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<title>Your Kid Could Create the next Halo Game</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2011/03/kodu.html</link>
<description>Well, maybe not the next "Halo," but he or she could be well on their way to creating a fun PC or Xbox 360 game with Kodu, a free set of fun tools from Microsoft. And for the competitive kids...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Well, maybe not the next &amp;quot;Halo,&amp;quot; but he or she could be well on their way to creating a fun PC or Xbox 360 game with &lt;a href="http://research.microsoft.com/en-us/projects/kodu/" target="_self"&gt;Kodu, a free set of fun tools from Microsoft&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;#0160; And for the competitive kids out there, there&amp;#39;s real money up for grabs!&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img align="left" alt="" src="http://research.microsoft.com/en-us/projects/kodu/kudo_project_badge.jpg" /&gt;From &lt;a href="http://www.readwriteweb.com/archives/kids_can_now_build_their_own_xbox_games_with_kodu.php?utm_source=feedburner&amp;amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+readwriteweb+%28ReadWriteWeb%29&amp;amp;utm_content=Google+Reader" target="_self"&gt;readwriteweb&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Microsoft is releasing a new version of its Kodu Game Lab today, and it&amp;#39;s also kicking off its &lt;a href="https://microsoft.promo.eprize.com/kodukup/"&gt;Kodu Cup Competition&lt;/a&gt; for students ages 9 to 17. The competition asks kids to design their own video game using Kodu, and the winners will compete for a $5000 prize for themselves, along with $5000 for their school and a trip to the worldwide finals of Microsoft&amp;#39;s &lt;a href="http://www.imaginecup.com/"&gt;Imagine Cup&lt;/a&gt; competition.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Check out this short video with a brief introduction.&amp;#0160; Then download the tools, and get playing!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;﻿&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;iframe frameborder="0" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/8-FjskAHgN0" title="YouTube video player" width="640"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Computers, Computing, Software</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Technology</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Videogames</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Xbox</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2011-03-16T13:14:22-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Sheen-isms are the new and improved Busey-isms</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2011/03/sheen-isms-are-the-new-and-improved-busey-isms.html</link>
<description>I can't help but revisit the topic of Busey-isms, now that Charlie Sheen is making Gary Busey look SANE. From 2003: Busey-isms More Busey-isms Busey-isms Revisited "Just pretend you're invisible. But play like you're not pretending, and then your invisibility...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I can&amp;#39;t help but revisit the topic of Busey-isms, now that Charlie Sheen is making Gary Busey look SANE.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="busey.JPG" border="0" height="137" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/blog/busey.JPG" width="264" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From 2003:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/blog/2003/07/buseyisms_1.html" target="_self"&gt;Busey-isms&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/blog/2003/08/more_buseyisms.html" target="_self"&gt;More Busey-isms&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.johnporcaro.com/2003/09/buseyisms_revis.html" target="_self"&gt;Busey-isms Revisited&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;Just pretend you&amp;#39;re invisible. But play like you&amp;#39;re not pretending, and then your invisibility will become a reality. and you cannot be seen by anything, any place, anyone.&amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;I&amp;#39;m going to show you some better ways to get rid of fear, that has to do with the mind, the soul, and the spirit. Hand-eye coordination. Eye-hand-foot coordination. Coordination of your central nervous system, and your circulatory system, coupled with your respiratory system, to give you the freedom of a bird that flies endlessly, without effort and without stopping.&amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And now, Sheen-isms&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/charliesheen" style="display: inline;" target="_self"&gt;&lt;img alt="Sheentwitter" border="0" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef014e86792a8b970d image-full" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef014e86792a8b970d-800wi" style="border: #000000 1px solid;" title="Sheentwitter" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;“If you borrowed my brain for five seconds, you’d be like, ‘Dude! Can’t handle it, unplug this bastard!’&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;It fires in a way that’s maybe not from, uh… this terrestrial realm.”&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“It’s just strafing runs in my underwear before my first cup of coffee, because I don’t have time for these clowns.”&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;I am on a drug, it&amp;#39;s called Charlie Sheen. It&amp;#39;s not available because if you try it you will die. Your face will melt off and your children will weep over your exploded body.&amp;quot;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;There’s a new sheriff in town. And he has an army of assassins.”&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;The run I was on made Sinatra, Flynn, Jagger, Richards, all of them look like droopy-eyed armless children.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;I wish him nothing but pain in his silly travels especially if they wind up in my octagon. Clearly I have defeated this earthworm with my words -- imagine what I would have done with my fire breathing fists.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;quot;I will not believe that if I do something then I have to follow a certain path because it was written for normal people. People who aren’t special. People who don’t have tiger blood and Adonis DNA.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thanks to &lt;a href="http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/185577-he-s-like-a-train-wreck" target="_self"&gt;WS&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;#0160; Even more from &lt;a href="http://therockstation99x.com/latest-and-greatest-charlie-sheen-isms/" target="_self"&gt;99X&amp;#39;s Greatest Charlie Sheen-isms.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Humor</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Random</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2011-03-02T20:14:00-08:00</dc:date>
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<title>Sweet Facebook app Case Study</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2011/02/sweet-facebook-app-case-study.html</link>
<description>Interesting case study for a Greek chocolate company that created an online Facebook campaign, by using customizable content that carried the brand message in a creative way. Good job of being useful, sharable, and "social" from beginning to end. Sweet!...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Interesting case study for a Greek chocolate company that created an online Facebook campaign, by using customizable content that carried the brand message in a creative way.&amp;#0160; Good job of being useful, sharable, and &amp;quot;social&amp;quot; from beginning to end.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Sweet!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;iframe frameborder="0" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/Zd5pFwmYabI" title="YouTube video player" width="640"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From &lt;a href="http://www.digitalbuzzblog.com/lacta-chocolate-facebook-campaign-case-study/#more-5637" target="_self"&gt;Digital Buzz blog&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Marketing</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Media</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Networking</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Video</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2011-02-04T14:51:34-08:00</dc:date>
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<title>Is What You're Saying Worth Listening to?</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/12/is-what-youre-saying-worth-listening-to.html</link>
