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&lt;a href="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-CHqn3Pd3Xpg/TxzpLLEM1II/AAAAAAAABno/eJeXV0MIHCk/s1600-h/Trae%252520and%252520Aubrey%252520040%25255B13%25255D.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img align="left" alt="Trae and Aubrey 040" border="0" height="400" src="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-vgOG6Fi33fw/TxzpLfI3yuI/AAAAAAAABns/WAGy-6IveJk/Trae%252520and%252520Aubrey%252520040_thumb%25255B11%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom-color: initial; border-bottom-style: initial; border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-color: initial; border-left-style: initial; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-color: initial; border-right-style: initial; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-color: initial; border-top-style: initial; border-top-width: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" title="Trae and Aubrey 040" width="301" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Do you remember me telling you that &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://loveaboundsathome.blogspot.com/" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;Sandra&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt; and I were urging Aubrey to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/2012/01/engagement-of-trae-and-aubrey.html" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;start blogging&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt; about her and Trae’s love story?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt;WELL…{drum roll please}&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Trae and Aubrey decided to Co-blog! They kicked it off not too long ago.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Without further ado,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://traeandaubrey.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Stacy Tunibug'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Trae and Aubrey: No Ordinary Love&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-7632207479645940783?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2012/01/co-blog-hearing-it-from-them.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-vgOG6Fi33fw/TxzpLfI3yuI/AAAAAAAABns/WAGy-6IveJk/s72-c/Trae%252520and%252520Aubrey%252520040_thumb%25255B11%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-2088305277960632206</guid><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jan 2012 21:52:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-01-11T16:52:34.464-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Faith</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Ministry</category><title>The M.O.M. Initiative</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.themominitiative.com/"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="190" src="http://i561.photobucket.com/albums/ss51/chrishollysmith/TheMOMInitiative.png" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="190" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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I am so pleased to announce a new venture; a new ministry!&lt;br /&gt;
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Since a long while ago, God has allowed me to be in a position to be one on one with women seeking advice and mentorship. I wrote about it first in my post “&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/09/pouring-out.html" target="_blank"&gt;Pouring Out&lt;/a&gt;”.&lt;br /&gt;
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I’ve continued on this path and an opportunity has been opened to expand even more.&lt;br /&gt;
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Through a most wonderful friendship developing and online Bible Study with &lt;a href="http://www.stephanieshott.com/" target="_blank"&gt;Stephanie Shott&lt;/a&gt; since September 2010 comes this partnership!&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What I’m talking about&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;: &lt;a href="http://www.themominitiative.com/" target="_blank"&gt;The M.O.M. Initiative&lt;/a&gt; (&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;M&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;oms &lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;O&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;n a &lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;M&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;ission to &lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;M&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;entor &lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;O&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;ther &lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;M&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;oms)! &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;What We Do:&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The M.O.M. Initiative&lt;/strong&gt; is a missional resource that equips, enables and encourages women to experience Titus 2 in real life. I&lt;strong&gt;f the hand that rocks the cradle rules the world – then the church that mentors those hands will win it.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea Squeaker'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Join me and other M.O.M.s on our official launch day, January 16!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea Squeaker'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea Squeaker'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea Squeaker'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Squeaker';"&gt;While you’re waiting, go ahead and “like” our &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/The-MOM-Initiative/233020793425696" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Squeaker';"&gt;Facebook Page&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Squeaker';"&gt;and follow us on &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Squeaker';"&gt;&lt;a href="https://twitter.com/#!/themominitiativ" target="_blank"&gt;Twitter&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.themominitiative.com/blog/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="144" src="http://i561.photobucket.com/albums/ss51/chrishollysmith/Mission-3.jpg" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="144" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kela&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-2088305277960632206?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2012/01/mom-initiative.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-6857120610218308335</guid><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jan 2012 21:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2012-01-09T16:39:52.259-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Family</category><title>The Engagement of Trae and Aubrey</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Trae and Aubrey are engaged!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;a href="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-dNVmdv49wdo/TwtcMEsLIRI/AAAAAAAABmw/aALb4CWUhbc/s1600-h/Cutest%252520Couple%252520Ever%25255B13%25255D.jpg"&gt;&lt;img alt="Cutest Couple Ever" border="0" height="270" src="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-WFQVYsqK0q8/TwtcMY7aWAI/AAAAAAAABm0/LOlBf1YA2YE/Cutest%252520Couple%252520Ever_thumb%25255B11%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: inline;" title="Cutest Couple Ever" width="312" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt;Very soon our daughter will be marrying Trae; &amp;nbsp;an awesomely wonderful young man! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt;They were introduced as a couple back in November with &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/11/connections-and-courtship.html" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;THIS&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt; post.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt;At this moment Aubrey is being strongly encouraged to start a blog, so I wont steal her thunder in telling her and Trae’s story.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Poor Richard'; font-size: large;"&gt;What I would like to share with you are a few engagement photos.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div class="wlWriterEditableSmartContent" id="scid:66721397-FF69-4ca6-AEC4-17E6B3208830:2b3263b0-14f2-473b-97f7-19c8c194e6fc" style="display: block; float: none; margin: 0px auto; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; width: 500px;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://skydrive.live.com/redir.aspx?cid=792d2a984fe47989&amp;amp;page=browse&amp;amp;resid=792D2A984FE47989!170&amp;amp;type=5" style="border: 0px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="View Trae + Aubrey" src="http://lh4.ggpht.com/-BOLnuCC3lsQ/TwtcMrsaj9I/AAAAAAAABm8/a_ft4SnUzfE/InlineRepresentation5437bbc7-3778-4272-9f1a-7e7bf5dff741%25255B8%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border: 0px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: right; width: 500px;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://skydrive.live.com/redir.aspx?cid=792d2a984fe47989&amp;amp;page=browse&amp;amp;resid=792D2A984FE47989!170&amp;amp;type=5"&gt;View Full Album&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class="wlWriterEditableSmartContent" id="scid:66721397-FF69-4ca6-AEC4-17E6B3208830:d807febe-9b96-486a-afc1-0928f22610f7" style="display: block; float: none; margin: 0px auto; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-top: 0px; width: 610px;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://skydrive.live.com/redir.aspx?cid=792d2a984fe47989&amp;amp;page=browse&amp;amp;resid=792D2A984FE47989!176&amp;amp;type=5" style="border: 0px;"&gt;&lt;img alt="View Trae + Aubrey II" src="http://lh4.ggpht.com/-hJN4ep28uUQ/TwtcNH1g4nI/AAAAAAAABnI/pNk9xqP3YzA/InlineRepresentation59820dcb-374c-4d20-8982-ce5cf2f17b38%25255B4%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border: 0px;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: right; width: 610px;"&gt;&lt;a href="https://skydrive.live.com/redir.aspx?cid=792d2a984fe47989&amp;amp;page=browse&amp;amp;resid=792D2A984FE47989!176&amp;amp;type=5"&gt;View Full Album&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Kela&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-6857120610218308335?