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Do it Unto the Lord

2011-09-28T07:10:00.000-07:00

This morning, I wrote a blog-post on my website that talked about the importance of being happy for other's. The scripture Romans 12:15 struck me as I was reading morning inspiration from my great friend Tricia Goyer's blog. In the first paragraph, I listed a few of my favorite bloggers who's emails greatly inspire me. Well, I read another one from my sister Dianna Hobbs that really spoke volumes to me with strong conviction and a timely challenge.

I love how God speaks to me.

Dianna talked about how important it is for us to do what we do unto the Lord and not unto man. In fact, she quoted one of my favorite bible verses found in Colossians:

"Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men." {Colossians 3:23}

This was a motto scripture I used on my blog a few years ago. And it is still embedded in my heart as I press forward on this writing journey. Unfortunately, sometimes I can get distracted from this because of promoting the work he's given me to share. Juggling all of the responsibility that comes along with writing books and magazine articles can be overwhelming at times. And really, some days I just want to stop and say I quit. Then, God graciously reminds me that I am on track, that he is giving me the strength to keep going it {even with three small children} and to just keep my eyes on Him while continually acknowledging him in all things.

It's a great prayer of mine every single day. "Lord, what would you have me do today?" "I just want you to be glorified in my life." In my mind, I sound like a broken record. And yet, I pour my heart out each time I pray those things because I mean them. Well, these words spill from my lips regarding one of the toughest projects I'm writing that I know without a doubt he's called me to share.

It's a memoir about my with experience child-loss and it is rattling my world right now. After tussling with the idea of it and flat out asking God if I could write something else, I finally bowed in obedience to his command. But there is something beautiful happening as I write this. I can't describe it and I can't put my finger on it. As I am writing this book, I am crying, praying and bleeding on these pages. And even though reflecting on the pain I once endured isn't the easiest, I'm going to continue on because I'm doing this unto the Lord-- knowing He has a great purpose for it.

During your journey, have you ever experienced a tough moment where you just wanted to stop? Do you find it easy to do your task unto the Lord? I'd love for you to share your experience with me.

Writing: My Top 5 Ways I Get It Done

2011-07-12T08:43:00.000-07:00

I have a lot of laugh out loud moments in my life; like when my children do something very "toddler-like". Well, another 'LOL' moment for me is when I'm asked how I write so much with three small children. Truthfully, it's hard work and many who don't do this have no idea what's involved. Here, I'd like to share the top five ways I attempt to get writing done.

1. Prayer: Life is nothing without it. I always strive for a better prayer life. God desires our communication with him and he cares deeply about how we feel. Sometimes we forget that. I have to remind myself to consult with God during every season in my life, during the good time and the painfully ailing ones. Prayer always puts things in perspective for me.

2. Organizing my life: As of this post, I am married with three small children under 4 years old. (one is almost four). They are all very demanding. Throughout the day, I move from nursing a baby to wiping spills, coloring, arts and crafts, abc's and potty training. BUSY! And that's just the mommy part. I'm a wife too who cares deeply about my husband and my home. So, after the mommy stuff (or rather, in between the mommy stuff) I'm washing clothes, cleaning and cooking. Again, BUSY! However, I have to set aside blocks of time to get work done since I am a freelance writer. Last year God was teaching me how to balance this life. This year, he's guiding my steps as I move forward. I'm thankful. It's hard sometimes, but definitely not too hard for God.

3. Addressing my writing as a ministry and business: I struggled with this for a little while. How can I view ministry as a business? I wondered. Well, this was another thing God was showing me. I don't pay the primary bills in the house, but writing does provide an extra source of income. In fact, the virtuous woman helped contribute financially. (See Proverbs 31:10-31) My husband works hard at providing for us and God has been faithful to him. But, since I am a stay at home mom, I personally wanted to make sure I contributed in some way. Now, the messages God gives me to share is definitely for ministry purposes first and not for financial gain. But, now that I have three small children, I do want and need to sell books! So, my writing books and freelance writing helps with that. My prayer is as Job's was. (see Job 1:10). Lord, bless the work of my hands.

4. Take small infrequent breaks: This is the part that really helps a lot. I have to make myself take short breaks through the week because if not, I'll just keep going and going. Nice breaks allow me the time to paint, have unrestricted time with my children and my husband. It also gives me the chance to do other things to enjoy life. Can't always be all work and no play. The Sabbath is perfect for this because it grants me a day. But, throughout the week, I like to pause and play just to clear my mind from the noise of work.

5. Persevere: It gets hard sometimes. With Freelance writing, there's rejection letters and with book writing and seeking publication there's the same coupled with deadlines and a host of other things. But, you have to keep moving forward no matter what. Be not weary in well-doing, Galatians 6:9.

Whatever it is that you're doing, I want to encourage you to keep moving forward. Pray that God gives you peace, joy and the motivation needed to press forward against all odds. The Holy Spirit will give you direction and speak to you specifically about your life. Just ask him to. There are challenges everywhere, but greater is He...

With Love,

Kennisha

The Balancing Act Part 1: Saying Yes

2010-10-28T07:16:00.000-07:00

Dear Friends,

It has been months since I have blogged. I've missed you dearly. So much has been going on in my life. This pregnancy has been a wild ride for me, it seems. From previously dealing with high blood pressure when I was postpartum with my daughter (who is now about 16 months old) to dealing with very low blood pressure the 2nd trimester in this pregnancy. And then the big move into our new house, getting adjusted and trying to squeeze in writing for the sequel of my novel Awakened that's entitled "Uncovered" as well as for my new columns the Lord has graciously given me the opportunity to write for. It has been B-U-S-Y over here. But, I'm writing with a grateful heart with everything the Lord has and is doing in my life. I'm seven months along with a baby girl and am praying through the rest of this pregnancy and for a healthy baby and mommy after delivery in January.

I'm working on creating a blogging schedule. At one point I was blogging pretty consistently...more like every day. One of the things I love most about blogging is how candid and transparent I can be here. Most importantly, it's an avenue the Lord created for writers to share...and it's even better when we can share messages of hope, inspiration, biblical encouragement and funny stories with the world. I miss that. So, today I'm going to begin again with hopes that I can be consistent with a realistic schedule!

On to today's blog-post.

Lately, God has been showing me just how much he is guiding my writing career. A few years ago, I honestly would have never thought I'd be where I am today.

You see, when I was a little girl, writing flowed through my veins. I wrote my own little books, poems and stories. I dreamed of writing and publishing real books. And when I got older, I wanted to write and publish in magazines. I wanted my own column and everything. Well, I had absolutely no idea that the Lord was preparing me at an early age with that thirst. Because now, some 20 something years later, that's exactly where God has me.

Writing books and writing for magazines. It's really an honor and a privilege to serve the Lord with my pen. But I tell you what, I never thought I'd be writing about what I'm writing about today.

Me? A relationship expert? Nah!

Right now, God has graced me with the opportunity to write for Empowering Everyday Women (EEW) Magazine as the Love and Relationship Columnist. Never in a million years did I think I'd be the one writing a love column. Quite honestly, the thought still makes me chuckle sometimes.

