Just Make It Better

On Taking Action & Dying Young.

Nicole — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 22:18:03 +0000

I ache to live an exuberant life. One filled with crazy stories of youthful thrills, love and spontaneous adventures. I dream that my deathbed memories will supersede childhood fairy tales. At the same time I want to impact those around me. I have friends who live their lives miniminally instead of their best. Oozing with potential, they bumble [...]

Why don’t women just have sex?

Nicole — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:54:54 +0000

photo by: ¥§•ªˆ¨ˇ© LOVE © ˇ¨ˆª•§¥’s Woman #1: “What do you do when you are really attracted to a man, but understand there’s no chance to have a future with him? As in yeah, maybe he’s nice and will treat you okay, but in the end he’s fundamentally wrong for you. What do you with [...]

Monogamy, for every man?

Nicole — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:45:49 +0000

photo by: lj_scampo Recently, a gay man revealed sexual fidelity doesn’t exist in the Land of Just Penis. He went on to explain that gay men have open relationships. Unlike the common monogamy in heterosexual relationships, it’s perfectly acceptable to be committed and have a boyfriend on the side simultaneously. The partner knows about this side fling [...]

Links worth your time. (Really.)

Nicole — Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:18:27 +0000

Despite my revelation on the uselessness of blogging monetization, (for me, at least) there are still sites worth talking about. I’ve compiled them here so you have something interesting to read when I’m not posting. Please add your own links in the comments. +++ More Is Better Our shared name and simliar blog titles destined my affections for More [...]

Purple Cow Print Party Video: Hugh & Seth Talk

Nicole — Wed, 14 Oct 2009 22:12:41 +0000

I went to this party last week. I’m still breaking down my thoughts on the night. They vary greatly but I’d say it was as interesting as was disappointing, for many different reasons. One thing that is certain: my unwavering respect for Mr. Godin. Despite our limited engagement, I felt his sincerity is as evident and [...]

Why blogging is kinda stupid, JMIB Changes & Thank you.

Nicole — Sun, 04 Oct 2009 01:01:19 +0000

photo by Clairity Whether a regular reader or not, this post will give you some insights on blogging, business and getting back to being yourself. I’m shifting things here at JMIB. Read on to hear about why and what is coming – it’s worth it. Initially created to explore writing, entrepreneurship and help people, I’m afraid this [...]

What to do when you don’t know what to do.

Nicole — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 15:50:55 +0000

Giving people advice isn't innovative but the kind I give is. It's honest, forthright and the kind no one else gives but should. It's the kind that resonates and impacts. If it didn't people wouldn't keep coming back for more. So if you're tangled up by something and would like some help, I'm offering.I won't judge what you've done or how you're feeling, everybody knows I've done enough dumb shit to fertilize a field.

My lover is Seth Godin.

Nicole — Sat, 12 Sep 2009 02:44:24 +0000

photo by: yodel anecdotal I love him like the way people love cookies or Pixar. There’s just something about Seth. Whenever I read his books, blog or watch a talk I feel fuzzy inside. It doesn’t matter if the topic is relevant or not, he always gets me inspired. I admire him in a way typically reserved [...]

Find your happy.

Nicole — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 21:01:21 +0000

photo by meddygarnet That’s all you really need to do. If it gives you joy you’ll want to do it more and more. You’ll be passionate about it and be willing to practice to get better at it. With that you’ll innovate and improve. Loving it will make you okay at working hard at it. It will also [...]

Think you don’t care what other people think?

Nicole — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 20:10:12 +0000

photo by charlottel People that care about what other people think make choices based on what other people are doing. They are the same people that say: That’s not how it’s done. (Insert name, institution etc) wouldn’t like it. People just don’t do that. That wouldn’t look good. It’s highly likely you’re one of them. Have you ever said anything like that? [...]