tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524Mon, 01 Feb 2010 23:55:50 +0000Adventures of a Lesbian Momhttp://www.lesbianmommy.com/life_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)Blogger80125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-7768893846911721126Mon, 28 Dec 2009 00:18:00 +00002009-12-27T16:20:27.858-08:00There is an entire class of lesbians in the world that nobody gives much thought to... lesbians who are facing death.It's easy to say that we are all dying (whether you are gay, straight, asexual or trans); but that really can't compare to the impending doom of actually knowing how long you have until you're going to die.If you’ve been a reader of this blog for the past year you might know that Ihttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/JGUw2Gasjdk/lesbians-facing-life-and-death.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9TXK5iNd6AdqIhHUXmVfYdyHbuM/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9TXK5iNd6AdqIhHUXmVfYdyHbuM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9TXK5iNd6AdqIhHUXmVfYdyHbuM/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/9TXK5iNd6AdqIhHUXmVfYdyHbuM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/JGUw2Gasjdk" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/12/lesbians-facing-life-and-death.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-6782652414270114157Tue, 19 May 2009 19:00:00 +00002009-05-19T16:22:40.041-07:00This past Mother's Day was the first one without my mother, who passed away last year, and I have been reflecting on motherhood a lot lately as a result. When I found out that it was Sexy Mom's Month over at Babeland, I thought about my mom and how she has affected my sexuality over the years which has led me now to be what some would call a sexy mom. It's not easy for me to write about my http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/LhBpE_Z4Udw/not-your-mothers-sex-life.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)2<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/a59-4fBhK11c0bsIFGPwByv9b3A/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/a59-4fBhK11c0bsIFGPwByv9b3A/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/a59-4fBhK11c0bsIFGPwByv9b3A/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/a59-4fBhK11c0bsIFGPwByv9b3A/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/LhBpE_Z4Udw" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/05/not-your-mothers-sex-life.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-6066777364579050061Tue, 19 May 2009 00:42:00 +00002009-05-18T17:43:14.328-07:00The 26th Long Beach Lesbian and Gay Pride Celebration was held this past weekend and my wife and I were there when a 4.7 earthquake hit.We had entered the festival and met up with friends at the various tents that were set up for music and dancing. We walked around and saw lots of familiar faces while we explored our shopping ops, food finds, and drink deals. The mojitos were rockin and we scopedhttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/nzNWxJ6gSlc/california-earthquake-long-beach-pride.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/7ByVyScSO3CsntnQbFV44GRlsrY/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/7ByVyScSO3CsntnQbFV44GRlsrY/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/7ByVyScSO3CsntnQbFV44GRlsrY/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/7ByVyScSO3CsntnQbFV44GRlsrY/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/nzNWxJ6gSlc" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/05/california-earthquake-long-beach-pride.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-3394393865102053840Sat, 09 May 2009 03:00:00 +00002009-05-13T12:42:42.826-07:00This month is Sexy Moms Month and even though I am a lesbian mom I am still a sexual being. Romance and passion is important to me and I think this played a major part in my sexual orientation as well. I was never able to reach a level of satisfaction with a man that I could with a woman. I had a major struggle deciding which path to pursue and for a while left my sexual side behind me.I went http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/YgAbd8itmYA/sexy-mommy-coming-through.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)1<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/m_y4O-7lEgzPiIylfYPD1RpsFwE/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/m_y4O-7lEgzPiIylfYPD1RpsFwE/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/m_y4O-7lEgzPiIylfYPD1RpsFwE/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/m_y4O-7lEgzPiIylfYPD1RpsFwE/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/YgAbd8itmYA" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/05/sexy-mommy-coming-through.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-8828514561868529828Sat, 02 May 2009 19:21:00 +00002009-08-29T08:48:10.883-07:00If you're not familiar with the term, lesbian bed death is the phenomenon that is said to occur between long term lesbian couples where their sex life essentially comes to a screeching halt.When I first heard about the possibility of lesbian bed death, I took a personal vow to do what ever could so that it wouldn't happen to my wife and I, and since then I have learned a lot about it.The term "http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/n3wZHpMKcas/lets-talk-about-lesbian-bed-death.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)2<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ZFhJEgqNEQ7dBSxtQLLQlnwdeak/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ZFhJEgqNEQ7dBSxtQLLQlnwdeak/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ZFhJEgqNEQ7dBSxtQLLQlnwdeak/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ZFhJEgqNEQ7dBSxtQLLQlnwdeak/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/n3wZHpMKcas" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/05/lets-talk-about-lesbian-bed-death.