<description>I read a great article written by my friend Chase McMichael, from Infinigraph, called Influencer, Content Intelligence and Social Engagement. It's one thing to have an official Twitter feed or Facebook page for your brand (good start!). It's another (entirely)...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;I read a great article written by my friend &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/chasemcmichael" target="_self"&gt;Chase McMichael&lt;/a&gt;, from &lt;a href="http://www.infinigraph.com/" target="_self"&gt;Infinigraph&lt;/a&gt;, called &lt;a href="http://blog.infinigraph.com/influencer-content-intelligence-and-social-en"&gt;Influencer, Content Intelligence and Social Engagement&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&amp;#39;s one thing to have an official Twitter feed or Facebook page for your brand (good start!).&amp;#0160; It&amp;#39;s another (entirely) to make sure it&amp;#39;s being used properly.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Remember the &amp;quot;social&amp;quot; part of Social Networking.&amp;#0160; Are you having a conversation?&amp;#0160; Or are you just putting out the same-old marketing-speak that your customers ignore everywhere else?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From Infinigraph&amp;#39;s blog post,&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://blog.infinigraph.com/influencer-content-intelligence-and-social-en"&gt;Influencer, Content Intelligence and Social Engagement&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote dir="ltr"&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;There has been some argument regarding content vs. conversation. &amp;#0160;Social media isn’t just conversation, it’s about .......... WHO CARES! &amp;#0160;Let’s look at facts:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Conversations are a derivative of social media. Conversations are not social media.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Does content drive conversation? &amp;#0160;Yes, compelling content drives engagement.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Does good content drive good conversation? Yes, the more relevant the better.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Does engagement for a brand have to revolve around the conversation? Yes and No. It’s about stimulating interaction which may or may not relate.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;Relevant driven Conversations and Brand Interactions are the results&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Blogging</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Marketing</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Media</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Networking</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>WOMMA</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-12-16T17:19:42-08:00</dc:date>
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<title>Think You've Seen It All?  Think Again!</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/12/think-youve-seen-it-all-think-again.html</link>
<description>The SPORK. The PERFECT feat of human ingenuity and resourcefulness. What could be better than a hybrid between a spoon and a fork? NOT MUCH. But the scientists at NASA, or at least somewhere deep in the bunkers at Delta...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;The SPORK.&amp;#0160; The PERFECT feat of human ingenuity and resourcefulness.&amp;#0160; What could be better than a hybrid between a spoon and a fork?&amp;#0160; NOT MUCH.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But the scientists at NASA, or at least somewhere deep in the bunkers at Delta came up with something even MORE amazing.&amp;#0160;&amp;#0160; The portable, collapsable SPORK.&amp;#0160; I can sleep well at night knowing that the world is in good hands.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d09eea970c-pi" style="display: inline;"&gt;&lt;img alt="IMG_1252" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d09eea970c" height="325" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d09eea970c-320wi" title="IMG_1252" width="260" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d09f94970c-pi" style="display: inline;"&gt;&lt;img alt="IMG_1252" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d09f94970c" height="325" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d09f94970c-320wi" title="IMG_1252" width="241" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Humor</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Travel</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-12-08T17:00:00-08:00</dc:date>
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<title>If You're Attached to a Sinking Plane...</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/12/if-youre-attached-to-a-sinking-plane.html</link>
<description>A few weeks ago, i was on a plane, and I was sitting in the Emergency Exit row. I was asked to review the safety information card, and one of the instructions caught my eye. I thought I'd share some...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;A few weeks ago, i was on a plane, and I was sitting in the Emergency Exit row.&amp;#0160; I was asked to review the safety information card, and one of the instructions caught my eye.&amp;#0160; I thought I&amp;#39;d share some sage advice.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;My take at the caption:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;[If you&amp;#39;re on a liferaft attached to a sinking airplane, cut the *#$^ rope!]&amp;#0160;&amp;#0160;&amp;#0160; Good advice!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;-&lt;a href="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d0965f970c-pi"&gt;&lt;img alt="IMG_1257" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d0965f970c" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0148c6d0965f970c-500wi" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" title="IMG_1257" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Humor</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-12-08T16:54:00-08:00</dc:date>
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<item rdf:about="http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/11/womma-2010-summit-recap.html">
<title>WOMMA 2010 Summit Recap</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/11/womma-2010-summit-recap.html</link>
<description>I was inspired by the WOMMA wrapup post made by John Bell, and thought I'd liberally copy his idea, and some of his conclusions, after attending the Word of Mouth Marketing Association (WOMMA) Summit last week. He opines that 1....</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://womma.org/summit" target="_self"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="273" src="http://womma.org/summit/summitnext.jpg" width="693" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I was inspired by &lt;a href="http://johnbell.typepad.com/weblog/2010/11/4-takeaways-from-the-2010-womma-summit-.html" target="_self"&gt;the WOMMA wrapup&amp;#0160;post&lt;/a&gt; made by John Bell, and thought I&amp;#39;d liberally copy his idea, and some of his conclusions, after attending the Word of Mouth Marketing Association (WOMMA) Summit last week.&amp;#0160; He opines that &lt;strong&gt;1. Big Brands are sounding serious about social media/word of mouth marketing; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2. There really is a difference between a historically ad-centric view and a public relations view of social media; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;3. Value metrics are moving from incidental to explicit; and &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;strong&gt;4. A community of practitioners is priceless.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This was the fourth or fifth WOMMA Summit I&amp;#39;ve attended, and I have to say, this year there was more of an urgency to hit the ground running.&amp;#0160; Nearly all of the presentations were focused on best practices, where in past years, there were a lot of sessions focused on theory, general frameworks, and lessons learned from campaigns that weren&amp;#39;t all that successful.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;GOOD NEWS:&lt;/strong&gt; The tools are out there, the agencies are getting up to speed, the customers want to hear from brands, and the &amp;quot;new&amp;quot; way of marketing is becoming the &amp;quot;regular&amp;quot; way of marketing.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The industry is seeing a dramatic shift, from one of a handful of enthusasts who were trying to figure things out in the &amp;quot;Social Networking&amp;quot; space, to one now where corporations and agencies alike are managing real, fully-integrated marketing campaigns that incorporate traditional marketing (advertising, web, PR, CRM) with WOM, or at least what they might call &amp;quot;social networking.&amp;quot;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It has become not so much a matter of &amp;quot;if,&amp;quot; but &amp;quot;how&amp;quot; companies are going to integtrate their Social Networking/Social Media/Digital Marketing strategies into a comprehensive, Integrated Marketing Plan.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;That&amp;#39;s not to say there aren&amp;#39;t plenty of obsticals.&amp;#0160; Budgets are tight.&amp;#0160; Convincing some CMO&amp;#39;s to divert &amp;quot;tried and true&amp;quot; dollars to Social Media still requires some education, and finding the right agency, one that has people on board that can walk the walk, can be tricky.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Check out the overview of the Summit, if you didn&amp;#39;t get to attend.&amp;#0160; And if your company/firm is still&amp;#0160;not a member of WOMMA, look into joining.&amp;#0160; You may find one idea that will be the spark for a successful comapaign, and you&amp;#39;ll be surrounded by people like yourself, who are looking for ways to make your brand more &amp;quot;talkable.&amp;quot;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Disclosure: I sit on the Board of Directors for WOMMA, a fully unpaid/uncompensated role.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Consulting</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Events</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Marketing</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Networking</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>WOMMA</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-11-22T13:35:54-08:00</dc:date>