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2012/01/engagement-of-trae-and-aubrey.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-WFQVYsqK0q8/TwtcMY7aWAI/AAAAAAAABm0/LOlBf1YA2YE/s72-c/Cutest%252520Couple%252520Ever_thumb%25255B11%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-7724145112833063336</guid><pubDate>Fri, 16 Dec 2011 18:45:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-12-16T15:09:57.392-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Marriage</category><title>An Annoying Post</title><description>&lt;a href="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-iMXEcZmus_U/TuuQVQC69nI/AAAAAAAABmg/OHrfpQYQKz4/s1600-h/image%25255B3%25255D.png"&gt;&lt;img align="left" alt="image" border="0" height="164" src="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-oqF5iOzVjeM/TuuQVjnxarI/AAAAAAAABmo/dFQXq3u4Yuk/image_thumb%25255B1%25255D.png?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" title="image" width="244" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;Having conversations with my soon-to-wed daughter today was quite funny and very real.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;Today, we talked about the “small stuff” of annoyances; you know, things like toothpaste…with her saying, “Momma, I wonder if he’ll leave the toothpaste cap off.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;I have to smile at that, and I’m sure that you’re nodding your head at remembering the same thing as a newlywed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;Aubrey knows that she wont be all giggly everyday (even though I’m sure her guy will find a way at some point during the day to make it so), but she does know that everyday will bring an opportunity to love her man even more!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;There are a few things that I’d like to share in handling possible conflicts..you know..the small stuff; as that’s what we’re talking about in this post.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Your husband is not your enemy.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;He isn’t really trying to hurt or irk you.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;He’s used to doing things a certain way and it wont automatically change once he puts a ring on it.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;He can’t read your mind. Talk about it. Don’t sulk.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Pray for good timing to bring it up.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Be quick to forgive.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Laugh it off…is it really THAT serious?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Don’t have to be right.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Grace, grace and more grace.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Remember that YOU have some things goin’ on that irk the snot outta him too! Work on YOU.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Through it all, remember RESPECT.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Don’t allow it to turn it into something big…that would thrill the enemy.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: large;"&gt;Now it’s time for me to go work on a few things myself!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;Living with Sword and Coffee,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;Kela&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: xx-small;"&gt;Photo Credit: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=1499" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: xx-small;"&gt;Ambro&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-7724145112833063336?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/12/annoying-post.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-oqF5iOzVjeM/TuuQVjnxarI/AAAAAAAABmo/dFQXq3u4Yuk/s72-c/image_thumb%25255B1%25255D.png?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>7</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-9157927103979339908</guid><pubDate>Wed, 07 Dec 2011 00:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-12-06T22:55:17.140-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Reviews</category><title>A Woman’s Guide to Fasting ~A Book Review</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.bethanyhouse.com/Book.asp?isbn=978-0-7642-0902-4" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="311" src="http://www.bethanyhouse.com/Media/PubComProductCatalog/9780764209024.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="201" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;A Woman’s Guide to Fasting by Lisa E. Nelson&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Published by Bethany House&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;It was truly a pleasure to read &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.bethanyhouse.com/Book.asp?isbn=978-0-7642-0902-4" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;A Woman’s Guide to Fasting&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;Even from a young age I’ve known about fasting and praying. I didn’t always understand the “why”. I knew that while fasting I was to use that time for prayer…but praying for what? Besides, my problems or issues weren’t THAT big.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;Over the years I’ve learned that there doesn’t have to be a problem or issue at all to fast. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;As Lisa Nelson simply puts it, &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“True biblical fasting is not about the external act of not eating; it is about the internal work of the heart seeking hard after God.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;Offering insights and realistic advice specifically for women, she answers vital questions such as:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;How do I fit fasting into a busy schedule? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;How should I prepare physically? Spiritually? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;What should I do--and expect--before, during, and after a fast? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;What cautions should I be aware of? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;What are the best ways to end a fast? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;How can I make the most out of a non-food fast?&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;In A Woman’s Guide to Fasting, Lisa shares not only the Why and the What, but also the How.&amp;nbsp; She gives great details to different time periods of fasting and levels of fasting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;What I like most about this guide to Fasting is that the focus isn’t totally on the “how to” but she strongly stresses the important of knowing that God has called you to a fast. Being led by the Holy Spirit is vital in fasting because a breakthrough in your walk with Christ is what is to be accomplished.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;Even if I don’t use this book solely as a guide to fasting, its a valuable tool in learning to get closer to God in the off-season of fasting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;A Woman’s Guide to Fasting isn’t an “over-your-head” kind of read. Lisa is practical, pointed and speaks in terms that are easy to understand without talking down to or condemning the reader. She’s gentle in her step by step guidance. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;Some of the reasons that fasting may be needed can be spiritual growth, intercessory prayer, spiritual warfare, in obedience to a call, or in response to a crisis. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;There are so many things that spoke directly to my heart while reading this book.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tahoma;"&gt;I’m honored to be able to share chapter 1 excerpt with you:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;center&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.scribd.com/doc/61473732" style="-x-system-font: none; display: block; font-size-adjust: none; font-stretch: normal; font: 14px helvetica,arial,sans-serif; margin: 12px auto 6px; text-decoration: underline;" title="View A Woman's Guide to Fasting on Scribd"&gt;A Woman's Guide to Fasting&lt;/a&gt;&lt;iframe class="scribd_iframe_embed" data-aspect-ratio="data-aspect-ratio" data-auto-height="true" frameborder="0" height="600" id="doc_75656" scrolling="no" src="http://www.scribd.com/embeds/61473732/content?start_page=1&amp;amp;view_mode=list" width="85%"&gt;&lt;/iframe&gt;&lt;/center&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;About: Lisa E. Nelson&lt;/strong&gt; has led retreats and workshops on fasting for several years. An active speaker and leader in Protestant Women of the Chapel, an international ministry to military spouses, she has worked as an attorney and university law teacher. Her husband, John, is a colonel in the United States Army. They have two children and live in Fairfax, Virginia.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;Where to Purchase:&lt;/strong&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.bethanyhouse.com/Book.asp?isbn=978-0-7642-0902-4" target="_blank"&gt;A Woman’s Guide to Fasting&lt;/a&gt; can be purchased at &lt;em&gt;Amazon, Christianbook.com, BarnesandNoble.com and your local bookstore and retails for $12.99&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-9157927103979339908?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/12/womans-guide-to-fasting-book-review.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-4613280748544819681</guid><pubDate>Sat, 19 Nov 2011 01:21:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-11-18T20:21:24.339-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Family</category><title>Connections and Courtship</title><description>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;There is a huge story to tell, but I’ll be sharing more details as time goes on.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;I’m here to tell &lt;em&gt;HER&lt;/em&gt; side of the story. In a moment you will be linked to &lt;em&gt;HIS&lt;/em&gt; side of the story…where they meet in the middle.