Dave Zedik of Fort Worth, Texas, is utterly mystified by the amount of talking his wife, Michelle, does with her women friends. Sometimes, when she is on the phone, Dave will run an errand and upon his return find her on the same call. “When I talk to my buddies, we stick to the specifics,” he says. “But women take forever to get to the point. It’s a total waste of time.”

Michelle, a busy mother of five, is unapologetic: “My connection to other women makes me a better wife and mother. Let’s face it: my husband might not be concerned about a weird rash on one of our kids. But my friends will tell me if I need to worry.”

According to Geraldine Piorkowski, director of the Counseling Center at the University of Illinois at Chicago, women touch base with other women as a way of understanding and coping with their experiences. “They look to other women as role models,” she says.

Women friends validate each other. “Watch two women talk,” says Cathleen Gray, associate professor of social work at the Catholic University of America. “Listen to how often they use the word exactly and nod their heads in agreement.”

But Dave still doesn’t get it: “She says there’s no time to get everything done, but she’d have a lot more time if she wasn’t on the phone so long!”

Let me state the obvious: Men and women are different. Some of it is biological, some of it is how we are socialized, but the result is the same. Like the Zediks, we often misunderstand each other. Recognizing these differences can alleviate confusion and hurt feelings. Here are some of the main issues that separate the sexes:

She Wants to Be Her Husband’s No. 1 Priority.

Men and women get jealous over different things. “A man tends to be jealous of potential sexual partners, while a woman tends to be jealous of time her husband spends away from her, whether it’s with drinking buddies or just golfing,” explains Charles T. Hill, professor of psychology at Whittier College in California. She wants to feel she is No. 1 in her partner’s life. But she knows she’s my top priority, a husband may think. Yet if he often works late or spends a lot of time at the gym, she doesn’t know it.

One 33-year-old homemaker from Lexington, Ky., says she has to nag her husband to come home from his job as a hotel manager before 8 or 9 p.m. “It makes me feel the kids and I aren’t important.” Even when he is home, she feels at times as if he is there only physically. One breathtaking fall day, she was outside playing with the children and dog while her husband stayed inside watching TV. “I felt rejected,” she recalls.

“Most married couples only spend about 20 minutes a week interacting face to face, particularly once there are children,” notes Georgia Witkin, director of the Stress Program at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in Manhattan. “Meanwhile, happy couples who’ve been married 25 years find it’s not just quality time that does the trick, it’s quantity.”

She Wants a Husband Who Does Household Chores Without Waiting to Be Asked.

Meredith Prue of Plymouth, Mass., is the envy of all her friends. Is it because her husband, Stephen, is handsome or successful? No, it’s because he shares the household chores fifty-fifty. “If I cook, he cleans up. If I put the laundry into the washer, he puts it in the dryer,” she boasts. Best of all, he never acts as if he is doing her a favor. “We’re a team,” she says.

“A wife needs a sense that her marriage is a partnership,” says Piorkowski. “Men often take the attitude that they are helping her out when they pitch in–like the dirty dishes are just hers and not his as well.”

Who clears out the dust bunnies or bathes the kids may sound like small problems, but when University of Denver psychologists Scott Stanley and Howard Markman surveyed 950 people who were either married or in relationships, they found that household chores were among the top three things that couples reported fighting about most. (The first was money.)

As added incentive for husbands, John Gottman, co-director of the Gottman Institute in Seattle, points out that men who share household chores and child-rearing have better marital and sexual satisfaction.

She Needs Emotional Intimacy in Order to Feel Aroused.

Natalie and Brent Thomas of Cannon Falls, Minn., are on the go all day. He’s a photographer; she writes mystery novels and cares for their two young children. A few years ago, their busy lives were interfering with the closeness they once shared, and they’d fall into bed at night virtual strangers. If Brent tried to initiate sex, Natalie became resentful: “I wanted to talk about my day, hear about his, and just snuggle. Without time to discover one another, sex became another item on my list.” Together they brainstormed ways to find more time.

