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1) Make a rule that NO ONE is allowed to bring a smart phone to the table. Period.  In fact the hour or so of visiting with friends before your meal should be a hands off the smart phone zone.  Especially your kids - explain to them we only stop work and everything else a few times a year to gather together with loved ones, and they need to enjoy the time together and live &quot;in the moment&quot;.&lt;br /&gt;
2) Remind anyone with a hat on to please remove it before sitting down to the table.&lt;br /&gt;
3) If you are hosting and you are eating buffet-style, remember to tell people to please go ahead and start eating while it&#39;s still warm - they don&#39;t need to wait for you.&lt;br /&gt;
4) If you&#39;re a guest, remember to wait for the host to either take the first bite or tell you to go ahead without her or him.&lt;br /&gt;
5) Kids should remember to look people in the eye when speaking to them.....not appropriate to look down or the other way and mumble.&lt;br /&gt;
6) An old fashioned -but still looked upon as gentlemanly - is if a man helps a lady with her seat....and stands when a lady gets up from the table or sits down.&lt;br /&gt;
7) If you&#39;re eating from a buffet in a restaurant, leave your plate on the table when you go for more food and the plate will be removed. You don&#39;t want the serving spoon that touches everyone&#39;s else&#39;s plate to touch yours too.....But if you&#39;re in someone&#39;s home, it&#39;s expected that you will used the one plate and go back with it for seconds.  Don&#39;t know why - I guess if you know someone well enough to be in their home, you know them well enough to share germs. :)&lt;br /&gt;
8) When you&#39;re finished, fold your napkin lightly (don&#39;t scrunch it) and put it to the left of your plate.&lt;br /&gt;
9) Thank your host for a nice Thanksgiving meal.  And send a thank you note the next day - even if it&#39;s family!!!&lt;br /&gt;
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Have a happy peaceful Thanksgiving....and let&#39;s all hope for peace in the world.  We can do that by being civil to every other human being you come across.

Jill :)</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/11/thanksgiving-table-reminders.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-319959148998290842</guid><pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2011 12:38:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-27T08:38:28.906-04:00</atom:updated><title>Manners Reminder of the Week</title><description>If you and another person are approaching a doorway or a narrow place to walk, please pay attention and slow down to let the other person pass through. It&#39;s the considerate thing to do. So many people rushing these days - sometimes it becomes a race just to get through a hallway or a narrow passage. &amp;nbsp;Why speed up to get through a doorway first? &amp;nbsp;I tell my 15-year-old every day to let &lt;u&gt;me&lt;/u&gt; go through the doorway into the kitchen first - the food will still be there when it&#39;s his turn! &amp;nbsp;Please slow down and think about another person during your busy day! &amp;nbsp;That person will think to themselves, &quot;what lovely manners!&quot;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/10/manners-reminder-of-week.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-8393273914979990703</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 19:21:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-20T15:21:02.442-04:00</atom:updated><title>Moms are Lovin&#39; the Placemats!</title><description>Gotta Love This Review of the placemats!!!&lt;br /&gt;
Thanks, Suzy, whomever you are! Glad you like them.&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://suzysaid.com/montclair/index.php?page=stories&amp;amp;family=favorites&quot;&gt;Click Here: to see &quot;SuzySaid&quot; review&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/10/moms-are-lovin-placemats.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-1271622979079073696</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 14:42:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-10-11T10:42:30.048-04:00</atom:updated><title>Good Manners over Good Grades - Even A Question?</title><description>Just heard about a new study that was just done - as if it even needed to be done!?&lt;br&gt;
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This morning, on a segment on the Today Show, three &amp;quot;professionals&amp;quot;/guests were asked to comment on an NBCU study showing that&lt;u&gt; 77% of moms interviewed said they would prefer their children to have good manners over good grades&lt;/u&gt;.  Two of the three Today Show guests agreed that good manners were more important - but one guest actually said she thought good grades&lt;br&gt;
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Just read an article – ok, a little crazy that it was a
“Dear Abby” newspaper advice column – but the woman who wrote it told Dear Abby that something she had read 20 years ago had
changed her life. Unsure of herself as a Middle School student, she happened to
read a Dear Abby column that offered advice to another reader recommending that
one should “smile and greet people every day.”&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;This writer said she took that advice and it changed
her life.&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;She started to smile at
