Lover of Sadness Root Description http://www.loverofsadness.net/LOS/images/square_logo.jpg Lover of Sadness http://www.loverofsadness.net/LOS/images/square_logo.jpg Tue, 17 Oct 2017 21:56:53 +0000 Zend_Feed_Writer 1.11.10 (http://framework.zend.com) http://www.loverofsadness.net Story: The love never dull by Akram
I fall started to fall in love with this woman when she's was visiting my house because my sister is a good friend of her brother. That moment i was back from hang out with my lads. Once i step into my house. i sae a girl sitting on the sopha. she just so beautiful. i cant describe my feelings that moment. seems like all kind of blood flow in my vein pump up very fast to my deeper heart than a bullet train. When she was going to go home. im just standing in the front door. For the first time, im staring at a great creatures like that. A beautiful girl.

After few days, i cant forget that woman, i couldnt finish my meal, i cant do a lot of things. jusr thinking about her. i started to ask my sister for her contact. It tooks me few days jusr to chay her. My feelings that moment, nervous a lot. Im done with this game, the firsy move i made. "hey, do u want to be my girlfriend ? special ones. yes i admi it. i fall in love with you".

That moment I lost half of the oxygen in my body. I got the chat said "give me sometime". I start to knock my head on the wall and whispering to myself "what the fuck im done". On the late night at the same day. I cant sleep thinking of what i had done on that day. suprisingly, she text me. "you know what, i think i want to be your girlfriend". I am so happy. Nothing can describe my feelings that time.

I started to know her family, friends. Sometimes im proud to myself because i am easily adapt with her. without a license, i start learning how to drive a car from my fathe and at the age 13 i drove it to school. i feels like a most cool person in school. haha lmao. but her school just few kilometres from mine. Since she was became my special one, i pick up her at school every single day and sent her to school. sometimes we went to eat something or do a fun stuff before i send her home. But i aint worried because her mom knew it that her daugther with me. After 2 years, i am finished my high school and continue my study at the college where it is 500 km from my hometown, from her. But hell yeah! after 3 years. I did noticed that she was kindly act a little bit different. But because i am still in love with her. I didnt accused her anything. It almost 4 years. It was third semester where everything change my life. That moment was a semester break for 2 months. I keep texting her every single day just to have a date. But she always give me a reason, busy etc. I am kind of sad. I standing in front of her house for 4 hours waiting for her to be home. That 4 fucking hours her mom didnt invited me to enter the house. I was like an innocent person standing under a hot sunny weather. no actually i was in the car. I didnt know what she had bribe her mom about me.

Sadly, i got a text from this one guy. send me a selfie with my girlfriend and asked me to go home. my girlfriend doesnt want to meet me. That moment, my heart was like a saussage was chew by a bulldog. I was like... could feel it was bleeding inside.

My mother that noticed I wasnt home yet. pick uo me infront of her house. i was unable to drive. my body shaking. im speechless. After a week staying in my room. my mother drag me out. she brought me to the bathroom, and asked my brother to take a bath on me. I was completely like a disable person. But, i have my family. that is the main things make me strong until today. i sent back all of the stuffs that she had gave to me. I cried a lot. All i want thay moment just to be alone. I went to the beach alone every single morning. My deeper heart crying. it's been a long time i doesnt hear any news about her. But the love. it never get dull.

i wrote this story on 14 september 2017. I did officially break up on march 2016. Just want to share piece of my story. I just want to tell all of you readers. No matter how hurt you are, family always there trying to fix you.
Tags: Love]]>
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I fall started to fall in love with this woman when she's was visiting my house because my sister is a good friend of her brother. That moment i was back from hang out with my lads. Once i step into my house. i sae a girl sitting on the sopha. she just so beautiful. i cant describe my feelings that moment. seems like all kind of blood flow in my vein pump up very fast to my deeper heart than a bullet train. When she was going to go home. im just standing in the front door. For the first time, im staring at a great creatures like that. A beautiful girl.

After few days, i cant forget that woman, i couldnt finish my meal, i cant do a lot of things. jusr thinking about her. i started to ask my sister for her contact. It tooks me few days jusr to chay her. My feelings that moment, nervous a lot. Im done with this game, the firsy move i made. "hey, do u want to be my girlfriend ? special ones. yes i admi it. i fall in love with you".

That moment I lost half of the oxygen in my body. I got the chat said "give me sometime". I start to knock my head on the wall and whispering to myself "what the fuck im done". On the late night at the same day. I cant sleep thinking of what i had done on that day. suprisingly, she text me. "you know what, i think i want to be your girlfriend". I am so happy. Nothing can describe my feelings that time.

I started to know her family, friends. Sometimes im proud to myself because i am easily adapt with her. without a license, i start learning how to drive a car from my fathe and at the age 13 i drove it to school. i feels like a most cool person in school. haha lmao. but her school just few kilometres from mine. Since she was became my special one, i pick up her at school every single day and sent her to school. sometimes we went to eat something or do a fun stuff before i send her home. But i aint worried because her mom knew it that her daugther with me. After 2 years, i am finished my high school and continue my study at the college where it is 500 km from my hometown, from her. But hell yeah! after 3 years. I did noticed that she was kindly act a little bit different. But because i am still in love with her. I didnt accused her anything. It almost 4 years. It was third semester where everything change my life. That moment was a semester break for 2 months. I keep texting her every single day just to have a date. But she always give me a reason, busy etc. I am kind of sad. I standing in front of her house for 4 hours waiting for her to be home. That 4 fucking hours her mom didnt invited me to enter the house. I was like an innocent person standing under a hot sunny weather. no actually i was in the car. I didnt know what she had bribe her mom about me.

Sadly, i got a text from this one guy. send me a selfie with my girlfriend and asked me to go home. my girlfriend doesnt want to meet me. That moment, my heart was like a saussage was chew by a bulldog. I was like... could feel it was bleeding inside.

My mother that noticed I wasnt home yet. pick uo me infront of her house. i was unable to drive. my body shaking. im speechless. After a week staying in my room. my mother drag me out. she brought me to the bathroom, and asked my brother to take a bath on me. I was completely like a disable person. But, i have my family. that is the main things make me strong until today. i sent back all of the stuffs that she had gave to me. I cried a lot. All i want thay moment just to be alone. I went to the beach alone every single morning. My deeper heart crying. it's been a long time i doesnt hear any news about her. But the love. it never get dull.

i wrote this story on 14 september 2017. I did officially break up on march 2016. Just want to share piece of my story. I just want to tell all of you readers. No matter how hurt you are, family always there trying to fix you.
Tags: Love]]>
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Story: Friend, Bestfriend, Girlfriend by Unknown kid
About a year or two later

Shes back with D and me n D became best mates we would be with eachother alll day it was me D, C and Cs best friend lets call hher E, we would hang out every day in school. C and D wanted me to get with E but she was just easy, anyone could get with her so id just flirt to keep her happy.. me and C would still allways talk all night every night and one day D went on holiday n never had no wifi wher3 he lived so asked me to go on his account n speak to C acting like him.. talking to C on two different accounts at the same time was hard but just acting like her boyfriend got me in my feelings and i wanted her and she wanted me everyone knew it but i never let it happen untill one day on my acvount i complimented her.. a compliment turnee into a x and after that it was 2 and then 10 x (text kisses). Once after school she had to wait for E to finish detention and begged me to wait with her so we was stuck in a empty school for 45 minutes alone. We played about ran around n once i had no energy left i sat down on the only chair that was round us, she sat on my leg because i didnt want to get up n put her head on my shoulder then looked up and we kissed, we was both so happy but once the fun was over i realised how did i just do that shes one of my best friends girlfriends I never told nobkdy about it n we swore we woyldnt speak of it again but she told two other girls who eventually told D. He got mad but she took all the blame even though it was all my fault, later i admited it was my fault n everyone hated me the whole school id spend break times alone, D loved her and took her back every time so they got together, however she wouldnt let me go she would allways check up on me and talk to me as a best friend even though he hated me. I cant remember what happend after that but year 11, she was single n so was i, the teacher made us sit next tk eachother n we would allways mess with eachother Me and her got really close and its timr to pick our options for whst we wanted to study. I picked media and she picked health and social, i didnt like media so i changed to health and social not knowing she was going to be there. I walked in and it was a awkward silence i think me and her just had a argument n wasnt speaking. We wanted eachother but she was with D and i still couldnt admit to her that i loved her, but one day i told her i want her and only her and she was over the moon however she was with D and was stuck on how to break it to him, so she just said she had family problems. Me and her got together n the whole school hated seeing us happy so she left all her mates for me and i left all mine for her, we would sit in a corner every break and just smile at eachother n kiss eachother, i never ever thought dirty about her n respected her decisions. We carved the first letters of our names into the wall where we sat n went there every day for weeks, but one day she wasnt there i searched the whole school for her and she told me she needed time alone so i gave her that she started sitting next to the head teachers office just listening to music and id still wait in our spot incase she came back. And one day she did come just to tell me that she dont think she wants me and all she can think about is D. Some how i just accepted her decision straight away and told her do what makes you happy even though it killed me. So she went and got with him, id turn sround every time i seen them coming down the coridor and me and her stopped speaking because he said to her if shes going to be with him shs will have to lose contact with me so she did, and the last thinf she said to me was "im allways here whenever u need me i promise" i needed her every day after that but i didnt want to be the reason for them to break up , i made sure nobody said anything to her after we broke up and made sure everyone left her alone to be happy with him however she was going around telling lies about me that he wss telling her to say, me and her argued amd just before she deletd and blocked me off everything her last words to me was... "i hate you and you ruined my life gosh i hate you"


Word of advice if you love a girl just to get her no matter what anyone thinks because i never got her fast enough and 2 years later im still heart broken
Tags: Love, Heart Break, Girlfriend, Bestfriend, True Story, Sad Story, Sad]]>
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About a year or two later

Shes back with D and me n D became best mates we would be with eachother alll day it was me D, C and Cs best friend lets call hher E, we would hang out every day in school. C and D wanted me to get with E but she was just easy, anyone could get with her so id just flirt to keep her happy.. me and C would still allways talk all night every night and one day D went on holiday n never had no wifi wher3 he lived so asked me to go on his account n speak to C acting like him.. talking to C on two different accounts at the same time was hard but just acting like her boyfriend got me in my feelings and i wanted her and she wanted me everyone knew it but i never let it happen untill one day on my acvount i complimented her.. a compliment turnee into a x and after that it was 2 and then 10 x (text kisses). Once after school she had to wait for E to finish detention and begged me to wait with her so we was stuck in a empty school for 45 minutes alone. We played about ran around n once i had no energy left i sat down on the only chair that was round us, she sat on my leg because i didnt want to get up n put her head on my shoulder then looked up and we kissed, we was both so happy but once the fun was over i realised how did i just do that shes one of my best friends girlfriends I never told nobkdy about it n we swore we woyldnt speak of it again but she told two other girls who eventually told D. He got mad but she took all the blame even though it was all my fault, later i admited it was my fault n everyone hated me the whole school id spend break times alone, D loved her and took her back every time so they got together, however she wouldnt let me go she would allways check up on me and talk to me as a best friend even though he hated me. I cant remember what happend after that but year 11, she was single n so was i, the teacher made us sit next tk eachother n we would allways mess with eachother Me and her got really close and its timr to pick our options for whst we wanted to study. I picked media and she picked health and social, i didnt like media so i changed to health and social not knowing she was going to be there. I walked in and it was a awkward silence i think me and her just had a argument n wasnt speaking. We wanted eachother but she was with D and i still couldnt admit to her that i loved her, but one day i told her i want her and only her and she was over the moon however she was with D and was stuck on how to break it to him, so she just said she had family problems. Me and her got together n the whole school hated seeing us happy so she left all her mates for me and i left all mine for her, we would sit in a corner every break and just smile at eachother n kiss eachother, i never ever thought dirty about her n respected her decisions. We carved the first letters of our names into the wall where we sat n went there every day for weeks, but one day she wasnt there i searched the whole school for her and she told me she needed time alone so i gave her that she started sitting next to the head teachers office just listening to music and id still wait in our spot incase she came back. And one day she did come just to tell me that she dont think she wants me and all she can think about is D. Some how i just accepted her decision straight away and told her do what makes you happy even though it killed me. So she went and got with him, id turn sround every time i seen them coming down the coridor and me and her stopped speaking because he said to her if shes going to be with him shs will have to lose contact with me so she did, and the last thinf she said to me was "im allways here whenever u need me i promise" i needed her every day after that but i didnt want to be the reason for them to break up , i made sure nobody said anything to her after we broke up and made sure everyone left her alone to be happy with him however she was going around telling lies about me that he wss telling her to say, me and her argued amd just before she deletd and blocked me off everything her last words to me was... "i hate you and you ruined my life gosh i hate you"


Word of advice if you love a girl just to get her no matter what anyone thinks because i never got her fast enough and 2 years later im still heart broken
Tags: Love, Heart Break, Girlfriend, Bestfriend, True Story, Sad Story, Sad]]>
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Poem: Abigail's Poem by Kimberly and beg you not to go.
I wish I asked what you were going through,
but now I'll never know

I wish that I had some warning of what you'd do that night,
and that you'd given me a chance to save you,
to help you make things right.

I wish that you could've soldiered on,
and worked through the pain.
If you had, I promise you
you would've been happy one day.

I wish that the last time I saw you
I didn't rush away.
I wish that I had hugged you harder that day,
and told you I loved you that day.

I wish that I could bring you back to see you one last time,
to hug you close, to hear your voice,
and then the world would be fine.

But all these things can't ever happen,
the nightmares are all about you.
There's not one thing I can change,
because these wishes will never come true.
Tags: Death, Suicide]]>
Thu, 12 Oct 2017 06:50:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/3zS2oQk8VEY/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3827 and beg you not to go.
I wish I asked what you were going through,
but now I'll never know

I wish that I had some warning of what you'd do that night,
and that you'd given me a chance to save you,
to help you make things right.

I wish that you could've soldiered on,
and worked through the pain.
If you had, I promise you
you would've been happy one day.

I wish that the last time I saw you
I didn't rush away.
I wish that I had hugged you harder that day,
and told you I loved you that day.

I wish that I could bring you back to see you one last time,
to hug you close, to hear your voice,
and then the world would be fine.

But all these things can't ever happen,
the nightmares are all about you.
There's not one thing I can change,
because these wishes will never come true.
Tags: Death, Suicide]]>
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Story: Depression changes everything by Saeion
There was this girl, she was the strongest and most independent woman I have ever met. She had one of those smiles that instantly makes you better. She had eyes that you can see had got through some heavy hardships in life, but now shine the brightest. She was amazing and everyday I spent with her, the more she blew me away. She was easy to get along with, and we became fast friends.

We were each others rock and company throughout a bad career decision and we've been close as family ever since. She knew me better then anyone, as I knew her better then anyone. She was more then just my best friend, she became an integral part of my life. We never were romantically involved, but I never felt the need to be. We were happy with each others company and we knew that we loved each other in ways no one could ever comprehend. I never expected I'd ever lose her... Until she started suffering from a depression.

She started to close up on me, but I thought that was normal at first, thought that she needed space and that she'd let me in eventually. Unfortunately as time went on, our conversations grew shorter and shorter. I tried to help her through it, but every time I tried to get close she'd just push me away. However she started opening up to her online friends, that knowledge stung like hell but.. I was glad that at least she had somebody to talk to. As time went on.. She stopped talking to me all together, ended up learning things on how she's doing from her online friends, who in turn always tell me how she talks to them alot, actually contributes to the conversation and how she is happy talking to them.. "So then why not with me?" I started to wonder. Started to miss her, started to miss our talks, our laughs, ended up spending most of my time just staring at our chats hoping she'd reply to a message I send.

One day I asked her why wasn't she opening up to me, she said its because she only has enough strength to talk to one person about it, It never was me. Another day I asked her why isnt she spending time with me anymore, she said its because she's focusing on herself and only has enough energy for herself, she spends it with her online friends but not with me.

Just yesterday I asked what I am to her.. Why arent we talking anymore, she told me that its what she's become now, that she changed, that if our friendship ends so be it, that asking her to talk to me is like I m trying to mold or force our friendship. When I asked her why she's saying these things.. Why is her depression targetting me.. Why is she treating me like a stranger when we were like a family? She didnt tell me.. She didnt explain anything to me. All I have are questions and What ifs. She just said she confirmed that she needed space for me.. After giving her space for these past 3 months, all she wanted was to do less with me. But I noticed it.. It wasnt space she wanted.. That was it.. That was the end of our friendship.. She didn't want me in her life anymore and I dont know why. I ll never know why.

I guess I m writing this story to try and get it out of my system, but to also say this; Cherish each and every moment with your loved ones, because you never know when you're gonna lose them. I never expected to lose her like this.. But I cant change it now.. I have to learn to live without her now. Depression is the worst poison a person can get.. It changes everything.

I hope you'll live a good life, I hope you'll be happy someday, I really do. I wish that I knew what I could have done and I m sorry that I didnt know. I'll miss you.
Tags: Depression]]>
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There was this girl, she was the strongest and most independent woman I have ever met. She had one of those smiles that instantly makes you better. She had eyes that you can see had got through some heavy hardships in life, but now shine the brightest. She was amazing and everyday I spent with her, the more she blew me away. She was easy to get along with, and we became fast friends.

We were each others rock and company throughout a bad career decision and we've been close as family ever since. She knew me better then anyone, as I knew her better then anyone. She was more then just my best friend, she became an integral part of my life. We never were romantically involved, but I never felt the need to be. We were happy with each others company and we knew that we loved each other in ways no one could ever comprehend. I never expected I'd ever lose her... Until she started suffering from a depression.

She started to close up on me, but I thought that was normal at first, thought that she needed space and that she'd let me in eventually. Unfortunately as time went on, our conversations grew shorter and shorter. I tried to help her through it, but every time I tried to get close she'd just push me away. However she started opening up to her online friends, that knowledge stung like hell but.. I was glad that at least she had somebody to talk to. As time went on.. She stopped talking to me all together, ended up learning things on how she's doing from her online friends, who in turn always tell me how she talks to them alot, actually contributes to the conversation and how she is happy talking to them.. "So then why not with me?" I started to wonder. Started to miss her, started to miss our talks, our laughs, ended up spending most of my time just staring at our chats hoping she'd reply to a message I send.

One day I asked her why wasn't she opening up to me, she said its because she only has enough strength to talk to one person about it, It never was me. Another day I asked her why isnt she spending time with me anymore, she said its because she's focusing on herself and only has enough energy for herself, she spends it with her online friends but not with me.

Just yesterday I asked what I am to her.. Why arent we talking anymore, she told me that its what she's become now, that she changed, that if our friendship ends so be it, that asking her to talk to me is like I m trying to mold or force our friendship. When I asked her why she's saying these things.. Why is her depression targetting me.. Why is she treating me like a stranger when we were like a family? She didnt tell me.. She didnt explain anything to me. All I have are questions and What ifs. She just said she confirmed that she needed space for me.. After giving her space for these past 3 months, all she wanted was to do less with me. But I noticed it.. It wasnt space she wanted.. That was it.. That was the end of our friendship.. She didn't want me in her life anymore and I dont know why. I ll never know why.

I guess I m writing this story to try and get it out of my system, but to also say this; Cherish each and every moment with your loved ones, because you never know when you're gonna lose them. I never expected to lose her like this.. But I cant change it now.. I have to learn to live without her now. Depression is the worst poison a person can get.. It changes everything.

I hope you'll live a good life, I hope you'll be happy someday, I really do. I wish that I knew what I could have done and I m sorry that I didnt know. I'll miss you.
Tags: Depression]]>
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Poem: Forever awake by Ramadhan Abdul Rahman fading daylight
endless ways of losing control
knocking every door
wait .. still more

will be forever awake

a final step to make
the only chance to take
escaping from dream to dream
a final score to redeem

knocking every door
wait .. still more

you still awake

no more rules to break
there were no rules .. it was fake
still knocking doors to escape??
the doors of your mind are closed ...
and you remain forever awake
Tags: Hope, Pain, Waiting, Love, Lost]]>
Wed, 11 Oct 2017 06:45:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/MUIbDqz42vM/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3826 fading daylight
endless ways of losing control
knocking every door
wait .. still more

will be forever awake

a final step to make
the only chance to take
escaping from dream to dream
a final score to redeem

knocking every door
wait .. still more

you still awake

no more rules to break
there were no rules .. it was fake
still knocking doors to escape??
the doors of your mind are closed ...
and you remain forever awake
Tags: Hope, Pain, Waiting, Love, Lost]]>
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Story: Shadows of love by Kat Someday you'll regret this. You'll regret walking away. And when you do don't come running back to me because I will get over you too.

At the same time someday you'll be so very grateful you left because you won't be stuck with me forever. You'll instead get a girl who might be prettier, who doesn't have as many problems and issues as I do. She will give you all you ever want. Just like I tried to do. But, I hope you never get tired or bored of her and leave her like You did to me. Why? Because that hurts it hurts to love someone and watch them walk away. It's heartbreaking.

Let me tell you though, despite the fact that she is pretty, is perfect, and gives you everything she has; NO ONE could EVER love you as much as I do....did.

Goodbyes are hard. I hate talking to people face to face after goodbyes. In this town though it's impossible not to run into them again. It's awkward. So many memories come back. And let me tell you when I run into you in the halls or on the street or wherever, once in the mall up north; all the memories come flooding back. Those were some of the best times in my life. You have given me some of my favorite laughs and smiles. You gave me something to smile and laugh about. Maybe that's what took me so long to get over you. Maybe that's why I let you in so many times even though I knew it would never work out and I'd only get hurt. You can't just leave anymore, I won't let you leave ever again. Why? Because you already left and I'm Not gonna let you back in. Therefore, you can't ever leave. Because leaving only breaks hearts. Or heals hearts... You did both for me.
I will miss out and maybe I never fully will get over you but, right now I'm letting you know I'm not going to let you come running back expecting to be able just to come back. Because following that will be a bunch of lies and talking behind my back. I wish I could say I didn't care when I saw you leaving me behind. I was so vulnerable. I fell for EVERY single lie. That is till I started to check your words. Now I'm not even sure if a single word you ever said to me was true. That hurts. BAD. And I'm sick of it!!! I'm sick of it all. And I've tried to be the one to leave for once but, you always beat me to it then come run back because I've let you every other time so why not again. Oh, I know why. Because I'm not as stupid as I was.

When you told me you liked me a lot and then ignored all of my texts unless I had something for you, That's when I realized what an idiot I am. How stupid I was to tell everyone they were wrong about you. Let me tell you. You might be a great friend but, you're a terrible boyfriend! And even if you weren't actually my boyfriend just my "thing" guy you were still terrible at it.

I'm sorry but, this time I'm saying no. I'm saying not this time. I'm sorry. And maybe ten years down the road we run into each other. Maybe we can talk like friends instead of awkward enemy's. I'll be sure to invite you to my wedding when I find a man who can love me as much as I love him.

We just had a fight. Well, I don't know if you can call it a fight. But, apparently you thought I was blaming you for something when I wasn't. That's one of the problems we had in our relationship. Communication. I usually let you get your way just to avoid fighting with you. I now realize what you were really doing was using me. And I let you. I let you tell me who to be and what to do. That hurt. I gave you my worth. I put my worth in your hands and you destroyed it. I fell into this pit of bitterness and hatred for myself because if you couldn't love me I couldn't love myself. STUPIDEST CHOICE I EVER MADE!!! Ha, I let a boy define me! What an idiot.
We both said some pretty stupid things. Some of which I wish I could take back. Mostly I just regret not saying certain things to you. But, it's over now so I can't.

I've always believed that people deserve another chance. I now realize that There's a reason for only second chances. I gave you so much more than you deserved and I deserved so much more than you. No, I deserved more than you were willing to give me. You were selfish. It was always kiss and dis. And by kiss I don't mean actually kiss, I mostly mean kiss up...except that one time when you literally kissed and dissed. Funny how quick I was to forgive you.

Want to know something else? The word sorry means nothing to me when it comes from you. Maybe if you were so sorry you were on your knees crying begging for forgiveness then maybe I'd believe you. But, I don't. You say sorry so much that at this point it's the word used most in our relationship. Or what was a relationship. You see, you can only say sorry so many times. After that a relationship fails. Because when all you do is say sorry you don't have time to do the things we need to do. Or needed to do. Now it's too late. And I can almost guarantee that you're going to want me to try again. You've even implied it. But, I won't let you. You want to skip the just friend faze. And I'm not letting you. Just friends is the only way I will go because I know I'll just get hurt. You're toxic.

I wonder if I ever hurt you. Part of me hopes not but, the other part hopes I did...because that means you actually cared. Even just a little. Man I miss you. Ok maybe I just miss the things we did. The laughs the smiles. The teasing, the memories. Stolen shoes and jackets. Getting a sliver out during a football game. Your sodas dew dripping on me at the movies. That's what I miss. I miss your hugs too. Man, we had some pretty fun times. Well, I don't know if you did but, I did. I hope you did.
Either way someday you'll thankfully regret. And be regretfully thankful. At least I hope you will.

Maybe if I would have kissed you in the beginning. But, I didn't because I wasn't going to put my standards down. I promised myself not to kiss anyone till I was 16 and if I couldn't or wouldn't of kept that promise I wouldn't have been able to trust myself. And if I couldn't trust myself who could. No one.

You see there are so many maybes. Maybe if this, maybe if that. All these maybes just show how toxic this all was. So many maybes that it just wouldn't work out cause we did all the wrong things. All the wrong things. I doubt you'll ever hear this but, if you do maybe the many maybes that could have been will hit you and you'll realize how maybe I could have stayed...but I didn't. Cause while I was teaching you that you could always come back into my life you were teaching me I didn't have to stay in anyone's life. Because you didn't.

All the pain. All the words. All of it. Good And bad I don't deserve what you think I do. I deserve better. Neither of us deserve each other because in our own ways we aren't good enough for each other.

I remember the day after I found out my grandpa had passed away I was so hurt and numb I didn't know what to do. I texted you... big mistake. You did end up opening the text and reading it. You even replied. Except all it said was I'm sorry. You see my summer wasn't exactly heavenly in fact I was done with it before it even started. You didn't seem to care. You made up excuses. You said I'm sorry when I needed something else. You see I DONT NEED ANY IM SORRYS. I DONT EVEN NEED AN IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO's. Because even if I said yes nothing would have happened. What I needed; no what every human deserves is actions. You see I needed a hug. I needed some ones shoulder to cry on. I needed someone like you. But, you were too stubborn. That sums up out relationship pretty much. And that's why I hate what we had. And why I'm over you.
Tags: Hurt, Love, Player, Cheater, Lies]]>
Wed, 11 Oct 2017 02:45:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/cMJk_c9noq8/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3348 Someday you'll regret this. You'll regret walking away. And when you do don't come running back to me because I will get over you too.

