what we say without speaking can say a lot more than verbal articulation. body language are those actions that speak louder than words and most often times speak more truth than the words that come out of someone’s mouth.

when it comes to body language and dating you would be surprised how much more you can interpret through your date’s movements. i thought the piece that cosmopolitan published on body language was a light introduction of what to lookout for……..you may not wanna walk away with him after the cheque is paid. wink*

L xxx

checkout the article here !

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/body-language/?click=smart&kw=ist&src=smart&mag=COS&link=http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/body-language/-SMT-COS#/category1

music and sex IS better than chocolate! and rightfully so, Pamela has named one of her vibrating toys “better then chocolate”.

here’s a little bit more about OhMiBod product……

The OhMiBod vibrator is a whole new way to enjoy your iPod or any other music player. Everyone loves music. Everyone loves sex. OhMiBod combines music and pleasure to create the ultimate “acsexsory” to your iPod.

A whole new way to plug ‘n play!
Simply plug OhMiBod into your iPod® or any music player and it automatically vibrates to the rhythm and intensity of the music. Let your body feel the vibrations as you get down with your favorite tunes. The combination of listening and feeling your music quickly transports you to a place where music, mind and body come together to create an unbeatable sexual experience.

OhMiBod brings personal enjoyment into the light of a new day
More than just a pleasure toy, OhMiBod harnesses the iPod movement and popularity to bring a higher level of acceptance and openness about sexuality in a fun and liberating way. Young or old, single or partnered, people from all walks of life are experiencing an amazing new way to connect and share the pleasures of orgasmic play with this ipod massager.

here’s the skinny on the app and how it works……

and check out more awesome products from OhMiBod that seem to be causing a “buzz”…….

  “Freestyle”

 Freestyle is a wireless music driven vibrator. When its 2.4GHz wireless transmitter is connected to an iPod /iPhone (or any mp3 player), the vibe will pulsate to the music giving the user a unique dual sensory experience with ultimate freedom of movement and motion. Connect the iPod and wireless transmitter to a home speaker system with the cable provided and Freestyle becomes the perfect accessory for partner play. Like all OhMiBod music vibes, Freestyle can work without music too. Switch to the manual mode option and explore 7 exciting pre-programmed vibration patterns.

“Freestyle:G”

Add some music to your inner :G Note (Ok G-SPOT) with the Freestyle :G, a wireless music driven vibrator. When it is connected to an iPod /iPhone (or any mp3 player), the vibe will pulsate to the music giving you a unique dual sensory experience with ultimate freedom of movement and motion. Connect the iPod to a home speaker system with the cable provided and Freestyle :G becomes the perfect accessory for partner play. Like all OhMiBod music vibes, Freestyle :G can work without music too. Switch to the manual mode option and explore 7 amazing pre-programmed vibration patterns.

“Freestyle:W”

Double your pleasure and double the fun with our Freestyle :W.  Inspired by the power and shape of a cresting wave, this vibe is our answer to the traditional dual-stem “Rabbit” style vibe. Combining its two powerful motors with either pre-programmed patterns, music from your player or our OhMiBod App really makes this our most versatile vibe yet. The soft silicone of the vibe and its intuitive controls makes the Freestyle :W a truly wonderful experience. Like all OhMiBod vibes, Freestyle :W comes loaded with 3 standard speeds and 4 amazing pre-set patterns for you to choose from. In Music Mode, connect an iPod/iPhone (or any mp3 player), and the vibe will pulsate to the music giving you a unique dual sensory experience with ultimate freedom of movement and motion.  The possibilities are endless.

        “Better Than Chocolate”

Better Than Chocolate is a wireless music driven vibrator with unbeatable ergonomic & award winning design. When its wireless transmitter is connected to an iPod® / iPhone™ (or any mp3 player), the vibe will pulsate to the music giving the user a unique dual sensory experience making every song truly unique. Connect the iPod® and wireless transmitter to a home speaker system with the cable provided and Better Than Chocolate becomes the perfect accessory for couples play.

