This donuts adventure is one I think of often. I very well remember how crazy life was with a house full of little kids to cart around, and the lesson God showed me that night. Also that fact that I found the house with do directions…miraculous! I even get lost in our neighborhood! Sadly, Kripsy Kreme no long makes my beloved creme filled donut. Sniff.

Adventures in Donuts: An Object Lesson

It was my turn to take snacks to our Wednesday night Bible study.  I had decided to pick up donuts on the way because, after all, it would save me lots of time and I was actually craving a Krispy Krème glazed crème filled donut.  If you’ve never had one you’re really missing out.  I don’t even particularly like donuts in general.

Well, Jason was running a little late, but I had the kids all in the van ready to go when he got home.  He drove in and said he’d hurry, but he had to go take his contacts out–he was just wearing them for the first time that day.

I sat with the girls until I was sure something dreadful had happened.  Running inside I shouted that we needed to go because we were going to be late.  He could not get his contacts out for anything.  Finally, he told me to go without him.  So I flew out of the house thinking I’d never make it to get the donuts there on time.

Everything went pretty well until I drove up to the empty Krispy Krème drive through.  “Hello?” I shouted.

“Just a minute,” came the reply.  Wait.  Wait.  Wait.

“Hello.”  I shouted again.  Wait.  Wait.  Wait.  Finally, she came on with some long drawn out welcome.  At this point I figured I didn’t have time to be picky with my order so I shouted as fast as I could, “One dozen mixed and one dozen Original glazed.”  I just hoped there would be one glazed crème filled donut in the mix.

I pulled up by the window and watched them as they took their sweet time filling my two boxes.  Finally, boxes safely in the van, I dashed to try to make it to the church on time!

After safely depositing my children in their various classrooms at church, I dialed my husband to get directions to the house where the Bible study was because I had never driven there.  I couldn’t get hold of him, but miraculously I drove right to the house, parked and ran to place my contribution on the kitchen counter.  There.  I stood back and took a deep breath.  As I waited for the people standing around to get their donuts, sure enough, I spied one glazed crème filled donut.  I thought, “Well I hope it will still be there, but if not, oh well,” and went to visit with the ladies standing around the living room.  When I went back to the kitchen, sure enough it was still there!  I casually put it on my plate and went to sit down in the living room and eat it, still trying to relax.  I took one bite, two.  The next bite had to reach the creamy center.  I took the third bite.  Oh no!  Not that…lemon…yuck, yuck, yuck, blech, blech, blech.  I hate lemon flavored pudding. Imagine my disappointment!

Then the thought came to me, “You know what?  I do not want to be like that donut that looked just fine on the outside but was sour on the inside.  I want God to see a creamy center!”

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Home fried potatoes are one of my favorite things! I began making them when I was in junior high after I came home from school for a snack. They are so delicious! This is my basic recipe!

Ingredients for Home Fried Potatoes:

4 medium potatoes peeled and chopped

1/2 medium chopped onion

1-2 tablespoons bacon grease

salt and pepper to taste

paprika

Fry the onions with the oil until the onions begin to turn clear.  Then fry the potatoes until they start to brown.  Cover and cook on low for about 20 minutes stirring often until potatoes are soft.  Season potatoes and fry uncovered a little longer until brown. (Cooking uncovered and medium ans stirring often gives you crispy home fries.) I like to sprinkle with paprika.  It gives it a pretty color and just a little zing. 

My favorite way to eat this yummy home fried potato recipe is with a mixture of ketchup and salsa–yum! I love it as a snack, but it’s a perfect side dish to any meat.

I also love to add meat and make it a maid dish fird the recipe here: Sausage and Potato Skillet

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First encounter

I was sitting in the library at Southeastern Bible College in Birmingham, Alabama, with my brother David. It was January 1, 1957, during Christmas vacation, and we were the only ones at school. We stayed at the college because our parents were missionaries in Nicaragua so we couldn’t go home. Suddenly, I heard my name screamed and looked up to see my good friend Kathe from Nebraska in the doorway with a young man I did not know.

Kathe had been my roommate the year before at Columbia Bible College in Columbia, South Carolina. I had received a letter from her at the beginning of vacation saying she had gotten a ride as far as Missouri with a student named Hal Thompson who had a car (few Bible college students did in those days) and taken a bus to her home in Nebraska. She wrote that they drove right through Birmingham and she had tried to convince Hal to stop so she could see me, but he wouldn’t hear to any delays. According to college rules students traveling in mixed groups had to be off the road by 10:00 p.m., so there were limited hours to drive.

But here they were in Birmingham! Kathe said later that she had begged so much to stop and see her friend Frieda that Hal, exasperated, said, “Okay, we will stop and visit this girl, and she better be as great as you say she is!”

Out to eat

Three students besides Kathe were riding with Hal to various places on his way to his home in Missouri. They invited us to go with them to find a restaurant, and all seven of us piled into Hal’s 1953 Plymouth Belvedere (yellow with a white top!). At the restaurant Hal paid for my meal, something I appreciated greatly. Kathe had told him I was a “missionary kid,” so I thought he probably just thought I could not afford the luxury of eating in a nice restaurant (which was true).