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;I’d written before about our oldest daughter, Aubrey, committing to “&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/2010/02/shes-staying-in-castle.html" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stay in the Castle&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;”.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;Aubrey, just overcoming a breakup, decided to lay low and devote her time to getting closer to God; not seeking another relationship.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;Little did she know that God was working on some things. He wanted to bless His girl!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;"&gt;How the story began:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;I’d met Sandra at&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://loveaboundsathome.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Love Abounds at Home&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;about 2 years ago. She mentioned her son then, but Aubrey was a little too young for a long distance relationship.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;Some time passed. Sandra and I kept in touch through Facebook. I confided in her during Aubrey’s last relationship. She learned so much about my daughter during that time that she knew the ins and outs of Aubrey’s heart and spirit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;Sandra let some time pass (not very much. haha!!! You know I had to go there, Sandra!) before she presented her son again.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;I talked with Brian about it before we moved forward with the friend suggestion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;Read how it progressed at Sandra’s place…&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://loveaboundsathome.blogspot.com/2011/11/courtship-2-for-king-family-trae-aubrey.html"&gt;Courtship #2 For the King Family: Trae &amp;amp; Aubrey&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;img src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IjaZbC1KsGM/TsbKtM8MJCI/AAAAAAAAAkg/_Fs3Paakik8/s320/Courtship+4+BABY%2521%2521%2521.jpg" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-4613280748544819681?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/11/connections-and-courtship.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-IjaZbC1KsGM/TsbKtM8MJCI/AAAAAAAAAkg/_Fs3Paakik8/s72-c/Courtship+4+BABY%2521%2521%2521.jpg" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-3385418323171358572</guid><pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 18:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-11-04T14:20:09.303-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Faith</category><title>Where Your Worth Is, Young Woman</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=1786" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="talk to the hand" border="0" height="218" src="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-Q_79IcS-oJo/TrQr-nK_cbI/AAAAAAAABhI/ohl7PVJyvZw/talk%252520to%252520the%252520hand%25255B4%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: inline;" title="talk to the hand" width="267" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Young woman of God. Find your worth in your Creator.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Don’t settle for a continual trampled heart. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Please stop allowing your heart to be attacked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Too bad it doesn’t hurt bad enough for you to want better for yourself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;You refuse wise counsel and follow after the lust of your flesh.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;That guy will continue to use you because you allow it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;He whispers &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;intoxicating&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt; words in your ear.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;What he really is, is &lt;strong&gt;toxic&lt;/strong&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;That boy does not care for you. He doesn’t care for himself.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;The enemy is getting so much satisfaction of your being duped.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;What will be left?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Let it go. Let him go. Turn your back on him and stop looking over your shoulder.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Backbone. New mindset. Self-respect.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;strong&gt;Get you some! &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Yeah, I know it’ll be hard. It might be like ripping off a limb, &lt;strong&gt;BUT GOD&lt;/strong&gt; is the ultimate &lt;strong&gt;Restorer&lt;/strong&gt;. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Trust HIM. Be loved on BY HIM.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Girlfriend, toughen up and let that boy go! Your friends are so over the drama and you crying wolf.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Don’t follow your heart anymore! You’re allowing it to deceive you. Lead the thing. (go read Jeremiah 17:9-10 ).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;This could fall on a deaf ear…yet again, but I gotta say it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;You may never read this post, but I gotta say it! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;You may hate me…for a little while, but &lt;strong&gt;I gotta say it.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;Girl, you know I love you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #804000; font-family: Raavi; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;You need to love yourself more!&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #804000; font-family: Raavi; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Raavi; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Whackadoo; font-size: xx-small;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Image: Nutdanai Apikhomboonwaroot / FreeDigitalPhotos.net&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-3385418323171358572?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/11/where-your-worth-is-young-woman.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-Q_79IcS-oJo/TrQr-nK_cbI/AAAAAAAABhI/ohl7PVJyvZw/s72-c/talk%252520to%252520the%252520hand%25255B4%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-6151787602820074096</guid><pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 14:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-11-03T10:25:58.204-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Faith</category><title>Dreams, Plans, Goals and Critics</title><description>&lt;div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-MO2iibrCubo/TrKjqncwVdI/AAAAAAAABhA/2eQEBHOOv0I/s1600/wooden+stairs.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"&gt;&lt;img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-MO2iibrCubo/TrKjqncwVdI/AAAAAAAABhA/2eQEBHOOv0I/s320/wooden+stairs.jpg" width="213" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I read an article that came to my email this morning that is pretty impactful when it comes to moving forward in our dreams, plans and goals. The article addresses how we handle the haters and naysayers of where we’re trying to go.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I want to share that with you&lt;/strong&gt;:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Critics Throw Mud, but Lose Ground&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"&gt;The first and great commandment about critics is: &lt;em&gt;don’t let them scare you&lt;/em&gt;. &lt;strong&gt;No one can make you feel average without your permission.&lt;/strong&gt; Charles Dodgson said, “If you limit your actions in life to things that nobody could possibly find fault with, you will not do much.” Nothing significant has ever been accomplished without controversy or criticism.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;When you allow other people’s words to stop you, they will. To succeed in life you must overcome the many efforts of others to pull you down. Don’t be afraid of what others say about you. Instead follow what Proverbs says, “Fear of man is a dangerous trap, but to trust in God means safety.”&lt;strong&gt; If you think more about what other people think of you, you’ll have more confidence in their opinion than you have in your own. Don’t let your life depend on the permission and opinion of others.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"&gt;Christopher Morley said, “The truth is, a critic is like a gong at a railroad crossing, clanging loudly and vainly as the train goes by.” Many great ideas have been lost because those who had them couldn’t stand the criticism and gave up. Know this: a critic is simply someone who finds fault without a search warrant. Critics not only expect the worst, but make the worst of what happens. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;When you make your mark in life, you always attract erasers. Great minds discuss ideas, good minds discuss events, small minds discuss other people.&lt;/strong&gt; You will never move up if you are continually running someone down.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;Remember this, if you are afraid of criticism, you will die doing nothing. If you want a place in the sun, you will have to expect some blisters and sand kicked in your face. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Times New Roman';"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Criticism is a compliment when you know what you’re doing is right.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;- John Mason, from the book Know Your Limits, Then Ignore Them&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Kela&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 13px; line-height: 20px;"&gt;Image: Michal Marcol / FreeDigitalPhotos.net&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-6151787602820074096?