Moriah Makes

Life Lately.

2013-06-17T09:42:00.000-05:00

You know how sometimes you just have one of those weeks where everything seems to be going wrong? They aren't traumatic or really awful, just really annoying. Last week was like that for us, and looking back, all I can do is laugh. Well, I'm still kind of forcing out that laugh, but it's much better than dwelling on what just happened and wondering where we went wrong:

The week started out with me spraining my ankle at church on Sunday after a really great worship service. I didn't realize how bad it was until the next day and it was the size of a softball. A sprained ankle isn't really fun when you have to start packing up your house to move in a week.

Instead of heading to Urgent Care to have it looked at, I accidentally had my mother in law drop me off at the ER. Pretty much doubled our medical bill after having my ankle checked out there.

We've been having to check the air on our tires every two days, so we're pretty sure something will need to be fixed soon. To add to our car bill, our check engine light keeps coming back on, and a huge rock hit my windshield and cracked it.

Oh, and while Joe was checking the car tires before work on Thursday, the day before he was supposed to leave for an out-of-town trip for blogging, he accidentally broke his glasses in half. His only glasses. He hasn't worn contacts in over 4 years, so he decided to go get an eye exam that evening just for contacts to get him through the weekend. He also had to pull out his old high school glasses to get him through his day at work. They are horrible.

And I can't forget the most annoying thing that happened to us this weekend: Before leaving the house to pick up Joseph from the airport, Josiah locked us out. The keys that are usually on my keychain were in the realtor's lockbox for the house, which were locked behind our screen door. There was no getting back in. So, we picked up Joseph, came back home, called the police, and had them help us climb on the roof and break into a window. Actually, a window was unlocked, so it wasn't that bad...

See? They're all silly, annoying things that really aren't life-threatening. Just things that bring you down, discourage you, kick your butt and make you wonder what you did wrong to make all of these things happen at once.

Weeks like this are when my relationship with Jesus really comes in handy (not like it doesn't usually... you know what I mean). After every mishap and stupid mistake, I knew that everything was going to be okay. Without Him, I would have been a stressed out mess, a puddle of worry and regret crying on the floor, wondering what was going to happen next to make this week worse. Instead, I spent my week knowing that if one more thing did go wrong, it was going to be okay. I didn't need to worry or stress out about what was happening, because I had Someone to put my trust and hope in, knowing that we were going to get through this week with Him near.

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go."

(Joshua 1:9)

I'm happy to report that the remainder of the weekend was pretty flawless and ended on a great note with us celebrating Father's Day. We got to spend quality time with Joseph after his trip away, relaxed at the beach, played in the sand, ate watermelon, spent some time with my dad and grandma, and got to see my brother's engagement ring he had just picked up to propose to his girlfriend that evening. With all the junk that happened earlier in the week, I felt like it was washed away after yesterday's awesomeness.

linking up with Blair today.

Get to Know Nadine

2013-06-13T00:10:00.002-05:00

Hey, peeps. I'm excited to share something new I'll be doing on the blog to share more about my sponsors with all of you. Nadine of Secondary Heartbeat is one of my sponsors for this month, and instead of having her write a post sharing her heart with all of you, we thought it would be fun to do a vlog! Brace yourselves, because this is the first time we both tried recording a Google Chat. We had a great time doing this, and hope you enjoy watching it!

When you're finished, head over to Nadine's blog and check out her other social media hot spots, as well:
twitter // facebook // pinterest

Love Where You Live - An Influence Network Link-Up

2013-06-12T10:27:00.002-05:00

Today, The Influence Network is hosting a link-up for members to connect on a more personal level. We've been able to meet each other in the forums, in classes, small groups, and on Twitter, but many of us have no idea where each other lives in real life. So, today we're linking up to share just that.

Then: I was born in Minnesota, but actually spent a huge chunk of my childhood living in Orlando, Florida. I lived there for 10 years, and it still has a big piece of my heart. My fondest memories of Orlando are spending time at theme parks with my family. Whenever cousins from out-of-town would visit, they'd always have to spend a day at a theme park, so I'd always get to go with them. I was pretty blessed to spend so much time with family at The Happiest Place on Earth (that's what they call Disney World, right?). We eventually did move back to the northern tundra, where I finished up high school, attended college, got married, and started a family.

Now: Because of the bitter cold winters, I have a love/hate relationship with Minnesota. But, when summer does finally greet us with open arms, it's not hard to fall back in love with this state. All of my dearest friends and family live close by and we are blessed to have all of them around for our children. We'll actually be moving even closer to the Twin Cities in a couple of weeks, so we'll be able to spend even more quality time with the people we love most.

If you were to come visit me, this would be the perfect day spent in the Twin Cities:

We'd start our morning out with breakfast at a dinky diner called The Colossal Cafe. You and I would have to share the Apple, Walnuts, & Brie Pancakes, because they're huge and I wouldn't want you to get too full to eat lunch. That's all you do here: eat. From there, we'd head on over to Minihaha Falls and walk around outside. I might make you jump the creek with me and swim around for a bit. It's something I always did growing up with my brother and cousins. We'd continue walking some trails and maybe even ride around on those pedal cars before deciding it was time for our next meal.

