We've all played sex games before, I hope;) Perhaps some Strip Poker or a little Truth or Dare turned naughty? Spicing up games with sex breaks up boredom in the bedroom and provides an avenue to do something different. Open your mind to expanding your options, between the sheets.
Here are some sex games that you may not of heard or thought of before now.
Juicy Jenga
Start by using a marker to label the block pieces of a Jenga set with various sexual or sexy requests. Each partner is responsible for half of the blocks. Feel free to request something you are to shy to request face to face. Just remember you may end up pulling one of your own pieces! This part should be accompanied by some music and cocktails and should be fun and provocative. Keep all requests a secret. Once all the blocks are completed, stack them up and begin. Take turns pulling. Whatever you pull, you do. Hours of fun;)
Skills Required: Manual Dexterity

Suck & Spin the Bottle
Come on, you remember being a little girl and twirling that bottle and wishing it would point to your best friend Suzy?! Begin by sucking down a bottle of wine or the like.This helps you both limber up. In addition to the now empty bottle, you will need a marker and a large sheet of construction paper. Create a spinner board by drawing a large circle, then dividing it into about 6 equal sections. Take turns writing a request in each section. Here are some examples for you slow starters out there: kiss this or that, do a strip tease, perform a lap dance, partner’s choice. Whatever section you land on, you will perform on your partner.
Skills Required: Spontaneity

Seven Minute Sex
This is a riff on 7 Minutes to Heaven. Make her wait for you in a dark closet with the door closed. You can slip into a Victoria's Secret number or simply get naked.Her anticipation and the tight, warm space will get her juices flowing. The lack of light will heighten your senses and allow you both to discard your inhibitions. Once you step inside, you can play coy to increase her desire or just go for it. It depends on what gets her off best. Tip: Stick to 7 minutes & No Talking Allowed
Skills Required: Creativity

Twisted Twister
Awe such fond memories, remembering all those contorted positions that had your body entwined with your unwitting female friends. Now, picture playing it naked with your girlfriend. All you need for this one is the Twister board and your beautiful birthday suit. Flick the spinner and do as the wheel indicates. For added kink allow blowing, licking, kissing, and tickling. Last woman standing wins! Option: Rather than starting out butt naked, turn it into Stripper Twister. With each spin, drop one piece of clothing before you take your position, from top down or bottom up.
Skills Required: Flexibility

Everyone is a winner in provocative playtime, including your relationship. You get to live out fantasies while having a fun competition that brings you closer together.

"Higher Art: A Story of Sapphic Seduction" is an independent lesbian erotic film by Diane Flood Taylor. The film short is actually silent with a beautiful and original musical score. The film is shot tastefully though it exhibits a torrid encounter between the two attractive stars, Jezebel and Delilah.The women are stylish without being pretentious and provide a quite realistic portrayal of what takes place behind closed doors.This pair caresses then rubs and grinds, heightening the senses and arousing the viewers desires without employing the use of a thin story line, bad acting or awkward dialogue. The viewer becomes somewhat of a voyeur as the two meet at a train station and can barely wait to head back to Jezebel's place. Once there, the two take their time in the living room before their true exploration begins in the bedroom. The lovers tell a sultry story of seduction and sexual fantasy using smiles, sensuality and a strap on. The tale ends with an exquisite embrace as the women hold each other tightly; truly satisfied. "Higher Art" enables the viewer to be swept up in the action of the film. This film was made by women for women. Not Rated 26 minutes.
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Send words, not pictures

As you well know, a woman’s sexuality is largely between her ears not her legs. Telling her what you’re going to do to her when you get together will likely be much more stimulating than a picture of your naughty bits.  Share your ideas about what the two of you could do in private and you’ll have her blushing every time she checks her phone. Encourage her to use her imagination and make her wait to see your naked lady parts. ;) If you've been together awhile AND you trust her AND she asks, consider sending a modest pic of her favorite plaything...just be careful!

Sexting should be foreplay not substitute for real play.