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<title>Wordless Wednesday: Picked Your Pumpkins Yet?</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/wordless-wednesday-picked-your-pumpkins-yet.html</link>
<description />
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/4045663150/in/set-72157622539633603/" style="display: inline;"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef013488896007970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f65159a2970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f65159a2970b-pi" title="image from www.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Events</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Wordless Wednesday</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-27T19:29:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Emily and the PhartEphant</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/emily-and-the-phartephant.html</link>
<description>Maybe it’s just that I’m such a “guy,” or maybe it’s that these toys are so dang cute… But when I heard about Fierce Fun Toys, and their line of stuffed animals that have a “sense of humor,” I had...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Maybe it’s just that I’m such a “guy,” or maybe it’s that these toys are so dang cute…&amp;#0160; But when I heard about &lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/index.htmlhttp://www.fiercefuntoys.com/index.html" target="_self"&gt;Fierce Fun Toys&lt;/a&gt;, and their line of stuffed animals that have a “sense of humor,” I had to find out more.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/blog.html" target="_blank"&gt;Angela Larson&lt;/a&gt;, Chief Story Teller at Fierce Fun Toys, sent &lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/normanphartephant.html" target="_blank"&gt;Norman PhartEphant&lt;/a&gt; along with two new plush toys that just began shipping, &lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/harryhiccers.html" target="_blank"&gt;Harry Hiccers&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;and &lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/benkachoo.html" target="_blank"&gt;Ben KaChoo&lt;/a&gt;, for my kids to check out.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/5117969071/in/set-72157625247665364/" style="float: right;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm2.static.flickr.com" border="0" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134887c626e970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a86970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a86970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" title="image from farm2.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Norman is the original “&lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/normanphartephant.html" target="_self"&gt;PhartEphant&lt;/a&gt;” that makes eight different ‘phart’ sounds, along with an “oops” and “sorry!”, when you squeeze his tail.&amp;#0160; I always chuckle when I hear it, and my kids all thinks it hysterical!&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There’s a book (sold separately) that tells the story of Norman, who was adopted by a zoo, and because of a change of diet, he has a bit of a problem.&amp;#0160; From the back cover:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Norman PhartEphant is a young African elephant adopted by a U.S. zoo and the change of diet does not sit well.&amp;#0160; He becomes a very gassy pachyderm.&amp;#0160; Although gassy, Norman explores his new home: intrigue and suspense build as he meets his neighbor, making a new friend, learning a bit of geography along the way.&amp;#0160;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/5117968373/in/set-72157625247665364/" style="float: left;" target="_self"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm2.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f55c6cbe970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a8b970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a8b970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm2.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; All four of my kids, including the “too old for stuffies” middle schoolers and high schooler, thought they were awesome—especially Norman and his unique sounds. But I wanted to give the toys and read the books to my eight year old, because she hasn’t lost her love for cuddly toys and picture books.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1330/5117968373_1a0fe6cb98_m.jpg" style="float: left;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Emily loves all three, but I think she probably likes Harry Hiccers the best: He has an adorable accent, and as his name implies, he has a bit of an issue with hiccups. And what eight year old girl could resist the happy face of a koala?&amp;#0160; The toys are soft and cuddly, and just the right size to carry around.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The stories teach about the animals, their geography, and they all end making new friends—a valuable lesson for a youngster who might feel shy about themselves.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1429/5118571018_535ce8fec1_m.jpg" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm5.static.flickr.com" border="0" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f55c6d68970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a90970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a90970b-pi" title="image from farm5.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/5118571018/in/set-72157625247665364/" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm5.static.flickr.com" border="0" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f55c6d2f970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a9e970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a9e970b-pi" title="image from farm5.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;All three animals are shipping now, and the books should be shipping soon (Norman PhartEphant is out, the other two should be out November 10).&amp;#0160; The toys are sold &lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/retail_locations.html" target="_blank"&gt;at specialty retailers&lt;/a&gt;, so you won’t find them at the big box stores—which means your kids will have a toy that’s unique, educational, and sure to be a hit.&amp;#0160; You can also buy them online at &lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com"&gt;www.fiercefuntoys.com&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/harryhiccers.html" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f55c55b5970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515aa3970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515aa3970b-pi" title="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160; &lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/benkachoo.html" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f55c5676970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515aa6970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515aa6970b-pi" title="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/normanphartephant.html" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134887c4c4d970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ab1970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ab1970b-pi" title="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/harryhiccers.html" style="display: inline;" target="_self"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134887c4e41970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ac0970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ac0970b-pi" title="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/benkachoo.html" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134887c5074970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ac1970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ac1970b-pi" title="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.fiercefuntoys.com/normanphartephant.html" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f55c5546970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ac7970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ac7970b-pi" title="image from www.fiercefuntoys.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Disclosure: I was given the toys, and galley copies of the upcoming books for this review.&amp;#0160; All opinions are my own. I wasn’t compensated in any other way.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Books</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Products</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Review</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-25T15:33:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Bedtime Cosmology</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/bedtime-cosmology.html</link>