For lunch, we'd eat at one of my favorite restaurants, Pizzeria Lola, and I'd make you try the Lady ZaZa. It's my favorite pizza. We'd stuff our faces and then hit up Uptown for shopping. Some of my favorite shops I'd have to show you are Patina, Nadaeu, and Paper Source.`Our window shopping would take several hours, and eventually I'd be hungry again (sorry, I'm pregnant!). You'd either be ready for dinner, too, or just have to watch me eat. And I'd want my favorite asian restaurant, KinhDo. I most likely wouldn't share my food with you, either. It's that good.

If you didn't feel like your stomach was about to explode after dinner, we'd stop at Uncommon Grounds for a chai tea latte and take it to Lake Harriet. From there, we'd spend the remainder of the evening walking around the lake, admiring the gorgeous houses and sailboats, and watching the sun set. And because my future house (we move in end of July) is only 10 minutes away, I'd then invite you over for a bonfire with my husband and kids (if they're still awake).

So, will you come visit me? We've got a nice big couch waiting for you to sleep on, and the perfect toddler "alarm clocks."

life lately.

2013-06-10T15:36:00.002-05:00

Maybe I should rename my blog to Life Lately, since these are the only posts I seem to write these days. Hah!

Last week was good for my stay-at-home-mama soul. I got out with the kids and had a play date with friends that I haven't seen in a long time. We all have a fun past together, having spent high school together, and now two of them being my cousins. It was special getting to watch all of our kids hang out and get to know each other a little better. Josiah's a very outgoing little boy, so it makes my heart happy getting to see him play with other hilarious kids, even if it does end up leading to conversations with him yelling out "Penis!" in a crowded restaurant. Boys...

I also planned a fun baby shower for my cousin, Tiffany. She's due with her first baby at the end of July, so it was nice getting to celebrate her and Baby Wesley with all of the women in our family. Her only party food request was cream cheese wontons. I was sure to make that happen for her and even help her eat them all.

The remainder of the week was pretty quiet, relaxing at home with the kids during rainy weather, reading books, drinking smoothies, and staying our pajamas all day. Last night was spent at our church for a refreshing worship night + ice-cream party. The kids had a blast in childcare, while Joe played in the worship band, I got some time to myself... and God... listening to the music and praising Him for everything He's done for our family these past couple of months. Everything is lining up perfectly with our move to the new house. And everything that isn't perfect? We know God's behind it and has something huge in store for us. He's providing and making everything work out for good.

Linking up with Blair today. Hope everyone is having a great Monday!

life lately.

2013-06-03T08:52:00.000-05:00

I'm linking up with Blair over at Wild and Precious on this lovely Monday for another round of "life lately."

Unfortunately, for you (and I guess me, too), I lost the battery charger to my dslr. I couldn't have noticed at a better time, the day before I was supposed to take my little brother's senior pictures. I'm pretty sure it's already packed away with random craft and office supplies I thought I'd never need until this fall. So, yeah, another is obviously being ordered this week.

This week was spent enjoying more sunny weather with friends, time with grandparents, and hanging out in our future home during the inspection. I took way too many pictures of every room, door, light fixture, and floor tile just so I could remember what it looked like until we finally move in end of July. I've been playing around with a fun site that helps you brainstorm the layout of each room in your house. It's addicting and makes me feel like I'm playing Tetris. Anyone out there want to help me figure out how to decorate some oddly shaped rooms? Thanks.

The week ahead will be filled with packing up books, decor, and winter clothes. Does anyone have tips on packing up your house? This seems a little more overwhelming than the last time we moved from our tiny, one bedroom apartment.

life lately.

2013-05-29T14:26:00.003-05:00

We've been spending the majority of our days outside, soaking up the sun and *sometimes* warm air as much as possible. Our schedule has become much less hectic now that we have a buyer for our home and we've finally found our new future home. I'm now starting to plan for the summer, de-clutter, and pack up pieces of our house for the big move. We can't even fathom living in the house we've purchased; it's a dream come true for our family. The thought of having a yard for our kids to run free, a playroom for all of their toys, and even a sun room for Joseph and I to enjoy our morning coffee together... July 25th cannot come soon enough!

This space may stay a little quieter for the remainder of the summer. I'm not sure what my computer time may look like when we are homeless and staying with family while in transition. Most of my online time is being spent dreaming and scheming with my team about The Influence Network and the conference this fall. Exciting things are happening and I can't wait to share it will all of you!

Although my blog may be quieter, you'll always be able to stay updated with my children's daily shenanigans on Instagram.

Or if you want to stay updated on what I'm craving for lunch, hit me up on Twitter.

And if you're interested in seeing how I plan to decorate our future home, feel free to stalk my home decor board on Pinterest.

Also, if you haven't heard, Blair of Wild and Precious is starting a new linkup on Monday for everyone who likes to update what's going on in their "life lately." That's going to be the easiest excuse to keep posting this summer. Thanks, Blair!

Bumped by BLANQI Review & Giveaway

2013-05-16T09:54:00.001-05:00

Hey, everyone! I'm excited to share the Bumped by BLANQI brand (exclusively available at Target.com) with all of you today!

