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LA Police Assault Actress Rae'Ven Kelly

2016-07-18T18:33:00.000-07:00

Recently I was on Social Media and I came across a very disturbing story. I read Disney Actress Rae'Ven Kelly was recently assaulted by Los Angeles Police after getting off a train. This hit so close to home for me because I take the train regularly out here in LA and the thought crossed my mind that this could have been me! My prayers go out to her and her family during this difficult time. I'm just glad she had her husband on the phone listening in to the whole situation, and I hope she backs up her phone files because the police confiscated her device. Just a reminder to everyone out there please be cautious and always have a backup app on your phone just in case.

READ FULL STORY HERE!

WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY?

2016-06-15T14:52:00.000-07:00

I was sitting here thinking about how I can make a change in my life. Ive had this blog for years but I never used it as an outlet. I feel writing out your feelings is a powerful form of art that can inspire and influence other peoples lives, and I often wonder why I don't exercise my gift everyday. I realize that needs to change! Recently I went to an event and I met some awesome inspirational people who took the time to share their stories with me. Stories about how to grow, and build a brand to further your career. I would love to do my writing, acting, and production full time, but sitting at home wishing, and dreaming about it is NOT going to make it appear. Anytime you have a dream you have to constantly pursue it. Dreams are like a flower. In order for it to grow you need to water it, and nurture it every day. You cant just plant the seed and expect it to flourish. One thing I can say is Thank God I did not give up! No matter how hard things got for me here in LA I stayed. This is my home, and I'm not leaving until I choose to, and when I do move it will be to something BIGGER & BETTER!

The movie, "The Pursuit of Happyness" is something very near, and dear to my heart because it reminds me of a time in my life when my mother and I were homeless in NY, and we had to live out of a car, and stay in homeless shelters. It was a very difficult time in my life but I wouldn't take it back because it strengthened me and prepared me for my future. I hope you enjoy this video clip and find inspiration in this post!
XOXO

Life is a struggle for single father Chris Gardner (Will Smith). Evicted from their apartment, he and his young son (Jaden Christopher Syre Smith) find themselves alone with no place to go. Even though Chris eventually lands a job as an intern at a prestigious brokerage firm, the position pays no money. The pair must live in shelters and endure many hardships, but Chris refuses to give in to despair as he struggles to create a better life for himself and his son. -

Release date: December 15, 2006 (USA)

FUN TIMES IN CALI

2016-06-15T04:18:00.000-07:00

So recently I have decided to start going out more so I can network and make bigger moves, and so I joined some new groups on MeetUp.Com to find out what events were going on in my area. Well... this week there was a YouTube event and I decided to go and I had so much fun! I even was able to get info for a second music event as well for the same week. Recently it has been very difficult for me to focus on my goals because so many things are going on in my mind. I miss my Mom, and my family, and most of all I miss having friends to go out with. Even though I'm originally from LA all my best friends are on the East Coast. I have been trying to meet some cool people out in Cali but it just hasn't been the same. I always feel however there is a solution to every problem so I took some time to look within and ask myself what could I do to make things better, and the answer I came up with is, JUST TRY HARDER! LOL

When you move around a lot growing up its hard to form long lasting relationships because you never have any stability. I always moved back and forth from New York to California throughout my adolescent years so my friends are all spread out and that's really frustrating, but such is life. If you want something to change you have to put forth the effort and make it happen so here I am making it Happen! I have several other networking events to attend this week, and I feel good about my progress. As long as you keep moving forward you can Never Fail!

Until Next Time....

NIKE RUN CLUB LA

2016-06-11T05:39:00.000-07:00

One day I was out in Santa Monica, CA and I saw a group of people all wearing Nike gear gathered around and I discovered they were a Nike Run Club. I thought how cool is that! I am trying to get in shape and I would love to be a part of a club like that. So when I went on the website to get more information, CLICK HERE and found out they have these clubs all across the U.S. and when I tagged #NRC on #Instagram I saw people all over the world participating in this group.

I decided to sign up for a Saturday AM run. I must admit I was nervous when I arrived on my first day because I'm extremely out of shape, but everyone made me feel welcomed and part of the team right away so that was great! The first thing we did was break into groups, and everyone received a wristband and it marked the distance and pace you wanted to run. I of-course picked the shortest run because I didn't want to pass out from exhaustion. After the groups were formed everyone was assigned a pacer aka team captain in the group to encourage the team and to keep an eye out on everyone. We had two Pacers in my group. The great thing about this club is they provide complementary Food such as apples, oranges, and banana's and you also receive plenty of water to take with you on the run as well. Bonus!

Prior to the run we all do warm-ups and stretches to get prepared and then each group starts off running! In the beginning I felt ready to go, and I was in the front of the line keeping up with everyone in the group but after about 5 minutes in I started falling behind, and after about 13 minutes the "Pacer" had to come to my rescue because I had slowed down from running to walking and I was totally out of breathe! LOL So to make a long story short they had to move on without my FAT A** LMAO but the good news is even though I didn't finish with my group I didn't give up! The coach instructed me to take another path so I could still get a 3 mile run/walk in so that's what I did.

I feel good about going to the NRC meetup, and after I left I also went and worked out on the track as well. So I definitely had a productive day, and I felt Greeeaaattttttt!!!!!!!

I PUBLISHED MY FIRST BOOK! (THE ANTIDOTE)

2016-04-24T10:33:00.001-07:00

So... I finally published my first E-book on Amazon! It was a long time coming but I'm proud the day is here. After this Series I will be releasing my Erotica Series so go check it out and give me your honest feedback!

Much Love,
XoXo
MizzBlaze

PREFACE:

Love is often times found in the strangest places, and under the most profound circumstances. Candy has managed to deceive everyone around her into thinking that she is a strong woman who doesn’t need anyone to survive, but in her heart she yearns for true Love and affection. She secretly craves acceptance, and most of all she wants to escape her dark filled past, but bad habits are hard to break.

