<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:blogger='http://schemas.google.com/blogger/2008' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd="http://schemas.google.com/g/2005" xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226</id><updated>2025-11-11T04:06:35.500+00:00</updated><category term="全文"/><category term="小姓奴"/><category term="殘忍的偷戀"/><category term="殘忍的偷戀，小姓奴，全文"/><category term="一百種愛情"/><category term="Chin soc"/><category term="Chinese Society"/><category term="Chiso"/><category term="Hong Kong"/><category term="IC"/><category term="KCL"/><category term="LSE"/><category term="London"/><category term="UCL"/><category term="love"/><category term="ocamp"/><category term="倫敦"/><category term="大學"/><category term="我在倫敦糜爛的日子"/><category term="Daisy Wong"/><category term="ETF"/><category term="FTSE China Capped Index"/><category term="about time"/><category term="fairytale"/><category term="feminist"/><category term="film"/><category term="hong kong society"/><category term="love is a game for two"/><category term="movie"/><category term="objectifying women"/><category term="review"/><category term="中概股，投資，股票"/><category term="回到最愛的一天"/><category term="拜托冰箱，食譜"/><category term="王迪詩"/><category term="童話"/><category term="美股，港股，Franklin FTSE China ETF"/><title type='text'>Carpe Diem</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>35</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-4365714841135806936</id><published>2021-01-21T11:29:00.000+00:00</published><updated>2021-01-21T11:32:03.472+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ETF"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="FTSE China Capped Index"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="中概股，投資，股票"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="美股，港股，Franklin FTSE China ETF"/><title type='text'>Franklin FTSE China ETF (FLCH) 富蘭克林中國ETF 介紹</title><summary type="text">近來想找一只中概股ETF投資，最好追蹤的指數不要有太高比例的美股（已另外持有美股市場ETF）或A股(太fluctuate)，還有不要只追蹤大型股。比較過後發覺港股市場同類型的ETF管理費很貴！看下來還是美國那邊的ETF比較對胃口。

這支 Franklin FTSE China ETF (美股代號：FLCH) 追蹤的指數是 FTSE China RIC
Capped Index, 這個RIC Capped Index 的意思就是每支成分股的權重不可超過20%，還有就是佔該指數的4.5%以上的所有成分股權重之和不能超過總指數的48%。換言之，指數不會太偏重某幾家市值大的公司（例如騰訊、巴巴），達到風險分散的效果，也更能反映出中型股的表現（我看好一些成長中的中型股）。

FLCH 每年僅收取0.19%的管理費，在同類型ETF中算是十分低。

FLCH每年績效與跟它所追蹤的指數差距如下表：
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/4365714841135806936/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2021/01/franklin-ftse-china-etf-flch-etf.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/4365714841135806936'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/4365714841135806936'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2021/01/franklin-ftse-china-etf-flch-etf.html' title='Franklin FTSE China ETF (FLCH) 富蘭克林中國ETF 介紹'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-8100790888130540519</id><published>2018-09-09T18:15:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2018-09-09T18:15:20.807+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Emotionally unavailable</title><summary type="text">I think I may be emotionally unavailable.


Well...at least, I have difficulty identifying my emotions and sharing them which has led to my incapability to form long term relationships...


Signs (credits to reddit haha):





They never/rarely use the words &quot;I feel&quot; and when you ask how they feel they either say &quot;fine&quot; every time, say they don&#39;t know, tell you how they feel physically (&quot;tired&quot; </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/8100790888130540519/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2018/09/emotionally-unavailable.html#comment-form' title='2 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/8100790888130540519'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/8100790888130540519'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2018/09/emotionally-unavailable.html' title='Emotionally unavailable'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-3206485955297989742</id><published>2017-09-02T19:16:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2017-09-02T19:16:58.836+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Lost, again</title><summary type="text">I find that I tend to come back to this blog at moments of self-doubt. A sense of helplessness overcomes me right now. Confused as ever.

Maybe the actions that I take (or think that I ought to take) are contrary to my intrinsic values? I don&#39;t know...I don&#39;t know what I want...I mean, I do, but do I really?