Before I go any further, let me make a confession: I've been blogging for 3 years and this is my first vlog review I've ever done. Things I learned about myself during this new experience: 1. I ramble a lot, 2. I have no idea how to properly use my video camera, 3. I am horrible at editing out awkward transitions in reviews. So, bear with me, ladies. I've got some great things that I want to share about the Bumped by BLANQI brand and I hope my review doesn't make you cringe with every "um," "so, yeah," and back scratch. Enjoy!

As a mom of two and my third on the way, I figured I was a pro at this pregnancy thing and knowing how to dress my belly. Hah! I was wrong. How did I never know that there was such a thing as a support tank? I could have really used one the last two times, especially when pregnant with Lucia and I was sure my hips were going to fall off. I've been wearing the Bumped by BLANQI maternity support tank for almost a week now and I have loved the comfort it's given me with this already-growing belly. I'm sure this thing will become my saving grace in the last months when I'm sure I can't carry my watermelon much longer.

The BLANQI ladies are giving my readers an opportunity to win a Bumped by BLANQI cami (maternity or postpartum, black or ivory) and $25 Target gift card this week! Here's how to enter:

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I was not financially compensated for this post. I received a sample for review purposes. The opinions are completely my own based on my experience.

some bump style

2013-05-15T12:18:00.004-05:00

The bump is getting bigger, and some little people are really starting to notice. I have to say, being pregnant this time around is much more fun when your toddlers semi-understand what's going on in your belly. Lucia is, obviously, more interested than her big bro, and always asks to check out the baby under my shirt. She'll talk to the baby, kiss my belly, then get distracted by my belly button and try to pinch it...

I can only imagine what she'll be like when the baby is actually here. Lucia is naturally a nurturer and loves taking care of her baby animals and dolls. Come November, I'm sure I can expect my mini-me to be following me around at all times asking to help nurture this little one.

mommy:

dress // j. crew

hair // much love, illy poppy hair charms

lucia:

dress // old navy

hair // much love, illy poppy hair charms

Get 15% off in Ilene's shop with code: MORIAHROX15

(valid until May 22)

Whatever Mommy wears, Lucia must wear, too. Is your little girl the same? That's why it's always best to buy multiples of cute hair accessories. Check out my friend Ilene's shop, Much Love, Illy, for more adorable options for Mommy and Daughter to match!

on the back burner

2013-05-13T15:05:00.001-05:00

Yeah, I'm talking about this here space. The blog has been on the back burner for quite a while to allow me to take some much needed time away to focus on exciting stuff in our personal lives. God's throwing a lot of changes our way, for the better, and I've just been soaking it all in, away from the computer. I hope you don't mind. While I've been away, here's what I've been thinking about, praying about, and focusing my time on:

Our next home.
We're moving next month, but we have no idea where. It's weird, because I'm totally at peace about the entire situation. God's been present and so clear during this house hunting process. We've looked at several awesome houses that we've wondered about being "the one," and I feel like God has continuously given us very clear answers. It's been quite relieving, actually, knowing that we're hearing from Him right now. I think once we find our home, He'll make it clear that it's for us. I'm just hoping that the time comes soon! We're pretty sure we have our exact location figured out, and that's been quite exciting. We've been spending a lot of time in the area checking out everything it has to offer, and dreaming about getting to raise our children there soon.

Baby #3.
Promise you won't be annoyed if I brag for a tiny, tiny bit? This baby has been so nice to its mama during her first trimester. You guys, I have had almost no sickness during this pregnancy! I sometimes wonder if God just knew I wouldn't be able to handle morning sickness on top of house showings, keeping the house clean, and wrangling two toddlers during the winter months. I'm really not sure how I would have been able to get through all of that while being sick. I haven't had much time to pray and think about this little one because of everything else going on right now, so I'm really looking forward to more relaxing moments this summer when we're settled into a new home. I'm also looking forward to dressing this bump.

Life with toddlers.
These children are growing like weeds. We're celebrating their birthdays this weekend with family, and it's crazy to believe that I'll be a mom of a three and two year old. We're talking about potty training Chia, and thinking of putting them both in twin size beds when we move into our new home. It's bittersweet, but I'm really excited for this next stage of their lives. Both of them are becoming such smart, independent, strong-willed, stubborn, hilarious kids, and I'm seeing them shape me into a better person. Parenthood is hard, people. But, the sacrifices and struggles we go through to raise our kids is so worth it. Lucia and Josiah have taught me the importance of family and what truly matters in life.

My handmade business.
Pardon my ambiguity here, but I can't share much about this quite yet. Just know that God is changing the direction of my business and where He wants me to use my gifts. I might be able to share more in a couple of months, but for right now, just be excited for me and know that God has a pretty awesome plan in store. I'll be using my free time to try some new things and see where it takes me. Prayers appreciated!

I hope all of you have a great week! Also, if you're a new mom or expecting mother, stay tuned for a fun review I've been cooking up with an awesome brand this week!