At the same time someday you'll be so very grateful you left because you won't be stuck with me forever. You'll instead get a girl who might be prettier, who doesn't have as many problems and issues as I do. She will give you all you ever want. Just like I tried to do. But, I hope you never get tired or bored of her and leave her like You did to me. Why? Because that hurts it hurts to love someone and watch them walk away. It's heartbreaking.

Let me tell you though, despite the fact that she is pretty, is perfect, and gives you everything she has; NO ONE could EVER love you as much as I do....did.

Goodbyes are hard. I hate talking to people face to face after goodbyes. In this town though it's impossible not to run into them again. It's awkward. So many memories come back. And let me tell you when I run into you in the halls or on the street or wherever, once in the mall up north; all the memories come flooding back. Those were some of the best times in my life. You have given me some of my favorite laughs and smiles. You gave me something to smile and laugh about. Maybe that's what took me so long to get over you. Maybe that's why I let you in so many times even though I knew it would never work out and I'd only get hurt. You can't just leave anymore, I won't let you leave ever again. Why? Because you already left and I'm Not gonna let you back in. Therefore, you can't ever leave. Because leaving only breaks hearts. Or heals hearts... You did both for me.
I will miss out and maybe I never fully will get over you but, right now I'm letting you know I'm not going to let you come running back expecting to be able just to come back. Because following that will be a bunch of lies and talking behind my back. I wish I could say I didn't care when I saw you leaving me behind. I was so vulnerable. I fell for EVERY single lie. That is till I started to check your words. Now I'm not even sure if a single word you ever said to me was true. That hurts. BAD. And I'm sick of it!!! I'm sick of it all. And I've tried to be the one to leave for once but, you always beat me to it then come run back because I've let you every other time so why not again. Oh, I know why. Because I'm not as stupid as I was.

When you told me you liked me a lot and then ignored all of my texts unless I had something for you, That's when I realized what an idiot I am. How stupid I was to tell everyone they were wrong about you. Let me tell you. You might be a great friend but, you're a terrible boyfriend! And even if you weren't actually my boyfriend just my "thing" guy you were still terrible at it.

I'm sorry but, this time I'm saying no. I'm saying not this time. I'm sorry. And maybe ten years down the road we run into each other. Maybe we can talk like friends instead of awkward enemy's. I'll be sure to invite you to my wedding when I find a man who can love me as much as I love him.

We just had a fight. Well, I don't know if you can call it a fight. But, apparently you thought I was blaming you for something when I wasn't. That's one of the problems we had in our relationship. Communication. I usually let you get your way just to avoid fighting with you. I now realize what you were really doing was using me. And I let you. I let you tell me who to be and what to do. That hurt. I gave you my worth. I put my worth in your hands and you destroyed it. I fell into this pit of bitterness and hatred for myself because if you couldn't love me I couldn't love myself. STUPIDEST CHOICE I EVER MADE!!! Ha, I let a boy define me! What an idiot.
We both said some pretty stupid things. Some of which I wish I could take back. Mostly I just regret not saying certain things to you. But, it's over now so I can't.

I've always believed that people deserve another chance. I now realize that There's a reason for only second chances. I gave you so much more than you deserved and I deserved so much more than you. No, I deserved more than you were willing to give me. You were selfish. It was always kiss and dis. And by kiss I don't mean actually kiss, I mostly mean kiss up...except that one time when you literally kissed and dissed. Funny how quick I was to forgive you.

Want to know something else? The word sorry means nothing to me when it comes from you. Maybe if you were so sorry you were on your knees crying begging for forgiveness then maybe I'd believe you. But, I don't. You say sorry so much that at this point it's the word used most in our relationship. Or what was a relationship. You see, you can only say sorry so many times. After that a relationship fails. Because when all you do is say sorry you don't have time to do the things we need to do. Or needed to do. Now it's too late. And I can almost guarantee that you're going to want me to try again. You've even implied it. But, I won't let you. You want to skip the just friend faze. And I'm not letting you. Just friends is the only way I will go because I know I'll just get hurt. You're toxic.

I wonder if I ever hurt you. Part of me hopes not but, the other part hopes I did...because that means you actually cared. Even just a little. Man I miss you. Ok maybe I just miss the things we did. The laughs the smiles. The teasing, the memories. Stolen shoes and jackets. Getting a sliver out during a football game. Your sodas dew dripping on me at the movies. That's what I miss. I miss your hugs too. Man, we had some pretty fun times. Well, I don't know if you did but, I did. I hope you did.
Either way someday you'll thankfully regret. And be regretfully thankful. At least I hope you will.

Maybe if I would have kissed you in the beginning. But, I didn't because I wasn't going to put my standards down. I promised myself not to kiss anyone till I was 16 and if I couldn't or wouldn't of kept that promise I wouldn't have been able to trust myself. And if I couldn't trust myself who could. No one.

You see there are so many maybes. Maybe if this, maybe if that. All these maybes just show how toxic this all was. So many maybes that it just wouldn't work out cause we did all the wrong things. All the wrong things. I doubt you'll ever hear this but, if you do maybe the many maybes that could have been will hit you and you'll realize how maybe I could have stayed...but I didn't. Cause while I was teaching you that you could always come back into my life you were teaching me I didn't have to stay in anyone's life. Because you didn't.

All the pain. All the words. All of it. Good And bad I don't deserve what you think I do. I deserve better. Neither of us deserve each other because in our own ways we aren't good enough for each other.

I remember the day after I found out my grandpa had passed away I was so hurt and numb I didn't know what to do. I texted you... big mistake. You did end up opening the text and reading it. You even replied. Except all it said was I'm sorry. You see my summer wasn't exactly heavenly in fact I was done with it before it even started. You didn't seem to care. You made up excuses. You said I'm sorry when I needed something else. You see I DONT NEED ANY IM SORRYS. I DONT EVEN NEED AN IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO's. Because even if I said yes nothing would have happened. What I needed; no what every human deserves is actions. You see I needed a hug. I needed some ones shoulder to cry on. I needed someone like you. But, you were too stubborn. That sums up out relationship pretty much. And that's why I hate what we had. And why I'm over you.
Tags: Hurt, Love, Player, Cheater, Lies]]>
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Poem: Feel Me by Ramadhan Abdul Rahman It brings nothing but pain
Why should I fall apart
Everytime is the same

Why should I follow a fake a dream
knowing it will bring nothing but more scream
Why should I follow you
When I can let you go.

Do you feel me ???

Why should I wait all day
Why can't I just go my own way
Letting you go !!!!
I can do this ... But No

I feel but I cannot speak
Why do I feel this weak

Do you feel me??

Why should I go through this agony
Why cannot I just follow my destiny
Why cannot I just let you go
Maybe because you are everything I know
Maybe cannot watch you at the edge of my universe
Maybe cannot think of someone else

Watching you passing by my side
But not away from my mind

I do feel You
Have you ever felt me????
Tags: Love, Lost, Stuck, Hope, Pain]]>
Tue, 10 Oct 2017 06:40:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/3QXRgwihwkU/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3825 It brings nothing but pain
Why should I fall apart
Everytime is the same

Why should I follow a fake a dream
knowing it will bring nothing but more scream
Why should I follow you
When I can let you go.

Do you feel me ???

Why should I wait all day
Why can't I just go my own way
Letting you go !!!!
I can do this ... But No

I feel but I cannot speak
Why do I feel this weak

Do you feel me??

Why should I go through this agony
Why cannot I just follow my destiny
Why cannot I just let you go
Maybe because you are everything I know
Maybe cannot watch you at the edge of my universe
Maybe cannot think of someone else

Watching you passing by my side
But not away from my mind

I do feel You
Have you ever felt me????
Tags: Love, Lost, Stuck, Hope, Pain]]>
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Story: Wanna hurt me? by destiny peavy

This boy was my miracle, and I had fallen completely for him. I don't know why. He was not like any boy, I had sat next to him in class for this year. I thought my life was great, because even though my family practically hated me, I didn't let that get to me. I think I had fallen for him, more and more, I blushed when I talked to him, though I would hope he wouldn't see me. However at the same time I had good friends. Books always told me, if you have a boyfriend, you can never have friends, so some way you would have to work it out. My miracles and dreams were answered by an email from that boy I crushed on. He told me he liked me. My heart was pounding the moment I read the email. I thought my dreams were answered. I could feel my heart, I quickly replied I liked him back,and from there a whole new relationship started with him.


Social media had always been a thing at my school, all drama, and sophisticated beautiful pictures were placed online of my friends. But I was still clueless about my life. I had no idea about the cyberbullying could affect me the way it did at that time. My boyfriend had apparently been sending love notes to some other girls, and I couldn't believe it. I didn't move and do anything, I still liked him, and he was mine, I didn't care if he was loving some other girl. That brought me to start crushing on my neighbor, he and I had become great friends and I fell for him. This way, my ex could love the girl and I could love someone else. Till then, everything stayed smooth and nice, but then I told my ex about my new boyfriend. He was furious and swore not to talk to me. But really, I didn't care, because my neighbor was nicer than him.


One day, my friend opened to me about a hangout my ex, her, and another friend had started, I was heartbroken to see my ex talk about my neighbor, saying "inappropriate" things. I was hurt a lot, and plus my two other friends never helped they just watched my ex ramble about me for a long time.


I started to cut after that, my neighbor eventually moved, and I become lonely. I had lost my friends last year in a hangout and me liking someone else. I had been scared to restart a relationship. So I clung on to one of my friends. Her name was Sara (*Sara* is to protect the person's identity) and she also had started to cut. Another girl was hurting her, emotionally and both of brains had become very suicidal.

My parents were completely clueless, paying attention to my sister, and all I had was a razor, my brain, and school. People thought I was lying about me liking my ex. They started calling me a liar, and really mean things. I got emails telling me to go kill myself and that I was ugly. I thought about walking in front of a car, my grades got worse, and my parents were disappointed in me. So one night, I walked out of my house. I left my razor, with five cuts on my arm, each bleeding like crazy. The cuts made me grimace in pain, but I was not going to stop. The night had become dead, but cars just moving along. Everything was normal.


I walked onto the street, the cars moving, so I sat on the street waiting for a car. And sure enough one was there and it nearly skimmed me. I gained a large gash on my forehead, and the car stopped. The person walked out of the car, and all I remember was flashing lights and a man looking down at me. I remember my arm, and my head, both bleeding, I had almost died.Still being hated on, I realized pain can't help you.


I remember losing something. When I had gone to the streets I saw a boy, the same one I had loved for four months. The boy.

He was on the sidewalk. Then when I closed my eyes, he was gone. That same night, he had disappeared forever.
I missed him, but he caused this...Eventually the police found him, but he was living with another family,
my ex was returned to his family, but still today I look at him and remember what happened the last year of elementary school.
Tags: Missing, Cheated]]>
Tue, 10 Oct 2017 02:45:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/Z5t81asGV5M/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3347

This boy was my miracle, and I had fallen completely for him. I don't know why. He was not like any boy, I had sat next to him in class for this year. I thought my life was great, because even though my family practically hated me, I didn't let that get to me. I think I had fallen for him, more and more, I blushed when I talked to him, though I would hope he wouldn't see me. However at the same time I had good friends. Books always told me, if you have a boyfriend, you can never have friends, so some way you would have to work it out. My miracles and dreams were answered by an email from that boy I crushed on. He told me he liked me. My heart was pounding the moment I read the email. I thought my dreams were answered. I could feel my heart, I quickly replied I liked him back,and from there a whole new relationship started with him.


Social media had always been a thing at my school, all drama, and sophisticated beautiful pictures were placed online of my friends. But I was still clueless about my life. I had no idea about the cyberbullying could affect me the way it did at that time. My boyfriend had apparently been sending love notes to some other girls, and I couldn't believe it. I didn't move and do anything, I still liked him, and he was mine, I didn't care if he was loving some other girl. That brought me to start crushing on my neighbor, he and I had become great friends and I fell for him. This way, my ex could love the girl and I could love someone else. Till then, everything stayed smooth and nice, but then I told my ex about my new boyfriend. He was furious and swore not to talk to me. But really, I didn't care, because my neighbor was nicer than him.


One day, my friend opened to me about a hangout my ex, her, and another friend had started, I was heartbroken to see my ex talk about my neighbor, saying "inappropriate" things. I was hurt a lot, and plus my two other friends never helped they just watched my ex ramble about me for a long time.


I started to cut after that, my neighbor eventually moved, and I become lonely. I had lost my friends last year in a hangout and me liking someone else. I had been scared to restart a relationship. So I clung on to one of my friends. Her name was Sara (*Sara* is to protect the person's identity) and she also had started to cut. Another girl was hurting her, emotionally and both of brains had become very suicidal.

My parents were completely clueless, paying attention to my sister, and all I had was a razor, my brain, and school. People thought I was lying about me liking my ex. They started calling me a liar, and really mean things. I got emails telling me to go kill myself and that I was ugly. I thought about walking in front of a car, my grades got worse, and my parents were disappointed in me. So one night, I walked out of my house. I left my razor, with five cuts on my arm, each bleeding like crazy. The cuts made me grimace in pain, but I was not going to stop. The night had become dead, but cars just moving along. Everything was normal.


I walked onto the street, the cars moving, so I sat on the street waiting for a car. And sure enough one was there and it nearly skimmed me. I gained a large gash on my forehead, and the car stopped. The person walked out of the car, and all I remember was flashing lights and a man looking down at me. I remember my arm, and my head, both bleeding, I had almost died.Still being hated on, I realized pain can't help you.


I remember losing something. When I had gone to the streets I saw a boy, the same one I had loved for four months. The boy.

He was on the sidewalk. Then when I closed my eyes, he was gone. That same night, he had disappeared forever.
I missed him, but he caused this...Eventually the police found him, but he was living with another family,
my ex was returned to his family, but still today I look at him and remember what happened the last year of elementary school.
Tags: Missing, Cheated]]>
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Poem: Missing You So Much by Jade Kaiser And your skin that so soft;
Your touch,
And your hugs that once gave me comfort
Now it gives me pain and ache.

Every time,
I remember every moment of it
Every moment,
I'm with you is one of the happiest.
Oh! How I love to be with you
At least once more...

But even how much I'll pray for it,
How much I'll struggle
To have you once again,
Even how much I'll hope for it,
It will never happen,
All those urge will just be in vain.

I know, I know,
It sound so selfish
To have you once again in my life...

Wanting to hear your laugh so sweet,
Your voice,
When you talk and especially,
When you sing…
Is so angelic,
Sending me to heaven even I'm still on earth.

Once again,
I really hate myself!
Loving you this much,

No words will ever expressed
How much I love you.
No words will ever expressed
How much I miss you.
No words can tell
How much I am in pain and anguish.

From the day you left,
Until the day I realized
How much I can't live without you;
Until today,
And until the next future,
Until the day,
That I can finally see you.

That's the only way
This heartache will be gone.
I know, I know,
That I myself do not know when it will happen,
Only God knows it.

And until now,
I am struggling living without you.
I maybe half alive,
Half undead.

And every time I misses you
At home,
I just go to bed and always trying to close my eyes,
But the tears still falls
Flowing like a river
And my heart,
Aches too much…
So much,
So much pain,
That I thought I can't handle;
So much pain that almost killing me inside.

And when I'm at work,
When I'm missing you
I hold the call,
And start crying like a baby
Wanting her mommy.

I hope I can hold your hand once again
Just at least your hand
At least just once,
To end this misery and sorrow
Ma, I miss you a lot...
So much!
Someday will meet in heaven,
I'll hug you so tight and whisper in your ears
Telling you how much I miss you...
That no words can ever describe it.
Tags: Mom, Missing Someone, Missing You, Anguish, Sorrow, Pain, Heartache]]>
Mon, 09 Oct 2017 06:35:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/qmXCxTx0xM0/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3824 And your skin that so soft;
Your touch,
And your hugs that once gave me comfort
Now it gives me pain and ache.

Every time,
I remember every moment of it
Every moment,
I'm with you is one of the happiest.
Oh! How I love to be with you
At least once more...

But even how much I'll pray for it,
How much I'll struggle
To have you once again,
Even how much I'll hope for it,
It will never happen,
All those urge will just be in vain.

I know, I know,
It sound so selfish
To have you once again in my life...

Wanting to hear your laugh so sweet,
Your voice,
When you talk and especially,
When you sing…
Is so angelic,
Sending me to heaven even I'm still on earth.

Once again,
I really hate myself!
Loving you this much,

No words will ever expressed
How much I love you.
No words will ever expressed
How much I miss you.
No words can tell
How much I am in pain and anguish.

From the day you left,
Until the day I realized
How much I can't live without you;
Until today,
And until the next future,
Until the day,
That I can finally see you.

That's the only way
This heartache will be gone.
I know, I know,
That I myself do not know when it will happen,
Only God knows it.

And until now,
I am struggling living without you.
I maybe half alive,
Half undead.

And every time I misses you
At home,
I just go to bed and always trying to close my eyes,
But the tears still falls
Flowing like a river
And my heart,
Aches too much…
So much,
So much pain,
That I thought I can't handle;
So much pain that almost killing me inside.

And when I'm at work,
When I'm missing you
I hold the call,
And start crying like a baby
Wanting her mommy.

I hope I can hold your hand once again
Just at least your hand
At least just once,
To end this misery and sorrow
Ma, I miss you a lot...
So much!
Someday will meet in heaven,
I'll hug you so tight and whisper in your ears
Telling you how much I miss you...
That no words can ever describe it.
Tags: Mom, Missing Someone, Missing You, Anguish, Sorrow, Pain, Heartache]]>
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Story: Because of him by destiny peavy
To this day I still feel bad that I did it that I didn't tell or show or be honest with you why I did it I guess I was just too afraid to see how you would react. You told me you were afraid of losing me and I was afraid of losing you. Later on in our relationship we had started to drift away I got depressed and didn't know what to do how to tell you. So I just took faith in a blade that would end all my worries and sadness I never wanted to tell you! I never wanted to hurt you! But, it wasn't my fault you saw I tried my best to hide it from you.

He saw my arm and started to cry it was bleeding still and the cuts were barely healing. I'm sorry I was depressed I had cut. I still remember when you finished crying you had wiped your tears away and kissed my scars it felt good that you had cared.

But, where had that gone now I stopped for you. Then, you left me and said I can't be with someone like you. Someone who self harmed.... That made me feel worse I cried and did it more this time deeper than before I wanted to die because what you had said behind my back. Your friends told me what you really thought of me that hurt me more I could feel my heart sink into my chest and I could hear it thumping in my ears and I just felt cold and empty after all that I had heard.

So I had felt terrible I don't know what came over me but I couldn't eat or sleep I couldn't breath my heart beated so fast I thought it would explode I went to the hospital I was there for a while. Did you care? Did you know I was there? I think not .

I had finally received and went back to school. Where this boy came up to me and said he loved me and asked me out I gladly said yes and couple of weeks later he called me and said I'm sorry but I don't even like you .

It was a dare a bet to get with you just because your ex said I wouldn't do it. I cried myself to sleep every night cause I felt worthless no one cared nor noticed . It hasn't gotten better ever since you left I don't know what to do anymore just lay down and cry myself to sleep every night. I miss you but you don't miss me. All I can do is ask myself Why me.? I didn't mean to harm myself I just felt you didn't care anymore so I wanted to disappear. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm done with love and life I want to kill myself.
Tags: Unloved, Crying]]>
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To this day I still feel bad that I did it that I didn't tell or show or be honest with you why I did it I guess I was just too afraid to see how you would react. You told me you were afraid of losing me and I was afraid of losing you. Later on in our relationship we had started to drift away I got depressed and didn't know what to do how to tell you. So I just took faith in a blade that would end all my worries and sadness I never wanted to tell you! I never wanted to hurt you! But, it wasn't my fault you saw I tried my best to hide it from you.

He saw my arm and started to cry it was bleeding still and the cuts were barely healing. I'm sorry I was depressed I had cut. I still remember when you finished crying you had wiped your tears away and kissed my scars it felt good that you had cared.

But, where had that gone now I stopped for you. Then, you left me and said I can't be with someone like you. Someone who self harmed.... That made me feel worse I cried and did it more this time deeper than before I wanted to die because what you had said behind my back. Your friends told me what you really thought of me that hurt me more I could feel my heart sink into my chest and I could hear it thumping in my ears and I just felt cold and empty after all that I had heard.

So I had felt terrible I don't know what came over me but I couldn't eat or sleep I couldn't breath my heart beated so fast I thought it would explode I went to the hospital I was there for a while. Did you care? Did you know I was there? I think not .

I had finally received and went back to school. Where this boy came up to me and said he loved me and asked me out I gladly said yes and couple of weeks later he called me and said I'm sorry but I don't even like you .

It was a dare a bet to get with you just because your ex said I wouldn't do it. I cried myself to sleep every night cause I felt worthless no one cared nor noticed . It hasn't gotten better ever since you left I don't know what to do anymore just lay down and cry myself to sleep every night. I miss you but you don't miss me. All I can do is ask myself Why me.? I didn't mean to harm myself I just felt you didn't care anymore so I wanted to disappear. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm done with love and life I want to kill myself.
Tags: Unloved, Crying]]>
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Story: The Survivor by destiny peavy
When she got to her house she went inside and put the bags away. The next day her mom sent her back to the store to get more things. When she left she grabbed the house key because her mom had a doctor's appointment. So she went to the store to get the things they needed she went back home.On her way back she noticed that there was a man following her so she started to speed up.
She got close to home so she just ran...she tripped the man caught up... put a rag over her mouth and put her in his van. When she awoke up she was tied up to a doctor's bed in a basement, but her legs were freed.About ten minutes later she saw a man coming down the stairs. He came down with a knife in his hand.

He waved it around her face and was about to stab her,but all of a sudden someone saved her by knocking on the door. The man answered the door. The girl heard the conversation and she heard him talking to women.The girl listened some more and then she realized that it was her mom. She didn't want to scream because she was scared the man was going to hurt her. Before she leaves the house she always puts a little pocket knife in her shoe, so she grabbed it out of her boot and freed herself.

When she got out she quietly went up stairs and hid until the man went to the basement. When he went downstairs she went outside and ran away. Then she realized that her house was right across the street. So she ran over there really fast and banged on the door because the door was locked and she lost her key when she got kidnapped. After she banged on the door for a minute her mom answered the door and she ran inside and closed the door behind her called the cops.After the cops got there she told them what happened and they took him to jail for attempted of murder and was sentenced for fifty-five years in jail and the cops said that he would be around eighty years old when her gets out.

When she told the cops what happened her mom was listening and started to cry cause she couldn't help her and shouldn't have went to the store for her instead. After fifty-five years passed he got out of jail and went home. The girl was only fifteen when that happened and now she is seventy years old. Her mom has already passed away and just a few days after the man got out of jail he passed away too. She then realized she was alone but she knows her mom will be with her no matter what. Love travels with you wherever you go as long as you believe that it is there.
Tags: Kidnapped]]>
Sat, 23 Sep 2017 01:30:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/is3A-_KdsPw/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3345
When she got to her house she went inside and put the bags away. The next day her mom sent her back to the store to get more things. When she left she grabbed the house key because her mom had a doctor's appointment. So she went to the store to get the things they needed she went back home.On her way back she noticed that there was a man following her so she started to speed up.
She got close to home so she just ran...she tripped the man caught up... put a rag over her mouth and put her in his van. When she awoke up she was tied up to a doctor's bed in a basement, but her legs were freed.About ten minutes later she saw a man coming down the stairs. He came down with a knife in his hand.

He waved it around her face and was about to stab her,but all of a sudden someone saved her by knocking on the door. The man answered the door. The girl heard the conversation and she heard him talking to women.The girl listened some more and then she realized that it was her mom. She didn't want to scream because she was scared the man was going to hurt her. Before she leaves the house she always puts a little pocket knife in her shoe, so she grabbed it out of her boot and freed herself.

When she got out she quietly went up stairs and hid until the man went to the basement. When he went downstairs she went outside and ran away. Then she realized that her house was right across the street. So she ran over there really fast and banged on the door because the door was locked and she lost her key when she got kidnapped. After she banged on the door for a minute her mom answered the door and she ran inside and closed the door behind her called the cops.After the cops got there she told them what happened and they took him to jail for attempted of murder and was sentenced for fifty-five years in jail and the cops said that he would be around eighty years old when her gets out.

When she told the cops what happened her mom was listening and started to cry cause she couldn't help her and shouldn't have went to the store for her instead. After fifty-five years passed he got out of jail and went home. The girl was only fifteen when that happened and now she is seventy years old. Her mom has already passed away and just a few days after the man got out of jail he passed away too. She then realized she was alone but she knows her mom will be with her no matter what. Love travels with you wherever you go as long as you believe that it is there.
Tags: Kidnapped]]>
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Poem: You're What I Want by Clary Barns It's like poison, perhaps like something too addictive.
Your eyes, Your lips,
They are what I love to get lost in,
a place I go to feel as if I am in heaven.

Your stories, Your words,
Music to my ears, something I could never get tired of,
something to remember over the years.
Your hands, Your body,
They have visited places no one else has,
explored my temple, worshiped my body.

Your walk, Your goodbyes,
Something I thought I wouldn't have to ever hear nor see,
as you walked to her and away from me.
It hurts, A lot, to face reality,
To finally see what you really thought of me,
to notice everything you do, just no longer with me.
You promised, You swore,
But they were empty just like all of your words.
I miss you, I do,
But you're happy, I see, Just with her, never with me.
You were everything I wanted, And exactly what I need.
Tags: Love, Hate, Hurt]]>
Fri, 22 Sep 2017 05:20:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/tLK-GXG-kXo/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3786 It's like poison, perhaps like something too addictive.
Your eyes, Your lips,
They are what I love to get lost in,
a place I go to feel as if I am in heaven.

Your stories, Your words,
Music to my ears, something I could never get tired of,
something to remember over the years.
Your hands, Your body,
They have visited places no one else has,
explored my temple, worshiped my body.

Your walk, Your goodbyes,
Something I thought I wouldn't have to ever hear nor see,
as you walked to her and away from me.
It hurts, A lot, to face reality,
To finally see what you really thought of me,
to notice everything you do, just no longer with me.
You promised, You swore,
But they were empty just like all of your words.
I miss you, I do,
But you're happy, I see, Just with her, never with me.
You were everything I wanted, And exactly what I need.
Tags: Love, Hate, Hurt]]>
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Story: Meant to be by Gabriel Goulart
And so we started dating. I remember asking you to be my girlfriend while we were drunk and you said yes, but I still wanted to make a decent proposal, so we made that date our secret anniversary. Then came the day I knocked on your door and surprised you with flowers and a poem I've made. And even though I knew you already said yes, I still was too nervous thinking if you would say it again. And you did. I had never felt so happy like i was that day. And so days passed, months and our love grew. Then came the first time you thought we should break up, June 1th. You told me something in your head was telling you our time had come and we shouldn't stay together. I did not sleep that day. On the next day we met and you told me it was a stupid think. That was the first time I cried tears of sadness in front of you, while I hugged you so hard so I knew it wasn't a dream.

