Love Hurts Still I Want

What Does Your Woman REALLY Want?

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 07:04:00 +0000

The behavior of women is as much of a mystery to men as that of men is to women. However, one thing is certain. The women love to be wooed. They want to be pursued. They want to be courted. They want men to try and win their affection. It's a great psychological game that both men and women play. The winners enjoy it; the losers end up wondering what went wrong.

To end up as winner men need to understand what women want. Here is a list of seven qualities that every woman expects to see in their men:

1. Well groomed
Do women pay attention to the way a man is dressed?
Do women want men to open doors for them?

Just as men like their women to be pretty, women like their men to be well groomed. They expect their men to be courteous, well behaved and well mannered. Among other things, they expect them to know the social graces. They also expect them to be well dressed, and in tune with the fashion of the day. Men who are loud or bawdy are unlikely to win the attention of sensitive women. The same applies to those men who don't pay sufficient attention to the way they look.

2. Good listener
Should men do what women want?
Listen carefully to what a woman says

All women want their men to pay attention to what they are saying. Men may not agree with their thinking but they should not make the mistake of looking bored or causal. They must pay attention, even if they don't intend to do what their women want. The very fact that their point of view was considered before a decision was taken is enough to make the women happy. It is the basis of a strong relationship.

3. Honest and sincere
Do women want to know everything about their men?
Should men tell everything to women?

Two qualities that women value in their men are honesty and sincerity. They don't want their men to cheat on them or to hold back anything from them. They would like to be equal partners in both the joys and sorrows of their men. Very often men try to hold back their problems related to work or their finances. This is not a good policy. Women feel more wanted and involved when their men take them into confidence. Men should also not try to delude women into false notions. They must gently inform them of their problems without being blunt or cruel. No woman wants to be told that she is ugly, fat or dumb. But, at the same time, they would not like their men to lie to them about their looks.

4. Stable career
How important is financial stability?
Are women after successful men?

Women want stability in their lives. They don't want to be in a situation where they are forced to scrounge for favors. They would like their men to take care of all basic necessities of life. They would therefore prefer men who are successful and well organized. However, this does not mean that they want to hook the rich and the well placed. This is a wrong notion. Money and success alone is not enough to satisfy a woman.

5. Love for surprises
Should men give lavish gifts to win the love of women?
Gifts that women cherish the most

No woman wants to be tied to home and children. She would like some excitement in her life. This is where men need to be imaginative and thoughtful. The surprises need not be big; they can be as simple as enjoying an evening at the theatre, followed by a dinner at her favorite restaurant or it can be driving down to a resort at the weekend. The joy is multiplied if these bonuses come unannounced.

6. Good in bed
What do women want in bed?
Do women like to be forced?
How can women be made happy?

Every woman wants her man to be good in bed. They want to be aroused, and to be sexually fulfilled. The relationship has to be equal in the bed. The man must make an honest effort to fulfill the sexual needs of his women He should, however, not take advantage of a relationship. But he should respect those days when the woman wants to stay off. Women don't like to be pushed into sex unless they are in a mood to do so. They would much rather prefer being cajoled and cuddled instead of being rushed into sex.

7. Intelligent and witty
Are witty men more charming?
How does intelligence matter in a relationship?

Women like their men to charm them. They would like them to be intelligent and witty, who can liven up the evenings and make a room come alive. Men who are dull and boring or too obsessed with their own musings are unlikely to enchant women. Women like men who are willing to chat with them on their wavelength.

Be Single and Happy

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 03:43:00 +0000

Hey, you're single! You don't need to be disappointed. We bring you five benefits that a single status gets you to give you an edge over your married counterparts.

Sleep

Remember your mother waking up your father every day? Yes, you are lucky. Being single gives you good sleep. There is no one to count the hours you have slept in bed. It's a beautiful world with no one to nag you. Just your bed, your pillow and you.