One evening a mysterious man walks into her life and appears to offer the solution to all her problems, but her knight in shining armor has a dark past of his own, and Candy finds herself trapped in a whirlwind of lies, murder, and betrayal. Will she have the courage to break out of the darkness before it’s too late? Or will she find herself as another statistic?

This is not your average love story filled with romance and happy endings. This is a story of Pain, Strength, and Vindication where nothing is as it appears to be.

Click Here to Download: THE ANTIDOTE Pt. I: Not Your Average Love Story

ADVICE FROM A MAN...

2016-04-18T23:40:00.000-07:00

Someone sent me this in an email. What do you think?? Agree or Disagree??

ADVICE FROM A MAN....

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

4. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

5 . Slower is better.

6. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

7. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve, then, Heck no you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. (Tell it like it is!)

8. Don't settle.

9. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

10. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

11. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

12. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

13. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

14. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.

15. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

16. You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change comes from within.

17. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.

18. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

19. Never let a man define who you are.

20. Never borrow someone else's man.

21. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

22. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

23 . All men are NOT dogs.

24. You should not be the one doing all the bending compromise is a two way street.

25. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.

26. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complementary...not supplementary.

27. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

28. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him, he takes it for granted.

29. Never move into his mother's house.

30. Never co-sign for a man.

--Anonymous ---

I didn't personally write this, but I thought it was very interesting!--- XoXo MizzBlaze

GROUPIE LUV!

2016-04-06T11:40:00.000-07:00

In reality there is nothing wrong with having admiration for someone. It’s easy to look up to a public figure and feel some sort of attraction to them. Whether it’s because of their talents and gifts or because of the way they claim power and attention. After all who wants someone who is just sitting around not making moves? The people that are the most appealing often times are the ones who are action takers, and leaders. You look up to them because they have stepped up to the plate, and done things that other people have only dreamed to do. So why wouldn’t you feel some kind of attraction for them?

The Term Groupie is defined as---- "An ardent fan of a celebrity, someone who follows a group/artist around on tours. An admirer of a celebrity who attends as many of his or her public appearances as possible."

So how does this admiration turn into a Sexual Attraction? You start off as a fan “A devotee or enthusiast", and then the next thing you know you are being referred to as a Groupie which is a "Fan" to the tenth power. The feelings you develop go from being basic to sexual, and you start fantasizing about this unknown person in a romantic sense. Whenever you see them in an interview, or video you start to imagine how it would be to have them in your life for real, and you become intrigued to know about all the moves they make. Some people may say these feelings are crazy, and down right obsessive, but are they really? What’s wrong with wanting to know about someone you’re attracted to? I feel your admiration only becomes dangerous when you take an aggressive action toward your crush, and you do and say things that are out of your character in order to gain their affection or temporary love.

Having a "Groupie Luv" is perfectly safe in my opinion as long as you do not put yourself in harms way or degrade yourself or your body in order to get a temporary fix. Contrary to popular belief, I don’t believe all groupie luv involves an exchange of sexual favors. I feel you can look up to someone, follow their progress, be attracted to them and go on to build a plutonic relationship with them. After all aren’t Entertainers and Athletes normal people too? They Love, Cry, and get their Hearts Broken just like everyone else. So why do you have to be called names just because you admire someone, or because you fantasize about a person in a sexual way. Isn’t this a normal feeling? Why wouldn’t you have sexual thoughts for someone you find attractive? Whether they are in the lime light or not!

There are all types of Luvs, and I personally feel that nothing is wrong with "Groupie Luv" as long as that love doesn’t turn into a Dangerous Fatal Attraction. No matter what kind of situation you’re in, you have to keep your safety, and self respect as your first priority. If you’re of age, and you can wake up in the morning and be proud of what you did the night before then who’s to judge? You have to be happy and fulfilled with yourself, and be able to live with your actions, and choices in life. I feel "Love" is a beautiful thing, but you need to always have love and respect for yourself before you can have Love for anyone else. Keep in mind that Artist and Athletes again are just people. They are not Gods or Untouchable Creatures.

I feel it’s important to understand that most people who are currently in the lime light once had a “Groupie Luv” too! They have looked up to artist/entertainers on TV, and have been attracted to them, followed their progress, and had sexual thoughts about them. It’s completely normal, and innocent in nature to have a “Groupie Luv”, at least until you take aggressive action, and then it becomes something more.

~Be Safe & Much Luv~

XoXo

IS YOUR WOMAN CHEATING?

2016-04-04T11:23:00.000-07:00

Fellas: Do you have a feeling your woman is cheating on you? Most of the time there are blogs, and advice columns out there for women, but what about the men? Today I want to focus on helping out all the fellas.... I feel its time for the men to have some feedback this time around! The world would like us to believe that all men are dogs, but I personally dont agree. There are men out there that are sensitive, compassionate, and loving. Men can get hurt in a relationship just as much as a woman can. Lets look at some signs of a cheating....WOMAN!

1. A sudden loss of interest- She used to enjoy going out in public with you and your friends, but now all of a sudden she just wants to stay in the house. Why? Is there something she wants to hide?

2. Change in physical appearance- Your lady used to dress average on a daily basis, but now shes wearing new dresses, new perfume, and all of a sudden her hair, and make-up are flawless! Why the sudden change? She says she just wants to start looking better for you? Hmmm yeah ok!