the world, became involved in activities in school, made friends, and was
elected student body president. She now has children, has a master’s degree,
and is a public speaker, poet and actor.&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;
&lt;/span&gt;She says it was all because Dear Abby wrote about how important
it is to smile.&lt;/div&gt;
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Dear Abby (Abigail Van Buron © 2011) responds to this writer
saying that she is glad her advice has been so impactful.&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;She says that no matter what you wear,
“the expression on your face is your greatest asset – or liability.”&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;She asks whether you would rather start a
conversation with someone who looks like they are mad at the world or someone
who looks like they’re happy to see you - even if they don’t know you.&lt;/div&gt;
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Dear Abby says she isn’t suggesting to be phony, but if you
develop a habit of looking cheerful and happy, “it attracts.”&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;She says that there are two kinds of
people who can walk into any room – one walks in and says, “Here I am…” The
other walks in and says, &lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;“There
you are...”&lt;/div&gt;
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Which one do you think is the winner?&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;Abby says, “If you want to receive a
warm welcome, remember the happier you are to see others, the happier they’ll
be to see &lt;i style=&quot;mso-bidi-font-style: normal;&quot;&gt;you&lt;/i&gt;.”&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;I will add to that advice with my car&#39;s bumper sticker:&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;BE NICE.&lt;span style=&quot;mso-spacerun: yes;&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/span&gt;The footnote to the bumper sticker
should be: it makes you feel like you’re helping the world be a better place!&lt;/div&gt;
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At the Yankees game on Labor Day (and every baseball game) - the announcer asked people to stand and take off their hats to sing the national anthem. &amp;nbsp;I had a sunhat on (because of a bad place on my chin you don&#39;t want to hear about)….when the announcer asked people to take off their hats, my first thought in the first millisecond was &quot;I can&#39;t take this off for medical reasons&quot; but then I thought &quot;this is a manner that people need to do - no excuse, period&quot; - and I whipped off my hat. &amp;nbsp;It is absolutely a sign of respect whether you are a man or a woman.&lt;br /&gt;
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Here&#39;s what Emily Post says about hats:&lt;br /&gt;
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Hats/baseball caps can be left ON:&lt;br /&gt;
Outdoors, at Athletic Games, on Public Transportation, at Religious Services as required, in Public Buildings (Post Office, Airport), on Elevators.&lt;br /&gt;
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Hats/baseball caps should be taken OFF:&lt;br /&gt;
In a Home, In an Office, at Mealtime at the Table, in Restaurants, at a Movie or Indoor Performance, when the National Anthem is played, when the Flag of the United States passes by (as in a parade).&lt;br /&gt;
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But I wanted to know what was the general history behind taking off the hat? &amp;nbsp;Long ago, the guest, coming in to the host&#39;s most vulnerable space - his home - would often make a ritual of taking off his hat. &amp;nbsp;The hat and the stick (or the helmet and sword depending on the century) would be required to be left at the door. &amp;nbsp;Uncovering your head and leaving your sword at the door shows that you are disarming yourself, shows respect, and makes yourself similar to your host who is most likely not wearing a hat in his own house or castle. &amp;nbsp;At the turn of this century, it was also customary for men to remove their hats to protect others from industrial soot. &amp;nbsp;Emily Post said that women&#39;s hats were part of their &quot;costume&quot; and did not need to be taken off….but her more modern descendants who have written the most recent editions of her &lt;u&gt;Etiquette&lt;/u&gt; book do not distinguish between men and women when it comes to taking a hat off. &amp;nbsp;The rules above are for everyone.&lt;br /&gt;
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How about this? &amp;nbsp;The forebearer of the hat was the wreath! &amp;nbsp;The ancient Greeks and Romans wore them at feasts. &amp;nbsp;The wreath was a pledge that everyone would observe TABLE MANNERS(!) and would not take food meant for another person, would not steal food, and would not ignore the rights of others at the table! &amp;nbsp;Wreaths reminded humans that they were mortal - they were not Gods - and they needed to pay attention to their limitations, so they were left on during meals.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 13pt;&quot;&gt;Creative Peers Attending HOW Design Conference Select Winners in Three Categories for Eighth Annual Design Competition&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;&quot;&gt;(Chesapeake, VA) -- Yupo Corporation America, a leading global manufacturer of synthetic paper and presenter of the Wally Awards, has announced the winners of the annual design competition.