Keeping in touch during the day has made a difference, Natalie says. “We talk on the phone. Even if it’s for just a few moments, I feel we’ve spent some time together. The sound of his voice is just what I need.”

Hearing her partner’s voice can help a woman become aroused, according to Witkin. “The No. 1 sexual cue for men is visual,” she explains, “while a comparable cue for women is the sound of the male voice.”

So when a husband jumps to the main event without having first initiated some conversation, the wife may feel pressured and alienated, and then he feels rejected. “What a man needs to understand is that the ideal foreplay for a woman isn’t just touching her body in a slow, gentle way. It first starts by touching her mind and her heart,” says John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus.

She Doesn’t Want Sexy Lingerie or Kitchen Appliances as Gifts.

Why do gifts, which seem so trivial, sometimes cause such major problems for couples? “Women consider a gift’s meaning,” says Albert Watson, associate professor of counseling at the University of Cincinnati. “When a husband gets his wife the latest book by her favorite author, the message is, ‘When you talk, I listen. I want to please you.’” But a toaster oven, or lingerie that makes her feel like a cow, says, “I don’t know or care what you would like, so I’m going to please myself.”

According to Cathleen Gray, “Men complain, If she wants me to get something in particular for her birthday, why doesn’t she tell me? Meanwhile, she’s thinking, If I have to tell you, I feel diminished as a woman because it means you haven’t thought about me at all.”

Christine Schrodt of Mason City, Iowa, suffered for years while her husband, David, gave her gifts such as steak knives. But he’s learned the hard way how important gifts are to her. “Now if he sees me admiring something, he makes a mental note,” says Christine. “Six months later, on my birthday, he’ll surprise me with it. It makes me feel so loved.”

Yes, There Really Is a Correct Answer to “Do These Jeans Make Me Look Fat?”

Paul Sabbah of Stamford, Conn., gets that question “at least three times a week” from his wife, Jennifer. “It strikes terror into my soul,” he says. “If I say yes, I’m a dead man. If I say no, she tells me I’m lying. There’s clearly no right answer.”

How does Jennifer want Paul to respond? “I want him to tell me I don’t look fat, of course, but half the time, he isn’t even looking at me when he answers. I guess I’m just looking for reassurance that he still finds me attractive.”

“Do I look the same as when you first met me?” “Do you wish I had larger breasts?” Questions like these generally send panicked husbands ducking for cover. Even wives think there is no right answer. Or is there?

When women ask for feedback on their appearance, they are really saying, I feel vulnerable. “You have to do whatever it takes to make a connection, make her feel loved and secure,” says Dr. Samuel Shem, a psychiatrist at Harvard Medical School. “The right response is not yes or no, it’s to make contact.”

Paul Sabbah says he and his wife have turned the question into a private joke. “When Jennifer asks if she looks fat, I answer, ‘No, but do I look bald?’ Then she’ll laugh and say no. We both know the truth: I’m balding, and she’s not a size four. But we also know it doesn’t matter, because we love each other like crazy.”

In the end, adds Watson, “If a wife feels appreciated and valued, it’s not necessary that her waist be smaller or her breasts larger. She knows she is loved just the way she is.”Similar Posts:

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Getting into a relationship is easy, but keeping it alive is the difficult part.

There are plenty of things, big or small, that can wreck an otherwise great relationship. Now, Dr Barton Goldsmith, a California-based psychotherapist and the author of “100 Ways to Boost Your Self-Confidence – Believe in Yourself and Others Will Too” reveals what all can kill romantic relationships and how to save it from falling apart.

1. Money

It’s the root of all evils, as they say. If a partner has been unscrupulous, getting the trust back can be a challenge, reports the Sydney Morning Herald.

2. Sex/infidelity

A sexless marriage or unfaithfulness can extinguish love quicker than blowing out a candle. Don’t let the flame burn out and try to renew your sex life.