A Good Word from Nadine

2013-05-06T05:00:00.000-05:00

I'm starting to allow my sponsors to share a bit about themselves each month on my blog and post about a topic close to their heart. It's a great way for you and I to learn a little bit more about them before you even click over to their blog ad! One of my favorites, Nadine of A Secondary Heartbeat, will be sharing with all of you today. Be sure to check our her blog when you're finished falling in love with her:

Okay friends of Moriah, I'm so excited to be introducing myself to you today. If I already know you, hello again, and if we haven't yet met, well hello there!

My name is Nadine. It's pronounced "nay-deen" not "nah-deen", so if you say it wrong, I'll cringe inside but forgive you immediately and probably never correct you. So I'll correct you now, since we're just meeting, and I'll hope that you remember it for when we meet in person. I'm sure that'll happen right?

So. Blogging. It's pretty fun. I quite enjoy it. I started blogging about six years ago on a blog that has long since been retired. My current blog a Secondary Heartbeat is named after and inspired by the battle between flesh and spirit that scripture speaks much of. I really sense a battle in myself so often, to chose between living for God or myself. I want to honour God with my words. My blog is my attempt at that.

I blog because it requires me to be disciplined. Not only in writing each day, but also to consistently be filling myself up with truth. If my desire is to point to Jesus in my writing, I have to be going to Jesus all the time in my everyday life. I love that my blog forces me to do just that.

There is this beautiful portion of scripture in Colossians 3 where we're told to put on compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness and patience. We're called to bear each others burdens, and to forgive as God forgives. Finally we absolutely must put on love, live in peace, and be thankful.

I think that I can do maybe one of these at a time. You? But seriously, while this portion is beautiful and sounds just fantastic, I fail at it a lot. A lot, a lot.

I am trying though, and maybe you are too. So let's keep okay. Let's accept grace right now because that is something we all need. Let's let Jesus wrap us up nice and cosy tight with grace, mercy, and love.

And friend, whether I know you or not, Jesus loves you. Regardless of how many things you can click off your list of good Christian. It's easy for me to get bogged down in the things I'm not good enough at yet, but today, let's just get caught up in the fact that the grace of Jesus covers us.

Connect with Nadine: blog // twitter // facebook

A Good Word from Megan

2013-05-02T05:00:00.000-05:00

Hi! I am so excited to be sharing with you guys today!

I am Megan.

I am a wife. A mother of four. A lover of Jesus. I love to plan. I love to create. I believe in the importance of community. I am an advocate for orphans and for the poor. I want every single person to know that they are loved and important. I aim to act justly. To love mercy. And to walk humbly. When we started the process of adopting from Africa, I started making and selling scarves as a fundraiser. It ended up being far more successful than we ever anticipated and really felt the Lord's nudge to open an 'official' shop. I wanted to share my passions. My passion for life. And family. And Jesus. And justice. So I started She Does Justice. She Does Justice is an advocate for those who need one. It is a space where organizations who are working for the good of others are recognized. It is a community of people who want to show love to the 'least of these'. A place where we strive to show those in need that they are known and loved. I have made it our mission to support organizations and individuals who are working to reach those in need, near and far. It doesn't matter how big or small the organization, if I believe in its mission then I want to help support it. Each month I spotlight an organization or individual. At the end of the month I write a check to that organization taken from the overall sales in the shop that month. Each month I donate at least 10% of our gross profit to the organization to help further their mission. The shop is focused on items that work with your lifestyle. Most of the items are handmade by me or other small business owners who have partnered with She Does Justice. These items are made with you in mind. I hope you love them just as much as I do!

Thanks so much for letting me share a bit about the story behind She Does Justice! I have been so blessed by this online community. The prayers, support, and encouragement were more than I could have ever asked for as we worked (and waited and cried and prayed) our daughter, Shiloh, home. And I am so excited to share that she is finally HOME as of two weeks ago! I also want to extend a special offer to you guys! When you place your order from the She Does Justice Shop, use the coupon code 'MORIAHMAKES' and you will receive 10% off of your order! I hope you'll check out She Does Justice soon!

Third Time Around

2013-05-01T09:25:00.005-05:00

dress // Target

necklace // c/o Pink Lemonade

(Get your own Pink Lemonade Fringe Necklace for 20% off with code: MORIAH)

Yep, only 10 weeks. Yep, only one baby in there. I made sure of it. It appears my body has this baby growing thing down third time around. It actually decided to start popping out around 6 weeks, making for many awkward hangouts with friends when I was still trying to keep this baby a secret. Now that we've announced, it's been so much easier to let this bump hang out. And I have to admit, a lot more fun to dress.

I haven't had much time to enjoy this growing belly as much as I have my others in the past. We've been quite busy around here with the stomach flu, car issues, and house showings that have finally led to an *almost* sold house (PRAISE THE LORD). I'm excited for everything May has to offer us with some spring weather (again, finally), the possibility of a new home, and the kids' 2nd and 3rd birthday party. Then, as things start to settle down, I can take more time to enjoy and plan for Baby #3.