Months later you started to apply for a temporary job abroad. I can't say i was very happy, cus I knew distance relationships are hard, but somehow you made me feel like if everything would be fine. I remember you saying you wouldn't make it and when you did, I remember saying "I told you so" cuz I did tell you: "Relax, you will make it. I know it", and you smiled to me. Seeing you smile was the best thing I have ever saw. And making you smile was the best thing I've ever did.

Two months before you go our 1 year anniversary came and you slept in my room for the first time. I remember making you fall asleep as I touched your hair.

A week before you go, I made a surprise to you. We cried together, we hugged and we danced our song. I remember having you so close to my chest that I felt like i was in heaven.

And so the day came and you went to your job. A week later you told me you were tired of being in a relationship and started to become strange. And so the fights started, we started to say things we didn't mean to each other. All those days I asked myself what went wrong, but I still haven't found the answer. And so our lives went apart.

Then you came back and we almost got back together,but I said something wrong and you started hating me. Since that day I started asking myself what would be like if I haven't said that stupid phrase.

Nowadays We don't talk to each other and I know nothing about your life, even though your little brother still talks to me now and then. You were my first love. You are my first heart break. And all I hope is that someday I get to be happy again as I was with you. Thank you for everything.
Tags: First Love, Love, Heartbroken]]>
Fri, 22 Sep 2017 01:25:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/_Yz0_5fvf34/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3344
And so we started dating. I remember asking you to be my girlfriend while we were drunk and you said yes, but I still wanted to make a decent proposal, so we made that date our secret anniversary. Then came the day I knocked on your door and surprised you with flowers and a poem I've made. And even though I knew you already said yes, I still was too nervous thinking if you would say it again. And you did. I had never felt so happy like i was that day. And so days passed, months and our love grew. Then came the first time you thought we should break up, June 1th. You told me something in your head was telling you our time had come and we shouldn't stay together. I did not sleep that day. On the next day we met and you told me it was a stupid think. That was the first time I cried tears of sadness in front of you, while I hugged you so hard so I knew it wasn't a dream.

Months later you started to apply for a temporary job abroad. I can't say i was very happy, cus I knew distance relationships are hard, but somehow you made me feel like if everything would be fine. I remember you saying you wouldn't make it and when you did, I remember saying "I told you so" cuz I did tell you: "Relax, you will make it. I know it", and you smiled to me. Seeing you smile was the best thing I have ever saw. And making you smile was the best thing I've ever did.

Two months before you go our 1 year anniversary came and you slept in my room for the first time. I remember making you fall asleep as I touched your hair.

A week before you go, I made a surprise to you. We cried together, we hugged and we danced our song. I remember having you so close to my chest that I felt like i was in heaven.

And so the day came and you went to your job. A week later you told me you were tired of being in a relationship and started to become strange. And so the fights started, we started to say things we didn't mean to each other. All those days I asked myself what went wrong, but I still haven't found the answer. And so our lives went apart.

Then you came back and we almost got back together,but I said something wrong and you started hating me. Since that day I started asking myself what would be like if I haven't said that stupid phrase.

Nowadays We don't talk to each other and I know nothing about your life, even though your little brother still talks to me now and then. You were my first love. You are my first heart break. And all I hope is that someday I get to be happy again as I was with you. Thank you for everything.
Tags: First Love, Love, Heartbroken]]>
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Poem: YoungLove by Rimantas I can just try
To forget the pain
To make the rain in my heart fade away.

It's just so fucking hard
When you can't even get mad
At your dumb mistakes
When you couldn't forget her face.

She sounded like a dream
Like a wish that couldn't be real.
But you just wanted to let of some steam,
And weren't able to to control how you feel.

Now the pains stuck in your heart
And tearing you apart.
You wish you would have been smart,
And wouldn't given your heart a start

To fall in love,
To open up.
You wish you heart haven't been warmed up,
But that's what you call younglove.
Tags: Love, Young, Pain, Regret, Mad, Girl, Heart, Cry]]>
Thu, 21 Sep 2017 05:15:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/jnvq-4rBSt0/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3823 I can just try
To forget the pain
To make the rain in my heart fade away.

It's just so fucking hard
When you can't even get mad
At your dumb mistakes
When you couldn't forget her face.

She sounded like a dream
Like a wish that couldn't be real.
But you just wanted to let of some steam,
And weren't able to to control how you feel.

Now the pains stuck in your heart
And tearing you apart.
You wish you would have been smart,
And wouldn't given your heart a start

To fall in love,
To open up.
You wish you heart haven't been warmed up,
But that's what you call younglove.
Tags: Love, Young, Pain, Regret, Mad, Girl, Heart, Cry]]>
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Story: A one week affair by Anonymous
We'd always spoken. You'd always lurked in my crowd and stood where the corner of my eyes could catch a glimpse of you. There you were ingrained in my subconscious.

So when I felt desolate and your familiar face reached out to me it made me think, think of you.
I kept battling my daily struggles, day after day, week after week, and month after month, but there you reappeared again.
One lonely night, I had a dream about your beautiful husky face. Your physique enchanted me and made me have one of the most soothing night rest I had not had in a long time.

From my subconscious you were brought to my conscious.
But you were miles away. In fact in another continent, so I only wished and went about my daily fights.
This school year was tough and the summer was approaching. You live 10 minutes away and I could finally have you in my full view and touch you.

When I got home, you showed interest in me. So much interest that my affinity for you started to develop and grow into something stronger. Love perhaps or something slightly less than love ?
You kissed me, I caught you staring at me, you wanted me so bad.
You gave me companionship and cured my depression.

I wanted to thank you and reciprocate my love for you so I kissed you back. I touched, kissed, and caressed your penis.
But you decided to hurt me when I showed you my love. You didn't speak to me or even want to be around me the day after. This hurts me deeply because I still have feelings for you as I am writing this ( 3 weeks later )
The next week I saw you again impressing on another girl.

The week after I heard you on a shared uber home when you were boasting to your friends about how your parents are out of town and you plan on impressing on a girl/ girls for that time ? You didn't even care that I was in the car. I laughed because I didn't want to seem bothered but really I looked Stupid and felt hurt.

Now here I am depressed because the guy I love doesn't love me back or like me even as a person ( thanks for uninviting me to your party ). I am lonely because I lost you and disappointed because I was looking forward to finally having someone, you, in my life.
Tags: Unloved]]>
Thu, 21 Sep 2017 01:20:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/q5NA2WzTB08/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3343
We'd always spoken. You'd always lurked in my crowd and stood where the corner of my eyes could catch a glimpse of you. There you were ingrained in my subconscious.

So when I felt desolate and your familiar face reached out to me it made me think, think of you.
I kept battling my daily struggles, day after day, week after week, and month after month, but there you reappeared again.
One lonely night, I had a dream about your beautiful husky face. Your physique enchanted me and made me have one of the most soothing night rest I had not had in a long time.

From my subconscious you were brought to my conscious.
But you were miles away. In fact in another continent, so I only wished and went about my daily fights.
This school year was tough and the summer was approaching. You live 10 minutes away and I could finally have you in my full view and touch you.

When I got home, you showed interest in me. So much interest that my affinity for you started to develop and grow into something stronger. Love perhaps or something slightly less than love ?
You kissed me, I caught you staring at me, you wanted me so bad.
You gave me companionship and cured my depression.

I wanted to thank you and reciprocate my love for you so I kissed you back. I touched, kissed, and caressed your penis.
But you decided to hurt me when I showed you my love. You didn't speak to me or even want to be around me the day after. This hurts me deeply because I still have feelings for you as I am writing this ( 3 weeks later )
The next week I saw you again impressing on another girl.

The week after I heard you on a shared uber home when you were boasting to your friends about how your parents are out of town and you plan on impressing on a girl/ girls for that time ? You didn't even care that I was in the car. I laughed because I didn't want to seem bothered but really I looked Stupid and felt hurt.

Now here I am depressed because the guy I love doesn't love me back or like me even as a person ( thanks for uninviting me to your party ). I am lonely because I lost you and disappointed because I was looking forward to finally having someone, you, in my life.
Tags: Unloved]]>
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Poem: Heartbreak by Ben Vanhook The heart is dying losing its crown
Losing it’s meaning as it slowly decays
We were all waiting for this fateful day
The life of the heart slipping like sand
As it says goodbye to it’s lifelong band

The organs it’s worked with for much of it’s life
Are being destroyed by somebodies knife
The heart is now drumming it’s final beats
As the lungs are now wailing the tune of defeat
The sadness and pain is starting to show
As there won’t be another tomorrow

The knife is still stuck in the heart’s dead centre
Where only the bravest of tools dare to enter
The brain is now dead, though it’s texts still come through
As it signals the death of the rest of it’s crew
The heart dies soon after, the leader, the master
The other organs die bravely in the disaster.

The knife will lie in the heart forevermore
And so will the blood that spilled on that floor
But what I can say without a doubt
Is that this man chose the easy way out
Tags: Heartbroken, Heartbreak, Depression, Suicide]]>
Wed, 20 Sep 2017 05:10:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/R-na80Zl1qk/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3822 The heart is dying losing its crown
Losing it’s meaning as it slowly decays
We were all waiting for this fateful day
The life of the heart slipping like sand
As it says goodbye to it’s lifelong band

The organs it’s worked with for much of it’s life
Are being destroyed by somebodies knife
The heart is now drumming it’s final beats
As the lungs are now wailing the tune of defeat
The sadness and pain is starting to show
As there won’t be another tomorrow

The knife is still stuck in the heart’s dead centre
Where only the bravest of tools dare to enter
The brain is now dead, though it’s texts still come through
As it signals the death of the rest of it’s crew
The heart dies soon after, the leader, the master
The other organs die bravely in the disaster.

The knife will lie in the heart forevermore
And so will the blood that spilled on that floor
But what I can say without a doubt
Is that this man chose the easy way out
Tags: Heartbroken, Heartbreak, Depression, Suicide]]>
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Story: I miss you by anjanette
Evrytime you're near my heart beats fast without knowing the reason why. I suddenly ask myself if its love or an infatuation I just want to remember. I kept on missing you evryday. Not seeing you misses makes me miss you a lot. a kind of feeling that I never expected would happen. You make me smile evrytime you're near and giggle in my heart suddenly been felt. I hate you at first for reason that you will never be mine and i still get jealous by the moment you hold her hands and tell her how much she means to you. I may just be you're friend on the outside, but you'll never know what i really feel deep inside this heart of mine. I hate this kind of feeling that I've felt for you reasons that makes me miss you more and more. I may never see you in a while but you will always be in my heart waiting to be loved by you. I wish I never meet you so that my heart won't chase for you. You are the kind of guy that makes my heart angry but loved at the same time. I don't know the reason why I miss you so much and why I loved you that much. You hurt me once but my heart still beats for you, and my heart kept on searching for your touch, kiss and even the way I wanted you to hold my hand and never let me go again. I know this feeling will never last for a fact that you loved her more than me. Even though you loved her more than me. I still care and love you at the same time. You may never be the kind of guy I wish for. but I know someday I'll soon forget you and move on at the same time. but right now I don't know what to think anymore for the reason that I still love you and misses you so much. It has been a kind of joy that you put meaning to my life and took care of me by the time I needed you most.

I hate you for loving me and making me feel this way, you try to sing once at me and that I know i feel special in your heart. but deep inside that song was the kind of guy i know i will fall inlove with. the kind of guy that makes me feel special and tells me how lucky i am find someone like him. but now that you're gone one thing i know is for sure is that I miss you.
Tags: Love Hurts, Moving On, Missing, Hurt, Unloved]]>
Wed, 20 Sep 2017 01:15:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/OZ8j9DiQoRM/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3342
Evrytime you're near my heart beats fast without knowing the reason why. I suddenly ask myself if its love or an infatuation I just want to remember. I kept on missing you evryday. Not seeing you misses makes me miss you a lot. a kind of feeling that I never expected would happen. You make me smile evrytime you're near and giggle in my heart suddenly been felt. I hate you at first for reason that you will never be mine and i still get jealous by the moment you hold her hands and tell her how much she means to you. I may just be you're friend on the outside, but you'll never know what i really feel deep inside this heart of mine. I hate this kind of feeling that I've felt for you reasons that makes me miss you more and more. I may never see you in a while but you will always be in my heart waiting to be loved by you. I wish I never meet you so that my heart won't chase for you. You are the kind of guy that makes my heart angry but loved at the same time. I don't know the reason why I miss you so much and why I loved you that much. You hurt me once but my heart still beats for you, and my heart kept on searching for your touch, kiss and even the way I wanted you to hold my hand and never let me go again. I know this feeling will never last for a fact that you loved her more than me. Even though you loved her more than me. I still care and love you at the same time. You may never be the kind of guy I wish for. but I know someday I'll soon forget you and move on at the same time. but right now I don't know what to think anymore for the reason that I still love you and misses you so much. It has been a kind of joy that you put meaning to my life and took care of me by the time I needed you most.

I hate you for loving me and making me feel this way, you try to sing once at me and that I know i feel special in your heart. but deep inside that song was the kind of guy i know i will fall inlove with. the kind of guy that makes me feel special and tells me how lucky i am find someone like him. but now that you're gone one thing i know is for sure is that I miss you.
Tags: Love Hurts, Moving On, Missing, Hurt, Unloved]]>
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Poem: Drowning by Ben Vanhook You didn't care and just jumped in
Your mind just didn't wallow
In thoughts that might have been

You only played and splashed
But other people you disturbed
The water you would smash
Others you'd perturb

But to me your dance appealed
Cute and elegant
As my skin had peeled
My desire was evident

You sung an unheard song
One with joy and passion
It righted all that's wrong
But no one else saw its attraction

People stopped and stared and frowned
"Is that kid insane and crazy?"
"Oh that boy, someday he's gonna drown"
"His future's all but hazy"

As she pulled me a bit deeper
I felt the beauty of her skin
The bottom was growing steeper
What could I do but grin?

She told me whales of tales
In how she got to be this pretty
Her stories hit me hard like nails
The funny and the gritty

She showed me stunning creatures
Crevices and caves
The oceans unknown features
That only I could brave

Over time the waves got rough
They were piercing through my skin
I tried my best to bluff
And take the pain right in

But the waves just kept on crashing
Digging needles in my veins
I felt like it was lashing
But my hands in locks and chains

I eventually spoke up
Please help me I am hurting
She angrily then stood up
And ended all this flirting

A thumping hammer she then slammed
And with a snap she clicked
I saw that I was crammed
In with all the other men she tricked

An agonizing death
Another lost at sea
The boy just couldn't find his breath
As he entered the sea of misery
Tags: Breakup, Heartbreak, Alone, Broken]]>
Tue, 19 Sep 2017 05:05:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/D1Xuercm7qg/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3821 You didn't care and just jumped in
Your mind just didn't wallow
In thoughts that might have been

You only played and splashed
But other people you disturbed
The water you would smash
Others you'd perturb

But to me your dance appealed
Cute and elegant
As my skin had peeled
My desire was evident

You sung an unheard song
One with joy and passion
It righted all that's wrong
But no one else saw its attraction

People stopped and stared and frowned
"Is that kid insane and crazy?"
"Oh that boy, someday he's gonna drown"
"His future's all but hazy"

As she pulled me a bit deeper
I felt the beauty of her skin
The bottom was growing steeper
What could I do but grin?

She told me whales of tales
In how she got to be this pretty
Her stories hit me hard like nails
The funny and the gritty

She showed me stunning creatures
Crevices and caves
The oceans unknown features
That only I could brave

Over time the waves got rough
They were piercing through my skin
I tried my best to bluff
And take the pain right in

But the waves just kept on crashing
Digging needles in my veins
I felt like it was lashing
But my hands in locks and chains

I eventually spoke up
Please help me I am hurting
She angrily then stood up
And ended all this flirting

A thumping hammer she then slammed
And with a snap she clicked
I saw that I was crammed
In with all the other men she tricked

An agonizing death
Another lost at sea
The boy just couldn't find his breath
As he entered the sea of misery
Tags: Breakup, Heartbreak, Alone, Broken]]>
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Story: Enjoying the Painful Week I had mistaken by Kai123
Monday, the school day. I had so much questions that I wanted to asked. I was in my senior year and you were in 11th grade.
Following to Tuesday, after school we usually would part our ways to go to our school bus. I said my goodbye as usually, and you would just walk your way on the bus. But this time, you stood there for quite a long second, and ran up to me and stop. You did the same thing when we were in the theater. You tilt my head towards your cheek and I automatically kissed you on the cheek as if I was a kissing robot. This time I tried doing the same thing, I point my fingers towards my cheek and you kissed me on the cheek back. Suddenly, I realized that my friends were next to me, I looked over and checked, but they weren't even noticing. We then walked off.

That Wednesday, we had to stay after school for an afterschool club. As soon as the bell rang, I ran upstairs and meet you in front of the club. I gave you a sudden hug. You had that face that everyone makes when they gets annoyed after being waked up. You said," I just woke up, I don't want anyone to touch me." I replied, " okay", and walked into the class alone. I was seriously feeling bad and pissed, so I ended up not wanting to talk to you. Thirty minutes later, you had this sorry puppy face. You put your hands on top of mine and held it. That slight touch got me worked up and so I smiled and accepted your apology.

The most painful day was Friday, it was the last day I get to see you before a three weeks christmas break. Friday was a half day, your friends invited me to Starbuck and I knew you were there, that's why I came. You guys were right there, but I got lost and walked around. I called and you told me to turn around and saw you guys filming me on snapchat. It wasn't long before each of your friends start going home. I didn't want to go home yet, so you invited me to your place. I came over, no one was at home, since you lived with your sister. We ate lunch, and after eating, you would always have a habit of sleeping. You told me to get on the bed and lay next to you, so I went on the bed and layed there facing the ceiling awkwardly. You suddenly kicked my leg, that made me stop feeling uncomfortable and you hugged me to sleep. I hug you like I know it was my last hug and watched you sleep.

After a week, I confessed to you and got rejected. I still think that I was immature then, and you didn't reject me after my second question I asked you to date me took place in April.
My April love was indeed my first love.
Tags: December, Unloved]]>
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Monday, the school day. I had so much questions that I wanted to asked. I was in my senior year and you were in 11th grade.
Following to Tuesday, after school we usually would part our ways to go to our school bus. I said my goodbye as usually, and you would just walk your way on the bus. But this time, you stood there for quite a long second, and ran up to me and stop. You did the same thing when we were in the theater. You tilt my head towards your cheek and I automatically kissed you on the cheek as if I was a kissing robot. This time I tried doing the same thing, I point my fingers towards my cheek and you kissed me on the cheek back. Suddenly, I realized that my friends were next to me, I looked over and checked, but they weren't even noticing. We then walked off.

That Wednesday, we had to stay after school for an afterschool club. As soon as the bell rang, I ran upstairs and meet you in front of the club. I gave you a sudden hug. You had that face that everyone makes when they gets annoyed after being waked up. You said," I just woke up, I don't want anyone to touch me." I replied, " okay", and walked into the class alone. I was seriously feeling bad and pissed, so I ended up not wanting to talk to you. Thirty minutes later, you had this sorry puppy face. You put your hands on top of mine and held it. That slight touch got me worked up and so I smiled and accepted your apology.

The most painful day was Friday, it was the last day I get to see you before a three weeks christmas break. Friday was a half day, your friends invited me to Starbuck and I knew you were there, that's why I came. You guys were right there, but I got lost and walked around. I called and you told me to turn around and saw you guys filming me on snapchat. It wasn't long before each of your friends start going home. I didn't want to go home yet, so you invited me to your place. I came over, no one was at home, since you lived with your sister. We ate lunch, and after eating, you would always have a habit of sleeping. You told me to get on the bed and lay next to you, so I went on the bed and layed there facing the ceiling awkwardly. You suddenly kicked my leg, that made me stop feeling uncomfortable and you hugged me to sleep. I hug you like I know it was my last hug and watched you sleep.

After a week, I confessed to you and got rejected. I still think that I was immature then, and you didn't reject me after my second question I asked you to date me took place in April.
My April love was indeed my first love.
Tags: December, Unloved]]>
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Poem: Live Another Day by Ben Vanhook A pitcher of wine you’d drink
As you said “Live another day”

In a sea of tears, I was adrift
But you taught me how the times would shift
You told me, “Live another day”

Through all the hopeless nights
When my was heart falling from great heights
You told me, “Live another day”

When all my hope seemed lost
When flames blew my exhaust
You said, “Live another day”

When it was written on the wall
After I received death’s call
You wrote back, “Live another day”

When no one was around
Silence was the only sound
You whispered, “Live another day”

You told me, time was being wasted
And like an Eagle I should chase it
You told me, live another day

You told me to show you a tomorrow
Instead of drowning in my sorrow
You begged me to live another day

The only reason I’m alive
Are that those words swarmed me like a hive
They were “Live another day”
Tags: Hope, Depression]]>
Mon, 18 Sep 2017 05:00:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/zajE63m7WlA/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3820 A pitcher of wine you’d drink
As you said “Live another day”

In a sea of tears, I was adrift
But you taught me how the times would shift
You told me, “Live another day”

Through all the hopeless nights
When my was heart falling from great heights
You told me, “Live another day”

When all my hope seemed lost
When flames blew my exhaust
You said, “Live another day”

When it was written on the wall
After I received death’s call
You wrote back, “Live another day”

When no one was around
Silence was the only sound
You whispered, “Live another day”

You told me, time was being wasted
And like an Eagle I should chase it
You told me, live another day

You told me to show you a tomorrow
Instead of drowning in my sorrow
You begged me to live another day

The only reason I’m alive
Are that those words swarmed me like a hive
They were “Live another day”
Tags: Hope, Depression]]>
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Story: Broken Butterflies pt.2 by Rose Enjoy~?

After that incident i walked off still red from blushing that i actually bumped into his chest and him catching me i couldnt concentrate in class and ended up missing the lecture and having no idea what we just did,these girls were talking about him since i bumped into him im an observant person as well as i hear things that others talk about ,the girl sarah was like "omg did you see that guy that rose bumped into? Then her friend which is sitting next to her smacked on her gum and said "hell yes and he is fine i mean look at those muscles oo i wish he was mine". Right there and then i snapped well on tje inside i did i questioned them in my head why do you only see his muscles, cant you see those eyes that shine brighter than the stars and sun? Why cant you see that every time he smiles it makes me want to smile and pinch his cheeks?

Eventually it was the last hour of the day in that crazy highschool, i was going to my locker gathering all the books and notes i took from each class into my backpack i always had both my earbuds in but since a certain someone took my mp3 i had to listen to all the convo and hustling of backpacks and shoes each kid trying to get out of here,just as i was about done i backed up from my skinny blue locker and bumped into someone i turned around so fast and ,there he was again those brown eyes and shiny browned hair i didnt speak for 5 seconds at least but him being close to me i was only up to his chest and his face looking down on me making those shiny brown eyes stare right into me i was breathless and i took one step back trying to breathe bit then he took a step forward everytime i did, i swallowed my saliva and just as i was about to speak he said "soo where is my phone?" Deciding to mess with him i cross my arms and said "i dont know i think i left it in one of the classrooms" he smirked like he knew i was planning something i raised my eyebrow giving him the confused look ,he laughed and i just stared at him not knowing why he laughed but let me tell you this it was harmonizing it made my heartbeat faster i dont know why my heart was beating that fast was it because he sounded so calming and cute in a way? Or was it the butterflues that i felt? that i think it was?, well i knew exactly what it was, him laughing calmed me and sounded soothing that it made my day better just to see that laughing face of him, lost in my thoughts he looked at me again by this time almost all the students were gone and i started walking ,and he walked next to me he had a certain smell that semmed to calm me downlost in thoughts again he asked "when am i going to get my phone rose?" I looked at the floor and smiled "uhh never" he smiled and said "your smile is so amazing it makes my future bright"

I laughed at his chessy line and said "well i was just messing with you about your phone but ill return it to you now", i stopped in front of me and licted my chin up and said in the most calming voice ever "lift up your head beautiful dont always look down you dont know how much your eyes and lils can mean to someone else" i blinked then smiled again saying

"oh and how would you know jay?". He chuckled softly "because maybe i just know that person" i looked at him in the eye while walking next to him and cars passing by and said "hmmm are you sureee?" I wiggled my eye brows and laughed at myself he then said "yes i do ,oh and when am i going to get my phone back miss rose?" Didn't notice it was on the side of my backpack he took it amd raised my mp3 up in the air stopping me in my tracks and dropping my backpack and now in front of him reaching my hand trying to get it i kinda pouted like a little kid who got her candy stolen and looked at him trying to still reach it i was tip toeing trying not to fall against him AGAIN but suddenly he grabbed my waist and pulled me closer to him still holding my mp3 up in the air he looked at me and laughed "i guess your too short rose let me help you" him playing with me i put my hands on his shoulders trying to reach it ,me giving in all my weight to bring him down eventually we both ended up falling but him saving me his back ended up against the concrete and my head hitting his chest, me being shocked at what just happened i got up off his chest and said panicking a little " omg jay are you okay?,im really sorry let me help you" i went beside him carefully lifiting his head up i examined his head to see if there was any damage but no damage whew thank god i thought, he stood up and i was angry a little amd raised my tone "why would you do that for me jeezus jay, you could have had a brain ingury or something dont do it ever again!" He then said "im fine rose just a little fall catching my princess" angry somehow i smiled at his chessy line again "you know your really chessy jay" as i stood up and reached out a hand, he nod "yea i get that alot" taking my hand and pulling himself up almost,knocking me over again he held out his hand giving me my mp3 and said "ill see you tommorow princess as he went to his car that was parked across from the school soccer field but then he stopped and turned back around "are you walking or is someone picking you up?" I said " im walking since i live near the school, for the first time i saw a worried look on his face and i smiled hoping to remove that worried look he asked "is it okay of i drop you off i meam i dont want you walking home alone" i turned down his offer and said "its okay its literally just right there" he smiled and said again "see you then princess" and turned around walking to his car his posture from the back was like huge his shoulder blades and the msucles on his arms i shooked my head and held my mp3 thinking

Jeezus he always says "princess" im not used to it at all like AT ALL but jay is really nice and omg i cant tell you how much i couldn't stop thinking about him when i got home...

End of part2~?
A/N-- hihihuh thank for the comments it gave me courage to continue hopefully this part wo t make you guys cringe cause in real life jay really is cheesy and he is also loves to make people laugh, ill continue part 3 soon thank you thank you! A sneak peek of part 3
Would be about during lunch and classes between me and him!!

~Sneak peek~
Jay what are you dong here? I asked looking at those captivating eyes
He chuckled "im a senior remember princess?"
"So it doesnt meam you can antwhere in the school jay"
He chuckled again "so i just wanted to see my princess thats all"...
Tags: Broken, Heartbroken, Story, Highschool, Butterflies, Him]]>
Mon, 18 Sep 2017 01:10:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/WEA9OC3QZtU/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3333 Enjoy~?