3. Disrespect

Research shows that belittling, insulting or yelling at your partner can cut the chances of your relationship’s survival.

4. Children

Some live for them, others would rather kill themselves. Make sure to keep things in balance with your partner, so you have the energy to deal with any child issues.

5. Opposite-sex friends

If you don’t want your spouse/partner to dine out and have drinks with a member of the opposite sex, then you need to follow the same guidelines.

6. Resentments

Don’t hold your pain, hurt or anger inside. If you are harbouring some resentment talk it out and put the matter to rest, so you can enjoy your relationship.

7. Lying/broken promises

Even if you’re afraid of getting into trouble, tell the whole truth and don’t break promises, and find a way to make up for past mistakes.

8. Laziness

Keeping a relationship is hard work, and if you are unwilling to do it, your connection will diminish and you will begin to resent your partner.

9. Being mean

If you punish your partner when you don’t get your way, or if the two of you give each other the silent treatment, you are headed for a lifetime of emotional pain. Stop the nastiness and learn to talk about it.

10. Discomfort/remodelling

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Be attractive at your best.

Whether you are trying to impress a date, keep your boyfriend/husband interested or just attract men in general- it is important to know tools that help make you an object of desire. Every woman has her own special energy and tools- some more than others, some less than others. It is not about how much you have though- it is about knowing your strongest areas and using them to achieve your goals in the dating/romance world. We all have certain features on ourselves that stand out most and it is these features we must accentuate. You must find tools that help bring out your natural beauty, rather than tools that cover up your naturalness and instead create a fake version of yourself. Men like to see what they are really getting, just as you want an honest display of the men you are interested in.

Be Well- Groomed

Everyone admires a person who is well put together and men are no exception. It is important to men that a woman is well groomed- a woman who looks well taken care of. You do not have to extremely high maintenance if that is not your style, but keep yourself clean and groomed

It’s All in the Eyes

Your eyes are one of (if not the very) first a person will notice on you. Make your eyes irresistible by bringing out their natural beauty. Open up your eyes and make even more inviting by applying some mascara, even using a eyelash curler for an even more dramatic effect. You do not need much eye make up to create a You know you want me look. Just expand your lashes and give him a few bats that he will be sure to notice. Do not forget to also make as much eye contact as possible, without being overly aggressive. Give him looks that let him know that you are confident, but still bashful enough for him to want to take charge and chase after you!

Use Your Lip Power

Lips are one of the most power tools on a woman’s body and a part that men are crazy about. Put him under your spell by bringing out the seductiveness and beauty of your lips. Find a lip color that compliments your skin tone and top it off with some sweet gooey gloss that will arouse his curiosity and make him want to find out even more about you- and your lips! There are even lip plumping glosses that not only give your lips a sexy shine, but give them a slight plump, making your lips look fuller, creating even more of you to love and lust for! He will definitely be watching you while you talk, hanging to every word that comes out of your mouth.

Smile, Smile, Smile!

Nothing sets the mood better than a friendly vibe. Smiling make people feel welcome and comfortable, as well as create good energy that helps people connect. Smiling also naturally highlights your face, making you look more attractive and approachable. If men feel too intimidated, then they will not approach you as much and most likely will not ask you out on that second date, due to fear of rejection or because you gave off an unfriendly vibe that turned them off.

Don’t Just Stand There Say Something!

The days of a woman just sitting there quietly and looking pretty are Over! Men want to hear what a woman has to say and find it very attractive when a woman voices her opinion and who knows how to keep a conversation flowing. Do not give him the wrong impression that you are dull or boring-speak up and let him know what you are all about (leaving a little mystery too of course!). Men want you to tell them what you want. You have both brains and beauty- so use them both to your advantage

Stay in Shape

No one is asking you to be perfect, since there is no such thing. Nor are you required to be supermodel thin in order to be desirable. But you should make your best efforts to keep yourself healthy and in shape. The most attractive people are people who love themselves- loving yourself first opens the door for others to admire and love you as well. People will see you the way you want to be seen. If you want to be seen as a healthy and fit person, then do things that keep you healthy and fit. Those in good shape also give people the impression that they have their life in order and are under controlSimilar Posts:

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Fancy Romantic Restaurants.