Money

Being single makes you the Finance Minister. You are free to manage your money. Sharing is a sin. You donít have to make budgets too. Get anything that you wish. You are the boss.(mensxp.com)

Career

You are the boss of your professional life too. You have the freedom to work anytime you want. Socialize all day and do your tasks all night. You can laugh off at your married colleagues who have to rush home to serve their spouse. You are free from commitments. You also don't share your salaries with anyone.

Denial

Remember, when you're single, you're not alone. Rejection and denial are your best pals. If you are stuck on a date that is turning bad, make an excuse and get out of that place. No one is asking you to stick there!

Self-Amusement

Call up friends for a poker tournament with cheerleaders for your amusement. Cook for yourself from whatever you can find in the kitchen. Spy your neighbors. The possibilities are just infinite.

7 Tips for dating a co-worker

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 07:16:00 +0000

Our professional lives constitute for more hours per day spent in the workplace and thus,it is natural to get attracted to somebody at work. However, you need to be a bit smart when dating in and around the office. Some tips to ease this slightly dicey dating niche have been listed below for your convenience:

1. Don’t Screw With Company Policy, Play Around It : There are many companies, particularly those handling BPO operations, that encourage dating on the premises as long as the employees don’t get too comfortable. However, there are some companies that approach this issue with a lot of circumspection. If you are working in a couple-friendly office, count yourself lucky and if not, don’t consider yourself screwed since there are ways to handle this restriction. Just ensure that you don’t indulge in something that can be easily perceived as couple-centric activities. This relates to the physical chemistry between you and your girl. You can flirt, smile, crack jokes and play with those suggestive expressions, just don’t do anything on the office premises that suggests intimacy or budding romance.

2. Don’t Date Within Your Immediate Working Circle : Most folks argue about the risks of dating a subordinate or a boss, however, what seems more vital is that you mark out your dating territory. For instance, dating somebody who is a part of your intrinsic circle at the office isn't the greatest of decisions. Firstly, the physical proximity with immediate colleagues will ensure that you remain distracted. Further, it will make it harder to conceal your dating footprints. Try to date a coworker from another department, another floor or at least, someone who is seated far-far away from you. Dating somebody seated within a kissing distance from you might be looked upon with contempt by your seniors. This can further lead to accusations of siding with a colleague.

3. Always Play It Safe : No matter how supportive your colleagues and bosses seem to be about dating, ensure that you keep it discrete unless you can announce it with something more credible like an engagement or plans of tying the knot. If not, try to ensure that tales of your office romance don’t become a topic of discussion during the office breaks. Understand that under any circumstances where your work or your professional integrity is questioned, the office romance angle can be worked against you. Disclosing your office romance is equal to providing a character assassination tool to your workplace foes who can use it at their discretion.

4. Keep It Decent: PDA Is Never Acceptable At Work : Whether you choose to be very discrete or not, follow the code of never being too expressive about your feelings for a co-worker anywhere within or near the office. The reason for this precaution is simple—any public display of affection (PDA) is usually interpreted distasteful and crass and when used in or around the office, it translates into plain stupidity that can only compromise your workplace reputation, to the extent or raising questions about your moral fiber. You can go heavy on texting and emailing, but holding hands, being seated conspicuously close or hugging each other and getting too cute when giving her a congratulatory kiss are not recommended.

5. Don’t Start An Affair Where A Recent One Had Ended : This might sound a bit too cowardly for the alpha males out there but women are quite prone to forming grounded opinions about men who have been dumped or those who have had relationships with their friends and colleagues. If you have recently dated and broken it off with somebody in a department or the other office floor, try to give it some cooling time before you start to explore in the same region. This can save you the humiliation of being turned down repeatedly or finding a date who has many, preconceived (not good ones) notions about you.