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;&quot;&gt;Best Design entry – Lovely Manners Placemat by Dawn Vislocky of PBM Graphics&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;&quot;&gt;Best Package entry – Puka Pill Organizer by designer Shumpei Kato&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoListParagraphCxSpLast&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: .25in; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-indent: -.25in;&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;&quot;&gt;Best Artist entry – Sorina Susnea “The Wondrous World Inside”&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;&quot;&gt;“Lovely Manners Placemat” by PBM Graphics, Inc. of Durham, NC, was selected for the Best Design category. Dawn Vislocky of PBMG will receive a $500 award. Puka Pill organizer by Shumpei Kato of Vancouver, BC, will receive a $500 award for winning the Best Package category. For her Best Artist category winning entry, “The Wondrous World Inside,” Sorina Susnea of Floral City, FL will receive a generous supply of YUPO paper.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;&quot;&gt;Lovely Manners Table Placemats submitted by PBM Graphics, of Durham, NC, on behalf of client, www.lovelymanners.com - an online store and blog, which shares modern manners for people of all ages. PBM produced this table placemat collection on YUPO Grade: 144 lb cover in 1960s-era retro color combinations: blue/green, orange/fuchsia, and grey on grey. Each set contains six unique placemats with bold graphics and helpful etiquette reminders for proper table manners such as the proper placement of glasses, bread and salad plates, using silverware in correct order and rules for social interaction during meals. The placemats were created by freelance designer, Elizabeth Kuehnen, for the company&#39;s online store.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;MsoNormal&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;font-family: Arial; font-size: 11pt;&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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We&#39;re away while our boys are at camp. Sitting in a gorgeous outdoor setting having a glass of wine with my husband, I couldn&#39;t stop watching the people at the next table…..&lt;br /&gt;
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1) When you walk into a restaurant, you should look and try to get a feeling for the atmosphere in the restaurant - if it&#39;s rowdy and noisy already, go ahead and have fun! But if you sense that the place is quiet and people are enjoying the quiet and/or the view, remind yourself of that when you begin your &amp;nbsp;table talk. I had such a hard time listening to my husband because the people next to us were conversing very loudly - much louder than they needed to.&lt;br /&gt;
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2) Please remember not to push your food onto your fork with your fingers. &amp;nbsp;Don&#39;t think, &quot;oh just this once, no one will see&quot; - people WILL see! I did! This same loud guy dug his two fingers into his salad bowl and pushed his salad onto his fork several times. Is this one of those ridiculous manners people shouldn&#39;t get upset about? I don&#39;t think so because it grossed me out! &amp;nbsp;(The thesaurus suggests &quot;repulse&quot; and &quot;repel&quot; for &quot;gross out&quot; but, hey, I&#39;m writing the way I speak.)&lt;br /&gt;
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3) I looked at the woman next to the guy and she had a huge piece of buttered bread and was eating the whole thing - it was an enormous piece of fresh bread. &amp;nbsp;I just quietly said to Dan, &quot;I think these people need the placemats and I know what I&#39;m blogging about.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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I guess the main gist of all of this is that even if you don&#39;t think other people around you will see or hear or be bothered by your actions, you should remember that they very well could be - so be considerate. &lt;br /&gt;
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So, a quick quiz:&lt;br /&gt;
Q: Should you be loud and boisterous at a &quot;quiet outdoorsy beautiful view&quot; restaurant? &amp;nbsp;A: No, consider the atmosphere when you walk in.&lt;br /&gt;
Q: Should you use your fingers to push food onto your fork? A: No, NEVER use your fingers. &amp;nbsp;You have a knife or a piece of bread to help you!&lt;br /&gt;