Use sexting as a tool to get in the bed, not as a substitute for the real deal or for your inability to come up with something else to text.  In this era of social networking, texting, instant messaging,  ad infinitum -actual face to face communication skills are falling to the way side and are in danger of being lost forever.  Sexting should never take the place of sex, simply provide a means of foreplay when you are not in each others company , or perhaps you are but are not able to act on your sexual desires.

Don’t send anything you wouldn’t say to her face.

The ability to text has made us all a little bolder when it comes to our communications, but if you wouldn’t say something out loud to someone, you probably shouldn’t text it either. The ability to text and solely communicate online tends to boost esteem a bit and can sometimes tempt us to let loose a bit too much. S reemebo use a little discretion. A text message or an e-mail leaves a technological footprint that could come back to haunt you. Sometimes, even things you would say in the heat of the moment in bed should never be put in writing. When in doubt, do not sext it.

No unsolicited sexting.

Just because a woman gave you her number does not mean you have an open invitation to start sexting. Start off by flirting casually to see if she responds, then let it build up gradually from there. An important rule that should not be bent or broken is that you should never sext anyone you haven’t sexed in real life first.  I would bet money that most women won’t mind getting a steamy text from you if you’ve already made her O in the bedroom.

Infrequency creates Intrigue.

Once you’ve starting the sexting, don’t abuse or overuse it.  It should never be a substitute or be expected by the recipient.  Keep it fun and spontaneous. She'll want you to sext her again, instead of wishing you would stop.  Don’t abuse your sexting power.

Never share sexts.

If you participate in sexting, be an adult and do not share your intimate texts with others.  This is a childish error and is very disrespectful.  The only time sharing a sext is acceptable is if it was uninvited and you feel the need to report it to an authority for safety or in an effort to stop the unwanted sexts.

Us girls were taught "If you can't say anything nice, keep your mouth shut." Fuck that shit;) Girl, you have got to learn to talk dirty. It's an art form that does wonders to get (or keep) that hottie in your bed. Oh, so now you want to... but don’t have any clue where to start? Don’t fret my pet, it's not that hard to learn. And don't concern yourself with the subsequent hysterics you’ll trigger when she tells her friends about your goofs.YES, there may be gaffs & giggles, but humor is good for relationships too.
Dip the Toes
Communication is key to good sex. We should all know this by now, yet we still don’t practice it half as much as we should. The first step to introducing something new into the bedroom is to test it in casual conversation. Ask something like: “Have you ever talked dirty before?" This gets the idea into her head and she’ll ponder it after you mention it. She may even discuss it with her friends to see what they think. It is possible that she will flatly refuse to entertain the idea. In which case, it’s best to drop it like a lead weight. If she's that uncomfortable, she is not likely to change her mind anytime soon and any attempts will probably turn her off. Talking about what we want in bed can be difficult. Requests can be misconstrued as “you are not good enough,” when in reality, they are essential to healthy sexuality. Statistics say a whopping 80% of our sex lives takes place in between our ears. So, talking dirty can be a headboard-busting turn-on for both partners.

There are three aspects of successfully integrating dirty talk into sex play. The first is content. It’s supposed to turn her on, not make her cringe or burst out laughing. The second is delivery: tone, volume and proper warm up are all important. The third is to avoid being rude or crude so you don't get bitch slapped. Here’s a tip: Don’t mention her sister.
 
