Shifting Your Mindset can become a habit …

Why do I even want to do that?

Because most of our thoughts are habits … they are thoughts/beliefs that we have thought again and again and again. Actually that again and again is how a thought becomes a belief … The more it is brought up – the deeper the belief is embedded.

If you are already experiencing and living everything you have dreamed of …. Do Not Read any further ….

You have already established a healthy, self-loving, uplifting mindset ….

But … If you aren’t living the life of your dreams …. It isn’t about your circumstances, the people in your life, or the “hand you were dealt” ….

Yes … all those things have formed your mindset .. but it is your mindset that is keeping you were you are!

What if you can shift it?
Shift it toward those things that make you smile … those dreams that you have always wanted to live!

You can … and when you do it often enough … it becomes a habit

(KEEP READING – CLICK HERE)

This is a question that continues to pop up … especially in the Law of Attraction arena …

Here is what I see many say ?”Belief ?is important? ?. BUT ?. You can have all the belief in the world and if you don?t take action ? Nothing Happens.”

Hmmm – I actually don’t 100% disagree …. But …. ? (See More)

Are you a life coach, health coach, career coach, spiritual coach ?? and hitting that burn out phase?

Oh ? I know ? if you are ? how could you ever admit that?!!

Here you are coaching people how to change their lives, get fit for life, step into their full potential ? and on the other end of the phone or computer ? you are pulling your hair out!

It?s OK ? You don?t have to publicly admit ? just know I understand!

You?ve been doing this all on your own. You setup your website (which means you learned how to work with wordpress, themes and plugins) ? You have a facebook page, you are writing articles, writing facebook posts.

You also should be on twitter and pinterest, Instagram and google+ ? Holy Crap they tell you not to use the same password ? and now you don?t remember which password is for which account!!

You have an email list, which means you know how to use Aweber, Getresponse or Mailchimp ? You have to be careful with mailchimps TOS ? if you are really savy you freakin know what TOS is!!

Here is a trade secret TOS=Terms Of Service?

Geez – do you really need to know this to be a Life Coach?!

Your posting here, over there and in-between there!

Some days you don?t remember what the f*#ck you posted anywhere!!

But ? it must be working ? your email list is growing and people are starting to communicate with you. Some people even bought your ebook, workshop, one-on-one coaching ? Surely this is working!

You manage your email list, update your wordpress blog, create sign in and sign up forms ? deal with technical mumbo jumbo ? And run your workshop, show up on time for your personal coaching clients, and of course write another ebook.

It is working isn?t it?!

You?ve been sitting at your computer for the last 12hrs ? OK that was not totally true ? you are truly sitting there for the last 16-18hrs!!

And You are Teaching People How to Be Free and True to Themselves!! WTF is wrong with that picture??!

Now ? I suspect if you?ve read this far ? you have indeed been here and done that. I get it ? you are not going to shout it from the rooftop ? and quite possibly you are not even ready to admit it to yourself ?.

BUT

I will admit for me!! Yes ? I?ve Been Here ? Done That!
Preparer, Chef, Cook, Waiter, Server, Janitor & Bottle Washer ? That was me!

Teaching people how to be free ?. And ? And ? I have helped many, many people step into the greatness that they are ? Yet ? what the freak happened to my life?!

I was done ? burnt out ?.

I know ? you are told to outsource the preparing, cooking, waiting, serving and cleaning to someone else ? and you just be the chief. Have you heard that before? Well I don?t disagree with that ? except you better have some extra $$ sitting around to do that ? AND ? you better know who the heck you are hiring.

Yes ? I tried it! I hired people who screwed up my website and made mush out of my email list! (I hope it has worked better for you) ? And Yes ? Yes – Yes ? I know somehow I attracted that ? which actually pissed me off even more!

Still not ready to quit on my dream, my passion ? which was having my own business that helped others step into the greatness and trueness of who they are ? (Oh in that vision of having my own business ? I was only working 2-4 hrs per day)

Within all this craziness ? that I never talked about and really never let myself think about .. I would start to think about ditching it all ? and then I would get that email ?