Q: Should you butter and eat a whole piece of bread at once? &amp;nbsp;A: No, it looks a lot nicer and it IS a lot easier to break off a bite-sized piece of bread, butter just that bite, and pop that into your mouth.</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/07/at-table.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-7131100007595543743</guid><pubDate>Tue, 28 Jun 2011 01:57:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-06-27T22:01:16.138-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">lovely manners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">lovelymanners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">manners placemats</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">placemats</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">table manners</category><title>Civility, Politics, and the American Public</title><description>This post is in response to some recent comments from some readers. &amp;nbsp;&quot;Basement Boy&quot; - whomever he is - &amp;nbsp;is worried about how to handle discussions about politics - especially when he does not &quot;agree&quot; with the other party. &amp;nbsp;That reminded me of a recent survey I read about. &amp;nbsp;According to Politico, a recent survey of 1000 Americans concludes that 80% of those surveyed have, in the last year, been victims of incivility and one in 10 admit that they have been rude themselves. &amp;nbsp;(Survey:&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.politico.com/news/stories/0611/57304.html&quot;&gt;http://www.politico.com/news/stories/0611/57304.html&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;br /&gt;
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I thought it was very interesting that 90 percent of the people surveyed say that it really matters to them how the candidates who will be running in th next elections behave and treat people in debates with whom they disagree - that the candidate&#39;s tone of civility is very important. But only 55 percent of the people say they care about the party to which the candidate belongs. &lt;br /&gt;
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So, when you&#39;re having those political debates with people (I rarely become involved in these because it just gets too messy), watch that YOU are being civil and are giving the other person in the conversation or debate room to speak his/her opinions &amp;nbsp;- or you might be thought of as just as uncivil as some of these candidates!&lt;br /&gt;
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Another interesting fact: &amp;nbsp;people surveyed said that out of 25 American &quot;Institutions&quot; Political Campaigns are the least civil and Dinner Conversation is the most civil. &amp;nbsp;So Basement Boy, why don&#39;t you just stick to Dinner Conversation - especially dinner conversation without politics. &amp;nbsp;It sounds like you may not be cut out for political banter with friends!&lt;br /&gt;
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And if you&#39;re rolling your eyes about this whole manners thing, take a good look at this quote from Edmund Burke a friend just sent me today. She said she was a teacher in NYC and used to keep this up on the chalkboard:&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, helvetica; font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;Manners are of more importance than laws... Manners are what vex or soothe, corrupt or purify, exalt or debase, barbarize or refine us, by a constant, steady, uniform, insensible operation, like that of the air we breathe in.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;border-collapse: collapse; font-family: arial, helvetica; font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;Have a great week! &amp;nbsp;And remember to order some placemats as your summer hostess gifts!!!! &amp;nbsp;:)&lt;/span&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/06/civility-politics-and-american-public.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-4721393092978151456</guid><pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2011 14:48:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-05-23T10:48:16.262-04:00</atom:updated><title>Use this QR Code &amp; Test Your lovelymanners Skills!</title><description>&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1dCRYos4hweMXsiDMFhQwjFh0fXQFIk8gf2zCwhl6bIqZpiFNCJCFrizxXXyViBtlrSELbVGVWlKt-V7KQWQDX1Y9YoMj8MDsQUt3rtb6C0oiVy6N5WUAIGCWuEoLdlclgjbB8MIoU3s/s1600/lovelymannersquiz.png&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;200&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1dCRYos4hweMXsiDMFhQwjFh0fXQFIk8gf2zCwhl6bIqZpiFNCJCFrizxXXyViBtlrSELbVGVWlKt-V7KQWQDX1Y9YoMj8MDsQUt3rtb6C0oiVy6N5WUAIGCWuEoLdlclgjbB8MIoU3s/s200/lovelymannersquiz.png&quot; width=&quot;200&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: orange;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: orange;&quot;&gt;&lt;b&gt;&amp;quot;Test Your lovelymanners Skills Right Now! Scan Me!&amp;quot;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br&gt;
Hey, everyone. While I&amp;#39;m waiting for the placemats to be packaged this week - yes, they are really going to be up on the site and for sale by next week! - I&amp;#39;ve been diligently thinking about new ways to sell and market.  And the computer geek that I am (for people who know me, they KNOW I actually am!), I&amp;#39;ve become really fascinated with these new QR codes and QR readers.  QR stands for Quick Response Code - you&amp;#39;ve probably started seeing them in magazine and newspaper ads...and they&amp;#39;re going to start showing up at points of sale - just watch!&lt;br&gt;
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So I decided to generate my own QR code and I&amp;#39;m going to put it on stickers on the outside of my placemat packaging - The &lt;br&gt;
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&lt;i&gt;&quot;He&amp;nbsp;expects respect from the people who work for him -&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