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/11/dreams-plans-goals-and-critics.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-MO2iibrCubo/TrKjqncwVdI/AAAAAAAABhA/2eQEBHOOv0I/s72-c/wooden+stairs.jpg" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-1094632597443042058</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-13T05:00:06.968-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: Information Only?</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;The two words 'information' and&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;'communication' are often used&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;interchangeably, but they&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;signify quite different things.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;Information is giving out;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;communication&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;is getting&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #004040;"&gt;through.&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Pea Tonya'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Sydney J. Harris&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="370" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="247" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-size: small;"&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-size: small;"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-size: small;"&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Kela&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-1094632597443042058?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-information.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-5395422474484619325</guid><pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2011 15:13:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-10T11:13:18.830-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: Resources</title><description>&lt;b&gt;I’m just back from a major business conference and am on a high this morning. My husband and I have specific goals in mind and are determined to be diligent in completing them. We can’t not!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;One of the highlights of the weekend was having the privilege to hear Dr. John Maxwell live. We were introduced to his new book, 5 Levels of Leadership, this weekend.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Wanna know a cool thing?? It isn’t even released to the public yet!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;We got first dibs!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;That new book isn’t what this post is about. There is another book of Dr. Maxwell’s that has been on my desk for months now. I already knew the importance of the subject matter, but didn’t take it too seriously; until now.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;I will be getting past the introduction this time and completing (and learning from) the book,&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0785214259/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;tag=purwhaisexc-20&amp;amp;linkCode=as2&amp;amp;camp=217145&amp;amp;creative=399369&amp;amp;creativeASIN=0785214259"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Shruti; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Everyone Communicates, Few Connect: What the Most Effective People Do Differently&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;img alt="" border="0" height="1" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=purwhaisexc-20&amp;amp;l=as2&amp;amp;o=1&amp;amp;a=0785214259&amp;amp;camp=217145&amp;amp;creative=399369" style="border-bottom-style: none !important; border-left-style: none !important; border-right-style: none !important; border-top-style: none !important; margin: 0px;" width="1" /&gt; &lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
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&lt;img align="left" alt="Click to Close (Everyone Communicates, Few Connect by John C. Maxwell)" height="256" src="http://www.thomasnelson.com/CPRImages/ProductLarge/1400202558.jpg" style="display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" width="179" /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Maxwell share the Five Principles and Five Practices to develop the crucial skill of connecting, including: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Finding common ground&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Keeping your communication simple&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Capturing people’s interest&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Inspiring people&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Staying authentic in all your relationships&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Sounds like a great read!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Hey! I am doing 31 Days of Communication, right? What better book to complete this month than that?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="370" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="247" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea BethC';"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;          &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;          &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
The book title mentioned above is linked to my Amazon.com affiliate link.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-5395422474484619325?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-resources.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-3230090000451885525</guid><pubDate>Thu, 06 Oct 2011 10:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-06T09:38:17.667-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: The Way I Meant It</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;“If I say something that can be&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;interpreted in two ways, and on of&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;the ways makes you sad or&amp;nbsp;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Steele'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;angry, I meant the other way.”&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tunga; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tunga; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;-from Men Are Like Waffles, Women Are Like Spaghetti by Bill and Pam Farrel&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Tunga; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;So that you know that I’m a woman that gets it wrong sometimes; YES, my husband has used this quote on me a time or two…&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="370" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="247" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;     &lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea BethC';"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;          &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;          &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea BethC';"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400000; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;  &lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-3230090000451885525?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-way-i-meant-it.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-4637494975064801987</guid><pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2011 10:30:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-05T06:30:00.972-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Marriage</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: I’m Angry!</title><description>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;THIS IS ME COMMUNICATING TO YOU THAT I AM&lt;/span&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: red; font-family: 'Pea Zobrist';"&gt;ANGRY&lt;/span&gt;!!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Why am I so angry? Whom am I angry at?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;SATAN!!! That’s who and what!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Satan being ALLOWED to run roughshod all over God’s children!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Angry that marriages are ALLOWED to be torn apart!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Dear friends going through the crap of the pain and ugliness of being left in the turmoil of what seems to be an inevitable separation.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;I’m ANGRY because my heart is SO passionate about marriages. When hurt strikes so close to me, my whole being just wants to scream and shout…&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: x-large;"&gt;GOD HATES DIVORCE!&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;MAN UP! Stop being such a coward! &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Have you forgotten your covenant? Did you even know that you HAVE a covenant to your wife as you do our God? &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Work it out! Get help! &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;You have no “just cause” to divorce her! &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Stop living on how you “feel”. You aren’t exempt from living out what God calls you to! &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Stop walking in the flesh…&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;…but he doesn’t hear me. He’s hardened his heart toward the wife of his youth!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;I’m ANGRY! SAD!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Pray for my dear friends, please. God knows them by name.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="370" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="247" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: purple; font-size: x-small;"&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;&lt;span style="color: purple; font-size: x-small;"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: purple; font-size: x-small;"&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: purple; font-size: x-small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-4637494975064801987?