P.S. just found out that my London story has &quot;inspired&quot; someone to write about their </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/3206485955297989742/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2017/09/lost-again.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/3206485955297989742'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/3206485955297989742'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2017/09/lost-again.html' title='Lost, again'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-4453677938389511245</id><published>2017-06-02T07:57:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2017-06-02T07:57:55.217+01:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="feminist"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="hong kong society"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="objectifying women"/><title type='text'>Feminist rant </title><summary type="text">



It&#39;s so sad to see women being commended for their looks before their achievement. Like she has to be called a &quot;美女&quot; first before anything else...as if being pretty somehow makes her accomplishments even more outstanding.

One may say that it&#39;s just an attention grabbing title, but what does that say about our society if that&#39;s the kind of title that catches people&#39;s attention?</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/4453677938389511245/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2017/06/feminist-rant.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/4453677938389511245'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/4453677938389511245'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2017/06/feminist-rant.html' title='Feminist rant '/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaeunE1y_dQxxeoCgjpvX528w5sshaPUeUHeht_my_p3fkdXsU0ArKzeY54Si6pU6_55smsOL8Nj2q0c5xi-SfSVSWmvp5xdqY8rmA8jnrtEHFX0eJmGMkiahBRsqDONXKofidB15MFQ8/s72-c/9259156e-94ed-4a17-8ed6-b7781b5b1e25.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-8734599812642312704</id><published>2017-01-02T14:50:00.000+00:00</published><updated>2017-01-02T14:50:08.515+00:00</updated><title type='text'>記 情</title><summary type="text">我們的愛情，從我的生日開始，到你的生日結束。

我在你的世界可有可無，你卻在我的生活裡留下不可磨滅的痕跡。

祝君一切安好。

願有緣再見。</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/8734599812642312704/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2017/01/blog-post.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/8734599812642312704'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/8734599812642312704'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2017/01/blog-post.html' title='記 情'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-1682950474932174399</id><published>2015-04-21T16:19:00.001+01:00</published><updated>2015-04-21T16:19:22.854+01:00</updated><title type='text'>Explore, Dream... Discover!</title><summary type="text">The moment when you realise that all your life you&#39;ve been chasing after someone else&#39;s dream...




I made my motto &#39;carpe diem&#39; yet I have not been able to follow it.
Sincerely hope that I won&#39;t be saying this ten years from now.

20 years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn&#39;t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/1682950474932174399/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/04/explore-dream-discover.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1682950474932174399'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1682950474932174399'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/04/explore-dream-discover.html' title='Explore, Dream... Discover!'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-2367883507556244587</id><published>2015-04-10T22:39:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2015-04-10T22:45:18.146+01:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Chin soc"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Chinese Society"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Chiso"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Hong Kong"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="IC"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="KCL"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="London"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="LSE"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ocamp"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="UCL"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="倫敦"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="大學"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="我在倫敦糜爛的日子"/><title type='text'>[真人真事] 我在倫敦糜爛的日子 - 1. Ocamp (續）</title><summary type="text">到達campsite後就開始分組。

驚喜（其實係驚嚇）的是竟然有認識的人跟我同組!



嚴格來說也不算認識，就是朋友的朋友，you know, 見過一兩次的那種。
我趕在他看見我前移開了視線。(別裝作你未試過這樣做 winkwink)

「Lena?!」他吃力地睜大一雙小小的眼睛以表達看到我是多麼unbelievable「乜原本妳都入咗依間U?」那當然，要不我怎會在這裡出現，ON99。
我裝作剛剛才看到他，眉頭微皺0.2秒再配上0.3秒遲疑的目光，最後化作一個燦爛但略假的笑容。「Oh my god! 又會咁啱嘅!」
「唔記得我喇？Peter仔呀！上次...（下刪數千字）」就等你這句話！我可不會讓你發現我腦袋內裝有所有我認識（及不認識）的人的檔案：住哪裡、上哪所學校、前度是誰等等。不然怎配得上我八卦天后的頭銜？
「Of course, Peter!好耐無見！」我這次換上真心的笑容。</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/2367883507556244587/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/04/1-ocamp.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/2367883507556244587'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/2367883507556244587'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/04/1-ocamp.html' title='[真人真事] 我在倫敦糜爛的日子 - 1. Ocamp (續）'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-2885136696457136674</id><published>2015-03-08T19:38:00.001+00:00</published><updated>2015-03-08T19:38:30.447+00:00</updated><title type='text'>性格決定命運？</title><summary type="text">命運安排父母
父母營造環境
環境影響際遇
際遇塑造性格