The email that profusely thanked me for my workshop, ebook, or article I just wrote. The person would tell me how their life had changed ? how they shifted their mindset and could see and feel so clearly now.

Ahhhh ? This is why I am here!

Which is true ? that is why I am here! I believe we are here to step into our full potential and we will do so by being aware of how connected we all are.

So there I was teaching others how to step into their full potential (and doing a great job at that) ?. Teaching others how to envision their lives so distinctly that they would indeed be living it ? AND I wasn?t doing what I was teaching!

While it was and is my passion to help others — my vision did not have me sitting at the computer for hours and hours and hours on end!!

And for a while that truth had eluded me ? I was making believe all was OK with Ellie ? and it was not. When I finally admitted to that truth ? it was hard ? and it was sad!

WTF?! I am teaching others how to live their dream lives and I am not living mine!!

Ouch!!

I sought out help ? I enrolled in a 1 year program with other business women ? we were going to take our businesses to the 6 figure level?. But it wasn?t far down the road that I realized I was not in alignment with this group!

I?m not naming the program because these people are fabulous. They truly are! There were many loving, caring women in this group? the courses they taught were great ?

But ? the truth is ?. I did not belong there!

Not an easy realization to come to ? I had just spent $8,000 and realized while I liked and respected these people ? what they were teaching did not jive with me!

Well the good news was ? at least I was in touch enough with me to know where I did and didn?t belong ? The bad news was I just spent $8,000 and I still didn?t have an answer to my dilemma!

And then ? when I felt like I was at the bottom ? it came to me ?.
(Isn?t it amazing how so many times we need to go to the bottom before we allow the answer)

See ? most of the clients I encountered where people who were running on an old limiting mindset ? So of course most of them were in limiting jobs. They were not happy with the jobs they had and they were barely getting by financially.

The group I had belonged to was telling me to change my market ? to market to people who could afford to pay me more ? but my heart kept calling me back to the so-called average, everyday person. The person who gets stuck in a job and lifestyle because they were stuck in an old mindset map!

I was called back to them ?. because 30+ years ago I was them!

These are the people I relate to.

Some will tell you ? if you charge more money you will get more engagement because people will value your time more.

Hmmmm ? That is and isn?t true! I?ve seen it go both ways ? people who pay more money give you their attention ? but I?ve also had the ones that paid mega bucks and put it all to the side and not do anything with it. And then I?ve had the people who grabbed onto my free trainings ? devour them and transform their lives!

So ? for me ? it isn?t about how much someone pays or doesn?t pay. It is about putting out my message and connecting?. Some will hear my message? – – others will hear it from someone else – – – and others? well they might not yet be ready to hear it from anyone.

As I was truly contemplating giving it all up ?. I reconnected with a friend who I met on the internet ? We started talking and she told me what she was doing. I was liking what I was hearing!

This business model gives me the platform to be in business for myself ?. but not by myself!

A platform that when I have a challenge ? techy or otherwise ? there are people available 24/7 ? (that?s because we are global so when it is the PM on one side of the globe it is the AM on the other side)

This global community is all about personal development! All about uplifting each other to our highest good.

A mastermind team where we meet at least once a week ? to brainstorm and support each other.

I jumped in and have been smiling ever since!?

One of the biggest challenges I saw with past clients was they did not have a supporting community around them. And that was also true for me? The best coaches/mentors all have a coach/mentor for themselves! Now I have a team of them!

This model has me teaching others how to change their mindset ? how to truly live the law of attraction ?. AND ?. I am able to supply a vehicle for people to also achieve their financial goals.

This once burnt out life coach is now a happy, energized mindset & marketing mentor! What felt so heavy and repressive turned into the best opportunity of my life.

Everything truly is an opportunity ? I also know, from experience, the biggest opportunities are usually disguised as a very difficult situation.