After that incident i walked off still red from blushing that i actually bumped into his chest and him catching me i couldnt concentrate in class and ended up missing the lecture and having no idea what we just did,these girls were talking about him since i bumped into him im an observant person as well as i hear things that others talk about ,the girl sarah was like "omg did you see that guy that rose bumped into? Then her friend which is sitting next to her smacked on her gum and said "hell yes and he is fine i mean look at those muscles oo i wish he was mine". Right there and then i snapped well on tje inside i did i questioned them in my head why do you only see his muscles, cant you see those eyes that shine brighter than the stars and sun? Why cant you see that every time he smiles it makes me want to smile and pinch his cheeks?

Eventually it was the last hour of the day in that crazy highschool, i was going to my locker gathering all the books and notes i took from each class into my backpack i always had both my earbuds in but since a certain someone took my mp3 i had to listen to all the convo and hustling of backpacks and shoes each kid trying to get out of here,just as i was about done i backed up from my skinny blue locker and bumped into someone i turned around so fast and ,there he was again those brown eyes and shiny browned hair i didnt speak for 5 seconds at least but him being close to me i was only up to his chest and his face looking down on me making those shiny brown eyes stare right into me i was breathless and i took one step back trying to breathe bit then he took a step forward everytime i did, i swallowed my saliva and just as i was about to speak he said "soo where is my phone?" Deciding to mess with him i cross my arms and said "i dont know i think i left it in one of the classrooms" he smirked like he knew i was planning something i raised my eyebrow giving him the confused look ,he laughed and i just stared at him not knowing why he laughed but let me tell you this it was harmonizing it made my heartbeat faster i dont know why my heart was beating that fast was it because he sounded so calming and cute in a way? Or was it the butterflues that i felt? that i think it was?, well i knew exactly what it was, him laughing calmed me and sounded soothing that it made my day better just to see that laughing face of him, lost in my thoughts he looked at me again by this time almost all the students were gone and i started walking ,and he walked next to me he had a certain smell that semmed to calm me downlost in thoughts again he asked "when am i going to get my phone rose?" I looked at the floor and smiled "uhh never" he smiled and said "your smile is so amazing it makes my future bright"

I laughed at his chessy line and said "well i was just messing with you about your phone but ill return it to you now", i stopped in front of me and licted my chin up and said in the most calming voice ever "lift up your head beautiful dont always look down you dont know how much your eyes and lils can mean to someone else" i blinked then smiled again saying

"oh and how would you know jay?". He chuckled softly "because maybe i just know that person" i looked at him in the eye while walking next to him and cars passing by and said "hmmm are you sureee?" I wiggled my eye brows and laughed at myself he then said "yes i do ,oh and when am i going to get my phone back miss rose?" Didn't notice it was on the side of my backpack he took it amd raised my mp3 up in the air stopping me in my tracks and dropping my backpack and now in front of him reaching my hand trying to get it i kinda pouted like a little kid who got her candy stolen and looked at him trying to still reach it i was tip toeing trying not to fall against him AGAIN but suddenly he grabbed my waist and pulled me closer to him still holding my mp3 up in the air he looked at me and laughed "i guess your too short rose let me help you" him playing with me i put my hands on his shoulders trying to reach it ,me giving in all my weight to bring him down eventually we both ended up falling but him saving me his back ended up against the concrete and my head hitting his chest, me being shocked at what just happened i got up off his chest and said panicking a little " omg jay are you okay?,im really sorry let me help you" i went beside him carefully lifiting his head up i examined his head to see if there was any damage but no damage whew thank god i thought, he stood up and i was angry a little amd raised my tone "why would you do that for me jeezus jay, you could have had a brain ingury or something dont do it ever again!" He then said "im fine rose just a little fall catching my princess" angry somehow i smiled at his chessy line again "you know your really chessy jay" as i stood up and reached out a hand, he nod "yea i get that alot" taking my hand and pulling himself up almost,knocking me over again he held out his hand giving me my mp3 and said "ill see you tommorow princess as he went to his car that was parked across from the school soccer field but then he stopped and turned back around "are you walking or is someone picking you up?" I said " im walking since i live near the school, for the first time i saw a worried look on his face and i smiled hoping to remove that worried look he asked "is it okay of i drop you off i meam i dont want you walking home alone" i turned down his offer and said "its okay its literally just right there" he smiled and said again "see you then princess" and turned around walking to his car his posture from the back was like huge his shoulder blades and the msucles on his arms i shooked my head and held my mp3 thinking

Jeezus he always says "princess" im not used to it at all like AT ALL but jay is really nice and omg i cant tell you how much i couldn't stop thinking about him when i got home...

End of part2~?
A/N-- hihihuh thank for the comments it gave me courage to continue hopefully this part wo t make you guys cringe cause in real life jay really is cheesy and he is also loves to make people laugh, ill continue part 3 soon thank you thank you! A sneak peek of part 3
Would be about during lunch and classes between me and him!!

~Sneak peek~
Jay what are you dong here? I asked looking at those captivating eyes
He chuckled "im a senior remember princess?"
"So it doesnt meam you can antwhere in the school jay"
He chuckled again "so i just wanted to see my princess thats all"...
Tags: Broken, Heartbroken, Story, Highschool, Butterflies, Him]]>
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Poem: Dear Depression by Ben Vanhook
Why do you still haunt me?
You’re a selfish jerk
I just long to be free
Yet forever you will lurk

You just want attention
Like a little child
I know your intention
And I want you exiled

You’ve been in my head
And you’ve gone way too far
Like paper you would shred
And leave a burning scar

You bring worry and fear
To all of those around
You give nothing to cheer
As you send me homeward bound

But you bring me solace
In that I’m not alone
You think your plan is flawless
And that I’ve made you a home


I didn’t know who you were
Until you came inside
How you came is all a blur
You were like a widowed bride

You’d enter as you wish
And waltz throughout my hall
My thoughts, your very dish
Silent voices you then call

You came fast as a dart
But then you plagued my mind
How did this all start?
Was I really this blind?

You came in so swift
But then refused to go
While patience is my gift
You’ve become my bitter foe

Oh the thief you were
Stealing all my hope
You used to reassure
The key to life’s a rope

You have amazing power
And you’ve the strength to kill
You kill many in an hour
For or against their will

Don’t take me as your groom
I’ll stand stiff and strong
Although my mind’s your room
You won’t stay there long

A plague that spreads like fire
A leader overthrown
But with the situation dire
You're all I’ve ever known

Sincerely,

BVH
Tags: Depression, Suicide]]>
Sun, 17 Sep 2017 04:55:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/TF6EaNxok18/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3819
Why do you still haunt me?
You’re a selfish jerk
I just long to be free
Yet forever you will lurk

You just want attention
Like a little child
I know your intention
And I want you exiled

You’ve been in my head
And you’ve gone way too far
Like paper you would shred
And leave a burning scar

You bring worry and fear
To all of those around
You give nothing to cheer
As you send me homeward bound

But you bring me solace
In that I’m not alone
You think your plan is flawless
And that I’ve made you a home


I didn’t know who you were
Until you came inside
How you came is all a blur
You were like a widowed bride

You’d enter as you wish
And waltz throughout my hall
My thoughts, your very dish
Silent voices you then call

You came fast as a dart
But then you plagued my mind
How did this all start?
Was I really this blind?

You came in so swift
But then refused to go
While patience is my gift
You’ve become my bitter foe

Oh the thief you were
Stealing all my hope
You used to reassure
The key to life’s a rope

You have amazing power
And you’ve the strength to kill
You kill many in an hour
For or against their will

Don’t take me as your groom
I’ll stand stiff and strong
Although my mind’s your room
You won’t stay there long

A plague that spreads like fire
A leader overthrown
But with the situation dire
You're all I’ve ever known

Sincerely,

BVH
Tags: Depression, Suicide]]>
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Poem: Heartbreak by Andrew Nugent And my life has been nothing but dismay
I know I deserve this pain
I deserve toto just sit out and die alone in the cold and rain
I hurt you and the damage was done
After that you decided to run
I regret it I regret it all
My arms scream to hold you
My lips burn to feel yours once more
I miss you so much my very soul aches
But I don't deserve you
I just deserve heartbreak.
Tags: Heartbreak, Sorrow]]>
Sat, 16 Sep 2017 04:50:03 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/GHrcClT4BgY/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3818 And my life has been nothing but dismay
I know I deserve this pain
I deserve toto just sit out and die alone in the cold and rain
I hurt you and the damage was done
After that you decided to run
I regret it I regret it all
My arms scream to hold you
My lips burn to feel yours once more
I miss you so much my very soul aches
But I don't deserve you
I just deserve heartbreak.
Tags: Heartbreak, Sorrow]]>
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Quote: Don't cry because it's over, but sm... by Dr. Suess Tags: Smile, Cry]]> Sun, 20 Aug 2017 03:10:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Smile, Cry]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Poem: Our little raven by A Mother of Raven We wasted time on useless fights
It was about who is stronger
It was about who is right

And now we're left with bleeding hearts
There is no winning, only loss
No one is right, no one is stronger
And all our happiness is lost

We fought because we love each other
We drove ourselves into the dark
I wish we could have been more open
I wish I shared with you my light

It's all about being honest
It's all about inner fears
I wish that I could hold your hand
And guide us safely through dark trees...

If only you could be more open
And share with me these inner fears
I would have saved you from your demons
I would have saved you from abyss

And now I hold our little raven
A part of you, your "copy - paste"
He needs his papa more than ever
He needs to know you never left...

I know deep down we're still in love
But you're too proud and I'm too scared
If only you could show your feelings 
And make this difficult first step...
Tags: Love, Separated, Mistakes, Misunderstood, Hope, Heartache, Child, Loneliness, Darkness, Fight, Relationship]]>
Sun, 20 Aug 2017 03:00:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/JB21lL3qmWg/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3817 We wasted time on useless fights
It was about who is stronger
It was about who is right

And now we're left with bleeding hearts
There is no winning, only loss
No one is right, no one is stronger
And all our happiness is lost

We fought because we love each other
We drove ourselves into the dark
I wish we could have been more open
I wish I shared with you my light

It's all about being honest
It's all about inner fears
I wish that I could hold your hand
And guide us safely through dark trees...

If only you could be more open
And share with me these inner fears
I would have saved you from your demons
I would have saved you from abyss

And now I hold our little raven
A part of you, your "copy - paste"
He needs his papa more than ever
He needs to know you never left...

I know deep down we're still in love
But you're too proud and I'm too scared
If only you could show your feelings 
And make this difficult first step...
Tags: Love, Separated, Mistakes, Misunderstood, Hope, Heartache, Child, Loneliness, Darkness, Fight, Relationship]]>
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Quote: The only time I realized I fell in ... by Jenifer -Anonymous
Tags: Unloved]]>
Sat, 19 Aug 2017 03:05:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes -Anonymous
Tags: Unloved]]>
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Poem: Hopes and Wishes by Elli26Gamer But am I the one for fun.
He laughs,his laugh is so
graceful Makes a blow.

Does he see me or he sees another girl
who does he need a cheerleader who can whirl or twirl.
He don't see, don't deserve thee
who does he need too flee.
From the ugliness I attract, or does he see.
Or does he never see a we
In his future.
I shall never come too close to him
Or I'm I just a swim.
Too him he can just swim over
Too I wish I could be a trover too him.

But shall I wish, before he is taken
I hope I waken.
Him by my side while I gleam,
Or is that all just a wish or dream.
Tags: Love, Wish]]>
Sat, 19 Aug 2017 02:55:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/WuOS-cV_8Ig/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3816 But am I the one for fun.
He laughs,his laugh is so
graceful Makes a blow.

Does he see me or he sees another girl
who does he need a cheerleader who can whirl or twirl.
He don't see, don't deserve thee
who does he need too flee.
From the ugliness I attract, or does he see.
Or does he never see a we
In his future.
I shall never come too close to him
Or I'm I just a swim.
Too him he can just swim over
Too I wish I could be a trover too him.

But shall I wish, before he is taken
I hope I waken.
Him by my side while I gleam,
Or is that all just a wish or dream.
Tags: Love, Wish]]>
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Quote: "You said you'd love me forever I g... by LoveHurts and so did I"
Tags: Death, Pain, HeartBroken, Broken Hearted]]>
Fri, 18 Aug 2017 03:00:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes and so did I"
Tags: Death, Pain, HeartBroken, Broken Hearted]]>
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Poem: Stranger by Micha-chu! Wanting to write something, but it's you i think first
Of all the hurts and fears my heart's gonna burst
But all I can feel is I love you, a stranger at first.

Of this chance I'm afraid to bet
Asking, if I give it a try will it all be set?
Can't explain why I fell so fast
I'm not even sure if a love of a stranger would last.

At first I thought it's OK
Knowing you're broken you can hurt me all the way
Is it because you want her back that you're wanting me to stay?
Do you just need me, a stranger's shoulder to lay?

Knowing your doubts hurts me
But baby for a stranger I'm staying what a fool I'll be
I've known you for days but you're already breaking me
While you're unsure, I'm planning your forever with me
Tags: Love, Hurt]]>
Fri, 18 Aug 2017 02:50:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/LYZARcfhA5k/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3813 Wanting to write something, but it's you i think first
Of all the hurts and fears my heart's gonna burst
But all I can feel is I love you, a stranger at first.

Of this chance I'm afraid to bet
Asking, if I give it a try will it all be set?
Can't explain why I fell so fast
I'm not even sure if a love of a stranger would last.

At first I thought it's OK
Knowing you're broken you can hurt me all the way
Is it because you want her back that you're wanting me to stay?
Do you just need me, a stranger's shoulder to lay?

Knowing your doubts hurts me
But baby for a stranger I'm staying what a fool I'll be
I've known you for days but you're already breaking me
While you're unsure, I'm planning your forever with me
Tags: Love, Hurt]]>
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Quote: If a caterpillar wants to fly, it m... by Gabriella R Tags: Lost, Change, Self Hate, Hate]]> Thu, 17 Aug 2017 02:55:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Lost, Change, Self Hate, Hate]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Poem: Your Valentine by Shajahan Manik Without you...
And there’s nothing I can do
So please stay and be my love;
And promise, will never be part.

How helpless I feel
Without you
What am I to do...?
Silence speaks today
But you don't do so.

Till death separates us
You will always be mine
Till now from the start
You are my sweetheart.

If my dreams never come true
If your separation makes me blue
Then I want to be your
And will be your valentine.
Tags: Missing, Unloved]]>
Thu, 17 Aug 2017 02:45:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/zT7d0AuW2P0/sad_poem.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_poem.php?id=3812 Without you...
And there’s nothing I can do
So please stay and be my love;
And promise, will never be part.

How helpless I feel
Without you
What am I to do...?
Silence speaks today
But you don't do so.

Till death separates us
You will always be mine
Till now from the start
You are my sweetheart.

If my dreams never come true
If your separation makes me blue
Then I want to be your
And will be your valentine.
Tags: Missing, Unloved]]>
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Story: Why him by Arianna Ethan Parker: The most stubborn guy on the planet. Star football player and total jackass. Every girl is head over heels for him. I just dont really understand why. He has terrible grades, hes slept with half the school, and he doesnt care about anyone but himself. The only thing he really has going for him is his hair, his body, his smile...i just mean he doesnt have a lot of good qualities. But hey, at least hes going to college.

Mondays were my tutoring days. I usually come for about a couple hours so it will look good on my college application. I was just finishing up and of course Ethan Parker had to walk through those doors. He had this irritable look on his face that he didnt want to be here. He had a black backpack slung over his shoulder and he was handing the teacher a blank piece of paper, or so I thought it was blank. The teacher called me over and introduced me to Ethan. "Ms.Vow, this is going to be another one of your students."

Are u SERIOUS!!?? Okay, Keep your cool Blake. Everything is okay. "How about you tell him everything he needs to know." Ms. Rider points us to my table, smiling as if everything is ok. I walk to the back and he follows. "I am available Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays. I dont do excuses so if you dont come I dont reschedule. I dont provide materials so bring your own. When we work, you will not slack off, be distracted in any way, or waste my time. You dont come late Or we dont have a session. You dont leave early or you dont get full hours. And last, I do not care about your personal life, about your friends, and about your sport. I take my job very seriously and no one whos been with me has failed. When I need to talk to you, I dont care where you are i will talk. Or that little paper you got there doesnt get signed. And Im guessing you need it in order to play this season. So, are my instructions clear?" He nods his head and smiles."Great 7:30, Monday morning."

Ethan was pretty persistent in the sessions. He never missed one, never was late, and always tried his hardest. We mostly did calculus, but drifted towards AP biology too. "You dont really talk." Ethan said. "What do you mean?" I replied. "You never talk about yourself. I dont really know you." "listen Ethan you are only doing this tutoring for a couple weeks after that we go back to the normal people we are. I go back to tutoring other kids and you go back to being a star football player who hangs out with the most popular kids and who sleeps around and dates every girl he can get. I dont plan on becoming close with you thats why I do not want to get to know you and I dont want you to get to know me. I Know Who You Are, the guy who gets everything he wants but, you dont understand that some people have to work for what they want. I need this so, stop chit-chatting and just let me work with you." He pauses and looks at me, annoyed by what I just said.

"Youre wrong you dont know me you dont know the things that I have to earn. Like my scholarship for football I have to earn that. I dont sleep around and I know thats what you believe because thats what you hear. The BS rumors that go around the school. But you dont know the truth you dont know what my side of the story is. Which is I dont sleep around I earn what I get and I care about other people other than myself. So dont come around talking about that you know me when you dont. "I looked at him. he was right I had no reason to judge him. I dont know what he has to learn and I didnt know his story or his life. I had no right to say what I did. "Violet... my middle name is violet, if you wanted to know something about me." He smiled.

"James, if you were wondering." I couldnt help but smile at him. What is happening?
Tags: Loss, Happiness, Death, Alone, Pain]]>
Wed, 16 Aug 2017 22:50:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/7h8Ekd9l37Q/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3330 Ethan Parker: The most stubborn guy on the planet. Star football player and total jackass. Every girl is head over heels for him. I just dont really understand why. He has terrible grades, hes slept with half the school, and he doesnt care about anyone but himself. The only thing he really has going for him is his hair, his body, his smile...i just mean he doesnt have a lot of good qualities. But hey, at least hes going to college.

Mondays were my tutoring days. I usually come for about a couple hours so it will look good on my college application. I was just finishing up and of course Ethan Parker had to walk through those doors. He had this irritable look on his face that he didnt want to be here. He had a black backpack slung over his shoulder and he was handing the teacher a blank piece of paper, or so I thought it was blank. The teacher called me over and introduced me to Ethan. "Ms.Vow, this is going to be another one of your students."

Are u SERIOUS!!?? Okay, Keep your cool Blake. Everything is okay. "How about you tell him everything he needs to know." Ms. Rider points us to my table, smiling as if everything is ok. I walk to the back and he follows. "I am available Mondays, Wednesdays, and Saturdays. I dont do excuses so if you dont come I dont reschedule. I dont provide materials so bring your own. When we work, you will not slack off, be distracted in any way, or waste my time. You dont come late Or we dont have a session. You dont leave early or you dont get full hours. And last, I do not care about your personal life, about your friends, and about your sport. I take my job very seriously and no one whos been with me has failed. When I need to talk to you, I dont care where you are i will talk. Or that little paper you got there doesnt get signed. And Im guessing you need it in order to play this season. So, are my instructions clear?" He nods his head and smiles."Great 7:30, Monday morning."

Ethan was pretty persistent in the sessions. He never missed one, never was late, and always tried his hardest. We mostly did calculus, but drifted towards AP biology too. "You dont really talk." Ethan said. "What do you mean?" I replied. "You never talk about yourself. I dont really know you." "listen Ethan you are only doing this tutoring for a couple weeks after that we go back to the normal people we are. I go back to tutoring other kids and you go back to being a star football player who hangs out with the most popular kids and who sleeps around and dates every girl he can get. I dont plan on becoming close with you thats why I do not want to get to know you and I dont want you to get to know me. I Know Who You Are, the guy who gets everything he wants but, you dont understand that some people have to work for what they want. I need this so, stop chit-chatting and just let me work with you." He pauses and looks at me, annoyed by what I just said.

"Youre wrong you dont know me you dont know the things that I have to earn. Like my scholarship for football I have to earn that. I dont sleep around and I know thats what you believe because thats what you hear. The BS rumors that go around the school. But you dont know the truth you dont know what my side of the story is. Which is I dont sleep around I earn what I get and I care about other people other than myself. So dont come around talking about that you know me when you dont. "I looked at him. he was right I had no reason to judge him. I dont know what he has to learn and I didnt know his story or his life. I had no right to say what I did. "Violet... my middle name is violet, if you wanted to know something about me." He smiled.

"James, if you were wondering." I couldnt help but smile at him. What is happening?
Tags: Loss, Happiness, Death, Alone, Pain]]>
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Quote: "My fear is a being, waiting and wa... by Marie Markham Tags: Fear]]> Wed, 16 Aug 2017 02:50:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Fear]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Story: Complicated Young Love Story by Mahima Rahman
it was December, which means Christmas was coming up. Before Christmas the school had an Christmas lunch where all the students were invited. So Olivia and her 3 best friends went to the lunch together. They sat on a table waiting for the other classes to come. After a while all the other students started coming for lunch a group of kids from grade 4 came up to their table and asked if they can sit with them. Madison says " yo sup!?" It seemed like she knew the one boy who was part of that crew. After we all start lining up for Christmas lunch and I asked Madison, Ashley and Gloria who those kids are. They explained that the boy's name was Andrew and he was Madison's brother and the quite and shy girl who was also part of the group is Ashley`s sister Cynthia. Things made more sense to Olivia after hearing that. They all came back to their own seats and started eating. That group of kids were pretty loud, especially that one girl who was also talking gross. After that day Olivia didn't see those kids that much also took her a while to speak English because they were in Canada.

It was starting of grade 6 already, all 4 of the girls were still really good friends even tho none of them were in the same class. Andrew started grade 5, so he was in the senior grades now. The year was going good, Olivia and Andrew sorta became friends. But Olivia used to get annoyed by Andrew all the time. Andrew would tease her for no reason, the`d fight for no reason. So it was already June, meaning the last month of this school year as well. It was a track-n-field day. Olivia was a really girly girl. She got so annoyed by Andrew that day that she told her teacher on him. The teacher smiled and said "Do know how many times you`ve told on him? You`ve been doing it all year, all of this proves that Andrew like you that`s the only reason why he always teases you."

Grade 7 also started for Olivia and Gloria but for Ashley and Madison it was grade 8, that means it was their last year in elementary. They all decided to just have as much fun as they could in their last year together. Olivia, Ashley, Gloria, Madison and Cynthia would always hangout, during and after school. Madison wasn`t allowed to go anywhere without Andrew so they had to bring him with them as well. Olivia didn`t like that at the starting but she got used to him. He was sure a funny and caring guy. Olivia and Andrew became best friends over that whole year. It was the second last day of school, so it was graduation day for Ashley and Madison! As all the girls were talking during recess break one of Andrew`s friends comes and calls Olivia to a corner and asks her that if she wants to date Andrew. It was a hard decision for her she kinda liked him but also she didn`t wanna loose her best guy friend. She told him she`ll think about it over the summer. Andrew seemed to be okay with her decision. Ashley and Madison was going to high school, Gloria was moving schools, Olivia was going to be kind of lonely the next school year.

The summer break was over and it was time for new school year of Grade 8! Olivia thought about Andrew all summer and decided that she is going to say "`YES" to Andrew. She also had feelings for him. The first day of school she was all exited, but Andrew didn`t even say HI or look at her once. She thought he needs some time so didn`t bother talking to him yet. On the 2nd day of school he started hanging out with a new girl at school named Jenna. Olivia was really really sad, because there was rumors around the school that Andrew and Jenna both like each other. Olivia cried herself to sleep every night.She tried talking to Andrew but he would ignore her. After couple of days Andrew and Jenna actually started dating. But things weren't going that good between them. Jenna would spend more time with other boys. Andrew got really mad because she was being a hoe. Andre broke up with her after 2 weeks. He started talking to Olivia again. They became really good friends just like before. Olivia started getting feelings for him again after all Andrew was her first crush. She got brave enough that she told Andrew that she likes him. But Andrew lost all the feelings for Olivia. They both decided to stay as best friends. After couple weeks Andrew started liking a different girl named Kylie, she was dating someone else but Andrew still liked her. Olivia tried moving on and tried liking a different boy who's name was Adam. They both slow danced on Valentines day. everything was good until a new girl Tamika, who started liking Ada as well. Olivia stop hanging around with Adam because he also liked Tamika. They both started liking each other and ended up dating.

After couple of months Andrew looked kind of upset, he didn't wanna tell anyone why he's upset. One Saturday Andrew, Olivia and Olivia's best friend Zane. After hanging out for a while Andrew confessed that he likes Olivia and wants to maker her his girlfriend. Olivia didn't totally forget him that's why she said "YES" to him.

Truly Olivia and Andrew went through a lot in their life but they are still together.

Based on a True Story
Tags: Love]]>
Tue, 15 Aug 2017 22:45:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/QtdYy6-qC1w/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3320
it was December, which means Christmas was coming up. Before Christmas the school had an Christmas lunch where all the students were invited. So Olivia and her 3 best friends went to the lunch together. They sat on a table waiting for the other classes to come. After a while all the other students started coming for lunch a group of kids from grade 4 came up to their table and asked if they can sit with them. Madison says " yo sup!?" It seemed like she knew the one boy who was part of that crew. After we all start lining up for Christmas lunch and I asked Madison, Ashley and Gloria who those kids are. They explained that the boy's name was Andrew and he was Madison's brother and the quite and shy girl who was also part of the group is Ashley`s sister Cynthia. Things made more sense to Olivia after hearing that. They all came back to their own seats and started eating. That group of kids were pretty loud, especially that one girl who was also talking gross. After that day Olivia didn't see those kids that much also took her a while to speak English because they were in Canada.

It was starting of grade 6 already, all 4 of the girls were still really good friends even tho none of them were in the same class. Andrew started grade 5, so he was in the senior grades now. The year was going good, Olivia and Andrew sorta became friends. But Olivia used to get annoyed by Andrew all the time. Andrew would tease her for no reason, the`d fight for no reason. So it was already June, meaning the last month of this school year as well. It was a track-n-field day. Olivia was a really girly girl. She got so annoyed by Andrew that day that she told her teacher on him. The teacher smiled and said "Do know how many times you`ve told on him? You`ve been doing it all year, all of this proves that Andrew like you that`s the only reason why he always teases you."