6. Office Romances Beg Honesty : You shouldn’t try cross-dating or multi-dating in the office. This is simply too big a risk that can leave you red-faced in front of your colleagues and seniors. In fact, before you start dating a co-worker, come clean about whom you had dated before from the organization and what is your status with her at the moment. (Dating, MensXP.com)

7. Have An Understanding With Her : There is always a chance that despite your best efforts to conceal your workplace romantic endeavors, you get spotted as a couple and the issue ruffles your x. Make your girl understand that this kind of situation is always a possibility in an office romance and thus, if something like this were to happen, you would distance yourself from her, i.e. only within the office. Make her understand that this would be just a precaution to ensure that your career doesn’t get jeopardized.

Friends Are No More Friends

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sat, 17 Dec 2011 05:19:00 +0000

Seriously, I’m really screwed up. I feel like no one cares anymore. Friends are no more friends that I knew. Everyone is so different. It’s hard to accept that people whom I loved are now no longer that same person. Life is never easy. I can’t believe things happen so fast. One minute you are laughing with them and the next minute, it’s like everything that was there is gone. I don’t like it. I mean no one likes this. It’s hard to handle things that keep falling apart in my fucked up life and I have to rebuild again and it’s never easy to do that. Sometime I think that there’s something wrong with me .

Everyday thinking of what can happen in my life. Thinking who I will lose and wondering what to do in life. I wanted to go with the flow and I don’t seem to be doing that. I’m tired of all this crap.

Loneliness and pain is what I feel these days. Every stone’s been turned around. My beginning had already begun and now I have to run. There’s nothing left here anymore and it’s making me insane. No one knows how I feel. The day was dark and full of pain. Hope is all I’ve got. My life is meaningless. It’s so hard to get along with empty hands. The world makes me confuse and my sense seem to lose.

“I think our friendship is not strong anymore"

6 Dating Tips For A Safe And Successful First Date: Specially For Women

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Mon, 05 Dec 2011 04:59:00 +0000

6 Dating Safety Tips You Can’t Afford to Ignore

Entering the dating scene can be daunting. In addition to feeling nervous about meeting new people your safety is probably one of your key concerns. Don’t let these concerns put you off dating all together. Just stay safe with these dating safety tips.

Dating Safety Tip 1: Tell Someone

If you’re meeting a stranger for the first time, tell a friend or family member who you’re meeting and where you’re going. They will be just as concerned about your dating safety as you are, and they will probably be happy to agree to give you a call at a certain time, just to check that everything is ok.

Dating Safety Tip 2: Meet in Public

Never accept a lift on your first date, no matter how nice and trustworthy your date sounds. Meet in a busy public place and don’t tell your date how you intend to travel to your destination.

Dating Safety Tip 3: Don’t Give Your Home Address

When you’re dating someone new, an important safety tip is to be extremely vague about where you live. And definitely don’t give your home address to someone you don’t even know.

Dating Safety Tip 4: Make Sure You Dress to Create the Right Impression

This tip is crucial especially for women. Sure everyone likes to look their best, and appear attractive and appealing to the opposite sex. But save that super sexy cleavage enhancing top for a later date, and dress conservatively for your first one.

Dating Safety Tip 5: Don’t Drink Too Much

On a first date, it’s tempting to have a drink or two to calm your nerves. But for your own safety don’t go overboard. Not only are you putting yourself in a risky position, but you’re also more inclined to give away information that you shouldn’t be sharing at all. ( Selfgrowth.com )

Dating Safety Tip 6: Trust Your Instinct

Dating should be fun. But if something doesn’t feel right, whether it’s on your first date, or your fourth date, trust your instinct and disappear. If you feel really unsafe, don’t worry about offending the other person and don’t feel that you have to tell them that you’re going.

Don’t let these dating safety tips put you off dating. Chances are your date will go just fine and you won’t need to worry at all. But by following these tips religiously, you already have your safety covered and you will be able to enjoy your date.

Love Hurts SMS and Quotes

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Mon, 21 Nov 2011 04:36:00 +0000

Love everyone equally ,

Don't give special place for any because its

easy to give that place but it hurts when the person

doesn't know the value of That place .

Longest Distance on Earth

Isn't from North to South,

Its When I Stand In front of you and you Ignore Me..!!