        “Club Vibe 2.OH”

A revolutionary wireless and USB rechargeable – remote control vibrator. This sophisticated, lightweight and slim line vibe begs to be worn out on the town. Tucked away neatly in its custom black lace thong, it will accompany you comfortably to any destination whether its a night club or a dinner party. Its 5 intensity levels allow you to use the vibrator in a loud atmosphere or in a special quiet place.

As with the original Club Vibe, the Club Vibe 2.OH has a velvety finish and vibrates and pulses to club music, concerts or to your lover’s voice. But with Club Vibe 2.OH, the mic is built into the wireless remote control and can be kept in a clutch, in your hand or in someone else’s – adding to the extra excitement of not knowing what’s coming next. :)

The remote control has a range of 15-20 feet and 5 intensity levels for Club (ambient) mode. The remote allows you to switch the vibe from ambient to manual mode and cycle through 5 amazing patterns with a simple push of a button. Club Vibe 2.OH is one of those vibrators that you’ll want to bring with you everywhere!

Hearts (The Valentines Day Video) from Moist Creation on Vimeo.

here’s some background and history….

In the 1969 revision of the Roman Catholic Calendar of Saints, the feast day of Saint Valentine on February 14 was removed from the General Roman Calendar and relegated to particular (local or even national) calendars for the following reason: “Though the memorial of Saint Valentine is ancient, it is left to particular calendars, since, apart from his name, nothing is known of Saint Valentine except that he was buried on the Via Flaminia on February 14.”^[15] The feast day is still celebrated in Balzan (Malta) where relics of the saint are claimed to be found, and also throughout the world by Traditionalist Catholics who follow the older, pre-Second Vatican Council calendar. February 14 is also celebrated as St Valentine’s Day in other Christian denominations; it has, for example, the rank of ‘commemoration’ in the calendar of the Church of England and other parts of the Anglican Communion.

The Early Medieval acta of either Saint Valentine were expounded briefly in Legenda Aurea.^[17] According to that version, St Valentine was persecuted as a Christian and interrogated by Roman Emperor Claudius II in person. Claudius was impressed by Valentine and had a discussion with him, attempting to get him to convert to Roman paganism in order to save his life. Valentine refused and tried to convert Claudius to Christianity instead. Because of this, he was executed. Before his execution, he is reported to have performed a miracle by healing the blind daughter of his jailer.

Since Legenda Aurea still provided no connections whatsoever with sentimental love, appropriate lore has been embroidered in modern times to portray Valentine as a priest who refused an unattested law attributed to Roman Emperor Claudius II, allegedly ordering that young men remain single. The Emperor supposedly did this to grow his army, believing that married men did not make for good soldiers. The priest Valentine, however, secretly performed marriage ceremonies for young men. When Claudius found out about this, he had Valentine arrested and thrown in jail.

There is an additional modern embellishment to The Golden Legend, provided by American Greetings to History.com, and widely repeated despite having no historical basis whatsoever. On the evening before Valentine was to be executed, he would have written the first “valentine” card himself, addressed to the blind daughter of his jailor Asterius, signing as “From your Valentine.”

voila! now you know! : D

L xxx

though i would like to be the orchestrator of a romanticized solution that would include a spa day everyday, a four day work week, and lots of sex….let’s face it, it does NOT always work that way. i believe the approach and thoughts presented in this article below scientifically reinforce simple ways to use your most powerful tool, your brain. safely we can say it’s the most important instrument we have and if we use it to generate positive thoughts and feelings towards ourselves…we can only benefit.

in the month of February as we celebrate love….let’s remember that self-love is, and always should NUMBER one….when not aligned as such, everything else is at risk.

check out the article below from the Psychology Today magazine…..(by Hara Estroff Marano)

Having a glowing vision of the future helps you tackle the core beliefs about yourself—such as doubts about your own worthiness for success—that have held you back until now. So as you peel back the curtains around your core self, you become ready to tap the source of all change and success—self-love, and forgiveness for past failures.