命運決定性格


利申：我是命運論者。</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/2885136696457136674/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/03/blog-post.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/2885136696457136674'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/2885136696457136674'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/03/blog-post.html' title='性格決定命運？'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-6226474852697531301</id><published>2015-02-27T01:43:00.000+00:00</published><updated>2015-02-27T01:43:02.229+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="拜托冰箱，食譜"/><title type='text'>[食譜】洋蔥蘿蔔燉雞 － 拜托冰箱ep14 </title><summary type="text">拜托冰箱 - 超好看的料理節目




非一般的烹飪show － 廚師們需要在十五分鐘內用嘉賓冰箱裡剩餘的食材煮成一道菜
雖然是韓國節目但多是西式或fusion的菜式，食材是普通人家中都會有的，加上十五分鐘的限時，總結就是又簡單又便宜又快速填飽肚子的方法！


食譜
洋蔥蘿蔔燉雞 from Chef Mikael




材料:

雞肉，薑，雞蛋，西紅柿，橄欖油，洋蔥，胡蘿蔔，澱粉


烹調方法:

1.剔出雞骨做雞湯。


2.用橄欖油煎雞。


3.將磨碎的薑加入雞中with鹽和胡椒。


4.將切碎的洋蔥和胡蘿蔔一起煮。


5.將蛋清放入肉湯。


6.以篩子除去肉湯剩餘的油。
7.倒入肉湯。


8.放入西紅柿。


9.添加澱粉水來調節濃度。


10.燉成配上米飯。




</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/6226474852697531301/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/02/ep14.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/6226474852697531301'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/6226474852697531301'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2015/02/ep14.html' title='[食譜】洋蔥蘿蔔燉雞 － 拜托冰箱ep14 '/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjADHFp81RgeZIWBvLpngftKU-HcbL0cLatLFHePVHKn32y-eBXubgRaCT-5vR__9ggHDFfHWNM_Fx9kyIqm4lYJHwK7dObKpubRawHy3FOEgwnMwGI_UvUyfryHu_M3MEhxRz99FipGFQ/s72-c/20141119155823.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-1325691529964190449</id><published>2014-11-11T01:38:00.002+00:00</published><updated>2014-11-11T01:38:54.029+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="ocamp"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="我在倫敦糜爛的日子"/><title type='text'>[真人真事] 我在倫敦糜爛的日子 - 1. Ocamp</title><summary type="text">
Chapter 1 - Ocamp


當年十八歲卜卜脆的我懷着興奮又緊張的心情踏上了開往Ocamp營地的旅遊巴。聽說那年的ocamp名額是oversubscribed的，所以得知自己被“幸運”地選中（後來發現世上沒luck或巧合這回事）就更加期待這三天兩夜的迎新活動。在旅遊巴上坐我旁邊的女生跟我有幾個mutual friends，於是八婆本性難移的我就開始了是非當人情的交易，成功交到了我大學生涯的第一個朋友。姑且叫她Rosie吧，Rosie其貌不揚，但個性aggressive，日後必然在這喚作London的江湖上有一番作為。果然，她在幾個月後成為了一則醜聞的女主角。詳細情況容後再談。
</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/1325691529964190449/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/11/1-ocamp.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1325691529964190449'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1325691529964190449'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/11/1-ocamp.html' title='[真人真事] 我在倫敦糜爛的日子 - 1. Ocamp'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-5142141973799848851</id><published>2014-04-16T03:57:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2014-11-11T01:47:49.867+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="about time"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="film"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="movie"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="review"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="回到最愛的一天"/><title type='text'>About Time 不只關於時間</title><summary type="text">I was expecting a romantic comedy.

But it made me cry.




故事有點像若干年前的 Butterfly Effect，男主角能夠 time travel 到自己人生中的任何時刻，然後改變自己當時的選擇去創造出一個更合意的未來。相信這亦是很多人所夢寐以求的超能力吧。完全違反了「有早知無乞衣」的定律。

男主也很合理地利用這個能力去溝女。上天果然是公平的，醜人有艷福。還要是靚女 Rachel McAdams。(為什麼有關time travel的電影都有她？)