Grade 7 also started for Olivia and Gloria but for Ashley and Madison it was grade 8, that means it was their last year in elementary. They all decided to just have as much fun as they could in their last year together. Olivia, Ashley, Gloria, Madison and Cynthia would always hangout, during and after school. Madison wasn`t allowed to go anywhere without Andrew so they had to bring him with them as well. Olivia didn`t like that at the starting but she got used to him. He was sure a funny and caring guy. Olivia and Andrew became best friends over that whole year. It was the second last day of school, so it was graduation day for Ashley and Madison! As all the girls were talking during recess break one of Andrew`s friends comes and calls Olivia to a corner and asks her that if she wants to date Andrew. It was a hard decision for her she kinda liked him but also she didn`t wanna loose her best guy friend. She told him she`ll think about it over the summer. Andrew seemed to be okay with her decision. Ashley and Madison was going to high school, Gloria was moving schools, Olivia was going to be kind of lonely the next school year.

The summer break was over and it was time for new school year of Grade 8! Olivia thought about Andrew all summer and decided that she is going to say "`YES" to Andrew. She also had feelings for him. The first day of school she was all exited, but Andrew didn`t even say HI or look at her once. She thought he needs some time so didn`t bother talking to him yet. On the 2nd day of school he started hanging out with a new girl at school named Jenna. Olivia was really really sad, because there was rumors around the school that Andrew and Jenna both like each other. Olivia cried herself to sleep every night.She tried talking to Andrew but he would ignore her. After couple of days Andrew and Jenna actually started dating. But things weren't going that good between them. Jenna would spend more time with other boys. Andrew got really mad because she was being a hoe. Andre broke up with her after 2 weeks. He started talking to Olivia again. They became really good friends just like before. Olivia started getting feelings for him again after all Andrew was her first crush. She got brave enough that she told Andrew that she likes him. But Andrew lost all the feelings for Olivia. They both decided to stay as best friends. After couple weeks Andrew started liking a different girl named Kylie, she was dating someone else but Andrew still liked her. Olivia tried moving on and tried liking a different boy who's name was Adam. They both slow danced on Valentines day. everything was good until a new girl Tamika, who started liking Ada as well. Olivia stop hanging around with Adam because he also liked Tamika. They both started liking each other and ended up dating.

After couple of months Andrew looked kind of upset, he didn't wanna tell anyone why he's upset. One Saturday Andrew, Olivia and Olivia's best friend Zane. After hanging out for a while Andrew confessed that he likes Olivia and wants to maker her his girlfriend. Olivia didn't totally forget him that's why she said "YES" to him.

Truly Olivia and Andrew went through a lot in their life but they are still together.

Based on a True Story
Tags: Love]]>
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Story: My life by DarkMoon
Let's beginning by the fact that I got a bad relation with my dad,even if I was young I understood that he just wanted to play but I wasn't enjoying his game and at the and of every game I was crying and he was screaming at me because of this,is it right or wrong to be mad against someone crying because of you cause you hurt this someone?

Anyway,I was 7 or 8 years old when I start getting bullied,I clearly remember one day,the birthday of a girl who was one of the people who was bullying me,she convinced everyone to stop talking to me and do not be my friend.. what about a cute and nice girl. But it did not bother me, I wasn't care cause I was fine alone or with friends,and she clearly see it so she came with everyone,I was drawing ,and she took the paper laughed at it,tore it and threw it at me.. and it didn't stop for 7years or my life I get bullyied. I get into depression but not to much it wasn't so bad..not yet.

I moved to another city and another school,I got some friends and I wasn't so depressed I got some health problems for a time I was often taken to the emergency because of my suicide attempt my parents never knew that I was so sick because of all those pills that I took. After this period I was fine a friend,let's call him Dan cause he will reappear after,He often took me to the movies,he was a really good friend, after a good period, cames the bad one.. Some people began to spread false rumors about me Very quickly I became a target of mockery and insults. But I Was Fine. Then our dear Dan reappeared and tell me that it will helps me to go out and he took me to the movie..in the room There were not many people,during the film he took my hand,then he start just came closer and stay by my side I thought it was to comfort me.. but I was Totally Wrong! I start crying because the film makes me think about the shit that happens in the last days,so he just took my face and he kissed me,I was confused I didn't understand why? But I did not have the strength to push him away, but then he put one of his hands on my thigh then I started to realize what was happening he start touching my chest and I was totally afraid I was telling him to stop while trying to defend me, but I wasn't strong enough he directed his hand between my legs and I was crying and trying,then I don't know why he just stopped by himself and tells me that he was sorry I was so afraid I took my stuff and left the room,entre in the bathroom and at this moment start crying so hard I did my first <<crisis>>,I perfectly remember all the scene and how I throw my green back pack,I came back home never tell this again to no one else. So let me tell you what's the <<crisis>> basically is like.. it starts when I start crying for no reason and start saying to myself that I don't want to stay alive.. that I wish I never get born, Then I start remembering the people who were bullying me and how they treat me I start remembering how my father treat me and start thinking a bout the movie.. and it get worst and that's what make me start selfharming.. I get really into depression and past a soo bad year.. One day I felt ready to end it all I filled a bath and enter with all my clothes,I was into a <<crisis>> I took a little blade and I was ready really but I start crying so hard and I just did 2 cuts..after that depression was so present in my life.In the same period I lost my bestfriend.. then I moved again and changed school..but in the new school exept have met really good friends I met someone who changed my life He helped me overcome my depression and my problems, were now together and even if sometimes depression reaper she doesn't stay too long and disappear just like she reappeared, I don't know if that's just a really really good period or not, but I hope it will stay.cause.. I Am Fine.
Tags: Life Story, Depression, Death]]>
Wed, 26 Jul 2017 21:25:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/CAQnQeSf74s/sad_story.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_story.php?id=3318
Let's beginning by the fact that I got a bad relation with my dad,even if I was young I understood that he just wanted to play but I wasn't enjoying his game and at the and of every game I was crying and he was screaming at me because of this,is it right or wrong to be mad against someone crying because of you cause you hurt this someone?

Anyway,I was 7 or 8 years old when I start getting bullied,I clearly remember one day,the birthday of a girl who was one of the people who was bullying me,she convinced everyone to stop talking to me and do not be my friend.. what about a cute and nice girl. But it did not bother me, I wasn't care cause I was fine alone or with friends,and she clearly see it so she came with everyone,I was drawing ,and she took the paper laughed at it,tore it and threw it at me.. and it didn't stop for 7years or my life I get bullyied. I get into depression but not to much it wasn't so bad..not yet.

I moved to another city and another school,I got some friends and I wasn't so depressed I got some health problems for a time I was often taken to the emergency because of my suicide attempt my parents never knew that I was so sick because of all those pills that I took. After this period I was fine a friend,let's call him Dan cause he will reappear after,He often took me to the movies,he was a really good friend, after a good period, cames the bad one.. Some people began to spread false rumors about me Very quickly I became a target of mockery and insults. But I Was Fine. Then our dear Dan reappeared and tell me that it will helps me to go out and he took me to the movie..in the room There were not many people,during the film he took my hand,then he start just came closer and stay by my side I thought it was to comfort me.. but I was Totally Wrong! I start crying because the film makes me think about the shit that happens in the last days,so he just took my face and he kissed me,I was confused I didn't understand why? But I did not have the strength to push him away, but then he put one of his hands on my thigh then I started to realize what was happening he start touching my chest and I was totally afraid I was telling him to stop while trying to defend me, but I wasn't strong enough he directed his hand between my legs and I was crying and trying,then I don't know why he just stopped by himself and tells me that he was sorry I was so afraid I took my stuff and left the room,entre in the bathroom and at this moment start crying so hard I did my first <<crisis>>,I perfectly remember all the scene and how I throw my green back pack,I came back home never tell this again to no one else. So let me tell you what's the <<crisis>> basically is like.. it starts when I start crying for no reason and start saying to myself that I don't want to stay alive.. that I wish I never get born, Then I start remembering the people who were bullying me and how they treat me I start remembering how my father treat me and start thinking a bout the movie.. and it get worst and that's what make me start selfharming.. I get really into depression and past a soo bad year.. One day I felt ready to end it all I filled a bath and enter with all my clothes,I was into a <<crisis>> I took a little blade and I was ready really but I start crying so hard and I just did 2 cuts..after that depression was so present in my life.In the same period I lost my bestfriend.. then I moved again and changed school..but in the new school exept have met really good friends I met someone who changed my life He helped me overcome my depression and my problems, were now together and even if sometimes depression reaper she doesn't stay too long and disappear just like she reappeared, I don't know if that's just a really really good period or not, but I hope it will stay.cause.. I Am Fine.
Tags: Life Story, Depression, Death]]>
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Picture: Last steps as a couple by Rose H. Together, Him, Moments, Last memory
Tags: Together, Him, Moments, Last Memory]]>
Mon, 24 Jul 2017 07:35:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/IbLg0GcR3kw/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1831 Together, Him, Moments, Last memory
Tags: Together, Him, Moments, Last Memory]]>
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Song: Rootless Tree by Damien Rice &amp; Lisa Hannigan
What I want from you is empty your head
They say be true, don't stain your bed
We do what we need to be free
And it leans on me like a rootless tree

What I want from us is empty our minds
We fake the thoughts, and fracture the times
We go blind when we've needed to see
And this leans on me, like a rootless...

Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
There's nothing in you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me, then hate me so good
That you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out

What I want from this
Is learn to let go
No not of you
Of all that's been told
Killers re-invent and believe
And this leans on me, like a rootless...

Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
There's nothing in you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me, then hate me so good
That you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out

Fuck you, fuck you, love you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing in you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me, then hate me so good
That you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out

Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around

Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around

Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Tags: Hurt, Breakup, Damien Rice]]>
Sun, 02 Jul 2017 22:35:05 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/0Z1TJdqH3Wc/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=239
What I want from you is empty your head
They say be true, don't stain your bed
We do what we need to be free
And it leans on me like a rootless tree

What I want from us is empty our minds
We fake the thoughts, and fracture the times
We go blind when we've needed to see
And this leans on me, like a rootless...

Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
There's nothing in you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me, then hate me so good
That you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out

What I want from this
Is learn to let go
No not of you
Of all that's been told
Killers re-invent and believe
And this leans on me, like a rootless...

Fuck you, fuck you, fuck you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
There's nothing in you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me, then hate me so good
That you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Of this hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out

Fuck you, fuck you, love you
And all we've been through
I said leave it, leave it, leave it
It's nothing in you
And if you hate me, hate me, hate me, then hate me so good
That you can let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out, let me out
Let me out, let me out, let me out

Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around

Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around

Let me out, let me out, let me out
Hell when you're around
Tags: Hurt, Breakup, Damien Rice]]>
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Quote: Sadness is but a wall between two g... by Khalil Gibran Tags: Sadness, Sad, Truth, Quote, True]]> Thu, 20 Apr 2017 18:25:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Sadness, Sad, Truth, Quote, True]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Picture: Crying Alone by LoveHurts sad girl, crying, heartbroken, sad
Tags: Sad Girl, Crying, Heartbroken, Sad]]>
Thu, 20 Apr 2017 15:15:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/pnBf5NypW0A/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1807 sad girl, crying, heartbroken, sad
Tags: Sad Girl, Crying, Heartbroken, Sad]]>
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Quote: If things didn't matter to you then... by Anjali tiwari Tags: Cry, Lost, Love]]> Wed, 19 Apr 2017 18:20:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Cry, Lost, Love]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Picture: In My Dreams, You'll Forever Be by jerry harrenstein memories, missing you
Tags: Memories, Missing You]]>
Wed, 19 Apr 2017 03:15:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/3tDo2I0I7t8/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1822 memories, missing you
Tags: Memories, Missing You]]>
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Quote: "The person we love is the person w... by Asrr Tags: Fact, Sad, Heartbroken]]> Tue, 18 Apr 2017 18:15:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Fact, Sad, Heartbroken]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Quote: The only thing separating me from w... by 2233564242 Tags: Society]]> Mon, 17 Apr 2017 18:10:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Society]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Picture: Alone by LoveHurts Sad, Alone, Why, Crying
Tags: Sad, Alone, Why, Crying]]>
Mon, 17 Apr 2017 15:10:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/4LqThySrt_8/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1806 Sad, Alone, Why, Crying
Tags: Sad, Alone, Why, Crying]]>
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Quote: Without you my days are Sadday, Mo... by unkown Sadday, Moanday,
Tearsday,
wasteday,
thirstday,
fightday, and
Shatterday
Tags: #withoutu #missu #hurt #depressed]]>
Sun, 16 Apr 2017 18:05:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Sadday, Moanday,
Tearsday,
wasteday,
thirstday,
fightday, and
Shatterday
Tags: #withoutu #missu #hurt #depressed]]>
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Picture: music helps by LoveHurts crying, music
Tags: Crying, Music]]>
Sun, 16 Apr 2017 03:05:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/fnJUDnjHUF4/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1803 crying, music
Tags: Crying, Music]]>
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Quote: WHERE THERE IS DARKNESS,REMEMBER TH... by ARYAN KAMRA Tags: STAY STRONG]]> Sat, 15 Apr 2017 18:00:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: STAY STRONG]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Movie: La La Land by Damien Chazelle
Mia, an aspiring actress, serves lattes to movie stars in between auditions and Sebastian, a jazz musician, scrapes by playing cocktail party gigs in dingy bars, but as success mounts they are faced with decisions that begin to fray the fragile fabric of their love affair, and the dreams they worked so hard to maintain in each other threaten to rip them apart.

Tags: Breakup, Love, Life, Career]]>
Wed, 01 Feb 2017 05:33:18 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/61WP4mAQcK8/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=137
Mia, an aspiring actress, serves lattes to movie stars in between auditions and Sebastian, a jazz musician, scrapes by playing cocktail party gigs in dingy bars, but as success mounts they are faced with decisions that begin to fray the fragile fabric of their love affair, and the dreams they worked so hard to maintain in each other threaten to rip them apart.

Tags: Breakup, Love, Life, Career]]>
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Quote: You still get your hopes us, even t... by Gabriella R Tags: Hurt, Broken, Hope, Hopless, Hate]]> Sat, 21 Jan 2017 11:45:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Hurt, Broken, Hope, Hopless, Hate]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Quote: You can't wait for something that w... by Gabriella R Tags: Lonely, Hope, Heartbroken, Hoplessness, Broken, Hurt, Sad]]> Fri, 20 Jan 2017 11:40:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Lonely, Hope, Heartbroken, Hoplessness, Broken, Hurt, Sad]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Quote: She will cry, and get over it, She... by unknown She will hate you and
then love u again
But one day she will leave and
she won't come back
Tags: Unloved, Gone]]>
Thu, 19 Jan 2017 11:35:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes She will hate you and
then love u again
But one day she will leave and
she won't come back
Tags: Unloved, Gone]]>
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Quote: "You don't have the right to give u... by Gabriella R Tags: Try, Give Up, Alone]]> Wed, 18 Jan 2017 11:30:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XSQhOLEDVZA/quotes http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Tags: Try, Give Up, Alone]]> http://www.loverofsadness.net/quotes Song: What will I Do Without Your Love by Jerry Harrenstein
Just as things get sweet
you back down again
leaving me to ponder if
this is the end.
When I think we are going
to meet my heart skips a beat
and capturing your love would
be something to cherish and keep.

Now you are fading out of view
and I do not know what to do.
When I last looked into your eyes
you began to cry and with hesitation
I wondered if I saw a lie.
Then I began to cry.
Do I go on without knowing, or do I
let my heart say I must be going?

My pain is so deep
I can not even sleep.
The days are getting shorter
and my love is going in that order.
Time is near my dear
and I must make things clear.
Perhaps a smile, or your gentle touch.
Would that be asking too much?

Loving you is all I want to do
and that is not hard for me to do
especially when it is someone like you.
I believe in love and you too, but
without your love what will I do?
What will I do without you...
Tags: Sad, Unloved]]>
Sat, 03 Dec 2016 19:51:20 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/0cfoHO95idc/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=238
Just as things get sweet
you back down again
leaving me to ponder if
this is the end.
When I think we are going
to meet my heart skips a beat
and capturing your love would
be something to cherish and keep.

Now you are fading out of view
and I do not know what to do.
When I last looked into your eyes
you began to cry and with hesitation
I wondered if I saw a lie.
Then I began to cry.
Do I go on without knowing, or do I
let my heart say I must be going?

My pain is so deep
I can not even sleep.
The days are getting shorter
and my love is going in that order.
Time is near my dear
and I must make things clear.
Perhaps a smile, or your gentle touch.
Would that be asking too much?

Loving you is all I want to do
and that is not hard for me to do
especially when it is someone like you.
I believe in love and you too, but
without your love what will I do?
What will I do without you...
Tags: Sad, Unloved]]>
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Picture: Gloomy Sunday by Neriak gloomy, art
Tags: Gloomy, Art]]>
Sat, 12 Nov 2016 08:05:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/j0vnxmSnUxo/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1798 gloomy, art
Tags: Gloomy, Art]]>
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Picture: Gloomy day by Smil gloomy, trees
Tags: Gloomy, Trees]]>
Thu, 10 Nov 2016 20:00:03 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/Y6W4cAylGCU/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1797 gloomy, trees
Tags: Gloomy, Trees]]>
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Picture: Your Kind Of Love Hurts by jerry harrenstein hurt, art
Tags: Hurt, Art]]>
Wed, 09 Nov 2016 08:00:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/4pbKXOk2SPU/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1771 hurt, art
Tags: Hurt, Art]]>
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Picture: Gloomy by malialeon gloomy, face
Tags: Gloomy, Face]]>
Tue, 08 Nov 2016 05:50:41 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/xi4jCckFK_4/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1796 gloomy, face
Tags: Gloomy, Face]]>
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Picture: Sad Lonely Boy by Shivam das alone, sad
Tags: Alone, Sad]]>
Mon, 25 Jul 2016 15:10:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/g0LMgnqUePg/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1772 alone, sad
Tags: Alone, Sad]]>
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Picture: Iranian sad by Hiva blood
Tags: Blood]]>
Sun, 24 Jul 2016 03:05:03 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/tvLZ01rxwxI/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1770 blood
Tags: Blood]]>
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Picture: Your Leaving Me by jerry harrenstein sad, heartbroken, scared, hurt
Tags: Sad, Heartbroken, Scared, Hurt]]>
Fri, 22 Jul 2016 15:05:01 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/BLqeaV-qo80/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1763 sad, heartbroken, scared, hurt
Tags: Sad, Heartbroken, Scared, Hurt]]>
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Picture: #PAIN# by sathees pain, broken, death
Tags: Pain, Broken, Death]]>
Thu, 21 Jul 2016 03:00:03 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/ecbG9bNusRQ/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1762 pain, broken, death
Tags: Pain, Broken, Death]]>
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Article: Sadness and Recovery from Addiction  

For over 50 years now, standard treatments for recovery from addiction have included cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and 12-step approaches. The past couple of decades, though, have seen alternative treatment models emerge, largely because of the relatively low success rate of some of the most popular treatments available. Since there is no single road to addiction, standard treatments sometimes fail because they fail to address the needs of the particular individual, or the reasons why they have sought their own private escape, through drugs. Addiction can arise from a variety of causes, according to recent research. Contributing causes include genetic factors, having a mental illness, abuse, etc.

Alternative therapies that are currently being used successfully in many top rehabilitation centers across the globe include yoga and mindfulness meditation (which focus on keeping the individual’s mind ‘in the here and now’, encouraging them to feel and ‘ride through’ their cravings instead of succumbing to a ‘higher power’ for help or trying to push their desires away). Horticultural therapy and art therapy, too, have garnered their fair share of success; the former because of its strong mindfulness component and the latter because of its ability to embrace an addict’s ambivalent feelings about quitting drugs. Art therapy is an important component of motivational interviewing, which seeks to promote reliance on the self to overcome addiction by finding inspiring reasons to quit.

A person who is addicted to drugs has many positive things to look forward to when they are drug-free. These include mending bridges with family and friends who may feel let down, finding one’s place in one’s profession once again and having he chance to do what ignites one’s passion, and enjoying a sense of greater physical and mental wellness. Motivational interviewing through art therapy, however, provides the recovering person with the chance to express their sadness. It is unrealistic to think that there is nothing an addict will miss when they are no longer using and they should have a chance to recognize and express their ambivalent feelings. Because art is so symbolic, it permits many interpretations and through their work (and with an aid of a trained therapist), the person in recovery can talk about why using drugs fulfilled them, without feeling like they are being judged, blamed or criticized.

What is there to feel sad about when one quits drug use? Addicts in recovery may miss the group of friends they used to use with, or a person they were romantically involved with; they may miss the high, the feeling of escape, the elation of avoiding responsibility. The individual should be allowed to express their grief about quitting drugs. Like all other grief, theirs travels through different stages (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance). Note that depression (feeling intensely sad, feeling hopeless or without the motivation to do things one used to love) is an undeniable part of the recovery process. We should never disenfranchise someone of the right to grieve, yet many recovery therapies fail because they seek to do just that. Families and friends should be sensitive to this issue and should not force the individual to see only the positive side of recovery.

Sadness should be acknowledged and heard, largely because for many drug users, it is a feeling of emptiness, loneliness or lack of self-worth that lead them to use drugs in the first place. Families supporting a loved one through recovery can help their loved one by also undergoing therapy/counselling. When a loved one is struggling, the last thing they need is to be nagged, criticized or blamed, yet family members, too, should refrain from blaming themselves. Rather, any weaknesses in the family’s manner of communication, poor conflict resolution techniques etc. should be identified and addressed, with family members always looking ahead towards the common goal – helping the person in recovery and every other member in the family achieve greater health and wellbeing. During counselling, family members, too, should be encouraged to express their sadness. Many individuals harbour guilt because they feel they could have done more for their loved one, yet in the end, the causes of addiction are too profound and complex to identify so that everyone should work on improving what they can, accepting themselves and their loved one just as they are – with their sadness, anger, and disappointment, but also with their dreams, their hope and their love, which always remains, regardless of the vicissitudes faced.

 

- Article from Gemma Galway 


Tags: Recovery, Drug, Sadness, Gemma Galway]]>
Fri, 15 Jul 2016 09:36:08 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/AP3Ex0QBZ8k/sad_article.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_article.php?id=6  

For over 50 years now, standard treatments for recovery from addiction have included cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) and 12-step approaches. The past couple of decades, though, have seen alternative treatment models emerge, largely because of the relatively low success rate of some of the most popular treatments available. Since there is no single road to addiction, standard treatments sometimes fail because they fail to address the needs of the particular individual, or the reasons why they have sought their own private escape, through drugs. Addiction can arise from a variety of causes, according to recent research. Contributing causes include genetic factors, having a mental illness, abuse, etc.

Alternative therapies that are currently being used successfully in many top rehabilitation centers across the globe include yoga and mindfulness meditation (which focus on keeping the individual’s mind ‘in the here and now’, encouraging them to feel and ‘ride through’ their cravings instead of succumbing to a ‘higher power’ for help or trying to push their desires away). Horticultural therapy and art therapy, too, have garnered their fair share of success; the former because of its strong mindfulness component and the latter because of its ability to embrace an addict’s ambivalent feelings about quitting drugs. Art therapy is an important component of motivational interviewing, which seeks to promote reliance on the self to overcome addiction by finding inspiring reasons to quit.

A person who is addicted to drugs has many positive things to look forward to when they are drug-free. These include mending bridges with family and friends who may feel let down, finding one’s place in one’s profession once again and having he chance to do what ignites one’s passion, and enjoying a sense of greater physical and mental wellness. Motivational interviewing through art therapy, however, provides the recovering person with the chance to express their sadness. It is unrealistic to think that there is nothing an addict will miss when they are no longer using and they should have a chance to recognize and express their ambivalent feelings. Because art is so symbolic, it permits many interpretations and through their work (and with an aid of a trained therapist), the person in recovery can talk about why using drugs fulfilled them, without feeling like they are being judged, blamed or criticized.

What is there to feel sad about when one quits drug use? Addicts in recovery may miss the group of friends they used to use with, or a person they were romantically involved with; they may miss the high, the feeling of escape, the elation of avoiding responsibility. The individual should be allowed to express their grief about quitting drugs. Like all other grief, theirs travels through different stages (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance). Note that depression (feeling intensely sad, feeling hopeless or without the motivation to do things one used to love) is an undeniable part of the recovery process. We should never disenfranchise someone of the right to grieve, yet many recovery therapies fail because they seek to do just that. Families and friends should be sensitive to this issue and should not force the individual to see only the positive side of recovery.

Sadness should be acknowledged and heard, largely because for many drug users, it is a feeling of emptiness, loneliness or lack of self-worth that lead them to use drugs in the first place. Families supporting a loved one through recovery can help their loved one by also undergoing therapy/counselling. When a loved one is struggling, the last thing they need is to be nagged, criticized or blamed, yet family members, too, should refrain from blaming themselves. Rather, any weaknesses in the family’s manner of communication, poor conflict resolution techniques etc. should be identified and addressed, with family members always looking ahead towards the common goal – helping the person in recovery and every other member in the family achieve greater health and wellbeing. During counselling, family members, too, should be encouraged to express their sadness. Many individuals harbour guilt because they feel they could have done more for their loved one, yet in the end, the causes of addiction are too profound and complex to identify so that everyone should work on improving what they can, accepting themselves and their loved one just as they are – with their sadness, anger, and disappointment, but also with their dreams, their hope and their love, which always remains, regardless of the vicissitudes faced.

 

- Article from Gemma Galway 


Tags: Recovery, Drug, Sadness, Gemma Galway]]>
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Article: The Cathartic Nature of Sad Music

Popular music tends to fall into two wide (and generalised) categories): it is either the kind of music you want to dance to, and listen to when you are partying with your friends or, it is soulful and heart-breaking ballads that make you want to think, reminisce about loves that you have lost, and have a good cry.

There is nothing wrong with crying when listening to sad music: in fact, it is a common and natural response. What you may not realise however is that crying in these circumstances can actually be cathartic, helping to stabilise your emotions and, ultimately release hormones that make you feel happier and more well-balanced. This is supported by research from a study into our complicated emotional responses to sad music, conducted by researchers at the Free University of Berlin in Germany. They interviewed 772 music lovers from around the world and found that rather than making them feel exclusively sad, listening to sad music also made them feel nostalgic, tender and peaceful.  The researchers concluded that “For many individuals, listening to sad music can actually lead to beneficial emotional effects…  “Music-evoked sadness can be appreciated not only as an aesthetic, abstract reward, but [it] also plays a role in well-being, by providing consolation as well as regulating negative moods and emotions.”

The Mood of the Audience

It is true that people tend to listen to sad music when they are feeling sad themselves. However, that doesn’t mean that listening to those designated ‘sad songs’ will make them sadder. In fact, it may help to regulate your mood, put your own sad emotions back into perspective and, ultimately, you may find that you get to the end of your favourite sad album feeling happier, more calm, and generally in a much better mood.  Thus the intended emotions depicted in the song are not necessarily reflected in the mood of their audience.