Suzie Studios Review and Giveaway -- Giveaway Closed

2013-04-30T16:07:00.002-05:00

I've been a huge fan of Suzie Studios before the doors ever opened. A couple years ago, I met up with an acquaintance and our little baby girls for coffee and time to chat about the online world of blogs and businesses. Little did I know that Jessi of Studio Studios would soon became one of my dearest friends. Her online doors have been open for over a year now, and I have loved watching her creations being shared across the nation. It's been so fun seeing some of my favorite bloggers wearing her products and watching her beautiful shop become so successful!

I'm excited to share one of Suzie Studios' newest headbands with all of you today. It's the Anniston Ashley Headband, named after Jessi's adorable little girl. When I put it on Lucia for the first time, I made sure to let her know that Jessi made it for her, and now she always reminds me that it's Jessi's headband. Unfortunately, for me, Lucia rarely wears headbands anymore, but this one is an exception, I'm assuming only because she knows where it came from. Well, that, and most likely the comfort compared to most other elastic headbands we own. She hasn't said a word about it being on her head, so I think she often forgets it's even there. It will surely get some use this summer as the temperatures get warmer and Lucia needs her hair out of her face. Personally, what I love most is the print, and the joy of how I'll get to style it with all of Lucia's new summer clothes!

Now here's the really fun part! Suzie Studios has been gracious enough to bless my readers with an awesome opportunity to win $50 to her shop! All you need to do is enter the giveaway with the options provides in the Raffle Copter below. Be sure to also hop over to her blog and say hello!

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For those of you who would like to shop right now, Suzie Studios has a special code for you: MORIAHMAKES for 20% off your order!

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The winner of the Suzie Studios giveaway is:

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Seriously. What are the odds that another Moriah S. would win this? Congrats, Moriah of Simple Gifts!

Two Exciting Influence Network Membership and Conference Giveaways!

2013-04-29T05:00:00.000-05:00

Happy Monday, everyone! I'm just popping in to share some fun news concerning The Influence Network. This post is meant for those of you who have always wanted to be a part of The Influence Network but didn't see it fitting into your budget. Some lovely Influence Network members and I have teamed together to create a giveaway that will allow for two ladies to win a Lifetime Membership to the network! Head over to Heather's blog to enter!

Also, Kate of The Tiny Now is hosting a giveaway for a ticket to this year's Influence Conference! Head over to her blog and check it out, as well!

A Good Word from Ashlee

2013-04-25T08:28:00.003-05:00

I'm starting to allow my sponsors to share a bit about themselves each month on my blog and post about a topic close to their heart. It's a great way for you and I to learn a little bit more about them before you even click over to their blog ad! The lovely Ashlee of Your Friend Ashlee will be sharing with all of you today. Be sure to check her out when you're finished being encouraged by her good word for today:

"Just as everyone has a different life and background, same is to be said about how they came to blog and why. Personally, I’ve blogged on and off for over four years. It first emerged out of a class assignment, then turned to something personal, and eventually grew into something I enjoyed because of the goodness that came from it.

As a social media marketer, part-time blogger, and full-time social media junkie, I am constantly meshing my offline and online worlds. Purposeful content is what every blog needs. I want to share my purpose and encourage others to find and pursue their purposeful way of living. On my blog, I share friendly advice about business, marketing, faith, and life. And you can always expect encouragement embedded within each post.

Through blogging, God has taught me that authentic friendships can be found anywhere, just like His love. I have learned no story is too small to share. God has also shown me that beauty, strength, integrity, and truth are found in those who seek Him. For me, blogging has brought me to communities full of purpose, love, and direction.

On that note, I have a few words of wisdom to impart on you, fellow bloggers:

1. Share your story

Even if you feel like no one reads or engages with your blog, share your story. You never know if clarity will emerge through your blogging or is someone else’s life is touched through your story. Share it.

2. Remain authentic

There is nothing more beautiful than when a friend shares their story. Remain true to who you are. Never try to be something or someone you’re not. Authenticity is what makes you relatable, trustworthy, and awesome.

3. Pursue relationships

Whether you’re blogging for personal or professional reasons, you need to make relationships. Start by pursing your favorite bloggers and they will lead you to niche communities that spark your interests. The pursuit of relationships is crucial for everything from connections to growth and exposure.

That’s it friends. Come join me for some helpful advice, learning adventures, and friendly talk!" - Ashlee

Connect with Ashlee: blog // twitter

Quick & Simple Curled Hair Tutorial by Rayna Jaye

2013-04-23T05:00:00.000-05:00

I'm excited to do something a little different on the blog today and have my lovely cousin, Rayna Jaye, share some of her hair wisdom with my readers! Rayna is a hair stylist, handmade business owner, photographer, wife, and mother of two awesome kiddos. Through the years, she's perfected her quick and simple technique to style her hair and manage to get out the door on time. Many of Rayna's fans have asked her to create a tutorial showing how she curls her hair, so we thought this would be the perfect place for Rayna to share! Enjoy (also, please enjoy my other cousin, Kelsey, the videographer):

Looking for more ways to connect with Rayna Jaye?
Check out her: shop // facebook // twitter // instagram

my boy turned 3

2013-04-22T05:00:00.000-05:00

Pardon me while I get a little sentimental on the blog this morning. My oldest boy turned three years old this weekend.