Dirty Dos
Read
Erotica can be incredibly stimulating and is a fantastic way to spend an hour, whether it leads to sex or not. There are good lesbian erotic writers around, but finding something she will like can be a challenge. Find something that's not trashy, it's less likely to offend. In reading to her, practice your sexy voice.  
Swear
Dirty words are definitely a part of lesbian culture.Swearing can be hot when talking dirty in bed. The very words: pussy, cum, squirt spur on the raw purity sex acts. It can also bring out another side of us. If your girl is sweet and polite by nature, expressing her dirty side in bed can be a real buzz for both of you.  
Speak
English is not the most romantic language on earth. French, Italian or Portuguese sounds so much better. Having words spoken to you in a foreign tongue during sex can be a beautiful thing. Learn to say simple phrases like, I love you and I want you and I want to fuck you and incorporate these into your dirty talk language.
Dirty Dont's
Don't do friends or family
References to her family or yours are strictly out of bounds. Don’t mention anything about her super-sexy friend either or she'll pull those panties up promptly.
Don't do other women
Don’t bring up the topic of other women unless she specifically requests it, otherwise it could make her feel insecure. Insecurity is not an aphrodisiac. However, it is quite possible that your partner may want to hear you talking filth about another woman. It may turn her on to know that other women want you and that you want them. Be sure before you venture there.
Don't do clinical or childish
Clinical terms will sweep the sexy right out of the moment. Saying your vagina is lubricating seriously kills the moment with images of the gynos office.  This applies to all parts of the anatomy, with the possible exception of the term breasts.Try something like, "my pussy is wet for you" instead. Immature terms are a turn off too.  The words “boobies” or ”jugs;” are simply not sexy.
Time to Deliver
Voice Choice
What is sexy to you? Low & deep... a breathy whisper? Your normal talking voice or a new persona? Play around with a few and choose one you like that feels comfortable, not forced. The benefit of having a special dirty talk voice is that when you are on the phone with her and you use your sexy voice, she will associate that voice with (hopefully) raunchy, exciting sex. 
Warm Up Drill
First, make sure you are both in the mood. It is easiest to start talking dirty when you are actually having sex. Usually, you will both need to be somewhat turned on for it to work, so no skipping foreplay. Whisper a couple of things in her ear and see how she responds, just to test the waters.  
Start Your/Her Engine
A good way to start is by simply talking about what you are doing and how good it feels, but don’t drown on about it. A play by play of the action can be a turn off. Just say a few things, like: “Your skin feels so good” or “I love when you play with my nipples.” Also, keep in mind that some women can get self-conscious when comments about their body are made during sex.  This dialogue has other benefits too. She’ll get to learn more about what you like during sex and it will encourage her to speak up too. 
  Repertoire 101
Be creative and vary your dirty talk; nobody likes a broken record. Practice at it. Once you are more confident that she's into it you can get her to join in -- you may just find her cursing back at you.
Review
Save the analysis for later. Discuss it when you’re fully clothed and watching TV or making dinner. This way, there is far less risk of damaging egos. You can talk about which parts you both liked or didn't and why. Keep the discussion lighthearted and fun. Remember, anxiety or fear may manifest themselves into laughter. Talk like adults, be honest and encourage each other.