電影拍得很美，當一個導演能將英國拍得那樣美時你就知道他一定是功力深厚。And of course, it is Richard Curtis. 大概所有近年有名的英國電影都是他執導或編劇的：Love Actually, Notting Hill, Bridget Jones等</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/5142141973799848851/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/04/about-time.html#comment-form' title='1 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/5142141973799848851'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/5142141973799848851'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/04/about-time.html' title='About Time 不只關於時間'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhCem6yxoL_UBblUWoO5awS0K1ogfXxeyAWcHbZ-ccrO-2vHIgT0QeGnkDEgqmjjnfSg_MIzrNdVHcyeyzdCdPZTQ5z6ZufJ-roaj4elp-3FMwZzbfbjALqN5TtSfo_eWJdoPptfStUuXQ/s72-c/Untitled.png" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-9062210336990901935</id><published>2014-04-03T16:29:00.000+01:00</published><updated>2014-04-03T16:29:04.384+01:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="全文"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="小姓奴"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="殘忍的偷戀"/><title type='text'>殘忍的偷戀《留白章》</title><summary type="text">57. Rachel&amp;nbsp;

人說要放下一段感情最好的方法，是找一段新的感情。於是我嘗試去找，雖然人愈大愈難找伴侶，但機緣巧合下，給我認識了一位女生，她叫Rachel，是一名銀行保險從業員。

「您好呀，請問係咪林俊傑先生？我哋係恆生銀行打嚟架。」「冇需要呀……」「林生請您先俾三分鐘時間我！」「Sor9ly，我唔得閒喎……」「咁未知林生您會幾時得閒？」「今晚丫。」「請問會係幾多點到？」「十二點。」「十二點？」「係呀，一點。」「咁好丫，如果林生唔介意，我今晚一點再同林生您聯絡！」「拜拜。」「再見。」一個普通不過的煩膠Cold Call，相信香港人每星期至少接一次。來電的職員沒錯，錯在我沒有好好把存款分散投資。由Day 1到現在也只用一個儲蓄戶口，銀行保險從業員就像馬爾代夫的漁夫，清澈的海水令魚兒無所遁形，漁夫不費吹灰之力看著想釣的魚下魚餌。我就是那些蠢魚，戶口一直被監察，Ａ部門把我</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/9062210336990901935/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/04/blog-post.html#comment-form' title='1 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/9062210336990901935'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/9062210336990901935'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/04/blog-post.html' title='殘忍的偷戀《留白章》'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-1788667557158939460</id><published>2014-03-17T21:23:00.000+00:00</published><updated>2014-03-17T21:32:48.686+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="全文"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="小姓奴"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="殘忍的偷戀"/><title type='text'>（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 52~56</title><summary type="text">52. 六十天後

打回原形第六十天，記得六十天前的早上我們鬧翻了；
再六十天前，我們為了未來綢繆；
再六十天前，我們的二人生活正正甜蜜；
再六十天前，我們偷偷在公司牽手偷偷在維園接吻；
再六十天和再再六十天前，我們斷斷續續的夜會……

十數個六十天前，那是我第一天來到公司，
在接待處遠遠從一小罅隙看進會議室內有一位穿白背心亮麗動人的女生，
原來轉輾之間已是四年的事。
我們的往事在腦海不斷回帶，
無論是早上上班時二十分鐘的車程、獨個兒吃飯的一小時、
八時下班後的五小時，這種追憶漸漸成了一種沉溺，
像毒品一樣教人愈沉愈深，不想自拔。
我已做好準備一輩子待在原地，為等待一天她的歸來。

「佢走咗之後，屋企好多嘢都好傷心，每晚我都要安慰佢哋先肯瞓覺……」



翻看《重慶森林》好幾遍，這是裡面一段獨白，
梁朝偉為了逃避現實，把自己的情緒投射在家具裡，
他的情況跟我現在一模一樣，但也有一點不同。</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/1788667557158939460/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/5255.html#comment-form' title='1 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1788667557158939460'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1788667557158939460'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/5255.html' title='（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 52~56'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-3815229332711984365</id><published>2014-03-16T00:45:00.003+00:00</published><updated>2014-03-16T00:45:48.908+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="全文"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="小姓奴"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="殘忍的偷戀"/><title type='text'>（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 50~51</title><summary type="text">50. 親愛的林俊傑







親愛的林俊傑：

這是我第一次手寫信給男生，因為你是第一位令我
愛得純粹的人，也是唯一一位男生能給我浪漫的衝動。
或許是你的愛純粹。

說實，我早就知你跟Wilson熟稔了，因為你身上有他
的香煙味道。也知你左右為難，把持了不少日子。對，
我卻自私的選擇視而不見，希望能在你身上繼續感
受戀愛味兒。因為這些日子實在過得太快樂。