3. Strange phone calls- Is your girl starting to get phone calls late at night? Or all of a sudden her phone is on vibrate, and then when she goes to answer it she leaves the room or goes outside to answer the call. *side eye* Why? Whats going on? Could it be her "Boyfriend No. 2"

4. Missed Calls- Every time you go to call her she is suddenly unavailable, and when she calls you back she always has some lame excuse like, "My phone had bad reception so I didn't get the call" or "I forgot my phone over my girlfriends house" Hmmm yeah ok! *side eye*

5. Secrecy- Does it seem like all of a sudden your girlfriend got a new job working for the F.B.I? When you ask her questions about her day, or what she has planned for the weekend she starts giving you short strange answers. Woman are generally smooth in covering their tracks when it comes to cheating, but if you know your woman well enough you can pick up on her mood changes... you just need to pay attention.

6. Sexual Appetite- Does your girlfriend seem to have a loss of sexual energy? She used to want to have sex all the time, but now she could care less? OR She has the same sexual appetite, but now she is trying new an extra freaky tricks in the bedroom that she has never tried before? Hmm.. Could her new man be teaching her something that your not?

7. Spending more time with her girlfriends- Is your partner going over her girlfriends house a lot more all of a sudden? Or she has she met some new friends, that she wants to spend her time with? Could it really be a guy? Hmm (Also be aware of the Cover Girl) This is a girlfriend who always seems to come to your partners side to justify her sudden change in Social Networking! *side eye*

8. Increase in Arguments- Is she arguing with you more than usual, and then storming out the house? Are the arguments about small meaningless things, that usually didn't bother her before? Could it be an excuse to leave and spend some more time with her boo? Hmm Watch out!

9. Working Late- Is your girlfriend telling you she needs to spend more time at the office? All of a sudden she has projects that require her to stay extra long hours, and maybe even spend the night at a hotel or girlfriends house? Hmm yeah ok!

10. Guilty Conscious- Sudden gifts come out of no where, and for no particular reason. Candle light dinners, or trips out to eat just because. Sometimes she could just want to be nice, but sometimes it could be signs of a guilty conscious!

---Although these signs can go either way for a man or a woman, I wanted to take sometime to focus on the fellas since they always get neglected!---- XoXo MizzBlaze

COMMITMENT PHOBIA!

2016-03-24T11:57:00.000-07:00

Do you get nervous when the person your dating starts saying things like, "I Miss You" "I Cant Stop Thinking About You" or " Lets be Exclusive” ? Do you find yourself always running for the heels every time someone says the words, "I Love You” ? If this sounds like you, or someone you know You Or that other person may be suffering from....

COMMITMENT PHOBIA!

Commitment Phobia is very common. In fact most people have it and don’t even realize it because it’s embedded in their subconscious.Let’s face it, everyone is scared of being hurt by love and that’s ok because fear is a part of life, but if this fear is stopping you from experiencing the great things that love has to offer than you may want to do a bit of self reflection. Fear is an emotion that usually comes from past experiences.

If you have witnessed a string of negative relationships from your family or friends for example you could unconsciously be running from love because you don’t want to endure the same heart breaking end results. You could also build Commitment Phobia from opening up to someone in the past, and becoming deeply wounded or betrayed because of it, but just because you are afraid of something doesn’t mean you can’t overcome it.

Love has many more positives than negatives. Think back to the beginning of your relationships, and not the end. Remember when you couldn’t wait to see that person after a long day of work... Just the thought of their face or the sound of their voice would make you feel so overwhelmed with joy and happiness. That is the image you should hold in your mind when you think of the word LOVE, because love is about joy and happiness not pain and heartbreak.

As in all situations you have to take the good with the bad, and you should always evaluate your past relationships so you can learn from them and grow, but you should never dwell on the past or become so obsessed with it that it holds you back from your future! Commitment Phobia may be a part of life, but it does NOT have to be a Permanent Life Threatening disease without a Cure.Real Love Can Heal a Broken Heart! So think happy thoughts, and you will find the one who makes you feel happiness for eternity!

MIND GAMES

2015-10-04T19:08:00.000-07:00

Has someone ever accused you of playing, "Mind Games" ?? Or have you felt that someone has played "Mind Games" with you in the past? If so lets talk about why this happens, and also discuss some of the causes behind it.

It has been said that when you first meet someone you don’t really meet them... you meet their "Representative" I.E. the person they want you to meet, the person they want to present to you. As time goes on however you get to see the real man/woman behind the mask. The question is why do people play games? Why not be real from the start, don’t they understand the truth always comes out? The answer unfortunately is NO! Insecurity, Past Commitment Issues, and Fear causes allot of people from opening up and being themselves, especially in the beginning of the relationship, and therefore putting up a "Front" is natural for them. It’s somewhat of a protection or barrier against being hurt.

Some people play mind games for different reasons however. Mind Games can be used not just as a barrier but as a mechanism to deceive and manipulate for someone’s own personal gain. In some situations mind games are played to build a reputation as a player, or playette, pimp or gigolo. For whatever the reason mind games are still wrong because they give a false perception of the real person, and they usually end up causing pain, and frustration for the other party/'(s) in involved.

So now that we have gone over the reasoning behind these games lets look at how to decipher the games from the truth! It has been said before, and I’m going to say it again... “Actions Speak Louder Than Words!” If you are unsure of someone’s true intentions watch their actions, and not their words. See if they can back up everything they are verbally expressing to you. Do their actions appear sincere? If not you may have to question their true objective.

The second way to see past all the games and lies it to have “Patience.” Never rush into anything too fast because it can cause you to be blinded from the truth. Take your time, sit back and WATCH. Keep your eyes, and ears wide open. Time will tell if the person you are with is playing games, or if they truly mean what they say.
XoXo Written by, MizzBlaze

FINDING A NEW LOVE

2015-10-02T03:36:00.000-07:00

Out with the old and in "With the New" Its time to get over that past relationship, and put yourself back on the market. The problem is it’s been so long that you don’t know where to start. Well have no fear; here are some steps to get you moving in the right direction.