Nothing sets the mood better for a date than a restaurant with a romantic surrounding. Before going on your date, do some research on what restaurants in your local area have the best romantic atmosphere, as well as the most delicious selection of food and wine Impress your date with your fabulous taste in dining locations!

Movies.

Movies are very old fashioned and traditional when it comes to dating, but it has been working for a very long time. However, be sure that you take your date somewhere where the two of you can get to know each other first and have a good conversation. Some good and popular places are cafes and restaurants. This is a good way to see whether or not the two of you get along well enough to continue your date.

Dancing.

Dancing is great way for you and your date to loosen up and get comfortable being around each other in one of the most fun activities ever dancing! You can start by talking over some drinks either in the club or some other place of your choice. Having a good conversation will warm things up for the dance floor. When you both feel comfortable and ready, go to the dance club and show each other what wonderful moves you have got!

Moonlit Cruises.

There is nothing more romantically powerful than moonlight! Arrange a passionate boat ride for you and your date. If you can manage to arrange a boat cruise that provides dinner, that would add an even more romantic and hypnotic touch. Your creative ideas and romanticism will impress your date and eager to go out with you again!

Cooking Date.

A good home cooked meal is always unforgettable and appreciated. So why not cook up something delicious with your date? Make an agreement on where you would like to have this cooking experience your place or theirs. Once that has been decided, focus on what you will be preparing together and how you will set the place up. Make sure you have the right music, candlelight and a good movie on the side. If it takes place at your date’s home, then be sure to be thoughtful by sending him or her a gift basket or a bouquet of fresh flowers to add a special touch. You can also bring over a good bottle of wine or champagne.

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The good news is that it is fairly simple to answer how to be an amazing girlfriend. You just need to know certain tricks and soon he will worship the ground you walk on.

Often when we get involved with a man, we start to become comfortable. We stop dressing as well as we once did and leave waxing and other grooming a little bit longer than we should. This is the first step to being amazing. You never want him to see you looking anything other than your best. Yes ladies this means that the fluffy nightwear stays firmly in the closest and the sexy black negligee is neatly folded under the pillow.

This brings us to the next step. You have to have a very active and interesting sex life in order to gain the amazing girlfriend award. Seriously now is the time to be reading Karma Sutra cover to cover and putting some of the easier moves into practice. Men love a great time in bed but they like it even better when they turn their partner on so if he does make it obvious. Yes think the dinner scene from when Harry met Sally! Initiate sex and be open to trying different techniques and positions. Obviously you shouldn’t do anything you are uncomfortable with but forget the missionary position every night. That’s predictable and boring and doesn’t merit the description of amazing.

Let you man out with his friends and don’t call or text to find out where he is or who he is with. Men hate clingy insecure women. They don’t mind you being a little jealous if some glamour puss flirts with him but they expect you to trust them when they are on a night out.

If you want to be a permanent fixture in your man’s life, you need to treat his family and friends with respect. Sure they may not be the people you would chose to socialize with. I am guessing if you were honest, some of your own family wouldn’t meet this criteria either. Your man’s family will be important to him. In fact you should have already checked how he treats his mum as that is a good indication of how he will treat you in years to come.

It may be easy to answer the question how to be an amazing girlfriend but I am not saying that it will always be easy to put it into practice. But if you master at least some of these techniques you have more chance of moving onto the next step in your relationship. If you think that this is all too much effort, you may just find that your man has plenty of other female friends just waiting for the chance to prove they have what it takes to be an amazing girlfriend.

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If you see warning signs of a break up you need to act quickly to avoid splitting up. It is a lot easier to prevent a split then to try to reconcile after the event.