Its Still Hurts To See

That You're Doing Completely

Okay... Without Me ..... :(

It really hurts when somebody

we love most ignores us when we go front of them

and they react as don't know who we are ..

Difference Between Love and True Love

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Fri, 18 Nov 2011 04:14:00 +0000

Love vs True Love

Love is just love; you can love anyone, anything, even fall in love with someone and once breakup, feel apart for a week maybe a month then move on and fall in love again that’s what mere love is. True love is a mystery, a myth, a wish of each one of us but fate of very few. When you love someone regardless of what he looks like, regardless of how many flaws he have regardless of the fact that he loves you back or not, all you can do is keep loving and loving, the feeling only increases, true love is when you find a reason to smile, a reason to live for, a reason to die for.

Questions about love, lust, first love, second love and of course the one and only true love are timeless questions totally judgmental based on one’s own perception, but these mysteries have consumed the mankind since ages , it’s a major theme in movies, literature, art, scriptures and tales from myth. Love is a feeling one can have for anyone at any part of one’s life. Love is not distinctive, love is not differentiating, and love is just mere love feeling of affection, likeness, infatuation, attraction, all together can be love. Love has many faces, you love your family and friends that is another thing, and you are in love with your girl/boyfriend or significant half that is again entirely another thing. Love asks for love in return but true love is divine, out of the world and rare. True love doesn’t ask for anything in return, it has more aspect of affection, care and partnership forever. True love has no end, rather than fading away with age and time it only increases

Being in love with someone makes you conscious of yourself how you look like, you tend to worry if your body is out of shape, it is a happy feeling, trying to look good for certain someone, trying to be good to certain someone, trying to be there for certain someone but when in true love you don’t ‘’try’’, you don’t need to try, everything comes straight from the heart, well true love takes ages to develop it is a divine feeling free of all worries. True love means sincerity, loyalty, being totally committed to this one person for the rest of your life, someone without you can’t even imagine living, that someone if gone you tend to lose meaning in life you forget to smile and live just for the sake of living. Love one can let go , move on , find new second love, but true love means dedication , you would be ready to sacrifice even your life for that special someone. But that special someone won’t let you because he/she reciprocates your feeling in every way when true love really is there you don’t need the feeling to dress up and feel insecure looks don’t matter, words lose meaning, butterflies don’t flutter in your stomach in true love, electric charge doesn’t lighten up your body on a mere touch, that maybe lust or love, true love is companionship in every sense possible. In true love you tend to develop a spiritual connection between each other and a feeling of contentment. ( Differencebetween.com )

Difference Between Working and Personal Relationships

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Wed, 16 Nov 2011 05:39:00 +0000

Working vs Personal Relationships

Man is a social animal and loves to make relations in all situations of life. This is true both at home as well as at workplace. Without relations, it is hard to imagine our existence. We are father, brother, husband, boss, employee, and mush more in a family or at work. The moment we are born, we find ourselves in a web of relationships whether or not we like it. However, the relationships at work are totally different from personal relationships. This article attempts to highlight these differences so as to enable readers to try to keep relationships at both places happy and manageable.

It is when relationships become difficult to navigate we start to think about them. Otherwise, when the sailing is smooth, we hardly pay attention to it, which is the cause of relationships going sour or full of stress later on. The relationships within family members are personal relationships while those that are formed between colleagues and boss and employees are called working relationships. The relation between teacher and students is also referred to as working relationship. The situation becomes difficult when your friend at a work place tries to behave like your brother or your mother that you feel suffocated in the relationship.

The crux of the problem is the human nature to form relationships at all times and places. Whether at work or even in a classroom, we tend to make relations with others as we are comfortable perceiving ourselves in relationships.

The basic difference between working relationship and personal relationship is the intimacy or the level of intimacy that people can show. In a personal relationship, one can be as sweet or rude as he can be depending upon his mood. However, working relationships are more formal, and people tend to behave in more or less same fashion all the time. Conversations in working relationships are more businesslike and mostly polite. On the other hand, personal relationship talks are as varied as the relation and one can see a wide spectrum of conversations in husband wife relationship. Read more ...