The first step of finding a new love is to not look for one, yes I said it "don’t look"! After you get out of an old relationship use the time you have for self reflection. Go out and enjoy life! Start a new hobby, take some walks in the park, maybe adopt a new pet, but don’t go looking for love, instead let it find you. When you start on your journey towards self reflection you find new and exciting things to do that make you happy. When you are happy and in a state of bliss you will attract other people of like mind towards you. This is one of the first steps in meeting the right ONE.

After connecting with a new potential love make sure you take the time to build up your friendship, don’t rush into anything too soon. Love is always worth the wait so you have plenty of time to take the relationship to the next level. In the meantime just enjoy each others company, and start to learn about the person’s likes, and dislikes. You can share your dreams, ambitions, and fantasies together. This builds up a healthy rapport so that you can learn one another on a deeper level. Save intimacy until you feel it’s the appropriate time for the both of you, remember rushing into something too soon can ruin the connection so take it slow.

Remember when building a new relationship take heed to not bring up your past partner or past relationship issues. This can hinder or tarnish your future relationship, that’s why self reflection is so important. Make sure that you have cleansed yourself from your past baggage so that when you go into a new connection you are fresh to experience all that love has to offer! Your past is your past, learn from it and move forward!

HOLDING OUT

2015-10-02T02:33:00.000-07:00

So you met someone new and your wondering...

HOW LONG SHOULD I HOLD OUT??

Well that all depends on you, and the vibe that you’re having with the other person. When starting a new romance you should take some time to talk, and get to know each other on a mental level before you bring sex into the picture. Holding out sometimes can be frustrating especially if you are getting close with the person and you are highly attracted to them, but good things are worth the wait! So...What's the Rush?

There are plenty of things you can do romantically in the beginning of your relationship to feel the person out before you take it to the next level. The best way to keep it subtle is to stay in open spaces. Don’t spend alone time together for the first couple months if you are trying to take it slow. If you find yourself one on one with the person you may not be able to hold back, so instead do things that can build your relationship, and friendship in an open setting. You and your potential partner can go out to events that you both enjoy such as, Poetry Readings, Sporting Events, and Carnivals.

Try not to focus on the physical, but instead grow your understanding of the other person’s likes and dislikes. What makes them tick? What annoys them the most? These are all important questions you should be asking yourself in the beginning of your courtship. When you start to learn a persons moral values, and beliefs it makes it easier to see if you want to go further with them.

The best thing about building a friendship first is the romantic stimulation that comes along with the anticipation of the wait. Every night you are thinking about how it would be to have that person in your arms, and wondering how it would be to take it to the next level with them. All the thoughts and feelings in conjunction with your discipline build for a greater experience. When you take the time to get to know someone on a mental level it makes the Sex that much more Explosive because there are true Feelings, and Passion behind the Stimulation. You are connected on a Mental, and Physical level. So Holding Out can bring much more than A Greater Understanding, it can also bring a Higher Level of Sexual Gratification.

So there’s no need to Rush! Holding Out Is a Good Thing!

GOING DUTCH

2015-09-30T21:39:00.000-07:00

Proper Dating Etiquette 101!

Often times when you have your first date it can be very uncomfortable because there are a lot of uncertainties. You are unsure of the persons motives, intentions, personality, and moral up bringing. If the “Male” was raised to be the head of household for example, he will usually bring a more old fashioned way of thinking into the relationship. If he was raised in a household where the woman was the bread winner however, he may have a more modern way of thinking. Either way it’s important to "Communicate" with the person you are going out with prior to your date in order to have a general idea of what to expect. On a first date it’s typical that the initiator will pick up the bill. However this is not always the case. It goes back to the person’s upbringing, and their way of thinking.

If you are unsure about how things are going to go when the bills comes to the table the best thing to do is to have a brief conversation prior to going out on your date. It may seem slightly taboo to some, but in the end it’s effective. You will not be sitting at the table staring at one another wondering what the other person is thinking when the check arrives. Going Dutch is traditionally for people who are not romantically involved or for new couples feeling each other out, but everyone has their own opinion on splitting the bill.

Some men find it insulting if a woman offers to pick up the tab or pay her own way at the end of the date, whereas some men find it very attractive, and invigorating. Stereo-typically the man is expected by society to be the one to pick up the bill on a romantic date, but "Going Dutch" is becoming more common. There are some situations where the woman will pay for the entire meal herself because she feels empowered to do so. Whatever the case may be there is no right or wrong way to handle the situation. The most important factor is the mutual understanding between both parties.

Communicate with the person you are going out with, and express how you feel about dating. It should not be an aggressive or pushy conversation. Keep it simple, and upbeat. You can say something like, “I can’t wait for our first date Friday night! It will be great to spend some one on one time with you. (pause) I was wondering, what are some of your dating dos and don’ts? Do you feel it’s more acceptable to go “Dutch” on a first date? Or do you prefer to be the one picking up the bill?” Opening up the conversation this way is non offensive, and it can lead to a much needed dialogue that can help you to better understand the person you’re going out with. Having this discussion prior to the date will allow you to feel more relaxed on that first night. After all you will have enough things on your mind, why add to the pressure?

HAPPY DATING!!

GROUPIE LUV!

2015-09-30T16:42:00.000-07:00

You have admired a Music Artist or Ball Player from afar... You keep up with their latest actions, and you respect his/her talents. You feel some kind of affection towards this person all though you have never met them face to face. The thought of them makes you smile, and feel all giddy inside when you see them come across your TV screen... These feelings are similar to Love, but how can you be in Love with someone who doesn’t even know you exist?? Could this be the beginning of a ... Groupie Luv!

In reality there is nothing wrong with having admiration for someone. It’s easy to look up to a public figure and feel some sort of attraction to them.

It could be because of their talents and gifts or because of the way they claim power and attention. After all who wants someone who is just sitting around not making moves? The people that are the most appealing often times are the ones who are action takers, and leaders. You look up to them because they have stepped up to the plate, and done things that other people have only dreamed to do. So why wouldn’t you feel some kind of attraction for them?