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-im-angry.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-7383522577664857546</guid><pubDate>Tue, 04 Oct 2011 14:11:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-04T10:11:17.263-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: Crack the Code</title><description>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;If you are my friend on Facebook or follow me on Twitter, you may see that I share a &lt;strong&gt;LOT &lt;/strong&gt;of marriage quotes and videos. Today is no exception on my Pursuing What Is Excellent, either!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;I want to share a mini-series from Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, the founder of Love and Respect Ministries. He is one of the foremost marriage communications authors and I have totally learned so much from his book, Love and Respect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Enjoy the messages. Take notes. Apply. Love. Communicate!!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.6300585/k.3DB9/Cracking_the_Communication_Code.htm"&gt;CRACKING THE&amp;nbsp;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.familylife.com/site/c.dnJHKLNnFoG/b.6300585/k.3DB9/Cracking_the_Communication_Code.htm"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;COMMUNICATION CODE&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="333" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="222" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;    &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&amp;nbsp;   &lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Kela&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-7383522577664857546?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-crack-code.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-3235741427780114065</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2011 14:50:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-03T10:50:22.078-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: Discouraging Word</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara';"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara';"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;em&gt;“Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.”&lt;/em&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara';"&gt;Ephesians 4:29&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara';"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tara'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="left"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://lh4.ggpht.com/-YF6WxUkMpzc/TonKNSwdxzI/AAAAAAAABfQ/SpIjBdKar5Q/s1600-h/sadness%25255B5%25255D.jpg"&gt;&lt;img align="left" alt="sadness" border="0" height="213" src="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-Z4zYM2sF5f8/TonKNjg6FAI/AAAAAAAABfU/mMcvds9a5HY/sadness_thumb%25255B3%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" title="sadness" width="151" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; Today I am sharing for a very valuable resource. JoJo Tabares, owner of &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://artofeloquence.com/blog"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Art of Eloquence&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;, beautifully write in “A Discouraging Word” how even our half-heartedness in communication can have major impact on others. If someone thinks its important enough to share something with you, maybe we should value that person enough to stop and listen.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Listed are the links to the two articles in the series:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://artofeloquence.com/blog/discouraging-word/"&gt;A Discouraging Word&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://artofeloquence.com/blog/handling-discouragement/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How to Handle a Discouraging Word&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="333" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="222" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: xx-small;"&gt;Image: Stuart Miles / FreeDigitalPhotos.net&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-3235741427780114065?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-discouraging.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-Z4zYM2sF5f8/TonKNjg6FAI/AAAAAAAABfU/mMcvds9a5HY/s72-c/sadness_thumb%25255B3%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-3461512703750192115</guid><pubDate>Mon, 03 Oct 2011 14:29:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-03T11:02:25.419-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: Go to God’s Word</title><description>&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Swimmy'; font-size: large;"&gt;He who guards his lips guards his life, but he who speaks rashly will come to ruin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Patti'; font-size: medium;"&gt;Proverbs 13:3&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Pea Patti'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="276" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="184" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: medium;"&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-3461512703750192115?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-go-to-gods.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-2969320016248421614</guid><pubDate>Sat, 01 Oct 2011 13:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-01T09:54:11.902-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>~Day 1~ 31 Days of Communication: No Mistaking</title><description>&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;"Do not mistake speaking for&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;communicating. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;One involves an ability and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;the other mastery.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tunga; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Tunga; font-size: medium;"&gt;~JoJo Tabares &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://artofeloquence.com/index.php"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Tunga; font-size: medium;"&gt;Art of Eloquence&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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What better way to start October’s subject off here at Pursuing What Is Excellent than with that quote above. It beautifully sums up the difference speaking and communication. &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://www.kelanellums.com/search/label/31%20Days%20of%20Communication"&gt;&lt;img align="left" alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="303" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" width="203" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Continue to join me each day in October as I give my thoughts on and share from others about communication. Then hop on over to &lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/"&gt;Life with 3 Boybarians&lt;/a&gt; to see other bloggers that have joined the 31 Days challenge! The subjects are vast and very interesting!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: #400040; font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-2969320016248421614?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/10/31-days-of-communication-no-mistaking.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-1559105972350845951</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Sep 2011 22:00:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-24T22:17:25.648-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Linkin' Up</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">31 Days of Communication</category><title>31 Days of Communication: Intro</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.blogger.com/www.kelanellums.com" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="400" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/31daysofcommunication.gif" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="266" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;October seems to be the time when more reflection of the year takes place; a season of growth because to colder weather brings us back inside to the warmth of home; contemplation.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;I’m linking up for 31 Days in October and will be talking about…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;Communication! It’s something that we all have to do; whether its very well or rather badly!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;Some days will be a little on the meaty side. Some days just a quote or a photo. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea Tiphanie'; font-size: large;"&gt;How to join in:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Where did this idea come from? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thenester.com/2011/09/31-days-of-change-are-you-in.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;The Nester&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;! Where will I be linking? With &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://my3boybarians.com/2011/09/blog-linky-party-31-days-october-2011-edition/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Darcy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt; (My Life With 3 Barbarians).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;This challenge is open to anyone that has a blog and has a passion for…or that just likes to um…&lt;strike&gt;ramble&lt;/strike&gt; talk about a single subject.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-1559105972350845951?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/09/31-days-of-communication-intro.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-8952107511398548959</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Sep 2011 22:34:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-21T18:34:24.149-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Home Education</category><title>The Old Schoolhouse Birthday Bash</title><description>&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href="http://blog.thehomeschoolmagazine.com/category/blog-hop/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://trish.theoldhomeschoolhouse.com/christie_files/10thBirthday/TOSBlogHop200x259.jpg" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;   &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://thehomeschoolmagazine.com/"&gt;The Old Schoolhouse&lt;/a&gt; was one of the very first resources that I was introduced to when we began our home education journey over 5 years ago. I relied on the knowledge of the writers and articles in the magazine and the wonderful selection of curriculum to purchase (the free shipping helped!)&lt;br /&gt;