After all of the bad relationships I've been in, crazy mistakes I've made and what seemed like no sense of direction while I was single, I honestly did not think I'd ever be that person to help anyone else in their singleness. But, after my book Awakened released, the Lord presented the opportunity from a dear friend, who later shared how she knew this was a divine set up. The topics and articles the Lord gives me to share is totally all him. And, I never mind being transparent with what God has taught me through the various trials/ experiences I've had. But beyond that, I pray and constantly seek the Lord's wisdom so I can share real in-depth words that can help bring healing, direction, and redemption to those who thirst for it. It is always so the Lord Jesus can be glorified.

And not only that, I'm constantly seeing how the Lord is creating a special road for me. It's certainly not my doing because I'm always in a state of shock and awe when I get certain emails from incredible women of God about writing opportunities. I mean, again, the Lord leaves me speechless and yet I know it's all kingdom work so that Christ can be glorified. And so I just willfully accept my mission and say, "Lord, where you lead, I'll follow."

I used to think that a "relationship expert" was a ridiculous title. Who could tell me anything about my personal life? Who knows relationship's that well? And I felt like most people who call themselves that were only trying to seduce millions out of their time and money. Sad, but I really thought that way.

Well now that some give me that title (though I beg people to not call me an expert because Lord knows I'm not) I can understand the need for real, authentic but most importantly biblically sound counselors who are really given that job to help. It is a calling. Why? Because the Lord cares deeply about those who need healing, help and redemption from past or current relationship issues. And yes, there are those who have the capability of providing such encouragement.

That's the way I look at it. And if God has called me for such a mission, my answer, yet again is "Lord, where ever you lead, I will follow"... even if I sometimes I feel unworthy of it.

My encouragement to you today is to never second-guess God's plan for your own life. You really have no idea what he has lined up for you. But the key is to seek him, commit your life to him and trust him. All three of those things are certainly doable. And it takes discipline and dying to your flesh daily... you know, the fleshy part of you that tries to distract, detour and entangle you with all sorts of things to prevent you from moving forward. Ignore all of that. Just follow the holy spirit's leading and watch where he takes you.

If you're interested in reading my column in EEW Magazine, please visit http://buzz.eewmagazine.com/love. To catch up on previous articles, please visit my website http://kennisha-hill.com.

I also blog for Hope for Women Magazine, which is another incredible opportunity that was sent my way. You can read my latest blog here.

And lastly, this sequel is coming along great. I've had such incredible feedback from Awakened. I really appreciate those who have purchased and were blessed by it. The sequel will touch on subjects that are very near and dear to my heart. Such topics are:

Adoption

Forgiveness

Honesty

Betrayal

Trust

I'll be sharing a synopsis with you very soon. In the meantime, Awakened is currently for sale for only $4.00 as PDF e-book download. You can order a copy by visiting my website http://kennisha-hill.com. If you've already read it, I'd love it if you could post a review on Amazon.com HERE. You can also purchase a hard copy from Amazon.com from that link as well.

God's grace sustains us. I pray that you continue to remember that and keep seeking God about what he wants our of your life. He's given you a purpose and wants you to respond to the call.

Stay tuned for the next blog-post entitled "The Balancing Act Part 2: Saying No".
Have a wonderfully blessed weekend!

Warmly,
Kennisha

Finding the Right Place

2010-09-10T08:13:00.000-07:00

My husband and I have been house-hunting the past couple of months. We've seen house after house both by online search engines and exploring with our Realtor. We found a great house, just a few Saturday's ago, that was exactly the amount of space that we need for our expanding family. We are expecting our third little blessing, due to arrive in January. And, once we got pregnant, we knew we would need to explore the option of better living arrangements (a much bigger home) once the lease on our two-bedroom apartment was up. And so, we've been on the hunt.

Just recently, my husband sent me an email from work where he asked me to rank everything concerning the house, from location to square footage. And so, that really made me think very carefully. You see, when you're looking for a house, you want the location to be a good one, the amenities to be great, square footage to be exactly what you need and you even factor in distance from shopping, local grocery stores, church, family, ect. All of these things matters a great deal to us. But, it got me thinking. Would we really find something that has everything we want in it- or will we have to compromise with at least one of those?

Does the distance really matter, if everything else is perfect? Can we really find that right place?

This made me think about finding that right place in other areas of our lives; relationships, careers, etc. Sometimes as we move forward in life, it's really easy to seek perfection. And, while the ball is spinning and things just doesn't seem perfect, we easily give up and move forward without trying a little harder at it or completely trusting in the Lord.

I know I can be guilty of that sometimes.

Allow me to be a little transparent with you for a second. I'm currently working on the sequel to Awakened. And, I'm half way through. But there are days when it just looks like such a drag to write anything. Some days, I'm on a constant flow. Going from chapter to chapter in a matter of less than an hour. But, other days, getting that other chapter out just seems impossible. Though my situation makes it a bit challenging- being a stay-at-home mommy to two toddlers, still it pulls at me like a thorn in my side sometimes when I can't get in that constant flow...in that right place to get it done.

Do you ever feel that way?

To me this is a simple lesson in trusting God in all areas or places we are in our lives. Whether we're looking for a home, or are working on a project that just doesn't seem to be piecing itself together. God is perfectly able to guide us in the right direction (place) for us to do exactly what he needs us to do. And, this is even true if you are house-hunting too. He knows the place that is just right for us.

So, fast forwarding a little, I'd like to share that my husband and I was led to that 'right place' for us and we will be moving in very soon! Everything has been approved, by God's grace, and we are now officially packing to move into our new home. And get this, this place meets everything I asked for in a house- from hardwood floors to new appliances.

The sequel? Well, what the Lord showed me was that it will get done at the right time and that he'll grant me those still moments I need. But, again, I should trust that the same way the first one was completed, this one will too. So, I shouldn't fret or worry about what the situation looks like with my own eyes.... but that God is able.

And let me tell you, if you knew what our situation "looked-like" while we were house-hunting, you'd know that it really was God's grace and favor to bless us the way he has. I'm literally in awe of his goodness to us.

I'd like to encourage you today to just trust in the Lord- fully and without reservation. When we do that, He activates an unexplainable peace in our lives and then shows us exactly who he is. He is truly gracious. Trust him and let him take you to that right place.

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer! I pray you have a wonderful weekend!

Warmly,
Kennisha Hill
Author, Speaker & Literary Coach | Writing to Inspire, Literary Coaching | Website

News!!! New Literary Coaching Services are Now Available!!!

2010-08-24T14:02:00.000-07:00

Writing to Inspire Literary Coaching launches new services to aid independent authors!

PRLog (Press Release) – Aug 18, 2010 – Are you a writer with the God-given mandate to write a book that will inspire and encourage an audience with a specific message? Have you written book and aren't sure where to begin or just don't have the time to format your book for publication? If this is you, then you've come to the right place!