The Term Groupie is defined as---- "An ardent fan of a celebrity, someone who follows a group/artist around on tours. An admirer of a celebrity who attends as many of his or her public appearances as possible."

So how does this admiration turn into a Sexual Attraction? You start off as a fan “A devotee or enthusiast", and then the next thing you know you are being referred to as a Groupie which is a "Fan" to the tenth power. The feelings you develop go from being basic to sexual, and you start fantasizing about this unknown person in a romantic sense.

Whenever you see them in an interview, or video you start to imagine how it would be to have them in your life for real, and you become intrigued to know about all the moves they make. Some people may say these feelings are crazy, and down right obsessive, but are they really? What’s wrong with wanting to know about someone you’re attracted to? I feel your admiration only becomes dangerous when you take an aggressive action toward your crush, and you do and say things that are out of your character in order to gain their affection or temporary love.

Having a "Groupie Luv" is perfectly safe in my opinion as long as you do not put yourself in harms way or degrade yourself or your body in order to get a temporary fix. Contrary to popular belief, I don’t believe all groupie luv involves an exchange of sexual favors. I feel you can look up to someone, follow their progress, be attracted to them and go on to build a platonic relationship with them. After all aren’t Entertainers and Athletes normal people too? They Love, Cry, and get their Hearts Broken just like everyone else.

So why do you have to be called names just because you admire someone, or because you fantasize about a person in a sexual way. Isn’t this a normal feeling? Why wouldn’t you have sexual thoughts for someone you find attractive? Whether they are in the lime light or not! There are all types of Luvs, and I personally feel that nothing is wrong with "Groupie Luv" as long as that love doesn’t turn into a Dangerous Fatal Attraction. No matter what kind of situation you’re in, you have to keep your safety, and self respect as your first priority.

If you’re of age, and you can wake up in the morning and be proud of what you did the night before then who’s to judge? You have to be happy and fulfilled with yourself, and be able to live with your actions, and choices in life. I feel "Love" is a beautiful thing, but you need to always have love and respect for yourself before you can have Love for anyone else. Keep in mind that Artist and Athletes again are just people. They are not Gods or Untouchable Creatures.

I feel it’s important to understand that most people who are currently in the lime light once had a “Groupie Luv” too! They have looked up to artist/entertainers on TV, and have been attracted to them, followed their progress, and had sexual thoughts about them. It’s completely normal, and innocent in nature to have a “Groupie Luv”, at least until you take aggressive action, and then it becomes something more.

~Be Safe & Much Luv~ XoXo

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2012-03-19T23:53:00.001-07:00

Hey Guys!

Long time no update right? Yeah I know! SMH Well I wanted to update my page again to let you know I have still been on my grind, however things have been kinda ruff lately in my life. I'm still moving but at a slower rate than I usually do. I will be ok just have to get some things in order so I can finally see how all my hard work is paying off. The good news is since I have updated my blog I got several new jobs that are flexible and work with my acting schedule. However me not having a car has been affecting my mood lately. I cant truly enjoy my blessings due to the stress of public transportation, but I am working on solving that issue. I have almost reached my money goal to buy a car, and I am focused on getting something I really will love. Here is a picture of the Make-Up Infomercial I was in recently.

Enjoy!

Love
Maya

REALITY TV ENCINO, CA EDITION!

2011-04-19T20:58:00.001-07:00

So this past week they finally started taping for the Reality Show I auditioned for last month. I had so much fun, and I met some new friends as well. I was in Encino, CA and the weather was beautiful.

In case your wondering why I look like a female Steve Urkel its because I had to change up my appearance for the show! LOL

I cant talk much about the project yet, but what I can tell you is, its a new dating show coming out on CBS so make sure you stay tuned because I will update you when I get more info! Watch my video below and leave me a comment! XOXO much Love

MizzBlaze

CHECK ME OUT IN B.O.B'S - DR. ADEN VIDEO

2011-03-15T00:18:00.002-07:00

THE FEMALES TEN COMMANDMENTS

2010-12-28T22:46:00.001-08:00

Many people ask me why I'm single, and honestly there is no simple answer. I have given so many guys chances recently, and in the end it was a big FAIL! I'm not trying to say all the guys I ever dated were bad, I'm speaking on the last couple of years. I did have several Good Men in my life, and when I had them it was me who messed up. I was not mature enough to handle a serious relationship back then, and I think a part of me was afraid that the relationship was too good to be true, so I purposely sabotaged it.

Now that I have matured and I'm ready to be open, and take a chance at Love it seems all I meet are lazy guys who want Sex with no commitment or Sex without putting in any work at all. No courtship, no dinners, no being there when your car breaks down, just Sex and then they go about their business. Maybe I'm not getting out enough or maybe I need to travel more because lately I've been working a lot and I haven't had the chance to move around, but Damn it seems the older I get the worse my selection of "Men" become.

I know I am partially to blame because I have not always laid down "The Rules" AKA said exactly what I expected or what I wanted. I just hung out with them, and did the whole independent woman routine. My mom raised me to never depend on a man so I rarely asked for help. A part of me thought it would make me look weak. But now that I have a house, and bigger responsibilities I realize that when you have a man in your life he should be there to make your life easier not harder.

He should alleviate some of your stress, and in turn you should be there to support him as well. I never expected much so I never got much. So because of that I was wrong, but now that I have grown I understand that as a woman you must not give in to your feelings of loneliness, and sexual urges before you know that the person that your dealing with is truly in your best interest. In other words they care about your well being, and want to give not just take, they care about your happiness, and your safety. Someone who will go out of their way to let you know that you are not alone in this world, and that they have your back.