Summary : People can get very personal in a personal relationship while talks remain formal in a working relationship. However, situation turns tricky when relatives are found working closely at a workplace. This is when there has to be a distinction between personal relationships and working relationships. If husband and wife happen to be working in the same company, they need to keep their personal relation outside the work place to be happy while in the office. Similarly, such people should not bring their working relationships at home and should change the tone and tenor once they are at home.

11 Things Not To Tell Your Parents About Your Boyfriend

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Tue, 11 Oct 2011 11:33:00 +0000

" Your family is almost always happy when you're in a happy relationship. But there are certain details about your beau that veer squarely into TMI and don't need to be shared. "

One of my college friends just told me she'd had an "overshare" moment with her parents yesterday. She was filling them in on the guy she is seeing casually — he's an amazing musician and a really incredible person all around. But she happened to mention that he has a few tattoos and one nipple piercing. By the way they reacted, she told me, you'd think he was a card-carrying communist or something. So she was really bummed, but she did express relief that she hadn't said something like, "His hands are deceptively small." Ha!

So I asked my mom what else a parent would not want to hear about her daughter's boyfriend. She gave me the following a list. A parent would not be happy knowing …

That he's ever had an addiction.

That he cheated on his ex.

That he also likes guys.

That he believes in something strange like extra terrestrials.

That he plays video games 10 hours/week.

That he has zero ambition.

That he talks to his mom twice a day (because that means you will never be #1 and the mom will be a wedge (mama is hard to give up). ( Lifestyle.msn.com )

That he is estranged from his parents (because if things are so bad that he can't be near them, then there is hurt and baggage. Even if it's not his fault, there will be scars).

That he has a record. (As in, criminal record.)

What is Love !

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sun, 18 Sep 2011 09:45:00 +0000

What is love? Ask any number of people, and their will no doubt be poetic, full of imagery and loose metaphor. Indeed, love is primarily just a word invented by humans to describe an emotion, and so by its very nature is eternally difficult to describe. But, despite of this there is some science behind it all. And chemical imbalances in your brain are often to blame for the joy and ecstasy you may feel whilst being 'in love'. Love is thought to develop over a series of 'stages'. These stages are:

• Lust

• Attraction

• Attachment

Lust is there to help expose people to others, and is the initial sexual desire. It promotes mating on a very instinctive level, and involves the a heightened release of chemicals such as testosterone in males and estrogen in females. The initial effects of lust don't very often last longer than a few weeks or months, before the more specific attraction sets in.

Attraction is a lot more specific to an individual and marks the start of a romantic desire for a particular person with regards to their candidacy for partnership. It develops out of lust as commitment to an individual partner expands. Studies have shown that as a relationship develops and people start to fall in love, the brain releases a steady stream of chemicals including dopamine, pheromones, serotonin, and norepinephrine. These chemicals act in a manner similar to that of amphetamines, stimulating the brain's pleasure centers, leading to side effects such as a loss of appetite, an intense feeling of excitement, and an increased heart rate.

These first two 'stages' of love are considered temporary, and so the third one, attraction, is deemed to be needed in order to for long-term relationships. During attachment, a bond forms that helps to promote relationships the could go on to last for many years and even decades. The attachment is based on commitments - commitments such as marriage and children - or mutual friendships based on shared interests etc. Higher levels of chemicals like vasopressin and oxytocin have been linked more to long-term relationships as opposed to short-term relationships.

Of course, the above 'stages' refer to interpersonal love. That is, the love between two human beings. But we can also be said to love objects, goals, or principles if we value them greatly and are deeply committed to it, which is known as an impersonal love.( Love.blurtit.com )

Some Other Defines of Love :

Love is a force that draws one to another, creating a feeling of happiness and pleasure, and desire to share feelings and experiences. It is often spawned from an initial feeling of attraction, but ultimately is fueled by feelings of a bond between the two. Love need not be returned, unlike friendship. One can love another and the other feeling at all drawn to the one in love. Love can hurt as bad as anything imaginable. Love is not for the weak of heart, it can take all your strength to endure loving someone who does not love you.