我知我的出現，無論生活和心理都為你帶來沉重負擔，
我知你愛我，但更明白我們一起太勉強。你是我愛過之中
最體貼的男生，你讓我體會到什麼才是愛情，縱使我們
都一直在偷。就把這瞬間的光輝永遠留住，我會記
得你的一切，請你也保重。

P.S.
謝謝你說過我可愛，於是我每天都寫一張字條記下我喜歡
你的原因，就收在這個玻璃樽裡。

　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　岑沛琳


51. 今生不再

玻璃瓶內，滿是我的優點和我說過而令她</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/3815229332711984365/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/5051.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/3815229332711984365'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/3815229332711984365'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/5051.html' title='（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 50~51'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-7599564861984929576</id><published>2014-03-15T20:01:00.002+00:00</published><updated>2014-03-15T20:01:47.638+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="全文"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="小姓奴"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="殘忍的偷戀"/><title type='text'>（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 47~49</title><summary type="text">47. 左右互搏

那次燒烤後，我竟然跟Wilson熟絡了，
他會主動約我午膳，早下班還會一起Happy Hour……
原來他沒有多少知心，一是他成長階段轉了兩次學，
中學後便到澳洲讀書，出來工作一年便開設會計師樓，
朋友是有，但沒多少親近的。

或許是他不多在人前顯露出弱點。
原來完美的人之所以完美，是因為他們不把缺點曝露，只有歡喜沒有憂愁。
我不知道自己為何能當上他的知己，或許是時間人物地點的剛巧。

滿以為他的生活多姿多采，原來他極度枯燥，
一天到晚是工作，工作以外還是工作，
他看來很喜歡工作，因為如今只剩下工作。
滿以為他到星加坡夜夜搓波，他說他近年都不敢再碰她，
一方面受到良心責備不想再搞婚外情，
另一方面Tracy的情緒相當不穩實在碰不得。
只為一時快慰令雙方關係更泥足深陷實屬下策，
種種憂患之下，有時他到星加坡寧願悄悄來去也不想打攪神經質的Tracy……


Wilson跟</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/7599564861984929576/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/4749.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/7599564861984929576'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/7599564861984929576'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/4749.html' title='（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 47~49'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-3863778455539199207</id><published>2014-03-15T18:46:00.000+00:00</published><updated>2017-09-02T19:22:37.742+01:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Chin soc"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Chinese Society"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Chiso"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="Hong Kong"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="IC"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="KCL"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="London"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="LSE"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="UCL"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="倫敦"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="大學"/><title type='text'>[真人真事] 我在倫敦糜爛的日子 - 序 </title><summary type="text">在倫敦讀書的這幾年間，我學到的實在太多，不只是做人處事、待人接物，還有夜蒲劈酒、男女關係、爾虞我詐等。沒錯，世事已差不多被我看透了。老套點說句，大學真的像是社會的縮影，香港人的圈子尤是，裡面的人千奇百怪，又有一套複雜的潛規則，一個不留神就會得罪些不好惹的人，永無翻身之日。所以我常想如果當初有一本甚麼 A Dummy&#39;s Guide to London (its politics and its&amp;nbsp; people)&amp;nbsp; 那該有多好。


那一切就不會發生，我的人生也許會完全不一樣…


在英留學生生存指南

首先，你要認清楚這圈子的統治集團 --- Chinese Society, 有些大學稱為Hong Kong Society, 但London4U*都一概是叫Chi So (音：猜嫂)。(另有其他related的societies, 例如PASS和ABACUS, 容後再談</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/3863778455539199207/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/blog-post.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/3863778455539199207'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/3863778455539199207'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/blog-post.html' title='[真人真事] 我在倫敦糜爛的日子 - 序 '/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-1158029503387274264</id><published>2014-03-15T13:38:00.002+00:00</published><updated>2014-03-15T13:38:38.552+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="全文"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="小姓奴"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="殘忍的偷戀"/><title type='text'>（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 44~46</title><summary type="text">44. 閨房密事

同居的第四十三天早上，
我睡眼惺忪在床上看出去客廳，見她坐在窗邊偷泣……

這四十三天，她像個天真爛漫的小女孩，
我從她的真摯感到無以倫比的愛，每一分每一秒也被她的愛感動，
每個早上醒來見她在眼前也像中獎般喜悅，上班時想念她，
工作遇上阻滯感到洩氣時只要想起她，
知道有個人在家等待自己，馬上便能提起精神重新振作，
晚上回家便立即擁著她不放，
每晚也不捨得入睡，怕第二天睜開眼她已不見了……