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-5917153406648746121Tue, 21 Apr 2009 01:00:00 +00002009-04-21T01:43:39.682-07:00If you are a lesbian webmaster, or a webmaster with a website that caters to lesbians, then this post is for you! I have been working from home online for a few years now, and my business is to help others earn an income from home online. I help many people monetize their websites, not just lesbians, but as a lesbian myself I have found that there are only a handful of programs out there that arehttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/f9Walu_8Nyk/affiliate-programs-for-lesbian.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)3<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GNrYlA9Z0eTexyTFbMf1ljQrQo0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GNrYlA9Z0eTexyTFbMf1ljQrQo0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GNrYlA9Z0eTexyTFbMf1ljQrQo0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/GNrYlA9Z0eTexyTFbMf1ljQrQo0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/f9Walu_8Nyk" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/04/affiliate-programs-for-lesbian.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-2689985974887401700Mon, 20 Apr 2009 20:11:00 +00002009-04-20T13:12:14.164-07:00A TV ad airing in Virginia is highlighting the ongoing child custody battle between two women, Janet Jenkins of Fair Haven, Vt., and Lisa Miller of Winchester, Va., who conceived their daughter through artificial insemination while in a lesbian relationship. Jenkins and Miller, entered into a Vermont civil union in 2000. Two years later, Miller gave birth to a girl, Isabella Miller-Jenkins and http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/Q73e8hBeqyo/tv-ad-asks-us-to-protect-isabella-from.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/25RwDgsdLoGbEV9cmVCrvUmIdq0/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/25RwDgsdLoGbEV9cmVCrvUmIdq0/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/25RwDgsdLoGbEV9cmVCrvUmIdq0/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/25RwDgsdLoGbEV9cmVCrvUmIdq0/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/Q73e8hBeqyo" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/04/tv-ad-asks-us-to-protect-isabella-from.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-8451646594238852679Tue, 07 Apr 2009 12:41:00 +00002009-04-07T05:45:54.899-07:00Shirley Tan's days in the United States are numbered, and April 22nd is the dreaded day.Shirley is a lesbian mom who fled to the U.S. from the Philippines in fear for her life after a family member attempted to murder her, and murdered other members of her family, because of a dispute over her grandfathers estate. Shirley took the proper steps to gain political asylum when she came to this http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/YvEkILtX078/lesbian-mom-fights-deportation-to-stay.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/jPNUv0wpQ6xXHQqCN0t-J1lP2tE/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/jPNUv0wpQ6xXHQqCN0t-J1lP2tE/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/jPNUv0wpQ6xXHQqCN0t-J1lP2tE/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/jPNUv0wpQ6xXHQqCN0t-J1lP2tE/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/YvEkILtX078" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/04/lesbian-mom-fights-deportation-to-stay.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-9044774946924386157Thu, 02 Apr 2009 22:06:00 +00002009-04-03T03:07:46.770-07:00With the recent proposed launch of gay dating site Compatible Partners by anti-gay dating site eHarmony, I was feeling a bit discouraged about my single lesbian friends and how they were going to go about finding the love of their life in the current world of dating.I have a lot of friends online and have played matchmaker a few times but really, I'm not any good at it. Nevertheless I still have http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/oHcppN2GZnM/new-site-for-lesbian-singles.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dGBCFAa6OuHBNeKSsc3s_L0_sbQ/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dGBCFAa6OuHBNeKSsc3s_L0_sbQ/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dGBCFAa6OuHBNeKSsc3s_L0_sbQ/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/dGBCFAa6OuHBNeKSsc3s_L0_sbQ/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/oHcppN2GZnM" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/04/new-site-for-lesbian-singles.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-1913520192446347745Wed, 01 Apr 2009 09:11:00 +00002009-04-01T02:13:26.956-07:00Guest Post**Guest Post**Currently, one hundred twenty-eight Iraqis convicted of homosexuality and transgenderism have been imprisoned for sometime, said to be executed in batches of twenty. These executions began on 27 March.Iraq is a country in turmoil and since the invasion in 2003, a creeping in of the hardline Sharia law has left many Iraqi gays, lesbians and transpeople in jeopardy. Many Muslims see http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/s2pBC1fjz2k/lgbts-set-for-execution-in-iraq-take.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/UErujurgV0el6EWh2_4p0Y8xf5o/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/UErujurgV0el6EWh2_4p0Y8xf5o/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/UErujurgV0el6EWh2_4p0Y8xf5o/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/UErujurgV0el6EWh2_4p0Y8xf5o/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/s2pBC1fjz2k" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/04/lgbts-set-for-execution-in-iraq-take.