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	<title>be.their.lover.</title>
	
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		<title>Another moment</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 00:18:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jordan Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Jordan & Colette]]></category>

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		<description>The other day was our nine year anniversary and... it was fantastic! We cruised to an island off the coast. A mountainous terrain with bison and--I know, I know, what can you say after bison? And yet, we didn't even venture off to see those furry bastards. Ah whatever, who need 'em? We were tired, but that's [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>The advantage</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Jan 2012 02:36:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jordan Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ideas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[development]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[evolution]]></category>
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		<description>If our bodies purpose is to propagate our genes, then there must be some correlation between the advantage of genes and their species' behavior. As far as a gene is concerned, its alleles are its deadly rivals, but other genes are just a part of its environment, comparable to temperature, food, predators, or companions. The effect of [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Burdened with hope</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 00:56:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jordan Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Colette Lee]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[communication]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Miss Sapphire]]></category>

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		<description>I'm beginning to wonder if the smiles from Miss Sapphire are hiding something. She's been out-of-state for about a month and things have started to change. I like change, but secrets can be hurtful during those changes. While she has been away, I made it a point to show her I wanted to see her again. She [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Definitions</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 00:20:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jordan Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Ideas]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[choice]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[escape]]></category>
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		<description>One can choose what to do, but not what to want. Arthur Schopenhauer A direct translation reads: der mensch kann tun was er will; er kann aber nicht wollen was er will. Or man can do what he wills but he cannot will what he wills. That much is true and we've developed more problems [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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		<title>Feeling it</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 06:22:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jordan Lee</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Relationships]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Colette Lee]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[jealousy]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[Mister Silk]]></category>

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		<description>Colette is sick. It's difficult for her to breathe and talk because of an inflamed throat. This is the third instance in the last six months. And as much as it pains me to see her suffer, I love recording her sick. Her unusual voice and not being able to move too much. It's irresistible. But [...]&lt;div class="feedflare"&gt;
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