這四十三天是我人生最美麗的時刻，
但今早驚見總掛著燦爛笑容的她獨自飲泣，
陽光映照她的皺頭，格外憂傷……

起來時床裖的彈弓發出「咔」一聲把她驚醒了，她連忙收起眼淚和憂傷，
勉強擠出笑容上前迎接醒來的我：「喂喂凍喎，著返件衫先落地！」
她立即遞上外套替我穿好，看著她的偽雙眼皮比平日更傷，
大概是被眼淚醃成。伸手撫摸她的臉龐，
突然失去質感，這溫度好像快不屬於我……

「頭先收到奶奶</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/1158029503387274264/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/4446.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1158029503387274264'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/1158029503387274264'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/4446.html' title='（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 44~46'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-5445375145746533699</id><published>2014-03-14T18:14:00.000+00:00</published><updated>2014-03-14T18:14:32.361+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="全文"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="小姓奴"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="殘忍的偷戀"/><title type='text'>（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 41~43</title><summary type="text">41. 如果岑沛琳是老婆，一天會怎過？&amp;nbsp;她把工作辭退，桌上的私人物品由她的助手代勞收拾，&amp;nbsp;除了兩位助手，其他同事都對她突然離職十分好奇，&amp;nbsp;說到底也在這裡四年多，無故的離去令公司上下有過一個早上的騷動。&amp;nbsp;老闆為平定軍心，向外交代Catherine Shum是因為家中有一點情況出現需即時處理，&amp;nbsp;或待事情安頓後再回歸。&amp;nbsp;其實，她正躺在我家的單人床熟睡中……&amp;nbsp;關於此事，老闆沒有主動跟我提起，但罪疚驅使我不能以視而不見應對，&amp;nbsp;怎樣也得要裝成途人略提一個：「Catherine屋企無事嘛？」&amp;nbsp;老闆想了一想有點慨歎：「唉，真係唔好搞公司同事……」&amp;nbsp;我裝得一臉驚奇，他續說：「就咁少咗個當打嘅Sales，真係公司一個損失……」&amp;nbsp;不愧為出色的商人，弟婦和同事，老闆認為她是同事…&amp;nbsp;弟弟和嫂子</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/5445375145746533699/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/4143.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/5445375145746533699'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/5445375145746533699'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/4143.html' title='（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 41~43'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-3450282494198334041</id><published>2014-03-13T22:42:00.001+00:00</published><updated>2017-01-02T15:05:44.876+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="love"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="love is a game for two"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="一百種愛情"/><title type='text'>一百種愛情 - 002 love is a game for two </title><summary type="text">
愛情是兩個人玩的遊戲。

多過兩個人，愛情就會變質。
注意，是quality不是quantity。
我相信人是有能力同時給予同等份量的愛，
但那些一定不會是同樣的愛。


愛情是兩個人玩的遊戲。

所以婚姻是愛情的墳墓。
當雙方家長開始介入，
當親友開始指手劃腳，
當愛情變成一紙契約，
它就淪為附帶的責任。


某程度上，
愛情是you and me against the world。
只要我倆付出真心，
不需理會旁人的眼光，
不用去聽流言蜚語,

因為
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33. 夫之目前犯若妻

「Hey...」
「在，睡不進？」
「唔……」
「想我？」
「唔…」
「怎麼了？要不我現在過來找妳？」
「我剛才跟他做了一次」
「唔…」
「他很想要，我回來時突然抱著我」
「唔……」
「他今晚特別想要……」
「唔…」

「對不起…」
「怎麼要道歉…」
「對不起……」
「別道歉喔，我明白的。」
「但跟他做時，我是想著你」
「這樣已是對我最好的安慰。」
「唔…」
「唔……」

「你比他溫柔得多…我喜歡跟你做」
「謝謝妳……」
「你會顧及我感受…」
「他不會？」
「可能今晚他特別想要…」
「怎麼了？很粗暴？」
「只是比較硬來…」
「會不舒服嗎？」
「會…於是我想起你…」
「對不起……」
「不…不要道歉…我自願的……」
「我真想現在就擁著妳…」
「我也是」