<description>I love "Goodnight Moon," and I've probably read it 50 times. In fact, my daughter read it to me just last night. And I'm a fan of science, especially Cosmology. So when I saw this from one of my favorite...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;I love &amp;quot;Goodnight Moon,&amp;quot; and I&amp;#39;ve probably read it 50 times.&amp;#0160; In fact, my daughter read it to me just last night.&amp;#0160; And I&amp;#39;m a fan of science, especially Cosmology.&amp;#0160; So when I saw this from one of my favorite Dad bloggers, &lt;a href="http://daddytypes.com/" target="_blank"&gt;DaddyTypes&lt;/a&gt;, I had to&amp;#0160;link to it:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://daddytypes.com/2010/10/20/the_answer_is_the_rabbit_takes_too_long_to_go_to_sleep.php" target="_blank"&gt;The Answer Is, The Rabbit Takes Too Long To Go To Sleep&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;img alt="scienceblogs_gnight_moon.jpg" class="at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f65159b8970b" height="95" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f65159b8970b-pi" width="500" /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Yes, even if there weren&amp;#39;t a clock right there on the nightstand, measuring the passage of time in &lt;em&gt;Goodnight Moon&lt;/em&gt; by the distance the moon travels across the sky IS overanalytical.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And our in-house astrophysicist is asleep, so I&amp;#39;m going out on a limb a bit to say so, but I would think calculating and tracking lunar orbit is actually &amp;quot;The Astronomy of Bedtime,&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;The Cosmology of Bedtime.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://scienceblogs.com/principles/2010/10/the_astrophysics_of_bedtime_st.php"&gt;The Astrophysics of Bedtime Stories&lt;/a&gt; [scienceblogs.com]&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Books</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Humor</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Science</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-24T11:18:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Take Time to Be a Dad Today</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/take-time-to-be-a-dad-today.html</link>
<description>Thanks to Makes Me Wanna Holler for the links, here are the PSA's from The Fatherhood.gov. Worth watching!</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Thanks to &lt;a href="http://www.makesmewannaholler.com/2010/10/take-time-to-be-dad-today.html" target="_blank"&gt;Makes Me Wanna Holler &lt;/a&gt;for the links, here are the PSA&amp;#39;s from &lt;a href="http://www.thefatherhood.gov" target="_blank"&gt;The Fatherhood.gov&lt;/a&gt;. Worth watching!&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Humor</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Video</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-22T10:45:03-07:00</dc:date>
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<item rdf:about="http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/reason-11-to-love-halloween.html">
<title>Reason 11 to Love Halloween</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/reason-11-to-love-halloween.html</link>
<description>How could I have forgotten Booberry, Frankenberry, and Count Chocula?</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;How could I have forgotten Booberry, Frankenberry, and Count Chocula?&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Events</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Food and Drink</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Products</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-21T21:55:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<item rdf:about="http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/wordless-wednesday-bobs-corn-maze.html">
<title>Wordless Wednesday: Bob's Corn Maze</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/wordless-wednesday-bobs-corn-maze.html</link>
<description>Bob's Corn Maze...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Bob&amp;#39;s Corn Maze...&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Events</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Wordless Wednesday</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-20T16:44:34-07:00</dc:date>
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<item rdf:about="http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/top-ten-reasons-to-gear-up-for-halloween.html">
<title>Top Ten Reasons to Gear Up for Halloween</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/top-ten-reasons-to-gear-up-for-halloween.html</link>
<description>I’m not quite sure why, but Halloween is one of the biggest holidays we decorate for, get ready for, have boxes of decorations for, and seem to enjoy as a family. Maybe it’s that it’s been so long since a...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3046/2998334268_8fc498be13_m.jpg" style="float: left;"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I’m not quite sure why, but Halloween is one of the biggest holidays we decorate for, get ready for, have boxes of decorations for, and seem to enjoy as a family.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/4045681160/in/photostream/" style="float: right;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134885215eb970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ed4970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ed4970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" title="image from www.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Maybe it’s that it’s been so long since a “proper” holiday, the kind that people decorate for.&amp;#0160; Can’t recall putting up decorations for Labor Day or Columbus Day.&amp;#0160; So the second the calendar turns to October, the boxes come out.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We have nearly as many boxes of Halloween decorations as we do Christmas decorations. And despite our recent effort to stay far, far away from the producers of “Hoarders,” we have enough to make our house look like the set for The Haunted Mansion.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We have some pretty set traditions around Halloween, that make it something that ties us all together as a family—so it’s always really pleasant and exciting for the kids.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So for your reading pleasure, I present (in no particular order),&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium; text-decoration: underline;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Top Ten Reasons to Gear Up for Halloween&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/4044914039/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef01348852010e970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ed7970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ed7970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 1. Visiting the Pumpkin Patch.&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#0160; We haven’t gone this year yet, but we will soon.&amp;#0160; We love picking out a few pumpkins, wandering around in the hay mazes, getting all muddy and cold and having hot apple cider before we leave.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/2946730963/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm4.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef013488520207970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515edc970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515edc970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm4.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 2. Picking apples.&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#0160; We’ve only been a couple of times, but it’s something the kids enjoy.&amp;#0160; And we eat a LOT of apples around our place.&amp;#0160; It seems to be everyone’s favorite late night snack.&amp;#0160; Especially Dad’s.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/2998339988/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm4.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef013488520047970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ee2970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ee2970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm4.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 3. Decorating the House.&lt;/strong&gt; Dragging the boxes from the attic and remembering all the funky stuff we’ve accumulated over the years.&amp;#0160; The door knocker with the creepy music.&amp;#0160; The hand that walks by itself.&amp;#0160; The cat whose head spins around and around.&amp;#0160; And the “Halloween Tree” that holds the Jack Skellington ornaments.&amp;#0160; Strange how spider webs and creepy music seem to be acceptable one month of the year…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/2998334268/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm4.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef01348851fee8970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ef8970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515ef8970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm4.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 4. Picking out a costume.&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#0160; We always plan on using our “costume box,” but usually end up buying costumes at Target or the overpriced Party store. But the joy it brings when your child get just the right costume—it’s (almost) worth the $40 for the cheap cloth and plastic that (hopefully) lasts one night.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/57865589/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm1.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f531ff99970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515eff970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515eff970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm1.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 5. Decorating Pumpkins.&amp;#0160; &lt;/strong&gt;Each year, the tools get better, and the pumpkins get more elaborate.&amp;#0160; I can&amp;#39;t wait to see what we come up with this year!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/4063147190/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef01348851fc1e970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f07970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f07970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 6. The “Microsoft Halloween Party.”