Love is an intangible thing. People should probably not put too much faith or belief in love because love is not something that they can touch and faith and belief is needed in something that cannot be tested or explored pragmatically. Love doesn't actually exist. Love is just a word that means a sum of many things. It can encompass friendship, kinship, sexual lust, mental connection, physical connection and a bond. The word love is without value.

Love is an emotional attachment between two individual which rests on sentiments, trust, love , affection, a sort of emotional dependency, expectations and many more. There is four different typed of love:

Eros - Love for your boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife
Agape - Unconditional love
Storge - Love for animals or things
Philia - Love for family and friends.

Love is blindness.

Love is like an eternal flame,Once it is lit, it will continue to burn for all time.Love isn't blind, it just only sees what matters.Love is a moment that lasts forever.

Love is the greatest ineffability in the globe.
It is, above all, God's benefaction to mankind.
It is hard to define, philosophers and poets like to probe.
The easiest way to describe are two hearts combined.

The foremost precedence is to love your Creator,
The arduous task is to cherish your antagonist,
A person who has no sense of adoration is a traitor,
It belongs to everybody not just protagonist.

The essence of love is kindness,
A lovable person is always solicitous.
Absence of amorousness is harshness.
The existence of fondness is felicitous.

The quintessence of affection is veracity.
The intention of love is familiarity.
Use the heart to achieve capacity.
People involved should live in prosperity.

If you love other, you do selfless thing.
You do thing which do not benefit your satisfaction.
It is not how long you mutually cling.
But how much love you put into action.

Love vs Friendship

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sun, 04 Sep 2011 18:26:00 +0000

Love is when you feel like you are the only two around. You forgets everything whenever you meets your soul mate.
Friendship is a quiet walk in the park with the one you trust most.

Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart.
Friendship is when they look into your eyes and you know they care.

Love is when you can still feel their presence in your heart when they are not near . you want to see your mate again and again. You want to talk again and again.
Friendship is being close even when you are far apart.

Love occupies your soul .
Friendship occupies 5% of your heart .

Love is when you will give up everything to be at their side .
Friendship is knowing that you will always try to be there when in need

Love Needs Commitments or compromises .
Friendship is No complaints no demands.

Love a relation with no bounds.
Friendship is when you keep yourself in certain limits .

Love when you do anything for your sweetheart at any cost.
Friendship You just try your best .

Love when you can't replace the memories of a person even after the years.
Friendship when you both never change even after the years.

Love is a warming touch that sends a pulse through your heart
Love is a beautiful smile to which nothing compares
A tender laugh, which opens your heart
A single touch that melts away your fears
A smell that reminds you of the tenderness of heaven
A voice that reminds you of the innocence of youth
Friendship is a warm smile in the winter

Love cannot live without friendship .
Friendship can survive without love .

Your Presence : The Love Poem

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 16:51:00 +0000

My joy knows no bounds

When you appear before me

Your presence fills me

With an everlasting happiness

ah ...Can't hold my heart for long

To reach to your heart

My eyes ever keep waiting

To see you

Oh your tantalizing touch

Brings a sensation

In my heart

It's a pure relation

That will remain till eternity .

Confusion : The Love Poem

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Fri, 12 Aug 2011 17:36:00 +0000

My knees start to shake
When you're in sight
My mind's filled with wonder
My heart with fright
When will this feeling stop?
When did it start ?
How can I listen to my mind
Without breaking my heart?
I am so confused
What should I do ?
I can't think of anything
Except of you
Should I ignore you?
Or just give this time?
I can't think straight
My heart controls my mind !