「早點休息」「妳也是。」「晚安」「晚安。」「林俊傑」「是？」「我決定以後跟你一樣寫書面語」「為何？」「更</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/6462723325363743579/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/3335.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/6462723325363743579'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/6462723325363743579'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/3335.html' title='（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 33~35'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-8569527097249625824</id><published>2014-03-08T01:14:00.001+00:00</published><updated>2014-03-08T01:14:17.926+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="全文"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="小姓奴"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="殘忍的偷戀"/><title type='text'>（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 30~32</title><summary type="text">30. 至少還有妳 

「佢就發啦，上到位，托住老細大腳搵大錢，仲使乜好似我哋咁搲客乞食吖！」 

「我對佢印象不嬲麻麻，係幾識刷鞋嘅，不過做嘢真係一般！」 
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「無，上次份糧單錯勁晒佢都照簽，我無咗成半個月糧，Hi到個Account反艇先搞返…」 
「喂會唔會係佢落咗格呀！」 

「邊有咁猖狂呀！嘩你估七十年代咩……」 
「咁你份糧又關佢咩事呀？佢又唔係Account。」 

「就係咁先吹脹，唔搞開數都要霸埋嚟睇，好似啲狗咁痾屎霸地盤囉！」 
「佢個樣似狗啫，原來習性都咁狗哈哈哈！」 
「Hi一講起我就扯火……」 

「算啦，我哋呢啲實幹型係要捱㗎喇！」 

「講起Pal條友，喺公司食唔少女啦！」 
「係？邊個先！」 
「Designer 
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「Kammy同Joey？嘩！」 
「Hi可能易上啦！」</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/feeds/8569527097249625824/comments/default' title='發佈留言'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/3032.html#comment-form' title='0 則留言'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/8569527097249625824'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3290509761699752226/posts/default/8569527097249625824'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lena-carpe-diem.blogspot.com/2014/03/3032.html' title='（轉貼）【殘忍的偷戀】小姓奴 - 30~32'/><author><name>Elena Y</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/03577418356346234492</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='31' height='23' src='//blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdBmTOwxtsuOF6G_GPi87M1uTmNSDM5Pgakj8dJOk6luz_Bi1HSPogMBQRZJwF1J9ohI0lahsP6jyXhx-AawommQ9Uq-K3poehZEpHUK9zikMCgRkeCt11e5KYUVU4pQ/s220/dress.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3290509761699752226.post-7935397959200197930</id><published>2014-03-07T17:42:00.000+00:00</published><updated>2014-03-07T17:42:42.268+00:00</updated><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="fairytale"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="love"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="一百種愛情"/><category scheme="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#" term="童話"/><title type='text'>一百種愛情 - 001...and they lived happily ever after </title><summary type="text">


愛情是童話
愛情是英雄救美
愛情是一吻定情
愛情是happy ending
愛情是王子和公主永遠幸福快樂地生活下去

愛情是小時候那些bedtime story
那些驅走夢魘確保孩子美夢到天明的故事
那些隱瞞世界的殘酷的白色謊言

愛情是never have to work a day in your life
愛情是純真的
愛情是初戀直落結婚生仔


不過本故事純屬虛構



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問世間情為何物？一樣米養百樣人。若人有一百種，愛情自然也會有一百種呈現的方式。

對丈夫偷食隻眼開隻眼閉的女人來說，愛是包容；對於check男朋友手機的女孩來說，愛是懷疑；對當女友發胖時稱讚她瘦了的男生而言，愛是欺騙；對14巴港男來說，愛是忍耐；對於非洲的同性戀者，愛是犯罪。



就讓我們在這一百零一夜談一百場戀愛吧。



待續...
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她每天派我手指餅，我每天為她推介一首好歌。  
還未醒來的星期一，送她一首令人聞歌起舞的《Electric Feel》； 
下雨的星期二讓Emily Connor唱她一首《Oh  Sunshine》； 
歌頌天氣與運氣讓我們走在一起的星期三，是方大同的《因為你》； 
當跑腿在外東奔西走的星期四，孤單的我想唱她一首《High  And Dry》； 
在她Sick Leave的星期五，我是那麼的《Officially Missing You》； 
星期六借《Good  Morning, Hypocrite》陪伴她的枕邊； 
星期天晚上，我想告訴她今天我夢到我倆《Slow Dancing In A Burning  Room》…… 

自每天也特意為她搜羅勁歌推介後， 
我發現一首好歌都有一個共通點， 
就是當你戀愛的時候，怎樣也能代入歌詞之中。  
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