Writing to Inspire Literary Coaching was founded by Kennisha Hill, the author of the Christian fiction novel "Awakened" and the non-fiction inspirational guide "Simply Wisdom: Empowerment for Your Purpose."

When asked how this business began, Hill explains, "More people are leaning towards independent publishing. However, many people struggle with their book ideas and aren't sure what to do about them. Often times this leads to no progress. Writing to Inspire Literary Coaching is here to help people get on the right track towards their publishing goals. It's a great service that will provide them with the knowledge, confidence and assistance they need to get it done!"

Writing to Inspire Literary Coaching offers a [free] Initial Consultation, Strategic Planning and Outline Development, Fiction and Non-Fiction Critique and Complete Manuscript Formatting.

"We are not an editing or publishing service," Hill adds. "However, we are ready to help you take your idea and professionally organize it into a great book that's ready for publication!"

To learn more about Writing to Inspire Literary Coaching's services or to request a quote, please visit http://kennisha-hill.com/writing-to-inspire-literary-coa ...

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Writing to Inspire Literary Coaching is here to help you conform your thoughts, ideas, paragraphs and pages into a professional piece of work that is ready for independent publication. We offer you the support that you need to get your work into the hands of those who will be touched by your book!

How should we measure success?

2010-08-24T08:26:00.000-07:00

As an author, I get a lot of questions from very curious people. Usually, without being too direct and in a round about way people ask me how much I make and how my book is doing. I guess it's assumed that when you publish a book, you instantly sell thousand's of copies, your book ends up in every standing bookstore and you suddenly become some sort of celebrity in your expertise- whether you write fiction or non-fiction.

I can't speak for every author (traditionally or independently published) but what there's one thing we can all probably agree on. And, it's that it definitely takes quite a bit of hard work to sell a book and get your book out there.

But should I desire to write books with money as my main objective? What about for passion? What about for purpose?

There are so many ways you can measure success. I realize it's a personal thing. Some people write books to sell them and make a ton of money. Some people write books only because they have the passion to write. And others write to deliver a message of hope, inspiration and empowerment to other people. Some people are actually satisfied with that accomplishment. Getting that one person's review that read, "You really ministered to me in a powerful way."

It is different for different people, but there's one thing I'd like to encourage you with today.

Pray and seek the Lord about His will for your success.

You see, not everyone will be a best seller. Not every will be a celebrity. Not everyone will win a Grammy, Emmy, or Tony Award. Not everyone will become a millionaire.

If you put your hope in those accomplishments alone- measuring your success by them- then you may end up falling in great disappointment.

I'm certainly not saying you shouldn't shoot for the stars. But it's far better to seek God for his purpose in your life and to act in obedience to it, than to desire riches, celebrity, and a few million hits on YouTube.

I encourage you to let obedience be the way you measure your success. Ask yourself, am I doing what God said to do, the way he said for me to do it and for His Glory alone.

God has the perfect way of supplying you with your desires, but make sure your desires align with His will and purpose!

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. Have a great week!

Warmly,
Kennisha Hill | Website | Writing to Inspire, Literary Coaching

The Business Woman's Guide to Friendship

2010-08-20T14:28:00.000-07:00

Meetings. Phone calls. Emails. These are some of the lingo business women speak. Constantly pulled by our entrepreneurial mentality; we work hard at making sure our businesses are thriving. But, there's one thing I realized as one very dedicated business woman- some friends may or may not understand your work-ethic. And for a woman who genuinely cares about her friendship-relationships, this can be a very daunting thing to deal with.

Allow me to be a little transparent.

I am terrible at talking on the phone. I'm not a big phone-talker at all. And, there are times that I literally forget to call people back because of the busyness of family and my business at home. My brain is constantly ticking with ideas the Lord gives me. My non-returning of phone calls is certainly not intentional- and my true friends would know that. But many people really don't understand such a small thing. And, for the longest I thought, "Should I really be that concerned about that?"

If you are a business woman who has dealt with something similar, here are a few things I believe the Lord has shown me that may encourage you:

1.) You can't apologize for where God has you: Your business (especially if it's a ministry God has called you to operate for the kingdom) was an assignment given to you by God himself. Not everyone will understand your journey and what it will take to get where God needs you to be. And quite honestly, not everyone is going to walk along with you. Sure it feels bad when you feel like you are missing out on everything or even feel like you're neglecting your friends, but the truth is, you aren't. You're simply walking in your God-given mandate and that is something that you absolutely can not apologize for.

2.) Don't let Guilt Stop you from moving forward: I preach this a lot. But, the reason I do is because there's so many distractions that try to get you off course. And, this is one of them. I mean, if you constantly feel bad about it, you can easily get distracted from pushing through.

Sometimes hard work for the Lord takes sacrificing. And, sometimes that sacrificing is necessary for the Lord to grow you so you can move forward in His name.

3.) Pray for Balance: Balance is certainly very necessary because God loves relationships. We should love our neighbor as we love ourselves- that says a lot about how God feels about us loving each other. But understand that just because you can't always pick up a phone, answer an email or visit a friend doesn't mean you don't love them. Trust me, the Holy Spirit will prick your heart indefinitely if he needs you to minister to a friend. He's done it to me on several occasions.

Be there for your friends as best you can- that's all you can do. But, know that where God has you right now is crucial for the kingdom. Keep pressing on and allow God to use you! He'll provide you with the necessary strength, endurance, love and affection that you need to keep moving forward!

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this message has blessed you today. Visit again and have a blessed weekend!

Warmly,
Kennisha Hill | http://kennisha-hill.com | Writing to Inspire Literary Coaching

Early in the Morning Will I Rise

2010-08-06T12:40:00.000-07:00

Most days, I am not a morning person. My children wake up sometimes at 6 o'clock in the morning ready to eat and play. My son, a very active almost 3-year old, has his energy on max very early. My 1-year old, the same. Sometimes my dear husband wakes up, and get's them, while I'm still trying to catch a good five more minutes. But, when I've finally stopped tossing and turning through the night and feel like I am just getting really good pregnant sleep (which sometimes doesn't happen until the crack of dawn), I really don't like anything to suddenly wake me up. And, at times, my dear husband would put one of our kids in our bed just so he can hurry and leave for work.

Torture!

A toddler crawling all over me early in the early morning whining (especially when I was still breastfeeding) is not the best way my morning can start and I had to let my husband know.

"Dear, please just give them some Cheerios or something and give me a few minutes to get up, PRAY and prepare for the day."

I really drag some mornings and my kids are the polar opposites. I don't drink coffee, although sometimes I wish I'd grab a cup or three! But, my kids? They have a more than enough energy- almost as if they had their fair share of caffeine before the sun peaks through our blinds.

I have to slowly prepare for my morning- my energy gradually builds.
My children? As soon as they open their eyes, it's play time.

This leaves one exhausted mommy. I have to put on some good foot-stomping praise music just to get my energy up sometimes.

Well, the other day I had a revelation about this.

You see, by God's grace we see another day and when that day is here- the moment we wake up and crack our eyes open- God is ready for us!!!