If you?ve read this far ? I?m guessing some or all of this has resonated with you. If you want to know what I am doing now that has rejuvenated my life ? Click Here or the button below.

? And please leave your comments.

I Believe in You .? I Appreciate You!

<><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><><>

Do you know what your money mindset map is? Is it wealthy or poor?

You just have to look at your finances. How is money flowing into your life?

Are You….

1. Wealthy
2. Kinda doing OK
3. Just making ends meet
4. Not making end meet

The answer depends on your money mindset map. That map reveals the beliefs you have about money and the beliefs you have about your self worth.

I’m sure you’ve heard it said that people who are wealthy think differently than people who are not. And… many times those people don’t even realize that … They were brought up to have a wealthy mindset. They were around people who cultivated that wealthy mindset map.

What does law of attraction have to do with that? Everything! Your mindset map is the beliefs that you have rolling around in your head. If you have beliefs/thoughts that say “you should settle for less” / “you’ll never amount to much” / “you aren’t smart enough” … etc … etc …. Those are the vibrations you are putting out to the Universe … and the Universe, through law of attraction, is mirroring that right back to you.

The good news is … You can create a Wealthy Mindset Map. A mindset map that honors and supports you!

Here is a video I did that explains this all a little more:

Leave a comment here or at the facebook page:
http://facebook.com/EllieWalshUplifts

You can watch all the teaching videos I did about shifting your mindset map on youtube:
http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUrJ4k8qP9R9t_08Sj76J35YH-WrtE1f5

**************************************

**************************************

"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" ^TM ~ Ellie Walsh

**************************************

Do you sometimes feel like that? ?This is the same thing … just different people and scenery!

Or … ?you don’t catch it – till you look back! I’ve worked with clients who will be going over situations in their life … they got this puzzled look on their face – and then proclaim – OMG – I’ve been living the same story over and over and over again!

Yup! It’s true … And that is the way the majority of people live their lives … day after day after day.

We live our lives according to our “mindset map” – If you don’t update that map … you are living the same thing over and over and over!

I did a video about this – let me know your thoughts….

PS: Some people have been asking where I’ve been – I’ve been making daily videos – You can see the full list here: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUrJ4k8qP9R9t_08Sj76J35YH-WrtE1f5

Please … share these videos and come visit me at the facebook page: http://facebook.com/EllieWalshUplifts

**************************************

**************************************

"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" ^TM ~ Ellie Walsh

**************************************

Do you believe these statements?

• “It will happen when it is supposed to”
• “It wasn’t supposed to happen right now”

Let me tell you what I think about those statements … They are BS BS – Bull Shit Belief Systems! They are totally dis-empowering statements!??

Where did we come up with these? People say them when something they wanted didn’t go they way they wanted it to.

We use those statements to soothe ourselves … but is it really soothing?! I’ve just claimed … that … I … I … really don’t have the power in my life! I just claimed that my life is like a leaf being tossed around by the wind! Does that really soothe you?!

Let me tell you when it is going to happen … it is going to happen when you line up with it! When you allow it into your experience! When you stop whatever BS belief system you have running around in your head! That is when it is going to happen!

And… many times if you had just hung on to your dream of it …. instead of rushing in with that judgment of “it wasn’t supposed to happen” … If you had just stayed with your dream …. instead of letting circumstances dictate your judgement! Who said it wasn’t in the process of happening? At what point is the “right” time to consider it gone?

The minute you utter either one of those statements …. you make a huge statement to the universe. You have given up on your dream … you have turned away from it! You are blowing in the wind … allowing the wind to take you where it wants … And know this … the wind will take you! Where? Wherever those BS Belief Systems point you!

Am I being too Harsh?

Harsh? … I am handing you back your power! I know you have the power to Have, Be or Do whatever you choose … And I know it takes self awareness to get you there. It takes self responsibility to get you there.