&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#0160; This year will be the first year my kids haven’t gone to the Microsoft Halloween Party.&amp;#0160; Every building decorates, most people put candy outside their office doors, and my kids (usually accompanied by a friend) make out like bandits, filling a bag with candy.&amp;#0160; With small offices or cubicles all offering candy, and none of the “trick-or-treat” begging, they can get 200 small candy bars in an hour or two.&amp;#0160; Despite that, they always want to go out to the parties that happen later, and then Trick or Treating.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/4062401881/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f531fe52970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f0f970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f0f970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 7. Planning or attending a party with friends.&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#0160; I’m not sure if it’s because trick or treating is becoming out of fashion, or that Halloween is becoming more and more social—whatever the reason, there always seems to be one or two friends who really go all out to decorate, and act as a home base for trick or treating.&amp;#0160; We’ve been the host family, and we’ve been guests.&amp;#0160; Either way, having a place to meet, before or after going out with the kids is a fun thing to do on Halloween night.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/4045074413/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef01348851f893970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f14970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f14970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 8. Visiting Haunted Houses&lt;/strong&gt;.&amp;#0160; They get less and less scary every year, at least that&amp;#39;s what my kids tell me.&amp;#0160; What is it that makes us want to be scared, puposefully?&amp;#0160; I never really did like haunted houses, so the ones we&amp;#39;ve been to have been pretty tame.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/1811788099/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef01348851f63f970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f19970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f19970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm3.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 9. Trick or Treating.&lt;/strong&gt; Even though this may be one of the last years for the older kids, being “pre-teens” hasn’t slowed them down in their desire to traipse around in the dark, visiting one of the popular neighborhoods with lots of houses.&amp;#0160;&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;SIDEBAR:&lt;/strong&gt; Why is is that on one night of the year, we encourage our kids to do most of the things we spend the rest of the year telling them to avoid?&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A) Going out in the night and wandering up and down the street.&lt;br /&gt;B) Going to strangers houses and demanding candy (actually threatening a trick without a treat!)&lt;br /&gt;C) Taking candy from strangers&lt;br /&gt;D) Eating their body weight in fat and carbs&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/285393724/" style="float: left;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from farm1.static.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f531f904970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f1c970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515f1c970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 5px 5px 0px;" title="image from farm1.static.flickr.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; 10. Gorging on candy for the first few days of November.&lt;/strong&gt;&amp;#0160; There’s always the promise that it’ll all last until Thanksgiving, but by November 3, only the hard candy at the bottom of the bag is left.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Ah, Halloween.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Disclosure: I wrote this post while participating in a blog campaign by &lt;a href="http://www.dadcentralconsulting.com" target="_self"&gt;Dad Central Consulting &lt;/a&gt;and they sent me a gift card to thank me for taking the time to participate.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Advice</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dad Central</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Events</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Mom Central</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Xbox</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-19T15:41:17-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Star U12 Extreme Goalie Breaks Hand</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/star-u12-extreme-goalie-breaks-hand.html</link>
<description>Alex is a remarkable goalie. He’s not afraid to dive right at the feet of a forward making a run for a goal. He’s brave, and tenacious, and nearly unstoppable. Early in Saturday’s game, Alex had the ball in his...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p style="text-align: left;"&gt;Alex is a remarkable goalie.&amp;#0160; He’s not afraid to dive right at the feet of a forward making a run for a goal.&amp;#0160; He’s brave, and tenacious, and nearly unstoppable.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Early in Saturday’s game, Alex had the ball in his hands, when another player continued to try to control the ball, and stepped on Alex’s hand with his full weight.&amp;#0160; Even though he had new gloves with finger protectors, his hand was broken just under his index finger.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Despite being hurt, Alex played most of the rest of the game with a broken hand.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Recently, it’s gotten to the point where players are disregarding the safety of other players, especially the goalie.&amp;#0160; Alex has been kicked in the head more than once, and he now wears a helmet (like the one worn by Chelsea Keeper Petr Cech). And even though Alex has control of the ball, he’s been stepped on several times by players who think it’s okay to kick the ball out of his hands.&amp;#0160; And a dangerous play foul is rarely (if ever) called by the referees.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/5095458130/" style="display: inline;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.flickr.com" class="at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e2c970b" height="303" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e2c970b-pi" title="image from www.flickr.com" width="235" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/5094531869/in/set-72157625068962961/" style="display: inline;" target="_self"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134884c4eb7970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e38970b" height="303" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e38970b-pi" title="image from www.flickr.com" width="203" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/5094532941/in/set-72157625068962961/" style="display: inline;" target="_self"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f52c447a970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e40970b" height="306" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e40970b-pi" title="image from www.flickr.com" width="239" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/johnporcaro/5094532039/in/set-72157625068962961/" style="display: inline;" target="_self"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.flickr.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f52c7f69970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e46970b" height="306" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515e46970b-pi" title="image from www.flickr.com" width="202" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;According to the &lt;a href="http://www.ussoccer.com/Referees/~/media/9FED4D29D9DB4CD0AFD82198752C2EB4.ashx"&gt;Interpretation of the Laws of the Game and Guidelines for Referees&lt;/a&gt;, based on the FIFA rules:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When a goalkeeper has gained possession of the ball with his hands, he cannot be challenged by an opponent.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;A goalkeeper is considered to be in control of the ball: &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;while the ball is between his hands or between his hand and any surface (e.g. ground, own body) &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;while holding the ball in his outstretched open hand &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;em&gt;while in the act of bouncing it on the ground or tossing it into the air&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Playing in a dangerous manner &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Playing in a dangerous manner is defined as any action that, while trying to play the ball, threatens injury to someone (including the player himself). It is committed with an opponent nearby and prevents the opponent from playing the ball for fear of injury.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Playing in a dangerous manner involves no physical contact between the players. If there is physical contact, the action becomes an offence punishable with a direct free kick or penalty kick. In the case of physical contact, the referee should carefully consider the high probability that&amp;#0160;misconduct has also been committed.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We&amp;#39;re making sure&amp;#0160;this gets the attention of the referees, often inexperienced, that 11 year old players need a little more guidance when it comes to the definition of dangerous play.&amp;#0160; For that matter, they should start with sportsmanlike conduct.&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Advice</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Soccer</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-18T19:33:06-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Take Time to Be a Dad Today</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/take-time-to-be-a-dad-today-1.html</link>