It is no coincidence that many of the best musicians, composers and song writers are no strangers to sadness themselves: whether they have suffered from the personal tragedy of loss, or feel a sense of wider sadness in the world (caused by hyper-sensitivity, depression, or mental illness) many musical artists will report that they understand sadness and pain. Many musical performers also succumb to the hell and subsequent sadness of alcoholism and substance abuse, which is probably why they have such a natural affinity with sadness, and why it is a common theme in their work. It is widely reported that writing about sad experiences can be cathartic. In fact, individuals that indulge in memoir writing and keeping a diary are found to be happier overall than individuals who don’t write down their thoughts and feelings and ‘writing therapy’ is a widely acknowledged and very effective treatment for individuals suffering from depression, anxiety, or overcoming substance abuse problems. Therefore it could well be that for the artists involved, writing their sad songs is actually a cathartic act, designed to help them to overcome their sad and negative emotions and break through to a place that is healthier and happier.

An Important Form of Self-Expression

For adolescents and adults experiencing emotional or mental health disconnections, sad music can be appealing because it provides a way of verbalising emotions they are experiencing but simply don’t have  the vocabulary to express themselves. This is also common as a way of self-expression amongst teenager: choosing to listen to sad or angry music (for example) as a way of expressing, in a non-verbal way, the way that they feel towards their parents, their peers, or the world in general. However that doesn’t mean that those individuals are feeling sad or angry: by expressing those emotions through their musical choices, they are often able to relieve themselves of their stress and tension, meaning that they end their listening experience feeling calm, heard, understood and under control

No matter what your reason for choosing to listen to a sad tune or two, there is nothing more cathartic than listening to a truly sad song, so why not turn on your stereo and listen to some of your favourites. However, don’t be surprised if you find yourself feeling happy and calm, and not sad at all, at the end of your session. 

 

- Article from Gemma Galway 


Tags: Music, Sad Music, Gemma Galway]]>
Mon, 11 Jul 2016 03:41:46 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/3902LYKk_DU/sad_article.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_article.php?id=5

Popular music tends to fall into two wide (and generalised) categories): it is either the kind of music you want to dance to, and listen to when you are partying with your friends or, it is soulful and heart-breaking ballads that make you want to think, reminisce about loves that you have lost, and have a good cry.

There is nothing wrong with crying when listening to sad music: in fact, it is a common and natural response. What you may not realise however is that crying in these circumstances can actually be cathartic, helping to stabilise your emotions and, ultimately release hormones that make you feel happier and more well-balanced. This is supported by research from a study into our complicated emotional responses to sad music, conducted by researchers at the Free University of Berlin in Germany. They interviewed 772 music lovers from around the world and found that rather than making them feel exclusively sad, listening to sad music also made them feel nostalgic, tender and peaceful.  The researchers concluded that “For many individuals, listening to sad music can actually lead to beneficial emotional effects…  “Music-evoked sadness can be appreciated not only as an aesthetic, abstract reward, but [it] also plays a role in well-being, by providing consolation as well as regulating negative moods and emotions.”

The Mood of the Audience

It is true that people tend to listen to sad music when they are feeling sad themselves. However, that doesn’t mean that listening to those designated ‘sad songs’ will make them sadder. In fact, it may help to regulate your mood, put your own sad emotions back into perspective and, ultimately, you may find that you get to the end of your favourite sad album feeling happier, more calm, and generally in a much better mood.  Thus the intended emotions depicted in the song are not necessarily reflected in the mood of their audience.

It is no coincidence that many of the best musicians, composers and song writers are no strangers to sadness themselves: whether they have suffered from the personal tragedy of loss, or feel a sense of wider sadness in the world (caused by hyper-sensitivity, depression, or mental illness) many musical artists will report that they understand sadness and pain. Many musical performers also succumb to the hell and subsequent sadness of alcoholism and substance abuse, which is probably why they have such a natural affinity with sadness, and why it is a common theme in their work. It is widely reported that writing about sad experiences can be cathartic. In fact, individuals that indulge in memoir writing and keeping a diary are found to be happier overall than individuals who don’t write down their thoughts and feelings and ‘writing therapy’ is a widely acknowledged and very effective treatment for individuals suffering from depression, anxiety, or overcoming substance abuse problems. Therefore it could well be that for the artists involved, writing their sad songs is actually a cathartic act, designed to help them to overcome their sad and negative emotions and break through to a place that is healthier and happier.

An Important Form of Self-Expression

For adolescents and adults experiencing emotional or mental health disconnections, sad music can be appealing because it provides a way of verbalising emotions they are experiencing but simply don’t have  the vocabulary to express themselves. This is also common as a way of self-expression amongst teenager: choosing to listen to sad or angry music (for example) as a way of expressing, in a non-verbal way, the way that they feel towards their parents, their peers, or the world in general. However that doesn’t mean that those individuals are feeling sad or angry: by expressing those emotions through their musical choices, they are often able to relieve themselves of their stress and tension, meaning that they end their listening experience feeling calm, heard, understood and under control

No matter what your reason for choosing to listen to a sad tune or two, there is nothing more cathartic than listening to a truly sad song, so why not turn on your stereo and listen to some of your favourites. However, don’t be surprised if you find yourself feeling happy and calm, and not sad at all, at the end of your session. 

 

- Article from Gemma Galway 


Tags: Music, Sad Music, Gemma Galway]]>
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Picture: how hard it is to hold on to by alone in tears alone, tears, missing, isolated, crying, lonely, tired, broken
Tags: Alone, Tears, Missing, Isolated, Crying, Lonely, Tired, Broken]]>
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Tags: Alone, Tears, Missing, Isolated, Crying, Lonely, Tired, Broken]]>
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Picture: The Killing by Kaitlin pills, death, depression
Tags: Pills, Death, Depression]]>
Mon, 06 Jun 2016 01:00:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/wfXGd1Aj4Go/sad_picture.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_picture.php?id=1754 pills, death, depression
Tags: Pills, Death, Depression]]>
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Song: So Close by Evanescence
I've spent so much time throwing rocks at your window
That I never even knocked on the front door

I walk by statues never even made one chip
but if i could leave a mark on the monument of the heart
I just might lay myself down for a little more than I had the last day

Wait a time to spare these lies we tell ourselves
These days have come and gone
But this time is sweeter than honey
Tags: Evanescence, Longing, Unloved]]>
Thu, 13 Nov 2014 23:36:33 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/XnW0apgqaZI/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=237
I've spent so much time throwing rocks at your window
That I never even knocked on the front door

I walk by statues never even made one chip
but if i could leave a mark on the monument of the heart
I just might lay myself down for a little more than I had the last day

Wait a time to spare these lies we tell ourselves
These days have come and gone
But this time is sweeter than honey
Tags: Evanescence, Longing, Unloved]]>
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Video: The Divorce

Tags: Love, Divorce, Breakup, Hurt]]>
Mon, 10 Nov 2014 10:38:19 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/5ae2iaxdc08/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=75

Tags: Love, Divorce, Breakup, Hurt]]>
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Video: A life story

Tags: Life, Love, Death, Animal]]>
Fri, 31 Oct 2014 10:18:04 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/RBSFCrhj2Z0/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=74

Tags: Life, Love, Death, Animal]]>
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Video: A Blind Father and His Daughter - Short Sad Story

Tags: Blind, Father, Family]]>
Fri, 31 Oct 2014 10:08:58 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/lu8vMCaZBbU/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=73

Tags: Blind, Father, Family]]>
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Video: My Shoes
And most importantly, Be Happy With What You Have.

Tags: Shoes, Unhappy, Unloved]]>
Fri, 31 Oct 2014 10:04:19 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/ihCpuvaWmSM/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=72
And most importantly, Be Happy With What You Have.

Tags: Shoes, Unhappy, Unloved]]>
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Song: Heartless by Kriss Allen
In the night
I hear 'em talk
Coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless

How could you be so
Cold as the winter wind when it breeze yo
Just remember that you talkin' to me though
You know need to watch the way you talkin' to me you know
I mean after all the things that we've been through
I mean after all the things we got into
And yo I know of some things that you ain't told me
And yo I did some things but that's the old me
And now you wanna get me back and you gon' show me
So you walk around like you don't know me
You got a new friend
Well I got homies
But in the end it's still so lonely

In the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless

How could be so Dr. Evil
You're bringin' out a side of me that I dont know
I decided we weren't gon' speak so
Why we up 3 A.M. on the phone
Why does she be so mad at me fo'
Homie I dont know she's hot and cold
I won't stop I won't mess my groove up
'Cause I already know how this thing go
You run and tell your friends that you're leaving me
They say that they don't see what you see in me
You wait a couple months then you gon' see
You'll never find nobody better than
Me

'Cause in the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless

Talk and talk and talk and talk
Baby let's just knock it off
They don't know what we been through
They don't know 'bout me and you
So I got something new to see
And you just gon' keep hatin' me
And we just gon' be enemies
I know you can't believe
I could just leave it wrong
And you can't make it right
I'm gon' take off tonight
Into the night

In the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far far far he lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless
Oh

'Cause in the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
Tags: Kriss Allen, Heartbroken, Hurt, Rock]]>
Mon, 20 Oct 2014 08:39:39 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/r6Ky2E6T_ow/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=236
In the night
I hear 'em talk
Coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless

How could you be so
Cold as the winter wind when it breeze yo
Just remember that you talkin' to me though
You know need to watch the way you talkin' to me you know
I mean after all the things that we've been through
I mean after all the things we got into
And yo I know of some things that you ain't told me
And yo I did some things but that's the old me
And now you wanna get me back and you gon' show me
So you walk around like you don't know me
You got a new friend
Well I got homies
But in the end it's still so lonely

In the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless

How could be so Dr. Evil
You're bringin' out a side of me that I dont know
I decided we weren't gon' speak so
Why we up 3 A.M. on the phone
Why does she be so mad at me fo'
Homie I dont know she's hot and cold
I won't stop I won't mess my groove up
'Cause I already know how this thing go
You run and tell your friends that you're leaving me
They say that they don't see what you see in me
You wait a couple months then you gon' see
You'll never find nobody better than
Me

'Cause in the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless

Talk and talk and talk and talk
Baby let's just knock it off
They don't know what we been through
They don't know 'bout me and you
So I got something new to see
And you just gon' keep hatin' me
And we just gon' be enemies
I know you can't believe
I could just leave it wrong
And you can't make it right
I'm gon' take off tonight
Into the night

In the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far far far he lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless
Oh
How could you be so heartless
Oh

'Cause in the night
I hear 'em talk
The coldest story ever told
Somewhere far along this road
He lost his soul
To a woman so heartless
Tags: Kriss Allen, Heartbroken, Hurt, Rock]]>
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Movie: If I Stay by R.J. Cutler
Mia Hall thought the hardest decision she would ever face would be whether to pursue her musical dreams at Juilliard or follow a different path to be with the love of her life, Adam. But what should have been a carefree family drive changes everything in an instant, and now her own life hangs in the balance. Caught between life and death for one revealing day, Mia has only one decision left, which will not only decide her future but her ultimate fate.

Tags: Accident, Coma]]>
Wed, 08 Oct 2014 06:15:52 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/bMVo7Zrafsw/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=136
Mia Hall thought the hardest decision she would ever face would be whether to pursue her musical dreams at Juilliard or follow a different path to be with the love of her life, Adam. But what should have been a carefree family drive changes everything in an instant, and now her own life hangs in the balance. Caught between life and death for one revealing day, Mia has only one decision left, which will not only decide her future but her ultimate fate.

Tags: Accident, Coma]]>
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Song: Dreaming With a Broken Heart by John Mayer
When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part
You roll outta bed and down on your knees
And for a moment, you can hardly breathe

Wondering was she really here?
Is she standing in my room?
No, she's not 'cause she's gone
Gone, gone, gone, gone

When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The giving up is the hardest part
She takes you in with her crying eyes
Then all at once, you have to say goodbye

Wondering could you stay, my love?
Will you wake up by my side?
No, she can't 'cause she's gone
Gone, gone, gone, gone

Now do I have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
Do I have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
And do I have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
Do I have to fall asleep with roses in my
Roses in my hand?

And would you get them if I did?
No, you won't 'cause you're gone
Gone, gone, gone, gone

When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part
Tags: John Mayer, Broken, Hurt, Heart]]>
Sun, 21 Sep 2014 08:05:32 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/kVoGGmAFMFI/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=235
When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part
You roll outta bed and down on your knees
And for a moment, you can hardly breathe

Wondering was she really here?
Is she standing in my room?
No, she's not 'cause she's gone
Gone, gone, gone, gone

When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The giving up is the hardest part
She takes you in with her crying eyes
Then all at once, you have to say goodbye

Wondering could you stay, my love?
Will you wake up by my side?
No, she can't 'cause she's gone
Gone, gone, gone, gone

Now do I have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
Do I have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
And do I have to fall asleep with roses in my hand?
Do I have to fall asleep with roses in my
Roses in my hand?

And would you get them if I did?
No, you won't 'cause you're gone
Gone, gone, gone, gone

When you're dreaming with a broken heart
The waking up is the hardest part
Tags: John Mayer, Broken, Hurt, Heart]]>
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Video: The Little Girl In The Hallway

Tags: Child, Missing]]>
Thu, 18 Sep 2014 07:44:28 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/uinGwZ0hJcQ/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=71

Tags: Child, Missing]]>
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Video: *WARNING* This WILL make you cry.

Tags: Cry, Sadness, Pain]]>
Wed, 03 Sep 2014 20:19:57 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/eYmaBHR5nVA/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=70

Tags: Cry, Sadness, Pain]]>
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Video: South Park - Beautiful Sadness Raisins - Season 7, Episode 14

Tags: South Park, Alone]]>
Wed, 03 Sep 2014 20:14:53 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/ymlMGUh6DC4/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=69 Raisins - Season 7, Episode 14

Tags: South Park, Alone]]>
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Video: A heart touching story of a deaf girl.

Tags: Hearttouching, Sad, Anger]]>
Sun, 24 Aug 2014 21:38:51 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/H9_StxA2268/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=68

Tags: Hearttouching, Sad, Anger]]>
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Video: deepest part of your heart.

Tags: Heart, Teacher]]>
Sun, 24 Aug 2014 21:36:15 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/EeJEeh0I4-Y/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=67

Tags: Heart, Teacher]]>
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Movie: The Remains of the Day (1993) by James Ivory
A rule bound head butler's world of manners and decorum in the household he maintains is tested by the arrival of a housekeeper who falls in love with him in post-WWI Britain. The possibility of romance and his master's cultivation of ties with the Nazi cause challenge his carefully maintained veneer of servitude.

Tags: James Ivory, Drama, Romance]]>
Sun, 24 Aug 2014 21:20:52 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/fVcefZCdhuA/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=135
A rule bound head butler's world of manners and decorum in the household he maintains is tested by the arrival of a housekeeper who falls in love with him in post-WWI Britain. The possibility of romance and his master's cultivation of ties with the Nazi cause challenge his carefully maintained veneer of servitude.

Tags: James Ivory, Drama, Romance]]>
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Song: Dear John by Taylor Swift
Long were the nights when my days once revolved around you
Counting my footsteps praying the floor won't fall through again
And my mother accused me of losing my mind
But I swore I was fine

You paint me a blue sky and go back and turn it to rain
And I lived in your chess game, but you changed the rules everyday
Wondering which version of you I might get on the phone tonight
Well, I stopped picking up and this song is to let you know why

Dear John, I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way home
I should've known

Well, maybe it's me and my blind optimism to blame
Or maybe it's you and your sick need to give love then take it away
And you'll add my name to your long list of traitors who don't understand
And I'll look back and regret how I ignored when they said run as fast as you can

Dear John, I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way home

Dear John, I see it all now it was wrong
Don't you think nineteen's too young to be played by
Your dark twisted games when I loved you so
I should've known

You are an expert at sorry and keeping lines blurry
Never impressed by me acing your tests
All the girls that you've run dry have tired, lifeless eyes
'Cause you've burn them out

But I took your matches before fire could catch me
So don't look now
I'm shining like fireworks over
Your sad, empty town

Dear John, I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way home

I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think i was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress wrote you a song
You should've known

You should've known
Don't you think I was too young?
You should've known
Tags: Taylor Swift, Tears, Saddest]]>
Wed, 20 Aug 2014 22:30:15 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/-C8cBcypXKA/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=234
Long were the nights when my days once revolved around you
Counting my footsteps praying the floor won't fall through again
And my mother accused me of losing my mind
But I swore I was fine

You paint me a blue sky and go back and turn it to rain
And I lived in your chess game, but you changed the rules everyday
Wondering which version of you I might get on the phone tonight
Well, I stopped picking up and this song is to let you know why

Dear John, I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way home
I should've known

Well, maybe it's me and my blind optimism to blame
Or maybe it's you and your sick need to give love then take it away
And you'll add my name to your long list of traitors who don't understand
And I'll look back and regret how I ignored when they said run as fast as you can

Dear John, I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way home

Dear John, I see it all now it was wrong
Don't you think nineteen's too young to be played by
Your dark twisted games when I loved you so
I should've known

You are an expert at sorry and keeping lines blurry
Never impressed by me acing your tests
All the girls that you've run dry have tired, lifeless eyes
'Cause you've burn them out

But I took your matches before fire could catch me
So don't look now
I'm shining like fireworks over
Your sad, empty town

Dear John, I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think I was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress cried the whole way home

I see it all now that you're gone
Don't you think i was too young to be messed with?
The girl in the dress wrote you a song
You should've known

You should've known
Don't you think I was too young?
You should've known
Tags: Taylor Swift, Tears, Saddest]]>
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Song: Come In With The Rain by Taylor Swift
I could go back to every laugh,
But I don't wanna' go there anymore,
And I know all the steps up to your door,
But I don't wanna' go there anymore.

Talk to the wind, talk to the sky,
Talk to the man with the reasons why,
And let me know what you find.

I’ll leave my window open,
‘Cause I’m too tired at night to call your name.
Just know I’m right here hopin’,
That you’ll come in with the rain.

I could stand up and sing you a song,
But I don’t wanna’ have to go that far.
And I, I’ve got you down,
I know you by heart,
And you don’t even know where I start.

Talk to yourself, talk to the tears,
Talk to the man who put you here,
And don’t wait for the sky to clear.

I’ll leave my window open,
‘Cus I’m too tired at night to call your name.
Oh, just know I’m right here hopin’,
That you’ll come in with the rain.

I’ve watched you so long,
Screamed your name,
I don’t know what else I can say.

But I’ll leave my window open,
‘Cus I’m too tired at night for all these games.
Just know I’m right here hopin’,
That you’ll come in with the rain.

I could go back to every laugh,
But I don’t wanna’ go there anymore…
Tags: Taylor Swift, Sorrow, Breakup]]>
Wed, 20 Aug 2014 22:27:18 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/lMuaMHpEyzM/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=233
I could go back to every laugh,
But I don't wanna' go there anymore,
And I know all the steps up to your door,
But I don't wanna' go there anymore.

Talk to the wind, talk to the sky,
Talk to the man with the reasons why,
And let me know what you find.

I’ll leave my window open,
‘Cause I’m too tired at night to call your name.
Just know I’m right here hopin’,
That you’ll come in with the rain.

I could stand up and sing you a song,
But I don’t wanna’ have to go that far.
And I, I’ve got you down,
I know you by heart,
And you don’t even know where I start.

Talk to yourself, talk to the tears,
Talk to the man who put you here,
And don’t wait for the sky to clear.

I’ll leave my window open,
‘Cus I’m too tired at night to call your name.
Oh, just know I’m right here hopin’,
That you’ll come in with the rain.

I’ve watched you so long,
Screamed your name,
I don’t know what else I can say.

But I’ll leave my window open,
‘Cus I’m too tired at night for all these games.
Just know I’m right here hopin’,
That you’ll come in with the rain.

I could go back to every laugh,
But I don’t wanna’ go there anymore…
Tags: Taylor Swift, Sorrow, Breakup]]>
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Movie: Children Underground (2001) by Edet Belzberg
One of the most astonishing and engaging cinematic works of the past decade, CHILDREN UNDERGROUND is a profoundly intimate and heart-wrenching drama about homeless children struggling for survival on the streets and in the subways of Bucharest, Romania.

Tags: Edet Belzberg, Documentary]]>
Wed, 20 Aug 2014 22:22:42 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/oflPw8gc7HY/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=134
One of the most astonishing and engaging cinematic works of the past decade, CHILDREN UNDERGROUND is a profoundly intimate and heart-wrenching drama about homeless children struggling for survival on the streets and in the subways of Bucharest, Romania.

Tags: Edet Belzberg, Documentary]]>
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Movie: Dogville (2003) by Lars Von Trier
Late one night, a beautiful and well-dressed young woman, Grace, arrives in the mountainous old mining town of Dogville as a fugitive; following the sound of gunshots in the distance which have been heard by Tom, the self-appointed moral spokesman for the town. Persuaded by Tom, the town agree to hide Grace, and in return she freely helps the locals. However, when the Sheriff from a neighbouring town posts a Missing notice, advertising a reward for revealing her whereabouts, the townsfolk require a better deal from Grace, in return for their silence; and when the Sheriff returns some weeks later with a Wanted poster, even though the citizens know her to be innocent of the false charges against her, the town's sense of goodness takes a sinister turn and the price of Grace's freedom becomes a workload and treatment akin to that of a slave. But Grace has a deadly secret that the townsfolk will eventually encounter.

Tags: Lars Von Trier, Drama]]>
Wed, 20 Aug 2014 22:19:30 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/S4qf6oVGu4U/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=133
Late one night, a beautiful and well-dressed young woman, Grace, arrives in the mountainous old mining town of Dogville as a fugitive; following the sound of gunshots in the distance which have been heard by Tom, the self-appointed moral spokesman for the town. Persuaded by Tom, the town agree to hide Grace, and in return she freely helps the locals. However, when the Sheriff from a neighbouring town posts a Missing notice, advertising a reward for revealing her whereabouts, the townsfolk require a better deal from Grace, in return for their silence; and when the Sheriff returns some weeks later with a Wanted poster, even though the citizens know her to be innocent of the false charges against her, the town's sense of goodness takes a sinister turn and the price of Grace's freedom becomes a workload and treatment akin to that of a slave. But Grace has a deadly secret that the townsfolk will eventually encounter.

Tags: Lars Von Trier, Drama]]>
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Video: Sad Emotional Love Story With Sad Music

Tags: Sadness, Cry, Death]]>
Mon, 11 Aug 2014 11:01:04 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/ANX7uMBkOLM/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=66

Tags: Sadness, Cry, Death]]>
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Video: Heart Touching Video Father and son are sitting on a bench. Suddenly a sparrow lands across them.
You don't need to be looking for some deep ideas of the video. You either feel the message deep within yourself or you don't.

Tags: Emotional, Cry, Father, Son]]>
Mon, 11 Aug 2014 10:49:10 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/9IbgNJX6WkA/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=65 Father and son are sitting on a bench. Suddenly a sparrow lands across them.
You don't need to be looking for some deep ideas of the video. You either feel the message deep within yourself or you don't.

Tags: Emotional, Cry, Father, Son]]>
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Movie: Blue Is the Warmest Color (2013) by Abdellatif Kechiche
Adèle is a high school student who is beginning to explore herself as a woman. She dates men but finds no satisfaction with them sexually, and is rejected by a female friend who she does desire. She dreams of something more. She meets Emma who is a free spirited girl whom Adèle's friends reject due to her sexuality, and by association most begin to reject Adèle. Her relationship with Emma grows into more than just friends as she is the only person with whom she can express herself openly. Together, Adèle and Emma explore social acceptance, sexuality, and the emotional spectrum of their maturing relationship.

Tags: Abdellatif Kechiche, Drama]]>
Sat, 09 Aug 2014 21:53:43 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/2rYuPvKJUhA/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=132
Adèle is a high school student who is beginning to explore herself as a woman. She dates men but finds no satisfaction with them sexually, and is rejected by a female friend who she does desire. She dreams of something more. She meets Emma who is a free spirited girl whom Adèle's friends reject due to her sexuality, and by association most begin to reject Adèle. Her relationship with Emma grows into more than just friends as she is the only person with whom she can express herself openly. Together, Adèle and Emma explore social acceptance, sexuality, and the emotional spectrum of their maturing relationship.

Tags: Abdellatif Kechiche, Drama]]>
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Movie: The Curious Case of Benjamin Button by David Fincher
On the day that Hurricane Katrina hits New Orleans, elderly Daisy Williams (nee Fuller) is on her deathbed in a New Orleans hospital. At her side is her adult daughter, Caroline. Daisy asks Caroline to read to her aloud the diary of Daisy's lifelong friend, Benjamin Button. Benjamin's diary recounts his entire extraordinary life, the primary unusual aspect of which was his aging backwards, being diagnosed with several aging diseases at birth and thus given little chance of survival, but who does survive and gets younger with time. Abandoned by his biological father, Thomas Button, after Benjamin's biological mother died in childbirth, Benjamin was raised by Queenie, a black woman and caregiver at a seniors home. Daisy's grandmother was a resident at that home, which is where she first met Benjamin. Although separated through the years, Daisy and Benjamin remain in contact throughout their lives, reconnecting in their forties when in age they finally match up. Some of the revelations ...

Tags: David Fincher, Romance, Drama, Fantasy]]>
Sat, 09 Aug 2014 21:51:37 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/eZs8nvacXGU/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=131
On the day that Hurricane Katrina hits New Orleans, elderly Daisy Williams (nee Fuller) is on her deathbed in a New Orleans hospital. At her side is her adult daughter, Caroline. Daisy asks Caroline to read to her aloud the diary of Daisy's lifelong friend, Benjamin Button. Benjamin's diary recounts his entire extraordinary life, the primary unusual aspect of which was his aging backwards, being diagnosed with several aging diseases at birth and thus given little chance of survival, but who does survive and gets younger with time. Abandoned by his biological father, Thomas Button, after Benjamin's biological mother died in childbirth, Benjamin was raised by Queenie, a black woman and caregiver at a seniors home. Daisy's grandmother was a resident at that home, which is where she first met Benjamin. Although separated through the years, Daisy and Benjamin remain in contact throughout their lives, reconnecting in their forties when in age they finally match up. Some of the revelations ...