&lt;i&gt;because he &lt;/i&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;i&gt;gives&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;i&gt; respect to the people who work for him.&quot;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;i&gt;&lt;/i&gt;And that&#39;s the crux of it! That&#39;s what manners are - they are not tired, irrelevant, elitist rules only applicable to days gone by. They are action-oriented behaviors that outwardly express courtesy and respect to friends, family, co-workers, and complete strangers.&lt;br /&gt;
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BE NICE. &amp;nbsp;It&#39;s really not that hard.</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/05/be-nice.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>2</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-6787258904710969713</guid><pubDate>Thu, 21 Apr 2011 13:36:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-04-21T09:36:51.904-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">cell phone manners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">mobile etiquette</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">mobile manners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">texting manners</category><title>&quot;Mobile Misfits&quot;</title><description>The surprise on the waiter&amp;#39;s face when he walked up to our table, and suddenly, I popped up from under the tablecloth! OK, I was caught - and so embarrassed!  &amp;quot;But I thought it was nicer than talking at the table and I didn&amp;#39;t know what to do!&amp;quot; I said. &amp;quot;It&amp;#39;s a LOT better than what I usually see,&amp;quot; he remarked with a smile.&lt;br&gt;
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So, yes, it&amp;#39;s being talked about everywhere now - and I am guilty too.  It was in the NYT this past Sunday, it&amp;#39;s discussed in&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/04/mobile-misfits.html#more&quot;&gt;Read Complete Post or Comment by Clicking Here:&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/04/mobile-misfits.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-7756608230924476693</guid><pubDate>Mon, 04 Apr 2011 21:32:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-04-04T17:32:10.897-04:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">manners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">table manners</category><title>I&#39;m &quot;OK&quot; with Bread Plates and Drinks</title><description>When you sit down at the table, do you often look and think, &amp;quot;Whose bread plate is whose....I can&amp;#39;t remember how this works.&amp;quot; And, &amp;quot;whose glass is whose?&amp;quot;   Well, here&amp;#39;s a really easy way to remember.  I learned this little trick in my training (for those of you who know me, no, it is NOT the napkin trick) and it is one of the things that will ALWAYS stick with me now - I hope it helps you too!  I know it&amp;#39;s helped some of my friends with whom I&amp;#39;ve recently dined!&lt;br&gt;
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At one point, one of my boys ordered spaghetti, and a spoon arrived in his bowl of pasta.  The next thing I saw was my son trying to eat spaghetti with the spoon!  When I asked what he thought he was doing (quietly), he told me that a spoon had arrived in his bowl, so he assumed that he was supposed to use it to eat the dish.  So, I immediately reminded him about our placemats which teach &amp;quot;Twirl your pasta with your fork on a spoon&amp;quot; to make it bite-sized.  When he realized what I was talking about, he knew exactly what to do....but seeing him trying to initially eat spaghetti with a spoon cracked me up!&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/03/what-exactly-is-spoon-for.html#more&quot;&gt;Read Complete Post or Comment by Clicking Here:&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/03/what-exactly-is-spoon-for.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>5</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-4140763793320520029</guid><pubDate>Wed, 09 Mar 2011 22:28:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-03-09T17:28:30.725-05:00</atom:updated><title>Duke Girls Search Austin for Best Manners</title><description>&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivkUtNjnEI-tnc0VgWR5RuRy2G5iEgmXuy8POOg9KSw1m4_4yqYKtnup1vnsjfzaUGQFZXcstJzxF8A7oCCXdTz9DDNQbkh8cW-Z82ALFqCTsMb6ssgZNfZKhZTylFFU8hW25074k7YtU/s1600/IMG_2087.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;240&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivkUtNjnEI-tnc0VgWR5RuRy2G5iEgmXuy8POOg9KSw1m4_4yqYKtnup1vnsjfzaUGQFZXcstJzxF8A7oCCXdTz9DDNQbkh8cW-Z82ALFqCTsMb6ssgZNfZKhZTylFFU8hW25074k7YtU/s320/IMG_2087.jpg&quot; width=&quot;320&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;I spent this weekend in Austin visiting a college friend with five of my other Duke girlfriends. We happened upon a situation which we unanimously voted as &amp;quot;the best manners we encountered all weekend&amp;quot;.&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: underline;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;-webkit-text-decorations-in-effect: none;&quot;&gt;It&amp;#39;s hard to accept a compliment, isn&amp;#39;t it?  But once a day, or once a week, we&amp;#39;re paid a compliment and what do we do?  We say, &amp;quot;Oh, not really.....&amp;quot; or  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&amp;quot;Thank you,&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;but.......&amp;quot;.   