<description>The NY Times today features a story about a new advertising campaign aimed at reminding fathers to be a more active part of their children’s lives. The public service ads from the Advertising Council are a follow-up to a similar...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/19/business/media/19adnewsletter1.html?src=busln" style="float: right;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from www.nytimes.com" border="0" class="at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134896fd084970c" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0134896fd084970c-pi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" title="image from www.nytimes.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/19/business/media/19adnewsletter1.html?src=busln" target="_self"&gt;NY Times today&lt;/a&gt;&amp;#0160;features a story about a new advertising campaign aimed at reminding fathers to be a more active part of their children’s lives.&amp;#0160; The public service ads from the &lt;a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/organizations/a/advertising_council/index.html?inline=nyt-org"&gt;Advertising Council&lt;/a&gt; are&amp;#0160;a follow-up to a similar series of ads from 2008.&amp;#0160; They have been funded by the Administration for Children and Families and the Office of Family Assistance, two arms of the &lt;a href="http://topics.nytimes.com/top/reference/timestopics/organizations/h/health_and_human_services_department/index.html?inline=nyt-org"&gt;Department of Health and Human Services&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From &lt;a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/19/business/media/19adnewsletter1.html?src=busln" target="_blank"&gt;the NYT article&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;...The National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse has found that children who live without their biological fathers are, on average, two to three times more likely to have educational and health problems, be victims of child abuse and engage in criminal behavior than peers who live with their married biological or adoptive parents. &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Conversely, the group also has found that children with involved, loving fathers are far more likely to do well in school, have healthy self-esteem and avoid high-risk behavior. Some 24 million children in the United States — one-third of the total — do not live with their biological father, according to the N.R.F.C. And nearly 20 million live in single-parent homes. &amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;Nice message, good reminder for all of us that the little moments all add up.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Advice</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Research</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-18T15:03:12-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Is it Time to Return to Caveman Parenting?</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/is-it-time-to-return-to-caveman-parenting.html</link>
<description>MSNBC reports on some studies that were presented at a conference this week at a University of Notre Dame conference, that show that early human parents were more empathetic and attentive, and provided a nurturing environment with multiple caregivers, in...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/39655015/ns/health-kids_and_parenting/" target="_self"&gt;MSNBC reports &lt;/a&gt;on some studies that were presented at a conference this week at a&lt;a href="http://newsinfo.nd.edu/news/17033-notre-dame-symposium-to-address-nature-nurture-and-early-human-experience/" target="_self"&gt; University of Notre Dame conference&lt;/a&gt;, that show that early human parents were more empathetic and attentive, and provided a nurturing environment with multiple caregivers, in contrast to the way some (most?) children are raised today.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;From the MSNBC article &lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/39655015/ns/health-kids_and_parenting/" target="_self"&gt;&amp;quot;Is it time to return to caveman parenting?&amp;quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://ccf.nd.edu/assets/24628/mother_baby_web_resize.jpg" style="float: right;"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from ccf.nd.edu" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f52b90b6970b at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515faa970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515faa970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" title="image from ccf.nd.edu" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/37095461/ns/today-tech_and_science"&gt; Hunter-gatherers &lt;/a&gt;, the human way of life until the agricultural revolution about 8,000 years ago, were responsive caregivers, who didn’t let a baby cry it out. Moms breast-fed, probably for about five or six years. Cave &lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/39655015/ns/health-kids_and_parenting/#" style="background-image: none; border-bottom: darkgreen 0.07em solid; padding-bottom: 1px !important; background-color: transparent !important; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; color: darkgreen !important; font-size: 100% !important; font-weight: normal !important; text-decoration: underline !important; padding-top: 0px;" target="_blank"&gt;kids&lt;/a&gt; had hours of unstructured free play, with children of all ages. And the little Pebbles and Bamm-Bamms of that Paleolithic period probably had multiple caregivers who provided nurturing and love. Cavemoms and dads didn’t spank their kids. Rather, they were the first adopters of positive touch, constantly carrying, cuddling and holding their children.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Many of our modern parenting practices are in direct opposition to our Stone Age brethren. The result: kids with a skewed sense of moral behavior, poor social skills, &lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/39657806/ns/today-today_health?ns=health-mental_health"&gt;high rates of anxiety &lt;/a&gt;and depression, and a host of other ills, according to Narvaez. As one example, &lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/37399539/ns/today-today_health?ns=health-behavior"&gt;college kids today &lt;/a&gt;are about 40 percent less empathetic (a trait measured by standardized tests) compared to college students just 30 years ago, a study from the University of Michigan found.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Humans are incredibly weak, but incredibly adaptable, and we knew we needed to create alliances to help us out,” says James McKenna, Notre Dame&amp;#39;s Rev. Edmund P. Joyce, C.S.C., professor of anthropology. “Babies needed to be protected. A group of people who really care for an infant provides more protection than just &lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/39655015/ns/health-kids_and_parenting/#" style="background-image: none; border-bottom: darkgreen 0.07em solid; padding-bottom: 1px !important; background-color: transparent !important; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; color: darkgreen !important; font-size: 100% !important; font-weight: normal !important; text-decoration: underline !important; padding-top: 0px;" target="_blank"&gt;mom&lt;/a&gt; and dad.”&amp;#0160;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Non-structured free play improves mental health and enhances intelligence. Longer-term breast-feeding boosted the immune systems of Stone Age kids, helping to protect them from disease. And with all that affection they received, they grew into happy, well-adjusted adults, because cuddling and holding infants helps boost neurologic development.&amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;It&amp;#39;s no surprise that as the world gets more complicated, things are going to be different.&amp;#0160; But this study is a good reminder that as humans, we&amp;#39;re wired a certain way, and our kids are going to do a lot better if we realize that our instincts of holding them, protecting them, nurturing them, maybe even being a bit of a &amp;quot;helicopter parent&amp;quot; (yikes!) isn&amp;#39;t a terrible thing.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;But then again, if our ancient ancestors had iPhones and texting and the Internet, maybe things would be a lot better today.&amp;#0160; Or not.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;</content:encoded>


<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Research</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Science</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-16T13:30:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>ADHD Genetic, er, Not from TV and Videogames</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/adhd-genetic-er-not-from-tv-and-videogames.html</link>