God doesn't say, "Alright Kennisha, give me five-more-minutes!!! What if he did that to us? What's so incredible about God is that he is already prepared for us. We serve a loving God who never sleeps and who's always watching us- always ready to help us and always ready for our drama!!! LOL

I've also learned that my toddlers don't understand it when mommy is having a tough morning. They can sense my slow movement, but they don't fully understand it. They still need their teeth brushed, faces washed, to be fed their breakfast and to be nurtured through out the day.

I found this scripture that really blessed me:

Psalm 5:3

In the morning, O LORD, you hear my voice;

in the morning I lay my requests before you

and wait in expectation.

My prayer is, Lord, help me to rise early ready and prepared to nurture my children. Just like God is ready for us and just like we can submit our request to him as soon as our eyes crack open, well that's the same way we should be with our children. God is our heavenly father who's ready for us- we need to be as patient and loving with our children as well.

I hope this has encouraged you today!!

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer! Have a blessed weekend!

Warmly,

Kennisha Hill, author & speaker

http://kennisha-hill.com | http://kennishahill.blogspot.com

Do it unto the Lord- not unto Man

2010-07-26T10:20:00.000-07:00

My husband is over the review team for DaSouth.com. He receives music from artist almost every day. Artist send in their music so they can get a review and have it posted on DaSouth. Since, DaSouth is the best source of information for Gospel Rap and various Gospel Genres, it is a very trusted site. And so, people who are contemplating purchasing music often check with the reviews on DaSouth to see what's hot and what's not.

Now, my husband and I often have a different opinion about reviews- the importance/non-importance of them. My argument has always been, as long as the review is not tearing the artist down...especially since it's for ministry purpose. I mean, who wants to get a 2-stars for their review after they've done their best to put their project together and submit it to the Lord.

Really, I feel like once you have God's approval... you don't need man's. However, getting reviews is not necessarily a bad thing because it can really help promote your project and further help expose it to more people.

But here's my major concern. I think it's so easy to get caught up in caring so much about what man has to say. Eventually, what happens is that we forget that we don't need their approval or say so to keep moving forward.

I recently have been considering sending Awakened to various places for review. I already know that because I independently published, edited and am promoting it that immediately many will probably reject to even review it. Some only want to review from a publishing house. But there are some that have agreed to review. But one of the first things they said was, "Be prepared for an honest review."

Honest.

And that's what honestly gave me a little trepidation. I'm going to be real with you, I've never worked so hard on a project in my life. This novel has been rewritten several (hundred it feels) times. I've had several people read, review and critique. And I've taken all of the great things/suggestions everyone along my writing path have offered and highly considered them as I revised this book. And finally, I believed it was ready for publication. So, I decided to push it out there on my own.

It's not a perfect book. You may find an error or two. But over all (and I am my worst critique) I believe it's a powerful story filled with substance, empowerment, inspiration and motivation for women, single people and really anyone seeking God's purpose for their life. It's really a great story.

But, if I submit to people for review, it's a high chance that these exact words won't flow in their opinion. And that's okay. Do you know why? Because, God's opinion/approval is what matter's the most to me.

Here's what I'd like to encourage you with today. Let's try not to allow people's opinions to dictate what we do. A simple review should not hold us back from pressing forward. We're supposed to take the things people say with a grain of salt. But beyond that cliche, try to do what you do unto the Lord and not unto men. At the end of the day, it's all about God accepting your gift and talent for his kingdom.

^{(Colossians 3:23) "}Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men.."

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. Have a blessed week in our Lord Jesus Christ!

Warmly,

Kennisha Hill, Author & Speaker

http://kennisha-hill.com

Should you Date a Man with Potential?

2010-07-26T08:22:00.000-07:00

Should you Date a Man with Potential?

Awakened: Win a Free Copy

2010-07-16T10:22:00.000-07:00

I'm super excited to announce the first giveaway for my debut novel Awakened.

I will be giving away two copies of Awakened. If you'd like to participate in this contest, please read on!

Tamara, the main character in Awakened, is a single woman in her 30s who is desperate for success and love. Because of her age and all of her friends are married or in a serious relationship, she feels hopeless, desperate and as if she has had her chance with her scandalous ex Benjamin and missed it. She feels hopeless, until life events cause her to re-evaluate what matter's most in her life.

There are many themes present in this book. It's more than just a funny, romantic and inspirational book. It's also based on very strong biblical principles that I wholeheartedly believe will encourage many single (and married) women and men who are actively pursuing love and a career.

To participate in this contest, simply reply to this post answering one of these two questions. Please leave your email address in your response so you can be notified if you're a winner!

If you're single, share with me if you desire to be married and what you're doing in the meantime until he/she comes.
If your married, briefly share with me how you knew he/she was the one for you!

Winners will be announced July 23, 2010!!!!!!!

I look forward to reading your responses!

Warmly,
Kennisha Hill | http://kennisha-hill.com

Blog Tour: An Inconvenient Friend, by Rhonda McKnight

2010-07-14T07:46:00.000-07:00

Blog Tour: An Inconvenient Friend, by Rhonda McKnight

ABOUT THE BOOK

In Secrets and Lies, Samaria Jacobs tried to seduce Dr. Jonah Morgan. Now she’s back in An Inconvenient Friend. Her creed is “If at first you don’t succeed, try…try…again.”

Samaria Jacobs has her sights set on Gregory Preston. A successful surgeon, he has just the bankroll she needs to keep her in the lifestyle that her credit card debt has helped her grow accustomed to. Samaria joins New Mercies Christian Church to get close to Gregory’s wife. If she gets to know Angelina Preston, she can become like her in more than just looks, and really work her way into Greg’s heart.

Angelina Preston’s life is filled with a successful career and busy ministry work, but something’s just not right with her marriage. Late nights, early meetings, lipstick- and perfume-stained shirts have her suspicious that Greg is doing a little more operating than she’d like. But does she have the strength to confront the only man she’s ever loved and risk losing him to the other woman

Just when Samaria thinks she’s got it all figured out, she finds herself drawn to Angelina’s kindness. Will she be able to carry out her plan after she finds herself yearning for the one thing she’s never had . . . the friendship of a woman?

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Rhonda McKnight is the owner of Legacy Editing, a free-lance editing service for fiction writers and Urban Christian Fiction Today, a popular Internet site that highlights African-American Christian fiction. She’s the vice-president of Faith Based Fiction Writers of Atlanta. When she’s not editing projects, teaching workshops about writing or penning her next novel, she spends time with her family. Originally from a small, coastal town in New Jersey, she’s called Atlanta, Georgia home for twelve years. Visit the author online at http://www.RhondaMcKnight.net.

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Leave Fear Behind and Step Out in Faith

2010-07-12T09:44:00.000-07:00

My husband and I are over the teen ministry at our church home. Yesterday, we had our first Sunday discussion with them about Faith Over Fear. We talked about the importance of trusting God, not being afraid and about how fear can cause you to miss out on operating in your purpose. Fear is something that can get such a huge hold on you- it'll cause you miss out on anything. And there's all types of fears out there holding people back (even teens). Fear of failure and success. Fear of what others will think if they take a stand of righteousness instead of bowing to the world. I'm sure you can list a few.