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Two years ago I was blessed to be able to participate on The TOS Homeschool Crew to use and review products and curriculum.&lt;br /&gt;
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I’m honored again to be invited to be a part of The Schoolhouse Moms Squad to be on the front line to share that The Old Schoolhouse is crankin’ out.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;The Old Schoolhouse® Magazine is celebrating their 10th anniversary with a Birthday Bash. You won't want to miss the excitement and the FREEBIES.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;
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&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Visit TOS's new &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;a href="http://blog.thehomeschoolmagazine.com/birthday-bash/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Homeschooling with Heart blog&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt; and learn about three exciting Birthday Bash events featuring freebies, daily door prizes, a meet-and greet with TOS's new columnists, and loads of fun for everyone!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Read all about &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;a href="http://thehomeschoolmagazine.com/BirthdayBash/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;TOS's new interactive digital magazine&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt; with more than double the content. Discover the amazing features the magazine will have in January as TOS &lt;em&gt;moves from a printed quarterly to a monthly digital publication.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;
&amp;nbsp;&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Get 9 complete unit studies with the big TOS FREEBIE: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;a href="http://blog.thehomeschoolmagazine.com/?page_id=355"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;The Curiosity Files™ 9 Pack E-Book Bundle&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;. These fascinating science units help children discover some unusually interesting subjects . . . you know, the unfamiliar, zany, and strange things of nature that kids are so attracted to Everyone who goes to this link will receive the complete set FREE!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue', Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;Enjoy reading the free &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;a href="http://www.thehomeschoolmagazine-digital.com/thehomeschoolmagazine/freegift/#pg2[L1]"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;TOS Summer digital issue&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Rockwell; font-size: medium;"&gt;Hope to see you at our Birthday Bash celebrations! You won't want to miss a minute of the fun, freebies, door prizes, and great featured guests! See you there.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href="http://blog.thehomeschoolmagazine.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="193" src="http://i256.photobucket.com/albums/hh171/knellums/MomSquad200x259.jpg" style="display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" width="149" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;  &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-8952107511398548959?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/09/old-schoolhouse-birthday-bash.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-4387458061941723702</guid><pubDate>Tue, 20 Sep 2011 21:23:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-24T16:50:48.527-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Faith</category><title>Don't Think Too Much</title><description>&lt;a href="http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=2243"&gt;&lt;img alt="Approved" border="0" height="191" src="http://lh4.ggpht.com/-ywafLNctN84/TnkC84uX4VI/AAAAAAAABfM/yBSj83l7avA/Approved%25255B5%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" title="Approved" width="244" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I told a friend that I was putting myself on blast with this post. Here goes:&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I’ve been accused of something by two of my loved ones that I’m finally coming to realize is true…I’m an over thinker!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Being a quiet person doesn’t always have the best benefits. The absence of sound coming out of my mouth means that there is sometimes a lot of chatter going on in my head.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I had to apologize to my oldest daughter for passing that ugly trait on! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;She told me, “NOW I see where I get it from! I over-think situations and start to become worried or doubtful.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Its sad to say that I’ve probably done her so much more damage than either one of us ever thought would happen!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;There is a tendency to over-process EVERYTHING. The next thing that happens is tons of questions, or questioning. Those that are around us see the extreme and excess. Thankfully my husband has called me on it a couple times.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I retreat when I feel that I’ve said something that someone else may take the wrong way…even when it’s perfectly harmless.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Doubt creeps in too often.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Wrongly reading other’s actions and motives can be detrimental at times.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I wonder too often, “What did they mean by that statement?”. “Did they mean to use that&amp;nbsp;punctuation&amp;nbsp;mark?”. “Why is it taking them so long to answer back? Do I bother them too much?” “Do I ask too many questions?”. "He’s being too quiet. Is he upset with me? Is everything okay with us?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I’ve even told my daughter these next two things. I try. I really do try to remember this for myself:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Your perception is your reality, but is it the truth? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Texting (email, IM, tweeting, facebook msg. [anything not involving voice or tone]) is for information; not communication. If you’re having an issue, pick up the phone or meet and talk it out. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I can’t tell you how many books I’m reading on dealing with emotions and approval addiction! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Okay…I can tell you exactly how many, and I’ll list them later.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Those are the roots of my over-thinking. Wanting to look my best for others (approval addiction) and letting my emotions rule me. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;That mindset is born out of &lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;fear&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;. Looks like they go hand in hand, huh?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;This is the time to take our cue from God’s Word:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Smashtastic'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;For God did not give us a spirit of timidity (of cowardice, of craven and cringing and fawning fear), but [He has give us a spirit] of power and of love and of a calm and well-balanced mind and discipline and self-control.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Pea Smashtastic'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;2 Timothy 1:7&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;God has given us the ability to feel and think, but I’m sure that He didn’t mean for us to obsess over our thoughts; which oft times produce negative emotions.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Negative emotions lead us to say or do negative things that can have a lasting impact on our lives and those around us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Some consequences that come from it can be reconciled, other things can seem to be beyond repair &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;in our eyes&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I think that I’ll hold to the words of a friend that said,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt; &lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy';"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“haha well, God will always work everything out”.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'CAC One Seventy';"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;That is true. We have His Word as a guide to help us deal with ALL things.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;This quote was placed on &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://pinterest.com/pin/192306828/"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Pinterest&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt; just for me!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: purple; font-family: 'Pea Walker'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Don’t think &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="color: purple; font-family: 'Pea Walker'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;too much!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;You’ll create a problem&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;that wasn’t even there &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;in the first place.