The appropriate way to&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class=&quot;separator&quot; style=&quot;clear: both; text-align: center;&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzFD4xAi5eafaJdBmzGmkt46sJz4T24qwJpUSYY5_ACU_pASEqtXbt_7Tcrt9a7MO6AUXJm_xU3-haXNGeZISzdEPZwkfCo_KYUr6sWYT9EML2erTg6UFdLpTyeTU2Y4w3E0BehOmUgs8/s1600/IMG_2139.jpg&quot; imageanchor=&quot;1&quot; style=&quot;clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;&quot;&gt;&lt;img border=&quot;0&quot; height=&quot;240&quot; src=&quot;https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzFD4xAi5eafaJdBmzGmkt46sJz4T24qwJpUSYY5_ACU_pASEqtXbt_7Tcrt9a7MO6AUXJm_xU3-haXNGeZISzdEPZwkfCo_KYUr6sWYT9EML2erTg6UFdLpTyeTU2Y4w3E0BehOmUgs8/s320/IMG_2139.jpg&quot; width=&quot;320&quot;&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;accept a compliment is to do so with the same kindness used to give you the compliment. Accept it Graciously.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;Here&amp;#39;s our story:&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;We were in a very large dressing room - in a kind of&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;text-align: left;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/03/duke-girls-search-austin-for-best.html#more&quot;&gt;Read Complete Post or Comment by Clicking Here:&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/03/duke-girls-search-austin-for-best.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEivkUtNjnEI-tnc0VgWR5RuRy2G5iEgmXuy8POOg9KSw1m4_4yqYKtnup1vnsjfzaUGQFZXcstJzxF8A7oCCXdTz9DDNQbkh8cW-Z82ALFqCTsMb6ssgZNfZKhZTylFFU8hW25074k7YtU/s72-c/IMG_2087.jpg" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-4410398512016394848</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Mar 2011 19:56:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-03-02T14:56:22.244-05:00</atom:updated><title>Breaking Bread</title><description>A short posting this week. &lt;br&gt;
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Some technical glitches came up with printing the first run of the lovelymanners placemats this weekend.  I want them to be PERFECT, so I pulled the job late Saturday night and will continue once we figure out how to fix what was going on.  A great Saturday night I had I have to say -  sitting in a room at a printing company in North Carolina!  I had plenty of time to proofread our copy again for the umpteenth time, and reading one of our manners reminded me of something I had seen earlier in the weekend.&lt;br&gt;
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When you are out in a restaurant - or even at home - do you&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/03/breaking-bread.html#more&quot;&gt;Read Complete Post or Comment by Clicking Here:&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/03/breaking-bread.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>5</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-4756361798698049059</guid><pubDate>Wed, 23 Feb 2011 15:05:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-02-23T10:05:19.660-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">elevator manners</category><title>Elevator Behavior Matters to Most Women!</title><description>This past weekend I was at my home-away-from-home. Well, I guess my second home-away-from-home because Asheville would be first. But Vail runs a close second. &amp;nbsp;We&#39;ve joined a club in Vail allowing us easy access on and off the slopes with all of our equipment, a place to eat and rest, and a place to store everything during the off-season. &amp;nbsp;It&#39;s a nice club and seems to have very nice and polite people who have joined from all over the country. &amp;nbsp;The club has rules as any club does - no cell phones, respect people around you by not talking too loudly - they even have fur-lined Crocs to put on when you take off your ski boots because they don&#39;t want people walking around in their socks (that have been in their ski boots all day!) &amp;nbsp;The rules and the people seem so&amp;nbsp;courteous to me that I could not believe the lack of thoughtful&amp;nbsp;consideration when people were on the elevator! &amp;nbsp;But sometimes what you expect&amp;nbsp;and teach your&amp;nbsp;family is not what other people do. &amp;nbsp;I thought I would tell you the &quot;Elevator Rules&quot; we&#39;ve agreed to as a family (grandma and grandpa have helped us come up with and teach these rules to our boys as well.)&lt;br /&gt;
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Let me begin by explaining the elevator in question. &amp;nbsp;There is just one elevator that goes between two floors in the club. &amp;nbsp;If you want to get down to the locker room, you must ride the elevator from the main floor down. &amp;nbsp;Likewise, you must ride it back up again to the main floor. &amp;nbsp;I carefully watched my boys this weekend to see if they were following what I&#39;ve taught them is &quot;proper elevator exiting&quot;. &amp;nbsp;I know that this is not exactly what the Emily Post people teach these days - there is a lot of gender neutrality people have to worry about and the Emily Post people say that in these modern days, the person closest to the door exits first. &amp;nbsp;But I was brought up, and I am bringing my boys up (including my husband), to follow the old-school ways because it shows courtesy and consideration. &lt;br /&gt;
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Our Family Elevator Rules:&lt;br /&gt;