Well, yesterday the Lord showed something to me about myself- sort of like a personal revelation. I have to be completely honest with you and say that I am not a good planner. My friends can tell you that anytime there's a baby-shower or any sort of party, I'm never the first one who's eager to plan it. I just don't believe I'm gifted in that area. My sister in law and close friends are. But, I personally would rather help out if I have to...and let them enjoy all the planning. I'm not a big party person.

With that said, the thought of planning, arranging and marketing my own book greatly intimated me!!!! I really wanted to have my own PR rep handle things for me. And trust me, if I had the money, I would. But, for now, if I want to market my latest release Awakened (or any book), I'm the one who will have to shake off that fear and get to work!

I recently had a very timely conversation with my mentor (you know who you are ;-) ). She spoke some very powerful words that were so uplifting. Her friendship and wisdom are very valuable to me. You see, I literally had no clue about what my next steps should be when it came to marketing this book. There's so much more to it than just Facebook, Twitter and Blogging! Writing the book is probably the easiest part. Marketing it, should be the fun part...however for me, it's tedious and it always makes my stomach twirl around in circles.

Making phone calls to independent bookstores.
Sending out mass emails.
Writing articles. (the only fun part to me lol)
Mailing (emailing) copies for review.
Setting up interviews (all media)

The list goes on. And the truth is, if I want to get the word out about Awakened, there's a lot of work that comes with that. I had to really begin to examine things in a little different light.

This is what I mean. In all things, I want to operate in excellence. And, I know without a shadow of a doubt that this book was meant to be here. I had to write it. And now that I did, I know I can't just let books just sit on my bookshelf. If I believe the message was meant to be delivered... then I'd better deliver it and spread the word. :)

So, I literally had to pray and shake off that intimidation and prepare to do a little bit at a time. I'm no PR expert because I'm not a good 'planner'. But, I do know that Faith without works is dead and if I want to see the Lord's will be done with this book... I'd better do my best to spread the word about it so that the people who need to read it can get to it!

Today, I encourage you to release any fear or intimidation to the Lord. Get on your knees and ask the Lord to help you do what he has called you to do. He'll do it- and it just might be through a very sweet and helpful mentor like he did for me. God's will be done, always! Don't be afraid... just go for it in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ!

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this blog entry has encouraged and ministered to you today! Have a blessed week!

Kennisha Hill | http://kennisha-hill.com
Author of Awakened and Simply Wisdom

It's People's Lives...

2010-07-07T06:35:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, I had the pleasure of speaking at a local YMCA out here in Dallas, Texas. A few months back when I was invited, I immediately grew excited and began praying about what to say. I knew I'd be talking to a group of girl's and that I'd be encouraging them in their purpose. But, what I didn't know is that these would be girl's coming from very challenging backgrounds- girl's that were raised in Foster Care.

When I walked in, dressed very modestly and professional, the girl's stared at me as if they were asking themselves Who is this Lady. I paused and greeted them in love with smiles and hellos. As the Director of the Y introduced me, I looked around the room and inwardly prayed that God would be in our midst- that he would guide my talk and that the girl's hearts would be softened enough to receive the encouraging word I had for them.

The Director left, and the talk began.

I re-introduced myself, passing around copies of my two books so they could see them and then sat down, eager to begin. I began with questions.... questions that I wasn't so sure about what types of responses I'd get. And, when they felt they were comfortable enough to be honest with me, they answered.

My heart ached.

As I continued to share with them how their past or current situation does not have to dictate their future, I could see their curiosity growing. And as they participated by raising their hands, they shared just how much negativity they face in their lives.

The rejection.
The pain.
The abuse.

Some of them even shared how they wanted to one day write about their lives. They think their lives are so messed up that it's worthy to be shared either in a book, song or rap. It's just that bad for them.

My message was to make sure to let them know that they don't have to receive negativity from other people and allow those distractions to get in they way of their purpose. They can ignore all of that and keep moving forward. But I also wanted to make sure I shared with them how important it is for them to believe in themselves. If they don't have any self-confidence, then they'll believe anything anyone pours into their lives.

After the talk, a few girl's walked up to me and said "Thank you" and that melted my heart. I could tell they heard me well and some received the message.

I stood for a few minutes to talk with the Director after it was over and she shared a little bit about the girl's past and some of the things they endured. But, as she spoke, the Lord confirmed something for me.

You see, what we do, as writers, are influencing people's lives. The Director shared with me how "It's People's Lives." The children who come to the YMCA are real lives. Lives that need love. Lives that need to be showered with love, hope and more importantly, with the message of Jesus Christ. These are lives that have faced tremendous amounts of rejection, fear, pain, emptiness, and hopelessness. But, we are here to spread hope, love and the message that they don't have to live in fear.

That was a very deep revelation for me because I had just been thinking about this writing ministry and how this is an outreach ministry where I'm reaching out to people- influencing them in the love of Christ through the written word.

It's a real ministry because it's people's lives...

I want to encourage you today in whatever ministry the Lord has given to you. You are literally called to help bring hope, love and inspiration to someone's life. And it should be viewed in a very serious light and not taken lightly. As Christians, we are the salt of the earth. We are light in the midst of a lot of darkness. And, it's up to us to use our gifts to make sure we spread that light of love around. Be mindful of that as you continue to move forward.

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this blog-post has encouraged you today as you move forward in your purpose for the Lord. Have a blessed week!

Warmly,
Kennisha

Be careful of who influences you!

2010-07-02T10:09:00.000-07:00

On Wednesday night's, my pastor has been talking about Transfer of Spirits and just how real they are. Have you ever seen the movie Fallen- starring Denzel Washington? If you haven't, through out the movie and as people walk by each other, they all connect with the same 'spirit' that was in a murderer who was just given the death penalty. It's sort of freaky to think about. But, it is more realistic than people think.

Let me ask you a question. Have you ever been in a great mood- I mean, soaring through the day with the most cheery attitude? You're feeling great because today, life is great. And then suddenly, your day is interrupted by someone who has a completely negative attitude about their situation.

Suddenly, you find yourself feeling almost the exact same way that they do. In fact, your conversation with them has completely drained you and distracted you from your spiritual high. Now, you're about a low as they are.

Well, whether we recognize it or not, their sulking spirit transferred right into you- just like in Fallen. Now, you're humming the same tune they are.

Frustrating, isn't it?

My good friend, Dianna Hobbs, blogged about this very same thing today on her blog The Daily Cup of Inspiration. There she wrote:

"...we have to embrace the things and individuals that motivate us, and go ahead and release those that keep us hindered. Whether we realize it or not, whatever "tune is playing" in our ears, hearts, and minds, impacts how we think, feel, and respond... for better or worse."

I wanted to shout after reading that. It couldn't be more true.