Sure, your sex life might be pretty good but why not make it great! Read these fast and easy tips to get your sex life in gear and get your girl going.
No.1 - New Heights
To increase her chances of orgasm when your inside her, use the right positions to hit her G while you simultaneously stimulate her clitoris with your other hand or a toy. The more O's, the better and this is an amazing one. Trust us;)
No.2 -  Oral FIXation
Many women rank oral sex as their favorite sexual act. So, get better at it!  Remember to keep your rhythm steady & check in with her about how much pressure to use & if she likes direct stim. Some of us are too sensitive to enjoy that. Try varying your technique by using the flat part of the middle of your tongue for a constant, softer & more encompassing way to stimulate her entire clit. Please don't utilize the same technique that you kiss her with to give oral to her other set of lips. Duh.
No.3 - Sexpert
In addition to her clit and G-spot, become familiar with all her other secret spots. The outer third of her vagina is filled with very sensitive & erotic points for stimulation. Be adventurous & have fun when trying to find them with your fingers. These spots are all about the size of a dime and exactly where they lie varies a tad bit for every woman. Your girl's erogenous zones are as unique as her, so explore her personal anatomy & become an expert about what turns her on.
No.4 - Compliments Complement
For some women, the thought of anyone looking at their pussy may be loaded with anxiety & fear. Even if you've been together for a long time, we women are always concerned with how we look, smell & taste. If you want to release her wild side, fill her with confidence about her body. Tell her often how beautiful she is and how wonderful she smells & tastes. This is especially important if she claims she doesn’t like getting oral. She may have had a previous lover who was insensitive, or too many crappy messages from childhood that prevent her from celebrating sex & her sexuality. Encourage her to see herself the way you do, as a gorgeous sex goddess, and she may just surprise you with mind blowing sex.
No.5 - Missing the Kissing
Kissing might just be the fastest and easiest way to turn her on and get her juices flowing. Our big tip: Don’t forget to kiss her when it’s most important to her- during sex. While certain positions can make kissing tricky, try to kiss her everywhere, especially on the mouth, during your sexual encounter.
No.6 - Breast Bully
We know they are your favorite toys and you may have even named them; but beware, all of her sensitive and erogenous spots become heightened and sometimes even painful when Aunt Flo visits. We know that when her breasts are fuller than usual they can be very inviting, but she may not even want them touched. Check in with her & fondle gently.Iit will make her feel loved as well as aroused.
No.7 -  Toy Joy
Many women have difficulty climaxing without the use of a toy or have stronger orgasms with them. Toys today are for everyone. If she's apprehensive, let her control the speed & pressure. She can sit on top of you, be facing toward you or away, to vary the spots in the vagina that are stimulated. You get to watch her bouncing on you while she does most of the work. Enjoy the show and tell her how sexy she is on top! Sexual stimulants like gels add a little fun and variety you can’t get naturally. Another tip: make sure that you have good quality lubes and toy cleaners to keep you safe and healthy.
No.9 - Porn Queen
New studies show that almost 30% of online porn viewers are female. Some women may prefer to use adult film as research. There are some great instructional DVDs out there that teach techniques including oral play, erotic massage and female ejaculation. They can provide an interesting approach to seduction on date night. Watch them together with the sound off, so you can get information and a turn-on at the same time. Research has never been so much fun;)
No.10 - Mutual Masturbation
An ideal alternative to the mundane is to have a night where you and you lover take turns pleasing yourselves. Sometimes, you just want it the way you want it! Light the candles & get out the lube. Apply some to each other then prop yourselves up on pillows so that you won’t miss a moment of the show! Lie close & kiss each other often, especially the neck and breasts so that you have body-to-body contact. We all have areas that are more sensitive than others, so watch where she touches herself and learn. You might even want to place your hand softly over hers as she touches herself to learn the right pressure. Offer to lend a hand or finger if she requests it. Internal stimulation at the same time may help her over the edge. Hot pillow talk to encourage each other is not a bad idea either.

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We all have had a fantasy about having sex with our girl in a public place. Maybe it's the risk of getting caught, the feeling of doing something naughty, or just the sheer thrill of it that really gets us going. Whatever the case, here are some of the top places where us girls like to get it on:)
1. Beach Bounty
Especially the lifeguard tower, just guard her shores and watch for sand in the pants;)
2.Airplane Applause
Simply, throw a blanket over your laps and join the exclusive mile high club.
3. Faraway Field
Huge & open in the middle of nowhere, have at it. If you want something quicker & easier, try your own back yard!
4. Car Crazy
If you haven’t done it here already, you’re way behind the curve. If you have, well hell, try the hood!
5. Pool Pleasure
No worries, the chlorine kills everything anyway.

Let’s first examine the wall to wall carpet style. This is when a woman is proud of her pubs and usually wears it as shag or a nice berber. I have a couple of theories on this. The first is the desire to be “au naturale.” These women believe that their “hair” is natural and feel that they shouldn’t have to shave for anyone or anything. The second theory is well, laziness.  Ladies, you know who you are, you only shave when you first get into a relationship or for those special occasions.
Another and more popular style is the lesbian landing strip, shaved tight on the sides and down the south side. The argument for this patch of grass is that it reminds us that we are indeed women and not pre-pubescent girls. Or does it?  Do we not know we have relations with grown women without seeing a patch of grass? This leads me to the third and most popular style among our members, the hard wood floor. So, you meet a woman. Things are getting hot and heavy, clothes start flying off and you look down and see a silky smooth mons pubis. Some women achieve this look by getting a Brazilian wax, shaving daily, or Nair-ing regularly. It’s a lot of maintenance for sure. Why do some women feel it necessary to shave it all off? Is it an actual fear of hair or does it perhaps make oral more enjoyable for both partners?
So, what should you do with your hair? This thought process will inevitably take place with each new partner. One partner may hand you a razor and tell you to go at it. Yet another may ask you to grow it back bush style. Take charge, stand up for your girl, and stand by whatever you have down there.