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;I’m quite certain that I’ll be revisiting this subject; as I’ve got some growing to do. I’ll leave you with a quote that spoke volumes to me:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Perpetua Titling MT'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: purple;"&gt;Which is worse:&lt;/span&gt; the pain of change or the pain of never changing? ~ Joyce Meyer&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Resources:&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;     &lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;So Long, Insecurity:You’ve Been a Bad Friend to Us by Beth Moore&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;     &lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Living Beyond Your Feelings by Joyce Meyer&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;     &lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Approval Addiction by Joyce Meyer&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;     &lt;div align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;i&gt;Personality Plus:How to Understand Others by Understanding Yourself by Florence Littauer&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: xx-small;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: xx-small;"&gt;Photo Credit: Image: basketman / FreeDigitalPhotos.net&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-4387458061941723702?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/09/dont-think-too-much.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh4.ggpht.com/-ywafLNctN84/TnkC84uX4VI/AAAAAAAABfM/yBSj83l7avA/s72-c/Approved%25255B5%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-7303331887995551004</guid><pubDate>Mon, 19 Sep 2011 12:43:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-19T08:43:57.219-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Family</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Faith</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Home Education</category><title>Who Is Her Influence?</title><description>&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thehomeschoolvillage.com/" target="_blank"&gt;&lt;img border="0" src="http://i678.photobucket.com/albums/vv146/homeschoolcreations/HSVillageButton.jpg" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" title="Homeschool Village" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Who is pouring into or speaking into your daughter’s life? Are they coming straight for the Word of God in their counsel?&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Whackadoo; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I’m at The Homeschool Village today! &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Whackadoo; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Join me there to see what I have to share about &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thehomeschoolvillage.com/2011/09/the-right-influence.html"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Right Influence for Teenage Girls.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-7303331887995551004?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/09/who-is-her-influence.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-668029464809725816</guid><pubDate>Tue, 06 Sep 2011 22:07:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-06T18:07:23.611-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Faith</category><title>Pouring Out</title><description>&lt;a href="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-t7n0AR6TxGY/TmaYL3sLPcI/AAAAAAAABfE/JIJyDYEWW5c/s1600-h/54911u4f7qq3w5h%25255B5%25255D.jpg"&gt;&lt;img alt="54911u4f7qq3w5h" border="0" height="237" src="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-KrNW2Cz1rrs/TmaYMR4uQ7I/AAAAAAAABfI/6dW5bHiBb5M/54911u4f7qq3w5h_thumb%25255B3%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" title="54911u4f7qq3w5h" width="260" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Life-giving words spoken over me&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Blessings&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Biblical truths&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Hunger for God’s truth&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Encouragement&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Challenge&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Friendship&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mentorship&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Prayer&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Pristina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Songs of praise&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Those words describe what women have poured into my life. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea Mary-Katie Skinny'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea Mary-Katie Skinny';"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Influence&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;I have been challenged lately.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Keeping all that I’ve learned tucked on the inside is no longer an option. I have to… I &lt;em&gt;get&lt;/em&gt; to pour myself out. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Its as if others are reaching deep down to make me pull out what is inside me; like they’re saying, “Come on girl, I know you have something to share with me. Don’t hold back.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Moments like that make me grateful AND apprehensive. &lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Lord! I don’t know how I’m living this life sometimes much less helping someone in theirs! &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Me? A woman of very few words (spoken aloud, that is)?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;That doesn’t matter to God. He didn’t call this girl to be comfortable royalty. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;There is a reason that I’m asked question after question…because the answers ARE inside me. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;Me? A mentor? Mentoring someone other than my own daughters?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;I don’t go seeking. I’m found.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;On the job “training” and victory is all that I can offer. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;No plaques or certificates hang on my wall that say I’m qualified to help someone, but plenty lessons learned hang on my heart.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;When I’ve prayed, “Lord, use me today.” I didn’t know that His answer to my prayer would be to minister to another woman’s heart. I was thinking that maybe I could just smile at a neighbor, buy someone a soda, or write something cool on my facebook wall. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;I never pretend to know all the answers! The Bible is my first line of defense. My pat response is, “Let’s see what the Word has to say about this.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;I've&amp;nbsp;been blessed to know where to find and share resources; whether its other women, books, audio, websites or any other media. As others want to learn from me, I &lt;em&gt;MUST&lt;/em&gt; be continually learning. I don’t want my past experiences to be the only thing that I can pull from. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;The daily exchange of my flesh put to death for the Holy Spirit reigning in my being is the thing pursued. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;How are you pouring out? Do you share what God has done, is doing in your life? Do you feel that you have to have it all together before you can offer anything? Are you focused on having a platform as opposed to being one-on-one,&amp;nbsp; behind the scenes? &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Answer those questions for yourself. See if you’re missing out on an opportunity to pour.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: xx-small;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Photo Credit: &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.freedigitalphotos.net/images/view_photog.php?photogid=2664"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: xx-small;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Image: Stuart Miles / FreeDigitalPhotos.net&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-668029464809725816?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/09/pouring-out.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh6.ggpht.com/-KrNW2Cz1rrs/TmaYMR4uQ7I/AAAAAAAABfI/6dW5bHiBb5M/s72-c/54911u4f7qq3w5h_thumb%25255B3%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-1805007836955983315</guid><pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 11:35:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-09-05T17:24:34.533-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Family</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Home Education</category><title>Featured Today: Portraying Godliness Myself</title><description>&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;It’s easy to give instruction to young women on the &lt;em&gt;do’s and don’t's&lt;/em&gt; of life, but how easy is it for the “advice-giver” to follow?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;I totally get that as a mother rearing her daughters we want better for them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Perpetua; font-size: large;"&gt;At the same time…am I &lt;em&gt;“doing the better”&lt;/em&gt;?…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;You’ll find me at &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thehomeschoolvillage.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Angelina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Homeschool Village&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt; today! Home educator or not, this post deals with the heart and our daily walk with Christ. Find the rest of the post &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thehomeschoolvillage.com/2011/08/portraying-godliness-myself.html"&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: Angelina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;HERE&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;Kela&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-1805007836955983315?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/08/featured-today-portraying-godliness.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-6015446172518356689</guid><pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2011 20:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-08-14T16:36:07.961-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Home Education</category><title>Homeschool Creation: Weekly Homeschool Planner ~ Review!</title><description>&lt;a href="http://homeschoolcreations.com/Homeschool-Planner.html"&gt;&lt;img align="left" alt="image" border="0" height="368" src="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-xB_7r5koRjo/Tkgw-YaXVgI/AAAAAAAABc8/lgh1CuTG1Ts/image%25255B7%25255D.png?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom-width: 0px; border-left-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-top-width: 0px; display: inline; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px;" title="image" width="285" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;Weekly Homeschool Planner ~      &lt;br /&gt;