First, wait for the people IN the elevator to exit - which means don&#39;t block the door when the elevator door opens because most likely people need to get out - and you should allow them to do that instead of &amp;nbsp;pushing your way in first. &amp;nbsp;Then, if the elevator looks like it is going to be crowded, the first people in line to enter the elevator should obviously go in. &amp;nbsp;But if it looks like there will be plenty of room in the elevator it is a kind gesture for a male to say, &quot;After you&quot; and let the females enter first.&lt;br /&gt;
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Secondly, when we exit the elevator we&#39;ve taught our boys &quot;The Exit Order.&quot; &amp;nbsp;My sons know that this means they are pretty much at the bottom of the totem pole, but they see how kindly people look at them and appreciate their good manners - and it makes them feel good - I&#39;ve never heard them complain. &amp;nbsp;It has become second nature to them. &amp;nbsp;The Exit Order:&lt;br /&gt;
1) An elderly or handicapped person should be allowed off the elevator first.&lt;br /&gt;
2) &amp;nbsp;Then allow any woman of any age off the elevator - it is kind for younger girls to allow older women to go ahead of them.&lt;br /&gt;
3) Then older gentleman exit.&lt;br /&gt;
4) Finally young men exit.&lt;br /&gt;
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Whenever a man lets me exit first I always make sure to say, &quot;thank you&quot; so that he hears me. Nothing helps more than to reinforce those good manners! :) &amp;nbsp;And when it&#39;s a young man, I say, &quot;What nice manners you have. Thank you.&quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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That didn&#39;t happen at all this past weekend except the times I was in the elevator alone with my Dad, husband, or boys. &amp;nbsp;And one other time, a very nice gentleman let me off first. &amp;nbsp;Only once all weekend! &amp;nbsp;The rest of my visit - over four days in and out of that elevator - &amp;nbsp;men, whom you think would know better, just walked off without any acknowledgement. &lt;br /&gt;
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Yes, it&#39;s old school. But to me, it&#39;s a matter of common courtesy and respect that underlies all manners - I do think most women like to be treated with this kind of elevator courtesy. And, men, if you&#39;re worried that you might offend a woman with this chivalrous behavior, you can extend the offer and say, &quot;After you.&quot; &amp;nbsp;If she insists that you go first, then you should go ahead and exit.</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/02/elevator-behavior-matters-to-most-women.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>0</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-1923063069762284873</guid><pubDate>Tue, 15 Feb 2011 15:20:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-02-15T10:20:06.863-05:00</atom:updated><title>Thank you. No, Thank YOU. No, THANK YOU!</title><description>My girlfriends helped write my blog this week by giving me questions they had about thank you&amp;#39;s and emails - I&amp;#39;ve researched everything and below are the answers.  (And, if you have, by chance, been to a dinner party at my house in the last week, this is NOT FOR YOU!  How awkward!  I am asking you all NOT to write a thank you, OK? :) )&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;b&gt;Q:&lt;/b&gt; Is email an accepted form of a thank you?&lt;br&gt;
&lt;b&gt;A:&lt;/b&gt; When someone gives you a present, or....when you are a houseguest at someone&amp;#39;s home (with the exception of a kids&amp;#39; sleepover), or.....when you&amp;#39;ve&lt;br&gt;
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It&amp;#39;s a one-of-a-kind....or I should say a two-of-a-kind.  My Mom had two of them custom-made on a website....and sent me one. So there is one driving around Asheville and one driving around Greenwich.  We both get so many comments, I can&amp;#39;t even begin to tell you. People love it and always ask where I got it. I should probably start selling them on my website with the placemats!&lt;br&gt;
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I said I planned to blog about real-life experiences - so this week, I wanted to talk about the importance of a specific behavioral trait - &lt;b&gt;being nice&lt;/b&gt;.  Emily Post placed emphasis in her 700+ page book, &lt;u&gt;Etiquette&lt;/u&gt;, on a person&amp;#39;s  &amp;quot;&lt;u&gt;instinctive&lt;/u&gt;&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;u&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/02/how-to-weather-weather-with.html#more&quot;&gt;Read Complete Post or Comment by Clicking Here:&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/02/how-to-weather-weather-with.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/" url="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiQUaQnx6qhlgLK8mJ33YvCCMA6rhTXfdms0VvcS6aBUI8XEbRG-tyD0RhsPByGgqx0B_4MxS_0MVYnkl00KewVaz0DE1KCfz9ichqt0u95pNiu1TGhM1CL9JLMuOle1v344047oJYOxRs/s72-c/DSC_0561.JPG" height="72" width="72"/><thr:total>6</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-4324284666774346805</guid><pubDate>Wed, 02 Feb 2011 03:14:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-02-02T19:30:45.003-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">lovelymanners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">manners</category><title>Questions Answered</title><description>A lot of people have asked lovelymanners several questions this week, so I thought this would be a good time to start answering them.  One of the first questions someone had was about eating soup - so before I answer I had to share one of my favorite videos that I love showing to kids when I start my Table Manners workshops - watch this one:&lt;br&gt;