and they'll take care of you;)

Sex toys are fun and they get really dirrrty!  Cleaning & maintenance is important to the integrity of the material of any sex toy. Here are some tips to keep your toys in tip-top shape.
 -Be sure to wash before first use & immediately after each use before storing.
-Always be careful to keep water & cleanser away from battery cartridges & electrical parts.
-Use an antibacterial cleanser, which contains Nonoxynol-9, which kills all bacteria & is compatible with all sex-toy materials.
 -Toy materials differ & each should be cared for in its own special way. Silicone can be boiled with soap & water. Wash plastics & sterilize using an alcohol-soaked cotton ball (rinse thoroughly afterward). Rubber/Latex & Jellies are extremely porous, so be sure to wash them thoroughly with warm water & anti-bacterial hand soap, then rinse so that no trace of soap is left, as it can degrade the material & cause irritation to you (boo).
 -Consider using a condom with insertable toys!
 -Beware of allergies since sex toys not only touch your skin, but touch very intimate areas of your body.
 -Maintenance is the key to a long life! Choose the right lubricant to keep your sex toy in the best shape possible. Remember water-based lubricants can be used with any & all sex toys:)
-If you share your sex toys with a partner, or want to switch between anal & vaginal use, you must thoroughly clean the toy to avoid introducing bacteria. The easiest way is to use a condom over the toy & change it whenever the toy is used for different partners or orifices.
 -Store your sex toys in a place that is cool & dry, and well protected from dirt & dust. Always remove the batteries before storing.  Keep each item separate by wrapping it in a soft cloth because some materials are not compatible with each other & can cause yucky melting or discoloration. Direct sunlight & excess heat may cause toys & condoms to melt, discolor, or dry out.
-Replacements are necessary, no matter how much you love your vibrating friend! No sex toy lasts forever, and some may last a very short while. If the mechanical features slow or stop working, cracks are visible, mold or mildew has formed on the material the material is deteriorating, or battery corrosion is seen inside the battery pack; it’s time for a trip to the sex store for a new model.  yippee!

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1. Neat Nails
Keep finger & toe nails trimmed & tidy. It speaks volumes about us & keeps your girl safe in bed;)
2. the Triple S’s
Shit, Shower & Shave. Never underestimate the importance of good grooming & a clean colon!
3. Ship Shape
Trim that bush. A Stripe, triangle, bald or brazilian, just pull out the shears & create your shape.
4. Underwear Affair
Wear matching bra & panties that flatter your figure. It shows forethought girrrl!
5. Dr. Frankenspanken
Experiment with role play, toys, porn, props or positions. Try it; you just might like it.
6. Mrs. Dash
Spice up your love life with whatever’s on hand. Fruits & veggies can be good for more than a simple snack.
7. Tunnel Vision
Pay attention to more than the pussy, and t&a. Kiss the nape of her neck; rub the small of her back. Spread the love.
8. GIVE & TAKE (it)
Don’t be so one sided girlfriend. Open up & broaden your horizons.
9. Let’s Talk @ Sex Baby
Talk about what you want & what you don’t when you’re not between the sheets.
10. Practice Makes Perfect
Oh damn, we have to do that again?! Learn what feels good to you and to your partner.