So what should you be looking out for? The obvious one is if you are both always arguing. I believe it is healthy for couples to argue occasionally as making up is fun!  But when you just fight and don’t make friends, you are on dangerous ground.

Perhaps worse is when you have gone past the stage of fighting and now just ignore one another. There is nothing lonelier than sharing a double bed with someone and having enough room to drive a huge bus between you. Some of the loneliest people are those that are in a broken relationship.

Another sign you could look for is whether your partner prefers to spend time with other people. Now don’t get paranoid on me. No matter how much they love you, we all need some time out with our own friends. It is when your partner is spending more time with the other people, than with you and your family, that you need to worry.

If you see any signs of trouble, you cannot ignore them, but you need to deal with it now. Before you tackle your partner, you need to first decide what you want. Do you see a future with this person? If you do then you need to fight for your happiness; but in a very nice way. Shouting matches or physical violence are not the way forward.

If you have children arrange for a friend to mind them. Ask your other half out for the evening. If you go to a public place like a restaurant, the conversation is less likely to descend into an argument.

Don’t jump into the chat by flinging accusations or telling your spouse how let down/ignored/unhappy you feel. You will only put them on the defensive and that will lead to an argument. Instead, ask them how they are feeling. Are they happy with the current situation?  Is there anything they feel could be improved?

Listen to what they say and try to stay calm and non judgmental. It is not going to be easy and you may have to listen to some uncomfortable stuff. But you want your relationship to work out don’t you.

You may not be able to resolve your issues in one evening, however, it could be all it takes to start the process of getting your relationship back on track. There is a solution for every problem and you just need time to find yours. In the meantime, you need to reassure each other that you share a mutual bond of love and respect and that is worth fighting for.

Acknowledging the warning signs of a break up and taking action is the first step on the road to recovery. If you both want it, you can save your relationship and live happily ever after.

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So what does make a woman sexy? Every woman wants to know! Well, you can stop wondering, because we have the answers for you. Men have confessed of what they mostly believe is sexy in a woman. Here are the most popular comments:

Whether you like or not, the truth is, men are first attracted to a woman who is In Shape. They like to able to see a woman’s true figure, as well as toned and healthy. A woman who takes good care of herself gives the impression that she is confident, responsible and stable which are qualities all men admire. Nice Lips is another thing men consider sexy in a woman. A woman with nice lips makes a man wonder and fantasize about how it tastes and how good of a kisser you are! Find a lipstick that flatters your skin tone and lip line your lips, especially if you do not have full ones naturally. For a sexier touch, roll a little gloss over your lipstick, for a wet and juicy effect.

This will attract even more attention and it highlights your face.

To most men, the sexiest women are those who have Medium/Long soft hair. Medium and long hair really represents womanhood, for women are the ones known to have the long, soft and sweet smelling hair! Find a shampoo and conditioner that have the best smelling scent and ones that provide you with the best moisturizing results. You can also add more health to it by getting a product that adds body, shine and extra moisture to apply on after your shower, before or after you style. If you have short hair, do not worry! Just be sure to keep the volume in it and keep it soft and shiny.

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When you go out with your soft hair, be sure to put on that Sparkling smile! Smiling is one of the biggest people magnets you can ever use! Everyone is attracted to cheerfulness and sureness, so be sure of yourself and let the world know it you will be surprised of just how many people respond to your smiling. Funny is one essential quality you must remember. Men just love it when a woman can laugh at their jokes, make their own tasteful jokes and being able to laugh at themselves. Get in touch with yourself and discover what makes you laugh and what funny memories you have regarding yourself, so that you may bring it up the next time you are on a date, or meet someone interesting. While you are out there laughing at jokes and making some yourself, also remember to have something intellectual to discuss, because Intelligence is considered very attractive. Bring something up you heard on the news, or bring up any subject that you think can get a conversation going, such as school and the experiences you had there.

