http://www.lolafayemi.com Resource for personal transformation & spiritual ascension Wed, 03 Jun 2009 17:15:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 en hourly 1 lolafayemi/YyKxhttp://feedburner.google.com http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/TqgeYE2ACVE/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/20/why-you-are-not-manifesting-your-dreams-and-desires/#comments Mon, 20 Apr 2009 12:16:14 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=334 “You’ve got to be before you can do, and do before you can have.” Zig Ziglar Maintaining balance between being and doing is a delicate dance. Be – do – have is the formula Zig Ziglar gives us in the quote above, but it’s very common to go about things in a do – have - [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/20/why-you-are-not-manifesting-your-dreams-and-desires/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/20/why-you-are-not-manifesting-your-dreams-and-desires/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/1JZmmW7lypc/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/06/the-being-of-relaxation/#comments Mon, 06 Apr 2009 09:28:51 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=328 I love it when I come across an inspirational quote that really speaks to where I am in my life. This week the following quote dropped into my inbox. “Your power is proportional to your ability to relax.” David Allen It totally verified for me something that was bubbling under the surface. You see we’re only [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/06/the-being-of-relaxation/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/06/the-being-of-relaxation/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/dJrrsUH7hU4/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/01/daffodilsthe-principle-of-becoming/#comments Wed, 01 Apr 2009 10:47:11 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=319 by Lynn Serafinn, MAED, CPCC Personal Transformation Coach and author of The Garden of The Soul: lessons from four flowers that unearth the Self We all associate springtime with new beginnings. After a long, barren winter of hiding under the earth, the flowers begin to emerge one at a time. Here in the UK, the first flower of [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/01/daffodilsthe-principle-of-becoming/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/04/01/daffodilsthe-principle-of-becoming/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/ZZeBZPUL3to/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/23/how-to-get-unstuck/#comments Mon, 23 Mar 2009 19:10:55 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=315 “The only thing keeping you stuck is what you do not yet know about yourself” Guy Finley. It’s part of the natural order to get stuck in certain areas of our lives. Whether you are feeling stuck in your finances, with your health, relationships, career etc you will tend to be most stuck in the area [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/23/how-to-get-unstuck/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/23/how-to-get-unstuck/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/2aTRu-HNjjM/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/19/book-review-the-garden-of-the-soul/#comments Thu, 19 Mar 2009 11:51:42 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=309 I want to ask you a question, are you playing the music or are you letting the music play you?  If like the majority of us you are playing the music I highly suggest you pick up a copy of The Garden of the Soul by Lynn Serafinn when it is released on April 7 [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/19/book-review-the-garden-of-the-soul/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/19/book-review-the-garden-of-the-soul/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/-4c8RvWTOYA/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/17/how-to-make-friends-with-your-resistance/#comments Tue, 17 Mar 2009 17:41:08 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=305 Understandably, resistance gets a bad rap in the personal and spiritual development world. It feels like it’s standing in the way of what you want, it feels uncomfortable and downright painful at times and throws you into a funk of intense emotions that completely overwhelm you. But what if the reality is that it’s just the way [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/17/how-to-make-friends-with-your-resistance/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/17/how-to-make-friends-with-your-resistance/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/xLDbqd13O5A/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/05/change-your-money-vibe/#comments Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:42:50 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=300 No matter how much personal and spiritual growth you have done, it’s challenging work these days to keep your thoughts about wealth in alignment with the principles of abundance. Your heart may be saying “it doesn’t matter what’s going on in the world, it’s what you think about money that matters.” Meanwhile your head is saying [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/05/change-your-money-vibe/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/05/change-your-money-vibe/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/BKoFHNNKqI8/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/02/are-you-taking-the-lessons-from-your-relationships/#comments Mon, 02 Mar 2009 20:10:05 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/02/are-you-taking-the-lessons-from-your-relationships/ Relationships are a huge part of all our lives, we have a relationship with our families, friends, ourselves and colleagues; we have a relationship with food, money and health and we have a relationship with God or the Universe. At any one time we are involved in a relationship even if it’s just with ourselves. All [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/02/are-you-taking-the-lessons-from-your-relationships/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/03/02/are-you-taking-the-lessons-from-your-relationships/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/MgEpxpCGKpM/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/02/24/how-to-deepen-your-connection-to-your-true-self/#comments Tue, 24 Feb 2009 11:22:16 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/02/24/how-to-deepen-your-connection-to-your-true-self/ “Be you, everyone else is already taken” Oscar Wilde Inside all of us is a spark of divinity that is who we really are. Some of us call it spirit, some soul, the semantics don’t matter, you’ll know it when you touch it! This is the part of us that never dies and is here simply having [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/02/24/how-to-deepen-your-connection-to-your-true-self/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/02/24/how-to-deepen-your-connection-to-your-true-self/ http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/lolafayemi/YyKx/~3/ixiwWjjnWiI/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/02/16/are-your-desires-matched-on-the-micro-and-macro-level/#comments Mon, 16 Feb 2009 13:04:50 +0000 Lola http://www.lolafayemi.com/?p=282 So you’ve got a dream, you’ve set a thrilling goal that will bring you much joy, you’ve got a direction and know where you’re heading, you may even know if you’re going to take baby steps or whopping great strides to get there BUT how are you really going to get there? I’ll tell you how, [...] http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/02/16/are-your-desires-matched-on-the-micro-and-macro-level/feed/ http://www.lolafayemi.com/index.php/2009/02/16/are-your-desires-matched-on-the-micro-and-macro-level/