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   <title>Dear Diary - Karol Cross</title>
   
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   <description>The misadventures of Miss Cross. Life, lipstick and late nights amongst the UK transgendered.</description>
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		      <title>Randoms</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 21:05:12 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[<b>#1</b>
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I got turned away from a club on Friday night...
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When we arrived, the bouncer explained to me and the woman I was with "<i>Its a gay night tonight</i>".  
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We just smiled and agreed, sure, whatever.
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"<i>No, you don't understand, its a gay night.  Men only.  No girls.</i>"
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I got turned away from a club on Friday night... because I wasn't a man.
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:o)
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<b>#2</b>
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Hours later, I'm using the mirror in the ladies loo of some pub when the cleaner walks...]]></description>

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		      <title>Kazza goes to Kreuzberg</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:10:00 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[<img src='http://www.karolcross.com/images/diary/394.jpg' align ='left' title='Mandie in the dressing room just before the gig'>I still haven't quite got the hang of this blogging thing.  When I've done something interesting (like Berlin) I think "<i>Oh I'll write that up tomorrow, it'll take ages and I haven't the time now</i>".  
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And when I've a two line observation or thought I'd like to share, I seem to think "<i>Well that's a bit weak, I'll wait till I've something a bit more substantial comes along</i>".  So nothing happens, and weeks go by without any updates...
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So what the hell has happened?
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Well...<p><i>3 comments</i>]]></description>

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		      <title>Stats and Lies</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 16:10:06 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[I was just looking at the stats for my web site, and as usual I had a look at the phrases visitors have typed into Google (and the rest) to somehow end up at my door.
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Sometimes you get some bizarre phrases which make the mind boggle along with the usual stuff like "Karol" and "Karol Cross" (the top two).  But for the life of me I can't figure out why number 3 in the top 100 search phrases for my site is (*drum roll please*)
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"Hoxteth".
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I guess I must be trendier then I thought! lo...]]></description>

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		      <title>Another Month</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 14:39:29 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[<img src='http://www.karolcross.com/images/diary/392.jpg' align ='left' title='Mooi, Alex and I rest on the Barbie car at Chiquis Birthday Barbie barbie!'>And more madness.
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I could write reams about what I've been upto recently.  I really need to figure out a faster way of updating this blog, so I can get it down while everythings still fresh.
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First of all there was my fabulous friend Claires 30th birthday bash in which a kooky gang of her friends from the gay, fetish and trannie scenes all headed up to cosmopolitan Blackpool for a long weekend.  
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Hi-lights included seeing the <i>Original</i> Bucks Fizz live (no really!). Playing...<p><i>1 comment</i>]]></description>

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		      <title>Lisa Fabulous's Birthday Bash</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Tue, 30 Jun 2009 14:36:27 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[Last week was another personal milestone for me as an old friend came to visit me for the weekend.  
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In the three years since I moved to London this was the first time one of the friends from home has come to visit, so the occasion meant a lot to me.
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And as luck would have it, it was my fabulous friend Lisa's birthday last week and she was celebrating at my favourite lesbian bar in Soho.
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I would guess that my friend Chris had never been in a lesbian bar before. And definitely never...<p><i>1 comment</i>]]></description>

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		      <title>Pants!</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Tue, 23 Jun 2009 13:08:33 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[<img src='http://www.karolcross.com/images/diary/390.jpg' align ='left' title='Kazza in gratuitous knicker shot. A first, and I suspect a last!'>Lately I've been trying to spread my wings a bit.  I seem to have fallen into a routine of fetish clubs and extended after parties which were fun and exciting to begin with, but are almost routine now.  Over time I've become more and more aware of this, and I decided a while ago to keep my eyes open for new opportunities and experiences.  A break would hopefully do me good and help me rediscover my enthusisam.
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I also realised something which is possibly unique to my own particular set of circumstances....<p><i>2 comments</i>]]></description>

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		      <title>Bless Him</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Jun 2009 23:43:42 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[Danny La Rue died today.  
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As Barbara Windsor put it <a class="bkcontent" target="_blank" href="asp/goto.asp?id=http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk/8077935.stm">when she was being interviewed by the BBC earlier</a> "<i>He was the first.... Royalty went to his club, he was respectable. He made men dressing up as a woman, ok</i>"
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He certainly did.  
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Well he did in the head of a confused kid looking for some reasurrance that he wasnt alone in the world.  Of course I know now that myself...]]></description>

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		      <title>Fun and Frolics</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Jun 2009 21:07:13 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[<img src='http://www.karolcross.com/images/diary/388.jpg' align ='left' title='At Emilies party with my gorgeous and ever so lovely friend Pink Gem.'>Well another weekend, another new experience!
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Actually a few firsts happened over the bank holiday weekend.
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I'd literally been looking forward to that weekend for months.  But at the same time I was a little nervous too.  You see my fab cool-as-can-be friend Alison is getting married in a few weeks to a great guy and Saturday was her hen do.  Now sometimes when your close friends get married, you think "<i>Oh my god!</i>" and sometimes you think "<i>Yay! That is so brilliant!</i>".  Well...<p><i>2 comments</i>]]></description>

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		      <title>Now Theres an Idea</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Wed, 13 May 2009 21:24:48 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[A collegues just been telling me about how he dressed up as a woman for Comic Relief. 
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"... and the girls totally loved it! You know, you've got the hair for it. You should try it, I bet you'd look ace!" 
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Mmm, you don't say? Maybe next year! lol]]></description>

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		      <title>Drumroll Please!</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Thu, 7 May 2009 23:08:23 GMT</pubDate>

				<description><![CDATA[Well thank god.  I don't know what its been doing to you but its certainly been getting on my tits!
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Finally after about a year, I've sorted out my internet access and my laptop at home.  Which means I can finally start to spring clean this web site and my other pages (Facebook, Flickr, Chix etc) and knock them into shape.
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And for once theres actually a good chance that I'll actually do it!
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Watch this space as they say...]]></description>

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		      <title>Update #86</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:25:04 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[I've begun to replace old pix with <a href="http://www.karolcross.com/asp/read.asp">recent ones</a> showing my own dark hair.]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #85</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Thu, 7 May 2009 23:14:30 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[I'm finally back online!]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #84</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2009 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Lets hope he can begin to sort out some of the mess.]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #83</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Wed, 2 Apr 2008 00:00:00 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Some <a href="http://www.karolcross.com/asp/08-boosh.asp">recent photos</a> at last!]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #82</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2008 14:11:41 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Happy St Patricks day! x]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #81</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Tue, 4 Mar 2008 18:42:29 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Now on  <a target="_blank" href="/asp/goto.asp?id=http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=646851706">Facebook</a>. Much prefer it to MySpace!]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #80</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Tue, 4 Mar 2008 18:30:45 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Finally updated my <a target="_blank" href="/asp/goto.asp?id=http://www.myspace.com/karolcross">MySpace</a> profile.]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #79</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Oct 2007 01:09:50 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Finally <a href="http://www.karolcross.com/asp/07-oz.asp">a few new photos</a>, well its a start!]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #78</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Sep 2007 01:42:29 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Just noticed the sites passed the 1,000,000 visitor mark. Gulp. ]]></description></item>
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		      <title>Update #77</title>
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		      <author>email-me@via-karolcross.com (Karol Cross)</author>

		      <pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2007 14:38:25 GMT</pubDate><description><![CDATA[Updated many diary entries with the associated pix.]]></description></item></channel></rss>