Manage and Organize Your       &lt;br /&gt;
Homeschool Day&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;Tired of looking for a brand-new homeschool        &lt;br /&gt;
planner each year? What if you could buy         &lt;br /&gt;
ONE planner, type in your plans, save them         &lt;br /&gt;
and use the same planner year after year?&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://homeschoolcreations.blogspot.com/"&gt;-Jolanthe&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;I have seen Jolanthe’s name around the online homeschool community for a number of years. I’ve followed &lt;a href="http://homeschoolcreations.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Angelina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Homeschool Creations&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; all this time and have gleaned valuable information, insight and inspiration.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;When I got a personal invite to review her &lt;a href="http://homeschoolcreations.com/Homeschool-Planner.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Angelina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;Weekly Homeschool Planner&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, I was overjoyed!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Jolanthe offers so much and the Homeschool planner doesn’t disappoint!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;The Weekly Homeschool Planner; 138 pages, which are fully editable PDF version contents:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Teen; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Teen;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;-Homeschooling Requirements and Testing Results           &lt;br /&gt;
-Attendance Sheets            &lt;br /&gt;
-12 blank Month-at-a-Glance pages            &lt;br /&gt;
-40 weeks of Weekly Plan and Journal Notes            &lt;br /&gt;
-Curriculum Planning            &lt;br /&gt;
-Yearly Plans and Evaluation            &lt;br /&gt;
-Field Trip/Event Plan            &lt;br /&gt;
-Editable Chore charts            &lt;br /&gt;
-Editable Main Dish Menu Planner            &lt;br /&gt;
-Editable Daily “To Do” Lists            &lt;br /&gt;
-Preschool Planning Pages            &lt;br /&gt;
-Resources &amp;amp; Links            &lt;br /&gt;
-Additional Notes            &lt;br /&gt;
-Contacts&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;I search every year the “the next best” planner for keeping track with my children’s assignments and progress. I know that I will get the most use out of the Weekly Plan and Journal Notes and Curriculum Planning pages. I finally found the one that I like with using the Weekly Homeschool Planner!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;If you’re looking for a planner this school year, I highly recommend Weekly Homeschool Planner. &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Jolanthe has made it easier for you to decide that you like the planner by offering a sample &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://homeschoolcreations.com/files/Sample_Weekly_Homeschool_Planner.pdf"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Angelina; font-size: x-large;"&gt;HERE&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;For a one time charge of $20, you can get years of use out of this planner.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Go ahead! Purchase one! You know you’ve been wanting to!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Kela&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-size: x-small;"&gt;Disclaimer: I received a free pdf copy of Weekly Homeschool Planner for review. The views/opinions here are mine and I was not asked to write a specific type of review. If I like it; I say so. If I don’t like it; I say so.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-6015446172518356689?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/08/homeschool-creation-weekly-homeschool.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-xB_7r5koRjo/Tkgw-YaXVgI/AAAAAAAABc8/lgh1CuTG1Ts/s72-c/image%25255B7%25255D.png?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-513133516684563625</guid><pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 22:57:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-01T15:04:10.364-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Family</category><title>Being Momma to Young Ladies</title><description>&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;It’s no secret that I love my children! I love them enough to discipline, disciple, mentor and get in their face when necessary (which isn’t often).&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;God’s blessed hand is on our family. We let Him take the lead, and we’re seeing the fruit that started from the root. God; our foundation. &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Several years ago as our oldest daughters began maturing, my husband told me, “I don’t know anything about raising a girl, because I ain’t one.” I knew exactly what he meant…who else can teach a girl to become a woman better than her own momma? &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;I saw this as a continuation of what I was already doing with them. Has it always gone right? NO! Have we learned from it and grown? YEP! Have you read the title of my blog lately?! Key word: Pursuing!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;My friend, Stef, co-founder of &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thehomeschoolvillage.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Homeschool Village&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt; asked me to begin writing about character training and our high school daughters. I was glad that she didn’t ask me to write about academics! She knew…&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;This prompted me to think more about the current “events” going on in our home.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;What I want to start sharing here, at my place, are more specifics (without invading anyone’s privacy) of how we’re doing life in the Nellums’ home.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: 'Book Antiqua'; font-size: medium;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stick around because another post is coming quickly. I’m ready to jump in to a beautiful story that will unfold before your eyes…&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;strong&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;Kela&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-513133516684563625?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/07/being-momma-to-young-ladies.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4654322235244965199.post-2586165222671447437</guid><pubDate>Sun, 24 Jul 2011 21:41:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-07-26T17:45:25.741-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Family</category><title>SHE IS 16!!</title><description>&lt;a href="http://lh5.ggpht.com/-9iHVWH_8MIc/Ti80j3NimeI/AAAAAAAABck/GuIBxFBTbKE/s1600-h/June%25252022%2525202011%252520033%25255B5%25255D.jpg"&gt;&lt;img alt="June 22 2011 033" border="0" height="241" src="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-GDGiRqqw-7w/Ti80kEwHBzI/AAAAAAAABco/tFlIir6yH5A/June%25252022%2525202011%252520033_thumb%25255B3%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" style="border-bottom: 0px; border-left: 0px; border-right: 0px; border-top: 0px; display: block; float: none; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" title="June 22 2011 033" width="244" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Briah-Miah is what we affectionately call her. We used to shorten her name, Briahna, to “Briah”, but call her that now and she won’t answer..and she has every right!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;She is gorgeous, I tell ya!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Briahna just celebrated her 16th Birthday. My momma heart shouts with joy when I think of her. She has a story. A story so beautiful that only she will tell in due time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;I wanted to take this time to tell her&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: blue; font-family: 'Pea Minna'; font-size: x-large;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: medium;"&gt;Momma loves you, girly!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;Living With Sword and Coffee,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;span style="color: maroon; font-family: 'Pea BethC'; font-size: large;"&gt;Kela&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4654322235244965199-2586165222671447437?l=www.kelanellums.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</description><link>http://www.kelanellums.com/2011/07/she-is-16.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Kela)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="http://lh3.ggpht.com/-GDGiRqqw-7w/Ti80kEwHBzI/AAAAAAAABco/tFlIir6yH5A/s72-c/June%25252022%2525202011%252520033_thumb%25255B3%25255D.jpg?imgmax=800" height="72" width="72" /></item></channel></rss>