To celebrate his big day, Josiah requested birthday cookies and brinner. We let him open a handful of presents at the coffee table, and made sure to videotape the expression and excitement on his face as he opened Cars character after Cars character. It was easily the happiest day of his little life.

I can still remember the day I found out I was pregnant with Josiah. Joseph and I had recently returned from our Colorado vacation celebrating our first year of marriage and were getting settled into our new home. I was feeling sick, took a test, and quickly realized I was going to be a mom. A few months prior, Joseph had made the tough decision to not pursue grad school, after spending months and months studying for his GRE, receiving awesome scores, and getting accepted into the one school he had dreamt about. We felt God telling us to start a family instead.

So, we listened, and watched God bless us with Josiah.

At a time when we thought grad school and career made the most logical sense in our situation, God had other plans for our family. We listened and were blessed with a boy that has taught us much more than grad school could ever have. We've watched God's plans unfold in our life as we've continued to listen, no matter how illogical they may have seemed, and see Him provide our physical and spiritual needs. Josiah's little life has been the perfect example of what happens when you listen to God.

Happy 3rd birthday to our little man!

some pretty exciting news

2013-04-09T20:30:00.000-05:00

Boy, does it feel good to finally get that out.

His Promises

2013-04-04T14:48:00.001-05:00

To say that March was physically and emotionally draining would be quite an understatement. It may have been my birthday month, but I sure am glad it's over. From having the house on the market (that's still on the market), to celebrating holidays, to being stuck indoors, to more snow, and having the kids sick more than usual, this new month already feels like a breath of fresh air. This first week of April has already made me more energized and ready for Spring. The snow is finally melting, birds are returning home, and I've been able to retire my winter coat... and my SAD lamp. The wait was so long, but so, so, so worth it.

To celebrate this week's beautiful weather (barely 50 degrees, but we'll take it!), we met up with our favorite walking buddies, Jessi and Anniston. I don't think we've been able to walk outside with them since October! The reunion was wonderful and the kids were so excited to finally be outside in the sun.

Jessi's magical neighborhood has a really great bakery and fun book store that we frequent every time we visit. The bakery always supplies the kids with a free raisin breadstick to keep them satisfied while they play with toys. And the book store, you guys, is the most amazing place to hang out! Minneapolis locals, if you haven't visited the Wild Rumpus then you are missing out! My toddlers are finally old enough to appreciate this book store that allows wild chickens to run loose and have other fun animals on display for the kids to enjoy. We had the best afternoon soaking in the kids' excitement and letting them run wild.

"'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord. 'They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.'"

(Jeremiah 29:11)

Although Spring is finally on its way, there are still many things I continue to long and wait and trust on the Lord for.

::cough cough NEW HOUSE cough cough::

All of these long cold months, I continually reminded myself that God never promised me Spring. What He promised me was a plan, and one that was much better than my own. Right now, I know that God is not promising me that our house will be sold soon. But, He has promised me a plan. One that's for good and that gives our family a future. The picture I have in my own head of the "perfect situation" may not be what God has in mind for us right now. So, I'll continue to wait, trust in His promises, and be thankful for Spring.

some updates

2013-03-27T01:36:00.001-05:00

Howdy, friends! I'm just popping in to share a couple links, announce some updates, and show off pictures of my cute kids.

The shop is reopening! We will be starting out with limited items and limited quantities, but as I find more time to craft, I'll add more goodies for you and your girls.

I'm also contributing some of my goodies to The Tethered Crate for April. Have you heard of it?

I wrote a very personal guest post for a blog, that I was hesitant to share at first, but have now decided to post a link here. You, being my readers, deserve the opportunity to read it. And if you disagree with my opinions, it's perfectly fine with me. This is my experience of growing up as a child without a father and my thoughts of how beneficial both a father and mother are to raising children.

I'm also posting over at the Influence Blog today. Come hear my thoughts on being called to love.

The Influence Network will start selling conference tickets April 1st! Stay tuned for more details. I've been pretty giddy about it all week.

What things are you excited about this week? Is the snow finally starting to melt on your side of the world? Because it is here and I just found a moldy orange in my front yard. Hurray!

mommy's time out:: delicious arm candy

2013-03-22T10:10:00.000-05:00

Mommy's Time Out is a series that my friend Jessi and I decided to start doing once a month as a way for us to get creative and do something productive during our kids' nap times. For this month's DIY project, we decided to make some cheap, kid-friendly arm candy. To check out Jessi's tutorial for her Studded Wrap Bracelet, click here. Below is my tutorial for a simple Fabric Cuff:

Materials needed: Scrap fabric and a cuff bracelet (I found this one on Etsy and just molded it myself by hand).

Step 1: Take scrap fabric and hot glue to inside end of cuff.

Step 2: Start wrapping!

Step 3: When you're near the end, put some hot glue on end of fabric to help secure it when finishing the other end of cuff.

Step 4: Hold fabric on hot glue until it dries, then twist upward to cover the other end of cuff.

Step 5: Cut off remaining fabric, fold edge under, and hot glue that sucker down.

The perfect, simple, cheap, kid-friendly bracelet a mom could ever ask for. And paired with a couple more bracelets?