After supper, Hal told Bob, his friend from Oklahoma, to drive, and Hal sat in the back seat with me and two others. The seven of us drove around town looking for a tourist attraction called the Vulcan, a huge iron statue on a hill. I don’t remember if we ever got there. Bob and Hal kept the rest of us laughing. Hal put his arm around the seat behind me. I thought it was just because we were so crowded, . . . or did he want to put his arm around me?

Farewell

We got permission for the girls to stay with me in the girls’ dorm, and the boys went to the YMCA. When they dropped us off at the dorm, Hal told us girls, “We will pick you up in the morning at 7:30, go eat breakfast, and leave Frieda and David at her work on our way out of town. As the guys drove off, one of the girls remarked, “Wow, he always wants to leave at 5:00 in the morning.”

I was impressed with Hal. He was good looking, lots of fun, and most important–planning to spend his life serving the Lord. I wasn’t sure if he was interested in me or just friendly. It occurred to me to wonder if he would think I was too tall for him. On the way between the restaurant and where we parked, I tried to see our reflection in the store windows. We looked to be about the same height. (He was in inch taller, but he has always said it wouldn’t have mattered to him anyway.)

After they all left to go on to Columbia, I asked David what he had thought of each of them, one by one and leaving Hal until last. “What about that Hal Thompson?” David answered, “I think he fell for you like a ton of bricks!” I hoped David was right that Hal was interested, but I thought he could be mistaken, thinking that a guy who was just friendly was falling for his sister.

Will I hear from him again?

When we had been driving around, someone mentioned that I had a birthday coming up in one week. I thought to myself, “If he wants an excuse to write me, he will send me a birthday card.” So I waited all week, thinking I was crazy to be that interested in a guy I didn’t really know, but hoping to hear from him. I remember actually thinking this was a guy I might actually want to marry. Finally, it was January 7, my birthday and no card in the mail. I kept scolding myself for being so disappointed.

Misunderstanding

On January 8, however, I received a birthday card from Hal! I wrote to him, and we exchanged several letters. He asked me to be in the recreation room of the college near the public telephone at 8:00 the night of Valentine’s Day so he could call me! Before we met I had made plans to visit my sister who was attending Columbia Bible College where he was for spring break. On the telephone, Hal asked if I would save time in my schedule for a date with him. I thought I gave a clever answer in the affirmative, but as it turned out, he misunderstood and thought I turned him down.

I wrote a letter to him saying how much I had enjoyed talking to him. I walked through a rare Birmingham snow several blocks to the mailbox to mail it. I waited for an answer, and waited, and waited. No more letters came. From February 14 to sometime in March or April, I kept hoping, mad at myself for hoping. Spring break came and I had a ride to Columbia, so I proceeded with my plans to visit my sister Sunny and see all my friends there.

Kathe had arranged for all the group from the Christmas ride to eat breakfast together. My brother David had spring break also and was there. Hal greeted me with a warm smile and a handshake and that was it. He talked to everyone else and never looked in my direction. That was Saturday. On Wednesday Kathe saw Bob and asked him what happened that Hal made no attempt to be friendly to Frieda. Bob asked what had happened to Frieda, and said that Hal was very disappointed and hurt. It turned out that he thought I didn’t want to date him, and he hadn’t gotten my letter. I learned later he definitely wasn’t the type to hang around and beg if he thought he was rejected. On Thursdays the rules allowed guys to sit and talk to their girl friends for a half hour before supper, and Hal invited me to talk with him. They were allowed to date twice on a weekend, so he asked me for Friday night and Sunday afternoon.

First date

Dating in cars wasn’t allowed except for juniors and seniors and then only double dates, but the campus was downtown in walking distance of everything. Hal bought me an orchid for that first date (they were not quite out of fashion yet). He took me to a restaurant that specialized in steaks. He got permission to pick out the steaks to be cooked for us. I’m pretty sure I had never eaten a grilled steak, and certainly not one that big. I was too nervous to eat, so he ate his and most of mine.

His story

As we ate he told me briefly his life story. He was raised on a ranch near Clinton, Oklahoma. He attended a one room school house first grade through high school except for his junior year. He left home when he was fourteen to work on different ranches. His specialty was breaking horses. Nobody in his family went to church. When he was eighteen he attended a church service for the first time. He was invited to a revival meeting in the Methodist church (by a girl he wanted to date he admitted to me much later). He knew nothing about the Bible except that his mother had always said it was God’s word and that it was true. On the last night of the week of revival meetings he asked God to take charge of his life. After high school he joined the Air Force for four years. He was in the Intelligence division and spent the last two years in Germany. When he was discharged, he used the GI Bill to go to Bible College. He was still in his freshman year when we met. Again, everything about him impressed me.

A match made in heaven

On our second date he asked if I wanted to serve the Lord like my parents, if I could play the piano, and if I could type. Fortunately, the answer to all three questions was yes. He didn’t say he loved me, but he made it abundantly clear he thought he had found everything he was looking for in me.

Two weeks later it was spring break at his school, and he drove to Birmingham to visit me. After that we wrote letters . . . for the next four years. During that time, I was in Dallas, Birmingham, Los Angeles, Nicaragua. He would manage to visit me every six months to a year. Telephone calls cost by the minute and were expensive. Anything important was too important to bring up in a short time, and anything trivial seemed a waste of precious time.

I’ll skip over those four years and say we were married in 1961 and finally got to spend time together! That was sixty years ago, and it is still a blessing to be together!

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Thanks so much for reading!

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