5 tips on surviving a long distance relationship

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sun, 31 Jul 2011 10:10:00 +0000

Being in a long-distance relationship can be tough, especially if the two of you live in two different countries. But thanks to the latest developments in technology, surviving in a long-distance relationship has never been so easy.

Whether you are currently in a long-distance relationship, or if you and your significant other are going to be living apart for the next little while, here are five tips on how to maintain a healthy long-distance relationship:

1. Skype or Gtalk

Skype or Gtalk is one of the best ways to talk to your loved one face to face while you are apart via video chat. Not only can you see the other person's face, you can also show each other different projects you are working on, an outfit you recently purchased, or your new home if you happen to be living one for the next little while.

2. Keep a daily schedule

Before you start your long-distance relationship it may be a good idea to sit down and discuss what time of the day the two of you will plan to talk on Skype or on the phone. Keeping up a daily schedule is one of the best ways to keep your relationship strong so that way the two of you can prove how committed you are to each other by writing daily messages or talking on Skype every afternoon or evening.

3. Be honest

One of the worst things you can do to your long-distance relationship, or any relationship for that matter, is to start concealing what you plan on doing or what you did the night before. This of course may seem fairly obvious, but it can't be stressed enough.

4. Tell them everything

Another great way to maintain a long-distance relationship is to make your significant other feel as if they know more about your life than you do. Tell them every little detail of your day, how you are feeling at that particular moment, or what your plans are for tomorrow. This way when the two of you get off the phone it will feel as if they are there with you for every step of the day.

5. Texting

Before the two of you separate make sure you contact your cell phone company to set up a great texting plan. Texting is a great way to improve communication because you can send each other a word or two whenever something significant happens throughout the day and you're not at your computer to write them an e-mail or a message. This of course depends on where the two of you are living and how expensive the cell phone plan is, but desperate times call for desperate measures.( More on )

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Your Identity Card

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 16:15:00 +0000

In this earth
It's your golden birth
Do your best part
As your most beautiful art
Live an honest life
Be a smart
Don't play with dirty mud
Because you are your own guard
You are God's ward
Your duty is to work
In your own courtyard
If you can
Wait for falling nut
If you can, try to cut and
Make your own living chart
As your true identity card.

Romantic Love Quotes or Love SMS

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sat, 09 Jul 2011 03:50:00 +0000

A soul mate can change your life

permanently whether he's around

you for a week or forever.

Despite all the things you do , Can't make

me feel different for you.

You always remain the same.

A very dear and best part of my life.

Great thoughts come from the heart.

It is beter to be hated for what you are,

then to be loved for what you are not.

Life is not about accepting yourself.

Body Language: How To Send The Right Signals

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Mon, 04 Jul 2011 06:51:00 +0000

You may not know it, but you put meaning to what you are saying through your actions. Almost every aspect of your personality is made known through your looks, demeanor, facial expressions, gestures, posture and body language.

Body language is an important part of communication. To enhance the effectiveness of verbal communication, you need to work not just on your appearance but also on body language, which constitutes 50% or more of what you are trying to convey. And because body language makes up a huge chunk of your overall message, it is important to understand just how you can use it to send to your advantage.

A lot of people are unaware of how they project themselves to other people because generally, people can subconsciously identify body language signals. By understanding how you can use body language to send the right signals, you can be able to able to turn things your ways and leave a lasting and positive impression towards people. Here are some ways.

Make eye contact. Maintain direct eye contact when speaking to someone and vice-versa. This shows that you know and are sincere with what you are saying and that you are interested in what the other person has to say as well. Looking somewhere else can only create an impression that you are not interested or are not focused on the conversation. However, avoid staring at the person so as not to intimidate him/her off.

Observe proper posture. Avoid slouching. This only makes you look shorter and creates an image of you having low esteem. Stand comfortably, with your back straight, weight centered and feet slightly apart.

Smile. Believe it or not, but smiling is actually a very powerful kind of body language. Pouting can only pass negative judgment on other people. However, your smile should be a way to let other people know that you are easy to approach and talk to and not make people think that you are looking for approval. You do not have to smile too often, you only have to do it appropriately.