<description>Many parents have children with a diagnosis of ADD or ADHD. For those of you that do, let's just say that at the risk of embarrasing anyone, I know some people very well who struggle with ADD, so I sympathize....</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;Many parents have children with a diagnosis of ADD or ADHD.&amp;#0160; For those of you that do, let&amp;#39;s just say that at the risk of embarrasing anyone, I know some people&lt;em&gt; very well &lt;/em&gt;who struggle with ADD, so I sympathize.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;A&amp;#0160;new study done by&amp;#0160;&lt;a href="http://www.cardiff.ac.uk/news/articles/adhds-genetic-link.html" target="_self"&gt;Cardiff University researchers&lt;/a&gt;, and reported in &lt;a href="http://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(10)61109-9/abstract" target="_self"&gt;The Lancet&lt;/a&gt;,&amp;#0160;show a direct genetic link to ADHD and differences in brain development.&amp;#0160;Scientists at Cardiff University show for the first time that &lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;a direct link has been found between attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and differences in brain development as displayed in autism and other disorders.&amp;quot;&amp;#0160; &lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Scientists carried out a study of 1400 children, and hope&amp;#0160;the results help parents beat the myth that ADHD is merely a behavior problem, or just poor parenting.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The study shows that &lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;the risk of having a certain set of genetic variants was twice as high among children diagnosed with ADHD compared with children who did not have it.&amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Good news, and bad news for parents: It&amp;#39;s genetic, so it&amp;#39;s not entirely your fault; but since it&amp;#39;s known to&amp;#0160;be passed on genetically, or have a high &amp;quot;heritable.&amp;quot;&amp;#0160;&amp;#0160;Have you or your spouse noticed that maybe you might have&amp;#0160;some of the same symptoms&amp;#0160;your kids display?&amp;#0160; Hmmmm.&amp;#0160; &amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;More from the &lt;a href="http://www.cardiff.ac.uk/news/articles/adhds-genetic-link.html" target="_self"&gt;Cardiff University article&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;em&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The researchers found that rare CNVs were almost twice as common in children with ADHD compared to the control sample – and even higher for children with learning difficulties. CNVs are particularly common in disorders of the brain.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;There was also significant overlap between CNVs identified in children with ADHD and regions of the genome which are known to influence susceptibility to autism and schizophrenia. Whilst these disorders are currently thought to be entirely separate, there is some overlap between ADHD and autism in terms of symptoms and learning difficulties. This new research suggests there may be a shared biological basis to the two conditions.&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Fitness</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Research</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Science</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-15T17:14:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Teach Your Children (to drive) Well</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/teach-your-children-to-drive-well.html</link>
<description>The AAA Foundation wanted to see how well parents did when teaching kids with learner permits. They put cameras on the dash of cars, and followed 50 families. They were disappointed to find that supervised driving averaged only 2 hours...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.aaafoundation.org/multimedia/index.cfm?button=ParentsTeens" target="_self"&gt;The AAA Foundation&lt;/a&gt; wanted&amp;#0160;to see how well parents did when teaching kids with learner permits.&amp;#0160; They put cameras on the dash of cars, and followed 50 families.&amp;#0160; They were disappointed to find that supervised driving averaged only 2 hours a week, and only 20% of that at night, where kids need more experience.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The foundation recommends 100 hours of supervised time, and taking time to practice in bad weather or at night. More &lt;a href="http://www.aaafoundation.org/pdf/ParentsTeens.pdf" target="_self"&gt;details from the study&lt;/a&gt; are on the AAA site.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;This clip from &lt;a href="http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/26184891/vp/39628091#39628091" target="_self"&gt;NBC Today&lt;/a&gt; shows just how important spending time teaching your kids to drive can be:&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Advice</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Research</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-13T18:33:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>What IS a Dad Blogger Anyway?</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/what-is-a-dad-blogger-anyway.html</link>
<description>JR, over at sexandthesingledad wrote an interesting post about Dad Bloggers. Like a bunch of us Dad bloggers, he is—in his own inimitable way—participating in the “Do Dad Bloggers Suck?” discussion. I was interested in his definition of a Dad...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;JR, over at &lt;a href="http://sexandthesingledad.com/author/sexandthesingledad/"&gt;sexandthesingledad&lt;/a&gt; wrote an interesting post about Dad Bloggers.&amp;#0160; Like a bunch of us Dad bloggers, he is—in his own inimitable way—participating in the “Do Dad Bloggers Suck?” discussion.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I was interested in his definition of a Dad blogger.&amp;#0160; I like the way &lt;a href="http://sexandthesingledad.com/2010/10/the-double-standard/" target="_self"&gt;he puts it&lt;/a&gt;:&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://sexandthesingledad.com" style="float: right;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from sexandthesingledad.com" class="asset  asset-image at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134881f8c3f970c at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a62970b" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0133f6515a62970b-pi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" title="image from sexandthesingledad.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Like it or not, there is so much more to being a dad than cute stories involving our kids.&amp;#0160; As dads, our number one priority is absolutely our families.&amp;#0160; I respect that and would have it no other way.&amp;#0160; There are many kinds of dads out there–and I’m talking about more than simply, “Good or bad”.&amp;#0160; There are cool dads and their are dorky dads.&amp;#0160; There are geek dads and dads that think “Social media” means reading the paper on a crowded subway.&amp;#0160; There are dads that can cook a gourmet meal and dads that don’t understand,”poke three holes in the plastic before microwaving”.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The whole reason I’ve had a blog for years is that it’s a way to express my own thoughts and ideas, while participating in a conversation with people who might care about what I think.&amp;#0160; Whether that’s you, or just my parents or friends, I’m going to call myself a Dad Blogger, because I’m a Dad, and I blog about being a Dad.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;JR goes on, in an entertaining way, to discuss the differences between Mom bloggers and Dad bloggers.&amp;#0160; For example:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Dads who swear are crude, crass, filthy or vulgar.&amp;#0160; Mothers who swear are liberated, modern, progressive or just have a potty mouth.&amp;#0160; I’ve dropped an F bomb or two on my blog and I won’t apologize for that.&amp;#0160; Hell, from time to time I even make up bad words.&amp;#0160; Most of the time I take old classics and give them the J.R. twist, but I’ve been known to simply invent a new one for use in a particular situation.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I agree most violently with his summary statement:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Does anyone have a guitar so we can all gather like hippies and sing Kumbaya?&amp;#0160; That would be pretty f**n sweet!&lt;/em&gt; [my edit]&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Blogging</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-11T22:32:35-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>How Dad's Involvement Makes a Difference in Your Kids' Life</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/10/how-dads-involvement-makes-a-difference-in-your-kids-life.html</link>
<description>National Public Radio (NPR) broadcasted an interview called Dads Do Parenting and Education on Their Terms, as part of their series, "Tell Me More." The audio interview by Michel Martin features Dad Bloggers Lamar Tyler (Black and Married with Kids),...</description>