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1. Spontaneous Sex

What Every Lesbian Should Know ...SEX

how to have sex & not fall in love

how to break up with a lover & move on

that she can't change the size of her hips & shouldn't change the size of her breasts

that sex isn't always perfect but should always be fun

what she would & wouldn't do for sex

how to live without sex (or with it)

if she can trust her lover

great places to have discreet sex

What Every Lesbian Should Have...SEX

an old lover she would love to have again

something great to wear for sex

a sexual history juicy enough that she wants to retell it

a vibrator, dildo & lube

a feeling of control over her sex life

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2. Mons Massage
The mons in the mound of skin found on top of the pubic bone; some of us lovingly refer to it as  "the mound." Use one or both hands & gently move the mons and surrounding area much the way you would when you massage her shoulders. Be careful not to press too hard or make too wide a circular movement though. As you masage her mound, you can move your mouth or other hand to rub other erogenous areas. Multi-task girl;)

3. Anal Anyone
If you want to experiment with a little anal play then say hello to the butt plug. The butt plug is a sex toy designed to fit & stay in your ass; it is not generally used for thrusting. The shape of an anal plug is different because it has a recessed neck & a flared base. This lets the a hole close around it keeping the plug snug. We can get a lot of pleasure from anal stimulation alone or butt plugs can be inserted to greatly enhance masturbation or sex. Some like to insert a butt plug before having anal as it allows the ass muscles to loosen up to prepare for penetration. Try a vibrating plug for extra enjoyment.

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Caress the tips gently
Cup my mounds forcefully
Get into a rhythm
Arch of my back singing
Moans turning into pants
Gasping to catch my breath
Dancing underneath your spell
Appreciating the level of skill evermore
Scissors and focused penetration  explode into an ongoing climax
Damn you ride this Stallion well
Compliment your beautiful features with my eyes
Speaking volumes - bodies totally meshed - in sync
Strapped up filling the jar of honey
Drinking the tea of esctasy
Hearing Barbara Streisand's voice fill the air
Laying with you in my arms gently sleeping
Realizing I need to close the sliding door
Waking you gently demanding a bit more!
Replaying our chat earlier over Cape Cods, smoked gouda/almonds and pineapples
Discussing life present past and future
Speaking on ambitions - mapping out plans
Stimulating feedback and meaningful conversation
All guards down
Living in the moment
Thank you for a wonderful afternoon!
My question to you: Is there always calm before the storm?

Stay tuned and find out.

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Ok girls, light the candles because it’s about time to get your O on! We all know there are different types of orgasms but knowing how to give and get one separates the girls from the women between the proverbial sheets. So here is some lesser known info on the sometimes elusive O. Read on & get it on. Oh, & practice, practice, practice! 

O O O O O

Multiple O’s cum in different varieties. You may to be able to have more than one O in a very short amount of time. Essentially one O leads to another in succession or you can cum over & over again in one session. You may have a series of small O’s, one large and several small or the intensity may increase from one O to the next. For others a multiple O can feel like one long extended O. Yes, every girl is different. Some may feel too sensitive after one O to continue while others find that if they back off & use lighter stimulation, the energy will build back up & they can cum again & again. Lucky girls;) 

O the g-Spot

The g-Spot is actually called the urethral sponge & it is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening. It is an area about the size of a quarter within the front wall of your vagina. Find your g-spot with your fingers or a firm, curvy dildo. Insert your fingers or dildo, aiming for the front of the vagina. Stroke this area with a "come here honey" motion. If you use your fingers, you can feel the difference in texture between this rougher area, and the smoothness of your vaginal walls. Stimulate your g-Spot until you feel intensely aroused & feel the urge to pee. You might try to stimulate the opening of the vagina just below the urethra and also apply pressure just above the pubic bone by pressing down on your pelvis with your free hand. Stimulating the g-Spot may create a more intense orgasm than clitoral stimulation, but keep in mind that unfortunately not all of us can have an O through the g. 

Squirty Girl

Female ejaculate is a clear fluid produced in the paraurethral glands as a result of g-Spot stimulation, clit stimulation or even penetration. Ejaculation may come before the O, during the O or after the O and the amount and pressure/distance of fluid released varies. As you approach orgasm, push out, as if urinating. Some women may be unsure if they are ejaculating or if they are urinating during sex, because they may feel this urge to pee. Let’s be clear here-ejaculate is not urine! We do however suggest you pee before sex to avoid any accidents.