God is amazing at how he places people in our lives (strategically) to motivate, push, inspire, and encourage us to move forward in God's purpose for our lives. But rest assured, your greatest adversary is prepared to send the exact opposite along your path.

The people who sulk, complain, whine, are always depressed and down and who are flat out discouraging. Those are the people you should be careful of. Honestly, you don't have time for that. Things can be discouraging enough on its own sometimes... why allow people to make it worse?

Yesterday, I made a decision (as I shared with my husband) that I am not going to allow people to become a hindrance in my life. I don't have the time nor energy to constantly be pulled down by negativity- and neither do you.

Instead, surround yourself with people who wear the Fruit of the Spirit- people who exemplify love, peace, joy, meekness, kindness, gentleness, long-suffering, temperance and faith. Those are the types of people you want to associate yourself with. Leave all negativity behind you and move forward!

Pray for others, but remember yourself too and watch that people don't transfer their spirits to you!

Thanks for visiting The Ready Writer. Have a blessed weekend!

Warmly,

Kennisha Hill

New Christian Fiction Novel asks “Love, Success, or Both?”

2010-07-01T11:48:00.000-07:00

I couldn't be more excited to share with you that today my debut novel, Awakened, is released! God is good! Please keep me in prayer as I move forward with the next steps! I already know that my steps are ordered by God- and I'm moving forward in that!

I also want to give a special thank you to a few influential people in my life (you know who you are). I appreciate the people God sends in my life. I'm constantly amazed at how the Lord moves.

You are now free to order a copy of Awakened. Visit my website http://kennisha-hill.com!

Thank you for your prayers and support!

Warmly,
Kennisha

New Christian Fiction Novel asks “Love, Success, or Both?”

Can a woman balance love and success? Kennisha Hill's debut novel, Awakened, answers this question through one woman's quest for faith, redemption, and true love

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

PRLog (Press Release) – Jul 01, 2010 – The summer-reading season kicks off with Christian Fiction novel, Awakened (ISBN 978-0-557-41909-8) by Kennisha Hill—an intriguing novel that examines the human struggle to find harmony between the desire for love and success. The main character, Tamara Thompson, is a driven, career-focused woman, in her early thirties, who has just come out of a five-year relationship with Benjamin—a man with whom she shares an unthinkable secret.

Read full Press Release Here!

The Awesomeness of God

2010-06-22T06:26:00.000-07:00

God fascinates me. As a little girl, I loved to just stare at the stars and marvel at them and how God must have easily tossed them up in the universe as if they were small crystal balls. And as a teenager, I was glued to sunsets. There were times when I'd race to the Lake just to get a glimpse of the sunset. I had to see it. And when I'd catch it setting, I imagined God painting the sky with that beautiful orange, yellow and purple color. His paintings are always the best.

And, when I became an adult, water seemed so powerful to me. I wondered about the thousands of creatures that are under water that man still have not identified or discovered. I'm sure they are there. That completely amazes me.

God is so amazing.

All of those things have built up to me having a huge fascination with watching certain shows on the channel's Planet Green, Discovery, and Science. I especially love hearing people debate on the idea of God actual creating the universe versus the big bang theory. My husband and I laugh each time.

I recently went back to Genesis chapter 1 and was blown away by it. It amazes me to picture God fashioning everything in place- perfectly. It's on my heart to write a piece about the creation. I'll post it online soon and will let you know when it's available.

I just want to send a word of inspiration to you this morning. Sometimes we can forget just how big God is. The same God that created this world created us. And, what's so amazing is that he created us in his own imagine. We are special. He filled us with a soul so we could have a direct connection with him spiritually and dwell with him eternally in his heavenly kingdom. Do you know how amazing that is? That he gives us the opportunity to communicate with him- the same big God who created the heavens and the earth?

Know God.
Talk to Him.
Spend time with Him.
He's the best relationship you'll ever have.

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this devotional has encouraged you today! Blessings to you this week in Christ Jesus.

Warmly,
Kennisha Hill

Awakened's Arrival

2010-06-15T12:40:00.000-07:00

UPS couldn't come fast enough. When I ordered my first copy to approve for the distribution of Awakened, I wasn't sure if I should get it over-nighted or choose 2-5 day shipping. Typically when ordering from the printer, it can take about a week to come (printing time + shipping time). Well, 2-5 days it was. I checked the status on UPS' website every day since last Thursday. Finally, today was the day and the man wearing that brown uniform banged on my door. I was ecstatic like a little girl on Christmas day!

Immediately, I got the scissors and opened the box. And there it was. My very first published novel. I raced to my children's room, since my son was in the living room watching Horton Hear's A Who, and sat on my son's bed. I marveled at it. I praised God for it. I thought I was going to cry, but I was mostly in awe...way too awestruck to cry. Since I knew my business was to examine it, page by page and front to back, I instantly flipped it over, upside down and raced through the pages to see if there were any problems.

There were none.

Glory to God!

Then, I sat still and started fresh from page one...scrolling through the copyright page, the dedication to my husband, the title page, on to the Prologue. I just could not believe that I was flipping through the pages of my very own novel.

Awakened; a story that was inspired by my personal love story with my husband ended up being a completely fictional story. It is not even loosely based on a true story. Most author's find some things in their life to use as inspiration for their stories, and so some things may sound a little familiar to close friends and family... but that's the beauty of story telling. A book that tells the testimony of someone is a biography or a memoir. A novel is complete fiction- not true....even if some things seem coincidental. Again, the beauty of storytelling.

I couldn't be more excited at it's finally here and finally I can begin sharing this story with the world. This story unfolded on its own. Sometimes at 4am...2am...12pm during kids naps...6am before they woke up... in between nursing my daughter after she was born....instead of hanging out with friends....I mean, it was enormous sacrifice. And, when you take your ministry seriously, something sacrifice becomes your middle name- next to balance.

I will never forget when my husband shared with me how he was frustrated at me for always talking about my book. I never bragged. But, every time I finished a new scene I was excited about, I instantly wanted to share it with him. We had many talks about the type of support I needed to press on. He wanted me to write it, but wanted me to find balance and not overdue it during all hours of the night- especially since we have two toddlers (1 year old and 2 year old) who were often times restless at night or up due to teething.

Literally, it was sometimes a very draining process for me.

But, by the grace of God, it was finally finished and on route to publication.

God's plans for it will be whatever he so desires. I'm just going to enjoy this ride and pray the readers who read Awakened will be blessed and ministered to.

I can't believe it's here!

Thank you Lord for blessing me with the fingers, mind, and opportunity to write this beautiful story. Use it for your purpose. Be glorified, in all things. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Awakened, Now Available on Kindle!

2010-06-14T08:12:00.000-07:00

I've heard many author's say how much they love their Kindle. As pictured to the left, a Kindle is an electronic reader. You can download lots of books on your Kindle...and typically for a cheaper price. It's literally what the world is coming to. Besides seeing that really cool commercial that comes on, I must say I look forward to getting one of those devices myself. I have it on my Mac, but I'd really like to have an actual Kindle..or maybe even an iPad someday (wink wink to hubby) Haha.