Being Independent makes a woman sexy to a man. Men like to know that the woman they are interested in can take care of herself, has a good head on her shoulders and knows what she wants. If you do feel insecure about something, try not to advertise it in front of people. Keep your head up high, with a pretty smile, and then work on your insecurity when you get home or seek expert advice. When you and that certain someone enters your intimate stage, always remember that it is important to carry Sexy underwear beneath your clothing! This may sound like something you already know, but women tend to get lazy with it over time. If you want to keep him hooked, entertain with something sexy every time you take your clothes off!

Putting all that sexual and seducing stuff aside, men also long for a woman who is Caring. This may sound funny, but men are looking for a hot, irresistible woman, with a motherly personality. They want a woman who will nourish them and take care of them emotionally, just as we expect them to do for us. So always listen to him when he expresses himself and do your best to show that you care.

Last but not least, believe it or not, it is still important for a woman to be A good cook! There is nothing better for a man than coming home to a fresh, hot and home made dish on the table. They really admire the effort and time a woman puts into preparing a meal and they feel special and rewarded after a long day. If you need ideas for what meals to cook, you can get them at our Romantic Recipes Page! So try discovering your seductive self by keeping these ideas in and putting them to use. You will soon realize you had the seductive goddess in you all this time. After all, every woman has one!

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So you’ve broken up with the person you love and you want them back. But how can you be romantic with someone after you’ve broken up with them? That doesn’t exactly provide you with opportunities for romance when you’re not dating or seeing each other at all.

It can certainly be a challenge, but here are 5 ways to be romantic after a break up that can help you express your feelings. These ideas not only offer the opportunity for romance, but they’ll make your ex feel special which is one of the most important things you can do when you want to get back together.

It’s important to remember, however, that you need to respect your ex’s wishes. If you’re calling and stopping by and they want you to stop, you need to stop. But that doesn’t mean you can’t make a romantic gesture.

But your gesture will be better received if you don’t do it immediately. Stop bothering your ex and begging them back. Give them some space without you. After some time has passed, then make one of these romantic gestures which will surprise them and remind them of you.

Tip one:

Send flowers. Don’t do this immediately after you give your ex what they want by contacting them less. Wait a little while then send a bouquet of their favourite flowers and have them delivered. Don’t have them delivered when they’re at work or in front of many other people. Have them delivered at home instead.

And don’t write wishes of getting back together or love on the card that’s attached. Include a message that says something as simple as I hope you’re doing well, or hope you’re okay.

Tip two:

Focus on them. Wait a while and then call or stop by when it feels like it would be okay to do so. But don’t talk about yourself or what you want. Ask if they need anything or if there’s anything that you can help them with. Do this without the pressure of anything in return.

Tip three:

Do something very thoughtful. After some time has passed, send them a thoughtful card or gift that’s obviously just for them. If they have exams coming up or a tough project at work, send a card of encouragement about it without mentioning yourself. For a birthday or any type of occasion, instead of the fancy gift, wash their car or give them something practical to show that you care.

Tip four:

Make a romantic gesture that doesn’t necessarily include you. Surprise them with two tickets to a movie or play designed for them to take someone else. They might just ask you now that the pressure’s off.

Tip five:

Give up something you know they want. Whether it was a CD or anything that belongs to you that you can replace, offer it to them in goodwill. These 5 ways to be romantic after a break up can help your efforts to get back together and make you both feel good.Similar Posts:

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Everyday we have millions of people signing up to date on the net. Some prefer doing it online for a considerable period of time, some sign in just to pick phone numbers and to start off from there! Where are certainly all types of options available for you, it is imperative for you to decide what exactly do you want from a relationship?

Dating sites have a vast gamut of options available for both men as well as women but women need to be extra careful before starting off in this direction. I am saying so because women are sensitive creatures and so you must ensure that you don’t get involved in anything that ends up eroding you as an individual. Well, until you are mentally prepared for it.