Self-love doesn’t happen by luck or the grace of God. You have to create it. These are among the most important elements of it.

• Honoring yourself and who you really are. Love is your birthright. As Teilhard de Chardin said, “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, we are spiritual beings having a human experience.”
• Telling the highest truth, which is that we are powerful beings capable of creating joy and success or pain and suffering in our lives. We are not destined to be victims. We have the power to choose, and this power is both the greatest responsibility we have and the greatest opportunity.
• Honoring who you are becoming. Self-love involves recognizing that you are constantly evolving and growing to become a more powerful and more loving being.
• Honoring your feelings and responding to those feelings. Remember, feelings are important signals, and even the so-called negative feelings of anger and fear serve the important purpose of alerting us to the obstacles in our life.
• Recognizing that the universe is literally made of love. “If we will just open ourselves to receive, like flowers opening to the sun, then everything is possible,” says Ti Caine, hypnotherapist and life coach based in Sherman Oaks, California.

When things go wrong or goals don’t materialize, most people blame their past, their parents, life in general or God. We are even encouraged to do this by friends and family who are well-meaning. We also devote a great deal of energy to settling for what is, without recognizing what we can become.

All the great wisdom traditions speak of the unlimited power we have within us. Both quantum physics and psychology offer proof that our thoughts create our reality. Yet, Caine points out, many people strenuously object to the truth that we create our own reality.

“They argue that it’s not loving to tell a sick person they had anything to do with creating their illness,” he says. “Yet, by not owning their power when they are sick, they are consigning themselves to a life of being a victim of any virus or circumstance that comes their way. This powerlessness is the source of most depression, and it leads to more illness and problems such as overeating.”

He insists it is more honest and even more loving to gently help people recognize the power they have to create their reality, including failures. Once we do that, then we must forgive ourselves for the painful experiences we have previously chosen in our lives. “I don’t know all the parts of me that are creating the failed relationships, but I am willing to learn about them.”

Only by seeing how in the past we have allowed problems to control us, and forgiving ourselves, can we really change and be free to go forward in life feeling more powerful, able to create the success and happiness we want.

Forgiveness, says Caine, is not only a form of self-love, it is completely an inside job. First you have to own your mistakes. Here is how.

• Imagine a future where you totally love yourself and have totally owned your power.
• Reach for an understanding of why you would choose limitations in your life. We are often taught by family and life experiences that being weak, sick or helpless is the way to get attention or help. Look at your own and other peoples attempts to get acceptance, attention and love. Ask yourself, what was I taught about being lovable? About being powerful and responsible for my life?
• Then forgive yourself for having made mistakes. Imagine how your future self would forgive you for a mistake.
• Then you can consciously create better methods for getting the acceptance, attention, love and success that you want.

click on the link to view this article on Psychology Today:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/200212/your-trump-card-self-love

self-love,

L xxx

think chair, stockings, thong and bass…..now press play… wink*

it’s funny… but looking at these two photographs, likely you would not make the connection of the first to the latter. Madonna for Wallis Simpson. who would have thought….

when i watched the documentary of King Edward VIII, who abdicated his right to throne as king for a woman by the name of Wallis Simpson, i frantically looked for her name on google search engine. who was this woman who had such a power that she caused a man to fight against his right for king??

her name was Wallis Simpson, and her story is now told through the direction of Madonna herself in a film entitled “W.E.”. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1536048/

directed by my love the great Madonna, whom in an Anderson Cooper interview admits she looked up Simpson  herself upon discovering her story (http://www.andersoncooper.com/episodes/madonna/), i am more than jubilant to know that Madonna also sank such interest in Simpson’s character.

twice divorced and hated amongest many for her intersection in a king’s “right”… i believe that’s it’s an intriguing piece of work …as well as a story of love that stands as an undeniable power.

GO WATCH IT ! i would love feedback….

xxx ~ L