Tags: David Fincher, Romance, Drama, Fantasy]]>
http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=131
Song: You're Not Sorry by Taylor Swift
All this time I was wasting,
Hoping you would come around
I've been giving out chances every time
And all you do is let me down
And it's taken me this long
Baby but I figured you out
And you're thinking we'll be fine again,
But not this time around

You don't have to call anymore
I won't pick up the phone
This is the last straw
Don't wanna hurt anymore
And you can tell me that you're sorry
But I don't believe you baby
Like I did before
You're not sorry, no no oh

Looking so innocent,
I might believe you if I didn't know
Could've loved you all my life
If you hadn't left me waiting in the cold
And you got your share of secrets
And I'm tired of being last to know
And now you're asking me to listen
Cause it's worked each time before

But you don't have to call anymore
I won't pick up the phone
This is the last straw
Don't wanna hurt anymore
And you can tell me that you're sorry
But I don't believe you baby
Like I did before
You're not sorry, no no, oh

You're not sorry no no oh

You had me crying for you honey
And it never would've gone away, no
You used to shine so bright
But I watched all of it fade

So you don't have to call anymore
I won't pick up the phone
This is the last straw
There's nothing left to beg for
And you can tell me that you're sorry
But I don't believe you baby
Like I did before
You're not sorry, no no oh

You're not sorry, no no oh
Tags: Taylor Swift, Sorrow, Sorry]]>
Wed, 23 Jul 2014 22:07:35 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/pDZIcM_cHnc/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=232
All this time I was wasting,
Hoping you would come around
I've been giving out chances every time
And all you do is let me down
And it's taken me this long
Baby but I figured you out
And you're thinking we'll be fine again,
But not this time around

You don't have to call anymore
I won't pick up the phone
This is the last straw
Don't wanna hurt anymore
And you can tell me that you're sorry
But I don't believe you baby
Like I did before
You're not sorry, no no oh

Looking so innocent,
I might believe you if I didn't know
Could've loved you all my life
If you hadn't left me waiting in the cold
And you got your share of secrets
And I'm tired of being last to know
And now you're asking me to listen
Cause it's worked each time before

But you don't have to call anymore
I won't pick up the phone
This is the last straw
Don't wanna hurt anymore
And you can tell me that you're sorry
But I don't believe you baby
Like I did before
You're not sorry, no no, oh

You're not sorry no no oh

You had me crying for you honey
And it never would've gone away, no
You used to shine so bright
But I watched all of it fade

So you don't have to call anymore
I won't pick up the phone
This is the last straw
There's nothing left to beg for
And you can tell me that you're sorry
But I don't believe you baby
Like I did before
You're not sorry, no no oh

You're not sorry, no no oh
Tags: Taylor Swift, Sorrow, Sorry]]>
http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=232
Song: Still Loving You by Scorpions
Time, it needs time
To win back your love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, only love
Can bring back your love someday
I will be there, I will be there

I'll fight, babe, I'll fight
To win back your love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, only love
Can break down the wall someday
I will be there, I will be there

If we'd go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Your pride has built a wall, so strong
That I can't get through
Is there really no chance
To start once again
I'm loving you

Try, baby try
To trust in my love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, our love
Just shouldn't be thrown away
I will be there, I will be there

If we'd go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Your pride has built a wall, so strong
That I can't get through
Is there really no chance
To start once again

If we'd go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Yes, I've hurt your pride, and I know
What you've been through
You should give me a chance
This can't be the end
I'm still loving you
I'm still loving you, I need your love
I'm still loving you
Tags: Scorpions, Love, Pride]]>
Wed, 23 Jul 2014 22:05:30 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/tCXTTC2ejxI/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=231
Time, it needs time
To win back your love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, only love
Can bring back your love someday
I will be there, I will be there

I'll fight, babe, I'll fight
To win back your love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, only love
Can break down the wall someday
I will be there, I will be there

If we'd go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Your pride has built a wall, so strong
That I can't get through
Is there really no chance
To start once again
I'm loving you

Try, baby try
To trust in my love again
I will be there, I will be there
Love, our love
Just shouldn't be thrown away
I will be there, I will be there

If we'd go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Your pride has built a wall, so strong
That I can't get through
Is there really no chance
To start once again

If we'd go again
All the way from the start
I would try to change
The things that killed our love
Yes, I've hurt your pride, and I know
What you've been through
You should give me a chance
This can't be the end
I'm still loving you
I'm still loving you, I need your love
I'm still loving you
Tags: Scorpions, Love, Pride]]>
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Movie: Sunshine (1999) by Istv&aacute;n Szab&oacute;
The film follows a Jewish family living in Hungary through three generations, rising from humble beginnings to positions of wealth and power in the crumbling Austro-Hungarian Empire. The patriarch becomes a prominent judge but is torn when his government sanctions anti-Jewish persecutions. His son converts to Christianity to advance his career as a champion fencer and Olympic hero, but is caught up in the Holocaust. Finally, the grandson, after surviving war, revolution, loss and betrayal, realizes that his ultimate allegiance must be to himself and his heritage.

Tags: István Szabó, Drama, Romance]]>
Tue, 22 Jul 2014 21:55:50 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/M-Lo6JHcIRI/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=130
The film follows a Jewish family living in Hungary through three generations, rising from humble beginnings to positions of wealth and power in the crumbling Austro-Hungarian Empire. The patriarch becomes a prominent judge but is torn when his government sanctions anti-Jewish persecutions. His son converts to Christianity to advance his career as a champion fencer and Olympic hero, but is caught up in the Holocaust. Finally, the grandson, after surviving war, revolution, loss and betrayal, realizes that his ultimate allegiance must be to himself and his heritage.

Tags: István Szabó, Drama, Romance]]>
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Movie: The Duchess (2008) by Saul Dibb
Georgiana Spencer became Duchess of Devonshire on her marriage to the Duke in 1774, at the height of the Georgian period, a period of fashion, decadence, and political change. Spirited and adored by the public at large she quickly found her marriage to be a disappointment, defined by her duty to produce a male heir and the Duke's philandering and callous indifference to her. She befriends Lady Bess but finds she is once again betrayed by her husband who wields his power with the three eventually living uncomfortably together. Against this background, and with the pressures of an unfaithful husband, strict social pressures and constant public scrutiny, Georgiana falls passionately in love with Charles Grey, a rising young Whig politician. However, despite his ongoing liaison with Lady Bess, the Duke refuses to allow her to continue the affair and threatens to take her children from her.

Tags: Saul Dibb, Biography, Drama, History]]>
Tue, 22 Jul 2014 21:36:47 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/VEaqnhN_m6E/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=129
Georgiana Spencer became Duchess of Devonshire on her marriage to the Duke in 1774, at the height of the Georgian period, a period of fashion, decadence, and political change. Spirited and adored by the public at large she quickly found her marriage to be a disappointment, defined by her duty to produce a male heir and the Duke's philandering and callous indifference to her. She befriends Lady Bess but finds she is once again betrayed by her husband who wields his power with the three eventually living uncomfortably together. Against this background, and with the pressures of an unfaithful husband, strict social pressures and constant public scrutiny, Georgiana falls passionately in love with Charles Grey, a rising young Whig politician. However, despite his ongoing liaison with Lady Bess, the Duke refuses to allow her to continue the affair and threatens to take her children from her.

Tags: Saul Dibb, Biography, Drama, History]]>
http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=129
Movie: Australia (2008) by Baz Luhrmann
In northern Australia at the beginning of World War II, an English aristocrat inherits a cattle station the size of Maryland. When English cattle barons plot to take her land, she reluctantly joins forces with a rough-hewn stock-man to drive 2,000 head of cattle across hundreds of miles of the country's most unforgiving land, only to still face the bombing of Darwin, Australia, by the Japanese forces that had attacked Pearl Harbor only months earlier.

Tags: Baz Luhrmann, History, Drama]]>
Sun, 20 Jul 2014 22:37:06 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/-qDtDlhV7PI/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=128
In northern Australia at the beginning of World War II, an English aristocrat inherits a cattle station the size of Maryland. When English cattle barons plot to take her land, she reluctantly joins forces with a rough-hewn stock-man to drive 2,000 head of cattle across hundreds of miles of the country's most unforgiving land, only to still face the bombing of Darwin, Australia, by the Japanese forces that had attacked Pearl Harbor only months earlier.

Tags: Baz Luhrmann, History, Drama]]>
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Song: All Of Me by John Legend
[Verse 1:]
What would I do without your smart mouth?
Drawing me in, and you kicking me out
You've got my head spinning, no kidding, I can't pin you down
What's going on in that beautiful mind
I'm on your magical mystery ride
And I'm so dizzy, don't know what hit me, but I'll be alright

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, ohoh

[Verse 2:]
How many times do I have to tell you
Even when you're crying you're beautiful too
The world is beating you down, I'm around through every mood
You're my downfall, you're my muse
My worst distraction, my rhythm and blues
I can't stop singing, it's ringing, in my head for you

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, ohoh

[Bridge:]
Give me all of you
Cards on the table, we're both showing hearts
Risking it all, though it's hard

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you

I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, ohoh
Tags: John Legend, Love, Soft]]>
Sat, 12 Jul 2014 21:19:56 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/ckT6NenSBBY/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=230
[Verse 1:]
What would I do without your smart mouth?
Drawing me in, and you kicking me out
You've got my head spinning, no kidding, I can't pin you down
What's going on in that beautiful mind
I'm on your magical mystery ride
And I'm so dizzy, don't know what hit me, but I'll be alright

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, ohoh

[Verse 2:]
How many times do I have to tell you
Even when you're crying you're beautiful too
The world is beating you down, I'm around through every mood
You're my downfall, you're my muse
My worst distraction, my rhythm and blues
I can't stop singing, it's ringing, in my head for you

[Pre-Chorus:]
My head's under water
But I'm breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of my mind

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, ohoh

[Bridge:]
Give me all of you
Cards on the table, we're both showing hearts
Risking it all, though it's hard

[Chorus:]
'Cause all of me
Loves all of you
Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Give your all to me
I'll give my all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning
'Cause I give you all of me
And you give me all of you

I give you all of me
And you give me all of you, ohoh
Tags: John Legend, Love, Soft]]>
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Movie: Her (2013) by Spike Jonze
Theodore is a lonely man in the final stages of his divorce. When he's not working as a letter writer, his down time is spent playing video games and occasionally hanging out with friends. He decides to purchase the new OS1, which is advertised as the world's first artificially intelligent operating system, "It's not just an operating system, it's a consciousness," the ad states. Theodore quickly finds himself drawn in with Samantha, the voice behind his OS1. As they start spending time together they grow closer and closer and eventually find themselves in love. Having fallen in love with his OS, Theodore finds himself dealing with feelings of both great joy and doubt. As an OS, Samantha has powerful intelligence that she uses to help Theodore in ways others hadn't, but how does she help him deal with his inner conflict of being in love with an OS?

Tags: Spike Jonze, Emotional, Alone]]>
Thu, 10 Jul 2014 20:43:21 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/hNep4DHwZU8/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=127
Theodore is a lonely man in the final stages of his divorce. When he's not working as a letter writer, his down time is spent playing video games and occasionally hanging out with friends. He decides to purchase the new OS1, which is advertised as the world's first artificially intelligent operating system, "It's not just an operating system, it's a consciousness," the ad states. Theodore quickly finds himself drawn in with Samantha, the voice behind his OS1. As they start spending time together they grow closer and closer and eventually find themselves in love. Having fallen in love with his OS, Theodore finds himself dealing with feelings of both great joy and doubt. As an OS, Samantha has powerful intelligence that she uses to help Theodore in ways others hadn't, but how does she help him deal with his inner conflict of being in love with an OS?

Tags: Spike Jonze, Emotional, Alone]]>
http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=127
Movie: Dead Snow (2009) by Tommy Wirkola
Several friends take to the mountains and shack-up in the wilderness of back-of-beyond to enjoy a little R & R together, their peace is soon interrupted by a mysterious old man, warning them of a local curse that during the German occupation of the local area that these Nazi invaders were brutal and harsh in their methods of control. Telling of the legend of the villager's revolt that drove them up into the cold, dark mountains where they perished, that is until rumour of their return in the form of zombies, evil Nazi zombies.

Tags: Tommy Wirkola, Horror, Zombies]]>
Thu, 10 Jul 2014 20:32:40 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/bHZmvljHj3A/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=126
Several friends take to the mountains and shack-up in the wilderness of back-of-beyond to enjoy a little R & R together, their peace is soon interrupted by a mysterious old man, warning them of a local curse that during the German occupation of the local area that these Nazi invaders were brutal and harsh in their methods of control. Telling of the legend of the villager's revolt that drove them up into the cold, dark mountains where they perished, that is until rumour of their return in the form of zombies, evil Nazi zombies.

Tags: Tommy Wirkola, Horror, Zombies]]>
http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=126
Movie: Silver Linings Playbook (2012) by David O. Russell
Against medical advice and without the knowledge of her husband Pat Solatano Sr., caring Dolores Solatano discharges her adult son, Pat Solatano Jr., from a Maryland mental health institution after his minimum eight month court ordered stint. The condition of the release includes Pat Jr. moving back in with his parents in their Philadelphia home. Although Pat Jr.'s institutionalization was due to him beating up the lover of his wife Nikki, he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Nikki has since left him and has received a restraining order against him. Although he is on medication (which he doesn't take because of the way it makes him feel) and has mandatory therapy sessions, Pat Jr. feels like he can manage on the outside solely by healthy living and looking for the "silver linings" in his life. His goals are to get his old job back as a substitute teacher, but more importantly reunite with Nikki. He finds there are certain instances where he doesn't cope well, however no less so ...

Tags: Romance, Love, Separation, Struggle, David O. Russell]]>
Mon, 07 Jul 2014 21:37:15 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/NJj2Qg5FbTo/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=125
Against medical advice and without the knowledge of her husband Pat Solatano Sr., caring Dolores Solatano discharges her adult son, Pat Solatano Jr., from a Maryland mental health institution after his minimum eight month court ordered stint. The condition of the release includes Pat Jr. moving back in with his parents in their Philadelphia home. Although Pat Jr.'s institutionalization was due to him beating up the lover of his wife Nikki, he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Nikki has since left him and has received a restraining order against him. Although he is on medication (which he doesn't take because of the way it makes him feel) and has mandatory therapy sessions, Pat Jr. feels like he can manage on the outside solely by healthy living and looking for the "silver linings" in his life. His goals are to get his old job back as a substitute teacher, but more importantly reunite with Nikki. He finds there are certain instances where he doesn't cope well, however no less so ...

Tags: Romance, Love, Separation, Struggle, David O. Russell]]>
http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=125
Video: Hospital Window - Inspirational Video

Tags: Support, Inspirational, Hope]]>
Sun, 06 Jul 2014 21:35:31 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/vFXj-KdTAeA/sad_video.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_video.php?id=64

Tags: Support, Inspirational, Hope]]>
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Movie: About Time (I) (2013) by Richard Curtis
At the age of 21, Tim Lake (Domhnall Gleeson) discovers he can travel in time... The night after another unsatisfactory New Year party, Tim's father (Bill Nighy) tells his son that the men in his family have always had the ability to travel through time. Tim can't change history, but he can change what happens and has happened in his own life-so he decides to make his world a better place...by getting a girlfriend. Sadly, that turns out not to be as easy as you might think. Moving from the Cornwall coast to London to train as a lawyer, Tim finally meets the beautiful but insecure Mary (Rachel McAdams). They fall in love, then an unfortunate time-travel incident means he's never met her at all. So they meet for the first time again-and again-but finally, after a lot of cunning time-traveling, he wins her heart. Tim then uses his power to create the perfect romantic proposal, to save his wedding from the worst best-man speeches, to save his best friend from professional disaster and to ...

Tags: Richard Curtis, Love, Romance, Drama]]>
Thu, 03 Jul 2014 20:26:02 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/7gqYJOuEnQo/sad_movie.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=124
At the age of 21, Tim Lake (Domhnall Gleeson) discovers he can travel in time... The night after another unsatisfactory New Year party, Tim's father (Bill Nighy) tells his son that the men in his family have always had the ability to travel through time. Tim can't change history, but he can change what happens and has happened in his own life-so he decides to make his world a better place...by getting a girlfriend. Sadly, that turns out not to be as easy as you might think. Moving from the Cornwall coast to London to train as a lawyer, Tim finally meets the beautiful but insecure Mary (Rachel McAdams). They fall in love, then an unfortunate time-travel incident means he's never met her at all. So they meet for the first time again-and again-but finally, after a lot of cunning time-traveling, he wins her heart. Tim then uses his power to create the perfect romantic proposal, to save his wedding from the worst best-man speeches, to save his best friend from professional disaster and to ...

Tags: Richard Curtis, Love, Romance, Drama]]>
http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_movie.php?id=124
Song: Trouble Is by Backstreet Boys
[Howie:]
How come you never know
What you got until it's gone
Too bad
Because I never felt so good with anyone
How fooled was I into thinking
I was gonna be alright
Okay
Fine

[Nick/Howie:]
So every day I try a little harder
To forget her
Lie here convince myself
Tomorrow will be better

[Chorus:]
The trouble is I can't get her out of my mind
When I close my eyes at night
Who's gonna save me
Now she's gone
The trouble is there's a part of me
That still can't let go of her memory
And now I know what it is
Love is what the trouble is

[Howie:]
Love is what the trouble is

[AJ:]
How come she said
You never wear your heart
Where I can see
Too bad
Cause now I'm the one
Who's sorry
How stupid was I into thinking
I was gonna be alright
Okay
Fine
So everyday I find a little something
To remind me
No matter how I try
I can't put the past behind me

[Repeat Chorus]

[AJ:]
Love has let me go
I'm alright, I'm okay
I'll be fine, give it time

[All:]
But the only trouble is I can't get her out of my mind
When I close my eyes at night
Who's gonna save me
Now she's gone (she's gone)
The trouble is there's a part of me
That still can't let go of her memory (I just can't)
And now I know what it is (now I know)
And now I know what it is
Cause love is what the trouble is
The trouble
Love... Love is what the trouble is
Tags: Backstreet Boys, Love, Memories]]>
Thu, 03 Jul 2014 20:22:20 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/WXRcz7NGGlk/sad_song.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_song.php?id=229
[Howie:]
How come you never know
What you got until it's gone
Too bad
Because I never felt so good with anyone
How fooled was I into thinking
I was gonna be alright
Okay
Fine

[Nick/Howie:]
So every day I try a little harder
To forget her
Lie here convince myself
Tomorrow will be better

[Chorus:]
The trouble is I can't get her out of my mind
When I close my eyes at night
Who's gonna save me
Now she's gone
The trouble is there's a part of me
That still can't let go of her memory
And now I know what it is
Love is what the trouble is

[Howie:]
Love is what the trouble is

[AJ:]
How come she said
You never wear your heart
Where I can see
Too bad
Cause now I'm the one
Who's sorry
How stupid was I into thinking
I was gonna be alright
Okay
Fine
So everyday I find a little something
To remind me
No matter how I try
I can't put the past behind me

[Repeat Chorus]

[AJ:]
Love has let me go
I'm alright, I'm okay
I'll be fine, give it time

[All:]
But the only trouble is I can't get her out of my mind
When I close my eyes at night
Who's gonna save me
Now she's gone (she's gone)
The trouble is there's a part of me
That still can't let go of her memory (I just can't)
And now I know what it is (now I know)
And now I know what it is
Cause love is what the trouble is
The trouble
Love... Love is what the trouble is
Tags: Backstreet Boys, Love, Memories]]>
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Video: A Wedding That Will Move You
Early this year, Rowden and Leizl decided to get married on July 8, 2014, Rowden's 30th birthday. Together with their adorable 2-year-old daughter, they already had a perfect family.

Then a twist of fate, Rowden got diagnosed with stage IV liver cancer in late May. His last request was to marry his one true love. After 12hours of preparations, his dream was fulfilled. Unable to take him outside the hospital, we brought the church to him. It was like a heartbreaking fairytale.

Rowden Go, at the age of 29-years-old, passed away on June 11, 2014. Less than 10hours after he said his vows.

He is survived by his wife Leizel May, daughter Zakiah Rowzel, mother Lorelei, and brothers Hasset & Hisham.

Tags: Death, Wedding, Sick, Cancer, Bride]]>
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Early this year, Rowden and Leizl decided to get married on July 8, 2014, Rowden's 30th birthday. Together with their adorable 2-year-old daughter, they already had a perfect family.

Then a twist of fate, Rowden got diagnosed with stage IV liver cancer in late May. His last request was to marry his one true love. After 12hours of preparations, his dream was fulfilled. Unable to take him outside the hospital, we brought the church to him. It was like a heartbreaking fairytale.

Rowden Go, at the age of 29-years-old, passed away on June 11, 2014. Less than 10hours after he said his vows.

He is survived by his wife Leizel May, daughter Zakiah Rowzel, mother Lorelei, and brothers Hasset & Hisham.

Tags: Death, Wedding, Sick, Cancer, Bride]]>
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Movie: The English Patient (1996) by Anthony Minghella
Beginning in the 1930's, "The English Patient" tells the story of Count Almásy who is a Hungarian map maker employed by the Royal Geographical Society to chart the vast expanses of the Sahara Desert along with several other prominent explorers. As World War II unfolds, Almásy enters into a world of love, betrayal, and politics that is later revealed in a series of flashbacks while Almásy is on his death bed after being horribly burned in a plane crash.

Tags: Anthony Minghella, War, Romance, Drama]]>
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Beginning in the 1930's, "The English Patient" tells the story of Count Almásy who is a Hungarian map maker employed by the Royal Geographical Society to chart the vast expanses of the Sahara Desert along with several other prominent explorers. As World War II unfolds, Almásy enters into a world of love, betrayal, and politics that is later revealed in a series of flashbacks while Almásy is on his death bed after being horribly burned in a plane crash.

Tags: Anthony Minghella, War, Romance, Drama]]>
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Song: High Hopes by Pink Floyd
Beyond the horizon of the place we lived when we were young
In a world of magnets and miracles
Our thoughts strayed constantly and without boundary
The ringing of the division bell had begun

Along the Long Road and on down the Causeway
Do they still meet there by the Cut

There was a ragged band that followed in our footsteps
Running before time took our dreams away
Leaving the myriad small creatures trying to tie us to the ground
To a life consumed by slow decay

The grass was greener
The light was brighter
With friends surrounded
The nights of wonder

Looking beyond the embers of bridges glowing behind us
To a glimpse of how green it was on the other side
Steps taken forwards but sleepwalking back again
Dragged by the force of some inner tide

At a higher altitude with flag unfurled
We reached the dizzy heights of that dreamed of world

Encumbered forever by desire and ambition
There's a hunger still unsatisfied
Our weary eyes still stray to the horizon
Though down this road we've been so many times

The grass was greener
The light was brighter
The taste was sweeter
The nights of wonder
With friends surrounded
The dawn mist glowing
The water flowing
The endless river

Forever and ever
Tags: Pink Floyd, Alone]]>
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Beyond the horizon of the place we lived when we were young
In a world of magnets and miracles
Our thoughts strayed constantly and without boundary
The ringing of the division bell had begun

Along the Long Road and on down the Causeway
Do they still meet there by the Cut

There was a ragged band that followed in our footsteps
Running before time took our dreams away
Leaving the myriad small creatures trying to tie us to the ground
To a life consumed by slow decay

The grass was greener
The light was brighter
With friends surrounded
The nights of wonder

Looking beyond the embers of bridges glowing behind us
To a glimpse of how green it was on the other side
Steps taken forwards but sleepwalking back again
Dragged by the force of some inner tide

At a higher altitude with flag unfurled
We reached the dizzy heights of that dreamed of world

Encumbered forever by desire and ambition
There's a hunger still unsatisfied
Our weary eyes still stray to the horizon
Though down this road we've been so many times

The grass was greener
The light was brighter
The taste was sweeter
The nights of wonder
With friends surrounded
The dawn mist glowing
The water flowing
The endless river

Forever and ever
Tags: Pink Floyd, Alone]]>
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Song: The Final Cut by Pink Floyd
through the fish eyed lens of tear stained eyes
i can barely define the shape of this moment in time
and far from flying high in clear blue skies
i'm spiralling down to the hole in the ground where i hide
if you negotiate the minefield in the drive
and beat the dogs and cheat the cold electronic eyes
and if you make it past the shotgun in the hall
dial the combination. open the priesthole
and if i'm in i'll tell you what's behind the wall
there's a kid who had a big hallucination
making love to girls in magazines
he wonders if you're sleeping with your new found faith
could anybody love him
or is it just a crazy dream
and if i show you my dark side
will you still hold me tonight
and if i open my heart to you
and show you my weak side
what would you do
would you sell your story to rolling stone
would you take the children away
and leave me alone
and smile in reassurance
as you whisper down the phone
would you send me packing
or would you take me home
thought i oughta bare my naked feelings
thought i oughta tear the curtain down
i held the blade in trembling hands
prepared to make it but just then the phone rang
i never had the nerve to make the final cut
Tags: Pink Floyd, Depressed, Hurt]]>
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through the fish eyed lens of tear stained eyes
i can barely define the shape of this moment in time
and far from flying high in clear blue skies
i'm spiralling down to the hole in the ground where i hide
if you negotiate the minefield in the drive
and beat the dogs and cheat the cold electronic eyes
and if you make it past the shotgun in the hall
dial the combination. open the priesthole
and if i'm in i'll tell you what's behind the wall
there's a kid who had a big hallucination
making love to girls in magazines
he wonders if you're sleeping with your new found faith
could anybody love him
or is it just a crazy dream
and if i show you my dark side
will you still hold me tonight
and if i open my heart to you
and show you my weak side
what would you do
would you sell your story to rolling stone
would you take the children away
and leave me alone
and smile in reassurance
as you whisper down the phone
would you send me packing
or would you take me home
thought i oughta bare my naked feelings
thought i oughta tear the curtain down
i held the blade in trembling hands
prepared to make it but just then the phone rang
i never had the nerve to make the final cut
Tags: Pink Floyd, Depressed, Hurt]]>
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Song: Dust In The Wind by Kansas
I close my eyes
Only for a moment and the moment's gone
All my dreams
Pass before my eyes with curiosity

Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind

Same old song
Just a drop of water in an endless sea
All we do
Crumbles to the ground, though we refuse to see

(Aa aa aa)
Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind
Oh, ho, ho

Now don't hang on
Nothin' lasts forever but the earth and sky
It slips away
And all your money won't another minute buy

Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind
(All we are is dust in the wind)

Dust in the wind
(Everything is dust in the wind)
Everything is dust in the wind
(In the wind)

(Ooo)
(Ooo)
(Ooo)
Tags: Kansas, Empty, Love]]>
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I close my eyes
Only for a moment and the moment's gone
All my dreams
Pass before my eyes with curiosity

Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind

Same old song
Just a drop of water in an endless sea
All we do
Crumbles to the ground, though we refuse to see

(Aa aa aa)
Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind
Oh, ho, ho

Now don't hang on
Nothin' lasts forever but the earth and sky
It slips away
And all your money won't another minute buy

Dust in the wind
All we are is dust in the wind
(All we are is dust in the wind)

Dust in the wind
(Everything is dust in the wind)
Everything is dust in the wind
(In the wind)

(Ooo)
(Ooo)
(Ooo)
Tags: Kansas, Empty, Love]]>
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Video: The most inspiring video you will ever watch!