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-672388928166671218Wed, 25 Mar 2009 03:34:00 +00002009-03-24T20:35:17.895-07:00If you're a lesbian webmaster, you might be a member of The Gay Ad Network.As a professional blogger, I have many different sponsor options through programs like LinkShare, Share a Sale, and Share Results; yet as a lesbian webmaster I have been confined to sharing ads for mainstream sponsors on the blog I have for lesbians because there is no lesbian specific ad network. For any lesbian specific http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/NkPiNdB20QA/gay-ad-network-pulls-fast-one.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6V2NTFEmhaUdnjLAJlGvW5-N-_s/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6V2NTFEmhaUdnjLAJlGvW5-N-_s/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6V2NTFEmhaUdnjLAJlGvW5-N-_s/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/6V2NTFEmhaUdnjLAJlGvW5-N-_s/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/NkPiNdB20QA" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/03/gay-ad-network-pulls-fast-one.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-6179631599463834152Tue, 03 Mar 2009 12:37:00 +00002009-03-03T04:42:03.567-08:00Thursday March 5th, 2009 is yet another day that will be etched in the minds and hearts of the 18,000 same sex couples who were married in California last year between June 16th and the passing of Proposition 8 on November 4th.The couples and their supporters have endured a highly publicized and emotionally charged campaign against them, and on March 5th, 2009 the case to overturn Proposition 8 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/hsQLQrK7Rb4/california-couples-await-their-fate.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)2<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ejwwfcM45X51BTVzUETMMIPxhzg/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ejwwfcM45X51BTVzUETMMIPxhzg/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ejwwfcM45X51BTVzUETMMIPxhzg/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/ejwwfcM45X51BTVzUETMMIPxhzg/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/hsQLQrK7Rb4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/03/california-couples-await-their-fate.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-4001158009254386442Sat, 07 Feb 2009 01:42:00 +00002009-02-06T17:43:50.466-08:00I've been online since around 1997, and I've been working from home on the internet since 2002. I have become pretty familiar with the internet and have reviewed thousands of websites in that time. Ever since I came out as a lesbian I noticed that I am now being filtered and censored when I am surfing around online. Every time I look for something gay or lesbian related on a mainstream website I http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/s7RMHEjb8X4/im-being-filtered-and-censored.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)2<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0jVGn51MHy21yPv0QHi_K31YN68/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0jVGn51MHy21yPv0QHi_K31YN68/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0jVGn51MHy21yPv0QHi_K31YN68/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/0jVGn51MHy21yPv0QHi_K31YN68/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/s7RMHEjb8X4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/02/im-being-filtered-and-censored.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-1136480960099428502Fri, 30 Jan 2009 03:17:00 +00002009-01-29T19:17:34.508-08:00 Less than 2 years ago, the life of Sean Kennedy was cut short by Stephen Moller, because Kennedy was openly gay.Sean Kennedy was a resident of Greenville County, South Carolina. South Carolina is one of five states in the U.S. with no hate crime law for crimes motivated by bias except for those such as law enforcement personnel, school officials, goats, mules, chickens, cats, dogs, and cows. As http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/Ck-bBTonu_w/we-are-seeking-justice-for-sean-kennedy.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zF23s0J-H9N2anNqwH8VuyuVQho/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zF23s0J-H9N2anNqwH8VuyuVQho/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zF23s0J-H9N2anNqwH8VuyuVQho/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/zF23s0J-H9N2anNqwH8VuyuVQho/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/Ck-bBTonu_w" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/we-are-seeking-justice-for-sean-kennedy.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-602959844414523989Tue, 27 Jan 2009 01:27:00 +00002009-01-26T17:32:38.683-08:00My wife and I have a pretty great relationship. I didn't say it was perfect, but really, it's pretty great. I don't know if everybody in the world is looking to get married, or even to settle down with someone long term. But if you are, then I think my wife and I are a pretty good example of what a great relationship looks like. It didn't come overnight, we didn't always have a great relationshiphttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/yuaxrQW7FpA/communication-is-key.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)1<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/aYJgi6ptwFmX1eGxfPzq5lPFeOQ/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/aYJgi6ptwFmX1eGxfPzq5lPFeOQ/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/aYJgi6ptwFmX1eGxfPzq5lPFeOQ/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/aYJgi6ptwFmX1eGxfPzq5lPFeOQ/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/yuaxrQW7FpA" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/communication-is-key.