Use appropriate gestures. You can use your hands to emphasize your words or ideas. Small gestures can also work when talking up close as well. When someone is talking, nod to show that you are following. Careful not to overdo your gestures or appear too nervous with them, as this can be annoying.

Create and observe personal space. Create your own personal space. Especially in close-up conversations, let other people know that you have your own personal space and draw the line just there. Much as you do not want other people to invade your space, you also need yo observe their own as well.

For instance, if you are in a job interview, it is important that you send the right signals as first impressions usually mean big. Always appear interested and attentive in the conversation, but you should never overdo it as it may create an impression that you are only faking.

Awareness of one's own body language is important so you can communicate and respond to others effectively. Knowing how you can and cannot use body language can help filter out biases as well as understand what other people's body language signals mean and say about them. (contentconnection.com)

But perhaps the most significant thing you should keep in mind is that body language signals are far greater than the impact of verbal communication. And if your words go hand in hand with body language well together, people are more likely to be convinced with what you are trying to say. More often, people can tell whether you mean what you say with your body language.

Remember that actions can say more than words.

Missing You My Friend

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Mon, 27 Jun 2011 13:50:00 +0000

When we'll meet again
We don't know my friend
Those days will not return
Your stupid jokes and my
Stupid laugh had gone.
Of course I miss those days
I remember my farewell song
And tears from your eyes running
You come to my heart when I am alone
And make my mind fresh
And recharge me again.

Separation never effects when love is Eternal

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Wed, 15 Jun 2011 06:24:00 +0000

We part every day

Only to meet every tomorrow

Every day the night becomes

A thousand mile distance

Which we keep travelling

To meet Each other

Under the Sun's light

How we wish to be together

Under star and moonlight also

To share secret of heart's happiness.

Under dark and bright lights alike

We get death after death

In our every birth

Yet our souls remain united

In our every birth.

Temporary separations

Can't crush our craziness.

For each other

Separation is temporary

Our love is eternal.

Love Hurts Notes

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 17:47:00 +0000

Its My Birthday again....

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 17:16:00 +0000

Again I am a Rockstar...

the bad thing is that just for 24 hours :(

Everyone wants to talk me

Everyone wants to wish me

why so ....!

Think

Yup Its my birthday

Its 8th of June

Now I am a one year old model :P

But anyways moving ahead with the nice or unexpected achievements..

Thanx TO GOD for giving me a bit space on this earth , for giving me the loving parents , stupid siblings or for everything i deserve.

Thanx a lot to Readers for tolerating me..

Now Start wishing me ...

Inspirational Quote On love hurts

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Tue, 07 Jun 2011 02:50:00 +0000

What Is Love...

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Tue, 31 May 2011 03:17:00 +0000

What Is Love?

None can explain

It is like a bruise

Which gives a lot of pain

In this interesting game

Some lose and some gain.

What is Love?

It is like a mystery

Which has a Deep history

Not found even in dictionary.

What is Love?

It is like stars

Looking beautiful with shine

But true lovers in this world

Are rare...very rare.

What is Love ?

It is like the sun

Shining alone in sky

When some one falls in love

Breaks all the bonds of Shy.

What is love?

None can explain..

Like you ...

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Wed, 25 May 2011 15:55:00 +0000

Like a Gentle breeze in a spring dawn
You came in my life
Innocent that I was
Did not know that breeze
Will bring the heaven for me.

Like a thing that makes me insane
You made me lose my sanity
With that killer smile of yours
Those made me forget
How to breathe…

Like the moon in the night Sky
Shining over the sleeping earth
You were, you are and
Will always be
In this heart
So small, Yet beating
Only in the name…..

Famous Quotes About Life on Love Hurts Still Want

noreply@blogger.com (Yogita Aggarwal [Tanya Garg]) — Thu, 19 May 2011 03:08:00 +0000

Its Better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.

Life is not about accepting Yourself.

Great thoughts Come from the heart.