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&lt;p&gt;The audio interview by Michel Martin&amp;#0160;features Dad Bloggers Lamar Tyler (&lt;a href="http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Black and Married with Kids&lt;/a&gt;), Keith Wilcox (&lt;a href="http://www.almightydad.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Almighty Dad&lt;/a&gt;), and Manny Ruiz (&lt;a href="http://papiblogger.com/" target="_blank"&gt;PapiBlogger&lt;/a&gt;), along with father of six, Glenn Ivey, the State Attorney for Prince George County, Maryland.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They cover some interesting topics (&lt;a href="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=130188627" target="_self"&gt;transcript available&lt;/a&gt;):&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Who carries the load, Mom or Dad? &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How do you see yourself as a Father in your child’s education? &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How do you handle a split household, where your children share time with both parents? &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do you spend enough time with your kids, when your job demands a lot? &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How do you stay involved with your kids’ lives? &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
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<dc:subject>Advice</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Media</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Networking</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Video</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-10-01T07:17:10-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Economy Forces More Dads to Stay Home</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/09/economy-forces-more-dads-to-stay-home.html</link>
<description>The Detroit Free Press did a story called Surviving hard economy in Michigan, more dads stay at home. In it, they report that the number of stay-at-home dads jumped 38% in three years, according to 2009 census estimates. The 2009...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;The Detroit Free Press did a story called &lt;a href="http://www.freep.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20100928/NEWS01/9280314/1322/Surviving-hard-economy-more-dads-stay-at-home&amp;amp;template=fullarticle" target="_blank"&gt;Surviving hard economy in Michigan, more dads stay at home&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;#0160; In it, they report that the number of stay-at-home dads jumped 38% in three years, according to 2009 census estimates. The 2009 data suggest that there are 158,000 stay-at-home dads in the U.S. However, since the latest figures do not include fathers who work part-time or those looking for work, the number is likely higher.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://sahdinlansing.com/" style="float: right;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="image from sahdinlansing.com" class="at-xid-6a00d834201f2253ef0134896fc7b8970c" src="http://johnporcaro.typepad.com/.a/6a00d834201f2253ef0134896fc7b8970c-pi" style="margin: 0px 0px 5px 5px;" title="image from sahdinlansing.com" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;As part of the story, they interviewed Chris Singer, author of &lt;a href="http://sahdinlansing.com/" target="_blank"&gt;SAHD in Lansing&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;If you&amp;#39;re a parent today, you just have to be ready to deal with anything,&amp;quot; said Chris Singer of Lansing, who writes a blog called SAHD (Stay At Home Dad). &amp;quot;Your job can end so quickly. The day of staying 20-30 years in one job is probably over. Now, anything can happen. You have to do what you have to do.&amp;quot;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;Chris Singer, 38, and his wife, Deb Bailey, decided well before having children that one parent would stay home. It was always negotiable which one that would be. …&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;In December, Singer started a blog called &amp;quot;&lt;a href="http://sahdinlansing.com/" target="_blank"&gt;SAHD In Lansing&lt;/a&gt;&amp;quot; to document his life and reach out to other dads.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;em&gt;&amp;quot;It&amp;#39;s a great opportunity,&amp;quot; he said. &amp;quot;I know a lot of my friends will be like, &amp;#39;I think it&amp;#39;s cool you stay home, but I don&amp;#39;t think I could do it.&amp;#39; But I get to see her grow, I saw a lot of the milestones, and it&amp;#39;s kind of fascinating to see all the little changes that happen.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Blogging</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-09-28T11:16:36-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>CNN Features the Growth of Dad Blogging</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/09/cnn-features-the-growth-of-dad-blogging.html</link>
<description>At the recent M3 Summit, a group of Dad Bloggers, including Eric Elkins (The Dating Dad), Paul Banas (GreadDad), CC Chapman (Digital Dads), Clay Nichols (DadLabs), Kevin Metzger (The DADvocate), and Donny Claxton (DaddyClaxton). They talk about the fact that...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;At the recent M3 Summit, a group of Dad Bloggers, including Eric Elkins (&lt;a href="http://www.datingdad.com/" target="_blank"&gt;The Dating Dad&lt;/a&gt;), Paul Banas (&lt;a href="http://www.greatdad.com/" target="_blank"&gt;GreadDad&lt;/a&gt;), CC Chapman (&lt;a href="http://www.digitaldads.com" target="_blank"&gt;Digital Dads&lt;/a&gt;), Clay Nichols (&lt;a href="http://www.dadlabs.com" target="_blank"&gt;DadLabs&lt;/a&gt;), Kevin Metzger (&lt;a href="http://www.thedadvocateproject.com" target="_blank"&gt;The DADvocate&lt;/a&gt;), and Donny Claxton (&lt;a href="http://www.daddyclaxton.com" target="_blank"&gt;DaddyClaxton&lt;/a&gt;).&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;They talk about the fact that just like Moms, Dads are online sharing experiences, advice, tips, or just a place to have conversations and get to know each other.&amp;#0160; These Dads are helping define a new generation of what it means to be a Dad.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;One of the key points is that Dads today are really active in their kids’ lives, whether they’re working from home, being a full-time “Stay at Home Dad”, or just being an active Dad before or after their full-time job.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;CNN also adds a few stats about US Dads:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;42% are Sole Provider &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;63% Work more than 40 hours/week &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;9% have taken on 2nd job &lt;/li&gt;
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<dc:subject>Advice</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Blogging</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Marketing</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Social Networking</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Video</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-09-27T12:27:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Son of Peter Molyneux (creator of Fable) to Valve</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/09/son-of-peter-molyneux-creator-of-fable-to-valve.html</link>
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&lt;p&gt;His son had some feedback that he wanted to give Valve, the creators of &lt;a href="http://www.valvesoftware.com/games/hl2.html" target="_self"&gt;Half Life&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;#0160;&amp;#0160; Rather than rely on his Dad to pass the word along, Peter (brilliantly) pointed a video camera at his son, and let him do the talking for himself.&amp;#0160; My guess, Valve got the message...&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Video</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Videogames</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Xbox</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-09-24T21:57:00-07:00</dc:date>
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<title>Social Struggle of Being a Good Father</title>
<link>http://www.johnporcaro.com/2010/09/social-struggle-of-being-a-good-father.html</link>
<description>Here's a great interview done by Mommy Cast of Armin Brott, author of The New Father, A Dad’s Guide to the First Year. He tells a few interesting stories he's encountered as a stay-at-home dad, and talks about the stereotypes...</description>
<content:encoded>&lt;p&gt;&amp;#0160;Here&amp;#39;s a &lt;a href="http://www.blip.tv/file/4105419" target="_self"&gt;great interview &lt;/a&gt;done by &lt;a href="http://mommycast.com" target="_blank"&gt;Mommy Cast &lt;/a&gt;of Armin Brott, author of The New Father, A Dad’s Guide to the First Year.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;He tells a few interesting stories he&amp;#39;s encountered as a stay-at-home dad, and talks about the stereotypes he&amp;#39;s had to endure.&amp;#0160; Or at least work around.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;As a Dad, I&amp;#39;ve found myself in similar situations.&amp;#0160; When I stand outside a bathroom waiting for my daughter, I will get an occasional glance that makes me feel like I&amp;#39;m being labeled a creepy stalker.&amp;#0160; Or when I&amp;#39;m at a park, I really have to restrain myself from interacting with any children I don&amp;#39;t know, because of the fear others have of men around children.&amp;#0160;&lt;/p&gt;
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<dc:subject>Advice</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Dads</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Family</dc:subject>
<dc:subject>Video</dc:subject>

<dc:creator>John Porcaro</dc:creator>
<dc:date>2010-09-23T05:36:00-07:00</dc:date>
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