I do have great news though! Awakened is now available on Amazon's website for the Kindle! I actually wasn't expecting it to be there so soon, but there it is! The good thing about ordering it as an e-book is that you get it for a much cheaper price. It's almost 50% off the paper back price! So, if you have a Kindle, I encourage you to take advantage of this great offer and get yours today! You can get your digital copy of Awakened by clicking here.

The paper back books will be available on July 1st!

Thanks so much for your support of my writing ministry!

Blessings to you this week,
Kennisha Hill

Fiction With Purpose

2010-06-01T08:51:00.000-07:00

I've always been moved by touching stories- even movies, theatrical productions, songs, raps- it doesn't matter in what form a story is made. I always believed they bring healing, restoration, hope... because people relate to stories and testimonies. It's real. Even Jesus preached with parables...and we know how powerful his examples were.

Well, that's always been something I wanted to do. I've always wanted to just write beautiful stories of hope and love- always pointing toward the cross, where our real hope, redemption and salvation lies. I wanted to write real stories. About things people can believe in and relate to. Nothing too deep, but just deep enough for souls to grasp and feel and even be challenged by.

And so, I wrote Awakened.

(screaming in excitement on the inside)

This book is more than just a good book of fiction, if I may be biased. Honestly, as I go through final edits one more time, I really see why the Lord had me write it. It's a story that I truly believe in. One that I know will really inspire many women (and men) who are seeking fulfillment in the area's of love and career choices.

If you are single, Awakened will hit some areas that I know will speak right to your heart. It will encourage you. It will make you laugh. But more importantly it will challenge you to look a little deeper at where you are and show you the best way to handle exactly where you are. It's not easy, but certainly with the Lord's help, you can make it.

I love Fiction with Purpose.

I love reading novel's with a real message behind them. The books I read aren't just for leisure, although I do enjoy them. But, I really enjoy reading books that will challenge me or even make me examine things from another light that I haven't thought of.

I love to read stories of redemption. Powerful testimonies. Stories that bring healing. Stories that show the beautifulness of real love. Stories that make me laugh and cry. Books that I just can't put down. Page turners.

The type of books I read are exactly the type of stories I pray to deliver.

Because I've decided to take the independent route, until the Lord opens the door for me to get with a publishing house, I need your help with spreading the word about Awakened.

If you would like to host Awakened for a blog-tour or highlight it on your blog, please send an email to kennisha@kennisha-hill.com or respond to this message. I would also love to answer any questions for an interview.

Warmly in Christ,
Kennisha Hill | http://kennisha-hill.com (pre-order your copy today)

Tuesday Devotional, May 25, 2010

2010-05-25T07:58:00.000-07:00

Walking After His Lead

My 11month old, Kerissa, started walking when she was 9 months old. If you could see her petite little self trying to run after her brother. It is really the most adorable thing. For a little while, she did what we called the Frankenstein walk. It was so wibbly-wobbly.

Then, it was the trip-over-everything walk. She tripped over carpet. And now that she's almost one and has been doing this for a while now, she feels she is a pro. She waves her little hands in the air... and can walk backwards. When she runs after her brother now, she can cut corners quickly- almost without thinking about it.

I've watched her cut around her high-chair, her brother's table...and many other things that she otherwise would have ran right into if she was still learning how to walk. But now, her memory is active and can work together with her little legs to ensure she trots around without bumping into things.

This leaves me completely amazed at how God has designed our brain and legs to work together. Without us verbally saying Go-Go-Gadget-Legs, our brain quietly sends the signal to it to get up and get moving...and without us bumping into things. Isn't that cool?

Well, I believe this is exactly the same type of connection we should have with the Holy Spirit when it comes to him leading our lives. We shouldn't have to think so hard about decisions... choices. Our connection should be go great that we immediately can discern what road is meant for us to walk on. We should immediately know how to follow his lead.

Remember, the Holy Spirit can give us the ability to discern what is right or wrong for our path. Today, I encourage you to pray for a deeper connection with him. And then, just let him lead. It should be as easy as toddler who is just learning how to walk. If we truly let him lead, we'll avoid many mess-ups and stumbling blocks along our way.

Isaiah 48:17 "This is what the LORD says—
       your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel:
       "I am the LORD your God,
       who teaches you what is best for you,
       who directs you in the way you should go."

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this devotional has blessed you today!

Prayers and Blessings,
Kennisha Hill | http://kennisha-hill.com

Upcoming Book Releases!

2010-05-24T09:55:00.000-07:00

I pray this morning's blog-post has found you blessed this morning! I'm thrilled to announce two upcoming books that are on their way to publication. Both of these books have been in the works for a little while. God has really been pouring more and more into me- things that I am sure will really speak to you. I'll share a little bit of my heart behind both of them.

A Glass of Hope for a Thirsty Mom is a the next devotional in the Simply Wisdom Series. This one is dedicated to moms everywhere. Whether you're a stay-at-home mom, full time career mom, adoptive, foster or spiritual mom, I believe you were called for this incredible purpose for a reason. The beautiful souls the Lord entrust in our care need a mother who can really help nurture them as they grow. As a mother of two (and a half), I'm realizing just how selfless we are. We constantly give of ourselves and sometimes need a sweet (or firm) reminder that we need to make sure we're taking as much care of ourselves.

This little devotional is filled with chapters that touch the heart of many things we find ourselves asking the Lord for. Strength, Wisdom, Patience, Health, Confidence and Guidance are just a few of the chapters mentioned.

How many of you find yourself constantly asking God for strength- when you feel you have about lost your mind? I admit, I have and still do. No matter how old your children are, I believe this book will give you a boost of encouragement to help you as you continue on this journey in motherhood!

I am also excited to share with you that this book will be able for FREE! Yep! You will be able to download it as an e-book for FREE. So, make sure you are ready to get your free copy for your Smart Phone or Computer! I pray it truly blesses you!

Awakened is the debut novel. This book is my first fiction baby. I have really poured a lot into learning a lot about fiction writing. It's not nearly as easy as I thought it would be. I'm so grateful to have met incredible writers who have helped mentor me through this process. I'm still growing and am hoping the sequel is even better!

The message behind this book is one that I hope many single people who are looking for love will be encouraged by. It's a humorous love story with a little bit of suspense in it. Get ready to go on an interesting ride with Tamara- a woman seeking career advancement and love. She asks the question that many women find themselves asking. Can she have the best of both words?

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I'm truly grateful for the opportunity to write books with purpose. Everything God writes through me are all meant to encourage, inspire and motivate it's readers to know more of God and enjoy the beautiful benefits of being kingdom-bound. There are many.

Please keep me in prayer as I continue writing!