[wp9h_graphic id=”arrow7″ type=”arrows” align=”left” width=”60px” top=”0px” bottom=”2px” left=”0px” right=”0px”][/wp9h_graphic]? When something happens that you wanted – Do the Happy Dance and exclaim “I created that!”

[wp9h_graphic id=”arrow7″ type=”arrows” align=”left” width=”60px” top=”0px” bottom=”2px” left=”0px” right=”0px”][/wp9h_graphic]? When something happens that you didn’t want – Do the Happy Dance and exclaim “I created that!”

Now you are on the right track …? Now you are stopping the BS! Look at the situation as an opportunity …. Not because that is the gallant or so-called right way to be …? because – it is an opportunity! Now you know that you have some more self awareness to do in this area. That is good information to know!

That is not defeat … that is success!

If you succumb to those statements … you are feeding those BS Belief Systems. Those limiting old stories that have been holding you back. You are giving your power away.

Take a stand … Take a stand for You! You are a totally power-filled, magnificent creator … filled with dreams and desires that you absolutely deserve to live!

I’m not being Harsh …. I am honoring You!

Don’t you think it is time to bust out of the BS???

**************************************

**************************************

"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" ^TM ~ Ellie Walsh

**************************************

PROCRASTINATION

Gone… Finished… Done… Kaput…

Erased… Deleted… Canceled… Obliterated…

Trashed… Destroyed…

Removed…

Does Not Exist…

Did I just hear a sigh of relief from you? ….

So why are you still here? It’s gone, finished …. You can relax – enjoy your day – enjoy your life….

Ohhh I get it … I know why you are still here… You are waiting for me to tell you how to obliterate procrastination! But I don’t have to tell you how …. because It Is Gone!

Still here?

I understand … Your not too sure that this procrastination stuff could really be gone forever… After all it has always felt so heavy … so big … How could it just be gone?

Let’s look at – What is Procrastination?

The dictionary says “to delay” / “to defer action” / “to put off till another day or time”

That doesn’t sound so big and heavy ….

Ohhh – you say it is big and heavy …. “because you don’t do things that you should be doing… when you should be doing them.”

Why would we put things off?

• Busy right now … don’t have the time

• If you are busy doing other things – are you really procrastinating?

• Not too sure how to do this task at hand

• If you are unsure about how to accomplish a task – is that procrastination or uncertainty?

• I don’t like doing this task – so I wait until it absolutely needs to be done

• If you don’t like doing something – is that procrastination or preference?

• I’m uncomfortable/uneasy with this task…

• Again … is this procrastination or preference?

If you are uncomfortable, unsure or you downright don’t like the task at hand…. why not call it what it is – instead of calling it procrastination?!

Ohhh I know why … and I know how the idea of procrastination started… At some point in your life someone wanted you to do something… Something you were uncomfortable with or unsure of or you just didn’t want to do … And they told you – you should be doing it … and when you didn’t do it – they called it procrastination!

Instead of finding out what was going on with you … instead of making peace with the situation … you now had a new label – a new heavy – Procrastinator!??

Here is what I say “Stop shoulding on yourself!” If there is a task you absolutely dislike … instead of labeling you — take the time to find out why!

I hate to file papers! OK – why? I’m not too sure where they need to be filed, I then start to feel overwhelmed … instead of just looking at this pile of papers … I look around my entire office … then I think – It all needs to be more organized …. I’m so unorganized …. this will take way too long to pull together …. I’m not good at this …. I’m lazy …. yada – yada – yada

Well no wonder you don’t like this task …. You went on an “old story” rant with it and beat yourself up! Those insults that you just threw all over yourself … they are a re-action – a regurgitation of old programming that you have installed in your mind!

When those old stories start … you need to stop them! Ask yourself this question – “How can I feel different about this?” or “How can I experience this differently?” or “How can I see this situation differently?”

Then let it go… Some of you will get the answer right away. For others your answer will come in a feeling … or you will notice – Gee I just filed those papers today and didn’t even think twice about it.