Too many woman allow a man to get something for nothing. They cook and clean for them, open their legs for them, give their love, and affection away for what? for sexual gratification? For someone to warm your bed at night? If that's all you need ladies get a Heated Blanket and a Vibrator! I have been guilty of these things in the past, and on a Serious Note just 5 months ago I gave my all to someone who did not deserve or appreciate my time or affection but it STOPS NOW!

No matter how bad it gets I need to understand that my Priorities comes first over my Loneliness, and need for affection. I'm a woman not a girl anymore, and its well over due that I Say What I want from a man in a realistic context and not allow the Bullshit to continue. A guy needs to put in work to be with me, but I'm also willing to put in the same amount of work in return. Ive never had a problem giving my all and making sure that the person I'm with is happy. My only problem was in the midst of giving him my all I forgot about what HE should be giving to ME!

This is my Theme song for 2011! Ladies please pay attention to the lyrics below!

LIL MO & LIL KIM "TEN COMMANDMENTS"

Ladies, I wrote me a manual
How to keep your man
These rules you must follow
My 10 commandments
(Oo, oo, oo)

Let me break it down for you
Rule number 1
Never give him some on the first night
Rule number 2
Never bring your man around your crew

Rule number 3
Never call him first let him call you
Rule number 4
Never let him know your every move

Rule number 5
Never tell him about your past
How many other lovers you've had?
How many other lovers went bad?
Make no exceptions
If you want it to last

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Rule number 6
Never mix business with pleasure
Rule number 7
Never move in unless he tell ya

Rule number 8
Never tell your friends about your bedroom
Rule number 9
Never let them know his shoe size

Rule number 10
Should have been rule number 1
'Cos If you give in on the first night
Make sure you ride that thing

Scream his name
And he'll be yours for life
'Cos you know your excited
('Cos you know your excited)

And you just can't fight it
And you wanna tell all your friends
But you've got to make sure loves intact
Because you want him to keep coming back

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

There's never no such thing as giving him to much
'Cos if you want to wed with your man
You can never give enough
'Cos you get excited

And wanna tell everybody
But you've got to make sure
Loves intact
Then it will help you bring him back

I've been in this thing for years
It made me an animal
Me and my girl
Mo wrote you'll a manual

Step by step booklet for you to keep
Your man in his place
And out the next girls' face
Rule number 1

Never give a dude money
Girl, don't be a dummy
Let the homie, stay bummy
'Cos once he start, he won't stop, that's it

And all he gonna do is spend it on the next chic
Rule number 2
Before you give him some
It's your way

Shoppin', a new car
That's what I call foreplay
Now don't get me wrong
Respect your man

But if dude gets out of line
Then check your man
Rule number 3
Should have been rule number 1

Never go down
Till he licks you round
Your neck, your back, your pus** and a** crack
Rule number 4, 5 and 6

Very important lessons
Keep your man guessing
Never let him see you stressing
And if you love heres 7, 8, 9 and 10

Never ever, ever mess with his friend
See if you follow these
You'll have mad bred
To breaka house on the beach

And mad trips to jacob
He'll be home at night cooking you a steaka
And he'll keep coming back for more
On the wake up

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Girl, you got to understand him
If you want to keep your man whipped
Follow my 10 commandments
And he'll keep coming back for more
And more and more

Understand
If you want to keep your man
And you want to hold on to him
Keep your man whipped

Follow my 10 commandments
Ha, you got it
Ha, keep coming back for more
Understand

Keep your man
My command
More and more and more
More and more and more

MUCH LUV XOXO @{~~~~~~

WHAT IS SEXY TO YOU?

2010-11-13T18:02:00.000-08:00

I went to the movies today to go see "For Colored Girls" which I might add is a very good movie. My baby Omari Hardwick was looking extra sexy. I'm gonna have to ignore the part about him being a .... well I don't wanna ruin the movie! (side eye) LOL So anyway as I walking through the theater on the way to my seat I noticed several guys staring at me.

Now, there's nothing wrong with guys looking at a female right? Well the problem was that most of these guys were on a date. I looked around at the females in the theater, and I noticed that most of them were dressed down in outfits that in my opinion should only be worn around the house not on a date! I meanwhile had on my suede knee high boots, jeans, a black knitted shirt, with my hair, and nails done. In other words I was dressed to go out.

I never have understood how some females just let themselves go when they get a man. Keeping yourself up both physically and emotionally is important in any relationship. Now I know that men will always look, but they should never be lusting for another female when they are around you. Glancing is to be expected, but he shouldn't be fantasizing about another female, and wishing that he was with her instead of you. Men are physical creatures and appearance is very important to them. Just like we as females need affection, men need to feel appreciated too. I personally feel its disrespectful for any female to go out on a date with her man, and not look her best.

All Im saying it to ask your man what is sexy to him. Find out what turns him on, and make a point to switch things up every once in a while. Smelling good is just as important as looking good! Some sweet smelling perfume is just as necessary as some heels, and a sexy dress. I understand that sometimes you dont want to dress up, but its important to keep your man excited, and interested. I dont expect every female to look extra sexy 24/7 but when you go out with your man you should make him happy to have you on his arm, and in return he should do the same for you.

Keep the relationship HOT in and out of the bedroom! Role Play, Weekend trips alone without the kids, and unexpected love notes to say you care are all important elements to keeping a relationship strong.

How important is the one you love? What is Sexy to You?

XOXO MizzBlaze

SLACKIN ON MY PIMPIN!

2010-11-08T19:44:00.000-08:00

OK OK!! I know it has been forever since I wrote anything in my blog and I know that's a Major Fail! I promise however that I'm going to do better at keeping up with my blog post in the future. Alot of things have been going on since I last updated my website. I left my full time job so I could go back to school and focus on my acting. I am currently in the process of finishing up the testing for my nursing class so I can have the freedom that I need to pursue my other interest.