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-1965619836152435257Thu, 22 Jan 2009 05:25:00 +00002009-01-29T21:28:06.001-08:00It's official - President Elect Barack Obama is now President Barack Obama!I, like most Americans, am truly excited for the future of the country - and the world! I feel like simply having Barack Obama as our President has shifted our country into gear and we are ready to make things work. Yet, as a lesbian woman, there is still a hollow part of me right now. There is still a sense of fear. I http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/sdXSc5PwEvY/has-change-truly-come-for-us.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/AEKknWKvgVeM7H6fBUWl_BNgpY8/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/AEKknWKvgVeM7H6fBUWl_BNgpY8/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/AEKknWKvgVeM7H6fBUWl_BNgpY8/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/AEKknWKvgVeM7H6fBUWl_BNgpY8/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/sdXSc5PwEvY" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/has-change-truly-come-for-us.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-1071428020302537748Tue, 20 Jan 2009 14:57:00 +00002009-01-25T11:51:02.702-08:00Years ago, when a petition to legalize same-sex marriage was presented to me, I refused to sign it. The way I was raised, I believed homosexuality was a sin. Make note that I was only asked to sign this petition because I was on a date at a gay pride parade… talk about living in denial! Somehow, in my mind, living in sin was ok, but coming out as a lesbian was not. It was OK if I lived as a http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/UqbnjlIhVw0/how-i-became-lesbian-activist.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)2<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mI_HezHtxZO7X7J4X14eh7UZ_HM/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mI_HezHtxZO7X7J4X14eh7UZ_HM/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mI_HezHtxZO7X7J4X14eh7UZ_HM/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mI_HezHtxZO7X7J4X14eh7UZ_HM/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/UqbnjlIhVw0" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/how-i-became-lesbian-activist.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-6245219989142980899Sun, 18 Jan 2009 05:21:00 +00002009-01-29T21:26:21.129-08:00Last week I had the opportunity to organize a local Join the Impact rally when the nation protested against The Defense of Marriage Act by signing a petition to send to President-Elect Barack Obama. That weekend was non-stop and through it all we met a lot of different people as we gathered those signatures. When it was all over I found that others who organized events in their local area had http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/J2Tcg6nXOg4/good-bad-and-ugly-in-lgbt-community.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bpAoBkhqWd2zAl3iyZEaZsNVa-Q/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bpAoBkhqWd2zAl3iyZEaZsNVa-Q/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bpAoBkhqWd2zAl3iyZEaZsNVa-Q/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/bpAoBkhqWd2zAl3iyZEaZsNVa-Q/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/J2Tcg6nXOg4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/good-bad-and-ugly-in-lgbt-community.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-2461721495537726626Thu, 01 Jan 2009 09:18:00 +00002009-01-01T01:19:33.516-08:00 I had high hopes for 2008, and it turned out to be a dynamic year! Times were stressful and sad for some, yet out of the ashes rose a unified LGBT community and plenty of entertaining memories! Here are some highlights of a few of the memorable things that happened this past year... here is the Lesbian Year in Review for 2008!JanuaryOregon enjoys a new anti-discrimination law that benefits LGBTshttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/4XrRYe24MLE/lesbian-year-in-review-2008.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)2<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/tbb3NgjqWgpVtwR4C_n-HwBOlO8/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/tbb3NgjqWgpVtwR4C_n-HwBOlO8/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/tbb3NgjqWgpVtwR4C_n-HwBOlO8/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/tbb3NgjqWgpVtwR4C_n-HwBOlO8/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/4XrRYe24MLE" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/lesbian-year-in-review-2008.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-7555815639357363113Thu, 01 Jan 2009 08:02:00 +00002009-12-27T05:19:12.167-08:00 10 totally new ways to kiss your date4 simple steps to meeting someone5 love notes… and why they're keepers5 signs you've met your perfect matchhttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/6Vro01GoHjI/lesbian-mommy-sponsor-spotlight.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/rQXt1ZCKkatDVaXYGUGyI2h-8d8/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/rQXt1ZCKkatDVaXYGUGyI2h-8d8/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/rQXt1ZCKkatDVaXYGUGyI2h-8d8/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/rQXt1ZCKkatDVaXYGUGyI2h-8d8/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/6Vro01GoHjI" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/lesbian-mommy-sponsor-spotlight.