Delicious Arm Candy!

Hope everyone has a blessed weekend.

currently.

2013-03-21T08:14:00.001-05:00

I always love reading Danielle of Sometime Sweet's "Currently" posts, and heck, they're super easy to write for myself. So, I thought I'd share my own post about what's currently happening today.

Watching: Josiah over the video monitor... he's supposed to be napping, but instead is playing with his stuffed animals in his bed. This kid gets more and more hilarious everyday. He's started naming all of his stuffed animals and toys. My favorites are Sister Bone (a Calico Critter bunny) and Rumpown (a Beanie Baby rabbit).

Listening to: Silence, for once. It feels nice not to have any music playing during afternoon nap time, especially after what I usually had to listen to in the car with the kids. Their music playlist is growing at obnoxious speed. Josiah asked to add the Bob, The Builder theme song today. So, I'm sure you can assume what the rest of it sounds like.

Planning: The kids' birthday party in May. Josiah will be turning 3 in April, and Lucia will be turning 2 at the end of May, so I figured we'd have them share their parties this year, especially since it will be all the same people attending. Right now, their favorite show is Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, so I'm trying to think up some clever decorating ideas that they'll appreciate. Anyone know where I can find a trolley?

Thinking About: Eventually moving out of this house. We've been on the market for a month now, and I wasn't expecting to still be here. We've had about 40 showings by now and no offers on the table. Joseph and I are constantly encouraging each other, reminding ourselves that God has a plan for us and a plan for whoever is supposed to live here. He's definitely in this and we just need to be more patient. So, we continue to wait.

Looking Forward to: My birthday on Friday! We're actually not going to be celebrating me that evening, but attending a birthday party for our pastors' little boy. He is one of Josiah's best friends and I'm excited to see how Lucia and Josiah react to their first pizza party at a train store. It's going to be a fun evening!

Reading: Strengths Finder 2.0. Hayley sent each of us on the Influence Team the book and asked for us to take the Strengths Finder test last month. I loved finding out a little more about myself and how I can better use my strengths within our team. Have you ever taken the test? Here's what my strengths were: Belief, Includer, Relator, Harmony, and Developer. We all had a good laugh over it in our meeting.

Making Me Happy: My kids, as always. They are what's keeping me sane this winter, oddly enough. Yes, they've had some stressful days, but for the most part, they've been really great these past months. Winter has been hard, but we've learned to make the best of being stuck indoors. My in-laws ended up giving us one of their old cars, so we've been able to get out of the house a lot more and spread our germs at the mall. Once Spring hits, these two are going to be the happiest kids on earth!

So, what are you up to today? Feel free to write your own "Currently" post and leave a link in the comment section below. Hope everyone has a great day, whether it be 80 degrees or -5... I'm not bitter.

Pursuing Her Passion:: L of All Glorious Within

2013-03-19T08:53:00.000-05:00

I'm excited to share a really great lady with all of you today. Meet L of All Glorious Within. She's sharing an awesome story of, not just how she's pursuing her passion, but how God makes a way for anyone in order for them to pursue their calling. Be encouraged, and be sure to hop on over to her blog when you're finished reading:

"I recall sitting on a bus travelling across India the summer after I graduated high school, some seven year ago now (how’s that for crazy!). We had just completed the short-term project we were on working and were heading back home to the Middle East. While on the trip I had developed some friendships with several girls who didn’t live in the same city as I did, and we weren’t sure when we would see each other again. One of them asked me if I was going on the second trip leaving for Africa a week later.

I replied with a no and they soon asked me why I wasn’t going. I informed them I didn’t have the money that was needed to go on yet another mission trip. I hadn’t done any fund raising, and really I hadn’t thought about another trip. I was just super excited to have gone on the first. They asked me what I planned on doing instead. And really, the answer was nothing. I had the whole summer ahead of me before college started the other side of the world. But I didn’t have any set plans. So they challenged me about coming with them.

I remember feeling frustrated that I hadn’t thought about it before. That something like money would stop me from going to Africa for the first time because I hadn’t planned. And I felt that nudge. I felt the Lord challenge me about whether I thought He could provide.

I secretly felt it was hopeless, there was only six days between landing and leaving for Africa.

But I chose to trust. Thinking I had nothing to lose.

After returning home, through God’s provision of visas, parental support and financial support being provided within 24 hrs of returning home from India, I found myself on another plane a few short days later.

Once arriving in the bush of a small village in northern Tanzania, I fell in love. It really is so true that Africa just gets under your skin. A place full of people who passionately love God and others who desperately need to hear about Him.

A place where I hope someday to return, to adopt and maybe even use my passion for photography.

I’m not yet sure how all of these passions are linked to one another. I only know that the Lord continues to work them further into the depths of my soul. His provision on my high school trip really proved to me that sometimes when God has something for you, the doors will open like you’ve never seen.

For now, I am working on furthering my photography skills, working on involvement with The Mocha Club and networking with so many incredible women with a heart for Africa and adoption. As for what happens next, only God knows J

I really think that in order to find your passion, you need to walk with eyes open. Find what inspires you, encourages you to seek the Lord and listen to those small nudges. And be ready to let go of things when He asks us to.