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So finishing the question about soup.....spooning the soup away from you may seem strange - but that&amp;#39;s the right way to do it.  It&amp;#39;s actually not as easy to spill any in your lap when you do it that way.  And surprisingly, it IS ok to get that last little bit by tipping the bowl &lt;u&gt;toward&lt;/u&gt; you for those last few drops - just remember to keep spooning away from you in the other direction. (And of course, please no slurping!)&lt;br&gt;
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A second question that has come up is what you should do with your fork,&lt;br&gt;
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&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: black; font-family: &amp;#39;Helvetica Neue&amp;#39;, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;i&gt;Thank you, all my friends, for your over 150 emails!!!  Wow!  I hope you&amp;#39;ll help me move the forum to the &amp;quot;comments&amp;quot; section on this blog so we can have discussions for everyone to join!   A few people have asked me some technical questions about my blog - so here are the answers:&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;color: black; font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 20px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: &amp;#39;Helvetica Neue&amp;#39;, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;To &amp;quot;Subscribe&amp;quot;, see the box to the right and just fill in your email.  You&amp;#39;ll get a confirmation email back, and then every time there is a new post (article), you will receive it in email format.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: &amp;#39;Helvetica Neue&amp;#39;, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;To &amp;quot;Forward&amp;quot;, see the little email envelope icon at the end of each post.  Click that and it will allow you to fill in an email address which will forward the post to a friend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: &amp;#39;Helvetica Neue&amp;#39;, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;To &amp;quot;Ask Questions and Join our Discussion&amp;quot;, you can do so anonymously or with your name. You&amp;#39;ll see the &amp;quot;comments&amp;quot; button after each post so click on that and it will bring you to a comments box where you can comment and ask a question. I&amp;#39;ll answer every day.  Come back often to find the answers and see what other people are saying!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;Now for this week&amp;#39;s Post:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;Have you seen the movie True Grit yet?  I went to see it this weekend and I have to say I cracked up during one line toward the end of the movie - no one else in the theater thought it was funny including&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;my husband - &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;I think I may have been the only one who caught it!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/01/true-grittrue-manners.html#more&quot;&gt;Read Complete Post or Comment by Clicking Here:&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/01/true-grittrue-manners.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>8</thr:total></item><item><guid isPermaLink="false">tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8892811931187361211.post-5622449865795522606</guid><pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 13:43:00 +0000</pubDate><atom:updated>2011-01-26T09:10:28.692-05:00</atom:updated><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">Emily Post</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">lovelymanners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">manners</category><category domain="http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#">étiquette</category><title>First Things First</title><description>&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;Hi, there.  Thank you for visiting and reading my Blog! I&amp;#39;m writing this in conjunction with the launch of my company, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;u&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;lovelymanners&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/u&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;My intention in this blog is to comment once a week on modern day&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br&gt;
&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;&quot;&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;Apple-style-span&quot; style=&quot;font-size: x-small;&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/01/first-things-first_20.html#more&quot;&gt;Read Complete Post or Comment by Clicking Here:&lt;/a&gt;</description><link>http://lovelymanners.blogspot.com/2011/01/first-things-first_20.html</link><author>noreply@blogger.com (Jill Bayer Ciporin, lovelymanners)</author><thr:total>12</thr:total></item></channel></rss>