You are not a procrastinator … or unorganized … or lazy!
You just have a bunch of “old stories” running in your head!

[wp-fontastic type=”inherited” size=”18px” lh=”22px”][highlighter color=”yellow-vibrant” ] Dump the Labels – Ask the Questions
Shift the Stories? [/highlighter] [/wp-fontastic]

**************************************

2013 Will It Be Different?

I’ll answer that question if you answer this one first…

Are you going to BE different in 2013? If your answer is Yes … then my answer is Yes!

How do I BE different?

Well you have to “DO” something. I know… not everyone likes that word! And truth is I agree …. most of the time!? ;)? Many have been taught Do – Have – Be. It goes like this: If you Do ? this job ?? then you’ll Have?? money ? then you will Be?? happy ?

I’ve been there – done that … didn’t work for me …. Has it worked for you?

I’m not telling you to Do something to BE … But if you are truly ready to Be Happy .. to Be the person you dream of …. you have to be aware of your doing! Because … You are automatically doing when you don’t even realize it!

Auto-Pilot

You go through most of your day on auto-pilot … you react to life from the old stories you have stored in your subconscious. I’m not even going to try to prove that one anymore as scientists are finally saying this is true! Go watch the movie People v the State of Illusion and the movie The Cure Is … So you are automatically “doing” when you let those old stories dominate your day.

You’ve got to Tell the New Story before you live the new story! You have to Be the new story… That happens when you raise your awareness, become aware of how you feel and deliberately talk more about what you want.

This is not rocket science nor is it difficult … BUT it can feel difficult until you create that new habit!

If you just sit around this new year dreaming of the life you want to live…. You might – you just might be able to saturate yourself enough in the dream …. but this is the longer road. I’ve tried it this way also ….

If you have made the decision to BE who you know you really are… Then you are ready to DO … but you don’t really know what to do … because your old stories are not providing that answer!

Go right now and get this Free ebook – Out with the Old … In with the New. It will explain all of this and give you some exercises that will help you create the new story that you want to live! AND … come join us in the facebook group – http://www.facebook.com/groups/thenewstory/ ? I’ll be in there through the month of January answering questions and guiding you with your new story.?

I’m going to be telling some awesome new stories in 2013!!
How about you?!??

http://www.facebook.com/groups/thenewstory/

**************************************

**************************************

"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" ^TM ~ Ellie Walsh

**************************************

[wp-fontastic type=”webfonts” name=”Lato” size=”22px” lh=”29px” color=”#510066″ bgcolor=”transparent” shadow=”1_1_1_rgb(45, 45, 45)”]What if the flow is thrashing you about…
Do you really want to go with it?! [/wp-fontastic]

“Let go” …. “Go with the flow” … I get it – don’t resist what is going on. If I am resisting … I am giving it my attention … If I’m giving it my attention … then I am actually calling it to me!

I’m pretty good with going with the flow… even when it isn’t going where I want it to.

• This isn’t a big deal….
• Things always work out for me…
• Even if I’m not seeing it right now … I know there is an opportunity here for me…
• What can I appreciate right now?
• How can I experience this differently?

These are all great statements, questions that help me readjust within the flow.

But…

Last week we were in San Francisco … While we had a fantastic time there were a few very interesting scenarios we had to deal with! And I was going with the flow ….

And then the day we were leaving our flight got delayed because of fog and we were informed we were going to miss our connecting flight back to NY. OK … I’m flowing? ;)? Then they tell us there are no more connecting flights back to Albany NY! ?The best they could do was get us into Philadelphia at 10:30pm and the connecting flight was at 7:35am. OK … I’m struggling a bit with this flow!?

We got on the flight to Philly. On the flight they had online wifi! See things are getting better! We hook in – it was $6 for 1 hour … this is so cool to be able to get on the internet while flying about!