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Quality Me Time

For fucks sake women, masturbate! Seriously!  Not only to cut the edge off of a stressful day, but so you become comfortable with your body.  Find a mirror and prepare yourself for an amazing evening with yourself. Get comfortable with your body, the sweet smell, feel & taste of your cum, with the sounds you make when you orgasm and with simply making yourself feel good.  If you are not totally in tune with your body; how you look and feel when having sex, how do you expect someone else to be comfortable?  Being able to give yourself maximum pleasure will make it that much easier for her.

Stimulate Your Girl  

If you have never masturbated in front of someone or visa versa you are missing out.  Need stimulation?  Want a turn on?  Ask her to masturbate for you after a bit of foreplay but before sex.  She’s already hot and craving a climax so she may just do it for you.  If not then it’s on you.  Begin to touch yourself as you kiss her body, if she doesn’t like this you will see the stop signs: body becomes stiff, eyes do not immediately begin to focus on what your hands are doing, or she’ll just tell you to stop.  Well then, you do! Go ahead & go back to focusing on her.  If she does like this type of play, watching you masturbate and cum in front of her will have her libido raging & burning for you in a way you may have never seen before.  Be ready for another round cuz she’s gonna give it to you.    

Check Under the Bed

Whether you have roommates or live alone, first impressions still mean something.  Before bringing her back to your place, is your place ready?  Clean sheets-Check Clean toys-Check Clean bedroom-Check Clean living room (in case a bit of wooing is in order)-Check Fridge & bar stocked (a variety of snacks & beverages 4 before & after)-Check Candles-Check Mood music-Check      You may be surprised at how many women actually notice these things! We do

Romance for Confidence

Some women are not fans of being naked with the lights on. Let’s face it, most women have insecurities.  However if you’re like us you may also crave visual stimulation during sex.  Please ladies, have candles and a mood fitting playlist already in place for any situation. Candles provide enough light to see the beautiful body in front of you, without spotlighting any insecurities.   And mood music….uh well sets the mood which is of course helpful & also drowns out the cries of passion so your neighbors don’t call 911

Trim for a Good Fit

There is never an excuse for not being properly groomed for sexual activity.  Take a second look before you leave the house every day to examine how you look naked from head to toe.  We all get lazy from time to time, but ask yourself if you are ready to get naked!  If not, get your ass back in that bathroom and take care of business.  Stubble is not hot!  Unibrows are not hot!  Mustaches are not hot!  All are unfortunate issues, but none that can’t be properly maintained on the daily.  Being comfortable during sex is not an option if you desire maximum pleasure for both you and her.

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Available in 12 fabulous flavors, ID Juicy Lube is the world's best selling flavored lube. Containing no sugars or dyes, Juicy Lube's clear, non-staining formula is water-based, long lasting & latex compatible, making it ideal for 4play, oral sex & finger fucks. Unique packaging is convenient & easy to use! Flavors include berry licious, bubble gum blast, lemon drop & of course wild cherry.

KY Intrigue is the first personal lubricant developed using Liquimer technology, a new ingredient that provides a unique soft & sexy, frictionless feel to your pussy parts.  Versatile enough to use for lubricant, massage or shower.

 KY Brand Intense is a uniquely formulated arousal gel designed specifically to intensify a woman's climax via heightened arousal, sexual pleasure & sensitivity. A single drop creates a unique rush to the clitoris, heightening desire & satisfaction.

 Astroglide Sensual Strawberry is water-based, water-soluble & latex safe. And there is a little something special– the luscious fragrance & flavor of fresh strawberries.

If you are using a latex condom or dam, use a water-based or silicone lube as oil based lubes break down latex. If you are using a silicone toy, do not use silicone lube, it will destroy your toy. During oral avoid lube with nonoxynol-9, as it may numb your lips & tongue; not a good thing.

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