer last month and I asked him how much money he wanted to make.  He told me $10,000 a month (I think that is what he was taught to say).  ”Wow,” I thought, “I wonder how much money he makes in his job and how big was his best commission check in a year of building his business?” This great guy has never made close to $10,000 a month at his job and his biggest commission check was less than $250.  Some people may say, “Good for him, he has a big goal to get him through the discouragement.”  I say, bologna.  This guy needed help understanding to get to $10,000 a month, he needed to get to $500 a month first. If he has never made $500 a month in 12 months, how discouraged is he going to be when he realizes he may never make $10k? He’ll quit before he ever makes it at this pace.

I am going to explore the silly lies that we tell ourselves in network marketing for a few days and a better way to go about our stories.  Seth Godin says, “So, go tell a story. If it doesn’t resonate, tell a different one. When you find a story that works, live that story, make it true, authentic, and subject to scrutiny.  All marketers are storytellers.  Only losers are liars.”

Hallelujah Seth. People are joining us in network marketing, but statistically speaking MLM has not grown much faster than inflation in the past 5 years. Ouch. For such a great distribution methodology, perhaps its time we start telling a story that actually resonates.