First I searched for a flight leaving Philly to Albany … but that wasn’t going to happen. So I did the next best thing I looked and booked a hotel that was close by and had free airport shuttle 24/7! Yes … flowing a bit better.

When we got back to the airport in the morning … our flight to Albany was delayed. No I am not kidding!! But luckily it was only for about 35 minutes. This flow keeps bumping about.

Commander of the Flow…

As the plane took off and we were on our way home I started thinking about all this “going with the flow” … and then I thought “I don’t want to go with the flow – I want to be the Commander of the flow!” …. And immediately I got back this info: “You are the Commander of the flow …. so tell it where to go“

I got truthbumps (goosebumps)! It’s true isn’t it … We are indeed the commander of the flow. Our vibration commands the flow we attract to us. For me I realized while I was using the above tools … I was getting a bit exasperated – I was really feeling like the flow was taking me where ever it wanted to!

How often do we say we are going with the flow and then feel like a victim in that flow?!

Feeling like a victim is going to keep me in victim-flow! This was a great experience for me (see I knew there were opportunities in there somewhere) ?…. I was able to up my awareness level.

Going with the flow is not about giving up… it is not about getting bashed about … it is not about being a victim! It is about using those tools above and being aware that you are indeed the Commander of Your Flow … So Tell it Where to Go!??

I’m always excited to hear your thoughts, comments, questions …. So please join the conversation below!?

**************************************

**************************************

"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" ^TM ~ Ellie Walsh

**************************************

]]> https://livingthelawofattraction.com/loa-blog/do-you-really-want-to-go-with-the-flow/feed/ 7 https://livingthelawofattraction.com/loa-blog/are-you-giving-it/ https://livingthelawofattraction.com/loa-blog/are-you-giving-it/#comments Thu, 22 Nov 2012 23:36:55 +0000 http://livingthelawofattraction.com/?p=2854

Today is Thanksgiving here in the States. A day that many families come together and give thanks for all the blessings in their lives. I think it is a great tradition … gather together – have a delicious meal together … and enjoy each others and the blessings in your lives.

I know there is some controversial ‘history’ about Thanksgiving … I personally don’t go there. I know some will say I am shallow … I say I’m staying in the NOW! Remember I’m the person who teaches to get out of your old stories that do not serve or honor you! So … I am certainly not going to get involved in the old stories of years past. Hopefully those old stories have served us … as the human race is a bit more refined now!?

I’m also the person who teaches … If you want a life that you appreciate … focus on the things you appreciate … and the Universe will continually supply you with more to appreciate! That is the Law of Attraction at work!

I belong to an appreciation group on facebook. As I was writing my appreciation yesterday in this group and talking about Thanksgiving … I started thinking … we should also have an Appreciation Giving Day! :D? I write out 3-5 things I appreciate every day … and many times those things are about other people….? but I don’t always tell those people … I just tell the Universe.

How do we let others know we appreciate them?? Well we can outright tell them so! That is easy with your family and close friends… But what about the person who just held the door for you? Many of us say “thank you” in a robotic way … Do you look straight into their eyes when you say “thank you”?

I’ve seen with my own eyes what a difference when you can catch that person’s eye and say “Thank You” with a big smile on your face. I have actually seen people’s expression first look a bit confused …. we are all used to those robotic thank you’s … and then see a big smile take over their face. Makes my day to see this – truth is I’m the one that ends up with even more appreciation!?

So instead of just an Appreciation Giving day here and there… I am going to purposely be more aware of how I can let someone know I appreciate them. This is a Win/Win … They feel good … and I feel even gooder!?

[wp-fontastic type=”css_font” name=”Verdana” size=”18px” lh=”22px” color=”#54002B” shadow=”1_1_1_rgb(58, 58, 58)”]So ….What are some good ways you let people know you appreciate them? Please share … [/wp-fontastic] ??

**************************************

**************************************

"There are No Mistakes..... Only Discoveries!" ^TM ~ Ellie Walsh

**************************************