Tags: Inspirational, Staystrong]]>
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Tags: Inspirational, Staystrong]]>
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Song: Shattered by Backstreet Boys
[A.J:]
So empty, can't feel no more,
As I'm left with my tears on the floor
I wait for my heart to mend,
But you keep tearing a hole

[Brian:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long

[Brian:] And now I'm shattered,
[Nick:] (From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke)
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered)
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered)
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe, you left me, ah)

[Brian:] So shattered

[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered

[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh

[Nick:]
What am I still here for,
Could it be that I'm just waiting
Hoping you'd rescue me,
And put the pieces together again

[Howie:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long

[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[Howie:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh

[Nick:]
Tell me what you're really here for,
If you never really loved me
I gave my all but it still wasn't enough

'Cause all you had to say was that you ain't
Looking for commitment
Instead of telling me what I wanted to hear, oh-ho

[Howie:]
You took my emotions
And scattered them on the ground
So hard to just pick up,
And move on with life, again

[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[A.J.:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside

[A.J.:] So shattered
[Brian:] Oh yes, I can't believe, you left me, so shattered
Tags: Backstreet Boys, Shattered, Alone, Hurt]]>
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[A.J:]
So empty, can't feel no more,
As I'm left with my tears on the floor
I wait for my heart to mend,
But you keep tearing a hole

[Brian:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long

[Brian:] And now I'm shattered,
[Nick:] (From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke)
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered)
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered)
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] (Can't believe, you left me, ah)

[Brian:] So shattered

[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered

[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh

[Nick:]
What am I still here for,
Could it be that I'm just waiting
Hoping you'd rescue me,
And put the pieces together again

[Howie:]
Inside, I'm so lost,
In the middle of my heart
It's a battlefield of love,
I've been fighting far too long

[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[Howie:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside, oh

[Nick:]
Tell me what you're really here for,
If you never really loved me
I gave my all but it still wasn't enough

'Cause all you had to say was that you ain't
Looking for commitment
Instead of telling me what I wanted to hear, oh-ho

[Howie:]
You took my emotions
And scattered them on the ground
So hard to just pick up,
And move on with life, again

[Brian:] And now I'm shattered
[A.J.:] Oh
[Nick:] From you chipping my heart, kept taking it till it broke
[Brian:] Oh how it hurts
[Nick:] Felt it slip from your hand, hit the ground and now it's shattered
[Brian:] I'm so shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, ah
[Brian:] So shattered
[Nick, Howie:] Can't believe, you left me, I'm so shattered
[Brian:] I'm shattered, cut from with-inside

[A.J.:] So shattered
[Brian:] Oh yes, I can't believe, you left me, so shattered
Tags: Backstreet Boys, Shattered, Alone, Hurt]]>
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Video: "Hey" - Short Film on Bullying

Tags: Bullying, Alone, Hurt]]>
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Tags: Bullying, Alone, Hurt]]>
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Article: Sad quotes for a broken heart Sadness is a part of life that is unavoidable and arises from lost dreams and opportunities. It engulfs people into its pit and right then sad quotes can come to the best rescue. Sad quotes are soul-stirring that strikes a chord when we feel sad. These powerful words express deep truths right from the heart. There are many famous sad quotes that seem to echo our emotions which has been written when that person felt that way and it's always comforting to know that there are others who has also traveled in the same path.

Some of the amazing top sad quotes that I find really comforting when depressed and you might find them soothing too are:
'Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes... just be an illusion.' This quote is by Javan. It jerks and brings me to reality and makes me think logical.

'They that sow in tears shall reap in joy' by Psalms reminds me not to lose hope and one drop of tear draws a person one step more closer to happiness.
'Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears' by Marcus Aurelius and 'Solitary trees, if they grow at all, grow strong' by Winston Churchill are two favorite quotes I like a lot as it talks about being strong and not feel the pain. It's really inspiring when I feel hurt or isolated.

Another cool sad quote that I often recall when I feel sad is, 'Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable'. It reminds me that experiences only make one more practical in life.

Then there are some other really great sad quotes like,
'Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad' by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.
'For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been' by John Greenleaf Whittier
'Let your tears come. Let them water your soul' by Eileen Mayhew

'Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation' by Kahlil Gibran
And finally the most heart touching one that I often secure it deep in my heart is the quote, 'The saddest thing in the world, is loving someone who used to love you' by Unknown Author which reminds me to realize the love of the ones who love me before it's too late and not go through the pain of losing a loved one by taking too long to recognize the love.

These sad quotes will help you to go through tough times and bring more tranquility of mind.


Tags: Sad Quotes, Best Quotes, Quotes]]>
Sun, 12 May 2013 14:54:58 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/wGGF0_ZiafM/sad_article.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_article.php?id=4 Sadness is a part of life that is unavoidable and arises from lost dreams and opportunities. It engulfs people into its pit and right then sad quotes can come to the best rescue. Sad quotes are soul-stirring that strikes a chord when we feel sad. These powerful words express deep truths right from the heart. There are many famous sad quotes that seem to echo our emotions which has been written when that person felt that way and it's always comforting to know that there are others who has also traveled in the same path.

Some of the amazing top sad quotes that I find really comforting when depressed and you might find them soothing too are:
'Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes... just be an illusion.' This quote is by Javan. It jerks and brings me to reality and makes me think logical.

'They that sow in tears shall reap in joy' by Psalms reminds me not to lose hope and one drop of tear draws a person one step more closer to happiness.
'Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears' by Marcus Aurelius and 'Solitary trees, if they grow at all, grow strong' by Winston Churchill are two favorite quotes I like a lot as it talks about being strong and not feel the pain. It's really inspiring when I feel hurt or isolated.

Another cool sad quote that I often recall when I feel sad is, 'Hearts will never be practical until they are made unbreakable'. It reminds me that experiences only make one more practical in life.

Then there are some other really great sad quotes like,
'Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad' by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.
'For all sad words of tongue and pen, the saddest are these, 'It might have been' by John Greenleaf Whittier
'Let your tears come. Let them water your soul' by Eileen Mayhew

'Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation' by Kahlil Gibran
And finally the most heart touching one that I often secure it deep in my heart is the quote, 'The saddest thing in the world, is loving someone who used to love you' by Unknown Author which reminds me to realize the love of the ones who love me before it's too late and not go through the pain of losing a loved one by taking too long to recognize the love.

These sad quotes will help you to go through tough times and bring more tranquility of mind.


Tags: Sad Quotes, Best Quotes, Quotes]]>
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Article: Top 5 Sad Movies Titanic

TitanicTitanic (1997) is probably the most well-known movie on this top 5. The movie itself takes place on the first trip of the ship “Titanic”.
 
The movie starts in 1996, where a team of divers tries to find the sunken ship. They are searching for a previous diamond. The divers find the ship, but they do not find the diamond that they were looking for in the first place.
 
We hear the story about Rose Dewitt Bukater. She was only 17 years old when Titanic sat sails from Southampton in England. Titanic was supposed to travel to New York. She is traveling along with her mother and her fiancé. At the first night at the ship, Rose tries to commit suicide by jumping in the water. It does not work out because she is stopped by a man named Jack.
Jack and Rose falls in love with each other, which causes a lot of problems due to the fact that Rose has already promised to marry someone else. Jack and Rose come from different parts of society and this also causes them a lot of problems.

What happens next is that Titanic hits and iceberg, which in the end, causes the ship to sink.

Titanic is a lot about love and happiness, but we also see the darker side of these. We see anger, desperations and other dark emotions. The desperation is mostly clear between Jack and Rose, due to the fact the she is already engaged when they meet and fall in love with each other.

 

Boys Don’t Cry

Boys don't cry“Boys don’t cry” (1999) is about a based on the true story of the life of Brandon Teena. The movie tells us the story about a woman, who chooses to live her life as a man. Throughout her life, she suffers from her choice because of the consequences of her actions. Brandon moves away from Nebraska and into a new community. In her new town, the other people are not seeing person of transgender as human beings. Through the movie, Brandon ends up with a reputation of being a ladies’ man. Later in the story, Brandon ends up in prison. In prison, he develops to be a very, angry young man whose anger turns into actions after some time.
 
“Boys don’t cry” is a movie which is full of emotions. Through the movie, we get to feel all of the emotions that Brandon feels. We can feel the anger, pain and suffering he is going through. The whole community around his new neighborhood shows what conditions some of us have to live with. It is not easy to be different from the “normal” and in this movie; we get to see the life of a human in another perspective than we are used to. All these emotions in this film reminds, at least some of us, that we should be glad about what we have, because there will always be a lot of people, who has it a lot worse than we do. 

 

The Perfect Storm

At this point, we have now made it to the highest ranked on this list.
 
The number one on this list is the movie “The Perfect Storm” (2000) directed by Wolfgang Petersen and Allen Payne. The movie is in many ways a lot like the other movies, but it has its differences, which is why it has made it to number one.
 
The Perfect Storm is about a group of fishermen from Gloucester, who leaves everything behind and is chasing their road to happiness and wealth and the ocean. In October 1991, the ship “Andrea Gail”, with fishermen, sets sail. After some time, they get their weather report which tells them that there is a storm coming their way, which can cause a perfect storm.
 
Due to the fact that the Hurricane “Grace” is behind them, they decide to continue with their fishing. At the ocean, the fishermen faces a lot of problems like weather, they relationship which each other and other disasters.
 
When everything is good and there are catching a lot of fish, their ice machine breaks down and they needs to make a big decision. They can now choose between letting the fish root or try to make it through the hurricane. The desperate fishermen decide to make their way through the huge hurricane. Soon, they find themselves in the middle of the biggest storm in ages.
 
The Perfect Storm is definitely a sad movie. As in the previous movies, we get to feel a lot of emotions. In this movie, I felt mostly sadness and desperation towards the fishermen. The ending of the movie was priceless in my opinion and that is one of the places where “The Perfect Storm” is different from the other movie that I has mentioned.

 

Philadelphia

PhiladelphiaPhiladelphia (1993) is an American movie. With Tom Hanks and Denzel Washington as the stars of the movie, Philadelphia is about a young man who suffers from AIDS and the need to hide the real him.
 
Andrew Beckett is homosexual and is working in one of the largest companies in Philadelphia. He is not open about his homosexuality, or the fact that he has got AIDS, on his work and do to the fact that he has got no one to turn to, this costs him a lot of pain and suffering.
 
One day, he is assigned to one of the company’s most important cases. During the case, a worker notices something odd on Andrew. Embarrassed, he stays home to cover the lesion on his forehead. At home, he tries to finish the case and then deliver it to the office, but it gets worse and he is rushed to the hospital to make sure that he is not dying.
 
Andrew’s life gets a lot worse and he even gets fired from his job. Andrew prosecutes his previous contractor and the case goes to court. As the case goes to court, Andrew faces some new problem; his previous contractor tells the court, that Andrew has been hiding his condition for them and therefore, it was okay to them to fire him. During the testimony, Andrew collapses. His lawyer and family visit him there. After the family has gone, Andrew tells that he is ready to die.
 
At the end of the movie, we see Andrew’s funeral where there is a lot of mourners.
 
As seen in the movie, Philadelphia is about trying to overcome your problems to stay above water. In this movie, it is one man against all the others and we get to see how sickness can break you down in so many ways. Philadelphia is a frustrating movie in many ways, because it is even hard, as a viewer, to imagine all the problems that Andrew was going through and it is even harder to put ourselves in his place.

 

 

We Were Soldier

We were soldier“We were soldier” (2002) is directed by Randall Wallace. The movie is about the major battle of the Vietnam War and we see it through the eyes of the American units in Vietnam.
The film itself is based on the book “We were soldiers once… and young” by Hal Moore, who participated in the war himself.
The United States has entered the Vietnamese war. At this point, Hal Moore is a dedicated and committed young man and he is training the troops that are under his command.
After arriving in Vietnamese area, Hal finds out that an American base has been attacked and several of their soldiers have been killed. After this information, he needs to move his men and eliminate their enemy. At the time of their moving, Hal has not got any idea of the number of the Vietnamese troopers in the area at this point.

Later in the film, the group of soldiers is lured into an ambush by a Vietnamese. With no options left, Hal decides to call on his radio and tell the other Americans that they have been lured into an ambush and cannot defend themselves. They will now stay alive much longer so he orders all the available aircraft to attack their Vietnamese enemy to kill or chase them away from Hal and his soldiers. The aircraft bombs and uses machine guns at the enemy. After the attacking, the Vietnamese troopers repel and the surviving Americans are rescued.

In the end, the Vietnamese plans a big counter attack and you must see the movie yourself to see the outcome.
 
This movie has made it to this list, because it shows us the horrific actions of war. Throughout the movie, we can almost feel the pain that the soldiers feel during the movie and we see what war really is about. We can feel the love that the soldiers feel for their country while they are willing to sacrifice their lives to make a difference in Vietnam. The movie proves that you may need to sacrifice something important to you, if you want to make a difference for the next generations.


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TitanicTitanic (1997) is probably the most well-known movie on this top 5. The movie itself takes place on the first trip of the ship “Titanic”.
 
The movie starts in 1996, where a team of divers tries to find the sunken ship. They are searching for a previous diamond. The divers find the ship, but they do not find the diamond that they were looking for in the first place.
 
We hear the story about Rose Dewitt Bukater. She was only 17 years old when Titanic sat sails from Southampton in England. Titanic was supposed to travel to New York. She is traveling along with her mother and her fiancé. At the first night at the ship, Rose tries to commit suicide by jumping in the water. It does not work out because she is stopped by a man named Jack.
Jack and Rose falls in love with each other, which causes a lot of problems due to the fact that Rose has already promised to marry someone else. Jack and Rose come from different parts of society and this also causes them a lot of problems.

What happens next is that Titanic hits and iceberg, which in the end, causes the ship to sink.

Titanic is a lot about love and happiness, but we also see the darker side of these. We see anger, desperations and other dark emotions. The desperation is mostly clear between Jack and Rose, due to the fact the she is already engaged when they meet and fall in love with each other.

 

Boys Don’t Cry

Boys don't cry“Boys don’t cry” (1999) is about a based on the true story of the life of Brandon Teena. The movie tells us the story about a woman, who chooses to live her life as a man. Throughout her life, she suffers from her choice because of the consequences of her actions. Brandon moves away from Nebraska and into a new community. In her new town, the other people are not seeing person of transgender as human beings. Through the movie, Brandon ends up with a reputation of being a ladies’ man. Later in the story, Brandon ends up in prison. In prison, he develops to be a very, angry young man whose anger turns into actions after some time.
 
“Boys don’t cry” is a movie which is full of emotions. Through the movie, we get to feel all of the emotions that Brandon feels. We can feel the anger, pain and suffering he is going through. The whole community around his new neighborhood shows what conditions some of us have to live with. It is not easy to be different from the “normal” and in this movie; we get to see the life of a human in another perspective than we are used to. All these emotions in this film reminds, at least some of us, that we should be glad about what we have, because there will always be a lot of people, who has it a lot worse than we do. 

 

The Perfect Storm

At this point, we have now made it to the highest ranked on this list.
 
The number one on this list is the movie “The Perfect Storm” (2000) directed by Wolfgang Petersen and Allen Payne. The movie is in many ways a lot like the other movies, but it has its differences, which is why it has made it to number one.
 
The Perfect Storm is about a group of fishermen from Gloucester, who leaves everything behind and is chasing their road to happiness and wealth and the ocean. In October 1991, the ship “Andrea Gail”, with fishermen, sets sail. After some time, they get their weather report which tells them that there is a storm coming their way, which can cause a perfect storm.
 
Due to the fact that the Hurricane “Grace” is behind them, they decide to continue with their fishing. At the ocean, the fishermen faces a lot of problems like weather, they relationship which each other and other disasters.
 
When everything is good and there are catching a lot of fish, their ice machine breaks down and they needs to make a big decision. They can now choose between letting the fish root or try to make it through the hurricane. The desperate fishermen decide to make their way through the huge hurricane. Soon, they find themselves in the middle of the biggest storm in ages.
 
The Perfect Storm is definitely a sad movie. As in the previous movies, we get to feel a lot of emotions. In this movie, I felt mostly sadness and desperation towards the fishermen. The ending of the movie was priceless in my opinion and that is one of the places where “The Perfect Storm” is different from the other movie that I has mentioned.

 

Philadelphia

PhiladelphiaPhiladelphia (1993) is an American movie. With Tom Hanks and Denzel Washington as the stars of the movie, Philadelphia is about a young man who suffers from AIDS and the need to hide the real him.
 
Andrew Beckett is homosexual and is working in one of the largest companies in Philadelphia. He is not open about his homosexuality, or the fact that he has got AIDS, on his work and do to the fact that he has got no one to turn to, this costs him a lot of pain and suffering.
 
One day, he is assigned to one of the company’s most important cases. During the case, a worker notices something odd on Andrew. Embarrassed, he stays home to cover the lesion on his forehead. At home, he tries to finish the case and then deliver it to the office, but it gets worse and he is rushed to the hospital to make sure that he is not dying.
 
Andrew’s life gets a lot worse and he even gets fired from his job. Andrew prosecutes his previous contractor and the case goes to court. As the case goes to court, Andrew faces some new problem; his previous contractor tells the court, that Andrew has been hiding his condition for them and therefore, it was okay to them to fire him. During the testimony, Andrew collapses. His lawyer and family visit him there. After the family has gone, Andrew tells that he is ready to die.
 
At the end of the movie, we see Andrew’s funeral where there is a lot of mourners.
 
As seen in the movie, Philadelphia is about trying to overcome your problems to stay above water. In this movie, it is one man against all the others and we get to see how sickness can break you down in so many ways. Philadelphia is a frustrating movie in many ways, because it is even hard, as a viewer, to imagine all the problems that Andrew was going through and it is even harder to put ourselves in his place.

 

 

We Were Soldier

We were soldier“We were soldier” (2002) is directed by Randall Wallace. The movie is about the major battle of the Vietnam War and we see it through the eyes of the American units in Vietnam.
The film itself is based on the book “We were soldiers once… and young” by Hal Moore, who participated in the war himself.
The United States has entered the Vietnamese war. At this point, Hal Moore is a dedicated and committed young man and he is training the troops that are under his command.
After arriving in Vietnamese area, Hal finds out that an American base has been attacked and several of their soldiers have been killed. After this information, he needs to move his men and eliminate their enemy. At the time of their moving, Hal has not got any idea of the number of the Vietnamese troopers in the area at this point.

Later in the film, the group of soldiers is lured into an ambush by a Vietnamese. With no options left, Hal decides to call on his radio and tell the other Americans that they have been lured into an ambush and cannot defend themselves. They will now stay alive much longer so he orders all the available aircraft to attack their Vietnamese enemy to kill or chase them away from Hal and his soldiers. The aircraft bombs and uses machine guns at the enemy. After the attacking, the Vietnamese troopers repel and the surviving Americans are rescued.

In the end, the Vietnamese plans a big counter attack and you must see the movie yourself to see the outcome.
 
This movie has made it to this list, because it shows us the horrific actions of war. Throughout the movie, we can almost feel the pain that the soldiers feel during the movie and we see what war really is about. We can feel the love that the soldiers feel for their country while they are willing to sacrifice their lives to make a difference in Vietnam. The movie proves that you may need to sacrifice something important to you, if you want to make a difference for the next generations.


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Article: Why I Love Sad Songs It is said and believed that music is food for the soul. This is best shown in how we relate to different types of music depending on our mood and our feelings. Our state of mind and state of emotions decide our mood and our choice of music in turn is driven by the mood we are in. I love sad songs because they act as my best friend when I’m feeling sad and low.

With my collection of sad songs, I do not need someone to talk to because these songs become a mirror to my emotions. The lyrics in sad songs when I hear them, it feels like they have been written for me and I can sink deeper into my lonely, sad emotion. Sad songs have a marvelous effect on us. When we are broken and hurt due to whatever reason, sad songs give us an outlet to be on our own and talk to ourselves. It is not however necessary that one should like sad songs only when they are sad; it is but human to be happy yet listen to a sad song. This is only an indication that we are still human and our feelings have not become numb in this fast paced life; our emotions are still alive. If we are feeling ‘OK’ and suddenly a sad song brings tears to our eyes it is only for us to remember that nothing lasts forever. There is always an end to every beginning and happiness is always followed by sadness, so we should keep our doors open for sadness as well. Pain and misery never knocks before coming neither does an opportunity so we should always be prepared for good and bad times alike.

I may laugh in public, I may fake a smile only not to let anyone else know what I’m going through inside. I love sad songs because they bring out my real emotions and make me weep out my sorrows; my grievances, regrets and tragedies. They remind me of my loved ones that I have lost due to one reason or the other and the emptiness I feel without them. Listening to sad songs not only gives me remembrance of bitter sweet memories but they touch the chords of my heart. At this point I wish to lock myself away from the world because it is this world that has caused me all the pain and grief. Had I not lived I wouldn’t have suffered. So you can see what multiple effects music can have on you.

Sad songs also are a way to melt the toughest of persons and the harshest of emotions.  When we are angry at someone we are rather angry with ourselves; we may shout and yell at them but inside we are shaking. And sad songs have the quality to wash away that harshness in us. Whenever I have had a bad day at work and an argument with a customer or a co-worker; I listen to sad songs on my way back home to soothe and calm my nerves and most of all for the reason so that I may cry and wash out my anger.


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Fri, 11 Jan 2013 04:14:47 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/12Us4N4Khd4/sad_article.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_article.php?id=1 It is said and believed that music is food for the soul. This is best shown in how we relate to different types of music depending on our mood and our feelings. Our state of mind and state of emotions decide our mood and our choice of music in turn is driven by the mood we are in. I love sad songs because they act as my best friend when I’m feeling sad and low.

With my collection of sad songs, I do not need someone to talk to because these songs become a mirror to my emotions. The lyrics in sad songs when I hear them, it feels like they have been written for me and I can sink deeper into my lonely, sad emotion. Sad songs have a marvelous effect on us. When we are broken and hurt due to whatever reason, sad songs give us an outlet to be on our own and talk to ourselves. It is not however necessary that one should like sad songs only when they are sad; it is but human to be happy yet listen to a sad song. This is only an indication that we are still human and our feelings have not become numb in this fast paced life; our emotions are still alive. If we are feeling ‘OK’ and suddenly a sad song brings tears to our eyes it is only for us to remember that nothing lasts forever. There is always an end to every beginning and happiness is always followed by sadness, so we should keep our doors open for sadness as well. Pain and misery never knocks before coming neither does an opportunity so we should always be prepared for good and bad times alike.

I may laugh in public, I may fake a smile only not to let anyone else know what I’m going through inside. I love sad songs because they bring out my real emotions and make me weep out my sorrows; my grievances, regrets and tragedies. They remind me of my loved ones that I have lost due to one reason or the other and the emptiness I feel without them. Listening to sad songs not only gives me remembrance of bitter sweet memories but they touch the chords of my heart. At this point I wish to lock myself away from the world because it is this world that has caused me all the pain and grief. Had I not lived I wouldn’t have suffered. So you can see what multiple effects music can have on you.

Sad songs also are a way to melt the toughest of persons and the harshest of emotions.  When we are angry at someone we are rather angry with ourselves; we may shout and yell at them but inside we are shaking. And sad songs have the quality to wash away that harshness in us. Whenever I have had a bad day at work and an argument with a customer or a co-worker; I listen to sad songs on my way back home to soothe and calm my nerves and most of all for the reason so that I may cry and wash out my anger.


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Article: How to Write a Sad Story Writing a sad story is truly a great art in itself; an art to bring tears into someone’s eyes by your words and not many writers have successfully achieved the reward of doing so. Greatest sad stories that have ever been produced are the ones that are written by the writer’s heart. I will be sharing with you what I believe are the essentials to write a sad story.

As I just said a story can only have enough sadness and pain in it if the writer is writing with all their heart. When writing a sad story one should bring themselves to feel any sort of agony and sadness they have ever felt in life. It could be out of loss of a loved one, being parted from a loved one or a best friend, leaving school or leaving childhood town, a loss in the business, loss of a dear pet and so on. It can be an endless list of reasons that ever made you sad. The more closely one relates to painful moments in their life the sadder their story will be.  Example of this is that most of the sad stories are experience from people’s lives; their sufferings in times of hunger, prison or being abandoned.

A sad story should be simple and easily understandable to the readers and the character sketches for each character should be well built so that the reader builds a link with them. By making the story understandable it means that one should employ a descriptive writing style that paints clear pictures of scenes and characters so that the readers can actually visualize them in their minds. Remember that your words should have a powerful impact like it does in sad movies. The characters as you line them up in your story should be done in such a way that audience should ‘feel’ for the characters; only then will your story be touching enough to make them cry. Make your characters more human than superficial and heroic.

A big No-No for Happy Endings! Yes, a sad story is sad because it does not end happily ever after so bear this simple rule in mind. Your story should leave a yearning and a vacuum only then the audiences feel sympathetic towards the characters involved and cry on their ill-fate and misfortune. The sudden death or a similar twist in the story goes a long way in guaranteeing the success of a sad story but this works best only if the characters are well developed and the audiences are kept intact throughout. Their interest should be maintained at every level; if they lose interest then the story will not have the desired effect.

So, what are you waiting for? Pick up your pen; take your imagination to all the points in life when you got sad and felt pain and you will find yourself creating a great sad story that will have the ability to move its readers.


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Fri, 11 Jan 2013 03:29:00 +0000 http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/loverofsadness/~3/O77CI5961ks/sad_article.php http://www.loverofsadness.net/sad_article.php?id=2 Writing a sad story is truly a great art in itself; an art to bring tears into someone’s eyes by your words and not many writers have successfully achieved the reward of doing so. Greatest sad stories that have ever been produced are the ones that are written by the writer’s heart. I will be sharing with you what I believe are the essentials to write a sad story.

As I just said a story can only have enough sadness and pain in it if the writer is writing with all their heart. When writing a sad story one should bring themselves to feel any sort of agony and sadness they have ever felt in life. It could be out of loss of a loved one, being parted from a loved one or a best friend, leaving school or leaving childhood town, a loss in the business, loss of a dear pet and so on. It can be an endless list of reasons that ever made you sad. The more closely one relates to painful moments in their life the sadder their story will be.  Example of this is that most of the sad stories are experience from people’s lives; their sufferings in times of hunger, prison or being abandoned.

A sad story should be simple and easily understandable to the readers and the character sketches for each character should be well built so that the reader builds a link with them. By making the story understandable it means that one should employ a descriptive writing style that paints clear pictures of scenes and characters so that the readers can actually visualize them in their minds. Remember that your words should have a powerful impact like it does in sad movies. The characters as you line them up in your story should be done in such a way that audience should ‘feel’ for the characters; only then will your story be touching enough to make them cry. Make your characters more human than superficial and heroic.

A big No-No for Happy Endings! Yes, a sad story is sad because it does not end happily ever after so bear this simple rule in mind. Your story should leave a yearning and a vacuum only then the audiences feel sympathetic towards the characters involved and cry on their ill-fate and misfortune. The sudden death or a similar twist in the story goes a long way in guaranteeing the success of a sad story but this works best only if the characters are well developed and the audiences are kept intact throughout. Their interest should be maintained at every level; if they lose interest then the story will not have the desired effect.

So, what are you waiting for? Pick up your pen; take your imagination to all the points in life when you got sad and felt pain and you will find yourself creating a great sad story that will have the ability to move its readers.


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