He will show you where He wants you.

At least that’s my prayer." - L

"I waited patiently for the Lord;

he turned to me and heard my cry.

2 He lifted me out of the slimy pit,

out of the mud and mire;

he set my feet on a rock

and gave me a firm place to stand.

3 He put a new song in my mouth,

a hymn of praise to our God.

Many will see and fear the Lord

and put their trust in him." Psalm 40:1-3

Thanks for sharing your story with us, L.

To connect more with L, visit her: blog // twitter // instagram // facebook

pretending we're retirees

2013-03-14T23:57:00.003-05:00

So, we vacationed in Fort Myers a couple of weeks ago. Those of you who follow me on Instagram were most likely aware of it. And I apologize in advance for this post, because it's basically just an iPhone photo dump from the both of us. Enjoy.

It was the first *real* vacation Joseph and I have taken together since having kids, and WITHOUT KIDS. Five full days of only us, while the children spent quality time with all of their grandparents up north in the frozen tundra.

It was just what we needed to spend time reflecting on our marriage, our family goals, and the things we have to look forward to in our near future. We pretended we were old retirees and did what old retirees living in Florida do: eat, nap, and ride bikes.

We spent evenings walking Fort Myers Beach, a day on Sanibel Island cruising bike trails and watching dolphins, an afternoon at the Thomas Edison & Henry Ford Winter Estate and Museum (per my husband's request), and ate at every restaurant on our to-do list.

My husband returned to Minnesota looking like a lobster and I returned fat from Chick-Fil-A.

Also, here's a special treat for you. This is what a dad who works three jobs looks like when he finally gets time to relax:

Just kidding. He does this every day. Yeah, I'm that lucky, you guys...

Pursuing Her Passion:: Meghan of Eat, Live, Make

2013-03-11T23:20:00.000-05:00

Today, I'm excited to introduce you to a beautiful soul that I've been blessed to know through The Influence Network. Meghan of Eat, Live, Make first contacted me when I posted about the Pursuing Her Passion series in our Influence Network forums. Ever since, I became drawn to her blog, her photography, and her sweet personality. I hope you are just as encouraged as I am by Meghan's story of how she is pursuing her passion:

Since I was a small child I have been driven to create. I was always encouraged to learn to sew, paint, participate in local theater programs and build things. And as I have grown into an adult, my soul still drives me to create. I feel as if I have not had a good day unless I have been able to make something beautiful with my hands.

Somewhere in middle school between soccer and basketball games, trying to be popular (ha!) and hanging out with my flute (yes, I was in the band) I lost track of my passion. When high school came around I was playing varsity soccer, golf and basketball and my knees gave out on me. My spirit was crushed when I learned I could no longer participate in sports, so my soul found comfort in the one thing that made it come alive: art. I lost track of this yearning again during the business of college, and am now learning what it means to create beautiful things again. I don't think I have ever "found" my passion, I think God keeps awakening it inside of me.

One of the ways I have always expressed myself is through the medium of photography. I have always wanted to be a professional photographer, but allowed self doubt to get in the way of following that dream. And then one day last year I just did it. I had some birthday money in my pocket, and I bought a website and a business license! I decided that I was not going to let my doubts and fears hold me back anymore, and allow God to go before me in my new quest to bring beauty into others lives through photography. I still can't believe I made that leap, and I have learned SO MUCH since doing that, but I am always excited to see what doors God opens for me as I step out in faith.

The more I spend time with couples and families while I photograph them, the more I realize that God is blessing ME through knowing THEM! I love being able to capture life as it is, raw and beautiful. One of my favorite parts of the process of photography is the "digital darkroom" editing. I love seeing children's smiles across my screen and seeing the love between families, friends, and lovers. I feel like with each photograph I am making time stand still, giving families a gift they will have with them for the rest of their lives. I also write a personal blog, and am in the process of launching a gluten free blog. Through these avenues, I share the story God has given me, and plan to connect people to the information they need to live a healthy gluten free lifestyle.

My advice [for women trying to find their passion] would be to listen to the spirit! Whatever God has placed within you, whether it be music, or dance, or a passion for children or the elderly, or creating beauty... follow what He has purposely placed inside of you!! God does not make mistakes when He gives us gifts, and each one of us has a unique gift. Do not allow doubt, and fear to hold you back! You will not be perfect when you start, so do not hold yourself up to a standard higher than what is reasonable (I have definitely done this plenty of times!). Follow the Spirit as He guides you in your journey and you won't go wrong:).

My favorite current favorite Bible verse is:

"My grace is sufficient for you, for power is perfected in weakness. Most gladly, therefore, I will rather boast about my weaknesses so that the power of Christ may dwell in me."

(2 Corinthians 12:9)

My absolute favorite quote is found in a wonderful book called Walking on Water:

"The purpose of the story or music or painting is to further the coming of the Kingdom, to make us aware of our status as children of God and to turn our feet towards home."

- Madeline L'Engle

Thanks so much for sharing your story with us, Meghan!

If you'd like to connect more with Meghan, here's how:
blog // photography // twitter // facebook // pinterest