Prayers and Blessings,
Kennisha

Thursday Devotional

2010-05-20T06:39:00.000-07:00

It Pays to Be Still

I love my daughter's soft and curly hair. But, it seems like the moment I pull her bows, ties, comb and brush out to comb her hair, she immediately prepares to run. She does not like it when I comb her hair. I thought maybe she is a little tender-headed like me. Tender-headed is when it hurts to comb right through your hair. Usually people with a sensitive scalp have to brace themselves before anyone does their hair. I know I did.

I realized I was no different when I was a little girl. You see, my mom used to press my hair with a hot comb; the comb that sat on the stove under fire. She straightened my very curly hair with that thing. The end results were stunning and beautiful because my hair was so long. But like my daughter, when I saw that hot comb coming my way, I cringed and immediately prepared to run.

This morning God reminded me of a simple lesson I could learn from my daughter and my hair experiences.

When we don't see the beauty behind our trials, situations, or experiences, it's natural for us to prepare to run from them. The truth is, most times God wants us to stand still and watch what he's going to do for us, in us or through us. Like my daughter, we can easily prepare to hit the road when it appears like any form of discomfort or in some cases something different or unusual is happening in our lives.We don't realize that our constant moving can make things shift. When we keep still and allow God to do his thing, His grand plan begins to unfold. You may not be able to see the beautiful out come immediately, but at the end of it all, God always has the victory- which means, it will be worth every bit of sitting still.

In my daughter's case, she doesn't realize just how beautiful her hair will look when I'm done. She probably doesn't even care. But, after fighting with me for 20 minutes after I make her keep still, her hair will look just as dainty as I imagined. Likewise for you and your situation. You can't see what the results are at this time, but God knows. Today I encourage you to not wrestle with him, but to Trust him! He can see the beauty behind it all!

Psalm 46:10a "Be Still and Know That I Am God".

Psalm 37:7a "Be still in the presence of the Lord, and wait patiently for him to act."

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this devotional has blessed you today. Have a blessed week in our Lord Jesus Christ!

Warmly,

Kennisha Hill
Email me kennisha@kennisha-hill.com

Should we try to be Sunday's Best?

2010-05-18T06:15:00.000-07:00

I watch Sunday Best on Sunday evenings 7PM EST on BET. Kirk Franklin cracks me up. The judges are hilarious. And some of the singers are down right anointed with awesome stage presence. I love music so naturally this type of show attracts me. Plus, what's cool about this season is that I sang with some of the contestants in high school.

The goal of the show is simple. They are looking for Sunday Best; one person they feel has the most talent, anointing and stage presence to win a national recording contract, a new car and a pretty substantial cash prize.

It's pretty much similar to American Idol because there sits three judges ready to give you honest critique about your performance.

This is my 2nd time actually keeping up with a full season starting from show one. I must be very honest and admit that in the beginning, I thought it was a bogus idea. I didn't like how critical the judges were. I do think this season they have lightened up a wee bit though. Thank goodness.

But, here's a thought that crept through my mind last night.

The dynamics of any talent show is the same. You get up there on the mic. You give it your best shot. And three people decide whether or not you are good enough to proceed in the competition until they determine one winner.

You work hard.
You practice.
Blood sweat and tears almost.
Only to get a final yes or no because there is only one winner.

And after the competition is over, you're back to your square one- singing wherever you were before you auditioned for the show because you did not make it and were not good enough for three judges (or even for millions of voters).

Recently, the question "Who do we really work for?" immediately stuck out to me. Should we really try to be Sunday's Best? Do we value other people's critique over trusting what God has placed in us to do?

Now, Sunday Best is pretty much a game show. It's a talent show that requires your hard work with hopes that you'll win- but it's a game. And so, if the contestants are not careful, they can easily be swayed or discouraged into thinking that it's more important that their talent speaks to the three judges...as if their judgment matters the most. However, the truth is, that's just not true.

Off stage, there are many people who wait for people's praise, approval or critique of their work. They want to win the prize. They want to be publicly praised. They thrive on man's approval when the truth is, they really don't have to.

You see, whether you sing, write, play an instrument or any other artist of some kind, you shouldn't minister or perform for man. When you are on your platform, the one God gave to you for ministry, your desire should be to give God the glory because he is the only judge that matters.

Let me carefully explain that there's nothing wrong with healthy criticism or with learning. We go to school and train to learn. We make mistakes and need people to help shape our gift. But, we shouldn't allow anyone to sway us from moving forward into our divine destiny.

God is in the business of building, not tearing down.

Man's opinion will always change. I'm learning that in the writing industry. I've had people critique my books and love them and I've had people question my ability to get published. Critique after critique after critique. But the truth is, who in the world cares about what people say? At least, we shouldn't. We should be able to take words of advice with a grain of salt and keep moving forward toward our purpose.

At the end of the day, I truly believe we should try to be God's best. We should strive to be who God created us to be, regardless of what anyone says. You are created with an incredible purpose and that purpose is not to stand in front of three judges so they can decide the fate of your career or ministry. It's so that the Lord Jesus Christ can be glorified in your life.

Be God's best!

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this blog entry has blessed you today!

Warmly,
Kennisha Hill
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Your Story is Unfolding

2010-05-11T06:33:00.000-07:00

There is something about the art of story-telling that fascinates me. Words that are carefully woven together to create a beautiful story of hope, love, inspiration, romance...they really move me. So far in my writing journey, I've met remarkable story-tellers. People who don't just write words and leave them hanging.

Instead, they embrace their words.
And their words empower.

Whether they write short-stories, novels, memoirs, or even their testimonials in magazine articles. A person's story, fiction or nonfiction, carries passion, emotion and can bring forth many things like...

healing
redemption
hope
faith
love
inspiration

I'm currently working on my 2nd novel, the sequel to Awakened. (Awakened releases July 27th). Well yesterday, as I was working on another chapter, my husband curiously asked me how it's going.

"I'm fascinated with the way the story unfolds as I'm writing it. I love how that's happening."

While many authors decide to write an outline to help guide their book, I've decided to take a little more of a free route and discover where the story is headed while I'm writing it. This is how my story is unfolding. A little later on I get to an outline. But, for now it's all free flowing.

And then the Lord reminded me of something this morning.

We may not see exactly how our life stories are unfolding. After all, we were not given an outline to guide us. But, what he does promise is that if we acknowledge him, he will guide us.

Proverbs 3:6

"In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your path."

You see, we all have a unique story. It may not be written into a book. It may not turn into the next best film. But, it does serve a purpose on earth. Our stories, our testimonies, can help others while they walk on their journey's. They can help bring things like...

healing
redemption
hope
faith
love
inspiration

The word of our testimony's are powerful and gives believer's a tool to witness to other's about the love of Jesus Christ. About his grace. About how they can receive redemption too.

Today, I'd like to encourage you not to feel as if you don't matter- or as if your story isn't as important as anyone else's. It is. And more than you are probably aware of, it is touching somebody else's life!

Embrace your story. And let God lead you as you go!

Thank you for visiting The Ready Writer. I pray this devotional has blessed you today. Have a blessed week in our Lord Jesus Christ!

Warmly,

Kennisha Hill | http://kennisha-hill.com
Email me kennisha@kennisha-hill.com