The only problem now is my car situation. My car broke down just when I finished school. I guess I should be happy that it ran long enough for me to finish up my clinicals! LOL I'm not complaining! God is good! and he allowed me to get to where I needed to go, and now that I'm moving on to the next phase in my life I know that everything will work out in my favor. All I have to do is continue to grind hard and have faith. Its only a matter of time before I get a new car, and get things just where they need to be.

Hugs and Kisses! I will update again soon!!!

Smooches!
MizzBlaze

ITS GETTING STICKY! PART 1

2010-04-28T10:03:00.001-07:00

Its been a while since I blogged!! but today I really gotta get some things off my chest!

Around February 2010 I was in my first official movie! It was called "The Gift", featuring Charles S Dutton, and Jamie Hector. I was called in to do background work for a Birthday Party Scene. Everything was so unexpected because I wasn’t even looking for any extra work at the time. I was working with an agent in order to book some modeling jobs, and she asked if I wanted to work on a movie project. I said yes because I have a deep passion for movies, and there was no place id rather be on a Friday night than on a movie set! I mean why sit home watching a movie when you can actually be a part of one! LOL

When I got on set I instantly adapted to the environment, and it became a part of me! I was not shy or nervous. I just smiled and became friendly with everyone I could. The casting director and other people on the set really liked my down to earth personality, and told the agent I was working with that I was a pleasure to have on set. I wanted to stay all night, and I was sad when they told us that it was time to go home.

After that day the acting bug bit me in the ASS BIG TIME, and I have been looking for more opportunities ever since. I have always had a fear about auditioning in front of people. I didn’t think I could have the courage to go to an audition and get rejected by a table full of agents, but little did I know... I had more courage then I knew.

In March i decided to sign up with a casting company in NY, and I worked hard searching vigorously on google for more auditions. I put aside my fear and said screw the punk ass routine lets do this shit! So I went on my first audition about 2 weeks ago. The first audition I had was for a play. Little did I know however it was for a musical, and my ass is not trynna break no mirrors by singing! lol so I just did an improv skit with some other actors, and I did a great job! The only thing I was off on was my Monologue! Damn Monologue Why do you have to do those things anyway? LMAO Well despite my FAIL on the monologue side I did awesome with the improv skit so I was satisfied because I gave it my best!

The following day I had a second audition for an independent film in Philadelphia. I kid you not all the fear I had the previous day was completely gone, and I had turned into a completely different person! A confident person. When I got to my audition I blew everyone including myself away! The panel was all smiles, and nodding their heads at my performance, and this past week I got a call from the director telling me personally that he wanted me for the movie!

I have also been fortuned enough to work on the TV show Mercy Hospital in NY as a Nurse during my short time as an Actress. This Monday I finished my first film where I had several lines. It was for a student film at Temple University.

I must admit that I am working harder at this than I have at anything else I have ever done! When I have to miss an audition for my full time day job I swear tears start welling up in my eyes, and I start to cry! That’s how I know this is what I was meant to do! I AM AN ACTRESS! There’s nothing anyone can tell me to change that! I have proven to myself that I have the natural gift to act, and I know that god has blessed me with these skills. I have no doubt in my mind. Everyone in life has god given talents, and gifts, and if you use these gifts you will be happy from within because you are truly doing something you love! Its not a job, but a career. A career that you can be proud of!

A couple days ago I was on the set for another movie project, and they called me back again for background work. I had so much fun working with the crew last time I was there, and I met some other great actors, and actresses. There was no way I was turning this opportunity down for anything! however... here comes the sticky part... MY 9-5 JOB!

One thing I have learned in this profession over the last several months is YOU CANT HAVE A FULL TIME JOB AND TRULLY BE CONSIDERED AN ACTOR! To perfect your craft and become one with it you have to sacrifice, and put it first above everything else! You have to be willing to grind on the computer for over 6-7 hours a day looking for auditions or extra work. You have to put aside money for quality photos, and you have to be willing to do work for Free so you can add experience to your resume!

Well right now I am at the cross roads. I want to give up everything for the one thing that makes me smile! The one thing that makes me truly happy, but how can I do it when I have a mortgage, and bills out the ass? AND When I have a job where people take off all the time, and expect me to always be there to cover them! Leaving me with no time to leave, and do things I want to do! Well...The answer is this. I have to make a choice. This situation reminds me of a scene from one of my favorite movies by one of my favorite actors WILL SMITH

"You got a dream, you gotta protect it. When people can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you that you can't do it....If you want something GO GET IT!! PERIOD!"

Life is too short to be Unhappy!

Stay Tuned for PART 2!

I DONT BELIEVE YOU! AND IM DONE!

2010-02-09T12:21:00.003-08:00

So as everyone may know I am getting over my Fantasy Romance with Joe! I talk about him all the time, so anyone who watches my videos or follows me on Twitter should know who he is. *side eye* Well anyway I am sick of trying to apologize to him. It’s obvious that he has moved on and its time for me to move on too. I already deleted his number and took down his picture from my wall. I received a text from him the other night that said, "Somethings will neva change I Love you and as we move along our paths in life stay strong and beautiful be wise baby your life will blossom keep growing" So anyway I deleted that message because I'm not allowing my feelings to get involved again. I pray that he is happy, and I will always love him forever cause I’ve known him since I was 5 years old, but you snooze you lose, and I wasn’t ready when he was so I just have to except that and let him go! *sigh*

One thing I don’t agree with is the fact that he said he loves me. I honestly don’t think he knows what love is. Or is it me that doesn’t know? I guess the verdict is still out on that, but anyway I feel when you love someone you show them, whether you love them as a friend or intimately. I have friends that live all over from New York, to Miami on out to California and I talk to them on a regular basis. Our distance does not stop us from talking on the phone or keeping in touch, but every time I call Joe he hardly answers and he doesn’t call me back till months later so how can he say he loves me? I don’t think that’s love at all! I believe he cares about me deeply but loves me NO! I don’t feel he loves me. When you love someone you check on them. You call them on a regular basis to say hello or you return their phone call when they call you!