So the first thing like a said is knowing what you actually want from the relationship you are actually seeking. Do you simply want to flirt with your partner? Are you in for a physical relationship without any emotional strings attached? If you’ve had an experience, how you feel about it after you’ve had it? Did you mix your feelings in the process of simply seeking a flirty partner? Do you really relate to the concept you are going in for?

You know these are some questions you need to answer before heading for a relationship. This is because is you are not sure of what you want, how can you complain about after you’ve entangled yourself in something you never expected? So it is mandatory for you to know if you want to just hook up with a guy or are really in for a long lasting relationship!

Think well, you must have a strong attitude and aptitude towards anything you are heading for to ensure that you don’t end up regretting in anyway!

Be confident and act smart!

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The soft showers, the cold breeze and the tingling music of the droplets coupled with the enchanting chirp of the birds would want nothing but your lover beside you. The picturesque event on a date with your love can be made more romantic and cherished for life. Here are some romantic tips for several monsoon dates.

Long Drive On the Bike

before you hit the rainy streets, wrap yourself with raincoats, if you don’t want to sneeze for a whole week. However if you think, it’s just unromantic idea to zoom with raincoats then leave it at home but; make sure to warm yourself as soon as you return from the romantic trip. While speeding far away from the city, stop at places with a picturesque scenery to exchange a warm kiss or just to splash rain water. The warmest thing to do would be to recite some romantic lines in your lover’s arm or to sing some sizzling number together to enhance the love flame.

Long Drive In the Car

The rain drops may be just barred to reach you, but not the warmth of love. Buzz the empty streets with a soft music on the background to lighten the whole event. Park the car on a scenic area, while the rain still drizzles on your roof… and you know what to do next. The experience of a long drive is still warmer when you are out in the rain early in the morning.

Candlelight dinner in Balcony

Candle light dinner in the balcony with add ons like soft music and wine is just apt to hype the romance back in life. As the world gets drenched in water and snuggles inside the blanket fearing the great thunder and lightening, you swift to the warm banquet of just two to add spice to your love story. Let the dinner be a surprise to your partner. Send a cozy invitation with a flower bouquet. Dress yourself with a theme based line, or just be there with sexy outwear and dress the whole arena with magical fragrance. Pick your love from office and splurge on a party with an addition slow dancing evening and let the soft showers do the musical.

Rain Songs

Humming rain songs like the all time favourite Raj Kapoor-Nargis song Pyar hua ikrar hua hai, pyar se phir kyun darta hai dil, is a great idea to make your better half feel wanted and her love cherished. Even in the movie Masti, Vivek Oberoi and Lara Dutta dance to the number On the roof in the rain, and just watching that song is enough to pep up your love life.

Dance in the rain

Play some soft romantic music and dance with your partner on the living room floor while it rains outside. The raindrops outside too will provide their own rhythm to the music.

A silent walk on the watered street

Try this, go for a walk, sharing a single umbrella. The base rule for the evening walk is none of you will speak a word, until you return back to shelter. Experience thousands of innocent love expressions that will go bang! with a great spice up energy.

Gobble spicy food on the street

Steaming street food that may vary form hot chats to anything that may bring warmth to the chilled evening often leads to friendly, playful bonding.

Play an outdoor game on the Terrace!!

Play an outdoor game in the rain like football or basketball. If that game seems to be an alien sports then go for any sports that will have both of you glued together till the game ends. Rediscover your childhood with a gala teaming spirit.

Watch them drop down from heaven

If the above seems to be too adventurous then just follow the golden rule. Snuggle indoor during a thunderstorm. Grab a hot chocolate or any spicy meal and get settle down in front of the window or balcony, to watch the little droplets drop down from heaven. Spend time cuddling each other in a single warm shawl as the soft music plays at the background. Make sure to keep all the interruptions like phone calls at bay.

So as the clouds darken with a message of love shower today make sure to follow these tips to spice up love relationships. Happy monsoon dating!!!

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