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-3309775719032846467Thu, 01 Jan 2009 08:01:00 +00002009-09-01T13:11:08.567-07:00Lesbian Blogs2moms2kids40 Year Old Lesbian97percentqueerA Dyke AbroadA Lesbian and a ScholarA Lesbians ViewA Story Of Two MomsAddition ProblemsAdrenaline’s ShadowAfropolog: We rage so you don’t have to.After PortiaAgainst the GrainAh, Regret.Almost NormalAmy and Melissa’s Baby BlogAnd Baby Makes 8And Sweepy-D Makes ThreeAngry Brown ButchAnonymously YoursAre you a Broom or a Gride?Artificially http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/Z-vzDzvod_4/lesbian-mommy-vlog-and-blog-roll.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/uQMM2ixA5pArhxM1sHDxsIwF0uI/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/uQMM2ixA5pArhxM1sHDxsIwF0uI/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/uQMM2ixA5pArhxM1sHDxsIwF0uI/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/uQMM2ixA5pArhxM1sHDxsIwF0uI/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/Z-vzDzvod_4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/lesbian-mommy-vlog-and-blog-roll.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-3435807315433651638Thu, 01 Jan 2009 08:00:00 +00002009-05-19T18:15:15.156-07:00My Lesbian Wedding My Lesbian Wedding Part One: We've Got Rights!My Lesbian Wedding Part Two: Plotting and PlanningMy Lesbian Wedding Part Three: Our Big Day!Sexy Moms Month 2009 Sexy Mommy Coming ThroughNot Your Mother's Sex LifeLesbian Mommy Classic Posts:Let's Talk About Lesbian Bed DeathAffiliate Programs for Lesbian WebmastersI'm Being Filtered and CensoredCommunication Is KeyHow I Became a http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/0X3oHCeXAWs/lesbian-mommy-blog-post-archives.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)1<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Y6t9IKa6V8s8SIPpUc2hjl2x6Xo/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Y6t9IKa6V8s8SIPpUc2hjl2x6Xo/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Y6t9IKa6V8s8SIPpUc2hjl2x6Xo/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/Y6t9IKa6V8s8SIPpUc2hjl2x6Xo/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/0X3oHCeXAWs" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2009/01/lesbian-mommy-blog-post-archives.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-6189566838262571572Sun, 14 Dec 2008 00:17:00 +00002008-12-13T16:18:18.880-08:00**Reposted from LezGetReal.com** On December 10th, 2008 the LGBT Community rallied together by participating in a National Day Without A Gay protest, where members of the community were encouraged to "Call in Gay" to work and volunteer their time instead. Since then I have kept my eyes open for news of how the day went, and I am a bit discouraged that all I can find is articles stating how much http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/MdtwvtmA_CY/day-without-gay-impact-hard-to-measure.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/b5fCsrcZSJwmt0qEs5oZtz4ZpxA/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/b5fCsrcZSJwmt0qEs5oZtz4ZpxA/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/b5fCsrcZSJwmt0qEs5oZtz4ZpxA/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/b5fCsrcZSJwmt0qEs5oZtz4ZpxA/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/MdtwvtmA_CY" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2008/12/day-without-gay-impact-hard-to-measure.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-9207854380882030398Mon, 08 Dec 2008 21:02:00 +00002008-12-08T13:14:42.160-08:00From LezGetReal.com...I am very sad to report to you that early this morning our Executive Director, Paula Brooks, lost her partner Debbie in a brave battle against breast cancer. As you can imagine, the LGR family of writers has been devastated by this news, and at a loss for words. We know there is nothing we can say to take away the sadness, pain, or uncertainty facing Paula and her daughtershttp://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/84VsXxtOlfY/unimaginable-loss.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mXMn7ta184lm7vKluUmuuVodI6M/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mXMn7ta184lm7vKluUmuuVodI6M/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mXMn7ta184lm7vKluUmuuVodI6M/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/mXMn7ta184lm7vKluUmuuVodI6M/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/84VsXxtOlfY" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2008/12/unimaginable-loss.htmltag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2767912718098867524.post-7352017371083845185Sat, 06 Dec 2008 08:00:00 +00002008-12-06T00:00:05.482-08:00 One of my favorite columns is The Sex Slog by Busy Beaver and Pugs and they have a website called Come Together Gift Baskets.Come Together Gift Baskets offers sensual and sexy gift baskets for the girl in your life and Busy Beaver and Pugs really know what a girl wants! Their gift baskets include quite a few goodies, many with adult toys and massage oils. Now I know why they call it "Come http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~3/-G8JsEsbHw4/come-together-this-holiday.htmllife_changes@sbcglobal.net (~Julie Phineas~)0<p><a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/fMzQYwEtX19aB3zwXA0GZXRtkdU/0/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/fMzQYwEtX19aB3zwXA0GZXRtkdU/0/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a><br/> <a href="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/fMzQYwEtX19aB3zwXA0GZXRtkdU/1/da"><img src="http://feedads.g.doubleclick.net/~a/fMzQYwEtX19aB3zwXA0GZXRtkdU/1/di" border="0" ismap="true"></img></a></p><img src="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/LesbianMommy/~4/-G8JsEsbHw4" height="1" width="1"/>http://www.lesbianmommy.com/2008/12/come-together-this-holiday.html