As I’m writing this I’m thinking about my best friend Hamid who is locked up in California. I say I love him but I haven’t written him in months. So how can I talk about Joe being at fault when I am also at fault too? *sigh* Well I guess sometimes when you are overcome by your own emotions, personal situations, and feelings you don’t put the people you say you care about first in your life. Sometimes you can become selfish, and even egotistical, overwhelmed by your own thoughts and feelings. I have done this myself, so I guess its wrong for me to judge someone else. In my heart I know Joe loves me but I don’t want to focus on that because It will make me confused, and I need to move past him in order for me to grow. Being stuck in the past is no way to live. If he is meant for my future then it will be, but I can’t fantasize about it anymore, because it’s not healthy. So what’s the point of saying all this.... *side eye* Well I just had to vent, and purge this out my system.

"We gotta face it there'll be times that we let each other down. And on the days that you ain't feeling me, will you be able to stick around, Cause anything worth having is worth fighting for. If we really want this thing to work We gotta go to war" ---Avant (When It Hurts)

SITTIN ON MONEY FACES!

2009-12-31T08:51:00.003-08:00

Yes I said it!! I'm gonna be "Sittin On Money Faces" in 2010!!

I’m so ready to make Benjamin Franklin my man because I’m staying on my grind! One thing I have noticed is when I start catching feelings for a guy I get distracted. I start focusing my attention on how to build him up, and help him be the best he can be, and I lose site of my own objective. I think the only way around that is to find a man who mutually feels the same way about me. That way we can build each other up, and reach the top together! But since most of the guys I meet are selfish and only think of themselves, the best thing I can do is Date My Money!

So in 2010 I’m going to focus on increasing my Worth, and becoming fully independent. I’m tired of answering to other people. Its time I start Running the Game. So that’s what I’m about to do with HotBlaze ENT.

This whole blog started from me listening to the song, "What’s Your Fantasy (Remix)" this morning, and I kept hearing Foxy Brown’s verse in my head "Still specialize on sitting on Ni**as Faces!" haha That’s my girl I love FOX! So that’s what I’m about to do, but Im gonna Specialize in "Sittin On Money Faces!" LET’S GET IT!!!

Bustin on Green Backs! HAHA

GETTIN THAT GWAP!

2009-12-14T09:57:00.001-08:00

I’ve been thinking about different ways to get money lately because I’m ready to start traveling! Its time for me to go out on the road and promote my radio show, and videos from the East to West Coast on a full time basis! So the question is how do can I go about getting more money to carry out my plans? Of course some of my perverted Subscribes would tell me to go be a Stripper! LMAO but umm NO... that’s not for me. Plus I have young females who look up to me and that’s not the kind of example I want to set for young girls.

The best advice I can give to anyone who is looking to make enough money in order to be totally independent is to find out what your good at! I truly believe that everyone has special gifts and talents that they were blessed with from birth and you just have to discover what your passion is I.E. what your good at, and then you can make a career out of it!

All you need to do is believe in yourself, and focus on your dream so you can make it happen. I know that I love to make people laugh, and I have a wild, entertaining personality, and people always tell me that I am easy to talk to. Broadcasting my radio show, LuvOnBlast comes natural to me, and when I go live on the air I always have a good time! Conducting face to face interviews is also exciting to me so I don’t look at it like a job.

So once you’ve found what you love to do the next step is to figure out how to make an income from it. Well obviously it depends on what your dreams are, but if you want to be in the Entertainment industry like me, then your main goal is to develop your Name, "MizzHotBlaze" and your slogan, "I Make Entertainment HOT!" and then get an audience, I.E. "A Large Group of Fans" People who love what you do, and people who will support you. You have to join as many networking sites as possible, such as... Twitter, Facebook, MySpace etc. and start promoting your craft. Trust me no matter what you do there will be people out there that will enjoy it! There is truly an Audience for Every Type of Talent.

After you have built your Audience/Fans, and developed a name for yourself you will then need to get sponsors, a website, a manager, a business license etc. Not necessarily in that exact order. The best thing you can do is follow up with some research online. Find articles that specialize in teaching you on “how to build your business”, and get a Mentor who is in the same field as you... That can help allot! If you reach out to enough people trust me there will be at least one person who will love what you’re doing and want to help you. You just need to put your whole heart into what you’re doing and believe in your dreams, and you will be making money doing what you love in no TIME! Just make sure that you trademark your ideas, and protect your projects. You can find more information on the government website below.
Copyright Office

I’m still working on completing all the things above myself.
Things don’t happen over night, but as long as I continue to see the light at the end of the tunnel I know I will get to where I need to be!

Through it all you will need to... "HAVE FAITH and NEVER GIVE UP! No Matter what people say YOU have to be YOUR OWN Biggest Supporter and FAN!"

XoXo

MizzBlaze
http://www.mizzhotblaze.com/

ME & MR JONES!

2009-12-07T20:02:00.006-08:00

So the other day I was on my Say Now account taking calls from some of my many fans! LMAO and I happened to look over to the open call list, and I spotted a familiar name Mr Donell Jones! "You Know Whats Up!" I was like WOW! Mr Juicy lips himself. So I rushed to the phone to call him up, and you wont believe all the groupies that were hyperventilating over the phone during their conversation with Donell! It was quite entertaining to say the least. I loved every minute of it! LOL

When it was my turn to be on the line, I must admit I was somewhat nervous because I didn't have anything to talk about, but to my surprise Donell was very down to earth, and he made me feel completely at ease. He is a cool person, and I enjoyed the conversation we had together. I am looking forward to interviewing him one day on my radio show "LuvOnBlast"

Click on the link below to check out our HOT conversation!
XOXO
MizzBlaze